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Ruthie's Table 4 - Episode Summary: Olivia Colman
Podcast Overview Podcast Title: Ruthie's Table 4 Host: Ruthie Rogers Guest: Olivia Colman Description: Ruthie Rogers shares conversations with guests about food memories, exploring how food influences culture, love, heritage, and personal identity.
Episode Highlights
Introduction to Olivia Colman
- Ruthie recalls meeting Olivia over dinner at The River Cafe with Maggie Gyllenhaal after filming "The Lost Daughter."
- The episode features Olivia cooking her favorite lemon pasta.
The Role of Food in Colman's Life
- Discussion of early experiences with food and family meals.
- Colman reflects on how food has always been an expression of love in her family.
- Memories shared about childhood meals, cooking habits of parents, and food traditions.
Comfort Food
- Comfort Food of Choice: Colman expresses her love for tadka dal, a lentil dish, emphasizing its comforting nature and versatility.
- Discussion on how food can be tied to emotions and memories.
Culinary Experiences
- Colman describes her experiences while filming in Greece, where the cast enjoyed local cuisine.
- Notable mention of enjoying traditional dishes such as octopus, feta, and fresh seafood.
Cooking and Family Life
- Colman discusses her family’s dining habits, including Sunday roasts and how they incorporate diverse foods into their diets.
- She mentions the balance of work and family, highlighting how film work can temporarily separate her from family life.
Evolution of Eating Habits
- Colman talks about how her eating habits have evolved with her career and success, reflecting on the pressures and freedoms that come with being in the spotlight.
- The conversation touches on how actors sometimes face dietary restrictions due to roles and the importance of communal eating experiences on set.
The Influence of Culture on Food Choices
- Discussion on the regional differences in Italian cuisine during her trips to Italy.
- Olivias's reflections on how food can signify success and change over time.
Closing Remarks
- Colman expresses her admiration for food and its ability to bring people together.
- The episode concludes with a light-hearted take on future meet-ups and culinary adventures.
Key Takeaways
- Food as Love: The strong connection between food, comfort, and familial love is a recurring theme in the episode.
- Cultural Influence: The episode illustrates how cultural backgrounds shape culinary preferences and experiences.
- Personal Growth: Colman’s journey from humble beginnings to a celebrated actress highlights how food has been a constant source of joy and nostalgia.
- Community through Food: The importance of shared meals and culinary experiences in creating bonds, both in personal and professional spheres.
Conclusion In this episode of *Ruthie's Table 4*, Ruthie Rogers and Olivia Colman share a delightful conversation that intertwines food with personal stories of love, nostalgia, and cultural experiences, demonstrating the powerful role food plays in our lives.
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Automatic transcript. May contain errors.0:00This is an iHeart Podcast. Guaranteed Human Hi, this is Shirley Strawberry from the Steve Harvey Morning Show Toyotathon is on So stop by your local Toyota dealer for incredible year-end deals on the cars, trucks, and SUVs known for their legendary reliability Like the stylish and efficient Camry The ready-for-anything RAV4 Or check out a rough-and-rugged Tacoma or Tundra all with great financing and lease options available to qualified customers. Visit BuyAToyota.com to find out more. Toyota, let's go places. Welcome to Ruthie's Table 4, a production of iHeartRadio and Atomize Studios. The films of Olivia Colman have the power to move us to tears, make us laugh, and inspire us to try something new.
0:53They can also make us feel really, really hungry. In The Favourite, playing Queen Anne, Olivia Colman conveys her authority by insisting on a cup of over-rich hot chocolate. And there are tables laden with roasted venison, lamb, cakes, desserts, the symbols of wealth and privilege. None to the Queen. What? What, you cannot have hot chocolate. Your stomach. The sugar inflames it. Abigail, hand me that cup. Do not. I'm sorry. I do not know what to do. Oh, fine. Give it to her. and you can get a bucket and a mop for the aftermath. I met Olivia over food one night in the River Cafe. She was with my friend Maggie Gillanall and they'd just wrapped filming for their movie The Lost Daughter in Greece.
1:40It is not an exaggeration to say they pretty much ordered everything on the menu. We immediately got into talking about feeding our kids, cooking and inflicted distance from family when working. This was a conversation that could have lasted for hours but I had to go back to the kitchen, and she needed to finish her lemon pasta before it cooled down. Today, we're here in the River Cafe, and she is the one who's been cooking the lemon pasta. Now, we're going to pick up where we left off, conversation with a woman I admire, I respect, and I adore. Lucky me. Oh, that was the best introduction. Thanks, Ruthie.
2:18Well, it's true. It's true. So, you're in the River Cafe kitchen with Alex, who's on the section called Hots 2, which does pastas. So what was it like? What did you think? Just lovely. You chose for your recipe tagliatelle with lemon, cream and parsley. And I wonder if you would like to read it. 400 grams tagliatelle, mulled and salt and coarsely ground black pepper, 300 mils double cream, 120 grams unsalted butter, softened, zest and juice of four juicy lemons, six tablespoons roughly chopped flat leaf parsley 150 grams of grated parmesan This is the one you chose I mean it is absolutely lovely and classic and I think sort of as you start at the beginning of this time of year it's starting to be a bit more light in summary but still when it's slightly miserable women Have I picked something too easy for you?
3:16No, no, this is great, this is fantastic So what we want to do is we basically just get everything in the pan that we need. So we're going to have a bit of butter, a bit of cream. In a large, thick-bottomed saucepan, gently heat the cream. When warm, add the butter, lemon juice and zest. Stir briefly together, then remove from the heat. Cook the taglitelli in a generous amount of boiling salted water until al dente, and then drain. Stir into the warm cream and season. Add half the parsley and toss together. I was going to say, actually, do you want to, like, toss it? Can I... Have a go? Yeah, yeah, yeah.
3:55Yeah, go on. Yeah, because I feel like, sorry, that's a bit premature, you know. We've still got a bit of, you know... There you go. Thank you. Can you just sort of give it a good old... Yeah, yeah, exactly. Yeah, yeah, there we go. Sorry, I've made that a bit of a block. No, no, it's great. Serve immediately on warm plates with the remainder of the parsley and the parmesan. As it cools, it will sort of thicken up a little bit and then a little bit of parmesan on top and that's sort of what we're looking for. Lovely, it looks pretty. Oh my God. Well done. Thank you. What did you observe? Just, yeah, just amazing.
4:36Good. He said you cooked it. You actually did that. Well, I think he's lying. No, he did. I definitely watched him do it. It's not easy to go into a kitchen. He let me do that. Oh, he did, the tossing. Yes. Oh, did you catch it? Yeah. Well, I did make a bit of a mess of your floor. I'm terribly sorry. Oh, dear. Sorry. We'll go. I'm only kidding. I did say I cleared it up, but I just clearly wandered off. No, we didn't want to.
5:01Do you see food and your ability to eat well as a kind of measure of your success? People very often see that, that we've talked to, would say that as their success increased, they measured it by being able to go to a good restaurant, have a better bottle of wine, even not have to look at the right-hand side for the prices before they looked at what they wanted to eat. Yeah, the differences. How is that measured in your career? I remember we've got a close group of actor friends that we all were at drama school together, and we've all stayed very close. But when we first left drama school, sometimes we'd go to a pub for someone's birthday to eat, and it was very much sort of how about should we share that all of us were you know really there wasn't lots of money going around and and renting terrible places and um trying to share something between us or uh if we club together and buy one bottle and then we could always get something from the offy on the way home and have more to drink because it's cheaper at home um and then cut to you know years later I could say let's all go out for dinner my shout or you know What did you eat after you had the Oscar?
6:11Was that celebrated with food? No, I think that was entirely booze. How was that? You could do another program called, you know... Booze. Yeah, what was that like? I think I was so out of it, sort of, I couldn't believe what had happened. You did seem very shocked by that. Yes. Why were you so surprised? I didn't think I'd get it. The first time I'd been nominated, and we were so proud of the film and everything, but I just thought, that's never going to happen. That makes me feel emotional. It was such a ridiculous thing to have happened, in a way. I still can't quite believe that happened. Oh, it did.
6:54So I just couldn't eat it afterwards. Are you an emotional eater? Do you eat when you're happy or sad? Both. Yeah, both. I do love the comfort foods or hot buttered toast. Butter plays a big part. I love butter too. I love butter. Toast is basically just a vehicle for butter. I agree. My mother-in-law used to say that butter is the best cheese. She treated it like cheese. You just have a piece of slab of butter until she decided that it would kill you. So then I was never allowed to cook with butter after that. But it is really, yeah, I like it. And when you make a film, like, for instance, going to Greece, when you made The Lost Order.
7:37With Maggie, or Maggie loves food. All of the cast were in the same hotel. Maggie had a little house separately, because she had to do grown-up things I think about the next day. And we were all quite badly behaved. Who were you with? So me, Jessie, Dakota, Dakota Johnson, Jessie Buckley, Dakota Johnson, Paul Meskell, Ollie Jackson-Cohen, Dagmara, Domenchik. Who else? I feel awful if I'm missing anyone else out. But we were all together and quite badly behaved. Good. And eating. We knew exactly the menu because we'd all been in the same hotel for, I think, six weeks. We knew the menu back to front.
8:16And they were very sweet and would do very... But I remember they had a deconstructed feta, you know, Greek salad. So it was a really different feta, not a solid one, but quite a soft one, laid out sort of prettily rather than, you know, what I remember from childhood holidays to Greece, which is great big chunks of everything in a bowl. Oh, I've even got pictures of the food. And they did a ceviche, something with mango and mmm, lovely things. This was when you were in Greece. In Greece, sorry, in the hotel in the Poseidonian. And your parents had taken you to Greece as well. Yes, we did go to Greece as kids.
8:55And I remember then eating octopus. I couldn't eat octopus now because my octopus teacher and learning so much about how clever they are, I can't do it anymore. But you eat it straight out of the sea, so fresh and squid. So did your parents travel with you when you were a kid? Did you go on trips? No, they weren't really travellers. But my dad's best friend moved to Naples when I was 12. I don't think they'd ever been to Italy. And we decided to go and we stayed with them. was it in the summer? yes in the summer we went to Ischia in the Bay of Naples and just had because they lived there and he'd married an Italian woman we had incredible food, we went to amazing restaurants and we didn't know what we were doing so he went, trust me and he would order something of everything and try these beautiful things we went to little restaurants in people's houses in the hills what year was this?
9:50well I was 12, I was born in 74 and I can't do maths Yeah, so that's 82. Well done. No, 12. No, I can't do maths either. 74, 84, 85, 86. How long did it take us to add 12 to 74? Okay, so 86. Yeah, that's just the year before we started here. And it's interesting that your first introduction to Italian cooking was southern. It's so regional, isn't it? The difference, had you gone to Venice, you would have had completely different food. Yeah. I love the food of southern Italy. I did that last year. I went sailing in that area. Oh, did you? And it's lemons and basil and, you know, fish. Fresh. Yeah, fresh.
10:32Really good. So let's go back to the beginning. Yes. Born in Norfolk. Yes. Not really a family of foodies. Food was always love. We'd always sit together and eat. So you had dinners every night. Yeah. I mean, a lot of, my mum was a nurse. Often she'd come in. It would be quick. We might sit on the sofa. watch telly with food on our laps and, you know, Doctor Who, all those things. But when people came round, it was an excuse for my dad to open a bottle of wine and entertain. And who did the cooking then? Would he ever cook? My mum did the cooking. She never really loved cooking. And her mum, I remember my granny, sort of dreaded people coming round.
11:13And we'd always have slightly overcooked salmon, new potatoes and green beans, I think. That was it, every time I went to my granny's house. And then my mum, whenever anyone came for a dinner party, I can just remember Corde Mornay. That's with cheese and kind of creamy sauce. And spinach, I think. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And new potatoes, as simple as possible. She really didn't want to spend much time. And then after that trip to Italy, my dad decided he wanted to get involved and started to, particularly pastas and things. That's nice. What did he do? He was a surveyor, charter surveyor, but he quite liked the glass of wine, cooking, feeding everybody.
11:57He wasn't great, but he was enthusiastic. I think it is hard for a woman who was a nurse to think about, did she work nights? By the time I came along, she wasn't doing nights because she wasn't working in the hospital. She was working on the district. So I can't even remember. She must have been on call if someone needed her at nighttime. But she worked Christmas Day. You know, she always took the shifts that she knew other people didn't really want to do, I think. And your grandmother lived near you? Often I'd go and stay there if mum and dad were very busy. I'd go and stay with my granny. And she always had orange club biscuits in her cupboard.
12:33I was going to say, what are your memories of your grandmother? My granny, orange club biscuits, Ribena hilariously, by my bed. Yeah. So that's sugar all night. Well, probably they didn't think about that much. No, no, not at all. and your teeth look pretty okay thanks so the memories what about your father's mother she was an amazing baker there we go we found someone what did she make there was always she had a little larder and she'd always go have a little look in the cupboard there go on and there would always be a little bit of cake I made you a little bit something or shortbreads fruit cake which I'd ever liked so she'd always make me a little chocolate cake and yeah just we were always allowed to go in and help ourselves so growing up norfolk is in the sea well yeah incredible seafood we used to also our holidays were also camping in norfolk just a few miles away from where we actually lived but on the coast and we'd camp in a campsite and pick samphir we in norfolk we call it samphir and when i first saw it written down on a menu in london it said samphire yeah i had no idea what that was i thought it was pronounced.
13:44Samfer. I thought it was spelt as a kid, S-A-N-F-E-R, Samfer. Yeah. But I think that's just the Norfolk way of saying it. But the way we ate it as well was, so shake off the mud in the seawater and it's sort of blanched, but it's still, you keep the roots on it. The twiggy kind of thing. Yeah, and you just dip it in butter and pull it like that so you get the meat off the meat. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, and we'd always just have it like that. You'd never have it with something else. You'd eat it. That's how we ate it. We'd take that little twig off at the bottom and then we'd blanch it. But we always put it with a fish.
14:20We'd do it with turbot and sea bass. It's great. It's a short season, though, isn't it? You don't have it for very long. I think you're not allowed to pick it anymore. We used to go and pick it, just go to the beach, pick it off the marshes. Nice. And fish? And fish. Yes, we used to go cockling as well. And mussels. I have always loved mussels. Oh, and that creamy, garlicky. Yeah. Dunk bread in it. Yeah. Mm.
14:55I did my first school play when I was 16. And suddenly, I'd always been so rubbish at everything at school, and then suddenly did a play and went, a light went on and I went, I love this. I wonder if I could do this. But I didn't know anyone who did it. I assumed you had to come from that place in order to do it. So sort of had a secret yearning that never said it. And then I went to Homerton, which I think still is, a teacher training college in Cambridge. But I left after a term or so. So I never, they call it matriculation when you become part of the university, but I never did that. So I was never part of the university and I left because I just couldn't do it.
15:38and then went off to the town of Cambridge and ended up working as a cleaner there for years. And I had a bicycle. I was the same age as everyone else. Nobody questioned me, and I went, cycled around, went to lectures to other people. I went to an architecture lecture, went to an EU law lecture when I was totally and desperately in love with Ed. You were being an actor. Yeah. Nigella Lawson, a friend of mine, you know, she worked as a cleaner in hotels in Florence, for I think two years. No way. And she said it was the most revealing job you could have, particularly in a hotel. Yeah. I think the way people left their rooms or things they brought with them.
16:19And so you did that for how long? Yeah, a couple of years. And then did a secretarial course. That was my mum's suggestion that if you're going to be an actor, you need something to fall back on. So you knew then that this is what you... So by then, yeah, I had done... In Cambridge, there's about 30 drama societies and I would just cycle around all day. I'd do my shift, cycle around, auditioning for things, doing plays, learning lines, going back, cleaning all the loos, and chasing Ed around. Yeah, Ed, Ed, yeah. So Ed, your husband to me, was a student at Cambridge. Yes, he was proper clever, and he was there doing it properly.
16:54What does he do? He was doing law then, but he's a writer. Oh. Yeah, and then we went off to Bristol Old Vic Drama School together, and then we sort of, you know, the food is love thing. We went to Thai restaurants and discovered new food together. And there's a Thai restaurant in Cambridge. And it was so delicious. We took it back with us. We asked. It's the first ever time I've asked for a doggy bag. And I didn't want to leave any of it. And we left it on his windowsill outside, putting arms out the window again. Oh, my God, it's amazing. The lemongrass and the coconut milk. So Cambridge. And then you started acting more and more.
17:34And you went to Bristol. Yeah. And when you actually then started working in the theatre, that must have sort of changed your way of eating? Did it give you a routine or did it give you restrictions on what you could have? Well, once we left Bristol and we were working, you know, trying to earn our keep as actors, I did my first few plays and things. I think I ate quite late after the show because you're sort of on a high. You certainly wanted to have a drink afterwards. when I worked at the Noel Coward Theatre right next to Sheiky's with Amy Morgan and Phoebe Waller-Bridge. The three of us would sort of go to Sheiky's afterwards and sit outside and I think we all smoked then.
18:17And we would order the little croquettes and the scallop burgers. Oh! And that was a treat. Do you remember what year was this? This would have been after Iron Lady, because that's when I first met Phoebe, which was Meryl Streep playing Margaret Thatcher. So a couple of years after that, three years after that, I don't know, I'm so bad with dates. But you can remember what you ate at Shiki's at midnight. Yes. Phoebe loves food, doesn't she? Oh, she does. She's a good eater. Yeah, and it's really annoying that she's so tall and lean and she loves eating. Oh, no, you're not. It's annoying. It's annoying.
18:55No. I will agree. But so you were eating out. Because it's interesting. We'd also get picnics. Would you eat before? If you were in a matinee, would you eat before? Matinee, we'd sometimes have a picnic on the floor of one of our dressing rooms. So go to get sort of little cheeses and meats and pretend we were having a normal life and not going back on stage in 45 minutes. Were there men involved as well? Was it mostly the females? It was mostly just the three of us. The girls. Yeah, and we'd have a kip. We'd sort of put, we had some roll-out mattresses that we could put on the floor and we'd have a snooze and eat nice food.
19:30And then do the matinee. Do you think that it binds you together, food? When you go on a set and you know that you're meeting, you know, I don't know if all the other actors were friends of yours before. Yeah. But does it, is it something that holds you all together? Before COVID happened, everyone would eat together on the dining bus. Right. And I loved that. And you were eating with the crew. And what did you go for? What did you go for? And having a lovely time together. so social and then time to sort of all be equal and to let your hair down and then now the dining bus hasn't really come back and so people sort of eat separately and that's such a shame yeah and I see you sort of sit on your own in your little van and um I miss that very much hopefully it'll come back but also sometimes you know some actors are having to have a particularly strict diet because they've got to look a certain way and that's sort of awful and you try and hide the pudding option that you went for.
20:27How does weight and physical appearance with food, how does that affect your work? I was just talking to someone who's coming to London to be in a movie and his assistant said to me that he has a nutritionist and a trainer because he's on a very special diet for the film and I thought that'd be interesting I'd like to know about that because maybe I could go on that without the nutritionist. And it turned out that he was actually eating 8 ,000 calories a day because he had to gain so much weight. It was completely diverse. Oh, wow. And I just was wondering how that, you know, when you were, for instance, when you were in the crown.
21:07Okay, Queen Anne. Queen Anne I had to put on weight. You had to put on weight. So I put on about two stone. Did you? And how did you do that? I mean, that's easy. Yeah. You didn't need a nutritionist to train you to stay. I can do that in my sleep. But, you know, Rachel and Emily, Emma, are very healthy, clean eaters anyway. They love food, but it's sort of clean food. So while they had their healthy options, I would say I'll have one of everything and all of the puddings. Yeah. And if you don't want that, I'll have that. Yeah. It started actually to be a little bit quite gloomy. I thought it would be, my God, what fun being told to put on weight.
21:46But I can put on quite quickly. And so it starts to feel, oh, I don't actually want another pizza. I'm going to have to take it all off at the end. And how did you take it off? Just the old-fashioned eating a lot less and trying to move more. But it was boring and hard. And she loved to eat, Queen Anne. She was an eater, wasn't she? Yeah, she was, I mean, was it 15 pregnancies she'd had? 17. Was it 17? Or maybe when I watched the film again, it said that she'd lost 17 babies. That's right, yeah. Her eldest one had got to 10 years old, so they had varying degrees of ages. But I think food for her was, she was apparently clinically obese.
22:35Oh, was she? And, yeah, you know, eat comfort food. And what about playing the Queen and the Crown? Well, she... Very different, yeah? And she was tiny, so I did have to... She had a tiny waist, and I don't have a tiny waist. So I did... They were very sweet. They got me a trainer before I started. And then thankfully by my second season, she was a bit older and didn't have such tiny waist, so I was allowed to let go a little bit. Did you feel playing her and the research into the live post-war so completely restrictive and different from what, the voluptuousness and the time of Queen Anne. So what was that like?
23:15What was your sense of food in the palace and food in the monarchy and food for being queen? Well, I think when they had, I mean, this is, you know, the only stuff I remember from what we did, but whenever there were people coming to visit, sort of big must entertain the heads of state things, it was all beautiful, lovely food. But because she'd remembered rations and everything. She was never irresponsible about too much food. She ate quite sort of circumspect? Frugally. Frugally. And she did maintain, and she was very healthy and outdoorsy, and she maintained a sort of neat little figure, which doesn't come from copious amounts of food.
23:55So I think she was quite conservative about food. Pleasure. I mean, yeah, it's interesting that you wonder what pleasure there was in, You know, you could see the kings of France and the Chinese, and you wonder whether the British aristocracy had, I could probably, they probably did, you know, those country houses. Yeah. You just wonder about the palace, whether eating and food was fun. I hope so. Yeah. I hope they enjoy it. I hope they enjoy it now. I think with King Charles, I think that that family probably is more interested in food, gardening, vegetables. Because of, yes, the lovely organic vegetables.
24:34Yeah. And Camilla's son, Tom Barker Bowles, is a foodie. Of course, yeah, foodie. He writes about food. Yeah, yeah. He goes to cookbooks. Hopefully they have great cake. I wonder if they go to restaurants, though. I don't know. Yeah, I think that's probably a hard thing to do, isn't it? Maybe. Maybe.
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27:12All those lovely sort of staples, I learnt that from her recipe book. So your mum gave you this book and? Yeah, and so I loved cooking for my two flatmates, Debbie and Olivia. Yeah. And that was the only cookbook we had. And I loved also, I started to really enjoy going to the shop and going to buy. And because we were on such a tight budget, we'd picture meals and buy for the meals, not just, you know, anything off the shelf, fancy that. And I really enjoyed that and I enjoyed, and sometimes it was just a jack of potato with loads of butter and cheese. But I really enjoyed us all eating together and, you know, feeding each other.
27:53So you have three children and you work and sometimes you don't. You can be home or you do have to shop. So what is like, you told us what food was like in your parents and your grandparents. If I were to knock on the door, what is food like in your home? Well, if you were to knock on the door now, you'd be... I'm coming. Yeah, I'm coming. You should. I am. Because now we have... I still struggle with saying it because I feel a bit embarrassed, but we have a really lovely nanny now. I know. We sort of had to because we suddenly both started working much more. She's an incredible cook. Is she? Okay, I'm definitely coming then.
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28:32Yeah, you should. And you all sit down to dinner? We always sit together and eat, yeah. Sometimes the kids are doing late things at school. And we do a Sunday roast every Sunday. We're so boring. Nice. And do you take them on holidays, on food holidays? Yeah. We took the kids to sort of holiday of a lifetime to Sri Lanka just before lockdown and just ate the most incredible food three times a day, curry three times a day. Yeah. What was that like? Sri Lanka, because we travelled around with the kids. And our two oldest are really adventurous. They've always, we've always included them with all the food we have.
29:10And when we have curry, we always make one that's slightly less spicy. And they sort of, they love it now and the boys love spice. And so when we were travelling around, our little one really wasn't thrilled. But she was only four at the time. So she ate plain pasta wherever we went. Plain rice. And we would have egg hoppers and the string hoppers for breakfast and the dals and the coconut sambal and all these beautiful things we would eat. And they loved it as well. It does tell you about a country, doesn't it? Yeah. It tells you what's growing in Italy. Our middle boy, he became obsessed with Japan when he was very little.
29:53And he did a sushi course. And he makes beautiful sushi and ramen. He does three-day ramen. It does take days and days. It makes his own new courses, yeah. Yeah. And actually Ed is taking the two boys for a cookery course before our eldest goes to university. So they're doing a little week together, a little boys' week learning to cook. Do you feel when you're away and you're working, do you feel that your work takes you away from some people you love? How does that work? Ed and I have been together 30 years, and up until COVID I'd only ever been away. The longest I'd been away was two weeks. Because I just don't take jobs away from home.
30:37Okay, let's stop there. So then you think about accepting a movie or a play or something that will keep you away from home. Yeah, I get terribly homesick. I never used to be able to sleep very well if Ed wasn't there. And now I think we're probably, you know, I'm at an age where sleep is harder anyway. So actually it's quite, you go, a night away, I'll get a great night's sleep. But I also, I missed the kids. You know, I wanted to be there. And so I was very lucky that I had the option of great work in the UK and I didn't have to go away. And then? Well, lost daughter. Yeah, I was going to say, was that six weeks?
31:16Six weeks. So suddenly went from, you know, the six weeks away, which is, I think, why we all behaved so badly, because we all adored each other, got on so well, and thought, hey, we're here, we're in a beautiful place. Did the kids come out? No, because we weren't allowed to, because if they came, they'd have to quarantine for 14 days. Oh, I see. There'd be no point. So we'd all meet up. We were each other's family. And I know Dagmara was really missing her family. And I really understood that feeling. So I said, you'll be back on the school run before you know it. Yeah. And they don't know that you're miserable or happy.
31:48So just go for happy and have a nice time. Do you think the men on film who are in the same, actors feel that way as well? Do you think they know that their wife is home with the kids? I've always struggled with this male-female thing. I think ideally if you're all brought up the same, you are the same. It's only conditioning that makes this thing male, female. So all the men I know and love struggle with being away from home and they miss. The ones I'm not that impressed by have a ball. But I think that's the same with some women as well. Love being away. I don't think it's a gender thing. I think it's a conditioning thing.
32:25People ask me if women cook different. No, no, people ask me if women chefs cook differently from male chefs, and I always try and avoid that. They really want you to say that women cook with more care or more sensitivity and men are a bit more, and it's not true. And it's not fair to the men that we all know and love. I know plenty of really uncaring women and plenty of incredibly emotional, kind men. And now you're doing a movie about chocolate. Is that right? Oh, God, yes. I'm allowed to talk about that. Willy Wonka and the chocolate. Yes. So what was that like in terms of chocolate? Oh, they had a chocolatier.
33:04But when I went for fittings and things, they said, come and look at what this chocolatier has made for us. And these chocolates were exquisite. And he said, you can eat them all. I mean, often if it's going to be a prop, why bother making it? But he was such a master. He insisted that it had to taste beautiful. Oh, more salted caramel. Oh, these are incredible. And they were brightly coloured and amazing shapes. And every one of them you could have eaten and it would have been incredible. I wish the audience could see your smile. Because every time you talk about food, your face lights up. And you sort of remember things that you ate and places that you've eaten.
33:43And the first time I had truffle. Yeah, a white truffle. Just any truffle. Any truffle. And now we have a little jar with truffle and every now and then. Yeah. You know, over scrambling I go, oh, on a mushroom pasta. Yeah, yeah. You know, food is love, and food is alleviating hunger, and food is curiosity or traveling or discovering. Food is also comfort. And I was wondering if there's a food that you would turn to, something you'd either make or buy. Olivia Colman, wonderful person that you are. And I hope you don't need comfort very often because you give such joy. I mean, when you came in the restaurant today, we've had all sorts of people come in and they're great they're politicians or actors or writers or doctors or whatever and I could just see everybody look up and be so happy you were there really happy that you were there it was really great to see and of course I joined them in saying thank you so much so would you come back again?
34:45yeah and meanwhile will you tell me and tell whoever's listening what would be the comfort food you turn to? My comfort food is sort of a one spoon thing and it's takadal. I could eat that all day, every day. Takadal. Tell me what takadal is. Can you just tell people who might not know what it is? So it's lentils which are soft and there's garlic and I think the tadka is the tempered thing on the top. I've never made it. Okay. but I I'm a connoisseur of eating it yeah and it is my favourite thing I always order if we have a takeaway or delivery I order much more taco dal than we need so I can have it cold for breakfast and have it reheated again for lunch the next day I just love it I could eat it every time I'm going to go try that oh you'll love it I was surprised because I'm sure you're going to say toast and butter I'm sorry yeah don't be sorry but I will come and have that taco dal I'll knock on your door.
35:50Yes. And thank you so much for coming. And now you're going to go and have food. I know! You're going to have lunch and you can eat and eat and eat. Oh, thank you. Thank you so much.
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I first met Olivia over food one night in the river Cafe, she was with Maggie Gyllenhaal, and they had just wrapped filming for their movie the Lost Daughter in Greece. It is not an exaggeration to say they pretty much ordered everything on the menu. We immediately got into talking about feeding our kids, cooking, and inflicted distance from family when working. This was a conversation that could have lasted for hours, but I had to go back to the kitchen and she needed to finish her lemon pasta before it cooled down.
Today we are here in the River Café and she is the one cooking the lemon pasta - we are going to pick up where we left off a conversation with a woman, I admire respect and adore. Lucky me.
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