Can You Imagine?

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1:09of the way home, borrowed my wife's car, drove in Austin and bought a truck. What I bought was a Toyota Tacoma. And this truck wasn't just transportation getting me to and from my house. It unlocked a whole different style of living for us, not just on the ranch, but in our little Texas towns. There were places I could go now that I couldn't go before, especially out here in the piney forests, through the fields, and on the unpaved roads like the one that I lived in. We got to go deep into the hill country's wild beauty. We've driven all the way out to East Texas. We've driven across the country.

1:49And by we, I mean not just my wife, but both my kids who I drove home from the hospital in that truck. Toyota trucks are built for those who understand that the best adventures happen when you're willing to veer off course. Because you never know when you'll end up on a Toyota adventure detour. And of course, this is stoicism too, because every detour, every obstacle is an opportunity. But it's helpful if you can handle the difficulty inherent in that. If you've got the resilience and the right companion to make it wherever the road takes you, discover your uncharted territory. Learn more at toyota.com slash trucks slash adventure-detours.

2:28Can you imagine? He was powerful. He was wise. He was important. He was not spared. In 147 AD, Marcus Aurelius welcomed the birth of his firstborn, a daughter named Domitia. He would bury her within a few short years. In 149, Marcus Aurelius and his wife had twin sons. They would both die in infancy. And sadly, this was the rule and not the exception for Marcus. He would end up burying the majority of his children. Can you imagine the pain, the hammer blows of one tragedy after another? There's no way he didn't stagger under the weight of it all. His hair would have turned gray. His shoulders would have stooped.

3:12He would have stared off in the distance. He would have, as we know he did, broken down in tears at the mention of loss or memories. And nor would his story have been particularly unique in Rome. Infant mortality was high. Life was unpredictable and cruel. But the world is not all that different today. We are all fighting our own battles. We are all besieged by misfortune in our own ways. Marcus Aurelius's story should inspire us not just to carry on, but to be sympathetic and patient with others. You have no idea what the person in front of you at the grocery store line is going through. The people you disagree with whose views you don't understand.

3:51imagine what tragedies and pain have shaped them. Imagine the weight of what they carry. It's this perspective that binds us, that shows us that beneath all that power, wisdom, or status, or strangeness, or bafflingness, there remains a human being underneath bearing unseen burdens and suffering, and that they, just like us, deserve a little compassion, a little grace, and a little understanding too.

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