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Coffeez for Closers with Joe Shalaby
Episode Summary
From Addiction to 9-Figure Exit ft. Eric Spofford
Overview In this episode of "Coffeez for Closers," host Joseph Shalaby interviews Eric Spofford, a successful entrepreneur who transformed his life from addiction and crime to building a multi-million-dollar addiction treatment network. This episode dives deep into the themes of redemption, entrepreneurship, and the importance of legacy.
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Key Themes and Discussions
Eric Spofford’s Journey
- Background: Eric shares his tumultuous upbringing marked by addiction and crime, including a felony charge for armed robbery.
- Turning Point: After hitting rock bottom, he got sober on December 7, 2006, which led him to help others facing similar struggles.
- Business Growth: He started New Hampshire's first sober living house at 23, growing it into one of New England's largest addiction treatment networks with 440 treatment beds and $55 million in top-line revenue before selling it for $115 million.
Entrepreneurship and Recovery
- Business Philosophy: Eric emphasizes entrepreneurship as a form of recovery, showcasing how building a business helped him find purpose.
- Mentorship: He is dedicated to mentoring others, particularly those from troubled backgrounds, to find success in real estate and other ventures.
Real Estate and Section 8 Housing
- Current Ventures: Eric now runs Spofford Enterprises, focusing on creating wealth through Section 8 housing. He aims to teach average Americans how to invest in real estate.
- Investment Strategy: The company targets high cash-on-cash returns (aiming for 30%) by offering a white-glove investment experience for those unfamiliar with real estate.
- Market Challenges: He discusses the difficulties in scaling Section 8 housing investments, which are often dismissed, yet can provide significant returns.
Personal Growth and Legacy
- Motivation: Eric wakes up each day with a sense of urgency and anxiety, pushing himself to perform and achieve more. He describes this drive as intrinsic to his identity.
- Raising Children: He discusses the challenges of raising his children in a prosperous environment and instilling a strong work ethic in them.
- Legacy Goals: Eric wants to make a lasting impact on others’ lives through his recovery work and entrepreneurial efforts, envisioning a billion-dollar business as a vehicle to inspire others.
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Key Takeaways
- Transformation from Addiction to Success: Eric’s life illustrates how significant personal struggles can fuel a powerful drive for success and help others.
- Entrepreneurship as Redemption: Building businesses can serve as a pathway to personal redemption and community impact.
- Investing in Section 8 Housing: There are lucrative opportunities within Section 8 housing that are often overlooked, providing vital support to families in need.
- The Importance of Legacy: Eric’s focus on leaving a meaningful legacy reinforces the importance of serving others and making a positive impact.
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Memorable Quotes
- "You're going to die. The only question is, will you live first?"
- "I make a lot of decisions based on the question: What if this is my last month?"
- "You can either accept me as I am or you can leave. I’m not changing for nothing."
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Conclusion This episode of "Coffeez for Closers" serves as a powerful reminder of the resilience of the human spirit and the profound impact one individual can have on many lives. Eric Spofford's story is not just about business success; it is a story of hope, transformation, and the relentless pursuit of helping others.
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Transcript
Automatic transcript. May contain errors.0:00From an armed robbery charge to a$115 million exit, Eric Spofford didn't just turn his life around. He built one of New England's largest addiction treatment networks and sold it for nine figures. But after the exit, he got bored. So he built another empire. Yeah, it's not pretty. It's not sexy. They print them. Today, he's teaching everyday Americans how to invest in real estate while building recovery centers across the country. This isn't a business story. It's a legacy story. addiction, redemption, real estate impact. You're going to die. The only question is, will you live first from rock bottom to nine figures from deals on the street to deals on the deed?
0:49Welcome to coffee. What is your morning routine? God, I just got asked this on stage. I was speaking at a clever summit, a couple thousand people, and we did a big panel and everyone laughed i said i'm not one of these big i wake up and i check my phone then i pee and then i get to work like it's really that easy i'm i'm open my eyes zero to 100 miles an hour the second that i do um i'm eating breakfast on the phone sometimes i'm on my first zoom or teams meeting and i'll turn the screen off and wolf down my food real quick and so i don't have this big cold plunge burpees, meditation, red light, blah, blah, blah.
1:31I just wake up and it's for me, I have so much that I wake up with in my head. It's just go, go, go. And then what I do do though, is I break the day up. And so I put my workout in the middle of the day. And so I'll run hard till early afternoon and then check out for 90 minutes, hit the gym, you know, go sweat it out and then come back and kill the rest of the day. Yeah, that's unique. Not getting the workout done first thing in the morning. That's different. You get it down. Yeah. Because yeah, it's 10 a.m., which is 1 p.m. your time right now. And you're like, I'm going to go to the gym at 11.
2:08So you're breaking up your day with the workout. 100%. Yeah, that's awesome. Okay. So give the listeners just a 20 ,000 foot overview of your first business, the exit, and then what you're currently doing. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Grew up in the greater Boston area, lived a very crazy life, addiction, crime, you know, movie quality street drama back in the day. Got sober December 7th of 2006, caught an armed robbery charge, went on the run, got intervened, uses what he has possible. And at the time it was the entire police department of the city that I was in. And that started my journey of changing my life.
2:45And what happened after that was I personally got into recovery from addiction and alcoholism. I caught fire. I got absolutely more enthusiastic and excited about helping other people recover just like I had to than you could possibly imagine. And I turned that into a business. I started my home state of New Hampshire's very first sober living house at 23 years old 2008 right as the the entire economy was melt up melting down i'm sure you remember and we were spiraling into a recession is when i was starting my business and so october 2008 i two things happened i started my business and i did my first real estate deal i had saved up some money my dad agreed to help me with the financing uh and and get me into a property we bought a three unit uh building for Union Street, Derry, New Hampshire, for all the fact checkers out there.
3:42I bought that in October 2008 for$150 ,000 foreclosed from the bank. Moved in, fixed it up a little bit, furnished it, and moved a bunch of guys in, called it a sober house, and figured it out. 23 years old. Lived there for two years with all the clients. 2008? 2008 to 2010, I lived in that building. uh me and 11 men that were in early recovery from addiction and alcoholism did everything together uh cooked taught them life skills how to cook clean get jobs pull your pants up shave your face go to aa meetings do recovery stuff help other people all of it wanted to grow that business and then over the next from start to finish 13 years two months i grew that from that one little sober house with me and 11 guys to a multi-site collection of addiction treatment facilities uh 440 treatment beds we had 325 employees uh top line revenue at the end of it was about 50 to 55 million and i sold it for 115 million dollars off a 13 million dollar ttm ebitdo December 21st of 2021.
4:54Wow. Yeah. You're 36 years old. Big exit. 36. Amazing. Yeah. After that, you know, 36 years old, what happened? You were just chilling. You're like, I don't need to work ever. I didn't need to work ever again, you know, but, uh, I was in Southern Florida. I first started Fort Lauderdale at some point shortly after like 11 months later, moved down to Miami, uh, down the street and, you know, I was living the dream, man. I bought a boat. I was, you know, going all the nicest spots and hanging out with the cool people and doing all this stuff that people think they want to do and i made it like months and i was like this sucks i need to be yeah no i'm just not really built for that i'm a worker i'm a builder and so you know i bought a boat i bought a plane i bought a bigger boat i bought a jet i bought a bigger house i bought all the cars i wanted but all you know what i mean it's like i ran out of to buy it ran out fun shit to do and said we got to do it again and so jumped right back into the mix and i've been building two businesses since nice and what are those businesses another addiction treatment business currently open in ohio just open in california pennsylvania and then uh also second of that is a real estate business where we take average ordinary american working class people and make real estate investors out of them.
6:18And so we have a turnkey investments group that provides a white glove experience for people that essentially don't know a lot about real estate, but want to park their money in real estate instead of the S &P 500, 401ks, et cetera. And we put them into single family section eight properties that have great cash on cash returns. That's awesome. What is the cash on cash return on a section eight property right now? It really depends on the deals, but we target 30%. 30 % cash on cash on section. Hey, yeah, it's not pretty. It's not sexy. There's nothing sexy about it. But if you could just close your eyes and look the other way, they print money.
6:54I didn't even know that the cash on cash returns are that high. So there's this yin and yang to it. The, you know, the positives are the returns are crazy. You're not going to find those returns anywhere else. And that's in today's interest rate environment. But the cost of capital, what it is, we're still hitting 30 % on average cash on cash returns. The difficulty, which is what makes it so good for our audience, our clients, but hard for institutional investors to come in is it's very difficult to scale, right? These houses are less than$100 ,000. And so when you're using leverage, if you call it a hundred grand a house, which most of them are less, and a 75 % loan to value, you're going to deploy$25 ,000 for each deal.
7:38How do you deploy capital at scale? That's, you know, if you want to deploy 100 grand, that's four deals. And that's four offers, four negotiations, four closings, four, you know, or, or, or, or. And so that's why a lot of people end up in multifamily. But if you can get operationally good at scaling and doing all the hand-to-hand combat that it takes, there's a ton of money there. And that's great for the audience to know because I think most people, especially listening to this, probably wrote off Section 8. It's not really a niche. Everyone talks about multifamily. We had a panel yesterday at the conference.
8:14They're all multifamily guys. Some of the guys were doing some industrial, but Section 8 is definitely something that's just forgotten. And the cash on cash I'm hearing that you're offering, is it through a fund or is it through your group? Are they on the note themselves? They own the property. They own the property. Yeah, they purchased the property, they own the property, and we have a property management group that if they choose to use us, we'll manage it for them on the go forward. So walk me through the cadence here. I give you 100 grand, let's say, and that gets me two houses that I'm on the deed on.
8:49Yeah. Probably three houses, but yeah. And then you just send me a check every month on that money. Correct. That's it? That's it. What's the margin in it for you guys? How much margin is there? we charge a consulting fee up front because unlike you you're an experienced real estate guy you know what you're talking about right the majority of our clients don't yeah and so we have a team of vip transaction coordinators that they hold their hand through the entire process they help them order the appraisals help them you know apply for financing they they literally hold their hand. We call them transaction coordinators.
9:29They're more like transaction counselors. It's a very emotional process for a lot of them. They have a lot of anxiety. They're going into real estate for the first time. Many of them, the only deal they've ever done is buying their own home. And some of them have never done that. They're renters that want to own investment real estate. So we make money on that consulting fee. And then we have a little bit of markup in the houses. And it's really a volume game for us. We move a lot of units. We have a lot of clients. Yes. And it's amazing that you can offer this to really low level people. So this one need the full like amount to purchase a full unit or?
10:04No, we finance them. You finance. Okay. Yeah. Good. Good. Now 75 % or 80 % LTV. And so they're coming up with the other 20 or 25 % down. And so they're just coming up with five grand, 10 grand, you know, to buy a property. No, I mean, a lot of them, you know, say the property's 80 grand, they'll have a 75, so they need 20 ,000 down on the property, plus, you know, 5 ,000 for financing fees and appraisal and all that stuff. Now, I like to talk about, like, one's journey. Now, at what age did you realize you're going to be an entrepreneur? I mean, it must have been after. I've been born that way.
10:38Really? Yeah. I mean, at every memory since I can remember of my childhood, I had a hustle, a deal, I was constantly working something. I mean, in this third grade, I was selling fireworks, breaking down bricks of firecrackers and selling packs of firecrackers, making a profit on that. And, you know, this is a long, before the internet was the internet. And I had a stack of penthouse nudie mags. And I used to rent those out to the kids in the neighborhood. That was third grade, Eric. fifth grade eric 10 years old i actually hold my state's record if you call it call it that for the youngest individual ever charged with a drug sales crime and so in fifth grade 10 11 years old i was taking quarter pounds half pounds of weed breaking it down and i got caught selling weed when i was in the fifth grade that's great that's like my little babies now then like i can't imagine a little kid i was terrible i feel bad for my parents yeah but it was just one fixing bikes I would go to the dump, you know, where I was from.
11:50They had a place where everyone brought all their stuff and threw it out. There's a big metal section. And so people would bring old bicycles and I would go take all the bicycles and take parts from this one and that one and spray paint them and make them cool and sell the bikes. Like I just have always been thought in deals. Can't turn it off. Yeah. I mean, like, you know, I, it reminds me like Pastor Joe Olsteen, he says like, you know, Well, if you're, huh? I know of Joel, a bunch of stuff. He's great. Yeah, yeah. He mentions it. Like, you know, if your kid's a drug dealer and you stop selling drugs, he's learning entrepreneurship.
12:26You know, he's learning how to hustle. He's learning how to. Listen, I will put my short-lived career as a drug dealer up against anyone's MBA any day long. All day long, for sure. Yeah. I mean, you learn a true hustle. A hundred percent. I mean, you learn, you know, acquisition, disposition, market share. You learn risk management. You learn operations. You learn supply and demand. Like, there's a lot to it, you know? There is. And you're excited about a real hustle that's actually teaching you a lot, which can get you into a lot of trouble. But thank God, knock on wood, you got out of that game pretty, you know, skeet-free.
13:07Yeah, man. God was good to me. Yeah, for sure. And we hint on that. Now, do you have any kids? Two, yeah. Two boys. Gavin, 13 years old. And Mace will be three this Saturday. Nice. Celebrating his birthday, yeah. Now, so I have four kids myself now. How are you teaching your kids? Because your kids are not like you. They grew up in a prosperity-driven lifestyle. Yeah. You grew up dirt poor like me. You know, we're poor. So grip came different when you come from poverty. A hundred percent. I mean, I tell my kids, I mean, my littlest one is he's still two years old, turning three. So he's a little young for it.
13:46But my oldest, you know, he's 13 years old. So when he was born, I didn't have money. And so he was by my side through all of the hard work, all the adversity, all the come up, you know. And so he got to grow up and witness all of that. So, you know, that's certainly he remembers what it used to be like and now what it's like now. But I tell him all the time, I said, you're not rich. I'm rich. You're actually poor. You have nothing. And so I make them work for it, man. Yeah. Yeah. He's got a job working on my boat with the boat crew and he's had since he was 11. Yeah. I mean, that's one of the things, Eric, that I'm always thinking, I'm sure you are too.
14:26It's like, how am I going to instill that same level of grit? Yeah. Kids. How am I going to make sure that they're better than me? Yeah. You know, given like hunger. Yeah. How do you, you put hunger in kids that really don't need to be hung like they're rich yeah i my answer is i don't really know but i'm doing the best that i can yeah you know by not spoiling them not and it goes against intuition you work so hard you make it get all the success you want to spoil the people around you yeah especially your kids but that's good for us not for them yeah it feels good for us, but what actual impact does it have for the children?
15:03And so, you know, yeah. They see you grinding all day long and it's like, no, I'm rich. You're poor. Yeah. That's it. Yeah. Um, now where do you think, like, where do you think you derive your, your, your strong work ethic? Where is that derived from? I won't say that I grew up with nothing, but my dad cut down trees for a living and I watched him get up every day early in the morning and put on a pair of work boots and go out there and run a chainsaw and he was a logger and come home covered in sweat and blood and you know wood chips and dirt and uh you know we always had a place to live we never had anything fancy we didn't go on vacations we didn't you know we didn't have any of that but there was always food on the table and a place to live and from my younger like you talk think about why i was selling weed at 10 years old i wanted back then they i don't know if you remember this but they have these jeans they're like these big baggy jeans called jinko jeans yeah of course i remember that yeah i wanted the jinko jeans man i wanted to be you know wearing these cool pants with the cool kids and i also wanted there was a pizzeria by my house that kids hang out with because that little arcade section and i never had money for it i wanted to wear the jeans and i wanted to be able to go to that pizzeria eat two slices of pizza a coca-cola and play as much pinball as i wanted to play and that was like my 10 11 year old thoughts and so i was like well i'll sell weed you know and that's the really i wasn't even smoking weed at the time and that that's what i wanted so i've always just had this like i want it all man you know like i want it all at a certain point i think that that that unfolded in phases for me where like i dreamt about owning a jet like obsessed over it for four years before i took my first private flight on my friend's challenger and then for probably four and a half years i was like i just need to make enough money that i could own a jet and the cars and a boat and all this stuff and i think a lot of it was that was the wanting all of this and to answer a question you didn't ask now it's shifted a lot for me where i just love the process in fact it started to go the other way i don't actually want any of this stuff like i don't want any more cars i don't want any more i don't know it just kind lost once you buy it all you've had it it's everyone should do it but it's kind of lost its pizzazz a little bit and so now it's allure it's like yeah yeah and so now it's just for a love of the game the love of the process i love the people i love to build i love to create value i love the mission i love like putting it on a whiteboard and going all right guys this is the play this is what we're going to do and then putting it all on the line and watching it all come together and come to life i mean entrepreneurship business is the coolest thing in the world because everybody's business this podcast this beautiful company uh your amazing office space by the way all of that at one point was just an idea that you had like you were sitting there and you just thought of it and you said i'm gonna go do this and i'm gonna work hard and i'm gonna take all this risk and i'm gonna do it and then to see it materialize in front of you and become a tangible asset and then to see these employees and and people come in and them make their livelihood through something that you created i mean it's just the most exciting thing in the world so that's what keeps me going it is yeah and it just brings you so much satisfaction that you can serve at such a great capacity something i love about the the journey that i'm currently on it through this podcast and um you know the social media and it's like just the networks now like it's all about the people like everybody in the circle that we we all know it's like nobody talks about money or no one cares you know it's all like we just how can i help you yeah what do you need yeah man you look at guys like dan fleischman he's just relentlessly trying to help everyone yep doesn't care about money like what can i do what can i do to help them i do to help the money comes it just comes yep you know i always say and i say this all the time i said it on the panel yesterday it's like just do god's work does your work every single time every single time and you You did it.
19:25You're living proof and a testament. You're like, you know, one of the biggest things people deal with that just destroys families is addiction. You're like, I'm going to take my knowledge, my expertise, and I'm going to apply it to it, you know, and I'm going to build a business out of it. You know, one thing like you built a massive business on serving others, like really, like what motivated you to start your first clinic? What do you think the underlying motivation was? Was it to help? Was it to help? Yeah, I didn't actually, I never, it never in a million years thought that that would become my full-time business.
20:05And I never even had a single thought that it would become a large business. Honestly, I was a construction worker. I was following after my dad's footsteps and I was cutting trees down every day. And so for the first two years that I had the sober house, I still got up and went to work and logged and cut trees down and, you know, ran heavy equipment and did all that stuff. And I thought that that would be my career. And this was just some side thing that, you know, that I had going on to help people. And then as it grew, you know, there was a pivotal moment that happened for me. It's a little morbid, but it was one of the most impactful things that's happened in my life was this country came under attack of fentanyl in 2012.
20:51And I will say that it came under attack because prior to that, overdose death was nothing what it looks like today. Today, we had 112 ,000 Americans die last year of accidental opiate overdoses. It didn't used to be like that. When I was getting high, I got sober in 2006. I didn't know anyone that died ever. It was real heroin. Real heroin left this country and it was replaced by a synthetic drug called fentanyl around 2012. And what happened from 2012 to 2015, 16, like that next three, four, even five years, a tale of it was that all these people that I grew up with that I love because I don't have a big family.
21:33It was just really me and my dad and i loved my friends but they were street kids just like i was troubled homes just like i was all of that i watched every single one of them die all of them like every i like i can go back to these memories of throwing parties at my dad's house and having 50 70 80 100 kids at my house all the time we used to throw these parties i can remember i'm gonna shut my eyes and walk through that party with the kegs and the big speakers with the wires running out of the basement blasting that old rap music with the philly blunts that we used to crack and empty out the the guts of them and put the weed in them and roll the shit up as a teenager right and i'm looking at the faces and every one of them is a fucking ghost now and i went to every one of their funerals and i hugged every one of them their grieving parents their moms their dads that were just shattered and broken and changed for the rest of their lives and so at that in that thing it was the most painful thing that you could imagine to go through and just watch your people disappear around you in a modern day black plague really and something switched in me and i went fuck this i don't know what i can do but i know how to do this and that's where i took the business from like these little sober houses and it's the identity that it was.
22:59And I blew that thing up. Cause it was like, it was the only way that I knew how to help. And like my people were dead, but yours weren't yours are still here. They have a chance. And if I can get my hands on them, I know I can help them. And so that's what we did, man. We did 500 admissions a month. We treated between five and 6 ,000 people a year, year over year for a long time. It saved so many lives. We made a lot of impact, man. That's a lot of what my personal brand was built about, too. I was at your event last night. I had posted it twice in my story, and so a lot of people came there that follow me to the event that you hosted, which was a wonderful event, by the way.
23:39And a gentleman came up just to take a picture with me. He drove like two hours. He said, Eric, just watching your content and following you around. I got off. I got cleaned off of Coke and Boots. That was last night at your spot. Wow. And so, yeah, I got the guy's picture right here, dude. you know, just to know that you're making that kind of impact, Eric, that's like, that's so much more beyond money. This guy, if you saw him. That guy came and we called him out on stage. He was like, we thought he was like a professional athlete. That guy came because he saw me post and he came there because he wanted to tell me that just my messaging inspired him to get sober and give up alcohol and cocaine.
24:16And so like, dude, like it's again, back to what I was talking about, about like the cars and the, the, the stuff that a lot of people that want to get into business want like dude that means more to me than anything there's not a tangible thing on planet earth that can give me that feeling of like looking at that man and being like brother that means the world to me like you know what i mean so that's what really was the the rocket fuel to go all in and build that business and we helped a lot of people couldn't help them all but we helped a lot of them we made a big difference. I'm proud of the work that we did there.
24:55And I'm proud. I'm honored and proud of what you've done. And I'm, I'm, I'm so stoked that you continue on with that mission. It's built a resilience in you that, you know, we were talking about this earlier that allows you to kind of withstand any turmoil. Like you're like, I'm a pro with section eight housing. Like nobody wants to deal with section eight, but you're like, no, I got this. You know, I'm a pro with, you know, drug rehabilitation centers. no but everyone's scared of both those businesses but what you're like you're you're running into the fire you know because you know that that's that that's where the most help is needed well when you look at both the businesses i love that they're both purpose-driven the addiction treatment stuff for obvious reasons we just discussed but then you know the business of section eight real estate and this kind of turnkey process that we have is a win-win for everyone we take i believe even real estate.
25:46I have my money parked and I have my money parked all over the place. The place I love it parked the most is real estate. And it's not accessible to a lot of people because they think they need to buy big properties. They think they need a huge amount of money to get into multifamily or whatever it is. They don't have the knowledge. They don't have the risk tolerance. They don't have the time. They're working, you know, nine to five jobs. They have children. They have spouses. They have life going on. They got to bring the kid to a soccer practice. They I got the other one in gymnastics. Like they just don't have it.
26:18And so we offer them a service where we're able to put them into real estate investing and manage the entire process for them. That's pretty cool. On the backside of that, we're attacking and providing a solution to an enormous problem in America, which is a shortage of affordable income for people that are at or below the poverty line. And the stigma around Section 8 is like, oh, they're all criminals or they're bad tenants or they're going to mess your property up or they're not good people. And I'm just going to tell you that may be true in some situations. Like, you know, a lot of times people think of Section 8 like the projects, big brick buildings, you know, drugs and all this crazy stuff.
27:02I know back in Massachusetts, they do. In Ohio, they do. But this is different because these are families, essentially. Like our tenants, like if you look at the avatar of who rents these properties, the section of tenants we have, the majority of them are three buckets of people, single hardworking moms that have one, two, three children that have, you know, many of them had their first children young. many of them are raising their children alone they have jobs but you know look look at america today how are you going to be a woman that say i think of a recent tenant that we at least do she had two children she i did the math they were like five and seven i think she had her first one when she was like 18 years old jork's at walmart and so she's got two children she was pregnant at 17 had the baby at 18, had another baby several years after, and works at Walmart.
28:02How are you going to survive in today's world? Like the middle class is evaporating, right? Like my grandfather worked at a steel mill in Lawrence, Massachusetts. He owned a home on two acres of land, had a stay-at-home wife, and raised three boys. You can't do that today. Not a steel mill. Not a steel mill. You can't be a roofer, a plumber, or an electrician. You could have a job in the union and still not be able to do that, right? You can't own a home, have a stay-at-home life, and raise three boys as a union carpenter, electrician. No way. And so, you know, like these tenants, they're actually really good.
28:35We screen them well, but they're actually really good people. We also get a lot of elderly folks. A lot of those elderly folks are raising grandchildren they didn't expect to raise because the life circumstances didn't go the way that they planned. And then a lot of people are just disabilities. And so the people, you know, that we're serving on that side of things, they're actually really good people and a lot of them work really like you know some of the ignorant stuff that people say in section eight and i hear it all the time of course like oh why don't those people get a job i'm like she has two she has two jobs she has three children what do you want her to do you know and so i feel good about that too i feel good about the work that we're doing for those people providing them high quality you know single family homes for families and stuff like that.
29:24I got to ask this question just because it's just a such a hot topic. Is there any room and there's room for this and I think any vertical like how is AI impacting the drug rehab business as a whole and housing as a whole? Haven't seen AI. Well, all right. I guess a couple examples of AI, AI and Section 8. We actually have a software that we use that shows us heat maps of properties and is able to gather all these different data points and find distressed properties and all sorts of different stuff. And so we haven't fully utilized it yet, but we have it and it's a project that's in the making.
30:10Actually, the CEO of Property Radar was on the panel. I don't know if you met him, but I need to put you in touch with him. Oh, cool. Because he has an AI that will create that heat map with distressed properties. Yeah. Yeah. Unbelievable information. So that on real estate, but on the healthcare side, AI is going to change the game on healthcare. Because in healthcare, I mean, healthcare is the most regulated industry in the world, right? We have licensing, accreditation, all these people. I think banking, we're pretty regulated. I always say mortgage industry is the most regulated. You should try healthcare.
30:47We deal with human beings, right? And so it's arguably maybe neck and neck, but healthcare is incredibly regulated. We have to document every interaction. And so if you're a patient and I'm a therapist and I come talk to you, I have to go make an entire note in your medical record of the conversation that we just had. You can go talk to your clients for your mortgages and you don't have to do it in a record keeping system that that is then audited by the state urine payers and accreditation bodies. It's wild. And so healthcare providers, half of their job is actually treating patients. The other half is documentation.
31:25And so now they've developed AI that it just sits there and gathers the entire interaction and types the medical notes for you. Oh, that's awesome. The best. And so we've just started to experiment with that and roll that out and getting that up and running. And so it just gives us so much time. I mean, think about how much more time the people, the people, the health care, the therapist, the case managers, you know, the doctors, the nurses, these people need to spend time with the patient. When does the patient benefit? The patient's not benefiting when you're sitting in their chart, typing the notes, the patient's benefiting when we're face to face, having our conversations, having our experience.
32:05And so it gives them their time back to go spend it with the patients. I actually was at a conference last week and someone introduced me to Plod, which is a thing that goes onto your phone and records your conversation plot is rolling out a neck wear where you just wear it you turn it on and it will record the conversation and transcribe it all it's just like a necklace crazy like so you're probably going to want to buy plot when it comes out with the new the new neck piece i think they're taking pre-orders right now and probably be out by the time the show is released and they just they all just walk in with their necklace and it just documents the whole thing for them that's crazy yeah it's called pl a ud plot i'm check that out yeah yeah i was i learned about it because they had the the phone one version that goes on your phone but now the neck neckwear one's coming out and you don't have to put it on your phone you just like rock it and yeah records everything and it transcribes it all crazy man and then like and then creates notes bullets out of it do you ever think that we'd get here when we're no you know what i mean like it's like i i laugh all the time like ai and all this stuff i remember when we had the dial-up modems with america online and you know your mom would pick up the phone and it would kick you off at aol you're not that old you're only 38 you know it's like we have grown so far and what are our kids gonna see it's insane like what are our kids gonna see i don't i have no idea because like even talking about plod like i didn't know something like that existed or would exist or ever can exist yeah totally so the the stuff that comes out every single day is but we had the the uh the tech founders and we had like you know we were AI was obviously within tech was a big, big subject.
33:39So everyone's like has different verticals of AI and being implemented in their tech platforms. So it's just fascinating how tech companies are implementing it into their current environments and tech stack. Yeah, absolutely. Now, you know, and you kind of brought this up, but you've accomplished such great success. Hundreds of millions of dollars, big exit. and we talked about this, but I really want to drive this home. It's like after all your success, how do you continue to find motivation?
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34:15I don't find motivation. I just am motivated. I mean, for whatever reason, maybe because of the way I was brought up, maybe because of desire for more, but I still wake up with a little bit of anxiety i i like it it's healthy anxiety it's not something i'm even trying to get rid of but i feel a little poor a little broke a little anxious a little on edge every day every day i am like i couldn't dude like i don't know why shit could go bad for a long time and like i'm still good you know what i mean like i'm it's it's totally unreasonable but i wake up with that feeling and it just motivates the hell out of me and so i don't know man i really don't know i don't you know i wish i could give people advice one of my biggest frustrations in business coaching mentoring leading managing is how do i instill this in other people and after thousands of employees hired and fired or experience and managing them under me in an org chart and countless people I've coached and all of that I think I've just come to the determination that like you either have it or you don't you either have a killer instinct and you're hungry as hell or you're not and you don't and so for me I am and here's the other thing if you are good luck turning it off good luck like i would if i didn't do what i do every day i think i would self-destruct i think it would be like capturing a lion from you know the wild where it hunts and roams and you know gets up every day and does things and put it in captivity where its mane starts to fall apart and doesn't want to eat and gets all depressed you know i love getting up and doing this every day i'm obsessed with it and but i on the downside is like i can't turn it off it's like that all the time i was in dubai earlier this year and because the time zone difference it's very late in the day in dubai it's nine hours ahead of east coast time my time zone and i'm sitting there waiting all day for my people to get up like you know what i mean because i'm up before them and they're like, can you just enjoy your vacation?
36:34Go like ride a camel in the desert or something. I'm like, no, no. What are you guys doing? What's this? What's that? They're like, oh my God, Eric, leave us alone, please. We were looking forward to the vacation from you while you were gone. Stop calling. Eric, when you said I wake up every morning a little broke, a little anxious, you know, it just resonated with me because every day I wake up and I'm, you know, I'm doing well. wake up i'm like broke again this morning i'm freaking i gotta crush the day 100 i gotta figure out how to dominate this morning and and just like accrue and win accrue more followers accrue more deals accrue more people to work for the company like because today i wake up i feel like a failure 100 i don't know why that is yeah i honestly i think it's a winner's mentality you know losers you know they they they think they've done so much and they really haven't done much at all and but winners constantly overperform and overachieve and still feel like they haven't done enough but i don't know how to change it man yeah that's the way it is impacts it impacts our lives though you know impacts relationships impacts you know like because we grind so hard the one yeah man i i certainly know a couple things about that you know it's changed a lot of relationships with me over the years and for a long time there i lived in in southern new hampshire like 40 minutes outside of boston it's not this big hub for young entrepreneurs and i did this through my 20s and early 30s and so largely i was alone it was one of the reasons i made the decision to build a personal brand was to network and and get out on the scene so you got to get back here in newport beach you got to get a second home out here yeah i mean i actually like newport beach it was my first time being here but i do and um and i felt like something was wrong with me i got treated like something was wrong with me because i was so unlike other people in my environment in my ecosystem there and now most of my my world is entrepreneurs and people that understand you know but it's one thing that i i know for certain I'm not changing.
38:47So you can take me as I am. And the crazy lunatic that wakes up poor and broke and has to work 16 hours today, or you can not, but I'm not changing. Yeah. I can't change that. I've had a lot of relationships though. Like act like I should, Oh, you're always on your phone. Oh, you're, you're always working. Oh, you're always this. And like, that's like, I don't think that gets talked about enough, man. It's like entrepreneurial shaming, you know, like they call what do they call it like fat shaming yeah all this no there's a lot of entrepreneurial shaming i mean we just coined that word right now yeah that that was born right here everyone if you hear it yeah yeah we both experienced so much entrepreneurial shaming in our lives yeah man and so now i i i went through a lot with that for any of the entrepreneurs watching and now i apologize for nothing like this is the way i am this is what i do don't even fucking think about asking me to do anything differently because i'm not going to sell out on me for your happiness i'm not going to sacrifice what i want to do for you that's crazy i'll just resent you and hate you over time and this will destroy itself anyway yeah i i just experienced that you know like going through building a big company for any wife is tough like so i get it you know like they did deal with about that's why i now divorced so yep you know so first time i had to say that on the state on on the show but you know like i experienced that entrepreneurial shaming for for years and trying to turn it off trying to navigate it um was tough you know like because i'm always on i'm always on i wake up four or five in the morning you're we're talking about you're like you're up that early like four or five hours of sleep and then i wake up like i'm poor today i'm broke today i gotta go like five a.m at the gym six a.m that you know So, and entrepreneurial shaming is, is something that, you know, needs to be talked about to salvage relationships because the spouses that are married to successful entrepreneurs just need to just have some mercy or acceptance.
41:01I think it's all self-awareness and they have some decisions to make. Listen, I, I feel I have legitimate empathy for them because, and I'll speak for myself, loving a guy like me is not easy. you know there are a lot easier guys for you to love than guys like me you know the plumbers the bankers the electricians the lawyers maybe that i don't know about the doctors they're always at the hospital but you know these guys that come home at five o 'clock and they've shut work off their head is clear and they're ready to have an engaged conversation and they will start thinking about work at 9 a.m.
41:37when they get back there tomorrow that's not me at all i am just obsessively working through problems and plans and what's happening next and bop bop bop bop bop bop and that's on date nights that's on events that's at your mother's birthday party like i it's not gonna change and so but you have to there's a lot of benefits to being guys with guys like us too you know and so i think you just have to outweigh the good with the bad and make a decision but stop trying to change people like don't come in here and expect me to be different for you that was the biggest thing it was like listen if you're not happy with me there's a whole lot of guys over there but they don't travel and stay at pelican hill or wherever i am staying on a private jet and they don't live this lifestyle and so if you're willing to give up this lifestyle and all the benefits of my hard work to go be with a guy that you know can shut this off at 5 p.m five days a week then you should do that you know and to their credit a lot of them did all right yeah i don't blame you you know what i mean like but i think also the people that are in my life today are the right ones and they're very supportive and I've never felt more free as a result of knowing that is my boundary.
43:03That is my standard. This is the way it is. I'm unapologetic about it. I will tell you that upfront the day we meet, I'm not changing for anything. And now I honestly have a life that is totally free from entrepreneurial shaming. and and and now you're a better entrepreneur 100 because listen we're the outliers we're strange like we are the minority i love this group 100 but i forget that we're i forget that we're the strange ones because those are the only people i associate with right this is my world yeah but when you look back up and look at it you know in the society like we are outliers of the normalities of society and so when you find people that try to drive you to conforming to this box man you're definitely you're not going to be living in newport beach on the beach you're not going to be this and the other you're not going to be private you're not going to be waterfront you know but no all that changes you know go marry a you know a manager at uh whatever yeah some store nine to five and there is a lot of benefit to that you know they'll make a nice six figures you can buy a house you'll be you know yeah two weeks pto a year and yeah get a timeshare like you know yeah you know but that's just i think it's about self-awareness and people knowing who they are and what they're able to tolerate and live with and you know weed themselves out because we can't fake it for each other.
44:39If you can't deal with me and I can't meet your needs, we can pretend for a long time, but it's going to be nothing but friction between us. And eventually it's going to explode. And that's what happened to me over and over and over again through the course of my career until finally I just went, all right, I is what I is. You know what I mean? I'm like fucking Popeye. I is what I is. I'm not changing for nothing or nobody. And so you can accept it or you can leave, but don't ask me to do it. If you look at me and say anything about me being on my phone too much one time i'm out one time i'm gone i gotta go i'm gonna start a relationship now it's like there's no entrepreneurial shaming that's it that's my one rule yeah you can't give up on the dream i'll do anything for you but can't give up on the dream you know i can't change i can't change who i am you know it just is what it is uh i've got a couple uh last questions for you before we turn here what is a mantra that you live by you're going to die you're going to die i make a lot i think about it every single day again in honor and respect of all the people that i lost in the struggle when you watch as many people die as i have you become acutely aware of your own mortality and most people think that they understand intellectually they're going to die.
46:05Most people, that concept is not dropped into their heart and they don't know it. And if they knew it, they would live a lot differently than they're living. And you're running out of time and you still have chances and you still have opportunities and you're still here and so let's make the most of it. And that's why I play fast. I play all in. I will take all the risk. I make decisions based off of that. Should I? Shouldn't I? What if this is my last month? What if this is my last year? I don't know. This is your last podcast. What if this is my last podcast? Fucking send it. You know, married to the concept that you're going to die is this one thing, which is another mantra.
46:52I think of them together. And it's my biggest fear. and it's regret. I always think of this one moment every single day and it's when I'm out of time and I'm out of chances and there's no more I'll get to it. There's no more yeah, yeah, yeah, I wills. It's over. In that hospital bed, hopefully surrounded by people I love, it's time to punch that ticket. Did I do it all? Am I happy with the life that I lived or am I sitting there going, oh, fuck. I wish I'd done it. I wish I had taken that risk. I wish I'd told that person how I felt. I wish I did this when I had the chance. And that scares the fuck.
47:40Nothing scares me, dude. Nothing. I've been through too much. I've been through more crazy shit than I even remember. And so that stuff doesn't scare me. That terrifies me. And knowing, knowing with 100 % certainty that day is coming. It's guaranteed for all of us. And so I use that and I reverse engineer that into the way that I live today. Like literally right now, today what I'm doing, right? Is that version of me? When I look at what is happening today through the lens of that last final chapter, is this how I would want to write this one. And so that's how I live. Amazing. Yeah. On that note, what is a personal goal that you have for yourself, a goal that you have for your family, and a goal that you have for your businesses?
48:40Personal goal that I have for myself is impact, legacy, just trying to help as many people as I possibly can. and leave as much of a dent in this world in the hearts of other people that I possibly can. Most of that for me is through recovery. And, and, you know, my firm belief is God, God put me in this really crazy life and got me out of it and gave me a purpose. And, and for that I'm indebted and I owe other people. And so of course, a lot of that lies around that um my family just that they're happy healthy you know find their way find what they're looking for my kids you know whatever that is there's so much crazy shit out here man you know i mean just to raise like good boys that have a high level of character and integrity that are living lives that they can be proud of i can be proud of that's just raising good humans essentially and then for my business um you know we're marching towards a billion dollar net worth you know we did 100 million and so can we double down can we do a billion and not even because i need a billion dollars it really doesn't change anything i would still live where i live i drive what i drive you know what i mean like there's a certain point where you cross a line where like more money doesn't change much.
50:09The index of change kind of levels off and plateaus. But I'm a heroin addict, an alcoholic in recovery, high school dropout, 15 years old. I left school, still never got a GED. You talk like you got a PhD times three. I say that I'm the most educated high school dropout you might ever meet because I have a lot invested in in self-education personal development you know i learn every day um but if i can hit that target of a billion it'll be widely publicized it'll get a lot of attention and it just rips the excuses out of any any kid that ever thought he never stood a chance just like i didn't like if i can start from there and get here like there's no reason you can't so that's what we're working towards last question yeah when you're in front of the pearly gates what do you think god's going to tell you i don't know if he's going to even know what to say to me he's gonna be like you did so much good but you have so much like what do we do with you spofford you know which pile do we put you in man you know i'm not perfect i make a lot of mistakes and i try to apologize quickly, pivot quickly, change quickly.
51:31And so hopefully he sees that, you know, certainly I did nothing perfect, but, but I tried like hell. And, you know, I think that, I think that I'll do all right when I get there. I hope, because one of the things that I take very seriously and another mantra, if you will, and I say this all the time, you go in my content, scroll down, it's a theme, it'll show up over and over again, is that how do you have a close relationship with God, right? how do you do that if god like like you know the lord's prayer we say our father our father who art in heaven right so so in that prayer which is an unbelievable prayer if you break it down right emmett fox wrote a book uh that really emmett fox it's a great author broke down the prayer it broke down the prayer it's been a long time since i read it but it's beautiful but one of the things that says is it defines the relationship that we have with god right he's our he's our father our heavenly father and so in that i think about okay so if he's our father we're all his kids there's eight billion of of god's children running around planet earth now god's god what does god need nothing he needs nothing we me and you you know me and you have done pretty well in life it's hard for our people to buy us christmas gifts isn't it because we got everything we want if we wanted it on a tuesday we had it that night typically we just wanted it whatever it is so similar to god god's got everything but true you got four kids yeah four kids what would mean more to you than me doing something kind for your children and that's priceless exactly and so i think about that with god that god needs nothing from me but god's kids do and there's nothing i do directly for god but if i want to do for god i got to do for his kids and so i think about that every day in like how i conduct myself and and how i treat people and it's like i i god did so much for me and in changing my life and picking me up out of what i used to be and giving me the power to become the man that i am today and the path to live the life that i live today that every single person I interact with, I view as like his kids.
53:49I do that imperfectly, catch me on the wrong day. You know, I might have an attitude or something, certainly not a perfect journey, but I try to really focus on that, on like being, you know, my indebtedness and my servitude for him and everything he's done for me to give back as much as I can to his kids. And so hopefully he sees that. I think he does. you know eric you breaking it down to where it relates to my kids like you it really hits you know because we don't do enough for god's kids you know we really got to think about it like that like in the context of our kids and that that simplification of an explanation just really it resonates and i'm hoping it resonates with those that are the audience that's listening right now because that's what it's about it's about doing and serving god's kids.
54:42A hundred percent. Damn it. Eric, if people want to get in touch with you, if they want to connect you, DM you, how do people find you? Instagram is the best place at Eric Spofford. That's kind of the native platform. And I wish and pray for all the success for your boys, for your family, for your goals. I know you're going to hit a billion. That's not even going to be the, you know, nothing. The index of lifestyle is not going to change. You're still going to be hanging out and coming to these entrepreneurial circles and just, you know, dealing with entrepreneurial shavings. And that was Coyne right here on Coffee's Proposal.
55:14Yes, sir. Mr. Eric Spofford. Thanks for watching, guys. Thanks, guys.
55:34Thanks, guys. Thank you.
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