EP41: International Women’s Day Round-table

8 Mar 2026 · 1 h 10 min · 28 chapters

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Podcast Summary: Hell Or High Water - EP41: International Women’s Day Round-table

Episode Overview

  • Podcast Title: Hell Or High Water
  • Episode Title: EP41: International Women’s Day Round-table
  • Host: Lawrence Stafford, with Easkey Britton moderating
  • Guests:
  • Dr. Easkey Britton (Irish Ocean-focused academic, writer, first woman to surf Mullagmore)
  • Sally McGee (Surf coach, mom, storyteller)
  • Aline Carrier (Marine scientist, fisheries specialist, surfer, freediver)
  • Katie McConnell (Big wave surfer, primary school teacher)
  • Lola Bleakley (Artist, competitive surfer, the youngest of the group)

Episode Description In this International Women’s Day special, the podcast features a round-table discussion among female ambassadors sharing their authentic experiences as women in surfing, science, art, and filmmaking. The discussion explores themes of strength, belonging, and the unique challenges women face in surf culture and beyond.

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Key Themes and Discussions

  1. Strength by Nature
  2. Easkey Britton introduces the theme "Strong by Nature," prompting discussions on the meaning of strength within surfing culture and personal experiences.
  3. Emphasizes the relationship with the ocean, energy dynamics in the lineup, and personal self-perception.
  1. Personal Experiences and Professional Journeys
  2. Each ambassador shares their background, current passions, and reflections on their connection to the ocean.
  3. Easkey: Focus on relational connection with the ocean; metaphorical wave representation reflects emotional states.
  4. Sally: Preparations for the North Sea Film Festival, discussing inclusivity and representation in film.
  5. Ali: Ocean monitoring work and safety, aiming for a deeper understanding between nature and humanity.
  6. Katie: Big wave surfing and advocating for women's inclusion in the sport.
  7. Lola: Balancing art studies and surfing with personal grief, discovering her artistic voice.
  1. Belonging and Power in the Lineup
  2. The conversation delves into feelings of belonging in the water and how societal limitations affect women's experiences in surfing.
  3. Discussion on how women often negotiate for their space and presence in male-dominated lineups and the importance of community support.
  1. Motherhood and Its Impact on Surfing
  2. Sally and Easkey share their insights on how motherhood alters their relationship with surfing and the ocean.
  3. The challenges of balancing motherhood with the passion for surfing are addressed, emphasizing the need for support systems and representation of mothers in surf culture.
  1. Environmental Concerns
  2. The ambassadors touch on issues of ocean conservation and societal responsibilities towards maintaining healthy surf environments.
  3. Sally highlights the urgent need to address sewage problems affecting UK waters and the community's role in activism.
  1. Unlearning and Redefining Strength
  2. The group reflects on what they are unlearning about strength and power, particularly in the context of competition and body image.
  3. Discussions include:
  4. Redefining success beyond wave counts and performance metrics.
  5. Emphasizing the importance of connection, community, and personal joy in the ocean.

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Key Takeaways

  • Empowerment through Community: The ambassadors stress the importance of supporting each other and building networks among women surfers.
  • Redefining Strength: Strength is not just about physical prowess but includes vulnerability, emotional resilience, and the ability to adapt to various life stages.
  • Need for Representation: Greater visibility of women in surfing and environmental activism is crucial for inspiring future generations and creating inclusive surfing cultures.
  • Personal Growth: Each ambassador illustrates how the ocean is a catalyst for personal growth and understanding, serving as a backdrop for their experiences and challenges.

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Conclusion The episode concludes with a collective call to action for listeners to engage more deeply with the ocean, support each other, and advocate for inclusivity in surfing and environmental stewardship. Celebrating the diverse experiences of women, the round-table conversation encapsulates both the strength and vulnerability found within surf culture and the broader human experience.

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Setting the Stage for Strong Women

0:45 to 3:56

Easkie Britton introduces the theme of strength in relation to women and the ocean.

“Without further ado, handing over to Easkie Britain to host episode 41 of the Hella High Water podcast, an International Women's Day special, Strong by Nature.”

Personal Introductions and Reflections

3:56 to 10:40

Guests introduce themselves, sharing their backgrounds and current passions related to the ocean.

“By way of intro, I thought maybe we could just say who we are, where home is for you right now, maybe a line about what you do or rather what's lighting you up right now.”

The Journey to Belonging in the Water

10:40 to 13:06

Discussion on personal experiences of strength and belonging in the ocean and how motherhood affects their connection.

“I had one recently, actually, which was quite interesting.”

Navigating Strength and Community

13:06 to 14:01

Exploration of how community and shared experiences in the water contribute to feeling strong and connected.

Finding Strength in Connection

14:01 to 15:25

Discussing how connection with others enhances strength while surfing.

“I felt like I was quite confident about the ocean in general.”

The Social Aspect of Surfing

15:26 to 17:26

Exploring how the social dynamics of surfing impact personal experience.

“It's like, it's not just the connection maybe with the ocean or the waves and feeling that you can kind of meet that energy that the ocean's bringing.”

Navigating Fear and Belonging

17:27 to 20:00

Examining the relationship with the ocean and feelings of belonging in the lineup.

“Like it's a real living being in a way and to kind of tap into that and almost just like listen.”

Motherhood and Surfing

20:01 to 22:08

Discussing the challenges and changes motherhood brings to surfing experiences.

The Transition to Motherhood

22:09 to 24:24

Reflecting on the emotional and physical changes that come with becoming a mother.

The Need for Storytelling in Surf Culture

24:25 to 27:06

Highlighting the importance of sharing diverse stories in surf culture.

“And like that is such a change emotionally, mentally, physically.”
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Exploring Care and Conservation

27:07 to 28:00

Connecting mothering, caregiving, and ocean conservation in surf culture.

“And there's so much to learn from one another.”

The Power of Caregiving in Surf Culture

28:00 to 29:23

Discover how caregiving and mothering influence surf culture and ocean conservation.

“But also then this idea of, I think for all of us, male, female, humans on the planet, it's the, how do you sort of recenter the power of that, of mothering, of caregiving.”

Appreciating Maternal Influence

29:23 to 31:06

Explore the speaker's newfound appreciation for their mother's role and community dynamics among mothers in surfing.

“really thrown into it in a very visceral embodied way when you become a mother.”

Belonging in the Water

31:06 to 33:45

Learn about the complexities of inclusion and access in surfing, especially for women and marginalized groups.

“And I feel like that ways of promoting the storytelling, but from another approach to include more femininity, that word, to be more centered around a woman's point of view.”

Cultural Connections to the Ocean

33:45 to 36:49

Understand how personal backgrounds and cultural heritage shape relationships with the ocean.

“I think there's a thing about like just genetic, maybe, where I'm from because I have Senegalese background, but also Quebec background.”

Navigating Expectations in Big Wave Surfing

36:49 to 42:01

Discuss the challenges women face in big wave surfing and the expectations around fearlessness.

“So Muthla is a nonchanneled word to say Rising Tide.”

Balancing Motherhood and Passion

42:01 to 43:22

Discussion on the challenges women face in surfing and motherhood.

“right now, so I can only imagine what it's like to try and balance that, you know, between working and motherhood.”

Empowering Women's Stories in Surfing

43:22 to 45:00

Importance of sharing women's narratives in sports, particularly surfing.

“And, you know, what was interesting is, uh, I started thinking about this and I had the opportunity to talk to some, uh, uh, some retired U S women's soccer team players.”

Lola's Journey in Surfing and Art

45:00 to 47:35

Lola discusses her experiences in longboarding and how surfing intertwines with her art.

“So it's definitely something that I'm starting to discover and figure out.”

Navigating Competition and Artistry

47:35 to 50:22

Lola explains her conflicting feelings about competition and creative expression.

“So, so I'm kind of with you where it's like, gosh, I just, I don't really feel like I'm a super competitive person, but now I've found myself in spaces where I have to be competitive.”

Supportive Surfing Community and Expectations

50:22 to 53:01

Exploration of community dynamics in surfing and the pressure on young female surfers.

“Because I'm also, I do get quite, I do, I'm quite hard on myself after doing quite badly.”

The Need for a Jam Vibe in Surf Competitions

53:01 to 56:00

Discussion on the benefits of more relaxed, community-focused surf competitions.

The Importance of Community in Surfing

56:00 to 56:45

Discussion on the inviting nature of skate culture compared to surfing.

Unlearning Strength and Power in Surfing

56:45 to 58:24

Exploring personal journeys of unlearning what it means to be strong in the water.

“what are you still unlearning about what it means to be strong so unlearning about what it means to be strong or about power?”

Environmental Concerns in Surfing

58:24 to 1:00:09

Highlighting the sewage crisis in the UK and its impact on surfers.

“And there's real issues in England and Wales and Scotland at the minute.”

Body Image and Self-Acceptance

1:00:09 to 1:02:14

Discussing body image issues and embracing comfort in one's body while surfing.

“And, uh, yeah, I think in terms of body image, for sure, like in the, cause now I'm like dabbling my toes in the professional surf world.”

Empowerment and Community Support

1:02:14 to 1:04:40

Sharing insights on empowerment through community and personal growth in surfing.

“It's like a different like bifurcation point in our life story.”

Leadership and Connection with the Ocean

1:04:40 to 1:08:12

Reflections on leadership in surfing and the connection with nature.

“So I think to be strong, to borrow from our friend and fellow ambassador, Hanley Prinslow, I just keep going back to what she shared once about how to be strong is to be soft like water.”
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Transcript

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0:04Lola Bleakley:My name's Larry Stafford and you're listening to Hell or High Water, the Finistead podcast exploring the depths of our oceans and the resilience of the human spirit.

0:16Lola Bleakley:Welcome back to the show. Today we have a very special episode for you to mark International Women's Day. Sharing the real experiences of women, we've gathered together a crew of our female ambassadors for a roundtable discussion, diving into their lives and experiences as women in the line-up, in science, in art, in filmmaking and more. The initiated will be no strangers to the ambassadors who showed up for this one. We were joined by Dr Easkie Britton, Irish Ocean-focused academic, writer and the first woman to surf Mullagmore in Ireland, Sally McGee from the northeast of England, a surf coach, mum and storyteller Ali Carrier from British Columbia, a marine scientist, fisheries specialist, surfer and freediver Katie McConnell, a big wave surfer and primary school teacher based in Hawaii And last but not least, Lola Bleakley of Cornwall, artist, competitive surfer and the youngest of the group As always with our ambassadors, each has their own unique set of skills and experiences that they bring to the table And in this episode, you're about to hear those varied perspectives make for an excellent conversation that doesn't shy away from the hard topics.

1:25Lola Bleakley:But that's enough from me. Without further ado, handing over to Easkie Britain to host episode 41 of the Hella High Water podcast, an International Women's Day special, Strong by Nature.

1:39Aline Carrier:So excited to be here in this space having this conversation with you all for International Women's Day and around a theme. I really love this theme, strong by nature. And as I've been thinking about it, I've been wondering about what that word strong means for us, how it's understood and portrayed within surfing, surf culture, as well as our own personal collective experiences of it and the power of the ocean itself and how we how we meet it. And I guess I'm also really interested in that relationship with the ocean, how we show up, the energy we bring, the energy we meet in the lineup as well, and how that differs from the energy of the ocean.

2:19Aline Carrier:So, you know, that moment before you paddle out, standing at the edge of your board, and you can just feel maybe everything that you've brought with you. It might be a whole mix of confidence, doubts, responsibilities that you're trying to leave behind. and all those stories we've absorbed about who gets to be out there even and and just how the ocean doesn't really care about any of that you know doesn't hand out permission doesn't uh yeah it's just responding to how we show up in the moment but then there's the lineup and that's a different story you know the lineup has history it has hierarchy unspoken rules about who gets waves who gets watched who gets celebrated um i think for a lot of women especially like paddling out has meant we negotiate more than the conditions uh we negotiate space presence sometimes even legitimacy the right to be there um so maybe we can explore some of all you know some of that a bit more but i think taking it beyond even just celebrating women in surfing but asking those deeper questions of maybe what does power uh actually look like in the water who gets to feel at home and then what changes when you become a mother scientist activist athlete yeah maybe what are we carrying that no longer serves us and I think the ocean is this amazing ability to strip everything back to the essence and if we're honest it also reveals maybe what needs to shift and I know in so much of our work here with all of us in our own different unique ways we're a part of that shift and I think maybe that's what this conversation is going to be a little bit about.

3:56Aline Carrier:By way of intro, I thought maybe we could just say who we are, where home is for you right now, maybe a line about what you do or rather what's lighting you up right now. And then if how you're feeling right now is a wave, what type of wave would you be? I guess I'll go first. I'm East Key Britain. I'm at home in Rasnala in the northwest of Ireland, where I grew up and learned to surf. I guess I'm really passionate about that relationship and relational connection we have with the living world, especially the ocean. And if I was a wave right now, I would love to be this long right-hand point brick with smooth lines rolling down the coast.

4:44Aline Carrier:But in actuality, a cross onshore messy beach brick is probably more accurate.

4:53Easkey Britton:And I will pass over to you, Sally. So I'm Sally McGee. I am currently in the northeast of England. That is my home. Right now, I've just returned home after being two months away, living in a tent with my family. So I guess right now I'm excited to be back in the cold, drizzly England. Honestly, promise. But yeah, in a month's time, we're going to be launching the inaugural North Sea Film Festival. So I'm really excited gathering films. I'm particularly looking at films with inclusivity and women. I really want to, like, encourage representation of women in our area through film. So, yeah, that's what I'm getting really stuck into.

5:36Easkey Britton:And I'm looking forward to getting in the North Sea again when we get some swell. And if I was a wave, if I was a wave right now, it's my birthday today. I get the birthday blues, to be honest. Thank you. But I get the birthday blues. I don't know. I just I kind of like kind of be quietly just kind of get on with my day and hang out with my my family but um I go if I could have any wave right now it would be a peeling point break um where I could surf my fish that would be ideal but yeah we've got nothing there's nothing out

6:07Lola Bleakley:there right now okay um yeah I'm Ali Carrier I'm based in UQLED British Columbia in Canada so facing the Pacific Ocean. Yeah, right now, where most of my energy is going is doing a lot of ocean monitoring in different ways. So mostly for ocean resources, like fish, a lot of fish, kelp, eelgrass, so monitoring the habitat. and also a lot of marine safety so search and rescue and things like this I do spend a lot of time doing that in general but then like just also kind of exploring the ocean from like the surface and under on my like free time in some ways so it's kind of like balancing it out and oh yeah if I was a type of wave me too I wish I was an amazing like kind of something like a nice reef break like right wave or something like this but I think right now it's mostly something like kind of like the surprising and like kind of like the rogue wave that is happening on the beach break where it's like coming out of nowhere and then it has like a lot of energy and it's coming in and like bringing everyone but like the fun one not the cleanup one so I think it's mostly my energy right now like the surprising burst of energy so hey hi good morning my name

7:55Katie McConnell:is Katie McConnell and I'm calling in from Maui Hawaii and currently I am really excited about big wave surfing and expanding competitive big wave surfing alongside women's inclusion in big wave surfing through the women's big wave collective. But I'm still using my background in marine biology for surf ecosystem conservation and just kind of being an ambassador. So right now I would love to just be surfing perfect waves, but I actually really do feel like it has been here in Maui just kind of flat and stormy and onshore you know sometimes it's like good to have these cycles where it's like okay you can be focused on some land stuff so that when really good days come you can just focus on being in the ocean so kind of where I'm at how are we doing Lola

8:51Sally McGee:so yeah so I'm currently in southwest of Cornwall I'm in Senum I'm getting towards the end of my so I'm still I'm studying art and design in college and I'm getting towards the end of finishing my two-year course um so I think that's got a that's definitely driving me a lot at the minute because I really have been kind of discovering what it is that I love doing in art and kind of finding my thing um and I'm definitely starting to to find it so yeah that's been really nice um so I recently um I was on a trip to the Philippines and I had quite a I experienced a really close friend of mine passed away um so I've been going through a lot of kind of a bit of a emotional roller coaster um it's been quite hard coming home um so I've definitely been finding it hard to get like motivation and stuff so I would kind of say I would love to be like a four foot peeling left hander but I would say I'm a bit of a sloppy windy one foot wave at the minute but yeah but yeah maybe it'd be nicest to share um each of us

10:04Aline Carrier:to explore you know what ways we feel the sea has made us strong um both as a surfer and a woman maybe perhaps it's a moment in the ocean when we felt just completely at home um uh and then also maybe a moment when when we didn't feel like we belonged I don't know if anyone wants to jump in

10:25Easkey Britton:there I'll just say that I think like it's taken a long a long time like a good 20 years for me to feel like I can just I think my aim has always been to be able to look at anything we get definitely when we're in the UK and in the north east of the UK like any conditions and to be able to kind of jump in and feel confident at home and it's taken a long a long time to get to that place but I do feel quite I don't like ever using the word lucky but I struggle to find other words sometimes but like lucky to be in that position and I recognize always like the journey that it's taken to get to that point of feeling like confident to look at any any wave and not any wave obviously I have my limitations obviously but um yeah to just dive in and feel that that real ease with the with the ocean and feel like it's my place that yeah just I feel really comfortable and confident and it's where the noise switches off for me like there's a lot of noise when I'm on land a lot of stuff going on and it's not like your your brain switches off when you're in the sea because it really doesn't I think you're hyper focused on like the detail um I am anyway of like what's what's around me and what I'm doing out there um but yeah I think that that's what the sea has definitely uh definitely done done for me and that's great oh thanks Sally yeah it is it's

11:52Aline Carrier:an ongoing journey isn't it I feel like it's often in flux it's not like yeah yeah I'm at home now I'm going to have that feeling forever. Yeah.

12:02Easkey Britton:I had one recently, actually, which was quite interesting. I've got my eight-year-old, which will, it does feature massively. And I know for Eski, with you, with the twins, it's such a change when you become a mum. But obviously over the past eight years, there's been every single stage of that process with me and my son and the family trying to just carry on doing the thing that I love and figuring out how to introduce him to that world gently and slowly and with passion. But yeah, I had the first experience where he's out back with me now, independent. And I'm like looking around, not concentrating on myself like at all and wondering like how the heck he's doing.

12:42Easkey Britton:And like I'm like wiping out in the background because I'm like paying attention to where he is and like everything's gone upside down. It's gone a bit mad. But yeah, that's been quite interesting and fun. Really cool.

12:54Aline Carrier:yeah no I'd love to come back to that the motherhood transition as well um in a little bit

13:00Lola Bleakley:um but maybe yeah Ali what about you I feel like oh just to make sure um to get back to the question I feel like I was listening to you Sally and not thinking about the question anymore so the question is about when did we feel like uh we belong or got comfortable in the water

13:16Aline Carrier:yeah and I can know in what ways do you feel the sea has made you strong um or yeah that kind of feeling it might be that feeling of belonging and maybe there's a particular moment yeah yeah

13:28Lola Bleakley:actually yeah I do definitely think that um my feeling of being strong in the water is related to the feeling of belonging um I know for me it's something that is quite important and just when I started surfing I was already doing a lot of diving I spent already a lot of time on the boat and like I understood the ocean quite well. So when I started surfing kind of like on later adult age, I felt like I was quite confident about the ocean in general. And I know a lot of people will struggle and kind of like get scared and stuff like this. But for me, it was something like I knew when, let's say, when a big wave was coming and knew it was like probably a set and how to deal with this.

14:20So that sense of strength came quite fast.

14:25Lola Bleakley:But then I realized that I was kind of like missing this thing where I was feeling strong. Like I was not feeling necessarily strong surfing by itself when I was in the lineup, when I was like out there and I was waiting for my wave. There was still something missing. And it's when I realized, yeah, connecting with other people, connecting with people that look like me connecting uh with people that have the same type of like approach in the water the same type of energy because sometimes it can get kind of like competitive aggressive out there and this is definitely not a moment where i feel like strong or anything so i feel like it was exactly um when i was able to yeah connect with people that had the same approach, the same vibe.

15:16Lola Bleakley:That's at the moment where I started feeling strong while surfing. And it was like quite a big switch in mentality. That was great.

15:24Aline Carrier:Oh, I love that Ali and her. It's like, it's not just the connection maybe with the ocean or the waves and feeling that you can kind of meet that energy that the ocean's bringing. But that feeling of that kind of, the belonging also comes from the connection with the other humans we're sharing the space with. Yeah, definitely.

15:40Lola Bleakley:I think surfing is more a social sport

15:42Sally McGee:and what we will like to believe yeah Ali I was gonna say I really agree with that and I I like love kind of being around people in the surf and especially being around women longboarding it's such a like empowering feeling and um but I'm also the type of person where like I love to surf alone and I'm very quiet in surf and I'm always like on the tiny little insiders kind of because I don't I hate getting people's way but and that's why I think it's it's very like disheartening when you go you know I've been abroad and been in a very male dominated lineups and it's just the worst feeling when you get when you just don't feel strong and you're just like oh this is just annoying and you come out of the surf feeling like and that's why I think it's so special when there's other people in the surf who can just empower you and um it's

16:29Lola Bleakley:yeah I completely agree agree with that yeah the compassion the support or just like yeah cheering at each other. Why not?

16:39Katie McConnell:It's so true that good vibes in the lineup can totally shift the entire experience of a session. I guess for me, even without waves and like before I even could surf, just that feeling of being immersed in the ocean has always felt kind of like home. And then as I kind of learned to navigate the waves, because for me at first and still to this day, like there are plenty of times where I get close to the water, I'm looking out to sea and, or I even kind of get out there a little bit and it's like, Ooh, I don't maybe feel super comfortable with the conditions of the day. Um, but there's just something always with the ocean.

17:22Katie McConnell:That's just it. I feel like I have like a real relationship with it. Like it's a real living being in a way and to kind of tap into that and almost just like listen. And so that presence, I think, is kind of where I draw strength from is just in practicing being present in the ocean. And by doing that, it's opened up a lot more doors for me to learn how to navigate better. and so in that way it's like okay well maybe I needed to build up some strength to feel more at home in the sea on any given day but what's pretty funny is that you know and then it's like well I've always I've always belonged here you know the ocean has always accepted me as long as I give it the respect it deserves and so whenever I enter some sort of lineup you know you try to take in that same sort of like observance, especially if it's like a new place and just kind of integrate instead of trying to take things over and, um, yeah, just be in harmony with it all.

18:36Katie McConnell:And, uh, yeah, pretty fun. That's a great question. It's pretty deep.

18:42Aline Carrier:I think we were all well able to handle it and such beautiful insights. So much of it resonates with me as well. And, you know, all of you were saying, I think for me, that sense of I realized the strength does come from that sense of belonging. And that's like an intergenerational thing in my family, similar to Lola. We were born into this kind of surfing way of life. And I mean, what a gift. So understanding how it has always been the way we all sort of reset and regulate ourselves collectively as a family. it's like the the kind of cornerstone of who we are and how we're in relationship with each other it's like the the ocean is the bedrock of that and I'm really appreciating that more and more especially as moving through the life cycles like you were saying Sally in that mother journey into motherhood and the relationship shifting again with the ocean and I kind of really like that dynamism and I was thinking about too when I felt the connection most strongly is you know there are particular waves maybe that stand out or maybe one of the biggest waves I've ridden at Mullock more, that could be a moment.

19:51Aline Carrier:But actually it was when we, when I actually left this, like didn't even go in the water with a surfboard, like you were saying, Katie, um, and having that shared experience with other women, um, kind of just in a really embodied way with the ocean and feeling that sense of trust and confidence and playfulness, kind of stripping it right back to, what it was like as a child body surfing and then seeing that shift happen not just for me personally but collectively with this group who maybe otherwise would have felt really excluded like that that's a big one and then all those moments there's so many when you feel like you're made to feel like you don't belong in the lineup I find my reset is also to go back to that like tuning in again to what feels good so I maybe take my focus back into the elements to the sounds the sensations just like the beauty of the ocean maybe it's even just honing in for a moment instead of getting stuck in my head or getting impacted by someone else's fears or projections just noticing the light on the water the wow the beauty of like the other creatures we're sharing the space with like the the seabirds or even the way the kelp moves and then that just you know this kind of makes me laugh then in the face of whatever conflict I was meeting in the water which is usually someone else not having left their shit behind on the shore and bringing it

21:16Easkey Britton:with them yeah it can be a really strange place to have that kind of um that vibe in the water kind of when you just like look around just see you know you're seeing the most beautiful sunrises beautiful sunsets we're often there when it's like glassy or just amazing and you're just like what why why is this energy here and it's really good to have that reset and just yeah take yourself back and think about what's important yeah actually i love sally that you

21:43Aline Carrier:already touched a little bit on how motherhood has changed maybe the way you experience both yourself in the ocean and then also with with family and all those responsibilities but i was kind of thinking then that wider context of like what what is it in surfing surf culture those systems in surfing that make it harder for women with families to to be visible to show up what what needs redesigning wave a magic wand it's a it's a good question isn't it and I do I do think

22:14Easkey Britton:it will like vary from place to place as well where you where you are surfing because I know when I've been kind of other places where the temperature's warmer and like things feel a little like easier to be at the beach with as a family you know um you can all go down as a family you can be jumping in and out of the water all there's no wetsuits involved there's no hoods there's no boots there's no like gloves where we are there are very it feels like very few opportunities to include your children um unless you've got really a lot of support around you to make that happen especially at a very young age um for me I remember thinking well I could I even have children because I don't know how I'm gonna I'll have to stop surfing like how is this possibly going to happen and I don't think men really have to think about that maybe they do maybe I'm being unfair and that seems like really selfish and it's not really a thought that mothers are supposed to have is it we're not supposed to be like that we're supposed to be really maternal and like just yeah um but that was like a big question for me and then I found I found it incredibly hard like the first definitely the first year I was like there's got to have been some form of like postnatal depression there like and also just because I was so used to being someone who had so much freedom to do as I wanted to when I wanted to you know not in a like just like most surfers are to be honest that's lots we we have like surf on our minds and it decides everything that we do isn't it we follow the tides we chase we chase like hiding from shelter we chase the swells that's what we do if we've got the real like the hook in us and that is definitely you know I have that and had that so I found that really really hard the first year and when we still we did and I remember like going out really early after like 11 days after having my son um and crying because I was like what's happened like I can't do I can't do anymore what I used to do and then you'll know like the feeding and I don't want to make this like a really negative like for anyone who's like thinking of having children I just think it's like and everyone's different that is really really important to remember but yeah it's a huge there's a huge change is what I'm trying to say and you do really need support around you to be able to continue so when I think sometimes I hear people saying that the barriers are perceived for girls and women and I think well like 84 % in the UK, 84 % of women will have children.

24:48Easkey Britton:And like that is such a change emotionally, mentally, physically. And like I've pushed through it with a lot of help from my family. And we're like living, I would say honestly, like living an absolute dream now. Like my son is eight years old and he's literally my surf buddy. like if I could surf with anybody in the world it would be my son and we go out together and we have like the most amazing experience but it's been like yeah a process a process to get there um asking for child care when you're not working you want to do something fun apparently you know that's it's hard as a mother um I'm sure Eski you'll know about that um but yeah I don't know sorry I feel like I often go go off on one and like lose the question a little bit but is that kind of what we were thinking I don't want to put anybody off as well because I love my my child very much and I love being a mother but yeah I think that's just a like a reality it's a lot harder so and we're like you know we are the ones that they turn to and especially in those early days for feeding for like the mum there's no replacement for your mum so you now have to become less selfish and surfing kind of asks you to be quite selfish I think and to actually make get out there and catch the waves do you know I mean and we all try and be more I try and be like a more conscious surfer and really think about what I'm doing but in that sense but yeah to actually you need to be flexible though you need to have time to get out there and score and especially in the northeast of England where we live where we don't get waves constantly we need to be ready and then being a being a mother is a lot harder and I think the storytelling around that is just non-existent I think I don't think it exists I don't see it I think it's interesting as well I think that it's there's this I love like the idea of storytelling through film through you know the print but I don't see it I don't see it at all really maybe increasingly like the past few years I'm seeing more stories about mums and surfers but it's never something that I grew up seeing I don't know what are your thoughts Isky as a mum what does listening to you talk Sally I

27:12Aline Carrier:think that's exactly it that was my thinking of like well we just actually need more of these stories because there's such a diversity of experiences you know each each experience is valid and unique and yet there is there are these patterns and challenges um that are also universal in many ways. And there's so much to learn from one another. And then just that then more support and understanding, I think it has to start with the storytelling and being visible and having the voice. And it's, yeah, it's a really radical shift. I think the other part I'm excited to start to explore more now that I have a little bit of, I feel like I'm only just resurfacing and it's kind of, you know, just over three years on from having twins.

27:55Aline Carrier:But yeah, and everything has changed. in terms of my relationship with how I surf, why I surf, what I'm seeking, how I want to feel, the energy I'm bringing. But also then this idea of, I think for all of us, male, female, humans on the planet, it's the, how do you sort of recenter the power of that, of mothering, of caregiving. And I see that I'm starting to just, maybe I spend so much time with my kids outside on the shore paying attention to the little details but just noticing even what we can learn from the other sea creatures um their approach to mothering these you know seabirds and just how radical it is for all species and yet it just does like there's so much there and we talk about you know ocean conservation and so much of us here at the vanguard of that too i think this this culture of care is is really like a real missing piece in in how we surf and create surf culture but also our approach to even ocean conservation um and it's there's so much to be learned from the wisdom of that kind of way of um relating to one another that really celebrates and validates caring caregivers the power of of uh that kind of energy and and just the incredible force and power that comes from that and the capacity that all of us have.

29:23Aline Carrier:And then you're really thrown into it in a very visceral embodied way when you become a mother. But I also think there's this capacity that it's sort of latent, I think, in all of us. And in a way, because it just gets so sidelined, we're really missing out on the tremendous power that's there.

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29:44Easkey Britton:um yeah you know did you do you remember I remember just one thing sorry that one thing I realized becoming a mother I looked after growing up my whole life with my two brothers and my dad being the person that introduced me to like all this all the outdoors and everything and then like being really active and and I used to be like my dad's like amazing and then I had a child and I just kind of looked at my mother properly for the first time really I don't sound silly because she's my mother and obviously but I was like you you are amazing actually like Jesus what about you are amazing like and she's just been like holding the whole thing all together for that amount of time and I was like my dad's obviously awesome but I was like whatever I don't know yeah exactly what you're saying it was like that real appreciation for like what what she's done for us and what she's gone through but yeah but yeah we've got where where we are up by us now We've got a cool crew of mums that regularly go out and they have such a good vibe.

30:43Easkey Britton:Like we're talking about vibes in the water. Whenever I'm out with them lot, I'm just like, this is a good place to be. They are all so positive and have such a good laugh. And I think they're just really happy to be out there, you know, finding the time and the space together to get their fix, their medicine and their time together all by themselves.

31:06Aline Carrier:yeah and it comes circles back around to that the sort of theme we've kind of begun exploring around you know what does belonging actually feel like in the water and who gets to feel it um and ali i'd love to go to you as well i know with your work um you know well your whole story even like you were born in quebec city so pretty far from surf and then now you're you live life above and below and in on and everything to do with water as a scientist but also working with rising tide and indigenous youth surf club and so i just love to hear from you and some of your thoughts on uh on that but especially how surfing can move from i think inclusion and the idea of it and diversity in the lineup is certainly growing but how do we move from that inclusion as a buzzword to this genuine i think redistribution of access like actually making and creating

31:56Lola Bleakley:meaningful space wow what a beautiful question one thing that small one small one you might need to give me a refresher because already you said things that makes me think about different stuff and um actually sally mentioned something about all the storytelling and like from someone who grew up in quebec city like there's still a lot of water and all that relationship with the saint Lawrence a quite important river the connection between Atlantic Ocean and the Great Lakes like just this like I've I've been in like educated but I've been in like kind of like connected to that body of water but then a big thing that brought me to that kind of like sector and curiosity it's definitely like documentaries book so all that storytelling that like goes a long way how personally it was my first introduction to more ocean sciences in general but also anything that is like related to the ocean like all the type of connection that could be happening and also like the water just like going to yeah these rivers and walking along the shore and looking at these creatures and trying to understand what's happening there.

33:20And I feel like that ways of promoting the storytelling,

33:28Lola Bleakley:but from another approach to include more femininity, that word, to be more centered around a woman's point of view. I feel like it goes a long way to develop that connection. And it's definitely something that, yeah, triggered my curiosity. And after that, I won't lie. I think there's a thing about like just genetic, maybe, where I'm from because I have Senegalese background, but also Quebec background. And just through this, I realized that there was a lot of things like related to that connection to the sea, the ocean. And when I traveled to Senegal, when I discovered the culture over there, I was like, oh, that explains a lot.

34:23Like there's a big fishing ocean culture in Senegal.

34:29Lola Bleakley:And when I was over there, I was like, OK, that explains a little bit my connection. Because growing up in Quebec, I had a certain connection to the Senegalese culture, but not as much as if I grew up in Senegal. So that was very interesting to see this. But then I think like everything that has been that I've been exposed as I was growing up and all the knowledge that was available around and that was like suggested to me was always like that attraction to it. And when I moved West Coast of Canada, well, actually, I came visiting first and I was like, oh, this is an amazing place to kind of deepen that connection to the ocean.

35:13Lola Bleakley:Because the ocean is there. It's all over the place. There's a great culture related to this. And I met a lot of amazing people. So I was like, OK. So when I moved here, it was more than just the connection. It became a lifestyle. And this is where, Katie, earlier you were talking about that relationship with the ocean that is kind of alive and the ocean that is giving back. And I realized as I'm giving it different level of energy, it's definitely giving back to me. It's definitely fitting me in vibes, in care, in different things, in food. We won't lie. There's a lot of my diet that is coming from the ocean and it's very important to me.

36:02Lola Bleakley:So part of it was definitely like I did went to school to study how to care for the ocean, how to care for the resources, but kind of more from a global perspective, including like different countries, different culture, but also different levels in the ocean ecosystem, which there's a lot of levels to it. And I feel like right now I'm even deepening kind of this connection to a more spiritual level. And it's really great. And yes, there's definitely part of it being implicated with different communities that have a very good connection to the ocean and kind of like it's definitely a giving, giving, giving relationship.

36:48Lola Bleakley:So when I'm doing any activities with the youth at Muthla, also known as Rising Tide. So Muthla is a nonchanneled word to say Rising Tide. So when I'm participating to activities with them, there's like that sense of belonging that is quite strong. And often when I'm doing activities with them, it feels like it's mostly the youth and the structure, the community that is giving back to me. And even if I'm there, like helping them, learning how to surf or just having amazing surf sessions or doing different activities related to the ocean, it's mostly them and the ocean giving it back to me. So that's quite amazing.

37:32Aline Carrier:Thank you so much. yeah there's so much in what you shared Ali um yeah we don't have enough time in one podcast but I can imagine some of the rest you might want to jump in I was wondering you know Katie and obviously in your world um big wave surfing and I don't know maybe you always get fed up with that comparison about how male dominated it is and then what is it like as a woman out there but um what I wanted to kind of explore a bit was I was just curious and you've talked about a little bit already around maybe even fear and how you relate to that um and it really sounds like quite an embodied way but i was wondering you're curious how do you manage to navigate those expectations around you know quote-unquote being fearless and strong with the reality of you know injuries exhaustion hormones days when you simply don't feel it um maybe don't even feel brave um when you're in that space and you're going to being in many ways, I think the media still kind of likes to portray it as this, you know, girl boss energy.

38:41Aline Carrier:Um, the reality is much more complex, right? How do you reconcile that? I guess. Yeah. I think as first of all, like a big wave is relative,

38:55Katie McConnell:right? So every single person in the world, uh, surfs big waves, right? It's just, however, their, you know, their skill and confidence level, given the conditions of the day. Right. And it just so happens that in the like, quote unquote, sport of big wave surfing, a big wave starts at about a 20 foot face. Right. And so people tend to ask me, well, how did you get into surfing big waves? And I'm like, well, I started small. And, you know, it was mostly for me, it was something where I just loved surfing period. and at the time I was living in a place in Northern California where it was pretty stormy and heavy like all the time like I feel like our friends in the UK and Ireland and Scotland kind of know what I'm talking about and probably Canada too all of these kind of cold water heavy spots and I felt like you know I just wanted to surf every day and just get in the water because that's what I love so I figured you know what I just have to learn how to navigate and I kind of let go of actually catching a wave.

40:01Katie McConnell:And just, it was about getting in the water, getting out there. And, you know, every time, once you get out to the waves, it's a different perspective. And so sometimes, you know, you have like a new, you have a new view on the situation. And sometimes, you know, some, a set comes and it calls your name and sometimes it doesn't. And I always counted as a wind is, you know, I got in the water, you know, sometimes if the ocean didn't even let me out beyond the break and it just, you know, spits me back out on the sand, safe and smiley on the, at the end of the session is a win for me. And I'm super happy and grateful to have even had the chance to like touch saltwater for a day.

40:42Katie McConnell:And, um, but what happened though, is like, eventually I caught the biggest wave of my life. And then I was like, well, that was fun. and I survived. And so with curiosity, I was like, well, and I, a couple days later, caught one a little bit more or a little bit bigger. And so it just kind of spun wildly out of control. And I think always, here we are living in Hawaii now and surfing Jaws and competing at a pro level. And it happened very fast. So I think if you are driven by love and approach things with curiosity and try and like detach from an end goal all of the time, I think it opens up a lot of opportunity because I think in surfing, and we take this back to land with us, it's not all about our own control, right?

41:35We are humbled at the ever-changing dynamic nature

41:40Katie McConnell:of the ever-powerful sea, right? Like we're not stronger than the ocean. It's one of the few places left on earth that humans aren't fully like molding it to our will all of the times. And so I just really appreciate having the privilege to be able to experience that and to explore that aspect of things. And it's so true. Like Sally said, it can be kind of a selfish act and I don't have kids right now, so I can only imagine what it's like to try and balance that, you know, between working and motherhood. And it's true, like, and depending on where we are in the world, you know, different cultures place additional expectations and responsibilities on women that make it more difficult to even enter the water and get close to the water, you know, and I've heard it many times people say, Oh, but the ocean is free.

42:32Katie McConnell:It's open to anyone. It's like, well, yeah, everything on land, though, makes it a little bit difficult, depending on a person's social economic status. right and place in society so for that reason uh happy international women's day it's so great that finister is putting on this podcast because it is so well documented that there is um you know disproportionately less coverage of women's stories and even when it does happen it's lower quality than men's especially in the sports world and i've seen this time and time again in surfing and especially big wave surfing, where often women are almost completely erased.

43:14Katie McConnell:And so it's so important that, you know, we have these conversations and thank you to everybody who's even listening to us. And, you know, what was interesting is, uh, I started thinking about this and I had the opportunity to talk to some, uh, uh, some retired U S women's soccer team players. And these are the women who had to literally create the world that they could thrive in. And they went on to, you know, win gold, win multiple world cups. And it was just so inspiring for me to just think like, okay, maybe, maybe I need to take the initiative to tell these stories more, or maybe I need to take the initiative to make surfing less selfish and give back more and include more people in the lineup and like open up access for others.

44:06Katie McConnell:And, And, you know, surfing is such a gift. Maybe I should be sharing it more.

44:11Aline Carrier:Yeah, what a gift it is. And I think someone who really appreciates and understands that, Lola, you've grown up like immersed in surf culture. You're a third generation surfing family and a champion longboarder yourself with a whole host of titles to your name already, as well as now your journey and also with your art. And I kind of love to maybe explore both, but in particular, longboarding and your approach to surfing through longboarding and like with longboarding, it's often described as graceful and artistic, but it also demands a lot of resilience and grit. And I was wondering how you balance that softness and strength when you're competing on the international stage.

44:53Aline Carrier:And I mean, what role then I'm curious also what role would be your art and that side of you plays? and you know is there tension between the two and and perhaps the surfing itself I think is your form of artistic expression as well of course we don't see them as distinct yeah I mean I've like it's been I've been doing competitions since I was like 13 or 14 and I'm 18 and I've been doing

45:19Sally McGee:like so many and I've just experienced the like the opposite ends of the spectrum of emotions like extreme high emotions like almost winning like a European title and then in the last minute like just just getting like you know that type of oh it's almost there and then obviously very low emotions um and it's been amazing like I love competing I think that I'm definitely going through a stage in my life now I'm starting to think if competitions are ready for me and I'm definitely because I am a very I'm not a super competitive person that's my personality it's not I'm starting to realise, oh, do I have that kind of, that's really strong competitiveness to be able to get on the world tour and go and win a world title.

46:02Sally McGee:So it's definitely something that I'm starting to discover and figure out. And because I've done so many competitions very recently as well. And yeah, I think I, you know, I love surfing in all conditions and I'm so used to kind of very tiny waves at home and going away to like point breaks. It's so cool to be able to go and surf really perfect, amazing, world class waves. And I think also something else that I find really important is I think it's so cool when you see women longboarders like shredding in like massive waves. And I think it's I love surfing big waves just as much as small waves.

46:41Sally McGee:And I think there's definitely like a lot of inspiring women to look up to as well. And I think like my surfing is always interlinked really nicely into my art. And there's always been such a nice connection. And being obviously travelling and doing all the competitions, there's also so many experiences I get with people and kind of outside of the competing that I always bring back and use into my artwork. And I also, what my normal thing is to do is kind of I take photographs and then I paint from my photographs. It's always just linked so nicely together. Yeah. And also the sea is just a place where I go to get ideas.

47:23Sally McGee:I always come out of a surf and I'm like, oh, like I've got a new idea. Like, you know, it's so nice. So I think they really, and I always end up bringing surfing into my projects. It's always something that I like love to bring into it because obviously it's, they're both things that I'm so passionate about. Um, and yeah.

47:45Katie McConnell:Could I ask Lola a follow-up question? Yeah, of course. Please. Yeah. Okay. So, so I'm kind of with you where it's like, gosh, I just, I don't really feel like I'm a super competitive person, but now I've found myself in spaces where I have to be competitive. And so it's just so interesting to hear you talk about how the ocean is both a really inspiring place for your art, which I feel like kind of inherently isn't that competitive. But then at the same time, you still enter these competitive spaces. How do you navigate that? Like, and what is the, what is your experience like when you're surfing?

48:24Katie McConnell:How does it similar and different from when you're just on a free surf and you're thinking about your art or when you're in a heat or are they kind of the same thing are they all intertwined I mean I think

48:37Sally McGee:that for me personally I find it very different I think there's like that sense of like just a huge amount of pressure when you're competing and it's still like something that I'm figuring out how I cope with like the pressure and like how I can get through heats and different breathing exercises and I'm still trying so many different things to see what really works for me and what headspace and mindset I need to get into because I have found that it's really important for me to get into a specific type of mindset before I go into a heat to actually do well because if I'm like just you know I'm very like all over the place like I love talking to people I love doing so many different things at once so it's I've definitely started to realize that I really need to kind of get into a certain space before I go into heat um and you know I'm still figuring out my different ways of getting around that because in the last year I've so I've been doing the European tour and the first event I did in Portugal I did really well and I came second and it was like a bit of a shock I was like wow like how like that's I'm so proud of myself and I was like trying to think what going back to what mindset was I in before going into those heats and then the kind of following um events so there was four events five events all together and I didn't do very well in the rest um but yeah it's definitely like it's hard because it's just so different like I either do well or I do really badly and it's like that's what I find so hard And that's what I'm trying to figure out is, do I want to carry on feeling like really bad after like doing so?

50:22Sally McGee:Because I'm also, I do get quite, I do, I'm quite hard on myself after doing quite badly. I'm like, like I could have done that. And then it's like overthinking everything. And I feel like sometimes I'm not a very good loser and that's still something I'm working on as well. and yeah um but yeah and I think going out and is without we're not competing I I do it is very different but I do think that for me being out in a heat I need to find that almost that balance of just that calmness I do feel when those thoughts of my art thoughts come into my head and so I think it's definitely like just a mental thing and it's something that I'm really trying to figure

51:05Easkey Britton:out still yeah i think is that is that could you take that into like i know the competition's like obviously quite unique in what in the act that it is but like there's the the waves that we go out in where we feel super confident and it's just like that type one fun you know we're just in flow state it just feels good we're not stressed out at all we can think about everything around us and it's just like the best feeling ever and then there's other days where we're pushing ourselves whether it's in competition or it's big waves or whatever you know like big waves for for us personally or like harsher conditions or more like critical spots where it's just like there's something else going on there for us as well and it's just not quite as fun but we're just pushing ourselves um but yeah I wondered as well ask linking about so many people ask us about Billy is he going to compete you know and I just like did you because your dad obviously competed was it just something that was just so natural for you and your brother or you really both wanted to compete or was it just kind of expected like why how did that happen so I mean

52:13Sally McGee:I think I you know my dad's been like a really good inspiration throughout my whole life he's very encouraging but I've also been very lucky in kind of like my parents aren't very they're they're super encouraging but they're also like they want me to do what I want to do and I've just naturally really enjoyed doing the competitions um my brother is going through a stage of he's you know we're not putting any pressure on him whatsoever and but he's not as into it yet but he's also only 11 um so yeah it's fine but he's you know he's not as keen as I am so we're very different in that sense um I think competition is like from my dad's point of view as well is just so much more about kind of like having fun and just like the experience in terms of like doing like instead of like doing really well so I think that's what um I've also been really it's been really nice as well because if I do really bad it's like it's fine and just like looking at the positive things coming out of it um and I also think that there's so many events as well in longboarding that are just so much more about the community and I love going to those events and going to like kind of like the Mexi Log Fest it's so much more about the community than actually the competition.

53:30Easkey Britton:I was gonna say as well I bet it's a great way for you to meet other women like women who are surfing as well because yeah you're all there together and like making some good connections and good friends yeah that is definitely like the possibly the only reason I might ever like encourage Billy because mainly because we're too like to travel around the country for a competition I'm just like having been even worse as a parent you know it's like football sidelines I'm not into like I want to chase swells I don't want to chase comps yeah but like there's so few kids up here there's so few kids in the water there's like two other children I can think of at Billy's age in the water up here so I mean about like access in the water and parents and kids when you've got to put all the hoods and the boots and the gloves and all this like but I know that if he was to do that it's the way for him to meet the kids you know like him and Ruben got on like a house on fire we were down in Cornwall this summer and they were just attached at the hip just like surfing together and skating together and he thought it was the best thing ever because he's met another kid who surfs like yeah exactly doesn't happen up here so that's really nice and that was it's a good way for you to to meet the girls Yeah, and with like a lot, there's so many young girls as well who I always see surfing and there's loads of girls who always want to do like the local competitions.

54:47Sally McGee:And I think there is definitely a level of expectation that so many, like I personally think just so many young teenage girls at my age, younger, older, who say, you know, there's like a level of expectation that or like a certain level that they have to be to do the comps. and I think there's such a stigma around that and I really, I just want, so I just, we need more girls doing all the local competitions and you know, it's not about the competition, it's just about the fun and the community so I'm always trying to encourage everyone, oh like it's fine and I don't want it to just, it's so annoying when it's like, they feel like it's like a scary thing to be doing but I think it's.

55:28Easkey Britton:I love like, I know we take a lot from skateboarding in our family because my husband's big into skateboarding as is my like so nice skateboard too and like they have a more jam vibe with with comp we're not not competitions they have jams which i think a really cool idea for surfing and i wish that happened more in so i wonder if makes the log fest has got an element of that but it's just like get out there and like t-shirts are thrown for like daft kind of prizes for doing whatever and it's not you are the ultimate winner well done you failed you know like pitching people against each other and the skate culture has got such a such a beautiful scene in that that I don't see enough in surfing to be honest but yeah yeah more more jam more jam sessions yeah I definitely

56:10Sally McGee:definitely agree I think it's just makes it so much more inviting to people as well when it's just so much more it's just a bigger fun vibe around it I think it's really important yeah

56:20Aline Carrier:I agree yeah no winners uh I could yeah I could just chat with you amazing women at all day long but before we wrap up I wanted to put a question out that maybe we could all riff on before we close um kind of bringing it back around to uh what we were talking about around just power in the lineup and also what it means to be strong so I was curious what are you still unlearning about what it means to be strong so unlearning about what it means to be strong or about power? Yeah.

56:56Lola Bleakley:Katie said something earlier and it definitely resonated with me because right now I'm working on this a lot. It's okay to go out there and not to catch every wave. And sometimes the wave seems nice, but there's other people that are in the right position for that wave and they will have the great wave, which is also okay. But it's also okay sometimes that we're not in tune with the ocean or sometimes we are not we don't feel as powerful during that day and sometimes the ocean comes with a lot of challenges so between like ourselves other people in the lineup but also the ocean like sometimes it's okay to catch only one wave during a session because it's challenging and it's I feel like this um expectation of being like kind of like performing on every session I'm unlearning this and it's I think it's very important like to be just like um to to be enjoying being present out there on the ocean and some days just like paddling and yeah floating on the water seeing the kelp moving in the water seeing the fish coming by um all of this there's a lot of other things that could be creating a great succession other than the wave count and this for me it's a good way to um it's part of my process of feeling stronger i've got i've got one that's a little bit prevalent

58:30Easkey Britton:at the minute for us and um i would say unlearning and not necessarily yeah myself all of us but just just to take from the ocean. And there's real issues in England and Wales and Scotland at the minute. Northern Ireland, I don't know as much about, to be honest, but with our sewage situation, it's absolutely dire. I think we're one of two countries in the whole of the world who privatised our water and gave it to companies to just take and take and take and never reinvest in our sewage systems. And I've spent all day today actually working with Surfers Against Sewage. I know it's not going to be aired, this will be aired on International Women's Day, but on the 24th of February broadcast tonight is a film, a really powerful documentary on Channel 4, three-part documentary about the horrendous situation in the UK with regards to sewage and what's going on.

59:32Easkey Britton:And I just think as surfers, I would say from being involved in surfacing sewage for the past 20 years like I rarely see surfers and people are doing different stuff because there's different ways to do activism I completely appreciate that and just showing up is really hard sometimes but I think as a general rule I would just love to see us all unlearning that it's something to just take from and like really thinking how we can kind of really look after it and I know all like all four of you or all of us together you know feel really strongly and passionately about that but that's something really needs to change all over but especially here in in England at the minute where I am it's horrendous I was gonna just talk about

1:00:15Sally McGee:kind of like body image and um it's definitely something that I'm like being like a young teenage girl and being like kind of growing up around just all the social media and the like and I think it's definitely something that I'm unlearning that actually who cares like I'm just becoming more the sea is somewhere I feel so comfortable in my body and it's just something that I'm still like like I need to remember like oh like when do I ever look at anyone else and like judge them you know what I mean and it's like definitely something like it's okay not to be like super skinny and you know it's fine to wear a bikini and be a little bit bigger and just feel comfortable and that type of thing um and also kind of like listening to your body as well it's definitely something that I'm still learning and listening to the cycles and how it affects your performance and I just sometimes I'm a bit hard on myself I'm like oh like I've performed so badly then I'm like oh it's because you know I'm about to start my period that type of thing and it's just like definitely um just you know I'm learning the fact that our body isn't always going to be the same every day we're not going to be feeling the same every day um so yeah we need more Lola's

1:01:29Katie McConnell:advocating i think it's awesome so cool yes it's so true we get we really can i think like my strength these days is coming kind of from what lola was just saying like i just have to uh you know somebody once told me you know believe in yourself and just be the best you can be and it's like the more i think about it it's really kind of a journey you can continue um and kind of go pretty deep with it. And, uh, yeah, I think in terms of body image, for sure, like in the, cause now I'm like dabbling my toes in the professional surf world. And I realized that like, you know, I, I don't have big boobs.

1:02:09Katie McConnell:I have really, really huge shoulders and muscular arms right now, but it, maybe I don't fit a mass marketing mainstream, uh, type of calendar image. but I do align with you know the right type of support as long as I stay true to myself and don't try and force myself into some sort of thing that isn't really who I am and to just be okay with that and and I think so I did say earlier how like yeah okay as long as I touch the water it's great But right now I actually am in a phase where, especially after I just caught one of the biggest waves I've ever caught paddling, I kind of am like, all right, show me another big wave.

1:02:57Katie McConnell:Like, I want to go bigger. So in terms of being as strong as possible physically in order to have like that mental connection and the confidence to be able to send it in terms of life, you know, every passing wave is an opportunity, whether you catch it or you don't catch it or you catch it and fall or catch it and make it. Did somebody see it or not? It's like a different like bifurcation point in our life story. and to really kind of push it a little bit more and dig a little bit deeper. Like maybe I could go a little, you know, I could push it a little harder and just see what that looks like.

1:03:44Katie McConnell:And I think part of that, what really helps is to remember that I am not alone in this. As much as it can feel so individualized, um i'm so inspired by having the opportunity to speak with you know all of you women today it and it's great to meet lola and ali and great to see sally and iski again i'm so psyched that iski was the host for this so awesome thank you so much yes it's awesome that finister see value

1:04:18Easkey Britton:in all of us for our unique ways and you know that we're not like necessarily stereotypical like you're saying you know people that um are supported necessarily by i don't know i don't see it and i think that's awesome that they are providing that platform um so yeah i'm fully

1:04:35Aline Carrier:grateful yeah i think in response to that and maybe as a way of uh i mean it's hard to bring this to a close and i really feel like hopefully it's a conversation starter and it's one we can keep on having together and see where it takes us i feel like this is definitely going to spark work a lot more um I've been so inspired by just listening to you all getting to know each of you better so here's to more of that happening also in real life um but yeah I really think so much of what you shared has resonated you know that how the ocean for me is one of the few places where in it I suppose it's a paradox isn't it where I felt both exposed completely exposed and also completely myself but that that didn't happen automatically you know it took years of unlearning realizing that you know belonging isn't something you earn by uh you know being good enough tough enough grateful enough all the enoughs are not feeling enough um it's something that i've had to feel in my body like that's been the the relearning i think it's innately there as kids and i hear that's kind of across everything we've been sharing as well the importance of that embodied experience as a way to kind of reconnect um and listening to all of you i also hear it isn't just achievement it's this resilience and grit uh care how we also meet conflict and challenge the joy uh how we protect it and stoke it and uh sometimes compromise sometimes defiance um that you know all our lives have been so shipped around tides and leather systems and that you know maybe that's what um i always think what we've been talking about here is leadership in many ways it's maybe that's what it is it's like you know if we're talking about the so-called you're seeing so much of this crazy ridiculous version of strongman leadership in the world and look at the impact that's having but leadership is actually not dominance not visibility but staying in relationship with the ocean community ourselves even and especially when it's uncomfortable.

1:06:41Aline Carrier:So I think to be strong, to borrow from our friend and fellow ambassador, Hanley Prinslow, I just keep going back to what she shared once about how to be strong is to be soft like water. And there's nothing more powerful than water. And I'm also hearing, I think there's so much that needs to shift, you know, what we've been talking about in terms of access, even the economics and the funding and uh who feel safe who feel seen but i also feel like there's something really powerful quietly happening already in all of listening to all of your stories you know the way we're raising um our children the way we're mentoring um the way we're choosing also like a little collaboration over competition and and also how this you know this idea of change but it doesn't have to look dramatic um can be a real slow burner um sometimes yeah it does when it comes to yeah surfing and shit is not fun that does need to be dramatic action please um i don't know if the ocean changes because of us if we can really you know i think when we think like that that we can it's again centering humans and our power too highly but um i do know it definitely changes us and maybe that's just where we where we begin thank you that's my little riff from what i what's landing for me and yeah so i think also yeah for anyone out there listening if you want to learn more keep the conversation going check out the work um projects and what all of uh us are up to um check us out on i suppose over on Finisterre.

1:08:23Aline Carrier:And also, yeah, do take a deeper look, deeper dive into each of these amazing women's stories. So Sally, Ali, Katie, Lola, just thank you all so much for being you, showing up. Thank you, Jiki. Thank you so much. Thank you, thank you.

1:08:44Lola Bleakley:Well, I hope you enjoyed that one. Big thank you to the incredible women we are fortunate enough to call ambassadors for jumping on board and sharing their stories and experiences. Thank you Iski, Sally, Lola, Ali and Katie, a crew of incredible women of the sea who are claiming their space in the water around the world. Head on over to our website and the broadcast in particular to discover more stories from our ambassadors who are as good at penning a line together as they are surfing. Thanks to Gareth the Chatterbox Audio for stitching the show together, sound design by CJ Mirror if you are listening via the usual podcast platforms subscribe to be the first to know about future episodes until then, happy hunting

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Sharing the real experiences of real women, this latest episode features a crew of our female ambassadors for a round-table discussion. Featuring Sally McGee, Aline Carrier, Katie McConnell, Lola Bleakley and hosted by Easkey Britton, we dive into their lives and experiences as women in the line up, in science, in art, filmmaking, and more...

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