Solve The Problem First

0:00I'm picking my kids up from school today and then doing our weekly routine, which is I take them over to Whole Foods, which is a whole food, which is a whole food, which is a whole food, you know what's a good for a day? strict ingredients standards so you know it'll be delicious and good for you. You can also order online for pickup and even delivery in select zip codes to skip the crowds. Shop everything you need at Whole Foods Market, your holiday headquarters. My family owns a 2023 Toyota 4Runner and honestly it's my favorite vehicle that I've ever owned. Around town it's smooth and reliable but where it really shines is on our trips into the backcountry.

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1:42Welcome to the Daily Stoic Podcast, where each day we bring you a passage of ancient wisdom designed to help you find strength, insight, and wisdom everyday life. Each one of these passages is based on the 2 ,000-year-old philosophy that has guided some of history's greatest men and women. For more, you can visit us at dailystoic.com. Solve the problem first. Yeah, it's frustrating. Yeah, it was preventable. Yeah, you told them it was preventable. You warned them what would happen. They didn't listen, and now here you are. And yeah, it's going to be costly. And yeah, you're pissed. But you know what you should do?

2:20you should solve the problem first. You can put your emotions about it aside. You can worry about blame later. You don't have to turn this into something, Marcus Aurelius wrote in meditations. It doesn't have to upset you. He also writes about how easy it is to waste energy investigating the causes of things, taking things personally, extrapolating out what everything means. He's saying, just deal with it. Solve the problem. Worry about accountability later. Right now, you've got to figure out what you're going to do about the fact that your spouse left the keys at home. Right now, you've got to deal with the fact that one of your kids is hurt and crying, that your other one is responsible, can be addressed later.

3:02Right now, you've got payroll to meet. You've got an order that's late. You've got a boat to get on the trailer. Get your emotions under control. Resist the urge to argue and fight about the situation you're in. Deal with the fact that you're in the situation first. You can deal with the rest later. And you might just find, after you've solved the problem, that you don't care that much about whose fault it was anymore. Shout out to my wife, who put this rule into place when we take our RV around, our little camper trailer. We said, when we got it, if we're going to get it, if we're going to take places, we've got to agree.

3:39We'll solve the problem first, backing it in, taking it somewhere, doing this, found out someone forgot to do this. We'll solve the problem first. We'll deal with the rest later. It's great advice. So thanks, Samantha.

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