When Life Hits Hard, Stay Focused on What You Can Control

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22:40um i don't even know where to start um i just feel i don't have control of any of my finances and to make it worse. My wife and I were financially divided. You know, it's her money, her money, my money, my money kind of thing. And my car just got re-boiled. My employer, they vet their employees every now and then. And that's another thing.

23:17Dave Ramsey:They do what to the employees every now and then? My employer, what they do is they make sure that we're financially good. They look at our, if we want to keep the employment, our credit score, our credit, it needs to be at least good. I mean, I need to make payments. What do you do? I work for the government. Oh, okay. Yeah. So you're concerned about that? That's one. I'm concerned about my marriage. So what do you make? I'm sorry? How much do you make? Right now I'm making about 75. And what does she make? About the same. So you have$150 ,000 coming in. And the crisis is where? How does your car get repoed when you have$150 ,000 coming in?

24:12so it it goes back to uh years ago um everything just started snowballing you know on depth you know one thing led to another another and then there was a series of events um a family member passed away two family members passed away and then the government shut down hit and that that That was the most recent one. Not only that, also, you know, just bad decisions that I made. You know, I got a loan to cover the loan.

24:45Dave Ramsey:Tell us where it got you. How much other debt do you have, honey? I have seven collections. I have, like, personal loans. Tell us the amount. How much personal loans?

25:03just personal loans I want to say about eight thousand nine thousand okay and what about the collections how much in collections in collections so we're talking about maybe I don't know I think about 15 to 20 so I'll tell you this I'll tell you something briefly and then we'll move on that's really going to help. Tonight, pull it all out and look at it and calculate it up and list them smallest to largest. And that way, it's not just this thing floating in your head. You really know what the numbers are. You can see it. You can name it. Do that tonight. So 15, 20 collections.

25:45Dave Ramsey:And have your spouse sit at the kitchen table with you doing that and the kids are in bed. Yeah, well, that's, you know, that's the thing. I mean, I've tried and I've tried to get my spouse. I didn't ask you to try. I asked you to do it. Yeah, what would cause her to say, no, I won't sit at the table with you? Because that's very deep. If she says, no, I refuse to sit at the table with you. No, no, she'll sit with me. Okay, then do it. But whenever we talk about finances, everything just spirals. I don't want her to talk about it. I just want her to sit there and watch you add up what you owe.

26:16Dave Ramsey:That's all I want her to do. Don't talk to her about it. Yeah, one thing I want to mention, I just recently joined the Guardian Litigation Group. Okay, good. Yeah, and so they're the ones now handling my accounts that my employer are questioning. Okay, the ones in collections? Yeah, I was in collections because I've been getting calls from different law firms. Because they're trying to sue you, yeah. Okay, so for the sake of time, you've got the$20 ,000 in collections. You've got the personal loans. Tell us, list out all of it. Tell us what else is there. Do you have cars? Do you have an RV? Tell us what else there is.

27:02No, I have another repo that I had last year, which is about$12 ,000. I also have under my name the solar panels, which was actually more than$20 ,000 because just the solar panels itself was about$45 ,000. But we have an attorney for that, which are handling that case because apparently that company, the solar panel company, they went bankruptcy. Okay. And so we have an attorney. Okay. Because we have a lease on the roof, whatever. Solar panels on paper today, you owe$45 ,000? Yes. Okay. Anything else? Other than that, it's just credit cards, personal loans. Yeah, how much? How much credit cards?

28:01Credit cards, maybe like$600. Oh, okay.

28:05Dave Ramsey:Daniel? Yeah. Daniel. You have$150 ,000 coming in. You're not paying any of these bills anyway. So mathematically, the question starts to pose, where is this money all going? Because you've not been paying any of these bills. You're not paying the solar panels. That's in the lawsuit. The rest of these things are in collection. You're not paying anything. The cars have been repoed, and so you're not paying those. Month to month. So where is all of your money going? What's your house payment? So the house payment, it's about$1 ,600.

28:41Yeah, Dave is right. Something's not right.

28:44Dave Ramsey:You have$150 ,000 coming into the household. You have$75 ,000 of it. You are in control. You're in division. You're at odds with your spouse, which is normal when you've got this much stress. But the way you eat an elephant is a bite at a time. And so Jade is right. If you list these things out and you say, okay, there's the solar panels. The attorney's got that. There's the collections. Guardian litigation's got that. The car repo, I'm going to turn that over to guardian litigation, let them handle it. And if they can't, then I'm going to start. But I'm not paying anything on it, so it's sitting over there.

29:22Dave Ramsey:So the first thing we're going to buy with the money coming in is food. Yes. The second thing we're going to buy is lights and water. And the third thing we're going to do is pay the house payment. And the fourth thing we're going to do is pay the car payment, put gas in the car and go to work. Now we can breathe. The rest of this is a Monopoly game. The rest of it's a game and you're behind. You hadn't passed GO. Oh, wait a minute. You did pass GO. You got more than$200. You got$150 ,000. Yeah, that's right. Because you keep passing GO every month. And so, but what's happened is, is you've got, you walked into a nest of bees and they're flying around your head and you can't think.

29:55Dave Ramsey:That's right. And so what I want to do is get those bees to line up and fly in formation so I can knock them off one at a time. But, you know, the numbers you're giving me don't match your attitude. Yeah, I have a sense that what he's listing is his side of the equation, and there's probably a whole other, quote, her side of the equation. It's possible. I actually think that's the biggest part of this right now. it's very, very hard to move forward together when you're not on the same page. But if you make$75 ,000 to$150 ,000, you should not have a car repoed. No. And you should not have a house.

30:34Dave Ramsey:You should not be behind on your house. You could be behind on a whole bunch of other things. But you don't pay stupid whatever and not pay your car payment. You don't pay stupid whatever and not pay your house payment. Yeah, that's true. And so we take care of food, shelter, clothing, transportation, and utilities. Then we live to fight another day. Right. And part of what is causing your lack of energy, your lack of hope in your voice is that you have no semblance of any kind of an attack plan. And we're giving you an attack plan. And the brain can handle bad news. It can't handle not knowing.

31:15Dave Ramsey:So give it the bad news. Yeah. Load it up tonight. Give her brain the bad news. Let her sit there and look at the mess tonight with you. And then you guys begin to attack this one thing at a time.

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33:01Dave Ramsey:Chad is in Oklahoma City. Hey, Chad, what's up? Hey, Dave. It's a pleasure to be on this show. Certainly. How can we help? All right, so I have a very dangerous career that I'm rapidly approaching the end of, which is freestyle motocross. And, you know, I've broken over 80 bones and been through all of it, right? I'm in my 25th year of it. I love doing it, you know, performing in front of crowds. All of that is absolutely amazing. But in the middle of baby set two with the wife, everything's going smoothly. I've kind of got a side gig in the trades trying to look at career options as far as the next path because I'm only 44.

33:48But, you know, with our debts and everything, I'm trying to figure out how long I should hang on to this dangerous career. while trying to still set the family up as far as freedom for later.

34:01Dave Ramsey:I don't know that I've ever coached a professional motocross guy. What kind of money do you make? So in the freestyle motocross world, it's all about how many shows or events you can do per year, right? It's not contingent on winnings and stuff like racing. It's more exhibition stuff, okay. Yes, sir. We're doing all kinds of stuff, like all over the world, really. So how much do you do? I really try to do a lot of ministry stuff. Cool. How much do you make? On a healthy year, about 125, 130 on a good healthy year, you know, if you don't break any bones, obviously. On the side trade still, I'm pulling in about an extra 50.

34:48Okay.

34:48Dave Ramsey:Okay. And the side trade is what? uh electric work okay good good and so your plan long term it sounds like is to become an electrician yes uh the area that we live in is more rural you know and what do you want to be when you're 55 that's what i'm asking right yeah that's that's that's what i'm trying to ask myself Well, you can't do motocross until 55. No, I'm saying, what is your plan to transition to? That's the ultimate question right there. I mean, right now I'm leaning towards the electrician thing. Okay, that's cool. The other thing that popped into my head immediately would be that you obviously are the top 1 % of the people in your world.

35:40Dave Ramsey:and it would seem to me that without ever getting on a bike again, you could lend tremendous value to the motocross world based on your experience and your name for that matter. Because if you've been making this kind of money and breaking these kind of bones for this number of years, I would think you know everybody and you know the inner workings of the whole stinking deal and how it runs, no pun intended. And I would think you could get into that. Like I've got a friend that was an Olympic athlete in the skating world, and he doesn't skate for a living anymore. Sure. But he knows everyone in the business.

36:22Dave Ramsey:Everyone knows his name in the business, and he's able to add value to the skating world, tremendous value, and makes probably more money than he's ever made in his life doing that. So that's a possible angle on your life that just popped into my head. But if you don't want to do that, if you want to just turn your back on motocross, I don't blame you. If you've got 44 broken bones, I can imagine not wanting to see it ever again wouldn't be bad. And if you want to be an electrician, that's fine, too. Then begin to – what I would suggest you do is get the boat closer to the dock. Don't jump towards the boat and hope you hit it.

36:59Dave Ramsey:No, no, no. That's definitely the plan. Yeah, get your electrician income up and gradually take fewer and fewer motocross gigs, because it sounds like you could probably trim this back a little, rather than just all or nothing. Because there's electricians that make$120 a year. That's what I've been working to do, for sure. There's electricians that make$120 a year. Not in my area. There is. There is, just not in my area. I'm pretty much almost capped out on that. Okay, then you can't be in your area. the contract. You either have to be in a different area or you need to maybe think about another path or combining paths.

37:37Is there something where you do electrician work and you do something in motocross world?

37:42Dave Ramsey:That's not riding. Yeah. Right. Yeah. That's kind of what I'm hopeful for. The question is, what's your timeline in an ideal state? Are you trying to make this transition in two years? Are you trying to make it in three? What's your timeline? With our baby sets, I really think we can be debt-free by the end of 27. Okay. No problem. And then that's house and everything. And then I was just honestly leaning on putting, you know, two years kind of after that, kind of really putting what we are already currently doing, but, you know, hyper doing the investments. Yeah, but I think you could do that without being in motocross if your electrician income came up.

38:30yes uh well we're i mean where we're at we i mean we have our our we live in the country very close to a very very small town we have our dream home dream life so again i go back to next door i go back to what i said before which is if you're saying the market simply is not large enough in your area then you do have two choices you can either combine combine uh trades and say i'm going to be an electrician and then I'm going to do something else to generate the income I need, or you would have to relocate, which it sounds like relocation's off the table for you. So that now it's, okay, what other things can I do?

39:05And I'm also wondering, does your wife work or is it really just, is it just your income? No, no, she does.

39:12Dave Ramsey:We both work two jobs. Okay. So here's the thing. You do what Henry Cloud talks about. He just got a new book out this week. He was on here yesterday. What is your desired future? Okay. And you put a timeline on it and you say, okay, my desired future is I don't want to ride a motorbike more than two more years or whatever you decide. And then you ask yourself, what must be true for me to be able to do that? That's not true today. And what we've been sitting here banging on is your income has to be up in the other stuff. And I don't know how you do that or what you have to give up to do that, but you're either going to be riding motocross or you're not going to be living there.

39:55Dave Ramsey:You're either going to be riding motocross or you're going to get your dad gum electrician income up. I mean, if you want to stop one and start another, you've got to, you know, you've got to figure out what it is you're going to do. And then you got to say, what must be true? How have I got to do that? Well, I can't do it with electrician. Okay. How can I do it? Well, I can't do it with electrician and live here. Then I got to move or I, you know, whatever it is, Something's got to shake. Whatever it is. But you can't just go, I'm suddenly going to live on half of what I've been making. I'm glad you didn't call me and say I'm making$600 ,000 a year doing this, and I've got to take a pay cut to$50 ,000.

40:28Dave Ramsey:That's right. That's tough. And I thought for a minute, the way you're talking, like my life is in jeopardy. I'm breaking bones. And I thought you were making some unbelievable money. But$130 ,000 is replaceable. It is. And honestly, I'd be working to do that really quick because I don't think it's worth tearing your body up for$130 ,000. Your brain is already checked out, which makes you dangerous. Uh-huh. Uh-huh. So I want you to get off that bike within 24 months. We can definitely send you, find the work you're wired to do. And inside of that, there's a career assessment inside. You can take the assessment because I'll tell you what.

41:03Dave Ramsey:And the wiring has nothing to do with electricity. That's right. That's just an unintended pun. But I will say, when you go from a career that feels very driven by excitement and... Spotlight. Yes. When he said, I'm just going to go be an electrician, I thought, are you going to be okay like that? I really think if he can find something connected to that world, like you said, that's going to give him the spark he wants to keep going. But what do I know? I got a feeling you could make 200 a year promoting those events. Promoting. and hiring the other talent to run the events and analyzing the talent from the perspective of someone who's actually done it.

41:43Dave Ramsey:I think you can make me make more than you used to make riding a bike, but I don't know anything about it. I'm making that up. Yeah. That was just, I've just made that up, but I'm so freaking entrepreneurial that I always figure there's a business in there somewhere. There's gotta be. There's a business in there somewhere. Because he's already an expert in that area. So it's... You and Sam did it. You were performers on cruise ships, and now you and Sam own one of the largest agencies in the world putting talent on stages on cruise ships. That's right. And you've not been talent on a stage on a cruise ship in a long time except when you went on the Ramsey cruise.

42:16That's correct.

42:17Dave Ramsey:But other than that, I mean, so you took the talent gig and the knowledge from it and you turned it into a business. And that's exactly what I'm talking about. That's right. That's right.

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44:10Dave Ramsey:Welcome back to the Ramsey Show in the Fairwinds Credit Union Studio. I'm Dave Ramsey, Jade Boshaw Ramsey personality. Number one bestselling author is my co-host today. Carla is in Pensacola. Hi, Carla. How are you? Hi, Dave. I'm good. How are you? Better than I deserve. What's up? So my husband and I, we had a catastrophic life-changing event in November of last year. I was diagnosed with stage four bladder cancer. Whoa. And yeah, it's been a humbling experience to say the least. we own our own business. I think the Lord that we had a savings personally and business wise, but we have since lost everything.

45:08Everything has, well, I say lost everything. All of our money is gone. So we're starting from ground zero again.

45:17Dave Ramsey:How are you doing? I'm doing better also. So with the blessing from God, I just got my latest PET scan, and the cancer is diminishing. Oh, good. So we are on the right track. Amen. That's what's important. Yes. Money comes and goes, but you got to protect that. Wow. So you didn't have health insurance? No. Unfortunately, I did not. Why? Neither one of us had health insurance because we were young in our minds and naive and just pretty healthy. Neither one of us ever gets sick. How old are you? And then I'm 53. So what do these bills amount to? Oh, they amounted to, were well over$100 ,000. And how much did you have in savings?

46:16We had about$100 ,000 combined, personal and business. And the bills were about$100 ,000.

46:24Dave Ramsey:You cleaned out your cash, but you haven't lost the business. No, that is correct. How are you continuing to pay for your medical care at this point? Right now, because I cannot work, I have been approved for disability. Okay. I will get my first paycheck from disability June 3rd. And how much is that? And that will be$1 ,900 is what I've been approved for a month. And in the meantime, I mean, I go back to my first question, which is how are you paying for your care? I'm on Medicaid now as well. Okay. Good. We did have, we purchased in January a health care policy, but that was costing us over almost$1 ,000 a month.

47:14Then in the midst of that, in February, I got approved. But then, of course, the system, I didn't kick in until March. And so, yeah, here we are.

47:27Dave Ramsey:Okay, so with you fighting cancer and you have a$1 ,900 a month income, you've cleaned out your savings, and your husband's running the business, I assume. What is he making? He is just now returning back to work. What is the business? We anticipate the business is truck driving. Okay, all right. And so his income is going to come back now? Partially, because he still has to come back to me every week for my chemo treatment. And what will he make in part-time? He will be making approximately$1 ,000 a week is what we're hoping for him to be able to bring home. Okay, so now we've got$6 ,000 a month to work with.

48:14Dave Ramsey:And so this is devastating. I'm so sorry you've been through this. so what I want to give you permission to do is to live on$6 ,000 a month making sure that your health treatments continue until you get this beat when you get this beat then you go back to work he goes back to work and we get our income back up and then we rebuild with that can I throw another wrench in the pile My father just passed away also. So I just inherited his$60 ,000 worth of debt. Honey, you don't inherit debt. Well, it's a house. Well, sell it. Okay. Sell it? Yeah. Yeah. What's it worth if you sold it? I have no idea.

49:10More than$60 ,000. It might end up being a blessing for you. Okay. Right now I'm dealing with squatters in the house trying to get them out.

49:18Dave Ramsey:Well, evict them and get a good real estate agent. Get the squatters evicted. Get the house sold. You're fighting chemo. You don't need to fight squatters in chemo. Let's just pick one. I'll pick the cancer. Let's beat that one. And get a good real estate agent. Go to RamseySolutions.com and find one of our Ramsey Trusted Real Estate Pros and tell them you're struggling with cancer. Your husband's on the road trying to make a living. And you've got this house you need to get flipped. then you've got to get these people flipped out of it and have them run it down for you, and they can pay the attorney out of the proceeds of the house to do the eviction on the squatters.

49:52Dave Ramsey:Okay. If he just passed away, how come there's already squatters in it? That's weird. He passed away March 25th. Yeah, but I mean, were they lined up in the street ready to jump in the house? Was he just not in the house? Was he in the hospital for a long time? But he was in the hospital, and he stayed with my aunt, his sister. So it was empty a lot, and it looks like nobody lived there. The house has been in our family for four decades. Is it in good condition? It's not going to be anymore. No, I know. You can't have it. You have enough on your plate. You don't need to evict squatters, renovate a four-decade-old property, and be screwing around with all that.

50:41Dave Ramsey:You need to fight cancer and win. Concentrate on what's important. This is a distraction. Okay. Cut it loose. Make your life simple. I'm going to laser focus chemo and beat cancer. Chemo, beat cancer. When that's done, we'll rebuild our savings, and part of what will help us do that is the sale of this house, and that's what you've got to do. But, yeah, the problem is when all this stuff starts coming at you, folks, from 14 different directions, you've got to choose your battles. And, you know, you've got to pick out which thing you're going to take on first and take on the most important thing, and that's called living.

51:20That's right. That's right. She's been, when it rains, it pours. And, I mean, she's been through it. But for anybody listening right now, the takeaway from this is, oh, my goodness, do you need insurance? You've got to have it. You've got to have health insurance. You've got to have life insurance, term life insurance. You got to have a will. All of these things are there because it's a you're moving the risk off you onto somebody else because they're all there. Everybody wants to be healthy forever. Everybody wants to live forever. But that's not the case. It's just not the case.

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54:21Dave Ramsey:Annabelle is with us in Anchorage. Hi, Annabelle. How are you? Hi, I'm doing great. How about you? Better than I deserve. What's up? Well, first, it's an honor to talk to you both. Jade, I'm in the middle of your book right now. And Dave, I'm in the middle of Total Money Makeover as well. Wow. Very good. You're caught in the middle. Yeah. With that said, you guys have been working on me for about the last six months. I've been diving into the podcast. And about the last week, I committed to the program. I increased my income. I got a second full-time job. and um this this morning i set up my every dollar budget wow look at you so what do you think what how do you feel so i was i was like

55:09relieved to the point of crying good um because you have a plan and you're back in control so jade and that was because of you so in your book i think you said that it's scary when you don't have eyes and you actually be surprised at how much fear goes away when you just actually add up all the numbers and see what it is. That's right. That's right. You can actually get a handle on it. So that actually happens? Mm-hmm. Yeah. Oh, gosh. Sorry. It's okay. What you're experiencing is, it's exactly right.

55:40Dave Ramsey:It's called relief. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. All right. So, all right. Let's collect ourselves. So I'm a local dog trainer. I've been self-employed here in Alaska for the last seven years, and I've been afraid to do this because my income is so volatile. It's hit or miss with the economy. So I didn't want to make any more dumb butt decisions. So I went out like Dave said to do, and I increased my income. I became a correctional officer. So now my base income is not zero. Great. Which is fantastic. But I had a question about the sinking funds. I am going to need winter tires in October. And while I am budgeting for that, is that considered a sinking fund or a budget item?

56:26And what's the difference? For where you are, I would consider that a sinking fund because generally a sinking fund is something that you cannot pay for in one month's cash flow, right? It's something that's like, I kind of have to save up a little bit for this. And my guess is that that's what this is for you. How much are the four tires going to cost you? $1 ,200. $1 ,200, exactly. And my guess is you can't cash flow that in a single month in October when you need them, or can you? Maybe you can. So I would have to take from my margin, which is currently all being poured into my debt. And so I could cash flow it.

57:05How much margin do you have? About$2 ,600 a month. I mean, honestly, that's totally up to you if you wanted to do it that way. If you feel like, you know what, I'm making...

57:14Dave Ramsey:You're taking from the margin either way. Yeah. You're either going to take from it a little bit for three months or four months, or you're going to take from it a lot in one month. and the the thing that would put me over the edge but but what we're talking about is your motivation right because you're in the middle of paying off debt so if you say you know i'm really i feel like i'm making progress i love the seeing the number go down every single month if that's where you are right now then i would say hold it off until october and then just do it in one shot and that keeps you feeling motivated october's not a good debt reduction month and it's the snow tires fault and that's okay yeah okay okay i can do that yeah i like that for you in october there is a little buffer here in alaska because we get the alaska pfd so that's an extra thousand dollars or more that we get from the state every every state resident so now we got 3 600 that month in margin minus 1200 so then you really won't feel it you won't hardly notice it okay yeah that's perfect i didn't even think about that alaska's gonna buy your tires Yes.

58:15Finally, the taxes. I love that for me. All right. Well, that was my question. Can I ask one more? Sure. How would I do that? Another thing that I went ahead and did was I signed up with Xander for life insurance.

58:29Dave Ramsey:Good. That's a budget item. Okay. That's a budget item. Monthly. All right. That's a cost of being alive is having life insurance. All right. Hey, we're proud of you, by the way. You're doing so good. Yeah, you are. Thank you so much. You're actually coachable. You're amazing. Yeah. Yeah. Well, I waited six months to call, so I made sure I was. Yes. Oh, well, you're our prize student of the day. You get an apple. Yes. Well, thank you so much. You guys have a wonderful day. Yeah, you too. That was fun. It's a great call. Yeah. The thing is, here's what's interesting, and what I want people that are out there on the edge and they haven't decided whether they're going to do this or not.

59:13Dave Ramsey:The tears and the emotion comes from not being out of debt because her life mathematically has not changed a dime yet. That's right. Yet. But it's actually seeing a light at the end of the tunnel that is for the first time in your life is not an oncoming train. You know, we actually are going, this is freaking, when you put the numbers down, the numbers look at you and say, this is going to work. And you go, oh my gosh, The numbers just told me this is going to work. And this is called hope. Yes. And hope in personal finance is the sauce, baby. Hope is the secret sauce. It'll make you work hard.

59:54Dave Ramsey:Hope will make you sacrifice. It'll make you sell off your prized possession because you want to get to somewhere you're not there yet. Hope will make you do all kinds of mature, grown-up stuff. Yes. That's why we tell you, that's why we're always giving people every dollar. Because the moment that you start plugging those numbers into every dollar, and it happens just the way Dave said, you start to see, oh my gosh, number one, you see your income in one place for the first time and you realize, oh, I do make money. And I really have been wasting a lot of it. Yes. And then you see the margin or some of us a lack of margin.

1:00:27And for the first time, we see it for what it is in facts. Okay, I'm$400 over or I'm$700 over. And then when you see the first step in solving a problem, Dave, is identifying that there is actually a problem. So when you actually see it, okay, I'm over budget. I'm in the red. Even though that doesn't feel nice, at least you can recognize the problem. And now you get about the business of actually solving the problem. And if you have felt like a rat in a wheel for so long and you suddenly have hope, it will make you cry. Yeah, it will.

1:00:59Dave Ramsey:It makes me cry thinking about it because I've been there where you're under a rock and somebody's standing on a stinking rock. Hello. And when you realize I don't have to stand, get off my rock. Yes. You know, I'm not going to live like this. And you go, there's a way to do this. And it changes everything. It's so powerful. See, the brain science tells us that bad news is not as bad as no news. ambivalence is way more dangerous to your brain. Not knowing is way more dangerous to your brain than knowing exactly what I got to do and what I got to fight. Right. Because when you don't know, your brain fills in gaps with all sorts of stories and ideas and fears and all sorts of things.

1:01:46Dave Ramsey:Yeah. We have a friend who's in the process right now beating cancer. Just knocked one of them out. He had two. He's collecting them. And he's got one of them knocked down. He's working on the other one. And he will tell you that when the doc says you got cancer, but it's going to be a week before we can tell you how bad it is. That week is more hell than actually fighting the stinking thing once you know what it is. It's stage two. This is what we're going to do. Here's the treatment plan. Here's the prognosis. You've got a year of hell ahead of you and no hair ahead of you, and you're going to live.

1:02:21Dave Ramsey:That's right. But it's going to be awful. Your brain can handle that news better than, I've got cancer, but I don't know if I'm going to die tomorrow from it. Or I don't know if it's stage four, one. I don't know if I drove by it. I don't know what it is. The not knowing crap, that ambivalence is way harder from a brain science perspective for human beings to deal with than the actually knowing this is what we're dealing with. And if you look down and you go, God, that's a lot of debt. that's not nearly as bad as I've got a lot of debt and I have no idea and I'm stuck and I just but when you write it down like you said you get that you you'll have Annabelle's reaction and you you may not call us crying but you will stand in the mirror and cry yeah you go oh my gosh I'm gonna be okay it's gonna be tough I might sell some stuff I'm gonna take a job as a correction officer while I train dogs but I can do this and what must be true that's not true today and all of a sudden your brain starts adjusting for what must be true that's not true yep today to get this freaking mess cleaned up.

1:03:23Dave Ramsey:You automatically do it. It's a human function. You can't keep yourself from doing it. You problem solve once you realize what the stinking problem is.

1:03:53Thank you.

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1:05:13Dave Ramsey:Are you worried about being able to afford a home? A lot of people are. A lot of people have believed everything they read on the internet, which is a really bad idea. Because it can steal your hope and falsely steal your hope. So why don't you sit down with a good real estate agent and find out what you can actually afford? Or figure out what your home is actually worth and talk about putting it on the market if you're going to sell. When you actually deal with facts instead of internet mythology, your life will change, I promise you. The Ramsey Trusted Program is the only way to find a top agent you can trust that we trust.

1:05:55Dave Ramsey:and they'll make your home a blessing or buying a home, not a burden, and be a blessing because you'll be dealing with reality, not internet mythology. See, if there is a reason for you to be worried about something, I will tell you. I believe in it. I'll tell you bad news. I don't mind. But I'm also not going to allow the hope stealers out there to steal your hope falsely. I mean, if you make$40 ,000 a year and you live in Los Angeles, you're not going to buy a home. That's the truth. You can't afford it. That's right. Okay? That's the truth. You have an affordability problem. But most people aren't in that situation.

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1:07:10Dave Ramsey:That's the letter Y-R-E-F-Y dot com slash Ramsey. Might not be in all states. All righty. Today's question comes from Paul in Ohio. he says, I'm debt-free and almost have my emergency fund in place. Once that's done, I want to upgrade my vehicle and I'll pay cash. How do I handle a dealer that I know will be pushing financing even just for a short time so they can get a better profit margin? I'm determined to walk in with cash and take it home the same day. I love this question and I think it's great. You're going in there, you're paying with cash. And I think the first thing is you've already decided that you're paying with cash.

1:07:45So there's no way you're getting into financing. So you've already drawn that line in the sand. And I'll tell you, for me, I think the best way to handle it is I don't, and I've done it the wrong way before, but I don't tell them that I'm paying in cash until we've negotiated the price. Because once if you walk in and say, well, I've got cash and this is all I've got, I've got 30 ,000 and nothing more. They kind of lose interest in the deal in many ways, especially if you've made it very clear that you're not financing because they don't, you're right. They're not making as much because financing, there's a kickback, there's add-ons that they get.

1:08:17They earn more off people who finance the car. So I wait and I say, let's just talk price and let's get the price to where we both agree and where I agree. And then I can let loose saying, by the way, I'm paying cash. And they usually don't like that very much. And they're going to try to push for you. Even if you just finance this much, you could pay it off next month. They're going to do all those things. And you're going to say no thank you and then they're going to act like they need 10 people to approve your check and they don't and it's just a lot of rigmarole that you just have to say this is this is the way they're going to act but this is the way I'm going to act and like I said before you even tell them that you're you know paying cash that's the time where I'm trying to negotiate okay can you take the document fee off hey can you I don't want the extended warranty I'm telling them everything up front, we're locked down on the feet, and then I slide the cash over, and it's a done and done.

1:09:12Dave, what do you think?

1:09:14Dave Ramsey:That will work. There's nothing wrong with that plan at all. The more expensive the used car, the closer I would stick to that strategy. If you're buying a$5 ,000 or a$10 ,000 used car, they're not making a lot on the financing. Yeah. And I would just say, I have$9 ,000, and you're asking$12 ,000, and here's$9 ,000, And if you want to take that, I'm leaving with the car. If you don't, I'm leaving with my cash. Do you want the car or do you want these Benjamins? I mean, it's that simple, right? Put it close enough for them to smell them. Smell it, right? It's right there. Open the briefcase and go, do you want this?

1:09:47Dave Ramsey:You know, I'm kidding, but not much. You know, and so that's a cheaper car, right? Now, if you're buying a brand new car that's not a specialty vehicle, it's a standard model. So if you work it carefully, you can buy those for usually 500 over invoice. And just go in and say, I'm looking at that car. Will you sell it to me at 500 over invoice? Just leave it at that. And then they will show you the invoice. Now, after that, the reason they will do that is, or sometimes they'll sell it to you at invoice, because they get manufacturer rebates that they put in their pocket, okay, in that process. And then I just go, I'm going to wire you the money.

1:10:31And that's that on that. Yeah.

1:10:32Dave Ramsey:Now, if you're buying something that is an M, there's a shortage on that vehicle. It's more of a specialty high-end vehicle of some kind. They may be marking up above MSRP on that, like the Raptor that I drive. That Raptor R, that thing, they only get a handful of those, and they often sell for more than sticker. Right, because there's more demand. Because they can easily, they get two per dealership or something, they can easily get that. But that's an expensive specialty rare vehicle. Very unusual deal. So there are a lot of different ways to approach this. But, yeah, if you just say, if you nail it down on invoice, you get the exact same treatment you're doing, and you go, and no, I don't need the ceramic coating bull crap.

1:11:14Dave Ramsey:I don't need all the bull crap. Man, they can shovel. A car dealership can shovel more bull than anybody I've ever seen in my life. And I've got a lot of good friends that are car dealers, and they laugh at me, and we joke when we're hanging out together. Ramsey, you're the bane of my existence. But, you know, because nobody will lease a car because of you. And I'm like, that's because I'm doing my job better than you're doing yours. So there you go. Shots fired. Jay is with me, with us in Los Angeles. Hi, Jay. How are you? Good. How's it going? Better than we deserve. How can we help? So the reason for my call is I am self-employed.

1:11:55I'm a contractor and I make decent money. I've only been doing this for going on two years now, but I've been in this line of work for a long time. So we've picked up work pretty quickly, but I'm having trouble getting my wife on the same page. I would like to eventually buy a house and pay off debt, but we've been arguing a lot lately. What are you arguing about? Well, as money comes in, she has all these ideas of what she wants to spend on. And sometimes for the sake of not fighting, I'll kind of let it go. Ideas like what?

1:12:46Dave Ramsey:You mean she wants to buy food? Well, she'll buy food. like well she eats out for every meal and then um like she's we have uh our house looks like an amazon warehouse um it's like tons and tons of stuff things stuff yeah and then i mean it's like friends birthday parties friends kids birthday parties let's get them this let's get them that It's my mom's friend's graduation. How long have you been married? I don't know, just like anything. Two years as of last week. About the time you went in business and started making money. Yeah. What does she do? She's a stay-at-home mom. We have two kids together.

1:13:41Dave Ramsey:Yeah, okay. And what are you bringing in from the contractor deal? So what's your net profit that you pay taxes on in a year? So last year, net profit was about 187. This year, gross, I'm on track to make about 450. But we don't have anything. I made$30 ,000 gross in the last two weeks. I took home about 16 and we're down to about 2 ,000. Okay. Well, I mean, obviously you have a marriage problem. You don't have a financial problem. And so the two of you need to sit down together and say, Honey, I can't live like this. You're killing me. We're going to have to get on the same page. We're not in Congress.

1:14:30Dave Ramsey:We can't spend like we are. And we're going to have to get on the same page. And yes, you need to buy some things, but I am unwilling to make$400 ,000 a year and be broke. I'm not going to live like this. And so if we can't sit down here at the kitchen table and work that out like two adults, then we're going to have to sit down with a good marriage counselor.

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1:16:28Dave Ramsey:So as we survey our audience, one of the things you guys always bring back to us is, hey you remember that call that the weird thing that happened on the air whatever happened to that guy and we always answer we don't know because we have no idea what happened to him but lately we've decided we're going to fix that and a time or two uh in the last few months we've taken one of those calls that when we posted it like on instagram it had like 10 million people view and went whoa that's wild um and we go back to the person and go okay what happened what did you do. So Jade and I took a call in November from a guy.

1:17:01Dave Ramsey:And well, I'll just let the clip explain it. We're going to play the thing we ended up posting on Instagram. My fiance does not quite know what my net worth is. How do I tell her fully? And my lawyer says I pretty much have to have a prenup. Well, your lawyer is not in charge of your life. Number one. Lawyers give advice. They don't tell me what to do. And then I decide if, A, that I want them to be my lawyer anymore, and B, if I'm going to take their advice. They don't get to tell me I have to do something. You're not the boss of me. Now, so how in the world do you get engaged and have never told her?

1:17:39Dave Ramsey:You should have told her before you got engaged. I agree. She knows I'm worth a decent amount. She just doesn't know the full amount. What is the full amount? Close to 20 million. Wow. And you're telling me there's no signs that you're a 20 millionaire? There are signs when you're a 20 millionaire, Dave. Come on. Well, there can be. I don't know. There's so many people, they look like they, you know. No, there's not always a sign. But, you know, and then other times there's a sign. So there we go. So we said, okay, the lawyer's right. Even though he was a bit bossy about it, he probably do need a prenup.

1:18:14Dave Ramsey:And we said, you probably need to sit down with your, like, as soon as you hang up the phone with your fiance and have the conversation. And we wondered, how'd that conversation go? I mean, if you're the fiance and you get here suddenly, do you go, wow? Do you go, you liar? I mean, do you go, I mean, wow, that's crazy. So we got Brian on the phone. And Brian's in Minneapolis, and this is the guy we talked to just a little while ago. And the clip we just played, Brian, how are you? Better than I deserve, as the saying goes. I've heard the rumor. So that's the first thing I do want to know. I'm very, very curious.

1:18:54Dave Ramsey:So how quickly after that call did you sit down with her and tell her exactly that you had$20 million? And then what was her reaction? Probably a couple weeks when I saw her in person, since we're not always together. And her reaction was what I honestly fully expected it to be. Oh. So, okay. But there was nothing more, honestly, to the conversation. And when you say got back together, because she's out of the country, right? Yeah, we are in two different countries, but I go back and forth a lot. Yeah, you're in the United States. She's in Canada. Correct. No, I mean, she just looked at you and went, oh, okay.

1:19:32Dave Ramsey:Literally, that's what she said. 20 million bucks. Wow. 20 million bucks. Okay. Literally, she mentioned coffee. Like I told you guys when I got to meet you after this. It was, I was the guy down there met you two. Well, did she suspect it? I mean, because you're making$700 ,000 a year. Did she suspect that? She knew. I said, did you have any idea? And she said, oh, I thought maybe a million or two was her honest response. OK. And I said, OK, cool. So nothing changed. She just said, no, nothing changed. Not a single thing. So you definitely did not accidentally stumble into a gold digger, huh?

1:20:10Dave Ramsey:No, I'm not. The opposite. She's bored with your 20 million. She it's not going to change. It's a big yawn. I live now in any way. It was a big old yawn, like, oh, okay, whatever. Yeah, because remember, you were worried about it because you said that in a previous relationship, somebody kind of took advantage of you for your money. And I remember that being a pain point for you. Yeah, it was for sure. And with her, it's not. Not that at all. She's one of the hardest workers I've ever met. And so did you talk about a prenup then? Yep, we did on it. And she, again, said, yep, no problem whatsoever.

1:20:44Wow. So she's one in a million. She really is. So did you guys set a date? We're hoping for August, September sometime in there. We're not going to throw a big old chin dig. It's going to be this family and stuff like that. So hopefully sooner than later.

1:21:01Dave Ramsey:Okay. So you kind of thought that this was going to be a big yawn for her and she was just going to go, eh, whatever. You kind of thought that, didn't you? Yeah, my gut told me it wasn't going What percentage of you when you sat down was a wee bit worried? What percentage? I wouldn't say more than five. Okay. Honestly. So you know her pretty good then. I do. I was a little worried because I don't want to say I hid it, but I never was forthcoming about it. Yeah, that was the part. Yeah, on it. But she reacted how I would have put a lot of money on. She would react. She just said, no, it's not a big deal.

1:21:38It doesn't change. And you didn't tell us, but what was her financials? She takes good care of her money, right? Yeah, she, she, there's things I just didn't say. She has a son on it. I didn't think people really needed to know that, but I'll say it now. And he has autism. So she, he's going to be with us this whole life. But she, she is the best mother, the most caring person. And she made sure that he has always provided for on it. And so she had some things that maybe weren't the smartest financial

1:22:09Dave Ramsey:decisions ever, but she, you know, being a single mom is not the easiest thing in the world. No, it's not. No, not at all. Wow. Especially if you plug a little autism into the equation, yeah. Wow. So I got to tell you, this is the most normal reaction to a really bizarre set of numbers. Yeah. Dave, I would, honestly, how I feel, I would sign her. She could have it, and I wouldn't be worried she would take an RV. Well, my guess is you guys' life is not going to change. Like, you're not. No, it's not. A little strain will come off of her. Yeah, sure. Yeah. You know, people, I might have looked over the Instagram and seen people saying, cheat this and that.

1:22:48I value my money to be spent on experiences. Yeah. Yes, that's right. So over materialistic things. So for us, it's not going to change how we live one bit.

1:22:59Dave Ramsey:Oh, dude, we should have told you not to read the Instagram comments. Well, you know. Reading Instagram comments, you understand why some species eat their young. Yes, I do. Well, you did see folks saying this is a good problem to have, and they are absolutely right. This is a good problem to have. There was a lot of funny comments like that. Like, I wish I had this problem with my fiancé. But, yeah, those were funny comments. But, yeah, I don't read the Instagram comments. It's never going to bother me, Dave. Good, good. You got thick skin. And honestly, yeah, wow. Well, you guys are devastatingly normal for some really weird numbers and some fabulously weird numbers in a good way.

1:23:34Dave Ramsey:And congratulations. I'm glad it all worked out. Thanks for giving us the update. I appreciate you coming back on. Yeah. And we will actually see if she wants to come next time I come to Tennessee. So we're going to stop in. Oh, I'd love that. I'd love that. Great. Come on in. We'll buy you a chocolate chip cookie and a cup of coffee. Yes. Oh, I love the follow-up. That's so cool. And by the way, if you are watching and you've called in and shared something and you want to follow up, give us a call. Tell us. We want to know. If you're interesting, we'll put you back on. But I mean, if it was just boring, we don't want to follow up with your boring call.

1:24:10Dave Ramsey:That's true. It needs to have 10 million views. 20 million did have 10 million on your Instagram. I don't even know what mine was. Oh, boy. Oh, my gosh. Wow. Crazy. So it just goes to show we give advice, and sometimes it can make you feel a little out of your comfort zone. It can make you feel a little bit like, oh, I don't know if I want to do that. But there's a rainbow on the other side of this. Like if you follow the advice, it might feel a little uncomfortable for a moment, but usually it's a happy ending here. Well, when it comes to finances with a person you're going to spend your whole life with, your spouse, your future spouse, 1 ,000 % transparency is the only possible equation.

1:24:53Dave Ramsey:There's no other possible answer. Well, I don't tell them about that. That's lying. Okay. The Target bags under the bed are not cute, Oprah. It's not cute. And so if you have to hide your Target purchases, gentlemen, if you have to hide your latest firearm purchase in your business P &L because you didn't want your wife to know what you spent on that gun, that's lying. That is lying. Okay. Yeah. Can you tell I have discovered that a time or two coaching? I was going to say, that sounded a little too detailed. I didn't do that. I didn't do that. Oh, okay, okay. But I have witnessed guys, particularly guys that own their own businesses, they managed to slide it under the bed, slide the bag under the bed, and there you go.

1:25:39Dave Ramsey:So, yeah, just it's the cleanliness of honesty, the cleanliness of integrity. It's a good word. It's essential to wealth building, and it's essential to high-quality relationships. and Brian's sitting down with her and her going, oh, okay, I kind of figured, but I didn't think that much, but cool, whatever. You got to love the lady, man. Yeah, wonderful. What a cool lady. Wow.

1:26:23Dave Ramsey:Welcome back to the Ramsey Show in the Fairwinds Credit Union Studios. I'm Dave Ramsey, your host. Jade Walshaw, Ramsey personality. Number one best-selling author is my co-host today. Joe is with us in Orlando. Hi, Joe. How are you? Hey, Dave. I'm doing good. How are you? Better than I deserve. What's up? Thank you for taking my call. I appreciate you and Jade. Sure. Thank you. How can we help? Thank you. So I have a financial dilemma, and I hope you can provide some direction on it. So my wife and I are both 38 years old. We're blessed. We make, in the last four years, every year we made around$1.1 million with our W-2 and investment income.

1:27:11now since last four to five years we are paying approximately three hundred thousand dollars to irs in taxes so this year i decided to consult with one of those uh tax advisory firms and they recommended hey we can add you in some kind of a business program where you can take a debt of $550 ,000 and call it$85 ,000 as an initial investment, and then the rest of that, you can put that in tax write-offs, and then you can claim, you can deduct that from your overall tax payment from it. So I wasn't sure it's a good idea to take a debt to save taxes, so I thought I should ask you.

1:28:01Dave Ramsey:Okay, the only write-off is the interest on the debt, correct? Well, yeah, that's pretty much what they were saying. Well, they were saying that if I'm taking a$550 ,000 worth of debt to invest in a business, I can use the$450 ,000 worth of money as a deduction, as an investment in the company as for a new Trump bill.

1:28:30Okay.

1:28:31Dave Ramsey:Do you own a business? No, I don't, but they're saying they can add me as an investor. I have no idea what that business is as well. So that's what I was like. I have no idea about the business going to be. Is it going to be profitable or not? But they're claiming that I, and there's thousands of high paying taxpayers do that. So I was like, I don't know. I'm not sure about it. Okay. Okay. I'm sure run away from these people as fast as you possibly can. But let me, I'm going to guess at what they're trying to do because I can't tell. Normally, if you own a business, you have a write-off. If you have a debt, you can write off the interest as tax deductible, as an expense of doing business.

1:29:23Dave Ramsey:OK, but the interest would not be four hundred and fifty thousand on a five hundred thousand dollar loan. So all I can figure is they're doing some kind of Section 179 write off, which you can do in business. And I take that in our business here. But the problem is, is if the business fails, you still have the loan. Yeah. And you got the write off, but you've got the loan, which means that. But – and so another way of looking at this is if you had$550 ,000, would you invest$550 ,000 cash in this in order to get a$450 ,000 write-off? Well, obviously then you have a net of$100 ,000 invested in a business that you don't know anything about.

1:30:11Dave Ramsey:Well, we wouldn't even do that. Right. Much less have the debt around it. And so their explanation and their process. So here's a here's a let me backtrack just a minute. You're making incredible money. What are you doing for a living? It's making this kind of money. Yeah. So I'm an AI architect. OK, good for you. Awesome. I'm so happy. All right. So what what I learned and I learned this as a young guy that was making the kind of money that you're making. and I ran into these people in the real estate world who were doing the similar things and they all got burned and ended up bankrupt and so did I.

1:30:51Dave Ramsey:I didn't end up bankrupt for the same reason that these people are going to cause you to have problems but here's the principle that I learned at the time. This was around real estate. It wasn't section 179 which I think is what these guys are doing. I'm not positive where they're getting this kind of a write-off on only a$550 ,000 our investment. It shouldn't be that big. But all I'm guessing is, is they've syndicated out the 179s. And so that's a complicated way of saying there's a write-off you can take in business, and they're giving you a portion of it. So they're probably putting, you know, you and two other people or something in this.

1:31:25Dave Ramsey:It's a limited placement thing. So now in the real estate business, what they did was the Reagan, Ronald Reagan, that's how long ago it was, changed the tax laws to where we could take a, what used to be depreciate a piece of property over 30 years, and instead we could depreciate it over 15. And then we could use what's called double declining balance on and, and depreciate, you take the first year's depreciation and double it. And so you, you could put, you could put$5 ,000 down on a$35 ,000 condominium. Okay. That was, and you could end up writing off$15 ,000 that year is the way the numbers worked.

1:32:10Dave Ramsey:And so people were doing this en masse, but guess what? The stupid condominiums wouldn't rent for enough then to support the debt. They ended up getting foreclosed on, and all of the tax savings got recalled back on the people. And so the lesson that I learned from that, which it's a little different deal than your deal, But the lesson I learned from that is never do a deal that doesn't make economic sense and only makes tax savings sense. Because it's always going to bite you in the butt. It has to make economic sense, meaning if you're going to invest in the business, it's a good business investment, and I get a tax write-off.

1:32:49Dave Ramsey:Not it's a stupid, crazy business idea. I'm going to lose all my money in it, but I get a tax write-off. And I'm doing this just for the tax write-off. And that's what these guys are proposing to you like my old real estate buddies did. And they got their heads taken off, all of them. And it was a massive bloodbath in real estate in the 80s over this. All the limited partnerships and syndications fell apart. I knew one guy at$110 million net worth. He's bankrupt, gone, took him out. And it's this very principle they violated is they were doing deals just for the tax write-off that were bad deals.

1:33:26Dave Ramsey:and what I smell here and I'm a 99 % sure this is a really bad deal and a really good tax write-off run and run because these morons are morons and they're going to give you other stuff like this to do yeah and you might not be able to smell it so uh you smelled this one you could tell something was wrong couldn't you yeah absolutely so even I offered hey what if the business is going, well, I can pay that debt off. No, no, no, you don't want to pay off the debt. Yeah, you want to stay in debt. Yeah. Here's the basic thing on that. If you have a$100 ,000 in debt and interest payments, you can write$100 ,000 off.

1:34:12Dave Ramsey:But writing it off means that you deduct it from your income. It doesn't mean you save$100 ,000 on taxes. It means you save 37 % of$100 ,000 on taxes. So you put out$100 ,000 to the bank in interest and it saves you$37 ,000 on taxes. Well, that's trading a dollar for a quarter. That's stupid on a sixth grade level. Okay. And so you never do that. If you're going to do that, just give a charity$100 ,000 and you get a$37 ,000 write-off,$37 ,000 tax savings,$100 ,000 write-off, and you don't have to be in debt to do it. Run from these guys. They're dangerous.

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1:36:06Dave Ramsey:Carl is in New York City. Hey, Carl, how are you? Hey, y 'all. How's it going? I hope you're doing well. Thanks for taking my call. Sure. I'm 20 now. Hey, I'm 29. I live in New York City. Just signed today, making double what I was making on my previous job. Congratulations. What are you making? Thank you. Starting off at$85 ,000 salary, and hopefully$95 ,000 after six months. Good. Good for you. Appreciate that. Yeah, so the car question, it's kind of a car question. I've had a bit of car trouble, and I've been driving a car solely to get through the winter over here. Doesn't have AC, all these different things.

1:37:03Needs a whole bunch of changes, needs a whole bunch of fixes, but it's not worth it because the car is about 220 ,000 miles. on it and I'm running into the ground basically. It was a free hand down. Now, being that I have a father as well, I wanted to know best fixes. Now, going into looking for a car, I've looked for the past six months. And in short, I... I'm forgetting one thing. Sorry about that, y 'all. My father gave me about$10 ,000 to go toward this car as of the beginning of this month. And so while originally I was just looking for something to keep on the road that's reliable, etc., the added cash was...

1:38:03Added to what? What's it added to? You already got money saved for a car? Yeah, I was saving for a car. How much do you have in savings? I've got now, I mean, continually saving. I've got about$8 ,000,$8 ,000 to$10 ,000.

1:38:19Dave Ramsey:Okay, so with your dad's gift, you have$20 ,000 to buy a car. Correct. What's your question? Um, well, the car that I suppose that answers all the questions is about, because I'm looking at Carvana. I guess it's shipping to New York and everything. Just say it. What are you trying to spend on this car? I have a feeling. About$25 ,000. Okay, don't. You can't buy that car. You don't have$25 ,000. Buy a$20 ,000 car. You have$20 ,000. Yeah, or can you wait until you save up the$5 ,000 more? Because when you tell me that the other car was a free hand-me-down, you have no money in it. So if you wanted to continue to repair it for a while, you could.

1:39:04Because you didn't buy the car.

1:39:06Dave Ramsey:The little junker will probably bring a couple of grand, won't it? I'm not sure. It's 07, hard to fit. Yeah, I don't either. But go find out. I mean, whatever you can sell it for plus$20 ,000 is your budget. Carl, do you have any other debt? Do you have any debt? Um, just a balance transfer in June. That's about 2000, which yeah, that's, that's the rest. Okay. Otherwise, again, I'm looking at, well, new job, new position. Um, how do I, Hey, listen, don't celebrate your new job with a car payment. That's kind of dumb. Sure. No. And that's not the intent. Well, it's what you're doing. You thought you said, Oh, I hit the lottery.

1:39:47Dave Ramsey:I doubled my income. I signed up for 85 grand. So I'm going to run down the car dealer and give them my freaking money. No, thank you. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. Time to be a grown-up. You did not hit the lottery. You have$20 ,000 and an$85 ,000 job, and you live in New York City. You did not hit the lottery, okay? You can go buy a$20 ,000 car, not a dime freaking more because you don't have a dime more. You do what you want to do, dude, but you called here. I got to tell you, there's zero chance you should have a car payment. You have plenty of money. You are upgrading so far from the hoopty you've been driving.

1:40:23Dave Ramsey:Yeah. You ought to be dancing in the streets of that 20 grand, acting like you got a dadgum new Porsche. Or save up the$5 ,000 and pay$25 ,000. Just do it in cash. Absolutely, dude. Please don't do this. Okay. Please don't do this. So, Dave, let's talk about this because I know people are like, what are you saying? This man is buying a$25 ,000 car in cash that's so countercultural. It's so abnormal. The majority of Americans have car payments and they will have car payments their entire working career, right? Majority of Americans are broke. Exactly. So the correlation there is very, very clear.

1:41:00You look at the percentage of Americans that have car payments and then you look at the percentage of Americans who are living paycheck to paycheck and suddenly the whole equation makes sense.

1:41:08Dave Ramsey:We interviewed 10 ,167 millionaires when we did the Ramsey research piece on millionaires. You know what the data tells us? Tell us. The actual science, science, science. What's it tell you? Okay. Well, the science, the data says that when we interviewed millionaires, they said, what's the dumbest thing you ever did with money? I bought a car with payments. What's the dumbest thing you ever did? I bought a new car with payments. And when did you stop doing that? about the time I got on track to be a millionaire, which was 16 years ago, was the last time I did that stupid butt idea. And then I became a millionaire.

1:41:47Dave Ramsey:And they look back on their lives and say, the turning point of me becoming wealthy, the vast majority of them, it's like 84 % of them answer the question this way. It's crazy. You know, they look back and they say, the dumbest thing I ever did and the turning point that when I changed my life and started habit patterns that caused me to become wealthy was getting away from car payments. If you want to be middle class, stay in car debt. You will stay in the middle class. You will never build wealth because it will suck the bone marrow out of your money. Well, when you're paying$800,$900,$1 ,000 a month for cars, and for some people that's just for one car, many households have two car payments.

1:42:26Yeah, how the heck are you supposed to have money to invest for the future? How can you pay for your kids college and there's an affordability crisis i can't buy a house it's because you have 1400

1:42:35Dave Ramsey:in car payments because ford motor company screwed you lexus motor company toyota motor company screwed you and they got you so far in debt because you had to have something shiny with toxic plastic smell so then the big question then comes is okay how do we do it and that's the number one question that i get when i start talking like this you quit caring what other people think yeah That is the first thing. Mindset has to change. Status symbol is a car. And then let's talk about it practically because most people, you can go about this in two ways. For most people, what this looks like, getting away from car payments looks like whatever your current vehicle is, you're either going to pay it off and from that point off say.

1:43:15Dave Ramsey:Never again. Never again. And now that I paid my car off, I'm putting a portion of money aside all the time so that when the time comes, I can trade this one in, add a little money to it and upgrade little by little. It's a stair-step motion that we're doing. So that's one way it can look. The other way it can look is you're looking at, you're facing down a$950 car payment right now. You still owe$40 ,000 and you go, this is for the birds. I'm just going to sell the car. And from the beginning, you're making a giant step downward because you're going from driving a$40 ,000 car down to maybe an$8 ,000 or$9 ,000 beater, Dave.

1:43:46Dave Ramsey:Yeah, decide who you want to impress. People at a stoplight you're never going to meet or your grandchildren. children. Because you could change your family tree if you don't impress the people at the stoplight. Absolutely. And let me take it back even further, the people at the stoplight, but a lot of you are worried about the people in your life, how it's going to feel when you pull up to the cookout and you were driving a Suburban brand new, and now you're driving a Honda Fit, right? And it's like, what happened to him, right? And you're thinking about that. not going well for old Dave. He's driving a car he can afford.

1:44:18Dave Ramsey:Oh, poor Dave. Bless Dave's heart. Yeah, you're right. And you know what? It's worse. I think men are the worst. Guys are the worst on cars because we get too much self-esteem out of what we drive. Now, ladies, some of them are that way, but most ladies just think a car is a really large purse. And guys, but we're real concerned about the motor and the zero to 60 and, you know, How fast is my little battery, George Camel? The size of the rim? I don't know. Yeah. There you go. Shows how much I know. Whatever that was. Yeah. How much I know. No, I'm telling you, guys and pickups are the worst on car payments.

1:44:59Dave Ramsey:They're the worst. So, sorry, Carl, but you just set us off on a tangent. All of that wasn't aimed at you personally. But if we could please talk you into loving yourself enough to not going into car debt. Love yourself that much, Carl, in New York City. Don't go into car debt.

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1:46:39Dave Ramsey:In the lobby of Ramsey Solutions on the debt-free stage. They're here. Arnie and Randy are here. Hey, Dave. What's up, guys? How are you? Hey, James. We're good. Hi. Welcome, welcome. Where do y 'all live? Thief River Falls, Minnesota. What's that near? We're about five and a half hours north of Minneapolis. Okay. No, that's not near it, but okay. It's close to Canada. Ah, okay. Good deal. Well, welcome to Nashville. Thank you. Thank you. It's warm and sunny. It is. Much warmer. Life is good. and here to do a debt-free scream, how much have you paid off? $193 ,000. Yo! Nice. How long did that take?

1:47:17Four years and nine months.

1:47:19Dave Ramsey:Wow, good for you. And your range of income during that time? We went from$98 ,000 to$161 ,000. Very good. What do you all do for a living? I'm a public works employee for the city. And I am a credit and collections manager. Wow, well, great incomes. Way to go, guys. Congratulations. Congratulations. So, goodness, approaching five years here, you've been pushing on this, pushing the rock up the hill. Way to go. And$193 ,000. Was that your house and everything? Yep, we did it, Dave. I knew it. I paid off our house. Dad, bring out your weirdos. Oh, wow. Paid for house. Look at you. How old are you, paid for house people?

1:47:58I am 39. Hey.

1:48:00Dave Ramsey:I'm 47. Wow. Way to go, you guys. Excellent. So, what's this paid off house worth? About$325 ,000. Excellent. Excellent. How much you got saved in your nest egg so far, your retirement? Four. Four. Four something? Okay. We're creeping up on it. Not far from being Baby Steps millionaires. We're really close. Way to go, guys. So proud of y 'all. Congratulations. Okay. So how much of the 193 was the house? That was all the house. That's the house. Wow. We had about$40 ,000 of Baby Step 2 debt. Okay. And then you tore into it. Okay. So five years ago, you must have run into Ramsey stuff. How did that happen?

1:48:37Yeah. So I actually saw a Facebook post. A high school friend was giving away five copies of Total Money Makeover. Just, hey, this book changed my life. No strings attached. The books were gone by the time I saw the post. But I downloaded it, read it in 48 hours.

1:48:54Dave Ramsey:Uh-oh. And then I text him and was like, do you know Dave Ramsey? Yeah, I was actually ice fishing. It was a bit old winter, and I had heard of Dave Ramsey, so I said, yeah, let's go for it. And I never had. I had never heard your name. Oh, and you said, yeah, I've heard of this, and whatever you want to do, honey, I'm ice fishing. Yeah, pretty much, yep. Mind you, in our financed fish house. Got it, got it. Wow. I love it. So what does a fish house cost? uh so that one we've i bought it for 14 grand okay um and then full circle at the end we were we had about 17 000 left on our house and i jokingly had said i'll sell the fish house and if i can get what i want for it we'll pay off the house and i'll just buy another fish house so So I actually listed it on Marketplace, and she didn't believe me at first, but she saw the post, and we sold it.

1:50:02Dave Ramsey:It did sell. Oh, yeah, I sold it. Oh, you really did do it. A month later, we drove to the mortgage office and paid off our— That was that—the fish house paid off the house. Yep. Oh, wow. So you did it in person. You did the payoff in person. Oh, yeah, yeah. So now you're going to save up and buy another fish house in cash. Yes. Of course. Sure. Yeah. So how's this work? You slide it out on the ice? It's like a camper. Okay. It's just a winter camper. Okay. You drive on the lake, and we park, and you drill holes in the ice, and we camp. You sit in the warmth of the house so that you're not freezing while you're ice fishing.

1:50:40Dave Ramsey:Three or four days. I mean, you're talking to a southern guy who has no idea what you're talking about. Come on up, Dave. Come to Minnesota. It's so interesting. Sounds cold to me, but yeah. Well, no, he's in the fish house. He's cozy and warm. yeah congratulations you guys thank you so you're so bottom line is uh arnie figures this out called randy which one's randy yeah i'm randy so randy figures this out and calls arnie and he's easy to get along with and he says go for it all the way to the point that he sells his fish house and pays off your house at the end of the story at the end of the story but it's a long five years yeah it was the end of 2020 and we're at that 98 000 and it's like man we we make a lot of money for northern Minnesota and like, where is it all, right?

1:51:21And then I read the book and I dug in and I'm the nerd and spreadsheets and where did all of our money go? And just figuring out, man, we spent$700 during COVID on eating out in March of 2020. I'm like, we couldn't even go inside a restaurant. How are we spending that much money? And had you avoided debt up to that point? Or were you just kind of dabbling in it a little bit? We had regular consumer debt.

1:51:47Dave Ramsey:We had our vehicles and the fish house and a four-wheeler. It was about$40 ,000. Okay. You cleaned up the$40 ,000 right quick, and then you just keep – let's just get the house knocked out and everything. Yeah, so we really, as I took on a new role at work, and then Arnie has switched employers as well in that five-year span, we just lived on what that minimum was in babysit two and just everything else to the house. Wow. Way to go. Wow. I mean, we did take our kids on vacation. Yeah. How does it feel to be completely free? It feels really good. Weird. It does. You mention weird people all the time, and it does feel weird.

1:52:32Dave Ramsey:Yeah. It's so abnormal, right? Debt is everywhere. Do you know anybody else that's gotten out of debt completely? I have one coworker. Yeah. That's a single mom, and she's a rock star. Wow. Yeah. Yeah. We actually visited here before together, Dave. So that was cool. It's weird to look at the checking account and the money just keeps going up. Yeah, it's yours. Yeah, you start stacking cash automatically now. Oh, yeah, you do. So what's the first big thing you're going to do to celebrate not having a single bit of debt? Well, our trip here was a good one. So what we put off in those five years was new vehicles.

1:53:13So both of us will need an upgrade.

1:53:17Dave Ramsey:Get out of the hoop decent time to get some good stuff. And then there's the fish house too. And then the fish house. That'll come eventually. Good. Wow. Congratulations. All right. What do you tell people the secret to paying off$193 ,000 in four years and nine months? I would say the budget. We had never done a zero-based budget. We were the can we afford this payment people, the normal people. and discipline. Discipline. To me is discipline. You got to keep your eye on the prize. It's a long time. It's a grind. It is a long time. Five years. You know, we got kids. They want everything and yeah, it's a grind.

1:53:53It doesn't seem possible at first, but it, you know, it just keeps going and eventually it's here, there.

1:54:01Dave Ramsey:If we had told you, Arnie, at the start of the process that you were going to end up selling the fish house to get, to pay off the last bit, you would have told were crazy, wouldn't you? Absolutely. Yeah. But I kind of wanted to tell her she was crazy. The idea of being free grew on you. It did. By the end of the story. It still seemed like it was going to be so far away. Yeah. And, you know, it's here now. Yeah. And now it's believable. Yeah, it is. Yeah. Way to go. Way to go. Proud of you guys. You're amazing. You've changed your whole family tree. Yes. Way to go. I mean, you make close to$200 ,000 a year, you know, payment in the world.

1:54:38Dave Ramsey:stack cash and build wealth, and you'll be able to do anything you need to do and be generous. You'll be able to do all kinds of stuff. Congratulations. Very, very well done. Very nice. Yep. Good stuff. All right. Arnie and Randy from Minnesota,$193 ,000 paid off house and everything, plus or minus a fish house. Four years and nine months,$98 ,000 to$161 ,000 was the income spread. Count it down. Let's hear a debt-free scream. Three? Two, one. We're dead free! Yeah!

1:55:18Dave Ramsey:Yeah, baby! I love it. Look at that. That is so fun. So cool. Isn't it interesting that there was some watching his reaction when she calls. He's ice fishing. Yeah. they already had a strong relationship. Yep. And he's like, okay, babe. Fine. Let's do it. And I don't know if I, I think you're a little crazy, but let's do it. Yeah, I'm on board. That's where the whole thing started, though, was that they had this strong basis to start with. Wow, cool people. I love it. Very cool.

1:56:32We'll see you next time.

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1:57:26Dave Ramsey:Our scripture of the day, Proverbs 12 and 3. no one can be established through wickedness, but the righteous cannot be uprooted. Warren Buffett said the best investment you can make is in yourself. Jeff is in Detroit. Hey, Jeff, how are you? I'm good, sir. How about yourself? Better than I deserve. What's up? Well, so I'm 56 years old, make about$56 ,000 a year. Back in December, I had filed for a Chapter 13 bankruptcy. I was one of the 390 ,000 in Michigan that the state came after for back unemployment that they stated that I owed. I fought it. I won the case. That was one of the reasons why I was looking into bankruptcy, just in case they came back and said, yes, you owe this.

1:58:20I was already ridiculously upside down in a vehicle purchase that I had made about four years ago. Oh, a ridiculous amount on that still. I ended up dismissing the bankruptcy because when it was filed, the information was not filed appropriately or properly. And they came back and changed my payment from initially it was supposed to be$439 a month for three years. And then they said, hey, wait, your numbers don't add up. Now it's going to be$700 a month for five years. I only have three years left on the car loan. ended up dismissing the bankruptcy before it was officially filed.

1:59:01Dave Ramsey:No, it was filed, but you dismissed it voluntarily. Yes. Yeah, dismissed it before it actually was finalized in the court. Exactly. Just to be clear, for your future, you have filed a bankruptcy. I've learned that, yes, sir. All right, anyway, but go ahead. That doesn't help anything. That brings us to where we are. So now you've got a big-butt car payment still, right? I do. $6.25 a month on a 2014 Jeep. And I'm in the process right now of trying to get it negotiated with Capital One, my finance company, with whether I'm going to be able to get the vehicle caught up and continue paying on it, or should I turn the vehicle over?

1:59:51I mean, my credit scores are in the low five as it is right now. What do you owe on that Jeep and how many payments behind are you? I'm about three payments behind now, I believe, because of the bankruptcy. And I believe the last thing that I've seen on there, because I can't access the account online because of the bankruptcy right now, I believe it was right around the$16 ,000 to$17 ,000 mark still. And I've already paid like$23 ,000 on it.

2:00:17Dave Ramsey:What do you think it's worth? uh four or five oh yeah okay this is all of my own doing i understand that sure no i'm okay i want you to go check i want you to go check that number that number sounds like an emotional number not a proper number so go go to kelly as far as uh go to kelly blue book kbb.com and put in the information on the 2014 jeep what kind of jeep is it uh it's a 2014 jeep cherokee it's kind of a baseline model does have a bunch of miles the last one that i looked at was 4200 yeah um i'll buy that for telly blue um what else what else is is outstanding so you're 1875 in the hole on that yeah i've got about uh 7 000 in credit card debt um that i'm working with a debt consolidation company right now because after I canceled or dismissed the bankruptcy, I needed to try and make a quick move to not have them all come at me and try and garnish and everything else.

2:01:23So I've got those tied up with a debt counselor company right now. Yeah. Is it just you or are you married with kids? Is there anybody else in the situation? No. I mean, I live in the same home as my brother and sister-in-law. It was a home that we acquired after my mother and stepfather passed. We have a mortgage on that, that I am a, on the mortgage, I am a survivor in interest. And on the deed, we did a enhanced life estate deed, thankfully, prior to her passing. And all three of myself and my two brothers are on the deed as partners in interest. Is there debt on the house or it was paid for?

2:02:07No, it's got a mortgage. There is, no. No, it's got a mortgage. We still owe$91 ,000 on it. I had an opportunity about two years ago to get a mortgage to have it put in my name because technically the mortgage is still in my mother's name, my late mother's name. But it was at 7.75 % interest and the current mortgage on the home is at 3.25%. I wasn't about to refinance it just to get it put into my name and increase our payment by$300 or$400.

2:02:38Dave Ramsey:Okay, so to recap, you've got the credit cards under control because you threw them with a debt consolidation, and I assume you've paid that company already or signed with that company already. Yes, I have signed with them, yes, and they're negotiating for them all. Okay, so that's under control. The only thing that's out of control is we're$1 ,800 behind on a$16 ,000 debt on a$4 ,000 Jeep. Have I got that right? Right. Absolutely, yes, sir. So how's your income looking? Are you, I mean, it sounds like you're... I make$27 ,000 an hour. I mean,$56 ,000 a year roughly, probably more than that because of overtime.

2:03:11Okay. So what I want going forward on this, I want you to know your exact numbers. Because knowing the exact numbers is the only way that we can create an exact plan and decide how long is it going to take. How quickly can I get the$1875 to get this car loan current? How quickly can I pay off the$17 ,000? Or am I going to try to—

2:03:32Dave Ramsey:What's the interest rate on the Jeep? that's a good question um and i know that's a very stupid answer and it was stupid of me to sign that without even looking at it because i thought you think you think it's a high rate don't you i do too oh it's ridiculous it's got to be ridiculously high after paying 23 000 over three to four years but i've already paid on it and i still owe 16 yeah it had to have been Okay, so here's your options, okay? There's three options, and none of them are pretty. One is you scrape together the$1 ,800, and you catch up, and you just finish paying the Jeep off. You just work it off, put it in the debt snowball, and get rid of it, okay?

2:04:12Dave Ramsey:Two is you get Citibank. I think you said it had this, right? Capital One. Capital One, okay. You get them to recast the loan, reset the loan, and they roll the$1 ,800 in, and you start fresh with no payments behind, and while you're at it, get them to give you a decent interest rate. Okay? Three possibility is you toss them the keys. Tell them to come get it. Right. And they sell it for$2 ,000 on the repo lot, and then you have a$14 ,000 debt with them that you'll have to settle later. Right. And you can settle a repo debt for pennies on the dollar. Of course, that puts a monster in the closet.

2:04:56Dave Ramsey:It's going to come out someday, and so you need to be saving like crazy. About a year after they repo it, they're going to start bothering you and want some money. And they can sue you for up to the deficit, but they will settle that for about a quarter on the dollar. So you can probably settle this$4 ,000 or$5 ,000 in cash, and so you build that war chest over a year, and you offer them$5 ,000 and they'll go away,$4 ,000 and they'll go away, and you'll have a repo. But you have a bankruptcy, and you already have a 500 credit score. I don't know that a repo does much to your credit. It's not going to change much, yeah.

2:05:33Dave Ramsey:It's not like you got any credit. Yeah, at my age, that's what I was curious about. I mean, that's what I considered. That was what I was considering was just turning the vehicle back in. Yeah, if they don't cut you some kind of a deal that makes you want to keep it, then that tells me that I'm going to toss them the keys and go get you a$2 ,000,$3 ,000 car to drive and start stacking cash, clear those credit cards, get out of that other mess, and then stack cash and be ready for the phone call that's going to come on the deficit. Because it's going to come. This is going to come bite you later, okay?

2:06:07Dave Ramsey:But again, they'll settle that deficit for usually 25 cents on the dollar. It's pretty standard. And always when you're doing a settlement, you get it in writing or you don't give them money. Right. Because you can tell that a bank like that, you can tell they're lying if their mouth is moving. Okay? They're crooks. Right. And that's the business that they're in. That's why they set you up in this deal the way they did. They screwed you going in. So the car company and the bank screwed you going in. You allowed it. You said that. You signed up for it. You said that. But that's the reality. so you can fight through it any one of those three ways but get yourself a plan so that you don't you know so you then you get all of this stuff in the rearview mirror and you start to rebuild yeah that's what we're trying to do that puts us out of the ramsey show in the books we'll be back with you before you know it in the meantime remember there's ultimately only one way to financial peace and that's to walk daily with the prince of peace christ jesus

2:07:16Thank you.