Kathy Ireland: From Supermodel to Super Mogul

13 Oct 2025 · 59 min

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Kathy Ireland: From Supermodel to Super Mogul

Episode Overview In this episode, Shawn French interviews Kathy Ireland, a global icon known for her transition from a supermodel to a successful business mogul. Their conversation revolves around themes of reinvention, resilience, faith, and the lessons learned throughout Kathy's journey from the runway to entrepreneurship.

Key Themes and Discussions

  1. Reinvention and Resilience
  2. Background: Kathy reflects on her early experiences, noting how rejection shaped her resilience.
  3. Turning Points: She discusses the transition from modeling to entrepreneurship, emphasizing the importance of adapting to changing circumstances and leveraging past experiences to build a brand.
  1. Lessons from Early Jobs
  2. First Job: Kathy recalls her paper route at age 11, which taught her about hard work and customer service.
  3. Key Lesson: Her father emphasized the importance of exceeding expectations, a principle that has guided her business philosophy.
  1. Transforming Challenges into Opportunities
  2. Business Beginnings: Kathy's journey began with the launch of a sock line while she was pregnant, leading to the establishment of a billion-dollar brand.
  3. Overcoming Doubt: She faced skepticism from others who doubted her ability to create a successful brand from a pair of socks, which she turned into motivation.
  1. Faith and Mental Health
  2. Faith as Foundation: Kathy discusses how her faith has been central to her resilience and creativity, serving as a source of strength during challenging times.
  3. Mental Health Advocacy: She highlights the reality of anxiety and the importance of mental health, especially in today's society.
  1. Building Family-First Businesses
  2. Empathy in Business: Kathy emphasizes the significance of creating products that serve families, particularly busy moms, and understanding their unique challenges.
  3. Product Development: She discusses upcoming launches, such as Kathy Ireland Perfume and eco-friendly home products, that aim to enhance the lives of families.
  1. Advice for Women Entrepreneurs
  2. Empowerment: Kathy shares insights on what women entrepreneurs need to hear, including the importance of service, integrity, and staying true to one’s values.
  3. Sustainable Success: She advocates for serving others as the key to long-term success in business.

Key Takeaways

  • Grit and Grace: Kathy embodies a blend of determination and kindness, showcasing that success is not just about financial achievements but also about uplifting others.
  • Community Impact: She emphasizes the importance of community and how businesses should strive to give back and support those they serve.
  • Adaptability: The ability to pivot and adapt in the face of challenges is crucial for any entrepreneur.
  • Personal Growth: Both Kathy and Shawn share personal experiences of navigating life's difficulties, reinforcing the theme that perseverance leads to growth.

Conclusion The episode serves as a powerful reminder of the potential for reinvention and the importance of resilience and empathy in both personal and professional realms. Kathy Ireland's journey from supermodel to mogul is an inspiring example of how one can turn challenges into opportunities through faith, hard work, and a commitment to service.

Connect with Kathy Ireland

  • Instagram: [Kathy Ireland](https://www.instagram.com/kathyireland/)

Final Thoughts Listeners are encouraged to share the episode with others who might benefit from its insights into entrepreneurship, personal growth, and faith.

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0:00Rinse takes your laundry and hand delivers it to your door. expertly cleaned and folded. So you could take the time once spent folding and sorting and waiting to finally pursue a whole new version of you. Like tea time you. Mmm. Or this tea time you. Or even this tea time you. So did you hear about Dave? Or even tea time, tea time, tea time you. Mmm. So update on Dave. It's up to you. We'll take the laundry. Rinse. It's time to be great. I'm so grateful to the people who have supported our brand throughout the years. And I've learned a lot of lessons the hard way. It started out with a mission of finding solutions for families, especially busy moms, because when our first child was born, quickly learned how underserved moms are.

0:51And I believe all moms work whether you get paid or not. And there's nothing harder or more important than raising kids. I mean, suddenly taking a shower was a luxury. A product that we're launching soon is Kathy Ireland Perfume. I discovered a shower in a bottle. Just bringing really products that our customers tell me, I need this. This helps me. This will make my day better. And I need the right price to value ratio. And I need the right shopping experience, whether I'm shopping digitally, online, brick and mortar, whatever that is. It's got to be a good solution.

1:30All right, guys, what's going on? I'm here with Kathy Ireland, former supermodel turned super business mogul. She's done so much for women entrepreneurs and licensing their products and families as well. I'll leave way, her first collaboration, I believe, and correct me if I'm wrong, Kathy, but it was, was it Kmart way back when you first started doing licensing? with our licensing it was socks which we ended up selling at Kmart in the beginning handful of sporting goods stores but yeah you're right on track I'm on track guys that's all as I don't claim to be perfect but as long as I'm on track I'm okay but she's done so many amazing things around the family and women advocacy all the way down to creating documentaries about anxiety and this specific documentary came out a few years ago it's called anxiety nation but But without further ado, welcome to the show, Kathy.

2:24Thank you, Sean. Great to be here. Great to have you. You've had an amazing career, you know, from, and I mentioned it, supermodel. I mean, I grew up in the area where when you were the supermodel, you know, Sports Illustrated, you know, Teen Magazine, all that kind of stuff, Vogue, and just seeing you in that platform and seeing how your career has just grown with massive, massive growth. just as far as building roots and doing something so amazing and meaningful for people. Can you walk us through your journey on how one thing led to another? Sure. I mean, probably as long as I can remember, I felt like a business person.

3:06I was four years old selling painted rocks for my wagon. Always had jobs. The first real serious job was a paper route. And when I was growing up, you had to be 11 and a half. When I was finally old enough, my dad shoves this newspaper ad under my nose and it read, newspaper carrier wanted, are you the boy for the job? So knowing the reaction that was going to get, I wrote to the paper and I said, I'm not the boy, I'm the girl. I can do this route just as well as any boy. And my first day, it's New Year's Day, and papers are really thick with those inserts. and I was a really funny 11 year old just thinking what have I gotten myself into couldn't even live the sacks but I'm I'm pedaling up this really steep hill and I noticed this man at the end of his driveway like you know waiting for his paper and as I approached him I could tell like he was really upset he was having a really bad day you know about something and I hand him the paper and he starts yelling at me and he says what are you doing here this is a boy's job you're never gonna to last and just caught me off guard.

4:18And I didn't let him see me cry, but I was grateful to that man because there were a lot of days I felt like quitting, but I was not going to give him the satisfaction. And I couldn't because what would that do to the next little girl that would want that's my responsibility. And my dad, in his wisdom, he said, Kathy, you always give 110%. If the customer expects the paper on the driveway, you put it on the front porch. And that was foundational for me to learn to under-promise and over-deliver. And it's those lessons as a child, they've impact every step of the way. Just having that kind of a work ethics, understand what are the expectations and then exceed them.

5:08And that's, I mean, that, that's a great way to approach life and business. So from the paper route, other jobs, and then modeling was not my plan. But I was offered that opportunity. The look of the moment was changing. And it wasn't, I wasn't model material growing up, anything like that. I had one eyebrow before I discovered tweezers. My nose was always peeling. I was a beach rat, but the look was changing. And the agency offered me to go to New York for the summer. And I thought, well, it'll be a chance to save money for college or to start a business. The entire time I worked in that industry, I was trying and failing businesses.

5:58And it wasn't until at 93. And at this point I am an aging pregnant model at our kitchen table. And that's where we started the brand with a pair of socks. Wow. I love that story. And it's funny because I also was a paper, paper carrier. Yeah. Well, in Concord. Okay. No. So I would, I would, so I say if San Francisco Bay, because it was the East Bay, right? But I was Concord, Walnut Creek. And I remember, I think I was, what's that? So beautiful there. It's very beautiful there. I do miss it. You know, I went back, I think a year and a half ago. It was gorgeous, gorgeous. And I was in Hollywood for some interviews this past June.

6:45And just to be back in California and just there's so much there. I mean, it's pretty suffocating here. It's always very humid in Southwest Florida. but I don't have a great paper boy story other than the fact that I just remember that it was my first taste of this is actual work you had to go and and collect remember you had to collect and you had the the little rings around the yes yeah yeah and I remember my dad would always take me in the morning he would do it with me and we'd be bumping the millie vanille remember millie That is so funny. That's so sweet. Yeah. Isn't that a great lesson, though, in navigating all different personalities?

7:36Because I'm sure you bumped into what I bumped into. Like some people were so lovely. They were so kind. And other people were really cranky. Other people, I didn't know at the time what it was. I suspect now, you know, they were suffering from some kind of addiction or something because they were really, they like start screaming at me when I give them the bill for$3 and 75 cents for a month for the paper. And, you know, it's just, you, you, you really learn a lot of lessons and being responsible for, for that bill at the end of the month. Um, good lessons there too. It was so funny. Cause that was my first exposure to people really don't want to even pay for what they committed to pay for.

8:18Right. It was just like, I'm just a young boy going door to door. I'm like, Hey, like, here's your bill collect. And it was just at times they just didn't want to pay. But, you know, now as an adult and knowing all the pressures of being a husband, being a father and being a professional, I can see how people would be a little bit, you know, put off at times, but to take it out on a, on a young girl or a young boy, just doing their job is that was a nasty realization, you know? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Most of my customers were super kind, but sadly, sometimes it's the harsh ones that we remember.

8:57But they teach us a good lesson though, right? Yeah, they do. Early on, early on, you learned a lesson that probably helped you earlier in your career as a model. And then now as an entrepreneur and a businesswoman, because you're always doing businesses, you learned right away that not everybody is going to welcome you with open arms and have a certain perception about you that kind of fits your narrative. And we have to work through those things, right? And it sets you up for pushing through the tough moments. And you mentioned right there before I interjected, you were at early in your modeling career around 1993, you were, you were failing at businesses, but then you decided you were pregnant and you were like, okay, the socks walk us through that.

9:43so uh the modeling had gone on longer than i had anticipated and just you know trying and failing the different businesses but i just felt like if i didn't shut the door on that chapter of my life i might not live my dream of i was really interested in business and wanted to it felt more secure to me running a living off um serving people and bringing products and services that would really have an impact on their life rather than depending on a paycheck based on how someone else perceived that I look, look at the moments changing all the time, have limited control over that. So I got offered to model a pair of socks and it wasn't the most glamorous job.

10:30There was no beautiful location or anything. And they were thinking maybe they just crop at the knees and do a feet shot. That's where the career was. And I had to contemplate it because it was a job when not a lot of job offers were coming my way. I really like the people. John and Marilyn Moretz, they're in North Carolina to this day. I mean, they're family to me. They are just amazing people. When you meet amazing people, they're treasures. No, you just want to hang on. And

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11:43From afternoon coffee runs to stocking office supplies and even team dinners, you can earn miles on all your business expenses. Plus, you can earn 125 ,000 bonus miles for a limited time through October 29th. The Delta SkyMiles Reserve Business card. If you travel, you know. Minimum spending requirements and terms apply. Offer ends October 29th, 2025. And so I said I wasn't so interested in modeling the socks, but talked about, you know, what do you think about starting a business together? I put a little team together. You know, what can we do as far as design, innovation, you know, just bringing great value to this really basic pair of socks.

12:23My husband and I, we tried out the socks on a backpacking trip. My husband worked in ER, so he's on his feet. He's like, these are great socks. I love them. I did, too. We began by conducting a surprise factory inspection. Growing up, my dad worked in labor relations. And so I experienced, he worked with Cesar Chavez and he helped implement getting outhouses placed in the fields. And I saw a lot of oppression and abuses. And you find out a lot when you show up unexpectedly. So I went to the factories. They were beautiful. People were well treated. I got to talk to, you know, everybody there. And it was wonderful.

13:02I really was excited about this concept. So it was just like hitting the street, presenting the socks to retailers. And people said things like, what a stupid idea it was that you couldn't start a brand with a pair of socks. they had a lot of comments like that but nobody had a reason why and um and one of the greatest gifts of that modeling career was all the rejection and i didn't appreciate it at the time it's not fun at the time but what a gift because when the doors were being slammed in my face it didn't bother me i mean my response was oh well no means we're talking so maybe i'll come back tomorrow and, you know, maybe your circumstances will have changed.

13:51Maybe you will never be the decision maker or, you know, maybe you'll be in a better mood. And I encourage people with that. When, you know, do your homework, when, you know, if we're talking, you know, products and retail, find out if it's a good fit. Like, who do you want to serve? What's your brand all about? And what are the person's needs? Because you're serving those people. And how does this retailer provide good service and how do they align with your values or do they not like do your homework on that and if you believe in what you're doing you believe in all of it fight for it go back maybe don't go back the next day it might have been a little stocky of me but um go back six months later and um and fight through and you know it was there were in the early days there There were things like sleeping in airports, things like that, which was not a big deal.

14:48I think whatever material thing you give up to live your dream and go for those goals, it's not a sacrifice. It's a bold investment. And that bold investment led to us selling our hundred millionth pair of socks and growing our brand in many different sectors. That's amazing. You said something that I found really intriguing. it was the things that people say that's a dumb idea excuse me you can't build a brand off of selling socks I remember when I left corporate America in a very I was in the medical industry as well and it was you're gonna leave this amazing career to start a podcast I'm like well I've been going for about you know two to three years at this point they're like yeah dude you're doing it's a small show.

15:40You're doing it on an, I was doing my show on an iPhone and I was just recording audio. And eventually what happened is I believed in it. I believed in the mission. I knew what my platform was for. It wasn't for me. It was for people. And I wanted people to understand that there's a wide range of people that are struggling every day. Doesn't matter if they're celebrities, doesn't matter if it's just a regular Joe. We all have the same struggles because we're all people, we're human living in this experience. And if I could just give them stories of determination and of hope, then maybe one day it could be something.

16:17And then I look at where we're at now and I don't feel we're done by any stretch of the imagination. But I look back, I'm like, wow, if I would have listened to them, I wouldn't be here talking to you right now. no it's i mean it's that was very courageous of you it's hard especially when you're leaving something that you know feels solid and people are telling you one thing but you know and your gut and your soul what you're supposed to do and so good for you congratulations to you well thank you like you right it's a gift you have you know you you have a gift with people You have a gift in entrepreneurship and licensing products and selling a lot of it.

17:02And for me, it was always, I had a gift in conversation and more times than not, I was able to relate to whomever was on the other side of the conversation. And it didn't matter if they were someone of the utmost importance or if it was someone who was homeless and I was having a conversation with outside of 7-Eleven, I'll talk to anybody. Sometimes I think my wife's embarrassed to go to the grocery store with me. That's why she sends me by myself because I typically either find somebody I know or I end up making friends with somebody in the line because I just feel like my gift is having conversation.

17:36And so I felt like, well, if God gave me this gift, like the ultimate act of disrespect is not to utilize it. Right. Yeah. No, that's I that's beautiful. And I do believe he gifts us in different ways. And I think what we're supposed to do to be good stewards is discover those gifts and develop them. And when we're living in them, I think that's when we feel the most fulfilled. And we have strength to, you know, my, it doesn't feel like work. You go through the hard stuff and you believe in what you're doing and it gives you the strength to carry on and move through. I think the key word, what you're doing and what any successful person does, they really dive into the service aspect of it.

18:20I think so. It's, um, I think when our eyes are on ourselves and we're just thinking like, what do I want out? I mean, of course there's, there's nonprofit business and there's traditional business and our company is very involved in nonprofit, but we're also, we're a for-profit company. We also recognize that in success, we have sustainability with our nonprofits. So we're motivated by that. But I'm so grateful to the people who have supported our brand throughout the years. And I've learned a lot of lessons the hard way. And our customer's been so loyal to us. I seek to be honest when we mess up, get something wrong.

19:04I want to learn about it, immediately address it, figure out how we're going to course correct. And what are we going to do? What will we put in place? What mechanism will be implemented to make sure we don't make that mistake twice? And when we're transparent and we communicate that with people, but we're a team. And I lean on our customer. It started out with a mission of finding solutions for families, especially busy moms, because when our first child was born, we quickly learned how underserved moms are. And I believe all moms work whether you get paid or not. And there's nothing harder or more important than raising kids.

19:47It's hard. I mean, suddenly taking a shower was a luxury. A product that we're launching soon is Kathy Ireland Perfume. I discovered a shower in a bottle, although, you know, great. You can perfume when you're showering, but just bringing really products that our customers tell me I need this. This helps me. This will make my day better. And I need the right price to value ratio. And I need the right shopping experience, whether it's whether I'm shopping digitally, online, brick and mortar, whatever that is. It's got to be a good solution. Well, I agree. And it's so great that you have that product coming out because I don't think any man can truly understand.

20:31And I'm speaking as a man. And I've had three children. And it was always, I haven't even had time to take a shower today. And I think it's, I mean, I know it's a real thing. It's something that we can't comprehend, right? But that is real for mothers. It's real. And then shopping. Okay, so getting, you know, got little ones and car seats and they don't want to get in the car seat. And, you know, they can tense up their body. And then, you know, somebody needs a diaper change. Somebody throws a temper tantrum. So you make it to the store. And when you get there, if you don't have a good shopping experience, you're mad.

21:08So we want to honor her. And that's why we really do a lot of research. I believe that's why we have such a wonderful, trusted relationship with our customer, because we listen. It's like, okay, what do you want? What do you need? And they tell me. They're honest. I mean, I'm not a celebrity. Any smidgen of celebrity I had as a model, our customer doesn't care about that, nor should they. It's this is this is my life right now. And these are the needs I have. And so it's a privilege to serve our customer in every area from fashion apparel to products for their home, to fintech, to business solutions, to insurance.

21:53One of the companies we work with, American Family Insurance, I love this company because when you talk about insurance, it's a really trusted relationship. And I've got an option for education. And so one of the privileges I have in working with this company is serving as an ambassador for educating people about following their dreams, pursue their dreams. Let's figure out what obstacles are in the way, perceived or real, and let's remove them and figure out a strategy. The most successful entrepreneurs I know, they take the dream in one hand, the strategy in the other, and they use them both to drive that dream into reality.

22:42If it's all dream, no strategy, your head's in the clouds. And if it's all strategy, but no vision and dreaming, you can kind of lose that joy. And so I get to work with them on encouraging people to dream fearlessly and then protect your dreams, finding ways to do that. So a great, great company. And another area in which we're working, talked about education, a literacy program with Dollar General. And I love this retailer, learning about them, that serving the communities, giving back to the communities in which they serve in powerful ways, bringing affordable luxury, wonderful products at that rate, price point.

23:30And people said, well, you can't do that because you've got all these luxury products. It's not going to make sense to people. I said, why not? Of course. Why offer people who have money and they want to spend it this way? Wonderful. We'll have products at that price to value ratio. But why would we not serve at every economic situation? And no matter what somebody has in their account, if they want to be really frugal and get a great value, a great deal, great affordable luxury, I want to honor that. I've been privileged to know Warren Buffett, who is an amazing man. And something that Sean, you, me, and Mr.

24:16Buffett have in common is paper routes. And I've competed with him many times in the newspaper tossing competition. But back in his day, they didn't even use rubber bands. They had to fold it and make it not so hard. Yeah, yeah. But he's a fierce competitor. and competition is good. It's not a negative thing. It's good when it's fair. And, you know, typically, uh, prior to a newspaper tossing competition, Deb, who works closely with Mr. Buffett, she'd call me up and she'd just give me a heads up. She's like, he's practicing and it's midnight. So I love the fact that, you know, even though he's got a few years on me and more experience, he just competes and he doesn't rest on yesterday's success.

25:07Like, okay, I did really good at a newspaper tossing competition last year. I'm going to, I'm going to, you know, wipe her out this year. He, he practices. And so I love that. A lot of lessons there. Well, I think it's pretty cool that, you know, all three of us share something. If you would have told me that I would share something in common with Warren Buffett and Kathy Ireland, I'd be like, what, that we, that we have beating hearts and we're on the same earth. that's pretty dang cool um you know and the other thing is too who won you know what uh mr buffett is so kind he has said that i beat him one year but you know what i gotta beat me he's really every year really close i beat bill gates i'll tell you that much but um okay you know i'll i'll take that i did beat i did beat mr buffett in a golf putting competition.

25:57I beat him fair and square. There was no question to that one, but boy, he hit that target on the front door. He's good. That's really cool. I want to go back to the Dollar General luxury brand. What is it that you're putting in those stores? Are you allowed to talk about that? Sure. We just launched with home products. So bedding products in particular, and we are expanding into all different areas with the focus on the home, but other areas as well. So it's going really well. We've got an event coming up in November. We're working with schools and encouraging literacy. So I've served on boards of education for well over 30 years.

26:49One of the founders of a startup school, pre-K through grade 12, college prep Christian school. Had no idea how much work that was going into that. Served on the advisory board at the James Madison program at Princeton and mentoring programs around the world. So I've got a passion for that, a passion for kids. And I love how this retailer impacts the communities. They recognize what are the needs and they identify schools that are in particular, they're having needs, they're having some challenges. So how can we really impact them in a powerful way? And that's really exciting. I think it's really cool.

27:39I think it's really awesome because to your point, why not have something at the price point that can be nice so people can feel good? I mean, when you say home products, just imagine, you know, there's people out there that may not have had a nice piece of bedding in the past and they get to go to Dollar General and get one of your products and then go home and feel comfortable and feel really good about it and see their kids' faces light up because then they're seeing joy. And that is what you are spreading through your products. And we are so grateful. We're extremely cautious about who we go into business with and who we work with in the manufacturing area.

28:20So, of course, I talked about those factory inspections with the socks and the compliance, how people are treated. That's at the forefront of our mind. Something I love about this younger generation, they're very demanding. And I love that. They force us to do better. Not only do they want great products at a great value, but they want to know what's in it and how did it come to market? How are people being treated every step of the way? So we're working with really great people who are successful and they're able to bring really beautiful, luxurious, I mean, to the touch, wonderful products that you feel good about, you love.

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29:48Get optioning those options. We could lose everything. Or, let's do a little research. Get your head in the trade and make the investment decision that's right for you. Learn more at finra.org slash trade smart. That's amazing. You talk about the younger generation of what's in the product. I'm starting to see a shift. I think everybody has about removing certain ingredients from our foods here in the United States of America. And, you know, my knee jerk reaction one time was, you know, when Fruit Loops, they, they announced 2027. I'm like, looked at my watch. I'm like, it's going to take that long.

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30:29Like, why? But, but I think it's, it's more important because we're learning so many things about the things that we put on our skin. I mean, it's our largest organ, right? I, I told my wife the other day, I'm like, Hey, do you get dip on your, do you do your nail gel dip or whatever? She goes, well, yeah, I go, okay, stop. because apparently that causes cancer now. And, you know, for so many years we didn't know. So to your point, there's a lot of education going around, like the things that we're using daily, all the way down to, you know, dishwashing detergent, you know, the laundry detergent, all these things matter.

31:04Yeah, no, definitely they do. And change is hard and a lot of people resist it, but it's powerful. And it's so much better to initiate positive change than be forced to react to it and to recognize, well, why are we doing this? Do we really care about the people we're serving? I mean, there was a time when people said I was crazy, walked away from millions of dollars from a furniture company because the furniture they were making was not compliant in California. You could sell it in other states, but there were some toxins in there that were not deemed safe. And so I said, how could I have products in some states where my own children wouldn't be allowed to sleep in these beds?

31:55No, it doesn't work. Get it right or it's not a good fit. Can't work together. and um it's really i mean it's important that we we build that trust with our customers and that we bring them products that are good safe and bring value to their lives yeah i agree you know california i mean i'm from there so i could say this right i mean california gets such a bad rap of that like oh the the crunchy californians you can't have that well hey listen you know you can say what you want about California, but you know, from the standpoint of wanting safe products, when did that become negotiable? Right.

32:40Right. Like, like really think about it, especially from the standpoint of sleeping on a bed or, you know, like a certain type of mattress or what's in the sheets, you spend most of your time, most of your life sleeping. Well, some people do, some people don't sleep at all, but you know, it's important. it's it's really important we have a new mattress line that we're launching and it addresses those issues um exactly it's it's healthy there's no toxins in it and it's it's amazing to think like we even have to think oh there's toxins in a mattress yes there's like some really bad ingredients in a lot of products we spend a lot of time with so when we can find scary I did hear about the mattress.

33:25I did hear about the mattress. I think there's a cool collab coming too with that. I think I did hear that. I think I did hear that. So I'm excited for that one. When's the launch of that? Um, that it's just as we speak, it's just, um, it's just being launched now. Oh, that's great. What's it called? Uh, Kathy Ireland, um, Kathy Ireland mattresses. Boom. Boom. Is there, is there a specific store where this could be, these can be purchased or there are many retailers so we've got and more information will be coming out we'll share that with everybody but i'll stop prying now online and plush beds if you go to that website you can look up our our brand there and they're a wonderful maker they actually they're here in California.

34:21Their factories are beautiful. Their team is amazing. They're artisans. They do an excellent job. My wife and I will be checking it out as soon as humanly possible because we are in the market. Our mattress is a little bit old, so you've piqued the interest there. They're 100 % organic, so I think your wife will approve. She will. She's always reading labels, so she will definitely approve. a couple more things I want to cover with you this has been such an interesting conversation and it's become very apparent to me and hopefully the listeners and the viewers of why you have been so successful in your careers because you truly focus on serving others and finding the problems and then providing the solutions to people here but what have you learned most about yourself in your journey as an entrepreneur oh boy so many lessons I've learned that I can be a slow learner at times.

35:21I've learned that there have been times when I've had misplaced trust. And that's hard. You know, those are hard things to recognize. But I'm really grateful for every trial. Business is hard. I don't know of any quick, easy fix way. That's why what you said in the beginning, Sean, is knowing what your gifts are and working in those areas. It's so good and it's so important. Sometimes we need to do work that might not be our dream job. No, but when you understand, okay, why are you doing it? And I remember when our son was little and I was heading off to Las Vegas to go to a market and I was going to meet with salespeople to tell them about rugs that we were launching.

36:10and he just felt like that seemed so boring to go and talk to sales people about rugs and I said wait a minute are you kidding me um you know how excited I am to tell them about these rugs that are a great price to value ratio I had you and your sisters get all this stuff out of the refrigerator and test them out and they clean up really well so I really believe in these and they've taken my design inspirations and implemented them beautifully. I love these rugs. I can get excited about that. I know I didn't think when I was a little girl, I want to sell rugs when I grow up, but I'm excited. I get to meet with salespeople.

36:51I have so much respect for people who are in sales. We connect with our customer regularly. We have different ways of doing that, but the sales team, they're on the front lines every day. they're getting valuable information. They know what's working and what's not working. And when I can connect with them and share the design inspirations, the innovations, why I'm passionate about it, and then that gets communicated to our customer. And then in turn, they communicate with me, hey, our customer is telling us they want this and they don't want that. And if we tweak this a bit, it's going to be more successful.

37:27So why wouldn't I want to meet with them? And sometimes we find joy and excitement in, I happen to love rugs, so I get excited about that. But even if I didn't, I can appreciate how that will bless our family and help us achieve goals that we want to achieve and how it will help our nonprofits in those areas. So I can genuinely get really excited about doing things that others might find rather mundane. And we're going to take a quick break to hear from our Powered By sponsor. We're proud to announce a partnership between White Sands Treatment Centers and the Determined Society. With multiple locations across Florida, White Sands provides luxury, top-rated addiction treatment from medical detox and inpatient care to outpatient support and long-term aftercare.

38:21Their resort-style campuses, expert clinicians, and holistic programs create real, lasting recovery. Together, we're committed to bringing hope, resources, and healing to those who need it most. White Sands Treatment Centers. It's interesting because there's so many things in that. But you said there's times where you have to work things that are potentially not your dream job. You know, and I remember when, you know, I was, I moved to Florida during the mortgage meltdown in 2007 and 2008. I think everybody remembers that. And I lost everything. I short sold my house. I had my car repossessed and I came to Florida with nothing, Kathy, literally nothing.

39:07I remember having to run to the baseball field so I could provide one-on-one lessons. And I was exhausted. And I live in Florida and it was hot. And then I remember having to drive a tow truck for a small period of time just so I could pay my bills or just get on my feet enough to where I could buy a car, to where I could go interview for a job. So when I look at everything that's going on now and people say, man, it must be nice. I go, well, it is now, but it surely wasn't when I was all greased up trying to figure out how to tow cars when I didn't even know how to change a tire, Kathy. I mean, I say that, you know, I mean, I wasn't great at it, but I figured it out.

39:48And there's moments in all of our lives. And for those that are listening and watching, there are always moments where someone has to pivot and do things that they don't want to do to help build that next version of themselves. absolutely so what was it that got you through that time did you or some people might have just given up so how did you personally you know for me you know i was very embarrassed kathy i'm gonna be i'm gonna shoot you straight i was very embarrassed i was broken and for me i always held on to the fact that i was going to be something some people call it stubborn um you know that delusional optimism.

40:30But for me, you know, my show is called the determined society for a reason. You know, I was determined to figure out what my plan was. And I can remember sitting there on the phone with one of my best friends in the whole world. We dated for about three years when we were kids and she ended up passing away from pancreatic cancer. My best friend ever. It's every, she passed away two days before my birthday. And so every October 26, I'm in this weird energetic state where I'm just busted. But I remember telling her at my lowest point, I said, you know what? One day I want to motivate people. One day I want to be a voice that people can listen to like a Tony Robbins.

41:09I was like, but I'll never be as big as Tony Robbins. And she said to me, and she goes, that's something that you can do when you finally believe in yourself. And so, you know, for the last almost five years, I've been building and building and building for this. So the thing that got me through was just looking at the other side of it. Like if I'm this low now, I got here for a reason. Maybe it was decisions I made. I bought too much. I thought that I was invincible, right? When we were making all that money as, you know, in the mortgage business. And if I can just harness the, the, the passion and the drive to move forward and to get to the other side, you know, without going completely crazy, you know, and fighting through, there was a lot of, you know, depression, a lot of anxiety that went on in those times.

42:01And for me, it was just like getting through those moments day to day. It's like, what's the next checkpoint? You know, what's the next thing that I have to do? Okay. I need to go work out. Okay. I'm going to go work out. I don't want to, but what's the next thing? I'm like, okay, now I need to go do this. And I just kept writing it down and I would draw a box by everything in my agenda on the left-hand side. And every time I did something, I'd write a check mark. So at the end of the day, I could look down at this full day that all this time slots of like, I did that, that, that, that, and that.

42:31And it gave me, well, I earned the confidence that way because I was doing something about it. Oh, I love that. And it's, um, just a bit at a time rather than being overwhelmed. It's, um, to accomplish it. And you had mentioned, um, anxious nation, uh, documents that, um, Laura Morton and Vanessa Roth, um, amazing women, uh, were putting together, asked if I'd be involved. And I wanted to learn more about it because as I shared, education has been a big part of my life and children. And not a day would go by without a parent or a kid. I mean, somebody letting me know that they were really having a struggle and what's going on.

43:25And I can't think of a harder time to be a young person or an old person for that matter. It's just life is hard you know it's it's hard it's beautiful but it's it's really difficult and this generation particularly i think has um so much coming at them from so many different directions so many voices in their ears hearing things and um it's really difficult so i i learned how they were approaching this topic. And I really appreciated it. Appreciated it because they highlight several kids. It's very candid and their families. And it really lets families know they're not alone in this. And there's not a one size fits all for everybody.

44:16My My personal approach is, I mean, my faith is the cornerstone of my life. And without it, I wouldn't be here right now. So it's my relationship with Jesus. And in Scripture, it says, Be anxious for nothing, but in all things with praise and supplication, make your requests known to God, And the peace that surpasses all understanding will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. And writing that down, putting it where I'll see it is a great reminder. When one of our children was just suffering with bad dreams and, you know, stuff, putting that like right where it would be seen was really, really helpful for me.

45:12And that's how I navigate this life and recognizing that different people have different needs at different times. And just really, I believe God doesn't make mistakes. I believe every person has value. And not believing the lies of the world, like, oh, you're no good. You don't measure up, this and that. I mean, there's just so much that makes it hard for young people. And your approach of just recognizing, okay, I've got some goals. Let's just take one at a time and move through it. And it's getting up another day when you don't feel like it. There's a lot of victories and those victories can grow and grow.

46:02And there is hope and it can get better. It can get a lot better. I love that you went there because recently I've done so much better. I'm also a believer and I've gotten so much better of letting go and giving it to Jesus because if I can't do that, then how can my kids? How can my wife? I have to lead in that area. and, you know, being a father of two, two girls and a young boy in a world that, you know, social media drives and my kids, they don't have devices yet. They're not, I'm not letting them into the world right now. Not happening, not happening. And, but I can even see it in my youngest and she's six and, and I can see when she's anxious and I just sit there I'm like, man, you know, I've got to get better as a man and as a husband and a father, because if I have moments, there's moments, Kathy, where I'll text my wife, baby, I can't breathe right now.

47:06And she goes, what do you mean? I go, I'm, I'm having a hard day. It's so heavy. Like, I don't know what, I don't know how I'm going to get through today. I have three interviews and I don't know how I'm going to get through and have the energy that my guest deserves. and she goes pray and i have done so much better lately of giving it all up and now my children are starting to we went to church yesterday as a family and to see my daughters grab me and hold on to me during the service and i could feel them just relaxing and just knowing that they have somewhere they can go now other than mommy and daddy or their anxieties and their troubles it everything and let's not get it twisted.

47:51I know he's in control. He's the one that got me through, even if I wasn't acknowledging it at that point, but you know, he's there. And now that I can look at things like, you know what? There's no way I would have got through without God, like zero, zero question. Cause there were some dark moments, dark moments, you know? So So thank you for going there with that. Oh, he's so good. He's been so patient with me. I came to know Jesus as my Lord and Savior at 18. And then I went on to make the biggest mistake. I got saved. My mom packed a Bible in my suitcase, grew up with no faith. She had just discovered her, stuck a Bible in my suitcase, didn't know how to read it.

48:36jet lag, loneliness in the middle of the night in a creepy apartment in Paris. I started reading, open to the book of Matthew. And I was a really rebellious 18-year-old thinking, who really knows what's true? And as I read, I knew that what I had in my hands was the truth. And it was like, I want to follow him. And especially as a young man in a world dominated by men that in that industry were not good. I was just so awestruck how much Jesus loves, respects, and honors women. If you take the Bible out of context, you can make it fit any agenda. It's so important. People read for themselves, have their own relationship.

49:26And when I finally did that, because I would pick and choose. I pick the verses I like, and I dismiss the ones I didn't like. And it's like, oh, I'm kind of scared of Old Testament God. And my heart got convicted at age 44. And I finally read from Genesis to Revelation. And I was sweeping. It was so bittersweet. It was sweet because, oh, my goodness, Old Testament God. It's all the same. The Old Testament is the New Testament concealed. The New Testament is the Old Testament revealed. God is so loving and so patient in that love story, that thread all the way through. But bitter because I recognized I'd wasted a lot of time.

50:14And I love the verse, Joel 2.25, I will restore the years that locusts have eaten. And he had convicted my heart. I didn't hear an audible voice, but I felt him tell me, you say I'm your first priority, but I'm not. And my heart was convicted. I'm having this internal dialogue with the Lord. And I'm saying, yes, but you know my life. You know I love you so much. And you know, my wife, three kids, husband, business. I am going to have so much time for you later. Right now it's crazy, but you know I love you. We're good. and what I got was put me first and I will give you more time with your kids.

50:57I'll give you better time with your kids. And without recognizing it, I was making our children an idol because anything, even something good, he has to come first because he equips us supernaturally to love them supernaturally when maybe they're not acting lovable or whatever that might be. But we need that relationship first. And when I started doing that, getting up a little bit earlier, reading consistently, 15 minutes, praying, reading, doing it consistently. He's so good. He just made my day so much better in every area, in my personal life, in business. It's like, oh my goodness, I needed that.

51:38Because if I was living in my flesh, I would have responded like this, this, and this. And when we start our day with like, you know, just fill me up and give me the words to say, give me truth and love and everything. It just, it saves a lot of time. It makes life so much better. I'm going to tell you from Saturday to now, even the situations at home and certain moments, cause like, it's like world war three in my house with the two girls in the morning. It really is. They're six and nine. You can imagine the moments that they have, even just getting ready and making their beds in the morning.

52:15I've been able to actually respond instead of react. And I do feel a major weight lifted off my shoulders. I mean, because I, I committed my life to Christ when I was in college, but I recommitted yesterday and my whole family committed. Yeah. My whole family committed yesterday. that's awesome you know what i would do when i'd have those mornings getting everybody ready for school and they wouldn't like you know not in a good mood fighting whatever it's really hard to fight when you have like good worship music playing in the background so um if you want to turn on it as well with my soul in the morning and the kind it kind of ruins their bad mood a little bit.

52:55That's kind of fun. Well, when I threw on him this morning, my girls and came out of my son's room and my son was fired up and my girls are fired up. I said, Hey, I'm gonna try something different. How would Jesus want you to respond right now? And you don't have to answer me. Are you responding that way right now? I'm going to go finish getting ready. I want you guys to sit with that a little bit and then we got in the the the yelling and everything stopped it just stopped and then on the way there's usually bickering in the car you know the truck and i threw on casting grounds i threw on hill song because i have my go-to still right i'm like i'm like go and i'm like put it on and my girls are like oh what's this can we listen to you know see i can wait and my son's like can we listen to clean versions of eminem i'm like this is what we're going to listen to right now because I'm, I'm checking something.

53:54Daddy's, daddy's evaluating. And it was the most pleasant ride to school. The kids were in a great mood and they got out. My son waited for my daughters, which never happens. Usually he's out. Yeah. It was great. It was great. So that's leadership though. Right. So it's my job to continue with that and not get caught, as you said, in the flesh or, you know, stop leading in that way because they, they need, they need a little handholding now with that. And, you know, there was times my little ones driving, well, you know, what would Jesus say? Like, what would, you know, I'm like, okay, here we go.

54:31Like, this is the opportunity to really dive in and make him a focal point in our household. So just a little personal story that I share. Thank you for sharing that. And, and I love that. So many important things you said there. And when you tell your children to respond, how would Jesus respond? I think it's common for us at any age to react rather than thoughtfully respond and let our emotions drive us. Rather than, you know, we let our emotions own us rather than us own our emotions. And I love the scripture that says, be still and know that I am God. And I love that he doesn't sleep. and his word says he will never leave us nor forsake us and your kids are watching you which is so powerful and i've learned it's kind of hard when our when we're little like we think our parents are perfect and it's a little earth shattering realize they're not but when when i've blown it and repented it to our children and in front of them whether it was directly to them or to someone else, but just been honest about it.

55:47Those have been powerful times too. So they know that like, okay, mom and dad aren't perfect, but I need to honor them and I need to love them. My heavenly father, he is perfect and that's who they're pointing me to. And I think it helps them when they recognize we're all gonna stumble and fall. That's why it's like a daily, it's a daily repentance. When I wake up in the morning, it starts to my heart. We don't want to keep doing the same things over and over. We need to make those changes. But just getting from point A to point B, sometimes we kind of step in the mud and need like that daily seat wash.

56:30Guilty as charged. Guilty as charged, right? It's always, I always think like this. My wife said this to me about a couple of years ago. because if we're adults, if we can't emotionally regulate, how can our children? Yeah. Right. I just think that it's just a nice way to just kind of remind them. And we've always, you know, when we're wrong, we jump to a conclusion. We're always like, hey, you know what? Daddy messed up. I'm sorry. You forgive me. Can we talk about this? Because I don't want them to think I'm perfect. You know, because you mentioned like growing up, you always think your parents are superheroes and that they're perfect.

57:06And then when you find out they're not, it's earth shattering. I want my kids to know like, Hey, daddy is flawed. Like there's nothing perfect about him, but you know, there's other, and I want them and I want them to like celebrate that fact because I'm not. And I just want them to see me as human and someone that can relate to him, you know? And, uh, this has been such a dynamic and fun conversation, Kathy. Thank you so much. Like this is you. Thank you so much. We talked about everything. We talked about everything. Well, I appreciate you. And again, I'm just super grateful to have this time with you today.

57:46After all these years, you know, just seeing all the amazing things that you're doing and everything amazing that you have coming up. You're a real icon, but you're more of an icon as a human being. And that's what I really appreciate. Thank you so much, Sean. Congratulations to you on all your success. You're a man with true success. So I really admire that. Thank you. Thank you, Kathy. And for the audience listening and watching, please share this episode with something that you know, love and trust that can get something out of it, whether it's entrepreneurship, faith, or just being an overall amazing human being.

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Global icon Kathy Ireland joins The Determined Society for a deeply personal and empowering conversation about reinvention, resilience, and faith.

From her rise to fame as a supermodel to building a billion-dollar global brand, Kathy opens up about the defining moments that shaped her journey — from rejection and anxiety to advocacy and entrepreneurship. This is a story of grit, grace, and grounded leadership from one of the most influential women in business and philanthropy today.

She and Shawn French discuss how she turned lessons from the runway into a blueprint for business — one rooted in service, integrity, and a fierce commitment to family. Kathy’s reflections on mental health, parenting, and purpose reveal the same authenticity that has made her brand a household name.

This episode is more than an interview — it’s a roadmap for turning faith and determination into action.

We explore:
-How Kathy Ireland transformed rejection into billion-dollar reinvention

-Lessons in leadership, transparency, and brand trust

-Faith as the foundation for resilience and creativity

-The reality of anxiety and the importance of mental health advocacy

-Building family-first businesses with empathy and excellence

-What women entrepreneurs need to hear right now

-Why serving others is the ultimate key to sustainable success

This conversation is a masterclass in determination — and proof that success built on faith, service, and courage never goes out of style.

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