In short
Tyler Fillmore (Fillmore Music) discusses determination and discipline on the path from Missouri “random gigs” to major collaborations, including writing for Pitbull and being signed to Pitbull’s record label. He also shares how fatherhood (NICU birth, anxiety, lifestyle changes) reshaped his career focus and authenticity.
Guest backgrounds
Tyler Fillmore is a Missouri-born country artist (Ozarks/Middle America), first-generation Hispanic, who studied at Mizzou and moved to Nashville after college. He’s a songwriter/artist with 13 years in Nashville and has played major venues across the US and Europe. He’s also a father of two (older child 21 months; second born ~40 days ago, NICU for about half the time).
Key claims
Social media is a “love-hate” tool for connection; success requires staying authentic despite industry politics. He believes he’s “almost made it” and keeps chasing impact, not comparison. He frames fatherhood as a “life awakening” that improved his business approach.
Notable examples
Opened for Pitbull (with Blake Shelton) at Barefoot Country Music Fest; a video of him performing “USA” (unreleased) led to Pitbull texting him days later and inviting him to Bentonville, Arkansas. He describes risky early opportunities (e.g., opening for major acts for $250 and losing thousands) as investments that opened doors. He recounts a NICU birth around his album release day and the emotional stress of parenting.
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Chapters
Tap a time to open that second in VOTyler's Journey: From Missouri to Nashville
0:42 to 2:49
Exploring Tyler's background, connection with Pitbull, and social media's impact.
“About to give you another amazing interview.”
Overcoming Adversity in the Music Industry
2:49 to 5:53
Discussing the challenges and determination required in the music business.
“You know, Ozarks, you know, middle America.”
Authenticity and the Music Game
5:53 to 10:01
The importance of authenticity in music and navigating industry politics.
“and, you know, got a business degree as well and kind of next thing you know, finished college, went straight to Nashville.”
The Landscape of Success in Music
11:37 to 14:00
Discussing success, comparison, and the music industry's dynamics.
“And I don't, I don't think that's wrong.”
Authenticity in Artistry
14:00 to 16:44
Exploring the importance of being authentic in one's career and identity as an artist.
“They know how to, to grab people into the screen and shove them right in the face and then not get off their videos.”
Navigating Parenthood Challenges
16:44 to 19:18
Discussing the challenges and experiences of becoming a parent.
“and then came through the night, and I was going to do a pop-up just for fans that we announced the week of.”
Revelations of Fatherhood
19:18 to 21:03
Sharing insights and revelations encountered during the early months of fatherhood.
The Gift in Struggles
21:03 to 23:24
Understanding how struggles shape character and prepare for future challenges.
“Honestly, you don't look like you're too crazy, so I feel like it's not going to be as much of a shell shock, but maybe you're hiding this from me.”
Reflecting on Achievements
23:24 to 26:18
Reflecting on past achievements and the continuous drive for more success.
“And, like, you need to be ready for it, right?”
Chasing the Dream: The Drive to Succeed
28:00 to 33:20
Explore the personal motivations behind the desire for success and recognition.
“You're like, okay, myself, like you, I'm a heavy driver.”
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Resilience in the Face of Adversity
33:20 to 37:20
Discuss the struggles and mental resilience required in pursuing a music career.
“I've seen you say you're the country artist that's almost made it.”
The Importance of Staying True to Yourself
37:20 to 42:00
Understand the significance of maintaining core values while pursuing success.
“you know, if the goal at the end is impact, like you were saying, like, it's just like, this is what I'm here to do.”
The Cost of Opportunity
42:00 to 42:50
Exploring the risks taken in pursuing opportunities and the lessons learned from them.
“Um, and I, I did so many things like that.”
From Openers to Collaborations
43:55 to 50:44
Discussing the journey from opening for Pitbull to collaborating with him.
“And whatever path leads me to get, like, that's what's going to happen.”
The Importance of Showing Up
50:44 to 54:49
Understanding why being present and taking risks can lead to unexpected opportunities.
“but he's been nothing but supportive and helpful.”
Building Value Over Time
54:49 to 56:00
Discussing the long-term benefits of investing in oneself and the importance of patience.
“You know, it's so funny because like, that's the business agree talking, right?”
Building Connections and Authenticity
56:00 to 57:20
The hosts discuss the importance of authenticity and connections in their industry.
“And I think we're going to be up here a lot more.”
Defining Determination
57:20 to 59:40
A deep dive into what determination means and personal insights on discipline.
“It's, uh, you know, we always have to be authentic and we're crazy.”
Promoting Tyler's Music and Future Plans
59:40 to 1:01:47
The hosts promote Tyler's music and discuss their exciting future projects.
“But I mean, it it's, it's not malicious.”
Transcript
Automatic transcript. May contain errors.0:00I've seen you say you're the country artist that's almost made it. Writing for Pitbull, doing songs with them, or on his record label. How did it happen? Shout out to Barefoot Country Music Fest. It was me, Pitbull, and Blake Shelton. Not a bad lineup. I just played that USA song for the first time. And I literally was running off stage. Someone on Pitbull's team was there, shot a video of me performing. I was like, one of Pitbull's managers, like, blah, blah. I'm like, no way. I don't believe you. Three days later, I got a text from Pit. And the next thing you know, I got pitnapped on the jet for like seven days.
0:35What up, guys? We're back here in Nashville, yet again at Nashville Creative Spaces at Brand Builders. About to give you another amazing interview. I have my boy Tyler Fillmore with me. Fillmore Music from Missouri. And now he's a country star. Just got done collabing with Pitbull. He's writing for him. And he's also been signed to Pitbull's record label. So this interview right here, you're going to be seeing this guy headlining all over the United States very, very shortly. And you get to meet him here first. So welcome to the show, homie. Man, thank you so much for having me. Dude, it's so cool, man.
1:09Like two years of, you know, being friends from afar. Yeah. You know, it's so funny because like everybody bashes social media. My wife especially hates it. I'm like, yo, I guess where I meet everybody. That's what we built this platform on. And, you know, it's been really cool to see your journey and, you know, to also see you become a father. Oh, man. Not once, but twice. So, dude, like, I'm just super excited to have you here. I'm happy to be here, man. Honestly, like, same thing, like, watching everything that you're doing. Like, this is such an honor to be on here. I'm, like, super pumped.
1:44And the whole social media thing, it's definitely a love-hate thing, for me, at least. Yeah. But that's where we meet a lot of people. And that's, like, it's just such a part of the job. Like when I started doing music, like that wasn't the biggest part of the job. And then, you know, as the years progress and COVID hits and TikTok and things, it's like the game changes. Music changes because of that platform. It's been a wild ride, but I'm just glad that connected us, you know? Dude, that's crazy, isn't it, man? But no, you're right, man. It's, you know, the game changes. And COVID especially, you know, that's when I started the show.
2:18Not because I was sitting like, okay, everybody else is doing it. But there's this whole, this burning passion to do something different, to do something bigger. Oh, yeah. And, you know, I've never gone viral. I've never had any of that crap. But I can tell you something. I have really built something along with my team now that I'm very comfortable with and that I feel like every interview we have brings so much value to the audience, you know. And that's why I'm super excited to tell your story. I want to start at the humble beginnings, man. You know, Ozarks, you know, middle America. Now you're in Nashville.
2:56And, you know, the audience wants to know what people have been through and how they've overcome the adversity through determination and discipline. That's what we do here, man. I love it. I love telling that story. And it is a hustle, man. All of it. I mean, life is. Yeah. Yeah. No matter what you do, right? Yeah. No matter what you do, there's going to be problems. There's going to be adversity. And it's like, you get to decide if you buckle, which is okay to buckle a little bit, but don't break. Don't break. You know, keep going. So walk us through, you know, you went to Mizzou. Yes, sir. Right?
3:30Go SEC. M-I-Z. Oh, man, Mizzou's great. I went there about a year and a half, two years ago. It was the coldest I've ever been in my fucking life. My toes are still frozen. I went to watch a baseball player that I used to work with, Jackson Beeman. Awesome. And yeah, man, like he went off that week and it was beautiful. but it was literally, I think, 20 degrees. And up there in Turner Field, I think that's what it's called, it's on a hill, and it's windier, and it's cold. So I don't know how you dealt with that. Missouri's got every type of weather, and I grew up in Missouri, Wildwood, but I remember there were some times, like leaving my fraternity house, like there were some winters, and I don't know if it's as bad now, you know, climate, there's so much that's changed.
4:12But years ago, like there were times where like the mountains, and we're in Missouri, and you'd think it'd be like a Minnesota thing. There were mounds of snow like higher than my head, and you're walking to class on a sidewalk. You're like, dude, what is happening? Yeah. So we had some crazy winters for sure. You ain't short. You're like, what, 6 '2", 6 '3"? I'm 6 '1". Are you 6 '1"? Almost 6 '1". I mean, dude, you look taller than that. I appreciate it. I mean, I really do hunch. Yeah. I got to work on that. Don't be all. It's like I'm sitting here trying to like, this posture, you know? I'm holding my kid.
4:39I'm like, This is not getting any better. Oh, dude, funny thing about that. Like, you can go lift weights, right? And it's like, that's bearable. But when you're holding a baby that won't sleep and you're walking around trying to give your wife some time, how bad do your shoulder blades hurt? Yeah, it's just, now you get almost, I used to say I had like, I didn't know if it was golf elbow or dad elbow. Yeah, dad elbow, man. Dad elbow. And I'd be like, yo, I can't believe I'm complaining about this. but like i would like i like be on stage like playing guitar and i'm like yo like what happened i was like father injury bro like yeah i was like it's just so like you just get so used to it i didn't need to switch arms dude it's crazy like like to your point like when you're carrying a baby like it it it does burn yeah yeah especially if you can't get him to sleep so um okay so let's go through the beginning you know you got into music i believe it was in college right yeah uh Well, yeah, I kind of high school, I was always in music.
5:36I was in choir, but I was really a jock and I was trying to, you know, I wanted to do sports after high school. But then I ended up, you know, placing in state singing and getting a vocal performance scholarship to Mizzou. And then, you know, the rest is kind of history. I decided not to play baseball and go up to Mizzou and chase that. and, you know, got a business degree as well and kind of next thing you know, finished college, went straight to Nashville. I always wanted to go straight to Nashville. Like it was like in high school when I knew I was going to do music and then I had fun four years in college.
6:09So I'm glad I did it. But yeah, it was nice to see like when I did some more background diving because I know your music obviously, but I was like, I wanted to know Tyler, you know, I wanted to know what the journey was. I didn't know that you played baseball though. Yeah, no, I've played a bunch of sports. What position? Center field. oh wow really i was a catcher oh yeah dude damn man crazy i played at lsu so i played in the sec and it's crazy bro that's awesome crazy and i thought that was going to be my path right and and it turned out like i get to sit in chairs and talk to badasses like you right back what a dream dude so i was i didn't play at lsu that's amazing dude i was telling my boy chris here um that i feel like i'm in the big leagues like i feel like this right here is my big leagues and you know it's a lot like you, you know, I don't feel we've hit our, I know we haven't hit our peak yet.
6:57And that's always hard to deal with, man. You know, it's like, you know what you have inside you. How do you really filter that in your own mind? Because I am positive that you think and truly believe in every fiber of your body that you should be way up here now. Yeah. Yeah. How do you, how do you work through that, man? uh okay it's just it's such a grind and and i want to get to be like the biggest household name and it just feels like look like anything else there's a lot of politics involved in in any industry that you're in it whether it was baseball anything like when you're a catcher at lsu there's politics involved in every any path you take obviously and uh you know the music industry is a very very hard industry cutthroat man and it's it's you know sometimes it's bless your heart to your face it's not real and there's a lot of like there's a lot of fake and a lot of bs you gotta kind of swim through um i just always try to say like true to myself and just know that like i don't take no for an answer never really have i am you know i am first generation hispanic i'm 50 hispanic i think i do have a little bit of that you know that uh that fire in me you know to kind of i definitely see there's a hispanic side to me that's like yo i'm gonna get this like no one can tell me no kind of thing i get that from my mom but um yeah to to kind of be where I'm at today.
8:17Um, there's just different choices that I made, um, uh, during my career. And it was more about betting on myself than it was on anybody else. But sometimes when you do that, um, what's a hundred percent of nothing, you know, it's nothing. So sometimes I didn't give up percentages of things and I really just kept re betting on myself and reinvesting in myself. And, um, it's made me, uh, very sustainable in life and in a way better position than a lot lot of people that took the wrong risk, but some other people that took, you know, a lot of money from other people and a lot of things like that.
8:49And then it didn't, they didn't strike lightning again, you know, now they're not in the career, they don't have a career anymore. Um, and I've been doing this, you know, I've been doing this for four, you know, I've been in Nashville 13 years, almost 14 and, um, I've never had a real job. And, uh, so, you know, like it's, it's amazing. I'm a songwriter, I'm an artist. Uh, you know, I do everything I possibly can, uh, in music and, And from the house, you know, how the biggest I want to be, like I'm working with the biggest artist in the world with Pitbull and he's like a mentor and it's really helped elevate to where I want to get to.
9:22It helps me dance between genres a little bit too. That's so dope, dude. I'm a redneck from Missouri, but I'm Hispanic and I love, I grew up with a pop station, a country station. I'm just kind of putting everything out there. I'm exactly who I am. And that's why the album was called Atypical. But, you know, before we dive into all that, it's like really just honestly, like I think mentally every day it's just like I can't live through comparison and I make sure that like I have my focus goals and I have good support team around me and I just literally just try to stay laser focused on that and uh the creativity part in my life is so fun and I feel like that is what really drives me it's like coming up with song ideas constantly and just thinking about music and like you know I have a studio session after this and it's like just every second of every day I'm thinking about music and I just know where I'm supposed to be.
10:09And I know I'm going to get there to the top. You know, I feel like I'm in the middle somewhere, but I'm going to get there. Yeah. I think you're middle, but you're above middle, man. I think, I think we're, we're smelling it. We're smelling it. We're on the home stretch. Now you may have seen the buzz, but let me give you the inside scoop. Babe Ruth, Barry Bonds, King Griffey, Jr. Mark McGuire, all the greats. What they have in common, they have collectibles and they're being sold on whatnot right now. and it brought me back to my childhood. Knowing that I can get my hands on something cool like that really gives me hope.
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12:02I just think that that's the life you end up having to live. It's not your path. Right. It's so funny because like in the podcast industry, I think with anything, there's a lot of fake made people taking the elevator to success. And you always see the ones that have a lot of capital behind them. They blow up really quickly, but then you find it's very empty, you know? So like, I always love the fact that, Hey, hey, I'm choosing a lane, right? No one else is doing it how we're doing it, right? Most people are going to sit there and, you know, rapid fire questions, move on to the next one. I'm bringing out the soul in my guests to give to the audience so they can learn.
12:40And there might be other people doing that. I don't want to, you know, sound like I'm altruistic or I'm the only one, but I listen to a lot of shows because I study, right? I study, nothing is done without any type of preparation, but we're also unscripted, right? We, I know where I want to go with conversations. Then I always also lean on my intuition and my talents to bring out the best conversation, right? So it's like the authenticity part of it, could I be further along if I was rage baiting people and click baiting people? Probably, but what's the cost of that? I don't know I see a lot of people that rage bait and get after people and somehow they're still living at the top and there's not really a lot of sometimes I just wonder I'm like how do you sustain that and some people sometimes they do which is crazy you know who's the best at it the Paul brothers oh yeah they're amazing they're so smart dude they are so smart like they're so good I watch all their stuff I watch their show like they're genius Paul American you watch that I watch it yeah I need to watch that uh coey red told me about that show last night i thought it was good like i heard it's good and honestly like everything like i see what they're doing but it's also just like it's very entertaining and they're very smart like they're the i mean you look back at i don't know how old you are but i'm 47 i'm 37 okay so um back in the day when tyson and holyfield and all those fighters lennox lewis i mean you had don king like he was the king he was the no pun intended but he was it's dude it's it's the paul brothers i mean like if you even look at like what they did with tom brady i smelled that a mile away oh it was amazing i was like okay cool so they're gonna do all this they're gonna promote the flag football thing and then gronk's gonna get pissed off and they're gonna fight right and that and then they announced you know and i i know gronk right because he's been on the show i messaged him like hey dude get it done man but um you know he's awesome oh dude he's great but i do think the paul brothers are being their authentic selves yeah um but they just know something that not many other people know.
14:46They know the algorithm. They know how to, to grab people into the screen and shove them right in the face and then not get off their videos. But I, but again, back to the, the initial point is I don't think they're being disingenuous, disingenuous. I think they're being themselves and I think they understand things that we don't understand. But the one thing that I always hold onto, and I think you're a lot like me in this regard is like if we move from being our our authentic selves we're not going to be happy at anything we achieve because it's not real that's how i feel yeah yeah very well said that's it i've had a lot of different opportunities to not be my authentic self uh and you know i've even dabbled in like maybe reaching for something that wasn't fully me and then having to pull back and then find myself again but that's just a part of learning who you are as an artist and what I want my career to look like and what I want to look back on and be proud of.
15:42But yeah, man. Dude.
15:46As a father, that is more important than you realize. Yeah, no, I feel that. It changed my life two years ago, even that. Let's talk about that a little bit. Back into some more country stuff. So, you know, your oldest is 21 months. Yes. And then your newest baby is what, a couple months old? No, yeah, like 40-something days old. Dude, so like a month. Yeah. Like, dude. We're the NICU for like half of that. Yeah, you told me that. How was that for you, man? You and your wife. How did you work through that? I was more like, she started working at Vanderbilt, and I was like, all right, we get a free birth.
16:17This is sick. And then we go in the NICU, and I'm like, this deleted the whole purpose of getting a free birth. It's like, well, come on, man. Be better. How much money are we racking up? It's 17 days in here. What are we doing? Oh, man. Was the baby early? Really early, yeah. And actually, the baby dropped the day my album dropped, basically, like midnight of that same day. And I was playing the House of Blues in Houston and then came through the night, and I was going to do a pop-up just for fans that we announced the week of. And we were going to do these pop-up, unplugged shows. Personally, just for me, it was just more like, I want to supersede the super fans and markets I haven't been to in a long time.
16:58I haven't been to Austin in a second to play, probably since 2019. Oh, damn. and so maybe yeah and that was for radio so like honestly like we were on our way to austin and we had hit team hit venues had the band and i was like yo we finished house of blues we're going to austin we're gonna do a pop-up we're doing another pop-up in fort worth and like move there and then we'll fly back like it was all just like on the fly teams hitting up the venues are like film or hell yeah like come in and like i would do like an acoustic unplugged that we had set up we ended up doing a couple of them before uh before the album launch but then the other ones all got uh canceled and rescheduled because my baby was born on you know on basically on the release day so we had to veer to the airport in Austin immediately from Houston because we were on our way and then I get on the plane and then someone said something like someone on my team said something to the you know the person on the plane so now it's a whole ordeal and everyone's like staring at me the whole flight and they're like is he gonna make it to see the birth of his child it was like a yeah real life movie for everyone I guess and then like they pause everyone on the plane I run off the plane I had my dad like waiting out in the Nashville airport jumped in the car took me straight to the airport my daughter was born two hours later they had like they're kind of like trying to hold her off on not being too dilated and like where she was and like I got there and then it was go time and then yeah it was crazy what was was there anything else going through your mind because you obviously knew it was early right and it's like so you're having to rush the airport oh my god can't miss it but then also was there was there other worries that you had to work through in those moments yeah so many worries I mean honestly like my first kid like the birth was not easy and there was a lot of things that that were very scary during that I'm not going to go into all that yeah no during the birthing process with my wife and everything so like that was always in the back of my head and then it kind of started happening again during this birth and then the baby wasn't like fully breathing with her lungs and so all of a sudden I was like here we and it was just it was super super nerve-wracking the whole time but yeah um but now everyone's healthy it's amazing um it's such a blessing and I wouldn't trade it for the world honestly it's it's uh and you know I I don't know I think I think we're done after two but i mean it ain't easy no it ain't you know it ain't easy man it's the biggest blessing in the world but it's it's also so damn hard man and nobody is honest you know we talked about it you know when you got here with go chris back here him and his wife were about to have their first shout out to the petersons um you know sorry i was just so blunt i said two two words to him and i walked up i go hey man the first three months of that baby's in your life your life is your life's over it's the worst experience because no one just no one says it everyone like or we forget and I and I get it's such like I said a blessing it's amazing like miracle and it's the best thing ever but like your life especially with the first kid like eight and I look I live a life as an artist like you know like I'll go out like I work all day I I go to the studio I write I got shows I'm traveling constantly then you're talking to people like your social meter is drained at all times like doing this and so then like when you get home like you need those hours of sleep just to kind of run it back again and then next thing you know it's like well I can't drink as much I gotta like that's hard for a country artist yeah hey come on and and uh you know it definitely that definitely made me less of a degenerate and a better person but the shell shock of like just think no one telling me how bad those three months are going to be and when I say bad I just mean like a life awakening experience of like yo like they depend on you every waking moment and like and then it's just like something switches in your whole life where it's like I think I'm a whole different human now I operate my business differently I've had more success I've had a growth and success since my child was born like it's honestly like maybe I wasn't fully doing it right maybe that's why it was such a shell shock honestly Honestly, you don't look like you're too crazy, so I feel like it's not going to be as much of a shell shock, but maybe you're hiding this from me.
21:10You're not drunk at 10 a.m., so that's a good start. I think you'll be okay. Yeah, he could be. What's in that bottle, man? Yeah, he could be on some gummies. We don't know. We don't know, man, which is fine. Yeah, which is great. Yeah. Those are great for fatherhood. You can't do that in Tennessee, man. You can. Oh, wow. Yeah, we got THC on draft at the bar. Really? Oh, yeah, that stuff's good, man. The THC seltzers? so good i'm a huge fan big fan huge fan big fan and that was something i found in fatherhood and i was like these are great yeah it chills you out yeah it still kind of curves my anxiety you know yeah that's the other thing dude as a father i mean the amount of anxiety that i feel so so many times i you didn't get to meet them but my my wife and my youngest was here um for yesterday's shows and they had to fly back so i had to pick up you know my my two oldest from school and and get them home and um so they're on they're probably at the airport now but the amount of anxiety that i feel not traveling with them is insurmountable like i cried leaving the hotel room this morning it's just it's the the amount of stress a father feels that we don't talk about yeah and and you know i don't know if it's because men are supposed to be strong and you're not supposed to talk about these things.
22:25But bro, the moment I had a child is when I started worrying about a billion different things every day. Yeah. It's so real. Yeah, man. Yeah, dude. But dude, congratulations. You're doing it right, man. Thank you, man. You know what, man? Like these things, you know, it's, it's like anything fatherhood and being a parent, you know, for the, for the, the moms out there too, this is for you. And you know, you have your careers and you have everything going on. And also, So, well, by the way, sustaining a marriage and a relationship and connection, right? There's adversity in everything, you know, and we have to fight through those moments and do the best we can and not worry about the outcome, right?
23:07Like the gift is in the struggle. The gift is in the struggle with you becoming a new father again, you know, your music, everything. That's what builds you into who you're going to be for when you break that threshold. because it's coming. It's coming. And, like, you need to be ready for it, right? And all these moments prepare you. I agree. I feel like even the ride to this point from a career aspect, and you say that moment's coming, it's like, if it all ended tomorrow, like, I feel like I've already accomplished everything. I mean, so much of everything that I've ever, like, younger me, when I first moved to Nashville 13 years ago, would be looking at me like, you did it.
23:52you made it you you did it like everything you wanted to do you did it I mean I've pretty much played every huge venue across America and in Europe um I've you know I've been on most TV shows I've I feel like I've everything that you know maybe I don't know it's just weird I just feel like I feel like I've accomplished so much um and I've I've broken barriers that and I have certain accolades that some of the biggest artists in the world don't have wow so I feel like I'm at a point where it's like I'd be so proud of what I've done to this point I have to remind myself that because I'm such a driven person and I still have to fight to not compare myself and everything like that but and there's so much politics and it's just like you have to just understand like everyone has an agenda and you just gotta stay and do what's best for you and just hope that other people will continue to align with you to get you to where you know that big moment is but I feel like even if I was like at Pitbull's level or when I get there, I still feel like I'm going to be working towards another level.
24:52It never stops. I feel like I'm never going to stop. It never stops, man. And I'm glad you brought that up because that was one of my questions. If everything ended today, would you be proud? I'm so proud. And that's something that I struggle with as well. It took me a long time to say that, but I'm telling you since the kid, like I, I truly like where I'm at today, I'm like, yeah, I just feel like I'm, I'm, I'm so proud. And I, I need to say that out loud more. Cause like sometimes I'm like, I'm so, I'm so critical of myself and trying to make sure I make everyone happy. And I had to learn, like, I'm not going to make everyone happy.
25:26I can't be overly loyal anymore because people are now inadvertently, even if they don't mean it, leeching off me and taking stuff and taking my valuable time and not giving back the same energy and I'm just allowing it to happen dude I go through that so much Tyler it's like I mean you know it anytime I have someone on that's of of any type of
25:51level oh can you talk to him for me can you do I might but like I work to get here like I'm just gonna give you the keys of the kingdom but I also love helping people. So it's like a constant, it's a balance, man. And, you know, it's hard, you know, but what I struggle with is what you seem to be. I think you're further ahead than I am in the, if everything ended today, you know, if podcasts were no longer a thing, would I be proud? I would say yes, but I would be like, damn, another almost? Another almost, man, yeah. I mean, think about that. So many almosts in my life. It's crazy. There's two words right there.
26:36Another almost. I don't know if I can shoulder another almost. Now, you may have seen the buzz, but let me give you the inside scoop. Babe Ruth, Barry Bonds, Ken Griffey Jr., Mark McGuire, all the greats. What do they have in common? They have collectibles. And they're being sold on WhatNot right now. And it brought me back to my childhood. Knowing that I can get my hands on something cool like that really gives me hope. So if you're selling online or out of a storefront, full-time or as a side hustle, you already know the challenges. You're hoping for people to find your listing or waiting for them to walk in.
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27:48Search whatnot, W-H-A-T-N-O-T in the app store, download, and you can start selling right away. you know and but also i look at what we've created we've been in rooms with jay leno you janna kramer um i've interviewed william h macy been in the room tony freaking goldwin bro yeah from scandal like other podcasters are looking at this like that's the goal and then me three years ago, you know, or even a year ago, be like, that's my goal. But things shift, right? You're like, okay, myself, like you, I'm a heavy driver. Like I have to be the best I can possibly be. And I am nowhere close. And, you know, one question I wanted to ask you, because, you know, you say like you, you want that household name.
28:47I also want that. Yeah. I crave it. I know why I want it and I'll get to that, but I want to know why you want it. What is the main underlying variable? The reason why you want that? I think anything I've ever done, and I think sports kind of ingrained that into you, but, um, I'm a no quit, like take no for an answer. Like I love someone telling me I can't do something. Put gas in that engine, baby. Yeah. And so it's just ingrained in me. I don't fully have, like, and like I said, even when I got to that top, I'm probably still going to be chasing the biggest part of that top, you know, like whatever I could do to beat.
29:25It's just, the grind is so fun to me. I love that. And rewarding. And especially when I'm doing something that I love, like music and writing and performing. And then knowing that I'm doing something I'm so passionate about that I love, that's like my favorite thing in the world. I get to do that for a living and so like if I can like do that at the highest level I just feel like it doesn't answer it doesn't solve anything or make my life any better like I said I'd be proud if it all ended tomorrow but it's like it just is the competitive drive in me to be the best of the best and that's like I think it's just who I am and I don't know have a full answer of why I just uh and like I said when I get there it's not gonna be like a all right what do I do now I did it I'm just I've made it I'm just gonna keep doing it like I'm just gonna keep doing it and keep chasing things that I love musically and, you know, trying to break barriers that like maybe people don't expect because that's something I love.
30:20And I'm just going to find new versions of things that I haven't tried yet because music is so versatile and there's so many paths and so many directions I go and can go. And honestly, like there's not enough years in life for me to accomplish all the things I want to do in music anyway. Like I'm just going to do everything I possibly can. And then, like I said, I'm already proud. So it's okay. You know, I look at your music and it's, every song I listen to makes me feel good. Oh yeah. So when I look at you and when you're that household name, cause it's coming, you're going to be making people feel good all over the globe.
30:58Appreciate it. That's big. That's impact. And for me, you know, when I reach that household name, When I reach that, I'll never be Joe Rogan. I'm going to be Sean French, right? You know, I can't be him. I can't be these other big names, but I can execute at the highest level of what I'm capable of. And being that household name for me, I want to walk in places and people go, holy shit, that's Sean French. Here's why. It's not an ego play. I mean, it's not a, look at me. I'm this, you know, dude that was a salesperson. that turned into one of the biggest podcasters in the world. What it is for me is impact.
31:41When I get messages and I get them daily, bro, this guy reach out to me from New Zealand, going through something with his wife. She made a mistake about four years ago. He's trying to work through it. He's in New Zealand and he found me on Spotify and sends me a message and didn't ever think I would write back, that's what I'm after. Like that right there because, and then when I responded with a voice, something. He's like, whoa, like, dude, thank you. I'm like, bro, I'm a human that cares about other humans. I never want to lose that touch. You know, now granted as things grow, it's going to be harder for me to do it.
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32:17But, you know, for me, it's just the impact, man. Like I, I want to help people. And if I can reach the top, then I know there's a bunch of people that their lives are improving because of what I'm doing. Yeah. I love that. I'm, I'm stealing that impact. That's great because that's exactly i feel the same way that's that's amazing i already i already knew that's like the underlying variable right um because you're not a big flashy look at me type of dude you're like you know your music is thoughtful except for my hairstyles your hair is fucking fresh they're always weird they're always weird i love it man the hair one lasted too long i'm sorry to everybody what's that the man bun lasted too long i'm sorry oh yeah dude i I mean, I like that one, but I like this.
33:02You have like the big league haircut right now. Like all the baseball players are doing that haircut. Taking the dad mullet, dude. Yeah, dude, it looks good, man. I couldn't pull it off. I can't even grow that much hair. I mean, dude, it's kind of a hassle. It looks dope, though, man. I appreciate it. It's your vibe. You know, it's crazy because, you know, I've seen you say you're the country artist that's almost made it. you know do you actually believe that or do you use that for fuel i actually believe that yeah yeah there's so many circumstances in my life where i'm like and you watch people pass you like i said the comparison thing it's like you watch people like but it's politics it's money it's they're they're you know nothing is what it seems that's all i'm going to say in music and what we do as artists and everything like that everything that you see as an audience member for 85 % of it, you were told to see what you're supposed to see.
34:05It's crazy to me. It's completely controlled. And I love that because you're doing it differently. You're a disruptor. I love disruptors. I'm a disruptor. I'm not going to do what everybody tells me that I need to do in order to grow. You know, and now if it's logical and it makes sense and it's aligned with who I am. Yeah, you're not disrupting just to disrupt. You're disrupting because it's a part of what you're doing And it's truly who you, it's your values, what you believe in. And you're not going to let anyone else come in and change those values or your direction because like, this is what makes you who you are.
34:33So you're going to, you're going to drive that force. And I feel like, yeah, sorry. Yeah, no, it's great. No. Has there been a point? Cause I, I always talk about this and people always say like, oh no, I've never thought about quitting because you know, I just, that's not who I am. um i've i've thought about quitting a hundred times but i just can't because i love it has there been ever a point where you're like i just need to move on from this man like this is too hard but then you quickly go what the fuck am i talking about i know it's a hard question uh it isn't an act of thought like i i think i'm crazy i just i don't think there's anything else I can't, like, I just, there are so many hard things that I've gone through in the music industry and in my career.
35:22But never was I going, it almost was just like, well, I'm just going to prove you wrong. I love that. But yeah, I think there's days, like, yeah, you question everything. And there's days where I'm like, yo, like, life I've built is pretty sweet. like I really don't want to leave and play that show I really don't want to go to this thing but I know it leads to this thing and so it's like I just want to stay home with my family this weekend and since you know since having kids really and and and since being with my wife as well like there are moments where I'm like I'd rather just do I'd rather you know that's not life like yeah what am I gonna do I don't there's nothing else I'm gonna do so it's funny because like to your point like i feel like this is what i'm really good at and like if i don't do this what am i gonna do yeah i'm not gonna go back to corporate and have someone tell me where to be and what to do and check in on me and do one-on-ones every freaking week and you know no it it i'm glad i did it because it built me right and and i learned how to talk to multiple different types of people you know but it you know every time I think of like man I'm just tired you know like my legs are tired and you know I've taken too many stairs and I'm just worn out I just sleep on it you know I and I wake up in the morning and you know tired that's the that's the cost of this man like you get to be tired you get to be stressed you get to have adversity and overcome these things I just think it's super important.
37:03So I'm glad to, glad to hear that you don't go deep into like, yeah, I'm done. You know, I'm done. I mean, I see it happen all around me all the time, but I'm not in it. You know, I think I've, I think the whole thing is I'm chasing just being me, you know, if the goal at the end is impact, like you were saying, like, it's just like, this is what I'm here to do. So it's like, there's not really a alternative. And that's what I love about this conversation because, you know, the vibe to the audience is so on brand with our show. It's like, okay, this man is staying true to himself. And like for the audience listening and watching, that's what you need to be.
37:41You need to, you need to be true to yourself. You need to stay in line with who you are and what your core values are. I mean, I cannot stress that enough. You can never sell out your core values and your integrity because you might be able to achieve something. but if you do you have to live with that every day like i cheated or i or i was someone different than who i really am how that's not success it could look like it oh yeah but like that's not that doesn't feel good internally man you know fuck you mentioned you know you've been through so many hard points in in your music career what was one of the hardest points for you that you had to overcome no i feel like one of the harder ones in in the recent years was uh parting ways with my manager my previous manager man's my best friend best man in my wedding so making decisions that were just like something i had to do for myself um you know it's just like i have to make career decisions and i have a family and i have things that I have to do to get to where I need to go.
38:46I'm a very loyal person. And I feel like that's been taken advantage of in the past, whether it's previous band people or a label or things like that. So my whole thing is just like, yeah, I think that was really tough. I think there's been a lot of different breaking points in my career. It was hard to go into a label and then get out of a label. you know covid didn't help with stuff um you know now being signed to pitbull's record label and um finding my path there and everything is just i found myself and like everything was supposed to happen for a reason and um i mean i'm aligned with mr worldwide man it's been a i never thought that in a million years and and like and that wasn't like a like there wasn't like a path to get there.
39:40It's just things happen in your life that, you know, think your direction changes is still going towards the top of the mountain, but how you get there, everyone's path is different. And I think if there was a direct way to do this, everyone would do it. Exactly. Maybe, but it might be too much work. They might say, yeah, exactly. You know, I don't want to do all that stuff. I mean, that sounds like work to me. You know, it's, um, it's interesting because you mentioned um you're aligned and working with pitbull and you said that one of my questions was um that i was thinking about like did you ever think you're going to get there but you already answered it um that that's pretty damn big tie i mean i i i don't that's like me aligning with joe rogan yeah because because because to me you know pitbull is the best of the best like he's a genius.
40:30Like he is so big and you know, you're some dude from Missouri, bro. And not, and writing for Pitbull, doing, doing songs with them or on his record label. Like, what was that path? Like, how did it happen? Because here's why I asked this question. Cause there's somebody listening right now that doesn't understand that they are so close and they stop. And all of a sudden they could hit something like I could hit something like tomorrow something could happen for for me and my in my brand that is on level with what you've done with pitbull so walk me how did this all transpire I mean to even like say something about what you just said it's like I feel like there's people will quit or give up because it didn't go like the way they have it in their head but it's like it's more about like it's the non-give-up mentality but also like i don't think enough people chase um something that could turn into something else i think enough people like they want it like okay i want to play this show and i need this amount of money and that makes that valuable to me for my time um i think for myself from day one um even becoming one of the biggest independent country artists in, in, in the two thousands.
41:51Um, as I started my career and built that, um, the determination of that was because I didn't, I never said no to anything. I flew to Buck Owens palace and opened up a show full band, I think for Cana Smith for$250. I lost like thousands of dollars. Love that dude. Um, and I, I did so many things like that. I have multiple tours. I can tell you exactly how much money I lost on every single tour. But it was all because it was leading towards something else. And I knew that this opportunity would open another door or I just prayed that it would. And like, it always has. Every opportunity that I went and took, it opened some random door that led me on another path.
42:31But it's the people that don't go take those risks. And that means like in my personal opinion, that means you don't want it bad enough. Now, you may have seen the buzz, but let me give you the inside scoop. Babe Ruth, Barry Bonds, Ken Griffey Jr., Mark McGuire, all the greats. What do they have in common? They have collectibles, and they're being sold on WhatNot right now. And it brought me back to my childhood. Knowing that I can get my hands on something cool like that really gives me hope. So if you're selling online or out of a storefront, full-time or as a side hustle, you already know the challenges.
43:03You're hoping for people to find your listing or waiting for them to walk in. WhatNot flips that right on its head. On Whatnot, you go live and sell directly to people in real time. They see what you've got, they ask questions, and buy. And they keep coming back. Whatnot is the largest dedicated live shopping platform, whether it's beauty, collectibles, electronics, luxury fashion, or heck, even cookies. Sellers are building real, thriving businesses. Anyone can sell. Whether your business is big, small, or yet to exist, people selling on Whatnot sell 10 times more than on other major marketplaces.
43:39That's because you're not just listing products. You're building real connections with buyers. Search whatnot, W-H-A-T-N-O-T in the app store, download, and you can start selling right away. Like this is it for me. Like this is all I'll ever do. This is it. And whatever path leads me to get, like, that's what's going to happen. And like, and everyone around me knows that like that's, this is, this is it. So I will take a lot of risks that other people won't because I think that something can turn out from that opportunity. And that's just with the whole Pitbull situation, um, not a crazy risk.
44:19Um, I'd actually opened for him in, um, 2017, I think, or 18. Um, it was me, Pitbull and Blake Sheldon and Pendleton, Oregon. Um, not a bad lineup. Yeah. Crazy. Uh, but yeah, like it was, I, I didn't, when you got it, you're like, what is this show? And then like you show up and it was just amazing. Like everything about that was awesome. I didn't really get to hang or like really sit with, um, with Pitbull at the time. Um, and you know, I'm on my come up and stuff. So I kind of try to stay out of the way and I'm just, I'm there to, my job as an opener is to get the crowd warmed up and do the best live show I possibly can.
44:59and then I just move out and I just, I try to be respectful of every other artist and their time and who they are. If I get the opportunity to hang with them or they want to meet me, cool. But I'm not like, I don't, I'm not Gurmy. I don't do any of that shit. So we didn't really connect there. He did FaceTime my mom during the meet and greet, which was hilarious. That's cool. They were talking Spanish and everything like that, which was awesome. But she took all my time really. Thanks mom. In that moment. Thanks mom. but yeah then it was years later I was opening a Blake Shelton again playing a festival for like 45 ,000 people a shout out to Barefoot Country Music Fest in Wildwood New Jersey I've played it twice now this year will be my third time playing it I'm playing it in June so super pumped to get back to that festival and that festival has a very special place in my heart shout out to Bob Durkin great festival and I literally like was running off stage and I just played that usa song for the first time i don't know what compelled me to do it um the band knew it uh we didn't have it out it was not released and i was about to go on the brett young tour after that and so i was like i want to try this song and so the rap on the bridge was different i actually wrote a whole different rap and i had written it a certain way and it was just like a fun live song that i wanted to do and i ran off stage like someone on people's team was there checking out the festival whether he was going to do that in the future or something like that because he loves country music and he's obviously done festivals that are multi-genre and stuff as well um he's mr worldwide so someone that was checking him out shot a video of me performing i was like hey like i was like one of people's managers like well i'm like i'm like no way i don't believe you i go on the tour bus and the next thing you know like they come up and i had a bunch of songs in spanish actually at the time because i was translating some other stuff in spanish my mom was coming to the studio with me and making sure i didn't sound too gringo in my accent so i was just like oh we'll play this stuff for you and like whatever and then it's like three days later i got like a text um or an email from from pitt and it was like i'd appreciate the opportunity to be on that usa song because he had heard the video got sent to him everything and then sent it over blah blah and then the rest is kind of history i you know then it was like then it was like um i don't even know if you fully know i don't know if he knows this but um then it was like hey like let's get together and talk about like releasing the song and stuff and so he's on tour all the time and um he's like can you be in in uh Bentonville Arkansas like tomorrow or something and um I was like of course sure like looking at my schedule I'm like I don't even know so I like looked at my wife and I was like let's get in the car and go and call my team up and they're like what are you doing I'm like they didn't make any sense to anyone I'm like I'm gonna go meet Pitbull and what someone just he just asked me to meet him yeah you go it'd be in egypt i'm gonna figure out how to get there yeah 1000 whatever on top of a freaking pyramid yeah get out of here i'm gonna get there and so i don't even know if he like realized well i think he realized that afterwards but i i you know we just jumped in my wife's car um and we you know i drove like nine hours and got there and got to watch him perform and meet him and hang out in person and then next thing you know like um like he was like yo like you know we stayed and then stayed there the next night and then i um we're trying to figure out what we want to do the next night and we're having dinner talking about like the song and everything just getting to know each other it was awesome and then it's like what do you want to do tonight i'm like well jason aldean and all them are playing this is at walmart amphitheater tonight and like hardy and everyone and so and dj silver and everyone and so i i literally like sent the text it's my country family i was like i'm gonna show up like backstage i like a couple cars with me and they're like yeah come on so i roll up and like jason aldean walks up and boc with live nation and um who else uh hardy and everyone's there and they like walk up backstage and i'm like oh yeah i brought pitbull by the way yeah and so oh man pitbull ends up like bartending uh in between the buses like jason aldean's bar and stuff he was bartending he just walks in starts bartending like doing the thing dope dude man it was yeah he was it was amazing and he's like always like he's serving people but he's like a film or checking on me i'm like i'm like what is going on and so yeah he's absolutely the best and so that was a great hang and then he you know went up to us like as we're getting ready to leave there and he's like we got going on tomorrow like my wife had to get back to um she works at the hospital and she's like oh gotta get back and kind of looked at well she kind of looked at us and was like but you know tyler can go with you and so i got pitnapped on on the jet for like seven days pitnapped pitnapped baby point of the term and uh it was you know that's a good experience that's the best thing yeah um it's just funny to say it that way but um no it's in and just became fast friends and um like a mentor to me and um has helped shaped my career in the last four years and has been nothing but the absolute best and uh so i'm just thankful and anything he needs or anything I can be a part of, uh, it's the first thing that I will do.
50:16It takes all priority because I believe in him so much and he believes in me so much. And I, I don't want to ever let him down. He's, he's, uh, he is what you see. And it's, I think it's very rare these days that you meet someone that is exactly who they portray themselves to be. And that's what I aspire to do. And so being around him and learning from the best, um, I think is only going to help me be the best version of myself. And I still got a lot to learn and I'm not perfect in any way. and I've made a lot of mistakes even in the last four years but he's been nothing but supportive and helpful.
50:49That's beautiful, man. The one thing that I want the audience to realize out of this and back to that day at the festival, right? You're just doing your deal. You're doing your craft. You are executing what you know how to do and you want to do it the best way possible. So if you're present in the moment and you give your best performance, you record the best show you can, you don't know who's watching. Yeah. And look what happened. So for you guys listening and watching, show the fuck up. Always. Show up. Show out. Take a risk, yeah. And don't listen to anybody. Like if someone tells you it's not a good idea, but your gut is telling you like, this could turn into something.
51:32Okay, what else do you have going on? Like, let's just say it's tomorrow and someone's like, hey, there's this opportunity. it's pay zero dollars you're actually gonna lose money but if you show up there's an audience of people like that potentially could see it that could turn into something and you sit there and you have no obligations the next day and then you don't take that opportunity i don't know what to tell you you know it's it's interesting because i can relate to this 110 i lose money every time i travel. I lost it for fashion week. When I walked, I'm losing it now. I lost it in New York.
52:09It lost it in LA. When we traveled to do Jay Leno, I lost money doing that. I paid it. No brand paid for a sponsorship. Nobody paid for anything. It was our hard earned dollars for the show that we paid for. But you know, what's crazy is when I think of like, yeah, I lost or I spent money. They cost me money, but the brand building is worth everything. And if people are so proud that they can't go and do something for free, they'll never make it. In June, I'm speaking at the Biohacking, World Biohacking Conference in New York for$0. I was like, hey, maybe we can get a hotel to give me a stay. Maybe we can get, you know, a flight taken care of.
53:00But, you know, so it doesn't cost me that. But, you know, the thing is, man, it is such a beautiful point because, yeah, you may be losing that money value, right? But what you're gaining is so much bigger. And people do not understand that. You know, soon, you're not even going to have to ask those questions. It's going to be, hey, Sean, we need you to come here, right? I need you to speak. and we have 50 G's budgeted for you. Will that work? Yeah, man, that'll work. Yeah, I'll take it. That'll work. Yeah, that'd be nice. That'd be nice. Love it. You know, hey, maybe we can get a hotel. Don't worry about the hotel.
53:33Speak for 20. Yeah, it's like, I'll speak for much less than that. I speak for free. You know, like, you know, but it's - Who's going to be there? Yeah, who's coming, you know? But that's the beautiful part. Like, you don't know who's going to be there. You don't, like, that's the thing about your story, dude, as you're talking about Pitbull. you did not know that that manager or representation was in that crowd so if we stay present and if we stay true and we just execute our craft we don't know we we have no idea right i don't know who's gonna i don't know who's gonna listen to this show like you may send it to somebody massive and they'll be like yo i want to meet this guy and i'm like holy shit what just happened you know what just happened in my life that this is a thing now and and and so like the audience needs to understand that because that's what this show is all about that's what the themes are is like yo keep going when you feel like you can't because you don't know when it's going to hit and that's also the sexy part about it right it's like yeah you know the unknown man i mean it's scary but it's fun there's too many people playing checkers when they need to play chess oh come on dude it's just a lot of like it's just like people need to change their mindset but there's a lot of risk it's not for everybody yeah and uh it is stressful it is exhausting and it is scary as hell but uh i don't know what it is maybe it's us being athletes you know that that i i truly believe that that ingrains a and a skill in you you know and then like you know like the cost benefit analysis of everything it's just like i'm always ready to just take a risk on the cost and hope for the benefit.
55:12You know, it's so funny because like, that's the business agree talking, right? And I love, no, I love it, dude. It's great. It's true. You know, my wife is always like, no, you're worth more. I'm like, but baby, listen, you got to look at this. Look at everything that's building. Soon we won't have to ask. Yeah. It'll just be like, here, that's what we're working towards. Creating that value is priceless. It's massive, dude. Man, I know you got to get a session to get, I know you have a session to get to, man. Talk all day. This is, dude, this is fun, man. I feel like I could do like a two, three hour show with you.
55:42I know, dude. So much to talk about. I know, dude. We're almost at an hour right now. And it's just like, it's like, bang, you know? I have to run back another episode. No, dude, 1 billion percent. Like whenever you want, man. I have a feeling, you know, we've made some contact with some representation up here. And I think we're going to be up here a lot more. Okay, sweet. You know, and I'll do everything out of here and at Nashville Creative Spaces. dude this is absolutely gorgeous i mean you want to talk about profession like a professional place i you know chris peterson has been amazing rory vaden has been incredible and you know some of the biggest names in my industry rory and brand builders built the back end built the you know the everything about what they were doing so i have him later today i'm really excited because we're always gonna have like a one-on-one meeting too because i want him it's time now yeah right because I think that when everybody starts, everybody wants to be seen, but they may not be ready to be seen.
56:41And that was the case because years ago, about five years ago, I was looking to, you know, hire them to build me. I'm like, well, what are they going to work with right now? It's like, it's like, good luck, dude. Like, I know you're great, but, but no one's that good to, you know, to build a house out of no material, you know? Such a good point. Yeah, man. So it's just, uh, it's been a blessing, man. And this conversation has been so valuable and I, it, I always love getting to meet people. Like you said, that you've been connected with and just kind of see if they're really about what they're about.
57:17And dude, you did not disappoint, man. Right back at you. Yeah. Thank you, man. It's, uh, you know, we always have to be authentic and we're crazy. We're, we're nuts, dude. It's, it's exhausting to put yourself out there on social media and in the public and be yourself and then always show up like that. You know, I think a lot of people struggle with it. Um, but for me it's hard because not because it's a hard act to do, cause I'm just being me, but you get hurt in the process a lot. You know, you get, you get taken advantage of and so much of your social media that can like sustain for a long period of time.
57:51Yeah, man. One more question for you. You know, this show is about determination and discipline. And, you know, when I created the show was at a point in my life where I felt like I needed to make a change. I was unhappy and no amount of money would fulfill me. And I just, I started really kind of looking under the hood of successful people. And what I found is they, you know, they did what they needed to do no matter how they felt. And so when I built a determined society, my thought was I have to wake up in a world or I want to wake up in a world that everybody chases their dreams no matter how they feel emotionally at that time.
58:28And this is a question I always ask. I'd say 90 % of the time because I always forget too because ADHD is crazy. But what is your definition of determination? My definition of determination?
58:46I think it's just the no quit attitude it's just kind of what I've said earlier I mean I think that provides like if I'm not going to quit then I'm clearly determined so it's the never give up it's the I don't know it's just whatever has been ingrained in me that is a part of who I am that's not going to change I think there's a lot of growth in change but I feel like the determined part of me is not going anywhere because i'm just so competitive and even though i don't want to live through comparison and stuff like you still got to compete every once in a while you know i'm looking over like okay i got this like oh yeah i just beat them out okay we'll get the next thing but and that's fun dude competition is fun yeah that's why we do a lot of things in our life too so um it's fun everybody has a target on someone's back i have mine i got one okay and we don't have to just we'll talk about it off camera you guys don't need to know it because it's for us.
59:40Oh yeah. But I mean, it it's, it's not malicious. No, I'm not going to do anything negative. I just want them to eventually see where I'm at. And then I just kind of want to smile and walk away. Exactly. Exactly. I love that about you, man. Well, dude, that was a great definition of determination because what most people don't understand, it's not this loud, sexy thing. It's the, it's the, I don't want to go to the gym, but I'm going to put my shoes on anyway and see if I can walk out the door. You know, I don't want to write this song, but maybe you just write two sentences. You know, it's the ability to continue to move forward.
1:00:16Even if you're a hundred percent that day is about 25%. Yeah. You have to still do something, man. So thank you so much, man. Chug coffee. Dude, dude, this was great coffee. Cheers, bro. I appreciate you. Oh, man. Thank you so much, dude. Looking forward to doing more with you. Can't wait. We still got, dude, we got to get Forrester moving, man. We got to figure out what we're going to do. I agree. I mean, let's go. Let's see. I think like a determination fest. I love this. Oh man, we could do something. It'd be fun. Agreed. We're going to, yeah, we'll, we'll talk about that. Let's get some things rolling.
1:00:47Yeah. For the audience, we've been side texting and talking on the phone about this. We got some cool ideas. It's going to be sick. Yeah. It's going to be nuts. And we'll definitely let you know when it's going to happen. But for the audience, share the show with somebody, you know, love and trust. And, and, and if you haven't already listened to Tyler's music, it's Fillmore music, one L. and you need to dive into it. You need to listen to it. It's great music. If you like hip hop, you like pop, you like country, then listen to the damn music and support him. Very, very proud of him. I've known him for a couple of years and I'm just ecstatic at what he's becoming as a father and in his career.
1:01:26And so feel more music, guys. My favorite song is Betcha Gunna. That's such a good, I love it. Oh my God, that song is so good, man. Hell yeah, bro. And then don't forget Yeehaw with Pitbull. That's a dope song too. If you got children, don't play it around there because Pitbull goes hard. Pitbull goes hard. But thank you again, guys, for listening. And until next time, stay determined.
From the publisher
Tyler Filmore shares how overcoming obstacles in the music industry taught him the power of determination and breaking norms. From refusing to quit when success didn't match his timeline to landing a Pitbull collaboration through one random performance, Tyler reveals the mindset shifts that separate those who persist from those who quit. Raw, authentic, and actionable—for anyone betting on themselves.
Key Takeaways
-Success often comes from opportunities that look small at first.
-Most people stop because the journey doesn’t match their expectations.
-Staying authentic creates long-term fulfillment, even if growth is slower.
-You don’t know who is watching when you show up and perform at your best.
-Taking smart risks is often the price of reaching another level.
-Comparison can destroy momentum if you let it.
-Fatherhood can sharpen purpose and change priorities.
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