Donald Miller: The Storytelling Framework Top Brands Use to Crush Marketing Goals | Marketing | E358

24:10So it's very important that you have sound bites that break through that filter, that barrier, that desire that your brain has to not think, your brain wants to ignore everything except for survival assets. And so when I have to think about how you can help me survive because you haven't said it in a soundbite, you're going to have a very tough time growing a business. And so the framework gives you seven soundbites that people will not ignore. I love that you gave us that explanation. I feel like it's so true. People make all their decisions based on status and things that are going to improve their relationships or how people perceive them.

24:48So walk us through this seven-step framework. What are the key soundbites that we need for all of our messaging for our business? The first one is you need to define what your customer wants. And the soundbite needs to be very specific. For instance, if you say, well, my customer wants fulfillment. That's too vague. Your customer wants fulfillment. I don't know what that's about. I can't get my mind around it. For instance, let me do a little quiz with you. I have a client and their soundbite was defending our freedom, protecting the future. Who do you think I'm talking about? Protecting our freedom, defending the future.

25:24Maybe like immigrants or freedom of speech or something like this, like just regular people. So the reason that you're getting it wrong is because it's a terrible soundbite. Unclear, yeah. It's unclear. The agency is national security. So the National Security Agency, that was their tagline. By the way, they hardly ever shipped it. It was on one brochure. They never said it. It just got stuck in a drawer somewhere and they forgot about it. Their new tagline, we think that we're going to ship, is intelligence means victory. And that tagline does two things. It says what they offer, which is intelligence.

26:02And it says what the stakes are if you don't have it. If you don't use our intelligence, you're going to lose a war. People are going to die, literally, and they will. You need this intelligence. And so that tagline going into Congress is going to get congressional authorizations passed much quicker. It's going to get funding happen a lot faster. It's going to get the Pentagon to cooperate. It's going to get the military to make sure that the channel that where they're getting their intelligence from is always open. It's actually something you could take, if you worked at the NSA, you could take to your family.

26:34And your family all of a sudden says, dad's more important than I thought he was, right? Yeah. So it's an extremely effective tagline. And so defining what it is that you offer and what it is that your customer wants, in the case of the NSA, it's intelligence, is really important. So that's one soundbite that you've got to have down. The next soundbite you've got to have down is arguably even more important. and that is the problem that you solve. We spend money to solve problems. That's it. And again, every dollar you've ever spent was spent to solve some sort of problem. If you paid to go to a movie, you were solving the problem of boredom or something to do that day or needing to check out and relax.

27:15If you bought a beautiful dress, you solved the problem of wanting to look better and not having anything in your closet for summer. Everything that you spend money on is to solve a problem. So if you've defined the problem that you solve in a soundbite, you can expect your business to go up if you repeat it. And again, you cannot be vague. You have to be very, very specific. It needs to be as specific as a toothache or a gluten intolerance, whatever that is. So the problem is the second soundbite. The next soundbite is really fascinating and is the soundbite that positions you as the guide in your customer's story.

27:52You know, as you know, Holly, we say, never play the hero, always play the guide. and the guide is the character that helps the hero win. And if you position yourself as the hero, you're positioning yourself as a weak character in need of transformation, ill-equipped, desperate for help and unwilling to take action. That's every hero in every story, by the way. So why would you make the story about you? You wanna make the story about the customer because the customer is looking for somebody to help them in their story. They're not looking to hear your interesting story. So when people come to me and they say, hey, Don, we really need help telling our story.

28:26I say, you don't. I mean, I can do it. I can put it on a napkin. You can tell your story. What you need to do is you need to invite customers into a story. Because if you play the hero, you're going to lose. Jeb Bush lost a presidential primary with the tagline, Jeb can fix it. Well, he made himself the hero of the story. And by the way, what's he fixing? It. So he broke two rules already. Made himself the hero, and he offered something that was elusive and ambiguous. Hillary Clinton lost a presidential election with the tagline, I'm with her. So I'm with her. She's the hero. And by the way, we're with her going where?

28:57Doing what? There's no offer there. She didn't define what it is that she's going to bring to the country. Now, she did in various speeches and that sort of thing, but not in the one line that she needed people to memorize. And so the stakes of this are very, very high. If you position yourself as the hero of the story, you're going to lose. I promise you. We don't like narcissists. We don't like people who make it all about themselves. It's interesting because I feel like I interview a lot of marketers and there's this concept of the hero journey. the epiphany bridge story, right, that everybody always talks about.

29:27I use it in some of my materials when I'm trying to sell courses or something like this, this hero story idea. So do you advise we don't put our hero story within our marketing materials? No, I do. I actually advise that you do, even though I just said never do it. There's a place for it. There's actually three levels of messaging. The first is the curiosity soundbites. Next are the enlightenment collateral. And next is commitment collateral. So if you think about the curiosity soundbites. Those are the soundbites that invite you into a story. And then the enlightenment material is where I do my due diligence to find out if you're somebody I want to work with.

30:05And then the commitment soundbites and the commitment material are where I ask for the money. Where most companies get it wrong and most businesses get it wrong, they get the curiosity soundbites wrong. And so I think it's okay to tell your backstory. It's called the guide backstory. It's okay to tell your guide backstory, probably though after somebody has done business with you. Because when you tell your story, it does create a bond, but it's only after you've earned their respect and become their guide. Then your story matters. But I would never ever, standing on a stage in front of an audience that I've never met, I will not tell my story.

30:41I just won't do it. Okay. First impressions, it's about them. That's right. Okay. Got it. So the soundbite that you need to position yourself as a guide is twofold. You need to express empathy and competency. And empathy means I feel your pain, I understand your pain, and I know how to get you out. And so for me, I would say something like, I know how hard it is to look at a blank screen and come up with the soundbite that you need. And so I spent 10 years developing a framework that comes up with a perfect soundbite that will grow your business. And I can do the same for you. So I expressed empathy toward their problem.

31:17And then I described the competency that I built up to solve that problem. So in that way, it's okay to talk about yourself, but you got to talk about why you care so much about your customer's problem. And you got to talk about why you're so qualified to solve it. So those are the two soundbites or the single soundbite with two parts that positions you as the guide. The next soundbite is easy. It's a three-step plan. Break down the process that it takes to do business with you into three steps. You almost need it for every product. You want to say, look, I do an intake where I just ask you a bunch of questions.

31:50I give you a custom report on what I think you should do. And if you want me to hold your hand and you want to pay me on a retainer basis, I enter into your story and we make this thing better. The brain loves and understands three steps. And it also creates a bridge from your customer's problem to your solution. And it dramatically increases the number of sales that you make because people don't want to move into a fog. They're like, give me baby steps, give me baby steps. So those three steps are the baby steps. And then there's the call to action. This is where you ask for the money. And there's a specific way that I want everybody listening to me to ask for the money from here on out, because you're gonna see an improvement in the number of people who make a purchase.

32:27The way I want you to ask for money is this. If you are struggling with this problem, it's the right decision to buy this product. If you are struggling with this problem, the right decision is to buy this product. So if you are struggling with a terrible toothache, it's the right decision to take X medicine. When you actually word it that way, what you're alleviating is the confusion that the customer has, which they can't put words to. But the question that they have, especially if it's an expensive item, is simple. Is this the right decision? Is this the right decision? Think about the last thing that you purchased.

33:06What was it? And try to reverse engineer why you purchased it. I bought a pair of boots, bought a pair of double RL boots. They're nice boots. They're black boots. The only pair of black boots that I had was a pair of hiking boots and they just didn't work very, very well. And I'd seen some sort of Instagram or something that said, have you ever seen a world leader in brown shoes? I thought, no, never seen a world leader in brown shoes. I've got a pair of black dress shoes, but I don't have a pair of black boots. This is a hole in my closet. And it took me, by the way, three months, to buy these shoes because, you know, they're not cheap.

33:43And I finally just went, I need a pair of black boots. I'm just going to do it. I think three months ago, if somebody would have said, if you're looking for a pair of black boots that you can wear with a great suit or blue jeans and get a lot of use out of the double RL black boot is going to do all of that for you. It's the right decision. I'd have bought it three months ago because for three months, what I'm sitting there doing and it's going, gosh, this is expensive. Should I do that? I mean, is that, you know, is that the right decision? But if somebody else who had some authority would have said to me, no, it is the right decision, I would have gone, okay, thanks.

34:20I learned that by the way, when I bought a nice watch, I'd been looking for years for a nice watch and I'd gone to jewelry stores. I'd seen some that I liked, but I always backed off. And finally, somebody just said, Don, do you have the money for this watch? And I said, yes. They said, do you like the watch? I said, yes. They said, do you have a good reason to buy it? Because they knew why I was buying it. I was buying it because my company hit a certain revenue point and I was going to buy it. I said, yeah, I got a good reason to buy it. He said, then I think this is the right decision. Do you want me to box it up?

34:49And I went, yeah. Thanks for thinking for me. Yeah, so you need a soundbite that affirms that your product is the right decision. Now, you can't just say, hey, this is the right decision. You actually have to say, if you are struggling with this, then this is the right decision. So you want to make sure you get the problem right. You also want to make sure that your product actually solves that problem. Otherwise you'll get a bad name. Then there's two more soundbites and that's the success soundbite and the failure soundbite. The success soundbite is the soundbite that says, here's what your life will look like if you buy this product.

35:21And of course that's gonna be good, right? You're gonna have a great pair of black boots that you love putting on, look fantastic with a suit, but when you got a change in the jeans, you just use the same boot. The failure soundbite is going to be, Don, the suit looks okay with a pair of black dress shoes would look a lot better with black boots. And you're going to feel like you're not quite dialed in this outfit without these boots. And I'm going, you know, I just sold myself with the boots. And so those are the seven categorical soundbites that you need. And at storybrand.ai, those seven soundbites plus something we call a controlling idea, which is the idea that dominates your business, that this is what the whole idea is.

36:06Like my controlling idea is clarify your message so customers will engage. And also a tagline, I write all of that for you for free at storybrand.ai. And then if you want, there's a paywall and you can get lead generators and pitch decks and proposals and keynote presentations and wireframe websites and all sorts of other really great stuff. I definitely want to use it to be honest because I feel like I just want to revamp all my marketing materials. And this is the perfect time and the perfect tool. How we just launched, it's a blog generator, but you can use it for LinkedIn or Instagram posts or whatever you want.

36:42The great thing about this is you don't have a blank square that you type anything into, although we have that asset at StoryBurn.ai, but it asks you questions. So you're writing a blog entry. And so it says, hey, what's the main problem that you're trying to solve today? How are you trying to solve it? How's this problem make people feel? What's some wisdom that you've encountered that helps people solve the problem? Do you happen to have a story of somebody who used this idea to solve the problem? It asks you those questions. It asks you the right questions in order to get the best possible output.

37:14And then you can use that for anything you want. It sounds awesome. I have a bunch of follow-up questions. So you mentioned the controlling idea. I know this is something new that sits on top of the framework. So talk to us about what makes a good controlling idea How do we come up with one? Or is there like a certain framework that we should use? The controlling idea is less of a framework and more the moral of the story or the point of the story. So that idea, the controlling idea comes from screenwriting. And when you're writing a screenplay, you want to define the controlling idea before you begin because it creates a filter.

37:50So let's say I'm writing a story about a woman who owns a bookstore in New York, who without knowing it has an anonymous pen pal who owns a chain of bookstores that are very corporate and is killing all the little mom and pop bookstores. Of course, we know this movie, right? So the controlling idea is two people who should be enemies fall in love before discovering they should be enemies. Well, now that's a filter for the rest of my story. So it can't be a story about winning a marathon. It can't be a story about adopting a dog. It can't be a story about running for office. It tells me what to leave out.

38:36And when you actually know the controlling idea of your organization, again, mine is clarify your message so customers will engage. Once I know that that's the controlling idea of my book, if I'm writing a book, everything in that book has to defend the controlling idea. And I can really come up with a great joke or a great whatever. But if that joke doesn't actually defend the controlling idea, I have to leave it out. It's a wonderful filter. And so, for instance, I helped a brand recently come up with the controlling idea that kids love aquariums. You know, they sell aquariums, they sell fish tanks, they sell everything that goes into the fish tank.

39:16And that controlling idea also became their tagline. It doesn't have to, but that one became their tagline. And when they started putting that on fish tanks and fish food and signage on shelves and PetSmart and Petco, they saw a 99 % increase in sales in the test market where they tested that controlling idea. Because finally, customers could walk in the door and know why they should buy it. They should buy it because they have a kid who's going to love this. That's it. Don't overthink it. And so that's where the power of a controlling idea comes in. It tells everybody what to focus on. And more importantly, it tells you what to leave out.

39:53And so tagline is more like external, maybe something that's easy to remember, fun. Controlling idea can be something internal that we use as a filter for all of our communications. Is that right? Yeah. Half the time your controlling idea becomes your tagline, half the time it doesn't. Yeah. The difference between a controlling idea and a tagline is the tagline is memorable. Your tagline needs to be able to be repeated. I like three-word taglines. Eat more chicken sells about$20 billion worth of Chick-fil-A chicken every year, right? So what's the controlling idea of the whole Chick-fil-A effort?

40:27It's get people to eat more chicken. We're not gonna do anything else. That's what we do. That's our focus. We're never bringing a burger in here. And so, you know, I think the controlling idea is really important. The difference is the tagline needs to be something that is very, very easy to remember. It also, in my opinion, it cannot be unclear. It has to be extremely clear what it is that you offer and why it matters. And it's amazing. You can actually get that done with three words, kids love aquarium. Can I tell you mine for my podcast? I would love it, Halla. Listen, learn, profit. Is that good or no?

41:01I think that's actually really good, especially the word profit. And the reason is you have immediately told me, One, I love a tagline that tells me what to do. Eat more chicken, right? But then you added something else in just three words. You added a survival asset. So if I'm a small business and I listen and then I learn and then I make money, you are offering me a chance to survive. So it wakes my brain up and says, hey, you should pay attention to this. I think it's very strong. Thank you.

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46:47If I said, hey, let me tell you how not to lose that hundred bucks that's in your wallet, you're motivated at level seven or eight. So the reason that you want that soundbite of here's what can happen to you if you don't buy my product is it drives much more action than a vision of a better future. Got it. So you should really think through not only the benefits of your product, but what's going to happen if they don't use my product? And then how can I weave those things into my messaging? Yeah, the two most important things in your messaging, the two most important messages, if you will, are what is the problem that you solve and what failure am I gonna experience if I don't buy your product?

47:26Those are the only two negative messages out of the entire seven, and they're more powerful than the other five combined. They're that important. And the reason is pretty obvious. If you turn on your favorite movie, what's your favorite movie? I'm curious. Favorite movie of all time, I'm the wedding singer. Wedding singer. That says a lot about you and I. Absolutely love it. I'm here for that. It makes me want to go back and watch it again tonight. It's been a minute. Okay, so if you pause the wedding singer 18 minutes in, 23 minutes in, 40 minutes in, 47 minutes in, 62 minutes in, and 83 minutes in.

48:04Now, I have no idea what's happening in those minutes, but I'll tell you what's actually happening in those minutes. Adam Sandler's up a creek. Adam Sandler is having a lot of trouble with something. The reason is, if Adam Sandler isn't up against a challenge or experiencing some kind of pain, the story isn't interesting. It's not interesting. And a good screenwriter will never, ever, ever let that happen. What you'll notice in a movie is it's negative, hard, hard, hard, hard, hard. Okay, we overcame it. And then there's six seconds, maybe six seconds of rest for the hero before something bad happens.

48:43And he's at it again. And the moral, the lesson, if you will, that we can learn as business owners is if you stop talking about your customers problems, they're going to stop paying attention to you. You've got to keep talking about the fact that interior design shouldn't be so expensive. You can't stop talking about the fact that your tomatoes might not come up this year because it's going to get really hot unless, right? You can't stop talking about the fact that your kid is probably going to be really screwed up unless you look them in the eye and say, I love you, you know, whatever. It's the negativity that drives interest and action.

49:22And then people say, well, no, I don't want to be a negative brand. That actually won't happen. Nobody will perceive you as a negative brand if 99 % of your messages are negative. The reason they won't is because you sell a product that solves the problem. So if you sell a product that solves that much darkness, everybody sees you as light. They don't see you as darkness. If you didn't have a product to sell that solved the problem, then you're a negative brand. But the more negative the problem is that you solve, the brighter and the better the product actually is and the more hopeful people associate their emotions, their hopeful emotions with your product.

50:00Okay. One more follow-up about the framework. You talk about a story gap. Why is it important to have a story gap and what is that? A story gap is a question in the consumer's mind that your product hopefully will answer. So let's actually look at it in the screenplay. Let's say that we're writing a rom-com, a romantic comedy, and there's a gentleman, he's sitting in a coffee shop. A young woman comes in. He notices her, and maybe she's beautiful or something like that, and she spills a little bit of coffee right next to him, so he uses her napkin to pick it up, and she sits down, and they begin to have a conversation.

50:40There's a story gap already. What's going to happen between these two people? But it's not a very good one. So let's actually raise the story gap even more. And the story gap is the interest we have to close this gap. We want these people to be together. She talks for maybe 10 minutes. The chemistry is off the charts. I mean, it's just like these two need to get married like fast. And suddenly she says, I'm so sorry. I shouldn't be here. I shouldn't be talking to you. This is inappropriate. And she gathers her stuff, puts it in her briefcase and jets out the door. He doesn't have her name, doesn't have her phone number.

51:15Now we got a story gap. The story gap is, how are these two going to end up together? It's also called an obligatory scene or the foreshadowing of an obligatory scene. The obligatory scene is this, you are obligated to bring those two together by the end of this movie. If you don't do it, you're going to have an audience that's really, really mad at you because they want them to be together. So that's a story gap. Now let's make it even worse or better from the perspective of the movie going audience. This guy gets a call from his mother. He's brokenhearted. He has found the woman that he loves.

51:48He doesn't know nothing about her, doesn't know her name, but my God, he's smitten. His mother calls his little cubicle about an hour later. And she says, you should come over for dinner tonight. Your brother is in town. And he says, I hate my brother. You should hate your son. He's a con artist. He's a liar. He's a narcissist. He's the worst human being who has ever walked this planet. I have no desire to go to dinner. And the mother says, he's changed And you need to come Some things have happened in his life And he's really trying hard Will you please give him a shot? So he goes to dinner that night The brother is there And he says, listen, I know I've been an ass But it's different now And knock, knock, knock Somebody knocks at the door In fact, the reason it's different is right outside Opens the door and introduces his fiance And who do you think it is?

52:38The girl from the coffee shop I love that story. Now we've got a story. Now we've got a story, right? Because the story gap is, how are they going to get together? We've got a villain, the brother, who's a con artist and still a jerk to this day. And of course, we see that as the movie unfolds, how horrible he is. We have this wonderful young woman who deserves to be with the other brother, not the con artist. And the audience is going, how's this going to work out? How are they going to get together? How is this? That's the story gap. And in screenwriting, you should never, ever, ever, not for a second, not have an open story gap.

53:12Because as soon as you close that gap, the story's over. It's over. Let's say in that first scene, she would have said, you know what, I'm engaged with this guy. He actually kind of looks like you, but I'm realizing he's a con artist and I want to marry you. We've ruined the movie. Because you closed the gap too soon. And so the idea is when you're promoting a product, you want to talk about the pain and the challenge that the customer is experiencing because it opens a story gap. And when you say, look, when you actually do business with me and buy my product, that's how you close the gap. And then people are motivated to close that gap, so they pay you money to close the gap.

53:47If the story gap is undefined or vague, you'll have a lot harder time selling your product. And then how does the three-step plan not close the story gap? The three-step plan tells them how to get to the closing of the story gap. That's how you close the gap, but you don't actually tell them how because it's going to like scare them away. So it's more high level, you mean? No, it's the path. You know, let's say that you're an at-home chef. You'd want to say to people, hey, you know how most families don't eat together anymore when they do? They don't eat healthy. I'm an at-home chef. What did I just do, by the way?

54:19I started with the problem and positioned myself as the solution to the problem. Now that's going to make people want to do business with me. However, they don't know if it's the right move and nobody likes to move into a fog. So what you say is, by the way, I work in three phases. I come to your house and I do an intake session. I find out what your food allergies are, what your favorite restaurants are, what kind of meals you like, when your family likes to eat. The second step is I cook only one meal. And we see if we like each other. If you like the way it tastes, if you like the leftovers and they're good the next day, if you like the fact that you can sit down and connect with your family and not have to worry about a meal at least one night a week, then we take step three.

54:58And step three is I enter into a retainer. I can work with you twice a month and that's it because I'm very busy, but I'd love to work with you. Would you like me to come over for that intake session? You can even hear how much more likely somebody is to take the risk-free step of an intake session and the slightly risk-free step of getting one meal done. And then it feels like baby steps to close this story gap. Now, when I said, do you know how most families don't eat together anymore? And when they do, they don't eat healthy, I opened a story gap in your mind because you went, holy crap, that's us.

55:33We don't eat together. We definitely don't eat healthy. We eat on the run. We eat with the TV on. And the kids are going off to college in about seven years, and we're never going to have that opportunity again. Now there's a story gap, and I'm going to close that story gap when I come and cook for you. I want to do some games. Does that sound like a good idea? That sounds terrific. Okay. So I want to test hero versus guide with some really popular companies that I'm sure you know a lot about. You tell me, do you feel like they're positioning themselves as a hero or guide and why or why not it's working?

56:09Okay. Sounds good. Let's go with Apple. Think differently. Okay. A couple of things about Apple. The reason think different works for Apple, but not for you. Let's talk about that. The reason Think Different works for Apple and not for you is because Apple is the largest company in the world. Everybody knows what an Apple computer is. Everybody knows what an iPhone is. Everybody knows what an Apple Watch is, on and on and on. We all know those things. And so when people know what a Coca-Cola is and what it tastes like, you don't have to be as specific. And so a major mistake that small businesses make or people starting their personal brand is they look at Apple and they go, think different.

56:49right? Or have a Coke and a smile or whatever. And they go, okay, I need one of those. You don't. When your product is a household name, you can start doing what I call branding. Until then, you got to do marketing. And marketing is explaining what you offer and why it matters. So let's just stop there and say, Think Different worked because it launched in a Super Bowl commercial. That's where it launched. If you have the money for a Super Bowl commercial, have fun. That's great. But however, they are positioning themselves as the guide and they're telling the hero what to do. Think different.

57:25That's a plus for them. Another plus is they're actually offering you a differentiation of your identity. Notice that think different doesn't sell a computer. It sells an opportunity for you to become different than everybody else, which makes you stand out, which is a survival asset. So two words, very powerful, won't work if you are an unknown brand worked great for Apple. I give it like a C plus. C plus, okay. A plus for them, F minus for you, C plus is in the middle. Nike. Just Do It, identical. Just Do It says that we are a brand for people who don't make excuses. We are a brand for people who have a bias toward action.

58:12We are a brand for people who are active. Very, very powerful. Unless you know what a Nike shoe is, it's completely ineffective. So it works very well for a known brand, not at all for you. Tesla. What is Tesla's tagline? I don't know what their tagline is, but everybody just knows Elon Musk. Is that problematic for them? No. Because Elon is such a character who is incredibly different, Elon Musk has overcome more challenges this afternoon than you and I may overcome in a lifetime. Now, I'm not saying, you know, I admire his politics or any of that, although I'm very curious about how Doge is going to work out because a lot of that stuff is really good.

58:56We've got to bring manufacturing home and we waste a lot of money as a government. But there's all sorts of shady stuff happening. Let's be honest. I think Tesla, I don't actually know what their tagline is. I know that when they created the Roadster, it stood out as an electric car. So it's a differentiated brand. And what was really interesting about it, it was an offer right at the height, probably, of the environmental movement. So it gave people a chance to have a product that would help them do what they wanted to do. It was like Apple in the sense that this is an alternative, which is really, really good.

59:32I could read you the tagline if it's helpful. Yeah, let's hear it. Accelerating the world's transition to sustainable energy. Well, there you go. So clear. I feel like it follows your mind. But again, if I said to you that tagline, you would say, it sounds like a solar panel company. So it only works because we know what a Tesla is. That's not a good tagline for anybody listening to my voice. Got it. Another game, I'm calling it the SB7 Speed Round. I'm going to give you the name of a product or service. And then you basically say the key sound bites for them. Okay. Let's do a meal kit for busy families.

1:00:14Okay, a meal kit for busy families would be, it shouldn't take an hour to cook an amazing meal. So now we get an amazing meal and we get to save time. We get two things. So whatever the name of the company is, because it shouldn't take an hour to cook an amazing meal. Now, I've combined some soundbites. One is what the customer wants, which is an amazing meal. The second is the problem, which it takes too long to make an amazing meal. And so the controlling idea of it shouldn't take an hour to cook an amazing meal is a pretty good one. I think that would work. Another one is what you actually need for dinner tonight in one box, you know, or something like that could be good.

1:00:56What problem am I solving? Well, first of all, I've said what it is. It's everything you need for dinner tonight in one box. And the problem that I'm solving is I don't have to go to the grocery store and buy a bunch of stuff. I could do another one. If you have a family of four, shouldn't you have nothing left over when you make dinner tonight? You know, solving the problem of every time I go, I get six of these, eight of these, four of these, 10 of these, and nothing is ever exactly what I need. So I could choose to solve that problem. This is a conversation that I would have around a boardroom with that company.

1:01:24And then I would force them to choose. You're gonna choose a problem that you solve, and then we're gonna corner the market on that problem. Do you wanna solve the problem of not having to go to the grocery store? Do you want to solve the problem of it takes too long to cook? Do you want to solve the problem of dinner never tastes good when we cook it at home? Which, by the way, is a pretty good one. And if so, we're going to come up with a controlling idea and a tagline and brand script talking points based on what you have chosen. So good. You can't choose two. You can't choose two. You got to choose one.

1:01:52Love it. Let's do a recruiting firm for startups. Recruiting firm. Okay. Startup employees are different. Let us help you find the ones that work. So now I'm convincing people that, startup employees actually have to be wired a certain way, and you're not going to find them at any other recruiter. By the way, I kind of believe that. But if you've ever been around a startup, right, you've got to be scrappy, you've got to be comfortable with an ambiguous future. And you've got to wear five hats, not one. That ain't the modern workforce. By the way, I just wrote the copy for their website. Just literally what I just said would do very, very well for them.

1:02:27Yeah, you did do a good job. So for any recruiters out there listening, You're welcome. Yeah. Donald, this has been such an amazing conversation. I end my show with two questions that I ask all of my guests, and you don't have to answer them based on the topic of today. It can just come from your heart. So first of all, what is one actionable thing our young and profiters can do today to become more profitable tomorrow? I almost always answer focus. Focus is the key to everything. When you look back on your life, I want you to answer the question, what should you have left out? and then start leaving that out.

1:03:02And when you find yourself focusing really on what matters, the rewards are compounding. I love that advice. And what is your secret to profiting in life? And this can go beyond business stuff. The secret to profiting in life is to make sure that your life mission is mutually beneficial. And what I mean by that is that you're gonna get a lot out of your mission, but so are other people. And if you don't take people with you. Now, I hear people say, no, my life mission is only about others. You're lying. You're lying. We are selfish human beings. We are trying to survive ourself and you're not telling the truth.

1:03:49But when it's mutually beneficial, when I say I want the most enjoyable relationship any dad has ever had with their daughter. Two of us benefit. And that's a good ambition. And I would actually say, first of all, it motivates me because I get to enjoy a wonderful relationship with my daughter and she gets to enjoy that, hopefully. I don't have a whole lot of control over that, but hopefully she does. And so I try to choose ambitions that are mutually beneficial, that I benefit, but so does somebody else. And there have been plenty of opportunities to make a lot of money, but only I benefit. it.

1:04:24And I've pretty much have always said no to those things because they're always empty. Unless we can actually do something together that really helps each other out, it's probably not going to be a very meaningful ambition. I really like that mutually beneficial goal. It's really smart. So if somebody wants to get started with StoryBrand, where should they go first? Should they go grab the new book? Should they go to StoryBrand AI or where should they go first? StoryBrand.ai is the place you want to go and start playing around to get your controlling idea, your tagline. There's a link there if you want to go buy the book.

1:04:56It's on Amazon. It's called Building a Story Brand. You can read about it. It's on Audible. You can read about it there or listen to it there. But storybrand.ai is where you should go. Awesome. Where can everybody learn more about you and everything that you do? Well, if you want to know about me and you want to see pictures of my daughter and our garden and my beautiful wife, Donald Miller on Instagram is where I get personal. Donald, it's always a pleasure to have you on the show. Thank you so much for joining us on Young and Profiting Podcast. Wonderful. Wonderful to be with you again. Thank you so much for having me.

1:05:29Yeah, fam, what an unforgettable episode with the one and only Donald Miller. Now, this was the fourth time that Donald came on the show, but he brought us into a whole new world with StoryBrand 2.0. And I honestly think a lot of us are walking away with a totally different understanding of how to connect with our audience. One of the most powerful takeaways from this conversation was Donald's core belief. If you don't like your life, you probably don't like your story. That simple shift in perspective gave him the power to lose over 200 pounds, become a husband and father at nearly 50 years old, and build a business that's made over$100 million.

1:06:07It's proof that the rules of storytelling aren't just for marketing. They apply to our own lives too. We also broke down Donald's seven-part story brand framework, which helps entrepreneurs turn confusing messaging into clear sound bites that customers actually care about. And Donald reminded us that if your product isn't positioned as a survival asset, people won't pay attention because the brain is wired to conserve energy and focus on only what it needs to thrive. I especially loved when Donald said, if you stop talking about your customer's problem, they're going to stop listening. That's the kind of truth that every entrepreneur, marketer, or creator needs to hear on repeat.

1:06:45You can be repetitive and you've got to talk about solving your customers' problems all the time. Donald also gave us the inside scoop of StoryBrand AI, a new AI tool that helps you build your tagline, controlling idea, emails, and even your website in just minutes. It's based on the same principles and practices Donald has used to help thousands of businesses grow for over a decade. So young and profiter, I'm going to leave you with this. If you're tired of confusing messaging or feel stuck in your own life story, remember this, you can change the script. You can start a new chapter, one where you're clear, intentional, and in control of your narrative.

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