Fighter Pilot Reveals Why You Never Hit Your Goals

26 Jun 2026 · 1 h 4 min · 26 chapters

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In short

How to hit goals by closing the “execution gap” between an objective and reality using iterative thinking, grounded reflection, and expectation management; why uncertainty drives stress and how leaders should respond.

Guest

Christian (former U.S. Air Force fighter pilot; 11 years). Later founder/business leader (20 years) and now works with organizations and sports teams using fighter-pilot cognitive models (Afterburner; claims work with ~4,000 businesses and 19 NFL teams).

Key claims

Most decisions are based on perception, not reality (he cites “95%”). Fear—not ego—blocks improvement. Leaders often “vomit” tasks without objective clarity. Iteration beats linear planning; AI can be a “wingman” if you scope goals and ask it how to help. Use a four-step debrief framework “ORCA”: Objective, Reality, Cause/Curiosity, Action.

Notable examples

Coffee-shop queue debriefing; fighter pilot training from first mission to contested airspace with bombs; Moneyball as fact-based decision-making; NBA player development; insurance brokers; Kabul humanitarian/security work iterating staffing costs (hiring Gurkhas) and adding scope clauses every two weeks.

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Chapters

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The Essence of Fighter Pilots

0:00 to 0:39

Explore why fighter pilots constantly seek improvement and the impact of perception vs. reality.

“No matter what you see or where you go, you're always thinking, how can this be done a little bit better?”

Understanding Uncertainty

0:53 to 3:40

Discuss the role of uncertainty in life and leadership, and its impact on stress and decision-making.

“you used this word that I think it is the obstacle of our day, at least in this moment.”

Flawless Leadership Defined

3:40 to 6:40

Christian describes his views on flawless leadership and the unattainability of perfection.

“With AI, you know, I'm like everyone else.”

Iterative Thinking and AI

6:40 to 9:30

Explore the concept of iterative thinking, its importance in leadership, and the role of AI.

“Because everything that we're programmed to do as a human to survive is the opposite of the skill sets and the mental models you need to be a fighter pilot.”

Cultivating Curiosity in Organizations

9:30 to 11:25

Strategies for fostering a culture of curiosity and iteration in corporate settings.

“And I certainly haven't put 10 ,000 hours in them, but I have absolutely probably put 10 ,000 narrations.”

The Debriefing Process

11:25 to 14:00

Learn about the debriefing process used by fighter pilots and its application to improve performance.

“I prefer to think of founders, people that found something that wasn't ever there before.”

Understanding the ORCA Debrief Process

14:00 to 17:40

Learn about the four-step ORCA process for effective debriefing and execution.

“And you start to effectively have the iterative view of everything in life, your relationship, your children, your business.”

The Importance of Operating in Reality

17:40 to 19:54

Explore how biases and perceptions affect decision-making and goal achievement.

“And then the action projects you into the future.”

The Three B's: Biases, Beliefs, and Behaviors

19:54 to 23:14

Discuss the influence of biases and beliefs on actions and success.

“misinformation from this side, but it's real information on that side.”

Iteration as a Key to Success

23:14 to 26:07

Understand how iteration and expectation management contribute to success.

“To become a fighter pilot, you fly roughly 400 missions and every mission is incrementally harder than the mission before.”
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Setting Intentions and Objectives

26:07 to 28:01

Learn the difference between intentions and objectives in achieving goals.

“We need to start getting really good at expectation management and daily setting of expectation.”

The Importance of Coaching and Iteration

28:01 to 29:54

Learn how coaching and external feedback can enhance performance and goal achievement.

“And my actions are to practice that until I get there.”

Reevaluating Goals in Pursuit of Excellence

29:55 to 32:05

Understand the relationship between effort, goals, and the purpose of achievement.

“You know, we're pretty good at figuring out what to do.”

Navigating Organizational Focus and Direction

32:06 to 34:29

Explore how to create clarity and direction within organizations that lack focus.

“Like I'm going to get as much as I possibly can get from whatever I'm doing every time because I believe I'm giving max effort in whatever thing I commit myself to.”

Adapting Business Strategies for Market Needs

34:30 to 38:09

Learn how to adapt business strategies to effectively meet market demands and consumer needs.

“So then what happens is all of a sudden everyone realizes, oh, we've lost the grassroots.”

Creating Solutions Through Curiosity and Iteration

38:10 to 42:06

Discover how curiosity and iterative problem-solving can lead to successful business outcomes.

“and we just had coffees and beers with everyone every single day.”

Applying Fighter Pilot Strategies in Business

42:06 to 43:36

Learn how fighter pilot cognitive models can simplify problem-solving in business.

“And then I applied that into property development, building a hotel, into publishing.”

Simplifying Complex Processes

43:36 to 45:08

Discover the importance of focusing on one aspect at a time for improvement.

“So the poor kid's sitting there trying to, I've got to put my feet in the right spot.”

The Role of Ego in Performance

45:08 to 47:21

Explore how ego can hinder progress and the importance of humility in learning.

“And even if you can see like that there's multiple things going on in a process, in this case, you know, in the example we're using is hitting a baseball, you know, maybe they're doing a few things wrong.”

Identity and Fear: Barriers to Growth

47:21 to 49:27

Understand the relationship between identity, fear, and the ability to iterate effectively.

“there's, like you said, the fictitious company that you were describing, right?”

Setting Achievable Goals for Success

49:27 to 51:28

Learn why setting realistic goals can lead to consistent wins and reduced stress.

“And when we talk about identity, what we're talking about are the behaviors that accumulate in us that define who we are.”

Iterative Cycles in Business Strategy

51:28 to 54:28

Discover how to implement iterative cycles for effective business management.

“So again, if you look at those 400 missions, every one of them is incrementally more difficult than the one before.”

ADHD Insights and Brain Function

54:28 to 56:00

Gain insights into how ADHD influences time management and productivity.

“what better platforms to say, hey, people are going to use you to find us, right?”

Understanding ADHD and Intentionality

56:00 to 57:59

Learn how ADHD affects time perception and the importance of intentionality in coaching and life.

“And as part of their assessment, they're like, we need both parents to go and get an ADHD assessment.”

The Fighter Pilot Mindset on Time Management

58:00 to 1:01:20

Discover how fighter pilots structure their time to achieve goals and avoid busyness.

“And on Friday, I can really feel my feet in the ground.”

The Importance of Meaningful Work

1:01:21 to 1:02:00

Understand the difference between busyness and meaningful activity and how to achieve it.

“But the reality is the measurement is the result that you're delivering and achieving within time, within budget, without burning yourself out.”
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0:00Ryan Hanley:What is it about fighter pilots? No matter what you see or where you go, you're always thinking, how can this be done a little bit better? Your 95 % of our decisions are based on our own perceptions, which means that they're not based in reality. And the great thing about an execution gap is it's an emotion-free space for you to get curious as to why it exists. People believe their opinions and ideas outweigh reality. Leaders often just give a vomit of stuff that needs to get done to their team. You can only solve one problem at a time. The thing that gets in the way is fear, not ego.

0:38Ryan Hanley:Christian, dude, it's incredible to have you on the show. I'm very excited about our conversation today. Thanks, Ryan. It's an absolute honor to be here. I'm really grateful for the opportunity to talk today and see if we can share some insights for your audience. Yeah, so when we were talking in the green room, you used this word that I think it is the obstacle of our day, at least in this moment. And it is uncertainty. I think that most of the stress, anxiety, you'd also use the word panic in the green room. Like, I think one of the cores, if not the core root cause of so much of this heightened tension we deal with is uncertainty.

1:26Ryan Hanley:So maybe break down with your clients, with your life, with your experience, like where is this uncertainty coming from that I think everybody who's listening to this show in some regard feels every single day of their life and is dealing with in hopefully positive ways. But I think, unfortunately, there's a lot of negative ways that we're dealing with this uncertainty as well. Yeah, look, I think uncertainty has been there for hundreds of thousands of years. I mean, if you're a caveman and you went out hunting, there was no certainty that A, you'd find something and B, it's not going to bite you back.

2:00So I think uncertainty has been a factor of humanity, which is why some people thrive and grow and build empires and businesses within that uncertainty and others kind of get crushed by it. I would say the only kind of radical change in the last 10 years is we just talk about it more.

2:22Ryan Hanley:and we talk about uncertainty as if it can be tamed. I have a book coming out in September. It's called A Flawless Leadership. And the premise of flawless leadership is to understand that perfection, which has its origins in Latin and in scholarly texts, is an environment where basically you can control everything. For something to be perfect, it has to be completely controlled and delivered both internally and externally. the way that I define a flawless leader is a leader who understands that perfection's unattainable. And even the origin of the word flawless comes from Vikings. It's a warrior word.

3:03And it means that my stone is not broken and it's more about what you can control. So when we look at uncertainty as human nature is geared towards survival, we tend to project externally all of our problems, like it's the world, rather than internally, which is, okay, the world is going to be uncertain. It's a given. But what I need to be focused on is how I respond to it and building the structures, the systems, the thought patterns, the philosophies that I have as an individual to view uncertainty as an opportunist rather than as a threat. With AI, you know, I'm like everyone else. I didn't know anything really.

3:47I've been using AI since GPT-1 and having it write my emails and everything. And then I joined a program run by Dan Martel and he had this wonderful advice, which is if you need help from AI, ask it how to help you. And ever since I've done that, we've built, and I love that because it harnesses one of the core philosophies of my former, what I call career 1.0, which was as a fighter pilot, which is you're always curious. There's always this, how can I use this tool better? How can I use the airplane better? How can I fly it better? You're always asking questions based on today's uncertainty. As it crystallizes into reality, you can carry some of that forward.

4:27And with AI, obviously, it's not really a fixed state. It's the acceleration of the acceleration of technology. And I think what we need to shift as humans, which are largely, our thought patterns are largely lineal and by lineal thought patterns, what we're really saying is, I need to get there and here I am. So what do I need to do? We need to embrace iterative thinking. And iterative thinking is engineered as a cognitive model that deals with uncertainty very well, because it says, at this current point of time, this is what I know, but I'm probably going to need to know something different tomorrow as the world changes around me.

5:10And the learning model that AI uses is an iterative learning model. It has a go, it attempts things, and then it gets it right or wrong, and then it learns. The thing about AI, though, is it learns an awful lot faster than a human being and has a memory of a steel trap. So I think of AI as like a wingman. I think of it as an alternate intelligence source of me. And the more it knows about me, the more it knows about where I'm going. And this is what we need to understand with AI. You ask it to do something that you're already doing, it's just going to do, it's not going to be that helpful. It's just going to do whatever you're doing now more useful.

5:47But if you have a conversation with AI and you use it as a tool to say, this is where I'm going, how do we get there? How can you help me? And ask me as many questions as you need to understand the scope of the project. A little bit like you would if you are using an external vendor, like you're building a house and you're talking to an architect, an architect is an expert at architecture, building homes, understanding how all the systems work together. But you don't just tell an architect, I want to build a house. And when they come back at you and it's a crappy design, you say, you're a bad architect.

6:20You have to have a conversation. You have to scope it out. You have to talk about your feelings. What feels good? How do you want the room to flow? And what I love about the fighter pilot way of thinking and working is everything we do. And you have to understand that a fighter pilot, we're basically a reprogrammed human being. Because everything that we're programmed to do as a human to survive is the opposite of the skill sets and the mental models you need to be a fighter pilot. So what we understand is everything in the world of a fighter pilot, you start with a target and work backwards. And then you iterate your actions to get there.

6:54Whereas a human being does the opposite. A human being says, here's who I am and what I do. And this is where I want to go. Which means that you're really not going to transform yourself or evolve yourself into the person you need to be. and at risk right now is anyone in the intellectual space, anyone who is in the leadership space. Because if you keep approaching leadership as you do today, which is managing what exists, three years from now, you're not going to have a job because AI needs direction. So in an ironic way, we've gone through this phase where technology has dehumanized us to some degree.

7:35We were talking about it before we got on the podcast about how technology is making us neurotic because we really only do things based on what the technology tells us to do. Whatever the messages we receive, whatever the email that's just been sent, whatever our job tracking software tells us. So we've actually gone backwards into being these really reactive leadership models. And AI needs the opposite. It needs us to be deeply human because that's what it can't do. It needs us to go back into the critical thinking structures of the brain. It requires us to get creative. It requires us to understand the emotional impact that we need the intelligence to deliver.

8:14So I'm kind of hopeful that, and that's my job is to help people with this, is to help you reconnect way more at the human layer, to be more free to go back into those models of building relationships, talking about emotion, being engineered towards making an impact on the world and the people around you rather than being effectively the doing side of what

8:42Ryan Hanley:your technology is telling you to do today. Lots to dig in there. So one, I did not know the genesis of the word flawless. And I love the fact that it means, what is it? My stone is unbroken. Is that what you said? What was it? Yeah. Yeah. My rock is not broken. Is not broken. I love that. I love where these words come from. I want to dig in maybe a little bit into this idea of iterative thinking, because there's a quote from Naval Ravikant. I'm a huge Naval fan. And he had this, he built on Malcolm Gladwell's 10 ,000 Hours. And he said, it's not about putting in 10 ,000 hours. It's about achieving 10 ,000 iterations that gets you to mastery.

9:27Ryan Hanley:And that, to me, resonated so much more in my life than 10 ,000 hours because there's things that I feel top 5%, top 3%, top 1 % efficient in certain tasks. And I certainly haven't put 10 ,000 hours in them, but I have absolutely probably put 10 ,000 narrations. So that really spoke to me. And I will say after doing 450 plus episodes of this show, the idea of curiosity is pulled through almost every one of these high achieving guests like yourself who've been on the show. It's almost like a core tenant of achievement is curiosity. And I think iterative thinking and curiosity kind of go together.

10:14Ryan Hanley:So let's say I'm sitting here, I'm listening to this show, and maybe curiosity and this idea of iterating, it just hasn't been programmed into me. Maybe I came up through corporate world where it was just task, stamp, swipe, task, stamp, swipe. I was actually penalized for thinking iteratively, for being curious about things. Stay in your lane, do your job, do what you're told. This is what I pay you to do, right? Like there's so many people who are now, I feel like in the way the world is today and all the entrepreneur porn that's out there and the access to entrepreneurial opportunities that AI is creating, their brain is starting to open up.

10:57Ryan Hanley:Hey, maybe I can be an entrepreneur, but they've been almost like programmed for most of their life to stay in their box, to stay in their lane, to incremental improvements, you know, one step at a time kind of stuff. how do you recommend to your clients and the companies that you're working with that they can maybe break free of some of that linear thinking and get into a more iterative curiosity driven culture how do you start to to build that if it doesn't exist inside your organization or yourself today yeah well it's yeah iteration is really the talent that an inventor has the talent you know i think entrepreneurs are bad word now because there's more people that are entrepreneurs that aren't than are.

11:39I prefer to think of founders, people that found something that wasn't ever there before. Yeah, or builders. I really like the word builders. Yeah. And they found a problem that needed to be solved. I think one of the, again, the challenge with an entrepreneur is when you approach entrepreneurialism with a linear mindset, you say, I have a product, everyone needs this, but you haven't actually asked anyone. and then you wonder why it doesn't work. Whereas, you know, your founders who do very well, they're always curious about, is this fulfilling a need that's met? And they're always challenging that and testing it.

12:14So the best way to think iteratively is, which is what the Air Force gets you to do, is use a system that is iterative. So follow some steps that automatically create an iterative mindset. In the world of fighter pilots, we codify it as the debrief. And what's interesting in my own journey, I was a fighter pilot for 11 years, a business founder for 20 years. And what was interesting is I always thought debriefing was a ritual. It was a meeting. But what I've realized in the last few years is that it's actually the entire way of, it's an entire way of thinking. It's a way of viewing the world. And I came upon this, before I talk about debriefing, I'll tell you a story where they had the aha moment.

13:03So here we are in Boston, actually working with a large group of insurance brokers, and we went to get a coffee before the event started. So we go to the coffee shop around the corner and we're sitting in the queue and there's five people in the queue. And we noticed that there's five people behind the counter as well. So we're sitting there like, well, how can there be five people behind the counter, five people in the queue, and maybe it hasn't move for five minutes. And then we started to deconstruct it. My wingman, guy called Balls, ex-United States Air Force F-16 pilot. And then he flew the first lady around in the presidential flight up in Washington.

13:38Ryan Hanley:And we're sitting there and we're like, start to deconstruct what this person's doing, what that person's doing, how they can be more efficient. We got our copies and we sat down and we're like, what is it with us? What is it about fighter pilots? No matter what you see or where you go, you're always thinking, how can this be done a little bit better? And that's when I realized, you know what? That is us. So this whole idea of debriefing, which is reflection on performance, becomes reflection on everything. And you start to effectively have the iterative view of everything in life, your relationship, your children, your business.

14:13It's like an itch that you can't help but scratch. It's like, oh, this could be a bit better. we can do a little bit better with this process. We can shave 30 seconds off the way we talk with our clients in a meeting. We can tweak this. We can tweak that. So what the debrief is, it's a four-step process called orca. The same is a killer whale. I have another story about debriefing killer whales, which if we get time, I'll tell you it later. But what it stands for is objective result, cause, and action. And when people see fighter pilots and we work with organizations are always like, oh, you guys like robots, mission objectives?

14:50And it's like, no, it means an objective view of the world. It means you don't bring your biases. You don't bring your opinions. You're creating a picture of the future that's completely objective. We know where it is. We know how to measure it. And we believe in our soul that it's achievable. So that's the first step that most people aren't very good at. Everything in the future is generic and subjective. And we create these objectives in another system I'll talk about later. The R is the result or reality. And if you look at the neuroscience on how human beings make decisions, 95 % of our decisions are based on our own perceptions, which means that they're not based in reality.

15:36So when you do anything in life, the only moment in time that really supports your decision making in the future is being very honest about your reality, right? If you want to get healthier and that's your intention, but the reality is you reach for a bag of chips with every meal, you're chomping a Snickers bar after dinner every night, then your reality is out of kilter with your intention, right? So between objective and reality lives a gap. And we define that as the execution gap. And the great thing about an execution gap is it's an emotion-free space for you to get curious as to why it exists.

16:17And that's what the C stands for, curiosity, or the cause of this gap. And what's really important about this process in the way the human brain works, if you go to a museum and you see those plasma balls, the big glass balls, and they have like electricity going everywhere inside of them. And if you put your hands and all your fingers on the glass ball, you'll see the electricity dancing around everywhere. It's kind of weak and sippid and it's just... If you put one finger on the glass ball, you get this incredibly intense piece of electricity flowing into your finger. There's no... It's not dancing around everywhere.

16:56It's locked in. The brain is a plasma ball. It's just electricity. And when you reflect on something, if you reflect on 10 things, you can't access the deep recesses of the memory and you're working with assumption, not reality. So what happens is the objective is the finger on the ball. The reality is the electricity. And the curiosity is, well, why is there a gap in between? So you get this really powerful focused ability to access the full structures of the brain. So it's deep, meaningful, intentional reflection. And it's in the context of what good looks like in the future, rather than why am I a bad person and why am I a loser and why is it not working?

17:45when we look at the when we get curious we're just looking for one thing one root cause that's within my control and once i understand what it is and i can control it the a is the action what do i do tomorrow morning or what do i do right now to close the execution gap so in this one really neat conversation you're connecting to the future you're assessing it versus today you're looking over your shoulder at yesterday, which is the only real thing that's happened. And then the action projects you into the future. Every meeting in every business, every conversation with your wife, your children, your family, if you structure it with orca, then everyone understands that we're having a conversation where we win at the end because every conversation is anchored with what is your objective.

18:39And now I've got something that I can control, I'm evolving into this flawless individual, this flawless person. I'm focusing on what I can control and iterating and adapting very quickly to everything that I can't.

18:52Ryan Hanley:Yeah. I love that framework. And one of the things that I found doing the show is whenever I have someone who has at some point in their life operated in a space where like life and death was part of the part of the job right like you you mess up going mock two 30 ,000 feet in the air you're in big trouble I'm assuming right like there's there's there's serious consequences to the to you know misaction and what you one of the things that you mentioned multiple times throughout working that framework is this idea of of operating in reality and one of the core things that that I like to teach and I work through in my own life and try really hard because you said that we don't bring our biases we don't bring our beliefs perceptions we you kind of operate and what's in front of you what you're looking at that feels like one of the most important aspects of success if not forever certainly today with all the deluge of information and opinions and biases and misinformation from this side, but it's real information on that side.

20:06Ryan Hanley:And who should I trust? And where should I go? It's like, it seems like a lot of people get lost in the way they would like the world to be versus what's actually happening. How do you stay grounded? And how do you help your clients stay grounded in what's actually happening on the field? What are the real results, repercussions, you know, collateral that comes out of your action. Because I feel like when we lose the path, it's because, well, we I this should be happening or I wish this was happening. And unfortunately, that's just not the game. That's that's not what we're seeing. And we get off track hoping things will happen or believing that they should happen.

20:55Ryan Hanley:But it's it's not what's actually going on in front of us. Well, it's, I mean, that's what survival looks like. That's why 80 % of our biases tend towards negativity. Because if I think bad things are outside the cave, I'm going to survive and stay inside the cave. Like it's that simple. That is the program. And if you, I call them the three B's, the biases, beliefs, and behaviors. And we are driven by biases, which are all subconscious. They're the autopilot of a human being. And the autopilot is programmed by all the experiences you have through life. So if you're brought up in a dysfunctional home, you're biased to believe that there's no such thing as a functional home.

21:39If you're in an environment where conflict is how problems are solved, you will bring conflict into the way you solve problems. And you won't think you're doing anything wrong. And you will think everyone else is doing something wrong because that's what biases do. And that's why the world is in the state it is today. Because we're in an environment where we're fed on our phones information that feeds into what our biases already are. So then our biases become conscious. And when we become conscious of our biases, it becomes a belief. And we do, we behave in a way in what we believe in. So, you know, it's the Ted Lasso story.

22:20You put believe in the change room and all of a sudden the team believes it's a championship team. I love that documentary Wrexham where Rob McElhenney and Ryan Reynolds have bought that Welsh team and they've just absolutely monstered it through the league from absolutely nothing. That's a great iterative story. so you can't tell someone they're biased and you can't tell someone their beliefs are wrong and you can't tell someone to behave differently so to really unpick all of that you need to have iteration as a practice because as a fighter pilot i'll tell you right now we are biased towards action we are biased towards success i mean we win 99.1 percent of the missions that we fly.

23:08And all of those biases are reprogrammed because the system reprograms them. We have an incredibly high standard and everyone in the organization wants to meet those standards. To become a fighter pilot, you fly roughly 400 missions and every mission is incrementally harder than the mission before. We're talking about a program that takes young men and women off the street with absolutely no skills in what the job is. And you think of how businesses recruit, businesses recruit skills. The Air Force recruits mindset. It recruits kids who believe they can be anything. They recruit a belief system.

23:49So here you go. You fly your first mission and your first mission is literally in an airplane. Push forward, you go down, pull back, you go up, push left, you bank left, push right, you bank right and hit the rudder pedals and you yore all over and then you land. The last mission, you're flying as a four-ship in contested airspace with 2 ,000-pound bombs under your wing and you've got to drop them on the target within five seconds, right? So throughout that process of iteration, and this is what, you know, we've worked with 19 NFL teams at Afterburner, and the reason we did that is the first NFL team we worked with won the Super Bowl.

24:21And what you find is too often within these systems, people believe their opinions and ideas outweigh reality. Another great example is the book Moneyball in the movie, which was a very fact-based reality-driven methodology that delivered success. And even though we have all of this evidence, and even though we know that we make better decisions when we're grounded in reality, the human bias always tends towards, I know best, this is easier than it's going to be, and if we just do something new, it's going to be better. It's a little bit like if I just buy a new washing machine, I'm going to fix the broken one's going to be fixed.

25:06But the reality is, well, you could probably just fix the existing one and you don't need a new one. So we've moved into this world of hypervelocity, not only hypervelocity of just the speed of the world, but the velocity in which an expectation is believed to be met. So we effectively, you book an Uber, you book a Waymo, you order your Uber Eats. Your expectation is that within five minutes, I get an Uber. Within 20 minutes, I get my meal. And anything outside of that elicits an emotional response. You get very upset. This speed of expectation delivery is subconsciously now programmed into every leader inside organizations, big or small, founders, entrepreneurs, businesses with four people, businesses with 400 ,000 people, and we work with all of them.

25:56And a big part of working with leaders is to say, hey, look, you're setting expectations that take months to achieve and you're anxious because you're not achieving them on the first day. We need to start getting really good at expectation management and daily setting of expectation. And when we talk about daily setting of expectation, very rarely does anyone wake up in the morning and write down the three things they need to achieve today. people wake up have their coffee their brains all over the place because we're coming out of you know our REM sleep and our expansive default mode network and we've got to switch into the task positive network of the brain which is we're getting stuff done and usually what that means is you open your emails and you start going through your emails so you're pushed around by the technology so a big part of of execution and getting things done let's use an nba player right an NBA player at some stage as a child, they decide they want to be in the NBA, right?

26:54That's called an intention. And just because you want it doesn't mean you're going to get it, right? So we start with intention and then we have to think about setting a destination. And when we talk about a destination, think of it the same way as when you fly on vacation. Let's say we're going to Cancun and you get on the airplane and the captain says, welcome aboard, ladies and gentlemen. Our goal is to get to Cancun today. That word goal. Imagine if you heard that as a passenger on the airplane. You'd be getting off the airplane, right? Again, we are biased to believe that a goal is nice to achieve and a destination I must arrive at.

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27:27So we have to reprogram ourselves as a leader to say, well, if my intention is to be an NBA player and I'm 12 years old, my destination is to get on the first team now. Like I've got to get on, I've got to hit the destination today. Then we go into an objective. So destination might be, My destination is to make the team, but there's a whole bunch of stuff I have to do there, which is understand the plays, train, practice, improve my jump shot, improve my three-pointers. So the objective then is the layer that defines action. So my objective is to get four from 10 from the three line. That's my objective.

28:08And my actions are to practice that until I get there. Now, importantly, if you do that without a coach and without the external view of what you're going to do, you're going to start to believe your own storytelling. Oh, I can't flow, three flows. I keep going too high. I keep doing this. Because you can't physically see your hand. You can't physically see your arm. You can't see your body language. You can't see where your eyes are looking when they're looking at the wrong place. So this is what a coach does. A coach helps you debrief because it brings the perception outside of it. So all of a sudden, what you see, and this is why a kid makes it to the NBA from the age of 12, is they're doing this debrief iteration naturally.

28:48Some people can just do it naturally. They're already doing that. If you look at, I just watched a documentary on the weekend about Fernando Mendoza. And just the all-pervading theme throughout his life from every coach, his parents, is his thirst for knowledge. He was talking to the coaches at six o 'clock at night. After every session, after the coaches ran the reviews, he would seek them out for more personal guidance. So he wasn't a fighter pilot. He didn't follow Orca, but he's naturally doing it anyway. He is very clear around, I want to be in the NFL. My destination is to get on the high school football team, then the college D1 athlete, then, then, then.

29:34and he's doing the intentional practice to get there, the intentional iteration of the practice. And it all boils down to taking big intentions and translating them into those three things I need to achieve today. To almost liberate yourself from the to-do list. Because when you set achieve lists, the doing just kind of looks after itself. You're a smart, humans aren't dumb. You know, we're pretty good at figuring out what to do. And this is, you apply the framework to what you're doing, your team's doing, and AI just becomes another player. Once you want to achieve three things, hey, AI is what I do every day.

30:10Hey, Claude, this is the three things I want to achieve today. How can you help me? Here's what I can do. Here's what I can't do. Here's what I need from you. And I'll tell you right now, if you sit out to achieve three things in a day, you typically achieve three things by 9 a.m. Well, if you're like me and you start work at six, and there's no distractions. You can just power. So over 30 years with Afterburner and working with almost 4 ,000 businesses, when we start debriefing, the vast majority, and we quantify it at around 80 % to 85%, of organizations don't know where they're going. They don't know what they need to achieve.

30:50and it's a constant guessing game each and every day as they run around urgently reacting to reality rather than getting ahead of reality and doing the work that has meaning rather than just doing the work. So I love this concept of

31:07Ryan Hanley:if the pilot of your flight gets on and says our goal is to get to Cancun today, you're going to get off the plane because I completely agree. As soon as you said that, my first thought was like, that's not the language I want to hear. But that's the language everyone uses in business. Yes. Everyone uses in life. No, that hit me like a sack of potatoes. I love that. And I completely agree. I've always had this, you know, personally, I've always had this very love-hate relationship with the idea of goals because I would consider myself a very hard worker like yourself. I'm up early. I'm working, constantly thinking about, you know, whatever it is that I'm doing.

31:44Ryan Hanley:I coach Little League. I have been accused many times, in jest most of the time, of breaking down the swings of 12-year-olds. So I play college baseball. I'm enamored by the body mechanics of the game and really sports in general and a big fitness guy. And I can tell you from a body mechanics standpoint what every one of my guys, what their thing is. and like I spend a lot of time thinking about it and it's just a microcosm of this is kind of the way I've always been and why I've struggled with goals is if I'm always kind of breaking things down and I'm always working as hard as I can and I'm always pushing forward and what is the purpose of the goal?

32:33Ryan Hanley:Like I'm going to get as much as I possibly can get from whatever I'm doing every time because I believe I'm giving max effort in whatever thing I commit myself to. So then why is the goal important? And to your point, so often we set these goals and we're like, well, you know, set a 120 % goal and if you get to 105%, that's better than you would have gotten anyways. And I'm like, but you didn't achieve the number that you put on the piece of paper. So why even put that piece of paper to begin with? Because I could have just put the 100 % goal and then felt amazing when I got to 105 % if that same amount of effort was going to get me there.

33:15Ryan Hanley:But this idea of what do I want to achieve versus some arbitrary goal to me makes a lot more sense. And then connecting this entire thought and getting to my next question is, you said so many of the organizations that you've worked with don't know where they're going. I believe that 100%. It's been my experience as well with the organizations I've worked in, either been an executive of or consulted with as well. How do you figure out where you're supposed to go? Like if you're, let's say you get hired in and you're in the executive suite, you're brand new to a company and you sit down in your first meeting and you listen to the CEO talk and you're like, oh my God, we're just kind of like getting through every day.

34:03Ryan Hanley:Like to your point, just reacting to problems. how would you start to how do you start to focus that organization when you're sitting down with someone and go let's figure out where you actually need to go versus just reacting to the last problem that came up or the last email that hit my inbox how do i actually figure out where it is that that i need to go at whether it's personal goals or a business goal so all of a sudden you're pursuing exclusivity, okay? You would think in someone's brain, you would say, if we've gone from delivering a business model that serves everyone in the world who's a child, and then we get them as a child, and then the McDonald's model, the Happy Meal, and we've got them for life, and then all of a sudden we want to be Louis Vuitton, and the whole thing collapses, right?

34:52So then what happens is all of a sudden everyone realizes, oh, we've lost the grassroots. We need to go back there. But it's too much of an admission of failure for the leadership to go back. So they're sitting there saying, no, no, no, no, it's not that. It's not that. And it's like, well, how can it not be that? We went from providing a really good product to every retailer in the world, our sales team are out at the call for, and all of a sudden we're sitting behind our desks and we're spending millions, if not billions of dollars in supporting tier one athletes it's not going to work. So what happened there was the company decided it wanted to be something else without thinking about what's the effect of that in the real world.

35:41So this whole idea, and it's very important in an era of uncertainty and the fickle nature of a consumer, is you've got to constantly start with, well, what effect do we want to achieve in the world? Once we know the effect we want to achieve, then what's our objective? Yeah. So, and I use this example in my book, Afterburner Advantage. And if we want every person to be an athlete, then we need to build a business strategy that enables every person to be an athlete, not just supreme athletes on the planet. We need to do both because we want to inspire and for anyone to feel like, you know, hey, I'd like to be like Mike.

36:15You know, we have to have both. And then you start doing the work. And then all of a sudden, as you go, right, we want to be, we want to make everyone an athlete. How do we do that? Wow. We've got a lot of work to do now. Uh, when we were exclusive, it was like fun, sexy work, but now that we're going out to everyone, it's like, but let's connect it with meaning. Let's connect every four, five, six, seven year old and inspire them with our clothing to be, uh, to be, um, a potential, a potential athlete and the coaches who are our enablers, let's, let's reconnect with them. and I was in a room with a coach of one of the most successful college teams and we're having a conversation and the conversation was like, what happened to you guys?

36:57Six years ago, you used to come and see me like three, four times a year. You'd get us all, all the coaches together and you'd come and we'd just go off site for two days. I haven't even heard from you guys for six months and you wonder why we're all going with a different brand. So the first place to start your strategy is outside your eyeballs, on the other side of your eyes. Then you reframe what can we do to make that. I built an entire multi-million dollar business with this. I had a business that had no products, no services at all. It didn't even exist. It was a brand new company. Me and my best friend started it.

37:31We had an industry and the industry started as providing security in post-war-torn countries. And then it morphed into humanitarian services because we iterated in the field. And what we would do is we would, this wasn't conscious, by the way. This is how strong biases are. That bias towards curiosity and the bias towards doing things a little bit better meant that we were doing that orca thing with everyone in town. And this was specifically in Kabul in Afghanistan. So we flew into Afghanistan with nothing. Sweat equity, meager retirement savings from being a fighter pilot for 11 years. and we just had coffees and beers with everyone every single day.

38:14We were always out with the people doing the work. And we would ask, hey, I'm Boo. What's your name? I'm Mike. What are you doing here, Mike? I'm building. I'm with this company. We're building a road from Kabul to Kandahar. Awesome. That's going to really change things up here. That's going to be a massive contributor to the economy. You must really enjoy the work. Yeah, I do. It's really challenging. How's it going? Oh, it's going really well. We're doing this. We're doing that. we're dealing with a lot of the challenges. And we had done our homework and we had this conversation a few times and we'd learned that it's Afghanistan.

38:48Nothing's easy, right? And the biggest cost that we could understand in that part of the world was labor.

38:57Ryan Hanley:So we're sitting there and we're like, oh, okay. We understand that it's difficult to secure the environment, that there's terrorists and IEDs and all this sort of stuff. And we're like, yeah, yeah, so it's costing us an absolute fortune. So the result is it's costing us a lot of money, all right? And actually the project's starting to fall behind. So we're curious about why does it cost a lot of money? Where do you recruit your people from? And we go through this whole iteration. We said, what if we could get people that were just as capable on half the salary? Would that be of use? And they're like, yeah, that would really unlock a lot of potential for us here.

39:39That would be because we can have more people and we can do more work. And we said, okay, we'll get back to you by Friday and we'll come up with a plan together. So we went away and we knew that India, Nepal, Philippines, there's very capable people there. And because of the cost of living in those countries, they're a lot more affordable. So we had some friends in Nepal and we found all of these ex-British army Nepalese Gurkhas and we managed to rustle up 60 of them in four days. And we went back and we said, look, we can have 60 highly capable, intelligent people here at half the cost. And by the way, for them, it's rockstar wages.

40:19They're getting paid double anywhere else they would normally get paid. So everyone's winning here. We can get them here by Friday, two weeks from now. Would that be useful? That'd be fantastic. And before you know it, after three months, we land our first$6 million contract and we're in the hundreds of millions a few years later with 6 ,000 staff because we just solved other people's problems. And we invested in what we could control, the quality of the people, the fact that the people that were working for us knew that we valued them, that anything that we can do for you to help accrue your wealth and look after you, we will do.

41:00And if there's a low quality or toxic person that we recruit, we're not aware of it, we will weed them out within two weeks. And then we just had the reputation for solving problems, not theoretically, actually, and then that expanded

41:14Ryan Hanley:into setting up ambulances, hospital clinics, mortuaries, camps. We would recruit lawyers, accountants. We were writing legislation. whatever a country that needs to be rebuilt from nothing needed, we could do it. Because we understand implicitly the scope and we put that into the contract of the people that we hired. And then we had a clause, which was, we will iterate this contract once it starts. And every two weeks, we're going to meet, we're going to review against the scope, and you're allowed to change the scope. We're not going to lock you in and we'll absorb some of it. But if it's markedly increased in scope, then we're probably going to have to charge you a little bit more.

41:58And everyone was fine because they felt they were in control and we were in control of what we could control. And then I applied that into property development, building a hotel, into publishing. And three years ago, I bought this company after Burner, which is a 30-year-old company that's been using fighter pilot cognitive models and ways of working to help businesses and professional sporting teams win. So my whole life has just ran full circle. Here I am, like almost the embodiment of the company. And I'm fortunate because I believe in what we do, not only because I've seen it work with our clients, I've done it myself.

42:39the challenge is for most leaders is believing it can't be that simple it can't be I run a complicated business it doesn't work in my sector I'm like it does it works in every single thing because all you're doing is replacing a generic objective with yours a generic result with yours curiosity around your objectives and your reality and your actions to do it it's agnostic as to the problem set It's just a way of problem solving. So, yeah, so it's, you know, often the solution to complexity is more simplicity, and particularly when you're dealing with large groups of people. And with your little league, if you're coaching a kid through a baseball swing, iterating one thing at a time, and you might be debriefing the same action.

43:31It might take a little while, but it's one root cause, one action, not 20 root causes and 20 actions. So the poor kid's sitting there trying to, I've got to put my feet in the right spot. I've got to put the bat in the right position. I've got to put my eyes in the right place. A human is engineered to do one thing at a time and that includes thinking or doing. You can't be thinking through your swing in the act of the swing. They're two completely different structures of the brain. So, you know, leaders often just give a vomit of stuff that needs to get done to their team. And here they are, they're trying to improve their golf swing and they're trying to improve the swing, thinking of 20 things at a time and wonder why they're not getting any better.

44:14Ryan Hanley:Yeah, I know it sounds trite talking about all the complexities of business and solving problems through teaching a little leaguer how to hit a baseball. But what you just described is the number one lesson that I took away through that process. So, you know, I played college baseball. I played a little baseball after college. you know hitting was my thing I knew how to do it I never really had a great hitting coach I pretty much figured it out on my own and when I first started trying to teach my kids and their teammates how to hit a baseball when they're seven I did exactly what you just said it was you know load turn you know I'm just barfing all these things that they need to do to get to you know making the contact that they're going to be happy with and the biggest lesson that I learned and I was actually putting this in the practice last night with my younger son because he's been struggling a little bit is that you can only solve one problem at a time.

45:07Ryan Hanley:You can only solve one problem. And even if you can see like that there's multiple things going on in a process, in this case, you know, in the example we're using is hitting a baseball, you know, maybe they're doing a few things wrong. If you give them more than one thing to think about at any given moment, they will not capture any of the things that you give them. It will continue to make the mistakes or just create new bad habits that are still not the path that they need to be on. And it is only through like this building block methodology of, hey, let's set your foundation first. Let's just get a solid stance.

45:45Ryan Hanley:Are you grabbing the ground with your feet, right? Which is a concept that most people don't even understand. Let's talk about what does that mean to grab the ground with your feet, to have a steady base that where you can take a small stride and not fall over the plate or fall backwards or fall, you know, we're fall. OK, now we can do that. Now we're we're loading properly. We're landing. OK, now we got that down. Now let's move to the next thing. and to your point it feels like you know and and this is where I want to go with this question what what's so much of what you have described as the we'll call it the um the the the negative side or the the more complex side or the problem side of of what people face I feel like so much of it the reason they aren't curious or don't embrace their curiosity or don't don't operate through an iterative thinking or work backwards to a problem or to an activity set from an outcome.

46:43Ryan Hanley:All the things you've described. The personality trait that I believe holds so many back is ego. When I look at everything from a 12-year-old to, I have a client who's in his early 50s and he runs a successful company that has been successful despite chaos, and he's burned out from the chaos, and we're trying to remove the chaos, right? I can pinpoint both the kid who won't change and the CEO running a successful but highly chaotic business to ego. And the fact that they, there's, like you said, the fictitious company that you were describing, right? They made this pivot from everybody's an athlete to exclusive, but they didn't want to go back because of ego because they didn't want to look wrong.

47:34Ryan Hanley:They didn't want to look like they didn't have the answer. They didn't want to look like, hey, you know, someone somewhere is going to write an article about us because we made this pivot back to where we were at the beginning. And what's that going to make us all look like? One, do you believe that ego is one of the can be I mean, Now, ego can be very positive too, but can be one of the more toxic qualities that holds us back. And how do you break the negative aspects of ego down so you can harness the positive aspects and get to do the things that you've actually described in your different methodologies and frameworks?

48:10Ryan Hanley:Because there's no doubt that you're a fighter pilot, you have to have an ego, right? You have to believe when you hit launch or accelerate that you are going to execute that mission and you're going to do it the way that it needs to be done and you're going to bring all your guys home and the mission will be like you have to believe that that's ego but at the same time if you're up there thinking you have every answer and every way you do it's going to be exactly right you're most likely going to run into problems too so how do you marry those things in the highly successful high functioning high performance world that you live in i think people get confused about ego, which is just self.

48:46And when we say the word ego, it's just how I view myself. And we think that ego means big ego. Oh, you've got an ego. We all have an ego. It's just our self-perception. So some people have egos that are negative and some people have egos, big egos, which really they're saying, I have a strong sense of self. I'm confident and I'm capable. The thing that gets in the way is fear, not ego. And the fear is that if I do something wrong and people are aware of it, I am not a worthy person. I am a loser. And what we're actually attacking is identity. And when we talk about identity, what we're talking about are the behaviors that accumulate in us that define who we are.

49:36And as James Clear talks about in his book, Atomic Habits, you're not going to change your habits until you change your identity, which is the forward-leaning mindset part. A lot of, or the biggest challenge when it comes to iteration is the personal attachment to failure because you've got something wrong. And these are all, again, they're just biases. The survival mode is, well, I need to be seen to be good at everything or else no one will follow me and help me kill mammoths and saber-toothed tigers. There's a whole bunch of, you can also mention as well, the 120 % goal and I got 105. Like I was just working with another, you know, the biggest video conferencing company on the planet.

50:18And every year the finance team sets targets that they never achieve. And then there's this perception that they do better each year. So it must be because we keep setting these unattainable targets. But the science is the opposite. The science is when you set an achievable target and you outperform it, then you get all this dopamine, oxytocin, serotonin, and endorphins in the body. We've forgotten that you don't have to win massive all the time. You can win small. And when you set achievable goals and then also set a stretch goal. So if I work at 60%, I achieve my objective. But if I want to unlock the extra 40, I go further.

50:57And you ride the energy and the positivity of the small win to get you to the stretch win. Because no one likes to constantly lose. But that's what most businesses feel like because 99 % of programs run late and over budget. So we're always in crisis mode. We're always full of cortisol. as men were carrying bellies at the age of 40 and 50 because we're just holding on all our stress down there because we've never set ourselves up to win. So a big part of understanding ego is understanding how you see yourself. So again, if you look at those 400 missions, every one of them is incrementally more difficult than the one before.

51:39But through iteration, we've learned that, you know, fighter pilots can handle this rate of growth. and that rate of growth is what we call pushing out the comfort zone. We don't operate outside the comfort zone because when you're outside the comfort zone, you experience what they call the amygdala hijack, which is effectively the body thinks like an animal. It doesn't think like an intelligent human. So when you're outside your comfort zone, you're learning regresses rather than grow. So sometimes in a business, you'll see organizations like, right, let's embrace the guys. Let's get outside our comfort zone.

52:14And it's like, okay, let's do that and go backwards. That's a really great idea. What you want to do, and let's go to the Little League, is how long is the Little League season? What, three months?

52:23Ryan Hanley:Yeah, ish. I mean, unfortunately, if you play travel baseball, it's 12 months a year. But yeah, they actually play games about three, four months, depending on how the weather goes. Okay, so let's look at that. We've got 12 iterative cycles, right, within that window. Within those 12 iterative cycles, we have, if you're a really motivated kid, seven cycles per 12. So a kid might need 12 things fixed on their swing. So week one is just one, right? All right. It's bedded down. There's nothing wrong with bedding it down in three days and pulling things forward. That's what we say in business. It's like, there's nothing wrong with building a quarterly plan and then achieving stuff early and bringing it forward.

53:05What we don't want is a 12-week plan where we're constantly late. and so for example let's use afterburner you know about three weeks ago google made the biggest change in search engine history when it went from seo to generative engine optimization so if you if you google something now the first thing you get is is gemini giving you an ai response so everyone on the planet has spent trillions of dollars building seo content on their website to rank on a search engine. I was talking to Gemini about it when I read the news and I'm like, oh yeah, you know, SEO is still going to work. And I'm like, hey, look, I'm a fighter pilot.

53:42We use nameless and rankless debriefing. We want radical transparency and honesty. Tell me the absolute truth about this. And they're like, it doesn't really work anymore when it comes to geo. So we set four iterative cycles, four weeks to transform a 35 ,000 word website into a 650 ,000 word geo-optimized website. So there's an awful lot of other stuff we need to do in this business. But right now, everything else we've made a decision is going to suffer as a result of our revenue is going to suffer. Our bound is going to suffer. Everything's going to suffer. But if we try and do this and everything else, it's going to suffer along with everything else a little bit later.

54:26On Friday, we finally launched our new GEO website, which we built with Gemini and Claude. what better platforms to say, hey, people are going to use you to find us, right? Everything on our website that enables you to find us easily.

54:44So this is the whole idea. Like even within our organization, Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, every day has a theme. So if we want to modify something on our CRM because we discover it on a Monday, It just gets parked in our AI agent and we come to it on Thursday because Thursday is our bottom funnel day. Tuesday is our top of funnel day. Wednesday is our operational day. And Friday is that, hey, if we miss something on the other four days, we finish it off on Friday. And every Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday morning, Thursday, it's like, okay, what do you need to achieve by Friday?

55:29And I don't have to run that as a leader. The team comes on. This is what I need to achieve by Friday. This is what I need to achieve by the end of the day. That's how we talk. And at the end of the day, we debrief. And if we didn't achieve it, we're like, cool. Does it go into Friday's bucket or is it that urgent that we're going to have to put in an extra hour tomorrow? It's that urgent. Okay. I'll get up at five instead of six and I'll do it. Because that's my job as a leader. My job is to pick up the overflow, not to do the work. So it's all these little – I got diagnosed with ADHD three years ago.

55:56and I had to go through an assessment because my son was struggling at school and the school thought he had ADHD. And as part of their assessment, they're like, we need both parents to go and get an ADHD assessment. Not just get online and do an online ADHD test, but do the self-assess test, go to a psychiatrist and get a formal diagnosis. And both the mother and I have ADHD. So for the last three years, I've been an avid student of ADHD. And what you learn about ADHD is you're not that different from everyone else. There's just a few things that are amplified. So you learn a lot about how the brain works.

56:34And one of the interesting elements about the brain is that the way in which it structures time, it only has two buckets of time, now or later. So if we don't get intentional around later, we just end up with this big bucket full of later stuff. And now just becomes whatever's in front of me. There's no intentionality. So there's a really simple way, even with your little league team, is you can basically theme out the 12 weeks and you can theme out each day and you can theme out the homework for the kids because what's going to happen is they're going to have a problem with their swing and you're going to focus on their footwork and then they're going to go home to their dad and their dad's going to be talking about a whole bunch of other stuff.

57:17So the true embodiment of a coach is not just coaching the player, it's coaching the environment that the player's in as well. So all of a sudden, it becomes a lot less stressful being a coach because you just let the position of the bat, hey, just let that fly. That's week three. That's not even important right now. And hitting the ball and getting a home run, it's not even on the objective list right now. Because this kid by Friday, I want you to explain to me in your own words what it feels like to be gripping the ground. And when you can explain that to me, that's the win for the week. And all of a sudden, the kid's like, oh, I'm liberated from being the home run kid.

58:00And on Friday, I can really feel my feet in the ground. Awesome. Next week, we're going to look at where you're holding the bat. It's very powerful when you bring intentionality to action. And when you start to be disciplined around how you allocate future time buckets. If the kid on Wednesday tells you, man, I'm gripping the ground, I'm going, okay, cool. Let's bring the bat swing a bit forward. And that's how you tailor it, right? So fighter pilots, that's our DNA. There's not an hour of the day. There's not one minute of the day that isn't projected out to six months. So we know exactly what each mission needs to be, what the deliverable of the mission is to be, how that accumulates into the competency of the squadron at the end of the six-monthly cycle.

58:44So every action within the mission delivers an objective that arrives at the squadron at its destination at the end of the six-month cycle. That does not exist anywhere in the 30 years that we've worked with businesses. And I would challenge to think that apart from the Bezos of the world and the Federer's and the Serena and Venus Williams, that most of us just exist. We don't bring awareness to time. We don't bring awareness to intentional activity. We just do whatever we want to do that's in front of them. And there's a study that proves this. Back in 2014, there was a study called Just Think.

59:21And the premise of the study was if we put individuals in a white room with a white chair for 6 to 15 minutes, we want to assess whether that's an enjoyable experience or not. So just be left with your thoughts. And the study was a very broad spectrum of age groups from 18 up to 80. And overwhelmingly, the response was mostly negative. It wasn't an enjoyable experience. So the psychologists thought, ah, it must be the environment. No one wants to sit in a white room and twiddle their thumbs for six minutes. So they reset the study and they got them to sit at home for the same time period. So everyone went through the study again.

1:00:00They sat, did nothing. And they didn't enjoy the experience any more or less than just sitting in the white room. And when they were reviewing each of the candidates on the study, one of the gentlemen admitted to cheating and turning on the television. So this gave them another thought, and they went back to the white room with a white chair. And this time they said to everyone, look, we're going to put a button on the table, and if you hit it, you're going to get an electric shock. How much would you pay us to not get an electric shock? And the average was$5. I'll give you$5 to not shock me during this study.

1:00:34They run the study again, and this time, 67 % of men and 25 % of women gave themselves an electric shock rather than just sit there and think. And 17 % of the people on the study hit it twice and one guy hit it 190 times. So what you discover here is, or what they discovered was this propensity to be busy, even doing something harmful for yourself rather than sit for six minutes and think. And this is the paradigm that we're trying to break with Afterburner and the work I'm doing is bring awareness that busyness feels fulfilling. It feels like good work. But the reality is the measurement is the result that you're delivering and achieving within time, within budget, without burning yourself out.

1:01:32So this awareness of missionization, of creating the long-term destination, the short-term objectives that drive the action, is what liberates us from that overwhelming sense of doing everything everywhere all the time and really starts us to power through the work and for the work to translate from meaningless work into meaningful activity.

1:01:56Ryan Hanley:Dude, I could talk to you all day long. I love this stuff. This is like a masterclass. The book is coming out in September. I'm assuming pre-orders are up. people can start ordering. Yeah, the pre-orders will be out in a couple of weeks. Again, everything got shifted a month thanks to Google. So the pre-orders will be kicking off in July. Great, okay. We'll time this around the launch of the pre-orders so we make sure everyone who's listening, because I know my audience is going to be salivating to get more of you. So in the meantime, pre-orders, we'll make sure we time in with the pre-orders.

1:02:33Ryan Hanley:Where else can people connect, go deeper into your world? I know I have a lot of corporates that listen that are going to be very interested in Afterburner as well in your work. How do people get deeper into your world and follow along? There's really three channels. Just type my last name into Google, B-O-U-C-O-U-S-I-S. I'm kind of the only one out there. My website's callmeboo.com. And my company, which is manned by over 25 phenomenal former fighter pilots, from brigadier generals that worked in the White House all the way down to squadron commanders could come in and inspire your people to truly believe that there's this untapped potential in each of them and that we can live an existence that embraces awareness where we get more done, make more impact, and it takes less effort to get there.

1:03:27Ryan Hanley:I absolutely love it. Thank you so much for sharing your time today. I appreciate the hell out of you. and I hope that we can have another conversation again in the future. This was phenomenal. It'd be a pleasure, Ryan. Thanks for having me on the show. It's a real honor.

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You don't have a goal problem. You have an execution problem.

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Christian "Boo" Boucousis spent 11 years as a fighter pilot. Now he runs Afterburner, helping businesses win using the exact same cognitive models. We sit down and pull apart the myth of goal setting. We break down the ORCA debrief framework. We talk about why the human brain defaults to fear over ego. And we look at the exact reason why your organization is probably stuck in reactive mode.

If you feel like you are doing everything everywhere all the time, this is the episode you need.

Boo is a former fighter pilot, successful entrepreneur, and the CEO of Afterburner. He is the author of the upcoming book Flawless Leadership. He has spent decades taking the high-stakes execution models of the military and applying them to businesses to drive massive results.

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