This Is What To Surprise Them With | with No Time For Theories, Just Results

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0:57This is what to surprise them with. In the year 161 AD, Marcus Aurelius did something that shocked the world. Upon inheriting the throne from Antoninus, he did what almost no one who has ever held absolute power before has ever done. He gave half of it away by naming his stepbrother, Lucius Verus, co-emperor. Rome had once been run by two elected consuls, but after 15 emperors, there was hundreds of years of precedent, which Marcus was shockingly and selflessly throwing aside. It's like that line in Hamilton when King George finds out that George Washington was handing over his power and returning to his farm.

1:39I wasn't aware that was something a person could do. But of course it is. We can always choose not to be imperialized or stained purple, as Marcus Aurelius put it in Meditations. We don't have to be changed by power or selfishly cling to it. We can do what's best for our country or our team or our family. We can share. We can lift others up. and many people have done this throughout history. There's a whole chapter in Discipline is Destiny about it. It's easy to think that success means having it all, holding on tightly, standing alone at the top. But Marcus reminds us that real greatness lies in what we're willing to give away, our ego, our need for control, our fear of being overshadowed.

2:21The mark of a strong leader, of a strong person is not how much power they keep for themselves, but how much they empower others. So ask yourself today, where can I be less possessive? Where can you share the load, elevate someone else, or choose principle over pride or power? Because Marcus showed us that the most powerful thing you can do with power is to let it go.

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5:57No time for theories, just results. This is the August 11th entry in the Daily Stoic. I hope everyone is doing well. When the problem arose for us, whether habit or theory was better for getting virtue, if by theory is meant what teaches us correct conduct, and by habit we mean being accustomed to acting according to this theory, Musonius thought habit to be more effective. That's an excerpt relayed to us from Musonius Rufus listed in his lectures. But I prefer the quote from Hamlet. There are more things in heaven and earth, Horatio, than are dreamt of in your philosophy. There is no time to chop logic over whether our theories are correct.

6:40We are dealing with the real world here. What matters is how you're going to deal with the situation in front of you, whether you're going to be able to move past it and on to the next one. That's not saying that anything goes, but we can't forget that although the theories are clean and simple, the situations rarely are. Mark Surrelius says a version of this, waste no more time arguing what a good man should be. be one. He says, don't go around expecting Plato's Republic. You don't live there, right? We live in reality. It's much more practical life and stoicism. Like you get accidentally CC'd on an email and one of your coworkers says something not nice about you.

7:19Are you going to let that go or are you going to blow it up, right? Your order's messed up at a restaurant. Are you going to try to think about the person who did that, what their life is like, or are you going to go full Karen, right? Right. You're tired and exhausted and your kids are being a nightmare. How do you respond? Right. That's what stoicism is to me. There is an element of physics to the stoics and there's logic, too. But the stoics tried to apply the philosophy to what they actually did to their lives as people, which is what we're trying to do. I've talked about this before, too.

7:55You know, you watch what's happening in the news and you go, oh, why isn't this person voting this way? They're just trying to keep their job, blah, blah, blah. And then it's like, when was the last time you ever risked your job, right? How often do you do things that are in your financial best interest, but maybe not in the interests of the world? It's there that stoicism is supposed to be applied, right? Stoicism is not a standard we hold other people to. It's not a game. It's not a lens through which we debate things. This isn't like a sports show where they go, who's the best? Is it LeBron James?

8:29Is Kevin Durant good because he only won a championship with Golden State and hasn't anywhere else? No, it's how are you as a teammate, right? Are you achieving and doing your best? Are you a team player, right? It's about you. You can spend all your time thinking and debating and questioning. You can waste your whole life doing that. But who cares? You have enough problems in your own life. You have things you should be dealing with. that to me is what stoicism is, right? That's what we're trying to do. That's what I want this podcast to be about. That's why I pick up meditations by my side of my bed.

9:10Oh yeah, I was doing that today. I don't want to do that anymore. When I'm writing, I'm not only writing to accomplish that, hopefully for other people, but that's what I'm looking for as a writer. That's what I'm trying to do. And I hope that's what you take from this podcast too. No time for theories, Just results. Is habit or theory better? Habit is better, man. Habit. Make the stuff a habit. That's what we're trying to do. Make it a practice. Build it into the muscle memory. Make it part of who you are. Try to get to a point, ideally, where nobody even knows that you study philosophy. But when they look at your actions, they go, that lines up, right?

9:50That lines up with the code. And I think if you look at Marcus Aurelius' life, you don't have to know he studied philosophy. to get the sense he was a philosophical guy, that he lived according to those four virtues. That's the most powerful thing he said about courage, temperance, justice, wisdom, was how he lived. And so it goes for you. And so I tried to make it go for me. None of us are perfect at it. The theory is much more interesting. The theory is easy. But at the end of the day, it doesn't matter. One bit compared to the actions.

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