Gwyneth Paltrow - 'Marty Supreme'

22 Dec 2025 · 1 h 9 min · 28 chapters

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In short

Gwyneth Paltrow discusses her career turning points and how she moved from acting to entrepreneurship (Goop) and back to film, focusing on her 2024/2025 return in Josh Safdie’s dramedy Marty Supreme, where she plays a woman who quit acting and later returns.

Guest backgrounds

Gwyneth Paltrow is a Los Angeles-born actress raised between Santa Monica and New York City; her father was a TV producer (The White Shadow, St. Elsewhere) and her mother an actress. She trained through theater at Williamstown and later became a Miramax “first lady” after working with Harvey Weinstein’s team.

Key claims

She says her parents initially discouraged acting but later supported her after her Williamstown stage work (Picnic). She describes Miramax’s Oscar campaigns as relentless and strategic. She credits grief and structure with helping her through father’s death while filming Sylvia and says she uses complex roles to process darker feelings.

Notable examples

Cool as Ice (first offer rejected by her father), Husbands and Wives (near-miss), Flesh and Bone (breakthrough; Meg Ryan praise), Heartbreakers with Paul Thomas Anderson (studio interference), Shakespeare in Love (Oscar win; Best Picture upset), Iron Man (Goop-era shift), Sylvia and Proof (father-daughter grief parallels), and Marty Supreme Oscar buzz for Best Supporting Actress.

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Chapters

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Gwyneth's Early Life and Family Background

0:07 to 0:58

Gwyneth discusses her childhood and family influence on her career.

“Carey Mulligan, Charles Melton, Kaylee Sveiny, and legendary Korean actors Yoon Ye-jung and Song Kong Ho.”

Gwyneth's Early Life and Family Background

3:03 to 4:20

Gwyneth discusses her childhood and family influence on her career.

“And so, without further ado, let's go to that conversation.”

Discovering the Passion for Acting

4:20 to 6:24

Gwyneth shares how she caught the acting bug and how her parents reacted.

“So the fact, though, that a lot of that moving around was attributed, it was because your mom was an actress, is an actress, great actress.”

Early Career Decisions and Opportunities

6:24 to 8:31

Gwyneth recounts her early career decisions and the challenges she faced.

“and heartbreaking this career is and can be.”

Breakthrough Roles and Industry Insights

8:31 to 11:13

Discussion on breakthrough roles and experiences with industry veterans.

“williamstown and you were the lead in picnic not the lead the jane krakowski was the lead i played the younger sister.”

Reflections on Fame and Acting

11:13 to 14:03

Gwyneth reflects on her experiences with fame and her approach to acting.

“But anyway, like it was one of those things where they had me fly back to New York for like the fifth or sixth time.”

Early Career Experiences

14:03 to 17:50

Gwyneth Paltrow shares impactful moments from her early acting career.

“And I was like living in a hotel room in Austin and I couldn't believe it.”

Working with Paul Thomas Anderson

17:51 to 22:23

Gwyneth discusses her experience working with Paul Thomas Anderson and his film 'Heart 8'.

“I don't think we ever crossed into the double digits, at least when I was there.”

The Journey to Emma

22:24 to 24:42

Gwyneth reflects on her role in 'Emma' and her relationship with Miramax.

“and the first prominent of the 11 that you made for Merrimack's, which would then claim you as its first lady of Merrimack's.”

The Making of Shakespeare in Love

24:43 to 28:00

Gwyneth discusses the evolution of 'Shakespeare in Love' and her initial hesitations.

“So I had done Flesh and Bone and I was in Toronto doing a film called Moonlight and Valentino.”
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Gwyneth Paltrow's Journey to Shakespeare in Love

28:00 to 29:20

Explore how Gwyneth Paltrow was initially hesitant about her role in Shakespeare in Love and the pivotal moment that changed her mind.

“interest, and muse of William Shakespeare and inspires Romeo and Juliet in Shakespeare in Love.”

The Making of Shakespeare in Love

29:20 to 31:10

Gwyneth reflects on the magical experience of filming Shakespeare in Love and her initial disappointment with her performance.

“off to the races and john madden says that he first met you when you were 20 and auditioned for another of his films, Golden Gate.”

The Intensity of Award Season

31:10 to 33:10

Gwyneth describes the relentless pace of the award season following the release of Shakespeare in Love and the pressure it brought.

“When we were making it, it felt special.”

The Emotional Night of the Oscars

33:10 to 35:10

Gwyneth shares her surreal experience and emotional state during the Oscar night when she won Best Actress.

“And of course, like that, how that impacted Miramax's bottom line.”

Shakespeare in Love's Unexpected Win

35:10 to 37:40

Gwyneth discusses the surprising win of Shakespeare in Love over Saving Private Ryan and its significance.

“And so it's like, I'm like, I can't believe that happened to me.”

Navigating Life After the Oscar Win

37:40 to 40:00

Gwyneth reflects on the pressures and expectations that followed her Oscar win and the importance of staying true to oneself.

“So I think the town was so charmed by Tom Stoppard's perfect, again, screenplay.”

Working with Anthony Minghella and Wes Anderson

40:00 to 42:00

Gwyneth describes her experiences working with directors Anthony Minghella and Wes Anderson, highlighting their unique styles.

“Like cast off everybody's expectations and do what's right for you.”

Exploring Unique Film Choices

42:00 to 43:31

Gwyneth discusses her experience on set and the unique tone of her film projects.

“Like I knew what he was doing and I was there for it.”

Processing Grief Through Acting

43:31 to 46:19

Gwyneth shares how acting helped her process grief after her father's passing.

“know that I realized this until I started prepping for this but it was three weeks later that you just you had already had tickets to go see Coldplay.”

Father-Daughter Dynamics in Film

46:19 to 48:31

A conversation about the powerful father-daughter dynamic explored in her films.

“I remember it being very, very impressive.”

The Iron Man Experience

48:31 to 51:18

Gwyneth reflects on her role as Pepper Potts and the unknown success of the MCU.

“Just another example of directors at the beginning of their careers, Ryan Murphy running with Scissors, 2006.”

The Birth of Goop

51:18 to 54:16

Gwyneth discusses the origins of Goop and her entrepreneurial journey.

“It's a really good question because I kind of don't know.”

Navigating Public Perception

54:16 to 56:06

Gwyneth addresses being a polarizing figure and public criticism in her career.

“I guess another parallel between being an actress and being the founder of Goop is that you have to have thick skin because people have everybody's got an opinion.”

Cultural Impact and Authenticity

56:06 to 58:00

Gwyneth discusses her cultural contributions and the authenticity behind her entrepreneurial journey.

“And some of them were not science backed at the time and became science backed.”

Return to Acting: The Call of Marty Supreme

58:00 to 1:00:00

Gwyneth shares her journey back to acting and the significance of the film Marty Supreme.

“But the thing that maybe disappointed people the most since 2008 when you started Goop is that there was not a lot of acting anymore.”

Character Exploration and Vulnerability

1:00:00 to 1:03:04

Gwyneth delves into her character's complexity and the emotional challenges faced during filming.

“I could probably tell you who like the CFO of, you know, Microsoft was at the time, but had no idea who these guys were.”

Reflections on Hollywood's Evolution

1:03:04 to 1:06:00

Analyzing the significant changes in Hollywood's business model and its impact on movie stars.

“Anyway, with our last minute, just a rapid fire if I can.”

Support for Future Generations

1:06:00 to 1:07:34

Gwyneth expresses her encouragement for aspiring artists and the importance of creativity.

“Not unless the business model works such that movies are made and shown in the theater.”
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0:00This episode is brought to you by Netflix, presenting Beef, from creator, writer, and director Lee Sung Jin. The new installment of the eight-time Emmy-winning anthology series features powerhouse performances from Oscar Isaac, Carey Mulligan, Charles Melton, Kaylee Sveiny, and legendary Korean actors Yoon Ye-jung and Song Kong Ho. Esquire raves, it's hands down the best TV show of the year, and IGN hails it a masterpiece. Lee Sung Jin's series remains an untouchable force. Beef for your Emmy consideration.

0:57as the CEO of the hugely successful lifestyle company Goop. She first made her name in the 1990s and 2000s, in films like 1995's Seven, 1996's Emma, 1998's Shakespeare in Love, 1999's The Talented Mr. Ripley, 2001's The Royal Tenenbaums, 2003's Sylvia, 2005's Proof, and 2008's Iron Man. When, in the words of the New York Times, she was, for a while, the best young American actor in Hollywood. To see her on a screen was a guarantee of a compelling performance. Vanity Fair declared that she was not just a movie star, but also an actress to be reckoned with, and People magazine deemed her the most beautiful woman in the world.

1:41Then in 2008, she started Goop, which initially was a free newsletter, but grew into a cultural phenomenon, independently valued five years ago at$433 million, that largely took her away from acting. This year, though, she made a triumphant return to the big screen opposite Timothee Chalamet in Josh Safdie's dramedy Marty Supreme, playing a woman who gave up her career as an actress only to return to acting years later. It's a performance that is a little meta, to be sure, but it's also generating Best Supporting Actress Oscar buzz for her some 27 years after she took home a Best Actress Oscar for Shakespeare in Love.

2:23Gwyneth Paltrow Over the course of a conversation at the Mayborn Beverly Hills Hotel, the 53-year-old and I discussed how she wound up a stage and screen actress generally, and the first lady of Miramax, Harvey Weinstein's company specifically, what led her to work with so many great filmmakers early in their career, including David Fincher, Paul Thomas Anderson, Alfonso Cuaron, and Wes Anderson, why she became disillusioned with Hollywood and gravitated more toward business, and what lured her back in front of the camera for Marty Supreme, why she thinks she is such a polarizing person, and what she thinks her future holds, plus much more.

3:03And so, without further ado, let's go to that conversation.

3:14All right, thank you, Gwyneth, for doing this. Really appreciate it.

3:17Gwyneth Paltrow:My pleasure, my pleasure. On this podcast, over the course of an hour, we try to cover the kind of major turning points, major moments in each guest's life and career. So always start at the beginning, asking where our guest was born and raised and what their folks did for a living. I think you are the first guest whose mother has previously been on this podcast. So people can refer to that as well. But if you wouldn't mind starting. My name is Gwyneth Paltrow. I was born at the old Cedars-Sinai Hospital in Los Angeles, California, which is now the Scientology building. I was raised really between Santa Monica and New York City, so we did a lot of traversing.

3:58Gwyneth Paltrow:I did part of preschool in New York, part of it here, elementary school here, but first and third grades in New York and second grade, partially in South Carolina when my mother was filming The Great Santini. So it was a bit of a peripatetic childhood. And then we kind of landed in New York when I was 11, and then that was that. So the fact, though, that a lot of that moving around was attributed, it was because your mom was an actress, is an actress, great actress. Yes, thank you. And your father was also in the business. Yes, he was. He was a producer. He was a great spotter and nurturer of talent and was an incredible producer and made shows like The White Shadow and St.

4:47Gwyneth Paltrow:Elsewhere. So kind of cult classic stuff. Totally. I've read a lot about these summers, quite a few of them that you guys spent in Williamstown. Every one. Every one. Every one. This is because they have a theater festival that your mom was very involved with for years and then you were too. Is that where you would say you kind of caught the bug? Oh, without a doubt. Yeah. I remember, I mean, some of my very earliest memories are me in Williamstown, like tugging on her big rehearsal skirts, you know, and watching rehearsal. Being in the theater, being underneath the stage, being behind the stage.

5:29Gwyneth Paltrow:you know, roller skating down the hallways. Williamstown was like, and is and always will be a very essential part of who I am. It's how I learned this craft. It's where I made lifelong friends. And I think weirdly, like the nature, the forests, the streams, the Berkshire mountains became this deep part of me. And I think it's why I seek nature all the time, because it's so deep in there. It's really in my cells from being in Massachusetts. And the fact that you were observing your mom acting there and then acting there yourself, as it became clear that you were into this, was that encouraged or discouraged at all?

6:16Gwyneth Paltrow:I mean, it was patently discouraged. They knew firsthand how difficult and heartbreaking this career is and can be. And I think they wanted to shield me from a lot of that. And, you know, it's like I think when you're a parent, you want your kid to have a happy life full of consistency and safety, and this isn't always so conducive to that. So they always used to talk me out of it when I said, I want to be an actress like Mom. And she would say, no, no, you're far too intelligent to be an actress. Don't do that. Don't waste your time with this, you know, career that you never know what's going to happen.

7:02Gwyneth Paltrow:But then when I kind of really declared that I wanted to do it, they were very supportive. In between those, the initial resistance and then the acceptance was a brief period at UC San Barbara. That's right. Go Gauchos. And then I guess there were a couple of, you know, maybe they felt maybe they at the time felt big, but like smaller opportunities that started to come along. Right. For instance, I think one that didn't dissuade the discouragement or cool is ice. The vanilla ice. Is this the first offer you got? That was the first offer I got. I was so excited. It was for the lead in a film. Right.

7:44Gwyneth Paltrow:And my parents said no. I gave my dad the script, and there was one line in the script, at which point he put it down, and he said, I forbid you to do this. Well, so then I guess what sort of became, if not the exact first, a very early one coming out the same year as Cool as Ice, I might note, is Hook, which was your godfather Steven Spielberg's movie. Yeah, so that wasn't fair because, I mean, Cool as Ice, I went in, I auditioned, I got that part. hook my one line in hook was a product of nepotism 100 it happens it's all right okay so that was that was young wendy for the record and then but i guess the thing where it seems like from things you've said where your parents certainly your dad really came around was you go back to williamstown and you were the lead in picnic not the lead the jane krakowski was the lead i played the younger sister.

8:42Gwyneth Paltrow:But it was like a very, it was a great part. It was like a very showy character part. So what happened there that turned them around? So we were in a family discussion around whether I should go back for my sophomore year at UC Santa Barbara. And I had spent a lot of time during my freshman year driving to Los Angeles. I also had gotten cast in this kind of teen drama before John Travolta really made his comeback. I forget the name of it. Was it Shout? Yes. How the fuck do you know that? Oh my God. That is crazy. I kept driving down, you know, cause I was basically an extra, but sort of a featured extra.

9:22Gwyneth Paltrow:And I had one line. So they were like, we need you in this, we need you in this. And I would drive down and work a night and then go back to UC Santa Barbara. And then my dad told me I was doing both things very badly and needed to pick a lane, but they really, you know, were encouraging me to stay in college, which ironically, you know, it's a conversation I may currently be having with someone in my own house, but, you know, they did want me to stay in school. And I was torn as well. But that summer I did picnic and I'll never forget my father came backstage after. And he said, I think you should drop out of college.

10:03Because he'd been so impressed.

10:05Gwyneth Paltrow:Yeah. And it was like this huge moment of validation and like being seen in the deepest way and like my sort of bravery being honored. It was like one of the seminal moments. That's great. Sorry. No, it's a beautiful moment. Okay. So then around then you get an agent at CAA. Sort of. They're like, well, we're not going to tell anyone we represent you, but we'll send you out on things. Well, and I guess one of those that you were sent out on many times, as many as five times I read, was Woody Allen's Husbands and Wives. That's right. What happened there? Okay, so it was my absolute dream to be in a Woody Allen movie, as it was everybody's.

10:53Gwyneth Paltrow:I went in and I read for Juliet, the casting director, and she was like, oh, gosh, this is great. You're amazing. We want you to come back and read for Woody. So then I was like so nervous. And then I kept getting called back over and over and over. I was in LA doing something. I don't know what I was doing. But anyway, like it was one of those things where they had me fly back to New York for like the fifth or sixth time. And I got very, very close, but I didn't get the movie in the end. And I was pretty devastated. And, you know, I was probably 19 and I thought, well, I should just pack it in.

11:34Gwyneth Paltrow:Like, forget it. I guess this means I'm never going to get anywhere in this business. So I guess ironically, then the same year that that movie came out with Juliette Lewis in your part was. No, in her part. Well, OK. All right. Very nice of you. But this was the same year as a miniseries, Cruel Doubt. Yes. And. A little less distinguished. Less high profile. But I mean, I guess your first substantial part, supporting part, and then your mom, after you get it, joins the cast as one of the leads. That's right. That didn't go over well. Well, I think that I, of course, when you are following in your parents' footsteps, you really want to differentiate and you want people to know or hope that you have your own talent and, you know, are recognizing you as your own entity.

12:28Gwyneth Paltrow:And I auditioned and got the part. And then they said, hey, you gave us the best idea. We're going to cast your mom as the mom. I was excited to work with her, but I also felt a little crestfallen because I sort of felt like, oh, no, everybody's going to think that I got it because she was in it. But it was OK. It worked out. And I guess one of the byproducts of doing Cruel Doubt is that Steve Kloves saw that and he said that was part of what made him think of you for Flesh and Bone, which was the real first kind of breakthrough. you're playing this con artist who will sneak into wakes and steal jewelry off of corpses and all that but here's a quote from him to the LA Times quote I had a gut feeling she was the one she walked in wearing this little sundress and she's all sunshine and then we started to read and it was like a veil came down over her face and she was Ginny this character and it was chilling because Ginny was a chilling character close quote you were 20 when you did that film first real part I guess we, you know, it's really substantial part alongside Meg Ryan, who I know that was a big deal.

13:35But I mean, just did that feel like a big project? Because people were even talking. I went back and looked at the time, the coverage, like they were thinking you might get an Oscar nomination for that one.

13:46Gwyneth Paltrow:It was wild when that came out. I mean, I think I just like lucked into this great part. and I was, I loved being in Texas. You know, all my friends were like juniors in college or sophomores, sophomores. And I was like living in a hotel room in Austin and I couldn't believe it. And I was so starstruck by Meg Ryan. Like I, I, the whole time I never relaxed. Like it was so, you know, she was such an idol of mine and, um, and it was just such a great experience. And it It was like a real – in those days, it was like there were a lot of these Hollywood movies with movie stars that were kind of with adult themes.

14:31Gwyneth Paltrow:And there was this exploration into like complications of characters and such. So I felt like, wow, I'm in this really cool movie. And it's so unique and it was so different than the Upper East Side of New York, being in Far East Texas. And I just loved it. Like I immersed myself in it so much. And when it came out, you know, it was the first time I was, you know, in fact, I'll never forget this. I was eating on Prince Street at this restaurant called Elephant and Castle. And do you remember those? I think so. And anyway, Demi Moore came up to me and she was like, I just want to tell you I saw Flesh and Bone and you're amazing.

15:17Gwyneth Paltrow:Like kind of welcoming me to the, you know, industry. And I was like, my heart was pounding. And I just, it wasn't even a very successfully commercial film. But for me, it was impactful. Yeah. And that will connect to Emma, oddly, in a moment. But in between Flesh and Bone and Emma, Jefferson in Paris. So you're in a Merchant Ivory movie, which is. It wasn't great. Not great, but it's still, you got the experience. And I lived in Paris for four months. There you go. And then young David Fincher's second movie after Aliens 3 is 7. Just to remind folks, you're the pregnant wife of the detective, played by Brad Pitt, who unfortunately parts ways with her head later in the film.

16:03But I guess the story that I'd seen there was that that part was the result of you unsuccessfully auditioning for another part. Is that correct?

16:11Gwyneth Paltrow:I think that's true. I think it was from Legends of the Fall. That's what I heard. Okay. I think that's what it was, is that I had been, it was, I had gotten very close on Legends of the Fall. And there was like two years where there were a number of films that I auditioned for. It was like, it's between you and someone else, or, you know, you're right in the final group. And I kept getting rejected, which of course is par for the course. But I think Brad had seen my tape or maybe I had auditioned with him. I auditioned with him, I think. No, I can't remember. Well, regardless, it was that he was so impressed with your, I guess, you know, audition slash perhaps you as well.

16:56Right. Maybe.

16:57Gwyneth Paltrow:I think maybe it was just a tape. I can't remember. But so I got offered that part. I didn't even have to audition for that part. Yeah. For seven. And I had seen, I actually hadn't seen Aliens 3, but I had grown up obsessed with the Freedom 90 video from George Michael. So to me, David Fincher was already the biggest director in the world. You know, like in my mind, it was like he was a culture maker. He understood cool and all the things. So I was very excited to do that film. I know you've said that people weren't always particularly nice in response to that film, although with time, I think it's now a classic and whatever, really embraced.

17:41Was he already set in his ways that people now talk about? Obviously, it works for him and the people who work with him, but like a zillion takes and all of that.

17:49Gwyneth Paltrow:Not at all. No. Not at all. Interesting. We had a normal amount of takes. It was like six or five or never. And never. I don't think we ever crossed into the double digits, at least when I was there. Interesting. It was like, yeah, it's so fascinating to me now to hear he does like 150 takes. I know. I guess I don't have to. I'm not sure why he does it. It works. It works. He's the best. I mean, he's so incredible. What's really amazing started. That's the first of a bunch of examples we're going to come to where it's like you were working with the people who are now the top of the business at the beginning of their careers.

18:32And I don't know if that was something that you were specifically kind of seeking out these promising young filmmakers or if it just worked out that way. But next up was Paul Thomas Anderson with Heart 8 just a year later, this cocktail waitress slash prostitute in Reno, I believe.

18:48Gwyneth Paltrow:Yes, that's right. This is his feature directorial debut, adapting it from a short. Was it, A, was it already clear that he was a special filmmaker? And B, what do you remember of some of the bullshit that he went through there where they renamed his film, they took away the cut? He said that you were the one who really stood up for him, but it was apparently a very unpleasant experience. It was absolutely awful. I mean, they raked him over the coals. I mean, I hope like sometimes he just sits in his room with like a martini and smirks when he thinks back at those assholes who treated him like that.

19:25Gwyneth Paltrow:But so to answer the first part of your question, I could tell right away. I instinctually felt like this kid is good and he knows what he's doing. I think not to pat myself on the back, but I think I am good at seeing around corners. Like, I think I see things early, whether it's like a wellness modality or a director or where the culture's going. Like, I can just do that. Sometimes I trust my instincts. Sometimes I don't. But I feel, you know, I can feel it. And I really felt it with Paul. It took him a long time to raise the money. I just kept sticking with it. You know, the financing process was awful.

20:04Gwyneth Paltrow:We finally made the movie, had the best time. I mean, John C. Reilly is like a genius. Like I can't even articulate. Sam Jackson. I mean, and Paul and I were really close friends. And so we just had the best time. And then the studio didn't understand it at all. And they tortured him. I mean, they did take the film. The film was supposed to be called Sydney, which was Philip Baker Hall's character's name in the film. They took the cutaway. They fought with him tooth and nail. I didn't have much power or clout, by the way, in this day and age. And I think, you know, by proxy, because at that point I was with Brad, he had a lot, you know, it's like he was able to sort of transfer a bit of the power to me and I was able to stick up for Paul.

20:58Gwyneth Paltrow:But they cut off the budget. I gave him money to color correct or whatever at the end. Like it was really a group effort. But I'm so proud of that film. and it's such a good first film. Totally. And here you guys are 29 years later going through another award season together. Head to head, baby. You're going down, PTA. I love that movie so much. True or false, he then wanted you to be in his next film, Boogie Nights, as I believe Pornstar Roller Girl, the part that Heather Graham ultimately played. This is true. Who told you this? Sources. Well, I don't want to take anything away from Heather Graham.

21:38Gwyneth Paltrow:And I think everything always really works out for the best. And Heather is so phenomenal and perfect in that part. And it worked out perfectly. But he did want me to play roller girl. And I wanted to do it too. But I, so I was very close to my father and grandfather. And I just felt like it would be too much for them. for me to be doing those scenes, I knew they couldn't handle. I just didn't want to put them through it. And so I didn't. Well, as a result, I guess, maybe of not doing that, you were able to do Emma. It was around the same time, I think, roughly. This is Douglas McGrath's first feature as director, your first leading role.

22:22Gwyneth Paltrow:Yeah. The first, or sorry, not the first, but one of, and the first prominent of the 11 that you made for Merrimack's, which would then claim you as its first lady of Merrimack's. Do you remember how that one came about? Because I think the prior ones that were Merrimack's, you happened to be in a movie that was Merrimack's. This was like, we want you to be the face of our company. Yeah. Well, you know, it's funny because, of course, it's kind of well known what happened after that time. But I also, and this is where it's like the complications of life and all the gradations play so heavily into the story because Miramax was making incredible films.

23:08Gwyneth Paltrow:And Harvey had an amazing gift for talent and for nurturing it and green lighting amazing movies. And then, of course, the promotional machine that he put behind them. And like he, there was a lot of good that came out of that time. Emma was, to me, I read the script and I just thought, man, I really, I feel that this is my part. You know, you don't feel that very often in life, but I really felt that it was, it belonged to me. I think Doug wanted me to do it. They were a little bit on the fence at Miramax, but then in the end, they said that they would do the film. And I think it was like not a huge budget or anything like that, but they said yes, and off I went.

23:58I think two things may have triggered it becoming a yes.

24:02Gwyneth Paltrow:Oh, yeah. For Douglas McGrath, it was, quote, the thing that actually sold me on her playing a young English girl was that she did a perfect Texas accent in Fleshing Bone. I know that wouldn't recommend her to most people, but I grew up in Texas and I have never heard an actor or actress not from Texas sound remotely like a real Texan. And I knew she had theater training so she could carry herself. We had many actresses, big and small, who wanted to play this part. The minute she started the read-through, the very first line, I thought, everything is going to be fine. She's going to be brilliant.

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24:29Close quote. So that's for him. But I guess Harvey had been at the Toronto Film Festival. And I don't know what exactly he had seen of yours, but he saw something. Flesh and Bone. It was. It was, yeah. So this was a few years before the movie came out. This was a few years before.

24:45Gwyneth Paltrow:Sure. So I had done Flesh and Bone and I was in Toronto doing a film called Moonlight and Valentino. I came out of an elevator and he said, hey, I saw you in Flesh and Bone. You're brilliant and you should come and work for Miramax. And then that sort of started my relationship with him and the team there, which was, you know. Donna Gelati, who then do Shakespeare in Love years later. Yes, and my brother's movie called The Good Night, another Doug movie. So I worked with her a number of times. I did a film called Possession with her. Oh, yeah. Yeah. People really responded to you. And Emma, the New York Times Review said, quote, Gwyneth Paltrow makes a resplendent Emma gliding through the film with an elegance and patrician wit that bring the young Katherine Hepburn to my close quote.

25:26Not a bad New York Times Review. And I guess pretty much on the basis of Emma, you were quickly in very high demand, which I think is the reason that five films of yours came out in 1998. That's bananas. Right? Between January, literally, with Great Expectations and December with Shakespeare in Love. And in between those, Hush in March, Sliding Doors in April, and the remake of Dial M for Murder, A Perfect Murder in June. Wow. But right before that year and something that would have affected that year, what actually happened with Titanic? Because you were apparently, James Cameron wanted you, right?

26:04I think I was in the running.

26:07Gwyneth Paltrow:I don't remember exactly what happened, but I couldn't do it or ultimately they didn't want me to do it or I don't remember exactly. Well, I mean, if you'd done that, maybe you wouldn't have been able to do Shakespeare in Love, so it works out. But just a quick thing on Great Expectations before Shakespeare in Love. So for Alfonso Cuaron, who directed that, he's basically suggests he's a little embarrassed by the – it didn't come out the way he wanted it. I think people on the set, maybe you as well, were saying, you know, he – it was just only a second time making a film for a Hollywood studio.

26:40First English film. First English film. Yeah. A little overwhelming for him. But just since this is early in the career of another director who went on to Amazing Things, just what do you remember about working with him on that one?

26:53Gwyneth Paltrow:I mean, I loved him. He was really engaged and also really knew what he wanted. And, you know, I was so surprised by all the green and the green costumes. And it was such an amazing cast with Anne Bancroft and De Niro and Ethan Hawke, who had already been a friend of mine for a couple of years in New York City. So I don't remember feeling the pressure that he felt from the studio, but I know they were very involved with all, you know, of the aspects. And I know it was like a relatively big budget for them for this kind of thing. You know, you can sort of feel that a bit, but also the studio didn't want me to be in it.

27:33Gwyneth Paltrow:They didn't think I was pretty enough to be in it. Yeah. So I got offered it and then it was like, well, there's an issue. Yeah, I remember the studio executive's name too, but I won't say it. All right, very diplomatic of you. But then I guess they convinced him. Jesus. All right. Well, later that year, aristocratic young woman who disguises herself as a man in order to be able to act in the theater in 16th century London and becomes the love, interest, and muse of William Shakespeare and inspires Romeo and Juliet in Shakespeare in Love. I know that people have been trying to make that for years in various versions.

28:11I think Edward Zwick with Julia Roberts, which didn't happen, and other things. There's all kinds of claims about how you came to be in it. What is the truth of how you first heard about Shakespeare in Love?

28:22Gwyneth Paltrow:So I was actually the first person who was offered the movie, having been the quote-unquote first lady of Miramax. And I passed. I was nursing a terrible heartbreak. and I couldn't really focus on much and then they offered it to many many people everybody said no and then I was actually at Nobu in New York and a producer from who worked with Miramax a lot named Paul Webster came up to me and he was like why did you pass on Shakespeare in Love and I said I don't know I just I'm just a mess and I'm just coming out of this he's like you have to do that movie are you insane i'm gonna have them resend it to you tomorrow this is tom stoppard script tom stoppard script john madden the amazing amazing tom stoppard so i read the script and i thought are you insane you have to do this movie and so that was it then i went i went off to the races and john madden says that he first met you when you were 20 and auditioned for another of his films, Golden Gate.

29:26Do you remember that?

29:27Gwyneth Paltrow:Yes. Oh my God. You just broke that memory for me. I forgot about that. He said, I'd met Gwyneth Paltrow when she was auditioning for another film and it was obvious she had the qualities needed for our Shakespeare's love interests. Close quote. But even in your own camp, one of your own agents was saying, don't do this. One of them said, you know, I feel like it's kind of more of the guy's part. But once I re-read it, I was fully in. Like nobody could have convinced me otherwise. It's a perfect screenplay. It really is. It really is. Incidentally, Emma, Sliding Door, Shakespeare in Love. Why do you think everybody was coming to you for English accented parts?

30:05What was that about?

30:07Gwyneth Paltrow:I don't know. I think after Emma, I mean, you know, when I went to go do it, the British press was in a fury. Why are they casting this American girl to play our beloved Austin heroine? And then when it came out, they were very happy with my accent. And then I sort of got adopted. Yes. And then, of course, became an expat and lived there for a long time. But I think probably because I reasonably pulled off the accent. Yeah, totally. And in fact, Joseph Fiennes, quote, Gwyneth was very well prepared. Her accent seemed flawless from day one, close quote. And New York Times review of that film when it came out at the end of that year, quote, this could be Gwyneth Paltrow in her Her first fully realized starring performance makes a heroine so breathtaking that she seems utterly plausible as the playwright's guiding light, close quote.

30:56But did you have to see the finished film or hear things like that to believe that this was really something as special as it turned out to be and the way it was, you were recognized and the film was recognized? Or did you kind of feel that while you were even making it?

31:12Gwyneth Paltrow:When we were making it, it felt special. It had a magical quality to it. everything coalesced in this beautiful way. And it almost felt like we were all kind of floating. We were inside this kind of magical sphere. And it just kept unfolding. And it just it felt really good. And I worked so hard on that film and on that part. And actually, I was talking about this last night, how when I first saw the film, I actually felt disappointed because in my performance, because I felt I had worked so hard. It's like I expected it not to be me in a way. And I was so disappointed that after all that, it was just me, you know?

31:55Gwyneth Paltrow:And I actually remember saying that to Matt Damon, who had the same experience then when he saw Ripley. Yes. He was like, I remember you saying that about Shakespeare, and that's how I feel, you know? Well, not too many people agreed with you because in terms of not being pleased with it, because it came out end of 98 and for like whatever the next three or four months your life was all award season. Yes, it was. And, you know, later on I'm going to ask you to compare and contrast what it was like 27 years ago versus today. But, you know, generally though speaking about that time, we'll come to what it's like now.

32:35But that's now looked back at as a landmark award season, just a great film that may well have flourished on its own But also there was this very savvy and aggressive Merrimack's campaign, which I know he apparently from what I remember hearing or reading or something, he really leaned on you to do a lot to the point where you were like at the breaking point. So what do you remember about that award season? It was full on.

33:00Gwyneth Paltrow:I mean, you know, it's interesting because, of course, looking back, there was a lot of strategy around the monetization of art through awards. awards. And of course, like that, how that impacted Miramax's bottom line. And I think they understood very early the impact. It wasn't only for prestige, you know, it was like, then you could sell it and blah, blah, blah, and box office and all of that. So I think it was twofold. I think Miramax really wanted the acclaim. They loved being that studio that made the great movies. and they were like the upstart from New York City and it had a lot of that energy behind it.

33:51Gwyneth Paltrow:And then it also was incredibly profitable and they understood that very well. So they just used to run us ragged, not only on Shakespeare in Love, but on Ripley and all of them. I mean, we all were at the opening of Walmarts. We were everywhere. It was crazy. It was very intense and it was very relentless. And I think they actually created the rubric for how these things are campaigned for, which continues to be insane. Totally. But it did culminate with March 21st, 1999, the Oscars that night. You were 26. What was your expectation going into the night for yourself and for the film? And then what were your reactions to those outcomes which were announced by just a couple of nobodies in town, Jack Nicholson and Harrison Ford?

34:45Gwyneth Paltrow:Wow. Well, leading up to it was totally surreal. Everybody kept telling me, you're going to win, you're going to win, because I had won those telltale. Gloves. You know, all those things. I was like, there's no way I'm winning this. This is crazy. And my dad was sick and very diminished. My grandfather was very sick, but had flown out for it. it was very charged emotionally kind of in a lot of different respects and um i just remember that moment and just feeling like this cannot be happening this cannot be real best actress yeah and hearing jack nicholson actually my ex-husband when i turned 40 made this you know birthday video for me that's like a long poem and part of it is jack Nicholson, you know, saying that.

35:40Gwyneth Paltrow:And so it's like, I'm like, I can't believe that happened to me. Like, I can't, I can't believe it. I don't remember anything after that. It was like, it's like truly a blur. I don't know what I said. And then the next thing I remember is, is walking off and, and Steven was, Spielberg was in the wings and I just collapsed into his arms and I just cried. It was like so incredibly overwhelming. And then it was overwhelming for a good long while. Like it was really, it was a lot, you know, I was only 26. And it's a lot of energy and, and, you know, opinions and newspapers and, you know, paparazzi following you then for decades, like it just was it kicked off something very intense.

36:30Just to follow up one thing there. So not that much later in the night is when the film won. And that, again, not because it wasn't a great film, but just because I think when Saving Private Ryan had come out earlier in the year, everybody was like, just mail Steve in the Oscars. Like, what do you remember of the announcement of Best Picture?

36:51Gwyneth Paltrow:I mean, we were shocked. You know, we really were just because I think because Saving Private Ryan is like such a magnificent, you know, technical marvel. And, you know, and Stephen obviously won Best Director, which makes complete sense. And it was really, you know, I think we thought that Saving Private Ryan was going to win. But, you know, I think what people underestimated is Shakespeare in Love is a love letter to the craft. It's all about the struggle of what we do and the beauty of what we do from the sound people to the, you know, jokes like the rowboat guy passing a screen, you know, a play to like, oh, you're a writer, let me give you my spec, you know.

37:42Gwyneth Paltrow:So I think the town was so charmed by Tom Stoppard's perfect, again, screenplay. And the execution was beautiful. And I think it made people feel really good. And it was a love letter. So at the end of the day, that's what they went with. Now, you kind of alluded to this a moment ago, but figuring out how to follow an Oscar has been something that all people, but particularly I've noticed with actresses over the years going almost a century, you know, it becomes a dilemma. Like, what do you do next? How do you, you know, do you go, do you double down on the thing that got you there? Do you move in a totally different direction?

38:21Do you take some time off? Do you, I mean, you could say better than me what goes through somebody's mind in that situation. But what, I mean, I think for you, you already must have had Ripley going. Had that already been shot, the Talented Mr. Ripley?

38:34Gwyneth Paltrow:We had already shot it, yeah. And that, so again, for Miramax and for Anthony Minghella and then some of these other, I mean, just to remind folks, you're the fiance of the playboy, Dickie, played by Jude Law, and the skeptic of Tom Ripley, played by Matt Damon, I guess. So that was already, it's helpful probably to have something good, really good done. Yeah, really good. Yeah, yeah. But just what else do you remember about that moment of like, what do I do next? I mean, have you ever had so much adrenaline in your body that you feel like you're broken? Like that's what it felt like for like three months.

39:11Gwyneth Paltrow:Like I could not, I almost couldn't feel myself. You know, basically the first thing I did was go back to Williamstown. That's right. And do as you like it. I needed to like feel myself again. And I needed to reconnect with the reason that I did this in the first place. It had gotten so away from me and it was so healing. It was such a good choice. I'm so glad I did that because it really put me back together. People, and it's imposed by everybody else. Like, what are you going to do? And can you top it? And, you know, what direction are you going to take? And you're just like, I'm just like a kid over here trying to figure out, you know, it's like, it becomes very almost paralyzing.

39:53Gwyneth Paltrow:I don't know. If I could go back in time and give myself advice, I'd be like, do whatever the fuck is right for you. Like who – it doesn't matter what anybody thinks. Like cast off everybody's expectations and do what's right for you. And that's what I would have done in hindsight. Well, so Ripley comes out the year after Shakespeare in Love but the year of it winning at the Oscars and you winning. Why did actors so love working with Minghella? It's like everybody that's done it seems to rave about it. What was it? He loved actors. He loved performance. He was just a very gentle spirit, you know, and he, like, you really felt brought into the bosom of his thing and his family.

40:40Gwyneth Paltrow:And it just was like a very, very warm feeling, a very warm experience. So that was 99. In 2001, just to show a bit of how the range, there's for the Farrelly brothers, Shallow Hal, in November of 2001. And then in December, your best work. Hey, you know what? I actually look back. It's like, I understand today people would try to cancel whoever did that. But the reality is it's a good performance, I think. All right. And then the next month, though, the Royal Tenenbaums for Wes Anderson. You don't get a lot more different than those two. Right. This was for him after Bottle Rocket and Rushmore, his first movie with a real budget and a proper release.

41:26What was he like to work with? because I feel like for him, and this is obviously not a criticism, but actors are just one of the many pieces of things that he's kind of using in the visual, just the unique way he makes his movies. Do you remember it feeling like a different kind of way of working than other movies?

41:47Gwyneth Paltrow:It did feel different. It was really the movie where I feel that he fully established and fleshed out his style, like this genre that he created. Yeah. And I totally got it. Like I knew what he was doing and I was there for it. Like I was like, this is cool. Some people didn't get it so much on the set or one person, I guess, in particular kind of didn't get it. Daddy. Yeah. I think he came around to getting it, of course. But, you know, because it felt peculiar. It felt quirky. And it was a very new tone. So I loved it. I loved being told, because normally when you're doing costume fittings, for example, it's a bit of a collaboration.

42:38Gwyneth Paltrow:No, not here. And I loved it. It was like, you will be wearing this, and this will be your eyeliner, et cetera. So I felt like we are doing something cool. Like, I don't know if people are going to get it, but this is kind of awesome. It was almost like there was like a gory element to it, you know, like there was like this hyper or like Richard Scarry, you know, there was like, or like from the mixed up files of Mrs. Basil Lee Frank Waller. You know what I'm trying to say? It's sort of like, I was like, oh, he's kind of taking that thing and making it into a thing. Like, I think this is going to be cool.

43:12And it was. Next year, a cameo as Dixie Normas in Austin Powers and Goldmember. and then though I know the you know the rest of 2022 was not as fun October you lost your father yes who had been not well even a few years earlier with the Oscars but just as a I don't know that I realized this until I started prepping for this but it was three weeks later that you just you had already had tickets to go see Coldplay. Yeah. And you go and things, you know, so that marriage came out of that, right? And also just didn't know this either. Based on that early moment in time where you were still very much grieving, that's where the song Fix You is from.

44:04Gwyneth Paltrow:Yeah. That's unbelievable. Oh, yeah. So it was also in that immediate aftermath of that loss that you, I believe, go and shoot something that you must have signed up for before that, which was Sylvia. And your mom, again, is your mom. Yep. At the time, at least, I think, or around that time, maybe not long after, you said that, this is Sylvia Plath you're playing, just so people, if they don't know, you'd said it was your favorite film that you'd done, at least up to that point. So given that it was such a not great time personally, what was it that made that film let that? Well, it kind of saved my life.

44:43Gwyneth Paltrow:I mean, I'm a person who I think it's why I tend to be drawn to really complicated women, to playing really complicated women who have a lot that they're reckoning with, because it's really the way that I process through things. It's the way that I access the darker parts of myself that I don't like that much and let them come up and out. I unearth things that way, which is probably why I'm such a bitch when I'm not acting. I'm just kidding. But I really use it as a tool to kind of metabolize and get stuff out. And so it was such a blessing having to get up every day and have somewhere to go because I felt like I was going to die of grief.

45:29I mean, there was one night where I woke up and I thought I was having a heart attack in London.

45:36Gwyneth Paltrow:And the only reason I didn't call the ambulance is because I didn't know that it's 999 and not 911. I was so wracked with grief. And just so to have the structure of the day, to have somewhere to get up and go. And all day long, I was just mining it and letting it out and letting it out and listening to Segar Ross and sobbing and letting it out. And it really saved me. And I think I love the movie because I love working with Christine Jeffs, who is an amazing female filmmaker, obviously from New Zealand, who was just so good to me and supportive and I think brought a lot out of me. I just think it's, you know, and I loved working with Daniel Craig, who played Ted Hughes.

46:23Gwyneth Paltrow:And it's a really beautiful movie. I know why it's not a blockbuster. It's pretty depressing. I remember it being very, very impressive. But it was, I thought so. Yeah. Now, is it a coincidence then? You're talking about using your characters to work through what you're personally going through. Would it be a coincidence then that you choose to do on stage and then screen, getting back with John Madden, proof which is about a daughter haunted sort of by the loss of her father? Yeah. Except I did those right before he died. You did the play before? I did the play before. Okay. And then I did the film afterwards.

47:01Gwyneth Paltrow:Okay. So, but he was sick when I did the play. I was already kind of, yes, to your point, in that space of reckoning with it, even though I was totally in denial that he would die. Really? Sorry. No, go ahead. No, just going to say another really, really good performance that I don't know. Thank you. The movie was, I don't know how commercially successful, but it really, people should go back and watch it. Thank you. It wasn't that successful. But I think the father-daughter, that particular dynamic is kind of largely unexplored in cinema. Like we don't see – in television, we don't see a lot of that.

47:37Gwyneth Paltrow:And it's a very powerful, beautiful, seminal dynamic. And I love doing proof because this young woman is so tied into her father and has him so on a pedestal and loves him so much. and then becomes his caregiver. So there was a lot. It was very bizarre how the reflections of my real life. And I had done a film with my father right after he had had surgery and radiation. And I was on set as his caregiver too with my mom and brother. So I had participated in my own version of that when I had done the play. And then, of course, he died before I did the film, which brought, I think, another truth to the performance.

48:31Just another example of directors at the beginning of their careers, Ryan Murphy running with Scissors, 2006. And that has reverberations. But then, OK, so this is one we got to just ask you about because it ended up being seven films for you. But I think it almost was not going to be any films because I don't know if you were immediately sold on doing this. but Pepper Potts, Tony Stark's executive assistant, turned partner, turned wife, turned co-Avenger, turned widow, turned whatever. I think people don't necessarily remember that the Iron Man, the first Iron Man in 2008 was the first of the whole MCU, and that it was far from a given that it would become what it became.

49:10What did you think you were signing up for?

49:12Gwyneth Paltrow:God, I just flashed when you said that on Jon Favreau texting me, you know, on my BlackBerry in London back in the day. Like, now it's at 90 million. Now it's at 110 million. Now it's at... And I was like, what? Like, our weird little thing? Like, nobody thought it was going to amount to much. I definitely had to be convinced to do it. Like, I didn't feel like it was a natural fit. But I had been friends with Jon Fav for a long time. And I had known Robert. And I don't know, they just convinced me. And I thought, like, they're both so talented. it's totally undeniable and i was like this could actually be really fun and i went back to california and live with my mom and my kids like we all bunked in with my mom in santa monica and it was a really great shoot and we it didn't feel like an action movie to me i you know of course at the end there's some a bit of running for me or whatever but really it was like a two hander with me and Robert and John just being a genius and hilarious.

50:18Gwyneth Paltrow:And so it didn't feel like we were making some, yeah, with like IP driven thing. You know, it was like, we're just kind of messing around in this garage and El Segundo. And your stuff with Robert is just great screwball comedy in there as well. And that was around the time, even though, you know, you would periodically between 2008 and 2019, come and do those. But for the most part, you are not acting anymore. Also starting in 2008, around 2008, aside from that's the year Iron Man comes out, but that's also the year the first Goop newsletter goes out. Just like free email, I guess. Company wasn't incorporated for five more years.

51:01What the fuck were you doing? No. Well, what did you hope or imagine at that time when you sent that first newsletter that this would be? And did you expect, were you kind of looking for something that would in some way supplant acting? Or is that just what happened?

51:20Gwyneth Paltrow:It's a really good question because I kind of don't know. I know that I was taking a break and saying no to things and not pursuing anything. I really wanted to be home with my kids. I think I was dealing with the grief of my father by being with my children. I could afford to take a break, which a lot of mothers cannot. And yet I also had this thing inside of me, this entrepreneurial thing, which by the way, is the same thing as being an actor or any kind of art. We are two sides of one coin. Like that thing that you're born with, like I have to create, I have to put this into the world. It's the same whether you're designing software or whether you want to release an album.

52:13Gwyneth Paltrow:So that thing lives in you and you can exercise it or not exercise it. But this thing just sort of started to gestate. Like I have this deep passion for connecting interesting, amazing women to interesting, amazing things. And I have a deep passion for trying to share information to improve lives. And so I had been actually tinkering around with this since like 2002 and getting advice and talking to people. I'm like, I want to do something on this internet thing where I can have a database of great stuff. And because I've been so lucky in my life, I've lived all over. Like, I know where all the great places are.

52:55Gwyneth Paltrow:And like, I want to have like something that I can trust and that people who know me can trust. And also though, just to your point, sorry to interrupt. No, go ahead. 2002 was the year you lost your debt. That's right. So that maybe isn't a coincidence. Yeah, that's actually true. That's a great point. Right. So 2008 was the year that I got the guts to send the first newsletter. And I didn't have, it's like I did and I didn't. Like I had, of course, no idea what I was doing. I would have had no idea how to turn it into a business. In fact, even when it grew to have a very big following, I had no idea how to monetize it.

53:33Gwyneth Paltrow:I knew that I like had aspirations of making product, You know, because I remember being young and on the red carpet thinking, man, all these brands are leveraging all of us girls to scale their own businesses. Like, we should think about how to do this for ourselves. Right, right. This is like in the 90s, you know. I don't know. It's a very slow, very iterative process. First monetized with kind of like a media model and then into multi-brand product. And I also had trepidation around the idea of selling things and monetizing it in that way because I didn't want it to become transactional. But I did understand that my curation was a service.

54:12Gwyneth Paltrow:And so, you know, it just it all started from that. I guess another parallel between being an actress and being the founder of Goop is that you have to have thick skin because people have everybody's got an opinion. what I wonder is obviously and we should stipulate first of all that while some of these people's opinions are critical there are a lot of people who really love you and what you're doing with this but I wonder if you have any theories of why people pick on you sometimes like I mean I'll just mention a few that I've heard and you can tell me if you think they're legit first of all and this is completely not legit But like this idea that you're an actress, how dare you step out of your land?

54:59You should be content to, you know, right? Now that's ridiculous, but I've seen that one. I guess timing that...

55:06Gwyneth Paltrow:I think Martha Stewart was the one that's... Yeah, yeah. Oh, did she? Oh, Jesus. Oh, well then, okay. No, I love her, but still. Interesting. Well, it also started, this aspirational thing started at the outset of the Great Recession. So there were, that provoked some people. Yep. The whole, of course. Even though I wasn't selling anything. No, no, no. Right, for a few. Yeah. 2014, the Conscious Uncoupling newsletter, of course. And then, you know, then there, I guess, some of the people that didn't, that felt there, you know, is it some of the things, are they grounded in science or whatever?

55:43Yeah. So, like, these are some of them. What is your theory of why you, to some degree, can be polarizing for some people?

55:51Gwyneth Paltrow:Yeah. Yeah. I sort of love what Robert said at the Hollywood Report thing, you know, around like this idea of polarizing women. And that really that's just like to describe women that are powerful and talented, you know, that people can't quite get their heads around. But I think that, again, going back to the seeing around corners thing, like I introduced a lot of very new ideas into the culture. And some of them were not science backed at the time and became science backed. Some of them were about, you know, maybe a gentler way to get divorced, which was very ridiculed at the time, which is like now fully come full circle.

56:27Gwyneth Paltrow:And I have people literally stopping me in the street with tears in their eyes to thank me. And I do think some of it was I was born to privilege. I went to a private school. I grew up on the Upper East Side. There are a lot of things that already rub people the wrong way, which I understand. I can't do anything about it. I can't do anything about who I was born to or the circumstances I was born to. So there's that. And I think the idea that this is a bit much now. She was already born with this perceived silver spoon, even though my parents were self-made and killed themselves to get where they got.

57:03And that then I had a lot of success as an actress.

57:06Gwyneth Paltrow:And then how dare I try to be an entrepreneur? And I do understand it. And I understand the key objections that exist from a marketing standpoint, but if this comes from such a true and authentic place of really wanting to better women's lives, and I think that's true, you know, we make incredible, for example, non-toxic, efficacious beauty products, which, you know, can be so harmful to women. We make amazing food that everybody can, you know, healthy food that tastes delicious. Like my intention is to add positivity and like connect people to things that will be good for them. And so it's interesting now to see it all come full circle.

57:46Gwyneth Paltrow:It's interesting for me to see how often I ended up being right, which is there's me with my martini, you know, with Paul Thomas Anderson looking back. Well, no, it's all interesting. But the thing that maybe disappointed people the most since 2008 when you started Goop is that there was not a lot of acting anymore. There were the Marvel things. There were appearances on Glee, which one of them got a guest appearance, but got an Emmy for that. Country Strong did it well enough that you get a record deal and perform on the Oscars. But again, just kind of a one-off contagion, unfortunately, pretty prescient Steven Soderbergh movie.

58:28Gwyneth Paltrow:Four Days of Work. Four Days of Work. Yeah, this is just popping in and out a little bit. The politician with, I believe your husband was involved. But then Marty Supreme comes along. And why was this the one of all the things that I'm sure over the years, you know, people didn't forget that you were a great actress. Why was this the one that you decided to come back for? You know, it was really like this confluence of events, which I think, again, because of how much I miss my father and how much grief I had around my separation with him. I didn't want to miss that much of my kid's childhood.

59:05Gwyneth Paltrow:and unfortunately with movies like I remember doing country strong because I really love the part and I love Shauna and I was like this is fun I love country music but I remember missing bath time I remember leaving the house before they woke up and coming home after they were asleep and it was I know I was projecting a lot onto that because of my own grief but I really wanted to not miss a lot of stuff and then all those little jerks left the house you know and went to college and I I was kind of staring down the barrel of this new life that I didn't know what would look like and where I wanted to live.

59:43Gwyneth Paltrow:And I wanted to get out of Los Angeles. And it just so happened that Josh called me and I didn't know who he was. I had never seen Timothee Chalamet in a movie. I was really like, I'm telling you, I was like living under a rock somewhere. I could probably tell you who like the CFO of, you know, Microsoft was at the time, but had no idea who these guys were. And then my brother, who's a filmmaker, was like, no, you don't understand. Like, this guy is the real deal. You are doing this. I don't care what else you're doing. Like, you are doing this. And so I found myself saying yes and being in New York City.

1:00:23Gwyneth Paltrow:And I'm so glad that I did it because I think it's a fucking great movie. It's a great movie and a cool part, this woman who gave up her career as an actress to become the wife of wealthy men and has developed an interest maybe for reasons I'll leave to you to save, but like in this younger guy who still has the passion and fire that she once had. Yes. Is that what she sees in him? I think she sees the worst version of herself in him and the most exciting version of herself in him. and I think they recognize the hustler and the other. And I loved the part. I loved when we first see her, this cold sort of shell of a person that we see walk through the Ritz Hotel in London.

1:01:15Gwyneth Paltrow:And I loved sort of charting out where her girlishness starts to come back and where the fire starts to come back and the mess. I loved her total lack of risk of aversion. I loved her like weird 180 that she's like a socialite in New York and then this boy inspires her. I think he also because, you know, in the plot point that she's lost her son, who's probably would have been around the same age, that there's something healing for her in being physically close to this boy. And I just thought it was so complicated and weird. And that tragic moment, you know, where she's, to me, it's tragic where she's on the stage facing the audiences to her back.

1:02:01Gwyneth Paltrow:And she makes her entrance and they all erupt in applause. And you see like this relief at the outside validation. Like it's so awful. With regard to that scene, is it correct that I think the way I heard they mapped it out, It was your first time acting in a while. And so your first scene as her was her first scene coming back to acting. All the stage stuff was my very first days. Yes. My first day day was when we were rehearsing the play, which was very fortuitous because I was blocking. It was all so uncertain. And where are we standing? so it all just worked so well because I was like, do I still know what I'm doing?

1:02:47Really? You really doubted it?

1:02:48Gwyneth Paltrow:Yes, I really doubted it. It was crazy. But that moment to me was so poignant, and it's such a, like, it's so vulnerable, and then it's so upsetting what happens to her. I guess when we last see her in her bedroom, is that right? That's it. Yeah, that's another crazy, powerful scene. Anyway, with our last minute, just a rapid fire if I can. Since Marty Supreme, have you been getting a lot of outreach for other acting jobs? And do you intend to continue acting? A few and maybe. Okay. All right. What is the future of Goop? Are you going to stick with it or sell it or what? I'm having the best time doing it.

1:03:27Gwyneth Paltrow:I would love maybe to have somebody come and do the job, the parts of the job that I'm less good at. And maybe free me up a little more if I wanted to do another film or something like that. But we'll see. I really love my team and my job. I love what we're doing right now. We're in such an amazing creative moment. So trying to figure out how potentially I could do both. What strikes you now that you're back in the kind of front rows of the business again of Hollywood? What strikes you as the things that in the business that are most different today from when you were starting out? The business model.

1:04:06Gwyneth Paltrow:it's really we're in the process of like the throes of massive change obviously to state the I mean captain obvious over here but you know I think the thing about Marty Supreme and a lot of movies this year like it's a really good year for movies I think it's amazing because the business model has shifted to a different model and what we do so well in America is make culture and export culture. And we need as a culture, we need real art in order to be who we are as America. I worry that decisions made by algorithm severely undermine our role in the world in terms of the culture that we make and have always made and to inspire ourselves and the rest of the world.

1:04:58Gwyneth Paltrow:So I feel very heartened that these movies have are still coming out and seem to be, you know, there seems to be a lot of momentum behind them. But it's very different. Because in my day, when a movie came out that had buzz, it did well at the box office. And now it's you don't know, you know, it can have 97 on Rotten Tomatoes, and people just wait till it comes on TV. There's so much more out there, so many more ways to consume it. Right. So I'm hoping that this business model still works. Do you think, and I ask this question because I'm literally at the moment teaching a class at Chapman University once a week where it's about the movie star.

1:05:40And we look from the beginning to the present at how it's evolved and case studies and whatever. And looking at basically the kids' final paper is the Tom Cruise generation. Is that the last – are they the last real movie stars? Or can movie stars still be made in the way that they emerged from the 90s like yourself? Can they? Well, that's what I'm asking. Well, I'm asking you. You go first. Okay. Okay.

1:06:05Gwyneth Paltrow:Not unless the business model works such that movies are made and shown in the theater. That's my belief. I think that's a big part of it. But also, you know, it's hard. I would imagine now where everybody's on social media, there's no mystery anymore. Well, that was the other thing I was going to say. When I grew up, it was mystery was a part of it. It was kind of everything. And now you can't market anything if you're not on social media. And that's all about access. So that's very different as well. Last one. And you might have teased that something like this may be actually happening. But if one of your kids came to you and said, as you said to your parents, that they want to pursue acting as a career, would you respond to them in the same way that your parents did or would you?

1:06:55Gwyneth Paltrow:I'm very encouraging. Like I think the world needs artists more than ever. And I think it's harder and even riskier than probably when I was a kid and that the psychological ramifications are more grave considering this access we're talking about on social media, et cetera. But I do think that it's a very worthwhile career and a good antidote to all the machinization that's happening in all other areas. And so I'll be supportive. They might have to live with me, you know, but I'll be supportive. Awesome. Well, thank you so much. I really appreciate it. Thank you. That was fun. I enjoyed it.

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The Oscar and Emmy winning actress and Goop founder and CEO reflects on breaking into the business in the 1990s and becoming "the First Lady of Miramax"; working with a generation of great filmmakers early in their careers, including David Fincher, PTA and Wes Anderson; why she grew disillusioned with Hollywood and focused primarily on business for the last 17 years; and what lured her back in front of the camera to play, well, an actress coming out of retirement, opposite Timothée Chalamet in Josh Safdie's latest film.
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