Everyone Wrote Me Off... Here's What Changed Everything | Adam Stott

21 Jul 2026 · 55 min · 22 chapters

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In short

Adam Stott’s turnaround story from being “written off” after his father lost everything, to building confidence and a business through skill-building, sales, strategy, branding, and consistent action. He also explains startup vs growth vs scale phases and warns against scaling too early.

Guests

None. The episode is hosted by Alex Chisnell, with Adam Stott as the sole guest.

Guest background

Adam describes a childhood marked by sudden financial collapse (from a private school, large house life to living in the back of a transport café). He says he was a “rogue” student, later found his “thing” in sales, and eventually built multiple businesses, including a coaching business (15M revenue/year mentioned) and prior ventures (up to 40M/year; total 186M across businesses).

Key claims

Confidence comes from competence; fear of starting blocks meaningful work; success requires conversations + offers; personal branding attracts the right people; scale fails when the business is still messy.

Notable examples

A failed burger van partnership (never opened/sold); starting a finance brokerage with £50K equity that struggled due to lack of marketing/leads; mentor “Chris” improving messaging and getting him into the right rooms; cooker sales job as a turning point.

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Chapters

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From Privilege to Adversity

0:43 to 2:26

Adam shares his early life experiences and the impact of losing everything.

“a lack of ideas it's the fear of getting started i'm alex chisnell and this is screw it just do it The podcast for people who are ready to stop waiting, take action and make things happen.”

The Drive for Success

2:26 to 4:21

Exploring the moments that influenced Adam's desire to succeed despite challenges.

“I think all you can do is offer choices, right?”

Understanding Frame of Reference

4:21 to 5:10

Discussion on how life experiences shape ambition and the desire for more.

“as being a moment that I thought, you know what, I want more.”

Family Dynamics and Resilience

5:10 to 8:13

Adam discusses the family dynamics during tough times and their work ethic.

“I guess it's probably like in today's world, a lot of you, everyone's seeing stuff on social media, right?”

The Journey to Entrepreneurship

8:13 to 14:00

Adam shares his journey of starting businesses and the lessons learned along the way.

“And, you know, what's happened's happened and we'll move on, right?”

Struggles of Early Entrepreneurship

14:00 to 15:00

Learn about the challenges of starting a business without a clear strategy.

“and month by month it was going down and I didn't really know what I was doing.”

Finding the Right Mentorship

15:00 to 17:48

Discover how mentorship can guide entrepreneurs in their journey.

“And was it a conversation with somebody else?”

The Importance of Messaging

17:48 to 19:14

Understand how clear messaging can impact business growth.

“I'm surrounded by really successful people.”

Building a Strong Business Strategy

19:14 to 20:30

Learn the fundamental questions to consider for a successful business strategy.

“I think now there's so much information that is utterly overwhelming.”

Navigating Phases of Business Growth

20:30 to 23:02

Explore the different phases of business and what activities are needed for success.

“Which sales process are we going to use?”
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The Role of Confidence in Success

23:02 to 26:09

Discuss how finding strengths and building confidence impacts business success.

“Was sales the thing that changed your life at that age for you, would you say?”

The Path to Mastery in Business Skills

26:09 to 28:00

Learn how to become obsessed with gaining skills to achieve business success.

“It's like if there's something that you do, I ask this at my events sometimes, I'm like, hey, how many of you can, who can bake a cake in the audience?”

The Value of Deep Learning in Business

28:00 to 29:44

Explore the importance of specializing over generalizing in business skills.

“Now, obviously, I went through those stages.”

Overcoming Fear in Personal Branding

29:44 to 31:14

Understand why personal branding can be polarizing and how to navigate criticism.

“If you work with someone and you enjoy where you work in.”

The Impact of Personal Branding on Success

31:14 to 34:45

Learn how a strong personal brand attracts success and the right opportunities.

“The first part of the question, like, why do I think people are afraid do it.”

Navigating Growth and Scaling Challenges

34:45 to 39:29

Identify the key differences between growing and scaling a business and the challenges involved.

“And our mission is to help a thousand small businesses break through seven figures in revenue.”

Essential Lessons for Entrepreneurs

39:29 to 42:03

Discover the hard lessons entrepreneurs learn about scaling and relationships.

“So I think the problem was with scale to then answer the question would be that people can't scale usually because their business is still messy and you can't scale mess.”

Lessons from Business Relationships

42:03 to 45:21

Discover the hard lessons learned about relationships and business ownership.

“and you've got a lot on the line and you've got a lot of risk.”

Personal Growth and Stress Management

45:21 to 47:17

Explore the evolution of leadership qualities and stress management over time.

“Well, that's a really interesting one because I'll tell you 100 % where I was.”

Finding Your Passion and Building Skills

47:17 to 51:33

Learn how to identify your passions and the importance of skill-building.

“at school, who maybe is listening now, who maybe thinks they've missed their chance, that there isn't a way to start, that they're not capable of building something?”

The Importance of Sales and Marketing Skills

51:33 to 52:52

Understand why sales and marketing skills are critical for business success.

“and I don't have knowledge in that area.”

Quickfire Round: Insights and Recommendations

52:52 to 54:11

Enjoy rapid-fire insights on entrepreneurship and recommendations for guests.

“So first thing that comes into your head, short and sweet, what is an entrepreneur for you?”
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Transcript

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0:00Everyone told me, you're never going to achieve anything. My dad lost everything when I was about 10 years old and we went from having a five, six bedroom house, nice area, going to a private school to actually go back to the back of a transport cab. I had seen things in my life and when you see it, it's hard to unsee it. I found something I was good at. I wasn't good at anything else. I think that just built me up.

0:23Alex Chisnall:So what's the one thing you wish younger Adam understood? Build your skills. build your skills i think that building skills is absolutely critical to success because if you don't build them the business ends up outgrowing you and that feels horrible and i really believe that confidence comes from competence what stops founders from building something meaningful isn't a lack of ideas it's the fear of getting started i'm alex chisnell and this is screw it just do it The podcast for people who are ready to stop waiting, take action and make things happen. So before everything that people can see today when they look at your social media, who were you?

1:11Alex Chisnall:Where were you? What were you doing? What did life look like? Well, right back at the beginning, just a very ordinary, you know, I still consider myself to be just a very ordinary kind of person, really. And, you know, I, as you mentioned, didn't do very well at school, was not very academic at all. I was just trouble in a classroom type thing. Bit of a rogue teenager, to be honest. You know, misbehaved. And I was just a normal lad, but there was a desire there. I definitely had a desire to want to be more, to want to become more. I didn't know how to do that. And I think there's a lot of people that maybe fall into that category as well.

1:51They know that they want to achieve something, they want to do something with their life but often you just don't have the tools and skills to know how am I going to close that gap and I think that's really who I was as an individual with ambition but with a lack of tools and skills to be able to make that ambition sort of happen that's kind of where I started off

2:09Alex Chisnall:right yeah and it's interesting to get a lot of emails comments and they're from young lads literally like 15, 16, 17, 18, early 20s. And some of them are literally like almost asking you to make a life decision for them. Like, what shall I do? Which is a difficult thing to do. I think all you can do is offer choices, right? Which is what's interesting getting you on. Where do you think that desire to want to better yourself, say, that desire to do something, you knew you wanted to do something, where did that come from? I think there's a few different things that happened for me is different moments that I can now look back on and say, actually, that was quite an influential moment for me.

2:50I think the first thing is that my dad was very entrepreneurial and, you know, an amazing, amazing guy. And when we used to drive around, we used to drive around looking at properties and talking about different things. And he was very ambitious. And I think that he kind of installed that starting concept of do deals and look for opportunities and different things like that. And when I was growing up, my dad went, like my dad lost everything when I was about 10 years old. And we went from having a, you know, a six bedroom, five, six bedroom house, nice area, going to a private school to actually having absolutely nothing.

3:28And I think what happened for me there was that I had seen a lifestyle and then I had to go backwards very fast to a different lifestyle. And I think that created a drive in me to maybe get back to where I was, if that makes sense. And I do believe this when I think that a lot of people, if you want to be more successful, a lot of it is around your frame of reference and your vision. So if you want to be really successful in life, it's what have you seen? What is your frame of reference? Now, if my frame of reference say that I'd never had that, I'd never been in a situation where I'd lived in a lovely house, been to a private school, done nice things.

4:07If I hadn't seen that, maybe that desire wouldn't have been there 100 % for me. It's only when you actually have the vision, you see it, that you go, actually, maybe I want to get back to that. And I think that definitely is a pinpoint that moment for me as being a moment that I thought, you know what, I want more. And then the frame of reference that I had, when I say frame of reference, what I'm referring to is, you know, I had seen things in my life, and when you see it, it's hard to unsee it. and I had a lot of friends that from my private school that had beautiful big houses, swimming pools, tennis courts and I didn't and I ended up living in a transport cafe with my mum after my dad lost you know what he had at the time and you know and when we when I ended up in that situation we were just like I'm going around people's houses at the weekend that have got you know multiple acre massive houses you know swimming pools got everything and then I'm going back to the back of a transport calf that was just a mess.

5:06And I think it was just like, do you know what? I think there's more to life. I don't know how. And I think that was the challenge. I really didn't know how. I guess it's probably like in today's world, a lot of you, everyone's seeing stuff on social media, right? They're seeing stuff on Instagram, young people, and they're getting a vision of like, wow, that would be pretty cool. Like if I could do that, that would be awesome. So I think that their vision is being created. But the problem with that is obviously sometimes

5:30Alex Chisnall:times it's a bit distorted right very true and and interesting how did the um the family dynamic um change or stay the same like from your mum's point of view etc when when that happened and when you lost everything well i think this is an interesting thing so what happened was what my mum the only thing basically my dad had built he had two transport cafes he had an underpinning business and a building business and in the recession he lost pretty much all of that now Now, my dad went on to actually bounce back. And many years later, he's now very successful. He's done very well. And he's worked his absolute socks off full credit to him.

6:07But he lost everything at that point. Now, the only thing left in my mum's divorce from my dad was one of the transport calves, which basically, if you can imagine it, you've got a dirty, greasy transport calf. And at the back of it, you basically have a two-bedroom. And the place was just battered. It was terrible. and me my mum and my two brothers moved into that transport calf and we lived there that's kind of where we lived and and basically what I saw is my mum getting up every single morning pretty much at like 4 30 a.m 5 a.m working her absolute socks off to keep this thing going despite having no business experience I've never run a business before and she was just like crafting and grinding worked really hard so I think my mum and my dad both had an incredible work ethic and there's no doubt I've definitely picked that up and my brothers you know both um also have a good work ethic and I think because we've kind of seen that and that kind of shaped a little bit of

7:06Alex Chisnall:of who I am I think and the reason I asked that and I don't like even mentioned it before but um is that my mum a similar thing happens like we used to we I was brought up in Canada but we had this massive house. It was late. I remember my mum's best friend phoning and saying, remember the house you had in Oakville, just outside Toronto? That's just been sold for$4 million to Donovan Bailey, the Canadian Olympic sprinter. And my mum could never kind of let it go and parents split up. You know, we moved back to the UK, stayed in Canada, but she would kind of never let him. I think he put that house up as collateral in a deal and, you know, lost it, etc.

7:45Alex Chisnall:But she was never able to forgive him. Oh, the dynamic of... Yeah. Do you know, it's interesting, actually. It's a really interesting question. I may be missing... When you said it was a fine... Obviously, my mum and dad split up. I think it was the other way around. I think my dad was like... Because my mum went on to sell that business. She did. She worked very hard. She went on to sell that business. And I think my dad was like, you know, that was mine. You know, but thankfully, they get on fine now. And, you know, what's happened's happened and we'll move on, right? How did you get, like you said, you can have the motivation, you can put a vision together, but how did you get the toolkit to get from where you were to ultimately where you are now?

8:33Alex Chisnall:How did you kind of get those different pieces? I think the first thing I would say to that is it was bit by bit, piece by piece, over a period of time. I think everybody wants everything yesterday right now. And I think for me, when I talk to people starting businesses, growing businesses, scaling businesses, it is a journey. It takes time. And where you start is never where you end. I think a lot of people, in order to start, they want perfection. In order to start, they want to be ready. In order to start, they want their ducks in a row. They want to know it's going to work. Where it just does not work like that under any circumstances.

9:11In order to start, you've got to start. and you've got to do some things wrong. Now, I believe strongly in mentors and coaches and I've had great mentors, I've had great coaches. I've had a lot of people help me along the way. But even if I had the great mentors and great coaches that I had, if I didn't do anything with the information and I didn't take the action, I wouldn't have got anywhere, right? So when I first wanted to start a business, I tried different things and they failed, you know, truthfully. It's like I tried a few different things in the beginning. They didn't work. I tried a few.

9:41What did you start at Azores? Well, I'll give you an example. It just came to me. I don't think I've ever talked about it on a podcast before. When I was working in sales, I found it very, very difficult in the beginning to even do any work, to get any job. I sucked at absolutely everything. And then I went and got a job in sales, and I found my thing. And I think everybody needs to find their thing. And when I found that thing, it was like, great, I can do sales. I can talk to people. And if I talk to people and make money, and that for me was like, wow, this is amazing. And I think one of the core skill sets of building a business absolutely is sales.

10:41Alex Chisnall:global businesses. So if you're building something with real ambition, Maltin's mission is simple, to help make more possible. Go to MaltinVentures.com. You're always selling. You're selling your vision. You're selling to people. You're selling through leadership. Everything you do is sales. Everyone's selling, right? And it is the number one skill I think every entrepreneur needs to learn. I think a lot of people don't have that when they start a business and that causes a challenge for them. So for me, I had that skill set but had nothing else. And so what I did is I tried a few things. I'll give you one example.

11:13At one point, me and a friend, we bought a burger van. And I remember traveling. I think we bought it from the Northeast. So we ended up driving six hours to go and get this burger van. And then we're driving back and it was so windy that we thought the burger van was going to fly off on the M25. And then this is the funny thing is we did that effort. We drove like six hours. It's about 10 hours back. I remember getting back with my friend Alan at the time. It was before I'd done anything and it was just like when we got but this is the mental thing we drove six hours to get it we drove 10 hours back to get it i paid a couple of grand for it so we both put put a grand in each and you know what we did we never opened the door on it never opened the door never sold a burger he just sat there you know he's just like never opened the door on it and that was an early lesson in kind of partnerships it was just like i was working full time and he was doing his thing we just can't get off the ground.

12:06I actually don't think I've ever spoken about that before. But there was loads of little things like that. There was lots and lots of little things. You know, I remember I went to a, you know, like a Herbal Life conference and stuff like that, sat in there and I thought, oh, I'll have a go at this. And I had these kind of like little dead ends and loose ends. And then I got to the point where I started a finance brokerage business. That was my first business. And I did it properly this time. I basically, I, a couple of things. So when I help people and there's a lot of people, I'm sure there's a lot of people listening.

12:35I help people start businesses, grow businesses, scale businesses. I think the simplicity is that you have to know what you're doing. And if you've got some experience in that industry, it's helpful. So otherwise you're starting fresh. If I said tomorrow, I want to go and start, I want to be, like, I want to open a Michelin star restaurant and I've never cooked a burger is, you know, it's not going to go very well. I've got a bigger learning curve. And I think that when I started this finance brokerage, I've been doing things with finance for a long period of time. I understood how it worked. I had that skill set and that was baked in and that was built in.

13:07I was also passionate about it and it was opportunity to earn money. So I always say to people, like, what do you know? Okay, what's your level of passion? And also, what's your opportunity to earn? So I had those three things lined up. So what I did is I sold my house. I got 50K equity from my house. This is at age 25. I put it in the bank and I went and started a business. I think one of the things that gave me the confidence to do that is I was starting to go to different seminars. I was getting like pumped up, getting enthused, like I can do this and getting that motivation. Still didn't have the skills, still didn't have the skills at all.

13:40But I got prepared and I went and started the business. That was the first one I started. And first nine months were disastrous, basically. No, well, I had the odd client, I had the odd person that would do business with me. But, you know, my£50 ,000 just started to evaporate. and month by month it was going down and I didn't really know what I was doing. And it was tough. It was tough. I had a skill set at that point, which was sales.

14:10Alex Chisnall:What was missing? Well, I didn't know how to market the business. I didn't know how to get leads. So essentially, it don't matter how good you are at sales, you've got no one to talk to. And I had no strategy. I really didn't have much of a brand either. So I was missing some of the fundamental pieces. I didn't know where to go, actually. I think one of the reasons that I do what I do now is I don't think that people know where to go. A lot of people learn business by trial and error. They just go and start a business, make a load of mistakes, figure it out as they go along. At some point, they hit something that works after trying a thousand different things, and then they just do more of it.

14:51Alex Chisnall:That's kind of like, you know. But the problem is it was taking me too long to find something that worked. and I was really struggling. And I found that really tough. And when I started the business I run now, you mentioned big business entrepreneurs, I did it because I remembered what it felt like in that first period to really have loads of desire, loads of ambition, but just have no idea how to close the gap. I didn't have any clue. I found it tough. So that was a difficult start for me. And was it a conversation with somebody else? to get your first mentor, first business coach, to be able to get you the knowledge of what you needed to do?

15:33Alex Chisnall:Was it a somebody or was it a something? Yeah, it's interesting. A combination of different things. There was definitely a guy at that time that helped me, a guy called Chris. He was a very good friend of mine. We both worked at BMW. He quit about six months before me, and he'd started his own business, and he seemed to be flying. It's very interesting that he was just going for it and just succeeding, and I just wasn't. and I couldn't kind of figure out why. And I think even though I was good at sales, there was still a lot of things that I was struggling with. I was struggling with putting myself out there.

16:07I was struggling with rejection. I'd never had my own business before, so everything felt quite personal. So I think that's something that other people struggle with as well. When it's your business and people don't want you and you're constantly getting rejected and people don't want to do business with you, you just think, oh, what am I doing wrong? You know, it was that. And I think that he didn't have that, which also I think is quite a good advantage to be able to just go full steam ahead. And I started spending a bit of time with him. And he helped me with a few things. He helped me with my messaging, which was really important.

16:41And this is me picking up the skills and tools along the way. So the first thing he did is he helped me with my strategy. And he was like, well, who are you really talking about? I wasn't getting any clients, right, at the beginning. I'm not really getting the people I need to get. and the first thing's like, well, who do you want? I'm like, well, anyone.

16:58Alex Chisnall:Yeah, I was going to say, anyone. Give me whatever. The reality is that no, but who's the best person that you could get? If you can get one person that buys 50 things, who's that person? You know, who is that person? I was like, well, you know, I guess. And then I think back to who was good at BMW when I worked there. It's like, well, you know, if they have lots of cars and they run a business, then, you know, that would be quite good because I'd do the finance for all the cars. He said, okay, well, then you've got to be around those people. So let's get in the right rooms. You know, it was...

17:28Alex Chisnall:Well, that's massively important, isn't it? Being in the right rooms. Yeah. Yeah. So he started to direct me to being in the right rooms and started to come up with some different ideas. And then he went with me to the... Like, we started going out together. And it was like, you know, to these different events. I joined this thing called the Business Lounge. And we went out and we were doing these different things together. And I remember I was at this Business Lounge. I'm surrounded by really successful people. And I don't know if you've ever been in that situation where people are going round and everybody's introducing yourself and you know it's coming round to you.

18:01You know, and then all of a sudden, I don't want to mess this up. I want to say the wrong thing. And every time I used to do it, I used to mess it up. And then one time he just pulled me aside and he went, Adam, your messaging is just all over the place. You're not communicating who you are. You're not communicating who you help. And you're not communicating how you help them. He said, let's keep this simple. Tell them who you are. tell them how you help them right and and tell them how you're going to do it right let's just get that messaging across simple and i did that and i started to simplify things i started to have more impact and and then things started to grow from there so i was learning on the job and i and i think that you know for every everyone that's listening no matter where they're at i like you said i've done you know my business is now i've done 186 million pounds in revenue across all the businesses that i've done 186 million across everything that i've done including the business I have today, which is a 15 million pound a year coaching business and the previous business, which generated up to 40 million in revenue a year.

18:56Obviously, I've had ups and downs. Nothing's been perfect. But these fundamentals, these fundamentals of understanding strategy, understanding how to build a brand that stands out, understand how to market yourself, how to market your business, how to set up sales systems and how to set the operations up. like anyone can do them but you've got to obviously look at where are you currently stuck what is it that you need to move the needle on where do you need to go and how do you need to build forward you know I think that it can all be done right

19:28Alex Chisnall:well it is that thing isn't it that all the information is out there but if you don't know where to start and you don't take action you're never going to get to where you want to be right I think all the information is out there but I think that there's a couple of things. I think now there's so much information that is utterly overwhelming. Totally. Yeah, and I think everyone's using AI for everything and AI can spit information at you just in seconds about every single thing on the planet, every single thing about business. But if you don't understand how to sequence it, that's where the challenge comes in.

20:06Alex Chisnall:100 % agree. It's the order. It's the sequence. The sequence of the information, absolutely. Because like you just said, what do you need? Well, you need to have an idea about what you're going to do. You need to have some expertise in that subject. And you need a baseline strategy of who do we want to serve, right? You know, what are we going to offer them? Where are we going to find them? How are we going to influence them? Which sales process are we going to use? And how many people do we need to talk to to get the deals we need to get? Like that for me is a baseline six-question strategy that you can then go to market and start making sales, start making offers.

20:42And then what do you need? You need to do really two things with your strategy. So you build your baseline strategy. And the two things is conversations, offers. If you go and speak to 100, like let's say someone's a startup and they're listening, like I was. If I could go back now and say to the boy in the bedroom that's just lost his 50 grand, right? And I was going to keep it simple and I was going to give him a bit of advice. I would say the reason you're making no money is you ain't speaking to no people and you're not making offers. So go out and speak to 100 people this week. 90 of them will tell you to, you know, like they're not interested, but 10 of them will be interested.

21:19So get over your fear of rejection. Go and have 100 conversations. Get 10 leads. Make sure you make those offers. And then you've got two deals. And now with those two deals, we can start to move forward. And we're going to rinse and repeat, rinse and repeat, rinse and repeat. Because conversations, offers, create opportunities, which then bring you sales, which bring you profit,

21:38Alex Chisnall:it which gets the whole thing moving very simple but so many people are you know worked with virgin startup for a number of years you know and so seen enough you know business plans and financial forecast but so many people were were quite happy just to sit behind the laptop and not even make a phone call let alone go and knock on a door and actually go to you know go to like you know events and actually have conversations with people right i think when i the way that we we look at it when we talk to people and help them build businesses, it was we say, look, there's a startup phase. And there are a certain set of activities that you need to be doing to move through that phase.

22:15And if you do the right activities, you'll move through that phase. Then there's a growth phase. And that's about the business becoming more than you and building the team and starting to put the baseline systems in and starting to turn strangers into customers and a different way of doing that and building it bigger. And then once you come through the growth phase, then we've got that solid. Then there's a scale phase. Then of course, there's the exit phase, right, to sell as well. The problem with the startup phase, and I imagine a lot of people that are listening in will probably be early stages.

22:45With the startup phase, like you said, baseline plan, a good offer with a lot of conversations to drive the offer with the right people to get sales in, to reinvest in the business is the game plan. And if you can get that moving, then you can start to move the business along, right?

23:02Alex Chisnall:Was sales the thing that changed your life at that age for you, would you say? Or was it meeting that guy, Chris? Or what can you kind of put your finger on looking back, Adam? I think probably the thing that changed my life was the first time I walked into a sales environment when I worked at Powerhouse. I remember at that time, I was scatty. I was all over the place. I had pretty low confidence, pretty low self-esteem because, you know, I was totally, I was basically written off from, or it felt obviously probably not, but I was, I felt like I was written off by society. And when I walked into that sales environment for the first time, and I always remember I was a coffee machine.

23:49And the reason I took this job is my friend Andy had been working there and he got fired. And then basically he'd got me an interview and they'd turned me down. Anyway, when they fired Andy, they called me. No way. So seriously. And then I said to Andy, I rung him and was like,

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24:05Alex Chisnall:what do I do? What do I do, mate? He's like, you should take it. They've got a free coffee machine. That was our level. That was our level, right? And that was our level because we just worked on building sites and stuff and just been, I'd worked at KFC. I'd just been doing these, you know, types of jobs. And I walked in there and I remember I'm chuffed with my free coffee. I'm getting myself a free coffee. And the lady there, Diane, she said, look, go and talk to those people. And if you sell them, they're at the cookers. They probably want to buy a cooker. If they buy a cooker, you'll get paid.

24:39And I went, no. No, I'm getting paid. I've got a salary. And she went, no, no, no. If they buy a cooker, you'll get paid extra. You get commission. I knew nothing about this. It's how basic it was. I was like, what? So if I get them to buy that, you give me more? Like, yeah. Sort of, bosh.

24:54Alex Chisnall:But you just need it explained in those terms, right? Yeah, yeah, yeah. So off I go and I go and sell a cooker not knowing anything about it. And then I was like, oh my God, it's like I found the way, you know. I actually believe that that truly was a turning point for me. I found something, and this is why. So if I don't joke about it, like not joking about it, but this is why, it's because I found something I was good at. I wasn't good at anything else. And so do you think then by taking that action, that gave you the confidence? Because otherwise... I think it built my confidence, yeah. I think it built my confidence.

25:29It made me feel like I was worth something, like I could do something, like I was good. And I got a promotion there. And I think that just built me up. Actually, this is something you're good at. And I think, obviously, I don't know the whole audience of people that are listening, but it's probably people that have got talent, but they just haven't actually found it yet. And you might need to try two or three things. You might not just found your thing that's your thing. and I really believe that confidence comes from competence. You know, when you do something well, you build your confidence and you become more confident in what you do and everybody's got something they're confident at.

26:09So I think there's a clue there. It's like if there's something that you do, I ask this at my events sometimes, I'm like, hey, how many of you can, who can bake a cake in the audience? And then people put their hand up. I'm like, how good are you at baking a cake? and they'll be like, I am the best cake baker you've ever met.

26:27Alex Chisnall:And I'm like, well, tell me what happens. What mode, what do you do when you're going to go bake a cake? And they're like, well, I get my ingredients and I know my recipes. And the person just changes, like their shape changes, the way they're holding their body changes. They're at a business conference. They're all like, you know, and they just change as an individual. And I'm like, well, look, you've got great confidence in that area. You know the sequence because you know the recipe, you know the ingredients, which are the skills, you know how to build that. Well, the thing is, the reason you're not confident about running a business is you don't have your sequence yet, and you don't have your ingredients yet, which is the skill sets, and you haven't done it before.

27:01How many cakes you baked? Like I baked a thousand cakes. Well, if you built a thousand businesses, you'd feel like that as well, right? So it's going to take time.

27:10Alex Chisnall:And it's interesting. It's a conversation I'm having more and more, and not just in the studio, but outside with people I'm meeting, how little confidence a lot of people have. but as you say if you actually look deep inside you and all the things that you you've done there's something in there that you're good at right and i think you're right i think it's especially you know chatting to a couple people lately and you know not happy in their job to want to start their own business and it's you know it's the safety net obviously of the salary even though they might not be happy with the salary but if you don't actually try a bunch of things, like you say, you're never going to know if you're any good at it and therefore you're not going to build that confidence, right?

27:54And I do think, you know, I don't necessarily think, if we're truthful about building a business. Now, obviously, I went through those stages. I went on to build that first business and I kept building it. And then I studied. So the reason, the way that I grew it, you said, how did I, how did I get there? Is I studied skill sets. That's how I got there, right? I got utterly obsessed with how do I become a better business strategist? How do I build a bigger personal brand? How do I understand marketing? Like, there's a way that this works. So, how does it work? So, I got obsessed with marketing.

28:32I invested in that skill set. The same way as I got obsessed with sales. So, one of the things I did when I started to learn sales, I got obsessed with it. And I read every book and I started to buy training. I was going to say, what did you do? You read books, learn online? Yeah, I just got utterly deep into the subject. And I think a lot of people go very wide because it's easy to go wide. So, for example, it's easy to, you know, obviously I've got a podcast. I love podcasts. I listen to podcasts. But there is a degree of entertainment there as well, right? You know, if we were saying, okay, we're going to spend the next hour and a half speaking about in-depth sales strategies and all we're ever going to talk about sales, then, you know, some people would be interested in that.

29:13Some people wouldn't, if that makes sense. but when you pick a subject and you go totally deep into it and you get obsessed with it and you really master that then that adds to your skill set and then you bring that into your business and you spread that throughout your business to all the people now all of a sudden you're a better sales organization or you're a better marketing organization but you've got a better culture because you've studied it and and that's what i did to to get obsessed with those different things and and that's what i do now is obviously i help people with those different things but a lot of people they want to build a business um they want to be more successful in their lives but they're going broad rather than going deep and and i think that not everybody should run a business i think it's perfectly fine to work for other people i think that's a good i've got amazing people that work for me in the current business i've got 45 amazing people in my previous business I had 120 in the prior business.

30:09So I've had all these. I think that's absolutely fine. If you work with someone and you enjoy where you work in. But if you want to go on the business journey, then you've got to understand the fundamental skills that are required. You've got to get obsessed. You've got to be resilient. And you've got to have an absolute dedication. It's not about 14, 16 hour days. I don't believe in that. Because I do believe that you can have some balance. but I do believe that you have to have a resilience and a dedication to improvement I think that's what building a business is it's like a living organism and it needs to be improved consistently and all the time and keep I do that every day in my business now it's like how can we how can we get better how can we get better how can we get the product better how can we get the marketing better how can we get the sales process better how can we just get everything better every day.

30:57Alex Chisnall:And talk to me, you mentioned before a little bit about personal brands. Why do you think people are still afraid of putting themselves out there? And how much do you relate your success to putting yourself out there and people associating you with your business? I think two questions. The first part of the question, like, why do I think people are afraid do it. This is the thing. There's going to be however many people listen to what we're saying now. And there will be some people that love me. And no doubt, thank you. And there'll be some people that hate me. And that's okay too. And everybody's entitled to their opinion.

31:37And I'm comfortable with that. And if somebody wants to write a bad comment, I'm also comfortable with that. If somebody wants to write a great comment, then I'm very grateful for that. But I think that it's polarizing. You can't have one without the other. And frankly, if nobody loves you and nobody hates you, you're probably pretty bland, right, at the moment. So you're going to have some type of polarizing impact on people. So when it comes to building a personal brand, the reason that I do it is because I'm passionate about what I do. I believe that building small businesses can be easier.

32:15I believe building small businesses can be simpler. I believe that there are people out there that need my help. I know that I can help them. I want to help them. I make money from doing that. I'm very comfortable with that because I know that I provide more value than someone pays. And I think that's the mentality of what you do. But I think there's a lot of people out there that if they do get a criticism or somebody writes a comment, you know, it can hurt. I'm sure you've had it. I've definitely had it. You know, it does hurt, but you've got to shake it off and you've got to move on and you've got to realize that people that write stuff like that and people that want to take shots at you, it's usually more about them than it is about you.

33:00You're holding a mirror up to them and you're showing someone and they find that difficult. And fair enough, it is difficult. I think envy, jealousy, resentment, normal human emotions, but you've got to try and let go of those if you want to build something. So this is what I'll say about branding though. So that's the first piece as to why. And then you said, well, how useful has it been? What branding, building a personal brand will do is it will magnetize the right people towards you. Success attracts success. So if someone wants to be successful and you are successful, they will be drawn towards you because they want to create more success in their life, right?

33:48So it will magnetize success. But it'll also repel people and repulse people that don't want that, right? And I'm okay with both. People that want to win, like that's who I am. If you want to win, then great. That's what I'm all about. If you don't, I don't judge you. I don't have a problem with that. And that's no problem. And that's kind of the mentality. but branding basically culture of success creates success, culture of negativity creates negativity. So I get negativity away from me and I pull people towards me with success. And branding, I mean, I could talk about that for yonks, but I think there's so many instances where branding's helped me.

34:28Helped me get deals, helped me raise funding, helped me to attract better clients, helped me to attract better employees. If every time you walk in a room, people know who you are before you walk in a room you're going to find a lot you're going to find things are a lot easier for you you know and i think that branding definitely does that

34:48Alex Chisnall:and so the journey you're on at the moment what's what's the biggest challenge that you've got at the moment for trying to help you know other people start and scale businesses there's a lot of challenges it's a really good question actually i don't think people ask that that question that much um i built a really good education business which has got brilliant coaches brilliant speakers which is more than me, right? Big business entrepreneurs. And our mission is to help a thousand small businesses break through seven figures in revenue. And we're well into that mission. We were many, many hundreds of people to break those numbers.

35:23And, you know, we celebrate success. The way that we do that is we have a model called the Simple Replicable Business Model, which is how do you create something that's simple? How do you create something that's replicable? So it means you can do the same thing over and over again and really it's five steps. First one is to build a compelling business strategy that can get you to market. The second is to build a brand that attracts the right people and that can be one of three brands. That can be your personal brand, that can be your business brand, that can be your product brands, any of those.

35:56And then it is to build a top of funnel that drives new inquiries into your business, to build a sales system that's repeatable and then to deliver the operation in an effective way. So they're the five things that we do. Now, the challenges with that is there's so many challenges. There's getting the message out to market. There's reaching the right people. There's getting the right team on the mission. You know, we've been scaling. You know, last year we did about 15 million pounds in revenue, taking that to 25 to 50 to 100 million. There's a challenge around growth for sure. I think there is challenges in the marketplace with AI, for example.

36:33Everyone thinks that they've maybe got an advisor in their pocket, even if it's not quite guiding them in the right way. So there's challenges there. There's challenges with lots of competition. So there's a lot of challenges. But I think I'll answer that slightly differently in that there's always been challenges. There always will be challenges. You know, and that's what building a business is. And do you know what? That's what excites me as well. If there were no problems to solve, why would you be doing it?

37:00Alex Chisnall:Why would you be doing it? You wouldn't, right? You wouldn't be here. But in your experience, what do you see? Do you see any patterns with founders trying to scale and what breaks? What kind of some of the things you see? I think, first of all, understanding what scale, I'll tell you what scale means to me. And it depends on what scale means to someone else. So this is when I said the stages. You've got starting a business, you've got growing a business, you've got scaling a business. There's a big difference between growing and scaling. When you're growing a business, you're trying to essentially build a business model that allows people to go through your process, creates a commercial profit, so it makes money, and you're building a business model.

37:42Now, when you're in the grow phase, you're building that business model by testing new products, testing new services, looking at the retention of clients, adding new staff members in, changing your branding, launching new offers, and essentially when you're growing, you're figuring out all the things that work, right? and then you get to a point where you have a model that works. So for me, when you have a model that works, that means you know exactly how to get new clients into your world to take them through a sales process that makes a profit, that delivers a product or service that makes people happy and that they feel that they got value from their purchase.

38:21And that for me is a good business model. If you go into Nando's next week and you go and have a Nando's, you know what you're getting. You know the question you're going to be asked. You know the menu that's going to be put in front of you. You know the products that you're going to get. You're going to pay your money. You're going to be happy with the value. You're going to walk out of there having eaten what you've eaten and you ain't going to moan about it. I don't think I've ever been there and moaned. And some people might have. But just as an example, that for me is a good business model that works effectively and it makes money, right?

38:48Now, for me, the grow phase is about figuring that model out. Then that's when you look at scale. And let's take Nando's example. you've got to get that first restaurant right. You've got to get the menu right. You've got to get the staff right. You've got to get the process right. You've got to understand the scripting, the upsetting that happens within the restaurant, the delivery, the cleanliness, the standards, the interior, the decor. You've got to get all that right. And then you go, okay, so we want to scale now. So how do we reach more people? Well, can we drive more people in this restaurant or do we need another restaurant?

39:22Okay, we need another. So then you say, well, actually, we think that we can roll out five of these. Well, that's when we're scaling because we've got a repeatable model. So I think the problem was with scale to then answer the question would be that people can't scale usually because their business is still messy and you can't scale mess. And if you've got loads of kinks and you've got loads of problems in your business and then you try to scale it, it's a recipe of disaster. I've done it personally where I've been through that. I've lost a business where I pushed it too fast, too quick and it ended up backfiring on me i think a lot yeah i think a lot of yeah yeah but that's scaling too quick yeah tried to try to you know sports injury clinics but literally

40:09Alex Chisnall:tried to replicate that exact model that you talked about but we did not have the right systems and processes in place who enabled us to do that but the opportunity that was kind of sold to me to do that you know you think yeah i'm ready to do that but if you haven't got your own house in order you can't and the right amount of cash the right amount of capital and you know the right amount of profitability and the absolute system to get clients and deliver a commercial profit consistently and i just think people try to scale they haven't got it and it ends up getting very stressful and now you're trying to fix five things where you were just trying to fix one thing you know fix fix the thing and then you do the next thing so scaling for me is when you're going to rapidly increase.

40:52Now, by the way, we mentioned that the way that we've discussed that is we've discussed that as like almost products. It's the same with service is with service when you're scaling service-based businesses, a lot of the time you're just driving more in the top. So you're driving more inquiry flow and then you're taking them through the delivery mechanism and then you're scaling. So it's like, okay, we've got a really good model. It works really well. We've got more capacity. We currently get a thousand leads a week. Let's move to getting 5 ,000 leads to week, right? So you're 5X in the growth and then you're maintaining the delivery, you're maintaining the standard through scale.

41:27I think it still needs to be, the model needs to be right to make that happen.

41:31Alex Chisnall:What's the biggest lesson successful entrepreneurs usually learn the hardest way, do you think?

41:39I think there's so many, isn't there?

41:41Alex Chisnall:I was going to say, there's probably a few in your experience, but... There's so many. I think some of the hard lessons I've had over the time is the one I just mentioned, scaling too soon. And then that is a really, really hard lesson when you then have to start paying off personal guarantees and you've got a lot on the line and you've got a lot of risk. I think that that is a very, very hard lesson. That's why the bigger your business is, the more you need advisors. And I think that a lot of the time people don't think that because you've got it to 10 million. you think you don't need help or because you got it to 5 million, don't need help.

42:23Do you know what? You need it more now than ever. You actually need it more. Yeah, yeah. Bigger problem, bigger risk. And, you know, I think that's definitely a big one. The other one I think is the people lessons. When you're building a business, you build relationships throughout that business and you feel like people with you and you're in it together and you're doing this together and you have these incredible relationships with people. You go through a lot together. But the reality is at some point, the majority of people move on. And even if you have incredible times with them, and even if you do good things, then I think I found that hard over many years.

43:02I've been in business since 2008 now. So not for like 18 years, coming up 20 years in a couple of years. And I think that over that nearly two decades, the amount of relationships and incredible relationships I've had that were incredible for a period of time, and then were not incredible, and you feel like you've got some very hard lessons to learn around relationships and friendships and people take off you as well. And a lot of the time you don't deserve it. I think that's another hard lesson. You are going to have problems as a business owner that you will not deserve the problems that you get.

43:42I like hearing that. No, I do. You know what? I had another great mentor I had. I actually like I had coaching for a year from a lady that was great when I was earning the business. And pretty much the only thing we talked about was the fact that I couldn't get over some of the things that people had done to me because I was like, I wouldn't do that to them. I wouldn't do that to them. That's not how I operate. And I think that that is a hard lesson to learn that even when you do the right thing and even when you're really good to people and you look after people, They don't always look after you back.

44:20And unfortunately, that is business. You do have to separate the personal and the emotions. And that's very tough.

44:28Alex Chisnall:It is. But again, people, right? Yeah. Yeah, that is a tough one. And also, you're not immune, are you, right? I've done loads of things wrong. I've managed some of those relationships badly. So sometimes I've deserved it. And I think that's important. I acknowledge that. I take responsibility that I'm definitely not perfect. I've mismanaged situations. You know, I've upset people I shouldn't have upset at times. I should have been more patient. I've made all the mistakes. But I think that becoming a better leader is very important and being able to manage your emotions and to being able to separate your emotions is one of the lessons that will help you a lot, that actual personal development.

45:08Alex Chisnall:And interestingly enough, next question was, how much have you changed? What type of person are you now compared to what you were? and what kind of person do you want to become almost? Well, that's a really interesting one because I'll tell you 100 % where I was. I can tell you where I am now. But as you build these businesses and you do these things, and I definitely am without a shadow of a doubt a much better person than I was throughout the journey. I think you also get under high stress, don't you, as a business owner? so I think in the early years I was super stressed out all the time I lost my temper at times with people I was I found that difficult I was snappy irritable all those different things um egotistical but I think now I think now I'm definitely a better leader I think I'm more understanding I'm not perfect um by any stretch of imagination but I'm definitely a better leader I lead my the people that work with me work for me in a much better way.

46:14I have a much better balance with the way that I run my business. I spend time with my family, my little boy, I always make time for them. I leave work at work. When I go home, I go home. That's unusual for the beginning, for the first 10 years. I don't think I ever did that. I don't think I ever did that. But I definitely do that now. So I think I've definitely improved. I would like to continue to become calmer.

46:36Alex Chisnall:Calmer, okay. Because I think it's a good quality. like my COO is always calm it can feel like the whole the rain is falling down you know and he's just calm and I still have an intensity that I probably could calm even more I think it's being redheaded it's a good quality isn't it being that you know that cool calm collected thing I kind of drum that into my daughters but in whatever situation in life if you can actually you know just think in that moment about how to move forward rather than let the frustration the anger kind of overcome you. I definitely could work. I think that's definitely something that as I continue to, you know, develop.

47:14Alex Chisnall:And what would you say to, you know, that boy who maybe didn't do so well at school, who maybe is listening now, who maybe thinks they've missed their chance, that there isn't a way to start, that they're not capable of building something? I would just say that you're really good at something. And the thing that you're really good at, if you haven't 100 % found it, you need to really look at what you enjoy. You know, what do you really love doing? And what type of thing do you love doing? Because there's definitely be a pathway there. It's much easier if you do something you enjoy. And I think if you enjoy it, it doesn't feel like work.

47:58I definitely feel like now what I do now running a training business, helping business owners, I just love it. It's what I love to do. And I enjoy it. Therefore, it doesn't feel like work. If something doesn't feel like work and you're passionate about it and you can show up every day and do that, then that's great. So somebody listening now, it's like, what are you passionate about? What do you love doing? What lights you up? And do you know what? If I have to just spend 15 minutes answering that question, because you might not answer it. I remember when I was younger, I was very hazy, very blocked.

48:30So if you have to sit down for 15 minutes now and just write a list of 10 things that you love doing, that light you up, that you enjoy, and don't try to curate them. Don't try to just actually just let it flow and just go, I like doing this and I like doing that and I like doing this. And then you can go, okay, well, from these 10 things that I enjoy doing, where are the opportunities? Could I build a business around that? Could I make money around that? Is there a way I could get into that? Could I work in that environment? And then the other thing I'd say is, whether you like it or not, everyone starts from the bottom.

49:07And I took so much abuse, probably more now than HR wouldn't allow that much, but I did in my early years working, for example, I mentioned Powerhouse or Ford or BMW. I took a lot of stick and I took a lot of digs and a lot of people. And that is quite natural. I think that's quite natural. and you've got to allow that to shape you and you've got to turn up even when you don't feel like turning up and you've got to look at your commitment levels. This is the other thing I'd say that I think has been useful for me. I don't know why I do this, but if I say I'm going to do something, I always do it.

49:49If I say I'm going to do it, I very rarely don't do what I say I'm going to do. So, you know, like today, I would never dream. If I say I'm going to do it, I'm doing it. You know, to the best of my ability, I would always do that. And I think that that reliability is something that young people need to add to their game. Because even just showing up, that is quite an important thing that you've got to do. You've got to show up.

50:13Alex Chisnall:So what's the one thing you wish younger Adam understood? If you could go back and give him that. I think that's a really good question. I think that understanding that it takes time, to a degree. I would say if I could really go back now and say, build your skills. Build your skills. Starting with sales? Focus on skills. Initially, it was sales. And I wish I'd learned marketing earlier. I wish I'd learned marketing. I wish I'd learned branding earlier. I wish I'd learned operations earlier. I think that building skills is absolutely critical to success. because if you don't build them, the business ends up outgrowing you and that feels horrible.

51:01And I think success comes from skills. And this is worst case scenario, right? Let's say that someone listening decides to build their skills based off what we said and they get really good at something. You're only going to add more value to a business by building your skills, which means you're going to be paid more. So worst case scenario, you, rather than watching Netflix, rather than get in and absolutely utterly build your skills. because I think that something happens, especially when you get coaching, what happens is you have a transference of knowledge. So let's say that you've got massive knowledge in an area and I don't have knowledge in that area.

51:38I spend time with you. You're going to transfer that knowledge to me over a period of time. And as I get that knowledge, I'm going to be able to replicate some of the results that you've been able to do because you gave me the knowledge. Now, it took you 10 years to get the knowledge. it might take me three to five months to extract that knowledge from you. And that's incredible, right? So find other people that have done what you wanted to do, spend time with them, be curious, ask the right questions, dive deep into skill sets and identify the skill sets that are going to help you. So for me, marketing is an incredible skill set.

52:16That is an incredible skill set to be able to drive attention, awareness, get attention, get people to step towards you. Incredible skill set. Very valuable in business. Everybody needs it. Few people know how to do it. Very, very valuable. Sales is an incredible skill set. That is something that will make you. Both of those make you money. So you want to make money? My nephew's like, what should I do, Adam? What should I do? He's a young guy. I'm like, get into marketing. Get into sales. These are areas that will drive money. And then branding is also a good skill set. I would prioritize the first two.

52:49Marketing and sales make money.

52:50Alex Chisnall:Very good. Okay, finishing up, quick fire round. So first thing that comes into your head, short and sweet, what is an entrepreneur for you? A creator, somebody that is able to create things from their mind and execute them into real life. So it's like willing them into existence from thought to execution. Like that. And this one I probably answered already, but we'll ask it again. What is a scale-up business? A scale-up business is a repeatable model. It's a business that has a repeatable model that you're able to invest more into in order to grow it and to drive more commercial profit. I don't know how much you're into your music, but if you could pick one song that reflects your life or entrepreneurial journey, what would it be and why?

53:37Oh, I like that question. You're going to think of your favorite band

53:41Alex Chisnall:and a favorite song? I'll tell you what, I've got one. I've got one. Written in the Stars. Very good. I like that. I was listening to that this morning in the gym. And then last one. And again, you can come back to me on this one. Having been on the show, who would you recommend that you know who you think has got a really good screw-it-just-do-it story? I think my mentor, Sarah Williams, someone that I've worked for a number of years, is an incredible person and somebody I've learned a lot from. And if you can get Sarah to do it, you should probably ask her, yeah? Okay, awesome. Adam, thank you very much indeed.

54:14Alex Chisnall:I've really enjoyed it. Pleasure, me too. Thank you. if this conversation resonated with you don't just sit there, act on it make sure you follow or subscribe for more game changing conversations and remember the only thing standing between you and your business breakthrough is the decision to screw it and just do it

From the publisher

Adam Stott left school with one GCSE. He was told, repeatedly, that he was never going to achieve anything. His dad lost everything when Adam was ten, and they moved from a six-bedroom house and private school to living behind a transport café, with his mum getting up at 4:30am every day to keep it running.

He had ambition. He had desire. He had absolutely no idea how to close the gap.

Then he walked into a sales job at Powerhouse, discovered commission for the first time, sold a cooker to a stranger without knowing anything about it, and found the thing that would change his life.

In this episode of Screw It Just DO It, Adam tells the full story. The transport café. The burger van he bought and never opened. The £50,000 he pulled from his house at 25 and nearly lost entirely. The friend who helped him fix his messaging and get in the right rooms. And why, if he could go back, the one thing he would tell his younger self is simply: build your skills.

Adam now runs Big Business Events, a £15 million a year business coaching company. He has generated £186 million in revenue across all his businesses. But the episode is not about that. It is about what came before all of it, and why confidence can only ever come from competence.

Key Takeaways

- Why losing everything as a child created the frame of reference that drove everything after

- How discovering commission for the first time at a Powerhouse cooker counter changed Adam's life

- Why motivation without skills is just noise — and how to fix that

- The two skills Adam tells everyone to learn first: sales and marketing

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