Comedy Cellar Booker - Estee Adoram

15 Apr 2026 · 50 min · 26 chapters

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In short

Estee Adoram, long-time booker/gatekeeper of The Comedy Cellar, explains how she books auditions, what makes comics succeed, and how she manages risk, taste, and audience reaction.

Guest backgrounds

Estee Adoram has worked at/around The Comedy Cellar since the early 1980s (started hosting in 1982; booking grew through the mid-80s). Michael Che calls her “the mother of New York comedy.” Noam Dwarman (Comedy Cellar owner) is referenced from a prior episode.

Key claims

She’s the “doorman” who decides who gets on stage, but she doesn’t feel power as pressure. Comics should trust real audience feedback: “You think you killed? No, you did not.” She prioritizes merit, not politics or personal relationships, and uses crowd reaction, confidence, and material quality in a short audition. She discourages misleading recommendations; if a comic isn’t ready, it “opens them for hurt.”

Notable examples

A recommended comic physically cried after bombing; Mateo Lane once threatened “lasagna” if a comic failed. She cites a strict “three drinks maximum” rule. She describes Chappelle destroying a tiny late-night room at age 18, and says she can’t reliably predict future superstars—timing/opportunity matter.

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Chapters

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The Power and Influence of a Comedy Booker

0:46 to 2:15

Estee discusses her influence over comedians and the comedy scene.

“What is it like having this kind of power and influence?”

Estee's Journey in Comedy Booking

2:16 to 4:40

Estee shares her story and evolution as the booker for the Comedy Cellar.

“Comics speak about how nerve-wracking it is to perform when you're watching.”

Building the Comedy Cellar's Success

4:41 to 7:50

Estee reflects on the challenges and milestones in growing the Comedy Cellar.

“That would have happened gradually, you know.”

Adapting to Changes in the Comedy Scene

7:51 to 11:33

Discussion about the evolution of the Comedy Cellar and future plans.

“It was really trying to promote it the best way you could.”

Booking Strategies and Insights

11:34 to 14:00

Estee explains her approach to booking comics and managing shows.

“And then when Noam took over, you know, he opened the Village Underground, which I was scared.”

The Booking Process Explained

14:00 to 14:46

Learn about the nuances of the booking process at a comedy club.

“Some better than others, but they're all good.”

The Role of Recommendations

14:46 to 16:00

Understand the importance of recommendations in comedy auditions.

“so you get first dibs at everyone's availabilities?”

The Pressure of Comedy Auditions

16:00 to 17:00

Explore the emotional weight and pressure faced by comedians during auditions.

“The rule is, let's say a comedian that works a club recommends somebody.”

The Importance of Readiness

17:00 to 21:08

Discover why being unprepared for a comedy audition can be harmful.

“I turned around, I looked at Mateo, and he goes, when was that coming up?”

The Impact of Nervousness

21:08 to 21:48

Nervousness can significantly affect a comedian's performance.

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The Elements of a Successful Show

21:48 to 23:05

Learn about the various factors contributing to a successful comedy show.

“We have at the club a rule of three drinks maximum.”

Understanding Comic Taste

23:05 to 24:18

Explore how different tastes in comedy can affect bookings.

“I always hesitate to say it because I don't want to brag, but John Apatow told me.”

The Auditioning Comic's Journey

24:18 to 27:21

Follow the progression of a comic through auditions and shows.

“You've got your notepad and you're taking notes.”

Balancing the Show Lineup

27:21 to 28:00

Understand how to create a balanced lineup for comedy shows.

“Well, you look at the availability and then you have some people, Andrew Schultz, for instance, He is very specific on the times that he does.”

Building a Balanced Comedy Show

28:00 to 30:22

Learn how to curate a comedy show that balances different artists and styles.

“Then we have Chris Turner who does the British rap.”

Identifying Rising Stars in Comedy

30:23 to 33:06

Discover what traits can indicate a comedian's potential for stardom.

“What do they all have in common that you can detect in the first, second, third set?”

Handling Unsuccessful Comics

33:07 to 35:28

Explore how bookers deal with comics who do not meet performance expectations.

“I'm sure that comic would actually love to hear that, though.”

Behavioral Standards in Comedy

35:29 to 37:40

Understand the importance of professionalism and decorum on stage.

“So they've got to be truthful to themselves.”

The Passion for Stand-Up Comedy

37:41 to 40:36

Learn about the difference between comics who pursue comedy for passion versus those seeking fame.

“doing this with a head And I remember asking Bill Grant, I said, what is that?”

Merit-Based Booking Practices

40:37 to 42:01

Discover the principles behind booking comedians based on merit and talent.

“The thing that nobody understands about booking comedy is...”

Comparing Comedy Bookers

42:01 to 43:19

Learn about Esty's views on her relationships with other comedy bookers.

“I'm a little, I became a little tougher than he when it comes.”

Esty's Passion for Sports

43:20 to 44:11

Discover Esty's love for sports and how she follows the business side of athletics.

“He is the only one that I have a relationship with.”

The Allure of Sports Business

44:12 to 45:28

Explore Esty's fascination with sports business insights and player trades.

“Oh, I just read and listen, and I drive, and I don't listen to music.”

The Bravery of Comedians

45:29 to 46:45

Hear Esty's admiration for comedians and the courage it takes to perform.

“I have been absolutely intoxicated with everything that you're telling me today.”

Direct Relationships in Comedy

46:46 to 49:11

Understand how Esty interacts directly with comedians rather than through agents.

“and they're very brave, especially women, because, you know, Lynn Couplets, I don't know if you ever saw it, hilarious.”

Future of Comedy Cellar

49:12 to 50:04

Speculate on the evolution of the Comedy Cellar and its future direction.

“Where the comedy cell has evolved so much over 30, 40 years.”
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0:00When they shake my hand, they literally tremble and they sweat the palms away. I had once a guy that after the audition, he didn't do well and he knew it. He came up, put his hair down and physically cried. I understand that there's a lot riding on this audition and the people are nervous.

0:19Luke Girgis:That would be scary as shit. Estee Adoram, for more than 40 years, she's watched comedians step onto one of the most intimidating stages in the world. Some of them become legends. Most of them disappear. But when you've spent decades watching thousands of performers chase the same dream, you begin to notice something, a moment, a spark. The thing that tells you someone might just become the next global superstar. The booker of the comedy cellar, the most iconic comedy club in the world for decades. Michael Che has called you the mother of New York comedy. What is it like having this kind of power and influence?

0:51They know that I am sort of the gatekeeper. I'm the doorman, the one to the club, you're going in or not. I always said to the comics, listen to the audience. You think you killed? No, you did not.

1:02Luke Girgis:Noam told us on the podcast that he did with us that you guys turn away 20 ,000 people a week. It was a hustle. Judd Apatow told me, you are good because you have a good taste. The laughter is universal. If I go to foreign country and I don't speak the language and I walk in, I can tell you who is a good comic. Comedy is the hardest and most scariest art form there is. What do you think is the consistent thing that you see very early on in the careers of these artists that go up to be global superstars? What advice do you have for comics that haven't quite hit the cellar yet? That's very good advice.

1:40Luke Girgis:I think every comic needs to hear this. Today I interviewed Esty, the infamous booker of the Comedy Cellar. And we also interviewed the owner of the Comedy Cellar a few episodes ago, Noam Dwarman. and it got quite a lot of views on YouTube and not a lot of subscribers. So if you watch that episode, if you're watching this episode, you're watching it on YouTube, please hit subscribe. And if you really want to get in the weeds, we have a sub stack where most of our work is done on theblackhoody.com. That's for the real nerds. If you're a YouTube viewer, please subscribe. It helps with the algorithm.

2:11Luke Girgis:It helps us get cooler guests. Enjoy. Esty. Hi. Hello. You've been the booker of the comedy seller, the most iconic comedy club in the world for decades. Comics speak about how nerve-wracking it is to perform when you're watching. Michael Che has called you the mother of New York comedy and said no matter how famous comics get, they come back to the cellar because of you. You are feared and loved and hold the keys to giving comics their dream performing spot at the cellar. What is it like having this kind of power and influence? Does it weigh on you? Not at all. I really don't I don't think about it the way they do

3:00once in a while when I'll go down when the famous big comic goes on no no no don't come down that's almost shocking to me that they feel that way

3:19I don't know why it's in their head it's not in mine I don't look at it this way I don't feel that way

3:29Luke Girgis:so why do you think the comics get so nervous to perform in front of you I think well the big comics I really can't answer the ones that are trying to make it they know that I am sort of the gatekeeper the door, I'm the doorman the one to the club, you're going in or not and that's the major factor of why they would be intimidated I think that's I don't want to take the credit that all those people are giving me. Because it's really them. I just give them an opportunity to get on stage. And you never know who is in the club or who is watching them. You know what I mean? And so I think it's much to do about nothing.

4:35Luke Girgis:I really don't feel that. So I'd love to hear about your story. Take me back to the beginning and how you ended up becoming this mother of New York comedy and this very powerful figure in the scene. That would have happened gradually, you know. So I just wonder how that story has unfolded from the very start of your work at the Comedy Cellar. I started hosting the comedy setter. There was a relationship between my husband and the owner then, many, many of them. And so after I had my child, I got part-time job hosting. And I've been around since. and every time somebody either left or quit or died, I got part of their job.

5:35And it started growing. Bill Grunfuss, who started the Comedy Cellar, was moving to L.A. He was the head writer for Made About You, Paul Reiser's show. And because I've been around the comedy scene all this time from the beginning to that point,

5:59And many asked me to start booking it. And, of course, it was one show during the week, continued show, two shows on the weekend. So it wasn't this. And what year was this? This was in, I started in 82, so I would say, I don't know. 84, 85, something like that.

6:31And it just, you know, just was growing. Then another show was added and another show. It was a really difficult time at first because we were downtown. All the other clubs like Catch, you know, Catch was the club I envied the most. They had the best comics, and they were all uptown. Industry didn't want to come downtown. And the comics that wanted to be seen by industry stayed up there. So it was a hustle. It was, you know, I always tell, we had the waitstaff take the aprons off and sit at the tables to make the room look busy. Now, thank God, we're selling two weeks in advance before I even booked the show.

7:26Luke Girgis:Noam told us on the podcast that he did with us that you guys turn away 20 ,000 people a week. Yeah. That's a big change from taking off aprons and sitting in front of the crowd. But it's like a baby that starts walking. You don't start running. It's step by step by step. And there were all kinds of steps in the middle of making flyers. And I took one of our servers with my car and went to every hotel to talk to concierge and give them flyer and book the show for concierge so they could see. It was really trying to promote it the best way you could. While we were, you know, it was a struggle. can you do a little exercise with me i'm just just as you're talking i'm kind of thinking something i'd like to draw a bit of a timeline um as you're talking so we're saying here at 85 you take over 84 i'm really bad at this but i started in 82 so like within maybe a couple years i think so here we have people if we look at this about like demand let's call it demand like the amount of people in the room every week right and then this is the time down the bottom So you've got demand on here.

8:44But don't forget, we didn't have all the other rooms. We had only one room on Maduga Street.

8:49Luke Girgis:So here at 85-ish, you're taking off aprons and you're sitting in the crowds that sort of padded out and you've got one room. Yeah.

9:06Luke Girgis:What's the next milestone as we go across this timeline?

9:13Well, I remember we would pay some comedians taxi fare so they come from uptown, downtown, starting to get them down.

9:26Luke Girgis:It's just... So was that a big case? Now you're just going to start getting better comics because you're covering their first? Well, that was a couple of them. We didn't do it on a big scale, but it was just trying to get comics and the philosophy of booking it. Because I remember many, may he rest in peace, that was especially mad.

9:58He was really upset that the middle of the week, the shows were not as good as the weekend. The comics, the better comics that work the weekend would work on the weekdays and stuff like this. If you want to work the weekend, you have to work also midweek. So between this and that and all other little things, it just started to work a little bit better. But it still was.

10:27Luke Girgis:What year would you say was the biggest jump? Not year, decade. Like, give me sort of some key things where you're like, oh, this is starting to work now. There must have been a moment where you feel like the tide has shifted.

10:41I don't know. It just, it's smoothly sort of, I cannot give you time. I'm really bad at this. Yes, okay. I'm really bad. Two weeks ago, I cannot tell you. You know, I'm not good at times or dates or anything like that. It was like labor. Everything, oh, my God, PR and listings and everything just to try to build it up. And then eventually the weekends were really good, and we added a third show, and I was horrified. I remember telling to many, oh, my God, I feel like I'm packing, unpacking, unpacking. Do you know how many shows we have now? Tell me. There's a lot. Yeah. I was trying to work it out.

11:33There's like 12 shows a night. Amazing. Across how many rooms? With that. And then when Noam took over, you know, he opened the Village Underground, which I was scared. I did not know how this is going to be. I never had the ability to visualize to what it can be. I didn't see it. I was very fearful.

12:03Luke Girgis:And I'm comparing that emotion to last night when Noam and I took us through the new venue you guys are opening across from Luna. How gorgeous is that? It might be the best comic room. I've never seen a nicer one. I really truly have not seen a nicer room. Yes, it might be the best room in the world when it opens. Like it looks unbelievable. And I was asking you as we're walking over, I said, so is this going to be a lot of extra work for you now? This is a whole other room you've got to start booking. And you didn't give a shit. It's a very different reaction. By now it's – I don't – on the holidays, between, let's say, Christmas and New Year's, we have a holiday show every single night.

12:53I book 135 or 6 shows a week. I don't think anybody has ever done that. So another four or five shows, come on.

13:05Luke Girgis:And how do you see this new venue fitting in your portfolio? I mean, we both saw it, right? This is like nothing. It's incredible. I don't see any difference. That's another thing. When I book the rooms, and a lot of clubs do that, the small room, the back room, the main room, there's no such thing. Every room, when I book it, I approach it the same way. Who are the best people to get on X, Y, and Z? And it doesn't matter which room it is. now obviously if they're gonna do tapings and filming whatever that's a whole different story but as far as booking individual shows that's what i do because i get three four hundred emails a week with availabilities with availabilities oh yes there's a lot of people A lot of really good people.

14:08Some better than others, but they're all good. Otherwise, they wouldn't be working. And I just have to make it small. Friday, the 6 o 'clock show. Everything goes away. I just concentrate on that show. And that's how I go show by show by show. How long does that process take you? By now, it's not as much as you would think. Because it's a muscle, you know? Not as much as you think. But yeah, it takes me a couple of days.

14:45Luke Girgis:And do you feel like it's your job is easier because your clubs are the most desired so you get first dibs at everyone's availabilities? Is that the impression that you get when you talk to the comics? No, my job is easier because of YouTube and whatever. the beginning when I started, and a new comic would approach us, I had to see a tape and two people that would recommend that person. And I would sit and watch those tapes. And then, if I like it, if I thought this is going somewhere, I would invite them for an audition. Now with YouTube, I still need recommendations. but with the YouTube, it's like one click, and I get an idea of the person, what it does or not.

15:41So that makes it so much easier, you know? I could not handle the 300 tapes a week.

15:54Luke Girgis:And so you still need recommendations now? Yes.

16:01Not, yeah. Yeah. The rule is, let's say a comedian that works a club recommends somebody. I don't need two people. If I have a question about it, then I'll ask somebody else. But they know me. I know them. I know who to trust, who has a good taste or not. It's a matter of good taste, booking. Tell your story. By recommendations and whatever. Mateo Lane recommended a comic. And, oh, he's great and he's building him up or whatever. He says, if he doesn't do well, I'm making you lasagna. You know, he came up with a cookbook now. I'm making you lasagna. I said, okay, you stay in the hallway. I want you there next to me when the guy auditioned.

16:56And so he said, okay. He stands in the hallway. the guy ate it. Oh, no. I mean, really, it was... No gray area. I didn't say anything. I turned around, I looked at Mateo, and he goes, when was that coming up?

17:18Luke Girgis:Oh, the poor coming. Did he get another chance? No. Oh, right. He never even... A couple of times, he email the belles, whatever. No. If you have five minutes, it's up to you to pick the best impressive five minutes you have. If you don't, it's on you. Yeah, yeah. How was the lasagna? It was delicious. No downside. It was delicious. I mean, I have a couple of stories where I audition people by recommendation of somebody, and they don't. if I suspect that they're not going to do, I ask the comic to be next to me. So this way, you know, I don't feel bad. You saw. And also, I feel like that would allow them, it kind of puts them on notice to not recommend again unless they're certain.

18:12Luke Girgis:Exactly. Yeah. And the truth of the matter is that I have some people that I trust the recommendation. And some people... They're good comics for not good taste. My question is, are you doing a favor for them or are you doing a favor for me and the club? Where are we? This is a real curiosity for me because if you look at all art, someone like Eminem, best rapper to have ever lived. I think he's got terrible taste in rappers. Most of the rappers he saw in are garbage. And there's always a disconnect between, not always, but a lot of times there's a disconnect between the best artists in the world.

18:53Luke Girgis:and who they endorse. Do you see that a lot in the clubs?

19:00No, because it's one-on-one. If they mislead me, because that's what it really is, you know that the guy is not good. Don't send him over. Because what they're doing, they're setting them up. They're setting me up and they're setting their friend for hurt. I had once a guy that after the audition, he didn't do well and he knew it. He came up, set the table next to the comedian table, put his head down and physically cried. Why would you do this to somebody like that? I went over, I put my arm around him. I felt so bad. I said, look, in six months or so, we'll try it again. I was trying to somehow, devastating.

19:58When they shake my hand, they literally tremble and they sweat. The palms are wet. It is, I understand that there's a lot riding on this audition. And the people are nervous. And when they say, oh, Esty's the most fearful, fear of that, whatever. No, it's not. That really bothers me, by the way. It bothers you. Yeah. Because I try to be very compassionate, understanding, whatever. But don't mislead me. It's not going to change my opinion. You've got to be truthful. If you think that that guy is great, I want to hear from you. But don't know, yeah, I have a way with that thing. I can put you on stage.

20:49And then what?

20:50Luke Girgis:Yeah. that's that's very good advice i think every comic needs to hear this it's super important because because i love what you said about it it's actually you think you're being kind by hooking your friend up you're actually being unkind if they're not ready horrible horrible you are opening the guy for hurt who knows lack of the confidence is shaking everything is shaking yeah what did you accomplish and if they were going to be ready in three months now you've sent them back 12 months exactly it's going to take them longer to get back exactly yeah exactly and and i wish that people would look at it the way it is it's not like oh i know do you know a good jeweler send me a good jeweler yeah it's not the same thing it's going to be a merit of the performance if the guy is not good well he was nervous oh the crowd was terrible all the no no No.

21:48When they come off, I said, how was it? And they say, you know what? They're drunk. I said, no, they're not drunk. We have at the club a rule of three drinks maximum. Do you know that? We are the only club that does it. It's two drink minimum, three drink maximum. If somebody wants a fourth drink, a manager has to go over, check the table, check them, and approve or not approve the fourth drink. So we try not to get you drunk. I had no idea about that. Yeah, we do that. Yeah, wow. We do that. Yeah. Look, there's all those little things. success is not just the show although they come from the show but it's the temperature of the room, the light when we used to go to Leatherman taping it was so freezing there in the studio everybody would make jokes about it but that keeps you alert, not falling asleep as an orient so all those little things are very important to a successful show, those are ingredients You know, you put good ingredients, a good thing comes out.

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23:04And, of course, the comedians. That's the main thing. Describe your taste. I always hesitate to say it because I don't want to brag, but John Apatow told me.

23:15Luke Girgis:Okay. He said to me, you are good because you have a good taste. Yeah. And so my taste would be different from yours and somebody else. But laughter is universal. awesome i remember many one said to me if i go to foreign country and i don't speak the language and i walk in i can tell you who is a good comic because everybody was laughing and and that's the main thing are they laughing and they entertain is on a certain level there's certain you know i mean so it sounds like you're an analyst Like you're looking at the data of reactions rather than... The reaction is the main thing. I want people to have a good time.

24:00What else is there? There's no politics. There is no... None of it. None of it. You are there on your own merit. And you've got to... Not don't impress me. Impress the audience.

24:17Luke Girgis:So does that mean when you're sitting in the corner watching a new comic, You've got your notepad and you're taking notes. I sit at the front door, not in the corner. Okay. I don't have a notebook. Okay. I am in your face. That would be scary as shit. But that's what I do. Okay. If you cannot handle it, you're in the wrong business. Okay. So you're in the front row watching the comic. Not front row. The door. The door. Sorry. Yeah. You're at the door. How and your – I'm just trying to think about your checklist and what the things you're looking for. Are you looking mostly at the material or are you looking at the crowd?

24:57Luke Girgis:Both. Okay. Both. I want to know how confident the comic is, how he handles himself. If a joke doesn't go over, what does he do? So this you can tell right away, the way they handle themselves on stage. and then they'll say something really funny and the crowd doesn't react. I would look at the crowd like, or the other way around. They are laughing and I'm looking, what the hell are you laughing at? You know, but you get, it's like a seed of what that comic is going to do if I'm giving them a regular set. And most people say, oh, did I pass? Didn't I pass? I didn't do that. I don't pass people.

25:50I get the impression on the audition for five minutes how they handle themselves, how confident they are, and the material. If you have five minutes and you come up with the bathroom jokes, no. There's got to be something there.

26:10Luke Girgis:What happens if the crowd just loves those jokes?

26:17there is i'm not talking about being doing clean comedy but there's a difference you can be um risque as long as you're not vulgar as long as you so if you choose something vulgar in those five minutes it's no good i i don't want to represent the club that way okay you know and

26:42Luke Girgis:And also, does it feel like an easy laugh to you? Or does it just feel bad? Yeah, but the thing is, we have some comics that work a little bit blue and they're doing great. I just have to keep in mind if I book them, where I put them. So I want to get the essence of the comic in those five minutes. And then I'll give them a couple. If I think that there is something, I'll give them a few spots and follow up and see how they do. If they're great, wonderful, welcome. If not, I'm going to start pulling back. And do you have a hierarchy in times and rooms for how a comic progresses based on? Yes. Okay, explain how that works.

27:32Well, you look at the availability and then you have some people, Andrew Schultz, for instance, He is very specific on the times that he does. Margaret Birlia, Michael Chey. People that require or request at certain times. I'm going to put them in the place. Then we have Chris Turner who does the British rap. He almost won the AGT, the whole thing. He came second to a singer.

28:16I cannot put him in the middle of the show because who's going to follow that? The music and the rap and whatever. So you take, he does that, he does that, and build the show around that. And then the next thing is I want a balance. so if I use I want people to identify with the artist so if it's a question of ethnic or gender or politics or whatever they do you want to balance it so that's the second thing in the ideal world it all falls into place if not you just have to start

29:03Luke Girgis:working with it okay and so you've obviously seen chappelle and stewart and heart i met chappelle he was 18 years old at 3 a.m in the morning he came to the olive tree he was eating and another comic came to me says you see that kid i saw him in dc he's from worship and he's really funny. So I went over to him and introduced myself and I asked him, he said, would you mind to do a few minutes for me? He said, sure. He got up. There was maybe 10 people in the room. I mean, it was just like end of the night, 3 a.m. And he destroyed. And I remember I called my boss, Manny, in the middle of the night.

29:56I called him and I said, I just saw somebody really special. He said, oh, good, great for you. Boom, hanged out on me. I called him in a minute. But I got so excited. When you meet somebody like this, you know it, you see it right away. He was 18.

30:14Luke Girgis:Wow. So what do you think is the consistent thing that you see very early on in the careers of these artists that go up to be global superstars? What do they all have in common that you can detect in the first, second, third set? I cannot tell you how many times I've asked this question. And it's, you sort of, I sense things or whatever, but I cannot, without lying, tell you that I know. I do not know. And some people became huge and I wouldn't know why. And some people that I think they should be huge go nowhere. And I cannot tell you. I don't know if it's opportunity or timing or to be seen at the right place at the right time.

31:04I don't know why. It's maybe a combination of all of it. But some people just, like a chapelle, you can tell right away. I remember Chris Rock, David Tell, all those guys used to do our late night. Late, late, late night. and then suddenly they shoot to this grand, you know. It's a, I don't know that anybody can really say. I would feel very uncomfortable to predict, oh, this man is. Although there's a couple of people now that I, in my head, I said, this guy's going places. Just based on my experience. Okay. You know, 44 years.

31:50Luke Girgis:Yeah. You sort of learn to smell it. So what comics right now have the world not heard about that you think could be the next? I really, I'm not comfortable even saying it. Okay. But I think so. I think so. So I think that there is something about their confidence and their appearance and the twinkle in the eye and the smile that's going to make it attractive and appealing to whoever is looking either to cast them in a movie. I have a guy that, again, no names, that is here like maybe only three, four months. he already got a movie. And you knew it? I kept saying that this guy is going places.

32:46You can tell.

32:48Luke Girgis:Yeah. You can tell the charisma. So, Esty, what about the other side of it? Has there been a time where you've gone, oh, I don't get this comic, and they proved you wrong? Yes. Can you share who that is? No. I really don't. I feel very uncomfortable. But absolutely, 100%. I'm sure that comic would actually love to hear that, though. No. You don't think so? Uh-uh. Okay. I'll tell you later. Okay, sounds good. I'm really very – they trust me, I trust them, and I don't want to, you know, paint it in any – Has there ever been a comic at the cellar that you've asked to not come back anymore? Have you kicked anyone out for any reason?

33:41No, I just stop booking them or slow it down and then stop. And then I get those emails. Boo-hoo.

33:53And a couple of them I actually sat down and told them why. and oh okay I'll write and I'll do and then I'll get another email down the road from the same person and say well I always thought that you are such a fair booker and so how come you didn't you know you don't book me and and I cannot beyond you have a manager you have an agent those are the people that need to give you direction not me I have one job and this is to produce the best show I can for the comedy seller I am very very friendly with most of the comics in the club and outside but as far as their careers careers are concerned this is not up to me I would be very uncomfortable I got an email from somebody He says, I don't understand why you're not booking me.

35:02I kill every single time, and my stuff is so original. If you kill every, that means that for 44 years, I'm not doing a good job. If I'm not booking somebody that kills, learn to listen. I always say to the comics, listen to the audience, listen to the feedback. You think you killed? No, you did not. So they've got to be truthful to themselves. And this bothers me a lot. It really bothers me because it's such an obvious thing. It's there. It's not... Real-time feedback. Exactly. And if they laugh, good. If they didn't, don't tell me that you killed.

35:59Luke Girgis:is underperformance the only reason why you'd pull back on a comic? Are there other material, political behavior reasons why you've done it? Throughout the years, there was some incident here and there that the behavior was bad. And I can tell you how many chances, and that comes from Noah, how many chances he would give to somebody that misbehaves really badly. But after a while, after years of those second chances, enough is enough. And so there's only people that maybe can count on one hand that actually we had to do it with, to deal with.

36:46Comedians like anybody else, but maybe more so. is complicated individuals with all kinds of demons. And what I can say to a comedian, we all have a bad day. You had a fight with your wife. Your boyfriend left you. Your dog died. You are really upset. I'd rather you cancel the spot than go on stage and take it out on the audience and your frustration and your pain and all of this stay home you are an entertainer you've got to remember that you never know who is in the audience again without mentioning a name I remember years ago first time I saw a comedian doing this with a head And I remember asking Bill Grant, I said, what is that?

37:49He says, oh, my joke goes over your head. I'm so much smarter than you. So the reaction is that. I was so angry. How dare you do that? In the audience, you have a lawyer, you have a doctor, you have a construction worker, you have a student. you really think that the whole 200 people in the room are lesser than you are? Intelligent wise? To me, this is a huge turn off. Because that person would not accept the reality that maybe your job wasn't that good. And that's why it didn't laugh. and so those are the

38:40individuals that I wouldn't care for or care to work with if they're hilarious I'll tolerate it but my personal feelings are that there is certain decorum that you have to keep on stage

38:57Luke Girgis:what advice do you have for comics that haven't quite hit the cellar yet and they're there because you've seen a lot of comics over 40 years get stuck not move through how do you go to the next level right keep writing right right right right right and

39:18when you and i spoke earlier you told me about your passion if you don't have passion for comedy it's not for you it's a lot of people not maybe a lot but a lot a lot of people they use comedy as stepping stone to get a show a bigger career and then there are comics that no matter how big the careers they are still comics those are the two different and they're the comics everyone loves yeah Dave Chappelle is still a comic Ray Romano is still a comic he puts in like he did before he had these shows and movies and everything he's incredible Chris Rock is still a comic and there are some people that they hit and they make shows and movies and once in the blue moon do a stand-up.

40:22They're not real stand-ups. Like we understand stand-up. There is a distinction. And you can tell. You can tell.

40:35Luke Girgis:Complete this sentence for me. Huh? Complete this sentence for me. I know. Okay. The thing that nobody understands about booking comedy is...

40:51booking a comedy show is a what is the word that i want to use

41:07Luke Girgis:it's not capricious explain that word i didn't do well at school okay it's not i booked a show on merit not because i like you or we had dinner yesterday or whatever it's it's gonna be the pure reason of why I picked this comic and not another one everything equal then I say okay one for you one for you type of thing but the main core it's gotta be merit does that so so then i want to compare yourself to all the other bookers and clubs around the country oh i know you've been to la i know you've seen all the clubs there i know i'm sure you've been austin and you've been to all these places i mentioned that to you there's only one guy that comes to my mind is richard in in magic and comedy club i don't mind to give him the compliment on on bigger form.

42:26That guy is fantastic. He and I agree on most, not all. I'm a little, I became a little tougher than he when it comes. Oh, if he says, this is great. No, it's good, but not great. But I appreciate what he does and the comics he uses and I speak to him or we exchange comics or information or whatever. Yes. Other than that, I really don't work with other people. I don't, I cannot compare myself or I can just say I outlasted them. That's my big.

43:06Luke Girgis:So you don't have a, like a relationship with the other bookers and other clubs in New York? None. Zero. No interest from you or no interest from them? I have no idea. I have no idea. We just don't. Yeah. He is the only one that I have a relationship with. Richard Barnett. I'm giving his last name too. He is a wonderful guy. Really wonderful. Runs the club beautifully. I just appreciate him. I would love to know what Esty loves outside of comedy. What is it that you do when you're not working? I like sports. What sport? Well, number one sport is baseball right now. It's baseball. It's Yankees.

44:01I like the football giants, the Knicks basketball. I like sports. I like the business of sport, not just the sport itself. How do you follow the business of sport? What does that mean? Oh, I just read and listen, and I drive, and I don't listen to music. I listen to the fan. I listen to people that have the insight about deals and this and that. I find it fascinating. I find fascinating what Otani did with the Dodgers. They deferred his money so he can get another picture for the money that they say. I find it really interesting. And it's fun. It's also a form of entertainment.

44:45Luke Girgis:But I just like that. I think I'm the same. I end up listening to the podcast and analysis about the business of the teams that I follow almost more than actually the commentary about the game. Yeah, exactly. What's with that? That doesn't make any sense. It makes all the sense. Why? Because it is entertainment and it's very interesting. It's very tricky. Yeah. Those people are really smart cookies, let me tell you. and some of the players are like that. You know, it just, when business is that big with so much money, it becomes very appealing. Yeah. You know? Yeah. Esty. Yes, my love. I have been absolutely intoxicated with everything that you're telling me today.

45:45Luke Girgis:It's like it's really, really something, And I know that you didn't want to come on the podcast a few times. I asked you a few times. You're like, no, no, no, no. And then I courted you yesterday. No, I tell you, I'll give you a compliment. At least your questions are a little bit different. I get the same questions over and over and over. And I did a podcast a couple of weeks ago, an on-camera, one off-camera. It's just the same. I mean, I cannot reinvent it. Yeah, yeah, yeah. You know what I mean? it is what it is. It's just hard work, dedication, devotion, and love. I love comedians. They are

46:34a higher intellectual level than most people. I believe. I think.

46:45The level of their intelligence and they're very brave, especially women, because, you know, Lynn Couplets, I don't know if you ever saw it, hilarious. She is so funny. She's super crazy, and I don't mind even saying it if she ever hears it. But I found that other female comics do that too. Well, I am 50, I am 55. I said, why are you telling your age? That goes against everything that I know. or shoot you're in show business devouring telling your age might stay in your way they are just open and brave and they just pour it all out i admire it because i am not capable of doing it i would keep it close to my best and they just go for it i do think comedy is

47:44Luke Girgis:the hardest and most scariest art form there is another thing is don't forget the writing they write they don't read somebody's script yeah they are naked on that stage because they talk about their lives a lot of them do they talk about their politics they talk about They are just opening up. And that's very intimidating to me. Very intimidating to be that open. And for that, I love them. I love them. I appreciate them more than I can tell. Is your professional relationship more interfacing with their agents and managers or them directly? Directly. there's a few of them that are managers that I know throughout the years and if they'll email me they have a client I would love you to take a look tell me what you think they don't want me to tell them what I think they want them to be booked that's the language but on the most part is once I start working with them it's 100 % directly.

49:07I don't want to have a broken phone. You know? She said, can you do that? No.

49:16Luke Girgis:Where the comedy cell has evolved so much over 30, 40 years. Yeah. What's the next decade going to look like? What's the next evolution of the comedy cell? Well, again, I am not a tarot card reader, but the way we're going and the way Noam is holding the reins steering the horses in the right direction we do a lot of filming TV it became this thing now you know what I mean so who knows sky is the limit your showbiz baby esti i have absolutely loved our chat i'm so grateful for you coming thank you so much my pleasure thank you thank you oh i'm back i don't take breaks the world need more hope i pray it ain't too late i don't know what the plot is

From the publisher

Estee Adoram has been the booker of the Comedy Cellar for more than 40 years. Luke Girgis and Estee Adoram discuss how the Cellar grew from one show a night in a basement nobody wanted to visit into the most iconic comedy club in the world.
They cover the recommendation system that controls who gets an audition, why Estee has never formally "passed" a comic, the distinction between real comics and career comics, and the new venue being built across from the Blue Note that could become the best comedy room on the planet.Luke Girgis is the founder and host of theblackhoody.com, a Substack publication and podcast for senior executives in the music and comedy industries.
Luke Girgis also runs Be Like Children, an artist management company, and has spent 20 years working as an artist manager.
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