You Know It’s Time to Change | Keep The Rhythm

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1:09or timidity. Maybe we don't try hard enough or we think we're not good enough. How is that working out for you? Marcus Aurelius in meditations calls it madness to keep being the same person mauled and degraded by the life we don't enjoy, the one that doesn't give us what we want. What could this year be if you actually lived up to your potential? How would some of the little changes, the ones you know you need to make, compound in years to come. Let's fast forward for a minute. It is now December 2026, and you're in the best shape of your life. You got rid of toxic habits or relationships or emotional baggage.

1:49You became the parent, the leader, the person you hoped you'd be. You found more joy, ways to be more present. You became less distracted, how did you do it? One thing the Stoics can say for sure is that no one becomes this way by chance. And if you want to end up there this year, I'd like to invite you to do something that I do myself, with my team, with my family, with my friends every single year. And that is the Daily Stoic New Year, New You Challenge. It's something we started several years ago, and we do every single year. And it's designed to help you become the person you know you can be.

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6:21Keep the Rhythm Marcus Aurelius must have known that as emperor, he was part of a grand and great history. As a philosopher, he knew that all people are part of the rhythm pulsing through both history and their own lives. And he liked to remind himself not to lose that beat. Return to your philosophy, he would tell himself when he drifted. Don't give in to distractions. In fact, he tried constantly to return to it. That kind of awareness, that paying special attention, is something he learned reading from Epictetus. He told his students that while none of us can be perfect, we can catch ourselves when we begin to slide, when we drift from where we should be.

7:04So can you feel that rhythm this week? Can you point to examples when you really feel locked into it? And we have two quotes from Marcus and one from Epictetus. walked a long gallery of the past, of empires, of kingdoms, succeeding each other without number. You can also see the future, for surely it will be exactly the same, unable to deviate from the present rhythm. It's all one, whether we've experienced 40 years or an eon. What more is there to see? That's Meditation 749. And then Meditation 611, he says, when forced as it seems by circumstances into utter confusion, get a hold of yourself quickly.

7:46Don't be locked out of the rhythm any longer than necessary. You'll be able to keep the beat if you are constantly returning to it. And then Epictetus' Discourses 4.12, he says, when you let your attention slide for a bit, don't think you will get back a grip on it whenever you wish. Instead, bear in mind that perhaps because of today's mistake, everything that follows will be necessarily worse. Is it possible to be free of air? No, not by any means, but it is possible for a person to always be stretching to avoid air. And we must be content to at least escape a few mistakes by never letting our attention slide.

8:24I was thinking about this and I remember I wrote an article, wrote a blog post. I'm looking at this. This is March 4th, 2012. Trust me, I'm lying. is mostly written, but it's not out. I've moved to New Orleans. I'm transitioning towards a sort of a different life. And anyways, I wrote a blog post on my site called Return to Philosophy, and I'll read it to you. I've written this post before, but it remains a common theme. The busier we get, the more we work and learn and read, the further we drift. We get in a rhythm. We're making money, being creative. We're stimulated and busy. and it seems like everything is going well, but we drift further and further from philosophy.

9:07So we must catch ourselves and return to it. Pick up meditations, Seneca, Plutarch, Hideo, our note cards of quotes and reminders, anything from that shelf of great books. Stop and evaluate. Read something that challenges, that informs. No matter how much learning or work or thinking we do, none of it matters unless it happens against the backdrop of extortative analysis, the kind rooted in the deep study of the mind and emotion and demands that we hold ourselves to certain standards. We must turn to the practical, to the spiritual exercises of great men and actively use them. It's the only way we'll get anything out of the rest of our efforts.

9:49It's simple. Stop learning or working for a second and refine. Put aside all the momentum and the moment. Tap the brakes. Return to philosophy. And then I found the other post, which is, wow, dated December 22nd, 2009. Wow, I guess I'm 22. And I wrote, Lately I have felt off. As I felt down, it occurred to me how long it had been since I sat down and read philosophy. I knew I should fix this, but I didn't. A new book would come and I'd immediately pick it up. I'd think I've spent so little time reading now it would be a shame to sit down with something I've read before. This was a sham. What I was doing was distracting myself.

10:38It's what Steven Pressfield calls the resistance. I made myself busy so that I would have no chance to feel better. I knew that philosophy requires work and self-criticism and one inevitable conclusion, that my problems were almost entirely my own fault. Their resolution requires an active process that only I can initiate. Philosophy is the tool with which to do so. As one would say, and I think this is Marcus Aurelius I'm quoting, doctors carry their tools on their person, or more ideally a boxer's tools are their person. We should seek to do the same. There is no excuse for being too busy or too distracted, nor is there any alternative.

11:26So anyways, if you feel like you're slipping a little bit, know that I do that too. And I have now for well over a decade and a half. And you just pick yourself back up. You go back to the rhythm as Marcus Aurelius says. you pick up your philosophy, you return to it, and you keep going. So I'll leave you there, and I hope you pick up the rhythm this week, and I'll talk to you soon.

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