This Is What Is Making You So Stressed

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1:31This is what's making you so stressed. Being a human and stress seem to just go together. Anxiety and concern, they follow too. There's always something we're worried about. If we didn't perform well on this presentation, it could mean we won't get the promotion. You felt a little tired yesterday and this morning you have a cough. Is this something serious? Oh no, we can't afford to get sick right now. We're juggling multiple responsibilities. We're making sure we take care of our physical and mental health. We're struggling to achieve all of our goals. We have bills to pay and mouths to feed.

2:02We are sensitive to the slightest changes in our environment. We are nervous about the slightest clouds on the horizon. It's a modern affliction, but it's also always been this way. Not that it has to be. I see that my child is ill. That's what I see. But I don't want to see that he's in any danger, Marcus Aurelius writes in Meditations. He was talking about stopping that very human, very natural extrapolation that we all do. And extrapolation is a nice word here because more often than not, it's better described as catastrophizing. His advice to himself as a leader, as a parent, as a philosopher was to stick with the first impression, adding no commentary of your own from within.

2:46Meaning the cough can just be a cough. The subpar presentation can just be a single data point. Falling short today, it does not have to mean that everything is falling apart. Stop torturing yourself. Be present. Focus primarily on what is in front of you. Resist the impulse to add judgment or speculation on top of what you are dealing with. Dealing with it alone is sufficient. You'll do better and be less stressed. Stress is something you have to slay. It's this demon that's both inside and outside you, right? And I think it's the perpetual, timeless battle of humanity and of the Stoics. It's one of the things we built, the Daily Stoics Slay Your Stress Challenge.

3:27If you're someone who's struggling with stress, with anxiety, with overwhelming emotions, the Stoics have lots to teach you. And of course, if you are looking to slay your stress, you can check out the Daily Stoics Slay Your Stress Challenge. It's an actionable 14-day challenge designed to help you reclaim your life from the negative effects of stress and anxiety. We've designed this course to help you reclaim your life. We lay out the most actionable ways to manage your stress and anxiety backed by thousands of years of research and practice, particularly the insights from someone as wise and impressive as Seneca.

4:01You can check it out at dailystoic.com slash stress.

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