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27 Mar 2024 · 2m

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You're On Your Own, Kid

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Main points

  • Host: Ryan Holiday
  • Themes: Stoicism, self-reliance, personal growth, emotional management
  • Feeling Alone:
  • The podcast discusses moments in life when individuals may feel isolated (e.g., after a divorce, starting a new job, or facing criticism).
  • These moments serve as reminders of personal responsibility and the necessity of self-management.
  • Stoic Philosophy:
  • Epictetus' Teaching: Emphasizes self-reliance; one must "blow their own nose."
  • Marcus Aurelius' Insight: The idea of being one's own savior is highlighted, reinforcing the importance of personal agency in solving problems.
  • Taylor Swift Reference:
  • The episode references a lyric from Taylor Swift, reiterating that feeling alone is a common and enduring aspect of life.

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2:26Welcome to the Daily Stoic podcast, where each day we bring you a passage of ancient wisdom designed to help you find strength, insight, and wisdom in everyday life. Each one of these passages is based on the 2 ,000-year-old philosophy that has guided some of history's greatest men and women. For more, you can visit us at dailystoic.com.

2:53You're on your own, kid. There are moments when we feel more alone, of course, after the divorce, when we head off to school for the first time, when we strike out on our own, start working for ourselves, when we do something that people don't understand that engenders criticism. We realize we're on our own, that we have to blow our own nose, as Epictetus said, that we'll have to be our own savior while we can, as Mark Surreale wrote. No one but us can solve our problems. No one but us can manage our emotions. We only control what we control. We can only demand the best from ourselves. But this is not new.

3:27You have always been on your own, as Taylor Swift put it, and you always will be. You can instead let these moments when we feel more alone serve as reminders that we have the tools to change, that we only get to choose how we react, that we evolve into whomever we want to be. Because what do you have to lose? you are already on your own kid and no one can take you away from you. Only you can do that.

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