30M Users, No Co-Founder | Eugenia Kuyda (Replika, Wabi)

25 Mar 2026 · 1 h 16 min · 28 chapters

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In short

Eugenia Kuyda argues for solo founding (or “good co-founders only”), and connects it to her personal motivation and to building consumer AI products: Replika and her newer company Wabi.

Guest background

Eugenia Kuyda is a journalist turned tech founder; she was editor-in-chief at a major magazine and left Russia amid political crackdowns (including arrests). She built Replika after a friend’s death, using early language-model tech she learned about via Word2Vector/DeepMind. She later founded Wabi, focused on a better interface for AI and easy creation of “mini apps.”

Key claims

Co-founders are often not equal decision-makers; “the buck stops with someone,” so random co-founders can be harmful. Design-by-committee rarely produces a shared vision; one visionary drives it. Solo founding can let founding team members split equity fairly and avoid “bad co-founder” dynamics. Authorship matters: elevate the whole team, not just the CEO.

Notable examples

Replika began as an AI recreation of her deceased best friend (built in ~3 weeks) that went viral after Casey Newton covered it; users became emotionally vulnerable. Wabi examples include a Gemini-3-based app built by a design engineer, and Kuyda’s own “home screen” of minimal, black-and-white mini apps (poetry, art movements, fitness, puzzles with her daughter).

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Chapters

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The Case for Solo Founding

0:45 to 4:25

Discussion on the benefits and drawbacks of solo founding versus having co-founders.

“Ultimately, it all just boils down to like, can you tell a compelling story about the future of the world?”

The Inspiration Behind Replika

4:25 to 7:22

Eugenia shares the personal story and motivation that led to the creation of Replika.

“Oh, so Replica, like the story behind Replica started very long ago.”

Creating Emotional Connections through AI

7:22 to 10:33

Exploration of how personal experiences shaped the vision for AI companionship.

“someone, that's a long time to be pursuing something, especially if it's not maybe your vision, you know, to be going after something.”

The Role of Communication in AI Development

10:33 to 14:02

Understanding how communication skills influence the development of AI technologies.

Navigating Teenage Anxiety and Connection

14:02 to 16:52

Eugenia reflects on her teenage struggles with anxiety and the challenge of opening up emotionally.

“It's just a way, like, you know, it's just kind of when you're an angsty teenager, you're pretty scared of, like, actually opening up.”

Discovering the Power of Conversational AI

16:52 to 20:37

Eugenia shares her journey from a banking project to realizing the potential of AI in facilitating conversations.

“with yourself through diary entries and things like that.”

The Role of Co-Founders in Startups

20:37 to 24:21

Discussing the dynamics of having co-founders and exploring motivations behind starting a company as a solo founder.

“And we got to Y Combinator and the rest was kind of history.”

Transitioning from Journalism to Technology

24:21 to 28:03

Eugenia recounts her shift from a promising journalism career to the tech industry amid political changes in Russia.

From Journalism to Business School

28:03 to 29:18

Eugenia shares her transition from journalism in Russia to pursuing business education abroad.

“So by then I kind of just figured I was 22, three, and I was like, well, I got to get out of here.”

The Birth of Briber App

29:18 to 31:23

Eugenia discusses the creation of her app aimed at reporting corruption during protests in Russia.

“If you're going to the doctor, you're expected to give some money, you know, some money in a little envelope because they're not making any money at all.”
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The Power of Storytelling in Business

31:23 to 34:14

Eugenia reflects on the importance of storytelling and diverse backgrounds in entrepreneurship.

“You know, that's really interesting because I feel like oftentimes there are so many companies, you know, that are out there and they're always sort of trying to compete for talent.”

Authorship and Team Dynamics

34:14 to 37:19

The discussion emphasizes the role of authorship and teamwork in startups led by solo founders.

“But one thing that I think is not talked about nearly as much, and I think is really related to what you were just saying around storytelling is authorship.”

Elevating Team Contributions

37:19 to 42:00

Eugenia explains the importance of highlighting team members' contributions and fostering a sense of ownership.

“Like they're kind of, we try to, we ask them to post about like what they shipped this week.”

Empowering Creators: The Rise of Micro-Influencers

42:00 to 42:50

Learn how individuals without traditional credentials can build their own influence and motivate others.

“Yeah, and some people might come with no, maybe they don't have a crazy resume, or they're young or they worked at some, they're geniuses but they don't have a very splashy resume.”

Wabi: A Platform for Personal Creativity

42:50 to 44:20

Discover how Wabi enables users to create mini apps that reflect their personal interests and creativity.

“most people's experience when they experience Wabi for the first time is probably not going to be through the actual making of an app.”

Personalization and Community in App Development

44:20 to 46:00

Explore the importance of personalization and community in enhancing user experience and app interaction.

The Role of Social Media in Modern Interaction

46:00 to 47:20

Examine the shift from personalized platforms to social media and its impact on user interaction.

“home screen totally feels like home it feels like a continuation of myself um it has all the cool things it helps me feel inspired it helps me remember things it helps me learn new things because that's what I'm about.”

Creative Expression vs. Social Validation

47:20 to 48:40

Understand the difference between creating for personal enjoyment versus seeking social validation.

“and sort of the way that people interact with products and maybe either meet new people or develop and sort of enrich their relationships with the people that they already know?”

The Return to Personalization on the Internet

48:40 to 49:50

Hear why the evolution of the internet has shifted away from personalization and the potential for a return.

“Like I kind of, I'm just interested and nosy.”

Creating for Yourself: A New Approach to Software

49:50 to 51:40

Learn how creating software for personal use can foster creativity and community engagement.

“You were talking about journaling earlier.”

The Impact of Self-Made Apps on Consumption

51:40 to 56:00

Explore how creating personal apps can shift mindsets from consumption to creation.

“It's pretty beautiful that people can now just create things in a much more fluid way and I think that hopefully that will encourage more people to do it.”

The Art of Creating for Oneself

56:00 to 57:36

Explores the significance of creating content or apps for personal enjoyment versus public attention.

“I think this makes us more creators, not just consumers.”

Tools That Shape Our Lives

57:36 to 1:00:18

Discusses how personal tools and apps can influence daily habits and routines.

“Today, I do believe that the tools we use shape us.”

Building Effective Teams as a Solo Founder

1:00:18 to 1:06:30

Covers insights on team building, hiring practices, and maintaining high standards as a solo founder.

“Yeah, I would definitely made so many mistakes so many times.”

The Challenges of Solo Founding

1:06:30 to 1:10:00

Shares personal experiences and challenges faced when starting a company alone.

“and building it to a very big company with a very small, like 30 or 35 people, I think this is the new era.”

The Loneliness of Solo Founding

1:10:00 to 1:12:05

Explore the emotional challenges faced by solo founders and the importance of support.

“Yeah, I felt like many times I just want to crawl in the corner and die, kind of that type feeling.”

The Case for Solo Founding

1:12:06 to 1:14:23

Eugenia discusses her decision to be a solo founder and the merits and challenges involved.

“Like I just didn't have a person that felt like right as a co-founder.”

Resilience and Determination in Entrepreneurship

1:14:24 to 1:16:04

Learn about the resilience required to overcome challenges and keep going as a solo founder.

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Transcript

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0:00Eugenia Kuyda:I've never seen people come up with a vision together. It's always someone's vision and everyone else sort of joins on board. At the end of the day, the bug always stops with someone. Because of that whole YC idea that everyone needs to have a co-founder, many people just like god bad co-founders. It's almost like a barrier for getting started. Whoever has the vision and has the delusion that this can exist in the world actually drives it forward. What's the case for solo founding? Not having co-founder allows you to actually split that pot equally between founding members of the team. that in my view, take the same risk, especially if you don't have co-founders.

0:33Eugenia Kuyda:You've got to have people that think and act like co-founders. You can make the bear case for solo founding. When you have doubts, like if you have doubts and fears, you don't want to bring this to your founding team. You just kind of need to be okay with being alone. Ultimately, it all just boils down to like, can you tell a compelling story about the future of the world? I hope more people will start thinking hard before deciding whether they're going to have or not have co-founders. the thing was most interesting to me was just how strong of an opinion you have about solo founding and being a solo founder so maybe just start off there why do you have such a strong feeling about solo founding well i'm probably first of all projecting my own experience because i haven't really started companies with other people it was almost always solo founding um but i think that even when people have co-founders more often than not it's really just one person calling all the shots.

1:27Eugenia Kuyda:That's why companies have CEOs and all that. And I feel like sometimes co-founders are just, you know, called co-founders because maybe it was hard to hire someone. So you had to give this disproportionate equity to someone, but really it's just an employee with a lot of equity. In the end of the day, the bug always stops with someone. And I'd say that through all my years here, I very rarely have seen companies where all co-founders were like equally kind of totally responsible for this business it was always one person is super responsible and then the rest are just really have a lot of equity and maybe they're you know they have high agency they have a lot of ownership in this business but they don't ultimately they're not really like fully responsible for the whole thing going forward um and if you think about it like you know when you think about apple yes there were co-founders we kind of think about steve jobs when you think about facebook you're not really talking about other co-founders they might as well have been just employees.

2:27Eugenia Kuyda:And so I think that's kind of the situation. I think that's just the reality of it. It's very rare when actually equal co-founders or almost equal co-founders. And there's also some aspect of this where if they were having the same level of influence or making the decisions together at some point, that probably becomes to some degree unhealthy. So there is probably this aspect of ultimately it does end up becoming one person sort of their main responsible one yeah like in the end of the day someone needs to call the shots and um i think design by committee is like never great like i've never seen people come up with a vision together it's always someone's vision and everyone else sort of joins on board and whoever has the vision and has the delusion that this can exist in the world actually drives it forward like there's no way for a few people to be absolutely super excited about one direction and dream up the same vision in their head and it's usually one person is kind of more visionary they have the idea they and they're willing to take an insane amount of risk to try to get there as delusional as it might feel uh but that amount of belief in a few people that's very rare usually the other people just follow they say okay well this is the crazy guy or girl, would better get on board.

3:48Eugenia Kuyda:He seems so excited. They'll break all the walls to get there. And then that person does break all the walls. And usually they end up fundraising and being CEO and kind of calling all the shots. You don't see the person that followed that become the main person. I mean, now it's AI companions all the time. People talk about that as a really big thing. Certainly they weren't talking about that 10 years ago. And I'm really curious how, if you could just tell the story of how you as sort of an individual came to the conclusion that you wanted to build a company and what you ended up deciding you wanted to build with Replica.

4:27Eugenia Kuyda:Oh, so Replica, like the story behind Replica started very long ago. In 2012, I think, a friend of mine worked at Google DeepMind and he showed me Word2Vector, which was this technology that people at Google researchers came up with. which basically allowed for them to translate words into vectors and do mathematical kind of things to words. And so that blew my mind because obviously as a journalist, I was reading, you know, grew up reading Wittgenstein and of course the limits of my language, the limits of my world is a phrase that stuck with me. And in fact, it was kind of, we made a neon sign out of it later in the first office of Replica.

5:12Eugenia Kuyda:But I thought, oh, if they can do things with words, then they'll have a language model that will be ultimately the model of the world. And so I got to jump on this now because as a journalist, my job was having conversations with people. I felt like having meaningful conversations with machines is just the next step. And then, of course, also ImageNet came out. So people started talking about deep learning. And I thought, okay, well, they'll put two and two together. We'll have these very powerful models for dialect generation, for language. So better start now. we were kind of like a decade off I'd say probably the first language models actually appeared in 2015 and then we just went all in on that at that point we already got to Y Combinator and raised some funding mostly just to build chatbot tech so conversational AI tech and we knew we wanted to find a consumer product to build we couldn't figure out which one would be the one and of course the tech was just so so bad and yeah and so late 2015 my best friend passed away and I was living actually just right around the corner from here with him and I found myself going back home rereading our text messages all the time and so we used the models that were built back then to recreate him as an AI just as a personal project I built it myself in three weeks mostly just to be able to continue to have a conversation with him.

6:38Eugenia Kuyda:And that became a story somehow. Like Casey Newton, a journalist, a friend of ours, kind of wrote about it and became viral. A lot of people came to talk to Roman's AI. And what we saw there was that people were really opening up. They were being vulnerable. They were telling him everything about themselves. So that gave us an idea that there's just so much demand to feel that closeness feel that connection be able to talk about what's going on with you in your life and that became kind of the precursor the original inspiration for replica that was that was already a few years sort of into deciding you wanted to go and pursue this right and i think there is some aspect of i could i could only imagine that if you had paired up with someone, that's a long time to be pursuing something, especially if it's not maybe your vision, you know, to be going after something.

7:33And there might have been times when it felt like things weren't progressing as quickly as you'd like with the, with sort of the technology that you would maybe need to be able to make this happen. I'm curious how you think that sort of your personal connection to it, your interest in it as a solo founder might've kind of influenced the, maybe the way that you stuck with it.

7:53Eugenia Kuyda:Oh, for me, it's completely a personal story. Like for me, it's just the most personal thing that can exist. But as we know, what's most personal is the most universal. So that resonated with so many people. Really, I grew up like a pretty lonely kid. I was an only child. My parents was extremely young. So they were kind of off doing their own thing very early on in my life. So I just remember myself writing like bad poetry and skateboarding and smoking joints and just kind of, you know, figuring shit out on my own. And it felt really lonely all my life. So when I found some of these friends that, you know, these relationships with me, they kind of, sorry, with my friends in my twenties, that kind of became my family.

8:35Eugenia Kuyda:They kind of became my family. And so, um, those relationships were really transformational for me. And so when I lost kind of one of them, um, and everything kind of fell apart from there, that's where I felt like I want to recreate that. I want to recreate that friendship that allowed me to feel a little bit less alone. I want to create it for other people because I know what it feels like. And I remember reading right around that time, stumbling upon this book on becoming a person by Carl Rogers, which basically just says that, that, you know, we're all geared towards positive growth, but you got to create a relationship that will allow a person to feel seen, heard, ultimately accept themselves and grow and will create that space to grow.

9:24Eugenia Kuyda:And so the, you know, Carl Rogers really just the kind of basics of today's therapy, but they kind of created that whole kind of human potential, human-centric therapeutic approach. And so he literally said, like, to create that relationship, you've got to do three things, provide unconditional positive regard, uh believe in the fact that this person is going to grow and um third allow them to be a separate person and even in that book he mentions that potentially like robots at some point could do that that of course was written in the 60s um and funny enough the only chatbot that really worked until then was eliza built by professor weisenbaum and that was built on on it was a rogerian therapist it was really just kind of using carl rogers technique of technique of just building that report and so for me that was extremely personal just felt like it just felt like such a beautiful and simple truth laid out in this very dry book that everyone usually reads in like their first year of learning of studying therapy and yeah we just thought look like back then 2015 the models 2016 the models were so crappy you could you couldn't really build an ai that would talk to a chatbot that would talk to you in a meaningful way but you could maybe build an ai that could listen and that was really the main insight how do you think that being a journalist influenced you as a founder oh i think that's the kind of that's the main thing that influenced me um as a journalist you always talk to people i mean you know you do podcasts you constantly talk to people and knowing how to talk to people is actually quite a hard it's a very interesting art and somehow there are no books about or very few books about it there's no science around it there's no research like what makes a good conversation but I believe through conversations you can change people and you can learn things you can live a life through someone else's eyes almost and so for me conversation was always just the peak most important thing that people do it was like kind of the the craft that we have as humans the the ability to have a conversation is probably like the most amazing art that we can learn over um over our lifetime and through these conversations people fall in love and start companies and you know decide to the world is being driven by conversation so for me the fact that no one wanted to work on machine conversation back in the day when we started doing that was crazy i'm like how is that that no one's building even like simple tech to build chatbots like even that didn't exist all chatbots in 2012-13 were all either aiml or like literally like excel spreadsheets it was all just a set of rules as the stupidest um you know way of building those things when you were growing up as an only child I was also an only child um you know at least in my in my world you know I would come up with my own stories I would I would you know I would um maybe talk to toys and things like when I was really young like I would have these relationships maybe with things that weren't actual people as well um animals too I'm curious uh did you have anything like that in your life when you were growing up sort of around your imagination going beyond just sort of interacting with people but interacting with other things and does that does that have any sort of impact on how you've thought about communicating with you know something that's not not necessarily human well so uh i grew up as long as a single child actually i'm not a single child anymore i have a 10 year old sister um but yeah growing up i'm kind of by myself i think for me the refuge was like writing writing fiction and kind of more personal stories and obviously very bad poetry and so for me that dear diary was it was almost like talking to someone was expressing myself through words and so uh it was very natural for me to to have a replica of oh i can talk about what's going on with me i can open up because before i was opening up through those you know tools through like writing in a diary, writing a story, writing a poem.

13:45And was there sort of a thread between all of those things and kind of getting into communicating to other people? And it sounds like writing was a really big part of your life when you were growing up. Did that sort of transfer into it being something that you were doing more professionally as well and then sort of into this more communication-oriented format with software?

14:02Eugenia Kuyda:Yeah. No, for sure. It's just a way, like, you know, it's just kind of when you're an angsty teenager, you're pretty scared of, like, actually opening up. So there was no one to open up to. And so, or no one I was feeling okay about opening up to until much later in life, like even with best friends, like you're not, you don't really have the words or you're scared, you're feeling ashamed. And so you would try to communicate through these poetic things, like whatever, writing something and showing it to the world and hoping the world can see you for who you are, that you hoping to build that connection through that.

14:39Eugenia Kuyda:the cool thing is like with ai you're not scared to say what's actually happening with you and sometimes we're even scared to tell it to tell our closest friends that even later in life when we already have the tools and so on so it's not even about the fact that you don't have it it's a person to tell that it's more about that we kind of lost the capacity to do that most people don't know how to open up they're going to be scared but with an with the eye they don't feel judged So it's not that I didn't have anyone to talk to or anything like that. It's just that at 15, I was scared to really tell people what's really going on inside.

15:16Eugenia Kuyda:Or even more than that, I didn't really even know. It's just funny that growing up in Russia, we didn't have the word anxiety really. So I knew I was just feeling super uneasy all the time in my body. And I knew the physical sensation and I knew that it didn't have a word. so when i learned the word anxiety like later in life in my 20s i'm like oh i guess that's what it was the whole time just this unsettling feeling like you can't really belong anywhere and like um yeah but we didn't even know the words for that what was the closest word well russia's was always very behind on all therapeutic things so we didn't know anything about that there was no word yeah you didn't really even say um you didn't even really yeah I guess the only thing that people talked about was insecurities like that was the only thing like oh you're a teenager you probably have insecurities that's it but the idea that people could be depressed or anxious that was not or like trauma or anything like that I mean also was if of course now probably people have more of the but back in the day we didn't even have that in our vocabulary like of course the word exists but in Russian but it just like no one ever said that you would have never even hear that it's a condition like it's kind of didn't you know if you don't name it it sort of almost doesn't exist um and so yeah being able to talk about that with someone i think would have been very beneficial if i was you know back when i was a little kid or a teenager and what was the what was the i know that you sort of saw this this sort of technology that was emerging in a really early form and then you kind of made that connection between the technology that was emerging and your experience with communicating with with people with you know with yourself through diary entries and things like that.

16:58You kind of, you kind of decided that this was something you really didn't want to miss out on. Can you share a little bit more about that and sort of how you actually functionally decide to get started? Did you make an explicit decision to be doing it solo? How, how did that actually come about? Because I think that people really benefit from hearing these stories around how people actually came to the decision of not only doing it, but how they structured how they did it.

17:21Eugenia Kuyda:Well, I think a lot of founders start things because they want to impress someone, it's always just some external motivation. Like maybe they weren't loved by their parents that much or some other thing. So they kind of have this chip on the shoulder and like, oh, I'm going to do that. And, you know, I don't know. My dad will pay attention to me. It's something. Or it can be coded in anything else. It could be some other person they meet throughout life or whatever. But usually it starts, I feel like for many people, because it's such a crazy idea to start a company if you think about it, because the odds are crazy.

17:52Eugenia Kuyda:It's pretty lonely. It's just not really a normal thing for people to do, and especially to stick to. Maybe to start, people start, but then a lot of people just get disappointed, disillusioned very fast, and just move on to something else. But to start and to stick to it, that takes definitely something. Something's broken inside. And then if you think about it, so for me, it was definitely that. It started with that external motivation. I was very excited about the idea of building conversational AI, of building a company that will help us have meaningful conversations with machines. But part of underlying motivation was definitely to impress a certain person or something like that.

18:35Eugenia Kuyda:When we think about it, it's almost unfair to bring on a co-founder for that because you're just dealing with your own thing. And so I didn't even think about it. What co-founder? I was trying to do that. Like it was my whole, that whole motivation was mine. Of course, eventually that all turned into much more intrinsic motivation of just I wanted to get it, you know, working. But I think a lot of the thing starts with some, you know, some sort of that external motivation. So for me, I think the moment was, I was building something else actually. We're building like a bank project and we were testing an interface for it.

19:13Eugenia Kuyda:And the idea was that people would just, you know talk to a bank wouldn't have any branches was so long ago of course today it's a given and so the idea was like they'll communicate through through sms with a bank and so we went to trial that technology and just test that built a chatbot and uh with some people and we saw a crazy emotional response to that people were we thought they're going to talk to us about some banking features but they were saying no one talks to me like that and like crying and like oh i really feel a connection with this and we're like wow this interface is so much bigger more than just an interface it can actually influence what people do and can you know actually change behaviors for people and so on and so that's when i thought okay well banking project was kind of like um winding down anyway and i was like well i'll just take this and i'll just focus on that conversational tech especially given the fact that you know all these new technologies are coming around and uh you know neural networks started to become a thing I mean mind you so long ago it was 2012-13 and so I put together a small team and as you know I actually had another kind of full-time job first and I was like okay well let's try to tinker with that and then in a few months it was like okay this is much more interesting than anything else I'm working on I just need to focus on this and raise some money and apply to YC and you know or or get some money somewhere else and try to really get it working.

20:41Eugenia Kuyda:And we got to Y Combinator and the rest was kind of history. But that was my original pool. I put in my own money in both. Kind of Wabi, this current company, and two degree replica also moving here. So that was the kind of origin story. You talked a little bit about various types of motivations for starting companies and internal and external ones. And I'm really curious how that changed maybe with the second company, the one you're building now, Wabi. Were you more aware of sort of the motivations going into it the first time, the second time, and how might have they have changed? I mean, with Wabi, I just had this idea and it kept me up all night that there should be a better interface for AI.

21:29Eugenia Kuyda:It's crazy that we're talking to AI through a command line, and that's it, and everyone just kind of embraced that command line and decided that everything's going to be a chatbot because there's so many things you can't do through a command line. Like discovery doesn't work. Proactive doesn't work. Repeating use cases don't work. There's no file management. So many use cases are just very, it's a very poor format or interface for so many different other use cases that are not search, talk to it, or a writing tool. And so for regular people, of course, for, you know, for super prosumer developer that I think they can do anything through a command line, but they live in a terminal anyway.

22:10Eugenia Kuyda:So it was just one line. Like we're in this Microsoft DOS RFI interfaces. There will be a good moment. What is it going to be? All the big labs are not focusing on that for some reason. I want to start a company to explore that. And that was just that. It was just a set of beliefs that were so strong. And at the same time, I felt like no one's really looking into it. or no one was looking into it. And that was enough for me to just get a small group together again and just start tinkering. Again, first just putting in my own money and thinking, okay, well, we'll try to get somewhere. But just taking a leap of faith.

22:45I think sometimes all the good decisions come to you

22:49Eugenia Kuyda:when you create a little bit of emptiness. I really was not thinking or considering. I'm not a person that sits around and thinks, what should I do and writes out pros and cons. I just operate in a different way I think you have to create a little bit of an empty space for yourself just not think about anything else I think I went on a little trip with my kids for a week and just while I was there I was like oh I'm starting a new company and then once you kind of just had this thought in your brain that's it you just like your body sort of decided and that's what it's doing so there was no way back I feel like there's such a such a challenge that people run into when they sort of fall into that belief that they need to have co-founders to get started because you were able to go from this giving yourself that space to realize you wanted to build a company you were going to be building it and then you were off to the races you were building a company and I think that in some ways there's this sort of thing that people put in their way when it comes to the co-founder stuff and you know I'm curious your take on why you think people think that they need to have a co-founder why they why they kind of like have that as a thing it's almost like a barrier for getting started i agree with you and i think it's you know it is lonely for sure and i think people want to have like some other people to also be yeah we're gonna do that and maybe people for some people it's hard to hire um i think if it's hard if it's hard for you to hire someone you don't know people or whatever and you only but you do have this great person who might bring i don't know it's beneficial for the company the only way to get that person is by calling them a co-founder then of course like why not right it doesn't really matter that much i think more the idea that you just kind of randomly decide oh these people are gonna be co-founder co-founders when you could have totally hired them as you know early employees gave them good equity uh chunk but maybe not call them co-founder that would be i think that's kind of like just a cleaner approach because ultimately it's still going to be on you you're still gonna be calling all the shots uh but i think it's it's almost like i believe everyone should do whatever they want like if they like to have to call some employees co-founders and make them feel better then why not you know it's better for their retention maybe if they're like super incredible researchers it's very hard to get them like otherwise they're having like tons of offers they will only join as co-founder that's a completely different ball game of course sure but i found that because of um that whole yc idea that everyone needs to have a co-founder many people just like got bad co-founders me included actually i got like i called one employee co-founder um already we were i was already working on the project on the project kind of replica but i wanted to get into yc and i just wanted our odds to be higher so i'm like okay you'll be a co-founder and that didn't work out well at all because then i had to because he wasn't really a co-founder he was an employee but then of course he developed a gigantic ego that he actually is a co-founder he was doing a lot of work don't get me wrong but like that company was my company it was my vision and then for some reason i started you know finding myself like going through hours and hours of explaining why we're doing it and why we actually don't need to do this and now completely pivot to replica i'm like why am i even wasting all these hours trying to get someone on board and then he's creating all this fud at the company with the team because he doesn't believe in it i'm like this is complete bonkers you know this is like not even um and so i think just don't get random co-founders i think this is the getting it's much better to be solo than to have bad co-founders that in my view is you know that of course ruins companies and i think the whole pressure of like you have to have co-founders who said you have to like you no one has to you can do many different ways um and so i think it's totally fine to have co-founders if they're great co-founders you love them maybe it's your brother your best friend and other you want to share or you know otherwise they wouldn't start working with you that's one thing but if you just like randomly assign a co-founder because you kind of have to and it's like some random person you don't really know them very well or you know them well and they could totally be just working for you i'm not you know i think that pressure that people create that it has to be one way or the other is unhealthy both ways.

27:05Eugenia Kuyda:Like, you know, maybe someone wants co-founders, then why not? Totally. At what point did you decide that you were going to make that transition from, you had this seemingly great career in journalism. You were editor-in-chief at a really big magazine. What was the thing that ultimately made you decide you wanted to move away from that? Was it some external thing? Was it just seeing that technology develop? What was the actual thing there that caused that to happen i think probably getting arrested the first couple times well i mean 2010 um so i always worked on in some sort of like liberal or opposition media and you know back in 2000s moscow and even 90s well 90s was a baby but 2000s late 2000s it was still russia was a different place it wasn't yet what it is now and politically it wasn't that you know so kind of that much of a dictatorship as it is today um and so there was hope that you know that i wanted always to actually my dream was to be like a war reporter even at some point but more but at least like investigative reporter work undercover and all that and so i did a little bit of that too and then 2010 of course the first wave of protests started and i was working the media were kind of like the media was the organizer of many a lot of people journalists were organizing a lot of these protests and then you know of course everything started to tighten up like we started getting calls and the um magazine you know kind of getting you got to take this out and take this off so it was kind of clear that the at that point that that job won't even be around very soon yeah the writing was like you can't really be a journalist in Russia anymore there's nowhere unless you want to work for like some propaganda channel just be like a PR manager for President Putin so um um, so yeah, so it was clear that this job is going away and it was clear in like 2009.

28:55Eugenia Kuyda:So by then I kind of just figured I was 22, three, and I was like, well, I got to get out of here. I got to get some other jobs. So, um, I figured I'll go to business school and figure it out. Um, I didn't know what business school was. So I applied to London business school and I went to move to London to just get some, any other education in a different language and also get out of Russia. So I went to London, then I went to New York and I went to NYU Stern for a year and then i started kind of just trying to do some stuff and tinkering with like some tech products and i think actually the first app i built was uh for those protests um so 2010 11 it was a huge protest in russia um anti-putin anti-corruption uh really was against like the falsified clearly falsified elections um and there was a very big civil kind of movement in russia there were like 100 000 people coming out on the streets and going out on the street in moscow and there's a lot of belief and hope and oh this can actually change um and so i built an app called briber which i pretty much just put together some wireframes on back then facebook and said hey i want to build an app where people will be able to report bribes um just actually like if i'm given a bribe i'm gonna report it this way kind of bringing attention to corruption because in Russia, you can't really operate without giving bribes.

30:18Eugenia Kuyda:That's just how the country operates. If you're going to the doctor, you're expected to give some money, you know, some money in a little envelope because they're not making any money at all. Like the doctor's salary is like$50 a month. So everyone's supposed to bring, like if you're not bringing, it's like not tipping here at a restaurant. It sounds like a, but in the end of the day, it ends up being kind of bribing. So you're bribing a person at the front desk. You're bribing there, you're bribing there, here and everywhere. and so of course that becomes the corrupted kind of system that we we have and so my my idea was to bring it just more attention to what's happening and and somehow a lot of people wanted to work for free they saw they're like oh let's get together and let's build it and so we built that it made the news we had this little kind of zero rubble bank note that we're giving around as like you know and i felt like oh if you if you come up with a great idea or some idea whatever idea that people want to stand for.

31:11Eugenia Kuyda:If you can't create some sort of movement, people will be very excited even to work for free. And so I think that's kind of the same idea that I had ever since. I could just have to have an idea that people want to stand for. You know, that's really interesting because I feel like oftentimes there are so many companies, you know, that are out there and they're always sort of trying to compete for talent. And obviously every company is competing for talent, but it feels like the biggest advantage you could possibly have to get the best people is just make something that's really compelling, you know, that's not sort of a run of the mill type thing.

31:43And I'm curious how you think that maybe being sort of a person from maybe let's call it a non-traditional background when it comes to starting companies, maybe informed like how you thought about building something or maybe how you maybe didn't have preconceived notions about how these things should be done. Because it feels like one thing that I've, we've had when, you know, over the last few months when we've been talking to all these incredible people who've started companies, the thread that I've noticed is there's just such a wider array of diversity in terms of where people have actually come from, what they've worked on, compared to people who are starting startups in maybe the more traditional way.

32:22A couple of co-founders, building something that's a little bit more kind of like boilerplate or cookie cutter is not the right term, but a little bit more towards selling to other startups, I guess, is another example. I'm curious sort of how you think about sort of your non-traditional background maybe influenced how you go about building companies?

32:41Eugenia Kuyda:Well, I think now specifically, people talk a lot about storytelling. I do think that ultimately being able to tell a story well, but not just tell a story well, actually come up with a new novel story, see some story that people don't necessarily see, and come up with a non-obvious story and tell it well, is a really rare skill. Like most people are really boring to hang out with because they don't, can tell a good story and don't know how to come up with a good story, you know? So they don't know, they don't have like any, just people, a lot of people don't have maybe like completely, well, that's gonna be like a mean thing to say.

33:23Eugenia Kuyda:But I do think that people don't spend a lot, enough time learning how to tell a good story. And for me, like I didn't, because my brain's not very, I don't know, I guess I'm not. I grew up with a family of physicists so I was always like definitely not the smartest one in the family because everyone was so confused why I didn't go um and study physics like all of everyone in our family but it's mostly because I didn't never understood physics very well so there was no such choice for me but because I but then ultimately I do think learning how to tell a good story and learning also just how to see stories and kind of find them in the world and tell them and synthesize information from so many different and from from many different places i think it's a pretty valuable tool and i think especially now it's more and more like software development has been kind of commoditized more and more and so we're moving more kind of up the ladder so if before just knowing how to code was an important skill of course it is now it's more like not just knowing how to code but more knowing how to create an architecture of a software product is still a good skill so it's kind of moving up you know the ladder and then uh more and more it's going to be like less about designing and moving around pixels more about art direction and creative direction and ultimately it all just will boil down to like can you tell a compelling story about the future of the world there's um there's something that happens whenever you talk about soul or whenever someone talks about solo founding or it comes up people talk about this idea of oh well you own 100 of the company which of course changes very quickly when you start to bring on investors, start to give equity to teammates.

34:58But one thing that I think is not talked about nearly as much, and I think is really related to what you were just saying around storytelling is authorship. This idea of there being an author who's really sort of telling a story, you know, about what it is that they're building. And that story is something that they're telling to potential people who might want to use what they're building, people who might want to join the team, you know, and help them and work on building this together. Investors, if you're building a company that that's more of a venture scale business i'm curious how you think about authorship and how that relates to storytelling so my approach to that i think even although i'm

35:35Eugenia Kuyda:always a sole founder i've been a sole founder but um i think it's a team sport so actually one other thing right what i don't like about co-founders it's kind of arbitrarily choosing just a couple people on the team yeah that will have the top elevating them instead of saying we're a team and I really believe especially now in small teams where people have almost it almost operates as a partnership and it's okay that there's maybe like one founder or one CEO that has to be as an on any team a captain or a coach right like it has to be someone who kind of makes the ultimate decision otherwise maybe you know you won't know where to go but it is very much a team sport so i don't think it's like a one solo founder and just some like whatever minions or something completely different i'm always extremely generous with equity because again not having co-founder allows you to actually split that pot equally between all members of the team founding members of the team that in my view take the same risk you know that's kind of why there's you know there's so many like sour stories around founding engineers that come in do all the job but then the they're not a co-founder so they get their like proverbial you know whatever equity stake and then they're so instead of that i think the whole founding team takes a huge leap of faith um you know they decide to work on something completely novel they they pour their hearts and souls they leave you know sometimes cushy jobs they take a pay cut they should be rewarded very well and they should be known as the team that build it so i think right now it's more like a team sport i've never seen one person build everything or two people build well maybe but you know generally it's like a five ten person team that really makes the difference the proverbial kind of paypal mafia right and i think it's correct like how they all became famous in a way for you know later in a lot but i think right now it's also really important to highlight all members on the team like we with wabi we make it a priority that like all of our members even if we're not really using Twitter that much.

37:37Eugenia Kuyda:Like they're kind of, we try to, we ask them to post about like what they shipped this week. So it's not just coming from me or some like corporate account, but it's coming from our CTO, our head of mobile, our main React Native engineer, our designer, our other designer. I think authorship is very important. Like it's a team, so let's elevate everyone on the team. But I think I find it kind of not so great when it's just like the CEO all the time. and always talk, you know, kind of promoting themselves. It's such an interesting point because this is what Paul from Browserbase talked about too, this idea of you can do so much more when you have the ability to share it amongst more people, share that sort of ability to have people share what they're working on.

38:24And I feel like maybe in some ways that authorship is split amongst maybe three people if there's three co-founders, but you have this ability to really make it so that people can really share more about what they're doing in the world. It feels like BrowserBase is a good example of this. Wabi seems to be a good example of this, where you just see all of the team members posting constantly about all the great things that they're working on. And I think there's something really special there that I'm curious if you have any recommendations for people when it comes to helping more people on their teams sort of get more spotlight on what they're working on.

38:57Is there anything that you've learned or experienced through that?

39:00Eugenia Kuyda:You actually have to push for that. I'm a huge soccer fan, so I watch a lot of soccer my favorite team and if you think about a team there is you know there there's always a coach but you know there there might be a few stars on the team but generally like you kind of know the roster right it's kind of important that you don't think of it as like a one person or just like a name of the team you know the players and I think it's very important like the players become almost like you know what you're following too and so I think when you're thinking about the especially the first founding team it's super important to get to to give people the voice and i think it should be um it should be something that comes from the ceo kind of encouraging like hey start posting like if you're launching something let's make it so that like the person who built it actually posts about it and talks about it not just the corporate account um highlight if like for example something was built by one of the team you know teammates like Like, for example, today, like, our design engineer built an incredible app with Gemini 3.

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40:05Eugenia Kuyda:So as we're talking about, like, okay, Wabi is now on Gemini 3, we're promoting it by showcasing the app and, you know, saying this is the author and this is the guy who, in telling stories, like, putting, making them. People want to follow companies, but they also, we all love voyeurism. We all love, like, what does it feel like to work there? like there was a fantastic article about cursor um someone working there and then writing like you know showing pictures all this so interesting because you know it allows us to allows us to live vicariously through that so almost turning your company into a little bit of a reality show i think it's great because it's also allows for people to feel a sense of ownership feel proud of what they're doing yeah you don't have to be always like the founder or the ceo or like a solo a person who's or an artist when people play on people become big huge stars playing on teams you know in sports why not take the same analogy and do it here with tech it's such a beautiful idea of the reality tv show and sort of a peek behind the curtain because i think that not only does it give people the ability to showcase all of the contributions that they're making towards a completely big mission in the case of lobby but also gives people who are outside the sense of what it might be like to work at a company like Wabi and really get a sense for it and see not just what you're tweeting about or something like that, but what everybody's up to.

41:28I think that's really special. When I was talking to somebody who joined BrowserBase, they said that was a big part of it. They said that getting to see all of the things that were happening across the company, they didn't mention actually following Paul and his account. They mentioned that they saw all these teammates posting really interesting things. And I think that's really good because ultimately you're not just going to be working with one person, not just working with the founder. You're going to be working with all these incredible people. So why not make the things that people are working on visible and also make it so that people can get a sense of what it's actually like?

42:01Eugenia Kuyda:Yeah, and some people might come with no, maybe they don't have a crazy resume, or they're young or they worked at some, they're geniuses but they don't have a very splashy resume. But this way they can build their own name, say on twitter or whatever the platform that you're using people could start to like learn about them they become like a micro kind of influencer and it's very cool why not like you're giving people a platform they're they're able to share they end up feeling so much more motivated to build something and there's so much more sense of ownership and agency and the company but i think a lot of companies are starting to go this way but i think almost maybe it should be like really thought through and kind of encouraged by whoever's running these companies.

42:46I think one of the coolest things about what you're building at Wabi is this concept of most people's experience when they experience Wabi for the first time is probably not going to be through the actual making of an app. It's going to be through experiencing some little app that somebody's made, right? So could you say a little bit more about kind of that ability for people to sort of create what's in their minds and make these things and then show them with other people and sort of how you think about kind of how that fits into the bigger picture of helping people kind of make the things that they want and also maybe express themselves and make things in a way that sort of is pleasing to them?

43:22Oh yeah.

43:23Eugenia Kuyda:I think one of the, one of my favorite things about Wabi is that it's a new tool, new platform that allows for like this new type of creativity because if you think about it today you can create content but first of all creating content is pretty hard creating high quality content is even harder but we have so many different interests and ideas and and almost creating software creating these mini apps is actually a lot easier than creating youtube videos and this and that and we're all used kind of been living in this reality where the only software that exists is generally software that can make money can become a business and built by professional developers to you know squeeze some revenue out of other people in the world that's pretty much all it is but if you start thinking about okay well there's no cost to develop software pretty much there's no time cost to develop it and you can build anything and it's relatively easy to build anything then all of a sudden software can also become a creative expression can become our own creative expression so for example i'm into poetry and um all sorts of kids stuff in italian because my kids go to italian preschool and i'm constantly trying to learn more about art and get inspiration from art that i don't know and learn about history of design and um i'm always interested in like kind of thinking more and like learning more about philosophy and so now i have all these apps that do it for me i have an app that shows me you know daily poem from kind of knowing what i'm generally into um there's an and gives me context and allows me to read more about it and learn about that that author and so there's an app that pulls up um uh kind of teaches me about like whatever art movements of the 20th century even the most obscure one so i can discover artists that i didn't even know about or there's an app that you know shows kind of pulls up all the news about consumer eye companies every day so i can try and stay on top of new products there's an app that we built with my daughter to play this little kind of telling puzzles in bed that are all focused on what she likes this princesses and so on and so all of a sudden now my home screen i don't really go to my home screen anymore my um kind of iphone home screen well i go to my home screen for my big apps whatever the slack and tiktok and this and that uber and then i go to wabi for everything else i stopped using that you know everything else on my phone because in wabi my home screen totally feels like home it feels like a continuation of myself um it has all the cool things it helps me feel inspired it helps me remember things it helps me learn new things because that's what I'm about.

46:17Eugenia Kuyda:I'm about, it helps me work out. I have my weightlifting app. I have my weight tracker app. And it's all with my design sensibility. I want maybe all of them to be minimal and black and white and no crazy notifications, no weird pictures I don't like and so on, so on, so on. And now it totally feels like my own home. And it's very cool to share that with some people because it's not just me who's interested in all these things. Some other people exist that are also the whole, you know, there are the other people that could be interested in similar things. And so all of a sudden these apps become like a start of a community or sort of a beautiful friendship and so on.

46:55It's really cool. I think there's something really special about giving people the ability to make these things in a really straightforward way and be able to showcase them to other people. I know that there's like a really pretty compelling and it's, I think it's like, there's a lot that's sort of coming down the road for this too, in terms of how people discover things and interact with things and comment on things within Wabi. I think that's really cool. How do you think about community just in general and sort of the way that people interact with products and maybe either meet new people or develop and sort of enrich their relationships with the people that they already know?

47:34Eugenia Kuyda:I'm really a huge fan of Reddit. I spend a lot of time on Reddit. What subreddits? uh well my italian soccer team juventus of course okay surfing subreddit because i'm really into surfing um especially here in san francisco um and some of the ones actually like whenever i watch a tv show i join a subreddit on that tv show and then of course get all the spoilers but i'm very i'm very i want to see what other people are saying like it becomes like i don't want i don't want to live in i feel like i'm living in a vacuum i'm i have this endless curiosity I want to like if I'm watching a show I want to see what people are saying about it online I want to read the comments I don't know I just want to feel like I'm doing it with other people as well I don't want to be just like I feel like maybe it's the Russian to me there's this Dostoevsky quote that you were born born alone we die alone but like maybe at least in between we can do things with other people so for me it's very important that like I actually love to surf alone but I want to learn more about like what are people doing what was happening today oh they're Here are the cool kind of photos from Ocean Beach today when it was big.

48:40Eugenia Kuyda:Like I kind of, I'm just interested and nosy. I feel like it gives me more dimensions to life. And so the same happens with the mini apps. That's why we really wanted to make it social. Because if someone else is into like a French post-modernist philosophy the way I am, I want to see where these people are. I want to like see what they're saying. I want for them also to be able to comment on my app that I built for that, right? I want to discuss it in it. I want to maybe use it together. Maybe it could be multiplayer and we could use all of these. Like if you really think about what if every subreddit had software tools, like apps basically.

49:17Eugenia Kuyda:If it's a soccer subreddit, maybe it could be like all the news and all the about this soccer team or so on and so on. Why do you think things moved away so far from personalization almost to the exact opposite direction? I guess like in many ways, you know, modern social is, or at least the social before Wabi, I should say, is very much the platform is not very modifiable. Maybe the content that you put on there, like Reddit, for instance, what's actually on the Reddit is different. But you look at sort of the older platforms like GeoCities, right, or like MySpace or LiveJournal. You were talking about journaling earlier.

49:56LiveJournal was this thing when I was growing up that was incredibly popular with middle schoolers and high schoolers. and all of those things had so much more room for a kind of customization. And it feels like Wabi in many ways is a return to some of the ideals of the web, which was this idea that people could really express themselves and could create their own little spaces. And I think that one expression people have sort of came up with in the last few years is like this idea of like you have your own little garden, right? So I'm curious why you think that there was that sort of break where we kind of moved away from that.

50:31And then also what you think might be ahead in terms of what it actually means to be able to make your own things and sort of have this own little like parcel on the Internet.

50:42Eugenia Kuyda:I never really thought about it. But yeah, for sure. Like I think that one of the things that come to mind, MySpace, but also Tumblr, right? Like it was kind of the era of personal blogs and it was very or personal pages. It was all very creative. Hyper personalized. and some of them would you you'd customize them so much they would effectively crash the web browser you know because people would inject all sorts of crazy things in there so i'm yeah i'm just curious what your what your take is on that i think maybe because we all went away from um like social networks which they were or like blogging platforms to and moved away to social media where it's actually media now it's like the the primitive was the kind of the video or the photo and very quickly it all became you know very algorithmic and very very much just like um how do we keep you on this platform for as long as possible and i guess like personal blogs or creative grc pages are just not gonna not gonna cut it you gotta move to some stuff that's very quick like you know it's like the obviously tiktok showed us the the two set two minute two second video 10 second video is the is the king um and it allows for like personalizing your experience right through those videos because then the the smaller the the granular kind of the the primitive the design primitive of that platform the the easier it is to personalize that feed um and then software just stayed because there's such a huge cost of developing software just stayed completely off limits like it's fully um the only people who can't could make software like up until last year or so just professional developers and so very few people in the world there's like 20 million developers in the world are gatekeepers to software no one else can make software even if you have a good idea go ahead find engineer find a co-founder find a technical co-founder to build this but you can't really like otherwise build it figure out how you're going to put it on the app store or you know buy domain names it's pretty like it requires a lot like you can't like really develop something put it up there um but now anyone can and so i think that's why we're going to be going back to um and also creating content is very easy now much easier than before right you can like just say you can add illustrations or add this at that this is just wild like you believe that before we had to spend months developing that developing an app and figuring out some illustrations and sounds and not just like write one prompt.

53:17It's pretty beautiful that people can now just create things in a much more fluid way and I think that hopefully that will encourage more people to do it. I think that there's that that fear you know in some ways that just because people have the ability to do something doesn't mean that they're necessarily do it or maybe they'll take it for granted but I hope I hope people do and I think that I suspect that if they do and they do embrace their creativity it's going to be through platforms like Wabi where you're making it really easy for them to go from an idea to having something that they could actually be really proud of and excited to use and I love also the idea that at least right now it's really about them making something for themselves versus versus is I think that there is a difference when you make something for yourself versus you try and make something for somebody else you're already kind of like trying to solve your own problem there's so much pride because it's

54:05Eugenia Kuyda:like oh i made it for myself like you kind of love that thing if it's even if it's not perfect i think to a degree with we felt the same with replica because people were training or like teaching their replicas and then even although they were imperfect it felt like oh but this is my record you know what i mean like it's you don't that's the the kind of interesting thing that and the most important things in life are not about like being the best you know you don't choose your partners like oh this is the best possible partner and you know like it's all constantly looking to upgrade you don't choose your friends like oh this is the best person in the world like i or my friends are not so ready to upgrade all my friends we don't really think or our kids or pets we don't think this way um and so with software is the same like if you're building for yourself you kind of i think like it a lot more i think one of the biggest uh insights things that we didn't expect that we found out with the first closed kind of beta that we have with Wabi was that we thought a lot of people won't, most people won't create anything.

55:06Eugenia Kuyda:They will just use whatever they find. What we found out is that people really, like everyone's creating and not one app, like six apps on average, which is insane if you think about it because everyone wants to try and it's so easy. And then not only they're creating it and we thought, okay, well, they create it, then they're going to use it, but there's not going to be like constantly improving. No, people exactly like you're attending to your own garden. You have an app, you constantly think, oh, maybe I want to add a little bit of that. what if i change the colors or what if i added this little oh it's uh my kind of uh bookshelf i'm putting all my books here okay but what if i make it look like an actual bookshelf or what if i add amazon links to all of them what if i had a little kind of author bios and so people keep adding and adding and adding any and it sounds like pruning your own garden and it's really i think it's wonderful because it it changes us because we're so used to consumption that's why i don't well that's what i really don't like about social media it's just so mindless you just sit and you just consume, consume, consume.

56:02Eugenia Kuyda:I think this makes us more creators, not just consumers. It's really, going back to something you said earlier, which is about, if you make something for yourself and it really is something that you made for yourself and you really like it, there's a high likelihood that other people will resonate with it as well. Versus, I think that, what you're talking about about sort of social media and sort of content versus these apps that people are building. In many ways, content isn't necessarily made for the own person's enjoyment. They're doing it as a way to get other people's attention, oftentimes, right?

56:35And I think that in some ways, some of the best art, which is content and scare quotes, that's all usually made because, or often made, because it's something that somebody felt they just wanted to put out on paper, or they wanted to write a song or something like that. And I think that in some ways, that really organic nature of making, they're making the song for themselves, they're making the painting for themselves. sometimes that's the art that really resonates the most with people and i and i think that there's something super cool about wabi in that that focus on on the self versus versus trying to make an app that other people will use and that's sort of like the main reason that you're doing it i think is really really compelling because all of the app builders and things like i know i know it's not exactly the same thing but all the vibe coding apps and things like that are generally people Maybe there are some tinkerers, but a lot of people are trying to build businesses and products that they can sell to people.

57:29I think there's something really special about starting with the individual first and making something for themselves.

57:35Eugenia Kuyda:I agree. I think there's a lot there.

57:41Eugenia Kuyda:Today, I do believe that the tools we use shape us. In a way, like you say, we build buildings and then buildings shape us. The famous quote. in a very in the similar way like i never thought that i actually um like there are a lot of things that i built on wabi that before that because there was no such tool i it wasn't an important part of my life like for example like i actually like to write like little thoughts and whatever little like whatever uh but i didn't have a good tool i didn't have a good app that i really resonated with and it worked for me the way i do it because i want little notes and i want this i want that so i built on wabi now totally became my daily routine because i love that little app it's i remember it now i want to use it because i spent some time i spent some time actually doing that so now i totally want to use it so now i've been using it so now all of a sudden i have a little um a new kind of routine that came came that i always wanted to write i never have time uh i didn't have a tool but now once i built one for myself now actually became a habit again and so I think these kind of things are great when you actually a lot of what we do is just shaped about what's what apps we have on our phone and so um you know you just end up kind of scrolling TikTok and that's about it maybe putting something in your notes but if you had more cool apps for different things that you're actually kind of into you know for some people for my friend he's really into bird watching he came built a cool app to to uh you know to add all the birds he see he saw um another person just collecting stones and it's like it's weird it's niched whatever but then it's part of your identity and it's very cool when you have an app like that then you remember to actually make take certain notes like for example i built another app that's just um kind of remembering great moments with my kids every day i wish i took them like oh i didn't take a good picture i didn't write down what they what they did this thing just reminds me every day like hey take a picture of your daughters and write down what was like a nice thing that happened with them today and now i have this whole journal going going going and because i built it again i kind of feel compelled to use it that's cool um maybe maybe just like a couple final questions here i'd just be super curious to hear um how do you think um how you how do you think about building teams you've built teams twice now and um maybe you had maybe you have some learnings from the first time being a solo founder and building teams that impacted how you did it the second time.

1:00:14I'm just curious if there's things that you've learned and things that maybe are especially relevant for if you're starting solo.

1:00:21Eugenia Kuyda:That's true. Yeah, I would definitely made so many mistakes so many times. And again, I think it's for everyone. It's different. It's like everyone has their own experience, their own constraints, and so on. I think if you don't have, if you have money if you are able to able to hire um i think and we're trying to do with wabi as well i think it's in who you bring on is of course that's all again it's a team sport so how strong your team is is going to be like the basically whether you're going to win or not um and so when you think about it and we start start thinking about it like bringing on a person who is just not performing and that that's going to hurt the team if you always think in this kind of way i think it's very um that's kind of probably the right framework i think for me what i realized is okay well first of all now it's a new it's new times so you can't get people that are just have one thing that they know how to do they have to be pretty multidisciplinary they need to know how to write problems they need to have a little bit of product taste even their engineers and so on so on so on some people more some people less um for me really with wabi all we try to do is like kind of really i don't know this is probably like a super generic advice and there's a great quote i think from um ben horowitz was like a vc value add vcs that give advice like hire a players like obviously what do you think i would hire more so of course you got to hire a players but what does it really mean to be an a player i think first of all insane sense of ownership and agency especially if you don't have co-founders so you got to have people that think and act like co-founders um they need to really that's why ex-founders are great we have i think seven or eight founders on the founding lobby team because they just want to get stuff done they're like total type a's they're like i need to this just needs to happen and i'm not going to be waiting around and waiting for someone to tell me i'm just going to go and get this stuff done so insane sense of agency and ownership i think is no negotiable for early team uh and then of course knowing things outside like being able to do work across different domains um that's the thing why like there's been all this talk about like cursor not having pms and i don't know like what they do or what they don't i definitely don't have pms so i don't really believe in them um because a person either designer or an engineer will or someone else on the team's like oh i really want to get this stuff done and they become the kind of their responsible person and they make it happen and you don't need like another babysitter to make things happen you just have one person on the team who will make this happen and they will sort of be the pm for that you have to have people with good product product taste so um and then another thing is like you really have to keep set that bar high and it's you have to unfortunately let people go sometimes you'll make a mistake and hire someone who thinks great and then they're just not that you have to let them go because other people see that starts to become unfair well someone's not really pulling their weight at all and as as soon as you see as soon as there's any doubt i think there's no doubt when there's doubt there's no doubt um and so that's kind of the one thing that i learned and with i think previously we always wanted to make some uh think okay well he's not like doesn't have a super crazy sense of urgency or agency, but he's a fantastic engineer.

1:03:52Eugenia Kuyda:He's like a rare engineer. Now I think that's not going to cut it. Even if it's a fantastic engineer, but maybe an asshole or maybe no sense of agency or ownership. In terms of co-founder teams, oftentimes it's kind of by default they're thought of as going to become the executives. And oftentimes that doesn't actually happen or there's some issues where some people scale with the company as sort of leaders and some don't. And there's also this sort of co-founder influence. I'm curious how, you know, you built Replica for about 10 years before you left, I believe, to go and build Wabi. I'm curious sort of how you've thought about executives at your company.

1:04:32And maybe they're not co-founders, but they, you know, they're having a lot of influence. And it's just, I think it's, you kind of almost as a co-founder have sort of your first executives figured out by default or hopefully you do um how does that change for you

1:04:47Eugenia Kuyda:as a solo founder see i don't have enough experience because you know replica was never was like a gigantic company in terms of having like thousands of employees because i think executives of like a an executive of a 100 person company is very different from like an executive at a 10 person company or a thousand person company and more so these are completely different skills i think if you have a company with a gigantic headcount then you actually have to have people with somewhat probably knowledge of how to manage things but if executive by executives we just mean people who can run like a small team and get shit done then you just want these people that you know are super high agency people that are aligned with your vision and can get stuff done and have enough skills to do that and then basically they just become with us it always grew organically i always just said whoever wants to like if you if you want to you just go and take it you go ahead and become it and pretty much like people just grew inside replica um we had at replica we had people grow from from the inside like it was just okay well i'm the person with most agency i want to get stuff done everyone just kind of start to report to that person organically and then we just would give a title i don't know if that's correct i'm sure that's incorrect if you have a thousand person company but with replica at a hundred person company it sort of worked um but now i think we're really entering the era where especially in software you can build huge companies with a very small headcount um and again like looking at cursor with like 200 people, I guess, or 250 people, and building it to a very big company with a very small, like 30 or 35 people, I think this is the new era.

1:06:36Eugenia Kuyda:And so the question is, I think we could build Wabi as a 20, 30 person company. And another thing that we're trying out with Wabi is to not hire everyone to the core team. So keep the core team as small as possible. And if you need to, and insanely high quality as possible, and if you need a person who is just doing like one thing okay well you need a motion designer but he's not really like doing like response he's not really responsible for the product is going or just just an example or like a some specific person that's doing a very specific task then get them as a contractor but not and don't add them to the core team for example like that also could work i think but just by keeping the core team small and very like really just like the an insane like a real madrid type team when where everyone knows each other and it's like moving very fast and um and i think in person is very important even if you have a team that mostly works remote just getting people in person uh for at least a week at a time is critical were both companies in person from the get-go or so replica was in person in the beginning during COVID became remote and hiring remotely was hard because it was the first wave of hiring remotely.

1:07:53Eugenia Kuyda:No one did it before. And with Wabi, we kind of decided that we're going to do it in person. So it's mostly in person here in San Francisco. Nice. The contractor thing is really big. It feels like everybody sort of has had this awakening where they realize, wow, we don't actually need some people full time. And in fact, like they might not even want to be full time. Some of the best people you might not even be able to get full-time and you might not need them. So it's really interesting to see how that's developing. And I think that there's just so much merit and sort of figure out how you can rent people's time who are really great, but maybe you don't actually need them full-time.

1:08:28Eugenia Kuyda:Yeah, and I think things break when companies grow. Like there's this common knowledge that teams change very dramatically like anytime you multiply by three. So like 10 people is one thing. Everything changes when it becomes 30. and then everything changes again when it becomes 100 and uh and then you know more and more more but at least with these numbers i agree 100 it's like one thing was 10 people everyone can be on a call everyone can know everything it's like the whole team is like one organism almost 30 all of a sudden some people don't know stuff and you've got to figure out some other processes you can't just be like this ad hoc like okay let's talk now everything gets done the next three days whatever and 100 again like that then you need to have some sort of management system or otherwise it becomes becomes a complete chaos um but i think there's you can you can do so much more stuff done paradoxically with like a 10 insane people or 15 insane people versus 30 like somehow i don't know just people feel again feel like they are the authors of this they feel like it's fully this is mine versus when like more people join us like well i'm just working it makes that makes a lot of sense i guess last last two questions for you the first one i i you know i know that you're a solo founder you've talked a little bit about sort of how you think that solo founding isn't the only path we don't think that either we think that solo founding is just solo founding is just a valid path um i'm curious if you could make sort of a bear case for solo founding or sort of say why some people shouldn't be solo founders well i think it's very lonely i think starting company by yourself especially when when like shit hits the fan it's really not fun and you kind of don't have anyone to bitch to about it how have you dealt with that um poorly we've had some we've had some of our really hard years and i think uh to make it worse i think that year also coincided with me being pregnant for the first time or for the second time so i had like a toddler at home and I was pregnant and it was just awful.

1:10:32Eugenia Kuyda:The whole thing was awful. Yeah, I felt like many times I just want to crawl in the corner and die, kind of that type feeling. And it almost felt like every morning you'd wake up and say, okay, what horrible thing happened today? This is a really bad way to start your day. Yeah, to not have anyone to really have a conversation about it in a way that they'll fully understand. I think you truly get it with co-founders. Like they're somehow, even although your early team, your founding team is as invested in a way, but you kind of can't have the conversation with them. I found maybe some other people can.

1:11:08Like I found like that's kind of like they, you just trust them out and then they start looking at, oh, like, should I even work here?

1:11:16Eugenia Kuyda:Versus co-founders that kind of like assume that this is it, like we're married. You have to stick it out. and so that was a little bit hard I think just to have that emotional yeah our investor in Wabi Bill Lee came up with this phrase that like being a founder is like constantly eating glass and staring into abyss you know it's a very being a founder is an incredible opportunity and like I'm so grateful there's that I have this opportunity to do that so it's probably a very arrogant thing to say but still it is kind of eating glass and staring to this quite a bit of time and especially when you have doubts like if you have doubts and fears you don't want to bring this to your founding team but you could bring this to the co-founder so having said that you know find some friends and talk to them so that was a very that's a very good reason uh for somebody to maybe be hesitant or think twice about you know being a solo founder um very valid one person that I talked to recently they said uh the question that you didn't ask me about is what it's like to to start crying uh in the middle in the middle of the day uh when something bad happens and just realize that there's nobody around um there's no co-founder to talk to and I said wow he's he's right like there is there is really something there it's like it's deeply emotional you kind of feel like you have to crawl into the corner and I mean that leads me to the next question which is you're doing this again as a solo founder so obviously there is there's some merit to it um instead of and you you just talked about that loneliness and that challenge right what's the case for solo founding in your mind i just didn't have a you know i think if i had an incredible co-founder that i thought of oh my god this is the person that i want to do it with maybe i would have done it i just didn't have like anyone that i was felt like oh they're like Like equally, you know, I don't know.

1:13:14Eugenia Kuyda:Like I just didn't have a person that felt like right as a co-founder. But I did have a lot of people that felt right as the founding team. And I was able to pay them. So what was the point of like making them take like some co-founder pay cut? You know, a lot of the co-founding parts like, well, you start to work for free. But I could pay them. You know, I didn't have to ask them to work for free. So that was one thing. And I had a team. so i wanted all of them to have meaningful equity but i couldn't make all of them co-founders um if you have like a seven person team for example although a lot of some of the big i labs have seven co-founders recently so i guess it's like the new the new uh thing um so for me it was just like well it's like why didn't you get married well i didn't have a good husband it was not the fact that i didn't want to get married or something so this is kind of the case here but also i have uh i'm not scared of i wasn't scared of it in fact like or i am scared of things but i'm very very afraid of being afraid i don't want to be scared you know that's that's kind of my my jam and i think over time i have pretty high pain tolerance and um i don't give up so i don't need someone yes i'll cry and i'll be like upset i don't cry though that much but i can you know get very very sad and very scared but i know i don't give up i'm like not a person that just like will ever give up i have some survivor i'm kind of like a survivor in that so yeah maybe i won't have a person to cry with but i know i will continue and i won't give up but i don't know if other people are not going to give up you know what i mean so i don't want to test it out i know that i with replica you know we have so many times that we should have probably given up we were running out of money we didn't have any money we are the bank with all our money closed uh we didn't have we didn't know what we're doing no one else was into ai everyone's thought that you know there won't be any language models or deep learning is a deep is a you know is a dead end for for dialect generation there were so many times like when we were totally well you know no one believed in it and i was like well i'm i had my faith i have my conviction i'm going to continue going i think most co-founders probably would have dropped off at that point and so i don't want to test it out again i think i'll go further than than anyone i just like giving up is kind of not an option or as just as much as like losing another thing if i lose conviction or like lose faith but as long as i have it like there's no way for me like it just doesn't exist that the other way doesn't exist that's amazing well thank you for for doing this great thank you so much for inviting me it was really fun and yeah i hope more people will start thinking hard before deciding whether they're gonna have or not have co-founders totally

From the publisher

Eugenia Kuyda has spent over a decade building at the frontier of AI consumer products. First by founding Replika in 2014, hitting 30M users in conversational AI before ChatGPT even existed. Now, building Wabi: giving everyone the ability to build personal software. In this episode, she breaks down why she’s repeatedly chosen the solo founder path, why “co-founders by pressure” create long-term damage, and what it actually takes to keep going when things get brutally hard.


This is a conversation about conviction, authorship, loneliness, team-building, and the emotional reality of leading through uncertainty. Eugenia shares the difference between being truly solo vs. being isolated, why she treats founding as a team sport anyway, and how she thinks about hiring high-agency people who can operate like owners.

Topics covered

- Why many “co-founder” setups are functionally one decision-maker anyway
- The risk of “co-founder by default” decisions
- Why it’s better to be solo than misaligned at the top
- Streamlining your startup's layers from three down to two by removing co-founders
- Storytelling as a core founder advantage
- Team-building without co-founder hierarchy
- The emotional bear case for solo founding
- The speed and clarity bull case for solo founding

Guest: Eugenia Kuyda — founder and CEO behind visionary AI products like Replika and Wabi.

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