Overcome Your Negative Thoughts & Beliefs | EP 851

5 Jan 2025 · 6 min

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The Daily Motivation: Episode 851 Summary

Podcast Overview Title: The Daily Motivation Hosts: Lewis Howes Description: The Daily Motivation Show aims to inspire individuals to take control of their life stories through motivational insights and expert advice.

Episode Details Episode Title: Overcome Your Negative Thoughts & Beliefs | EP 851 Guest: Marisa Peer, Therapist and Best-selling Author Episode Focus: Changing self-talk to alter negative thoughts and beliefs.

Key Themes and Discussions

  1. Importance of Self-Belief
  2. Lewis Howes introduces the idea that personal beliefs shape one's reality.
  3. He emphasizes that "you are what you believe," suggesting that empowering beliefs lead to a more fulfilling life.
  1. The Power of Positive Thinking
  2. Howes discusses how your thoughts can manifest into feelings, which then affect your reality.
  3. He shares an analogy about dogs, illustrating how negative beliefs can create negative outcomes.
  1. Financial Mindset
  2. The episode touches on beliefs regarding financial abundance:
  3. Limiting beliefs such as "there isn't enough money" can hinder personal growth.
  4. Howes encourages listeners to adopt a mindset of abundance—that wealth can benefit everyone.
  1. Health Impacts of Negativity
  2. There is a strong assertion that negative thoughts:
  3. Increase stress levels (e.g., cortisol production).
  4. Have adverse effects on physical health, including heart health and overall well-being.
  1. The Quest for Self-Worth
  2. Howes articulates the distinction between feeling "enough" versus seeking external validation through material possessions.
  3. He warns against relying on external achievements to define self-worth, emphasizing that true fulfillment comes from within.

Key Takeaways

  • You are the author of your story: Every individual has the power to rewrite their narrative through their beliefs and choices.
  • Choose empowering beliefs: Beliefs shape your actions and perceptions; therefore, fostering positive beliefs is crucial.
  • Health is intertwined with mindset: Negativity can lead to health issues, while positive thinking can enhance longevity and vitality.
  • Self-worth is intrinsic: Material possessions do not equate to self-worth; acknowledging one's inherent value is essential for true happiness.

Conclusion

  • The episode encourages listeners to actively engage in positive self-talk and belief formation.
  • Howes reminds the audience that recognizing their worth is the first step toward living a fulfilled life.

Additional Resources

  • Full episode available at: [The Daily Motivation Show](http://www.lewishowes.com/695)
  • Sign up for the Greatness newsletter: [Greatness Newsletter](http://www.greatness.com/newsletter)

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Note: This episode serves as a powerful reminder of the influence of our thoughts and beliefs on our overall life experience, urging listeners to take charge of their narratives and foster positivity.

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0:00Hi, my name is Lewis Howes, and welcome to The Daily Motivation Show.

0:12If you feel like you're not living your most authentic life, not leaning into your purpose, and not living the life that your future self would be extremely proud of, I've written a new book called The Greatness Mindset, and I think you're going to love this. Through powerful stories, science-backed strategies, and step-by-step guidance, The Greatness Mindset will help you overcome all the different challenges in your life to design the life of your dreams and then turn it into your reality. Make sure to click the link in the description to get your copy today. You're always enough and never forget it.

0:44Because when you know it, the whole world knows it. And the world will believe what you believe about you. I'd also say you make your beliefs. And then your beliefs make you. And then you go into the world and it starts to mirror whatever you believe. So make your beliefs amazing. Make your beliefs good. If you believe that dogs bite you, you make that belief, and then you act badly around dogs, and then dogs pick up your anxiety, and they do bite you because you've made them nervous. If you believe dogs are wonderful and loyal and man-sensitive, oh, I love dogs, the dog will love you because our beliefs, our thoughts become feelings, and they resonate out from us and back to us events that always match up our thoughts and beliefs.

1:27And when you know that, all you have to do is change your thoughts and beliefs make them positive. It's like there's not enough money. There's enough money for everyone. There's more than enough. But your belief that, well, if I have more, you get less, and the spiritual people shouldn't ask for money, and it's arrogant, and I'm not worth it. If you make that belief, that's your blueprint. Why don't you make a belief that if I have more money, other people get to benefit too, and there's more than enough for everyone? Because there really is. It says that in the Bible, man is what he believes.

1:59But it doesn't say, well, so go ahead and make great beliefs then. You are what you believe and you get to choose whatever you believe. I know what I'd say. You can choose whatever you wish, negative, positive. You get to choose. What you can't choose is what you do to your body and your health and your negative. You can't choose that. I could say I'm just a negative person, but over here is a positive person. We all can choose to do that. But you can never choose how you ruin your health, defeat your immune system, paralyze your autoimmune system, affect your nervous system. What goes on in your body when you're negative is horrific because the body can't choose.

2:41It has to react to negative. You make cortisol. That's a stress hormone. That shuts down fertility. It lays down fat. So all the stuff you're doing when you're negative, giving yourself heart attacks and strokes and high blood pressure, all because you're choosing to be negative when you come over to the positive world, which is so much better, you have better health. You live longer. You look 20 years younger. That's a good thing too. You don't like yourself. Nothing counts. Nothing you have is enough, and that's what's behind so many people. We think of everything. It becomes suicidal. Its strength is its simplicity, but also its absolute truthfulness, because everyone's enough.

3:23And the minute you know it, the whole world knows it, and they treat you differently. You see, we think, I'll buy a Porsche, and then I'm going to say, look, I'm enough, I've got a Porsche. I'll get an Armani jacket, or I'll get breast implants or lip implants, and then I'm saying I'm enough. But we see lots of people who've got all of that and are desperately, desperately unhappy. because everything you want is because it might make you feel enough. When you can feel enough without the stuff, now you've won. And then you'll get the stuff anyway. But you only get the stuff because you want it, not because you need it to feel enough.

4:00If someone said to me, I keep buying all these Jo Malone candles to feel enough, I'm like, but you've got 22. And if they worked, why would you need 26? You've got 18 pairs of shoes to feel enough. do you think 19 is going to make any difference? Stuff can't make you feel enough it's out there feeling enough is in here and when you know you're enough you can still love a pair of shoes believe me I love a nice pair of shoes but I never buy them to feel enough because I'm enough without them

4:42Thank you so much for listening to today's episode of The Daily Motivation, and I hope you have an amazing rest of your day. If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to click the link in the description. That will take you to the full episode of our main podcast on The School of Greatness. And if you are loving The Daily Motivation, please follow us over on Apple Podcasts and Spotify and leave us a review over on Apple Podcasts right now. And if you want more exclusive content and ad-free listening experience, make sure to subscribe to our Greatness Plus channel on Apple Podcast right now. And if you want to get even more inspiration from our world-class guests and learn how to improve your life and take it to the next level, then make sure to sign up for the Greatness newsletter and get it delivered right to your inbox over at greatness.com slash newsletter.

5:31Again, have an amazing day and I'll see you tomorrow with another episode of the Daily Motivation Show.

From the publisher

Marisa Peer, Therapist and Best-selling Author shares how to change how you speak to yourself to change your negative thoughts and beliefs.

 

Check out the full episode: http://www.lewishowes.com/695

 

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