Founder Mode vs. Manager Mode: Striking the Right Balance

1 Oct 2024 · 40 min

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Episode Title Founder Mode vs. Manager Mode: Striking the Right Balance

Hosts

  • Ryan Deiss
  • Roland Frasier

Episode Description In this episode, the hosts delve into the dynamics of balancing 'founder mode' and 'manager mode' as businesses scale. They discuss insights from Paul Graham's article on founder mode, sharing real-world experiences and strategies for effective leadership and management.

Key Highlights

  • Tension, Not a Problem: The relationship between founder mode and manager mode is a tension that needs to be managed rather than a problem to be solved.
  • Founder vs. Manager: Founders often care more about their company than any manager could. However, over-dependence on the founder can be detrimental to scalability.
  • Hybrid Approach: A successful model integrates both founder and manager modes, referred to as “fanagement mode.”
  • Cultural Maintenance: Founders play a crucial role in maintaining company culture, especially during transitions.
  • Micromanagement vs. Empowerment: Founders must avoid micromanaging to empower employees and foster initiative.

Episode Timestamps

  • 00:00 - Introduction
  • 04:26 - Hybrid management mode's scalability and practicality
  • 07:25 - Maintaining company culture and dangers of founder dependency
  • 09:34 - Cyclic needs of business from founder and manager perspectives
  • 12:45 - Transitioning from manager to founder mode
  • 16:36 - Micromanagement vs. empowering employees
  • 19:15 - Concept and application of skip-level meetings
  • 23:26 - Conducting skip-level meetings effectively
  • 27:11 - Avoiding common pitfalls during skip-level meetings
  • 29:00 - Final thoughts

Key Concepts and Discussions

Founder Mode vs. Manager Mode

  • Founder Mode: Represents innovation, vision, and maintaining the company culture.
  • Manager Mode: Involves delegation, systematization, and strategic oversight.
  • Balance: Effective leaders must know when to switch between these modes, adapting to the company's needs at different stages.

Importance of a Hybrid Model

  • Fanagement Mode: The combination of founder and manager modes, allowing for both innovation and delegation.
  • Role of Founders: Good founders should act as coaches, mentoring their teams rather than dictating.

Scalability and Company Culture

  • The need for a founder's presence to maintain culture while also preventing over-dependence on the founder.
  • Potential issues include burnout and a lack of diverse perspectives if a founder restricts the growth of their management team.

Skip-Level Meetings

  • Definition: Meetings where employees communicate directly with higher management, bypassing their immediate supervisors.
  • Purpose: To gather insights, assess employee sentiments, and improve company performance.
  • Guidelines: Conduct skip-level meetings with transparency and clarity to avoid erosion of the organizational structure and maintain trust.

Common Pitfalls in Management

  • Micromanagement: Can stifle innovation and create a culture of fear.
  • Over-delegation: Risks losing touch with the company’s vision and culture.

Final Thoughts

  • The need for leaders to adapt their management style to the company's growth stages was emphasized.
  • Encouragement to engage with employees and maintain open lines of communication to support both founder and managerial needs.

Conclusion In this episode, Ryan and Roland stress the importance of a balanced approach to leadership in business, emphasizing the need for adaptability and an understanding of when to be innovative versus when to manage. The discussion provides valuable insights for entrepreneurs and leaders looking to scale their businesses effectively.

Resources

  • 7 Steps to Scalable Workbook
  • Free Book: Zero Down

Connect with Roland Frasier

  • [Roland Frasier's Website](https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbWdTb0I2VlJFTXl3aDZtSXJsaHFpVnV2UEhsUXxBQ3Jtc0trYk1LZmVseEQ0U1NCbTFHYm9MRkhBM19zOFFPdEFRTlk1NzNQRWc1aF9CQ1RYcERFbV8yNzBjdzZ1ejF2ZlA4ZUo2NFdwWkQtTERwS1RVRzRqQklXRTNjNGlCWWpwNkxMUlBmV0g4bEF2RlVkNUdZRQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fmsha.ke%2Frolandfrasier%2F&v=UCr1x8ihAdo)

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0:00When I think about the concept of founder mode versus manager mode, what struck me is this is not a problem to be solved. this is a tension that needs to be managed.

0:12Hey, everybody. Welcome to another episode of the Business Lunch Podcast with your host, Ryan Dice and myself, Roland Frazier. Ryan, how are you doing today? I'm doing so great. Excited about the event coming up in a week or so. Everything's getting prepped and ready. All the booths and stuff is arriving, all the swag. I think it's fun. Good times. How about you? I have a tremendous amount of stuff to talk with you about on that. So maybe after the podcast and a couple of meetings today, if you've got some time, let's chat about that. Because I had a lot of really good things, I think, to help.

0:46So that I'm very excited about. But you sent me some information on something that is kind of a hot topic right now. And you suggest it would be great to talk about. So why don't you introduce that and let's chat about it. Yeah. So it was this article by Paul Graham that was making the rounds a couple of, I don't know, a week or so ago. Basically, while you were being lazy in Mexico, the entrepreneurial community was losing their collective minds. It was on fire. Memes, I tell you. And we weren't there to talk about it. And so I thought it would be good to talk about it right now. And so the article, the post was called Founder Mode.

1:27And just to kind of give you the gist, so Brian Chesky, who I know you know is the founder CEO of Airbnb, he gave this talk at Y Combinator. And he was just encouraging, kind of the theme of his talk was encouraging the audience of founders to make sure that they stay in founder mode and to resist the urge to go into manager mode. And he kind of gave all these examples of how, and again, Brian Chesky's actual talk wasn't in the article, so it was more a summary of it. And so this is how Paul Graham summarized. He said, the theme of Brian's talk was that the conventional wisdom about how to run a larger company is mistaken.

2:09As Airbnb grew, well-meaning people advised him that he had to run the company in a certain way for it to scale. Their advice could be optimistically summarized as hire good people and give them room to do their jobs. He followed this advice and the results were disastrous. So he had to figure out a better way on his own, which he did partly by studying how Steve Jobs ran Apple. So far, it seems to be working. Airbnb's free cash flow margin is now among the best in Silicon Valley. So essentially, the gist was, you know, maybe crew, we swung the pendulum too far. We let the adults run the asylum for too long, and it's time for the inmates to step back in and run the asylum.

2:48So that was the gist of the article. And there were plenty of people kind of poking fun at like, well, what really is founder mode? Founder mode, frankly, has got us into some dark places before when you think about Uber and some of the scandals that it has. And so is this just an overreaction? So that's the setup. What do you say, Roland Frazier? Are you pro-founder mode or anti-founder mode? I am pro-balance because I think like in terms of being able to be, you know, innovative and agile in a company, having the person who started it stick with it. I'm a big advocate for when we have portfolio companies and the CEO or the founder CEO is talking about maybe bringing in a CEO.

3:35I'm generally against it. I don't like professional CEOs as much as I like founders that have great people that are working under them because I just generally think nobody cares as much about the company as the founder that created it. Now, you can easily get beyond the capabilities and competence of the founder as things change from a startup to a more advanced, more mature company. And so I think that you need to balance the two. So I'm not for either manager mode or founder mode. I'm for fanagement mode, which is kind of a combination of the two. So I think it's a hybrid thing, right? Or mounder mode.

4:20I think I like fanager better. But now it sounds like something we shouldn't Google. I agree. I agree. But in terms of scalability, you know, how scalable is having the founder do everything? It's not very scalable. And how how empowering is it for an employee to be micromanaged by a founder? you know, and this would easily be a, you know, a way for kind of over micromanaging type founders to really destroy the initiative of their employees. So I think there's a balance. I do think it's great. Hey, Ryan Dice here, co-host of Business Lunch. And before we get to the show, I have an exciting invitation for you.

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6:22And if you implement, I'm confident about this, if you implement just one or two key insights from any of our sessions into your business, you're bound to see a return on investment much higher than what we could ever charge for admission. And by the way, speaking of admission, right now, Business Lunch listeners can save an additional 10 % off of our already low early bird ticket pricing. So just head over to GetScaleableLive.com and use promo code LUNCH at checkout. Again, that's GetScaleableLive.com, promo code LUNCH. It is truly amazing what can happen when you step out of the day-to-day and spend just a little bit of time surrounded by other powerful business owners.

7:05And since this opportunity only comes around once a year, you don't want to miss it. Again, the link is getscalabellive.com and don't forget to use promo code LUNCH at checkout to save up to 67 % off the full ticket price. That's all I got. I'll see you in Austin. All right, back to your regularly scheduled programming. In terms of if the founder has been responsible for a good culture in the company, it's a great way to maintain that so that it doesn't get diluted through third parties. But if you're thinking about a company that has, in our scalable model, transferable value, one of the things that can be crippling to that is an over-dependence on the founder.

7:45And the founder dependency paradox is that we need the founder to make the company go And a good founder will continue to provide great strategic vision and direction and innovation for a company to hit its full potential. But at the same time, they can hold the company back because the company is limited to the vision of one founder, one vision, one homogenous view of the world that doesn't provide all of the diverse things that studies have shown having good, diverse team members can bring to something. So it's, to me, it's just a balance. And also, you can't, you will have to have delegation, you will have to have managers as you grow a company.

8:35So what is the SOP for delegation? Because it could be very inconsistent if it's one person just kind of shooting from the hip and doing it. And I think it's very easy for a founder like that to either burn out or if you're thinking as the founder to sacrifice your personal relationships because you have to spend all of your time and then some in the company. So I believe there are goods and bads to it as there are with most things, but I would be an advocate for definitely do not over delegate and go 100 % manager mode, but also definitely don't hold on to the reins so tightly that you're in a 100 % founder mode either, because both have advantages and disadvantages.

9:24And I believe that a hybrid model could actually be the ideal that brings together the best of all those worlds. What are your thoughts? Very similar. When I think about the concept of founder mode versus manager mode, What struck me is this is not a problem to be solved. This is a tension that needs to be managed. And there are going to be seasons in the life of a business where what it really needs is that in the trenches, pirate ship captain to lead it through whatever it's going through. And then there are times when really you need to be able to shift into a little bit more of a strategic management type role.

10:00And this happens over the lifecycle of a business in the early days of a company. It needs that inventor person. And it needs that kind of wild, crazy harebrained scheme and inventor who's going to come up with the breakthrough ideas that a business can be built upon. And then what it needs is that hard charging driver that's going to take this idea and really run with it. But then it kind of needs somebody to pause a little bit and to build some systems. And then it kind of needs somebody to step away a little bit and kind of guide it, not necessarily from afar, but guide it with the help of other capable, competent professionals.

10:31And then there's almost certainly going to be seasons when things don't go very well. You're going to have to go back into one of those other modes. And so I think the ability to shift modes, and I don't think it's just founder and manager mode. I really do see it as being four very distinct roles. It's the inventor, it's the builder, I'm sorry, it's the inventor, it's the driver, it's the builder, and it's the guide. And I think great CEOs, great founder CEOs especially, know how to shift between context, shift between those different modes. And they also know how to determine what their business needs the most right now.

11:07So, again, I think it's attention to be managed. And the best way to look at this is when you're trying to decide, okay, is this something, is this a direction I need to go? Take it out to its extreme. If you flip it and you invert it and the opposite of it is also bad, that probably means the extreme of what you're doing is really, really bad, too. And so, I mean, I think it's very easy to say, oh, bureaucracy. Bureaucracies in startups and companies is a really bad thing. And everybody's nodding their head and saying, yeah, of course. OK, then should we do the opposite? Well, what's the opposite?

11:37Well, the opposite is a pirate ship. And you know what? They're also bad, too. You and I have been a part of many pirate ship organizations that totally imploded. So I just, I love, I wrote down Niels Bohr, who's the physicist. He said, I love what he said. He said, the opposite of a fact is a falsehood, but the opposite of an absolute truth may very well be another absolute profound truth. And I think that's the case here. It's absolutely you need to go into founder mode from time to time. Absolutely you need to go into manager mode from time to time. And the magic is in balancing that tension.

12:16It's not just deciding that one is better than the other. And it's funny to me. Sorry, go ahead. I liked that he said, but I want to hear what's funny to you first. So go ahead and finish that. Well, I also love when he said in there this idea that if you hire good people and just let them do what they do. But the example he gave is like, yeah, this company did that, but they ran it into the ground. Well, I submit to you that maybe those weren't good people. Yeah, there's a lot of assumptions in that. Similarly, to say that he switched to founders mode and then the companies had the highest profitability ever.

12:54Well, you know, how do we know that there's a correlation between, you know, the one caused the other? You know, just that there's a lot of. In the footnote, it's, you know, he says in here, I have another less optimistic prediction. As soon as the concept of founder mode becomes established, people will start misusing it. Founders who are unable to delegate, even things they should will use founder mode as the excuse. Ergo pirate ship. And that's where the pendulum swings. So I think seeing the value in both and understanding as the founder CEO, what do I need? But also, yeah, at scale, you have to build a team of smart people around you, but they're your lieutenants.

13:36Don't hand the reins over to them completely. Well, what Chesky said was not doing this with everything. It was really being more focused on being plugged into the culture and vision, the product and the marketing. And so for a founder who has those skills, that would make sense. But there's so many other areas of the business, finance, customer service, direct operations, recruiting, human resources, all of that kind of stuff that don't fall into the things that he's talking about. So those would all be areas that you would presume could be delegated relatively harmlessly without affecting the things that cause him to say, let's stay in founder's mode.

14:23So that's like right off the bat, you can carve out giant parts of the organization that you can delegate to and stay plugged in on. And I thought that was important. And then in terms of - Can I give you an example on that one real quick? Yeah. So this happened literally a couple of weeks ago, one of our companies where I'm not, you know, in the day to day. We've got we've got a president who's running it. And that president had a had a sales leader, you know, working, working for them. And it was clear, like, I got a sense. And this is this you kind of get this when you start working above the business.

15:03You get a perspective that people who are in the trenches don't have. And I just got a sense that not all was well, like that, that there was some real grumbling. And of course the sales leader was like, no, no, things are fine. We're just right over here. You know, numbers were looking okay, but I was like, I just got it kind of got a sense. And then there was one little piece, one of, one of our kind of top salespeople was like, Hey, I'm, I'm leaving, you know, I'm quitting. Now I knew that that's a canary in a coal mine. And so I got with the president leader and I said, I want to dive in on this area.

15:34And like, I don't want to, you know, Trump would everything that you're doing, but like, I want to take this on as a special project. and without saying it, essentially go into founder mode. And I want to dig in and be that driver who I have the power to kind of do whatever the heck I want to do, but I want to get to the bottom of it. We had that conversation on a Tuesday, had identified the problem by that afternoon, had begun taking massive action on Wednesday, had exited the sales leader and brought in another sales leader in by Friday. And had we not done that and gone into quote unquote founder mode, we would have probably lost the entire sales team.

16:06And instead, what we did is turned it around culturally and performance wise. there are times when you absolutely need to do that. But if that becomes the rule and not the exception, then either you're micromanaging and jumping in where you shouldn't, or you just don't have a very good company with very good leaders at all. So anyway, I just want to throw that out, but you're right. Like it was in that one narrow area. I didn't decide like, okay, I'm now in charge of everything. I want everybody direct reporting to me and I'm going to fire this whole, you know, level. Like, no, that's, that's not it.

16:36Yeah. And I think part of that is, is to me, and you and I have talked about this a lot with all the companies we consult with and the ones that we're involved in is that really a good CEO is a coach. A good founder is a coach to the people that they are mentoring. And they really should look at it as a mentor relationship. And they should not dictate from on high, but should ask questions to collaborate, to come up with answers. Because if you don't do that, then you're creating dependencies on you. You're stifling innovation and independent thought and initiative. And you're also creating a, you know, I think a culture of fear where there's a fear to make a decision because they're afraid it's going to get countermanded by or criticized by the micromanaging founder.

17:27So that's, you know, that's important. So I kind of was trying to think about a few things to like, what would a hybrid model look like? And so the first would be that you've got the founder led vision, and then you're delegating the execution of the vision. but you are also exactly what you just did, hit and run projects where you see an area, a good coach, when a coach sees an area that could be a challenge, an issue, or an opportunity for improvement or underperformance, then the coach is going to go in and help turn things around, right? And to collaborate with the people that are the stakeholders in those particular things to get them on the right path.

18:13So a good hybrid model has you as the visionary, as the delegator of execution, and then as the mentor monitor, which a good operating system, like our scalable operating system, can help you to see what are the areas that you need. How do we flag that? Now, it might be something like you talked about where a key person that you wouldn't expect to be leaving, who is having success suddenly leaves, that would be, you know, a flag for time to have communication, which would then go to the second thing, which would be that bi-directional communication and skip level meetings and skip level meetings, which I hadn't heard that as a term until I started diving into this.

18:58Had you? Yeah. Yeah. It's something that We've tried, we've implemented and it's, it's, it's kind of that double-edged sword. Like it's really, really good. But if you don't have a strong culture of trust, it, you really have to have that first because we'll explain what a skip level meeting is, I guess. Yeah. So, so basically, I mean, without the name, I do it, but had without the name, but it is, it is a slippery slope because if you do it too much, you can erode the authority of the organizational structure. So what is it? Can you explain? Yeah, generally you want people to communicate up and down the org chart with the people that they report to directly.

19:41And so if you're the CEO, you would generally not go to say a salesperson directly and have a conversation. You would go to maybe operations and maybe operations would go to revenue or chief revenue officer or director of sales. And then that person would go to the salesperson or to the sales team lead that was managing that group of salespeople. And that person would have the conversation and you'd expect the communication to go up and down. The danger is that you play the game of telephone and the messages get mixed along the way, or you never hear about critical things because there is some motivation that or unknown reasons, you know, unknown to you that cause a suppression of bad news.

20:32And you end up not getting the bad news because people are afraid that it will reflect badly on them. So this skip level idea, or at least the name of the skip level is we're going to skip the levels of reporting effectively and have the conversations directly. So I think you're right. it's good and bad. You just have to be careful. So if it's done to gather data, to me, then it's good. If it's done to coach, it's good. If it's done to resolve an issue, once the data is gathered, you've got to bring in the structure or you will destroy the structure of the company. That's kind of my thinking. What is yours?

21:13We've got a couple of rules around skip level. And that is that anybody can communicate with anybody at any time. Like the hierarchy has to do with who can task somebody else out. But if you need to ask somebody a question, you don't have to talk to your manager to talk to their manager to talk to them, right? Anybody can just go if you just generally have a question or looking for some insight. But if you are communicating skip leveling up, you should have gone to your manager first first to try to seek it out in your team first. Like there should be a reason that you're basically skipping that level if you're going up.

21:51And that could be because the manager's out of town, because they're really busy, they've given special permission, like all those things. There should be a reason because one of the first questions somebody's going to ask is, have you talked to your manager about this, right? Now, skip leveling down where the CEO is, you know, or other executives are communicating down, that should be used primarily for data gathering, you know, for insight. And it should always be prefaced with nothing I'm asking you about should in any way be seen as a reprioritization. So I'm asking questions of you because I value your insight and opinion.

22:24You've got the in the trenches knowledge that we don't have. Please don't take this as a mandate to change. And we say it at the beginning and we say it at the end because I can't tell you how many times I've asked somebody questions and they went away from it being like, yeah, I talked to Ryan and, you know, he wants me to do this now. No, I didn't. So we have that rule ahead of time. And if you're going to have a skip level and you're talking about somebody in between, you should have already talked to that person first. That is another, if it's an interpersonal matter, then really my thing is always, unless it's somebody you're, you know, you feel like threatened in a very real way.

23:02But like, if you're just having an interpersonal issue with, you know, with a manager or something like that, you should bring that to their attention before you bring somebody else again. Have you talked to your manager about this yet? I want to bring them in. So we found that those rules help. But yeah, I think I agree with you. Every business should aspire to have open communication, skip level as the default, but it does require a culture of trust. So then a lot of people will ask, and I'll get back to our list of kind of how to do the hybrid model. But a lot of people will ask, how do I know when to have a skip level meeting?

23:36How do I do that? And so some guidelines would be if you've identified a performance gap. So if the results that are being generated are significantly different than the results that would be expected, and that could be in a team member, it could be in a department, that would be a good time to think about gathering insights. Again, not, as Ryan said, not reprioritize, not going in and say, then we need to do this, this, this, and this, but to actually just gather the insights so that you can talk to the people who are in the right chain of command to have the conversations. The other would be just generally to get a feel for the pulse of the company.

24:14Good consultants go in and ask questions. So when you pay a whole bunch of money to hire McKinsey to come in, they're going to start by talking to everybody. And most of the time they're going to have all these insights that you never got because you don't talk to your people. And so one way to save yourself the big McKinsey fees and also stay out of trouble and also kind of keep your finger on the pulse of the culture of the organization is to periodically just talk to people and say, one of the questions that Ryan and I ask when we go in and consult right off the bat is, so what are you doing right now?

24:48What have you tried before that went well that you're not doing anymore? And what are you still doing now that you say, why the heck are we still doing that? Or why do we do that here? And those three questions are very, very powerful for unearthing big needle moving changes. And that's all about just talking to the actual people that do it. Another third time to do that would be whenever you've got a new initiative that you have launched in your organization or a department, or if there's been a major organizational change, like you've acquired a company or are going through a process of integration or your company has been sold or you're rebranding or changing product lines or something like that, that would be another good time to do it.

25:32The fourth time would be if it's a period of very high growth because high growth breaks companies. We know because we've consulted multiple times and one of the first things that we ask after we ask those three questions is if you get two, five, or 10 times the business that you've got right now, can the business support that with the infrastructure that it's got right now? Almost always people say, oh, absolutely. Because the fantasy is more business means less problems and more profit. But sometimes more business means the whole company blows up in a bad way because it just can't handle that.

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26:14So it's definitely good during periods of high growth to have skip level meetings so that you can be sure because there's a good chance so you can be sure everything is going as you hope it is or as you expect it to because very often a department gets out of whack and some manager person is trying to handle things maybe using outdated, outmoded SOPs or even teams and things need to be realigned with the new reality of what's going on. And then last would be the one that you brought up, which would be red flags from employee feedback. So if there's an employee feedback process or an event, like a key employee who shouldn't be leaving decides to leave, then it makes sense to talk to them, to gather the insights as to why that's happening, to see is it systemic?

27:04Is it one-off? Is it, you know, what is that and what should we do about it? How does that sound to you for that? I love all of those. I'll tell you what not to do when it comes to skip level meetings. Because what you don't want to do when it comes to skip level meetings, ask me how I know, you don't want to just announce, oh, it's skip level meeting time, everybody. And we're going to be scheduling these out. If you do that, a couple of things are going to happen. Number one, it's going to be a giant waste of a whole lot of people's time. And number two, your folks that are down lower in the org chart, they're going to freak out.

27:39They're going to think that something is up. And they're probably right. And so I would try to keep this as casual and native as you can. So ideally, if it's your company, you're talking to your people. This was very easy when we were all under one roof and in person. I remember I'd walk into the office. There'd be a couple dozen or so people around. I pretty much knew everybody by name unless they were brand new. You know, we're eating in the same area. We're getting coffee from the same coffee machine. And so I'm talking to people. How's it going? How's your day? What's up? How can I help? So it's not weird if I reach out, you know, via Slack or just walk up to him and be like, hey, I want to get your feedback on something.

28:15Nobody thinks, oh, this is a big meeting. What's going on? Ah, you know, similarly, now that we're more remote in more of our companies, I make it a point throughout the organization of just reaching out to people. If I haven't really talked to him, if I see him, you know, make a cool comment or do something good, I'll reach out to him, direct message him in our Slack group. Hey, I think this is great to have that relationship so that when I reach out to him about a specific question, they're not like, why is the boss reaching out to me? But if you make it seem like a big deal, people will treat it like a big deal.

28:48And if they treat it like a big deal, you're not going to get the feedback they want. If it's just a normal human conversation and you don't make it out to a big deal, it's like, hey, quick question for you when you got a second. then you find that you get a lot better information. So then if you know what to, you know, when, excuse me, to talk about the what is to gather the insights, the next would be, well, how do I know which employees to talk to? So the ones that self-identify as red flags that you want to get feedback from, that should be fairly obvious. But otherwise, then you're going to want to think about who should I have these skip level meetings with during these times that I should have them, right?

29:28One would be your top performers. So your top performers, the people who are doing best can often give you the best insights as to what are they doing differently from people maybe who aren't performing as well, or what insights, given that they've been smart enough to become top performers within the existing organization, they might have insights on how things could be even better that would be valuable and they've got the proof of their performance to do that. Similarly, what are referred to as high potentials, people that you bring in that you think have tremendous future potential, either because they had performed as a star in another organization that are coming in, or maybe they're coming in directly from a school or something and they were tops of their class, or maybe they came very, very highly recommended, or maybe you just get information that they are everywhere taking initiative.

30:17And even though they're not yet up high in the organization, they're somebody that is, you know, somebody to watch. Those would all be good people to talk to. Similarly, thinking about, well, I'm trying to gather insights about the company. If you're only talking to the people in marketing, or you're only talking to the people in product, then you're not going to find out what's going on in the rest of the company. So your choice of who to have skip level meetings with should be cross-functional, meaning that you should have a good representation of the different major areas, departments, teams that are present in your company.

30:55And beyond that, within those teams and departments, you want to have a diversity of tenure because the people that have been there long enough will know how things have always been done and maybe have ideas on how they could be done better. people who are brand new won't know anything about how or why things are done so they're kind of first principles opportunities for you because you're getting fresh insights that your people that are there might accidentally have bias against or just not be thinking of because it's completely outside the box and somebody's like you know the i like the heinz ketchup thing from the guy that came in and was working on the line they're like how do we get people to use more ketchup.

31:37And he's like, what if you made the mouth of the thing bigger? Oh, you know, like simple things like that. Similarly, people who've been recently promoted, they're now moving from a level experience they had before, either within a department or across the department, into having fresh eyes on whatever they have been promoted to do. So those are good people as well. If you've got somebody that's contributing to a particular project that is a key project, Like when Jobs, who was famous for skip level meetings, had the Mac team, right? Well, you're going to want to talk to the people on that team, those project contributors.

32:17And then last but not least would be in terms of if there are teams that have submitted anonymous feedback and the feedback is helpful or concerning to you, The feedback is anonymous, so obviously you can't know who those people are, but you can then go and choose members from the team using some of those criteria that we talked about. So that's just some guidelines to kind of think about. Okay, now I know what skip level is. I know when I should do it. And now I know kind of what are some criteria for deciding who I should talk with. Thoughts, feelings, emotions? Yeah, I think that's, I would just repeat what I said before.

32:59All of those are really good ideas. I would just try to make it as organic as possible. When you think you should talk to somebody, talk to them. But I would say make it organic to the people you're talking to, but make it strategic to you. I mean, I think - Yes, yes, yes, exactly. Yeah, thank you for that clarification. Yeah, have a reason for having the conversation, but as far as they're concerned, just make it a habit of talking to your people. I mean, I guess that's a big part of this. I think at the end of the day, CEOs should live at two elevations. You're at 30 ,000 feet and you're at three inches.

33:34And wisdom and your ability to perform as a CEO is knowing when to stay at 30 ,000 feet and when to go down to three inches and making sure that you never get caught in the middle. And so, yeah, like I think you're always ideally having some kind of chit-chat conversation with your people. You are the carrier, chief communication officer of the company. Chief culture officer, whether you like it or not. And so make sure that you're talking to your folks and keeping a pulse at all times. But when it's strategic, yeah, get in the weeds. And then kind of the last key thing there, I think, and obviously we could go much longer on it, but is really directly related to the challenges that we identified that caused us to create the scalable operating system, which is what are the KPIs, the key performance indicators, the metrics, and the accountability for each of those metrics in your company?

34:29And are you measuring them so that you can manage them, right? Drucker was what gets measured gets managed. You've got great people like John Doerr talking about OKRs, objectives and key results. You've got to maintain an understanding as your company grows, you've got to have dashboards. And if you have a policy of open dashboarding so that at your executive meetings, everybody can see what's going on. And in your departmental meetings, everybody can see what's going on in terms of what are we doing? How are we performing against the KPIs and the benchmarks that were set? Where are the challenges?

35:09Now you've got a dialogue that's going on and everybody, not just the founder mode, but I would argue that managers should also have founder mode mentality. so that they are feeling like a founder owner of their department or team. And they're doing these things as well. And then you've got truly a hybridized kind of holistic founder mentality that is layered into the required management order that the manager mode brings as well. So that's kind of my thinking. What are your thoughts on all that? I think if you've been, you know, I would say fortunate enough to parent children at any degree, you understand that what it means to be a parent changes over the life cycle of that child.

35:59And in the earliest days, you were a micromanager. You're a micromanaging parent. You're the ultimate helicopter parent because you know that your kid literally, if left without you, they will die, right? And it's totally appropriate to be that helicopter micromanaging parent. And then there are certain times as they get older where you start to pull back. And then there are certain times where they're going through, they get older and it's time to massively pull away. We just took our oldest son to college. And there are parents who, by some of a sudden he's like, yeah, a guy down the road is like, parents have come up every weekend to check on him to hang out.

36:37Like, no, that's kind of weird, right? There's time, they've grown up a little bit, it's time to pull away. But you also need to know if you're a parent that there are times when you jump right back in, you know, into their lives, because you never stop being that, just your role changes. And so just understanding as a founder, as a CEO, you have to be able to context switch. That is the game. That's why if you get it right, you get paid the big box. And it's not easy, but it's never one mode. It is multi, it's a multimodal game that we're playing here. And your job is to know, based on the life cycle of my business, what type of founder, what type of CEO does my business need me to be today?

37:14When you get it right, it looks really cool. When you get it wrong, you can look pretty foolish and you need to ask for everybody's forgiveness. But that's the great game that we're all playing. And you heard it here first, fanager mode. Founder and manager. Fanager. Makes me very uncomfortable. That's definitely not going to catch on. But you heard it all here today. If you guys have thoughts on founder mode, manager mode, hybridized modes, or other modes, we would love to hear your feedback. Please hit us up on social and let us know. We are everywhere at forward slash either Ryan Dice or Roland Frazier and also Business Lunch.

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From the publisher

Welcome to a new episode of Business Lunch! Today, we dive into the intriguing dynamics between being in 'founder mode' and 'manager mode' within a business. Our hosts, Ryan Deiss and Roland Frasier, engage in a rich discussion about the challenges and strategies of balancing hands-on leadership with the necessity of delegation as companies scale. They explore insights inspired by Paul Graham's article on 'founder mode' and share real-world experiences that highlight the importance of a hybrid approach to management and leadership.

Highlights:

"This is not a problem to be solved, this is a tension that needs to be managed." 

"Nobody cares as much about the company as the founder that created it." 


"A good founder is a coach to the people they are mentoring." 


"If you implement just one or two key insights from any of our sessions into your business, you are bound to see a return on investment much higher than what we could ever charge for admission." 


Timestamps:

00:00 - Introduction 

04:26 - The scalability and the practicality of a hybrid management mode

07:25 - Maintaining company culture and the dangers of founder dependency

09:34 - The cyclic needs of a business from founder and manager perspectives

12:45 - Shifting from manager to founder mode

16:36 - Micromanagement VS empowering employees

19:15 - The concept and application of skip-level meetings

23:26 - When and how to conduct skip-level meetings effectively

27:11 - Avoiding common pitfalls during skip-level meetings

29:00 - Final thoughts


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