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Podcast Episode Notes: Scams: How to Spot Them, Handle Them and Protect Yourself
Episode Overview
- Podcast Title: Making Money
- Episode Title: Scams: How to spot them, handle them and protect yourself
- Hosts: Damien Jordan and Timeyin Akerele
- Guest: Katie Morley, Consumer Champion at The Telegraph
- Key Themes: Awareness of scams, personal finance, vulnerability, consumer rights
Key Concepts Discussed
Understanding Scams
- Myth of Invulnerability: Many believe they are too savvy to be scammed.
- Prevalence of Scams: Significant numbers of people fall victim, regardless of intelligence or financial literacy.
Vulnerability Factors
- Definition: Vulnerability can stem from various life events (e.g., bereavement, illness, trauma).
- Statistics: Approximately 27.7 million adults in the UK are considered vulnerable.
- Personal Stories:
- A notable case of a woman who lost a significant sum due to vulnerability caused by medication.
Scammers' Techniques
- Emotional Manipulation: Scammers often exploit emotional states to gain trust.
- Pressure Tactics: Scammers instill a sense of urgency to prompt hasty decisions.
Guest's Expertise
- Katie Morley's Role: Has successfully recovered approximately £10 million for victims of scams.
- Advice on Complaints:
- Victims have up to six years to complain to financial institutions.
- Importance of documenting claims effectively.
Banks' Responsibilities
- Consumer Rights: Banks are obligated under regulations to protect vulnerable customers and refund scam victims.
- Case Studies: Discussion around banks’ varying responsiveness and how persistence is often necessary to recover funds.
Steps to Take if Scammed
- Document Everything: Keep detailed records of transactions and communications.
- Official Complaints: Utilize formal processes when contacting banks or companies.
- Know Your Rights: Familiarize yourself with the Contingent Reimbursement Model for potential refunds.
Key Takeaways
- Awareness and Education: Understanding the nature of scams and the signs to look out for is vital.
- Personal Responsibility: While banks have obligations, individuals must also take steps to protect themselves.
- Financial Literacy: Encouragement to educate oneself on personal finance and consumer rights.
Practical Tips
- Recognizing Scams: Watch for deals that seem too good to be true; take time to think before acting.
- Protecting Information: Be cautious about sharing personal details, especially online.
- Verify Communications: Always confirm the legitimacy of messages and calls purporting to be from banks or services.
Additional Resources
- Contact Information:
- Katie Morley: katie.morley@telegraph.co.uk
- Financial Ombudsman Service: [Time Limits for Complaints](https://www.financial-ombudsman.org.uk/consumers/expect/time-limits)
- Financial Advisory Services: [1:1 Help](https://makingmoney.email/financial-advisors-audio)
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Conclusion
- Final Thoughts: The episode emphasizes the importance of being informed and vigilant regarding scams, the need for financial institutions to uphold their responsibilities, and the critical nature of personal financial awareness.
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Transcript
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0:49It's one of the biggest myths of scams and frauds is that, you know, I'm too clever to be scammed. You know, I do this for a living and I don't think I'm too clever to be scammed. Katie Morley is consumer champion for The Telegraph. She's won back around£10 million for scam and fraud victims, including those who should have been protected but weren't. What would you do if you were scammed? Do you know what kinds of things banks look for when evaluating who should get their money back? Last year I was invited to Number 10 to talk about fraud because it's become such a big issue in this country.
1:23And I think we all know deep down we need to be more aware of the techniques used to target us and our rights if we fall victim. And that's what makes me so cross because it shouldn't be down to me really to do this. The one thing that shocked me is, and we'll get into some of the specific stories, is just how many people fall victim to this and how many of them are quote unquote normal people. I think the stat I've got here is that the Financial Conduct Authority say that 27.7 million adults are vulnerable. Yeah. Which is like half of the UK population almost. Yeah, it's like a staggering amount.
2:00But I think it's important to say that like anyone can be vulnerable and that can happen at like different times in their life. So like if I think about the times when I've personally been vulnerable, after I had a baby, I was in a lot of pain, sleep deprived, I would have been classed as vulnerable at that point. But right now I'm not. So it just depends if you've been bereaved, if you're ill, if you've, you know, got a divorce or some sort of traumatic life event going on, then the bank, you know, banks or financial institutions could class you as vulnerable. Why do the FCA think it's important to track the amount of vulnerable people in the UK?
2:33It's because banks and financial institutions have to protect and do more to protect vulnerable customers. So people that need more support than the general population. And that's something that isn't optional for them. They have to do it under the regulations. So, yeah, I always thought, I think most people think that you only get scammed if you're dumb and you reply to an email and someone's promising you money. and then you sign up for it and then you lose loads of money. But you're saying that it can be just different stages of your life. You could not be vulnerable this month, but in two months something happens and then that can make you a vulnerable.
3:07It's one of the biggest myths of scams and frauds is that I'm too clever to be scammed. I do this for a living and I don't think I'm too clever to be scammed. And if you think that you're too clever to be scammed, then you're automatically in a camp of people that are actually probably more at risk of being scammed. it's a weakness actually to think this could never happen to me um so although most people are unlikely to fall for it at any given time it really depends on the situation and often the cases that I see the people that I speak to are incredibly lucid intelligent individuals it could be my neighbor or somebody like you know somebody that I know and I think to myself how have you fallen for this but then when you actually dig down into what what actually happened and when and what was going on in their life at the time, I'd say like nine times out of 10, it is because they've been vulnerable at that moment or there's been a sort of unlucky set of circumstances that has led up to that moment of the scam.
4:08One of the stories that stood out was a woman who took medication and that basically made her vulnerable. This was one of the most staggering cases that I've ever come across. And I think it turned out to be the biggest win that I've ever had. this lady sort of had a dream life she was sort of living in a two million pound house working in public relations had the family living the dream she then went through a divorce and she also had parkinson's disease which is an awful awful illness and she was on this horrible medication called rapinarol and that has a few very strange side effects one of them is it can it can cause people to have a much higher sex drive it can cause people to sort of have a bigger risk profile.
4:52So to gamble where they wouldn't normally or sort of take risks and be, you know, irresponsible where normally they'd be completely responsible person. And unfortunately for her, she sort of, it was the latter. She sort of had this extra appetite for risk. And she responded to an advert where this company said, invest 250 pounds and you can and make some money. And she got sucked into that. And over the course of five years, she gave them 829 pounds. She believed she - 1 ,000. Sorry, 829 ,000 pounds. Yeah, so nearly a million pounds. Wow. And that was like money from her divorce settlement. And she believed she was going to be given an annuity that would give her 20 ,000 pounds a month for the rest of her life.
5:42but obviously it was a complete scam and this person got away with all the money. She then complained to her bank Barclays and they kind of pushed her away and she just sat on this for a really long time. She was deteriorating in health, she was struggling to pay the bills, you know food on the table like that level of poverty basically. She had nothing and she reached me wasn't particularly coherent it was handwritten um i looked at it and i sort of thought i don't know what's behind this but somebody this person's not okay um and i spoke to her and sort of got the story and went to barclays and the way that i approached it was to i got her to get a doctor's note to prove that she was on this medication obviously kind of like talking to her at length figured out that she was on this medication she didn't sort of she wasn't forthcoming with it all I had to kind of extract it all out of her she would never in a million years have thought to tell Barclays that she was on this medication um but because I knew how how Barclays assesses these cases and how to get people their money back from scams because I know the processes that the bank used I made sure that I extracted all the information from her that Barclays needed to see in order to refund the 829 ,000 pounds.
7:08So she got all her money back in the end and she just couldn't believe it. I mean, to her, this was the difference between having a secure roof over her head, having the care that she needed to for the rest of her life, dealing with the Parkinson's. Like she was needing proper care at this point and not being able to afford it. So like, I mean, she still messages me sometimes to kind of check in and she's just so grateful that she just couldn't believe it. You're like a financial superhero. But how much do banks normally cover? I mean, this is where I wanted to go with the question in a way, because it's like, how much should they cover?
7:44You know, and it's hard for them, because how would they know that you're on these tablets? No, they wouldn't. Yeah, they wouldn't. And that's the thing. It's sort of, it is up to the customer, you know, if they do get scammed, it is up to them to complain in the right way to the bank. And unfortunately, because most of the people that have lost big money in these scams are vulnerable, they might not be in the position to put forward a good case, which is kind of where I come in. The doctor should say something. The medical professional should say this kind of drug is... It's almost like, it sounds like she had like bipolar...
8:19Well, you know, my auntie's bipolar and she would be reckless and spend and then come out of it and be like, oh God, I don't know what just happened. Yeah, exactly. She wasn't in control of fractions. Once she was off the medication, she was okay and she wasn't doing this anymore. The kids said they got their mother back. Yeah, exactly. They felt they got mommy back and it's heartbreaking, isn't it? But by the time she was loosed again, it was too late and she'd already done it all. If it was something like a bereavement, would you also be able to get, like if they lost their partner, someone lost their partner or like they lost a child and then they made a bad financial decision after, would that be grounds to potentially get their money back or is it only because it was medical and it affected her decision-making?
8:56It's not just medical. There's a whole range of things that would potentially class you as vulnerable. But it is basically done. These decisions are made by banks on a case-by-case basis. So it's subjective. They have like a criteria, but it's not exhaustive. So like I could put, you know, they wouldn't want to kind of rule out. There could be a million different situations that could render somebody vulnerable. So instead of having a list, it's sort of like, well, you've presented your case. Does it meet our criteria? It's things like, one of the key things is if it would, if the vulnerability or the thing would impair your judgment and your decision making.
9:39Because what they're looking for is somebody who wasn't in control of their decisions at the time. And if you're bereaved and in the depths of grief, then arguably you weren't thinking straight. And I think like generally in society, we would want people in that situation to be covered. One is interesting because like one of the, whenever I publish a scam story, there's usually like two camps of people that are commenting on the story or sending me feedback on email. One camp is, oh, I'm so glad that you did that for that person, I'm so grateful. Thank you so much. That person really deserved their money back.
10:16And then there's people who say, I'm a shareholder in Barclays, I'm paying for this. That person shouldn't have been so stupid. But like generally I think as a society, we do want to look after the vulnerable, don't we? I think there does come a point of personal responsibility though. And I would never want to kind of say that anyone should be covered by this because some people are reckless and they don't have a good excuse. And that, you know, is unfortunate for them. And we don't want to live in a world where we're not encouraging personal responsibility. But I think where people's lives have been devastated by these scams and where they are vulnerable, then we should put it right.
10:55I did some like fraud stuff with some fraud. Yeah. Some light fraud, you know, I did. It was, it was around number 10 and the current government wanted to input some anti-fraud prevention measures because it, it, it came about that basically say the Germans and stuff were pursuing fraudsters more aggressively than we were. And that was pushing into, cause these fraud networks are international. so it was pushing them away from Germany into the UK because they saw us as a soft target and they said that one of the things was if we're too loose in refunding everyone it just attracts the fraudsters to our market because they just know we can scam people they'll get the money back you know we have to be really careful in that sense of how lenient we are in terms of refunding people because you make people you make reckless almost yeah but but banks banks can use that argument, in reality, they have huge resources and technologies at their fingertips.
11:52And some of the basic errors that I see from the banks in terms of not calling people, the algorithms failing, not putting protections in place to stop fraud. So I think we have to be slightly careful in that that point is completely true. And banks have a really tough job on their hands to decipher, you know, if they're being gamed by fraudsters and if they're being too who lacks some forsters and if that's actually perpetuating problem, it is completely, that is completely an argument. But I do feel like the banks used that argument to detract from their own failings. So I agree that people who've been scammed should get their money back, but I just want to play devil's advocate.
12:32As a corporation, how much responsibility do they have? In the same sense of Instagram, right? I'm not getting my money back if I buy a scam on that platform right now. And I bought a mirror the other day and it never showed up. and having scammed. Oh yeah. And they should do more, but there's definitely more of a societal pressure on banks than there is say on a meta to resolve those kinds of issues. It's not even societal, it's regulatory. So the social media platforms are not regulated in the same way. It is like a huge black hole in terms of where scammers lie and where scammers are doing things in social media.
13:09It needs more regulation in my view. The difference between social media platforms and the banks is that the banks are regulated by the FCA. And the FCA mandates them to keep customers' money safe. And they have to do that in lots of different ways. And particularly relating to vulnerable customers as well are mandated to keep vulnerable customers safe and take extra precautions to keep them safe. So that's kind of where it's all coming from. And they have all signed up to like a voluntary code as well, which is to do with giving scam victims their money back. So they've kind of voluntarily said, we will do this.
13:48And then to see some of them rowing back on that quite sneakily is very galling for somebody like me who sits there. And is that what you see? You see them kind of trying to dodge that responsibility? Yeah, absolutely. I mean, I think WITCH has done research on this and certain banks are very good. So I think TSB is one of the best. They refund about nine in 10 scam victims. But NatWest is one of the worst. And that 100 % reflects my inbox as well. Whenever I've dealt with NatWest, I am having to fight tooth and nail to get anything out of them. And often, even after I've been like done everything I can, exhausted everything, I've had to say, I'm sorry, this has to go to the financial ombudsman now because I can't do anything further.
14:36The case has then gone to the ombudsman, which is, it's like an independent arbiter of these disputes. They then win with the ombudsman. So it shouldn't be having to get to that stage basically. That's the last resort, right? It's the last resort. Also as well, if the ombudsman contacts a bank, they get charged and stuff. And we used to do this with PPI and things like that when I worked in finance. and it was like if you had to refer it to that stage, the bank's getting charged again. So you shouldn't have to go to that point. That must be cultural then. So that's coming from the top or the director level where they're basically saying we're stricter on this.
15:13Yeah, they're deciding they're stricter. Because as I said, it's case by case basis on these scams. It goes kind of to a panel of judges and they look at the case in the round and they chat about it and they make a decision. Now, I've never sat in on one of these meetings, but I would love to be a fly on the wall and know what goes on. but that's how they decide. So it is subjective at the end of the day. So someone who's been scammed, who's listening, what are the kind of things that you think, these are some points that you could use or these are the things that the bank are looking for in terms of getting money back?
15:43So if you've been scammed and you're trying to complain to the bank to get the money back, the things that you need to really think about are, what did the bank, what did you do and what did the bank do? Or what could it have done more? so could the bank have provided you with more warnings as to what was going on were you making like say you usually spend i don't know 20 pounds a day and suddenly 5 000 pounds a day leaving your account did the bank ring you and say what was that for did they provide you with written warnings did they you know what did they do because if they didn't do anything then it's likely that the algorithms failed and that you would have that that would go in your favor um the other thing is are you vulnerable or is there anything that would make you know help your case in that sense so are you bereaved recently are you do you have mental health issues are you on medication that's having side effects or that could impair your thinking um is there any other factors going on think outside the box is there anything else that has meant that has led up to you doing this and make sure that you raise an official complaint and that you're filling in the form to be refunded under the it's this is like the most geeky unrememberable name ever but it's the contingent reimbursement model and and maybe research that in in advance as well maybe because that you know that there are documents online that that show you what they're looking for and explain how it all works so familiarize yourself with that if there's lots of money at stake it's worth spending you know a couple of days preparing this really and do you do you think like when they get a call off you they're like oh god because you know you know what you're doing you know i know i know i know what a consumer champion is but to be honest if i'd been scammed i wouldn't think to have contacted you necessarily and it might be your most avid readers and i wonder how many people just get a no and then wonder off that actually would have got their money back if they knew what they were doing yeah exactly and that's what makes me so cross um because it shouldn't be down to me really to to do this last time we recorded to me and you were having some real dramas with your accountant so how's that been going mate they're sacked so drama sorted um they're a big corporate firm um they didn't really reply to my emails very quickly like took a week or two at times um and they charged me way too much.
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20:25That's Vanta.com forward slash making money. There's a link in the description though, so you can just click that. That's what was most shocking about reading your work is there's two elements to this. There's getting scammed and then there's the company itself not fulfilling its obligation to help people that are scammed. It's almost like you've got two battles. You're getting scammed twice almost. Yeah, exactly. Conned out your money twice. I'd say that it kind of falls into a few different camps. Like on the most extreme, it's kind of companies like deliberately lying to customers, deliberately getting money out of them for goods that they know that they don't have, essentially conning them.
21:04And I do see cases like that, but it is rare. Like generally companies do try and offer decent services. Most of the cases that fall into my inbox kind of fall into this middle ground of like just poor customer service where it's like laziness or just, you know, jobs worth type customer service people that just rely on terms and conditions and don't think about things in a real way. and generally those are quite easy to put right but then sometimes you do have companies that dig the heels in and just are quite happy to offer a terrible service and treat customers in a terrible way and that's obviously really disappointing but those companies usually get what they deserve later down the line when they go bust.
21:53And what's if someone feels that you know I've been scammed I was vulnerable and the company I don't feel is upholding their end of the bargain or fulfilling their duties what what's the process that they should go through yeah so if you feel that you've been treated unfairly by a company the first thing to do is obviously raise it with the company in question so um the way to get your voice heard initially every company will have their own complaints process and that will depend on what sector they're in so energy sector will have different process to banking sector to retail sector, but everything should be there on the company website.
22:26So raise an official complaint. There's nothing wrong with using the word official at any point because it will get you heard. That is a bit of a magic word in the world of complaining. So make sure that you raise it with the right people as well. So if you've emailed customer services and you're not getting anywhere with that, you could try copying in the CEO, chief executive, or somebody more senior in company and often you can find those details on company websites um you can find them on websites like ceo.com um they're generally available on the internet somewhere sometimes you have to be creative about how you find things um so so kind of trying to escalate things within companies the next stage is to kind of go a bit wider and see if you can get your voice heard elsewhere if things aren't working with an internal complaint so uh posting things on social media for example if you're posting something on Twitter X, you could copy in people like me, Martin Lewis, like other sort of people that might be relevant in this area that kind of might make the company set up and listen and think, oh no, you know, we might be in the media if we don't sort this out.
23:34That's always a good way of getting, you know, even if I didn't respond, for example, it's still worth doing. And you can always reach out to a consumer champion like me, of course. but obviously we, there are a few of us, like most newspapers have got one but we are only able to deal with like a relatively small number of cases. But what I always say is like, you can use my name. You can say, I, you know, sometimes I get people emailing saying, I threatened to tell Katie Morley of the Telegraph and I got 5 ,000 pound compensation. That has happened. So like, you might as well try it and you can copy me in as well.
24:12You can use my email and just CC me into complaint emails. If I would say, don't do that as a sort of initial thing, only do it if it's really not working. And sometimes just the sight of that will get companies to do the right thing. Do you see much from gambling? Yes. I used to work in the debt management industry and we get calls from typically women, like these types of calls from women. And normally it would be say a Muslim woman and she would be like, I need help. I've like gambled all the money away in the house on bingo. And if my husband finds out, like I fear for my life or something like this, you know, and we would have to call the police.
24:52These are just three or four times it's happened for me. But I was thinking like, we would see the emails and the bingo companies like you haven't been here for two days, have 10 % off or whatever, you know? And I was like, how is that not a scam? Like they're just extracting the money out of these poor people that - Yeah, some of the tactics used by the gambling companies are disgraceful, they really are. How is it not a scam? Yeah. It's a rigged game. In my view, it shouldn't be allowed to be advertised. And I personally think that it's just, it's such a scourge on society, isn't it? I do see quite a few people coming through that have gambled huge amounts of money on gaming and - The digital stuff.
25:42Yeah, like online game. They can't escape it. Those online fruit machine things as well. And those gambling companies know full well that they make all of their money - 90 % from 1%. Yeah, off the 1 % that have a problem and that have like given their life savings because they can't stop or whatever. So it really is just disgusting industry. so I've had a fair few highly vulnerable gambling cases where I've won back big amounts of money for them I've been really happy to do that because I just think it's been really clear that there's been like a pattern of them being targeted but I have had cases where people come to me and they say oh I'm vulnerable or my partner's vulnerable and they've gambled and can we get our money back and then when I've looked into it they're kind of trying to have their cake and eat it a little bit because they have won before.
26:34And so, and then they've lost. And then they're coming to me saying, we want our money back. They don't like it when they've lost. So it's like, well, you can't keep the winnings and get your money back on the losses. So then I'm like, no. You know, in court, when they say someone's not in compass mentis, like you're not aware of sound mind. So maybe you're drunk or you're on drugs. Do you ever get that? Someone's like, I got really drunk at the football. And then I was like going home and I saw an advert for - This is T's excuse. A friend I might know. And then it's like, I got really drunk and then I ended up betting on like Filipino division four football at 2am, someone I know.
27:11And then you lost loads of money because you weren't in sound mind. And you're like, if I was sober and I hadn't been out of football all day, I wouldn't have gambled at 3am on Filipino. Yeah, yeah. Do you ever get people like that? Like I wasn't, yeah. Yeah. Do you ever win from those? No. Because what I would do is just sort of look at them and just not take it on. but occasionally I see one and I think, do you know what? I'm gonna run that. And I'm gonna say very politely why I'm not gonna help you because I think it's important that people - Don't just see me as like a meal ticket that I'll just do anything for anyone because I just won't, that's not true.
27:47But when you see wins every week, you do think it gives that impression. So I do sort of pepper in ones where people do get told no. Yeah. Yeah. Reading through one of the things that struck me, I've got a little section I want to read out if you want. I thought it was great journalism. First of all, it was like really impactful, but at the same time it was like the savagery of the scammer in terms of the emotional grip that they had on this person. So I'll just read out a section. In this story, there was a lady who for context had lost her husband. Her children really struggled with it. And one of them ended up in a psychiatric unit.
28:24She met someone else who then died three years later and she cared for them in death. And then she met someone online dating and there was this bit and it was, this is her to him. You seem to have invaded my whole existence. I'm thinking about you constantly. You're in my heart and on my mind every moment of the day, but I wouldn't have it any other way. To be honest, I never thought I'd meet anyone who could sweep me off my feet like you've done. Being no doubt my commitment to you will be forever. And then it was shortly after this, the scammer decided you were ready to be extorted out of every penny you had.
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28:53They basically know they're experts at manipulation and like tugging on emotions. You know, we're all human beings and we're all kind of emotional beings, aren't we? And some people are more susceptible to that kind of manipulation. And this poor woman had just had such like an unlucky run in her life. She'd been through so much and I just felt so bad for her. And I felt that she just really deserved a second chance at getting this money. We had a guest on the other day and he wrote a book called The Intelligence Trap, which is about how smart people can get themselves. They can be stupid, essentially.
29:28So interesting. Yeah. And it was about like cognitive biases. And there was a story in there about a man who he'd won a Nobel Prize or something very smart. And he ended up smuggling cocaine across a border because he fell in love with a model online, went to meet the model. And she was like, oh, I can't. I'm in a different studio now. Can you just take my case back over the border? And it was just packed full of coke. So yeah, but with that guy, it was the same thing again of he'd split up from his partner, he was old and he'd gone into a vulnerable state because it's like, I'm going to die alone.
29:57And then this gorgeous model is like, oh, you know, I'm interested and I love you. I think the emotional stuff is one that everyone could relate to. Yeah, exactly. Have you ever been scammed? Not in the traditional sense, but I've definitely been scammed by sort of online retailers. And, you know, you order something and it's in your eyes and it's like, what's this? This is not what, this is not the quality that I expected. And actually tradesmen, I'm awful at getting, not scam, but like taken advantage of. Because the thing is, I think they just see me coming. Like I need like a badge saying consumer champion or something because like I am not very handy myself.
30:39I can't see what needs doing with things. So I think they just instinctively know that and they just pull the wool and I ended up giving them loads of money. And then - It's not just you. I got some scratches repaired in my car. And I said to any, he quoted me a price. And I was like, yeah, okay, I'll pay that. Whatever, a couple of grand or something stupid. And at the end I was like, thanks mate for your time. He's like, I will never forget you. And I was like, you prick, you've scammed me. And I was like, I knew in that moment, I was like, I have been, I've had my pants down here. Scratches being two grand.
31:08I think a lot of people get done by car mechanics. Cause I went in for like something. He's like, yeah, it should be 400 quid. Oh, the left phalanges broken. Yeah, the left Philanji called me back the next day. He's like, yeah, you have no Philanji. It's gonna cost you two and a half grand. I'm like, I thought this was like a 400 pound like tie change and suspension. And then it's like two, two and a half grand. And I'm like, well, you've got my car and I need it back. So here's two and a half grand. I'm like, I don't even know what you did. Oh no. Yeah, it's stuff like that, isn't it? Now I go to a trusted mechanic.
31:32Always like the same mechanic every time. So I want you to know and trust. That's what I learned. You alluded to a time that you were scammed previously. Why don't we all go your mind? What about you? I'll tell you mine afterwards. Mine's close to the bone. Mine, you show me yours. Yeah. Okay, let's go. I got scammed in shock horror crypto. So my friend, Luke, I will name and shame him because it's in the newspapers. He's not your friend. Oh yeah, that's okay. He's definitely not my friend. True. I had an associate I worked with when I was working for a crypto exchange. We went to loads of crypto events together, lots of parties.
32:05We were good friends. And he started a crypto project And he said, he always used to tell people, I used to be homeless. Like, I really want to make something for the community so we could all sit at the big table together and eat with the big boys. This is for us. So it sounded great. He got into the House of Lords and he was talking about the project. Everyone in the crypto community in London was talking about it. We all invested loads. At one point, it was valued at£665 million. I invested$8 ,000. and because he was my friend in inverted commas, he said, look, I'll give you$16 ,000 worth of tokens because you're my boy, but for$8 ,000, you could sell it right now for$16 ,000, but I know you're not going to because you're my boy.
32:48I'll tell you when to sell. We've got loads of things coming up. It's going to go up. So I could have sold immediately for double, but because I trusted him, he's like, this is going to go to the moon. Your eight grand will become like 50 grand in like a few weeks. So obviously I didn't think it would be a few weeks, but it was going the right way. Everything was going up and that's how they raised 660 million pounds. Then one day the price started going down. I called him like, dude, the price is going down. Should I sell? He's like, don't worry, we're about to relaunch, launch version two next week and then it's going to give us a pump and then you can sell.
33:16Meanwhile, he ran off to Dubai and Thailand and the Philippines, all over the world. Left his kid and - Left his wife and his daughter and all he cared about. When I met him, he's like, oh, I don't want to stay out too late. I've got to get back to my daughter. She's my world. She's all that matters. Now he's out in Dubai with like Secure. he got loads of death threats obviously from like the whole of the london community a premier league football player invested loads of people invested i'm glad i only put in eight grand some of my friends put in 50 100 everyone got greedy because once the price goes up you're like take some more take some more so and he gained your trust yeah and i almost put in my client's money into it i have a crypto fund i was about to put in some of my clients money as well like 10 grand from different clients and luckily i didn't because then i'd have to explain to them that i lost their money um and so yeah now he's he's still on the run it's been about a year the guardian wrote about it he disappeared from parliament he was there talking to all these mps and um yeah i wouldn't have done it if he wasn't my friend i told damo get involved like this is going to move my friends got me in at half price i can saw you out there i'll stick to be careful too i was like don't worry mate i'm a crypto expert i know what i'm doing i've done do this is my career don't worry about me and that's the vulnerability and i was exactly and he was an expert as well 100 % hands of trust.
34:27But looking back, were there any warning signs? None. But we like Damo saying, obviously I know Damo a lot longer, but we like Damo saying, Oh, I'm opening this business and then he just does a runner. So yeah, that was a rude awakening for me. And I didn't chase anyone. I didn't go to the bank because I assume, because crypto, they don't normally, they advise you not to invest in crypto anyway. But I don't, yeah. It's a high risk investment, isn't it? Exactly. But you don't necessarily expect to be scammed by a friend. Exactly. But this is why they block the on ramps, don't they? A lot of the banks won't even let you put into many of the major exchanges.
35:02But what the scammers do, the scammers always find a way through. So although crypto is now sort of red flag, high risk, they've now found a way to, so they get people to transfer to Revolut or Starling or one of the - Because they're crypto friendly. They're less regulated. And then from there, they'll put all the money into crypto. And then they won't get their money back from Revolut. So what are some of the most common scams that you see or you get emailed about? There's a lot of credit card fraud out there. But the good news is with that is that banks have to give you the money back. And they're generally very good at doing that.
35:36So yeah, credit card fraud. Bank transfer fraud is a very common one as well, which tends to involve much bigger amounts of money. So that's when people are transferring like, you know, 10K, 100K to criminals that are pretending to be somebody else. sometimes a romance scam, sometimes running to the bank. And then you've got your tech scams and your phishing emails and things like that. And they're generally like precursors to much bigger scams because they're often trying to get smaller amounts of money, but also personal details and like sort of package of personal details as well. They're trying to get everything at once.
36:10So pin numbers and addresses and account details and things like that. And then they target you through another scam that is not related almost. Yes. Yeah. So these scammers tend to operate in like a big gang and they'll have like different scripts that they'll deploy for different types of scams. So for bank transfer scams, like I mentioned, they will have different scripts. So the most common ones are pretending to be the bank's fraud department and they'll ring you up saying, we've noticed that someone's tried to buy like an iPhone 13 on your account, a hundred and a thousand pounds. You need to move your money into a safe account.
36:47Now a real bank would never, ever, ever do this. They would never. But people are scared and they feel under time pressure because they're being told their money's at risk. And these people will appear to have, know everything about them, know all of that. They'll say, right, well, you've got this. Sometimes they'll even know what other bank accounts they've got. They'll say, well, you could move this to your Lloyd's account. It's so convincing. They tried that with me, but I'm like, I have a Samsung and I would never buy an iPhone. So it's clearly not me that's bought this£1 ,000 iPhone 15 or whatever.
37:14So yeah, that's how I realized it was a scam. Samson gang. Yeah. Well, you get them like trying to order an Uber Eats or something, is that a precursor or is that just some guy trying his luck to get some chicken? Well, it could just be the guy trying to get the chicken or it could be something really sinister. We just don't know. But yeah, I mean, anything like that, it's like small things like the Royal Mail text or HMRC text, or you've got a rebate, just fill in your details here or something like that. You know, those are really common. yeah how do you have any ways that you think people should protect themselves then or online yeah online and yeah I mean there's lots of different ways I mean people need to be really careful of things that I mean the first rule is anything that feels and looks too good to be true probably is anything that's like time pressuring you to do something so whether it's to click on a link that you don't necessarily like the look of or you don't recognize or to send money or personal details you know be really wary of that just stop and if you're not sure just stop and think and ask a friend um just be really careful of like giving out passport details driving licenses driving license details like address for goodness sake don't give your pin number away security code on the card like all of this stuff you've got to be so careful it's not just online though like there's i i get text letters of my friends do as well like hmrc saying you owe us a tax bill or Amazon saying your 500 pound purchase is going through you need to call us pay a quid to re-deliver that is the most convincing one the royal mail delivery or the delivery things because at any given time you usually are waiting for a package aren't you and it could likely be from every or whatever the royal mail or whatever they're pretending to be so that's when you're really yeah exactly so you think oh well I'll just give but that's a precursor for a big scam because you're giving away all the details that they then need to ring you up and say, oh, but we already know your address and your account details and all this.
39:09And then you might need to trust them. So they're just trying to bait you in almost. It's usually a phishing thing. Or it could, sometimes they say they try and get a bit of money off you at the time, but usually it's a precursor to then targeting you for a much bigger scam where they'll come back under a completely different guise. Pretend to be the bank maybe. Pretend to be the bank and say, your money's at risk. You need to move it to another account. Yeah. And like websites as well. So if you get some of those scam texts. Just look at who it's from because sometimes they have like a picture saying HSBC or it's from HSBC.
39:40But if you actually look at the number, it'll be from like a random number. And if in doubt, just call your bank directly or whatever, the number you trust. Exactly. Always Google the number. Don't give the number that's in the email because it could be a scam email. So when Googling phone numbers, be really, really careful because unfortunately search engines like Google do allow scam adverts right at the top. So never click on the advert, always go down and click on the genuine website and make sure that you check the URL. What are the most sensitive bits of information though? Because it feels like we give out quite a lot on a regular, to be honest.
40:17Name, email, and then you go on Facebook, you can find out someone's date of birth pretty much because you can just look and people are going, happy birthday, happy birthday. It's like, it doesn't take a genius to. So the most dangerous combination is if somebody has all your details. So if they have your name, address, age, pin number, account numbers, passport details, that's like the killer combination because they could do anything with that. They could use that for so much. They could potentially open a bank account. They could potentially use it to fool you into thinking that they were your bank.
40:48They could do so much with it. Whereas if they've only got like one or two bits of information, it's much harder to do anything dangerous with. So just be careful about giving out a lot of information at once. but obviously if you're gonna, like people are shopping online all time and you've got to give your address, your email, your car details. People are giving that on the regular, aren't they? Yeah. Tell me about your scam. You really wanna hear it? I need some balance out here. Yeah, one of you is gonna be like, T's just getting scammed. Next they're gonna try and email me like, hey T, we've got an opportunity for you.
41:19Just send us some money. Yeah, mine was a little bit different. It was, I mean, call it a scam, but it was more that I was just lied to. And it was like the emotional side of things. So I got with someone and at the time I was quite young and naive straight out of uni thinking I was gonna be a millionaire in no time. So this is kind of the mindset I was in. And I got into a relationship where I started getting with a girl and she was like, oh, I'm gonna get this big inheritance. And I would like it if you could manage it for me. So just quit your job. And I was just like, this is it. I knew it, made man, manifested it.
41:54So I quit my job. And then yeah, 12 months later, no money showed up. I hadn't paid any rental bills, anything like that. And the whole time I just kind of wanted it to, wanted to believe it would happen. But what were you actually doing? Were you managing the money? I just sitting on my ass. Yeah, it sounds crazy, but I almost couldn't believe that like my girlfriend at the time was like lying to me about, cause it was just seemed so ridiculous. But yeah. And then off the back of that though, that I, you know, I was in loads of debt. So I was like, how am I gonna fix all this debt? Well, I'll go work for a debt management company and I'll learn how to get people out of debt.
42:31And it made me really good. And then I flew through the ranks there. And then that all led to this now really the experience. But yeah, looking back as a naive 21 year old, I didn't wanna face up to the fact that it wasn't real and that it was all a lie. So I just kind of sat there for too long. And then I came and saw my uncle and my uncle was like, you need to get a goddamn job, mate. Like she's changed shit. She's, you know, she's - Was he the one that made you see it was not right? Yeah, because I think it was just such an outlandish lie that it was like, why wouldn't you believe it? And there was like certain things that made me think it was real and all of this, but actually it was all just a lie.
43:11And then I heard like, you know, 12 months later, she did the exact same to another guy. These people often go on to do it again. But it's interesting what you said about being so deep in it that you just couldn't face it not being true. I knew it wasn't real. For like, you know, two, three months, I was like, oh, there's a delay and the money's stuck in China or something. Whatever it is, I don't know. I can't remember, it was ages ago, but yeah, you know, after like seven to eight months, it was like, this is not real, but I still wasn't ready to face that because that then meant I've just like wasted a year of my life, got myself into 30, 40 ,000 pounds worth of debt, quit my job.
43:49and now I've got to dig myself out of this hole. It's not just gonna disappear. And that's what I see time and again with people that are so deep in the scams. They just like going along with that almost like a fantasy is easier for them to do than to kind of rip themselves out into something much more scary, which is the truth. And the fact that they have lost all this money or time or whatever it is, emotional stuff. You know, when you leave the club at seven in the morning and you step outside and it's like, it feels like that. Yeah, like the cold day and you're just like, oh, you're like, what?
44:21No, I wanna go back in. Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's kind of, you wanna live in the dream. It's a good metaphor, not thought of that one before. Yeah, yeah. But yeah, so, I mean, I can admit to it now because I'm a lot older and a lot wiser, but this whole point about you can be vulnerable at different stages and the vulnerability doesn't need to be a weakness, it can be a confidence. My confidence was that I was the man that was gonna make loads of money. You were Mr. Crypto expert, so you couldn't be scammed. It's actually, that's the vulnerability in that moment. Yeah, definitely. If you want a bullet point summary of this episode, you can sign up to our newsletter using the link in the description.
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