Yuzi Chahal On Divorce, Friends, Cricket, S*icidal Thoughts, MSD & Controversy | FO388 Raj Shamani

31 Jul 2025 · 2 h 16 min

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Podcast Summary: Yuzi Chahal On Divorce, Friends, Cricket, S*icidal Thoughts, MSD & Controversy | FO388

Podcast Overview

  • Podcast Title: Figuring Out
  • Host: Raj Shamani
  • Guest: Yuzvendra Chahal (Yuzi)
  • Episode Goal: Discuss Chahal's experiences, including his personal struggles, cricket career, and relationships.

Key Themes

  1. Personal Struggles and Mental Health
  2. Divorce Impact:
  3. Chahal reflects on the emotional toll of his divorce and how it led to periods of depression and suicidal thoughts.
  4. He emphasizes the stigma around mental health, especially concerning public figures.
  • Anxiety and Pressure:
  • Chahal describes feelings of anxiety, including physical symptoms like sweating and shivering.
  • The pressure of fame and expectations from fans and the media often exacerbated his mental health issues.
  1. Relationship Insights
  2. Views on Love:
  3. Chahal discusses his views on love and family, emphasizing understanding, loyalty, and trust as key components.
  4. He reflects on the challenges of balancing personal relationships with career ambitions.
  • Relationship Dynamics:
  • He shares insights about navigating relationships as ambitious individuals, suggesting that time and compromise are essential.
  • Chahal also discusses red flags he has become more aware of in relationships, such as communication issues.
  1. Experiences in Cricket
  2. Cricket and Identity:
  3. Chahal discusses how playing for the Indian cricket team shapes his identity and his sense of pride.
  4. He reflects on the moment that affected him during the 2019 World Cup, highlighting the emotional weight of high-stakes games.
  • Interactions with Other Players:
  • Chahal describes his relationships with fellow cricketers, including his admiration for MS Dhoni and Virat Kohli.
  • He shares anecdotes that highlight camaraderie, competition, and the pressures that come with being a professional athlete.
  1. Public Perception and Social Media
  2. Trolling and Misconceptions:
  3. Chahal addresses the impact of trolling and rumors on his mental well-being, revealing how they can distort public perception.
  4. He mentions specific incidents of being misunderstood in the media, particularly surrounding his divorce.
  • Handling Criticism:
  • He discusses coping mechanisms for dealing with public scrutiny, emphasizing the importance of surrounding himself with supportive friends and family.

Key Takeaways

  • Mental Health Awareness: The discussion highlights the importance of acknowledging mental health issues, especially for public figures.
  • Navigating Relationships: Chahal’s insights offer a relatable look at the complexities of modern relationships and the need for understanding and communication.
  • Coping with Fame: The episode sheds light on the duality of enjoying fame while also dealing with its challenges, including public scrutiny and personal pressures.

Conclusion Chahal's candid revelations about his personal and professional life provide valuable lessons in resilience, self-discovery, and the ongoing journey of self-improvement. The episode encapsulates the importance of mental health, the complexity of relationships, and the pressures of fame, making it a compelling listen for anyone interested in sports, personal growth, and the human experience.

Further Information

  • Host’s Purpose: Raj Shamani aims to help others grow and navigate life's challenges through informative discussions.
  • Podcast Link: [Listen to the episode](https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLE0Jo6NF_JYO5-phess8GKafKMtPv3tfZ)

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0:00You were in love. It was a beautiful love story.

0:08and then all of a sudden news that you are separated usually in the chahil's time I was running a lot of time were you faking it? maybe work with it?

0:20has it affected me? in the background, I thought that he is a cheater I never cheated in my life I am not a loyal person I am not going to get you what was going on in the mind? I was in depression for 4-5 minutes. I was in depression. I was in suicidal thoughts in my mind. Sometimes my face would shrink. I was talking about divorce. It was your T-shirt. I just want to give one message. And I gave it to you. Are you ready for love again?

0:54Let's talk about on the field now. Who does the most sledge on the field? There are Virat Biyan, Prasiddh, Siraj, and others. If anyone comes to one, then the whole team comes. When you are in the field, Roed Sharma, Virat Kohli, Miner Singh, who are you afraid of? You are three brothers, the biggest mahi bhai, who are the ones who stay a little. Roed Biyan Beach, who are the best friends, who are the brothers. One brother is a little bit of a calm, calm, they are Virat Biyan. Tell me a moment when you were truly broke. 2019 World Cup semi-final. My brother's last match. Manchester.

1:38I also feel that I can do a little better bowling. Left out feel. Like in 2023, you didn't get it. Then, you got it in the 24 World Cup, but you were on the bench. So, this affects me?

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2:41Yuzwendra Chahal, India's most loved cricketers. Today we know how to get them and how to get their deal. How to get their insecurities. When they got to play in Indian team, how did they get to play? What's the pressure for India? What is the pressure for playing for this game? And is it ready for love again? Please watch this episode until the end. And tell me in the comments how you feel this conversation.

3:07Does it affect you that it feels left out? Like in 2023, I remember that you didn't get it. Then in 2024, I got it. But you were on the bench. Does it affect you? I think when I'm in a team, whatever job I'm getting, my focus is on that. Because you can't play 15-15. There's a combination of the team. If it starts to work, then no one wants to change. And if your team is winning, what do you need to do? When you play, you want to win your team. But the team is winning, I think that's the first priority. At least I'm in those 15 people. I'm not watching the house at home But I'm left out feeling No When I'm in the team I'm wearing India jersey I feel so proud Nice And do you have self identity effect?

4:05Maybe One time I took off and left Then I took off and left I felt like But I was like If I'm thinking about it I'm going to get it I'm going to get it I'm not going to get it I did well in IPL I did well in first class My name came World Cup In 2014 I think I was a year Super over My job is Performing I can do that I don't think it's going to happen Maybe I'll play in India But I think I'll play I have that talent I feel confident feel I feel I play so you said that it bad starting like when 2021 World Cup was not because I was playing continuously playing so obviously you feel bad that you don't but it's okay what is the emotion that you go through I felt bad I cried but after that night I

5:46double That was one of those. Do you believe that you will come back? Absolutely. Is it like, you know, because when you talk to other players, I feel like if I sit in their plans, then I will come. If I feel like this is the best, then we go with that. Of course. So, this thing I can't see that I can play. I can say, which people haveặt trust a day here and then where can I see where I just play going I have to enjoy I don't like it Because Things are wrong Who is wrong Who is wrong What is wrong And I don't like that If it's my thing I'll talk to myself I realize that After a life That's also important That's very important Yeah You're very famous I'm really Seriously I'll tell you Life outside cricket Only one person is killing me How much do you do In the social media Is that how it is Do you know more about outside cricket?

7:25I don't know if I If I can link up Or 100 things come And Because You can write 25-30 things People think that it is But it is not No matter what I am. If I saw my sister and I was also confused with my sister, definitely social media will be linked up. True. And their work is going to work with their money and their home. And this is a fact. So, it doesn't matter to me. But I don't want, I always try to, when I am, that person doesn't matter to me. But it's very difficult to cope with other people. Because I've seen so much trolling, I've seen everything I've seen I've seen on my own I've seen on my own I've seen on that I've seen so much that I don't know that I don't know He's a troller who's a bad person who's a bad person So, you're seeing and people with link up and everything never affected ever?

8:25Sometimes it's so much that when writing starts to write What's the worst rumor you've heard about this? That the most bad thing is that what a bad thing I think in the past when I was divorced, after I was divorced, I thought he was a cheater. I've never cheated. I'm not that person. I'm not that person. I'm not a loyal person. I don't get to know. I'm always thinking about it. I've always thought. I've never asked. I've always given it. I've never told you.

9:07I have two sisters. I have two sisters. I know how to respect my children. My family has taught me things. My people around me have taught me things. It's not necessary that you can see someone, if you have a link, you can write something for your views. But once you react, If you have a problem, you can get a problem with social media. Because you have a problem, you can get everything. If you have a reaction, you will get a reaction. Then you will get a reaction. I know, my close one is close one. I know that I have no work done. So, why do I go to people who are going to prove? When I know my close one, which I believe, which I believe, when I don't know their questions, not asking me questions so what else is it?

10:04it's a very mature mindset but I'll talk about this how did this happen tell me that you said when you heard this rumor and it was a absurd misconception why are you doing it? why do you think why people have tagged this? they could have tagged anything why do people think this is a good thing? I mean divorce

10:42I was in depression.

10:58that I have something that happens, I have no sympathy. I have no one for the first time. I have never said that. There was a problem. My mind was a little bit in my mind. Why? My mind stopped doing this work. I saw so many things and I just saw things. And when you see everything, you do it, you listen to yourself and then you do it. So, my strong point is my mind. That was a nice thing When did it start? This is my... Two birds... Two birds... I used to be a beach beach Sometimes anxiety was going to be What kind of things? When I was thinking I was thinking about my people Like overthinkers I started to start my anxiety But I didn't know I didn't know I was in the last 3-4 months I had a break from cricket I needed my time to go and I had thoughts on that and after that, I had thoughts on that and after that, I had a lot of things but I had a happiness so I had a lot of thoughts on that and I had a lot of thoughts on that sometimes you don't want to share with your family For I don't want to If I give them a tension Or I get out of the house So I got a process And my close ones I helped very much My friends Prateek Pawar Praying Talan Mehvesh My family They helped me a lot To get you out of Yeah I left everything And I was with my I was with my call I got a flight Or I was with 24 minutes I was with you So it was very tough for me.

12:58And what happens when you said anxiety, what happens in your brain? What do you go through? I think when I was anxiety, I started shivering. I loved, sometimes my face would shrink. And sweating. AC is running or AC is not running. Hands are cold.

13:21So I don't come to mind. What's happening? what to do what to do what to do I was afraid to tell who to tell or not my close friends know what to do I think if they don't have what to do I want I did I did I can't forget that I can't forget that who was with my worst those are your true friends yeah genuine friends they are like a family so thoughts came in mind I can't take I can't take I can't take this I can't take this again and again again and again and you said that everything is in your life and then happiness doesn't feel empty why is it not happiness fame there is money there is friends why is it it feels good what is it sometimes it happens why were you not happy I think

14:40I feel so much pressure on me I feel so much pressure on me I feel so much pressure on me I feel so much pressure on me Obviously when you play for India You have to stay a little bit that you have to come back and think about it, family thing, relationship, so I was not happy like when I'm doing something and I'm not getting even a little bit of a feeling then the person keeps a little bit of a feeling, then it keeps building up slowly so personally you feel as a and this is a very common problem in men and I'm the person I can't express I can't express you are expressing very much I'm telling you if you ask me friends if you ask me I can talk about it I can talk about it I can talk about it I can talk about it because I have to say I can hurt others I don't think I'm feeling why is it like that?

15:39that if I feel I don't feel when I feel close one when I feel like that I feel like that I feel like that if my life flows away but my family leaves me is

16:11한다 and I have a similar problem. And I feel like I'm responsible for my life. I need to make my life better. I need to make my life better. If I have a performance wrong or something, I need to make my partner better. I need to make my partner happy. I need to make my mother-in-law for my life. I need to make my mom a lot more. And I need to make my life better. You can't forget. You can't forget. I think that you mostly have a lot of young people who are ambitious and they feel like this. Personally, I played for 8 years in India. Definitely, I want to play for 5 years. I have seen in life that fame, and downfall.

16:39I have seen mostly things. Then I realized that everyone feels like when you are doing something, you are going to play for India you are going to represent your country so you are thinking about it you forget about your personal life sometimes you are going to be ambassied you are going to forget you are going to forget true you are also other people there are one responsibility there is no one goal that you want to achieve that you want to do I often say this price of ambition is being loneliness and being misunderstood. So, what did you think you didn't give time? No one didn't give time in the ambition.

17:25I didn't give time. I didn't give time. I gave time. But some time was increasing. So, I felt alone. So, I started to forget to forget to forget to forget to forget. What? Tell me, if I may ask. What went wrong? What did you do with your love? You were in love. Your love story everywhere was out. It was a beautiful love story. People liked you a lot. And then all of a sudden news comes that you are separated. It builds up slowly and then one day divorce. It was going a lot. So we decided we don't want to show the people until it doesn't happen. Fair. Because if you don't know, not even happen then it becomes a different scenario so our thing was when we reach a point we don't want to say anything we like a normal couple on social media were you faking it through time maybe work

18:36what do you think you did wrong because I think relationship is like a compromise I mean if you have to do something I have to do something if one has to get angry then definitely you have to keep or listen or not it doesn't happen that both of them and then you will fight and you will fight and sometimes two people don't get the nature of two people I think that is very important that I was playing for India they were doing their work and were not able to get so that means so time was a big issue time and I mean it was going on 2 years ago if you had to point out that I had a thing that was probably my work out what do you think it can be problem for the world it can be not problem for the world but you have to say that this was missing from my sight

19:39I think I was so upset And dividing Here we have time Here we have time So I didn't think You didn't work You didn't work Because It was so hard And when it starts Then it starts It's like It's like It's like It's like It's like Do you think that two ambitious people can be in the same way? I think they can live. They can live. Everyone has their own life. Everyone has their goals. And as a partner, you should support that thing. If you are in some kind of 18-20 years, you should come to a relationship. It's not that you should leave that thing. It's your dream. You have to do it for it. You have to do it for it.

20:32You have to do it for it. If someone leaves a heart, that's fine. Respect that. If you don't do it, respect that. Because if you run away from someone, it's too far. Yeah. Because we talked about relationships. Tell me, what are your red flags? My red flags? Which you are aware of. I think I don't know much about it. I don't know. I don't know. There is that thing. And I'm working on that. and express happiness I think don't know don't know what happiness what happiness what happiness what happiness you go to dinner you go to holidays and go to different to not be when you're sad sometimes you feel like you should have to come to the front so this is a difference I think express I can't more if someone has more expresses obviously you need everything in every thing so sometimes I hide inside inside I just listen and and you can't reply but you should do you think if do he else

22:07all no in brazos knows

22:13fires cause I was very wanted to do that Aggressive is such aorder I have to take a picture My share toode But I murmuring After looking or trying... The challenge that mensen수山 are intense I don't use a child At the same time, I must do with abuse I don't get forgot I am not a girl or a girl I am not talking to a girl There will be a chance to see my own or abuse word Mostly I am talking to you But like your image online, it is the opposite Online I see that I am very happy to be with you

23:13I love them. I love them. Problem is like, you can't express everything in social media. Because it's fun. Some people are serious. I don't want to see you everywhere. I think that you can see it without meaning. But when social media tags are not replying, like you said you are a cheater, and you have no reply. I think that I'm waiting for that, that I'll say one day. But there's a change, people's perspective change. It's not my parents, because they've seen me in my childhood, and my friends have seen me. But in the immediate circle, I think that's 5 people. But in 15 people, they're not going to be in their own.

24:02I think that my colleagues, all of them, They don't care. They don't care. Because they've seen me in my own way. They've seen me in tours. They've seen me in tours. And my family has seen me. But the problem is,

24:22it's shocking that I think it's shocking that after divorce, it means how much I'm happy. I think I think I think I think I think I think I think So why I think I think I'm so happy Because I've seen that 3-4 months I've seen that I've seen that I've been But You've seen that 3-4 months Coming out of it Is a big thing Process My friends Have helped me And Was it For a long time Was it That you're fake That you're I'm I'm I'm I'm I'm So what does that mean funny placements, I think you can see really bad parts on that Because when I had God I had a rest in my jako deinem secretary

25:23and I said I should focus Thus, I won't able to use my mind which I am doing in cricket field if I am 99 % I need a break I want a break because it's not happening cricket gave me happiness and it always gives me I said if I can't do that so there is something wrong so then I have a break for a half a month so personal life has affected professional life but isn't it professional life escape from personal life I couldn't put my mind my mind was so much I was thinking about what's going on in life why I want to myself why I want to prove people why I want to sit at home so there are many things you can see real things but you have to open 10 places and you know that you will reply and then other things will come then you have to keep answering on that and my mind wasn't that much that I can do this so you were just okay and reading it again again same thing again I'm saying my friends help me a lot my family help me a lot and what are your misconceptions what do you feel I think that it's a very very Hi I talk to my friends may to say my ber some you like I Argh I told this I think asympt� I

27:24think So I notice everything I do. I know that I'm not playing chess play like this. I notice a little bit of a thing. What happened when did you feel somebody did something and you were like, I'm going to give this to you but I feel bad? Sometimes friends meet me, sometimes I feel like physical health. upon me when theywo are talking about those Hazara Wow I've known that they are whose friends he loves

28:03because one doesn't who known from he then it's not a friendship my friends I enjoy it with them if they are like a good one what's your biggest insecurity? I think

28:27staying alone it's your fear? yeah it's my fear you don't like to live alone? no my mind is weird What happens? I did it. It was like that during that period of time, I was going on a solo trip. I had a visa for Bali. I didn't go. You didn't go. I said, I wouldn't be alone. I was about to book Miami ticket at that time, that I had to press. It didn't go. Did you feel the fear of this child?

30:02I think I think when I was in divorce, it was my mind that was going to go. It was finally going to go. That was not a fear. But you were afraid of being alone. Now you are alone. That's what I'm saying. When things have been done, when you stay in time, things come. Sometimes you are afraid of being, I will go to my female friend,

31:01So I still didn't get it. the bigger scares is being alone because though the small fear was alone and if I was a misma that I awoke, this probability of Deutschen's band over this time it totally is because if you see on yourpm here, I said never anytime said of Muhammad I asked the Gurus or I saw our people above living with celebrities all kinds of mosquitoes I see

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32:06but are you ready for love again that's difficult it will take time process

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32:17are you scared to love not scared but again because I have attachment with my heart if I give it I give everything to my heart. You can do anything. You can do anything. When you get so attached, you have to be a fear. Then you get to be alone. Then you get to be scared. Then you get to overthink. You get to be like, you don't have to be a problem. Definitely.

33:26Lottery so no no no I don't approach myself just to see what I want I need to resource from thoseulean Don't fill some What's going on?

33:42Why don't I need I need to wipe off I'll be there but then if you return you will always be there I will be there I will be there but then if you return three times response you will still be there if I close if I close if I call phone or my close I will definitely run because I don't know if I call it that's what I'm going to do might be that's what 5 minutes 6 minutes I'll go to life better But why does it happen to not be able to live for yourself? Because I get so involved in this thing. I express this, I express this, that you don't think about it, that you don't think about it. That you think about it.

34:33That you don't need it. Where do you come from? Is it a child like that? That you don't need it? Yes, I always give it all. I know that I have some small things that I need it. . . money money money from momOf I

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35:14don't doesn't doesn't Oh sure chicos, I income. To help me if in awhile I had the struggle before I had expanded I had the story After that Until, I would help myself I had a lot of projects My friends went to Africa I lived in any option That… And so my best goal After that It felt bad I knew that I would buy so much for India, I would get so fame, so much money. So at that time it happened that when it happens, I will never mind. I don't have to do that at that time, but I will arrange it for me. Why? Because I never thought about money. In general. I love to because people have done it. In the past, people have done it.

36:09But if you have ever asked this question, because I feel like I'm doing my own I'm like this I feel like I'm doing my own load I feel like I'm doing my own responsibility my family, my friends, my team members some of you think it's a duty it's a duty some of you don't do things with your heart some of you think it's a duty out of duty, out of guilt, out of responsibility that I have to do it just I don't do it who do it and when it becomes a duty then it becomes a problem but now that you know are you selfish now? no I think this is this is a good thing that I can talk about I can talk about others when it comes to me I can't handle I'm a very mature person I can give a big knowledge I'm a very mature person I can speak I can give good advice But When I come to myself I can't This is the problem I can't This is the problem It's a big problem What do you do wrong with yourself One thing is to do Sometimes Because you went through Dark phase aiz ape is personal he went चल रही है, personally चीज़ें सही नहीं चल रही है, divorce हो रहा है, दुनिया आपको कुछ भी बूल रही है, जो आप हो, उसके बारे में दुनिया बात नहीं कर रही है, किसी और चीज के आप बात कर रही है, right?

37:54Multiple चीज़े, आपके आसपास जो आपके selfishly you were like me that I need to cricket break I think I did that the biggest thing because when I was so busy in cricket my attention was reduced and why did you break break because of performance or because of divorce because I was not able to concentrate I was not able on the ground on the ground I was going to think of things which didn't work what was going on in the mind that what was going on what was going on

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39:23Which axis my mind is that I was scared. What's going on? What's going on? I was scared. I was going to say something. I will say 10 things. I will defend them. I will say 10 things. I don't want them. I want everything from peace. If there are 2 people behind it, then it will be peace. Why are the suicidal thoughts? Because there were money. huh i was tired of my life same anxieties same same same what was that face How many days did it go? I think It was the first time Short terms Meaning Like in the middle Like in the month One or two months Two or two times Then Literally It was like It was like It was like 40-45 days When I took a break

41:14I could see you have to see your face because I have seen that face I think that face I have not seen that because I have thought I have to take it How did you get out of it? How did you get out of it? What motivated you? Therapy? Therapy, I have taken it I haven't taken it before I tried it but I have to talk about it once again

41:51I was like, I don't need therapy. I got my therapy. I tried to try and try. I was like, I didn't try to do anything. What is the food? What did I eat today? What did I do today? What did I do today? I said, I'm not going to do this. But I think you should take it. That's why they call them professional people. They are not going to do this. When you trust or not, you should share everything with them.

42:33Therapy is a very good thing. therapy only when a therapist can find your style because every therapist and idiots are not there are some misaudience comes UP, and whatever time we start taking on the phase! It was so cool that I would only see a movie or whatever. Not Eden, I'd stop playing some games at that I would и I was playing games before 2-2 hours and I was watching the movie. 5-7 minutes, 10 minutes. The focus was also finished. That was the thing that I broke from Kekit. I was not happy there. I didn't want to be a problem because of my team. The guys had so much effort to do that I couldn't reach the team.

43:24My friends, these two friends, Mehvesh, they told me they showed me good things about me what did they show you like as a person how I am that thing I tell you it will pass it will pass so then 40-45 days I told them I don't know that feeling will come on ground or not I'm not sure because I've never break I didn't take a break for 40-45 days. Then I went to Mohali. I was in camp. So I went to the first time I played a ball. I started feeling good. I felt good. I got happy. You came out of cricket. You came out of cricket. You came out of cricket and my friends. My family came out of it. When you are at absolute worst, you don't have cricket, you don't have family, you don't have to worry about it.

44:25No one is not. You don't have attention span. what motivates you? what kind of thing you want to wake up again next day? what happened? I didn't get sleep in the first place I'm telling you, 2 hours because my body is tired of two hours you're breathing and when your body is tired then you sleep it wasn't that I had to sleep properly I had to sleep I had to do something wrong and that time I had alcohol too heard this was interesting what I brought and became because I feel like something will 소 Does Will change excuse me Dr.

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45:15it Chealk become good rit pun or bad favourite Time I was not like drinking like properly like I had one two like I had a little change I don't know I don't know some enjoyment I went out so that time I think I will never forget that's why I love my family my close friends if I have a strong person if I have a societal thoughts there is a problem which gives me the most much love if my life is good or bad I don't bother that's not fun that's not fun then there is some problem alone but you can't stay that time we were going to be single solo trip that's not the meaning of the world but I said I'll go so long and then you two weeks later you'll call me so long and then you'll come so long so you'll come here so you'll come here so you'll come here

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46:47foreign I got another party. Oh, no. Did you get into any different zone that I raves, parties, I adventure? No. I did a rafting. My friends were watching me. They were two records. I didn't get swimming. I have a phobia. I can't sleep. I can't sleep. I need one light. I need height. I sonan

47:45I did leave me I said no. You didn't come? No. I said, what will you come when I came? That's how you change the world. It's like a big deal. When I was doing this, I said, I said, you have to take a look at the front. I said, I want you to go there. I said, I don't want you anymore. I don't want you anymore. He went down. I was going to take a banana ride. I said, I'll take a look at it.

48:42let's go because it's very difficult scuba I think for me is very difficult who has to take a chance and who has to take a chance and below you don't trust anyone I love all of this I enjoy adventure in fact this is my coping mechanism like you said when I was very bad then I would enjoy adventure when I was running dark face or I was running then I would have to do something I would have to do something I would not do it alone I didn't do it alone. I didn't do it alone. But if I go to someone else, it will be a trip that will be and it will never go with me. It will be a last trip that will be.

49:25Because I don't have to go anywhere. I'm sitting in a room, so you're sitting here. But my friends are very disappointed. I remember, when you were talking about divorce, you were wearing a T-shirt. I was wearing a shirt. I was wearing a shirt. I just want to give one message and he gave it. What did you say?

49:52What did you say? Be your own sugar, dad. What message was that? Why did you give it? Because something happened and my mind didn't have it. When something happened then I said I said, go to the house. I didn't need anyone else. So I got to get out. I didn't have to abuse. I abused, I didn't have to do anything. Just give me a message. I gave a message. Was it hard? This lawyer negotiation and all cases where you had something happened? Just to negotiate? Because divorce came down, usually negotiation. Yeah, that's what I was talking about. I was talking about it. Because I was taking it on the phone.

50:42I think 19th of March something my last final was when court declared. I was not 100 % fit mentally but I was a good team in a good budget and I am in the plan. If I quit that I think I won't be a loser. I was trying to make a certain match. I felt like I was trying to make a certain match. I didn't understand. But I was trying to make a certain match. I was saying, I can do it. My friends and family are not. You can do it. Like many of them, I felt like you were in a row. Just enjoy it. True. When I was at 4, I was back in 62. I said, you're not a child. What will happen? but at KKR match I had something to realize I think I from field I'm wanting to go and do that and I made it and my team

51:52has been your chart and I said I don't know, but I don't know. It's not. How did this celebration come from? This is iconic celebration. This is a 19-year-old meme. I was still in the match. I was still in the match. I was running out of the water. I was running out of water. I was sitting down, I was a little cold. I was late, I was late, I was late. I was watching the match. I didn't know that I had memes coming. I was going to win a match. My pop-up started to start.

52:36I loved it. I respect it. If you wrote anything, I don't have to write anything. I enjoyed it. It felt good. It felt like it was slowly. I liked it. to mean and when I was I didn't think that it was naturally it was I thought I'll get 5 victories or hit tricks I'll do it I'll do it then I'll do it because people like it I'll do it so that was your favorite meme which you like celebrate that's actually good celebration it's I am sitting like just sitting When you hit a hat trick or five wickets Both of them will be a joke Nice Was there a meme that you felt insulted? That it was bad Good meme I think bad Today we come a lot You have to choose what is going on Who is the most bad Who is the most bad I was looking at the bottom of my head I said, who do I want to do Because I know that My name is in my market They will use their home I said, let's do it I said, who do I want to do it I want to do it But what I want to do is do it But what I want to do is do it When you Without a matter of Where you say something about your friends ?"

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55:52yes yes yes yes yes yes Give me my immences. I ask questions. That might solve if ilia ответ. This is annoying. Maps along the sync and things HEY hit There is noise. Inc volcanism, engagement. This is important to his daughter's business. They entertain a different look. That also makes a sense of teaching now... But... War I very fifty-letter now... ..that they follow the secret love I didn't see it. I saw it on Twitter. It's not on the 31st June. No. It's on the 31st June. I was convinced that it's on the 31st June. I didn't know that it's on the 31st June. I mean, I'm watching this. I'm like, shit.

56:46When you and Mavesh were spotting in a match Champions Trophy Final Because I didn't go to the ground for a long time So we called ourselves So I said the final match was I want to watch Now I was there and look because the first time it was like I was able to see so people have started and they started so they were very viral I think we are trending you are trending laughing smiling every angle every post comes out because you don't feel like people link up I think Was it hard for her? Very hard You guys are close friends right Housebreaker She said something She said something She said something Why is this Why is this Why is this So many things I felt bad That those Those who have helped me This thing You have That income we are going to do it we are going to do it we are sitting in 4 people we had 5 people had dinner for Christmas 5 or 6 people but we were both and we were also in social media but we were cropped that people are on dinner date I know what social media is but for her it happened for the first time obviously their whole work is in social media now someone opens comment read what they have what they have they have what they have told you when people say homebreaker all of these things so what they have meaning that I'm where I'm saying I'm girl I'm feeling so bad I'm starting I have told you that there is a social media.

59:06There will be 80 things, 80 things, and 20 things will be bad. You ignore it. But how do they ignore it? Definitely, when someone's on Instagram is on their whole job, they can see and read their stories. Then their family tells us what's going on. These are 100 things. That's the impact of the things. I've seen it. I know what's going on. But I think we're not going alone. where other two people are there my other friends were there I was standing there but the photo came together that's how I said I said I said, let's take this let's take this it's so much we were able to go out because where they can see then there will be a new story did you start hiding after that?

59:59I couldn't hide Can't put a guide Like in any casa Let's start I was going to shoot Jade For today And I eat We were going to the airport So He also said I did drop his crashes He was going to the airport I'm waiting I was waiting Where can we come

1:00:54What do you think case of the rumors coming for a girl or for a boy I think both but I think in India for girls

1:01:14it's heavy about them very heavy and when you go through divorce do you think usually usually

1:01:30I think both publicly I have heard publicly I have said but I have not done so what will I say did you ever talk about it no because for me when I am done I am done you are not on on good note it's not the same thing just ended yeah the last time it was when our lawyer I think September something something our auction before it was not before but the last time video call the first time I had seen so many months but the one I saw was that was that's it for how long you guys didn't talk when divorce was going on before divorce

1:02:48I think after the world cup 18 July, 19 July that means it was done before it was going on but it started properly now it's ending and who brought the divorce consultation first I think it was going on they also said it some times I also said it but it was mutually done let's call it off do you think What chance was it to work out? No, I think We tried enough Do you think you should work out Do you think I should do something? I think As much as possible I tried As much as possible I tried Do you think I think I will break I will break up Divorce Now we are going to be different So what will she do?

1:03:51Beijing Big thoughts valt realidade hand thinking as it not the relationship too your初 date said divorce it happens at Well I think any of them did nothing Real wrapped up when one mixed naturally a gives their points

1:04:19view I can understand because my parents who have given me have been married and I have been married so I know what happens from family side and what happens so I can understand that because it's very difficult because what I have noticed that at least relatives who had been supporting them they also have been poor in case they all start commenting the world is giving you a different way and that's more difficult that's true do you feel that both of you I think it depends what do you think you suffered or she suffered I don't talk to them I don't see them or I see them I open up social media and I can tell myself that if someone is talking about a little bit I can tell myself it will affect me a lot mentally do you think that because or bhi cricketers ke sath hua divorces multiple that's why that's why that's why people have serious why people have jokes like start and I think I think we have every field in we have been I think

1:05:36I think first I think

1:05:41it's news came but But there are a lot of separation. There are a lot of people. In the cricket world. In every thing, I think, there was a line. So, this is why the joke became a joke. And then people started making more. I think people got one more chance to hug. Their thoughts, which is not a value. They say, it's a good thing. Everyone. Every day, there's a new thing. There's a new thing. It's a new thing. It's a new thing. It's a new thing. you can't know your life, you can't know your life, you can type it now I have a fake idea with someone who has typed it, give it a good idea and give it a good idea, and make it a good idea I can come why you have so much fun, you have all the people who have bullied have you gotten bullied?

1:06:35some have not done that has to be like nadie heavy with my wife and I see where is. son can you physically or mentally or who is feeling you could an I think I think I think I start thinking about my mind. Because I'm in my personal life. Why? Because I don't think my mind. You're in my heart. I don't think my mind. I don't think my mind. I think it's just on the ground. I don't play it. You're a chess player. In sports. Here's a real life. I can take it. I know because I haven't seen so much. have looked quite

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1:07:41and how do you think things will need to be to talk about through ま appointed in self-absorbed I don't need to be able to do this So after that I was in front of my mind I was in the mood And I was in the mood And it's not going to be able to do this And physically I feel like I feel like Maybe I'm in the mood I'm in the mood I'm in the mood I'm happy with that If I'm in the mood I can't play cricket I can't play I'm in the mood I'm in the mood I'm happy I'm happy There's no insecurity No Personality I don't like it. I'm happy. I don't want to change myself. Of course. I'm happy. I'm happy. People love me.

1:08:35I played India for eight years. Yeah, of course. I played India in chess. I'm happy. We're going to get a big deal and celebrate. My life is great. Because today's problem is that people will depend on themselves. can ve your blend it more depends on off social media look at the fact

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1:09:24like after after divorce date kara did you go out even on a casual date I have never been with my friends I have never been with my friends never romantically off I didn't get the time I didn't get the time I started the IPL I started 3 months I got it I came back then I gave the time I gave the time now I'm going to the county so I didn't get the time so I didn't get the time but IPL glamorous it feels very I tell that people feel that okay it's professional but people feel that they're getting this but they don't know that if it's not performance then next year you can't go next year you can go you'll get cricket this is very easy every day you have to perform every day and our team is not able to take ball is gone out we are not real life is our we are not doing game I can't play my own the tension that I am going to do how to do my mind and perform so that I am going to do how to do my team in India it's not easy that it feels like it's just a party after a while nobody does it nobody does it it's getting together so that they're living okay we sit together together we sit together together all the people management it's a good thing because we live in the hotel it's good to eat food when we eat food it's like when we sleep at home

1:11:12and go out sometimes you can't eat properly because then people will come for picture and all and respect that but a little privacy goes on easily easily I can't go now I can't go now you are more famous so IPL seems easy but in that parties cheerleaders glamorous life actors bollywoods all together nothing nothing Everything is far away. The match is over. If it's too late, we will sit next day. At that time, come and sit for a little bit. Then you go to sleep. Let's move on to the next one. Have you made mistakes in the past? In the personal life. Yes, I did. I can tell myself. I was starting, I was not that much serious about my life.

1:12:07I do gym, but people think I don't do gym. I think this is like the IP Because of injuries I didn't do it And my gym is half an hour I don't have that 12-12 reps I have 2 sets So 6-6 reps How much do I do it When I get 12-12 I get bad So I got this thing So I got this So I was in 2020 So I spoke to them And come and go so then we sat and said I think I did properly if you don't do proper gym I think you can't play you can't play I don't know how to go social media I put my exercise photo this I do I do but I do I do I do I do who wants to prove do you feel pressure or do you want to prove I don't feel Junior I didn't do so much.

1:13:11Life and gender. I didn't prove anything. I didn't show performance. Before I didn't prove it. I think touch for God's grace I proved myself. Yeah. As a cricket. I thought I thought I didn't play India for 2 years. I thought I'd play 8-10 years. I played 8 years and played in my hands. I played in my performance. I played the highest wicket maker. I played the main main game imaimsowe iswhatん

1:14:06today found is what ん today found leo1 was very very very drunken high see i was gladly toda everything had me invited i was taking me i had to leave it my hand was such a so i went and my name was and then people took me

1:14:37but and you can't leave it you can't leave it I can't leave it so what was it what was it it was a balcony this balcony was like this it was like this and I had it like this and I was like this wow you are so happy you are so happy I have Your great title. Your gramers500 then told him needs greater聞 I was numb and all You haven't told another player? They said he's amongst other players Was that play relevant or famous? That time was okay Now this season no When do you start? There was another time When you bullied your emotions By going on I have done this. They have one of like N2's like very close to me.

1:15:40I love like very very very close to me. I lived with her family. We go for fishing. Her wife made me butter chicken. Like we are like this. Very close. Very very close. It's like a family. And same for James Franklin. If anyone has said anything, it's a mistake. That's the social media. It's going to be a command. They were banned, they were banned. They were banned. They were banned. In the morning, they were banned. There were no bullies or nothing. Those who tell us, they were bullying. What was the story? We won the Champions League. We won the Champions League. We won the Champions League.

1:16:23We won the Champions League. All the T20 countries will come from two teams. And 2011 was in Mumbai. so we were winning so our party was so we were doing a party so we were doing a party so James Frank was enjoying it he would close his hand he would put his tape and leave it so it happened that he was just there was a guy and I stayed there then I think someone came to his pair and I said open it and it wasn't anyone had a whole night or something just for like 15-15 minutes okay it was not a bully case No never They are like Family men They are pranking They are playing Yes And Andrew Simons Is like Was very close to me Like anything And I have a message To my kids They are coming to me Nice Australians Do they prank Are they pranksters Or Indians I think Indians Will be Today Is our youngster Who is the one I think Ishaan is very funny Vishan, Ashdeep, Ravi Vishnoyi Aavish Khan They are like proper mustik or group They are very funny They are all different They are all different Who is the most serious player?

1:17:44Serious? I will say just breathe Very serious But good attitude Why would you say that he is very serious? They keep their work Proper focus

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1:18:21when you sometimes heat of the moment or you can say something in a mood or humiliate or just like you said that a player has 15 floors paid for the next day how do you play with them? Is it not? No, it was our match. It was our match. Okay. And then I think the next cycle was not. What was that controversy that Yuvi Paa Ji has said something about racial slurs? Yuvi Paa Ji was just talking about and now people are going to take it. Okay. So it was not to attack you? No. It's like it's proper video. You can see YouTube and you don't want to. But it was a slang that people thought that it was a rule that people didn't do it.

1:19:00I said, let me show you. I'm going to stop doing what is it. What is it? People have case and what is it. I said, now the front people know that you are talking about. And it's a video. Sometimes people don't show the whole video. They show the small part so that you don't know. So, are they closed? Yes, you are always supporting me. You said somewhere that you said that you are playing. I was very happy to see. When I was in India, I was 4-5 years old. I said, I didn't think you would play so long. But I'm so happy you proved me wrong. And I'm so proud of you. He said, I just like that. And he always supports me.

1:19:45Like him, Bhajjeeba, always supports me. Let's talk about on the field now. On the field, you must do it. You came by your videos, you came by empire, what did you say? such as what I am saying, my nature is... I just said I said anything, that you should give me anca учerment rule... That's not how I got ceux of my energy waste. Please give me whats your purpose? What are your time you guys give me that? My two mornings were gewesen as a bad word? Well I wasёл by empire. 2012, World Cup was about it, somebody who made it amuseably smashed.

1:20:26do whatever you want and then I don't give a bat I don't give a bat I don't get it so I think I don't get it I don't give a bat

1:20:46and I think ground ground has beenерб and local Thanks for playing trying to play My friends abused summoned Shane Watson sir said we ais

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1:21:42then in the shooting he Corey and he is a very lovely guy and I hit him 6 and I got him out and I said something I mean I just saw him and he was scared. What did he say? Who is daddy? And he was like this and I was like this and when I saw him in my face I said this is not me. But why not? Game No, not But It's not It's not It's not So I I told them Especially after Every match I told them I told them Last time And now They are very good Friends of mine Did you see The recent The one that was In IPL That was All that was All that was All that was All that was All that was All that was All that was All that was All that was You have Who did International match I don't know I've never seen it.

1:22:40I've never seen it. Whether I've been five or four weeks, I've never seen it. What I do is I have to do it. I've been a different job. My job was out of it, I've done it. That's it. It's not a big celebration for me. I was like, I've just started a little bit. What was your job? That was fun. I've been saying that because people have done it. I'm making fun of it. It's a nice thing. It's a video. it's a two I was doing that only like I didn't see them I didn't want to show them or I had to do something that's it that's it and I didn't plan because I didn't plan on the spot what happened it was never who does who does the most sledge in the field I think everyone is waiting someone is waiting someone gives everyone everyone goes and it's the best thing who does the most sledge who does the most in your team Virad and fast falling I think Prasidd because I've played Siraj I think if someone comes to one then the whole team but the whole team but the whole thing is that Maholi makes it because videos are Virat Kohli that's it I think that's it because he was the captain so his nature is the same that he can live in the 90s 90s and same managers and they enjoy it and you need to do something if someone is helping you you need to do it do you think that culture will go together and go back mentally we will do it I think now it's been more especially in test matches test matches when you play South Africa Australia, New Zealand I think New Zealand to the Bicari team and their controversy is not but England and etc because you have to win there and it's a good thing when you are in the field Roach Sharma, Virat Kohli Maindr Singh Dhoni in three of them how do you feel scared that you can leave it what do you think I think no one says anything that's just the heat of the moment I made a podcast and I asked them to you Back to the top ending.

1:25:14If the mistake was even worth laughing … Right, I just should suck – but it happens to me that she made the evaluators but, you might not have to do it. It happens to me. It's fine. He was also telling the same thing that you said to me that you said it Fisherman hit the bye to go to a couple of mistakes if it gets good then then give it angry or give it a wrong for what the first time will not happen. It definitely Delgado the world is angry and he was telling me about that that I will stop how did I reorganize or something and he was telling me I think that's why I was angry. Did you ever get angry?

1:25:52My wife... I didn't understand that. I didn't get angry but it was like this. I think that I saw the first time I saw my wife in my life I was 6 years old. I was a billing scout and I was just getting the route for the batting. He hit the flick and hit the outside. He hit the dive and gave me a good and gave me a good dive. Both batsmen were on that end. point oh noode

1:26:46she's obviously, I feel scared. So, three people are more scared on field? I think, respect is the same when I talk about that. I can talk about that. Of course. And they always stay. And I have talked about it. So, I have a lot of respect for three people. Full India has a lot of respect. That's not even a question. I personally tell you, because I have spent their time so that's why I have I have always asked some questions in personal life. I could ask myself, with trust. But, sometimes you are scared. You know, someone has a friendship, someone has a fear. It's an emotion. I think you are three brothers.

1:27:34The biggest mahi-bhai. With whom you stay a little. Then, the roadway beach. The best friend is like a brother. and a brother is a little understanding that means that means good chill that means that means that means because I played with Rojit Bihar in 2011 and I played a lot of good bonding and I have a lot of good and I have a lot of good we go out and our group 4-5 people go out to eat so there is bonding money I liked it I live with Rojit Bihar I live full but I live in a line in a long way I live I do

1:28:40Aester Thomas ... ... ... ... I got the India camp. I sat in second seat and sat there. I sat there. I was sitting there. I was sitting there. I was so happy. I was just sitting there. And the way he died. I was just sitting there. I was just sitting there. I was sitting there with my first door.

1:29:03Then my friend said, I sat there and sat there. I said, I'm good. They called me a little. 우리 Meaning.

1:29:42that if you want something, they can adjust but it's fixed every time that you sit here 90 % fixed especially on match day you can say that why is it? everyone's own I think I think I think same seat especially on match day but you still make it up and everyone knows everyone knows This is I don't know It's no way Bring this rule It's not Yeah It's a True It's just that It fits If you sit And you sit And you go –Gzą Warning –You did best You were wrong with it No, they were wrong with it No, we didn't –You were back with есте Yahoo No, the road He looks He's watching Talking to He crumped and then you sit in the coaches

1:30:43but if anyone can sit in the seat there is no problem is it a superstition? I think it is I have it I have it I start my spell before covering the top 3 words and if I don't then my mind is it this superstition? yes

1:31:10So, I think I think Sachin Tendulkar I think I think his right pad left pad right pad Yeah Some pad should have orange grip or white grip should have so Virat Gori same gloves Yeah So, I think I think you have 3 ball cover My 3 ball cover You have a few clips where you where you are ball and there ball and there He has been playing with me. He is a wicket keeper. They have been playing with him. He knows what his pace is. He has known that this pace is easy. But sometimes he knows that he is getting a sweep. He says, he's keeping a stump. I think he has said that he is 99 % of his pace. I think that he has been doing it.

1:31:58Kuldeep was the last wicket. Kuldeep had been out in New Zealand. in our first tournament tournament we were playing the trend ball so he was playing the wicket my brother came and said he will close the wicket he will close the wicket he got out of the wicket he got out of the wicket I said he will be playing the wicket and he will be playing the wicket out of the wicket how do you read it? because he is a great captain captain raha hai and wicket keeper closely bhi watch so tell me three captains ki ek-ek baat joh hume nhi paata rohit bia kailov josa josa ground pe rata hai ya he is very good captain like poora unka chalata hai and virad bia the energy he har din same energy lana same come nhi hooghi upar hi jayaegi leakin same her day every day bad match Yes, every day.

1:33:03Till the last part. Did you see the last part of the first time we all saw? 2019. World Cup. I saw the bathroom in the bathroom. When I was last battered, I was crossing my head. I was in my eyes. It was in my eyes. It was in my eyes. In 2019, I saw everything in the bathroom. I saw the bathroom in the bathroom. Going in the bathroom. Going in the bathroom. go get what was the podcast so the team had a big deal and they called us 4 times this too this too this too and then the podcast 10 minutes talked to him he said all the time tell you what to ask and I was like you have a month why did we get scared why did we do that but don't you think they don't I don't know how many people say it.

1:34:00They say it's calculated. Not calculated. It's not calculated. It's a good advisor for people. Of course. He has lots of knowledge in everything. Of course. And he's like this person, when someone talks about it, he's like listening to you. Did they give you advice as you think you said a lot of things? My wife said a lot about it. stay in present why don't you stay in present no, before it happened because when I continue playing in India, someone said the match is bad or when you think about next series so the mind also has so much pressure what will happen because every day for us is new day so I said that you stay in present enjoy it which point comes from?

1:34:49because it's very difficult not, I don't think people are able to do it I think as a bowler when you get so much that you can't get so much that you can't get so much and then you can't open it and then you can't open it and then you can't say what will happen 10 times run more will happen so your heart will open it as a bowler, spinner then it's so much tell me which day you can't play what do you think first time to tell you I was playing in 18th 4 over 64 or 63 in class play? I mean it was so funny to me where to finish thesed chase might paint the best for both in my Mohdipe 자� står to me what?

1:35:33there is nothing you need to be read what can you tell us today is your your time not czasu try to they never go and do well and don'timpact these people it was fun after my heart I said when I said until 5 Cheers that em are done so what will happen if you will get two children if you are learning more then you will give the whole 4 over captain you will not give it to you that's why it's different if you have 5 boys it's different so when you go to dressing room this is the day that today will not be a batsman and it's a sad news I feel like I'm laughing at that time. But that time you feel scared.

1:36:19Then you talk about where you're going. You're sitting with a bowling coach. You're sitting with a captain. What happened? I think that if you're going to be 15, 16, 20, 25 matches, then it's okay. You're going to be playing cricket today. You're playing a small ground. You're playing a player. I feel like batsmen are much more than I have. So, now you can understand that. Okay, tell me the process. Now, think about you. Now, you've been in four years in 64 years. Now, you've been in dressing room. You've been in dressing room. Okay? So, who is first? No one says that. Because you know what's going on.

1:37:09So, if someone is down, renders dat rein white give me the if you remember I was like my brother Virat Bia Ruth Bia did you talk to me what happened to me that you said what happened to me because we won the match so we won the match so we won the match and we said it's okay it's just one match so you leave it so you don't talk so you don't talk mostly talk when you think about that you don't think about that so you said you will get a little victory so this is also a process that you want you can perform every match but you can't get it true so then you said let's go but when you go it was okay because I came back to Nidaz Trophy I became a giant highest figure taker Nidaz Trophy with Washi so the process is going to be a match if you have a process that I don't think so much I don't think so much recently Heather Odor and I had 4 over 62 runs and in the next match I made a man of the match which we did from KKR lowest so the game changes you know it's just part of the game but I want to know because it's very difficult to especially when you have in such competitive sports where you have 140 crore people probably everyone will become a cricketer it's very rare but probably everyone will become a cricketer

1:39:08I don't cry I don't cry I don't cry I see my bowling highlights I will go I will do good I will do good I will do good I will give myself 10-15-20 minutes I will do I will analyze And what was my mindset I think about it If I am good I will do good What was my mindset I think that That helps me Tell me the difference Which day you perform good What is your mind And which day you perform Which day you perform good I think you can see every time today. You feel good. You will praise you. You will do things. You will study good. So I'm ready to take it. Especially on social media. How do I come back in the next match?

1:40:00My process is that. I forget the rest. You say that I had mistakes in my hand. I don't do this match.

1:40:18So tell me a match Where you have no mistake And then you have no mistake I think Sometimes it happens Because my nature is I put a little aggressive ball I go for wickets So sometimes There is no control And when you play Then you realize because you are thinking about it but when you analyze it I think I can't I can't give it I can't give it so in the next match I try that that the ball on the wicket doesn't have to the situation that the team should be so I think that's a very important thing because it's not an individual game 11 people have a game have a selfishly played? no, no that's not that I just I'm selfish I don't know No, this is never a thought Never I think you need 1 % So that means you are not a team player True You know I was watching a clip somewhere You said My strength is my mind And you talked about this But If your strength is your mind Tell me a moment When you were truly broke You were like

1:41:37you're talking about in kick advice or anything kick advice one professional one personal I think 2019 world cup semi final my wife's last match I think I could do better and better so I think that's what I think now I think I can push more than you. I can do a little better. I can do a little better. I can do a little less. But sometimes you go in a flow. Because it's so fast and fast. You don't get so much thought. So I kept a little calm there. I could do better. Still I gave my best. But I think it's the same. finally it's a bigger stage so you have to give another 10, 15, 20 % extra of course that you have seen so then you realize that okay pressure will be the whole world is watching but how you perform in pressure that means when I know that I can put the other team out of the other team so I can put the ball open but where the one out Out is Where you can come back And that's why I feel that I'm mentally so strong Because when I'm pressure I'm getting more More of a good bowling If something is free I'm going to say I'll check from 10-hander Because then You won Then you go Go to a wicket And then you don't Don't put that Out But tell me If you have said Semifinal World Cup First semifinal my wife's last match world cup stage right what's different in it what's different in it what do you feel inside because world cup we play a bilated series this is like pre exams which we give classes before the final we prepare ourselves for the final exam world cup is like that nothing is above it again 4-2 years then the bilated series will start then you will play there it says that you have prepared for the whole year that you have prepared for the whole year one of the things and the bilater you have two matches three matches you can come back I'm finally and I'm finally gone there is no chance there is no chance but the world cup is a world cup it's a proper exam so that's a pressure so every thing I think that I am I am not going to do this What goes on in your mind?

1:44:57So, you have to prepare yourself for 2 or 4 years for yourself again. You have to do anything in bilateral. No one asked anything. Final exam. You have to fail. So, the whole year it goes on. Agreed. So, that was a little bit. Because when I played World Cup, I was just playing. I was just saying, relax. You play like the bilateral series. And you play like the bilateral series? Pressure is definitely a little bit. You have to keep a mind of a thing. That it is a world cup. That it is a world cup. and you are a little nervous you are playing a club or you are playing a team or you are playing a team or you are playing a IPL if you are not nervous before the match then you are not serious that is very important you need to do your exam now I am coming to the podcast I was a little nervous why?

1:45:49this is my second I am not used to that every time you go out do you feel like you have a little nervousness that means you are serious about that then there is no point you know I was reading a book about tennis which I talk about tennis legends mindset I wrote something about Jokovic and it was that when he plays that he doesn't have to die then he will die because you have taken pressure so that's what I was asking you already negative thought the thing will happen and then you will think three things negative The other does go, if you two don't you have and make this face then you will on that you will she will As Am as you have opinion is Have you done runnyi pdhwane hai, or u s season pdhate hai I think uh phelle 3-4 sasal ho meh bhoot mature hua ho kya change hoa hai myra mindset ki joh chiz meire hath mein nahi hai uska mein kuch nix kare saktaha ab mujhe run pdhenghe dred ghunta baat, dho ghunta baat mujhe nix pata mujhe ye bhi nix pata ki aap next dho minuint muster kya question puchnay wala ho ager mein aapne dhimag mein soshta rong, soshta rong to mein fuh isme hir ghumta rongga so my heart is you go you best do and then it's okay whatever result has come I will take it it happens with me and I agree that was a good thing that was a joke when I think that I think I don't have to make a bad podcast I don't have to make a bad podcast I don't have to make a bad podcast I don't have to make versus when I think that I think I'll make a podcast and I know that I'm best to my mind and I have prepared that I will make and I will make and I will not give up and that day the outcome is very good Same with the baller I can tell myself that your body is tight and you start to start a short pitch because you feel like you think so in mind you think something and then you go to save and you go to save and when you go to save I feel like that your body is more than ever

1:48:17I think I have a best ball So what was that? It was a little drizzle So when the rain was And the deal was So the wicket was easy for batsmen So you didn't get so much turn And the ball was good So then So then Reverse And Round the wicket I think I did a great game for the game. Okay. I also played that game. I mean, there were two options. I took both. All of them tried. There are many matches like this. In which you start with a two-year-old, you will get hit and then you will get back. I think there are many matches like this, especially in the teen 20s. In the indoor match, I was playing with Kuldeep.

1:49:05They are chasing I think 240-245. So Kuldeep and my first two-two runs I think we gave 28 to 30 runs Our figure was finished 4-over, 40-42 runs 4-4 victories So I think that it's been 2-over Now I have 2-over That's very necessary If I live in that 2-over I'll probably get 1-over But I'll get 4-over So how do you come back? Because Batsman also has to make it back But Batsman who beat them Then schedule is a mindset It's a mind game Manyёт trays of overf læ Pandemie I think 20-25 % Went of Richter I emailed that Now it'll pass Overconfident memorias Where it's about Maybe question Ya out Tell me an incident Where you think circumference is the first since you have the bad It's overconfident I think Overconfident I though I have参照 First of my wide range Time i am so that time Virad Viyar had me to say what do you want to eat?

1:50:12that time I had my best ball and out of it then on the same ground I hit the same ground so I thought 3 are good what can I do? you can't run so that time I have to put your best if I don't mind I think 3 are good I can't wait because three bowl has been gone in three bowl, I probably take a wicket and take two wicket or take a set batter and take two bowl and take two bowl. So your combination was very famous culture. How did you say this? Our first South African series was I think the first time we lived there ODI. He had 18 wicket and I had 17 wicket

1:51:12downtown island and river

1:51:21interpret I said, the race spinner is going, but we need to be in middle-class. So, when we were there, we had another team of 300. We had them 250 and gave them a match. You will come back? The culture will come back. I will be the whole effort. I am just 34. I feel like I can play cricket for 5-6 years. I am working and working. Nice I just want to give me happiness Enjoyment But I have some answer Like a small hand Like a small thing Like I feel like I keep my hands I keep my hands Pressure Pressure I feel like Control control that then I will control that

1:52:28that then that I don't Yeah, I don't need to, Joyceتik doesn't happen. I'm not a gossip person. I'm not an gossip person. No, I don't want a gossip person, I don't want to Japan exhort either For example, what I don't want to be posterior. People simp depends not.

1:52:53No, because I don't want to get in line with the emotional group Instead of providing all my referral groups, so I don't want to get there. that he did this or that he did that I said, what's the difference between dating and marriage? and how do you change the relationship between dating and marriage? if you have a breakup day and you can do a patch up can be diverse. It's one time. You don't have a boyfriend and girlfriend in a while. You have two hours, five days, and one step below. What difference is your dating life, then you were married. What was the difference? You have to be married in a while.

1:53:48You have to be used to. Then you are used to. Then you are used to. and if you see in 2020 when lockdown was there were three things that were very common like marriage divorce and children if you see yeah so that's what sometimes people do that they feel like I'm going to get married sometimes they say that I can't live 24 hours and I can't live so much now lockdown started you can't go out so people are used to being working together if someone's been used to having experience it is this

1:54:46then you would like open book if you have not leaving with a date if you have married with a movie there are many differences so you have to but you have to do so much difference because you always travel you are in a game the most difficult part was your marriage time to give you family to dating what happened was my dance teacher lockdown we decided 4-5 weeks everything was very fast

1:55:44does washer I think that'll happen the flow. and I'll give a smack. it's just no idea If interested Yoada viewers tiene esteuals como laنvalle si

1:56:16what's ideal love for you I think understanding loyalty and love I think commitment understanding three four one word you have to explain loyalty loyalty definitely I think trust Trust that if I don't come home in a month and all, then what can I trust? You don't get attached or you don't get attached. Understanding that if you don't do anything, then understanding is that if you stay in a person, and understand the other. It's not that you start fighting. You start doing it. do it because it's not like that because both fight definitely boom-bomb and then do you regret those fights first one I don't even second one I don't why because there was so much that I mean I don't think you don't understand when you understand you're okay but it's not like that I took my hands and gave me I was a big

1:57:53how

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1:58:01i like his attitude on field he don't talk negative and all and very straightforward do you think he's underrated

1:58:15I think I think That can stunt And multiple times Let's prove tapa Yes Last year The last year It has played And KKR clicks the last ten years Yes And 19 years from I think For the And Final and last year they won the final KKR so it speaks difference between Punjab and Bangalore how is the team culture how is the management how is the captaincy I think Punjab is now big more time there are many big names in Punjab so people start following them more what difference is the biggest the biggest I think ya they have the best followers and the world full

1:59:28of Because if you arecy in the ground, you can also tell us if you do not know when youheimer... You are very loyal confessable Say большapultures You will see Revelation Hi Icoo Icoo

1:59:56Making inom I have seen a loud stadium in my life in IPL. What team did you say? Punjab. I haven't seen it. The show was the same. Every ball. Punjab was the first time. I played the first time. So the first time I played. I think it was the first time. I think it was the first time. Punjab's fandom. Yeah. It was the first time. I think he has seen a player in this game that he has seen a type of ball or he has seen a ball in this game mostly he has seen that he has seen that he has not seen so we wait at which time he has seen a lot of google example have you ever seen and have seen a player with it starting one example is Shahrukh Khan he was playing with Punjab I was playing with the match.

2:00:55I was playing with the match. I had continuously 3 or 4 googlien ڈالی تھی. So, they were outboarded. They were stuck. Because you had seen before that. Yes, when you started, you were starting to come. So, you were the analyst. When you ball, when you ball, you're afraid of which batsmen? I don't think of that. I don't think it's a bad thing. But I'll tell you two batsmen. That's the class and the whole. They'll beat such a baller. You'll think that you don't think. It's a power. It's a different power. Let's leave it. So, they have to put a lot of attention. You don't have to go out much more.

2:01:40You can attack the other batsmen. If you're a little spot, you're going to go. Then you can attack. Now you're playing on a small ground. And you think that you don't think. I will not go out so I will go out to the ground and I will go out stumped so you have to plan where you can do it in which ball we can try so we can do it internationally I don't think it's internationally I don't think it's because when you feel you feel like it's already back foot you're negative you're you're what do I do so It will say to me that the guy will shape things. So, we're going to bestinderth bigger than Sunrisers, like you know puppies going on with them.

2:02:28They're going to be NurseIo's nose and then get down randomise.

2:02:38Yeah, that was all parts like Sunrisers are batsmen appreciated. Character.

2:03:06How does the contract work? 18 crores per year

2:03:13but 18 crores per year and 3 years regardless of your performance or not or not or if you have to release or keep it player can't but if you have 18 crores per year so next year 18 if you have to retain then 18 do not and if you have to do not then you can pick me again but it's not like a short shot 54 not a short shot 54 not a short shot every year different now I did second year so short shot hopefully I'll show you who was first when I was in school if you go back you played chess you played chess why did you start cricket chess also play India I was interested in cricket I was going to go to the ground go to the ground go to the ground go to the ground we were sitting there we were sitting there now my dad he started to do it because he didn't stay in the world and he didn't go anywhere so he learned it and then I started to start to do it and he learned to do it he also has a Haryana Women's Champion who has been a national player so we played together and then he did a computer where he did a sponsorship Ranvih Singh and Menderasar he did that and then I played the first national I played in 1998 I played in 1998 Under 9 So my dad said that Yes, I can do that But at that time I didn't have any studies Because my dad had no pressure He said that I had to pass I'm happy I felt good I was going to go there We were going out there We were going out there My coach Himanshu Sharma's father they were very happy they were staying at home 3-4-5-5-6 months they were our first grandmaster so we played together my routine was we slept in the morning we slept at 6-7am we were up to 12am we played breakfast we played 3-4 hours chess and then 2 hours we slept at 9am and then we slept at 5-5am chessy first of all I stayed with 3-4 months nne onke sath righi kiya pher meera dhiyeta ki mujhe cricket se mne ko or pyaar honne lagaya ki air ground bhe jatay maja aata hai bowl ndal ke maja aata hai or 2000 me me pahla under 14 kheelata cricket hariyana se to chess me bhi aap smart thay cricket me bhi smart thay dhuno but chess me bhoort time lagtat tha us time pe mtlap aapko 7-8 ghenta dhena pardta ta or chess ka game aisa ki mind game eek game ke baad aapko aisa lagta ta aapki body me jan hi nighi or us time I didn't think so much But my dad said That When India will play That's the day I left the world cup I played the world cup And I played the last tournament And then my dad said Now I want to play I played cricket But you represented India At the world level Yeah In chess Yeah And that's the big thing Cricket I knew a little world cup But my interest I didn't force anything Is it easy to leave?

2:06:26Because you're in the top And you're here you start the journey

2:06:32I was very proud that I got the first jersey which I got in India that's why I have this tattoo this is a whole chess board nice so I played that I was learning where you said that Shane won the action Yes, my team was my idol. Okay. Till 19? 19 till. Okay. 2019 or when you were 19? I was 19. Okay. So, our next day, I was a match. I think from some team. So, I was watching Pugh Chawla, Michi, they were watching a little run by the ball. So, I noticed that when I was in the net, I think I was in the ball, I put a ball on the ball. I understand what is it. Because I had changed my action in 8-9 years later.

2:07:28I felt that I was feeling so I realized that my accuracy increased. The spin was reduced. So I said, okay. I try the next one. When I tried the next one, I took a five wicket. So I said, this is something I have. At least my cut on the ball is not going to go. But my spin was a lot. Okay. Shane Vaughan like a ball. Who said, change it? I have myself done it. Okay. I have one day I have thoughts. I have seen it. That I have seen it like the ball. I have seen it. I have seen it. And I have put it in one hour. I have put it in one hour. I have put it in one hour. I have put it in one hour. So when I put it in one hour.

2:08:07I feel better. I have said let's see it in the next match. Do you think that was the best thing to do? Definitely. I have noticed myself. I have seen the skill that I have seen. Yes, I have seen it much better. And when I have done it myself. and if you are wrong and you are wrong and what suit is and who are you going to go because every time you don't know what you want to do and what advice you want to do whenever you need advice for better to do this or in life who are your go to people against my family my friends my teammates without Bia Mahi Bia if Mahi Bia you can't see it but ground I speak with him with him Roid Bia Shikhi Bia I love Shikhi Bia I think recently there are a lot of because Shikhi Bia is more why because we live with 7 in the 10 minutes we live with we enjoy sharing things and he's amazing he's in life I love him.

2:09:21What do you think? What do you think? I'm going to get out a lot. You don't move. So start me. I'm going to run. So when he gets tired, then he gets out a little. He gets out a little. I'm going to get out a lot. Then he gets out a lot. Okay, it's part of the... but I don't think that's it it could be less than 10-8 it was the most expensive I bought a car in 2019 then the lockdown now it's been gone 16 ,000 km I didn't get it in Delhi I think that was the most and I made a house in Gurgaon home is a mandatory expense I would like Indian school but for me it was because Porsche Cayenne was my childhood when I was going to play cricket when I was young when I was going to go to the car I felt very much I felt a love Porsche I said as much money I'll get this when I got it I told my dad that's what I want it's just it's not it's not it's not I want this luxury to even my family

2:10:51I think I would take a little time but I would make a little garden walk in society or wherever there are flats you will be built you will have to come down you will say you can enjoy so I think this there is no expense so you just wanted to give a very beautiful house to your parents yeah and I gave this and I'm happy that's every child's dream every Indian middle class child's dream for sure that you give a house that you give a house

2:11:34after Orbis.

2:11:51Before I put an email. I love to play this gaming and all and my friends are streamed and everything and I also go to their gaming house and all the way it's been growing it's been growing and growing so now my team you will see soon that it's going to be proper so brand ambassador or investor don't know but no I love gaming and all because I play a lot I think PS5 is the most important thing so you will play yourself or you are actually all the top professional players and you will make a team and you will play a team I like to play myself so I also play I mean no such thing I don't like I want to play and the way you will do everything you will do everything before we started when we played two fingers and now we play three fingers so slowly and slowly I think the way I have the big big I was very close to the game house.

2:12:57I also went to the game house for 2-3 days. I also had a new Mumbai. I had seen it. My morning is from 2020. I was going to play 8-8 hours. I played the night. We made the night. Because there is no time pass. If you go to the night, then the day will go out. so okay toh aapne se sab bed jage toh roj 7-8 ghanate roj ka 7-8 ghanate hota tha humara ar us time toh limit bhi niyo hoti ti inski tab aake khail la humara maha se myra interest bana gaming me irkuk chahiyye chahiyye korn sabse close hai aapka in sub-minsa ismint scout hai tanme goldi bhai kyunki jyadha bati meri unse honi hai abhi aapne joker ki haweli unka content meriko bhout pasand hai kyunki wo bhout manat karte hai abhi i am so happy snags excuse me

2:13:59alcme i'm happy that how i hung for I they get a payback like they didn't do it because they played I didn't stream it I didn't stream it I did it with the router so it was lockdown because nothing was happening so I was doing 2-3 hours but it was very difficult sitting in a chair chatting interacting so I was just I didn't know that it was easy do you think that's your post-cricketing career now e-sports there are many things golf is good golf is good I love paddle. Oh, nice. And this is, play the paddle well. I play decent. Done. Perfect. Thank you so much, sir. Thank you so much for spending time coming here and talking about everything.

2:14:53It was a pleasure talking to you. Same here. What do you think? Podcast is an interesting point. What do you think about podcast? I want to know. Sometimes you go with a flow. I think podcast is the thing that you want to say. Without adding or taking. So what you think is in your heart, I think podcast is the thing. Agreed. This is true. But I'm also nervous about podcast. After doing that, every day, if there's anyone who gets a guest, I'm nervous. Because it's true. That means you're serious about your work. Thank you so much for watching this episode end to the end. Now you have to do three things.

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(00:00) – Intro
(03:11) – Ever felt left out of the team?
(07:06) – Life beyond cricket
(08:31) – Divorce rumours & mental health
(11:35) – When did anxiety begin?
(14:47) – Pressure of fame
(17:44) – What went wrong in the marriage?
(20:50) – Chahal’s red flags
(23:13) – Social media’s impact on him
(26:56) – Misconceptions & insecurity
(30:04) – Life after divorce
(32:07) – His Views on Love & Family
(38:09) – Overthinking & su*cidal thoughts
(49:35) – Controversial divorce t-shirt
(52:05) – Memes, trolls & his reaction
(56:48) – Relationship with Mahvash
(1:02:14) – Last conversation with ex-wife
(1:05:20) – Other cricketers’ divorces
(1:09:01) – Dating life & IPL stories
(1:15:25) – Bond with Andrew Symonds
(1:17:22) – Relationship With Yuvraj Singh
(1:20:06) – On-field aggression
(1:24:53) – His bond with Dhoni
(1:36:51) – Dealing with criticism
(1:39:35) – Playing good vs playing bad
(1:41:18) – Moment that broke him
(1:43:25) – Pressure during Dhoni’s last match
(1:46:02) – Matchday mindset
(1:50:47) – Bond with Kuldeep Yadav
(1:51:57) – When he got irritated over nothing
(1:53:19) – Dating vs marriage
(1:56:15) – Ideal love
(1:57:57) – Shreyas Iyer as captain
(2:01:20) – Dangerous batsmen & IPL deals
(2:03:58) – Leaving chess for cricket
(2:14:47) – Final thoughts
(2:14:56) – BTS
(2:15:35) – Outro



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Raj Shamani is an Entrepreneur at heart that explains his expertise in Business Content Creation & Public Speaking. He has delivered 200+ speeches in 26+ countries. Besides that, Raj is also an Angel Investor interested in crazy minds who are creating a sensation in the Fintech, FMCG, & passion economy space.



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