Anupam Kher On Modern Love, Jealousy, Regrets, Discipline, Acting & Legacy | FO381 Raj Shamani

26:36It was like you were able to study in the year. I was 59 in class. It was not a year. Every day and 10 times in a day you are made to feel inferior. So how will you feel? That is why my first book, the best thing about you is you is about this that you have to draw strength from yourself you are the source because God has made you different because that's why to give an example that's why your fingerprints don't get anyone in the world and then the power of life makes you ordinary when you can become extraordinary chances but I also feel that many people insecurity to first reason second and larger reason is that people have an illusion that today there are many options available so people can't be satisfied I tell you all people are scared what do you mean by this what do you mean because world is making you feel scared what sense because information of news information is so distinct and constantly information which you want to see as a voyeurist is not about good things.

27:53So you live in an insecure world. You feel insecure. Either this is happening, war is happening, here is happening, something is happening, something is happening, someone will run away, someone will kill their husband. You are fed with so much of negative feelings that you think what kind of a world am I living in? So you are trying to survive yourself. And when you are surviving, how will you find your strength? And your strength can only come from your own self, from nowhere else. How can you find it? By telling yourself that let me start from scratch. Don't lose your speciality which is you.

28:33Which is you are the best thing that has happened to yourself. You are. You are the best thing that has happened to yourself because but when you are younger, somebody has to keep telling you. that's why upbringing there's a big difference but it's a flip side if you start believing in yourself and you're special and you're very good then you'll give it to others so you'll give it to yourself that you'll adjust and you'll make a new life because you'll make a bubble how can you make a bubble how can you make a bubble you'll believe you'll believe you'll believe that I'm special I'll do these things I like this.

29:19Now, because you're so strong that you're giving the importance that you're changing and you're changing. Maybe then I did not communicate rightly. What I meant to say that first, accept the ordinariness of yourself. And then understand. Not that I'm a big, big thing, I'm a big, I'm a big, I'm a big, I'm a big, I'm a big, I'm a big, I'm a big, no, no, no. What I meant was that there is something, I have to draw my strength, like I said at the beginning, that I'm not insecure, I'm not insecure. I don't do it. I don't do it. I don't do it. I don't do it. I don't do it. But I try to... And this was when I came here.

29:54My job was done. My job was not only acting because of the drama school. I was able to change the failure to change positivity. That's why I survived for so many years and on my own terms. but it's not that I don't have a big people from me I don't have a lot of a big people from me but what do all the people happy? The point is that I am happy with what I am because I am first of all myself and I am happy to pronounce constantly and that I live in a rented apartment I have made that into a speciality now that I am being arrogant I am saying that My grandfather said that the man is not afraid of the rain and this is true but unfortunately you see the path of life after living life as I say it may be clear that people can hear but you will learn only by going through life that is the truth of life people who are struggling with relationships and for xyz reason a independent because of the good secure relationship because they think there is a better or options or if someone has a wrong thing I will leave it whatever xyz things what would you tell them how can they find the right kind of love or build right kind of so before with all my love for the younger generation that they want to have their own language also you know so I listen to a lot of things like in relationship benching pardon my language I don't want to use this word but so and so buddies that we are but deep buddies and you want to be to be cool you accept that but emotions you don't accept if I am if someone has a love for someone, there is a certain amount of you feel that you can talk about like I do.

32:17But because norm is okay, it's okay, it's okay. Do you think that everyone has a love for us? Everyone has a love for us? Of course. Love is the most important. Cool is the term. Who needs it? No, no, no. You see, generation ka kuch na kuch ek hota funda ab my to because I want to be happening in my own mind I try to learn ki kya bol rery hai ki kya sikh rery but I don't feel like I want to to p I we say say that will say PQR STP 2 LMT duty D I basically Basically, we will be like the people of the people. When there was no language.

33:14So, I have no answer for that. How can they do that? But having said that, I have no answer. The only answer is, if you recognize love, go for it. Don't let go of it. Because it's most important and most of any kind of. We talk about love, relationship, we talk about the girl, girl. Parents' love. Teachers' love. Brother's love. My brother, little brother Raju, he's the greatest brother I think anybody can have. Greatest. Because he has accepted who I am. He has accepted my success with a lot of grace. And that is very difficult. So that's why he's the best brother. That's why our relationship will always stay.

34:03And when you grow up as a brother or sister, always have a reference point of your childhood. I get horrified when I see brother and sister fighting like two biggest enemies. So in my mind, always with my brother, we were singing while mother was cooking. Sajan, rejhut, matabulu. These were our songs. How can I change that when we are grown up? But the credit goes to him equally. So I think if you recognize Any kind of love Don't let it go Problem is People recognize it And let it go Because they think That more better Do you think You can get more better You can get I'm an eternal We both are Eternal optimist You can get Why not get You can get Love Love Love How do you know this is the right When you know this is the right Right time For marriage I think the moment you find a person Who is even 10 % or 20 % Or 30 % maximum Closer to you, get married And discover the relationship afterwards Love is the only most confusing Emotion in today's time Because Because where all are on.

35:29So, I'll tell you why. You are living with somebody or you're in a relationship with somebody to discover what kind of a person it is. But there is no sense of amazement. There is no sense of wonder about that person. At the end of it, we are basically saying what I like in this habit is. We both have felt that what I like in this habit is. This is a shame. I have told this last time I have no guilt. Now we can marry. I think they should culminate a relationship when they are discovering it. And have a life of togetherness to find the rest of the things. Really? Compatibility before? You don't know?

36:15Your father had been married. How old was he? 30 years ago. He had been married for compatibility.

36:39I like to accept people as they are. So I love people who want to sort of explore and thing like that. But I just feel that and allow me to say the word. you make your compatibility RMB? I just write work. I was just a slow and slow recording going up your work. Not totally hard. I gotta beimposed to be actor now. But I had a few milestones in relationship maybe or profession maybe. If I had something else to accept success over the life, So I can do a little bit of compatibility. It's not that mine is the best marriage in the world. To be very honest, it's very difficult to sort of in today's time.

37:29Suppose for a girl, she's in love with this particular boy. So she and she does not know where she stands in his life because some people are not vocal. And some people are not even as lucky as let's say you and me, that your partner is ready as much as you are ready. It happens that you are just doing it and then you get exhausted after a point. No, you do get exhausted. Look, exhaustion is part of a relationship. At some stage, that so-called fire may disappear. But what will remain is memories and what will remain that you both will want to work on it. I think that is what has remained in me, in my relationship.

38:19I have sometimes hurt her, I think. I know that. But what I have kept alive is my respect for her, my togetherness of emotion, and my compassion. And that's what is very important. And that if you keep Alive forever Then you keep building the relationship In a great way What's your biggest dream?

38:51So I made a film Tanvi the Great After 23 years I directed a film

39:00And I think it's come out quite well We did the world premiere At the market of Gant Film Festival Then we did a screening I think it should reach the ultimate possibility of do brilliantly virtually very well get all the awards because I think it's the most mature work of mine and there is great entertainment so what's the dream for it movie will should have movie should be received well by people is that it it will receive well what's the biggest dream you have right now let me put it there on your podcast Oscar now people say a lot what is Oscar what is it everyone they say everything everything needs everything because whether it is marketing of the American Academy I am a member of the Academy whether it is the way they have brought it up it is the ultimate holy grail for this particular industry right it is there are other festivals which are amazing Khan Film Festival but

40:24but it's a brilliant film. So I'm not, what it does in terms of business, what it achieves. That's a separate issue. But according to me, it's one of my best work. So, I didn't want to go to any regular producers to ask for money. Okay. Because I wanted to make the film which I thought should be. Because I was getting clearer in the way I want to see the film. Also, I wanted the girl to be absolutely new. People have not seen her. Okay. I went to few producer directors. They gave me with concern. They gave me gyan. And out of concern. They met me nicely. But they said what gyan did you? If you take a big heroine then we may have to give you.

41:28Then there is a very financial type. who said that good story, we'll come to the next day. I met them next day. They said that news is not good. So I was like, I'm going to sit and sit and go. I'm going to sit and sit and sit. I'm not working with you. News is not good. I'm not going to finance the film. Okay. And it's a big film. It's a 50 crore film. It's not a small film. Okay. So then I said, how do I do it? Where do I get it? Then I finally found a person who said, I will present the film, finance the film. I will give you 25 crore of film. So everything went up well. I signed actors. Signed Matlab.

42:15I spoke to Arvind Swami, Bamanirani, Jackie Shroff. I was doing a role. And Pallavi Joshi. And one month before the shooting was to start, this gentleman said, I can't do it. Postpone. So my CEO Herman said, sir, I said, no, if this picture doesn't make this picture, it will never make it. And I have no much money. So I said, if it's a big deal, we'll sign the M.M. Kareem sir. Or we'll have to do it first. Then I wrote to a few friends of mine. So it's a public-funded film. there are nine co-producers of the film and we are we are ready with the film film is releasing on 18th of July and the most amazing thing is that none of the actors have taken money so far why because I had no money to pay them so that is what is very moving.

43:28The only person who is paid, of course the staff and technician is the main girl. She gave her money because Shubhangi comes from a very humble beginnings. And I also wanted a girl from my acting school actor prepares. So I'm consumed in the last for the three years for the film for Tanweed the Great. And you asked me, what is it? What a dream? So I have told you my dream. But If it's not a cause, then my heart will break. I will not take a dream. It should not be closed. So, I have seen when you ask me, I have seen ups and downs. I was the darling of all filmmakers. I have done films with almost everybody.

44:16As I said, 545 films. But I am not the most happening person in the world. But for myself, I am very happening. if you if I go through my life story I think it's the very happening story son of a clerk of a forest department so we start comparing notes and today the world is always trying to make you feel that somebody is doing better than you social media her minute when I was here someone got me he said you are doing good for this because someone else has done unfollow her. So these are the stories that come up. So I think I've seen and I also do not let the old man in. I'm 70 now. And it's a great story.

45:04Clint Eastwood was in 92 to 93. He was a great friend who wrote songs in the country. And he's 95 now. 10 days back he became 95. So he said that what are you doing next year? He said, I'm starting a new film. He said, what? At 93, you are starting a new film? He said, I don't let the old man in. So I think that I'm too excited about life. It's so beautiful to be alive. It's so beautiful. So I'm not coming here and having a chat with you just because I'm excited about it. You like it. You love everything. Yes. We have age difference. You believe the same thing. but there are many people who don't have optimism even though there are a lot of talent they are mediocre people who are mediocre are not optimistic they are hoping to think to become better, optimism with hard work you are not only optimistic, I am not only optimistic, optimism has a dash of amazing amount of hard work and honesty my father had told me that failure is an event, never a person you were a clerk My father, when I was in fifth standard, and when I watched my last film before he passed away, my father had the same expression.

46:25Wow, what a good thing! He was so good. But he felt that it was good. I grew up in a joint family. Grandparents' wisdom. wisdom to tell us we didn't tell us we said what is the difference? so we have to go with your shlokos you are going to go you are going to go you are going to go you are going to go so I I have to tell you 14 people We were very happy. We were very happy. We were very happy. My dad had a day. My dad had a day. I said, how could we be so happy? How could we be so happy? It was a good thing. When a kid is very happy,

47:27when a teenager, a teenager, a 12-year-old kid, when a kid is sad, that it is a good thing.

47:59So these are the stories which make you who you are. So I think that's the only way to live Optimism is the only way to live Otherwise I can think that I wish I was Shah Rukh Khan or Brad Pitt But how many people must be wanting to be me So this is the difference That life comes from living But I was optimistic But because if you are very optimistic And kuch pinnacle hooga life mein jis se har insaan apne abko kahin a kahin compare kertai ho bulta hai ki mein or ooper jau ga optimism mein or aage jau ga right to kubhi compare nai kertai kud ko kis se merah naam pata kia anupam is ka matlab apko pata hai uncomparable when you are honest and you are optimistic there is a certain amount of arrogance that you get arrogance baut ضرور it's not a negative quality arrogance is not negative arrogance if used in the right manner arrogance is not looking down at anybody arrogance is I'll make a different point it's a different point so when I said that my name is uncomparable so it's not like that I have excitement if someone has achieved it I think I have achieved it but not out of jealousy jealousy is also jealousy is a very healthy sign if used in the right manner.

49:30When was the jealousy? When I was in India I was taking and I took Amrish Ji to take the role for MoGambo.

49:43What feel was it? I was small. Small. I felt small. Small as in you are not good enough? When I watched the film, I thought I was like, Amrish Ji didn't roll. I didn't know how to do it. but before sheikhar kapoor interpretation different and in that interpretation mogiambho was a very you know not so stiff fluid was very fluid it was very mcleavian if I have to use that word so so so so so so so so so so so so

50:29They did it for themselves. But that I understand now. But at that time you didn't. Do you feel inferior? Yeah. Inferior, small, hurt. Why? All those feelings. and then jealous of I was yeah how did they get or do a role like One Flew or The Cuckoo's Nest is one of my favorite films Jack Nicholson I would love to do something like that I love that that's the only film which I saw in Pune Pune Film Institute 12-3 3-6 6-9 9-12 next day then 12 to 3 I feel bad that I have not got a film like that and whether if I get that film whether I will be able to do that the way Jack Nicholson did it so that is that is the kind of professional jealousy which is very very healthy why healthy because it makes you push yourself and push yourself a lot of years before when I was in the film I was not able to struggle.

51:47That was the perfect example of jealousy. So I had a photo of a shirt. Because it was a world of war. I had a office office. And Ram Kielkar Ji, a writer was famous. So I said, this is a very dignified, bald, sexy look. But when you go bald initially, you go bald, you go bald. And you go bald, you go bald. And in Bombay, in the 80s, you go bald. I mean, you go bald. ھالانکہ میں گولڈ میڈلس تر ڈراما سکول سے تو میں بڑی مشکل سے ڈراما سکول سے کچھ تیار بیار ہو کے گیا وائٹ شرٹ پہن کے بارش پڑ گئی پھر انہوں نے بٹھایا تو جہاں آپ بیٹھے وہاں پر سونلال کانور جی بیٹھے ہیں اور ساتھ میں رام کھیل کر جی بیٹھے ہیں اور میں نے اپنی فوٹوگراف نکال کے دی اور انہوں نے فوٹوگراف دیکھتی بھاجی دیکھو بندنوں کمال ہے and 5-6 photograph dixter rè and tariff kar tere or bole tu the thik hai tere pichya art playmich kohon hai man gai jih mar gya

52:48man gai last month he mar gya wo tih jealousy ki photograph may dixha raha ho bárish mein map bhi kiya raha ho or ye ek-dusree tariff kar raha and that was jealousy and now he he was my best friend anang desai but that became a story again I said to you that what life is not in life what you think a failure will become stories and I look at my life as a film that's why I remember who I remember I remember sentences I remember what my father said that's what I remember it's like a real that is going on tell me what you remember father was my forest department in the forest and that was the most amazing thing that our fathers have done they were going to go to the house and they were going to the house 12 miles 12 kilometers away and this was a monotonous life they were coming to the house daily same life and yet he was kind my mother always said they were taking some money to buy some money like they were taking some food who got a girl who got a girl, he said, no, what is it?

54:05No, no, no, no. Okay, so four gave them, eight. So I asked them, why do you do it? Mom always does it. One day, two lipstick came, so one person gave it. Then she studied it. Who gave it? So they said, the easiest thing in the world is to make somebody happy. So I think that, the easiest thing in the world is to make somebody happy. And I think that stayed with me. So I try, I try my level best. But you know, all these things should not make you feel or your viewers feel that that does not mean that I don't get angry. That does not mean that I won't get disappointed. That does not mean that I must not have made somebody unhappy.

54:50As long as you know what you are doing, I think it's beautiful. Do you feel angry today? Yes, I feel. Because sometimes I have seen your social media posts and feels like this is a way that is anger or distastefulness or I am irritated or what is it? No, irritation and anger is different I am very easy to do like I am acting school as a dictator I am because my acting teacher was the same I think that when you learn which is a form of art you have to discipline is number one in that Talent comes second So I'm a very disciplined actor Dictator Tell me why Why did he say that Because Charpent trades with a Of a dictator Just as time Time cup aband ho na Aگر 8 wajay class hai Toh aapko 8 wajay Poonch na hi chahiye Just as if Safai aagar school mein hai Toh safai rakhna hi chahiye Meera toh pehle Toh my paagal tha Bulta tha ki Aagar aap Tien dhin shave kia Bagaar hai Toh my apko nikal dunga Thir myre sath valon Sabne meere teachers Bagaar hai Sabnei bula Ya kya bheokofi hai Just because you don't have hair doesn't mean that.

56:03And in today's generation, they like to wear a beard. Anil Kapoor has a little trouble. So, I like that. I do not, I have a system of complete discipline over there. Dictator is a very strong word, but that you sort of understand. I got the understanding. Yeah. So, that I think makes it easy.

56:28I feel that Halal ki bharawal mullikon mein Classes mein chay ka pyalah lhe ker Ja ke teacher ke saath Ese dhusti mein Danse mein aisa ni hota Gurukul Jho parampara hai Danse mein aisa ni hai Classical music mein aisa ni Acting mein aisa smachta hai Because acting aisa lagtata hai Khi her mahalye mein Eek shahid kapoor hai Her mahalye mein Eek alia bhatt hai Danse jis ko aata hai Wo s'mejta hai Acting karta ho mein that's not the truth dance is a I can't dance as a performer I can't dance so there's a casual attitude towards learning acting because everybody can sort of pick up a dialogue and say that I can do this how bad they can do it and how good they depend on the watch so acting a course not only teaches you how to be an actor but it also teaches how to be humble, how to be nice because it's profession as a student or as this thing, there are a lot of disappointments.

57:340.001 % make it out of millions of people who come to this city. I am one of those 0.00%. I have no business to be unhappy. I have no business to be dissatisfied or sad. God has given me so much. So, that whole attitude because here it is very easy to see. Then tomorrow there are casting directors, there are platforms. But one thing which is good is that today how you look is your plus point. It's not the only point. No, but as you see, casting director, if you look like me, or whatever you think, I don't see good, I don't see so good, that's your plus point. Not in the early 80s if you don't have hair and you don't look like a hero.

58:21So I always tell my students that you are lucky to be in the era of place where you look the way you look is your plus point. Why is that? Because casting in today's series casting, you don't only look for, you look for real people. You're not looking for a chocolatey hero kind of a thing. So today you have various kinds of actors. If you see series or if you see performances and movies, you see they're not classic looking people first it was that type of type he's going to be a villain character actor he's also a man this whole nonsense about character actor this is first it was that bald man can't become a hero so luckily I got my first film I was 27 and I played a 65 year old man role in Saranj I was curious to know this because the first role usually you say if you have more age then technically now you have played so much how do you play a young role then your career is finished I'll be right back from 40 years of course it worked for you and you did it right it didn't work for me I made it work for me because I would have been an idiot if I had not done that role I needed to establish myself as an actor and no other film if I had five films as a hero in the sea singing, dancing, dancing, dancing, dancing, I would have not survived.

59:56I was a trained actor. I understand what I need. Also, beggars can't be choosers. I had been three years in Bombay. But the moment Bhatsa narrated this script, I said, I did not even think. So I get surprised when people say, how did you do that? It's been a great role for me. I had a Fifty's role for today. I am speaking on behalf of the distant sector. It's a celebration of none. It's a lot of repairs. It's a lot more than I realized. I were in theaters. I were in Metro Sinema ,لا talking 's. I sent my del 특 team. I was looking down at all the time. But that followed me. Also, if Sarans gave me the goal of being the kind of person that I want to be.

1:00:45B.V. Pradhan was the kind of person I always want to be. B.V. Pradhan was straightforward, principled, fearless. So sometimes role give, your first role can give you a way of life. I thought that I was thinking that a man in 27 years old looks like a man in a way of life. Now I'm 70, I still don't look like B.V. Pradhan. But it gave me that way of I asked the first day when the film was in January 1984 so I said I said we have been doing it for 6 months now you give me one word which is the total sum total what is that word I'll ask you also afterwards so he said compassion B.B. Pradhan is a compassionate man he understands the point of view of a not so good person also.

1:01:46He understands the point of it. He listens to them. So compassion stayed with me. So now I'm going to ask you, if you have to describe yourself in one word, what will that word be? Dreamer. Dreamer. Yeah. That's the only word which comes to me. Yeah. So may you continue to dream on even when you are 70. That's what I am. that I'm a dreamer with compassion and with the experience of so many years. So you want to be dreamer with compassion. I am. You are. Yeah. And that's what you strive to be even. And I have no fear of failure. It's a lethal combination. Very lethal. Yeah. It's a lethal combination.

1:02:29What do you do? My dialogue was in Saharanj. He was a politician. Neeloo Pule has been in the role. He is also reached in the police station. Now he's a very powerful politician and this man is an old man. and he was saying that you what will do you will kill me more than you so I'm not afraid of me now what will you do so I feel like a small feeling of me I don't understand another thing I don't say I don't say I don't say I can say I can say I can say I can say I can say I can say but if I have done something or done something then I will not lie to myself because that's the only way to make it better Tell me a time Where you have spoken to people Give me an example I have spoken to many times For not giving me I have spoken to Kiran Today is my birthday So I have The sheep I have given it So he told me Today is my birthday It is my birthday It is my 14th So I have spoken No I have spoken to 14 Because sometimes You lie to people Not to hurt them And also to Camouflage your mistake Yeah aah I'm saying I told my husband for a stupid when I died you said this was kind of a I said I said he goes my hands I told and dramas when I got my school PV…

1:03:55I got a note of passing this class.- Yes, when I…

1:04:09… cricket kheel ra ta to my teacher Jai Ram sir nne dekh liya or onna nne ka ki kama kyun nne kya home work kyun nne kya to my nne kya sir ya hat kya utar de siko to I think bade chute bhe bholen I think when I say deltay ho I try not to but you know as sometime as I said you sometime don't want to hurt people to us ke liye I think ab somebody ask how am I looking I can't say not good I think I think we keep our happiness in the other hand so I think we've said we've said I was given to give me drama school canteen so I was given to give me he's told his story he's given now he's kept 28 so there are so many events do you at this age with so much wisdom now you have insecurity in security to stay what's your insecurity what's your biggest insecurity fear of alzheimer's memory loss because i have seen people who have gone through who were alzheimer patient i think the first tragedy that a human being can go through is the wiping of the past and not knowing who is dilip saab ko alzheimer hua tha last ke kuch salon tak dilip saab ko पता है नहीं था कि वो दिलीब साब है, दिलीब कुमार है, राउनल्ड ड्रीगन, I did a film कल मैंने गांधी को नहीं मारा, उसके अंदर, उसके लिए मैंने रिसर्च किया, sometimes.

1:05:44पहले थी कभी insecurity? हाँ, when you want to make it, you slept on the railway platform. किस बात की insecurity, like what? that nothing will happen to me my father wrote a letter when you will get a role you will get a role you will get a role or I'm playing a role but now all the films will not be a role this is the insecurity that this picture will be or not this is the insecurity because so much money has gone into it so insecurity always before I came I thought that today's interview will go good or not because you want to give your best everywhere you want to give your best because your competition is with your own self my competition is not with anybody else I have a very high standard for my own self so that gives you insecurity okay here's my last question to you where when you think you have been misunderstood by the word I always like what is the biggest misunderstanding about you people think I always have lived on my own facts with compromises where I think But that sense of independence Which is in my mind Like I broke this myth of typecasting I felt I am not a character actor I am an actor Who is at par with the heroes Even though I get one tenth or one hundredth But we are actors This whole nonsense about character, actor, actor Lead hero and all of that So I think that sometimes unnerves people.

1:07:25He is a big independent man. But that's not, that's my survival instinct. I am, I am friends of friends. My relationship is being with friends. I have great relationship with all my co-actors. I ask if this was good, that was good, or not. Unless, and it takes me, takes a lot for somebody to break my trust. but then I switch off so sometimes I think people think yaar he's a very independent person he's not right he's what comes in the face he's what tells you

1:08:01so I think these are the factors but I have learnt to live with myself and I'm happy with who I am and I'm very proud of what I have done to my life how do you want to be remembered? how does it matter? how am I remembering? Where do I remember? Where do we remember Malan Brando, Dilip Kumar, Sanjeev Kumar, Lata Mangeshkar? Somebody in some people's lives I made a change. In some people's lives I made a difference. By my kindness, by my humanness. If some people remember me, I'll be happy. Not for world to remember. they will know we remember where Kishore Kumar remember where they remember when they were birth date they were on Twitter or something we all trend but how many lives did you touch while you were there is most important and I think I have touched a lot of lives by what my father told me that the easiest thing in the world is to make somebody happy that's the that's a very beautiful thing I've never heard somebody say the easiest thing in the world is to make somebody happy.

1:09:10I really liked it. Thank you so much, sir. Thank you for coming here. So what were you reading? What did you say? That background of yours, that your father. Okay, okay. Basic you were. Then I have seen some clips. Do you think we should change something about it? I think we should have much more fluidity like the way you are. You're a very fluid person. People will take you seriously. Your plus point is that you're a great listener. I have done a podcast People are not wanting to listen to the answer They are already thinking of the next question And they are also trying to say How brilliant I am You are genuinely a seeker You genuinely want to seek And I think that's your strength Thank you so much for watching this episode Now you have to do three things First of all, subscribe to this channel Because as much as you subscribe We will get better and valuable guests For you Number two, tell me in comments what you like and what bad you like in this episode so that we can repeat those mistakes.

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