In short
Smart purchasing decisions and how to keep spending sustainable—using budgets, automation, and avoiding interest-based “affordable” payments. The episode argues against “scraping by” trends and against lifestyle inflation, credit-card carry balances, and buy-now-pay-later plans.
Guests
Andrew (co-host/guest). Background: self-described very frugal; grew up frugal, later overspent (e.g., expensive Affliction shirts), then swung back after financial anxiety/shame. Uses spreadsheets/notes, fun-money buckets, and separate savings accounts for clothes; automates investing and transfers; avoids treating credit cards as a budget.
Key claims
Purchases should fit an intentional budget (including saving buckets for large items), not pull from needs/emergency funds. Automation reduces willpower and anxiety. Avoid monthly-payment traps (e.g., furniture financing, “$24/month instead of $160”). Ensure needs remain affordable after purchases.
Notable examples
Shop Pay/Shopify (one-click checkout); Ashley Furniture/36-month financing; Amazon “$24/month” option; Netflix/Hulu/Spotify subscription accumulation; Christmas gift overages; car maintenance fund via separate account.
Written by AI. May contain mistakes. Listen to the episode to check what was said.
Chapters
Tap a time to open that second in VOConfronting Predatory Lending
0:45 to 0:57
Discussing the impact of predatory lending and financial anxiety.
“See, less carts go abandoned and more sales go with Shopify and their shop pay button.”
Confronting Predatory Lending
2:00 to 2:55
Discussing the impact of predatory lending and financial anxiety.
The Value of Thoughtful Purchases
2:55 to 3:40
Exploring what constitutes a worthwhile purchase.
“Good morning, everyone, and welcome back to At Any Rate.”
Mindset in Personal Finance
3:40 to 4:50
Understanding the importance of mindset in financial choices.
“And I'm thinking big picture or big ticket items, house, car.”
Rejecting Extreme Frugality
4:50 to 5:31
Critiquing the trend of extreme frugality in financial advice.
“is the trend of just scraping by on not buying anything.”
The Balance of Spending and Saving
5:31 to 7:50
Finding a sustainable balance between spending and saving.
“I've been driving the same Toyota Corolla for 26 years and it's barely running and I have to do this to it every single week just to get it to start, but I haven't bought a new car.”
Experiences vs. Material Purchases
7:50 to 8:05
Discussing the worth of experiences over material goods.
The Role of Budgeting in Purchases
8:05 to 9:11
Understanding how budgeting impacts purchasing decisions.
“I guess it definitely bothers me the most when people prescribe things like that and say, this is the way you need to live to make financial progress.”
Enjoying Purchases with Confidence
9:11 to 14:11
How informed financial decisions enhance the joy of spending.
“If I'm freaking out about something last minute or scared to make a decision, I am not going to make the right choice in the end.”
Understanding Financial Purchases
15:10 to 22:44
Explore the emotional aspects and budgeting strategies for smart spending.
“The first time I heard about Bitcoin, honestly, I thought it was a scam.”
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Automation in Financial Management
22:44 to 28:00
Discuss the benefits and strategies for automating finances.
“But automation is literally opening whatever account we're talking about.”
Understanding Savings Vaults and Friction
28:00 to 30:04
Learn about using vaults for savings and the importance of mental barriers in spending decisions.
“because you have to go in and choose, hey, I want to take money out of this vault and put it in general savings and then you could withdraw it.”
Making Smart Savings Decisions
30:04 to 31:31
Explore how to determine contributions to savings and retirement accounts like Roth IRA.
“but I'm curious how you even get to those numbers.”
Integrating Budgeting into Purchases
31:31 to 32:05
Understand how budgeting influences purchasing decisions and financial discipline.
“So how much do I need to pay rent and pay the average food every month and whatever, gas, charging a car, whatever.”
Avoiding Lifestyle Inflation and Predatory Lending
32:05 to 36:22
Learn the dangers of lifestyle inflation and how to avoid predatory lending practices.
“What other things fit into making smart purchasing decisions and empowering yourself to continue to stay in budget.”
The Consequences of Predatory Lending
38:06 to 39:29
Discuss the emotional and financial impact of predatory lending on individuals.
“It's actually disgusting how common this is becoming.”
Ensuring Financial Stability After Purchases
39:29 to 41:14
Learn how to balance purchases with the need to meet essential expenses.
“Or maybe I made a previous purchase, reused a brokerage account, whatever.”
Relying on Willpower vs. Planning
41:14 to 42:04
Understand the risks of relying on willpower for budgeting and spending control.
Understanding Spending Habits
42:04 to 45:39
Learn how small purchases accumulate and affect budgeting decisions.
“And again, if you have a very clear plan for where that's all going, then that's completely fine.”
The Importance of Intentional Spending
45:40 to 48:00
Discover the significance of intentionality and planning in financial decisions.
“And I have to pull from a savings account because I had some money going to a savings account.”
Transcript
Automatic transcript. May contain errors.0:00Evan Raidt:The other night I'm online shopping for Printer Inc. Yes, I still use a printer, I know. And I'm getting ready to check out when I suddenly realize, yet again, I cannot remember my stupid password. But that's when I noticed they've recently added, at the top of the screen, that purple Shop Pay button. One click, and my name, done. Address, done. Card info, done. Checkout, done. Honestly, it's one of the best things in online shopping right now. That button is Shopify. And if you're running an online business or thinking of starting one, Shopify makes the transaction just as easy on your side. They give you inventory tracking, payment processing, analytics, marketing, and much, much more all in one place.
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2:55Andrew Sather:Good morning, everyone, and welcome back to At Any Rate. My name is Evan Ratewinter. We are here to help you make sustainable financial changes without breaking a sweat. Andrew, as always, I really appreciate you coming on today, and I want to start off with a very, very deep question for you. It's going to be a deep cut. Have you ever purchased anything?
3:15Evan Raidt:Oh, man. I'm going to have to think about that one. Wow. Have I ever purchased anything? I guess I have, so I might be worth talking to today.
3:24Andrew Sather:Okay. Okay. That's good to hear. That's not a very high statistic, high probability that anybody we would bring on would have that. How about anything that you felt like was a good decision? Something you purchased and after the fact felt like that was worthwhile and that was a good choice for me to make?
3:40Evan Raidt:Yeah, for sure. And I'm thinking big picture or big ticket items, house, car. And then there's other stuff too that brings satisfaction that don't have that monetary tie to it. And I think it's interesting to consider that because that's a part of personal finances, personal, right?
4:01Andrew Sather:We want to try to cover any purchase of any range, any amount of money, essentially, obviously, maybe not a$5 purchase, but any significant purchase that could have any real effect on your budget or your finances. And just to be clear to anybody listening, this isn't meant to just apply to people either with very little money who are struggling to afford purchases, nor is it only meant to apply to people with a ton of extra money who are looking how to safely spend it or something. This is meant to apply to anybody, kind of a general framework and mindset. As we always discuss a lot of mindsets, I think they have really good broad application to people in different situations at different points in life, yada, yada, yada.
4:39Andrew Sather:that can still help them get to a good place and make the right kinds of decisions. And one specific framework that I want to completely throw away myself, although Andrew, I will ask you how you feel, is the trend of just scraping by on not buying anything. And when I say throw that away, I don't mean that won't work for anybody, that won't make anybody happy, nobody should choose that. I don't mean that, but I mean that for the broad majority of people, that sort of mindset is just so it's so counter to what makes us human and how human brains work with satisfaction and enjoyment and wanting to move forward with things and having motivation that there are these trends online that they make really good clickbait they get a ton of views they get a ton of engagement they're good at rage bait so they get comments and then people defending the comments and blah blah blah and the algorithms freaking love it which is if somebody says I've been driving the same Toyota Corolla for 26 years and it's barely running and I have to do this to it every single week just to get it to start, but I haven't bought a new car.
5:42Andrew Sather:Or I've been living off of, I haven't bought clothes in three years just because I've chosen not to because I want to save as much as possible. And even though we are a personal finance podcast that wants to help people build wealth and garner more wealth and money to sustain their lives, the idea of just scraping by not buying anything, for me is such a demotivating way of life that for most people it's just going to fling them the other direction and they're going to say that whole not buying anything for three months was horrible and now I need to swing way hard the other direction because I was just missing all that enjoyment and instead I want to look to find some sustainable middle ground where it's okay to purchase some things as long as you're thoughtful and taking the whole picture of your finances into account when you do it, then we can make it work and you can still have a good life.
6:35Andrew Sather:But Andrew, how do you feel about those kinds of videos and those trends?
6:40Evan Raidt:Well, I'm really weird. Let's put that out there. I consider myself very frugal and then my wife is even more frugal than me, which I didn't even know was possible. So I'm in this weird spot where I'm more frugal than most people, but then I'm the spender in my relationship. And so we've gone through seasons where you make sacrifices where you're not spending anything because you're buying the house or saving for the house and things like that. But for sure, what you're saying about needing to enjoy the process, otherwise you're going to burn out, I 100 % agree with that. and it is interesting and you hear about the most extreme cases.
7:33Those are the ones that always float to the top
7:35Evan Raidt:of like, ooh, look at me, look what I'm doing. I'm making you feel like you're making progress. But with a lot of things, there needs to be a balance and it needs to be sustainable, I think is the key word here. Sustainable. Yeah, 100%.
7:53Andrew Sather:If it's sustainable for you guys to be frugal and not prioritize spending money very much, because that's just maybe not where you find your enjoyment, or you find more enjoyment just from saving up and seeing that progress happen, then that is fantastic for you. I guess it definitely bothers me the most when people prescribe things like that and say, this is the way you need to live to make financial progress. And, you know, this is how I got here to X place. And if you want to get to X place, then you better be doing this. You better be working all-nighters, you know, never even consider buying a new or used car and, you know, living in the same cheap apartment you can, cheapest apartment that you can find in your area, sharing a bedroom with five people, you know, just scrape by as crazily as possible just to see success.
8:36Andrew Sather:at some point and saying that that's the way you have to do it definitely frustrates me because I think it also it puts a lot of guilt on people who might not want to live that way and that might not be sustainable for them and it immediately puts it on to say hey you're doing it wrong you're doing it incorrectly and and I think that that that puts a lot of anxiety on people as well there's there's definitely a ton of spending anxiety around financial anxiety as a whole but as one part of it spending anxiety the thought of having to go out and purchase anything is is really scary for a lot of people because they feel like it's something they shouldn't be doing something they shouldn't have to do something they're doing the wrong way whatever and and i want to undo that as much as possible because if we all find a place that we can be comfortable with spending money again making the right decisions as best we can but be comfortable when we do it, then I mean, I guarantee you I've never made the right decision or the best decision when I've been super anxious about something.
9:40Andrew Sather:If I'm freaking out about something last minute or scared to make a decision, I am not going to make the right choice in the end. But if I'm calm about it and can view the whole picture, then I can get to the right place. And I'm sure you're the same way. Yeah.
9:53Evan Raidt:I mean, I actually struggled with that. Growing up frugal and being frugal, like what you talked about, about swinging to the other pendulum, that's literally what I did growing up and just went from a place of like, I'm going to be very tight over my money to be in a place of like, I'm going out and buying shirts that were$100 back. I don't know if you remember the affliction tease or if that's before your time oh man that rings a bell but i don't actually know you would go get a t-shirt for like 120 bucks and so i was like blowing everything i made on on things like that so i've definitely swung the other way and then when you swing back again to being like oh this is the time to get my life in order there i had so much shame so much anxiety that I couldn't enjoy my money.
10:46Evan Raidt:And it wasn't until I started, it took time. It's not something I just got over overnight, but doing a lot of the things that we talk about on this podcast made it to where I can enjoy spending money again and also make progress towards long-term financial goals. And that answer is going to be different for everybody, but I think there are a lot of kind of fundamental core principles that you can use, a budget being one of those.
11:15Andrew Sather:Yeah, 100%. I would definitely say that that's the first and most important thing you can possibly do is not only have a budget, that's definitely a prerequisite to all of this, but once you have some kind of a budget going, make sure that this fits in there. And I want to be also clear about what I mean by fitting into a budget, because I think a lot of people, if they hear fit into a budget, they think, well, I can't buy a house off of a month's income, so how is that going to fit in my budget? And what I mean by that is either if it's something you can purchase off your budget, like clothes or something, if you want to buy a new pair of shoes and it can fit into your month's budget, then yeah, make it fit into the spending bucket of that month's spending.
11:54Andrew Sather:But if we're looking at something larger, obviously like a house, a car, something like that, a much larger purchase, then we just want to make sure that we're using money that was intended for that or maybe a group of things like, hey, this is just saving up towards some kind of big purchase. I'm not sure what it is yet. I'll decide later. But you were saving towards that thing and not money that's meant for something else. We're not talking about emergency funds. We're not talking about saving up for a house and being committed to buying a house and then deciding, actually, I want to go buy this and pulling from the house budget to go buy that.
12:27Andrew Sather:Those are the kinds of decisions that we don't want to make. And I also think that it fitting into a budget is going to kind of force you to wait for it if it's large enough if it's small enough then yeah you could just go buy it and say it'll fit into my month and that's cool and that's fine but if we're talking about something larger then that stops people from saying i can go buy it now because they think okay well i either need to reallocate some money i have and intentionally do that and and it still makes sense or i need to start saving now towards that thing and then that motivates people to save towards it and the best part about this to me when i started doing this soon after my financial awakening is it made it made these purchases so much more enjoyable when i bought x you know i can't bought a new pair of headphones uh at that point in time when i bought that new pair of headphones it didn't feel like i was just kind of flinging money blindly you know like reaching into a bucket that i don't know how deep it is pulling out you know a hundred dollars or whatever and fling that hundred dollars and buying something it felt like i had stacks of money in front of me that i knew how big everything was and i could pull a hundred dollar bill off and know where it came from and know that everything else that's still left there i can still afford everything i need to afford and that is an awesome feeling when you order something buy something whatever purchase an experience go go do an experience like a vacation or something and you feel like i know i can afford this and when i get home, I'm going to be okay.
13:53Andrew Sather:That undoes a lot of anxiety and not being blind to what's happening and sort of visually guaranteeing yourself that you're not hurting yourself. You're not pulling from your needs or anything. That changes a lot of the feeling and enjoyment of purchasing something for me.
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16:23Evan Raidt:So did you feel like before you had your financial awakening, you would buy stuff and kind of feel guilty?
16:32Andrew Sather:Guilty or guilty adjacent because sadly, I don't have a thesaurus in front of me, but guilty adjacent in the way of, I think I can afford this. It seems like I'm making enough money to afford this. I can afford all my needs, it seems, so I must have some money left over to do this. And it kind of seems like my checking account is trending upwards, I think, so I should be good to spend this. And it was just kind of, genuinely, those are the kinds of things I was thinking, is very vague math and ideas of, it seems like this will be cool, so I'm going to go buy these pair of headphones. Instead of, okay, yeah, my budget allows for this much spending.
17:09Andrew Sather:Okay, yeah, I can go buy that because I know I haven't spent anything or, oh, the only thing I bought was some socks or whatever last week, and so I know I'm good to buy this, whatever. I know where everything is going, and it's a much more comfortable decision. Yeah, 100%.
17:23Evan Raidt:I can totally relate.
17:25Andrew Sather:Yeah. What kind of, how do you make sure that spending fits into your budget since you and your wife are both frugal people? how do you work to make sure that being frugal is fitting into your budget essentially
17:38Evan Raidt:yeah um i'm just you know very i would say i'm very kind of like more emotional with some of my decisions so i need that spreadsheet whereas my wife can kind of do it all in her head and doesn't need to have a spreadsheet so for me having the number and it's a number i give myself some grace with so So it's like if I've allocated, let's just throw a number out there, like$350 a month for fun experiences, activities, whatever, like that fun kind of bucket, then I might go over a month. Let's say I spent$450. But then I know, okay, that just means next month I only have$250. And so I'm breaking that.
18:25Evan Raidt:And ideally, you're not going over like I am. I'm just saying if you are a bad boy or a bad girl, that's one way to work around that tendency of yourself. But another thing I like to do is every month or I think it's every couple of weeks, I have money that just goes into a savings account that's only for buying clothes. Because I've always been somebody who would not buy clothes for a long time because I just feel guilty. And then I'm like, why is my wardrobe falling apart? and it's such a painful experience to try to replace your entire wardrobe and continue to feel that guilt because you're like wow I'm spending way too much money on this but now it's like okay I have a t-shirt that's all faded and has holes in it I can go and it's like oh I do have money in that savings account boom I made the purchases and especially when you have kids and they're like growing out of stuff every two months it's nice to know that alright you're not bankrupting me I have the money allocated.
19:29Evan Raidt:But it took that intentionality of having a budget and knowing what are my numbers and then setting up systems. Right now, something I have on my phone is just like a little note for my fund money. And I just kind of record when I make a fund purchase and then I can visually see. Because I used to be really good with the spreadsheet, but not right now. But that's kind of one way I've done it.
19:53Andrew Sather:What about you? Yeah, I just want to say I think that's a really good adaptation of things to still visualize where you're at. I specifically talk a lot about spreadsheets on this podcast. And if that spreadsheet means for you keeping a running note or something like that, then that is still absolutely fantastic. It doesn't have to be Google Sheets or Excel or something to track something like that. As long as you have some kind of visualization and record over time, then I think that's great. And about the close, I also think that that's fantastic. because if you wait to replace your whole wardrobe, that's a lot harder to budget for and plan for too.
20:31Andrew Sather:If you walk in and say, crap, I'm short on a lot of stuff. I need a lot of stuff because I've been scraping by. Maybe I should finally go buy this. It's really harder to budget that$900 to go buy a bunch of different things than to budget a$30 shirt at a time or something like that. That's much easier to track and keep a hold of and see where you're at. And I would say for me, I may be a little bit more similar to your wife in a way that I don't need to write it all down to kind of keep myself in check. But I have everything. The good thing that I talk a ton about automation, and one thing that I think the automation does for you is if you're automating basically everything in your finances except for your spending, obviously, spending in terms of fun money, if you go buy something off of Amazon or whatever, of course, that isn't going to be an automated purchase.
21:19Andrew Sather:And so with everything else automated, that allows me to see, okay, everything else that I needed, all the other places where I needed money to go, money has already gone. And so any money that is left over at this point or any trend that's happening in my checking account, which I have a much more accurate grasp of now than I used to in the past, having a good grasp of that, I know how much money is left over that I can spend. And I'm comfortable that any money that I have left over in my checking, aside from the padding that I leave, usually around$2 ,500 or so just to be able to afford any payments, bills, or whatever that will come up.
21:57Andrew Sather:That's always that minimum padding I want to leave there. And anything over that, I know that I'm able to spend. And so I don't necessarily track each purchase individually, but having everything else automated, going and flying to different places, means that anything left over, I know I can fit within. And so I can always check that and know where I'm at. And even though I do spend on credit cards all the time, I also want to make it clear that a credit card is not a budget. Using whatever credit card limit you have is not an outline for a budget for you. So even though I do spend everything on credit cards, before I spend it, I'm making sure that whatever balance I have subtracted from my checking account still leaves me with enough money to spend and go use on a new t-shirt to replace the motholes on the other one.
22:44Evan Raidt:right that's good i mean i yeah i like that that idea did it take a while to get to that point like what were some of the i know i know we're kind of going down memory lane a little bit but do you remember what some of the hurdles were that you had to overcome to get to that mastery of all right i've got this automated here and that automated there the memory lane is a good
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23:07Andrew Sather:place to be i'll say that um i would say that it it didn't take as long as uh as i would have thought it would and it didn't take as long as i think a lot of people out there think it would and is one of the things that stops them from going down this road and having things automated having things set up ahead of time because i also think maybe there's a better word that i need to start using instead of automation because i think automation sounds very fancy and complex and like I don't know, you need computer skills or something like that. But automation is literally opening whatever account we're talking about.
23:39Andrew Sather:Could be direct deposit with your employer. Could be your 401k account, something like that. Opening that up, going to automated investments or automated transfers or something like that, some adjacent term to that. And choosing how much money you want to go to X place on X frequency and hitting save, and now we'll just do it for you. And so once I realized that that was an option, which I believe that the first time that I was introduced to financial automation aside from something like a 401k, because a 401k, when you set it up, it's already automated by itself. But outside of that was probably when the friend mentor, I would say, mentor both career-wise and mentor in terms of finances, who first showed me investing, he had money automatically moving over to his brokerage account.
24:29Andrew Sather:he was investing in stuff like GameStop and other stocks like that that I might not have wanted to in hindsight but regardless he had money automatically going to that place and that showed me oh this is an option where he doesn't have to think about this and it already goes there and I feel like or know that investing is a good choice in one way or another and he feels comfortable in his financial decisions to invest the way he is and he's got money automatically going there and it took him no willpower to make that happen and once I saw that as an option and went to my brokerage account, we're talking no longer than 10 minutes to set it up and then 10 minutes per every other account or whatever.
25:10Andrew Sather:Maybe 10 minutes is too much more, like five minutes. So I would say there was probably a process of just a couple weeks once I realized it was an option and now I just had money moving where I needed it to move without putting too much thought into it.
25:25Evan Raidt:So here's something that I've discovered and maybe I'm about to approach the limits of it. So we'll see. But I believe you can have as many brokerage accounts as you want. Unless the FBI is going to come for me in a few months. I have lots of brokerage accounts. And so one of the things I actually do, because we mentioned the shopping kind of close autopilot, if you will, like that I'm putting from one place to another. Another one I do is car maintenance. so I like to drive cars as long as I can and that's more expensive over time you get these huge lump expenses rather than having a new car and it's all spread out and I've done this for a while I will have money automatically transferred from my checking to a brokerage account and that brokerage account is just the car expenses or the car maintenance And so I like to a little bit gamble that too, sometimes throw it in the stocks and it's like, all right, cool, this stock paid for the new tires I needed or something.
26:34But if you think about, sure, maybe that's not optimal
26:37Evan Raidt:because I shouldn't have put that money in the stock market anyway. But to me, the alternative is I never saved for these maintenance expenses and then I'm left with a huge bill that you probably put on a credit card or you probably use an emergency fund for. but because I don't want to think about it, it's just auto-transferred into a separate account, and every once in a while I might go in and buy some stocks with it or just leave it in cash. And that's been kind of a cool thing in my mind where I don't know. I'm just not like the buckets guy. I don't like having one account and having just different buckets you have to allocate.
27:13Evan Raidt:I like having separate accounts because that helps me not have to think about it. And so that might be an option.
27:22Andrew Sather:Yeah, I think that's a great option. Again, it may not, me personally, I would definitely struggle to not make bad decisions with that account and end up with less money than I started with. But you're definitely much more knowledgeable on stock picking than I am, so that's definitely a pro for you. But those kinds of things that work for different people are beautiful. And me personally, I use SoFi for my savings. And in SoFi, and I'm sure other accounts as well, this is just an example, you can have what they call vaults. and it's basically sectioning off, cordoning off parts of your account.
27:54Andrew Sather:You can name it as you want. And then for you to transfer money out of that vault, it's a more intentional act because you have to go in and choose, hey, I want to take money out of this vault and put it in general savings and then you could withdraw it. And so it's not as easy to just pull from whenever you want. And so something like vaults is something that I've used over time for different savings that we're going up for, whether it was the home purchase or whether it was a car purchase or a car upgrade that I wanted to make, all these sorts of things. I had money set aside in vaults that I could visually see, okay, there's the fund for the house.
28:28Andrew Sather:And if I want to save up for something else, for me to pull out of that vault would be difficult mentally, sort of. And so there's enough friction for me to not go do that than if it was elsewhere. And I'm not aware of a limit of brokerage accounts either. Don't quote us on that. And I think the lack of assuredness in our voices is making you Google it anyways. but assuming there's not then yeah feel free to go sign up for different brokerage accounts and keep different amounts of money in different places like you said you can automate money going to all those different brokerage accounts and it would take you very little time at all and you could have money in as many different buckets as you want and like you deciding to invest in the stock market especially if it's going to be for any period of time you're saving up for it now it can grow in there as well and you can have money growing in different ways towards different purchases, different lengths of time, whatever.
29:21Andrew Sather:You get a lot of customization. But definitely the last thing I would recommend is keeping it all in your checking account and kind of trying to visualize how much is going to be pulled out at any given time or even worst case scenario, you deciding, okay, I'm supposed to be saving to the Roth IRA. I need to go toss X amount in the Roth IRA from my checking. I know for me personally, it's never going to work. I'm going to think, well, you know, I could have gotten new rims on the car with that instead. How about I just go do that, and then I'll do the Roth IRA next month? But if the money's already gone in the Roth IRA, I'm not going to go pull it out of the Roth IRA to go do something like that.
29:56Andrew Sather:That's just too much friction for me.
29:59Evan Raidt:So this is probably, we don't have time for this, it's probably a topic for another day, but I'm curious how you even get to those numbers. How do I know how much to put in a Roth IRA, or how do I know how much to put as savings, or how much to put as fund? Those are kind of tough decisions to make too, right? Because without that, you can't do everything we're talking about today.
30:24Andrew Sather:Yeah, that's a very good point. That's definitely something that we could cover in an entire episode. And I could definitely go through details of how decisions of how I've made or how I've reached my decisions for those kinds of choices. And same for you. But those sorts of decisions are definitely tough because they're very personal. I definitely think there's some general ground rules. I think if your employer offers you a 401k match, putting in at least just enough money to reach that match or max out that match is essential because that's an immediate 100 % return. But then me personally, I don't decide to add any more to my 401k over that.
31:02Andrew Sather:And so that's kind of the cutoff limit for my 401k. So my employer, thankfully, it's fairly high, matches 6 % of my 401k or up to 6 % of my income. And so I put in 6 % towards the 401k, and I don't put in any more than that. So I can start sectioning off the rest. But you kind of just got to go piece by piece, I would say. And it definitely all stems from the foundation of, okay, how much do I need to survive? So how much do I need to pay rent and pay the average food every month and whatever, gas, charging a car, whatever. Set all those needs at the bottom of the pile. and then you can work with what you have left over above that.
31:47Andrew Sather:And that's kind of the direction I would recommend working to build up a budget like that and build up where you can save to different places.
31:54Evan Raidt:Yeah, I love that. That's a great starting point. So we've mentioned it needs to fit into your budget. I think hopefully that's clear by now.
32:02Andrew Sather:I'm pretty sure we've covered that.
32:05Evan Raidt:What other things fit into making smart purchasing decisions and empowering yourself to continue to stay in budget.
32:15Andrew Sather:The next step I would say that I think people fall into a lot, and I definitely think people are going to be falling into more and more over time based on trends that I see, is just avoid increasing these purchases over time. And what I mean by that is either something like lifestyle inflation, sort of locking yourself into a purchase, or saying, well, hey, I'm earning a little bit more money this year so I can increase this a little bit more and just kind of getting in that cycle. But also what I'm probably even more concerned about is thinking you can afford things just because they give you a monthly payment number or interest-free for six months or anything along those lines.
32:55Andrew Sather:So like, for example, I know I mentioned this in a previous episode, but if you walk into Ashley Furniture right now, every single, or it could be RoomSick, I'm pretty sure it was Ashley though, so sorry to either company for mixing them up. But if you walk into Ashley Furniture right now and you see a table that's like, we'll just make up another$500 table, it might say, hey, this table's$3. But it's because it's$3 a month for 36 months or something, interest-free for the first 12 months, whatever. And those kinds of things scare the crap out of me because it would be so easy for somebody who doesn't have a ton of money lying around that can't afford to buy that table otherwise to think, oh, maybe I could actually afford this table.
33:34Andrew Sather:Like, yeah, I'd pay a little bit of interest on it, but it is what it is. and okay you know factually yeah you would just pay a little bit interest on it a 500 table might without without doing the exact math might turn into like a 550 or 600 table so nothing too too crazy but imagine if every single purchase you made was was adding up in that way just a percentage or two here or there on everything is going to wildly throw everything out of whack and you're going to be spending a lot more money on a lot of things. I also remember the number of times now that I've gone to purchase something on Amazon and at checkout, it'll say, you know, you have another option where you could just pay us instead of this 160 bucks up front, you could pay us 24 bucks a month.
34:19Andrew Sather:And that$24 looks pretty dang appealing to be much more affordable and still get the same product. But I know that I would be paying interest on that. And also I know that it would be harder to plan for in the future. And what I mean by that is I know I could afford that 160 right now. That's why I got to this purchase point in the first place. However, if I now lock up said amount of money for the next few months or whatever, now I'm having to go and include each of those payments in my budget for the next few months or something. I think that's going down a very slippery slope that's not worth doing.
34:56Andrew Sather:If you get something like a mortgage, yes, you can plan for a very long time, you're going to have X amount in your payments. And overall, it's much more predictable and you can see where it's going to be going and you can plan for it in the long term. And now imagine if you were doing that with every single thing you bought. If you went to buy a cup of coffee, well, now you plan for that for the next few months. And then you went to buy a new laptop and that was for every time for the next few months. And then you bought, I don't know, a new mouse and that's every time for the next few months.
35:21Andrew Sather:Things would become impossible to plan for and the more difficult things are to plan for the less likely you are to to end up right side up essentially in the end even if the numbers aren't that high even if the numbers seem affordable locking yourself into any purchase that's going to be increasing or accruing interest over time and the same goes for for putting things on credit cards that you can't pay off you might think well i could afford it you know next month once i just save up my payments or my income this month i'll be able to pay this off next month. But then if you make one more little purchase along the way that knocks you over a little bit, now you're carrying a balance of 50 bucks or something, now you're paying interest on that 50 bucks.
36:00Andrew Sather:And these sorts of things just stack up over time and you just start bleeding money. And kind of to frame it in a different way, that's what the companies want. The credit card companies or Ashley Furniture, maybe they use a third-party finance or whatever. Whoever is lending you the money wants you to slip up and owe them a bunch of interest that you didn't necessarily have to owe them. And so anywhere that you can avoid paying interest on any purchase that you don't need to is money saved and money well saved. I've been thinking a lot about heart health lately, not because something felt wrong, but because I got my results back and saw markers I'd never even heard of that were out of range.
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38:07Evan Raidt:minute. Okay.
38:08Andrew Sather:Yeah, that's good. That's close enough.
38:09Evan Raidt:Car selling without a catch. Sell your car today on Carvana. Pickup fees may apply. It's actually disgusting how common this is becoming. It's predatory lending is really what it is. And like you're saying, it's a bunch of interests that people shouldn't be paying for. And then to your point, how fun is it to have a shrinking fun budget like oh i had 300 bucks this month now i have 200 now i have 100 like oh yeah that sounds that sounds amazing and then what about the the shame every time you open your laptop and you remember oh i'm still paying for this that's a much different place than being like oh i have
38:49Andrew Sather:my laptop and it's paid for yeah that definitely feeds in to the anxiety of things i know that that if i were to look around and i mean frankly if i look at my wall right now i know i'm paying off that wall because it's part of the house. But anything aside from that, and again, that's something much more concrete that I can plan for, and I know it's something that, spoiler alert, I couldn't have just bought in cash. I didn't have that cash lying around to buy the house straight up. And so that is something that had to be purchased that way. But again, if I look at my laptop that we're talking through right now, I know that I could afford that straight up, even if it takes me an extra month to save up.
39:27Andrew Sather:Maybe I set up a vault in SoFi, set up a separate brokerage account real quick, because again, these things don't take very long. Or maybe I made a previous purchase, reused a brokerage account, whatever. I have that money set aside to purchase that laptop, and once I buy it, that's the end of the road. That's my laptop. That purchase is done. Brokerage account is empty, whatever. That's a great place to be and much, much less anxiety-inducing than trying to plan for everything over time. I don't think that's a good place to be. But my next point, feeding into a budget, is you need to be guaranteeing that you can still afford your needs afterwards.
40:07Again, this kind of feeds into where I used to be versus where I am now.
40:11Andrew Sather:So where I used to be feeling like I just had a dark, empty bucket that I reach into and hope that what I'm pulling out isn't going to screw me over. That is definitely anxiety-inducing. and you need to be very comfortable that when you make this purchase, when you buy that laptop or whatever, you can still meet your needs afterwards. Because if you can't meet your needs, then you are going to be forced to fall into something that's paying interest. Maybe you're paying a late fee on something. Maybe you have to pay off a need using a credit card that you couldn't really afford to pay off in the first place, and so now you've got interest left over.
40:45Andrew Sather:You're just going to start stacking purchases that you can't afford if you start eating into the bucket that's left over for your needs. So have a spreadsheet handy. Have it written down in the notes on your phone, whatever. Have something in writing showing how much you need to afford your needs and how much you're trying to spend on this thing and make sure that your spending is not going to be eating into your needs.
41:09Evan Raidt:Yeah, I mean, how can that sustain itself?
41:12Andrew Sather:Yeah, that's going to be a one-and-done slowly situation. and the last thing i want to say here is is don't rely on willpower um this even kind of resonates with something you said earlier but in the opposite in the way that um you mentioned before making a purchase and then saying okay you know you won't spend as much for a little while but you have it tracked to see okay i made this purchase and i know how much it was and i know how that affects me and i can plan for it but there are definitely many many people out there and many of us in the past, I'm sure as well, that don't have a great grasp on our budget, don't have a great grasp on where all of our money is and where it's going, and still purchase something that we know we can't afford at the moment, but we could afford if we just almost save in the future, if that makes sense.
42:04Andrew Sather:If we just hold off spending in the future, then we could kind of backfill that money, and then everything would end up okay. And again, if you have a very clear plan for where that's all going, then that's completely fine. but a lot of people do that all the time it it reminds me of also people spending a ton on subscriptions people say well you know netflix is only 10 bucks hulu's only 10 bucks spotify is only 10 bucks but all of these things add up and suddenly you're spending 150 bucks a month on streaming services we we sort of in our heads have a tough time tracking all of these one-off decisions and so we feel like we're making a one-off decision when in reality this is the sixth time this week that we've made a one-off decision and we've said at 10 bucks i can afford that 10 bucks i can afford that over and over again and and this definitely reminds me of it you know i've i've known people before that okay i want to get new exhaust from my car or something i just i can't afford it quite yet but if i didn't spend as much for the next couple weeks then i'd be good they buy the exhaust, three days later they think, well, you know, I wanted those new clothes and I couldn't entirely afford it.
43:09Andrew Sather:But if I just hold off purchasing for a little bit, because you just get short-term memory loss of what you did recently and all of these purchases just keep adding up. Is that something you've ever struggled before? Maybe before you kept that note tracking your purchases?
43:24Evan Raidt:I remember always overspending for the holidays or overspending for things that in hindsight, like, oh yeah, I should have thought about that. People's birthdays and things like that. It took a couple years of doing this, but I would now, in my budget now, I have annual expenses in addition to monthly expenses. I think your budget might have this as well, but it's something I had to just learn from trial and error. I really screwed up November and December this year, so I would put, okay, maybe next year I need to spend, allocate 300 bucks for Christmas gifts or whatever the number is. And so that next year I could have that already in my budget and planned.
44:11Evan Raidt:So I guess that's a little side note. But to your point, yes, 100%. When I'm talking about going over my monthly allocation, I'm not talking about blowing the next month or two months. I'm talking about maybe I went over 100 bucks or something. But yeah, that mentality needs to be, you have to address that mentality out of the gate. Otherwise, everything else is not going to work out. You have to learn how to draw a line in the sand somewhere that says, I'm going to just have to be patient and put this off. Because in either situation you're talking about, you're either quote-unquote holding off your spending after the fact, or you could just hold off your spending until you get to that savings number.
44:53But the reality is there's not much downside in waiting
44:57Evan Raidt:until you have it saved and then making that purchase. Whereas the downside of continuing to have this mentality that, oh, I'll just pay for it in the future, that is a slippery slope. And like you said, I think the examples of Netflix, Spotify, Hulu, that's a great example of that. It might not be the exact purchase you're thinking of or talking about, but it's that accumulation and that habit that's really going to get you in trouble. And it's a reason why so many of us fall into this because we don't think about these things but from experience we're trying to tell you you can have a better life with your finances if you're a little more intentional yeah i definitely know that there was there were definitely multiple times i'm not sure exactly how
45:44Andrew Sather:many but multiple times and soon after i graduated college soon after i started started my first job out of college before i really had any kind of financial waking and started really carefully tracking anything and I was just reaching into that blind bucket that thankfully I had enough income that realistically I wasn't going to push myself into a point of not having enough money to afford my needs that gratefully that's that's not something that I would have fallen into but I did fall into the place of making these one-off decisions thinking okay that'll be my spending for this month that makes sense and then a week later thinking okay that'll be my spending for this month and whatever, doing that over and over again, that I did have multiple times where the money towards the end of the month that was left in my checking account was not going to be enough to afford the bills.
46:29Andrew Sather:And I have to pull from a savings account because I had some money going to a savings account. Again, it was just based on willpower when I chose to, no set amount of money, whatever. So it was in a savings account, but not for the best reasons or the best planning or anything like that. But I would have to pull money from the savings account just to afford the bills because I made those one-off spending decisions so many times that I was spending more than I was leaving in my checking account to actually be able to afford my needs after the fact. And again, I never fell into the place of having to put on credit cards or something like that.
46:59Andrew Sather:But I know that if I was earning less money or had a higher cost of living or something like that at that point in time, I 100 % had the mindset that would have put me in that place of being in some kind of debt just to be able to get by. At least one time it would have happened. I guarantee if it happens once, it's probably going to happen more times no matter how much it hurts.
47:21Evan Raidt:Yeah, willpower is such a hard thing. We need willpower for so many things in our life. And to have to exercise it with finances too makes life harder, frankly.
47:32Andrew Sather:Yeah, 100%. Anything you can do to take that mental load off of you, not just to take a mental load off and be less anxious about it or have to put less effort into it, but also to guarantee and assure your financial future in some way is a massive pivot that I think is kind of that big turning point for a lot of people. To turn off willpower, for the most part, ignore willpower, and just set up things ahead of time for yourself is a huge, huge pivot.
48:01Evan Raidt:That's so good.
48:02Andrew Sather:Beautiful. Awesome. Well, I really appreciate it, Andrew, as always. Freaking fantastic episode. Love it. if anybody has any comments or maybe how you go about purchases what kind of purchases you've made recently and how they fit in your budget and such feel free to comment below on whatever podcast platform you're on or email me at evan at einvestingforbeginners.com love to hear all of it and if you want to start getting a budget going to see how purchases fit in there and plan for it appropriately head over to einvestingforbeginners.com slash budget and we have a great beginner friendly spreadsheet on there that can grow with you as your finances grow or get more complex And as always, remember, financial freedom is built one smart move at a time.
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You can download Evan’s free monthly budgeting spreadsheet here:https://einvestingforbeginners.com/budget/
In this episode of At Any Rate, Evan Raidt and Andrew Sather dig into how to make smart spending decisions without living like a hermit or constantly feeling guilty every time you buy something.
They push back on the extreme “never spend money” advice that goes viral online, talk about how both of them have swung between over‑frugality and overspending, and explain why the real goal is a sustainable middle ground you can actually live with.
You’ll hear how to make sure a purchase truly fits your budget, why automation and separate accounts (or “vaults”) make life easier, and how to avoid lifestyle creep and sneaky “buy now, pay later” or monthly‑payment traps.
Topics Covered:
Why extreme “never spend money” advice backfires
How guilt and anxiety can wreck your spending decisions
What it actually means for a purchase to fit your budget
Using automation and separate accounts/vaults to simplify money
Planning for annual/irregular expenses (holidays, birthdays, clothes
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro and “have you ever bought anything?”
01:00 Extreme frugality trends and why they’re not sustainable
04:30 Swinging from super‑frugal to overspending (and back)
11:30 What it means for a purchase to truly fit your budget
15:00 Automation, separate accounts, and “vaults” for big goals
19:00 Lifestyle creep, furniture financing, and Amazon payment plans
28:30 Making sure you can still afford your needs after a purchase
36:00 Planning for holidays, birthdays, and other irregular costs
40:00 Willpower vs. systems, and final takeaways
Resources Mentioned:
Free monthly budgeting spreadsheet:https://einvestingforbeginners.com/budget/
Have questions or want to share how you handle big purchases? Email Evan at evan@einvestingforbeginners.com or comment below—your stories and questions help shape future episodes.
Remember, financial freedom is built one smart move at a time. Keep it simple, keep it steady, and at any rate, we’ll see you next time.
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