You’re Always Where You Leave Yourself

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2:37Welcome to the Daily Stoic Podcast, where each day we bring you a passage of ancient wisdom designed to help you find strength, insight, and wisdom in everyday life. Each one of these passages is based on the 2 ,000-year-old philosophy that has guided some of history's greatest men and women. For more, you can visit us at dailystoic.com. You are always where you leave yourself. It feels like it'll make a difference, that long-awaited trip. That exciting new job will keep you very busy, make you very rich. That pioneering new plant medicine, that distracting new pleasure. Thus does each man flee himself, Seneca says, quoting Lucretius, in his criticism of those Romans who sought out every opportunity to indulge their wanderlust.

3:26We like to think that we can get away from our problems, that it will be different there, that a change of scenery will change us. But does it? Not usually. And when we get back? You are always where you leave yourself, the Nationals sing in one of their songs. Wherever you go, there you are. At the end of the day, you go home alone. You go home to yourself. We can still travel. We can still try new things. We can still take that new job. We just have to be realistic. It's not going to fix us. It's not going to solve our problems for us because it's impossible to actually flee yourself. You're always going to be there.

4:07Your issues, right where you left them.

4:20so

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