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27:46Renting is a fabulous option that prepares you for being able to buy. It's a preparation deal. It's not down the tubes because the truth is the opposite is, oh, I'll just buy a house and I won't have enough money for repairs and I won't have enough money if property taxes go up next year and I'll be house poor. And most of my payments goes to interest. Yeah. So trust me. And this is coming from Caleb. My husband and I rented for 10 years while we saved up and paid off debt and saved up a down payment. And I don't regret it one bit. I'm 42 years old now. I don't look back and go, oh my gosh, I can't believe I rented for 10 years.

28:21I go, thank God I rented for 10 years. So I just want to let that kind of put that in your back pocket and think about that later. But the$800 a month, I think that's a fantastic price, number one. And if that's the only option, I don't think it's a bad thing. And it's not forever. This might be for six months, 12 months while we get some financial footing, get the emergency fund, you know start saving up for a down payment because i imagine if it's a small town housing isn't super expensive if you were to buy your own place uh it just depends the big the big problem is it's a farming community and so a lot of migrant workers come in in the summer which means that anything that's cheap and easy to put people in gets bought up by fairly large farmers and then anything that's entry-level home winds up being a hundred thousand dollars you know okay on a 42 000 a year income that's that's kind of tough so what you're talking about now is just um it's almost the logistics that anybody has to decide about in life right so the career that you've chosen has put you in this location the question i'd say to you is okay you're doing this in little rock arkansas what does it look like for you to go to another place where there's national parks and do the same job there.

29:42And you get a promotion and be able to afford your life. Right. Because right now you're sort of stuck on your own volition going, well, this is the only job I can find. It's the only place I can live. And that's not true. Yeah. Well, you see, and that's the reason that I did apply for all those promotions because every single one of those would have had me traveling the entire state for about, you know, two years. Right. But we're saying, Caleb, once I finished it, they would move me to another place of likely better opportunity. We're saying, is there a way Is it just one tube of opportunity or is there a way that you're like, you know what, forget the state of Arkansas.

30:17I'm going to go to the state of Montana or I'm going to go to Utah or I'm going to go to Wyoming and see what it's like out there. I don't know your career field, but I'm just wondering with your degree and with your expertise, it seems like you could go to another state. Maybe there's some training involved. Maybe there's, you know, some things, what have you. but I don't want you to think that you're up against and backed into a corner because George and I see options. Yeah. And I would definitely, if you want to save up to cover the repair, get some actual facts on what this repair is going to cost.

30:46Let's pause baby step two and save up for that, but let's not just save indefinitely three months of expenses just in case. Let's get some facts and figures first.

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32:42all right we've got bill who's on the line in chicago illinois hi bill how can george and i help today good afternoon thanks for taking my call yeah you bet so i'm looking for your thoughts on the following situation. My wife and I are retired in our mid-70s, do well financially. We have two children who are married, each have two grandchildren, and we're wondering about, should we start giving them money now when the grandkids are small rather than waiting for inheritance someday? I love this idea, Bill. And I'm going to speak on behalf of your kids and say they would love it too. Now, are they doing well financially on their own?

33:29Yeah, they're all doing pretty well. Nice. What's your net worth? About$5 million. Fantastic. You guys have done an awesome job. Way to go, Bill. And what is this, like, break that down for us. How much of this is your primary residence? Do you have properties? Is it all retirement accounts? It's basically all retirement accounts. Fantastic. How much do you want to give, and do you want to give to something specific, like buy them a thing, or is it just here's money, do what you want with it? You know, the last few years we've been giving them$10 ,000,$15 ,000 at Christmas, something extra, and we're probably going to kick that up a little bit more, maybe$20 ,000,$30 ,000 a year.

34:10Awesome. Well, you can give, I mean, without even having to file a form with the IRS for gift tax, you can give each kid$38 ,000 between you and your wife. Yes. So you can at least give up to that amount if you want to do a straight cash gift. But I would, you know, talk to them about it and see, hey, what are the current needs? What could really help you guys out? Is it an experience? Do we just take them on a great cruise once a year internationally with the grandkids? Or do you want to just give them cash to help bolster savings or car replacement funds? Okay, great. Yeah, we've been kind of talking about this.

34:45And, you know, we've been fortunate in our lives. And we just don't want to wait till we die to have them both get a big pile of cash. Yeah. I love that. Well, there's an old saying, you know, better to give with a warm hand than a cold one. And it's a dark, it's a dark, very dark. It's dark. But I like the idea. You know, you want to see your kids thrive and enjoy this money while you're alive versus, well, once they're in their 60s and I'm 95. Yeah, sure. They'll they'll get some inheritance to do what they want with. The best time is when your kids could use a leg up when they're raising young kids.

35:16Things are expensive. Daycares, everything's expensive, especially for those in their 30s and 40s. So I love this idea of giving while you're alive. There's a great book too, Bill, that will go into this. It's not a Ramsey book, but it'll help you think about this in a different way. It's called Die With Zero. Again, sounds very dramatic. But the idea is you don't need to go into the afterlife with$28 million if you don't want to. Yeah. You can spend it while you're alive. I love that idea. A little bit of both is great. You know, there's an inheritance there when you pass away. But if you're able to give while everybody's alive and kicking and can enjoy it in their youth, why not?

35:50I mean, that's my plan at least. Yeah. And if they're responsible kids. My goal is set them up so well to where they don't even want the inheritance. Like, we're good, man. Yeah. Yeah. I think the line is you want them to still be productive human beings and feel like I'm not relying on this money to take the place of my own productivity. If you give it to someone who is not managing money well, they're just going to manage more money terribly. Yeah. So you want to make sure. That's why I always ask. Are they doing well? Are they, you know, they're not in crippling debt and going further into it?

36:20Are they working full time? So there's some good pieces there to say what's the work ethic like, what's the current family dynamic like, before you just go hand a pile of money over. I agree with that. Great question. Thank you so much, Bill, and well done. Next we've got Marsha, who's in Tallahassee, Florida. Hey, Marsha, you're on the line. Hi. Thanks for taking my call. Yes, ma 'am. How can we help? Well, I have a couple questions. I'm retired. I've been through some situations, so now I'm disabled, basically. and I'm dealing with a fixed income. But I do have some debt, and I'm trying to figure out how to get out of it.

36:56I'm following the plans that you guys set up, and I've been trying to put money away and paying off the credit cards that I have. But I still have, like, a personal loan, and I have some money saved, and I'm wondering if I should use that money to pay off some of these things and then just maybe start from scratch, even though my income is not going to change. What is your income, your fixed income? About$74 ,000,$75 ,000 a year. Okay. What's that breakdown every month? I have a mortgage. So take home spending about$6 ,000 or something. About$6 ,000. Okay. And you mentioned some credit card debt.

37:44How much is credit card debt and how much is personal loan debt? I have a$30 ,000 personal loan debt. I've paid it down to that. Then I have about$8 ,000 plus credit cards or cards that I'm trying to pay up. And there's no more debt? That's the only two categories? Those are the only two, yeah. Okay. What's left on the mortgage? I have$255 left on the mortgage. $255? Yeah, I have some equity in there. Are you living alone? Are you a family? I'm living alone. Okay. And how old are you? I don't know if I missed that. I know you said you're retired. Oh, I'm 63. 63. Okay. What's the nature of the disability?

38:29Military. Okay. Because I'm wondering, you know, do you have a skill set and experience where you could actually go make more than the disabilities offering you if you wanted to get out of this thing faster? I can't, no. So mobility-wise, I'm handicapped that way. Okay. Understood. Now, you did mention you had some money saved. How much non-retirement money do you have saved?

38:57Well, I have$20 ,000 in a mutual fund plus an IRA. And I have, I'd say, about$1 ,800 just like in regular savings. Okay, so$1 ,800 in savings. Did you say the$20 ,000 was in the IRA? It's in a mutual fund and IRA. I have about$5 ,000 in IRA. Okay. Okay. And the other's just in a mutual fund, a brokerage account? Yes. About$15 ,000? Yes. Okay. Okay, so you're right. There is some money at your disposal to kind of start cleaning some of this up. I would keep the$1 ,800 in savings. I'd probably drop it down to$1 ,000 and just keep that as a starter emergency fund. It's just there in case something pops up that is unexpected and you need a little buffer there.

39:55That'll keep you from running to a credit card, right? But then that leaves you$15 ,000, almost$16 ,000 that we can start. We can fully knock out the credit cards, right? We can knock out all$8 ,000 of those. And now you've got another$8 ,000 that you can throw towards these personal loans. And so you could begin to clear that out. Do you know off the top of your head what you were paying each month onto those credit cards to pay the minimums? To pay the minimum? Probably about$1 ,000 something. Yeah. Yeah. So if we reach over and pay off those credit cards today, essentially, now you've got$1 ,000 back in your month-to-month budget that you can put towards paying off the remainder of the private loans or personal loans.

40:46Okay. Now, let's get back to what George was saying, because I do wonder, you did mention that your mobility was down, but everything else seems to be intact. I would be curious, and it might just be something that fills up your personal time too, just to see what other skills, what other things that might interest you that you can do with your time. Because it is important for all of us to do some sort of work that matters and have that sense of purpose every single morning. And obviously the benefit to that is we can make some money in the process. us. And in your case, it would really, really help because I'll tell you what I envisioned for you, Marissa, is to look up and have this mortgage paid off one day when you're ready to fully retire.

41:28And when you've said, you know what, I'm just not working anymore. I'm hitting that age. I would love for that mortgage to be off of your plate. Have you thought about that? Yes, I do. I do think about that. I like this plan. Do you have, is this VA disability? What kind is it? Yeah. Okay. Okay, because you should be able to work part-time with no earnings limit if you can do something that's not physical. And that could help speed this up if you're looking for ways. Otherwise, you're going to go at the current pace you are, try to bring your expenses as low as you can, but we can't pull the other lever, which is income.

42:03Yeah, that's right. So this is just going to take a while if we don't pull one of these other levers on the expense or income side. You just got to make the budget and go, all right, it's going to take a couple of years to get out of this thing. The good news is you have that disability locked in.

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43:49Well, welcome back to the Ramsey Show here in the Fairwinds Credit Union studio, continuing to take calls about your life and your money, where we have Miles, who's in Bismarck, North Dakota, on the line. Hey, Miles, how can George and I help out? Hey, guys, how are you doing? I got a question about my mortgage. First off, Let me say I have five kids, married, got a single income. Wondering if I should refinance my house. I have about$100 ,000 left on it in order just to have some more cash flow during the month. All my kids are still young. My oldest is 16. So I just want to enjoy time with them as much as I can.

44:28When you say refi, are you trying to get a lower interest rate or are you thinking about like recasting it so that you can get a lower payment on the same terms? I would refinance to a 30-year. I'm on a 15-year right now. And then the interest rate would be a little higher, but my monthly payment would be cut at least in half. I don't love that idea. Are we thinking about cutting the payment in half because it's too much of your take-home pay? We have some money left over at the end of the month, probably saving maybe$1 ,000 a month. My thoughts are my kids are getting older. just to have more wiggle room at the end of the month is basically my thought on it.

45:12Tell us what you're bringing home every month and then tell us how much the mortgage is. I bring it home between about$6 ,000 a month after taxes and everything's taken out. Mortgages with taxes and all that and insurance is about$1 ,400 a month. Okay. That's very reasonable. Uh-huh. What else is going on? Your wife's at home, so I'm thinking there's no daycare costs, or are there? No. Wife's at home. She homeschools our five children. Just maybe, I don't know, have a little money anxiety. We both do the finances together, but I would say I'm the main one that looks over the numbers on a regular basis and maybe too much.

45:58Are you investing right now? Do you guys have other debt? And we don't have any debt other than our mortgage. Great. I am investing. I have some money in a money market account and then money in an index fund and then my 401k. How much are you investing as a percentage of your total income right now? I do 4 % in my 401k. I work for a major railway, so they don't take out Social Security. They take out two different tiers of retirement, and that second tier is about an extra 5 % compared to normal American. Okay. So you're only investing 4 % of your household income right now? Yeah, outside of that extra tier 2 that the railroad takes out.

46:44Okay. And that creates sort of a pension for you? Correct. Yeah. Okay. I'd love if you were investing, I mean, truthfully, assuming that you've got some money saved, and I'll ask about that in a minute. And truthfully, I'd love for you to be closer to 15 % that you're saving of your income. So that'd be around$900 a month, probably a little bit more if we took it off the gross. So I'm wondering what's creating this squeeze on your budget that's causing you to consider refinancing from a 15-year to a 30-year, because that's pretty drastic. And to be fair, it's going in the wrong direction. and so something is causing you to really consider like a drastic measure and almost doing something I'm going to call foolish not that you're a fool but it's it's a very rash move backwards our whole goal in the show is to help you build wealth and we found the best way to do that is to get debt free as soon as possible house and everything to have as much margin as possible so if you called in saying hey I've got a car payment it's 500 bucks a month over three years if I refinance to a six-year loan, I can get the payment down to$300.

47:48We'd all agree that's a bad solution. And so we're trying to find another solution, which is you got$4 ,600 coming in outside of the mortgage payment. Where's all that money going? Can we squeeze some more money out of that? And then let's actually put down on paper, what are the goals with this extra$1 ,000? Because if it's just, I'll feel better emotionally, that may or may not be true. But if you go, I want a vacation with the kids once a year, it's going to be six grand. Great. Now we know. Let's set aside 500 bucks a month. Or is it kids college? Do you have some that are coming up that are getting to the age where they're starting to think about university or college?

48:25My oldest is 16. She doesn't have an interest in college. I guess what we do is kind of just throw all the money into our money market account every month. We don't have a designated college fund, but we just stockpile that up. How much is in there? About$32 ,000 in a money market and another$14 ,000 in an index fund. Is that outside of an emergency fund? The money market would be my emergency fund. Okay. And I also have another$10 ,000 in a regular savings. Okay. Okay, good. So you've got some good money saved. You are thinking about education and putting some money there. I was a little confused, though, because it almost sounded like the college fund was the emergency fund.

49:09well i would say um so the emergency fund is like the money market the 32 000 and that 14 000 in the index fund would be above and beyond my emergency fund and is that earmarked for college i think we need to put some parameters around what this money is so i would say and you you jump in and tell me if i'm wrong i agree 32 000 emergency fund then you said you had an additional 10 000 saved that was kind of on top of that. We need to earmark what's that money for. And then you said you had $14 ,000 in an index fund. I'm almost wondering if you should take, you've got five kids. I'm wondering if you should take that additional$10 ,000, add it to the$14 ,000 and call that kids college fund.

49:52Okay. We are, our vehicles are kind of getting older too. So I have that on the horizon of saving up for a vehicle. Okay. I really like a slush fund. Well, well, I don't mind. Listen, I don't mind if you said, hey, no, Jade, let's keep the 10 ,000 and that's going to be our vehicle fund. I'm fine with that. I just think we have to put very clear markers on what this money is for. Number one, it's going to make you feel better. It's going to give you guys some organization and it's going to make you feel like, okay, I'm being very intentional about this. To your point, what you said, when it feels like a slush fund is when it feels like anything goes, nothing's really solid.

50:29Sort of floating. Yeah. You don't want that feeling. You want to know no, this is what that's for. So I let's, yeah, let's say$10 ,000 vehicle fund, 14 ,000 index fund. And that's for kids college. And at this point where you are in the baby steps, which is our overarching plan for your money, where you are right now, Miles is let's bump up. And I know this is against your feelings right now because you're feeling like things are tight, but let's bump up the investing to 15%. Let's say, hey, on top of the$14 ,000 in the index fund, what would it look like if we continue to put another$150 or maybe$200 a month in there?

51:08And then instead of going backwards on the mortgage, what would it look like if we just continue to make the payment and maybe we threw, whether it's quarterly, whether it's once a year, maybe we aim for an extra payment every year. However, we want to break that up. And that's you going in the right direction. But I think what would really help, and I don't know if you have one, are you guys on a budget? Yeah, I have a written budget on just like on a notes app on my phone that we go over every month, but it's not hard and fast. Yeah, the hard thing about that, I love that you have that because it's a great place to start.

51:42But the tough thing about that is you're not able to track your transactions in real time. So you can't really see if you're off track. And if you are off track, then it's not till the end of the month where you go, oh crap, we're$1 ,000 over. We should have had money left over. Where did it go? That's where the budget comes into play. So Miles, hang on the line. We're going to gift you every dollar, the premium version for the next year so you can connect your accounts and get a real plan with your wife going, listen, we're going to have$1 ,000 left over because we are going to be in control of our money.

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53:58All right, we have what may possibly be my favorite type of call on the line, line for Jordan and Taylor in St. Louis, Missouri. All right, guys, set this up because this is my favorite. Okay. Jordan and I own a home on 15 acres, and it was kind of always our dream. But now I'm to the point where I want to sell, and Jordan wants to stay. Okay. The dream changed. What caused it to change for you, Taylor? I have lost my job a couple of times in the last few years. one was a wrongful termination and then one was my last place of employment they filed bankruptcy and we closed unexpectedly and I've always been the high earner Jordan's always had the more blue collar job that allowed more time to spend with our daughter and then he carries really good benefits for us okay so it's always really worked out but I've always been the high earner so when I've lost those jobs and with the amount of debt that we have it's really impacted things and you I feel it.

55:07I've always just, yeah, I'm feeling it bad. And I've always just figured out a way to make it work. And now I'm tired. I can understand that. So, and it's no shade on Jordan, but you're literally feeling the weight of the household on your shoulders. Yes. And one thing changes and it's like crushing. Yep. Okay. I feel like I'm failing. What's the current incomes? um i make about so i just accepted a new job um about four weeks ago because so this is kind of fresh where i just lost my job again um i'm expected to earn about 137 awesome and i used to i used to earn 200 though so that's part of the reason for this call what type of work is it i work in automotive automotive management okay and and what is jordan doing i work for the post office and I am close to about 65.

56:04Okay. Okay, great. So still over 200 ,000 household income, which is fantastic. How much consumer debt do you guys have?

56:15192, including vehicles. Okay. Tell us about the vehicles. So the vehicles, so I used to always have a demo, a vehicle provided for me. And when I lost my job, I no longer had a vehicle. So I bought a Chevy Trax because they had zero percent interest and it was a$500 payment and it could get me. I'm driving an hour to work now. What did you pay for it? I bought$28 ,000. Okay. $28 ,000. And then what other, any other vehicles? And then Jordan has a vehicle that we owe$42 ,000 on. It's an F-150. Okay. F-150. Anything else? We have a tractor. Okay. You need that. It's$20 ,000 that we have left on that.

57:00Okay. We have$3 ,000 left on a lawnmower. Okay. We have$7 ,500 left on vending machines that I'm currently trying to sell. So in my last dealership, we owned the vending machines in the company. So when it closed, obviously, I've sold one of them. I have two more to sell. And I think that would pay off the remainder of the loan that's owed on them. How quickly can you sell those? I don't know much about that. Maybe you can educate me a bit on that. So I just posted them like four weeks ago. I've sold one and I'm trying as hard as I can to get the other two sold. I owe like$7 ,000 on the loan. I'm thinking, I mean, even if I can take six for it, I'm willing to do that just to get them gone and get a payment gone.

57:46Okay. And you said the total was$7 ,000. Did I hear that right? Yeah,$7 ,000 that we owe. Okay,$7 ,000 that you own. So we still got$92 ,000 to go. What else is there? What's the camper? Oh, camper? Camper, yeah. So we have$9 ,700 on a camper that we no longer own because we weren't using it. So I tried renting it out to make income to try and pay off debt. And someone totaled it, and it still left me with a payment on it. There was no insurance paid out? the insurance didn't pay the full value of the camper okay and why okay i won't ask more questions on that okay anything else because i think we're still missing quite a bit here um we're about 80 grand irs okay irs 11 000 okay um we owe a little over 2 000 on student loans in tuition.

58:46Okay. And then the rest is credit card debt. Yeah, our total is like$197 ,000, actually. Wow. Okay. And the rest is just credit card debt. And this is all while you guys have been making six figures or more? Yeah. Yes. And I just, I can't, I can't catch up. It doesn't, no matter how much I make. Well, here's the good news is you guys have a great income. You got a lot of land. You could get out of this fairly quickly. The bad news is selling this piece of land alone is not going to change any of the behavior that got us here. Yeah. And behavior hasn't changed until probably recently, very recently has the behavior changed.

59:25What do you owe on all of this property and what's it worth? So last year it appraised at$6.95. I think I could probably list it for$7.15 maybe. I am working on my real estate license. It's just always been something I've kind of wanted to do. So I was thinking if I had my license, then I wouldn't have to pay real estate fees if I sold it and I could keep more of the money. Maybe, but I don't know about that. I think I'd want somebody who's been doing this for a long time to make sure you're getting the best price and they're not missing anything. You're pretty close to the transaction because it's your own property.

59:58So that could also muddy the waters and make things a little emotional, which could hurt you. What do you currently owe on it? We know what it's worth,$715, but what do you guys currently owe? We owe$453 on the primary mortgage and we owe$120 on the HELOC. The contractor went over budget also. Okay, so we're$573. So you might net$120 after all's said and done. Yeah, I guess if you count in realtor fees, yes. Now, let me ask this. Is there any separation that can take place between the home and just kind of like parcel out some of the land and say we want to get rid of a certain amount of land and make this more manageable for us, but keep the house?

1:00:43Is that possible? No, not the way that it's parceled in the way that and there's easements on the property and stuff for the farmers behind us. So it won't work. And you're positive. Has anybody else looked at it? I'm like 90 % positive. I won't say I'm 100%. I might add that to my due diligence list just to make sure, you know, it's easy sometimes to make assumptions and then you might find something that's like, oh, great, like I didn't know. I trust what you're saying, but just because we're talking about big numbers and big decisions, I would do some due diligence on that. But I agree with George.

1:01:18I don't think selling this land at this point is necessarily the key to you guys getting out of debt. I think it is a behavioral thing. However, long term, you might find that there is a lot of just emotional maintenance that's attached to this. So you might sell it for those reasons. But that would not I would not sell it to get out of debt, if that makes sense. I might sell it to simplify my life. But it's not the key to you getting out of debt. Is that fair? yes except i don't see the way out whenever like after i accepted this job now we are twenty five hundred dollars upside down every month to make minimums so the money that i have in our checking account is going to go quickly like i'm not going to be able to make it understand i don't have enough funds to cover the monthly payments okay and what is the payment on the mortgage the mortgage so the first the uh the first one is 2508 and then the heloc payment is like 1200 okay so about 3700 out of your take-home pay okay so i i say that one more time yeah i mean the the mortgage and heloc is still a small part of everything else all these toys all the payments so the goal is we got to focus on the irs debt so that goes to the top of the debt snowball but In the meantime, let's try to sell everything that can be sold.

1:02:41Every car, every vehicle, every camper, every lawnmower, and just start from scratch. And if you guys do that, then I would see where we're at three months from now to see if it's still an unsolvable problem where we need to sell this land and start fresh and clean up the debt. And I will say, and you can stop me, I think I do hear that you do want to simplify your life. And I do think that the land and the mortgage is part of that. Is that fair to say? I don't mind the land. I know that Jordan loves to hunt it, but I want a simpler life. We can go hunt on someone else's land. Because right now, the dream that you had has turned into a literal nightmare for you guys financially.

1:03:21This is not a blessing in your life. And it's okay to call a spade a spade and say, we tried, we messed up, we made some decisions. Let's start over fresh. Fresh start. Yep. Do all of it. Sell all of it.

1:03:37Thank you.

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1:05:01Well, George, you had a really interesting weekend. Yeah, you know, I'm a hustler, Jade, so I didn't get any breaks this weekend. Me and the whole YouTube team from my YouTube channel, we went to the World Cup. Not into the World Cup, but outside the stadium. Oh, okay. Because inquiring minds want to know, how much did people spend on this thing? I'm very curious. So we filmed it. And God bless our team. They stayed up to like 3 a.m. to get this video out by yesterday morning. So I want you to watch a clip from this. We'll drop the link to the whole episode. It's about 16 minutes worth the watch in the show notes and description of this episode.

1:05:36So click down there to watch the full thing. Here's a taste, Jade. Okay. See what you think. How much do you guys spend on your World Cup finals ticket? Combined, we spent 30, bro. OK, so it was like 15 apiece? 15 apiece. I'm going to file for bankruptcy after this. I'm calling my credit card, and I'm saying this was never me. So you put it on a single credit card? Yeah. So who's paying who? I have to pay him. Yeah. What's the interest rate on this credit card? I don't even want to think about it. 24.99%. What's your credit limit on this thing? It's already maxed. After this, it's maxed. They call you and be like, hey, man, you know, you can't do this.

1:06:05They let me through. They let me through. You're happy to collect 25 % on 30 grand. I mean, exactly. Wow, okay, how much do you have in, like, checking right now? Checking? I'm net negative, brother. Shut up. I've got no investments. I've got no savings. I've sacrificed everything for my life to be here today. You know how much I sacrifice? There you go. Oh, I am... That was just scratching the surface of what I experienced. I'm shook upside down. I don't even have a... When he said 30, I was like, 30 ,000? Yeah, there's a couple of zeros after that. And then the fact that his dog owes him$15 ,000 on 29.9%.

1:06:43I'm just, this is going to go bad very quickly is all I'm saying. Like I had secondhand stress just talking to these people. And here's the crazy part. There was only two camps. Guys like that who put it all on the credit card, super broke. And then there was the families who, let's just say they had some outrageous generosity. Okay. Either like a family member, grandpa covered the whole trip for all five of us from Spain. and it was$80 ,000. So a lot of these people were entrepreneurs. Their family has a company and they were able to afford this. Great. Love that for them. All in cash, absolutely.

1:07:19But those two? The spectrum. But it still shocks me, regardless of how you paid, people paid anywhere, this is just from me talking to people, anywhere from$4 ,000 to$15 ,000 per ticket. And that's without flights, lodging, all of that. Okay, but school me, because I don't follow World Cup. was that just do you see one soccer match with that money or how many soccer matches do you get to see so that guy was specifically was a single ticket a lot of people did say hey i've been to five games so far it was about four thousand per ticket so i'm 20 grand all in okay just on tickets but that guy was 30 000 for one single game him which means he was closer like closer down yeah well he he must have paid a lot of money in last minute kind of thing oh my word i hope his team won uh they didn't oh yeah that was the funniest part i met a lot of argentina fans and the whole time i was like all right let's hope they win little did we know what would happen in this gosh the next morning he probably woke up feeling like yeah like can you imagine spending 15 grand to see zero team score in the first 106 minutes i just i'm sure it was still great and here's the thing i always said well i'm gonna be telling my grandkids about this i'm like you're assuming your grandkids are going to care.

1:08:32You're going to do this all for the grandkids? Don't put that on them. I got to know. Is there comments? What are people saying about this? This is the top comment on the YouTube video. The winners of the World Cup are Spain, Visa, MasterCard, and American Express. Someone added, and FIFA,$9 billion this year. They're the real winners here. Just extorting money from people for this once-in-a-lifetime experience. I love a once-in-a-lifetime experience. I love if you can afford it I love if you've saved up over time and budgeted for it then I'm not mad then I think it's like yeah good for you yeah but otherwise just watch it at home guys go to the watch party and you'll have a good time which a lot of people did I met a lot of people who said no I'm not going into the game it's not like that I just want to be around it I was like I understand that you want to be around the energy I hope you gave them I hope you gave those two guys every dollar so that they could at least maybe next time this comes around do it with a little bit more wisdom well the problem is met a lot of international people and every dollar is a u.s.

1:09:33budgeting app so the ones that were u.s. i could hook them up the other ones i said good luck god bless and watch some more ramsey show okay well check out the whole episode we'll drop a link in the show notes that was just one of the many people i talked to and they were very entertaining as much as it was chaotic there was a lot of really fun interesting people that we got to talk to so a very fruitful time in new york we did some other ones ask people the cost of living in new york how much are you paying for rent. That was a fun one. Oh, I would like that. International people, how much they have in debt?

1:10:02How do you view debt? How do you view America's debt? What do they, I'm like, what did they say? You can't tell me. You'll have to watch it. Subscribe to the George Camel YouTube channel. And again, we'll drop a link to the world cup episode if you want to see how much people spent on tickets. But goodness gracious, it made me even more fiscally responsible. Yeah. And you already are. Thank you. I almost want to know how much was your ticket. Well, we didn't pay for the flights i guess you didn't wait a second we didn't go into the game go into a game no george this is my life jade i was just in the worst parts of it in the vu vu zela zone and people you know hawking flags yeah all to then go home oh wow but it was fun it was worth it for your entertainment folks there you go it was all a sacrifice yep well i mentioned earlier and now i'm gonna do my seamless transition into every dollar that it's very smooth yeah i want you guys have a good time do those life once in a lifetime events listen i went to see beyonce and i spent more than i've ever spent on a on a concert ticket you go like sinking fund like all right i'm gonna put away 500 bucks a month to have six grand in a year yeah i i i knew it was coming and so when it was time i was ready well this makes beyonce look cheap i mean yes it does it makes taylor swift tickets look like a bargain uh-huh yeah you're gonna be in a sinking fund for a really long time in order to do that but i'm telling you people love every dollar it allows them to do the things that not just they need to do, but the things that they want to do, and they can have a plan for their money.

1:11:25You can find that on the Every Dollar Budget app on the App Store for free, or you can find it on Google Play. All right. We've got Sam, who's in Minneapolis, Minnesota, on the line. What's up, Sam? Hey, guys. I'm fanboying so hard right now. I love the Randy show. I love you guys. Thank you for what you do. Thank you. We're glad you're here. uh okay so i'm on baby step two i am currently not investing in my kids college accounts i opened them up nine years ago when my son was born i have four children nine ages nine six four and one and there's about 20 000 bucks spread out across the four of them my mom is currently investing in it like 25 bucks a month per kid and 100 bucks on their birthday good and my wife brought up rolling it over or moving it into like an IRA or like a Roth IRA account for my kids.

1:12:22And it was kind of like, I didn't know if that was a good idea or not. Neither my wife or I went to college. We're not really big believers in it, I guess, if that's blasphemous or not. But is she talking about now or later if they don't use the money? Do you she she was talking about it now. okay well you you can't now there's a rule that 529 has to be open for 15 years at least okay before you can even begin the rollover and then it's 35 max per child so up to the roth ira limit for that year this year it's 7 500 bucks until you hit 35 grand and that's only if they don't end up using it for college right because i know you know we all think well who knows 20 years from now, what will college be?

1:13:07Well, what if they go and it's three times as expensive as it is now? Right. And now they're in crippling student loan debt because mom and dad said, you probably won't go. So I would rather be safe than sorry and have the money and then not need to use it or roll it to a different person. You can change the beneficiary anytime. Again, you can roll over up to 35 grand into retirement. There's so much you can do with these accounts. And the tax advantages are so good that I would hate for you to miss out on that. what was her purpose in doing that what was her purpose in making that move is she trying to solve a different problem i don't know honestly my wife brought it up i didn't really want to touch it we're not investing in it right now like i said anyway um and it was just kind of on my wife's behalf i thought i would ask you guys yeah my guess is maybe she was thinking since you guys aren't currently investing if if you rolled it over it could be there either for your retirement or for the kids college.

1:14:04But to George's point, it doesn't work that way. It's gotta be one or the other. And you guys are in baby step too. Keep chunking away at that. After that, you'll build up your three to six months of expenses. And then before you know it, you'll be investing 15%. And what I'd advise you to do is go over to ramsaysolutions.com and use our investment calculator and start calculating if you start investing, you know, from this age to that age, how much money that you're gonna have. And when you know those numbers, it gives you a lot of peace. Or if you don't like the numbers, you can start to plan for a scenario where you do like the numbers.

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1:16:19All righty. Your Ramsey Show question of the day is brought to you by Why Refi? When past due private student loans keep pulling you backward, it's hard to focus on what's ahead. Y-Refi helps borrowers with a low fixed rate refinancing option that fits your budget so you can focus on the future again. Visit YRefi.com slash Ramsey and remember it may not be available in all states. Today's question comes from Victoria in Louisiana. Would you explain how compound interest works with regard to the stock market? I understand earning interest on bank deposits and how stocks can increase in the market, but how and when does compound interest happen?

1:16:59I love this question. This is super fun. Mathematicas. Wish we could do a whole Bill Nye visual with this to make it easier. So there's a couple of things going on here. Number one, compound interest is more like a bank deposit, like your high-yield savings account. The bank says, hey, we'll pay you 3 % on your balance. So every month, the bank looks at your balance per day, and they go, all right, here's what paid out per day. We're going to pay it out at the end of the month. That's pretty easy to understand. Yep. 3 % on$10 ,000, divide that by 12 months. That's how much you'll make if you just left that amount in there.

1:17:33Now, compound growth is actually a little different. That's what's happening in the stock market, and it's not as straightforward because the stock market goes up and it goes down. So I buy a share of Jade Incorporated for$10. Right now, Jade's crushing it. The revenue comes in. We're all excited for Jade's company. She's crushing it. The stock goes up to$15. Well, thank you. Now, remember, I bought it at$10. So I just made$5 profit. So now as you start to go, okay, I have multiple of those shares. Now the profit increases. And so now I got$15. Well, Jade's company is now, they're going for$20 a share.

1:18:09Killing it. So now I just made money on top of the money I already made. And so over time, that growth compounds to where you don't have to actually invest a million dollars. You invested$10 ,000 or$15 ,000, and over the course of decades, it grew as the piece that you had of ownership grew. So that's how the stock market works is you have a share price. That share price goes up and up and up and up. Bada bing, bada boom, you can retire one day. And we've seen about 10 % to 12 % on average in the overall U.S. stock market. I love that. You know, I'd pay good money to see you explain that Bill Nye style, but I think the closest I could get is investing essentials.

1:18:46There we go. That's true. We are going to walk through this in nerdy detail, how to choose mutual funds, how to, you know, sort of filter and balance where you invest, when you invest, where do I put this money? What about the kids? What about estate planning and taxes and insurance? How do I keep the government's hands off of it? How do I hand it to my kids without destroying them? And at what point do I do that? What about trusts and wills? We're going to get into all of it at Investing Essentials. It's a virtual event that Dave Ramsey and I are doing September 1st and 2nd, so you can join us from anywhere.

1:19:18Two nights, a couple of hours a night. It is definitely worth the ticket price if you want to learn about this stuff. So jump on. RamseySolutions.com slash events. There's your answer. If I had your information, I'd send you a free ticket, but I don't have it right here. All right. Dawn is from Dallas, Texas on the line. Hi, Dawn. How can George and I help today? Okay. Hi. So the good news is I got married three weeks ago. Ooh, congrats. Thank you. We have a situation where my husband and I need some guidance on. So before this marriage, I was married before. I've been divorced for about eight years now.

1:19:56In my first marriage, I took out a life insurance policy on me and one on my ex-husband. And they're$500 ,000 term life insurances on each of us. After the divorce, I kept the life insurance policy on both me and him because he was paying child support and other expenses. And if something were to happen to him, you know, it would be difficult. So anyways, with that, my new husband, he's like, he says it feels weird to pay life insurance on my ex-husband. he's not 100 % against it but he's not 100 % for it and he doesn't know what to do. But then on the other hand, you know, I want to make sure my kids are taken care of because we have a set of 14-year-old twin boys who are about to go into high school.

1:20:46You know, we're staring down college. You know, there's just so much going on at this stage in life. And I want to make sure something were to happen that they're taken care of. but on the flip side of that, I also want to respect my husband's decisions and follow his lead. But then he's like, he's like, he doesn't know what to do. So we're like, so go ahead. I can see two sides of it. I can see how, I'll tell you how my brain is seeing it. Obviously the purpose of insurance is to replace income. That's a necessity, right? So before you were married, And obviously, yeah, this guy was, you know, you were married to him.

1:21:30So he was part of the income situation. And then even as an ex, maybe he was paying child support or alimony, that sort of thing. At this point, now you're married to somebody else. There's kind of a new situation going on financially. The only piece of this that I could see a connection to is the kids. If your ex-husband was saying, hey, this is kind of an inheritance thing. When something happens to me, I want the kids to have this money. that piece I can totally understand and them being the beneficiary of that makes sense to me if that's something that he wants to do from a legacy perspective and as your current husband I don't know that that should bother me um to that extent because this this is their dad um so how are you guys viewing it is he viewing it from more from a marital perspective or more from a children's dad's legacy perspective?

1:22:24Well, Mike's husband, you know, or his, his health, it was difficult to get the life insurance to begin with. And like he had gotten rejected multiple times over the course of the times we have tried. And so his health is not great as we speak. And then so I also got that in the back of my mind. And then, but my new husband, he's like, you know, he's a truck driver, so he makes pretty good. And, you know, he's adamant that, you know, these are his kids. He will do whatever he can to take care of them. But the fact of the matter is, you know, he's a truck driver. I'm a teacher. There is only so much money that we make.

1:23:11And with being a teacher, education is important to me. So I want that option to be there for my kids to be able, if they want to, to go to college, to whatever college. So if your ex-husband said, I want you guys to keep this policy and the purpose of it is for the children's college. And if my life exceeds that, then it's there for them, you know, as they begin their life and start their life. then I think that's a wonderful thing. And I hope that he has a will and some documents that can really outline some of those things that he wants for his children. There's part of this. The policy, I am the policy owner.

1:23:50I got it through. So I'm the one who's always paid. And you're listed as the beneficiary, I guess. I am the beneficiary of the policy. I always have been. so um i don't even think he even remembered he had we had the life insurance policy until the other day when i called and talked to him about it so well the main distinction is you are not hanging on to this policy to hang on to the past you're hanging on to it to protect your kids futures right so until they are independent on their own they're through college they're working okay now they're fine but right now the truth is it let's say you got rid of this policy well you might not be able to afford college and support them.

1:24:33And so part of having kids is it's your obligation to support them. Now that might be through child support, that might be because you want to, but I would keep it for that reason. And it really has nothing to do with, you know, the new husband, the new husband. And so I, I, I totally understand his side of it. So I don't want to diminish that. It is uncomfortable, but that's the nature of a broken marriage and, and kids from a, from a different father. That's just part of what he signed up for. There's a little bit of this discomfort and messiness. And if, I mean, I'm trying to put the shoe on the other foot.

1:25:05If for some reason my kids, I was separated from them through, you know, a divorce, I would, I'd want them, I'd want them to still have life insurance on me so that they have access to whatever money I've accumulated or, you know, obviously get that death benefit if I were to leave this earth. So I can totally, totally understand it. And it's just a good lesson, guys. Life insurance is so important. I said it earlier, but I'll say it again. The purpose of life insurance is to take the place of income that people are dependent on. So you don't take out life insurance policies on children. You take them out on working individuals.

1:25:37And we always suggest 10 to 12 times your yearly income is what you would need. And Xander is a great place to look that up. If you haven't looked it up, Xander Insurance, that's where I get my life insurance. Term Life is what you're looking for. That's where George gets his. And if you call them up, they are going to hook you up and take good care of you.

1:26:11welcome back to the ramsey show here in the fairwinds credit union studio continuing on with the phone lines we've got amanda who's in tampa just tampa florida i almost said tampa bay isn't it sometimes called that you know what i forgot there was multiple okay well we're just going to go with Tampa, Florida. Hey, Amanda, what's going on? Is it sometimes Tampa Bay? Yeah. Okay. Just was checking my own, checking out my own brain there. Okay. How can we help today? Yes, ma 'am. First of all, I am sorry for your loss. I saw your post this morning on Instagram. I left you a message, but, but yeah, so sorry for your loss.

1:26:47I'm a big fan. I'm almost done with your book and I am such a big fan. So I'll make you brief. I have a question about an Alabama state tax issue. I believe there has been an error with my 2024 tax return. I've worked remotely for a company based in Alabama, and I lived in Tampa. But the state says that I owe$1 ,100. I've tried to resolve it because I don't think the amount is correct, or I don't think that I owe them any tax because I never physically worked in the state of Alabama. Should I just pay the$1 ,100? Yes, or they're trying to garnish my wages now, so should I just stop? They is in the IRS?

1:27:30Yeah. So have you verified this debt? Have you actually logged into IRS.gov and checked for all the letters there? I have, yes, and I have called and talked to multiple people, and they all say the same thing. I did file the return, and they say that it shows in their system that I do owe because the company is based out of Alabama. So we just finished. I worked so hard to finish step one. It's crazy. And so now I'm like, do I just go ahead and use that money to pay off that tax that they keep saying I do owe? Did you prepare your taxes or did somebody else? I did. I did. No, I did it myself. on terrible attacks.

1:28:17I mean, you might have a tax professional take a look at it just to verify that there was an error or say, no, this is actually exactly right. There's no error. I mean, that would be the best way to look at that because George and I wouldn't be able to tell you just from sitting here, I'd want somebody to look at it. And if it turns out you do owe the money, then we can talk about, let's talk about that scenario. Let's pretend you run it by a tax professional and they say sorry Amanda you owe this money let's talk about what a plan could look like for you to pay it okay have you checked with your employer checked with the accounting department there what do they say um so in 2024 it was reported that I had moved which is which is true because I did I lived in Alabama for like two months out of the beginning of 2024, and then we moved to Florida.

1:29:11And that was recorded. But it's a mess because the old employer said that it has been reported, but when I tried to call the state of Alabama, they said no. They didn't do that because it was reported that I'm residing in Alabama. So, yeah, I'll probably get a tax question to look through it. Well, I'm trying to figure out. No, I just think we need some facts here because I'm wondering if they say, hey, well, those two months, you're going to owe taxes in Alabama. So you might owe taxes in two different states for that year because you did live there. I'm a part-time employee. I have kids at home.

1:29:54I work from home. And they've no end. I owe$1 ,100 in two months to the state of Alabama. I mean,$500 a month for two months, that's not outrageous in taxes. Alabama has an individual income tax rate about 5%. So I'm just wondering, you know, I'm not here to defend the IRS, but I just wonder if maybe there is a legitimate tax owed and we just didn't understand the tax law. And that's where I would reach out, go to RamseySolutions.com and click on Tax Pro and we'll connect you with a Ramsey-trusted tax pro to just look it all over and go, okay, here's the facts, here's what's not true, here's how to respond to the IRS before the deadline.

1:30:31That's what you want to do is stay in communication, meet all the deadlines, document everything and versus just going well I don't feel like I should pay it that's the last thing you want to do and if you do find that you owe the money let it if you and you have other debts let it jump to the top of the list like IRS debt is something that we don't want to fool around with and that's definitely one that we want to knock out sooner than later and until again until you find out otherwise I'd start stacking up uh for this payment knowing that it it could possibly be coming down the pipe. All right.

1:31:02Thank you so much for the call, Amanda. Let's go to Mason in Dayton, Ohio. Hey, Mason. How can we help? Hey, guys. Yeah, thanks for taking my call. So my wife and I were with 26, just starting the process of realizing we're in a bad situation trying to get out of it. So we have a lot of debt, but we have an investment home. And we're just curious if we should sell the rental property and get out of this hole or put our nose down and kind of stay in the hole longer while keeping investment property. Interesting. So just tell Tell us right off the bat, what do you owe on the rental and what's it worth?

1:31:33Yeah, so we owe just right around$60 ,000 and it's worth around$160 ,000. Okay, that's great. And you have a, are you and your wife also living in your own primary residence? No, so we rent from actually a family member, my grandparents on the house that we are renting. So we're getting a pretty good deal on rent. It's more the location we want to be opposed to where the rental property is. Got you. So you guys are renting. So how much other debt do you guys have? We have between student loans, cars, and bad credit card debt around$78 ,000. Okay,$78 ,000. And what's your income? How old is it?

1:32:14Right around$95 ,000 to$100 ,000. Is that including the rental or not? No, not including the rental. Okay. What is that cash flow? What's the actual net profit per month?

1:32:29About$600 a month, roughly. Okay. Is there ever any, is it in your plans to move into this house as your own at any point? Like what was the plan with this rental? Yeah, so the plan was for it always to be a rental. We actually lived in it for about a year. And it's just not in an area or neighborhood that we really wanted to live in and raise a family. And we have two little kids. Okay. So my parents helped me buy it when I was in college. So I helped pay some bills and stuff while I was in college. I rented out while I was in college, got out of college and didn't have money to buy another house.

1:33:02So I moved into it for a year, actually about three years, but got it fully in our name, my wife's names a year ago. So that's kind of how we got there. Understood. And now you're renting it again. And I guess my big question is, was the plan to be landlords or did it just kind of happen by default? It just happened by default. I guess I like the idea of the income coming in, but we realized what kind of hole we've been in. So we finally put it all on paper. We're like, wow, that's a bigger number than we thought. You know, you get those credit cards or a car that you can't afford. So now we're just like, how can we get out of this the quickest way possible?

1:33:37Yeah. The math just says, hey, we could get about$100 ,000 out right now, or we could take home our$7 ,000 a year. and it sounds like there's more urgency for you guys to get out of this situation that you're in versus man we love the extra seven grand we never set out to even be in this situation which is sort of landlord by default yeah i think that is a pretty clear decision yeah that's kind of what i was hoping kind of some reformation a lot of my family and stuff's in the real estate and i know you guys all preach you know it's a good way to make it extra income when you have the money so it is my thought was is it better to put our nose to the grindstone and keep the rental and we have it at the end or start over fresh again once we get out of this big hole.

1:34:17I don't think this rental is like the key to your whole wealth building scheme. I think the key is going to be getting out of debt, creating a margin with your core income, that$100K. So I would sell it personally. I would get out of this, but I'd make sure to change the behavior along with it and not use it as a get out of jail free card.

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1:35:59All right, George, let's go back to the phone lines. We have Karen there who's in Dallas, Texas. Hi, Karen. Hi, Jade and George. Thank you so much for taking our call. Yes, ma 'am. How can we help? So my husband and I both lost our jobs in May. And we want to know if it's okay to take this time to build the potential businesses that we have our eyes set on, or if we should go back and start looking for, you know, quote unquote, normal income. Well, gosh, I'm sorry that you both lost your jobs. Did you work in the same place or this was just a crazy coincidence? Thank you. Yeah, we were working at the same place.

1:36:38I was laid off just after coming back from maternity leave and his contract ended. I'm so sorry. Do you have emergency funds? Do you have money set aside? So we've been kind of working the baby steps not as well as we should, but we do have our basic$1 ,000 emergency fund. And then on top of that, we have, I would say, our emergency fund plus the three to six months. It's just not all in the right place. So and I actually got a severance of twelve thousand dollars. So we started with that and just said that we would try to live off of this for maybe three months or so. Do you guys have kids? We do.

1:37:20We have two, you know, fresh baby. She's almost five months now. And then we have a five year old. OK, so this is I mean, this is a huge life change. Obviously, it's also a huge emergency. Hopefully it doesn't feel like a crisis, though, because you've got this money set aside. $12 ,000 severance,$1 ,000 baby step one. And how much would you say that the three to six months fund is? How much money? So our expenses on a monthly basis are about$3 ,000. And so we felt that six months was the safest bet. So we have$20 ,000 in a high yield savings account. And then we have another$20 ,000 in a separate high yield savings account for a little bit more cushion.

1:38:04The goal is to try to start generating income from the businesses so we don't have to touch any of our savings. But how long do we do that before it becomes, you know, the UMB? Well, tell us a little bit. Well, first, let me also ask, do you have any debt? We do not have any debt, only the house. Oh, excellent, excellent. So you're sitting on about$53 ,000 in liquid cash. Okay, that sounds that way. Is that what you're telling me? I guess I haven't put it all together that way. Sounds like you've used some of it the last two months to live. So it might be down to like in the 40 somewhere. But I would sit down at night and understand, here's all the rations we have.

1:38:41And also, we need some urgency to get income in right now versus, well, let's just wait and pursue our passion project. Like I would be feeling the fire right now of going, we got a baby, we got a five-year-old, and we have no income. You're going to burn through those savings way faster than you think. Did you already have a business that you'd started that you're just going to focus more on? Or is this starting something from scratch? So we've been noodling on it before, and it kind of branches off of what we were doing prior. I, luckily enough, well, we both actually have nailed down clients since losing our jobs.

1:39:15I got two clients, and so I have been able to generate about$2 ,000, which paid the mortgage. And then my husband is generating a couple photography clients, so it's not as much as we would like, but it's kind of working. The idea is that we don't want to go back to normal nine to five. We want to really, really make these work. I respect that. So we're just hoping to keep money coming in. What are the two businesses? What is it? He's doing Photog. What are you doing? Operations consulting. So before I was like an executive assistant operations manager. So now I am doing consultant for like, you know, small business owners, founders, consulting for their businesses, cleaning up their anything, you know, cleaning up their papers, inbox documentation.

1:39:57Okay. So many different things. And what do you need to bring home every month to match what you guys were making before? We were bringing in together. He was bringing in$3 ,600 bimonthly, so twice a month. And I was bringing in about$24. So in total, I believe we were right around like$10 ,000, maybe$12 ,000. Yeah, I'm seeing$12 ,000 is what you guys were bringing in, take home. Which is more than we needed. Yeah, that's what we were bringing in, take home after taxes. which is more than we needed. Our expenses prior to losing our jobs were about$3 ,600, but we've since been able to get that down to$2 ,700 to just to stay in our home.

1:40:39Oh boy. Okay. Well, we want to calculate beyond that because you got to live, right? You have to have a lifestyle that you enjoy. So if you said, hey, for us to obviously not just pay our bills, but just to kind of have a life and be able to invest a little bit and save a little bit and not just be bare minimum. What do you think that number is? I would say about$3 ,500. Okay. Yeah, that would take care of the home and then we could invest a little bit as well. And we do have actually$10 ,000 invested into a Betterment account. Sorry, I'm just pulling more out. But we do have$10 ,000 in a Betterment.

1:41:20I wanted to ask, Is that what Dave considers like good growth stock mutual funds? Does that count? It depends on what it's invested in. My guess is it's in a taxable brokerage account that's non-retirement, and then you can buy anything within that. So you tell me what you invested in. I actually don't know because I put it in the hands of the account because I didn't want to pick individually before. Like you did in like a robo-advisor? No, it wasn't a physical advisor or a robo-advisor. So Betterment is the platform, and essentially I understood that they were investing it into the S &P 500 stock.

1:42:00Got it. Okay. So it's likely in some sort of index fund, which is fairly close to a mutual fund that we talk about on the show, which is you want to diversify across different types of companies, so large-cap, mid-cap, small-cap companies, and international. That's what we recommend. Your index fund is likely not as diversified. It's probably mostly large cap companies, but that's not a crisis right now. But I would not be investing until I had consistent income because you guys are still you're not as safe as it feels. You're in a great spot. You've done an awesome job. No debt except the mortgage.

1:42:36You've got 40 grand sitting there to protect you. But I don't want it to give you a false sense of security either and get too comfortable. Right. I want to say to you, I love businesses. I love small businesses. I love people who are like, I got to break out of the nine to five. I love that. I just want to know how consistent we are because the best way to do that is having a consistent income while we build the business. And then once the business gets to a point to where it really is spitting off enough income for us to live our lives on, then we can transfer and do the business full time. So right now it does sound like you guys are in that stage of, hey, we've got money coming in.

1:43:15It's still a little inconsistent. We're still trying to build the structure out, especially I haven't heard much on the photography side of things. For that reason, I think that you both probably should pick up two other jobs. Like you should pick up another job. He should pick up another job. And the point is, hey, this is not our long-term play. This is just to get us some consistency while we build the thing that we really do want to do. And there's no shame in that game. That is the way that it's done. Otherwise, you guys are going to be living hand to mouth. Yeah, especially if you're both reliant on clients, that's kind of a scary situation versus one of you having a stable income, and now you're out here trying to gather the clients.

1:43:53And if you have a bad month, it's not going to sink you guys. Was he doing photography before full time? What was he working in? Just kind of freelancing. He was doing photography, and he was working as a similar consultant, office manager kind of deal. That said, we did think a similar thought, but we were concerned that maybe getting sucked back into the nine to five, you know how it just gets tiring, you know, and then you feel like you don't have time for yourself at the end of the day or time for the kids. So we were afraid that that would take away all of the momentum from the businesses.

1:44:24And the next thing you know, we look up and, you know, two years later, we're still just comfy in these nine to five. Well, what you could do is you could split it and say something like, and this is just me looking at the numbers you've given me. It may be different, but I'd go, okay, so the person who has the biggest upside right now seems to be you. You can go out, you can get a couple of clients and make two or three thousand dollars, which is just shy of what it is that you need. So I'd say, OK, given that information, husband, why don't you go out and get the stable job or I hate to say stable.

1:44:55You go out and get a job that's going to bring in some consistent income. I'll go out and I'll build my thing over here. And once that gets solid, that will allow you to then go out and build your thing. Right. We don't have to both do it simultaneously. You guys are young. You've got two babies. you've got time to build this and I want you to please hear me say I want you to do this I just want you to do it in a way that's going to cause as little rocking of the boat and as little uh financial ups and downs as possible and entrepreneurship self-employment the first couple of years it ain't for the week it's not 20 hours a week with a bunch of flexibility it's 80 hours a week and so I don't want you to get it twisted this is going to be a walk in the park either going this way

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1:46:33You know, we wish we could get to every single call and question here on The Ramsey Show, but that's just not possible. So if you have a money question and you want to answer for your question, go ahead and head over to our website, ramseysolutions.com, and use the Ask Ramsey tool. Ask Ramsey is our free AI tool. It's built and trained on proven Ramsey principles, and you'll get an answer the same way that we'd answer it here on the show. Ask your question today at ramseysolutions.com, or just click the link in the description if you're listening on podcast or YouTube. All right, Chris with a K is in Atlanta, Georgia.

1:47:07All right, Chris, how can we help today? I have a question about debt. I have a few different categories of debt and I am trying to determine which to pay off first. Okay, we can help. Yes. So I have a mortgage payment. The mortgage I have left is about $190 ,000. My interest rate is 2.5 on that mortgage. For student loans, I have about$23 ,000 with about the highest interest rate is 4.6. And then my car, I owe$16 ,000 with a 5.5 % interest rate. Okay. Anything else or those three are it? That is it. I luckily don't have any credit card debt. Way to go. Okay. Well, first off, we tend to separate the debt by consumer debt versus mortgage debt.

1:48:05We don't touch the mortgage debt until a little bit further down in our steps of methodology. So how familiar are you with Ramsey? How long have you been listening? I'm just an occasional listener. So not very much. Okay. So for your benefit and for anybody else listening, we have a seven-step, seven-baby-step program that we teach. And it helps people not only pay off debt, but long-term, they're building wealth as well and doing all of the things that are necessary to do with your money. So part of that, baby step two, is the pay off your debt section of this methodology. And like I said, we break it up.

1:48:44Mortgage debt is not until baby step six. So today we're just looking at the student loans and the car payments. So that's the first answer to your question. And then within Baby Step 2, what we do is the debt snowball method. A debt snowball method is when you list your debts from smallest to largest by balance. And so in your case, I know that you read off the interest rates, but we do it smallest to largest by balance because we find that over time, people are more willing to stick with the process and they're able to experience small wins quicker. And so for people who actually want to finish paying off their debt, studies show that the debt snowball method works best in order to do that.

1:49:24So you mentioned that the student loans were broken up. How many individual ones are there? I have a mix of subsidized and unsubsidized. And there are six and they all vary between$3 ,000 to$5 ,000. And I've been on a forbearance for the last several years since COVID with the repayment plan. And so I need to change my payment plan or I just need to pay off the debt. So that's kind of what I'm curious about, especially because the car is less money, right? I owe less on the car. So are you suggesting I should pay off the car first and then the student loans? No, I'm suggesting since the student loans, there's six of them.

1:50:10I would go through tonight and look at what the individual balances are. So you might have one for three, you might have one for eight, you might have one for seven, whatever those numbers are. Did you say they're three to five total? Like$3 ,000,$3 ,000,$4 ,000,$5 ,000? Yes, yes. The link is$23 ,000. So if you use our EveryDollar budgeting app, it'll list out the debts from smallest to largest for you, and that will give you your next step. So you're going to make minimum payments on all of the debts, but that smallest balance, that$3 ,000 student loan, that's the one you're going to throw extra money at.

1:50:42And once that's knocked out, you free up that payment. Now you apply that newfound payment to the next smallest debt. And so that's how the snowball starts to gain traction. And that momentum, like Jay talked about, is what actually causes people to follow through with it versus interest rate focused. Got it. Yeah. And then after that, I know it's probably tough for you because you're used to these student loans being on default and so, or being on, you know. So forbearance, thank you. And so you're not paying the payment. And so you're probably thinking, oh, if I just pay off my car payment, that's more money that's being freed up.

1:51:17I totally understand that line of thinking. But psychologically, what George said is absolutely true. I use the debt snowball method to pay off$230 ,000 of student loans, but in a total$460 ,000 of debt. And I can tell you it really does work. George used it as well. And so that's what I would suggest. How much money do you bring home every month? About$7 ,000 to$8 ,000. Awesome. Yes, I have a good chunk of savings, too, which is why I thought maybe I could go ahead and pay off. I have about$60 ,000 in savings. Oh, wait. You're telling me you could pay off all of your consumer debt today and have money left over?

1:51:57Yes. And we just spent seven minutes walking you through this like it was going to be a whole ordeal? Chris with a K, I'm mad that you told us this this late. Come on. You buried the lead, and we thought you were broke. Yes, no, I've done my savings, and because they've been on forbearance, I haven't really thought about paying towards it. Well, you know, the interest has been accruing this whole time. I know. That's the scary part. You're going to look up, and that balance has ballooned. Yeah, that's what it is. And the income did start to increase a little bit in the last few years, which is why I'm in this position now to be able to pay some of that off.

1:52:33Well, I'm glad you are. So you're going to pay off all the debts today. Congratulations. And you'll still have money left. And you'll have 21 grand left. We're going to call that your emergency fund. You may want to add a little bit to it. We recommend three to six months of expenses. So if you're a solo income earner, you may want to lead towards six. And so if your expenses are, let's say five grand a month, 30 grand is six months. So you got nine grand to go and you'll save up three grand a month for the next three months. And boom, by Christmas, you are completely debt free with an emergency fund of 30 grand and you're investing 15%, that's baby step four, into retirement accounts.

1:53:08And if you just do this, I know it sounds like, oh, should I let go of the savings? Should I focus on the... If you just trust us on this one, this is a trust me bro situation. You will be in a very different place mentally, emotionally, financially. When you don't owe anyone money, you've got a pile of money in the bank and you're building toward the future. Yeah. I love a call like this where we find out that there's some cash that they're sitting on. But even if you're listening now and you're thinking, OK, I have debts. Trust me, if you just start to think about this, think about do you have money?

1:53:38Do you have stocks? Do you have money sitting in a brokerage account, non-retirement? Things you could sell. Are there things you could sell? Vehicles, toys, recreational vehicles. Yes. That's what George and I do. When you guys call in and tell us your list of debts, we're thinking, OK, what are the easiest ways that we can knock out money? And it's almost always it's sitting in stocks. It's sitting in a brokerage account or it's sitting in your vehicles. if you're just willing to liquidate them and drive a hoopty for a while and even be surprised. Even like pausing investing. If you're investing 5%, 10 % and you pause that, that's money back in your paycheck.

1:54:09Yes. Or if you get a big refund, change your withholding. Yes. Thank you, George. Changing your withholding. A lot of us got refund checks back from the IRS. If you take that amount and divide it by 12, you could essentially get that much money back in your paycheck if you just change your W-4 withholding. That$3 ,600 refund, that's$300 a month you could have had in your paycheck. Yeah, that's big money, big money. I love this. So just take a moment tonight, comb through your assets, comb through what you have, and you might find that getting debt free is quicker than you think. All right. I love a social question, George.

1:54:44How about we do it? This is Daryl from Facebook. He says, should gifted money received for a birthday be separate from household income and theirs to spend as they choose or should all income regardless of its source be considered household income oh brother come on you better spend that birthday card say the quiet part out loud daryl like i want to keep this money for me yeah keep your wife's hands off of it she's like and the question is like where are we at financially if we're in crippling debt and you got a hundred bucks, you may need to throw it at the debt. But if you're in a decent spot financially and, you know, grandma gave you birthday money, like if my wife gets birthday money, I'm not like, Hey, you know, I get a cut of that.

1:55:25No, that's not right. It should go towards the bills this month. However, can I just tell you, this is like a real story. There were several years, uh, my mother-in-law, Bubby, she would give us like, uh, cards every year for our anniversary. She would give us Valentine's Day cards. I'd get a birthday card. I can tell you that money went to utilities many times when Sam and I were getting out of debt. Or it went towards getting, you know, paying off a credit card balance or getting that current on something. So I love it. The receiver gets to choose how the blessing plays out. I know, but it is kind of sad when you don't get to spend your birthday money on your birthday.

1:56:01What did you buy? Electricity? Does that count? Water.

1:56:10Thank you.

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1:57:07All right. Our Ramsey Show scripture and quote of the day. Ecclesiastes 10.10 says, if the ax is dull and its edge needs unsharpened, more strength is needed. but skill will bring success. John Wooden said, talent is God given. Be humble. Fame is man given. Be grateful. Conceit is self given. Be careful. Wow. I like that. That's a foreboding. All right. Jenny is in Cincinnati, Ohio. Hey, Jenny, you're on the line. Hi. Hi. Hi. How can we help? um so me and my fiance are getting married in october we've been together since high school and um he bought a house last june and i'm not on it yet obviously because we're not married but he got it through a va loan and the va inspector missed a bunch of stuff so our 150 000 home we had to put 50k in so far on repairs and maintenance, unfortunately.

1:58:16And last month I got laid off from my job. And we're doing okay-ish. It's just after I got laid off, we found out that all of our waste plumbing was still clay pipes. And they collapsed. Oh. Oh, boy. So that was another$30 ,000 we had to take out in debt for that. How old is this house? It was built in 1910. Goodness gracious. Okay. Man, this inspector really screwed you guys big time. Yeah, which is what we've been told. But since being laid off, our pipe payments don't start until next month. And I've been applying like crazy daily even to like entry-level fast food jobs, and I keep getting rejected.

1:59:10and I just want to know how to deal with the guilt and ways that I could help him out more because I've been feeling really guilty. He assures me it's fine. He's pretty traditional where he thinks that the man should take care of a majority of things anyway. But I come from a family that if you're a woman, you still have to make your own income and you should feel financially secure on your own in case anything happens. So I'm feeling a lot of emotions and I don't know exactly how to deal with that. Well, I'm hearing two things. I want to get to the emotional part. But I also am thinking about this home inspection.

1:59:49And you can pursue a claim against a home inspection company. I don't know if you looked into that. But I mean, if it's... Yeah, sorry for interrupting. Yeah, did you? So unfortunately, I can't do anything because I'm not on the house itself, the contract, the mortgage but i keep telling him to pursue that because i can't do anything if i could i sure i would be on the phone daily why isn't he just i love him he's a very laid-back person when it comes to stuff like that he'd rather figure stuff out himself and to the tune of 80 000 yes that's not that's not a fun way to be chill to just go into crippling debt and do nothing about it.

2:00:34So he's right in that this is his problem, not from a like traditional man standpoint, because if that was the case, you guys wouldn't be living together before marriage if he was like super old school that way. But this is his house. And so let's say you guys, God forbid, you broke up and you put$50 ,000 of your own money into this house. You have no claim on this house. Yeah. And so that's the scary part. This is his problem to deal with legally, financially. And you have your own problem. If you guys broke up, you have nowhere to live. and you have no income. And so you both have your own crises to deal with right now, and this is on him to figure out this financial aspect.

2:01:12Now, once you're married, you combine your lives. Now it's going to be your jobs together to clean up the mess and to get to a better spot financially. But right now you both have your homework to do. Now, what were you doing for work before you were fired or laid off? I was an insurance agent. So I was the one that pushed him originally with the pipes happening, And I pushed him to look because he didn't know if he had any, sorry, blanking on it, but like the extra stuff you add to your home insurance. He had no idea if he had any of that or not. And he didn't? Well, he did. But the clay pipes are considered wear and tear, which is not covered under most home insurance policies.

2:01:53Sure. That insurance company didn't exist when those pipes were put in. So that's the hard part here is I would be going through that thing. I would upload my insurance documentation to AI and help me figure all this out and do some due diligence here to figure out what we can go after, what we have to cover, what isn't covered. So that's part of this whole thing. But what is he making right now? I believe he makes around$3 ,000 to$4 ,000 a paycheck. And he gets paid twice a month or what? Yes. Okay. So he's making a great income,$6 ,000 to$7 ,000. And have you tried to get back into the insurance world?

2:02:30Yes. It's just I'm having issues with like I just get rejection emails or I get ignored even if I try to reach out again. Well, do you know people in the insurance world that you can contact personally versus just sort of a name in a digital stack? Yes, I've tried to reach out, but most of the time they just. So unfortunately with my company, the reason I got laid off is they got acquired by a bigger company. So they weeded out the old employees. and from what I heard... What kind of insurance were you selling? It was life insurance and car insurance. Okay, because a lot of these jobs are commissioned, so it's not like they need to go pay you a whole bunch of money, right?

2:03:11Yeah. So I would be contacting every single person I know who's still in the insurance world, who's not tied to that company, and say, hey, are you guys hiring over there? What kind of positions? Can you give me a reference, a referral? That's how a lot of people get hired here at Ramsey, because we get thousands and thousands of applications. And the ones that pop to the top is because, well, Jade said he's awesome. You should look into him. Yeah, that'd be my homework for you tonight is I'd be compiling a list and I wouldn't go to sleep tonight until I have at least 10 people on that list. Even if it's somebody that somebody else knows that can say, oh, my buddy has a friend, right?

2:03:48It's okay if you're one to two people away. It's just something that someone can say, oh, I know somebody or I know of somebody. that's going to be something that's really going to help you. That being said, don't stop applying. You've got to get something. So keep applying. Keep looking for that in-between job to have something in the meantime, because I agree with you. You want to contribute. And I know that you're getting married, but today you want to contribute and you want to use your skills. And I think that you should. So keep working towards that. And I mean, my heart goes out to you because I know that that's tough.

2:04:20It's not easy to lose a job and it's not always easy to find a new job. So you do have your work cut out for you, but don't give up on that. And I do think that this also opens up an opportunity in your marriage to have some deeper conversations about expectations and how we're going to handle money and how we're going to handle things that pop up, right? Because this is an$80 ,000 deal here. We don't want to sleep on this. And we don't want to, you know, go easy on it because we're quote unquote chill. Yeah, if this is what the next 40 years of marriage looks like, is he's super passive and you're super frustrated, it's not going to bode well.

2:04:57And you guys have known each other a long time. So you know, here's the parts he probably will change or is willing to change. And here's where this is just who this guy is. And I love that about him, that he's so chill. And also, there's a downside to that. So some new conversations to have. But I would also look into just side gigs right now, Jenny. I know it's tough to kind of swallow the pride. I mean, you've done a great job just going, I'm going to apply to entry-level fast food. I'll do anything. I just want to have the, you know, that feeling of I'm producing, I'm adding some value here.

2:05:27And that might be, you know, delivering pizzas. I'd be going everywhere going, hey, are you guys hiring right now? I'd be driving around town looking for any hiring signs. And I'd walk in there as the best employee they've ever had. Absolutely. George and I actually did a segment on side hustles on Friday. That episode aired on Monday. You can find it on our Ramsey Solutions YouTube. But people posted tons and tons of side hustles in the comments of what they're doing and what they're earning from it. one person said, and I'm not saying that you're going to go on to do this, but just for anybody who's looking, one person said that they do document review and they do it from home.

2:05:59They make 23 an hour. Wow. Photography. If you have a special skill, I'm not saying it has to be photography. Even if you can watch kids or babysit kids or be a nanny, those are services that people will pay money for based off of your skillset, based off of your background check that you can do. And there's like a lot of apps and sites that make it easier. Like if you're going to watch kids or walkdogs, care.com. Yes. You can jump on there. Or if you're going to deliver, Instacart, Ship, DoorDash, all of these apps can help. Even finding side gigs like doing, you know, special events. They need people to help out and serve concessions, all kinds of things.

2:06:34Yeah, that's right. You just got to be looking for those opportunities. That's correct. Well, George, that puts this one in the books. Remember, guys, there's ultimately only one way to financial peace, and that's to walk daily with the Prince of Peace, Christ Jesus. Thank you.