Listener Questions and Answers - BOD031

27 Aug 2026 · 48 min · 18 chapters

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In short

This Bank of Dad episode is a listener Q&A covering: (1) whether investing attitudes will change over decades, with discussion of how younger people can be reached and why the UK is cash-heavy; (2) budgeting and tax-claim rules for a freelance theatre worker; (3) how to persuade younger colleagues to take workplace pensions/investing seriously without condescension; (4) a 22-year-old’s long-term investing plan (ISA/GIA/LISA/SIP, house goal, student loan) and how to prioritize emergency funds vs investing; (5) a 37-year-old nanny’s experience with a condescending accountant and next steps for self-employed taxes.

Guests

No studio guests. Guests are the five named/anonymous listeners: Anonymous; Caddy; Tom; Sean (Roger/Pete’s “Meaningful Money” listener); Maggie.

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Chapters

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Setting the Stage for Q&A

0:45 to 1:27

Discussion about the format of the episode and previous Q&A sessions.

“Well, this week we've got another Q &A episode.”

Anonymous Listener's Insightful Message

1:27 to 3:39

An anonymous listener shares their experience with financial literacy and the importance of teaching it in schools.

“Let's get straight into it because, like you said, there's quite a lot of questions and quite a lot of long ones.”

Changing Attitudes Towards Investing

3:39 to 6:00

Discussion on the cultural shift towards investing and the impact of social media and AI.

Investment Trends in the UK vs. US

6:00 to 8:14

Comparison of investment behaviors in the UK and US, focusing on savings and investment percentages.

“almost as a thinking partner for people maybe wondering about investing.”

Freelancer Financial Strategies

8:14 to 14:00

Advice for freelancers on budgeting and tax return claims, with a focus on variable income.

“But look, I'm positive about the future of investing.”

Understanding Business Expenses and Claims

14:00 to 17:48

Learn how to navigate business expenses and what can be claimed.

“but it costs you say 200 pounds to earn that thousand.”

Making Tax Digital Explained

17:48 to 19:12

Understand the implications of Making Tax Digital for freelancers.

“question, there is currently they are bringing in something called making tax digital for income tax.”

Engaging Younger Colleagues in Financial Literacy

19:12 to 22:30

Discover strategies to encourage younger colleagues to invest and save.

“Dear Kate and Pete, I love the podcast and I think it's wonderful what you're doing.”

Sean's Investment Journey and Strategies

22:30 to 28:00

Explore Sean's financial strategy and investment approach as a young professional.

“yeah yeah nobody wants that is it i wonder if there's like a mechanism it sounds like it's a pretty big employer.”

Investment Strategies and Plans

28:00 to 29:00

Discussing various investment strategies and their implications.

“My parents also contribute four grand each year into my lifetime ISA.”
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Evaluating Pension Contributions

29:00 to 30:20

Advice on prioritizing workplace pension contributions versus other investments.

“But that's, to be honest, that's a bit of a judgment call.”

House Purchase and ISA Utilization

30:20 to 32:20

Exploring options for using ISAs to aid in purchasing a home.

“Because it's going to be a heck of a long time before you can access it.”

Student Loan Considerations

32:20 to 34:20

Discussion on potential strategies for managing student loans and financial gifts.

“But if he doesn't, then it's going to get written off eventually.”

Confronting Accountant's Attitudes

34:20 to 36:20

Addressing issues with a condescending accountant and seeking advice.

“But strike a deal with them and says, I will keep that money ring-fenced, but I will invest it aggressively.”

Building Financial Confidence

36:20 to 42:00

Empowering discussion on the importance of financial independence and investment.

“I made$29 ,000 last year and invested 28 of it.”

Understanding Tax Claims for Nannies

42:00 to 46:17

Learn about tax claims applicable to nannies and how to manage finances effectively.

“it's for those earning between 30 and 50.”

Supporting Maggie's Journey

46:17 to 46:41

Get insights on dealing with poor accounting advice and advocating for yourself.

“It just, it would break anybody's spirit, the kind of things that Maggie's had to deal with.”

Encouragement for Future Questions

46:41 to 47:12

Encouragement for listeners to submit questions for future episodes.

“Yeah, so five questions dealt with, quite different, and we've got one carried over, so we'll either drop that into a...”
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Transcript

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0:00Pete:And coffee while working in a cafe, I'd say 100 % not. No. Nice try, Caddy. I like the thinking, but no. I like the thinking, for sure. Okay, let's just sort of breathe a little bit and sort of come down off the precipice because we were about to sort of arm ourselves and head to wherever Maggie lives. Find this accountant. So mad. Hi, and welcome to the Bank of Dad podcast. I'm Kate, and this is my dad, Pete. Hello. And we're here to teach you the money lessons we were never taught at school. There's no judgment, no jargon, just real talk about how to handle your money. But there is a little bit of natural light this week.

0:32Yes, we're spicing it up.

0:34Pete:Well, yeah, it seems a shame, doesn't it? Because obviously in the studio we kind of block out all natural light so we can control the lighting. But it's quite nice and you've got a bit of a halo effect behind you. Yes, well I am angelic. I know different. Ben would probably say. I know different. Yeah, and you. Yeah, right. Well, this week we've got another Q &A episode. It's not bad, what are we? This is number 30, isn't it? 31. 31. Yeah. Okay, so yeah. That's exciting. Enough questions in 30 episodes? Well, more like 15, because we've already done one. Mm-hmm. 10, actually, because Q &A was episode 20 and episode 21.

1:08Pete:Oh, we did over two episodes. We did indeed. And there's some quite long questions in this one, so we should probably crack on. Yes, we'll see how we get on. I'm going to skip Wanky Word of the Week. Yeah, we're deeply heartbroken about it, but there isn't really a theme to any of these questions. No, no, no. Sorry. Yeah, we'll drop it this week and it'll return next week in all its glory. I know. We'll really celebrate the jingle. Right, do you know what? Let's get straight into it because, like you said, there's quite a lot of questions and quite a lot of long ones. First one is anonymous. First one is anonymous.

1:34Yep, they wish to remain anonymous in their email.

1:37Pete:You going to read it? Yeah, otherwise I have nothing to do in this episode. That's true. I think we just said that last time. Yeah, if you read them and answer them, I'll just be quiet. Yeah, good point. Otherwise I don't really have much to do. So I am going to read them. One of them, you also get to answer them. I hope you've prepared. Oh, I have not. So cool. I don't remember that. I wrote this. Anyway, right. Number one from Anonymous. Hi there. Just wanted to say that I'm glad you've started this pod. It is a crime that these sorts of things that I assume you'll go on to cover are not taught at school.

2:08Financial literacy is a vital life skill. Oxbow lakes, equilateral triangles, etc. Not so much in my humble opinion. I agree. Thank you as well. In my childhood, money was always a source of stress and worry, which made me very cautious with it through my 20s and 30s, always choosing regular saving accounts over investment products. It has only been since the increase of UK YouTubers talking about the subject of investing that has opened my eyes to it all and made me realize the risks are so much less than I'd imagined, providing you follow a few simple rules, of course. and the difference to my personal wealth if I had known what I know now 10 to 15 years ago would be staggering.

2:48Pete:Yeah, well, not just. But you know it now. Yeah. My question is, with the government's push towards investing, changing ISA allowance, we'll go back into that, and the nation's default financial advisor, Martin Lewis, finally taking talking about the subject on primetime TV, do you foresee younger generations actually partaking in investing more or do you feel the older generations and their families, who were never taught about it, will discourage them. I fear unless this is taught at school level, even 20-somethings may have an aversion to investing built in. To change the UK's attitude to investing will surely take decades.

3:27You guys give me hope that the younger generations can be reached at that formative time and plant a seed that will positively affect their entire lives. More power to you. Good luck with the podcast. You're doing a good thing. Kind regards. Lovely. Thank you.

3:42Pete:thank you anonymous um shows just the power of language didn't it yeah it's in because and uh sort of parental influence source of stress and worries growing up impacted really get hold of this all the way to 20s and 30s impacted yeah i thought this was quite a nice one to ease us in because it's not like technical it's kind of like what do you think yeah the technical one sometimes messes up um no it's if they do that's a damning indictment yeah right it's gonna say 30 years of my career um yeah do you know it it is important and you know for the next generation growing up so you know no rush into this of course but when you have kids uh this will be uh something to you know be aware of the language around oh money security uh abundance all that sort of stuff you got to be really careful because kids listen to everything um and they pick up on unspoken things as well i was gonna say they really pick up on things like that i think it's important to protect children and then eventually get to the point where it's in you know it's not a taboo subject um but you still should guard what you give to children and what you say to them and not be sort of loose with it you need to be as with all things intentional and and think it through because you can do a lot of damage very easily the amount of things when i worked in a primary school that i would hear children say that based on how i knew that child would be verbatim from their parents yeah so that makes no sense coming from your mouth no no for sure so anonymous's question is it's not so much a question but sort of is it going to take decades for for um kind of attitudes to change i don't know about decades but i think it'll take a long time i mean if you think uh december 2005 youtube was made available to the public right so it's just over 20 years really 20 and a half years um and how the world has changed since then Oh, my days.

5:31Pete:I mean, YouTube is just a start now. We've got, you know, obviously TikTok and a million different platforms. Easier ways of learning. You've got things like Skillshare and Udemy and, you know, easy ways to learn. And it's literally anything. Yes, it's paid for, but super cheap. Literally anything, you know, from coding to budgeting. And then also now you've got the rise of AI, which is going to be incredibly helpful. It's far from perfect yet, but it's going to be amazingly helpful. almost as a thinking partner for people maybe wondering about investing. You know, dear chat GPT, I'm thinking about investing, but I'm really worried about the risks because all my parents talked about was how stock market is a gambling den sort of thing.

6:16Pete:And, you know, using... No, definitely not. But, you know, using AI as a thinking partner and to challenge ourselves, I think is one of the higher uses of it. So, and I think that just the pace of change is going to continue to increase. So I'm really positive. and because it's easier now to access good information of course the flip side to that is there's a lot of information as well but i mean it's interesting this um the fca which is the financial regulator in the uk financial conduct authority held a survey called financial lives in may 2024 they identified that 90 percent of uk adults had some level of cash savings cash savings yeah so savings of any kind so money put aside oh so that could be like an iso or something like that.

6:57Pete:Yeah, it could be like 100 quid per side. It's not to say it's sort of 10 grand or anything like that. But only 35%, one in three roughly, held investments. Ah, interesting. And among people with£10 ,000 or more of investable assets, so more than 10 grand set aside, 61 % of people held at least three quarters of it in cash. So it's a huge skew towards cash in this country because it's known, it's understandable and it's safe. Well, yeah, it's not going to change. It's there. No, no, it's there. But of course, What most people don't know is obviously the ravages of inflation. Yes. So roughly 35 % of UK adults hold investments.

7:34Pete:It's 62 % in the US. That's interesting. Yeah, yeah. So 62 % of Americans own stocks, only 35%. So nearly twice as many people as a percentage. I don't know why. I do wonder if it's the sort of American dream, you know, you can start by flipping burgers, but if you work hard, you can end up owning a franchise. Yeah, maybe. Or the fact that obviously so many of the world's great companies are based in the US. Also, yeah. Pretty much all. Yeah, a lot of them. Many of them. So I don't know what the answer to that is, but it will come from education. It will come from unwinding a lot of the prejudices from previous generations for sure.

8:14Pete:But look, I'm positive about the future of investing. I also think it's easier than it's ever been to invest. literally 20, 25 years ago, you would have had to have filled in a paper application form, which you got from a financial advisor or direct through the post from an investment company. Send off a check. Oh, I'm already bored. I know, right? Whereas now it's like, you know, brilliant user interfaces, done for you portfolios, guided investments. There's so much that makes it easier than it's ever been. I'm really positive. So we just need to keep going. We do. Keep spreading the word. I love this next one barreling on to the next one this is from Caddy I just love that name I love the Welsh names you do love the name particularly Welsh ladies names yeah that is a lovely name Caddy is a lovely name hi both thank you so much for this podcast super simple but comprehensive I'm very much in your target audience early 20s beginning full time work hoping to set myself up for the long term well Caddy you're doing great already this question topic may be its own episode we'll decide that I work freelance in the theatre industry can we be friends which comes with a whole host of financial questions last year was my first year as a freelancer i get to battle hmrc's tax return forms so she's kind of got two points here any further tips for budgeting when your income can massively vary throughout the year i assume a larger emergency fund do you want to answer that first or should i do no let's just go through and the other one was what can you claim on your tax returns what counts as purchases being made for work petrol rent a new phone even coffees when working at my laptop at a coffee shop um do and good questions also it turns out that caddy actually knows go on after you want yeah read it yes i hope this isn't too weird but i think my dad and your dad know each other apparently dad might pete played piano at my parents wedding um marcus and julia davidge back in 1997 at in cross keys thank you so much keep doing what you're doing i did i think i've known julie or even longer than Marcus actually.

10:14Really?

10:15Pete:Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's all from university days in Cardiff. Marcus. And he played at their wedding. Yeah, man, that's going back a bit. Played piano. Well, yeah, 1997 they got married. Same year me and your mum got married, so. Oh. Yeah, yeah, there we go. The year of love. Okay. That's why I went northern there. No, no. So budgeting first. Yes. Any further tips if your income varies? Because she's working freelance, so it's not, she doesn't know, I guess, roughly what she's going to have every month. Yeah, I think like the arts is kind of the mother load of varying income yeah right you know it could be nothing to potentially very high income if things go very well but then you could have three months of absolutely nothing so yes definitely a larger emergency fund uh where that's possible because that will act both as an emergency fund but also as a kind of a smoothing fund potentially because you need to dip into it in sort of lower months and probably more regularly than other people would use an emergency fund.

11:09Pete:It is hard. I would try to work, if at all possible, I would try to work a budget to like a kind of a lower monthly but the same amount if at all possible. So let's say you can get some money behind you, right? Yeah. And you can budget to, I don't know, 1200 quid a month, right? And if like a good month is two and a half grand and a bad month is 500 quid. Then you know you can survive off 1200 quid. Yeah, and the key is to continue with that lower amount, even in the really good months, and use the good months to top up your buffer. When the buffer gets to a point where, you know, you're comfortable with it, then maybe you can then stretch things a bit and say, I'm going to go up to 1 ,500 quid a month because now I've got 10 grand in my buffer account.

11:57Pete:So I would actually, if possible, I would actually separate the emergency fund from the buffer thing. but it's sometimes it's like i'm gonna work my ass off doing as many jobs as i can to build that buffer when i'm not theatering i'm working at mackie d's or i'm doing waitressing or whatever delivery driving or whatever whatever it is to get the money in because then you have your baseline yeah and you have the buffer behind you and say right well actually now my career is starting i can identify what a sort of bad month is and what a really good month is it may not even be that predictable but then try to live on an amount which is considerably lower than a good month so that then you've got the yeah you've got the freedom it was like what my sister's doing she works in a restaurant to make up any income because she works in a charity so it's not yeah not brilliantly paid brilliantly paid so yeah maybe you might just need to build a bit of a buffer but i quite like the idea of having a different like two funds emergency fund for real emergencies yeah and then yeah a buffer fund or a smoothing fund or something just to be like okay it's a low month but it's all right because i've got five grand in it yeah help me through sit behind yeah and and yeah i think that's really the only thing you can do yeah same applies if you're on shifts or if you're on uh in a job where there's perhaps commissions which fluctuates on like a state agency that used to be the case i don't know if it still is but it was when i was in it um and so you'd have good months and bad months and the problem is if you live always to the good months you're going to really suffer the bad months and you're getting into debt so you need to set your sort of baseline spending quite a bit lower than what a good month would be, ideally, and then push it as general in earnings rise.

13:36And Caddy's other question was, what can you claim with your tax return?

13:39Pete:Yeah, this is a beauty. I mean, this is why accountants have jobs. I mean, among other reasons. Oh my God, you've got so many answers. Well, I'm not ashamed to admit that even I went to GPT on this because I'm not an accountant, right? So there is a kind of golden rule, Caddy, that if you are claiming for something, and by that, for those who don't know, simply we mean if let's say you earned a thousand pounds but it costs you say 200 pounds to earn that thousand. So let's say you had to travel somewhere to earn that or you had to buy something in order to get that job to earn that thousand quid.

14:16Pete:You can offset one against the other. But the golden rule is that you can only offset stuff which is wholly for the purposes of the business. Yes. So I think there's an example about can she buy coffee? Like coffee while she's working? No. Yeah. Well, so a bunch of things. Keep really good records. All right. So we've talked before about having a separate business bank account from your personal bank account. So get paid into one account. That's your kind of working account. And then kind of draw a salary off that again at the lower amount that we've been talking about um ask yourself would i have incurred this cost that i'm thinking of claiming would i have incurred it for the business so you know if you're buying theater specific equipment or materials professional subscriptions yeah you know you're not going to do a professional subscription for something theater related unless you're in the theater so it's fairly easy to claim that as yeah so for example when i was like if i mean this isn't a bulletproof example but i we have final cut pro which is our editing software that is a paid thing paid subscription yeah when i was house of color using that for making content yeah i could claim that back yes because that was for because it was marketing yeah so if caddy gets headshots or if she has a personal website built for herself yeah it's easy to argue that that's wholly for the purposes of her doing work yeah um phone and internet well yeah but only if chances are if you've got a mobile phone you're using it for personal stuff as well as business so if you have a work phone yes if you have a use it for both to prove it well you just would only be able to claim part in which case how do you define that how often do you spend doing work stuff yeah that's already like who phones people these days it used to be it's like well i could go through the phone lists and who does that right so you might just say well okay i'm going to claim a reasonable percentage like 15 or 20 to be work related and the rest i will cover as a personal petrol likewise you can't claim for travel to your normal place of work.

16:18No but if you're at work and then commute somewhere for work

16:22Pete:then that's fine. It's like if you're at the theatre and then you have to go to I don't know a different theatre that journey could be alright if you're freelance obviously there's no boss to cover your mileage. No but that's what we're saying you can claim it back. Yeah so you can claim it back if you know what you can't do both because that would be great you can't claim it off your boss and the riff. No. That'd be quite nice um but obviously in the theater chances are you don't have a normal place of work you might be working at one theater for two weeks and then somewhere else and in which case that would probably be okay you driving to that place of work would be okay it's not a normal place of work um if you work from home a little bit you know if you are doing some work on your career but in the house potentially you can claim an element of some of your household costs all right but you you need to be able to prove it.

17:12Pete:Yeah. Because if the revenue is saying, can you just justify why you've put 90 % of your, you know, your electricity bill through the business and turned it off your income tax, right? Laptops, likewise, same as phones, really. Coffee while working in a cafe, I'd say 100 % not. No. Nice try, Caddy. I like the thinking, but no. I like the thinking, for sure. You know, it's, yeah, I certainly know I'm working while I'm drinking coffee, hence I'll claim the coffee. You're probably on a bit of a sticky wicket there. And honestly, it's not so much about obsessing about the little bits. I think it's about getting the big bits right.

17:47Pete:As we're going to come to in a minute with another question, there is currently they are bringing in something called making tax digital for income tax. So for quite a while now, the government's been on this thing called MTD, making tax digital, started with companies. So that simply means that instead of the for income tax bit means that instead of doing an annual income tax return once a year. They're doing more regular ones, aren't they? Annual once a year. Yeah, nice. It is they will instead ask you to do quarterly submissions and you'll need software to do it. So you either need an accountant who's going to run that software for you.

18:29Who you have to pay.

18:30Pete:Who you have to pay, of course, or you have to get very savvy with the software yourself. and so there's a lot of work for self-employed people. Currently, it's only if you're earning over 50 ,000 self-employed earnings that you have to do that but from next April 2027, it's between 30 and 50 ,000 and after that, we don't yet know. It's not laid down yet. So honestly, Caddy, it's getting harder and harder to be freelance so you either need to suck it up and pay a good accountant who really gets your field and there will be specialist accountants in the theatre world, no doubt about that. Or you have to get good at software and understand what you're going for.

19:07You're young. I believe in you. Yeah, yeah, for sure. Thank you for your question, Caddy. Yeah, we need to keep going.

19:11Pete:And much love to mum and dad. Yes. All right, question three is from Tom. Dear Kate and Pete, I love the podcast and I think it's wonderful what you're doing. Thank you. I am not your target audience but enjoy listening in any case. I am, in fact, the person you referred to in one of your pension episodes of that guy at work who you could go and ask some opinions of. I take an active role at work of trying to bring together three or four hundred people together to try and impart information, education and encourage investing for their long term future. Well, Tom, you're doing brilliant things.

19:41Pete:I should say so. Amazing. I was wondering if either of you had any tips for trying to convince the younger people in the office to take it seriously. While Kate, I know you must have had the importance of financial acumen instilled in you from an early age. Maybe the same is not true of your friends. Do you get objections like investing is not for me or I'll think about pensions later, I'm going to opt out of my workplace pension now or similar? What resonated with them that changed their viewpoint? While in my workplace, those over 40 pay careful attention, I feel I'm not convincing to the younger generation.

20:16I wonder if it is my own age that hinders this as who wants to listen to the old man saying, I wish I'd done what I'm telling you now when I was younger. if you had a killer line or fact that gives younger folks their light bulb moment i'd be

20:31Pete:very grateful thanks tom killer line i wish yeah right silver bullet so and you've had conversation with peers yeah i think with this question and the first i think we can be a little bit more uh i can't think of the word um i think people are more interested than a lot of older generations think yes yeah we need not to assume yeah sounds like tom's speaking from experience though yeah true i think i think it's not coming from a place of condescension no it's nothing worse it just makes me hate you i'm sorry like sorry tom no tom you sound like a really lovely guy but like if i'm speaking on behalf of all mid 20 year olds which obviously i can't but let's say that i can as soon as it comes from a well you wouldn't know about this but it's like well stop stop assuming that i'm stupid and little when you're breaking through into that working industry you are doing everything to prove to yourself and prove to others that you are an adult and you are worthy of being there you have been hired just like your older peers you are worthy of being there and as soon as it comes from a well let me tell you what you won't know yeah no it's an immediate turn off isn't it and even if it's for coming from a good place so i think if it's a hey come to me if you want giving them the autonomy yeah yeah hey i have learned a load about finance that i think could be really useful to you if you want come grab me whenever yeah exactly made a lot of stupid mistakes when i was 20 which i wish i'd somebody had told me at the point not going to ram it down your throat but if i can help you come chat immediately i'm like oh okay probably wouldn't come to you straight away but i would then have a question on my pay slip or i have something and especially if i didn't have like a parental figure or you know another trusted adult that i felt i could talk to i'd be like well tom did say i could speak to maybe i'll speak to tom yeah and immediately you've opened the door rather than like forced it down them yeah yeah nobody wants that is it i wonder if there's like a mechanism it sounds like it's a pretty big employer.

22:38Right, yeah, three to four hundred people.

22:39Pete:I wonder if this is kind of an intranet or some kind of internal system where Tom could start writing stuff. Yeah. Or creating some kind of content, little videos or whatever. You know, just from his point of view and knowledge of his company pension scheme. Yeah. Is he the employer, do we think? I don't think, I don't know, actually. I didn't read it as he did. No, I didn't read it as him being the employer, just a keen and interested senior employee. Yeah. um so i mean i think that would be great because then it's sort of can be passively consumed but in the in a sort of slightly more micro way of what i've done with meaningful money just by getting tons of information out there when people then have questions they go actually let me just search that guy on the internet again that i saw and and ask a question or whatever with an age I mean you're figuring everything out when you're in your early 20s I think you're always figuring stuff out regardless of your age but especially so when you're in your early 20s and I think it can be as warm and welcoming and lovely as you sound Tom it can be a bit embarrassing to ask so by giving them almost the barrier, not the barrier but giving them a separation oh there's a lot of videos here if you want to watch it they don't have to tell you if they've watched it no no but if they're really interested they will and it's quite nice they don't they don't have to come to you and ask yeah as well you've opened the door to them if you want if they want to but you also have given them the chance to do it in their own time yeah you know and different things appeal to different people so you know some people in your kind of target audience their tone will be really driven by numbers so you could bang on about compounding and the you know the magic of what happens with the money you put away in your 20s and all that others will be more about sort of security and safety and what you could build for yourself at really very small amounts every month and what it could turn into and the security that that would bring um and then obviously you can talk about emergency funds and budgeting and all that stuff as well so you know i think the motivation is obviously pure and as kate said it's about kind of meeting younger adults where they are and not lecturing or condescending to them which i'm sure is not not the intention um and then just finding a way to help them potentially consume it passively and then they will come to you yeah because who else are they going to go to i think the other thing i was going to say as well is making taking it out of the abstract yeah so whenever i've had whenever i've talked to people about it it's whenever friends have come up to me when there's been a very deliberate thing coming up so like i'm applying for student loans help or Kate how the hell have you bought a house with Ben he saw the numbers he saw my ICES and he went what the hell have you done that and then that it hooked him you know just like see this issue that you might be having this is how you fix it I think not just here's where you can have an emergency fund it's like 250 quid on tyres I had to spend the other week didn't cripple me no no I didn't buy an island because you had the money aside so I think yeah that would be my other thing taking it out of the abstract this is the real world you know obviously you don't have to share your finances Tom but like no no any personal stories and anecdotes probably help them connect as well yeah I agree with that keep up the good work Tom really important yeah you sound like a really good human top bloke alright so this one is from Sean it's really long and I'll try and whip through it it was actually sent to Meaningful Money but the wonderful Nick who kind of runs the Meaningful Money inbox and then some.

26:20Pete:Much more besides. Yeah, right. But in this sense, this is part of his job. He contacted Sean and said, hey, this is more of a bang of dad question. Can I ask them? And he went, yes. So Sean, this is for you. So hi, Roger and Pete. Hello, Roger. Hello, Roger. That's me. I am Roger. Yes. I've been listening to the podcast Meaningful Money for just under a year now on my way to work. And I think I finally caught up with every episode. If that's true, that's astonishing because there are 630 episodes. Maybe it's the Q &As. Maybe. Yeah. But I'm saying that, there's only 53 Q &As currently? Might be 58.

26:58Pete:58, I think. 58. So he could easily do that. Anyway, Sean, you're insane. So I've just skipped through a couple of things about how he says all wonderful things about Pete and Rog, but I don't want to read that. No, no, I skipped that. A bit of background. Here we go. I'm 22 and have been working for just under a year after graduating from university with a degree that has absolutely nothing to do with my current job. Lots of people in that boat. I'm still living at home, which means no rent, no bills and free food. Nice. The plan is to move out in around 18 months once I've completed the professional qualification for my job.

27:32The downside is that I'm earning close to minimum wage after struggling to find a graduate role. So I want to make sure I'm making the most of what I do earn. I recently cashed in premium bonds I've had since birth because I felt the money could be working harder. I used£16 ,000 to fill my stocks and shares ISA with accumulating global equity index funds. Lovely. Lovely. Oh. And invested around the same amount into a GIA, general investment account, with the same investment strategy. My parents also contribute four grand each year into my lifetime ISA.

28:08Pete:Good, good. My current plan is to invest one grand into the GIA each month, cover my spending and put anything left over into a high interest savings account as my emergency fund, while also retaining a few premium bonds for the love of the game. At the end of each tax year, I plan to bed and ice her as much of the GIA as possible, rinse and repeat and pray I don't end up with a capital gains tax bill. There's a lot to go through here. It doesn't matter if you do. It's fine. Carry on. I also have a sip that my parents started for me. It's currently invested 80 % in equity ETFs and 20 % in bonds, although I'm planning to switch it to 100 % equities given my age.

28:45I've also changed my workplace pension from the default fund into a global equity index fund, but I'm only making the minimum contributions at the moment. So my questions are, does my overall approach seem sensible?

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28:58Pete:This might be worth doing one at a time. Does it? Yeah. Yes, I do think it seems sensible. I don't see anything issue. my only query is is it the anything left over how did you guess because you've written it down oh okay no that makes sense it is the anything left over my current plan is to invest a thousand pounds into the GIA each month cover my spending and put anything left over into a high interest savings account that's my emergency fund pay yourself first my preference will be build the emergency fund first even if it takes five six months yeah personally that's what I would do because you can have an emergency much sooner than that well you can And it just seems to me to be splitting focus, both saving into the emergency fund and investing.

29:41Pete:But that's, to be honest, that's a bit of a judgment call. It's not sort of you should. Yeah, that's what you would. That's what I would do. But anyway, but otherwise, the approach is great. Love the investment approach because you're young. Yeah, lifetime ISA. Everything's certainly good here. Right on, Sean. Okay, next question. Should I prioritize increasing my workplace pension contributions through salary sacrifice, contribute more to my SIP or continue investing into my GIA given the intention to buy a house that is true isn't it it will be in a minute oh that's a little bit later given that I would he's only 22 yeah yes and given that age given the fact that he's still at home and given his intention to buy a house I would not increase the pension contributions contributions personally, I would keep doing what he's doing and keep available money outside of pensions and then rethink it when the house purchase is imminent.

30:39Because it's going to be a heck of a long time before you can access it. You can't just pull those back out. Once they're in the pension, they're in the pension.

30:45Pete:Yeah, I mean, he's talking 36 years minimum before he can access any of the money he puts into a pension. And if he wants to buy a house now, before he's age 58, then you don't want to lock up too much away into pensions. You can redress that balance a little bit later on at 22 i would be uh all in on investing and that's what you've said to me as well i make the minimum contribution yeah yeah currently but you'll address that because you've been saving to buy a house question three i don't really like the idea of renting i know that's a controversial opinion not really i actually on the same you'd be the same page yep but my goal is to buy my first home as soon as possible if i buy in around 18 months time i'll probably only have around 16 grand in my lifetime isa can i use both my stocks and shares isa and my lifetime isa towards my house purchase or is it one or the other you can use both yeah definitely yeah and um i don't actually think it's as controversial do you think no no i think it's a very very personal thing i too didn't want to rent um but my boyfriend didn't it worked really well for him so it's it's totally up to you last question finally my student loan yes my parents have offered to pay it off as part of their estate planning to reduce a future inheritance tax bill but we're unsure whether that's actually the best financial decision i'd love to hear your thoughts not advice on whether that seems sensible sorry for the long email but i know slash hope you love these deep down thank you for brightening up my drive to work every morning with the kindness regards sean it's a little insight into the kind of questions we get a meaningful money in it right detail length multifaceted yes okay that was hard to read yeah it was but no it's it's lots of good questions and it's nice to be able to help with this stuff as far as the student loan is concerned the the chances are i mean i don't know what sean's career prospects will be he's obviously doing professional qualifications it might be that he ends up a high earner and will end up paying off his student loan.

32:45Pete:But if he doesn't, then it's going to get written off eventually. If he's 22 now, chances are he's on, he may be on a plan five loan, which is a 40 year payoff. But he's currently earning minimum wage. Minimum wage. He's not paying any of it off, but he is still accruing interest. Yeah. So it's a bit, I think it's too simple to say, well we'll just pay student loan off if it were me if my parents wanted to do some estate planning and make me a gift i would say to me well i would say make that gift and invest it but ring fence it and say to parents i will not spank that on a house or an audi or anything like that i will keep it as a potential student loan payoff fund right yeah and then see how his situation pans out because it doesn't make any sense to me to pay off a loan which might eventually be wiped out wiped off.

33:39No, that money could be really beneficial elsewhere.

33:42Pete:Because that money's gone. I mean, if he's done a three-year degree, there's every chance he's got 50 ,000 quid with student loans. And so, that's a lot of money. And if, you know, invested over 20, 30, 40 years, that's a ton of money. And I would just be saying that this very early stage of Sean's career, the current trajectory is that he won't get anywhere close to paying off all his student loans. So why bother? And so why should his parents do that? Because eventually it will be wiped off entirely. So why not then just kind of monitor the two? Have the money if his parents want to do the estate planning.

34:17Pete:So they want to reduce their estate by making him a gift. But strike a deal with them and says, I will keep that money ring-fenced, but I will invest it aggressively. And Sean is obviously very financially astute in some small way because he listens to meaningful money. so I'm sure he is able to sort of balance the accruing interest versus probably getting a better return invested versus his likelihood of his career trajectory meaning he's going to be paying off his student loan. I imagine he can kind of hold that intention fairly easily but rather than a sort of one and done and that money's gone I think if it were me I'd be saying no I'd rather invest that and see if I can double it.

35:03Amazing. All right. So question five is from Maggie. Hello, Pete and Kate. Thank you for your time and efforts putting this channel together. It's much appreciated and a joy to listen to. You have such a lovely relationship that really shines through your conversations. Love to see it. Do we? Joking. Thank you, Maggie. My name is Maggie. I'm 37 years old and I've been in the UK for 13 years.

35:25Pete:From 13 years. I presume that means from she's been 13 years old. Oh, yeah, maybe. Anyway. I'm self-employed, work as a private nanny, and my income has never been high, nor will it get higher with time like other jobs, as there are really no promotions or climbing ladders to look forward to. I came here without knowing the language or knowing anyone, so as you can imagine, it was not an easy ride. Nevertheless, I managed to buy a two-bedroom, two-bathroom apartment in London two years ago, and after that was done, I have finally opened a Stocks and Shares ISA in SIP. So far, I have 65 ,000 split between them in VWRP Vanguard?

35:59card?

35:59Pete:It's a global equity investment fund, yeah. Okay. My problem is my accountant. After years of not telling me to... After years of telling me not to open a SIP as I don't make enough, discouraging me not to invest as it is risky and I wouldn't understand it and so on, this year was the final straw. How fucking condescending. Oh my god, my head wants to explode at this point. Condescending much, yeah, right. Carry on. Honestly, this drives me nuts. Maggie, I'd be pissed off too. I made$29 ,000 last year and invested 28 of it. Good effort. My fiancé moved in with me and his salary covers all our bills.

36:35He kindly lets me focus on my pension before we have children as he knows I don't have much in there and he's in a better financial position for me.

36:41Pete:He sounds like a top bloke. I freaking love that dude. Fair dues. Yeah, well done for bagging him. Do you know what I mean? Yeah, he sounds great. That's really, really insightful, I think. Yeah. Very pleased with that. It sort of offsets the crappy accountant a little bit. How pissed off we are at the accountant. Yeah. I was proud of myself. You should be. After 13 years of saving for a property, now for a pension, no holidays or luxuries whatsoever. Yeah, 13 years. I think she moved 13 years ago. Okay. After 13 years. I don't want to see. Anyway. No holidays or luxuries whatsoever. I managed to learn, start and fund a pension all by myself.

37:18Woohoo. I didn't know what an ISA was or anything else for that matter. I felt that I finally managed to build a stable foundation, a roof over my head and now working for the future. With that in my head, I went to my accountant to present her with the numbers. She laughed at me, saying I am her lowest salary client, and with that salary, better work at McDonald's.

37:38Pete:You've got to be freaking kidding me. She also said to not compare with people on higher incomes and not think like that, aka invest, as it's not for me and my abilities. I feel my blood pressure riding. Since next year, we have to do our taxes every three months, as we said. I'm terrified I have to see this woman more often, not surprised, as she clearly doesn't want to help me. The only reason I started with her was that she's from my country and speaks my language since I didn't know English. I didn't have a choice at the time. Now I'm looking for a new accountant, but every person slash company I call tells me they don't deal with self-employed people on such a low income, especially when there are no probabilities of an increase in the future.

38:21I feel devastated and ashamed of the treatment I'm getting. I honestly thought that I was doing well considering the circumstances. I worked so hard to get to this point and I still am. Any advice on institutions, accountants or general information about low income earners? I feel so embarrassed listening to videos about income, pensions, etc. As I know that would never be me on a high salary or big pension pot. But I am working honestly for my money and I don't understand why no one takes me seriously and treats me as a criminal as if my money is dirty and somehow doesn't want to touch it. Please help me.

38:55Apologies for the long message. I thought the background might be useful. Yeah. Maggie, I'm so sorry. Your accountant sounds like...

39:04Pete:A twat. An absolute cowbag. And I would dec her if I met her in person. Honestly, it's... I mean, this is a woman who came to the country without understanding English. English. The English is immaculate in this question. And not only that, but has bought a house, opened an ice and a sip. So it's already light years ahead, Maggie, of many of your peers, I'm sure. Do you know what I mean? This is a woman who's grafted, taken her future into her own hands, has clearly found a great fiancé who is, you know, supportive. And also got his head switched on with money as well. Yeah, yeah, exactly. And understands that there's going to be an imbalance between him and her, particularly when children come on.

39:48Pete:And he's pre-thinking that I think there's so much to be proud of. You should be. Please don't be ashamed or embarrassed or any of those things. You're doing fantastically well. God, it drives me mad. That woman, your accountant, should be ashamed. That is disgusting. I think there's very clear grounds here for a complaint because your accountant has stepped way over the line. Firstly, an accountant, there's very clear things that I, as a regulated finance advisor, can and can't say. Likewise, an accountancy is somewhat regulated. and an accountant would not be allowed to say you should not pay into a pension, I don't believe.

40:24Pete:Especially because of your ability. Yeah, well, yeah, that wouldn't be a regulatory thing. But I reckon if you were to say at this point, this accountant said, you know, I shouldn't pay into a pension, despite the fact that it would have been tax advantageous for you to do so, and you went to what I can't remember the governing body is for accountants, I reckon you'd have serious grounds for a complaint here and potentially compensation. I think it's absolutely criminal what you've been told Maggie so the question is now what to do about it you know we've said you have every right to be proud of yourself and complain apparently and complain about this bint of an accountant who clearly doesn't know what they're talking about who's also just clearly a vile person you should work at McDonald's first of all the hard working people at McDonald's did not deserve to be slated no no exactly just you know someone's looking after children it's a noble calling yes right and yes underpaid it's like carers you know these people should be paid twice what they are because i wouldn't want to do it well no yeah exactly and i'd be very interested to know if the accountants you know got a bmw on finance right um so anyway uh firstly so you you have to yeah okay let's just sort of breathe a little bit and sort of come down off the precipice because we're about to sort of arm ourselves and head to wherever maggie lives find this accountant um so look we need to work out what you do need to do.

41:45Pete:So the making tax digital for income tax we talked about earlier on, if your earnings are 29 ,000, Maggie, then we don't actually know when you're going to have to do the quarterly thing yet. Because it's from April 2027, it's for those earning between 30 and 50. So if your earnings are 29, you don't quite fall into that. And they haven't yet set in stone when it's going to be for those earning over 20 ,000. The good money will be that it will be April 2028. So you've got a couple of years yet, just under. So you can then be starting planning for that. If your accountant is any good, which I know they're not, but hopefully you will have picked up some of the things that you maybe can claim for and think about what receipts you need to keep and stuff like that, a little bit like what we said to Caddy earlier on.

42:36Pete:If you're private nannying, it might be that you've got a couple of different families. You know, we need to find out whether the houses are deemed to be your normal place of work or whether if you're changing families quite a bit that you're working for, whether that doesn't apply. But hopefully you've learned some things about what you can and can't claim for. You are clearly entirely capable. So I would be looking for a piece of software. So there are a few good options. Zero with an X. They're advertising everywhere at the minute. Zero with an X. Free agent or QuickBooks. Those are the big players.

43:08Pete:and you can link them to your bank account. Keep a separate business bank account, as we've said to Caddy earlier on as well. You can link them to your bank account. You can categorize expenditure, you know, anything that's definitely work-related, you can spend out of that account. Everything that's personal, you know, you spend out your own account, all that sort of stuff. So you can do a lot of what the accountant is claiming to do for you. You can do it yourself. It's a lot easier than you think. And if you've learned everything you've learned, including a freaking language, you're more than capable of doing it?

43:38Pete:Yeah, honestly. I'm so furious. I'm absolutely, I was mad as hell reading this question because you've got nothing to be shamed about at all, Maggie. So sack your accountant with immediate effect. Try not to deck her on the way out, but I would understand if you did. No, exactly. And honestly, I think there's so clearly a basis for a complaint here, a formal complaint. But I understand why people might not do that, particularly if there's a sort of community element to it. But I think your accountant is in breach of about a million rules and certainly in breach of being a decent human being. Honestly, Maggie, you've got this.

44:15Pete:You're doing things so well. It's time to move to the next level, which is going to be taking a charge of your own tax affairs, I think. Now, there will be some accountancy companies that will take you. you know I would look for maybe accountants who specialize in nannies you know judicious google search will probably help you with that if not there are there's a difference between full accountants and bookkeepers and bookkeepers generally work at a much sort of sort of lower level if you like in terms of the kind of clients you might be able to work with generally will cost you a lot less so I'm sure you can find a local bookkeeper if you've got nanny friends, ask them.

44:56Pete:Ask them who they're dealing with, right? Ask any other friends who are freelancers or self-employed who they're using as their accountants. I imagine you may have done this already. But don't stand for any crap from anybody who says that you're not worthy of being a customer of theirs. Bear in mind that accountants are generally paid hourly rates. And so your money's as good as anybody else's. They could work for a millionaire for two hours and they could work for you for two hours and they're doing the same money. Now they might need to do more work for a millionaire and that's kind of the point.

45:28Pete:Your affairs will be relatively simple. So they may not earn as much from you as they might from the millionaire, but still your money's as good as theirs. So I, you know, look for companies, accountancy companies maybe who have an element of sort of, you know, if there are any accountants who are B Corp, for example, that means they've been sort of proven to have a community sort of outward looking, approach to how they run their businesses. They are out there. A brilliant one called The Peloton. They're down in Penryn in Cornwall, so a long way from where you are, but they'll work remotely. All right, they're a B Corp, a great company, a good relationship with my own company.

46:05Pete:So look for these sort of better companies. Honestly, not everybody's a complete git, Maggie. But I completely understand why you would think they would because your accountant sounds like a... Git. It just, it would break anybody's spirit, the kind of things that Maggie's had to deal with. So, Maggie, chin up. You're doing amazing work. Ignore that bint. I'm glad we did that one last. Yeah, me too. Although I am a bit ragey now. Yeah. I could go to war for Maggie. I know. I want to, like, and I want to give her fiancé a hug as well. Yeah, yeah. Sounds like a great team. Anyway. The two of them.

46:40So, with that.

46:42Pete:Yeah, so five questions dealt with, quite different, and we've got one carried over, so we'll either drop that into a... Yeah, there's another one in our inbox as well. Okay. Starting to build the list up again. Yeah, yeah. So keep them coming. Keep the questions coming. Hello at bankofdad.show. Just mark your email podcast question and we'll just keep doing Q &As as they come in. Yeah, absolutely. They're really fun. They are. And yeah, I apparently get quite ragey in some of them. This one particularly. Yeah. But yes, thank you so much for watching. Thank you all so much for supporting the channel as well.

47:12Please give a like, subscribe if you haven't already. It just really helps us keep going. And we will see you in the next one, which I think

47:19Pete:is about travel and money and money better do some research for that one yeah probably should I'm going to wear my Rush t-shirt bear in mind that I've just been travelling have you brought it yeah okay because we're filming this one next yeah we are alright well thank you so much and we will see you in the next one cheers

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