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Podcast Summary: The Ed Mylett Show - Episode with Dave Asprey
Podcast Title: THE ED MYLETT SHOW Episode Title: Dave Asprey Reveals the New Frontier of Biohacking Episode Description: This episode features a conversation between Ed Mylett and Dave Asprey, the godfather of biohacking. The discussion dives into the transformative power of healing through forgiveness, the development of intuition, and actionable strategies for enhancing personal well-being and longevity.
Key Topics Discussed
- Intuition and Ego
- Innate Capacity: Everyone possesses intuition, which can be trained to function as a guiding mechanism.
- Ego and Emotional Baggage: The ego often suppresses our intuition, influenced by fear, emotional trauma, and mental chatter.
- Recognition: Learning to recognize intuitive nudges can empower decision-making, leading to better personal outcomes.
- The Five F's of Human Behavior
- Fear: The first instinct; it triggers immediate reactions for survival.
- Food: Drives biological urges to consume and survive.
- Fertility: The biological imperative to procreate.
- Friendship: The need for social connection and community support.
- Forgiveness: A key element that, when practiced, releases energy and fosters peace, enabling personal empowerment.
- Practical Biohacking Strategies
- Training Intuition: Exercise intuition like a muscle through mindfulness practices and meditation.
- Forgiveness Process: Recognizing that forgiveness is essential for emotional freedom and energy; it involves a structured approach rather than mere decision-making.
- Meditation and Breathwork: These practices are essential for rewiring the nervous system and cultivating a state of calm and clarity.
- The Role of Forgiveness
- Performance Enhancer: Forgiveness is not merely a feeling; it's a transformative process that enhances performance and emotional resilience.
- Emotional Anchors: Grudges and unresolved issues drain energy, limiting overall effectiveness and joy in life.
- Heart Rate Variability (HRV)
- Importance: Low HRV is indicative of stress and imbalance in the nervous system.
- Improvement Strategies: Techniques like early dinners, darkness before bed, and proper breathing can enhance HRV.
- BICEP Technique
- Definition: Brief Intentional Conscious Exposure to Pain.
- Purpose: This method helps in building emotional resilience and motivation by training the nervous system to tolerate discomfort.
- Psychedelics and Altered States
- Potential Benefits: While psychedelics can offer transformative experiences, they should be approached cautiously, ideally under professional guidance.
- Intimacy and Altered States: Deep connections with others can also lead to powerful altered states, contributing to personal growth and healing.
Conclusion The episode emphasizes that living a longer life is not just about extending years but enhancing the quality of those years through emotional healing, personal development, and intentional practices. Ed Mylett and Dave Asprey advocate for a holistic approach that combines physical health with emotional and spiritual well-being.
Key Takeaways
- Forgiveness is essential for personal empowerment and emotional health.
- Intuition can be trained and should be prioritized over ego-driven decisions.
- Biohacking is not just about physical health—it includes emotional and spiritual growth.
- Heart Rate Variability is a crucial measure of stress and well-being; improving it is essential for longevity.
- Engaging in brief intentional pain exposure (BICEP) can enhance resilience and motivation.
For more insights and actionable strategies, consider exploring Dave Asprey's book, *Heavily Meditated*.
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2:19This is The Ed Myred Show. Welcome back to the show, everybody. So every time this dude's on, we get a lot of reaction. You don't get quiet reaction from the king of biohacking. And they actually call him the father of biohacking. But I just think he's one of the most interesting people we have on the show. And, you know, to get back in the seat multiple times means I enjoy your time and I learn from you. And every time I'm with this man, I learn a bunch of stuff I didn't know before. In fact, he just gave me a little hack right now. This one's going to be a little bit different, though. He's got a new book out called Heavily Meditated, Eight Steps to Remove Your Triggers and Upgrade Your Focus, Energy, and Inner Peace.
3:00Doesn't really need an intro, but I gave him one. Dave Asprey, welcome back to the show. Ed, thanks for having me on again. You're an interesting guy. I enjoy our conversations every time. So do I. Why'd you write this? I never ask authors that. That's like the cheesy opening question. But in your case, you know, you and I have been at a private meditation retreat with a guru dude and some other pretty famous people before. So I'm not completely shocked. But what made you do this? People know me for losing 100 pounds, putting butter in coffee, creating the biohacking movement. But a lot of people don't know why and how that came about.
3:35I was really sick, chronic fatigue. I was also really miserable in my early and mid 20s. I tried getting married briefly. I tried making$6 million when I was 26, lost it when I was 28. When I had it, I'm like, I'll be happy when I have 10. I tried being famous when I was 23. I was an entrepreneur magazine in my double extra large t-shirt, which was the first product ever sold over the internet before e-commerce had a name. And none of those did anything to make me happy. And, uh, I was frankly miserable. Um, I was just graduating from Wharton business school. Uh, I did that when I was about 30, like I'm kind of hitting rock bottom here.
4:18I don't know what else to do. And I started doing all the stuff that I thought only stupid, crazy people would do. These are things like, um, traveling to South America to find shamans, uh, going to remote parts of Tibet and doing advanced meditation retreats. And I just decided I'm going to try all the stuff that I think is dumb because the stuff that I think is smart isn't working. So along the way of rewiring my body and rewiring my mind, I had to learn all the consciousness stuff. But when I started the biohacking movement, it was very much because all the things I learned running a longevity nonprofit in my 20s, the people who taught me were in their 70s and 80s.
5:00So my elders taught me this. And I could get no one young to pay attention to longevity. Like, guys, the stuff that makes old people young makes young people powerful. Don't you get it? And they didn't. So I had to rebrand it. And I dropped breadcrumbs. Like, guys, the idea for Bulletproof Coffee, now Danger Coffee is my new coffee company, but the idea came to me on the side of the holiest mountain in the world in a remote part of Western Tibet. So that might be a little clue. And for 10 years now, I have run a very high level, call it a executive brain training thing that also puts you in advanced spiritual states by removing triggers.
5:42So my path has been fix the body, upgrade the body, upgrade the mind, which upgrades the emotional capacity, resilience and spirit. You can't separate them. But if I'd have come out in 2011 and said, put butter in your coffee, use red light therapy, do earthing, which I did say those were edgy enough. And I also said, by the way, learn how to meditate, leave your body and do altered states work. I think it might've been too much to become a movement. Did you have advanced intuition then? Stuff in this book surprised me. This is the guy who's like, here's the peptide. Here's the thing. Here's this, you know, this hack.
6:14And yet you talk about like big part of the books, like intuition over your ego. Like, was that an intuition that you had back when you were in your mid twenties? Or do you, you really believe you can develop and tap into your intuition on a deeper level, and that's everybody can do that? I am more convinced than anything on Earth that all humans can do that. I am as convinced that we can do that as I'm convinced you can lose weight when you want to lose weight. It might be hard. You might have to change tactics. Everyone is wired because we are alive to have intuition. It is an innate human ability.
6:48It is trainable, and some people do have superpowers that maybe is genetic, or I don't know where it comes from. I can theorize. I can tell you that most of the lineages I've studied around the world will tell you there's some idea of a past life or something. Maybe that's it. Maybe it's genetic. Maybe it's because your mom was a witch doctor. I have no idea. I don't have to know why. I just have to know, is there evidence that some people with trained nervous systems and trained minds will express these abilities? And intuition is one of them that's easy and is built in. And we've known about it.
7:19Even the most hardcore skeptics, if you think about it, they also have intuition. They just use their minds to shut it down. That's what I did. I did not believe in intuition. How did I end up being the first guy to sell anything over the internet? How did I end up making$6 million when I was 26? Why did I take that job versus another? Because it felt like the right thing to do. That's called intuition. It's not because I did a spreadsheet that told me what to do. And I learned how to be a venture capitalist. And the data shows very strongly, and there are actually studies about this, for the most successful investors, their gut says yes, and the spreadsheet says yes, they make the investment, they're going to make money.
7:59If the spreadsheet says yes, and the gut says no, they lose money. And if the gut says yes, and the spreadsheet says no, they oftentimes make the most money because it's counterintuitive, but they follow their gut because they've trained their intuition and they know it. And it's not just pattern matching. It's something deeper. Well, everything this man does comes with a strategy. That's why I feel like, well, how do you decide who's on the show? If it's theoretical with no application, hack, or strategy, I'm really not that interested in it. It's just like a waste of my hour. There's nothing like that with your work.
8:31We could go through everything in the show, you guys, in an hour and a half, and because of Dave and the way he writes, we'd be at like 4 % of the book. So I'll ask him some pointed stuff. What is a strategy or a way that someone begins to tap into from scratch and develop their intuition? Build that. We'll call it a muscle. Probably the easiest way to tap into it from scratch is to, I'll define what intuition looks like. And then I'd love to, if we have time, to talk about where and how it happens in your nervous system, because it makes it easy to understand. But whenever something happens in the world around you, there will be a very, very fast and very, very small reaction from your intuitive systems.
9:15And we'll talk about where those come from later. Okay. Right. And let's say that someone walks in the door. OK, and your intuition and just right away, before you have a chance to think about it, goes, I should talk to that guy. Right. And right after that will be a much larger emotional response that says I shouldn't talk to that guy. There's no reason I should talk to that guy. Actually, the emotional response is I shouldn't talk to that guy because it might be scary. I might be rejected. Nobody will love me, whatever the hell your emotional stuff does. we don't have much control of that unless it's trained.
9:45And then the logical brain steps in and goes, well, there's no reason I should do it. So for most of us, that little tiny and first blip of intuition is swamped by an emotional squelch. It's like a firewall. Your emotions and your ego make you ignore your intuition. And then your logical brain justifies the ignoring. So the first thing is, okay, that first thing that jumps in that you automatically ignore, that's the intuition and if you're curious about it instead of rejecting of it you might find it's helpful a pattern that's arisen for me so many times in my life someone will say i should read a book okay i have a huge library at the house here the cool thing about libraries is they can't be edited from censors but and i've read a lot of books uh so problem is if i don't have enough time to read everything people say I should read.
10:42So then if three people independently tell me I should read the same book, not that I see ads, but people tell me, dude, there's something in that book that I need to read. And then every time I do it, I thank God I read it. And so that's a thing that I just picked up on. And many others, when we talk about this, like, oh yeah, that actually happens to me too. I also buy books I'm not planning to read because I know there's something in them and they sit around and then I just pick it up and I open it to a page and I read those five pages in the next day, I needed to know exactly that. Whoa. That's intuition.
11:13I'm very surprised to hear you say this. I'm being honest with you. I'm very surprised to hear this. Keep going and link into it where it comes from. Okay. We're talking about, but I'm surprised. Well, we have to talk about my trap record. I mentioned I'm the first guy that was selling anything over the internet. It's not like there was a double-blinded, placebo-controlled marketing study that said you'll make money selling over the internet. In fact, the common belief was you can't sell anything over the Internet. And I'm like, I just did. Right. And then while inventing biohacking, the first cloud computing that shipped on the planet, I beat Mark Andreessen by one day at a company called Exodus Communications.
11:49Right. And it it's not that you can think your way into these. You intuit your way into these. The idea that C8 MCT oil was better for performance. I intuited that and that made me do some more research and I wrote about it and five years later a study was published by UC San Diego that showed it's the most ketogenic of all the MCTs and heck, DNA was intuitive how we discovered it my grandfather co-invented the process for purifying plutonium that we can use in reactors and he did that in a dream this is how humans do things Steve Jobs talked about this kind of thing It's not like it's unusual.
12:32It's just that we disrespect our capabilities here. So where this comes from is part of the operating system in the body, and it's not coming from your mind. And it goes like this. There's a third of a second between when I speak or when you hear a sound or there's a light that flashes. And the body will hold on to that signal and show it to your brain a third of a second later. And during that one third of a second, it gets to decide how you're going to feel about it. So there's a censorship window. Just like on live TV, there's an eight second window in case there's a wardrobe malfunction or an F bomb so they can edit that out.
13:11You have a delay on reality. And cats are so stupidly fast because they only have a 30 millisecond delay. They're 10 times faster than us before it gets to their brain and they react. And it looks like they have superhuman. And by the way, you guys like Bruce Lee. He had a much faster response time on reality than normal people. And 19-year-olds have a quarter second, not a third of a second. They're crazy good at sports because they literally can see reality before everyone else. So now we know that there's a scientific window. It's called P300D for people into neuroscience. Well, what is happening during that window?
13:50The survival algorithm for everything living on the planet in order is to do these five things. And it does them in order every time without any thinking required because a single cell will do this. And our biology is based on single cell mitochondria. Ancient bacteria, trillions of them, they decide what to do long before you get to have any knowledge of what they did. and the first thing that your body will do without your brain being involved is fear run away from kill or hide from scary things and it does this so that if something's hot you'll pull your hand away and if it's a tiger you'll jump out of the way no one's ever going oh i think that's a tiger let me jump out of the way because if you did that you'd be food right so fear is the first step for And that's why negative marketing, negative news gets, I used to say 10 times, maybe the data is really nine times more attention than positive information because your body processes that first and it might be scary.
14:54So that's fear. Next one is food. Eat everything, right? Because there might be a famine. And then the third thing is also an F word that life does to be around forever. You read the book. It's what we'll say fertility and polite company. Every cell in your body before you can think is, is it scary? Can I eat it? And should I hump it? Ed, what have you ever done that you're ashamed of that wasn't one of those three things? That's a great point. That's a great point. Literally, your mitochondria are the cause of your shame. It's not you. It's a distributed consciousness processing reality before you acting like an animal because that's what it is.
15:38And there's nothing wrong with that, but it's trainable like any other animal. So fear food, fertility. And then the next thing is friend. Support your own species and life around you. We do this without having to think. This is why deer will eat at certain grass and they'll poop somewhere that fertilizes the soil and they'll get eaten by tigers and all that kind of stuff. We fulfill our role without having to use our brains. And the final F word that's the real target of heavily meditated why I wrote this book, it's the one that creates the most freedom, and it's called forgiveness. And most life after it's served its purpose, if it can, it'll evolve.
16:23And for humans, the way we evolve is by going back and practicing forgiveness, which lets us stop putting energy into fear so it can flow into food. We learn how to eat so the energy flows into having a powerful, sacred love life that actually becomes a source of nourishment for adults, not a source of emptiness. And then what's left, I have to serve my community because my bones tell me to. It's in my body. and intuition is because just like your body knows when a tiger is going to jump out i've just apparently have a fetish for tigers today but something scary is going to jump out right your body just knows and it just does it and why would the same thing not work for that f-word around friend around serving your community about just knowing what to do that is how it works and if you study ancient buddhism you study shamanic practice you study gnostic 14th century whatever all of the lineages, you look at all of the Hindu things, you look at the bone religion, all these things, it's always there because it's part of being human.
17:25And I've interviewed Montauk Chia, who's into Taoism, and I've interviewed heads of multiple different lineages like this. And I've trained with some of the top gurus in the world. And this is a common human thing. And if we would just honor our intuition, it'd be great. And one of the things in heavily meditated is I'm going to teach you how to get the emotional response that suppresses intuition, how to edit that out. But there's one other thing I think we should talk about, Ed. Do you believe in female intuition? Yeah, it's real. You want to know why? This is my favorite thing. So let's just assume that I'm right, that mitochondria are the first line receivers for reality, right?
18:12And that they're behind a lot of this stuff. Well, our brain has 15 ,000 mitochondria per cell in our hearts, and the rest of us have less than that, the rest of the cells in our body. Except in women. Ovarian tissue has 100 ,000 mitochondria per cell. So they have denser antenna arrays in their reproductive tract than men do. And male intuition's a thing. We sense different things, but one of the easiest things to do to become more intuitive if you're a man is ask the woman you trust the most in your life who's intuitive and she's going to see things you won't on average. You can develop men and women develop our intuition.
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21:17I've been wanting to ask you this for a while, for a few weeks, and you brought it up already. So we're talking about biology and, you know, cells for a second. So in my faith, there aren't past lives. Having said that, man, I've struggled with that topic because intuitively I have some belief that part of me, stay with me, everybody who's a believer, has been here before. I watch a war movie and it makes me incredibly emotional, yet I've never served in war before. Just certain senses and situations in my life. So I've had this conversation with a lot of my, what I'd call most smart, high IQ friends and my people of different faiths.
22:01I've talked about this with Muslim friends of mine. I've talked about this with Hindus, Christian friends. And one of the things that keeps coming up is that perhaps we have cellular memory of some type. Meaning that it might not have been our past lives, but that through cellular transition, these abilities that tap into intuition or memories have been passed to us from a cellular level. I just did a podcast on these alligators that for somehow they live in South Florida. They've never been in the cold before. They know how when it froze recently to stick their snouts out of the water and basically meditate and breathe out of the water.
22:38Yet they've never seen it. They've never modeled it. They've never been taught it before. yet somehow on a cellular level, this was given to them. I just want to know your thoughts about that topic. It's not in the book, but it's kind of correlated. There's evidence for DNA-based memory and generational trauma that's passed down through DNA. And people will argue, well, you know, what are the specific SNPs? There's a lot we don't understand about DNA and it's probably not just passed down through society. It could be an information field or some kind of weird quantum effect that no one understands yet.
23:12but I think DNA is the most likely thing. Now, I've had a thousands plus entrepreneurs come through my five-day neuroscience program centered around forgiveness. People from all faiths are very high-performing people. And during that time, they're running the reset process from heavily meditated. I'm giving away my most precious process for making people free of triggers in the book. But what that's done is that's let me talk to them. That's let me look at their brainwaves as they're doing this advanced meditation practice. And what will happen is people will clear out all the triggers from what happened as an adult.
23:47And then they realize, oh, my gosh, I didn't realize I was an entrepreneur because I was bullied in fifth grade. And I'm just showing that I'm good enough. And let me get rid of that so I can be an entrepreneur for a greater good. And it's just easier to be pulled than it is to push. Right. Stuff like that. And after people are done with cleaning out all the triggers and all the things that just get under your skin, there's three paths depending on the person where they'll go next. and this is based on intuition, but I've seen this enough time in a thousand plus people and it's not like I'm the first person to see this.
24:19You could interview Stan Groff, who's 100 years old, who will tell you the same thing. He's a psychiatrist who gave LSD to 3 ,000 people in the 1950s when it was legal and is behind the creation of holotropic breathwork. That's in the book, and I've actually done a breathwork conference that I co-hosted with him. And so I'm not the only one saying this, But here's the three things that people go to after they've gotten rid of their stuff that they that they're commonly aware of. Number one is they'll go into the way they were born and what happened when they were in the womb. And my belief was you can't remember that, except you can.
24:53And there's plenty of evidence for it. And people, they run a forgiveness process or they reset that or they do a trauma thing. And all of a sudden, especially people like me, were born with a cord wrapped around their neck or put in an incubator or something. It creates profound peace for them. Okay, I don't have to know why. It sounds like, okay, well, let's talk about how angry your mom was when she got pregnant with you and how uncomfortable she was and that did something to you. It's not that strong of a reach. And if that's not it, then sometimes, well, let's talk about what's been happening in your family for generations.
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25:25and I was talking with a woman who's just stuck on something, something relationally, and she mentioned that she did a lot of energy work and healing and all that, and she's a powerful executive too, and I said, well, okay, you're from a culture where women don't get divorced, and you've been divorced. Your mom was divorced. Your grandmother was divorced in a culture where divorce is something that no one would ever do, so you become a pariah that way. like have you ever thought about healing your grandmother even though she's passed and the second i said that she started crying and that's a lineage problem it's been stuck i don't know if it's dna but probably and the third thing is i've had people say i cannot tell you why i don't believe in past lives but now that i'm sitting down and i'm in these altered states from the practices here with no drugs or anything like that i'm just feeling like i gotta let go of something that's maybe not mine, that's maybe from some other life.
26:21I don't judge any of that. And frankly, if I believe that my past life was as a potato and I'm going to go mash myself as a healing, I don't care. As long as I am no longer triggered by something, I'll do anything on earth, but I've never had a past life as a potato and neither is anyone I know. And Ed, I have had direct interactions with God, with a capital G, and it's an incredibly powerful experience that's hard to talk about. So in my universe, people can experience all of those things. And at the end of the day, it's I am that I am. And depending on which specific form of Christian religion we're talking about, you know, I'm one with Jesus who is the son of God.
27:05So, okay, does that mean you are one with God? Well, I think that's what they're all saying, even though there's been wars over interpretation of the words there. So I don't want to start a war. I'm just going to say that if you're one with all this, there's no reason that it couldn't include memories of past lives, whether or not they were real. And for people who are maybe not committed to a certain faith, the only logical belief that you can take, and I'm a computer science guy who used to be an atheist, is believe in past lives. The reason for it is it'll make you less fearful in this life.
27:41If you're wrong, you'll be dead and you won't know, or you'll go to heaven or hell or whatever, right no but if if you're right it's a reset button and you get to play the game again so if you're playing pac-man and you know at the end of pac-man you're dead it's going to be a really stressful game and if you know you can put another quarter in and play it again it's going to be fun so i'm going to pretend like i know that there's a past life just sort of the worry the way that i kind of view the book is that there's you're able to connect with god your ability to connect with your intuition, but there's these blocks.
28:13There could be your triggers. There could be past trauma. There could be your day-to-day pattern, the patterns that you're running. And a lot of my work has to do with triggers as well. And one of them, one of the frustrations I've had is, well, what if some of these triggers you're not even ever going to be aware of because they happened to your great grandfather, for example, right? Like you're unpacking the triggers that you could be unpacking triggers all your life. So I want to ask you about that, but also the forgiveness question. I got to tell you, as I travel more and more people know about the story that my dad was an alcoholic when I was growing up, so many people ask me, well, you were really fortunate.
28:49Your dad got sober so you could forgive him. And I want to be able to forgive my dad or my mom. Like it's, they're a grown adult and the anchor on their life is the lack of forgiveness of another human, whether it be their mom or their dad, their ex-wife, their ex-husband, whoever it might be. And their block, their trigger is this lack of forgiveness for somebody. I'd say it's the number one thing that comes at me in my work when I travel. What would you say is the role of forgiveness or compassion in this notion plugging in? Forgiveness is a performance enhancing drug, if you do it right. It sounds straightforward.
29:28Okay. And here's why. I mentioned those F words. Your body will process fear and then hunger and then desire and then community. It does this in order every single time. Well, since fear takes up the most energy and it comes first, forgiveness means that there's a part of you that's still afraid and it sucks energy from you all of the time, 24 hours a day. Every little thing in your life that you hold a grudge towards is a huge anchor you're dragging behind you. And it looks like it's just part of reality. Reality is supposed to be hard because I'm carrying this grudge, because my dad was mean to me, because I had a bad divorce, because whatever.
30:12And the reason that the executives come to 40 years of Zen and spend five days with my neuroscience team in pods with electrodes glued to their head and all this stuff is because they're going through and systematically running a forgiveness process to turn off triggers permanently. And what you and I have learned, what we've all learned, is the same thing that they'll teach you in a monastery. Well, notice the emotion flowing through you. Take a deep breath. Set the emotion aside. Decide how you're going to react. Dude, do you know how much work it is to have an angry thought about your ex-wife or somebody come through your head?
30:49Okay, I'm an adult. I can set that to the side, but it still costs me. And what I'm doing is I'm saying I'm going to turn off the alert. And if you look in your phone and, you know, imagine if you turn the alerts on for every single thing. You're trying to use your phone. It's like blah, blah, blah, all the time. So you could say, meditate on ignoring the alerts at the top of the screen and just focus on the email. You can do it. It just sucks. Well, they teach you to run life that way. I'm going to tell you, here's how to go into the system settings in your body. Here's how to turn off the alerts you don't want anymore so that you only get good data.
31:23And that good data is going to look a lot like intuition and love and forgiveness. And forgiveness is the track to do it. What we think though, is that forgiveness is looking someone in the eye and saying, I forgive you. That is not what forgiveness is. And then we think forgiveness is deciding to forgive someone. And that is not what forgiveness is. Forgiveness is a deeply embodied altered state that you go into that has very little to do with your mind. It has everything to do with attenuating your nervous system. So when I run someone through the reset process and it is written out and heavily meditated step by step, there's eight steps in it.
31:58And it's a structured meditation. I like to do it with electrodes and help people, but I want everyone to be able to do this. And what you're doing is you're activating something in your heart. And when I'm measuring your brainwaves, I can tell whether you did it right or not, because brainwaves change very predictably. And they start to look more and more like advanced Zen meditators. And what forgiveness is, is you stop holding a grudge. You see everyone as a flawed human and you wish them well, no matter what they did bad to you. You don't have to ever tell anyone you forgave them. You don't ever have to talk to them again.
32:34And you don't have to say that what they did was okay. Forgiveness is simply becoming non-reactive to something that was still causing you pain. And ultimately, if you do that, you're free. And if you don't do that, you can be programmed. That person could get under your skin. Anyone else who acts like that person will get under your skin. So if you want to show up in the world for your community, for your family, for your business, for things you care about, for your mission, any trigger in your life that exists, your job is to write down what it is or when it happens and to relentlessly track it down and turn off the alert so that you won't be triggered by that anymore.
33:17And when that happens, maybe someone files a lawsuit that's not fair against your company, which happens to every entrepreneur these days. It doesn't matter what. Right. You can lose sleep and be angry. Or you could just be like, oh, my attorney's going to handle it. This is the cost of doing business. I got to go do things. You get pulled over. You get a ticket. Oh, my God. Or, you know, it would be a lot simpler if they just raise the gas tax by 20 cents. but they didn't do that. So now they're just extracting money on a random basis for motorists. Okay, I'm paying my driving tax today. It's all good.
33:52You know, maybe I can tip the cup. It doesn't matter, right? It's just what did your nervous system do and how long did you waste energy on it? Speaking of that, let's talk about the cost of not. So let's assume I did everything I've learned from you over the years. You know, I'm getting rid of my zombie cells. I'm doing all the work that Asprey's been telling me all these years, right? But I don't do any of this internal work. So let's assume on a scale of zero to 100, if I do all the hacks, I follow your work, I've got this particular peptide, this hydration, my zombie cells are gone, I got this oral health thing together, my gut health's cleaned up, so I'm at 100.
34:33How much does not doing this knock me down? In other words, let's say you think you could live to 100, and you tell me how long you think you can live and how much if you don't do this work will it cost you. Anyone who starts biohacking, you might come in for any reason, but eventually you're going to say, I have enough energy. I want to live a lot longer. So biohacking always means longevity. And now you're saying, I have energy. I'm going to live a lot longer. Do I want to be miserable and programmed by other people or do I want to be conscious and aware and in charge of myself? So biohacking is only, at the end of the day, when you distill all the stuff out, it's just about having energy, having longevity, and having power over your state, which is consciousness.
35:20You have to study it. Otherwise, if you're going to live to 180 and you spent the entire time angry at someone who was mean to you when you were 25 years old, what kind of a life is that? Who wants to live that long? You won't even have the desire to live that long. because resentment builds up over time and forgiveness cancels out resentment. So I look at meditation or doing forgiveness work. It's not about retreating. It's not even necessarily about letting go. It's an aggressive way to take control of your state. No one else on earth is in charge of my inner state other than me. I'm not going to let anyone who wronged me be in charge.
36:06I'm not going to let anyone who's trying to get to my little emotional holes, none of them can be in charge. I'm going to be in charge. So I know I'm going to take care of my family. I'm going to take care of my community. And you can't trick me. You can't fool me. My intuition guides me. So if you're saying all the right things, but I know something's wrong, I just know it. That's the state we all want to have. And it's possible. And you do that by training yourself to have less fear. And you do that through the reset process that's in heavily meditated. Is 180 the number for you, by the way?
36:37Is that what you really believe you live to? Yeah, it's a minimum of 180. And I wrote my big longevity book New York Times bestseller called Superhuman. And I went through the science in it. And a lot of the most recent longevity books are using the same framework as that book. And it's like, look, don't die of the big four things that'll kill you. And there's seven or eight things that are systems that need maintaining. 180 is a simple number. Our current best is 120, Ed. I want to do 50 % better than our current best. And I have 100 years to do it. I have AI, big data, PubMed. We can spell DNA.
37:11I have antibiotics. And the 120-year-old didn't have any of that stuff to live to 120. like i'm pretty sure we can do it maybe a comet will hit the planet you know maybe they'll invent some new virus worse than the last one they invented i don't know but other than those kinds of things i'm pretty sure that i'm not even being aggressive on it i i don't think that immortality is a thing i don't think that never dying is a thing but i do think that living as long as you choose is within our grasp right now and that you better get on a consciousness this bandwagon because if you decide to live for centuries and you're an angry bitter person who doesn't know how to forgive there's a name for that it's called hell living for hundreds of years being angry at everyone like how many cats would you have to own you guys i think i think that right there is one of the smartest things that's ever been said on the show you know that a lot of you are doing all the work on extending your duration on the planet, but almost none of the work on your bliss and joy while you're here.
38:18And both worlds converging is really what Dave's really talking about here. And I actually kind of think I'm talking to myself too. Sometimes when I, when I'm talking with all of you guys, it makes me really, really think the reason I like Dave's stuff too, is like, there's this side of it, which is, Hey, your eight step reset process, heart coherence and your brainwave states and measuring literally your healing but then there's also like do some hard stuff every single day too so there's like both sides of this there's like high functioning high performance too tell them give them give them the hack the bicep what what bicep means this because they can remember this this is easy to remember yes all right bicep is not this and now this is very oh it's my guns with a caffeine molecule tattoo they're not like your guns you know bursting out of your shirt there ed uh but i was really assy with them so bicep is brief intentional conscious exposure to pain and if you think about this monks back in the 14th century would whip themselves every morning and i was all pissed off when i was a teenager i heard about this like they thought they were such sinners like what kind of weirdos were they?
39:30No, that's not what they were doing. And then yogis would lay on a bed of nails. And oh, that's to show they have superpowers. Oh, that's why they're doing it. And then you look at some of the traditional indigenous things where there's the sun dancers, where they're piercing themselves and doing this. What? And then you look at more modern things like show me someone who's been an addict who doesn't have tattoos. It's so true. It's because tattoos hurt and intentionally exposing yourself to pain, not harming yourself, just pain, it re-regulates your nervous system so that it takes less dopamine to motivate you.
40:08So what do biohackers do? Well, we get in a cold plunge. And the title of the chapter in Heavily Meditated is called Go Spank Yourself. There's a reason some people need a good spanking, and it regulates their nervous system. I interview a somatic therapist who figured this out a long time ago for the book. Bottom line is, something that doesn't harm you, that gets your nervous system's attention. It's called pain. And just sitting with it, I used to make these spiky mats and made you go to sleep via this without knowing how it worked. You can buy a yoga spiky mat and stand on that. It just has to hurt a little bit.
40:42Eat a really hot pepper. And humans are drawn to these things, not because we're masochists, not because we hate ourselves, because when your brain shows the body, you can tolerate this and you're still safe. the body's like oh now you can be motivated to pray you can be motivated to meditate you can be motivated to eat the right foods motivated to go to work with less energy that's why brief intentional conscious exposure to pain is a really important biohack because if you want to be motivated to meditate then in the morning turn the shower on cold do that brief uncomfortable thing it doesn't have to be an hour-long miserable grind workout that's not what i'm talking about But do you think you have to switch it up?
41:25Here's what I found. I think that you adapt. And so that really difficult thing, like a cold plunge, for example, for me, six months later, and there's even studies that show this, my body began to adapt. It just really wasn't as difficult for me anymore. So do you mix, do you recommend switching the stimulus once it's not so difficult for you anymore? There's no studies that I found about this in particular. There's lots of studies showing about the dopamine effect here. I think the dopamine effect still happens when you get in and if you want to get this effect a 37 degree cold plunge that is a dopamine cold plunge and a 43 degree is a metabolic cold plunge it's still uncomfortable you still get some of the bicep but we can make it really suck and if it's still a problem for you suck on a habanero and get in there you'll be fine you guys may think this is one of these clips that I know someone will take and give Dave a little bit of crap for And I'm going to tell you something.
42:20He's actually right. I'm going to tell you right now. He's right. Doing a difficult thing every single day, it resets me. Next up is a little song from CarMax about selling a car your way. You want to sell those wheels. You want to get a CarMax instant offer. So fast. Want to take a sec to think about it. Or like a month. Want to keep tabs on that instant offer. With OfferWatch.
42:54So, want to drive? CarMax. Pickup not available everywhere. Restrictions and fee may apply. Your teen. Adjective. Used to describe an individual whose spirit is unyielding, unconstrained. One who navigates life on their own terms, effortlessly. They do not always show up on time, but when they arrive, you notice. an individual confident in their contradictions. They know the rules but behave as if they do not exist. Muteen, the new fragrance by Miu Miu, defined by you. Started on my journey of trying to empty my mind in different practices maybe five years ago. Very difficult for someone like me, some of you listening to this.
43:41I'm just a high-strung, mind-wound-up, pattern thinker, thought stacker. I can thought stack with the best of them. Let me tell you what's happened for me, and then I want you to speak to it. Over time, I found, this is a strange term to use, but I was going to be candid with y 'all. I got higher than I used to get on life, meaning physical intimacy started to feel like it felt when I was 25, not 45, my laughter, like how hard I laughed when something was funny, was greater and bigger. I noticed little anecdotal things that over time I'm like, I think I'm getting way more dopamine now, or I'm feeling more of it anyway.
44:26Is that accurate at what I'm suggesting here? If you become somebody who meditates on a regular basis and does this clearing. Do you agree with that? You'll feel more dopamine and the power of your brain waves increases when you meditate or when you do the neurofeedback stuff that I walk people through. When I say power, your mind is making waves. They're electricity waves. And we can measure, well, how frequent are the waves rolling in? And that's a frequency. People have heard of alpha or delta or something like that, theta states. So this is how often are the waves. But what if you had a hundred foot tall wave rolling in every 10 seconds instead of a one foot wave rolling in every 10 seconds.
45:09So you've increased the power. And when you meditate or you do the reset process, you're increasing the orderliness of it. And it kind of, it kind of bums me out because people are saying, Oh, I got into an alpha state. Look at me. And alpha is a well-known brain state. Well, if you want to get an alpha state, you want to triple your alpha, close your eyes and look towards the middle of your forehead and most people will triple their alpha. It doesn't mean anything. It's like saying, look, I made a sound using the C note. Well, was it a beautiful sound? Did you sing a song? Was it great? So your mind is becoming more beautiful mathematically when you learn how to meditate.
45:53And what it feels like to you is it feels like joy. It feels like presence. It feels like consciousness. And then every time an old trigger comes in, a grudge pops up. It takes you out of that. It breaks the music. It reduces the height of the waves and it gets you stuck in. And since you're doing practices that make your dopamine, your receptors more sensitive to the dopamine your body makes. Now you've got more motivation. You've got more vibe and your mind knows to take that and turn it into something that's worth listening to. And this is why a longevity practice without a consciousness practice is almost a painful thing.
46:34And it's why if people come to the biohacking conference in Austin, May 28th, this will be our 13th year, Joe Dispenza is on stage. One of my shamanic teachers is on stage. Ryan Holiday is on stage and leaders in longevity because you can't do longevity. It's an eclectic group right there. They're all good friends, too. That's awesome, including you. That's awesome. I need to get to that. I want to talk about parasympathetic sympathetic states, not in any of my notes. Just wanted to come up with it. I want you to talk about that a little bit, your feelings about it. And do you do anything other than meditation to stimulate a parasympathetic state?
47:08Like, do you use any of these devices? I'm thinking of the thing you put, you know what I'm talking about, the thing you put on your vagal. Yeah. Do you do any of that? Do you believe in any of that? I absolutely do. In fact, Heavily Meditated is a book about here's all the things that either replace meditation or make meditation work better faster. Because what we used to do is just sit in a monastery or a cave for 20 or so years and you'll get it. But then you kind of had stuff to do. And we're all too busy for that. We have families and careers and reasons for being. so there's actually a chapter where i talk about vagal stimulation in the book there's parts where i talk about training the spacing of your heartbeat a lot of listeners see their morning readiness score on whatever sleep tracker you have that's based on the spacing of your heartbeats you can train that consciously and i actually became an advisor to the first company to make a device to do that in 2008 so before i go on stage before i go on a podcast i modulate the field around my heart.
48:11Now you can say, Dave, that's a bunch of BS. Guys, it's a magnetic field. You can pick it up with physics instruments. It's shaped like a torus. It's tilted eight degrees to the left and all humans make it. Some of us have a bigger one than others. So I structure mine so it's the way it should be, so that I am the way I should be. And this is all within our conscious abilities. And it just so happens to do that, you have to drop out of sympathetic. so one of the easiest ways to drop out of the fight or flight or fawn or freeze response is just breathing and i go through about eight different styles of breath work in the book some of which are for doing that and others aren't so meditation itself even there are many altered states we might want to go into and some of them are for the reset process for deep healing.
49:01Some of them are for journeying and intuiting and dreaming. Some of them are to calm the nervous system. And the most famous one to drop you into a parasympathetic state, if you're feeling anxious or wound up, is a box breath. And the military figured this out. Breathe in for four seconds, hold for four seconds, breathe out for four seconds, hold empty for four seconds, do it five or ten times. It turns out, that's great, you can step it up one if your out breath is twice as long as your in breath. So breathe in for four, breathe out for eight. That'll drop you in more quickly than a box breath.
49:37Try that before bed. There's another breath called an ujjayi breath that comes from yoga. And if you breathe in through your nose, almost like you're going to snore, you should run on the edge of a snore, and it should sound like a seashell in your ears. It's like,
49:56you're right on the edge when you're pulling up the back of your palate right on the edges feeling like you're going to go like you're snoring so when you do that man that will drop you and even faster so why would you meditate without knowing the type of breath that matches the meditation you're doing it means you're wasting time and there's one other thing ed that I think is really important to note. A lot of people, especially entrepreneurs, high-performance people like you and me, there's some shame around meditation. Number one, I should want to meditate and I don't want to meditate. Something must be wrong with me.
50:31Nothing's wrong with you. Your mind is designed to not waste energy and your mind thinks that meditation is a waste of energy. It's gonna make meditation look unattractive, just like going to the gym is unattractive. So don't worry about whether you feel motivated to meditate. The other thing is, until about 75, 80 years ago, 98 % of the population was involved in agriculture. And it's been that way for thousands of years. Well, the other 2 % of people, they're not farmers. They're warriors. And if there's a fire or an explosion, they run towards it and the farmers run away from it. Right? Which one of those are you?
51:12i'm the kind of guy's like well people probably need people probably need help i'm just gonna go there right and that means that if i try to do a meditation that's designed for farmers it's just going to be like valium it's not going to be pleasant it's not going to be a high performance state and i've had this some of the devices out there i have friends who love them like i can't do that it ruins my day right so i write about and heavily meditated i write about Zazen, which is a type of Japanese samurai meditation. It takes two to five minutes and you sit in a very specific pose and your eyes are open and you're focusing on like a coin or a speck on the carpet in front of you for two minutes with all of your attention.
51:57Okay. That's a warrior meditation. So if a meditation doesn't work for you, maybe it's because you suck at meditating and you need a teacher or you need neurofeedback. But once you get the state and And you're like, this state sucks. There's a possibility it's just the wrong state for your mind. And that's why looking at a thousand people's brainwaves, these high-performance people, they don't all have the same brains, not at all. So it's okay if it doesn't feel right for you after you've learned it, switch it up. And always use an accelerator. So in the book, I'm like, well, do the bicep thing.
52:34There's a chapter on psychedelics. and it says straight up the altered states of high performance and all high performance is an altered state all healing is an altered state all flow states all stuff you're doing in the bedroom it's all altered states for different outcomes um you don't need psychedelics to do it and some people are attracted to them so in the chapter like here's what they're doing to your brain here's the safest ones and here's the ones that have a higher risk and if you want to go down that path, please don't be the kind of influencer who says, I've done ayahuasca 87 times and, you know, maybe it'll work on the 88th time.
53:10And I've seen it wreck people. So I think ayahuasca is actually a dangerous substance without proper shamanic intervention. So that's very low on the list of things to do. We're like, if you're going to do it, find the right shaman. It's not the same as doing MDMA with a therapist, which is relatively safe. And I'm not recommending anyone do those things. I'm saying those are a path. The other state that no one talks about, 20 % of people report meeting God during sex, at least once in their life. Full-on transcendent experience. But their partner, unless you have an open communication, they're just laying there twitching.
53:49You can't tell. But they're having profound experiences. So why isn't intimacy in a way that's not about just getting some or porn or lust or any of that, that is an altered state. The tantric practices, even some ago conscious kink, the Taoist practices, these are equally worthy ways to enter states of healing or flow states or transcendence as psychedelics or rapid breath work or fasting in a cave. I don't care how you get there. I care that you do something that works for you, that's safe, that gets you to a state where you are more conscious, not just then, but permanently afterwards, like transformative experiences.
54:31The world needs these to just let go of the garbage we pick up from being human. You had two things I wanted to ask you about, but you hit them. So I'll finish with another question. The two things I was going to ask Dave about that isn't talked enough about in these altered states, one is sex and deep intimacy with another person or yourself during that process. And it is one of these states It's that it's the most under-discussed part of sex that should be something that is more mainstream in talking about getting into these altered states. And I'm glad that Wheatley's touched on it. And the other one was psychedelics.
55:05And just so that you all know, I'm an investor in a couple of different companies that promote psychedelics. But at the same time, I've had friends that have had PTSD, particularly some of my military buddies, transformative experiences. I've also had people have really bad trips and really bad experiences. And so I would just second what Dave said. Anything you're going to do like that, it needs to be with somebody that's very experienced if you're going to go up to that level. And by the way, more people have had experiences with some of these substances than you might think that have been on my show.
55:38What I want to ask you last about, by the way, it's another great conversation. I mean, every time you're on, I just enjoy it. It flies by. We're already over what I told you we were going to do. I've done a lot of work on this stuff, as you know. We've even been in the same place working on this together at one time.
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56:35But also HRV to you is that, I think you're going to tell me that's a really important thing to measure. And when I say low, bro, I mean like really bad. So I've been able to reduce my heart rate through meditation and get it to a much healthier place. But my HRV has not moved at all. Is there any, do you believe that's an important metric, number one? And if you do, anything you would share with me or the audience that you think can help raise it or improve it? heart rate variability measures how different is the spacing between each heartbeat and it's much more important than your heart rate so you can have 60 beats per minute and if they're all in the first 30 seconds and no heartbeats in the second 30 seconds it's still 60 beats a minute but you'd probably be dead or dying so it turns out how they're spaced out determines a huge amount about the state of your nervous system if your heart rate variability is low it means your heartbeat is very, very even, which is a sign of a stressed animal.
57:37And the number one way to increase heart rate variability is have dinner earlier, make sure that it is dark in the evening for sometimes an hour or two before bed. I raised mine very meaningfully with the TrueDark glasses. This is one of my companies. I look like Cyclops right now. I wear these glasses, my heart rate variability goes up sometimes 10, 20 points if I wear these for an hour before bed. It's called TrueDark. It's TrueDark.com. And these are glasses I designed, even filed patents on them about 10 years ago. When you see people wearing red glasses, they're copying these, but these are layered filters.
58:12And we're the only company ever to publish in a medical journal the effects on brainwaves of the TrueDark glasses, and they actually work. So I would look at doing that, look at lowering the temperature of your room, and earlier bedtime, earlier dinner can have profound effects and darkness will do it. And then if it's still happening and just nothing will shift it and you've done your nutrient testing and all, then you look for what's going on under any fillings or root canals. So chronic infections are a major cause when it won't go up. And I don't think you have breast implants. That's another cause sometimes.
58:54I had something I wanted to say about that really, but I won't because just someone close to me would not like it. Anyway, I'm going to work on that. And everybody, you ought to get your HRV measured. It'll tell you an awful lot about what state you're in. It'll tell you an awful lot about how long you're going to be here if you don't get it improved. You also, this is going to sound really annoying for you probably ed um one of my companies upgrade labs it's a franchise that does ai longevity biohacking stuff we've got 30 locations opening president of the company is the former coo of orange theory and equinox triathlete and i challenged him to do 30 days of measuring his morning heart rate variability instead of his time on training a mile which is really hard for him he's been just training his ass off all this time complete life transforming thing because he realized over training was keeping his heart rate variability low yeah that could be a deal for me yeah that could be a deal for me like 35 years worth of over training dude every time dave's on the time flies and he's so entertaining and this book is interesting to me because it's the other side of living a long time is living well, living in bliss, living in peace.
1:00:12And by the way, getting into these states will help you become 10 times more productive or at least nine times more productive than you currently are. So if you think going this direction is somehow going to slow down your productivity, it'll do the complete opposite and you'll have more energy and more bliss and more staying power for a longer duration if you do this internal work as well. So the book is heavily meditated. The author is Dave Asprey and you ought to get your hands on it. And this was a great conversation today, brother. Thank you. Ed, so much fun. Thanks for having me on. And guys, heavily meditated will pay for itself 10 ,000 times over if you do two things in there because of the amount of free energy it gives you every day.
1:00:54This is my most important book. I just couldn't have written it first because no one would have believed it. Well, hopefully they believe it now. And after this hour, they got a desire to go get it. Most of them probably grabbed it when we were halfway through thanks dave again it's great to be with you brother thanks ed god bless you everyone this is the ed mylin show
From the publisher
What if living to 180 isn't about Hacks, but about Healing?
In this conversation, I sit down with my friend Dave Asprey, the godfather of biohacking, to uncover what might be the most important conversation we've ever had on this show. And I don’t say that lightly. You know Dave for pushing the envelope on longevity, nutrition, and performance—but what we got into here, this is the stuff that actually sets you free.
We talk about how every single one of us is born with the capacity for intuition—a gut knowing that transcends logic—and how most of us have let our ego, emotional baggage, and mental chatter completely drown it out. Dave breaks down the five F’s that drive human behavior: Fear, Food, Fertility, Friendship, and Forgiveness—and how forgiveness, more than anything else, gives you energy, peace, and power. “Forgiveness is simply becoming non-reactive to something that was still causing you pain,” Dave says. That line hit me hard.
We also dig into the practical side—because if there’s no strategy, I’m not interested. Dave shares how to train your intuition like a muscle, what happens to your body when you forgive, and why practices like meditation, breathwork, and even brief, intentional exposure to pain (what he calls BICEP) can radically change how you show up in your life. This isn't woo-woo stuff—it’s actionable and measurable, and he’s got the brainwave data to back it up.
Dave’s new book, Heavily Meditated, might be his most important one yet. Not because it’s flashy, but because it gives you the tools to clear the blocks—emotional, mental, even generational—that are stealing your energy and keeping you from your purpose. If you’re biohacking your body but ignoring your spirit, you’re leaving the most important gains on the table.
Key Takeaways:
Why forgiveness isn't a feeling—it's a performance enhancer
How to recognize and build your intuitive muscle
The biology behind “female intuition” (you’ll want to hear this)
How meditation actually rewires your nervous system
Why exposing yourself to pain builds motivation and emotional resilience
What to do when your heart rate variability just won’t budge
A surprising connection between altered states and intimacy
Let me tell you something: it's not just about living longer—it's about living better. With more joy, more clarity, and more freedom. That’s what we’re after.
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