Transform Your Pain into Power - The Reward Is Worth It | Eric Thomas

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0:38Hi, my name is Lewis Howes and welcome to The Daily Motivation Show.

0:49Do people need to think about motivation in order to overcome themselves and their problems and their challenges, or do they need to think about being more disciplined to overcome the weight of the world they're feeling? Yeah, I say both and, but to your point on the discipline, you need to be more disciplined about your minds. What do people need to be thinking about with their minds? So here's the deal. You're already in pain. Get a reward for it. It's just like, look, do me a favor. Everything you say, you're right, but why go through life with whatever people did to you when you were younger or a young adult and then you have to live with it for the next 40, 50 years.

1:29Like, why would you sit here and all the stuff that you said was absolutely right. My daddy wasn't there. My mama did this. This person did to me. Why would you let them destroy your life? Let's go. Why would you let them own you? Why would you allow that thing they did to hurt you not define your life? It's like, no, I was in pain. It's real. But get a reward for it. So for me walking into first of all driving here in a car service getting to LA walking in this beautiful facility seeing the other businesses that are here I'm like E I'm proud of you bro you made it you could have stopped at the homeless boy and nobody would have tripped your daddy wasn't there your mom was 17 when she got pregnant all the negative that happened to you Eric we understand Bob understand.

2:17Let me tell you one of the things that just blew my mind the other day. We were fortunate to own a home in California on the hill. We got this property. We got the basketball court with the logo, all the companies that whatever. I go outside yesterday and I see my wife and my son playing basketball. I'm thinking to myself in California on the hill looking at all these beautiful properties. My wife and my son are outside hooping. Dream life. My wife was like, I want to work out. My son was like, I didn't even know. She was like, I'm going to play basketball. I'm like, I can't do it right now. And I'm listening to a voice.

2:54He came home, heard the basketball, went out with his mom. I'm like, yo, my son, 29 years old, is spending time with his mom as an adult male. He could be anywhere doing anything. He's with his mom. Her firstborn, they got this bond that I don't have. And they're out here hooping. And as I look at the property, I'm like, yo, what? if the 16-year-old Eric Thomas would have stayed the 16-year-old Eric Thomas. So I'm saying for those who are listening, get a reward for it and then do me a favor. Don't just think about you. Like, do you know that my son, in his mind, this is where you, like this is where you start.

3:34Like he got the son of the pool to work on. He's starting somewhere I never started. The cars, the Rolls Royce, the Escalade. Like he's starting somewhere I didn't start. Why? Because I didn't stop where I started. I didn't stop. I was like, okay, this is where we started, but this is not about to be my end. And so his beginnings looked dope. My man went to Michigan State and was a general manager for Izzo. He traveled the world. He's got a Final Four win, an Elite Eight ring. He's got the jack. He sat under Coach Izzo, Hall of Fame coach for four years. Coach OG. He sat under these guys. Like his boys, some of his boys went to the league.

4:10There's some of them still in the league. Like he got that because I didn't go. I quit because my mom, my dad did. So I quit. I give up. This is the worst thing ever happened. I was like, you get a reward for it. And so to see my son, I'm coming to a concert tonight with my daughter. Listen to me like I didn't give up. And so I'm saying to everybody, we all go through pain. Some of us go through pain and it becomes our tombstone. Some of us go through pain and it's a scar. And we live a life of reward. So I'm just going to say again, 2025, do me a favor. check you so you're in the ballot box and you're looking at all these options doctor lawyer teacher whatever you see president mayor governor do me a favor before you check off any of that S &P 500 real estate before you check any of that check you yeah before you check anything check you and go look yourself in the mirror and go yo I'm my lottery ticket I'm I'm I'm I'm my ticket out of the neighborhood or, you know, I'm the broken curse, like whatever you want to call yourself.

5:13But the day I stopped saying my mom, my dad, this person, the police, the con, the day I stopped doing that, the day I said you. Do you think anyone can have a beautiful, amazing life if they live in a blaming mindset? No, no. You know why? Because what I didn't realize as a young adult is that when you say it's somebody else, whether you mean to do it or not, you give them the keys to your life. You give them power over you. They got your whole life in their hand. Because you said it. They didn't do this. They got the keys. Now, I'll be honest, the reason why we don't want to take the keys is because we got to drive.

5:51We got to drive. And I told you, today I was like, I got too much to do. I normally drive. I'm like, I got too much to do. And it felt good to be in the car driven. It felt good. I'm going on the phone, talking to my wife. We have a worship doing our thing, making a couple of business calls. Like, I don't have the responsibility of the traffic. Paying attention. I got that tension. He moved over and got, I was like, why is he stopping in the middle of, but it was a truck. So he had to move on. I didn't know what was going on because it was the first time in my life that I wasn't really like responsible because I normally drive.

6:24And that's why people don't want to drive in their lives. They don't want to be responsible. It's so much easier to say, my life is messed up because you did this. And you did that. Once you take the keys, now, you got to go anything. But I'm going to tell you this. This is why I like it. While it's more responsibility, it's more freedom. It's more independence. It's more control. Opportunities. It's more opportunity. They limit it. But the limit is when you take the keys. And so I took the keys in my life and said, my, thanks. Dad, thanks for not being there for me. You gave me a dog. You gave me a passion.

6:57You gave me a resilience. You taught me how to make it when the very thing that's supposed to be there for you isn't there for you.

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