Shikhar Dhawan on Pakistan, Cricket, Children, Relationship, Virat & Rohit | FO414 Raj Shamani

30 Sep 2025 · 1 h 56 min

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Podcast Summary: Shikhar Dhawan on Pakistan, Cricket, Children, Relationships, Virat & Rohit | FO414 Raj Shamani

Podcast Details

  • Title: Figuring Out
  • Host: Raj Shamani
  • Episode Title: Shikhar Dhawan on Pakistan, Cricket, Children, Relationship, Virat & Rohit
  • Duration: Approximately 1 hour and 54 minutes
  • Guest: Shikhar Dhawan, Indian cricketer and former team opener.

Episode Overview In this episode, Raj Shamani interviews Shikhar Dhawan, where the cricketer opens up about his personal struggles, professional challenges, and insights on various topics including cricket, relationships, and self-growth. The discussion provides a deep dive into Shikhar's life, revealing the man behind the athlete, his regrets, learnings, and aspirations.

Key Topics Discussed

Personal Life and Challenges

  • Divorce and its Impact:
  • Shikhar shares his painful experiences regarding his divorce, stating the emotional toll it took on him.
  • He expresses feelings of isolation and the struggle of maintaining a relationship with his son post-separation.
  • Parenting Message:
  • Discusses the lessons he wishes to impart to his son, emphasizing emotional intelligence and resilience.
  • Self-Reflection:
  • Shikhar reflects on how the separation changed him and led to personal growth and self-acceptance.

Insights on Cricket

  • Playing Against Rival Teams:
  • Describes his experiences playing against Pakistan and Australia, highlighting the unique pressures involved.
  • Shares memorable moments with fellow cricketers Virat Kohli and Rohit Sharma, including both competitive and humorous exchanges on and off the field.
  • Mindset of Top Players:
  • Discusses the discipline and mindset of cricketers like Virat Kohli and MS Dhoni, emphasizing their approach to performance and pressure.

Lessons on Personal Development

  • Self-Talk and Overcoming Doubt:
  • Talks about the importance of self-talk in building confidence, especially during tough times.
  • Shares his personal mantra for maintaining positivity and focus under pressure.
  • Irritability Quotient:
  • Introduces the concept of 'irritability quotient' and how he manages his triggers to maintain a calm demeanor.

Career Reflections

  • Achievements and Regrets:
  • Reflects on his cricketing journey, mentioning that he feels content with his achievements but also acknowledges areas where he could have done better.
  • Discusses the importance of learning from mistakes, especially in business ventures.
  • Business Aspirations:
  • Shikhar reveals his entrepreneurial side, discussing his journey into business and education, focusing on empowerment.

Legacy and Philosophy

  • What Legacy Means:
  • Describes his desire for his son to remember him as someone who lived a fulfilled life, balancing material success with spiritual growth.
  • Philosophy on Life:
  • Shikhar emphasizes the importance of counting blessings and living with authenticity, encouraging a life without regrets.

Conclusion The episode closes on a reflective note, with Shikhar Dhawan sharing his aspirations for the future, both personally and professionally. He expresses gratitude for the experiences he has had and the lessons he has learned along the way.

Key Takeaways

  • Personal Growth: Emphasizing resilience through personal struggles, especially in the face of divorce and parenting challenges.
  • Cricket Insights: Sharing valuable lessons learned from high-pressure scenarios in sports.
  • Business and Life Philosophy: Advocating for a balanced approach to life that includes both material success and personal well-being.

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This episode serves as an inspiring conversation highlighting the complexities of balancing personal life with professional success, and the continual journey of self-improvement.

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0:28What is your last relationship? I had a concussion, I played a match. I didn't ask anyone. I had 28 strikes in my head. I didn't know my family what was going on or not. So, I felt that feeling. How did that separation change you? When I played WCL, I had my son, I felt like my son was playing. I was also playing with my son. He was also playing with those things.

1:00You say Gabbard. What is Gabbard? I am very daring.

1:07Aggressive player. High five. Now we are fielding, the next team has our team. I'm sitting here and I'm like, I'm so tired. I'm so tired, boys. Then my coach has Gabbard's name. Who is your favourite cricketer? With Rohit Virad. With Virad, our Punjabi sense of humor is very similar. On the pitch, I had a time spent with Rohit. The most dangerous players played in the game. Virat and Viri were the one who was in the game. We were in the game and we were in the game. We were in the game and we were in the game. When the game was in the game, we were in the game. I played the game and played the game.

1:44You have the most sad thing. I was in South Africa and Virat was running out.

1:53He was a good guy. He was a bad guy. I was very happy. I was giving great things. What was the lowest point in your life? When I was 20 years old, I was in Australia. As a girl who looks like a girl, I was doing a party and I was down. I got to get out of my complaints. I was there, I got to get to that level. What was more hurtful? Professional career or personal life? Hurtful! Today's guest is an essay cricketer who has always seen attack on the field. Off field is always smiling, joking and fun mode. But behind the scenes, how they struggled with rejection, loss and insecurities, nobody knows.

2:43Today's guest is Shikhar Dhawan, Indian opener and an essay cricketer who has made their career mindset strength. This episode, we will know that the most painful part of the public divorce was the most painful part. As a father, how do they handle their daughter's way away? How do they train themselves to play a bad inning after a bad inning? And how do they develop their own mindset, which doesn't matter with external noise. Then, cricket or life? In great moments, we need high performance tools with mindset. So, high performing professionals choose Asus Expert Book, which is made for worry-free performance.

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3:58The world knows this side. You know the happy side, the fun side, the good side. The world calls you, they've seen that good side. I think the world knows all my sides. No, but which side is the one you don't see which we don't know which we don't know which we don't know which we don't know if you don't see if you don't see

4:27but is there a side that you purposely hide you purposely hide purposely hide see every mechanic how can you talk about which person will understand the story of which person will understand. One person knows what he is understanding. He knows what he will do here and he will understand. If he doesn't understand, then he will be talking about the need. True. So, there are many situations. I'm not sure where to talk about the situation, what to talk about the place, what to talk about the situation. So, I'll talk about it. True. You know, your last relationship was very public. I was the public.

5:10What was the painful part of this journey? What was the painful part? I was not the public part. Painful part is that you are living the lives of your life. You are not going to be happy with your moments. That is the painful part. You should be happy with your life. We don't want to survive. I survived not to survive, I didn't have any life. I didn't have any happy and living. I also had money and my name was also a good thing. But then what happened? So, I didn't have any happy. No, I didn't have any happy. But I was happy with my relationship. I didn't have any happy with that. I felt that it was not.

5:59my husband. So, that's why I decided to cut a decision. That is there. But then after that, real problem, then it starts to start. After what did you hate about yourself or dislike about yourself in that process? This will happen. If I dislike too, I've said something in a lot of anger, that's the same thing, that I've said something in a lot of anger. Or,

6:27even when I was at my divorce, I never said anything outside. That's a great thing. Because I attracted that frequency at that time and okay, it's not, it's not, it's not

6:56what was more hurtful professional career in a setback or in a personal life. What does it hurt? I don't know. What is it hurtful? It hurtful. Look, these things are very hurtful. What did it hurt? What did it hurt? What did it hurt? What did it hurt? It hurt my son. I blocked it. It's like my son has blocked me. Or my son has flipped me. I have loved my son. I don't want to talk about my father. But it's like a bad situation. But I don't have to take this situation. I will be able to do it for two days. That is one of my very big strengths. now like my name is not my world cup so my friends are all gone they are down no matter what I can do it's a good thing

8:19but if if your daughter has a flip and you don't have a do you think that's a defense mechanism that you bring out that I'm going to hate I change the way I don't have a difference you tell yourself and just distract That is not defense mechanism. My defense mechanism is when you know that when you have a guard up, and I blocked that. Or you distract yourself from the situation, just like saying that I'm strong, I'm going to get more than two days. Hmm. No. Acceptance is strong. So fast? If you practice in life, why not? Like the girl's daughter, you feel like a shock. You feel like shock. It feels like shock.

9:04My daughter, my father, I would never stop talking to my father. It's a life as a child. I had separation. I had to leave my daughter. But after separation, my daughter left me. I didn't expect it. I was shocked. I felt it. Maybe if I'm alone alone, I'll be crying. That's fine. Do you cry alone? I'll be crying alone. I don't know. I don't know. I have a passion for my own. Even when I got a concussion, I got a match. So I didn't ask anyone. When I got a relationship with my wife, I didn't ask anyone. I didn't ask anyone. I got 28-30s. I got a local manager with a 28-30s. So I didn't know my family was going to be like, what's going on?

9:55So I got a sad feeling. My family didn't know anything. I didn't ask anything. So, I will go through that moment and what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. 100%. So, I have been to those situations where I went through the concussion or the operation.

10:17And I feel that those moments made me very very strong. Not emotionless. No, no, no. Strong. There is a difference. and then when you go through that moment you can be strong if you say I don't talk to my son or my 2 years I don't have to talk to my son I will message my son on the blog number how are you how are you doing papa love you lord papa miss you I am sure you crone lord you are a strong boy I am so proud of you so I write all the things why? why is that reason why is that of course I want to connect to my son connect to me. I want to send my energies. I don't know physically, but I'm spiritually there.

11:03And if I bring it back to me, the best way is this. And then, the situation, if you have an emotional force, you can make it like a soul. You said that the girl has separated. How did that separation change? as a human being so you are difficult to accept and now if you have positive energy there is hope that you want to get him back yeah of course my son I want to that I want to make my son a big deal in my own things I will pass on and how to help as I was I owe my sister he had with me my first my last my last was you you I was playing WCL, my son of Reina, all of his sons, he was 8-8 years old.

12:02My son was 12 years old. I'm watching his sons or his sons. I feel like... There are moments that you feel like my son was sitting, like Yusuf Bhattana or his son. Those are beautiful moments. And I always think that, oh, I wish Raoul was here doing those things. But no, no. I don't know what to do. Now I can get depressed. How will the depression come? My son. I'm saying that my son has a small child. When he comes to a small child, he will come. And if there is no one, I don't know what he has written or what he has written. There is no one. I thank the Lord for this. That he is a good life.

12:52I think that's a good thing. It's a good thing. It's a good thing. That's what it's like. If you look at it, there are moments in someone's life. If you look at it, there's a pain. It's not a pain. I'm going to say that I'm going to go. I'm going to go. But I'm going to go quickly. The champion, warrior type, kimchi mindset ke Geoff out there now I mean I will get my cubo talk to recommand Games cookie apply baby mad like yours is a way to begin accumul to глуб55 Egypt with a

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14:39Did you get used to it? I got used to it and I know that he is. I can't do anything. I don't have any option. I don't have any option on Instagram or my number. The number is blocked. The number is blocked. I don't have any option. I don't have any option. d pics foreign

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16:12In whatever possible manner. And if you can ever reach me, I'm always there for you. Always there for you. And I cannot wait to hug you, love you. and ask about your life experiences. Do you feel scared that you will not get it? No, I think that. I don't feel scared. Why? Why? Because… Do you know that you will get it? I don't think I will take my thoughts on that. I don't feel scared. I don't know what to do. I don't know what to do. But the rest...

17:00I think that I am already there with him, spending good time with him. Again, I don't say anything, I want to. I am already there with him, I am spending good time with him and we both are having great relationship bond. But physically you are not. Physically I am not. Distance is one. and it will be void, it will be missed. And it will be known that you can tell any story but in reality it is not your own. So it doesn't feel bad. Look, there are two moments of time, two or three moments of time. It's not that I feel bad, but I'm not bad. Because there is no benefit of that. What is the benefit of the feeling?

17:43Then it will be bad. It's very important. When the Lord gave me so many blessings, He gave me good, good life, good life, good work, everything is so good. So I don't thank all of you so much, or I'll take you to sit down. What practicality tells you? We have to always count our blessings. Very important. and some people think that it's special it's not about special, it's about ordinary things those ordinary things are special if I talk to you then it's special I love my dogs ordinary things but it's special I'm writing it's ordinary but it's special it's different from someone else it's different from someone else it's different from Delhi daily and this is special.

18:39In this moment, you are so present. That quality is decided. And in that moment, like I am a moment, I will be a moment of need. I will feel it. Of course, I feel it. Then I will give blessings to you. That's it. And after your divorce, what is that one thing? depending on which things you want toro yo guys learn that hay there are very contemptuaries that porof they understand I feel I will make it what would change if I plan after that what would happen we will choose good things and it's병 and you know when this persona comes back and can else remember one time when he comes nuts and finding the energy before he goes then he also realizes and i feel that he is a kid so the information is a good guy like the guy molded him when he starts his mind starts he knows what reality is he will automatically understand and he has no need to understand he is what he is you just be here See on your own.

20:05Understand things. Don't need to understand everything. When you sit with me, you'll be able to understand yourself. And I don't think about it. When the situation comes, I would rather respond spontaneously. Rather than just think through it. Like how you said, like when I came, they said that no, you want to directly get into this thing. You don't want to say hello. Why? Because you want to be authentic. Yeah. Right? So that is the same thing I'll apply with them. It doesn't matter that situation is what matters. But that would be my genuine way to do it rather than keep on rehearsing things and think that I will do.

20:44Authenticity? Authenticity, why? Authenticity? I will also be the same way. When I come, I will sit down and ask what I will do. Then see. Then see. Yes. Questions come. I will ask questions. question question question question question question question question question question

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22:29Like someone said, if someone has a problem, I will give a problem. I will not say that. How do you know that you will get rid of the situation?

22:43And don't do a lot of anger. Why don't you do a lot of anger? The reason is that I am giving you a problem and angry. You have a choice. I have no choice. And another thing is, I don't know my subconscious mind. I'm talking to you. I'm talking to you. I don't know why it's another. So, that's why my subconscious mind is printed. All information is downloaded. So, I'll keep all things positive. I'm talking about IQ. Irritability quotient. irritability quotient. I have told you, my life in my irritability quotient is very high. I don't want to irritate anything. I don't want to irritate anything.

23:33I don't want to respond. I don't want to angry. I do a lot of work. What I do? In general, my triggers are always when I'm angry in life. I bother myself and I don't see outside. I go to the night and write what I'm angry. Then, the main reason of that Where is it coming from? Where is it coming from? Is it true or wrong? Is it bad because someone else tells me this. And I think that I don't like it. My mother is not coming from me. My father is not coming from me. Where is it coming from? And I try to write and try to eliminate my triggers. So my irritability quotient will increase. So how much irritability quotient is?

24:20How much? I think I'm very powerful. I'm so much irritated. And that thing has been very much... I think that's a lot of happiness. My job is... I mean, when you do anything, you know cricket, you know your game. I think that's my game. I'm a athlete. I'm a 3-4 hours game. I'm a 3-4 hours game. game and I have to take my athlete mindset and take my own warm-up and training and I have to do training practice for you. I have to study books and study. I understand the same. It's a structure. Sometimes when I was zero out, I was very weak. Sometimes I was dead. I knew that I was dead. Now, when I was weak, I was very irritated.

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25:33or whatever. who made a wrong decision. D olvido so my actions Эm. We all talk about that youngster often harsh about other clothing, but Now you have to improve that thing with love, but with love and energy. So you tell us about the lawsuit that when water is being fed, it will be fed from the trees. It will be removed from love. It's not doing anything. It's like a water. You are flowing more in life rather than forcing. You have to flow in life. but to flow in life you have to work, keep on working on these things then you can flow more easily and then you attract more abundance in life. Do you work on yourself on irritability quotient?

26:24Yes, yes, exactly. Because you are irritated, you are young and you are young and you are angry. Now you are less. How did you work on that?

26:36I was sitting with my partner and my lines were written, I was talking about which line I was talking about. When I was angry, I was talking about it. I was talking about it. But I was taking it from here. I was working on that. I was talking about the things I was talking about. It's a small thing, but it's a big impact. very big. So, I don't remember the lines that I wrote in the diary. Like, do you understand what I am saying? Do you understand that? I don't give a damn. I don't care. I used to use these sort of lines, but I'm improving. I'm finding better words for it. So, I'm improving on these things.

27:22True. True. And you said that you have worked internally and worked on a lot of different ways. What was the lowest point in your life? When I was 20 years old, I was in Australia on a tour. I mentioned my autobiography. lol

28:14old I was playing a girl with a girl and I was playing a performance. Before I was on India, I was on a tour. This was also on India, but before I was on a tour, I was on a tour with my best person. When I was under 19 World Cup, I was on a tour, and then Australia. At that time, my tour was wrong,

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29:50Why? Tell me, it's very interesting. Maybe I feel good at all. I feel that when I was little, I always feel like I'm a boy. My Indian ladies and chocolatey look like a lot. I thought that was my opinion. It was in my opinion. And yes, the opponents were the people who were good. That was also a rough, rowdy, masculine. ского

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30:45not yet. After that it was time to leave. But if you practice to keep it, you are fine. Andatocare studying, matter reliability, the work you never did. The job I could do not do that. I never said only that, I would do that! I was very worried about it. In young age, it was very big. It was very big. It was very big. My mom didn't say anything about it. Just like you said, I didn't say anything about it. My mom didn't say anything about it. I didn't say anything about it. I was growing up. I was very positive. I played for 27 years. I was playing for 24 years. I played for 24 years. I wanted me to negotiate that in my second cup.

31:31I played a positive game. That all me i hope is tough. Alreadydefined It's a week

31:51AgainGUYNA RAT Then, post two years ago post two years ago I didn't come to team A. I felt so sad. Then I went to drive. I went to drive a little bit. Then I came to drive. One day, two days, I went. Start working. I didn't want to do that. I didn't want to do that. Then I went to the last time. In recent times, there was a lowest point and you cried. When? When was the last time you cried? What did I cried? How much did I do it? I am not�ý on that. Who did it? Who did it? That's not a good effort. Always there are. And the wisdom, I can tell you how today about you. You read my wisdom to a few times, after two times, once again I shall become agraAT, I shall talk to U-08 Only acquaintances companies because they would good, At Kdochadah.ывает you愛 cake pad, why would you enjoy?

33:04If you shoeed, if you have modeled, you gave it. If you have a song, you will sing. You will sing. What is your only thing? True. You are cricket. I am cricket. That idea is the answer.

33:24Who is your favorite cricket player? Who was the most fun? In the 7th. I am really fun with Rohit. Tell me the most emotional moment or best moment with Rohit. and the 말 was done in the game... That means your favourite thing to do... Worst moment is when I can speak with a � него 그러� a role group that was when I had ISIS. When we were late, I would be 하� Lorimer. So since singing his behaviour, he goodbye would laugh. I'm a fool ofdelink Kathy because everything was flawless. So my favourite moment was your favourite book. That's why he was bastante it. We laughed so much in theSchimb听ers want to share it with him.

34:31They wanted to cáo, heights, subject to happiness. When you fault your favourite even innings We have a life-beualến thing about you towards meeting everybody together. Oh, that's amazing. We'll definitely expect more. In Austin, there were a few three models in Japan. I therefore did not see a lot at 95 more than 100 Theator with Shoutout. saiyad Berat nebh wira da then se h ôn the time.ńsk Theand players to our team went well or the time sports stopped. There are many many, many. There are many many innings in the Champions Trophy. There are many innings in West Indies. There are many. You don't even remember me.

35:17There are many. One thing about Rohit Sharma, Virat Kohli, Dhoni, who don't know behind the scenes. Behind the scenes, you don't know. Quality, trade, anything. I don't understand the idea behind the scene. But Rohit is a very chilled out, very relaxed person, very laid back. But very skillful and very knowledgeable about his batting. And a great leader. Of course, he has won the World Cup and Championship. foreign

36:11any and He has elevated his own family quickly. I feel that I saw him 10 years ago. He was very very disciplined and very inspiring now. Because now I can understand or relate it more. Because I got more discipline. So then I remember that I was very disciplined. and he can co-related that he was very close to him what do you think how much he was so fast how much he was because he was also very new young aggressive and then he turned around yeah when he was young 16-17 when he was young when he was with me I was not a senior so he was with me so he was with me so he had all of us and then he had all of us and then he had

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37:34ira renewable Hi. Father, you know, I was just going to go to the next day. Yes, yes. When I was playing the game, I was playing the game. I was playing the game. So, I remember that it was good. And... After that, there were many things, mindset. I always talk about it, I'm going to make a century. I'm going to make a century. And to make a game work on my own. Oh

38:34so his discipline was strong, food control, mindset was positive, fitness was strong, he has been very strong in mobility, power exercises, he had been very strong, he was doing gym, so he has added routines, he has enhanced his own, and I feel and the back of the kisman. So, the king's head is a big deal. True. So, this was the Viraat. Dhoni Bhai was very relaxed. I feel that he attracted that abundance. He never went and chased for something. like even for leadership within OBI.

39:31Sara again mentally very very strong mentally very strong and I feel he's also very elevated so the catholic is both strong values both strong and and Kudratna ko khub namaza

39:57and the way he has become players and champion players even when he was in the world cup he was very calm and composed and he has a quality of leaders he was very good at him and of course with time experience he has been growing

40:46just So, he is captain to captain. So, he has packed me there. I am very grateful for that. Nice. And the new captain Shubman, we test series. People call that one of the best debuts in the world is Shubman as a captain. What do you think about Shubman as a player, as captain for India? Yeah, very good. He also got the captain, handled that pressure, soak-in and performed so well. so that I'll show you some history very much I really liked the UN Poland your Sam K peace Ik that the 48 years prior to… 5, I guess it was the season…" Where it was in 2018 and when that happened, I could come up because of it because something else…

41:36but that two mega were pretty lucky. So when this series moved to play, the biggest part and the way he never happened. I think even… he's gonna open blows up…. the sky 500 pixels result... and great captaincy i'm sure just the start of a journey for him yeah yeah he will learn so many test matches and he got that composure he got the decoration as well to go and time will get mature more mature and i feel i i would give credit to support staff as well i feel that now goto bhai again is a big deal but

42:22Champions Trophy or this test series draw support staff has a lot of role play and how much he backed how much his environment will be positive and strong he will be young true and because you named Siraj now he will get his next Asia Cup and actually the team announced Siraj is not right I have not seen the whole team, I don't know Shrey Sayyir. Shrey Sayyir has a big... Why do you think that's why? What do you think? What's your guess? Because Shrey has also performed so well. He's batting really well in Championship trophy.

43:05And he will get the Punjab Kings in T20. He has been doing phenomenally well. And it's unfortunate. He's very competitive in his game. I feel like I have been competitive. It's normal. It's going to be a good day. Do you have to play Pakistan? When I have to play Pakistan, if you have to play Pakistan, then play it. What happened to you in the background? I got a tweet on you. I got a tweet. I got a WCL. I got a first to call it. I got a two weeks ago. Why? I didn't play. Why? Because for me, I feel that the war was, the Sindhu operation was very raw. And I didn't, my soul wasn't ready to play right now.

44:00So, I didn't play and that time I already told them that I didn't want to play. And even when I went there, I didn't feel right to play against Pakistan at this moment. and Uwekandar is very thoda dhukhya dhara kyunki ish tarikayse huwa humare joh indians guindubai yoh jis tarikayse maara gaya woh baut gal tha to uski joh hurt hai woh thodi rahi toh ish lehi I respected that hurt and I went with that yeah it's just it's unfortunate it's just yeah it's very unfortunate but so you started to write,

44:45everybody has torn apart then everyone is pleading and very excited. But do you used to play against Pakistan and everywhere when did you play balanced? At the same time, there's certain pressures to goорот the environment is a different, as both the public i don't like настолько theangi is important does the consumers look different in you? is ok we can recogniseANG PAKISTAN in a great position

45:41it's a different level competition and different energy altogether true every thing is in the environment it's a beautiful thing now India and Pakistan it's a beautiful thing 2-3 days before it started all Indian and Pakistan will be down the bottom of the hotel they will be down the bottom of the hotel they will be down the bottom of the hotel and when you go to the bottom of the hotel when you go to the hotel all the public India and Pakistan are both in the world. The world is in the match. It's a different, very electrifying energy environment. It's a different environment. If you feel bad, it's bad.

46:22It's bad. Yeah, it's bad. But then as a player, you cannot keep on dwelling on that emotion. You have to move on. Again, it's the same journey. Same logic. like you play on high, you play so much, you play so much, you play a lot, you play a lot, and you play a lot, you play a lot, you play a lot, now, as you tell me about a series, where England was born, I knew I'm going to drop in England, right, now I'm going to drop, so when you know that you're going to drop in the morning, what's going on in your mind, one night before when you know that it's almost time? I was not eating dinner and I was thinking I was thinking you accepted the fact that I was going to go I didn't perform I didn't do it I didn't perform and I didn't do it I didn't do it so what I didn't do it I didn't do it I didn't do it I didn't do it I was like, I don't know.

47:29I remember what I was going to see. I remember that he was in lift. He was in English. I said, you will be in career pack. I went to fight for a while. So, this was the thing. I was doing this. I remember that. It was the same thing.

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50:21I was young. I was young. I was fighting because it was a heat. I mean, I played football. The fuddle came. And the fuddle came in a second. You know, you play, you're warm. But in the form of football, the fuddle was a big fight. You know, you won't win. Then there was a fight. When it was a fight, then you got a fight. Then you got a fight. Yeah, I think that's the thing. I think that's the thing. I think that's the thing. It was all going on. There are so many athletes, all aggressive, but obviously competitive, aggressive. That's the whole thing. Every one person is a big one. And all they take their baggage.

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51:36them Just in auction, it didn't go on to be a auction. I even accepted that stuff. That was the one that I wanted to use. So I went very well and looked. We were putting me a coup and getting old, and I was a very pleasant fucking. I wanted to come quickly. Is Viraad someone really worried? Did he say that he was due easily? No. How did he say that he got into it? No. He would say that he was upsetting me. That they'd just tell him that. I'm going to give a call. So I'm going to do it. But then when he came and said, after that, I'm going to say that this is what I'm going to say. He said, sorry.

52:20I'm going to say that. We know that. That's why he's going to say that. My fault is that. There's no matter. No, there's no understanding. Because there's no intention. There is no tension. There is no intention to be out. That's not the wrong thing. But of the same thing, it's not the intent. Cricket is so good. They are all over the same. Sorry, this is the wrong thing. We play the Care of the Turf cricket. If anyone has run out, I will not go to the team in the same year. You play with all the emotions. We are not playing any professional. We are all managing the country, we are playing a little bit.

53:08We are not running run out of this team. And if someone has run out of this team, no team will win. Then it is permanently so that we won't do batting with this team. If you play good, you can play it alone. Unfortunately, we are not playing. Unfortunately, we are not in it. And is there any, you played on top level? Yes. You have been in the top of the top country, and seen in the world. After that, there is no insecurity. There are many insecurities.

53:42Insecurity is not a good comparison. I have mentioned before, I am an opener, all the girls are my friends, teammates, but we are in a place for one place. So when I compete with them, I will compare it to my comparison. My husband is good at it. My husband is good at it. So when you compete with them, the jealousy is getting a good thing. The jealousy is a good thing. That it's good. The jealousy is good. When I started to learn my knowledge, I thought that there was a good contribution. I have a good contribution. I have a good contribution. If I contribute to my partner, I have no comparison.

54:29Then I have a best. The competition is to me. I have a better way to you. It automatically light light. Then my insecurities are slowly slowly. It is not that your insecurities are a bad thing. One day, it's gone. It's also patterns.

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55:38but this will be announced Then we know that we need to practice tomorrow.ixed include all our role and then slowly evolve. I think It's very individual. What can you find on our life someone who's alreadythern? This little thing we mostly precedented. Whatあり Of course we actually have done something like that.

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56:50I was taught this to me that I didn't have to do comparison and I think that they were taught me to do it for me because all my siblings were toppers and I was a little bit so my father and mother told me to keep my mind to compare not to compare. So, that's probably my heart. My life is my habit. And I'm just thinking about it. I don't know who to compare. You have one line. Maybe you have educated me on line. But that line is inside you. That line is how much energy you have. It's very much. You have comparison not to do it. You have no pressure. I don't think that there is pressure. When you talked about the pressure of India, or the people are watching India, I don't think that.

57:39That's what you are thinking. I don't think that. If I think that, I will finish that. I will play with it. True. You also said that insecurity was in your relationship, personal life, insecurity was very different. Now it doesn't happen. Has it changed now? Yes, when I was 17 years old,

58:05I have worked on it. And I feel that especially as a masculine energy, when you are young, you have got vulnerabilities. Yeah. Because you are taking your success towards you, you are proving that you have to achieve that. And you are running your success. You are proving that you have to achieve that. And you are running all the way. And you are running all the way. I'm running out of time. Today, I'm 27 years old. Today, I'm learning about the ground. I'm learning about my confidence level, I'm learning about my awareness. I'm more established. Yeah. That time I wanted to be established. There's a huge difference.

58:44Yes. Then, what happens after that? When it becomes peace. It operates with peace. True. But as you know, I've spoken to so many guys. And just as a younger person, who's much younger to you and I'm sharing this that there are many men who are small and many men who have evolved and become and they are married in 25-30 years like they're way older in their 50s, 60s I'm talking about this one thing which I've seen a common pattern in men specifically that the men who have so much love they say that their love makes us strong, makes us strong, makes us secure but there's a level of pinch of insecurity.

59:27So if you're a If you love a lot, you don't go somewhere, you don't go somewhere, you don't go anywhere, you don't go anywhere, you don't go anywhere. Something, I don't do anything wrong with what you don't get hurt. There's always on the back of their head, the guys are watching outside, they're like, what am I? But all have confidence, I have put on the bed, but there are kids in the bed, they're all tired. There are many people, they're all tired. and over the ages, I have seen different age groups, different success patterns, people are insecure. Do you think that the more love of a person is insecure?

1:00:04Oh, no, that's not that you are emotionally naked with that person. That's a big matter. I don't care. Some people love me, but they are completely naked with me. That's a big internal question. The one who will tell you is the one who will tell you. That's what you can do. What is love for you today? Love for me? What is ideal love for Shrikhar Dhawan? Ideal love? Ideal love is… being blissful, enjoying every moment, being happy, spreading happiness and emotionally, with whom I love them totally. I feel that my guards will be in and out.

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1:01:59that's what i learned from my first relationship See, whenever I was in my first relationship, I wasn't very experienced. So, then I, that time I was a growing man. Now I'm a mature man. That's the difference. What has changed? Let's say, what in you has changed regarding love? Regarding love? What is the difference? How has it changed? Your definition of love, your definition of being with your partner. What did you think before? What has changed in your red flags? Yeah, red flags. I think is what boundaries are, how do rules arise since I am not clear, but this feels bingo and moment is something I've got to 다른.

1:02:52When an experience can't happen to me, then I can attract some things, or Humble bodies and get connected with I am therefore not. I didn't know how much I was. I was in a relationship. I was just knowing myself. I was just knowing myself. I was just saying, I will keep my own. If you like it, then okay. If you like it, then okay. When you talk about it, I'm just saying, if I'm going to tell you this, I'll open it. When I was 27 years old, I was like, and I will be like this, I will be like this. Do you like it? Okay, I will not like it. It's a difference between both of you. Transparently, you can hide something for someone to get in the water.

1:03:41No, no, absolutely. The good thing is good about me and bad. My bad thing is bad, but the work in progress is good. Absolutely. The good thing is bad about you. The good thing is good for you. The good thing is bad. So, if you're good at all, everyone has their own definitions.

1:04:06Especially with partners, if you're emotionally naked, then you become a very good friend. Then energy is free flowing, right? Yeah. If you're holding something, then energy will be closed. Then it's a lot of fun. True. And what's your thing with Australia? Why does it have fun to play in Australia? What is it against playing in Australia? I was looking for playing against Australia. It's not that I play against against them. I still keep the process of playing with my own process. But I feel that because I enjoyed playing fast-palling and especially in Australia, wickets were really good betting wickets.

1:04:42So, it's a big suit for my game. So, that was the reason. And I enjoyed playing against a big run. Yeah, true. I was searching on the internet, what's underrated things that you love about Shikhar Dhawan. And that was the thing that the Australian against against people love that. So there was a specific personal agenda or reason. As a youngster, it was the case that we had to make a trend of the tagadhi team. It was a warrior-wally field. We had to make a tagadhi team.

1:05:21and then Australia or South Africa and when you perform as a player, you have more than a player and the other people have performed in Australia and South Africa and they have gone to the other countries so that way it was a feel that automatically and then the power of Australia will be more and very very happy. There is a specific baller that I really enjoyed playing with. Personally, I really enjoyed it. Australia's ballers are good. Mitchell Stark, so he's going to kill him. Cummins, Pat Cummins, they have a good challenge. So, to play, to play, to play, and then run, it was fun. You can see that you think that Pat Cummins, Michelle Stark like the world dreaded ballers like this and they gave six then what is the feeling like what is the feeling in that moment when she did a big moment in that moment it comes a proud feeling like she gets away come on now we are go on and

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1:06:54It's a great battle and it's warm and warm. After you just sledge and another one. It was warm and warm. It was warm with Watson and Brad Haddon. It was warm with him. It was warm with David Warner. It was warm with him. Tell me one story. Warner's story is very popular. Those who are in international I was thinking about the game and I was thinking about the game. So, he was not making a run in Australia. He said that I was not making a run. He said that if you are making a run, you will be out of the team. Playing 11 will drop quickly. So, he was playing a psychological game with me. So, I was making a run.

1:07:40I was making an out of 25 runs. So, he was making a run in Australia. He was making a good run. Sometimes you get to know that the nubs and the game is going intense. means to plop. boleh bol bol bololol momentary interesses give her a pots and bringing her out to be Ooo yeah here are a bought lose and beat a bigan turn Cancer B slash Ball both with boys though 녹ies Boris Domestic made it so very good but even international in roger to work pressure over on a We all have to do it. We all have to do it. We have seen a new batsman. There are many players who are going to do it. So, they give pressure to batsmen.

1:08:29Watson was great with me. He was a big fan of me. He hit me a ball. He hit me a ball. He said, you're enjoying the pain man. Yeah mate. I was thinking about him, I'm getting upset. I'm going to get angry. He will be angry. He will be angry. I don't have any advice. I was going to go to the fielding. When we were fielding, when we were fielding, we had to get a hamstring. He went out. He was going to go to the hamstring. When we were fielding, I was going to die. ah

1:09:22foreign but he didn't get out, but he made a run, he made a good run. But I knew that I was in his mind and he didn't like that thing. The baller's mind was how they were going to get out, like if I was supporting him, I knew that I would put pressure on him. If I was in a batsman's strategy, I would put a step out, so I wouldn't put it on the ball. If he was behind, I would put it on the ball. That's how it goes to his mind. If you have a baller, then it will be a subconscious pattern. It will be a rhythm. It will be a subconscious pattern. How to disturb his mind? How to make conscious of his mind?

1:10:10I will be able to make his mind more so much. Run is a part of the story. Before I put his mind more so much, So, when he thinks he will wrong, he will wrong. So, how do you create pressure? How do you create so many barriers? How do you create a process? Like if you have seen me betting, I started to do a step out. Step out. Suppose, there are baller areas. So, there is a baller consistently here. Now, I know that if I play the ball, I can run so easily. ball swing bho raha hai to maga step out karengo to ma baal ke paas pounch gyo to maja haa agar pounch gyo or us me haa ndal di to mahi time kareke maira chokka bho mil sakta ha single bho mil sakta hain or strike rotate hooggi to left hand right hand ka combination mahi bada fark kareta baller ko or usi tariqe se jab mahi wo karda tha to woh baller mujhe short pitch bhi deta tha usmein jaha short pitch hai to maira cut accha tha maira cut mar mar kare to aisye karke ham baller ko wo krathe we wanted to do it.

1:11:15We wanted to do it from our own and we wanted to do it and we wanted to do it. You were so nervous. You were so nervous and we were so nervous. We were so nervous. We were so nervous. I was so nervous. It's a risk as well. What I'm doing is a risk. You can be out of it. Sure. I was so nervous. I was very impressed with the favour. I was very impressed with the practice. I don't know. If you've seen my test debut, I was a test debut. My test debut was a test debut. Now, I have a test match. I have a pressure to run. I have to run. First, I have to run a place. You have to run a place for 5 years.

1:12:01You have to run a podcast or a first year. You have to run a place. So I said, I got a place to get a place. I got a big problem with the second time. 2013-20. So, the batting came. The first time, the first time, the first time, the first time, the first time. I got a 45-40. I said, 30-30 run. I got a little run from the run. I got a 50-50. So, it's like a zone. It's like a flow. I got a good run. I got a good run. So I understood that I am not going to stop today. So I said, I am not going to stop today. And I was going to put it on the top. So I said, I started to step out. I started to step out and I was going to be positive and aggressive.

1:12:48So the chance that I am going to stop and stop, I have eliminated that. I have made it for 87 balls for a century. So that was my record now. past this dividend century so that was very good nice but mentally it would be a lot of difference because when you play you play there play and play when you start you start you start then you get a lot of confidence plus because if you are an opener and you are a big run you get a little share I am here I will play but if you say international you feel like you know, you can play a little bit. You can play a little bit. You can play the same level. Like you play in the international level.

1:13:39International, same. Of course, just like you go to the new place, your thought process matters. What matters. What you talk about yourself. That's why you create energy and aura. As a youngster, those things are a little bit less. When you want to go, when I went to the youngster, when I got my debut in 2010, I was just saying that I will run and win. But in 2010, I got my debut in the first match with zero-coultre. I was going to go back and out. I thought, what happened to me? And it depends on the individual. Now, Virata was 19-year-old in international games. I was late. I got a lot of maturity in domestic seasons.

1:14:26scale kill ke kill ke or of course environment ka alag alag park domestic ka alag environment international ka alag environment international me actually pitches bho better righ thi hai and up kitnay mentally strong oor agar aapne pressure lye liya yaar ki yaar toh bhot hie bada hai merah kya kya kira ho ho kya nai kira ho ho ho toh pher waisi ho jauge yaap bho loo ki hama bho tkda ho ho ho ho ho ho ho ho ho ho ho ho ho ho ho ho ho ho ho ho I've seen a run run or run run. It's a different mindset. Like when I was playing in India, I was starting in the beginning, I was also playing one wicket out.

1:15:04When I played in the last 5 years, I played in the IPL. If I was also playing one wicket out, then I was thinking, I'm the man for my team. I'm doing it. So, the two situations are the same. But the thought process is different. Maturity. be four so each another eight

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1:18:18You can't do it. Then automatically, you can't do it. You can't do it. You can't do it. You can't do it. It's not going to be a pattern. If it's a pattern, then you can't do it. So, you have to be very mindful. that something will happen, of course, it will feel like it. That is very natural. But you can learn further from it. You talked about that, you said self-talk is very important. What do you say to yourself? So when you are the leading batsman, you are an opener. And in the World Cup, the whole world is looking at pressure for you. team India for the World Cup match. Yes. When you go to dressing room and go to your dressing room, what's going on in your head?

1:19:23What are you talking about? I'm saying that I'm very confident.

1:19:33I'm very confident. I believe I'm very good. I'll never, when I started Law of Attraction that time I used to say I want this, I want that. But later on I realized that even when you say you want something, that means you don't have it. That's why you want it.

1:19:54So then I started saying, you're listening to me, I'm saying that I play a lot, I'm playing a lot, I'm very consistent, I'm winning a lot of trophies. and I used to tell myself that I'm a legend and Malik ki meh so automatically us all the things that are coming to you. I am not doing it for you but the mindset that needs to be. And when the change came? In the beginning? In the beginning, not the beginning of my thinking, it's a journey that's not a day. It's not a as evolved. That's a galaxy I have got into my cycle for working in 2013 and 2016. If I did this year I choose from 2013 in 2000 between 2017 and 2010.

1:20:39I'm 16, 16, I don't believe for you 16 years from 12. Write it in positive aqu McMahon. Enbies of 2019 are inclusive Thought Systems. Every component to have differing and what do you do on the day or at what day when you havenekar self-doubt when your form is good. In every cricketer's life there are many peak days. And consistently there are some time when they don't perform. In any reason, the form is good. The normal public, we don't have a form. How do you manage yourself? How do you manage yourself? How do you manage yourself? There is a different situation. When I was 30 years old, I was doing different.

1:21:22If today, I was different. How did you do? I was also getting a lot. I was getting a lot.

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1:25:38But if it wasn't, it wasn't. We should sit on our best. We should be good. If we were on our way, we should be dominating. So we should accept it. But then we should accept it. But then you will play another format. But it's the batman. The format is the same. I'm going to play a game. I'm going to drop it. I'm going to play another way. I will go here. So I will perform here. There is a little doubt. There will be something. When you talk about England, when you talk about England, when you test match, the pitches are different. The ball is different. Duke's ball is different. When you play wide ball, the ball is different.

1:26:16The pitches are different. The green track is not flat. So, when I play a good thing, when I play a good game, my performance was good. And the records were strong. So I thought Zoora does not get strong So I was so happy By y Air Confioned

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1:28:06That's how you feel like this. But it feels like it's a little bit. It feels like a flow. Even when we talk about it, it feels like a flow. It feels like a flow. It feels like a rhythm.

1:28:40it's a beautiful balance that you can go to the same level. If you can go to the same level, then you can go to the same level, you can always run. But you can create a balance, harmony. So you can also know that you can play in the flow, whether you need to play the game, or not. It's a beautiful balance. So it's a beautiful balance. mantra is different. So, the champion will repeat the success of the game. The game will be like this and the success rate is high. True. So, it becomes a pattern of your game. Yes. And in the flow, in the format, in the team's game, the pattern of rhythm is different and then you keep playing.

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1:30:16try and try not to do it. influence in 6 hours I'm putting 80-90 then you realize that my work is doing because I'm going to do another but if you don't have 5-6 times, you'll know that you'll get the place that you'll get the danger in the team that's the pace that's the pace that's the pace that's the pace that's the pace that's the pace that's the pace fair but tell me one thing that you'll say that you'll say side of your mind that I am an anchor player, I will go and I will go and I will go and I am a legend. This side is the Gabbard side. How do you define Gabbard? Gabbard? Yes, Gabbard is what?

1:31:02Why do people think Gabbard? What do you think Gabbard is? Gabbard is what? I feel that I am very daring and of course an aggressive player and I I expressed myself maybe like within the dressing room. I was very expressive. Sharmatani or even on the field as well. Like my moves. Say, I have made a thai-pai. That's a very manly, macho stuff. And even batting, I have walked. I feel like that. all that thing gave me that name Gabbard, Gabbard had a name in a match in a match. He was taught that because I was sitting at the point so now we're fielding and the other team has our team made it. So now the boys are down and obviously the other team is doing it.

1:32:07I'm sitting there and I'm sitting there and I'm sitting there and I'm sitting there and I'm sitting there and I'm sitting there so we're all going to do it. For revealing that coach happened We love Notけれable

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1:32:38WeBS no one told me the name of the team no one told me people told me there was famous name I told me the jet or the shikhi and then the celebration where is the first time how do you do this when I saw the kabadi I felt good at the fighting games I felt good at the time when I was doing it I felt a happy waiting so that would be good iconic yeah MONete course again yeah work

1:33:28next in the world, it's a trippy feel. So even when I was holding my head, what was it? It was like playing or playing on the top. It was a different feel. How do you feel now in Punjab Final Four? Very good. Very very good. Shreys and Ricky Ponting is a very good combination. And they both made a very good team. And I think I was He said that he said that he will see Punjab. And he said that very openly. He's a very positive person. Very strong. What is he saying that Pontings XI was scared of the whole world? His thought process and his skills which he acquired. And the team was very good. Look, a good player can win a match.

1:34:23But if you have to win a tournament, you don't perform a good team. to make a good team and balance that's what it is and he's very strong as a coach of course we both have worked together when i was in delhi capitals then ricky ponting coach so uh he used to appreciate small small things I appreciate him in the 12th and 20th. And Ricky Monting, the netballer who are not playing with the guys, he also spent time with them. And he would say straight away, that he did good and he is still a little. So his communication is very good. His command on boys is very good. Boys respect him. And look up to him.

1:35:11And he have a good control on the boys. He has a good discipline. maybe maintain because his like he pontings 11 Australia was a terrible scene oh that was that era it was a whole Australia it was a whole era the whole team was a very terrible and ponting and that attitude came from that was just like different era different era very aggressive very very aggressive Australians that were aggressive on the field very aggressive I keep questioning what was the speciality that he When did he win? Because the fastballing was good, the whole team's balance was good. All-rounders were good. And the big punting, Matthew Hiddon, Adam Gilchrist, Andrew Simon, and then all the ballers were there, and then all the McGraw, so he was a big name.

1:36:07Let's see how much he is. Michael Slater. Michael Slater was before him or before? Michael Clarke. Michael Clarke was playing. Shane Vaughan played? Shane Vaughan. He was a top class player. And now, Shreya Sire captain. What do you think about him? That the captain of which team he is being made, he is a great leader. Even when he was playing with Delhi Capitals, we played the final. He stays very calm. And I feel that Shreyes, when he got the captain, he started to get the experience. And he was a child with his command. And his game was very improved. His game was very improved, Shreyes. From Delhi Capitals till now, he's a gun player.

1:37:02Top class. What do you think? if what is your difference in your life or what is your similarities in your life? The difference is that in my mind, I'm in Punjab King Glass, and in my mind, I'm in my mind.

1:37:22Why does it look like this? Why does it look like this? Why does it look like this? Why does it look like this? I feel uh uh how do you say that the combination of the stress and the combination of the team is a leader when I did the team is so uh just me travel bill is the coach my own combination is not a good better if my business is a good point then what I am and I have a lot of energy there is a difference and of course the decisions are better and the result is better but as a leader when I have the Indian team I have the result is good so my own my performance even with lexman bhai that uh

1:38:28indian team under me that time did very well we have south africa series gt india shri lanka gt western indies me gt new zealand me gt do you have any regrets No, everything is good. I have all been in my mind. All of it. Professionally, personally, all of it. All of it. Nice. And do you feel at this point, Yes. Underachieved or overachieved? Underachieved or overachieved? Oh. Very well achieved. Very content. Very well achieved. Very well achieved. Have you never felt underachieved? Have you ever felt like this? I have to do more I have to do more I have to do more No, I have to do more I have to do more But I have to do more I don't know if I do more I don't know if I do more But the intensity of this But now I feel like it is underachieved Now I feel like it is underachieved No, it's not It's a very bad thing Because Because I am very grateful for God, He is so good to achieve so much.

1:39:45It's a very big thing to achieve. If I also say to you, it's a very sad moment. True. For me. I don't know about others. I'm very, very grateful for every moment I've spent in my professional and personal life. Very grateful. And I don't know what you deserve. I think it's the best way to think about it. I think that if I get to that frequency, then I get to that frequency. If I get to that frequency, then I get to that. Underchief. Fair. But you said that you're aggressive, and you're doing something else. So what are you doing next? Next, I'm doing business now. I'm going to cricket leagues.

1:40:33I was doing a music video in entertainment. So I've kept myself very open. I also don't know where life will take me. But business is good. Business role is good. My foundation is good. We recently did an event at Lord's. That went very good. So we're working a lot on empowerment, education, digital education. So the foundation is good. Then I'm going to my academy. brands. So business side is doing anything. Now, I've also got experience in my business. First year, when I started, it was 3 years ago. So, it's been a different thing. My team who was built again, it's good to be a pedigree. The first thing was fine.

1:41:27But after 3 years, when I started my first year,

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1:41:59right happening whether with messu or anyone nice so now I got a proper system going on I don't know about systems about the system I got a good idea about the finances I got a good idea which I never gave up so much so I didn't so growth there was good then I was doing music video that was good my book yeah book book book book release book book that is very good book I didn't write, author wrote I was telling you it's not so much so book it's very good and it's very good and there are also many stories which I was telling you and then I always say that I'm Nikoshevani gave me a great permission that I'm a God instrument our God is aligning me for his service.

1:43:01I'm doing it with all my heart. I let nature bring work to me and I do that with a lot of happiness. You said that I was doing in the starting year 1 and now there are a lot of differences. Yes. So when you have gained money, you will have a lot of differences in the money. You will treat it like that. Tell me the biggest money mistake you have made. Oh, I've made lots of money mistakes. Tell me. I love listening to money mistakes. Yeah, I've lost good three, four crore rupees on a business. Yes, I've lost that. Which I've started 7-8 years ago. I've had a lot of money for 3 crore. What was it?

1:43:45It was my business. So, I started to do it for my best friend. So, I didn't know how many things are going. I said, I said, let's go, God, I set my friend. But I said, my friend has no problem. But his energy is different. He was different from his work. He was different from me. It didn't match. And in his chakras, my heart was a little bit. So, stress was also... Then I felt stress was also... Then I felt stress was... Then I felt stress was 4-5 days. Then I felt stress was good. The system was down. Then I said, my bread and butter cricket is... many perjate Épśniej niet ma Das Ha Thọ usted Ya Da From nonsense

1:44:34haon haos look someone can buy one they can buy a business then the results will let you buy for the car who has paid on pay writer does someone pay for bitcoin listen such müssen but its paid actually some money not there should be

1:45:29tookld by sh var I'm scared. You can't point it completely because with your breath, yes, nasty on that! Until you get some expensive lessons.

1:45:42Having a lot of expensive lessons. Personal professional I don't understand everything. You don't understand small ones. I'm like, I'm done. Let's do it.

1:46:00They say that I'm a big fan of the game. I'm not a big fan of the game. We're doing all the big levels.

1:46:10So what are we talking about? I forgot.

1:46:16I was thinking that my heart opens after doing a job, after dying, and after dying, that it stops, that I don't want to do it now. No, it becomes understandable. And I know that if I make a wealth, then it will become a business. It's not that I'm sitting. I just don't want to be a commentator or a coach. If I can earn 10 to 20 rupees, then I can earn 50 rupees as well or 100 rupees as well. so I will go that direction I would take that risk you have to take risks you have to take smart risks okay when you don't have experience you take risks which can backfire it backfired but it was a learning game not a failure for me it's a learning that's fine if 4.000 crore it's a good thing I've given you a crore so I won't wait so I won't wait so there's no problem but I don't go back let's go and get back go and get back and get back And in any success, you have to do repetitively.

1:47:17You will not be able to do it. But then you will understand it. And then you will continue. And then it will happen again. And then you will get lost. That's the nature of the business. And yeah, if I want to be wealthy, I have to be in business. Simple thing. And that's what you're doing next. Nada, for sure. Let me try it. It's coming. It's coming. It's coming.

1:47:42Your mindset is quite right. You don't affect yourself. You get out of one or two days. Is it because of athleticism? Did you learn from cricket? Or is it because you worked on yourself a lot? It's like this. I feel it's a mix of everything. Because you learn to handle failure in cricket. You learn rejection. I don't have to select. I don't have to do much. I was not selected in under 14. I was crying in the car. foreign

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1:49:05The Kriket will work, How are you doing? You are learning yourself? You have a business coach or someone? I have a business coach as well. My friend is a great businessman. You are learning from him. I am learning from him. How to do this? What should I do? He understands me. If you are a good employee, see them as an investment. Don't see them as an expense. Keep your finance. Keep your CA. I am going to go to account rent. to go and go. That's why he says that he doesn't have a guru. He keeps you from the time to go. He keeps you from the direction. So, he should be a guru. He should tell you that he will do this.

1:49:48So, I love to trust and surrender. That's what I did when my cricket coach came. I trust and surrender. Even when I was spiritual teachers. I was not a guru. He was a guru. He was a guru. life in stage. In spirituality, you have 3-5 gurus in which you learn so much. You will be good at any guru, Shwani Dedi's story, Gaur Kupal Das Ji's story. But I am sure to say that my big love is. I love listening to Oshu. I am so excited to be with you. So, whatever you want to do, you will be able to do it. And then you will implement it. You will listen to it. You will implement it. or everything is information only we are sharing information I have to share it and it's going to be a failure and it's going to be a failure and it's going to be a failure and it's going to be a failure so that's why you can listen to anything whether you listen to songs or movies you can pick up with your attention so here is my last question usually I have a last question I have a lot of love from my mind that I have to be a difficult To Buzz together See Ya'll.

1:51:01Do you want to get your answers with them? You didn't quite hear a answer yet, No. I thought I was wondering in the last question. and That quite I don't try a last question by segment. Okay. I have started the enemy with this question question. What So, for you, it's what your legacy would you like You want to see what you see from your son. What legacy you would like to leave for your son about you? About me?

1:51:45The world will be said anything. The world's legacy will be different. He will do the work. But it will be very like, what do you want your son to remember? He lived a very fulfilled life. Fulfilled life, the king of the king.

1:52:06Metiritualism, enjoyed materialism and spiritualism both.

1:52:12Metiritualism also enjoy the whole, spiritualism also enjoy the whole. What are you doing? What are you doing? What are you doing? I don't have to do it anymore. When I get the chance, I can enjoy it. As a balance, in a balanced way. No regret. No regret. What do you regret? What do you regret? It's all learning. True. Everything is learning. You just learn and don't do it next time. You know that if you're going to do something, there will be consequences. It's true karma. It's true karma. I have energy in the universe. People are puttling. I can't make you a fool. I have made a fool. But the energy I have made in the universe.

1:52:58The universe will give me a lot. So, that's why someone's fooling, someone's fooling. If you do a good money, then you do a good money. You can pay for money. So these are my values which I have learned. I will implement them and enjoy them. My son will also enjoy them. My whole life is like you. Fulfilled. I am very happy. If you live in the world, you are alone.

1:53:38Wow. Then you are living in the world. Open your life. Open your life. You should have to be more and more. And that's why we don't have to be a chaos creator in society. And then open it up. And when you want more, you have to be more first. What a must-bath. I didn't hear it. Very interesting. How would you live if you were the only person living? That's it. Nice. Perfect. Thank you so much. Thank you. You gave us so much time. Thank you so much. Thank you for inviting me here. Thank you for answering everything. Thank you. How are you? Very big. All good? Very good. Very excited to see you.

1:54:27Enjoying the journey? Yes. I'm loving it. How many years have you been in the podcast? Four or five years? Four or five years. You're young. I think it's like I'm reading a new book for a day. So, one person who has achieved so many things in life, who has achieved so many expertise, maybe mentally, physically, in any field, I think that we have a chance to learn directly from them. So, I feel lucky that I am very lucky. Very well said, absolutely. Thank you so much for watching this episode until the end. Now, you have to do three things. Number one, subscribe to this channel so that we can bring you more valuable guests for this kind of this kind.

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(00:00) - Introduction
(03:59) - Shikhar Dhawan on his divorce
(07:12) - The painful part about his divorce
(11:19) - How the separation changed him
(15:48) - Message to his son
(21:13) - The quality he wants his son to learn
(23:19) - Irritability quotient
(27:23) - The lowest point of his life
(33:16) - Best moment with Rohit Sharma
(36:08) - The discipline of Virat Kohli
(39:10) - MS Dhoni’s mindset
(40:54) - Shubman as a captain
(43:24) - Playing against Pakistan
(48:30) - Funniest moments
(50:10) - Fight with Virat Kohli
(51:17) - An angry moment on the pitch
(53:27) - Insecurities
(1:00:31) - Ideal love
(1:04:20) - Playing against Australia
(1:13:07) - [Empty / needs a title]
(1:18:59) - Self-talk & self-doubt
(1:30:46) - Why he’s called Gabbar
(1:33:41) - What’s special about Ricky Ponting
(1:36:25) - Shreyas Iyer as a player
(1:38:42) - Underachieved or overachieved?
(1:40:19) - Business & foundation
(1:43:09) - Money mistakes
(1:50:50) - The last question
(1:54:18) - BTS
(1:54:57) - Outro



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