The Honeymoon Cruise Ship Mystery: The Bride Speaks Out

18 Nov 2025 · 45 min · 15 chapters

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In short

The disappearance of newlywed George Smith IV on a Royal Caribbean honeymoon cruise after Jennifer Hagel-Smith was found unconscious; competing theories of accident vs murder, plus disputes over evidence handling and alleged cruise-ship cover-up.

Guest backgrounds

Jennifer Hagel-Smith, the bride; Gayle King, longtime CBS/anchor and Connecticut native; George Smith IV’s parents (Maureen and George Smith) and sister Bree (referenced); Jackie and Bobby Friedlander, passengers traveling with their three daughters; Royal Caribbean president Adam Goldstein; forensic expert Dr. Henry Lee (Connecticut).

Key claims

Jennifer says she drank but has no memory of the separation; she denies fights or intoxication beyond “social” drinking and took an FBI polygraph. Smith family alleges blood evidence was cleaned/painted over before authorities preserved it. Royal Caribbean denies cover-up, says the stain was sealed/guarded and later cleared by Turkish authorities, and apologizes for insufficient comfort. Dr. Lee is cited arguing forensics could show whether a head injury preceded any fall.

Notable examples

4:30 a.m. Jennifer found in a corridor far from cabin; 7 a.m. Emily Roush photos of blood on an overhang; 4:02 key-lock entry; neighbor hearing a “horrific thud” around 4:20; George’s last alleged sighting at 4 a.m.

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The Honeymoon and the Incident

0:52 to 3:18

Details of Jennifer and George's honeymoon, leading to the mysterious events of that night.

“You are listening to The Oprah Winfrey Show, the podcast.”

Jennifer's Fragmented Memories

3:18 to 6:12

Jennifer discusses her hazy recollections of the night and the arguments reported.

“So speculation about what happened that night has run rampant.”

The Aftermath of George's Disappearance

6:12 to 11:41

Jennifer describes the emotional turmoil and confusion following George's disappearance.

“I never, not in my life, never made it home somewhere or never lost time.”

Allegations and Suspicion

11:41 to 14:00

Discussion of the allegations surrounding Jennifer and the impact on her relationship with George's family.

“And also because you seem so calm and collected.”

Survivor's Guilt and Family Dynamics

14:00 to 16:44

Exploring feelings of guilt and family dynamics after tragedy.

“But I would think that they would be united in their grief.”

The Night of the Incident

16:44 to 18:36

Detailed account of the events leading up to George's disappearance.

“I was unconscious on our floor somewhere, like, opposite side of the ship.”

Witness Accounts and Observations

18:36 to 22:04

Passengers share their observations of Jennifer and George before the tragedy.

“I was found by maintenance people and then somewhere in a corridor.”

Family's Perspective on the Investigation

22:04 to 23:32

George's family discusses their views on the investigation and evidence.

“Since George Smith IV went missing, his parents have been very vocal about what they think went wrong.”

Royal Caribbean's Defense and Controversy

23:49 to 28:00

Royal Caribbean responds to allegations and discusses their actions post-incident.

“I can't pretend to understand the magnitude of your loss, as you've described it.”

Cruise Line's Response to Claims

28:00 to 28:45

Exploration of claims made by Jennifer regarding her treatment by the cruise line.

“that you would assume that that was okay?”
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Royal Caribbean's Assurance

28:45 to 29:20

Royal Caribbean representatives assure that they did not suspect involvement from the guest.

“Royal Caribbean officials released a statement in response.”

Investigative Actions Taken

29:20 to 30:45

Discussion on the investigation process conducted by authorities after the incident.

“You mentioned that before that many people do, and I want to be very clear.”

Jennifer's Experience and Expectations

30:45 to 32:38

Jennifer shares her feelings of abandonment and dissatisfaction with the cruise line's response.

“Now, there is no such thing as perfect in a tragic situation like this.”

Acknowledging Mistakes

32:38 to 36:08

Discussion on the importance of acknowledging mistakes made during the crisis response.

“Even that night, I wish we had done maybe things differently, but at least I say, yes, we were drinking, but I'm not sure that has anything to do with it.”

Remembering George

36:08 to 39:34

Jennifer reflects on the memory of her husband George and the impact of his loss.

“And we just wanted to under...we just wanted to have, on the record of what happened, what we did do, and we've been able to do that.”
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0:00Through 25 seasons, 4 ,561 episodes, I believe The Oprah Winfrey Show is one of the greatest classrooms in the world. I really never thought of it that way. The aha moments, the breakthroughs, the LOLs, the connections, the occasional ugly cry. I miss him so terribly. I miss him every single minute. The moments that mattered. Maddie! The eye-opening life lessons. Never allow them to take you somewhere else. I'm bringing them back. It's time to open the vault. I've personally chosen these classic episodes to share with you again. Every single person you ever will meet shares that common desire.

0:45They want to know, do you see me? Do you hear me? Does what I say mean anything to you? You are listening to The Oprah Winfrey Show, the podcast.

0:59It's a headline-making mystery that has people all around the world asking questions. Jennifer Hagel and George Smith were married on a cliff overlooking the ocean in Newport, Rhode Island. Shortly after, the young couple set sail on a dream honeymoon. By all accounts, the newlyweds were having a wonderful trip as the ship made its way through the deep blue waters of the Greek Isles. In the early morning hours of July 5th, Jennifer and George Smith were with friends they met on board, gambling, drinking, and enjoying their first few days of married life. But crucial details of the tragic events that followed grow hazy.

1:37Witnesses from the bar that night claim the couple was extremely intoxicated. They say Jennifer and George argued before going their separate ways. Later, George, along with four male passengers, went back to the Smiths' room. When they didn't find Jennifer, the men continued to search the ship. At 4 a.m., George returned to his room. This is the last time anyone admits seeing him alive. Shortly after, a vacationing police officer in an adjacent room heard loud voices and a commotion. Security came but heard nothing and left. 4.20, more commotion next door in the room and the balcony. Smith's neighbor then heard what he described as a horrific thud.

2:23Jennifer's whereabouts after she left the bar are unknown until 4.30, when staff found her unconscious in a corridor, a considerable distance from her own cabin. Crew members helped her back to her room and saw nothing out of the ordinary. It was just before 5 in the morning. 7 a.m., Emily Roush, a teenager vacationing with her parents, snapped this picture of a long blood stain on a metal overhang below the Smith's cabin. Around 8 a.m., Jennifer woke up in her room and made her way to the spa for a couple's massage appointment without George. She would later say that she simply thought George had slept in a friend's room.

3:0410.15 a.m., Jennifer is confronted with the horrifying news that there was reason to believe her husband had gone overboard in open water out at sea. So speculation about what happened that night has run rampant. Was George murdered? Was Jennifer somehow involved? Gayle King was a news anchor for over 20 years and is a total news junkie who follows every story. The cruise ship mystery has a hold on Gayle because the newlyweds are from her home state of Connecticut. And a few days ago, we sent Gayle on special assignment to talk to the woman at the center of this storm, the young bride whose groom has been lost at sea for over six months.

3:50Would you tell us your version of what happened that night? I remember being at the casino. I remember being around George. I remember being around, you know, some familiar faces. But at some point, you two become separated, you and George. I do not remember the last, you know, words or time we saw each other. I remember very vaguely leaving the casino area to go to this revolving bar or something like that. I was around George, and then I remember nothing. Apparently, you know, the night... Why don't you remember anything, Jennifer, do you think? That is extremely haunting to me, especially when people can say that you are doing anything and you can't recollect something and it's frightening.

4:37Had you been drinking? We had been drinking. Had you been drinking heavily? We must have been drinking heavily. I don't remember anything. What were you drinking? I have no idea. We were on our honeymoon. We were drinking socially and just toasting to our life together. But we're not the type of couple to go to bar and be doing shots and be doing these sorts of things that's been said about us all over the media. On this night in question, I think that it has been said that, you know, George is playing these drinking games or drinking with these younger passengers or giving alcohol to younger passengers.

5:14I mean, people have said all sorts of things. People have said that I got in a really bad fight with George and that he called me names and I need him. No, I heard that he called you names and that you kicked him in the groin and he was doubled over and that you two had a very nasty fight on the last time you were seen together. And then I stormed off. Yes. Are you saying that's not true? I'm not saying one way or the other, but I guess the only thing I would like to say is that if that is the last encounter that I had with my husband, if that is it, then that is something that I will have to carry for the rest of my life.

5:54I can't remember anything from a certain time period. We just are angry people. George would never call me names. And you would never meet him in the drawing. I would never do something like that out of anger to George. You're not saying it didn't happen. You're just saying you don't remember. I don't remember any of it. This just doesn't happen. I never, not in my life, never made it home somewhere or never lost time. That doesn't happen to me. Why did I end up on the ninth floor hallway or in some corridor found by five people, some security officers, some maintenance people? Your room was on deck nine, and we're told that you were on deck nine on the other side away from your room.

6:34Around 4.30 a.m. That you were so wobbly you had to be escorted by a wheelchair to your room. Do you remember any of that? None of it. None of that. It's still just someone sleeping outside on their honeymoon at 4.30 is odd. It's very strange. It's all very strange. I know. I know. And I have to say, I went there, I was just as skeptical as I can hear everybody in the audience saying, how could you not remember? Yeah. How can you one minute be talking to someone and the next minute you don't? But she truly, truly doesn't remember. That's what you believe. I honestly do believe her. Okay. Well, the last time she saw her new husband alive, they were on their honeymoon aboard a luxury cruise ship.

7:14And that was six months ago. Today, Jennifer Hagel-Smith is at the center of the mystery that has everybody, including the FBI, asking questions. Gail, my best friend King, who's been following this story, sat down with Jennifer yesterday. When you wake up, what do you see? What do you remember? I wake up. I remember that we, George and I, have massage appointments. The first thing I thought was he must have slept in Paul and Galena's room. But you don't think it's strange that your husband on the honeymoon might be sleeping in someone else's room? It would be very strange. But at that point, I obviously wasn't, you know, the sharpest knife in the drawer.

7:49I was just found unconscious four hours earlier. Very groggy, probably not thinking straight. But you don't think rather than go to a massage appointment, let me find where George is? I made an assumption that he was with our friends, that he must have done that. So in your mind, he's not missing, really? No. People need to remember that George and I have known each other for over three years. We've lived together for a year and a half. We have all the trust in whatever in the world with each other, and he's my best friend. I'm not looking at his character in question or, oh, he's... So you're not suspicious?

8:23You're not suspicious? So what was your relationship? Would you describe yourselves as a happy couple? We were just so happy. We were in love from Go. So how do you first learn that there is a problem? I remember coming out and being approached by these men and having them just say, you know, we are looking for George and we found blood and whatever. There's been conflicting and contradicting reports about whether there was blood in your room. Was there blood in your room? We now have reason to believe that there's some blood in the room. But you didn't see it. Right. And Jennifer, you hear that and you think, what?

9:02What did you think that meant? That that was it, you know, your life's over, that that's it. And they characterized it as an accident. They said it was an accident. He must have lost his balance and gone overboard. And at that time, I had no reason to speculate anything other than what they told me because I didn't know anything. But why do you think that you have no recollection? I can't even speculate. people are going to slam me either way. If I say, you know, oh, baby, I was drinking too much. I'll get slammed. I'm the drunk bride. If I say, well, maybe I was drugged, they'll say, oh, she's just making excuses for herself.

9:40No matter what I say, it doesn't matter. Jennifer is here. Has that ever happened to you before, that you've had so much to drink, you forgot what happened? No, and I think that we were eight days into our honeymoon. We were meeting great people. We were having a fabulous time. And when you're in vacation mode, you're in, like, la-la land all the time. And so that morning, when I didn't put on my FBI hat and think, oh, my God, let's solve this, you know, mystery, I didn't realize that there was at the time until I was approached. Approached. But there was a part of me, too, over the thought after the Runaway Bride story that, did you really kind of screw up?

10:19And then you're trying to cover your tracks. You didn't really want us to know that, you know, I had been drinking heavily. We had had this fight. Things were not going so well. So now you say, look, I don't remember nothing about nothing, which sounds very suspicious. Right. Right. And to that you said... And I said, you aren't the only one who thinks like that. Everybody wants more from me. I want more from me. The FBI, I took... I sat and took a polygraph with the FBI about that. I, you know, every single person in the world is looking at me like, yeah, right. And, you know... Why were you given a polygraph?

10:53Did they ask you, did you kill your husband? Um, they asked me if I was in the room. Had I seen him go overboard? Did I get in a fight with him? Did I have doubts about my marrying George? Did I have second thoughts? Everything you can possibly imagine. And the answer was no, no, no, no. And it's so frustrating. And then I remember feeling this sense of, you know, for the first time since this happened, a sense of almost relief that, thank God they were able to test my yes-no, you know, power. Thank God there's a tool out there that they can actually use because not only to lose your memory, but then to have nobody believe you, and then to have people question you.

11:30And on top of it, you just want to say, forget everybody. I just lost George, so why do I even care what you think anyway? Like, why do I even care what the world thinks about me? This is about George. And also because you seem so calm and collected. Yes. You seem very calm and collected. And I think what, you know, people are used to seeing or think they want to see is a hysterical bride. Well, since day one, this has been, like, shocking to me. Like, it shocks you to your core when something like this happens. You don't think you have strength in your life to go forward, you know, to put one foot in front of the other.

12:14As soon as I learn this news, I end up spending a day, you know, in Turkey without George, flying home to my family by myself on this plane we had left together. I'm halfway around the world. It's like you get back and you don't even realize you're just, I, you know, I'm in bed with my parents every night because I can't sleep by myself. It's like we were dealing with our own grief and loss and tragedy. I didn't even realize that this could be foul play or that there's something more to it. I thought, oh, my God, I was told it was a tragic accident. So I come home, and my family, we're just a mess.

12:48What do you think happened? Well, now I know that something horrible has happened because I see all of the evidence, and I see it along with everybody else. I've learned a lot of information through the news, through the media, a lot of misinformation, too, yes. Do you think your husband was murdered? I think something bad happened to him. George wouldn't just go... George is not, you know, he doesn't... like, run into walls. He's very athletic. You're responsible. He's not... But, but, but, but, but this is the thing that's confusing. If you...was it...is it a fact that you had to be carried in a wheelchair because you were so...

13:25Out of it. Out of it. And you were out of it from drinking, not because... We have no idea. Well, we were definitely drinking, but not to an extent that something this wild happens. That you wouldn't remember. Both of us on the same night, and I have no recollection of that evening on the same night my husband is killed or... I mean, Oprah, they both had to be carried to their rooms, both of them. Both of us. In separate instances by separate people. That's what's so bizarre. And... I was also suspicious of you, Jennifer, because your in-laws are...you and your in-laws are now estranged, and you would think that something this tragic would bring the two of you together, not break you apart.

14:00Well, tragic...tragedy does both, Gail. But I would think that they would be united in their grief. I would think that they would...they would be... they would find comfort in each other. So what happened with your in-laws? I'm not a mom, or, you know, of course, not a father. And, you know, they lost their only son. George is George IV. There should have been a George V and a George VI. When I came home without George, I was always the one that lived. I'm the one that's there. I'm the one that made it home. Why wasn't I there to protect George? Why wasn't I there in that room? Why didn't I know answers?

14:36Why didn't I... I didn't have, and I still don't have enough. It's a bizarre story. But her in-laws think she's withholding information. I think they should know it now. Maybe you were drugged. Maybe you were drugged and don't know it. Well, I'm hoping and I think that they know now as they learn whatever. You know, I've taken a polygraph. I've done every step. And that this whole I don't know what happened is really, I don't know what happened. That it's hurtful to me that I don't know.

15:10I think we'd like to have a little more. I would like to have a little bit more from her. She hasn't given us totally everything that I think she possibly could. But I think she has stated that the FBI has requested that she keep certain things from that evening quiet. So, you know, that could be the reason why we don't have a... And I think the truth will come out. That was George Smith's parents and his sister, Bree. And so you were saying that you feel that they felt that you were the one that survived or that you were alive and he's not? You know, maybe that's my own just survivor's guilt.

15:45Maybe that's me thinking, you know, why wasn't it reversed? Do you feel guilty? Do you? I do feel guilty that I'm alive and he's not. You know, I would trade places with him in an instant. You do that when you love somebody. But I can't. I would want his parents to know that I would and that I can't, but that I'd want the same answers and the same closure they do. And because I can't provide it doesn't mean that I have more or that I don't care or that I... It's just very...it's frustrating. But now Jennifer's hired a forensic, one of the top forensic experts in Connecticut, Dr. Henry Lee, because you want to bring Dr.

16:25Lee in to look at the evidence in the room to see if maybe he can figure out what happened to George. Right. or if there was, in fact, a crime committed in the room. Right. But according to Jennifer, there was no blood in the room. But I thought George was in another room. I thought George... No, George was in their room. The commotion that everybody heard was in their room, but she was not in the room at the time. I was unconscious on our floor somewhere, like, opposite side of the ship. Yeah. She was brought... It happened with George, say, between 3 and 4, and she... I know it's very confusing.

16:54And she is brought into the room at 4.30, and nobody's in the room. So whatever happened to George happened before Jennifer was brought in the room. So what happened to George in the room and then George was taken out of the room or George left the room? The last key lock entry into the room when he was put back to bed was like 4.02 a.m. When he was put back to bed. When he was put back into the room. By whom? By the last young man. Other passengers on the boat. Other passengers on the boat. And then there was a noise complaint. there was a loud thud or something around 420. In the room. Yes. But you were not in the room, right?

17:33This is heard by people on either side. On either side of their cabin. And they're hearing lots of noise, lots of voices. It sounds like arguing. I mean, there's been speculation on what they actually heard, arguing men's voices. This guy next door is hearing it. He's calling security. Security shows up, I think... And everything is quiet. Like, I think security... The call was 402. I think security showed up at 4.30 or something like that. And by that time, things had quieted down. The thud had already occurred. They find me about the same time, 4.30, somewhere far from the room. They bring me back.

18:06Security finds you. Security finds me, then later brings me back. And they put me back into the bed. So they bring her into an empty room, and the room looks fine. There's no furniture overturned. There are no blood splatters, no blood stains. To the naked eye. To the naked eye. But there wasn't enough to think that there was a crime scene there, is the point I'm making. They put Jennifer in her bed, just lay her down. Because you are knocked out somewhere. Right. I brought back in a wheelchair. Whether it's drugs, whether it's alcohol, she's incapacitated. And they bring me back to the room. And the they is who?

18:38I'm trying to... Royal Caribbean security. I was found by maintenance people and then somewhere in a corridor. Okay. Jackie and Bobby Friedlander were passengers on the Royal Caribbean cruise ship with Jennifer and George. They spent six days with the newlywed couple, and this is the first time that they are publicly sharing their account of what happened the night George vanished. Okay? What happened, do you think? My heart and prayers go out to Jen and her family and his family. We met the first night on the steps, walking down after dinner, and they were just so lovely and kind and nice, seemed so in love.

19:16We were traveling with our three daughters. We were celebrating our 20th anniversary. But you saw them that night, the last... the night in question, you saw them. Oh, absolutely. We saw them every day. Did they appear to be drunk? Did Jennifer appear to be drunk? Well, no. I mean, you know, throughout those days, we saw each other, passed always, talked. We're standing next to them at the pool. So we had a rapport for this time. That night in question, I happened to be sitting at the nickel machine just in view of the craft table, where Bobby would stand with George every night, and Jen was learning to play, and they were all having a great time.

19:52It was around 2.30 a.m. 2.30 a.m.? 2.30 a.m. I'm sitting playing the stupid nickel machine. But Jen comes over. She gives me a kiss. She sits next to me. This is 2.30. 2.30 a.m. Approximately. You know, I didn't check my watch. I knew it was late. The casino was closing. Jen kissed me, sat down next to me. Was she inebriated? Absolutely not. I mean, I'm like the kind, I'm like, they say, I'm the FBI. I know my kids. I smell everything. You know, I have teenagers. I didn't experience that at all. In fact, her words were perfect. Our conversation, I remember what she was wearing. I mean, I have that kind of memory.

20:29I said, it sounds like you all are having so much fun. I said, um... So when you heard this story and that this... That she was...that there was some suspicion, what did you think? In fact, I just want to... Thinking this is the couple we met. Yeah. Absolutely. She said, I hope in 20 years I have three daughters like you, that George and Jen and I, you know, George and Jen will travel like this. So those were her last words. And George also spoke with me that night. Jen walked out, I assume maybe back to her cabin or to the bathroom. You know, I didn't question her. George came back in. He had gone to the men's room.

20:59We spoke. He did not seem at all intoxicated, as far as I was concerned. I mean, I have to say, we didn't want to speak at all out of respect to Jen and George and his memory, his parents. I mean, this isn't something we want to be, you know... Even associated with that. Yeah, I mean, it's just so sad and terrifying. What do you think happened? I've read everything. I think it couldn't have been an accident. I've been on 28 cruises. I've never heard of this. While she's talking favorably about Jennifer and George, you'll find other couples who say, I saw them, they were fighting, it was very nasty, you were nasty to each other, you were flirting with other men.

21:36So that's why it's just such a bizarre story. But I, you know, after meeting her and talking to her, I believed her.

21:46So while sailing on their honeymoon, George Smith IV emailed his family back home in Greenwich, Connecticut. He said, we're having such a good time. Don't call me unless somebody dies or it's the end of the world. And that was the last time George and Maureen Smith heard from their only son. Since George Smith IV went missing, his parents have been very vocal about what they think went wrong. I think that that's a very easy scapegoat for Royal Caribbean to claim it was an accident because he had a few drinks. But because of the physical evidence in my brother's case, unfortunately for them, they could not cover up this crime.

22:27Blood was found on the awning outside Jennifer and George's room. Key evidence that something terrible had happened. The cruise line claims it secured the area and preserved the evidence. But the Smiths disagree. They were seen 7.30 or 8 o 'clock in the morning washing that off even before the Turkish police came on board. And then it was painted over before the FBI got on the boat. They knew there was blood there. It's fairly clear to me that my brother was murdered. There was no doubt once we heard exactly about the blood and about the way he fell onto the overhang, it wasn't like you fell overboard.

23:06It was like you were dumped overboard. I think the cruise ship is covering up evidence, and I think they swept evidence under the carpet. And they just don't want to admit that they got caught. Do you have to have something written on the wall to say, this is murder? Adam Goldstein is the president of Royal Caribbean International. He has not spoken publicly about this case until today. We're glad to have you here. Did you participate in a cover-up? We did not. Mm-hmm. But, Oprah, if I may, because this is my first opportunity, and I appreciate that you give it to me, and to have Jennifer here with me and her parents, to say how sorry we are that this happened.

23:47It's a horrible loss. I can't pretend to understand the magnitude of your loss, as you've described it. It's impossible for me, for my colleagues. But I do want to express our sympathy to you in person, and I appreciate this opportunity. There certainly is no cover-up. Within 20 minutes of the guest reporting that there was, apparently, a blood stain on the canopy, we had commenced a complete search of the ship, looking for several people, including... We very quickly were able to focus in on Jennifer and George's stateroom. Why? Because you'd heard noise the night before? Because we looked at the rooms that were right up and down above where the stain was.

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24:29It was one of their balcony rooms. Mm-hmm. And because there was one partying noise complaint that was in our log, that helped us hone in on their room. So within 20 minutes, we were commencing a full search. We notified the authorities, the Turkish authorities, and the U.S. consulate before we even had found Jennifer, actually. So the full search was underway immediately. And we looked all over the ship and eventually found Jennifer, as she has said, in the spa and asked her if she was aware of her husband's whereabouts, because we had also been looking for her, so we were happy that we found her.

25:09And then we had to ask her if she knew where George was. And the investigation took place from there. The Turkish authorities did a complete forensic investigation that day after the last time that Jennifer was in her stateroom. And then the room was cleared, although we continued to have it sealed. And the cruise line wasn't out there cleaning up the blood before anybody came. You know, once that gets reported out there, it just sort of takes on a life of its own. But that is not what happened. It is absolutely false. And it's a very unfortunate example of the misinformation that's been out there for six months.

25:42Mm-hmm. The stain was, as soon as we understood that, it was sealed off. It was guarded. It was available to the Turkish authorities. Mm-hmm. And we were cleared specifically two times later in the day. Even after they cleared us the first time, They said we could have the stateroom back and the canopy back. Mm-hmm. We went again back to the Turkish authorities before the ship left and said, are you sure that we can do this? And then we cleaned it off with a pressure hose. We never painted over and still have not today painted over that. If I could just interject, you didn't do anything to George.

26:15I'm not mad at you personally. Yes. And I think that that's important. Not one person in particular. I know it wasn't you. The problem is there has to be some sort of accountability as well. And I think it's important to say, although something was cleared by Turkish authorities, now that I have FBI, you know, I'm in such contact with them, I know how they operate and how they perform. And they were like, this is not how you would, this is not a crime scene that's been preserved. This is not a crime scene that's, it wasn't preserved at all. The problem was, it was determined, unfortunately, that it was an accident prematurely.

26:53That is what this comes down to. The bottom line is we may know what we we would know most likely what happened to George before he fell if that bloodstain was secured simply because there's so much forensics that that bloodstain can show us. Yeah. The captain, for example, said maybe he just hit his nose and maybe he wiped it on the towel and that's how that happened and he stumbled over an accident prematurely. Prematurely. That was really the issue. So now, you know, after speaking with Dr. Henry Lee, he said, you know, you would have, you know, pieces of, if that was the case, he goes, you would find pieces of the nose in that blood.

27:30He said, oh, I see, you know, blood over blood here. And he's looking at the picture, and he goes, if we had that, I could see, you know, if George had, someone hit his head before he went over, if he was smacked, you would find those things in the blood, little pieces of hair, little pieces of cell. But I also understand Royal Caribbean's position that if you get yourself cleared by the Turkish government, which, that was your next port? We were in Turkey that day. Oh, you were in Turkey at the time. If you get yourself cleared and they say you're free to go back in the room and you're free now to move on and do, that you would assume that that was okay?

28:03Or would you feel like... I don't know why they would feel like, we need to wait till we get back to the United States. I guess it's only because there's other things that's showing this is not just simply an accident. I think that there's other evidence to support that, whether it be... At that time? At that time, it seems like the Turkish authorities collected a lot of forensics from that room. I don't know exactly what they are, but even if there's a doubt, why not just keep the ship in Turkey? Why not just keep it there? Why not keep the passengers on? Why not talk to all of them? Okay.

28:41After Jennifer made claims that she was abandoned by the cruise line, Royal Caribbean officials released a statement in response. Here is a portion of that statement. In it, they said her claims of abandonment were false and that she was never left alone. According to the statement, Jennifer was introduced to guest relations manager Marie, who took her to a private room and offered her an opportunity to shower, rest, and change clothes. Marie gave Jennifer magazines, a CD player, they say, to help calm her, and she stayed with Jennifer at all times, except when specifically told to leave the room by the FBI.

29:15Mr. Goldstein. First of all, I appreciate your comments about me, and I also want to say here on the show that we at Royal Caribbean do not have any suspicion of you in any way. You mentioned that before that many people do, and I want to be very clear. Nobody at Royal Caribbean has any suspicion of you. You've been the only ones. Thank you. We enabled the investigation to take place by notifying all the relevant authorities immediately, and they came on board and they did their forensics while the cabin was sealed, while the bloodstain was sealed down below. So they did the forensics, and they were in constant consultation with the FBI, and the U.S.

29:49consulate was there in contact also during the day. So all of the relevant authorities were involved in determining how the investigation should be carried out. And they were...they completed their investigation, and they declared the cabin and the canopy cleared back to us. Do you feel that Royal Caribbean did everything? I mean, many times when...because this is an awful thing that happened, And many times when things happen, you, you know, review your policy and you say, well, if we had only done, have you all reached any kind of thinking or conclusion that if we had only done or should we have done something differently, or would you have done the same thing?

30:28We would have done the same things in the sense that our people tried very hard to provide assistance and comfort to Jennifer during a terrible day to try to find George Smith with a very thorough search and a quick search, and to immediately notify the authorities and allow the investigation to take place. Now, there is no such thing as perfect in a tragic situation like this. It's impossible. So we've spent a tremendous amount of time thinking over the last five months, six months, what could we have done differently? I've been with the company 18 years. I know how hard our people work, but we have never faced anything...

31:02Like this. ...like this. So we certainly look back and say, what could we have done better? Just to clear something up, I think that it's so... It, like, adds insult to injury every time people say, like, this is what we gave you, we did this. Like, someone said, we gave you magazines, we gave you CDs. Who, you know... To me, that's just another... It was kind of callous when I had heard that. My father was promised that I'd be taken off the ship with two security officers. You know, he was... You know, we were out of our minds, and it's unfair for people who don't have, you know, that same...

31:39That was a moment in time for us that we will... that changed our lives forever. So when people judged that moment and what we felt like, yes, we were abandoned in many ways that day. I was, you know, taken off the ship, questioned there, and then those two security officers left. It was a woman, Marie, from Guest Relations. That's not a security officer. And I think that to just say, yeah, I acknowledge that. We're sorry, you know. You should have been given what your father was promised. You should not have stayed the day in Turkey. You should not have been made, you know, to pay for your own flight home, to have your dad wire$1 ,000 the next day so that he could pay for all of these things.

32:19Can you at least be accountable for the things that weren't right as opposed to saying, we gave her magazines, we made her comfortable, we gave her a sedative? It's like, I just feel sometimes like, am I losing my mind or is everybody just like, everything we do is perfect? I think it's so much more admirable just to say, I'm not sure we did everything right. Even that night, I wish we had done maybe things differently, but at least I say, yes, we were drinking, but I'm not sure that has anything to do with it. Just admit some wrongdoing. It just feels a lot better. There is no such thing as perfect on a terrible day like that.

32:52We couldn't have done everything perfect, and we didn't do everything perfect. Do you wish you left the ship in Turkey? Do you wish you kept the ship secure? Do you look back and say, God, why didn't we do that? I would like to say this. when we first sort of received the commentary, it seemed like we literally had done nothing at all when we had done many things. And I am sorry if some of the things that we came forward with in terms of the assistance that we provided seemed trivial to you, because that certainly wasn't the intention. I think we could have communicated better on a very disoriented day.

33:21And absolutely, we should have paid for your air ticket home. Absolutely. When you ask... It's insignificant, right. But I... Right. But it's an example. But that would have been the right thing to do. Right. And, for example, I got home, and then a week later, you know, there I am, I'm paying George's bills now, and I get a bill from Royal Caribbean a week after the cruise ends, like, our room bills. Like, those sorts of things that just, like, take care. Take the time, you know? Yeah. This is not... That should not have happened. We are people. You know, we are not just a number. We are just not room 9062, and that has been the most hurtful part, you know, through all of this.

33:54George and I became this sensational, like, blips. Like, nobody... We've spent five months trying to think about the whole situation, also to assist the investigation so that you and we can have answers. Really, we want answers, but we've thought a lot about what happened and the different things, what our actions were, and what they could have been. We did have Marie with you all day long. There is a disagreement about what was the conversation with your father. But that's my point. See, right there. You... Instead of just being so... This is a business to you. Why do you need to keep bringing up that point?

34:23Why can't you just say, I'm sorry, we didn't give you what we promised? Because... We have a disagreement on that, Jennifer, about what was promised. I'm sorry. Well, my dad's right there, so we should ask him. Okay, well, this is... I'll let you ask him, but this is really what the issue... It's trivial. It's not trivial. No, there's nothing. What is happening here is what you thought was enough was not enough. The Marie or whoever the... The guest relations. The guest relations person you put with her, and I'm sure that even Marie, Marie, because you're saying this has never happened in 18 years of your being with the cruise line, that guest relations is to make your stay more comfortable.

35:09And I'm sure that whoever this person was had not been in a situation like that and perhaps didn't know what to do, as people often don't know what to do in crises like this.

35:22So what she is simply saying is, I know you offered this, but what you offered was not enough for me at the time. And what she needs is an apology. Right. And I would like to do that, but what I would... Yeah. ...I want to do that by way of saying we did the best... You knew how to do. ...that we could, that we knew how to do... ...in a situation we had not encountered before. Yes. And I can understand on a terrible, long, difficult day, an ordeal, worse than an ordeal, whatever that would be, It would not...there wasn't anything that we could do that would have been enough. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I am sorry...

35:57Good. ...and I say that on behalf of 40 ,000 people at Royal Caribbean, that we were not able to render you as much assistance and comfort as you would like to have had on that terrible day. I am sorry about that. And we just wanted to under...we just wanted to have, on the record of what happened, what we did do, and we've been able to do that. And I thank you for listening to that and acknowledging that. I acknowledge everything you're saying. I guess I'd prefer, you know, forget about me that day. I wish you'd say, I'm sorry we didn't keep the, you know, to me it's most important. It's like, let's get back to George.

36:32It's most important. Why didn't we not, why couldn't we keep that ship there? What is wrong with, you have insurance for that. You can keep that ship docked. You can send everybody home. Everybody can go on their way. You can give them two new cruises. It doesn't matter. The point is, you made a decision to get the ship moving. You actually left port half an hour before it was even... It was like you just couldn't wait to go. But he made that decision based upon the Turkish... And the FBI... ...saying that you can go. It was an accident. It was an accident. And this is one of the things that could be...

37:00Oprah, if I may? Yes, go ahead. I apologize. The scene was treated as a potential crime scene by all of the relevant authorities. The captain, in a separate form that he sent to the Bahamas, because that's what the ship's flag is, gave his opinion, as the form asks him to do, what happened. And that is where he said he thought that, based on what he knew, it was an accident. But it's very important to know that none of the authorities who were acting on the day had any knowledge of that or were influenced by his opinion of what may have happened. The captain. Of the captain. They were not influenced.

37:33No, they were not influenced. They did the things that you needed to do to have a proper investigation, and they cleared the ship. So none of the authorities thought that actually, I'm curious. When was the U.S. FBI, when did they actually get onto the ship for the first time? I believe the FBI came physically onto the ship for the first time. From the U.S.? Okay. But there was an FBI agent vacationing coincidentally who was involved in the communication. I can't stand when everyone keeps bringing that guy. Poor guy up, he helped me so much that day. He carried all my bags and did everything. But he was not there in an authority capacity.

38:07In an official position. And so that's frustrating every time they say, I was there that day. It's like that's where all the misinformation comes in. What I'm simply saying is it was a really choppy, you know, job, getting all the forensics, everything that was done. You know, even Dr. Lee, I said, how long would you actually need, you know, to get, do that room? He goes, well, we need at least, like, a full day just for, you know, forensics. I mean, that's just for one part of it. And then you have passengers, interviews. So bottom line is you don't think that they did all that they could? No.

38:38And I think it's admirable that he's here acknowledging that we made some mistakes and we wish we would have done it better. Right. But that's the part I think I... I think that it's admirable that he's sitting here talking to all of us today and really doing a huge mea culpa. And I think that, you know, something should be said about that. Because we could go on and on, back and forth, about what they did and what they didn't do. Yeah. Because it was a horrible thing that happened to Jennifer. We all admit that. But I think it was horrible for everybody involved. And it must be horrible. You're the head of Royal Caribbean, to be told, slammed that you didn't do what you said, that you...there was a cover-up, that you all didn't act in the best way.

39:15So to sit here and say, yes, we basically made some mistakes. Okay, we... It was not a good situation. There's no question about that. I appreciate it. I have to be absolutely clear. There was no cover-up, and there simply wasn't, and there isn't. Yeah, we get that. That is clear. We get that. We're very clear about that. But I want to compliment Jennifer for being comfortable even to sit here together with me and... To challenge you, yeah. Yeah. It's a credit to you. Thank you. It's a credit to both of you for being here, so... You know what is awful about all of these stories is that oftentimes the person who has lost their life gets lost in the story.

39:51Yeah. And all of the hoopla, all of the hype, all of the attention is about other things, when in fact the Smith... They lost a son. Right. They lost a brother. They... He is gone. He is gone. And what do you want to say about George? That I wish that everybody would just, you know, every time you see his face, you know, on camera, up on, like, on your TV screen, to just know that, like, he's our George, that we love him so much. And this has been just such a nightmare for everybody. And we, you know, although we don't have him, But just stop bashing him. Stop, you know, saying he, you know, was this or that.

40:39It's like he was a wonderful person. He was a great husband, even for the short time. For all the years that I know him and everyone, it's like there's not one person who can say a bad word about him. And it's amazing now that he's gone, people are saying bad things about him, and it's terrible. So... Thank you, Jennifer. And thank you, Anna. Bye, everybody. I'm Oprah Winfrey, and you've been listening to The Oprah Winfrey Show, The Podcast. If you haven't yet, go to Apple Podcasts and subscribe, rate, and review this podcast. Join me next week for another Oprah show, The Podcast. And I thank you for listening.

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Original Air Date: 1-18-2006

Jennifer Hagel Smith, whose husband, George Smith, disappeared during a honeymoon cruise in the Mediterranean, speaks out about his bloody disappearance. Then, Adam Goldstein, then-president of the cruise line, comes face-to-face with Jennifer. Having conducted a one-on-one interview with Jennifer the day before the Oprah show taping, Gayle King also joins the conversation to provide deeper insight into Jennifer’s journey.


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