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Win-Win Podcast Episode Notes: Chris Anderson - The Power of Infectious Generosity
Episode Overview In this episode of the Win-Win Podcast hosted by Liv Boeree, Chris Anderson, the curator of TED, discusses his book "Infectious Generosity." The conversation explores how to harness the internet to spread kindness and generosity in an age often characterized by negativity.
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Key Themes and Concepts
- Infectious Generosity
- Definition: A modern take on generosity aimed at addressing negativity in society. It emphasizes the power of small acts of kindness and how they can create ripple effects in a connected world.
- Asymmetry of Generosity: The cost to the giver is often much lower than the benefit to the receiver, making acts of generosity profoundly impactful.
- Impact of the Internet
- Negativity Problem: The internet amplifies negative stories due to its nature of virality, but it also has the potential to spread positive stories and acts of kindness.
- Positive Virality: Stories of generosity can go viral similarly to negative content, creating a hopeful outlook for human kindness amidst divisive times.
- Role of Media
- Media Bias: The media often focuses on negative news, as it attracts more attention (the “if it bleeds, it leads” mentality), while positive stories are often underreported.
- Proposed Solutions: Media outlets should strive to highlight significant positive changes and human-interest stories that celebrate goodness.
- Generosity as a Social Norm
- Historical Context: Generosity has evolved as a trait that promotes cooperation and community well-being, making it essential for societal health.
- Emotional Responses: Acts of generosity create emotional responses that encourage further kindness and community spirit.
- Effective Giving
- Strategic Philanthropy: The importance of being strategic in giving to maximize impact, often referred to as effective altruism.
- Intent vs. Consequence: The discussion includes the balance between good intentions and the actual outcomes of generous acts.
- The Audacious Project
- Purpose: A philanthropic initiative that connects social entrepreneurs with donors to fund big dreams and impactful projects aimed at solving global issues.
- Collaborative Funding: Donors are encouraged to join forces to fund larger projects that can lead to significant change.
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Notable Examples and Stories
- The Kindness Pandemic: A Facebook group that showcases acts of kindness, growing from a few members to over 500,000, demonstrating the power of collective positivity.
- Captain Tom Moore: His fundraising efforts during the pandemic highlight how individual acts of generosity can inspire massive community support.
- Mr. Beast: An influencer known for large charitable donations, whose strategies exemplify the power of emotional storytelling in philanthropy.
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Discussions on Competition and Generosity
- Competitive Landscape of Content: The podcast discusses the competitive nature of content creation today and how organizations like TED are adapting to maintain relevance and impact.
- Collaborative Spirit: Emphasizing the importance of celebrating others' successes in the spirit of collective advancement rather than rivalry.
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Conclusion Chris Anderson shares a hopeful vision for the future where kindness and generosity can thrive through strategic use of media and collective action. The episode calls for listeners to engage in generosity, whether through financial means, sharing positive stories, or simply being kind to one another.
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Recommended Actions
- Check Out: *Infectious Generosity* and *The Audacious Project* for deeper insights into practical applications of generosity.
- Consider the Giving What We Can Pledge: A commitment to donate a portion of income to effective charities, aimed at making philanthropy more impactful.
- Spread Kindness: Engage in small acts of generosity that can inspire others and contribute positively to community wellbeing.
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Links and Resources
- [Infectious Generosity by Chris Anderson](https://www.infectiousgenerosity.org/)
- [The Audacious Project](https://www.audaciousproject.org/)
- [Giving What We Can](http://givingwhatwecan.org/winwin)
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Credits
- Hosted by: Liv Boeree
- Produced & Edited by: Raymond Wei
- Audio Mix by: Keir Schmidt
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By summarizing the episode this way, we can encapsulate the essence of the conversation while highlighting important themes and actionable insights discussed during the episode.
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Transcript
Automatic transcript. May contain errors.0:00in this connected age, the rules around what you give away have just changed. that it makes sense to be brave, to radically give away the best thing you can and be astounded at what can happen as a result of that. I think generosity is a short-term sacrifice and long-term it is deeply in your interest. The people who are generous are the people who are going to be happier and they're going to have the best reputation. That is worth fighting for even though it's fine. Hello, Win Winners. Today's episode is all about spreading ideas because I'm speaking to Mr. Ted himself, Chris Anderson. Chris started out life as a journalist before turning to media entrepreneurship, founding a number of successful publishing companies.
0:47But in 2001, his foundation acquired a little known conference known as Ted, which under his direction then grew into the global powerhouse brand that it is today. And that leads me to the main topic of this conversation, generosity. Because in Chris's view, it was generosity that was one of the main reasons Ted managed to grow so quickly, because they took the very risky decision to take their main product, their talks, and distribute them online for free. They even went one step further than this by giving away their brand itself through the enormously successful TEDx franchise. And he's recently put together all of his sort of years of insights into a book that discusses how we can use the power of the internet to unlock generosity itself and turn it viral.
1:36So super relevant for this podcast, as you can imagine. And in this conversation, you can expect plenty of heartwarming stories, some evolutionary psychology, a dissection of Mr. beast strategies, and also, of course, a sort of deeper dive into his view of why the internet has a current sort of negativity problem. And more importantly, why he's optimistic that we can turn it into a clear win-win again if we act strategically. So on that note, here's my conversation with Chris Anderson.
2:20Chris, thank you so much for joining me. I'm so stoked to talk to you because your book, Infectious Generosity, that I have now just read, cover to cover. And it is so win-winny. I couldn't, short of calling it win-win, this is basically the ethos of what this podcast is all about. So to start with, could you just as briefly as you can explain what the concept of infectious generosity is and why it's so important? Yes, we'd love to. And I agree with you, actually, Liv, that win-win is in many ways exactly what it's about. So infectious generosity is just trying to reframe generosity for the modern era in a hope to try to address some of the meanness that's out there in the world right now.
3:07And it pulls together two things. It says, you know, look, there's new insights on human psychology that show just how deeply generosity is wired into us and the response to generosity. And when you combine that with the fact that we're in a world that's connected like never before, it creates new possibilities for kindness to spread, to start somewhere and then create ripple effects that travel across the world. And I think it's actually the win-winness of it, especially, comes from what I think is an under-recognized fact, which is that generosity is massively asymmetric. So what I mean by that is that the cost to the giver in so many circumstances is far less than the benefit to the receiver.
3:57This, by the way, is probably how generosity evolved. We can get into that. But if you look at, whether you look at financial generosity, where the cost to a rich person to give away a tiny fraction of their wealth to a number of much poorer people for whom what they get is truly meaningful to them, possibly life-changing to them, and almost inconsequential in terms of a loss to the giver, that is pretty thrilling. But then there are other forms of generosity. So picture that rich person who's feeling lonely, perhaps, and someone gives them a word of encouragement. That's an act of generosity.
4:38That word costs that person nothing, almost, except a few minutes of time and possibly the awkwardness of figuring out what to say to this person. And it could light up that other person's day. So when you add all of this together and look at just the many ways there are to give, a world in which generosity is more deeply embedded is a world in which all boats rise. That is the beautiful fact of it. So what I love about this is that it's just peppered with examples of all different flavors of infectious generosity. Is there a particular example that's your favorite? I mean, there are so many. The biggest and most obvious example of infectious generosity happened right at the start of the pandemic when a woman in Australia, Catherine Barrett, was feeling blue because everyone was, you know, under lockdown for the first time.
5:35And there were lots of stories of nastiness out there, people fighting in grocery stores and stuff like this. And she decided just to start a Facebook group, just posted actually a single image of a neighbor who'd given this box of tissues to a common area in the building and said, please, please take one. Can't get a much smaller act of generosity than that, except it made her tear up. And she shared the picture and started a group called The Kindness Pandemic. Went to bed. Overnight, a few thousand people had joined this group, who were strangers, with beautiful stories. Roll the clock forward to now 500 ,000 people have joined her Facebook group.
6:17for a while it was the biggest, fastest growing Facebook group that there was, crashed. And it turns out that the world is absolutely teeming with stories of human kindness that have the ability to make other people go, gosh, I just, I love that I'm a member of this species. This is beautiful. And so when you see that that kind of thing can spread just as well as the nasty stuff online that really gives you hope because i mean a key part of this is you know we are now that we're in this connected world with the internet it's we're all familiar with the concept of virality but we often associate virality either with comedy people often you know we see memes being spread which are usually around humor which i think is generally speaking a form it's that's a net positive.
7:11But we often then see, you know, you see someone, some act of violence happens or some horrible event, and that also creates a ripple effect. But your point is that this doesn't always have to be either neutral or negative. There's actually a huge space of positivity. And it sounds like, especially during COVID, right, that people were feeling isolated, people were feeling scared. And that creates almost like a space in the marketplace of ideas for, there's like a vacuum there, there's energy that can be flowing towards positive, inspiring stories. And they seem to ripple. There was another one example that I loved in the UK, there was Captain, was it Captain Tom Moore, right?
7:57Who went viral for, I think he was 98 years old and wanted to raise some money for the NHS because he felt like they were doing a good thing. And then he became like an overnight superstar. Just by walking up and down his garden, he committed to walking a hundred lengths of his garden. He, you know, he had a walker, a zoomer frame. So it was very hard thing for him to do. And it took him many days, but people tracked him and yeah, he ended up, instead of raising a few thousand pounds, he ended up raising 32 million pounds for the NHS. It's just, it's a beautiful instance. It's really, it shows you what can happen when someone taps into people's emotions.
8:41So I think that's the common factor for, you know, we're emotional beings. And when something really touches us in some way or another, we will tend to share it. Often the easiest feelings to arouse are, you know, our darker feelings of anger, resentment, irritation, disgust, and so forth. And that is why social media is the way that it is, that the people with the big follower counts are people who have mastered the dark arts of how to spread outrage, you know, at scale, a maximum volume. But I learned something really powerful from a kid in his early 20s called Millard Merck, who is an influencer, social online.
9:24He was actually inspired by Mr. Beast, who some people will know as this wildly successful 200 million subscriber influencer on YouTube who has these big, bold, outrageous videos, several of which, you know, are basically anchored in in forms of charity, compassion, philanthropy. You know, I gave a thousand people their site back or dug a hundred wells. And these stories are told in a way that makes them go viral because you see the emotional reaction of the people who benefit. And some people will critique him for various reasons. Let's say that one of the great goods that he's done is to inspire huge numbers of people in the generation coming through that charity can be cool.
10:09And so Millard Merg noticed that there was this trend on TikTok of these food waste videos with huge amounts of sort of peanut butter or whatever being dumped on the table in their parents' kitchen. You know, ha ha, look at this huge mess I made. You know, hilarious. They weren't pointing out food waste. They were making it. No, they were making it deliberately for the spectacle of it because it was so funny. and of course these videos were viral he was the son of immigrants he worked in a sandwich shop he was disgusted by this he said well okay I'm going to do my version huge quantities of peanut butter huge quantities of jello but he turned them into handmade sandwiches hand wrapped them took them out into the streets gave them to people who needed a sandwich his video ended up being seen far more than the trend he was taking on And he actually turned some of the people who were driving that other trend to follow him instead.
11:12And what he said to me was that, he said, look, first of all, yes, anything that arouses emotion will go viral. The easy way to do it, hit someone in the face, it'll go viral, sure. But again, he said, it's not symmetric. You won't be remembered for a long time for being the jerk. If you try and do something that goes far in a good way, you can build on that. People remember you. People want to see more of that fundamentally. And so he really persuaded me that certainly with the generation coming through, that this is actually a winnable battle, that despite the fact that there are so many human cognitive biases pushing us to the darker side, there's actually also a lot that pulls people to the other side, our reflective selves and the choices we make of who we follow, what we really want to invest time.
12:05he convinced me that it's a winnable battle. And I guess that's actually the essential argument of the book, is that, well, whether it's winnable or not, it's a battle that we have to fight, because otherwise we're signing up for a world where we're taking each other down. We really are. And, you know, we are the stories we tell. So if the only story that we repeatedly tell are that most people aren't to be trusted, most people are kind of horrible, and especially the other, we're giving up our ability to actually cooperate, to develop what has been humanity's superpower. The fact that we can see other people want to work with each other, want to help each other, at some level want to trust each other.
12:53We're in danger of throwing that whole edifice away. And then we really are screwed. We cannot take on climate. We cannot take on AI. We cannot take on any of these existential challenges facing us because we're going to be spending too much time spitting in each other's faces. Yeah, exactly. So I made a short film, and you've just summarized it so beautifully. I talk about this creature, the media moloch, that is really just a result of game theory gone wrong. But I think it's sometimes helpful to give, because this is really our enemy, this idea of these short-term pressures and incentives that are often driven by our own like limbic systems and dopamine pathways that make us lose sight of the bigger picture, go for the short-term win.
13:40But if everyone does that, it creates this kind of race to the bottom. And you've just explained it so succinctly. So I'd love to dig into some of the ways, because one of the main sort of focuses you talk about in the book is how key the internet is to everything. It could be the key to our undoing, or it could be the key to our saving. and I think largely what certainly what the the ethos of infectious generosity is is it's trying to be a bottom-up solution you're trying to inspire as many people as possible to shift out of the zero-sum mindset and into a more win-win mindset of of generosity and then use that generosity in smart ways to try and go viral to make it infectious as you say to capitalize on this asymmetry to create these positive ripple effects.
14:31But it also feels like there needs to be some kind of top-down solutions that are more systemic, whether they come from companies, because like it or not, a lot of the internet is controlled by a smaller and smaller number of very powerful companies. So they have a lot of influence, potentially government regulation as well, although that's a whole other can of worms we can maybe talk about. So I'd love to understand what your thoughts are on why you think the internet, because it didn't used to be like this. It started out a seemingly pretty positive place. And then somewhere around the mid, around 2010 onwards, it took this weird turn.
15:15So what do you think caused that? And is there some kind of top-down solution that could right that trend? So the reason why I think the internet is so important is just because it has, in theory, in theory, it has enabled the expression of cooperation, generosity, kindness on an unimaginable scale. I mean, the things that we care about more and more, I would say most in our lives, which are the contents of human minds, whether it's knowledge or video or music or art or software or whatever, you name it, these things can be shared online at scale at a total cost of zero dollars per item i mean the change in this is so astonishing i mean we felt it at ted through the fact that we used to back in the like in the year 2000 we would or 2003 or whatever we would send ted talks to people on a DVD and the cost was$2 per person, minimum.
16:18And that doesn't scale. The change from$2 to one ten thousandth of a penny in terms of cost to do it, it's so many orders of magnitude and it happened in the blink of an eye. And it really does change all the rules to the point where we're now all drowning in content and almost don't recognize how amazing it is that we're in this sort of cornucopia of amazingness. But anyway, so what was supposed to happen, what could happen, is that we can live in this world where we can see the amazing output of millions of minds, pick the ones that we want and experience it and enjoy it for nothing. This is incredible.
17:02This has never happened before in history. Around about 2010, social media took off. And I don't think this was intentional evil. I think there was a massive screw up caused basically by a naive view of human nature. I think the designers and companies building these platforms were thinking, this is amazing. We can engage people at such great depth. We just have to build these algorithms that will optimize for what people click on and love and spend time on. And the naivety there is thinking that humans are a sort of single thing, whereas we contain many different identities in us. And I think the two most useful ones to think about are our instinctive selves and our effective selves.
17:56I really like the framing that Danny Kahneman, this great psychologist, gave in his book, Thinking Fast and Slow, where he describes system one thinking as this instinctive neural pathways that really drive so much of who we are. They happen mostly unconsciously. They account for all of our fast decision making. And they're not all bad by any means. I mean, there's a lot of our joy and instinct, happiness, even empathy comes through these instincts, but they can lead us astray. And in all areas of life, usually we need our reflective minds to adjust these and tweak these and make them wiser and better.
18:42So when we think about our diet or we think about whether we're going to work out or we think about procrastination, It's this, you know, we try and bring our reflective selves, our storytelling selves to bear. Online, the algorithms are talking to our instinctive selves, our lizard brains. It is the lizard brain that clicks on like. It's the lizard brain that engages in doom scrolling. And so effectively, without meaning to, these social media algorithms are turning us into lizards who are disgusted by each other and want to lash out and thrash at each other. And it's an absolute tragedy and it's really, really dangerous.
19:22And so, you know, the single, in terms of a top-down thing, the single biggest thing that can happen is that social media platforms can recognize this and say, we have to figure out how we redesign to bring in people's reflective selves. And in some ways, the Moloch problem is because it's sort of calcifying into really only four or five major social media companies. And in some ways, that makes it easier for them to all coordinate. Because it was interesting watching, before Instagram was mostly about sort of either photographs or longer form videos. YouTube was just about more medium to long term videos.
20:07But then TikTok came along with their little vertical, usually less than one minute clips, often only 10, 20 seconds. And that took off so well amongst Gen Z that then Instagram felt like they had to copy it. And then YouTube now have YouTube Shorts. And that seemed, I mean, it seems like those sort of short style videos are here to stay, unfortunately. But that said, it feels like the market is now sort of so saturated that it might be hard for a new, like a new, even worse competitor to come along that's hijacking the Olympic system even more. That said, I mean, who knows? Who knows? But do you have then, because you've probably met a lot of the creators or, you know, the owners of, or the CEOs at least, of these major platforms.
20:57Do you think there's space among them to actually coordinate and agree? You know what, guys, let's all agree. Let's try and do this minimum thing for nuance or have this kind of feedback for someone when they're acting, when they're being clearly in lizard brain. Do you think they can coordinate? I don't know if they can coordinate. I hope and I think there's a pathway to getting better without necessarily having to coordinate. Because I think for me, so the monarch problem is that commercial interests make it impossible for people, even if they knew the right thing to do, to actually do the right thing.
21:34Because that means that they're giving up competitive landscape to someone else. That would be the heart of it. and I think the argument that you would try and make to those leaders in that situation is that there is another dynamic at play here which is that the value in your company is created by people with great minds. No one wants to work for a company that is inflicting evil on the planet. They don't. And so your long-term strategy to win friends, influence people, and to attract great employees is to commit to doing the right thing, even if it means a short-term commercial hit. In reflective mode, it's your reflective self that fundamentally decides which apps you want on your phone, which apps you're going to spend most time on, and so forth.
22:36When you're actually in that app, I think Lizard Brain takes over and you don't think so clearly about it. But there is, people's reflective minds can play a big role there. And I think apps that clearly show greater benefit to you will win in the long run. So it's very interesting right now. Like if you try to see how it's playing out. So Twitter, when Elon Musk took over Twitter, he used at one point the right language for how to fix this. He said, our goal is to maximize unregretted user minutes. You know, regret is a function of the reflective mind. And if he is serious about that, that is the route to the pathway.
23:21measure that and commit to raising that number, even if it means reducing overall user minutes in some way and possibly losing ad revenue connected to it. But long-term, that is how you will make the platform better. Is he doing that? There's violently different opinions here. Some people will say that X has become an ever greater cesspool. Others see reasons for hope. I think the community notes feature in X is a big contribution to social media, actually, because they're the worst or posts that contain clear falsehoods are being identified pretty quickly. And there's much less chance of them going viral without at least the context on them that says, you know, this is fake video or whatever.
24:15However, there is a lot of regret as well on the platform still, some of it arguably coming from Elon's own posts. And so it's a very complicated situation there. Threads was proactively launched as an attempt to be the sort of kinder, more positive, non-toxic version of Twitter. It had a huge initial sign up. Usage has been low. Will it take off? Not clear. It may or may not. But this is a bet by Mark Zuckerberg to say that a different approach here can win. What his motivation is, probably very complicated. But in my conversations with him, he's definitely expressed a determination. Like, what you hear is not the words of someone whose only motivation is to make a shitload of money.
25:11It really isn't. People want to build stuff that is cool and ultimately positive. I think there's huge internal debates raging within these companies as to what is the right way to do it. And I don't think it's a hopeless battle. Right, and presumably with LLMs now, it should be relatively trivial to have some kind of sentiment analysis of content. because historically AI wasn't good enough at that to identify between, for example, a funny sarcastic post is actually positive and just a very pleasant, purely positive post. And so that could be one way. I mean, I wouldn't be surprised if already they have some kind of sentiment score behind the scenes in their algorithm.
26:00And the question is, do they choose to dial it up or not? is, but that's tricky because now that's still, that's an immense amount of power. You're basically just dictating your own, you know, this, and this raises the question of course of, because to me, the, the, the sort of splintering of threads from Twitter now X, the, the feeling of it was that, okay, that's the old school establishment sort of people who tend to, would be more favorable of censorship now and then and and curation and reducing the space for marketplace ideas whereas twitter or x is about no free speech is the way um so by it's always going to be it's going to have more negativity in that regard because it's not as curated what do you think about that because i mean i'm i come from a i think free speech is just it's so important that it's worth the toxicity?
27:00I think what a lot of people miss is that the issue really isn't or shouldn't be free speech or no free speech. I mean I'm pro free speech up to the point of someone literally inciting violence in some way but the laws already cover that. I think you can have obnoxious views presented. I think the question is, what do algorithms amplify? And the risk right now on X and elsewhere is that the algorithms can easily amplify things that are pretty obnoxious and ignore things that actually, with a bit more reflection, people would get more enjoyment from. And so it's how, so I would say that the risk is that on X, the algorithms are still amplifying posts that people will get regret from to use Elon's own language.
28:00And that's a shame. That is, I think, a failure of alignment with the overall mission. It's not too late. It's not too late. And it's actually, I think, I mean, I personally get a lot of pleasure from X. I find a lot of amazing information on there. Occasionally I get exposed to some of the ugliness that is under the surface and can erupt. And you've got choices, you know, like you can choose who you follow. You can choose where you spend time. You can choose who you mute. and the optimistic side of me would like to believe that it's possible collectively for a group of people to tweak the algorithms.
28:45I've just run a contest on X to try to find the best accounts that are displaying some form of infectious generosity, whether it's inspiring acts of human kindness or bridge building or amazing enchantment or courage or whatever. And that was really fun. and those accounts are there. And if collectively we can follow and amplify and spend time on those accounts, it may gradually change the tone so that you can have it all live. You can have freedom of expression. Anyone can make that case. But you actually reward the people who can make their case in a way that includes a bit of respect and a bit of willingness to listen and a bit of willingness to reason rather than just be savagely disparaging of people who disagree.
29:40That's the shift that you would love to see happen. Another thing, I think, specifically with the setup of X and probably threads as well, and I haven't spent much time on threads, so I just don't really know how it works, but right now there is no outlet for negativity. Let's say you read a post that you don't like. You think, this is wrong, I disagree with it. because there's only a possibility to like it, there is no just quick, simple way to downvote it. On Reddit, you can upvote or downvote. Even on YouTube, you can like or dislike. But you don't have that on X, and so that forces any negative feeling into words.
30:19So actually, the ratio of words along the positive to negative spectrum is going to be heavily skewed negative simply because that's the only way people can express a disagreement with something. And especially with quote tweeting, that's like rocket fuel. You're going to be annoyed and it's spreading the initial thing you disliked in the first place. So I feel like there's a little, just a simple tweak, even just adding a downvote, I think might just take a lot of that negative energy away. What about the news media? Because I mean, everyone's talking about social media, and I think it's a very core part of this negativity machine.
31:00But at the same time, the news media play an enormous role in this. If it bleeds, it leads, has been the approach since presumably the printing press because it just sells more papers. And you actually make some interesting suggestions in the book of ways that the news media could themselves reduce their own negativity bias. Could you talk through a couple of those? Yeah. So I used to be a journalist back in the day before I started publishing magazines and got a chance to think about this quite a lot. You know, producing a World News bulletin and looking at Associated Press input coming in and seeing why do they put bulletin, you know, on some stories and not on others.
31:49And what I noticed is kind of what you just said, which is that if there is a dramatic act of violence, you basically need 100 people to die in a dramatic act of violence, and then you have the world-leading story of the day. And the philosopher in me said, is that really reasonable? Like, what is the truth about what happens on any given day? What actually matters about what happens on a given day? And so, you know, when you do the math and do the research, first of all, everyone should know that on any given day, about 160 ,000 people die. 160 ,000. So, you know, and yet we would our whole conversation around the deaths or fortunes of 100 people here or there.
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32:40Does that fully make sense? Secondly, yes, there are two specific biases that I think are really important for any journalist or any consumer of the news to fully embrace. And I think one of them is understood quite well and the second one less well. The first one is the cognitive attraction that we have towards dark and dangerous, which is there for obvious evolution reasons. We pay attention to threats and media outlets that focus on threats win the circulation wars. and so we're used to this. But there's another bias which is, I think, built almost into the structure of the universe. It's the second law of thermodynamics.
33:21It's that the world is, the universe is fundamentally chaotic and trends chaotic. To do something good is hard and it takes time. To build something can take years. To destroy it can take a nanosecond. and so good happens slowly bad happens quickly now then pair that fact with the fact that the mission of most news outlets is to answer this question what is the most dramatic thing that happened in the last few hours well hello but combine that with human cognitive bias and the fact that good happens slowly you are almost always going to come up with a headline about something bad. So structurally, we are biasing ourselves.
34:10We are ignoring all of the astounding good stories that have built up more slowly. The same day that the plane went down with 100 people in it, 20 ,000 children's lives were saved compared with three decades ago by the decades-long efforts of heroic public health workers who've solved all these different diseases every day. Yesterday, today, tomorrow, the day after, 20 ,000 kids who would have died the last day are alive today. You know, if you could see the smiling faces of the mothers of those kids compared with the grieving faces of the mothers 30 years ago, you would feel differently. So we We are systematically misleading ourselves.
35:00What's some practical low-hanging fruit you think a newsroom editor could do? The editor of the New York Times. Is it like minimum number of positive stories per day? I don't think the right framing... I mean, there are people focused on doing positive stories out there. I think what we want is significant stories. And if an outlet committed to, instead of all the news that's fit to print, which was the New York Times mantra for many years, all the news that actually reveals what is significant about the world and about the future. That to me is what a good media outlet would try to do. And when you do that, you can't, you have to stop just asking the question, what is dramatic that's happened in the last few hours?
35:46And instead ask the question, what have we learned recently that is significant and that we can communicate in a way that will excite people? and so you have to take account of humans cognitive biases that that we can't you could have a um a paper that was full of as as the week used to run they had a section called boring but important you know there are so many things out there that are boring but important we have to make it important and here's how to make it interesting and the way you do that is to turn statistics into human stories. You know, show why, okay, here's a new stat that came out of the UN that shows something amazing.
36:28Turn it into a human interest story. Exactly. Interview someone who's a direct beneficiary of that because, yes, statistics aren't sexy. I mean, I think they're sexy, but most of the time it is not, they're not perceived as interesting things. Whereas if you can add a story to it and put of face to these beneficiaries. A hundred percent. But take pride in being, be the first big media outlet that eschews the journalistic standards of the day and says, no, we're going to go for something bigger and more powerful, but we're going to persuade people that if they really want to understand the world and really want to assess their chances for how the future is doing, we will give them the tools that they need to do that.
37:10So I'd love to dig in a little more into the actual nature of generosity itself. Because in some ways, it's remarkable that we have it seemingly as part of human nature, given we evolved out of a very, you know, nature is red in tooth and claw, I can't remember who said that. But why do you think... Lord Tennyson. Lord Tennyson? Lord Tennyson, yeah. Why do you think we evolved it in the first place? Here's how I think of it. I think the reason why we evolved it is because generosity is fundamentally asymmetric. So that means that even in a world where people are fighting for their survival, there are countless circumstances where it was easy for someone to be generous in a way that was life-changing for another person.
38:01So go back to a world where we're hunter-gatherers, someone's made a kill. They have an animal there that they can feed on and they don't have a refrigerator. You can feed your family and yourself, but then what? Well, it costs you basically nothing to give food to others in your community. You save their life. They remember it. So what you need is an asymmetry in the nature of giving and receiving. And you need people with memories. And from that, you can easily construct a pathway whereby it makes sense in evolutionary terms for a species to gradually develop these instincts that make it faster to give away, where you start to get empathy and caring for someone else.
38:53Along with that, you have other instincts like a sense of fairness, because you need to have a mechanism for holding to account people who try to freeload. or who cheat. And so it's no surprise that every single culture, there is generosity. Every single culture, there is a strong instinct to hospitality, to sharing food, for example, which is where I think generosity all started. It starts combined with a sense of fairness and, you know, cheaters become outcasts. And so this package of powerful emotions evolved in us that make it completely natural to want to look after each other's interests, because we are in, it's not like every transaction is a one-off.
39:42We are in long-term sustained relationships with a community of people. And what goes around comes around is there's a lot of truth in that. Our reputations depend on our being generous. And, you know, it's kind of a miracle to me that the thing that makes human cooperation possible is backed by this fire engine of powerful things. And actually, as well as the desire to be generous, there is this deep feeling of happiness that comes after the fact of, wow, that felt really good. We often don't see that in advance, which is weird, but we certainly feel it. And it's why the wisest people in any society will say, this is the way to happiness.
40:26Be kind to others. That Chinese proverb, which is like, if you want to be happy for a minute, eat something nice. I can't remember what they all are, but if you want to be happy for a month, be married, which seems a little bit short from the marriage thing. But if you want to be happy for a lifetime, help someone else. That's exactly right. Like, yeah, if you want to be happy for a year, inherit some money. Okay. Happy for a lifetime, help people. And cultures understand that the long-term pathway to happiness is to be kind. Right. The more we know about that, the more amazing it is. The more we know about this other instinct in us, which is to respond to generosity, is also, I think, super interesting.
41:11It is, I mean, we're so profoundly a social species. We respond to anything that is done to us. We want to respond in kind, whether it's meanness or funny or whatever. But for kindness, absolutely. And in fact, in the run-up to this book, I got an inside view of this amazing social experiment that proved this like never before. What was the social experiment? So we called it the mystery experiment. It was a partnership between TED and the University of British Columbia. a TED donor wanted to give away$2 million in a creative way where we'd learn something. And so we helped them construct this social science experiment with Elizabeth Dunn, who's a word expert on generosity.
41:59We recruited people for, we didn't mention any money. It was like, come and be part of a weird, stressful, but possibly very exciting social experiment. 2 ,000 people applied. We called it the mystery experiment. And they got from us this note that probably sent them like a scam email of, congratulations, we'd like to wire$10 ,000 into your PayPal account, no strings attached. So it took a bit of persuading, but eventually they took the money. This was the largest amount that had ever been done as a social experiment on this kind of scale, I think. with the, I mean, there are some universal basic income tests that have been done that are similar kind of level, but specifically as a social science experiment.
42:43And amazingly, more than two-thirds of that money was spent generously. Like, you know, some family members, strangers, friends, causes of all kinds. And these weren't rich people, right? These are just people all over the world. No, people of all different incomes. across seven countries and across multiple different incomes. People gave away the money. And after the experiment was done, I wrote to some of these people and tried to figure out what the hell was going on here. And this common picture came through that basically said, look, probably if I'd won that money in a lottery, I'd have behaved differently.
43:26But because a donor wanted to give this money out, I just felt this, first of all, I felt seen. I felt seen. Generosity makes you feel seen. But I wanted to pass on that feeling to others. And it was this visceral thing in people that they just, they wanted to pay it forward in some way. So I find this just hugely encouraging because when you combine, so generosity is deep inside of us. This response, desire to respond to generosity is deep inside of us. There's a third thing, which is that seeing others give to third parties, not to us, creates a sense of moral elevation that Jonathan Haidt and others have documented as a provable biological phenomenon.
44:17Those things combined with the fact that we're in a connected age, where we can see any number of examples, for example, on video of people being kind to others, that seems to create just an unbelievable opportunity for the human race to raise its game collectively, for us to give to each other, show what we can be and be inspired. And when you look online, you actually see numerous examples of this. You know, I told the story in the book of a, you know, a person sitting in a car, someone is deluging with rain, someone's on the sidewalk, they get out, they give that person their umbrella, get back in and drive off.
44:55Big deal. It's happened. Little acts like that have happened many times. In this modern era, that was captured on video. And when it went online, it was seen by millions of people. On Reddit, 70 ,000 likes and comments on there. And people literally said things like, this has changed. You know, I'm going to stock up my car with extra umbrellas. So a video of a third party can persuade someone to be inspired enough to do that. I just find that hopeful. And to me, that means we should not give up on humanity just yet. I definitely agree. So the way you described generosity as evolving, it sounds like it's come again.
45:37Everything boils down to game theory. In many ways, it's because it actually benefited the individual to find better ways to cooperate. and thus generosity, kindness, reciprocity, these traits evolved. Yes. In some ways that makes me feel a little funny because it's like I want it to almost be like an innate value unto itself. I guess it doesn't matter whether it came from, you know, because it was selfish. And I think that ick, I feel, is because we have this, so many of us have this idea that generosity should be almost as a form of sacrifice, that it should come, we shouldn't gain from it. And you seem to disagree with that notion.
46:29And I also disagree with it because it's, if you're doing something as a, oh, I must be sacrificing so that I can benefit someone else. And that's the only way it's, that's a generous act. Then you're not actually really being that generous because you're just doing a lose win. You're doing another zero something. if you're deliberately denying yourself the pleasure of feeling good, let's say you get a good feeling, or inspiring others and getting social respect for it or credit, people saying nice things about you. So why do you think it is that so many people feel like it has to come with sacrifice?
47:01Often the teaching has been, you know, if you advertise your generosity, then that's your reward and it wasn't generosity. I actually think the picture has always been more complicated. I think people pushing generosity have always known that it's a really hard thing to ask of someone. And so we've said we've always been taught things like give and you shall receive. You know, well, hello, that's saying that there is come back in the end or give and your reward shall be in heaven. So I think there's always been this complicated language around generosity. I think the way to think about generosity in this connected age is to embrace the fact that there is long-term payoff for it.
47:47I think generosity is often a short-term sacrifice. It's hard to do. It's hard to give up what you have right now, whether it's money or whether it's just time and attention and the willingness to break out of your routine and look at someone else and say, how are you? Do you need something right now? Can I help? This takes effort and there is short-term sacrifice in it. But I think it's more important than ever to recognize and to celebrate the fact that there is beautiful, longer-term reward in it. Apart from anything else, in this connected age when a gift can reach millions of people, what you get back can be astounding.
48:31But what the feelings you get back may surprise you. And because we are in an existential battle for attention, for the right kinds of stories, we need to give people every tool that we can to encourage them to go for this because it's hard. But when you remind people what's possible, it makes it that bit easier. I mean, the reason I became so convinced of this was just looking at what happened at TED when we started giving away content, worried that it would blow up our conference because we were giving away, you know, why would someone come into a conference when the content was there for free online?
49:09Actually, so that was 2006. 2006, I was five years into owning TED and finally online video was a thing and you could imagine doing this. And it felt a scary thing to do. But what we got back was incredible. You know, millions of people suddenly came to hear about TED. It actually massively boosted interest in the conference. And it convinced me that in this connected age, the rules around what you give away have just changed, that it makes sense to be brave, to radically give away the best thing you can, and be astounded at what can happen as a result of that. So I guess that's how I think of it.
49:50I think generosity is a short-term sacrifice and long-term it is deeply in your interest like the people who are generous are the people who are going to be happier and they're going to have the best reputation that is worth fighting for even though it's hard i my background was in that got me interested in being generous and philanthropy was through the idea of effective giving um which is i think most people listening to this are familiar with it's like resources are finite uh therefore we should be somewhat strategic in how we deploy them um given that some maybe you know one cause area might impact positively an order of magnitude or many orders of magnitude more people than another so ideally you want to give to to um to that cause a over cause b but again people often seem to get a bit icky about this idea of being strategic with when you're trying to make positive impact.
50:50Why do you think that is? Yes. So again, I think we have this battle between our instinctive self and our reflective self. The pathway to philanthropy that is most instantly feel good is the purely instinctual one. I see a family in need, or I see a child crying. I hand over money and I see a problem solved and I feel great because there it is in full biological instant experience. But that's not the pathway to making a better world long term. Paul Bloom has a very powerful book called Against Empathy, where, I mean, he's not really against all forms of empathy. Empathy is the start of everything, but it's an unreliable guide to using our generosity for its best effect.
51:46Because for one thing, it tends to steer us just to our own in-group. And secondly, it says nothing about effectiveness and about the fact that there could be orders of magnitude difference between one generous act and another. One may just cause dependency or whatever, another may leverage something remarkable and create literally orders of magnitude more. So I think, as with everything else, the wise thing to do is to bring our effective selves to bear. Philanthropy has to be both head and heart. And we actually need a strategy. We need to think about it so that we can figure out what is most effective.
52:28And so, yes, so I think with you, I think it's a tragedy that in the last year, effective altruism has run into, you know, a branding issue. Thank you, Sir Wagner-Fried and so forth. And, you know, it's definitely possible for people to, if they use brain only and ignore all traditional guidelines around morality, can get themselves into deep trouble. Like ends, justifies the means type. It's a journey, you know, it's a journey to discover what the most effective ways are. The conclusions it reaches at any one time are provisional, just like science. The conclusions you reach at any one time are provisional.
53:13But the journey actually really matters. And the question of how we make our philanthropy more effective really matters. And, you know, for me, the single biggest answer to that question is look for forms of powerful leverage of your money. How do you feel about the trade-off between intent behind a generous act and the consequences? Because it seems like there's sort of two philosophical schools of thought battling here. You've got the Kantian or deontological, which is... It's all intent. It's all about the intent. Something is either morally good or morally bad, dependent on some kind of moral truth in the fabric of the universe.
53:59and whether your intent comes from a pure place or not. It's almost like a form of puritanism, actually. And then you've got the other sort of end of that, which is purely consequentialist. It doesn't matter what your intentions were. Your intentions could have been very bad, purely selfish, but actually if the outcome is fantastic and lots of people benefit, then that's all that matters. Where do you personally lie on that spectrum or how do you think about that trade-off? I think anyone who has good intent for something and does it and it goes wrong, I don't think we should team up and blame them and get angry.
54:33I think it's beautiful that someone wanted to do something good. But in our complicated world, it's really, really important to spend time to think about how that act can work out. And so those are the people I most admire, are those who are willing to use good intent both in terms of their own sacrifice and in terms of how they direct what they do. Someone who does something, who's done it from really nasty intentions, but it works out well, I don't admire that person. They were lucky. They were lucky. But I still want a world where good things happen. And so I think where the vast majority of acts are are that people want to do something good, but they also have other motivations in mind.
55:32They may well realize that by doing this, it's good for their reputation and that they may get other benefits back. right now our culture is set up to criticize those people if you can like the way that the cynical mindset works is if I can find any piece of negativity in what someone did how did they actually make their money were they are they greenwashing in some way are they um you know doing this for some other benefit that that is a reason to savage that that person I think that's a real tragedy. I think we should flip that and say, can you find a piece of actual good intent in there? If so, celebrate the act.
56:15Celebrate it. Honestly, you can always, maybe there's ways it could be better. But we, our future depends on whether most people become net givers or net takers. Right. That is the simplifying metric, I think, that everyone, we can all apply to each other. If someone is showing signs of seeking to be a net giver, cheer them on, on that journey. The fact that they are also doing some other things, well, that's a separate conversation, but don't criticize the good act. That's the worst thing to do. That makes it harder and harder for others to follow suit. It kind of broke my heart the way that the media reacted to Mr.
56:59Beast, right? Okay, yes, some of his things are not the most effective, or they aren't always done in the most tasteful way they could be. But ultimately, the dude is going about giving away money to people. And it keeps coming back in these positive feedback loops. Yes, okay, he keeps getting richer because he's so good at it and he's so good at harnessing, as you say, like he's really, he's mastered the acts of like the, like the positive contagion. Right. And it's such a shame that he gets dunked on so hard by, in many ways, the establishment media. I mean, to be fair, it's not like the New York Times or anyone doing it.
57:43It's more like the lowbrow things, but But yeah, because it's pretty clear the guy is, he's been a net positive. He's actually just so given people sight that didn't have it. When you think about infectious generosity, he, more than anyone on the planet, has mastered what that can look like. So he's mastered the art of virality, what it takes. He actually spent years doing this as a budding YouTube influencer, figuring out how you edit a video, how you title it, the pictures you put up, what will make people get something to spread. I think it's true that some of his interventions aren't really getting to system change.
58:21So, you know, he cures 100 people, 1000 people of blindness. I mean, that's amazing in its own right. You know, there's an eye hospital in India called Aravind, where the founders there have spent decades figuring out how to cure blindness on the scale of millions and they charge for some of their operations. Many others are given away free. It is an astounding achievement that is a much more profound solution to the problem. But. Very few people in the West know about it. Mr. Beast is persuading he's got 200 million subscribers. his videos within a few days of going online are typically seen by 50 or 100 million people.
59:04And there is a whole generation coming through that are thinking that the world could be more positive than negative. I've spoken to, for example, the person who runs Mr. Beast's philanthropy and grilled him on him. And he is completely convincing that Jimmy Donaldson, Mr. Beast is, that his motives are pure, that he is doing this ultimately to do good in the world, that all of the money he makes is going to get recycled. And so, look, I think everything, no one is completely black and white. But I think in terms of a net giver to the world, Jimmy Donaldson, hello. Massively, massively, massively a net giver.
59:50What role do you think competition could play in terms of inspiring more generosity and kindness? Like, could there be contests done? because I guess to an extent, like YouTube is a kind of contest. Who can get the most subscribers? MrBeast has won it. He's won YouTube. Is there some other kind of competition you think could help spur this? I think it's an important question. What you want to see is a race to the top. I think even between social media platforms, to some extent, I think there's an opportunity to make the case most clearly that you are committed to the public good. You're committed to trying to find the best in humanity, not the worst.
1:00:38I think ultimately that stance, express the right way can win. The thing is it can't be done in a way that's earnest and boring. You know, we have to figure out how to make good not boring. Too much of good is not as interesting. You know, every filmmaker knows this, every artist, it's so much easier to win the game by going to the dark side. but the reflective choices that people make, I don't know, I think people are sick of the mean world that we're in. And I do think there's an opportunity to compete by saying, we're going to be the most fun, the most delight, the most wonder, you know, come and be part of this game.
1:01:16It's a beautiful game. And I think there is an opportunity there, but it's going to have to be done with immense creativity and skill and courage and, you know, and it's going to, we're gonna have to persuade each other to kind of support those kinds of efforts for it to have a chance what impact do you think the decline in religion has had on generosity or in terms of conventional religion i actually would say that we it's just that again people have a desire for religion they just don't realize it and that energy will go into something else um in some cases it can be like people would believe in certain movements with a religious fervosity but it's the same kind of stuff, I think.
1:01:57But yeah, I'm curious what you think. So I think it's a hugely interesting question. I was influenced by a TED Talk by the philosopher Alain de Botton called Atheism 2.0. Alain de Botton is an atheist, but in his talk, he said, we have to be really careful before we throw out all the accoutrements of religion from our culture because they've been with us for centuries and have shaped who we are in so many ways. So like a really powerful question he asked, and I think is really worth thinking about, is can it be a coincidence that every major religion has required its faithful to gather every week to be reminded that there is something bigger than them to pay attention to, to be reminded that they have an opportunity and a moral obligation to be of service to their community.
1:02:58I view, through the lens of evolutionary biology, I view humans as this weird bag of different things that have evolved in very different circumstances to when we live today. We are fragile, quirky, weird, weird, weird beings. and all of life is this sort of battle between different parts of ourselves. The worldview I grew up with was that life is a battle between your inner demons and your angels, you know, the devil and God or however you want to frame it. I think in some ways that was a helpful framing because you realize that some choices you made could genuinely be bad. And I think the sort of the, almost like the blank slate, you know, I would say naive, hippie, you know, we're all beautiful beings who we just have to go with the flow, do what feels right, and all will be well.
1:03:55That is, I think, a catastrophic view of the world because it's not who we are. We have, that we all have within us, strong feelings, which in the wrong circumstances can lead us to do really bad things. So I worry about letting go of that habit of reminding ourselves that living the best life is actually hard to do. Being the person you want to be takes effort. You've got to figure out. I wish this was actually built into every education system. The single most important thing you can do as a human is to figure out how to empower your reflective self over your instinctive self. It's our reflective self that on our deathbed will say, are we proud of the life we lived?
1:04:44It's our reflective self that on any week, when you take a moment to sit back and say, am I happy with who I am? And so this quest for our better selves, it's not easy. And I really think that the secular world has to figure out a replacement for the weekly gatherings that religious people have. We may not do very well without it. I think it's probably one explanation for why things are getting meaner. I mean, there was also the kind of negative incentive of feeling like God is watching you that would drive people in many ways, like this all-seeing eye. And there's been studies done of, there was like a crime hotspot where there was regularly like cars being broken into or something, and they put a pair of eyes, they painted a pair of eyes on a wall over it, and the rate of crime dropped significantly in that area just because of the act of people sensing these eyes, even though they were just a painting made on people.
1:05:46And I think you mentioned in the book about how the sort of fear of God is judging you. Or for children, we make them believe in Santa Claus. Santa knows whether you've been naughty or nice. So this kind of all-seeing eye. And then you mentioned that the modern-day internet, given that whatever you put out there is now kind of out there forever and people can see it, it's one of the possible upsides of the seeming erosion of privacy that we're having. And I like that there's a positive view of that. At the same time, it obviously comes at a cost, a very major cost of the loss of privacy, and especially with the emergence of cancel culture.
1:06:35So do you have any thoughts on how we can navigate the worst excesses of that? I mean, this is a huge issue to me. I think on the one hand, one of the reasons why infectious generosity can take off now more than ever is that the internet can amplify reputation more than ever. And mostly, I'd like to highlight the upside of that, that if you do something great, you will discover five years later, someone who will meet you and say, you know, five years ago when you did that, I heard about that. It actually inspired me to do this. And I just want to thank you. Good things will come of it because we're in an age of infinite reputation amplification.
1:07:20The downside of it, most people think of as purely downside. How awful is it that, you know people can know about our nastier stuff um and i think it is i think it is worrying and it is uncomfortable but i also think there is potentially a good side to it um in that that's traditionally how humans have been forced to behave throughout history and you know we you know god is watching you or your tribe if when we were living below the dunbar number everyone knew everyone. Right. That's right. And if you, if you, if you, if you were, if you were, if you were, if you did some bad act in your community, you would be outcast.
1:08:00You would, you would suffer a short and miserable life. Um, with modern anonymity, it's been possible to avoid that unless you were in a, you know, if you're in a religious community, less so because, you know, you, you, you live under this, both the desire to help the community, but also a little bit of fear. And so the question, I guess the question is, do humans need a little bit of fear in them to help them nudge them to the level of good behavior? Part of me worries and thinks that the answer may be yes, that actually a little bit of fear is not the worst thing in the world. And so I've, for myself, I have tried to embrace the notion that discomfort is a driver towards progress sometimes in ourselves.
1:08:45You know, an organization, something bad happens, you're on the front page, you know, whatever. You can actually use that discomfort for good. And so I think it's not a terrible mantra to have out there, act as if everybody is watching you. Because we're entering an era where that may well be true. I'd love to dig into one of your biggest philanthropic projects, the Audacious Project. Could you explain what the Audacious Project is? So we're in the world we're in right now. If you want to make change at scale, many of the people, many of the best reported ways of doing that are through companies.
1:09:24People build a big product that they have a dream of and they take company public and billions of people around the world at some point benefit from that product. And we kind of know that story quite well. so the first issue is that when it comes to tackling the world's challenges most of them I think can't be solved just by building a product that can be sold at a margin and be profitable like a company isn't can't solve these problems often the companies actually create some of these problems so there's this huge number of people out there who have devoted their life to quote making change you know call them social entrepreneurs or they run charities or nonprofits or are working as advocates or campaigners or whatever, so many of them, and this strikes me as completely crazy, are having to spend 50 % of their time or more raising money.
1:10:25So first of all, how insane is that? Why would we want a world where the most heroic individuals who are willing to sacrifice, devote their life to this really quite challenging work? and then we make them spend half their time raising money instead of doing the work. There's got to be a better way. The second thing is that many of the people with the most to spend, most to contribute, have themselves got to where they were by dreaming big. That was how they made, say, their billion dollars or whatever. They're big dreamers and big thinkers. And philanthropy that they hear about is often kind of boring.
1:11:03it's like please you know because people get beaten down by meeting after meeting and so it's like please fund our overhead for the next year or whatever um what they are much more likely to respond to is a much bigger dream of we could make the world so much better in this amazing way if we were funded for the next five years at this level so so what we try to do and you know i've been so lucky at TED to have visibility of both those changemakers and the donors who could make a difference. So I tried to put them together by saying to the changemakers, okay, give us your biggest dream. What actually could you do if money was no object?
1:11:43And the answer you get back from that is often amazing, thrilling. You find the best of those and help turn them into credible, evidence-backed, five-year, shovel-ready plans, take a collection of those plans. We typically take 10 at a time and then bring donors together so that you get out of the one meeting at a time thing, bring together, say, 20, 25, 30 donors at a time and share with them these plans. Have them gravitate to the one or two or three that they most are attracted to. So you have a smaller group working around that, go in deep. And then at the end of that gathering, it's a two-day gathering, you invite people to donate together as an act of collaboration.
1:12:32And amazingly, and this has worked a bit better every time we've done it, we've done it six times now. The last one we did in February, there were 10 plans. We raised just over a billion dollars for those 10 plans. And it happened in about the last hour of the retreat, and it happened through infectious generosity. Someone says about one plan, I'm persuaded I will support this if some of you will come in with me. And ping, I'm in, I'm in, I'm in. It's so exciting to see. It's inspiring for the people involved. And it's convinced me that there's actually much more that we could do here. big philanthropy right now is the subject of so much cynicism in the world it's like how dare those rich people decide our future and I kind of get that but if we can flip it so that start with the big dream you know from the tireless hard-working heroic group of people who are actually they're at the cliff edge trying to make change.
1:13:36Start with them, then go and try and raise money from them and discover that actually people are willing to do that and support that collectively. So, yeah. So like the actual core decision-making of what ideas in the first place is not coming from the rich donors. It's coming from the people on the ground who are trying to identify like this problem really needs fixing. They aren't wealthy people. So yeah, instead of it's someone on high going, I have all this money to give away. Oh, I'm going to do this project. I mean, there's still obviously, that is always going to be the problem with billionaire philanthropy is that it's still ultimately, there's one or two people making huge decisions of how to deploy this capital.
1:14:22But you're saying that this is a more democratic approach. the way that I think the world should work here is that every person with a brain and with a heart should be involved in the conversation of how can we make the world better? Everyone should be part of this conversation. And the incredible thing about humanity is that we are capable of visualizing futures that are different from the one that we're in. We're capable of visualizing amazing ideas for tackling even the biggest problems. Anyone can come up with an idea. Those ideas should be the start of something amazing. You then, just as happens in the commercial world, a team of people who can execute on those ideas should come around that idea.
1:15:10And then we collectively, as a world, should fund those ideas. The very rich should pay their part. They should pay more than anyone else. All of us should be part of it. And so my, my, I guess my, my dream level of the future of the Audacious project is that it, that, you know, that there's this moment of excitement once a year, let's say, where a new set of amazing projects are there that could go a huge way to solving whatever our biggest concerns are, wealth, wealth inequality, or the risks from AI or climate change or whatever. ideas that get our collective hearts pumping and we've we've we've given a chance to do this the right way to to to really identify and find the best teams that can do something amazing and that we cheer these people on their way i think there's i genuinely think there's a pathway to getting there and the audacious project has what what everything in the connected age wants which is critical mass.
1:16:11There's a wheel turning there. It gets a bit better each year. And I'm hoping we can continue to grow it, honestly. Is there one particular audacious project that you are especially excited about or one that you want to see get off the ground? Well, there's a couple we're working on right now for the next cycle. I mean, of past ones, you know, I'd point to things like Jennifer Doudna, the Nobel laureate who came up with CRISPR and realized, you know, she spent several years trying to figure out what is the best use of CRISPR. It's clearly quite, could be dangerous, could be massively beneficial and came up with this dream of creating a new branch of science that would use CRISPR to edit not just individual organisms, but microbiomes.
1:16:56And by doing that, there's a whole category of diseases you can cure that have never been cure before. And things like, you can imagine solving one of the biggest problems in climate, which is methane. And a huge part of that methane comes from cows. And a single intervention when in a calf fetus with a CRISPR edited microbiome, it looks like you can get rid of 95 % of those sort of methane emissions. So it's kind of, there's amazing stuff like that of funding sort of bold, new so she's starting this whole new scientific institute to work on this, which is thrilling. Right now, you know, I'm thinking a lot about AI, I'm really worried about, there's lots of ways AI could go wrong.
1:17:43What is the what role could philanthropy play here into trying to help discover the right way to intervene? That's a very exciting conversation. Wealth inequality, you know, there's there are amazing efforts to there's a new possibility now which is not impossible for thanks to the smartphones being ubiquitous is that you can wire money directly into the accounts of poor people so much age traditionally has got entangled for lots of reasons from corruption to just inefficiency there's a lot of evidence and if you listen to someone like Rory Stewart who will say it's absolutely overwhelming evidence that if you wire 500 to 700 dollars into every individual in an in a village every adult that village can break out of poverty forever and um and that you know just amazing things happen so we're exploring that what what could you do like to me it's some version of the future we've got all this inequality i think if there was real proof here that this worked we could persuade a lot of people who can afford it to wire one or thousands of those$500 gifts to lift a huge part of the world out of poverty?
1:19:07One that I'm thinking about is I think we need to do a lot more research into geoengineering because the climate change trends right now on actually, I had kind of stopped worrying about it because I was like, ah, we've got to, there's enough people, there's a critical mass of people thinking about it and then the ocean temperatures have gone wacky in the last few months and i i yes i have a suspicion that some feedback loops are starting to kick in and i wonder that would definitely be possibly the most audacious project possible but obviously it would have to be done extremely carefully and but that's why i'm saying research do you understand doing research i'm not saying actually do it but just the fundamental research i agree i I think there's three really promising areas there, one of which is whitening clouds for better reflectivity, one of which is dispersal of microparticles in the stratosphere.
1:20:05And I think it sounds scary, but that can create enough shade to make a huge difference. And again, what's so interesting about these is that we think of climate usually as a sort of multi-trillion dollar problem to fix, But you could probably make a temperature difference of a degree or two by spending a few tens of billions of dollars. Like orders of magnitude, less money, very, very affordable amount of money to save the planet. The third is basically deacidifying the ocean. There are ways that you can sequester carbon in the ocean much more cost effectively than the kind of direct air capture.
1:20:51type interventions that people talk about. There's a beautiful thing called Project Vesta that wants to do that by grinding up olivium, which is a volcanic product that is everywhere on the planet. If you grind it up into sand, put it on beaches, you can use the energy of the waves to sequester carbon. You're basically accelerating a natural process that happens anyway. And simultaneously deacidify the ocean for probably, they think, as little as$30 a ton of carbon compared to hundreds of dollars per ton currently for direct air capture. So anyway, there are these things that are out there that could potentially be deployed at scale.
1:21:37And I think they're very exciting. And I bet the big argument against that people will say is that you're entering moral hazard territory and that if you let these take off, that you're going to give oil companies permission to continue to pump oil and so forth because they could just invest in these instead. And I get that argument, but I think I agree with you. We're getting to the point where it's potentially reaching emergency status. And if we don't have some of these up our sleeve, we're taking a very big risk. Right, and the thing is, is that if we suddenly stopped pumping oil, civilization would collapse and the amount of death would be inordinate and that would also be a devastating outcome.
1:22:17So that would be a win-winny type solution. and we can still be slowly weaning ourselves off oil, which we're doing. A lot of our energy production is moving progressively cleaner, but it's not going to be an overnight thing. This is what I so wish was on the front page of the news every day. It's like, here are the dreams. Here are big dreams of the future. They're not fully formed yet. But here's how they are advancing and here's what's exciting about them. And I just think the world needs more big, bold dreamers. It really does. You are an advocate of the Giving What We Can pledge. Could you explain a little bit what that is?
1:22:52So the Giving What We Can pledge has traditionally been a pledge that says, give 10 % of your income to a well-chosen charity. It says it in a way that is recognizing that a lot of people may not be in a position where they can do that right now, but at least that should be an aspirational pledge that you should do. You know, all my life, I've actually been consumed by a kind of guilt on philanthropy and a worry that by going down the generosity route, it's a sort of pathway to endless obligation. You know, that because if you buy some of the arguments of Peter Singer and so forth, because we have an obligation to someone suffering on the other side of the world, just as much as we have someone suffering on our doorstep, if we take this seriously, can we ever enjoy a cup of latte again?
1:23:46And so I started to try and dig into this thing of, is there an art you can give that is enough? At which point you can feel like you've, quote, done your bit and you can get on with your life. And I kind of think that moral rules need to find that because we're human beings. We're quirky, we're vulnerable. we're not going to persuade anyone to be generous if we say to them, no matter how generous you are, there's going to be another ask. That's too daunting. So one thing I love about the pledge is that it's clear. Some people may want to give more in can at some point, but it's basically saying, do that and we'll celebrate you.
1:24:26This is great. You are part of a generous community of humans who, if we were all doing this, the world would be much better. So I dug into that question of, well, how much better would the world be? And there were two things that I concluded. One was that the pledge might need to be expanded, that the problem with income is that for the people who are wealthiest, it doesn't really put much of an obligation on them at all. Right. All that's a fanatic. Because the very rich have structured their lives. they may not have much income at all. They have these huge net worths that they just, you know, they can borrow against it or whatever, that they can, income isn't the thing that drives them.
1:25:10What would be a challenging give for them is to go to the other religious tradition. 10 % has been part of Judaism and Christianity for centuries and not always very well observed or whatever, but it's been out there as an ideal to aim for 10 % of income. In Islam, they've gone a different route, which is one fortieth of your wealth or two and a half percent. So if billionaires and others of the very rich gave two and a half percent of their net worth every year, that would probably be on average triple what they're giving currently. It would raise an absolutely spectacular amount of money. So what I did, and I was working with someone who I think you know, Natalie Cargill from a long view of philanthropy, just doing the math on this of what that leads to, if a third of the people who were in the world's top 1 % of givers honoured that pledge, it would actually raise about three and a half trillion dollars of philanthropy a year.
1:26:12And it turns out that that is enough to do pretty much all that philanthropy can do. So in a way that, you know, the part of the book that I love most is Natalie Cargill's list of what three and a half trillion dollars a year could do. And whatever problem that you are worried about, that you name, there is approach, an approach that philanthropy credibly could take to solving that problem. So when you put those pieces together, that changes for me, the guilt feeling. It says, this is a standard that we should try and advocate for everyone to adopt. And if we do, we can do that and still embrace our lives, spend the rest of the money on ourselves and enjoy it.
1:26:59We got to know each other in part through a game of poker. We've played some poker. What I love about your poker games is that, you know, whenever I play, I'm usually just playing Texas Hold 'em. but you have this smorgasbord of bizarre poker type games that you've in part either you've invented or your friends have invented and I've never played like talk about a mixture game just learning on the spot that completely different game I've never seen before so have games always been a large part of your life and were you are you would you describe yourself as a competitive person? Yes and yes. I mean, gosh, as a, like, I think probably as a six and seven year old, learned to play Monopoly and became obsessed with that.
1:27:49It was a lot of fun and similar games like that. Those board games like Risk, Monopoly, I definitely got obsessed by. I tried to create a game once and sell it and almost worked. It was, it's actually amazingly hard to fine tune a game so that it really it's balanced survive survives all scenarios you know can be completed in a reasonable amount of time and and so forth um my my game was brilliant but it ended up in some scenarios lasting five or six hours which was not marketable has the flavor of your competitiveness changed at all as you've gotten older yeah i'd like to i'd like to think so I mean, look, I used to be a media entrepreneur and we were, you know, I assembled a group of people back in the early 80s, mid 80s, I guess, when technology was changing so that you could produce magazines using computers at a much lower cost than the big publishing houses were doing.
1:28:44So, you know, I assembled a cast of characters doing special hobbyist magazines around computers and video games and other special interest areas like music and cycling and so forth. And we saw ourselves as a kind of rebel alliance. You know, we were outside London in Bath, England, of all places, and loved taking on the big, bigger, much richer, but it's kind of slower moving publishers by going ding, ding, ding. And it was very, very exciting to be able to launch something much faster than they could and, you know, go, go, go.
1:29:22in a way when at TED even when we first started giving away content probably part of that was driven competitively you could just see that
1:29:39knowledge content was starting to take off online and we had a very good archive of material at TED already that was well shot and we knew that on the internet, you know, things, there is a kind of winner-takes-all mentality. A lot of things, once you have critical mass, that becomes, you know, when someone thinks of, I've got to give a talk somewhere that I wanted to have a huge audience, you know, a couple of years after we'd started giving content, we started to get a lot of those speaker applications because we were the brand that people had heard about. And so even though there was, you know, it was a very complicated motivation thing, But I think there was a competitive feel there that let's, if we're going to do this, let's be the brand that stands for public speaking, giving away online.
1:30:25Now I'd like to say, I mean, I genuinely want a more generous world. And so I don't, I think I'm, when it comes to professional stuff, like I welcome other people taking ideas and running with them. So there's this group in India called Josh Talks that arguably, some would say, sort of ripped off the TED brand. I didn't even know about them, but they produced talks with a little red rug that looks like a TED Talk and so forth. And I met the founder of this, a woman called Supriya Paul. She's a co-founder. And I so admire what she's doing. And I've celebrated her. And in fact, I've said, through the generosity mindset, you can see something like that as just wonderful.
1:31:20You see the world in ripple effects. You want ripple effects to spread as far as possible. If someone takes what you've done and improves it in some way, she is taking TED-like talks to people in India, to 50 million people a month, who are outside the usual education system. I mean, and there are so many stories of self-empowerment there. For me to be mad at that would be so small and so churlish. And so there you have to take, you just celebrate the stuff going and it's wonderful. Did you have to train yourself to feel this way? Because like I noticed, I've described myself almost, certainly myself in my teens and early 20s as like pathologically competitive, almost like destructively competitive.
1:32:08and I would get jealous sometimes. I like to be seen as the hot new female poker player or whatever. And then if another hot new female poker player came along, there'd be a part of me, my logical brain would be like, this is good. She's going to raise poker even more. She's not your competitor. But there was a part inside of me, the pathological side that felt this threat, was coming from this form of scarcity because I think that's where jealousy comes from, right? It's like an idea of like scarcity, but it was false scarcity. And I've had to like train that out of myself basically. And I still sometimes notice it.
1:32:45Like if someone else started a podcast called Win-Win, I know there'd be a part of me that'd be like, and I'm like, well, are they doing a truly Win-Win? Are they doing a good thing with Win-Win? If yes, then that's actually a Win-Win thing. Great. Like Win-Win should spread, you know, and it's not like, it's not like a trademark term but I've had to it's like it's like a muscle that I've personally had to train and what I want to understand is like as a fellow competitive person was this something that just like you've had to also train or did it was it just like part of your being from the beginning like this this generosity mindset I mean I've always been guilted out on generosity and my parents were so crazily generous and in their whole lives they were missionaries they gave their lives to doing expecting bigger than they were.
1:33:35So it's probably always been there in some form, but nothing like them. I mean, it gets complicated. Competition, I don't think it's all bad. I think the whole, it's the same as capitalism, right? Capitalism is a miracle in many ways. It spreads ideas across the planet through the force of competition and people fighting like crazy to win is part of the dynamic that has allowed ideas and amazing products and inventions to spread. And then there's a destructive side of it where it becomes exploitative and bad. So, I mean, I don't think it's evil to be competitive. I think it's, I just think, for me, the word that goes on in my head sometimes is, do you want to be big or small?
1:34:23Like, there's, sometimes it just feels bigger to let things go and let other people shine. What I've noticed is that if you want to influence the world, the more you can give someone else control of something, the more likely it is they will surprise and delight you. I mean, the best people will only give of their best if they control something. Right. Or if they feel a sense of ownership to a degree. Yeah, that's right. That's why TEDx basically works. We gave up control of the brand, and 3 ,000 curation teams around the world have produced amazing events, you know, using the TED brand. And we get to post the videos.
1:35:08And, like, it's been a huge win-win. And Giving Tuesday, it was interesting speaking with them. So here's a story in which a single hashtag spread across the Internet from nothing to now, you know, they raise several billion dollars annually and are spreading the meme of kindness and generosity everywhere. Asha Curran, who runs that, told me that the key to that thing working was that they put in minimal rules on how that hashtag could be used. A lot of people who came up with the idea said, hey, nonprofits, you can use this to raise money. All we want is 5 % of what you raise. Or here is how you have to link it back to this website so that we can control it.
1:35:51If they'd done that, it probably wouldn't have spread. But by letting go of it, it's become this global phenomenon. And so that's often the dynamic. How much are you courageous enough to let go and let your idea find its best form of flourishing out there? And I just think, if in doubt, maybe let it go that much more. TED has been running for 30 years? 40 actually the first 10 was in 1984 the same year that the apple mac launched and the sony like cd the first cd in technology it was technology entertainment design and in both of those it was like wait a sec there is a synergy between those three things obviously the brand has in some ways become completely synonymous with this idea of single person on stage giving talks and yes, you've used the power of franchise to spread it enormously.
1:36:55I think it's brilliant with TEDx. Given the sort of competitive, the increased competitive landscape of content, like it's more competitive than ever. You know, my second TED talk just came out and I'm like scrutinizing the numbers and looking to see, because I was like, oh, the first one got this many numbers and that was five years ago and this one has gotten this many. Is that a result of just how competitive the landscape is or is it the content of the talk? But it's probably, to a degree, it's just harder to get numbers. I speak to YouTubers these days. They're like, it's just a different game to 10 years ago.
1:37:27So what strategies, well, A, are you trying to, how competitive are you trying to stay in terms of like fighting for market share or like eyeballs in the attention economy? And if so, what strategies are you guys going to do? Are there any, are you going to stick with this formula? Are you going to like branch out and try different stuff? Well, we're thinking very hard about every aspect of this question, because it's definitely more, it is definitely more challenging now. I mean, when you think about what's happened to the world, you've got literally millions of people on TikTok, YouTube, Instagram, elsewhere, trying every damn thing that they can think of to tap into some weird quirk in people's minds and win the attention battle.
1:38:16And the net result of all of this is that all of those platforms, if you do scroll on them, it is so compelling to do that. So if I've got 15 minutes free, do I want to watch one TED Talk or do I want to scroll through 1 ,000 posts? on my, you know, most people are going to scroll through the thousand posts and they will definitely get more instant dopamine hits from doing that. So there's several things we're working on. One is yes, to convert some of our best content into shorter form that can work in a doom scrolling environment. So we have a channel on TikTok called TED Talks, of course. And it's, you know, it's doing okay.
1:39:09yeah, it's nice, it's good. There's some stuff that's really working on there. I think the bigger thing that we need to stand for, though, is just to remind people that not all of life is doom scrolling and that something's more. So we're actually in the process of changing our actual tagline from ideas we're spreading to ideas change everything. so what that's meant to signal is that the stakes are higher if you're if you're really willing to immerse deeply in an idea that's powerful um that could be a more important thing and so i would say you know someone who's doom scrolling if instead they watched your your brilliant talk on ai and on the the moloch trap and how dangerous that is and how important it is we figure out a way around it, that is a better use of their 15 minutes, honestly, because that idea won't leave their minds.
1:40:08It hasn't left mine. And in fact, it's helping, it has helped motivate what will, I hope, become a very large philanthropic contribution to trying to solve this problem. In terms of winning the general attention battle out there, I truly don't know. It's why I wrote this book. I think every form of kindness, which basically means all kinds of stories and acts that spread goodness and wonder and interest and valuable knowledge, we all have to play our role in amplifying those. Or the future gets ugly. And I don't know if we can do it, but I feel like there's no reason why we shouldn't.
1:40:54thanks so much for listening everyone and huge thank you to chris for taking the time to speak to me i mean if this has inspired you all at all i highly recommend you go check out both infectious generosity.org or if you're feeling really ambitious then go check out audacious project because as i mentioned in this conversation i appreciate so many of you are sort of thinking yourselves about how to fix some of these systemic issues. And systemic change really is audacious. So that's exactly what that project is set up for. If you want something a little simpler, and perhaps with a little less friction, but you want to do something generous, I'd highly recommend checking out the Giving What We Can pledge.
1:41:35I personally signed it myself about five years ago. And I found it to be sort of the cleanest, crispest way for me personally to sort feel like I'm doing my bit for generosity. So if that appeals, also check it out. They've even made a special win-win landing page because I told them I was recording this episode with Chris. So yeah, check that out. I've linked it below. And if money isn't what you want to be generous with right now, totally fine. As we said, like there are so many ways to be generous. If you're feeling inspired, share, like, subscribe, the usual. That's actually the best way you can be generous.
1:42:12And from me to you, thank you for being generous with your time, because that's the ultimate finite resource. And you guys just listened to this conversation for close to two hours. So thank you for that too. All right. On that note, I will see you very soon. Bye. Have a nice couple of weeks.
From the publisher
What if we could harness the power of the internet to make kindness go VIRAL? That's the topic of this conversation with Chris Anderson -- Chris has run TED (of the famous TED talks) for the last twenty years, and recently wrote a book called "Infectious Generosity", which seeks to understand the nature of human kindness, and find ways to make it spread in the digital age. A crucial issue in these divisive times! Expect lots of evolutionary psychology, a dissection of why the media is broken, some deep internet history, and how to improve (and win at!) the attention game. Chapters: 00:00:00 - Intro 00:02:20 - Infectious Generosity 00:13:09 - How the Internet Has Changed 00:30:50 - Role of News Media 00:37:08 - Evolution of Generosity 00:50:04 - Effective Giving 00:53:28 - Intent vs Consequence 01:01:30 - Religion and Generosity 01:08:59 - The Audacious Project 01:22:41 - Giving What You Can Pledge 01:26:54 - Is Chris Competitive? 01:36:35 - Future of TED Links ♾️ Infectious Generosity by Chris Anderson https://www.infectiousgenerosity.org/ ♾️ Thinking Fast and Slow https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1... ♾️ Media Moloch Youtube Video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PRz54... ♾️ The Mystery Experiment - a Study of Generosity https://bigthink.com/the-present/gene... ♾️ Against Empathy by Paul Bloom https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/2... ♾️ Atheism 2.0 by Alain de Botton TED Talk https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Oe6H... ♾️ The Audacious Project https://www.audaciousproject.org/ ♾️ Project Vesta https://www.vesta.earth/ ♾️ Liv's TED talk - The Dark Side of Competition in AI https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WX_vN... ♾️ The Giving Pledge - http://givingwhatwecan.org/winwin Credits ♾️ Hosted by Liv Boeree ♾️ Produced & Edited by Raymond Wei ♾️ Audio Mix by Keir Schmidt The Win-Win Podcast: Poker champion Liv Boeree takes to the interview chair to tease apart the complexities of one of the most fundamental parts of human nature: competition. Liv is joined by top philosophers, gamers, artists, technologists, CEOs, scientists, athletes and more to understand how competition manifests in their world, and how to change seemingly win-lose games into Win-Wins.
