The Dumbest Couple I’ve Ever Met | Financial Audit

17 Jun 2024 · 1 h 34 min

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Financial Audit Podcast Episode: The Dumbest Couple I’ve Ever Met

Podcast Overview

  • Title: Financial Audit
  • Description: Aimed at educating and entertaining listeners about personal finance.
  • Episode Title: The Dumbest Couple I’ve Ever Met | Financial Audit
  • Episode Description: The episode revolves around the financial situation of a newly married couple, assessing their lack of financial planning and poor decision-making regarding debt.

Episode Summary In this episode, host Caleb Hammer conducts a financial audit of a young married couple, Sam and Michael. The couple recently married and is navigating the complexities of combining their finances. Throughout the episode, they discuss their debts, spending habits, and financial goals while revealing significant issues in their financial understanding and management.

Key Participants

  • Sam: 26 years old, identified as more frugal, focused on saving for the future.
  • Michael: 20 years old, described as more willing to spend on electronics and vehicles.

Key Themes and Discussions

  1. Combining Finances
  2. The couple recently combined their finances, which has helped them pay off some debt, but they still face significant challenges.
  3. Differences in financial philosophies lead to tension: Sam is frugal and focused on saving, while Michael tends to spend impulsively.
  1. Debt Management
  2. They have accumulated a significant amount of debt, including credit cards and a personal loan for property.
  3. Total Debt Overview:
  4. $21,749 on a Discover card with 22% interest.
  5. A personal loan of $20,000.
  6. Unpaid balances on multiple credit cards.
  7. The couple admits to paying off credit cards that had zero interest while leaving those with high interest unpaid.
  1. Spending Habits
  2. The couple frequently spends on dining out and leisure, even when their financial situation is precarious.
  3. Notably, they spent over $450 in a month on eating out while having minimal savings.
  1. Financial Illiteracy
  2. The couple demonstrates a lack of understanding of basic financial principles, such as the importance of paying off high-interest debt first.
  3. They acknowledge poor financial decisions but struggle to articulate a path forward.
  1. Future Aspirations
  2. Expressed desire to have children, but Caleb challenges their readiness given their current financial instability.
  3. The conversation reflects a need for urgency in addressing their financial issues before considering children.
  1. Recommendations and Resources
  2. Caleb emphasizes the importance of making sacrifices, such as selling unnecessary items (e.g., Michael's motorcycle) to alleviate debt.
  3. Recommended seeking financial education resources and creating a budget.

Financial Score Assessment

  • Overall Financial Score: 1.5 out of 10
  • Health of Finances: Poor understanding of debt management and financial planning.
  • Savings Rate: Zero savings, indicating no emergency fund.
  • Spending Behavior: Discrepancies in spending and lack of priorities in financial decisions.

Conclusion The episode serves as a cautionary tale about the importance of financial literacy, budgeting, and the impact of poor financial decisions on relationships. It highlights the critical need for the couple to reassess their financial habits, prioritize debt repayment, and develop a healthier approach to their finances.

Additional Links and Resources

  • Investing Program: [Join the investing program](https://calebhammer.com/investing)
  • Personal Finance Coaching: [1-on-1 coaching](https://calebhammer.com/coaching)
  • Budgeting Program: [Master Your Money](https://go.calebhammer.com)

Final Thoughts Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their financial habits and seek education to avoid similar pitfalls as Sam and Michael. The episode underscores the significance of financial planning, communication in relationships, and the dangers of neglecting debt management.

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0:02Get your mother-loving ears on because your big time radio DJ's got news. PayPal lets you choose how you want to pay for all the stuff. With PayPal, I can pay in-store, pay online, or pay over time. What's that? You want this translated into song? I hope you're sitting down. You can pay your own way. You keep those ears on, you hear? Don't just pay, baby. PayPal. Learn more at PayPal.com. To watch episodes of Financial Audit a week earlier, check us out on YouTube. He sees zero APR and he's like, oh, we don't got to pay anything at all. 21 ,000. Is that 21? Uh-huh. I thought it was 20. That's news.

0:41News? You signed up for it, news? Well, that's why we have the credit, so we can buy the things we can't afford. You never get anything if you don't go into debt at least a little bit. So you both agree to be done? No. What are we doing? Is anyone doing in this family? Hi, my name is Sam. I am 26 years old. hi my name is michael i am 20 years old and i'm based from the real grand valley and this is financial audit thanks for coming up guys so good a married couple if i'm not mistaken you guys have recently gotten married right yes cool how recent uh so we got married april 6th are we in the honeymoon phase yeah we're still less than two months okay okay so fresh marriage so finances in general obviously that's what this show is about getting into this together have we combined our finances yet have we done anything we have and that was just recently like less than a month ago we actually i added him to my account i added him to your account okay and how are we looking from the couple's standpoint financially so definitely combining our finances it has helped with um with I guess paying off debt little by little because now we're not thinking by ourselves now we're thinking as a couple you guys are thinking together yes we are I mean we have our our different opinions but we're trying some of those different opinions so I am more frugal when it comes to money I'm more about saving I'm more about planning for the future and um he's more about spending um mostly on electronics uh vehicles yeah what's spending on like just like getting a new iphone constantly or yeah it's just recently i'll say since november actually just barely got the new phone on iphone 15 something comes out i kind of want it or not not basically want it but want to upgrade what i have so i've always i've always done that for years and how do those conversations go typically i am more like i am okay with what i have i don't need the newest iphone i could stay with like for example i had this mac from 2015 it was a very old one and he convinced well okay no i needed a laptop but i i didn't want something that expensive he was more like no might as well go big or go home so we got the newest yeah she prolonged it for a very long time so you actually got it you won with the biggest and better yeah i did okay so obviously we have debt as a married couple and we'll go into it and it's a pretty thick stack uh how how do these in general though when we're talking about our financial future when we're talking about paying off debt which seems to be the objective which okay good objective how do these conversations go where are we in terms of agreements and disagreements headed into this conversation um so i'm more about get like getting the debt to zero as fast as possible whether or not there is um i guess like a zero apr it doesn't matter to me i want to get it to zero why do you want to zero so quick um because it it's more it's like a weight on my shoulders and i don't like looking at how much i've accrued he sees zero apr and he's like oh we don't got to pay anything at all until we could prolong and as long as we still have time a couple months without interest you can have money in your savings stack it up a lot more until the very end you know once we come to the very end you can pay it off but until then you can relax and i tell her like you're reacting yeah you can relax why are we relaxing we have if you have 18 months with no interest all you have to do is a minimal payment till the very last month and then you pay it off how much is in your savings today my savings uh well are we are we together or not well our savings are together okay so how much is in your savings you're all savings okay so no before we got together i had a savings no no no how much we can talk about that how much is in your savings today couple zero okay and you said it's okay if there's 18 percent until no uh interest until it's due one of them literally just started accruing interest this month so i think that argument's invalid which one's which one's that one we'll get to it we'll go through them but that argument immediately like okay i could vibe i could vibe well we gotta check which one it is but once it comes to it then yeah we gotta take out from our savings to pay it off how much is in your savings we have zero in our savings so how are we paying off thousands of dollars well that's what that's why it's at zero because we paid off some cards okay and then i was on telling you can relax until the time comes but one of them just hit the interest period so that didn't work anyway um so i i believe okay i don't think we thought it through but i believe what we paid off was were ones with zero interest instead of tackling wait what the why um whose decision was that And mine.

5:49I didn't tell them. I didn't even know. Didn't even. I didn't even know. She's just like, hey, I paid off three credit cards of yours. So this isn't. And I was like, but two of them had no interest and for a while longer. Combining. It sounds like we combined into a dictatorship with that kind of, you know. To be fair. To be fair. He signed up on a property without me knowing. What? Yeah. So. How much? Our property is valued at 120. that's what we what was the purchase what does we purchase that's the price but at the end of the day it's not what we're gonna pay without her knowing though 120 ,000 I have just told her I told her I was like hey I'm gonna go take a look at this and I just went ahead and got it I didn't even get a text or anything he just said he was gonna look you went and looked and bought on site yeah the first day I was there I just I'm assuming you took out debt for it it's owner to owner financing from there okay so you took out debt for it yeah to the owner.

6:48We are not on the same page. At the beginning, you were making it sound like this was going... We're only like two, three months into this thing, and we're doing things with debt, taking out debt, paying off debt that is not accruing interest when there is debt that's accruing interest without each other knowing? What is happening, guys? What the f*** is happening? So most of that, the whole without each other knowing happened before we got married. So now we're married, and now we're in it together. So when did it happen? When did the property thing happen? This happened in like December of 2022.

7:22And you paid off some of his debt? I did. Without him knowing, before you guys were married? Yes. No, after we're married. Oh, you just said it was before. That's confusing. Okay, that's okay. That's okay. Let's diagnose. Let's go through. The property was before. Okay. Do you guys live on it? Yes. Okay. Okay. What was it? You bought like a house? No, it was just a property in MDLA by itself. Okay. And you've built something? Yes, we have built something. We built a frame house, a 24 by 36 in it. How many square feet is that? Who's what? Square feet. Square. It's like 860 square feet. Smaller side.

8:05You guys aren't killing each other? The what? You guys aren't killing each other yet? No. In 800 square feet? No. No. It's pretty big. It's bigger than a studio. It's bigger than a studio. wait you bought the property how big is the property the property is 3 acres so we buy 3 acres and we build 800 square foot well that's what we can't afford yeah well then if that's what okay but like okay this is what I'm thinking if we're buying 3 acres we're likely thinking more about staying there for a bit yes so future proof right it is a framed house so when we're done with it we can sell it and move it out somebody else will purchase it so we have i i have planned towards the future with this it's like on bricks so it could be lifted up and moved uh wait why have i never heard of this am i dumb do i have a bit of dumbness do we have that because i'm even searching up framed house and nothing what you guys are talking about just put a house on bricks house um so the bricks or the base the the like the base is wood but it's lifted up it's on i just have pictures of brick houses oh all right so between the between the dirt and the house there's bricks no i got that but i'm just trying to look up examples because i've never look up a frame house frame house he did yeah yeah it was pictures of houses being built okay well this is the frames of houses i searched frame house and i'm getting a framed buildings okay this is i don't think it's working do you guys have pictures of your house um not okay not quickly how much is the property the property um what i ended up financing with the owner financing was 117 000 and how much was this framed house or house on bricks 800 square feet it was 37 000 and someone has to want to buy this 800 square foot house if you are to sell it yeah it will to move it you do sell it on a loss though sure yeah framed house why am i dumb i there's gonna there's gonna be something i feel like i'm being dumb right here so it's not it's it's not a trailer no it's not it's like the next step up from a trailer okay okay like an actual house don't confuse it for a storage room okay you can see them outside home depot storage houses it's a storage like a little storage garages no i'm saying don't confuse it with that oh don't okay yeah well i'm confused he's confused regardless and i love real estate i'm like in a good amount of real estate but i've just never heard of this so i really feel like i'm gonna look like a dumb but i i can't well i don't know so i'm gonna count down from three two one go and on go i want you guys to give your household financial score zero being the worst 10 being the best i want to see where you guys self-assess at the same time without hearing each other's answers so i'm gonna go again i'm gonna go three two one and then you're gonna say it at the same time on one or after one on one on one zero being the absolute worst 10 being the absolute best on our house household financial score you guys as a married couple the house the purchase of no no no your guys's financial score is a couple okay as a couple just where you are zero being the worst 10 being the best three two one four eight wow so you think you're basically in an incredible financial spot yeah i see a path forward path forward i'm talking about where the f*** are right now you think you're in you think you're one of the best you think you're like basically like bezos level no okay well 10 was i said 10's the best of the best the best of the best yeah all right 10 being who if jeff bezels is eight no no i'm just saying like 10's the best of the best of the best like you have everything's 100 perfect you're in the best financial situation that's ever been invented in zero is like the worst financial situation you could ever be in and you think you're eight okay if you want your hammer financial score it's free in the description below let's do this thing let's look into some of the monies because we got some weird debt card things happening here.

12:26Wells Fargo, who? Okay, are we on each other's accounts here with the cards? Are we like authorized users? Okay, so who has the Wells Fargo reflect Visa Platinum? You. Okay, let me do some columns then. Under Sam Wells Fargo. Okay. How are we paying for the debts combined? Like, how are we choosing which ones are paying, getting paid? How are we doing any of this? There's no plan. It's just advice. Guys, you set me up so optimistically at the beginning. How is there no plan? Have we never talked? How long were you guys engaged before you got married? She's paid off the ones that have the least amount of money in it so far.

13:13Okay. How long were you guys engaged before marrying? Four months. Four months. How long were you guys dating before engaged? Four years. Or five years. And you guys never talked about a plan? No. No. Because we were very separate when it came to our finances. So it wasn't until we got married then we started. That is a critical conversation to have before deciding if you want to spend the rest of the life with someone. Because it's a strainer on relationship. Finances. We're in a capitalist society, ladies and gentlemen. Like, this is a big part of a marriage. Just because it's awkward to talk about and it's separate at that point doesn't mean we don't talk about it.

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15:00Thanks again to Morgan & Morgan for sponsoring this episode. Oi. Okay. Okay. So on this Wells Fargo, what do you have? You have... Okay. 4 ,120. 20 that's not a insignificant balance by any means and 54 cents the minimum of the payment of 42 you're purchasing it's a zero percent but you're purchasing you're just putting the higher balance on it um i believe that you put a big payment towards it yes but you're still purchasing why um it's i think it's just for a storage unit that's about it so you guys did not build a big enough house really you have three acres and you're paying for a storage no the reason i got the storage was because okay so from the beginning let's start from the beginning so the credit card was open because of a business and that i wanted to start yeah it was supposed to be a coffee cart um like selling espresso uh drinks um at markets like outside okay yeah so that's why the credit card was opened okay but then um i got really busy that i couldn't keep up with it so i sold almost everything.

16:11However... How much did you make? No. What? No. It was so busy that you sold the business. Yeah, I couldn't continue it. It's not that I didn't want to. But if you sold a successful business, you would have made money. I didn't sell the business. I sold the supplies. The equipment. The equipment. How did you not make any... I understand not making a profit because it's like used, but what did you get from the sale? No. How much? really nothing how you just gave it away no i sold stuff i sold it like just two thousand but you spent ten ten what thousand yeah the supplies i mean you can just mention the espresso machine yes yeah the supplies yeah like ingredients how much was it oh i don't remember like it was like 2 ,500 how'd you get too busy too busy with what i got a job so this wasn't working very well then no yeah it's just that i still needed a job i still i still had stuff so you weren't going the entrepreneurial okay no no that was just like something on the side um because i had a thousand dollar side yes okay and you ended up getting jobs so you sold it for pennies on the dollar and then we still have the big card yes I mean the promotional balance ends in October October's gonna be here before you know it we're already a f***ing June and I could have paid it off but I used it on his credit cards instead used what?

17:52the money that I had but I got rid of three of his credit cards how much did you have uh i had like six six thousand and you use six thousand dollars to pay off his best that going into the marriage okay yeah what was the strategy behind because you put it at the zero percent card okay yep it was move it storage yes and that's all that gets charged there but i don't use it for anything else it's 92 bucks a month yeah again three acres we were able to build whatever we wanted no no no no no the storage was to put all the equipment in so you still have more equipment um i share it with my parents some personal stuff it's personal your parents give you money for it no then turn it with their parents why aren't they paying in because um my parents work at move it storage and so they get a discount and because they're giving me the discount i just paid that because it would have been more expensive so it's a manager discount because he works there.

18:53You also... My dad. I'm being told from the producers, you didn't pay$6 ,000 to the cards. You paid$6 ,000 to your parents. That's a different$6 ,000. You had an additional$6 ,000. It's something, yeah. This is a mess, guys. This is a mess. No, six... Where was the six from? Where was the total 12 from? So the six that I gave on his cards, that's from wedding gifts. Oh, my gosh. Where we got from the wedding? and the other six the other six was for my savings that i gave to my mom okay for the wedding you built the savings up however long how long how long it took me to get make the savings um a year like years and it went to your mom yeah um for the wedding i was gonna start accruing on this where'd you get five thousand three thousand to put on this card five thousand to put on this card where'd you get that i don't remember no no where'd you have five thousand dollars i don't remember i just what i don't remember even i even bezos i bet knows where he gets five thousand from and just spends it that's an insane amount of money five thousand where'd you what what do you think about this dude didn't from the other loan that we have the one that he hasn't moved forward It just burned me like that.

20:13From a different loan, so it's not even$5 ,000? Yeah, that one's a personal loan. Oh, from the$20 ,000 loan. No, I'm asking where this$5 ,000 came from that you put towards this card, please. Yeah, from the$20 ,000 personal loan. $20 ,000 personal loan. Yeah. Is there interest accruing on the$20 ,000 personal loan? Oh, yeah. Yes. And you put money from a accruing personal loan to a 0 % card? in what mathematical way does that ever make sense it was just zero percent and we i wanted to get rid of it but i obviously obviously something that's gaining interest what wait we combine some other wait do you even know this yeah i know about this and what do you think you thought this was okay who decided this did you guys group decide this no it was me what do you think what's the interest on that personal loan interest rate i think it's over 20 oh 20 21 all five of that came from that yeah it was like leftover and this there's parts of the loan that's five thousand dollars that's at zero percent and you literally traded it for 21 percent base what are we doing what the where what logic was there there was no logic there was emotion you wanted to get rid of this what yes what was the thought what was even the thought what was the thinking getting rid of it what but what was the logic behind the way you did i agree get rid of it but on 21 what were we doing um i don't know i just thought that it was no no no tell me what was the logic we wanted to combine other payments all together in one we consulted because there's more percent no yeah that makes sense it's like me it's like taking I have a 3 % mortgage on one of my rentals.

22:02It's like me taking that and taking the balance of that and putting it towards something that has like 25 % interest instead. It's like getting a 25 % interest mortgage instead. Who would ever do that? Yeah, I could have given the$5 ,000 back to the loan. What? Like that would have been a better choice. oh but i think it's because i just one of the most insane things i've ever heard in the history of the show and that is uh that's a statement because we record a lot of these things

22:38am i gonna die no

22:47that's just one cartoon that's crazy you proud of that no you're smirking you're a little smirker it's uh coping a lot of cope smirk get them all the time you're not credit card people use the f*** his card dude I think I'm okay use the charge card I think I'm okay with credit card but that doesn't make any sense you said this was your card and this card had a massive and the card had a f***ing$10 ,000 balance one card hey it had a$10 ,000 balance and you literally paid it, transferred it to a 20 % debt and you want to say right here, right now that you're okay with credit cards? Just one card.

23:31It's$10 ,000. It's$10 ,000. What do you do for work? What do you do for work? I am an assistant manager. How much do you make? I use 20. It varies. How much do you make a month? Average. Net. What hits your account? $2 ,100. about a month so five months of your earnings is insignificant five months of your earnings is nothing so that 10 000 hour card is nothing it's a lot of work yeah it's a lot of working you're just like it's just this it's just five months of my earnings it's just a half a year of my entire life in what world is that anywhere near acceptable we're trying to look at it no in a positive no why that doesn't make sense let's live in the real world listen it's good to look at things in a positive way it's also okay to acknowledge reality if you just look at something in a positive sugar-coated candy world then you're never gonna make progress you're just gonna lay around getting sugar high all day you know we're not this doesn't make any sense there's no sense that have just been made doesn't make any sense okay okay 2200 a month 21 what do you do what do you what do what do you what do you do me yeah what do you do i'm a driver uh i drive uh drive a semi truck How much do you make a month net?

24:58What hits your account? A month, I make 2 ,400. I'm still blown away. I honestly, like, I'm going to get, like, Warshok PDSD from this episode. That was a, you just hit me with a nuke.

25:20Oh, both of you guys together, a net make 54 ,000 hours a year? Yeah. Okay. I mean through your earnings you'll make more than that through the rest of your life just statistically but as far as the household you're definitely under the household median for the United States which I think is like 65 now 65 ,000 but you guys are younger not in your 30s yet you're like mid you're like on your way so it's not necessarily like terrible I'm just like and for your area it's also lower cost of living area yes but i know why i paid off his credit cards i remember what what i remember why i paid off his credit cards um because the monthly minimum payment was kind of taken away from what we had left over at the end of the month after all the bills were paid so i figured attacking those we were they the smallest deaths they were so but like you're trying to snowball i don't know what i'm doing i just i just know that i just know that um by getting rid of those we got we had like um another 200 left at the end of the month i want to nuke my brain and give me a heart attack apply apply to be on the show killpamer.com slash apply continue sorry that was it okay let's talk about a second card a second card who has the lowest card that one should be mine it has you written all over it I feel it this is a man's card I have a hole in deep in one too really yeah okay okay what are we on here

27:14is this paid off yes was this one that was paid off to the thing that was one of the three okay it had no interest for 18 months eight when was that supposed to end that was recent as of last month well this one would have had deferred interest it looks like so oh wait uh what was the amount that was all right there was no deferred interest um but it was basically two thousand dollars what what did we get to$2 ,000? Because, yeah, paying it off with, like, this pool of money, that's great, but without learning anything, that could still f*** the land. You can still bring it all the way back up.

27:53Wait, but you didn't pay it off, though, you said. You said you used the consolidation. Yeah. So this is, again, on the 21 % interest rate of death. Wait, what the f***? $2 ,000 that was interest-free is now accruing interest? Oh my god. F***. When was the interest gonna end on this thing? Because you paid it off. Do you guys know when it was supposed to? There was a late fee. I don't know how, but there was a late fee before you even paid it off. So I really don't think we're learning any lessons. There was a late fee on here, guys. Late fee. Come on, someone speak. A late fee. That's his credit card.

28:33Oh, so we're not together anymore. We're not combined anymore. No, we're combined. Which is why I paid it. So we're combined. Wait. No, I don't give them a month. If you want to see it, there it is. But I don't give the monthly payment. I just paid it off. There it is. I think this is for you. Let me see. Yeah, you did some 0 % financing with Lowe's, but it's gone. What was it? What did you do? What did you do? I think at the time I might have been changing jobs myself, and I just missed it. No, no, no, no, no, no, no. What did you purchase? What was$2 ,000 on the Lowe's card? All we purchased are washing machines for the house.

29:10And the dragon. No. No, but the washer and the dryer were gifts, no? They were, but we used some of that money for the wedding. So we can have money to pay people or pay whatever we had to pay for services. I purchased the machines on a credit card with the lows. Okay, so my dad had given us money to buy the washer and the dryer. I didn't know money was taken out of there for the wedding. Wait, where'd that money go? You would have paid it off immediately then. I went to the wedding. I didn't know that How much was the wedding a couple months ago I don't have a total Because my mom was in charge of that Who paid for it My mom And then she needed Like another$6 ,000 So I took it out of my savings I want to say it was about me Who

30:04When we were planning the wedding Who said I'm going to pay for it Who was responsible Who was assigned responsible to pay for the wedding And she was like, I need$6 ,000 for my 26-year-old daughter for this wedding I agreed to pay for, but now I don't have it? What the responsibility is that? Yeah. Oh, that's... So you then... So the money from... Who's dad? Who's dad gave the money for the washer dryer? My dad. And then you gave it to your mom? I didn't. Oh, I'm sorry. sorry that's okay we bleeped his real name people use fake names it's okay we don't have to we don't have to be scared of the name we'll bleep it again oh what did i say no one knows you'll never know okay you gave it to the mom to her mom yeah so you gave her dad's money to her mom see and i didn't know that so did her mom even know it was the money from her dad are they married no they're divorce yes even better that's i bet that would be springer did they did they know no do they know no your dad yeah your dad doesn't even know that the money he gave went to his ex no but which is he was at the wedding though can we call him no okay it was worth trying that would have been no that was the little bit of drama that piqued my interest like like every once in a while i like i have a little drama queen inside of me and that was that was that'd be interesting i want to see how that would have played out but would there be their reaction we know so you didn't know he gave the money i didn't why did you give the money because she was paying for it um she was bringing funds together she was bringing more funds together What do you mean?

32:04She said she would pay for it. Or did she say she was fundraising? No. Pay. What the fuck is anyone doing in this family?

32:16Okay. We have a discover. Who has the discover? That one's also mine. Wait. No, no, no. This is a personal one. Right? Oh, yeah. Yeah, mine. That's the one we're talking about. Ours. Is it in both of yours' names? No, mine.

32:34But we got rid of some good ones. Is this the personal one we were just talking about? The 20. Yeah. New 20, 21 ,749. Is that 21? Huh? I said 21. I thought it was 20. What are you guys? What are you guys? Hey, that's news. That's actually news. News? You signed up for it, news? That's crazy.

33:02I thought the 21 was an interest. Keep up that copesmark. Keep up that copesmark. $21 ,749. 41 cents. We used it all. Yeah. That's good. It's funny. No. She thinks it's funny. She thinks it's funny that you guys are going to be paying off debt for thousands of years to come. It's in a fixed monthly payment for a certain amount of time. Yeah. yeah it is a$695.10 minimum payment that's great when we make$54 ,000 a year guys at 22 % interest rate of insanity kill myself debt like that's just like ruin ruin everything you zero you were not accruing interest on all those debts and you were like hey let's instead lose 22 % because we wanted to bring all the minimums together that doesn't matter you're losing 22 % we weren't able to make any minimum payments because of his motorcycle his motorcycle was killing us why did we ruin our life for a motorcycle that's what I said because he doesn't even use it and then it's messed up now travel in a car in a bus Like, I don't care.

34:25It's a motorcycle ride. You know, every weekend. Yeah. What about the rest of your life? Just one motorcycle for the rest of my life. That's it. What do you not understand that you're at 22 %? The best case scenario you're getting in the stock market, S &P 500, is like 12 % return. That's if you're putting your money in the market and it's 12 % on average. 12 % on average. This is almost twice as much as that. Going right to the bank. Taking out from the bank. F***ing you. F***ing you. It's a three-way marriage between you guys and the discover. Okay, both of you are getting pegged by the discover.

35:05The motorcycle still messed up? Oh, yeah. He's not even done playing. Seriously, this is just a meme. This is just a meme against me. I'm in a nightmare right now, and I'm going to wake up, and I'm going to show up here and never have this conversation. What do you mean messed up? What's messed up? What's messed up? The front shock went out. And it's like$2 ,000 to replace him. I was manly enough to know what that even meant. But just does it drive? Like it turns on and drives, but the front suspension is not working basically. Should you drive it? No. Okay. So you're not doing your little. Weekend rides.

35:41Weekend rides.

35:47So to convene real quick. Like, a thing we can't drive is what prevented us from being able to get out of debt easier and not have interest rate that wasn't vanity. But because of it, now it sits there unable to be used and we're losing 22 % on our money every year on$21 ,000. All right. Did I summarize it correctly? Sounds about right. Guys, it is finally time. For the past six months, I've been working on what I believe is the very best investing course that can be found anywhere on the internet. I worked directly with a team of financial professionals who helped me distill my own personal investing philosophies into this 12-chapter class.

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38:51If you're literally not able to make minimum monthly payments, you can't afford it, right? Isn't that how that works? Isn't that basic math? After the purchase of the property, I had a hard time paying it. Okay. Then you couldn't refer the property then? I decided to carry on and see what we can do. So then you chose the property and you have to get rid of the bike. Like you have to make an adult decision. You're not 18 anymore. You're 28. Even 18, you're an adult with decisions to make. You're not 12 anymore. You're 18. Make the big boy choices. I don't want to sell it. I don't want to let it go.

39:21yeah where i don't give a that's the that's the that's the those are the words of a child like that's that's not how this works if you can't afford it you cannot afford it did you guys at least talk about this um i i did mention to him to get rid of it and he didn't want to and that was it that was the extent of the conversation i still don't want to get rid of it that's it i'm keeping but but if it were up to me i would have the point of this then if you're not willing to take any sacrifice be a man there's other sacrifices i've taken yeah like adding a 22 debt to you guys and selves over for years to come well to be fair he also has gone into debt because uh we needed to build the house too so that was a huge hit but we wanted a place to live so the house you couldn't rent because no one lives in renting places uh i just didn't find it a good idea to well i don't agree with renting because you're paying for somebody else's sure But right now, it mathematically makes more sense across the entire country almost.

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40:18I don't. Besides a few regions, mathematically, it is cheaper to rent right now. But cheaper to rent? Yes. Probably is. Yes. But you'd never own anything at the end. No. What do you mean at the end? Are you guys dying next year? I mean, look, we're paying into interest. Paying a monthly rent is paying to nothing. Everybody's going to, they're going to pocket whoever owns that. It's cheaper right now. on a monthly basis per square footage across most of the places right now in the country to rent than to buy because of where interest rates are and where property values have not fallen to the point where it offsets the interest rate hikes.

40:54It has not adapted because people are holding out of their properties. Inventories across the nation are not at the standard monthly allowances of how many homes are on the market. like how much is the what's your minimum monthly payment on this property 1500 a month you i know for a fact in your guys's area you could have gotten a two-bedroom for like 1200 a mortgage house no a rental for two years guys if you can in any way it just really comes back to if you can't afford it which you've admitted to not being able to afford it because you couldn't afford the minimum fee payments if you can't afford it you cannot afford it so it doesn't matter if it makes more sense financially having a mortgage eventually over the course of a long period of term which by the way none of your payments are going to pay off the principal right now anyway it's all going to interest so it's not like you're making any progress anyway get a mortgage later down the road we're planning to refinance it hopefully soon sooner than later what interest rate is it at well we have we're just planning to look into What interest rate are you at?

42:02The interest rate on the property is like 12%. Guys, mortgage rates are like at 8%. What are your credit scores? Well, it's owner-to-owner financing. Oh, that's right. That's right. And they swindled your lives.

42:22I'll be honest. I did not think this conversation was going to go this way headed into this. I'm almost impressed.

42:35um wow

42:40I'm happy with the house though oh fantastic great thrilled I couldn't be more happy for you it's cute oh great that's awesome why'd we do owner financing um at the moment when I when I purchased a property I was jumping from different jobs and then I I didn't have the job history in order to get a mortgage for the property. Or a building mortgage, that would be. How are we doing this refinancing? How are we getting this mortgage? You just give a down payment of$3 ,000. I know how that works. How are you guys doing it? Like, what are you planning to do? What job history? You haven't been in a place for two years, but you can prove two years of job history.

43:26But what about you? Are you guys going to be on it together? Are we doing dual? Okay, obviously our debt to income ratio is not fantastic. Have you guys gotten pre-qualified? No, we're almost at two years. What's your credit score? My credit score right now is at 630. What's your credit score? Last I checked, it was 695. Yeah, if you can qualify, you should get a better rate, maybe like 10%, 11%. Why are we trying to refinance? For the better rate? For a lower monthly payment and less years. What's the term for this guy? It's at 30 years right now. So you want to do like a 15-year mortgage? 15, 20.

44:06Why? It's a lot less years. Like if you make the math, 30 years, we're going to be paying a lot of money. Yeah, but also if you're just at a normal interest rate in general. Like, I mean, I'm assuming that, let's just say you even get at 8%. I assume if rates ever go to like 4 or 5, you're going to refinance to 4 or 5. Even if still, if you're doing that over the course of 30 years, put the money in the market and makes twice it on average so like where's the math working and we're just not math math ain't math okay so we took out the personal loan no late fees on this one

44:45it's a 21 percent 22 percent interest discover it who has to discover it who's not whose name is under it because i i have That's what I'm asking you guys. That would be Michael. This is mine. So we did not pay this one off? No. No, we haven't. At$10 ,656. That was to build the house. To finish the interior of the house. On a credit card? We don't got the money. To finish the interior. Okay, I'm a bit bad. She just said, what did you just say? what'd you just say cause we didn't have the money what does that mean can someone tell me what that means the frame house wasn't completely finished oh no no can you tell me what she just said means to say it again to charge the credit card no no no say your statement again that we didn't have the money what does that mean that means we couldn't afford it so what the f*** guys Well that's why we have the credit So we can buy the things we can't afford Who wanted to come on the show?

46:03She did Okay so do you know much about the show? I don't Okay Thank you because If you did watch the show and you said that I would have gotten the baseball bat from the other room Or the taser and I would have Stunned you And then beat you Whoa yeah we don't use credit cards for things we can't afford i mean this is overall bad finances 101 i mean you're using someone else's money and then you're paying it back with interest and minimum payments are stacking up but you will get a house out of it a livable house a livable house that you guys both admitted if you sold you're getting a loss on that's it we would sell it we're not gonna sell it we're gonna get a loss on it that's what you said yeah well you build a house for$38 ,000 but doesn't mean you're going to get$38 ,000 from it.

46:53Once fully finished. It's essentially a used thing if it's what I'm thinking. It's not like an actual house. Not from the full amount because that's besides the$38 ,000 a house cost. We still needed to put$10 ,000 into it. You couldn't afford it, guys. When you went and got the property, you can no longer afford your minimum monthly payments and then we went and got a credit card to finish up the home. You guys have just walked into an absolute just you have not you've just your finances guys okay sorry I'm just a bit taken back that's an interesting $10 ,656.11

47:36how'd she convince you to come on the show it was an argument really I didn't want to come in the show oh well thank you for being here I'll be easier on you because of that thank you he doesn't know the show much did he watch the onboarding video at least why do we send people that no I watched it why didn't you watch it girl did you not want him to know what he was signing up for no yeah he's seen snippets he's not absolutely oblivious she plays your show I play it in the kitchen and I'll have it and he's there you should have seen you're saying door dash a lot don't worry you're not gonna see that here no but what he's gonna see is McDonald's McDonald's McDonald's from my Riley credit card don't go easy on him he knows what he's doing but you're not afraid of death the way that I think no why?

48:39cause if you don't owe it you're never gonna have anything you gotta go into it why if you hesitate you're not gonna have anything see i agree with him to that like to that extent like that didn't just make sense yes you have to be if i was scared to buy a three acre property i would have never had it but okay you're talking about taking advantage of leverage is kind of what you're talking about like getting a mortgage on a property is kind of what you're talking about to get up to get ahead is that what you're saying no like you mean you have to go into a credit card debt to get ahead yeah no one's ever said to own it you don't think that you've watched the show you do not think that to a certain extent i kind of do no yes how how does that make sense you're losing value on it you never get anything if you don't go into debt at least a little bit like that's no we agree in that but so you both agree to be done no what are we so why can you not buy things I understand not being able to buy a house in cash I absolutely understand you don't go into credit card debt for a house though I mean you guys did somehow but most people well you're not supposed to we purchase the material to finish it I get that but you're talking about that you have to go into credit card debt to get ahead is that what I am being told right now to own it yes

50:04is this what you think the average home buyer does is the average person has debt has debt but you think they go into credit card debt for the house to finish a house what's the difference between that and a building mortgage so if you're talking about so you can do some kind of loans right you can do some kind of loans where there's a house that is valued at two hundred thousand dollars but it's really out of date so if it was completely up to date based on comps around it it could be worth 500 000 what did i say where it was worth 200 200 in its current condition could be worth 500 uh but if you put 100 000 hours of work into it meaning you spent 300 000 hours it would be worth that 500 000 hours so you get a mortgage of that three or you could get a essentially a mortgage of that 300 000 some of it would be a renovation loan but it would be all put up into the mortgage after it's done meaning that you owed that 300 000 hours on now what it's worth and appraised at a 500 000 house okay you put this on a credit card that is different what's the difference those are usually assessed at just normal mortgage rates say eight percent right now this card in credit cards are usually buddy some of this is a zero percent that's going to end in a couple months some of it It's at 30%.

51:32And in a couple months, it's going to be at 30%. 30 % versus 8%. There is a gap there. People do not have to go into 30 % debt to get ahead. In fact, it is not going to get you ahead. Why? Because most of any investment, real estate, it's going to go up 4 % a year on average. Say you collect rent. Say you even get the best cash flowing property. Maybe 12 % cash on cash return. Include the increase in mortgage. Let's say you're getting the best 16 % a year. still that's half the interest rate that's on here so you're not getting ahead you're getting the bank ahead you're not helping yourself there is good leverage there is good leverage and what is good leverage things that you can easily afford in your minimum monthly payments things that have 20 down payment on like a mortgage things that have low rates that you can you're beating that interest rate in other investment opportunities you're not beating this in other investment opportunities 30 name me an investment that on average gets you higher than 30 percent none okay so no your logic is completely flawed guys no one to my knowledge to my knowledge maybe i'm just dumb call me out but no one to my knowledge has ever said you need to go into credit card debt to get ahead i've never heard that once in my life not once well and i've read a lot of the finance books once the house is finished the the value of the house goes up along with it you haven't even talked about you said you said you said you would sell it for lower no that's when when you have to sell it after you paid it off but you can get a loan out of it oh that's even worse because then you're over leveraging yourself then you're getting a loan that's higher than what you could sell it for you get a property in a house mortgage after because the house is already there you go you go refinance but if you sell the house you're still you would still lose on the house no the house stays there but if you sold it you would still lose on it yes okay that's also not an investment because you just lost money guys what are we doing what are we talking about i understand what you're talking about in getting a collective mortgage on the loan on the property in the house itself but if we're putting money at 30 which you're already losing 30 on this in a couple months so there's that plus you're also losing value it's only worth what you're able to sell it for it and if you're selling the house at a loss like then let's add another 10 on this this may as well be 40 interest like you're making other people money right now in reminder just a reminder we couldn't afford this in the first place because we had to consolidate our debts in order to get a minimum payment in a better place that we could afford but in reality we also made it worse for ourselves long term because we put it in an interest rate you guys are so newly married and you've gotten yourself into a situation that's beyond more dangerous than you could ever know where did we learn that you need to get credit card debt to get ahead i need to know this because you both agree on this i just thought that's the path forward where did you learn that from though just i just saw the path i saw that's how to i could to acquire things i saw that i could pull it off like that if i couldn't get a mortgage to build a house i decided to use my credit cards to build the house where did you hear from i didn't just things just things i've seen or like experiences like what so like if um i mean no one in specific just living great example um so basically um i kind of came to that conclusion because if you need something expensive it's very hard to just have that money laying around to go and buy it something you need like a house or something okay you got it sure yeah use 30 credit card we're talking about an 8 mortgage so the problem is because it's on a credit card not because it's the actual house yeah i don't i don't there's not many even dave ramsey is the most anti-debt persons like get a 15-year mortgage you know like he's even talking about it he talks about paying it off early which makes absolutely no sense but that's okay i took it as just debt in general i i didn't think it mattered like where what other expensive things just anything even if you even scale it down even if you scale it down okay piece of jewelry a new macbook computer or a new computer that's okay that was on the best buy yeah that's okay um that's okay because we didn't pay it off you didn't pay it I did.

56:22The Best Buy. You haven't gotten to the Best Buy. That's one of the three cards that she paid off. Did you pay it off or did you use the personal loan? No, I paid it off with my money. What money? We haven't talked about this. Some other savings. It's just income. There was more savings. Our finances are obviously mixed up. Well, this is such a mess. Okay. So we have a little bit of interest on this and there's going to be a lot of interest on this. In fact, let me give you just an estimate because you're only putting the minimum payment towards it. So it's not like you're doing really anything extra.

56:58Let's say in a couple of months, actually, it'll be about$10 ,000 on this. In that yearly basis, you'll be paying$3 ,000 in interest a year on this card. You're losing$3 ,000. Okay. Who has the city simplicity? That one should be also mine. I paid that one off. that's credit card number two that I paid off of the three. So you paid off the 5 ,909 with a personal loan or a savings? Personal. Then you didn't pay it off. You transferred it to another debt. And what's interesting about this, you took another 0 % interest one. No, no, no. At least the other ones had. No. The other cards that you could have transferred had interest.

57:45No, not with the personal loan. No, it was with the wedding gifts. how much wedding gifts did you get it's quite a bit and how much six thousand six thousand maybe this was six thousand and you said you paid off something else with the wedding gift so math isn't mathing once more no no but i was still working i mean i'm working i put a little bit of money on you're telling me this is paid off right now right this is a zero zero chop up your cards you guys cannot do it you see that's what i told him but he gave it to his dad you said you yeah pull this you told noah two hours ago that this is not paid off i don't know if the mic could hear him two hours ago on the phone i might be confusing with oh that's what i told you no it's this one sorry wrong card oh the one with a much smaller bounce rewind are you saying so this one still has a bounce yes that's why i didn't say anything because i didn't know it was paid off when do you guys think that this uh ends when you guys think the intro rate ends on this that one maybe by august i i think that one's mine yeah when do you think it ends by August you think I say by August okay when do you think it ends I don't know anything about it yeah it ended three weeks ago two to three weeks ago oh that's the one you mentioned in the beginning guys this is

59:06$59 minimum payment how are we gonna survive guys you know this is we're headed straight to bankruptcy at this point like you guys can't even like answer questions you don't even know what we've paid off you think going into credit card debt is the only way to get ahead uh what's the interest rate on that one what do we think it's at guys what do we think 27 i don't know anything about it 29.99

59:35yes i paid that one the home depot the smaller one yes with the wedding gifts yes do we have any of the money from the wedding gifts anymore no you said you're saving zero zero so i'm glad i at least went to paint off that we can let's celebrate that out of this insanity that's what i'm saying okay don't get too excited capital one savior one paid off okay so the small balances yes okay um from but there were purchases here anyway there was three hundred dollars of amazon there and two hundred sixteen dollars of amazon there what did we get uh there were things for the wedding from amazon but your mom said guys no no no these things i was responsible for like the lights table covers there were some things we we he he did cover but but it's paid off i just want to do an example i'm just trying to think i'm just trying to think because do you guys have anything in investing stock market or anything i have my work one but it's just no i bought some shiba

1:00:46i'm just trying to think because of the money that you guys if you were going to this marriage debt free and you're able to take those wedding gifts and put it in like i don't know i'm trying to think like my favorite investing platform is muumu it's what i personally use if you did that and you were able to just put it in there and start the marriage off with that, it would be, it would just be growing, guys. It would just be growing. But instead, it had to go to pay. It's okay. And then you got some low stuff and dollar general stuff as well. The interest rate of this one was over 30%, guys.

1:01:28That's me. What is it? It's 30 loans. So you went to school? I did. would you graduate i'm currently still you're in school currently what are you studying social work okay the income's actually doing better in that field these days than it has historically you might need a master's though right i'm on my master's oh okay you're in your master's yeah what has this been a conversation of he doesn't want you to do that no we just had a conversation on whether i wanted to actually get a career in it or not do you want to get a career in it or not it's been a huge question um but you're doing your masters and you don't even know how are you paying for your masters are you taking out debt this is the current debt are you taking out more besides this that should be it if anything maybe it's another five but other just another five okay guys that's it just add it to the pile yeah so we don't we probably don't know what the interest rate is yet but it's probably actually probably not great right now the minimum payment you'll probably get on like a public student are you gonna do public i don't know i don't know but there's no minimum payment right now so it doesn't matter on one of the discover cards by the way that we went through water burger amazon amazon amazon 129 there 21 on another amazon 64 on another amazon and water burger yes can i see the amazon account that's being purchased can you see the purchase history i can bring it up if you really want um do you have your phone on you yeah i have it on me okay yeah yeah yeah that's not gonna be fun so you said you paid off the bike as well the personal loan bike with the personal loan with a personal what was the minimum payment on the bike what was due on it it was 227 a month what was what was the total balance it was due$7 ,000.

1:03:28$7 ,000? Yes, that's what it was due. What was the interest rate? The interest rate on it was at 7%. It's not great, but what am I going to say? I know, yeah. What? We traded it. For 22%. Okay. But it helped us monthly save money. Waterslide? You guys have a kid? No. No. Who's going down a waterslide, guys? a water slide he I'm trying to make a side hustle with it gas kicked out what what renting the water slide it actually goes hard where we live how much was the water slide $1 ,600 a month I'm sorry$1 ,600 a month you scared me because I was about to say I didn't know that I was in the house mentality right now have we learned guys it's gonna work sure it's gonna work if he knows how to absolutely if he knows how to f***ing market it if he's able to take time away and take it to different places and do all this

1:04:37okay it got delivered towards the beginning of this month how many have you rented I haven't rented it at all oh interesting who would have thought okay well it's cause he's not advertising it correctly oh yeah here we go here we go come on that's so dumb guys and then some cooktop what are we cooktopping it's to replace my mom's cooktop she don't make money no that's just for the house for whose house my mom's house did she not make money I ordered it they actually pay for it I just ordered it to my Amazon you have a point TV dresser matching bed stands all mount PC fans Who has a PC? I do Okay What do you play?

1:05:25Recently Last month I played Hill Divers 2 Nice It was very fun Some dresses And stuff Dresses? I No A dress Those dresses were for the Wedding My mom's Wedding dress What was she used for her? Not hers So you still have the bike Alright Yeah I still have it Have you ever checked what it's worth? The used market value is like at$9 ,000,$10 ,000. You could change your whole family if you're willing to like literally be a man for a second. Okay. If I were to sell it, I would just buy another one. I might as well just keep it. It's already paid off. Why would you buy another one right now? It's not paid off.

1:06:07You transfer the debt. Okay. But if I were to sell it a couple years or months, I will buy another one. A couple years, sure. We might be out of debt. We might have a fully funded emergency fund. We might have caught up in retirement. If we can do that, yeah. I don't miss out on a weekend ride. I don't give a shit about your weekend drive. You have so much debt, you shouldn't be doing weekends and drives. You should be working. You should be working. You should be working. My money requires me to be there from Monday to Friday. Yeah, you're getting another job. You're getting another job. Guys, you can't afford your bills.

1:06:33We're getting another job. Let me gift you a certification through course careers. Get just a sales job at home, a tech sales job. Do anything. Do anything. How do you even suggest that you have weekends with the financial state we're in? Guys, do we not even care? Do you want kids? Are we having kids? We want kids. We want kids. Not like this. I do admit we have to fix some financials before we decide to make some kids. Do you have any other motorcycles, things like that? Is this an only child of a bike? I have a dirt bike and a four-wheeler. A dirt bike and a four-wheeler. Yes. How much are they worth?

1:07:11Together, you can bring out like$3 ,000. They are used. Yeah. I had it for years. Okay. Anything else? Any other vehicles? I have three vehicles for like, they're under my name, three vehicles. Are they there at the house? One of them is. Where are the other two? One of them is in my parents' garage. Why? The other one my dad uses. I don't try to use it as much. Okay, the one that's in your - Take care of it. The one that's in your parents' garage, how much is that worth? That one's$12 ,000. How much is that ever used? I used it to come here Rarely used Just for travels And maybe That's his baby What about the other one?

1:07:58The other vehicle The one that's at our house? Yeah Is that your daily driver? That was my daily driver I call that a work truck Okay That's fine Well how much is that worth? That was like$4 ,000 Oh my I haven't even gotten a checking account This is a long episode It's okay It's okay It's okay guys If you're a daily driver sell the bulls**t what do we get? wow you can pay off the personal loan you can pay off the personal loan and you can pay off half the Wells Fargo card just by getting rid of your bulls**t your fun things your little toys your little Hot Wheels guys that f**k changes your life and you're literally not willing to?

1:08:35what's the point? if I were to decide how are you guys gonna like even be okay? in a few years when you can afford it or just be a f**k adult I have it already I have a title on there guys what is not coming through here? No, I understand. I just don't see the logic of buying it again later on. Guys, guys, guys. Okay, let me explain. Let me have a little explanation. Those cars are not going up 12 % or they're not going up 22 % a year in value. You have debt that is going, that is taking 22 % from you a year. Okay? Take that debt. Take your your little toys pay off the debt boom that's gone and all of a sudden you just saved yourself 22 on that money then you're like okay but i'm gonna go get another one yeah go get another one when you can afford it when can you afford it when all your bad debt is gone and when you have a fully funded emergency guys you don't have a fully funded emergency fund what happens if an emergency happens no one has no one's even able to answer that question i tell her not to spend the savings on it's not about spending savings come on you can pay off the biggest debt right now that's come on about the whole emergency thing the emergency fund his solution is to use credit cards that's what credit cards are for that's not what credit cards are for that's what i told him because you're in an emergency yeah you know so you need a large amount we're gonna get it via an emergency fund we don't we don't have one no because you have all the toys in the world that you're not willing to get rid of because you're not willing to sacrifice you're never going to get anything good you're never gonna actually get financial stability without any sacrifice.

1:10:14Good.

1:10:17Guys, it's literally just growing up. You're basically the same age as me, dude. Be an adult. You're 10 years into it. This is sad, infuriating, disappointing.

1:10:34I'm going to be candid. It's scary for the marriage. She might want to get out of debt. She might want to do all these things. The fact that you're not willing to make a simple sacrifice is very telling and selfish. Rally. Credit union. $31 available. Wingstop. Wingstop. Jack in the box. McDonald's. Raising gains. Asian Bistro. Nike. Going inside and getting some bulls**t. What is the Sunrise Canteen Military? $3. Probably going inside and getting some bulls**t. Getting some drive-thru. $5. $6. Golden Chick. McDonald's, Dutch Bros, Church's Chicken LTO Meatmark Dutch Bros Wingstop, Wingstop, another drive-thru $5.

1:11:21Drive-thru $17 Guys, what are we doing? We have 22 % debt, we literally couldn't afford our minimum monthly payments, and we're going to Wingstop every second of our life What is actually happening? What is actually happening? That is unacceptable beyond belief I portion a part of my paycheck to that card for food. You can't afford it. It's just a portion of it. Yes! It's a portion you cannot afford! It's a portion you cannot afford! And we just leave the rest for the bills. Oh my!

1:12:00I don't... I don't... You're the one that wanted to come on. I do not know what to do. I don't know what to do. if if we're at the point if we're at the if we're at the point where you literally think going out to eat is even somewhat okay in this financial situation I don't even know what we can talk about at this point after the marriage I've cut down cutting down doesn't matter buddy being an adult make a sacrifice for your marriage good I don't know what to do Is this the current balance in the savings? No, you said$0, so obviously that's gone Right? Um Yeah, that's gone We use it to pay it off a credit card Right $247 in the checking account But we think we can go out to eat when we have$247 Oh good, we're getting burgers Well, wing rings This is cutting back the spot $52.

1:13:07Cash having out$5. Starbucks. Starbucks. We think we're getting Starbucks when we can't afford to live. Have minimum payments when we can't afford. McDonald's. Amazon. Amazon. Amazon. Amazon. Amazon. Cash having out$400. Where the f*** did that go? Good question. Where did those$400 go to? Noah said he got me a gift that he's going to give me in the post show for all those who subscribe to that. maybe that he says it'll make me feel better i hope so because i'm gonna this feels like someone gave me a gift like on my table oh mcdonald's restaurant goodbundle.com goodbundle.com that's video games isn't it no it's an installment thing for bills no the good bundles it's for the light bill it's like a small description to get a um a cheaper plan rate for the electricity for the house and it's just ten dollars isn't it twice ten dollars twice oh um the other house is my parents house why are you paying for the dude you can't afford life how are you when do you want to have kids this does not happen unless you're bringing them into a really bad situation well i see i see a path forward where because i don't see it like i said once we refinance the house and property that is not that stabilize ourselves how how is that the answer i will bring down the monthly payment you think that is the thing that is killing you after all of this i didn't even put that in your debt yet and you think that is it you think that's what's holding you guys back well you bring down the monthly payment that leaves more money for the card itself buddy not with your spending you spend more money than you guys make i've cut down since we got married but i'm not spending as much as i am this is cut down then I don't want to f*** you what was happening before.

1:14:58Because this is after you guys got married. And don't worry, there's more. McDonald's, cash app and out$10. Amazon, music, Amazon. Cash app and out$12. This is cutting down. This is a f***ing joke. Spent$453 going out to eat. That's cutting down? Good job, guys. 453. How much is your phone bill? It's like 3 % of your spending. 4 %? 5? 185. Guys, we own on our phones, don't we? Yeah. When you're done with that, switch to helium. It's 20 bucks a month. You get the same f***ing towers you guys get. Come on. We got to save money. Y 'all got to use my favorite high yield savings account where you can get up to 4.6 % on your money plus FDIC insurance up to$2 million.

1:15:44You can also get up to$300 for signing up today. It's the personal high yield savings account that I use for my money. So don't let your money be losing money while it's just sitting there. Click the link in the description below and get those bonuses. Do you guys even know where your individual debts went? Sorry, where the personal loan went? Yeah. Tell me. $13 ,000 for the house. That we still owed. Huh? That we still owed to the house. We owed$13 ,000. Yeah, the rest. The balance. So$13 ,000 went to the house. $3 ,000 went to the motorcycle. The rest went to my Wells Fargo credit card. I had $5 ,000 in my savings and I bundled it with the$3 ,000 to pay off the motorcycle.

1:16:26To get rid of that payment. Besides the motorcycle, they were all, if I'm not mistaken, at zero percentages. We've now exchanged them for 22 percentages. Which, believe it or not, is a bigger number. The monthly payment was kind of killing us. I get the monthly payments. It's because you got things you couldn't afford. So that's when we would have made sacrifices. And we would have worked more. And we would have tried to pay them off so I was the biggest. You guys went the easy route, which isn't even easy because you made yourself really, in the end, a worse financial spot. how much what's the what's what's owed on the property is it under both your names yes no it's just under mine oh the property yeah yeah no no how much what's owed to the seller to the owner seller financing more than likely uh 100 115 000 115 yeah because then and what's the payment payment the payment doesn't go into the principal um what's the minimum fee payment like uh 1500 a month what and it was at 12 right yes okay is there any loans out other than the credit cards is there like a separate loan i don't see out for the building no okay thank you oh thank you if you sold the building what could you even get for it uh as of right now yeah we can get $44 ,000 for it.

1:17:44You have to add what we finished from the inside from the Discover card. So it's $36 ,000 plus the$10 ,000. And 13 % went to 0 % financing from your contractor, right? $13 ,000, right? Yes. For personal loan? Correct. Well, because you switched that from the personal loan, in the end if you paid over the same period of time that you were going to pay over the three years, the contractor, you literally just charge yourself an extra$3 ,000. And you can see that example here and how that interest works. Now, I know you saved$1 ,500 by paying them off early, right? Wasn't that the reason why? That's how much we saved, yes.

1:18:26Yeah, but you didn't save anything because you cost yourself. If you paid off in the same period of time,$3 ,000. So you saved$1 ,500, but you also added an additional$3 ,000. Did we think about this? We thought we had. The thought process behind this was to combine the... Consolidate. Consolidate some parts. I want to give you some kudos. You were right. Wealthy people use debt to get wealthy. A lot of wealthy people do. You guys are not doing it like wealthy people. You guys are using debt in the worst ways possible. you're exchanging everything for interest rates that are beyond unaffordable for you and are you and things that aren't even going up in value other than the property itself but the house on it is goes down the way you got it guys you are not debt people you do not know how to use debt before you ever go into debt again you need to close your accounts before you ever go into debt again you need to read as many books as possible and how to actually utilize debt on how to do you need to become learned real quick because whatever life experience you use to go into this has gotten you into one of the worst financial positions i've ever seen this is crazy and i don't even know what to say because you're not willing to make sacrifices by cutting down food more than you already have you're not willing to make sacrifices by paying off the debt you don't even know what your financial situation was you your your solution of the finances we're exchanging everything into a 22 percent interest from zero percent so like i don't even know what to do here do i budget the i mean the producer is gonna agree when i don't make someone a budget so i'll make you a budget but like i don't think that's even the issue you're just not willing to sacrifice guys we're just we're literally not willing to do you could pay off the bad debt today by getting rid of some poise some star wars gi joes essentially of the adulthood.

1:20:25Be a f***ing man. So the total income again is$4 ,500 a month. So the mortgage is$1 ,500. Utilities, what does that cost on a monthly basis? That's not a lot. About$100. No,$200 with water and electricity and Wi-Fi. Do you have any kind of insurance on this house? No. Why? That's risky. I know you don't need to I haven't gone to get insurance for it You guys are beyond Tornado Alley But it doesn't mean like hail won't happen I was thinking of getting the insurance After we refinanced the house and property Because we have to In order to get it Phone bill, what was that again? That's fucking insane Do we have any car payments now?

1:21:17Thank your student loans aren't accruing interest or having minimum monthly payments right now because of your situation of being in school debt minimum monthly payments outside of the mortgage where to put that in its own category $1 ,010 a month

1:21:40gas, driving how much do we spend on a monthly basis? $50 a week for both? oh no, that's just me okay what about you i spend like 120 a week i guess for both vehicles uh when i do use the other one actually let's say 180 180 over a month a month 180 a month hold on that is drastically different than 120 a week what is it give me a real number it's 180 a month okay okay and then 80 for you so 260 car insurances total across the board if we want to find another thing that we could have cut by the way before going and consolidating debt so and for our vehicles by the way you spent 330 on gas last month so that's what i'm changing it to how much 3.30.

1:22:36Together? Together. Oh. Okay, so car insurance is across the board. This is 180 for the three vehicles. 180 for you? For the three vehicles. That's her vehicle included. You added me? Yes, I added her car. Oh, okay. Yeah, I have car insurance. 180. Do 180 plus 50 for her car. Plus 50? Yes. Okay, so 230. 30. Oh, groceries guys. You can do$500 a month meal prepping, follow the meal plan in the budgeting program that we're going to give you guys. Take the budgeting program, take the investing program as well that we just came out with. You guys need to take it. You're not there yet, but you can at least learn the value of money when it grows by taking that.

1:23:22So go through the classes together, actually learn. You'll understand the value of the money that's actually growing when you take that and you'll learn just how bad this debt is. Okay. TP fun. Anything else you need to survive in life? $150. Medical healthcare. Anything? Gym. She has gym. How much? Like 12. Medical healthcare? Minimum monthly payments? Anything? I don't have any. Does medications count? Yeah. How much? $113 a month. Ask what? It's expensive. It's not even medication. It's for my gut. No. Okay. You got them nasty poops? No. I got them nasty poops. I don't have any. That's the problem.

1:24:11Oh. Can we trade? No. My stomach hurts. Mine does too. Okay. It just gets nasty at the end of it. 125.

1:24:29anything else you guys need to survive in life that's not in this budget that i have not mentioned no any pets no pets well yeah i do have a cat yes and he does feed him he just came to the house he was from the he was just okay how much 50 bucks a month not less maybe like 20 a month oh we got dogs too they're not ours they're not ours do you pay money? no they're the neighbor dogs keep on bothering the cat believe it or not they come for the food believe it or not but if you actually follow my budget which nothing in this conversation indicates you will because we are not aligned to be very clear we're not even close to aligned you actually are under what you bring in on a monthly basis gives you an extra$225 $255 a month I told you you did i did but this let's not even do the mortgage even though it's at a bad rate like a really bad rate let's not even throw that in because usually we don't throw in mortgages i just want to give you an example of how things are going to look without making the sacrifice that you guys need to make let's not include the student loans either so that's just an extra thing i'd love to walk out with a plan guys but this is like i don't know this really the worst you've seen are you just being exaggerated um in terms of messiest and just confusion and like understanding yes it is absolutely 166 months is what it takes to pay off all the debt besides the mortgage and the student loans 166 months how many years is that oh it's only 14 years that's it 114 years in your current situation without you selling your sell your but you know what the mortgage is terrible it's a 12 % student loans are not going to be at a great percent most likely in your situation I'm guessing so let's throw those things on there let's pay off those as well guys that takes 749 months 749 months how many years is that oh we're paying off debt for the next 62 years of our life so that's what's currently happening that's what our financial situation so i'm done like i'm gonna be honest i have to stick around for the post show that's okay there's a gift but like i don't know you know the answer i've said the answer a million times go get more jobs to make more money sell your shit rid of the bad debt immediately be a adult actually sacrifice follow the budget you actually do have real estate you got a little dumb with it so the score is not going to be good i'm getting a three out of ten retirement you're contributing for your 401k and you said you have something little but i bet it's nothing never mind okay just just you it doesn't start till till june one out of ten great emergency fund there's nothing zero out of ten debt it's ridiculous beyond belief it's stupid but you don't have any collections or irs debt so one out of ten Spending your budget, your spending was stupid.

1:27:29Wasn't the worst I've ever seen, but it is absolutely dumb for your situation. 3 out of 10. Hammer financial score.

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