In short
The episode profiles Cold War “military brats” through author Tom Hapgood’s childhood in West Germany, focusing on identity as a “third culture kid,” life on U.S. bases, schooling (DoDEA), cultural exchange, and Cold War tensions (including the Berlin Wall era and Red Army Faction anxiety).
Guest backgrounds
Tom Hapgood is a U.S. military brat and a university professor (teaches at the University of Arkansas). He later wrote the novel Lost Letters based on his brat experiences.
Key claims
BRATS is debated in origin but is treated positively; during the Cold War, military children may have outnumbered service members (estimate 1.4:1). DoD estimates about 15 million Americans are current/former brats. Hapgood describes DoDEA schools as small, American-style communities abroad.
Notable examples
Moving in 1985 from Fort Huachuca, Arizona to Karlsruhe; learning German from a former Messerschmitt Bf-109 pilot teacher; DoDEA field trips (Verdun trenches, Maginot Line, Model UN in The Hague); Berlin trips with Soviet checkpoint procedures; NEO-style evacuation drills; a tense 1986 Libya-bombing school lockdown; and watching the Berlin Wall open on TV in college.
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Chapters
Tap a time to open that second in VOIntroducing Tom Hapgood and Military Brats
1:06 to 2:09
Discussion on Tom Hapgood’s experiences as a military brat and his novel.
“So we were learning German from a former Messerschmitt Bf-109 pilot who apparently had been taken prisoner of war and brought over into Georgia.”
The Etymology of 'BRAT'
2:15 to 3:56
Exploration of the term 'BRAT' and its historical contexts.
“under scrutiny a little bit, the actual history or etymology of the acronym, I guess, in that we kind of like the fact that it might have been British regiment attached travelers.”
The Population of Military Brats
4:00 to 5:18
Statistics about military brats during the Cold War and current estimates.
“How many of these dependents were on bases around the world outside of continental U.S.?”
Tom's Early Experiences in Germany
5:20 to 8:24
Tom shares his first memories and impressions of moving to Germany.
“So can you just give me a bit of background as to, you know, about your parents and your first memory as a brat?”
High School Life as a Military Brat
8:27 to 11:16
Description of Tom's high school experience and Department of Defense schools.
“They put you up in the BOQs, this bachelor officer's quarters.”
Life on the Military Base
11:19 to 13:40
Insights into the lifestyle and facilities available on U.S. military bases abroad.
“We had the Minuteman Theater where we would watch our movies and stand up at the beginning with the national anthem and the flag on the screen.”
Field Trips and Cultural Experiences
13:44 to 14:07
Tom recounts memorable field trips and cultural educational experiences.
“And, you know, I'm a aficionado, if that's even the right word for World War One.”
Exploring Karlsruhe: A Military Kid's Perspective
14:07 to 20:48
Learn about the unique experiences of growing up in Karlsruhe, including cultural interactions and historical observations.
“Today, we're going to talk about World War One, and then we'll talk about the Maginot line and hey, let's get on the bus and go see it.”
Exploring Karlsruhe: A Military Kid's Perspective
20:49 to 22:05
Learn about the unique experiences of growing up in Karlsruhe, including cultural interactions and historical observations.
“Starting or growing your own business can be intimidating and lonely at times.”
Friendships and Cultural Exchange
22:15 to 28:00
Explore the friendships formed with local German families and the cultural experiences shared during the author's childhood.
“Oh, and he's gone for a can of Pepsi too!”
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Reflections on Life in Germany
28:00 to 29:05
Learn about the author's memories of living in Germany during the Cold War.
“What month was that that you were there?”
Understanding the Red Army Faction
29:05 to 29:51
Discover the influence of the Red Army Faction on life in Germany.
“Yeah, the Badr-Meinhof group, sometimes called the Badr-Meinhof gang, which I think is a more fun name, but they had assassinated a federal prosecutor in Karlsruhe in 77.”
School Sports and Legendary Trips
29:51 to 35:37
Explore memorable school trips and sports events among military BRATs.
“So we had the tension of general Cold War tension.”
Evacuation Drills and Safety Precautions
35:37 to 37:36
Learn about the evacuation drills and safety measures for military kids.
“to kind of explain to people today what it was like.”
Cultural Differences in Sports
37:36 to 42:00
Discuss the differences in sports experiences across cultures in Europe.
“I mean, what were you told about what was going to happen should the Soviet hordes pour across the inner German border?”
Tennis Experiences in Europe
42:00 to 44:36
Explore the unique tennis court surfaces and experiences of American military brats in Europe.
“And we had, I think we had grass courts somewhere.”
Memorable Summers and Work
44:36 to 47:07
Hear about a memorable summer job working on military vehicles and its significance.
“Greasing bearings and axles of large armored equipment was, I mean, I still think back at how interesting and fun that was compared to the delivering chicken wings on a bicycle or whatever people are doing here.”
Tensions and Restrictions in 1986
47:07 to 49:14
Discover the tensions experienced by military brats during geopolitical events and restrictions.
“That was maybe the scariest time that I remember.”
The Fall of the Berlin Wall
49:14 to 51:48
Listen to the emotional recollections of witnessing the Berlin Wall's fall from afar.
“There's that story that the CIA asked the Scorpions, they deny it, but the wind of change years, that was, those were just interesting, fun years.”
Writing 'Lost Letters' and Its Themes
51:48 to 54:55
Learn about the author's journey in writing 'Lost Letters' and its historical context.
“So you mentioned there your book, Lost Letters.”
Significance of Artifacts and Memories
54:55 to 56:00
Discuss the significance of personal artifacts that reflect experiences as military brats.
“And it's for sale wherever you can buy books, e-book and printed book.”
Life as a Military BRAT in Germany
56:00 to 1:01:02
Explore the unique experiences of U.S. military families in Germany during the Cold War.
“And my students come in and are a bit shocked at the range of bizarre artifacts on the walls in here.”
Impact of Base Closures on Local Communities
1:01:31 to 1:05:25
Discuss the economic and social effects of U.S. military base closures in Europe.
“In the years right after the Cold War ending, we had these base realignment and closures, these bracts where the government here, the people in Congress kind of took a look at the budget and where we need people.”
Reflections on Cold War Experiences
1:05:25 to 1:06:13
Hear personal stories reflecting on life during the Cold War and its legacy.
“an unknown story of the Cold War and I do like an unknown story to share with our listeners.”
Transcript
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1:17This is Cold War Conversations. If you're new here, you've come to the right place to listen to Cold War history. please make sure you follow us in your podcast app so you don't miss future episodes author tom hapgood is a u.s military brat aka the child of a parent or parents serving full time in the u.s armed forces the stories shared reveal how these children navigated their identities as they lived in foreign lands amidst the challenges there were countless adventures and opportunities for cultural exchange that enrich their lives. From navigating new cities to forming lifelong friendships, the life of a military brat is filled with unique experiences that shape who they become.
2:01Do check out Tom's novel, Lost Letters, based on his experiences as a brat. There's links in the episode information. I'm delighted to welcome Tom Hapgood to our Cold War conversation.
2:15Tom Hapgood:Brats is... under scrutiny a little bit, the actual history or etymology of the acronym, I guess, in that we kind of like the fact that it might have been British regiment attached travelers. When the British military would travel the world, they would often bring children with them. Now that could be one of those backronyms that, you know, where we sort of, you know, assign it later. The other one is barrack rats, where we hear that maybe French colonial troops would also bring their families along and maybe even live in the barracks with the troops. And so the other troops would call other people's kids barrack rats.
2:55It's unsure, but that's where we kind of liken it to. And it's not necessarily a negative acronym. It's entirely possible that at times it was applied to, you know, especially the teenage children of the military troops around the world. But we like BRATS now. It's kind of a positive moniker. Some groups are attempting to switch it to maybe MIL kids, you know, military kids, but that seems less fun. And, you know, BRATS, we get to keep in all caps because it's an acronym. So that's just fun too.
3:27Tom Hapgood:So I think that's sort of the general consensus on where that acronym comes from. And it didn't apply to spouses, so it was kids it applied to, that were attached to military service people abroad. Yeah, as far as I know, we had the person serving, the spouse, and then the kids, which are the brats. I mean, for the U.S. military forces, what sort of numbers are we talking about worldwide at the peak of the Cold War? How many of these dependents were on bases around the world outside of continental U.S.? There's an estimate that during those years, the military children actually outnumbered the serving members by 1.4 to 1-ish, because I imagine, you know, people had multiple children.
4:26And if we look at the Cold War running, you know, as we all generally understand it, to maybe mid-late 40s to 1991-ish. And we had, and my time was in Germany, we had about 47 major military bases in West Germany through those years. And I think at the peak, maybe 200 ,000 to 250 ,000 troops at any time at the peak were there. Again, who brought a lot of children. And the Department of Defense estimates that today we probably have 15 million Americans who are current or former Brats. So these children who lived abroad with the family. And so it's a number that at a certain time there's a number.
5:09But then also just today, we imagine that probably 15 million people had lived this life. And that's by the Department of Defense. And that's a big number. And it's a unique lifestyle. And Tom, as you alluded to just a moment ago, you were one of these brats. So can you just give me a bit of background as to, you know, about your parents and your first memory as a brat? I feel really lucky to have lived the lifestyle of the military brat. I should quickly sidebar and note that a lot of people had a bit of a rough go of it. The moving every three years, the landing all these different cultures and needing to make new friends.
5:52And we soaked up the experience. So I was 15 when we moved from Fort Huachuca, Arizona to Karlsruhe in the southwest of Germany. And we lived there for five years. and I had a father who wasn't necessarily at all the traditional sort of tyrant dictator of the family he was a he was a former colonel by that point but was working with the military on an army base but was a big softy so it was just it was fun for us to travel every weekend and and he before all of that, when I was smaller, he worked at a research lab in Natick outside of Boston in Massachusetts. And he had been trying to get back over to Germany for years.
6:41He was there in the late fifties, early sixties when the wall went up. And so it was a big day when he announced that we were moving to West Germany in 1985. And I remember being medium excited about it. I had seen a lot of his pictures of the castles and the trains. And so I was excited at the same time losing my friends and all that stuff. But, um, so we, we, you know, left Fort Wachuk in 85 and then within some hours and a combination of big airliners dropped into Frankfurt airport. And I remember landing and seeing all the, what I now know to be C-5s and C-141s and all kinds of big transport planes there on the tarmac.
7:22And you kind of got, it was a cloudy, dark day and you kind of got a sense like, Oh, we're dropping into something really interesting. here. And what was your first impressions of West Germany? Presumably your bust from the airport to your accommodation. Is your sort of nose glued to the window, just taking it all in?
7:43Tom Hapgood:After we landed in Frankfurt, my father's new boss picked us up and he drove, this is one of our family lore stories, he must have driven 200 miles an hour. We weren't used to this. Of course, it wasn't 200, but it was fast left lane of the autobahn you know the left turn signal on meaning get out of my way my mother and i run a back seat just hugging each other for dear life wondering what we'd gotten ourselves into and he you know we made it from frankfurt to carlsruhe and you know minutes it seemed like and so yeah my my face was turning outwards to look at the various bits of scenery, but also wondering if I was ever going to survive the trip.
8:24But we habituated pretty quickly. They put you up in the BOQs, this bachelor officer's quarters. It's kind of like a hotel. And then you take a few days to get situated, get a car, figure out where you're going to live. I registered for the high school. And then, you know, we ended up just kind of walking around the city, trying to understand where we were. My mother and I had never really done this. And by that time my sisters had moved out of the, out of the house. But, um, I remember, you know, the second day we were there, another coworker of my father took us down into Carl's route to one of the, one of the street side cafes.
9:00And I remember him saying, position yourself with your back against the wall, looking out into the street so you can watch the ladies walk by. And this was my first introduction to like the, the true European lifestyle. And I said, okay, so, you know, done did it well and had you been given any sort of acclimatization training's the wrong word but sort of like lectures when you were back in the states or or was it just you're on a plane and you're there you're in west germany really it's the latter and i may not remember but i think we packed bags visited my aunt in philadelphia on the way and dropped in so we really didn't didn't understand what we're now did they offer these things in my dad declined.
9:46I'm not sure. I think they were going to count on the welcome wagon people when
9:52Tom Hapgood:you get there to sort of hand you the brochures and help you get situated. How soon did you start high school when you were there? Was it straight in or did you, you had some holiday or some break to just find your feet? Right. It was within a few weeks. We registered for the high school, very small school. It was It was probably, I mean, effectively it was kindergarten through 12th grade in a couple of sort of buildings attached to each other. And my each year class had about, I'd say 20 to maybe 30 people in it. So compared with the high schools, I think we have thousands and thousands here in my children's high school here, but small school, really great teaching.
10:38It's a Department of Defense school. It was Department of Defense Dependent Schooling. Dodds was the organization run by the Department of Defense. They had a few other names, and now it's DoDEA, Department of Defense Education Activity, I think is the name. But they ran many schools throughout.
10:56Tom Hapgood:You know, this organization, Dodds, at the time was already up and running in 1946 with on and off site military schools in Germany, Austria and Japan. And within three years, they were already running 100 schools by the various armed forces. So today, I think they run about 161. So yeah, it was two to three weeks. and another name for those of us who went through this experience is the third culture kids we're americans and we're but we're living in a foreign country and so we sort of don't feel like either of those standard american experience or certainly not being germans so we lived this third culture in the middle tck as you'll kind of hear it mention third culture kids so that was that took a bit of getting used to but very American high school experience with the sports and the cheerleaders and the lockers and the field trips which were amazing but it was as standard of an American high school experience as they could make it with the benefit of just having the world outside your door Because these US bases it was like america in there wasn't it because you'd have the i can't remember what the the stores called where you can buy everything the army ran the post exchange or the px and then i think the force ran the bx base exchange so that was like a little department store of sorts where we'd buy clothes and various things next to it was the commissary where we bought our groceries but we used american dollars we a lot of us drove american cars we We bought gasoline with dollars.
12:46We had the Minuteman Theater where we would watch our movies and stand up at the beginning with the national anthem and the flag on the screen. We had the bowling alley, you know, cafeterias with microwave burritos, you know. You could live a pretty American lifestyle as much as you wanted. And some people, again, were a little bit uncertain about the whole thing, but many people lived out in the towns and not in Paul Revere Village, which is where most of the Americans lived. So some people really embraced the opportunity and so other people. But yeah, a little America within Germany. Of course, this was repeated throughout Germany.
13:30And then, of course, England and France up through the mid-late 60s, and then Spain, Greece, Turkey, and South Korea, everywhere, Japan, all around the world, this experience has happened with Bratz. You mentioned just a moment back about field trips. Can you tell me about those? Yeah.
13:50Tom Hapgood:And, you know, I'm a aficionado, if that's even the right word for World War One. But I, when I was 17, you know, we took a trip over to Verdun, which might've been three, four hours away and, and walked through the trenches and, and it would be like this. Today, we're going to talk about World War One, and then we'll talk about the Maginot line and hey, let's get on the bus and go see it. And so we would then be crawling through the tunnels of the Maginot Line over in Alsace, I think somewhere. And then we'd talk about castles in medieval Germany. And then we would get on a bus and go see those.
14:28Tom Hapgood:And we had overnight trips. We would visit, oh gosh, Model United Nations is a great one that we all remember. We went to the Hague Holland for three, four, five days and I think it was the World Forum Theater maybe is what they called it. But we kids from all over Europe would go and pretend to be certain countries. And that was greatly remembered by everyone as a fun trip. So the field trips could have been a couple hours where you visit some major world history site or it could be these overnight trips. Very, very interesting and fun. really, really impacted a 15-year-old's life, I'll tell you.
15:08Yeah, I can imagine. I can imagine. I mean, as a 15-year-old, you're old enough, presumably, to go off base and explore Karlsruhe yourself? Yeah. Other than a few experiences I'll mention in a minute during some more tense times, but my father made the decision to not live in that Paul Revere Village PRV with the rest of the Americans, we lived out in the northeast part of the city, probably 15-minute bike ride from the base and the big palace in the middle of Karlsruhe. And that was one of the first places my mother and I walked. It was close enough from the main center of the American experience to the big yellow palace in the middle of Karlsruhe.
15:48And it's one of those absolutist sort of monarch cities where the roads all radiate out and spokes from that palace in the middle of the city and beautiful. What struck us is that as you walk down the main kind of shopping street of Karlsruhe, you can see, and everyone notices it's fascinating. Every other building or every third building along the street is newer in a kind of fifties, sixties style. And other ones, so every other building basically was still in that old, maybe 1800s style and came to find out that, of course, some of the buildings survived the bombings and fire bombings and others didn't.
16:33And the ones that didn't, they just put up a more modern 20th century looking building in the spot. And it was really interesting to notice that juxtaposition between the two styles of architecture and really looking at history and understanding right there that we'd been standing and walking and shopping in areas that had been bombed during war. And I was there in 85, so really just 40 years after the end of the war. Particularly, I think in the East, you'd still see a lot of that bomb damage in East Germany and off the main areas of East Berlin. Did you pick up much German in your three years there?
17:12Were you able to converse with the locals?
17:15Tom Hapgood:I tried. I took all the German classes in the high school. We had a German teacher, beloved, but a little bit salty. And so some kids would make some jokes, and he was very stern, but with that sort of glint in his eye. and he was a great great man Dieter Zink and so people would make jokes about peanut butter specifically because it apparently he hated it he wouldn't touch it and the rumor was that he had been kept as a prisoner of war in Georgia in the south of the United States where a lot of peanuts are grown and I think we found out later that was true he had been a Messerschmitt BF-109 pilot during the war and we actually found photos of him so we were learning german from a former 109 pilot who apparently had been taken prisoner of war and brought over into georgia so i i think he honestly hated peanut butter and peanuts but that was the the fun little sort of joke that that the kids had with him but we we learned german well i mean he was a great teacher he did bring some humor and now and then but he was he was stern and then i joined the american what was it called the american league of schools als or the these groups were the they would pair up the german kids and the american kids and go on little trips and meet for lunch and visit each other's houses for dinner and and a lot of the kids had a you know maybe a an american officer or soldier father and a German mother.
18:58There were a lot of those relationships. So those kids all spoke fluent German and they would help us. We tried. It was a bit of a tough language. And being the typical teenager, we probably didn't try that hard looking back. I wish I spoke it better. I then studied in college too. I speak it okay today. I'm just trying to get over having a Messerschmitt 109 pilot as your German teacher.
19:26Tom Hapgood:that's quite amazing he was it was great across the street in my little town we had a a woman who became friends with my mother she didn't speak a single word of English but her husband had passed away but we would go into her house and visit her and on the wall she had a lot of photos of her husband who was who had been an FW 190 fuck a wolf pilot there standing with his plane and even at 15 16 17 I knew wow this is this is amazing so we had a lot of those little stories where we were confronted with history. But in that city, Karlsruhe, from what I've heard, I worked on a documentary film some years ago and gathered a lot of footage, which I still haven't finished.
20:06But the German population in Karlsruhe and the Americans seem to make a pretty good relationship work throughout those 50 years that Americans were living in Karlsruhe. The occasional flare-ups and soldiers getting in fights in the bars and whatever. But, you know, all things considered, it wasn't the worst experience for a lot of people. And Americans and Germans made it work. And we had a lot of Turkish people working on the army base. And it was very international experience, more than just Americans and Germans. And that that's you can't really buy that kind of education in your teenage years.
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22:36Tom Hapgood:You know, I bet you're right, for sure. Yeah, and I had been, when was Carter? 76 to 80, maybe? 17, 17, when was the Iranian hostage crisis was 80? Yeah, Reagan came in in 80 and they kept the hostages apparently until Reagan came in or something. But yeah, so yeah, I just missed it. That would have been fun though during that time to have him as a teacher for sure. You mentioned visiting German families. Normally there'd be a, you know, there'd be a US connection there. Did you have any German friends who were not military or connected with the military in any way? A lot of us did. I lived in a three-story house, and on the bottom floor was a German family.
23:21And they had two sons who were my age, and I got to know them pretty well. They liked model trains like I did, and they liked heavy metal like I did. And so we did some things together. They moved out at some point, and an Italian family moved in. And they had two daughters my age. So the fun continued, although less model trains and heavy metal than before.
23:46Tom Hapgood:But we all had neighbors. We all had friends. And again, people had German mothers or maybe sometimes fathers. And an occasional German kid would be attending our American Forces High School. And I don't know the arrangement there. So there were a lot of friendships. What were you doing when you weren't at school? What were you doing in your downtime? It sounds like you were listening to heavy metal. Yeah, I was listening and playing heavy metal. It was a big thing in the 80s. I was going to concerts. And again, my father and my mother embraced the opportunity. We were traveling, visiting museums and hanging out with friends and getting the Mercedes out on the Audubon and playing Judas Priest and going 100 miles an hour.
24:33Tom Hapgood:It was that American kids having a bunch of fun, but in the middle of also these international fun experiences going on. And how far afield did your parents take you on trips? Did you see the Iron Curtain? We did. We just slipped it in in 89. We took a family trip over into West Berlin. And I'll talk about that in a minute, a specific trip that all of us brats would take into Berlin. But one experience I remember, we flew up into London Heathrow. We rented a car. We drove around very carefully through England. And we stopped in Wales up into Scotland. We were in, I believe it was Inverness or maybe it was Glasgow.
25:20We were staying at a bed and breakfast. and I remember the people who ran a bed and breakfast were named Diana and Charles, bizarrely different ones. But we asked him, he said, where are you from? We're from Karlsruhe. And we said, have you ever been there? He said, no, I've never been to Karlsruhe. I only bombed there. And so we talked to him a bit about that. I flew a Lancaster or something and had bombed Karlsruhe. So had a little chat about that. That was fun. um italy spain just just high school trips and family trips all over skiing beaches really amazing amazing opportunities we had absolutely and as you say a unique experience for somebody of that age from the the u.s you were going to mention a another trip to berlin but actually Can you tell me, you went on a trip with your parents to West Berlin.
26:19Did you cross into the East during that visit or not?
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26:23Tom Hapgood:Yeah, when we visited West Berlin in 89, we stood looking at the wall. We went to Checkpoint Charlie. We looked over the wall. We looked at the graffiti on the wall, various things. But we did get on one of those buses that would give you a little tour into East Berlin. And it was, I think it was a U.S. Army, all of drab green army bus that we drove through Checkpoint Charlie. And then they let us off at a few different predetermined locations to get some photos. And we do distinctly remember how different it was in the East compared to the West. And I don't think it's dramatic kind of retrospective, but the people didn't seem all that excited to be living.
27:07And we got ice cream at one point and it was ice with a dash of some sort of, you know, like it was shaved ice with a dash of some sort of flavor that didn't really have any flavor.
27:19Tom Hapgood:And we ate at a restaurant and it really is, it was one of those, almost like a Soviet cafeteria feel. and of course the cars were just those what was it skodas and ladas and trabis and and and and it was it was really out of the movies that experience of of getting to just fit in a trip into the east berlin situation before the wall came down and i remember sitting looking at it and i was i remember we were saying you know if this ever comes down people are going to come at this with pickaxes and And of course, that's what we saw shortly after. So it was an interesting experience to see West Berlin and East Berlin right before the wall came down.
28:04What month was that that you were there? I think it was May. I remember right. Okay. I was there May, June. We might have crossed paths somewhere along the wall. Yeah. I mean, it almost seems like another life at this point, you know. it was so long ago and the world has changed so much you know what i look back and i think oh what i wouldn't have given to have had a digital camera and just been able to take as many photos and i think i took two rolls of 36 which was you know but yeah incredible experience incredible now during the time that you're in carl's ruhr you know they're there's a sort of rise in terrorist incidents, particularly Red Army faction, the Badr-Meinhof group, were you given any specific warnings as to how to behave or to avoid certain situations?
29:05Tom Hapgood:Yeah, the Badr-Meinhof group, sometimes called the Badr-Meinhof gang, which I think is a more fun name, but they had assassinated a federal prosecutor in Karlsruhe in 77. We had, I think, the Supreme Court in Karlsruhe maybe still is there right next to the palace. And so a lot of tension there generally, but they had been bombing various places throughout Germany. They had bombed the Frankfurt airport months, I think, before we got there. My father never mentioned that to us, if he knew. But they had killed various people throughout Germany from 70. And I read up through it, actually, they were formed up through 1998, apparently.
29:48I didn't know this, but if the site I checked is true. So we had the tension of general Cold War tension. And then there was this kind of leftist Red Army faction that, honestly, I don't remember it too much. I remember a lot about the feeling that the Soviets were coming any minute, but this Red Army faction i don't know if we talked about it too much but it did inform probably the the advice we were given to just be careful generally as we went through the city they caught one of the members about a year and a half ago in berlin who had still been on the run and there's still two more that are out there they've been robbing banks in the netherlands or somewhere like that and there's still two oh interesting i'm like yeah i'm the the reason i i know this is i've been researching doing an episode about the red army faction and was sort of digging digging into it and yeah it's pretty incredible that there's still you know some of them on the run there now it's you know you you mentioned going on trips with your parents but you also had trips to various locations as part of the school, as part of the educational program or even the sports program.
31:12Can you tell me anything about those? Yeah. So each of our high schools had various sports teams and we would play the other Department of Defense schools. And there were many dozens of them, maybe. Were there something like 47 or 50 schools in Karlsruhe. We would play them. We would get on buses and or trains, go to those schools, maybe stay overnight, play tennis, basketball, soccer, football, of course. The one everyone talks about to this day, it's gone down in legend among brats is the trip to Berlin that you would take. And it was a night or two trip. And the Berlin Bears, Berlin American High School Bears, We saw them as this other level of awesome because they literally lived on an island in the east of the Warsaw Pact.
32:00And so they would travel out of Berlin to play schools over in West Germany and we would travel over to see them. We would get on a train at night in Karlsruhe, go up through Frankfurt and head then over to the little town. and a lot of your visitors will know some of these names, but it was Helmstedt was the little city at the Iron Curtain, which was the famous by associated name, Checkpoint Alpha. And we would, we would pull in there on the train. They would then detach the locomotive and the crew, the West German and or military American military police would make a bunch of changes at that point.
32:44And they would pull a GDR East German locomotive and crew, to then pull the train over to West Berlin. We would make a quick stop in Marianborn, which is where the Soviet checkpoint was. That was always the most tense. They'd come on with the AKs and the, and the dogs. And we would be, we would have to swear that we would not interfere in any way by raising the shades, taking photographs. And so that took a while. The train trip took a long time. Although it wasn't even that far because of those two stops and the changing of locomotives. And of course, the shenanigans would happen on this train and blinds would be raised.
33:28Photographs would be taken with flash. And at that point, the train would lurch to a halt again and people would, the shouting would start. The Soviets, they took this all very seriously. I look at it with a bit of humor at this point, but it was really serious and scary at the time. they'd come on and they'd identify the poor kid who's quaking, who took the photo. Sometimes it was a boy scout or a, or a high schooler. And then the coaches are, you know, everyone's running around and trying to figure out how to punish this kid and probably his father. And ultimately, you know, we'd make it through after some point.
34:04We always heard the story of the British kids who threw eggs at the guards. And so that might've played into things too. I don't know if that's, if that's a real history or not, but okay. we'd travel through the night through East Germany. Of course, the whole time we're looking out the blinds. I mean, this would be like taking a trip through North Korea now. I mean, I'd want to see what it looks like out there. We'd then arrive at Checkpoint Bravo, which was at the sort of Southwest of Berlin. I forget the name of the little town. It was later Potsdam, I think, but Checkpoint Bravo, they'd switch again the locomotive back to a West German locomotive and team and take us into the station where we would get off the train, check into a hotel or barracks or whatever somewhere, play our very important sports, tennis, football, soccer.
34:57I believe we stayed overnight and maybe we went sightseeing a few times around West Berlin and then we would get back on the train and repeat the entire thing. And the shenanigans on the train during the night are legendary. I mean, they were these compartments where the seats would fold down into beds and we were, you know, quote, sleeping through the night on the trip and the heavy metal, the Doritos, the running around, the being crazy. It was everyone's biggest memory about these high school trips. The rest of them were a train trip that was still fun, but the Berlin duty train experience is beyond anything to kind of explain to people today what it was like.
35:40And I guess, again, if you took a train through North Korea, that might be a similar experience today where it's kind of a Hunger Games situation. I can imagine we'll probably have people contacting us via the Facebook group or elsewhere with their experiences, and they'd be very welcome to do that. We're always interested in hearing about people's experiences that link to episodes or don't even link to episodes. Did you smuggle any contraband alcohol onto these trains or not? Surely not. No, that never happened, I'm sure. I, weirdly, living in Germany was not a drinker, but a lot of my friends were.
36:20So I imagine, I remember a good Coke or something, but yeah, that must have been part of the experience. And those kids who lived in Berlin, those American kids, and a lot of us, but they had a go bag ready to go just in any case that they were ordered to evacuate, that they just kept it in the closet.
36:41Tom Hapgood:And I learned recently that this was not the case in my day, but kids throughout the sixties, maybe into the seventies, the children actually wore dog tags at all times. And they had these evacuation cards. Leslie Brown, who I reached out to on a Facebook group said that they wore these dog tags every day, had these evacuation cards, evacuation drills at the school. And I had those too. This was before ID cards. And these, these, these dog tags had typical things, but they had, so they had the student's name. They had the dad's name, his rank. It might've been mother, but often dad's name, rank, ID number, religion, blood type, and whether you were a son or daughter.
37:26And I didn't know about that, But that was interesting. So through the years, you would literally have identification on you at all times in the form of the dog tag. That is interesting. I mean, what were you told about what was going to happen should the Soviet hordes pour across the inner German border? We were a little bit lucky in that we lived about as far from the east as possible. Karlsruhe was down in the southwest of Germany. There were a few further down south, but we had maybe a little more time. And we had these non-combatant evacuation orders, these NEO drills of a sort. We would go to the high school gymnasium and kind of pretend that the balloon had gone up and the Soviets were on the way.
38:12And what do we do? And the idea was that we were going to go across the street. We had a dirt airfield. It was mostly a helicopter base. but we would apparently C-130s or whatever would swoop down in and we'd all climb in the back, kids and parents and mothers and pets, and be lifted out of there and head west. But, you know, we come to found out later that those C-130s would have been doing some other really important tasks. And maybe it was just to kind of help us be calm in the idea that something was coming. More likely we'd get in our cars and head for the bridge that went over into France and just keep going.
38:52So that was a drill we would do kind of frequently. And the one, the one other trip I'll mention real quickly is we would play sports against Fulda American high school. Fulda was the Fulda Falcons. And that was the, the home of the 11th armored cavalry regiment, the black horse regiment. And so we would go, our little bus would pass into the main gate and we would see the tanks lined up and we thought the black horse logo on the shield was really cool and as we would play our tennis match the rest of us would be sitting on the bleachers and i remember this one match it was eternal it was endless these two girls hitting the ball moon ball back and forth with each other it went on for hours it was this kind of stalemate and there we sat on the bleachers and behind the courts we could see the folded gap, the famous folded gap where the Soviets were going to come through.
39:46It had been used in the past by various armies. And it was a funny moment. I remember somebody saying, what do we do if they come through right now? And we grab our rackets and just start running West. And, you know, there were, there were nuclear landmines over there and some guy attached to a wire was going to push a button. And so, I mean, it would have been wild that we were sitting there playing tennis and then having that happen. I mean, it literally could have happened at any moment. So that's one we all remember too. I think Shaquille O 'Neal actually went to that high school when he was over there a few years before me, the basketball player here.
40:21Did you play any matches against some of the other NATO brats? So I'm looking for a classic football match, US against the British. Did you ever have anything like that?
40:34Tom Hapgood:I was on a soccer team and we had our American style of playing just speed and strength and pushing hard. And it was so different. We would play the local German teams and they would absolutely destroy us because of their precision and they'd grown up with it. Meanwhile, we're playing with rackets and footballs also. And so it's what I blame our lack of soccer prowess on is just other sports getting in the way. So we would play them. It was hard. We would go up to V spot and there was a all Europe tennis tournament there. And there were a lot of kids there, mostly American kids, but we also had a lot of NATO kids that would come.
41:16Tom Hapgood:And I mean, we had shape up in Belgium, Supreme headquarters, allied powers, Europe, AFSENT. I think that was in the Netherlands where there were a lot of kids from other countries that would show up at these, at these events. And so I think it was mostly we'd play other American high schools, but at various times we'd have some other nationalities there with us. Yeah, but no football match against the British. No, sadly. That is a shame. Maybe it happened and I wasn't there, but if we could go back. Opportunity missed, I think. Massive opportunity missed. did you play any tennis there were you playing tennis as well as football my main sport was tennis and it was a different crowd than the american football crowd um and i remember that the interesting thing was that the varying court surfaces we would plan we'd go down to munich and play munich american high school in tennis and the the courts were some sort of lego plastic material it was very strange then another place you know whether it was or berlin i think Berlin had a bubble over their clay courts.
42:29Tom Hapgood:And we had, I think we had grass courts somewhere. And of course, the hard court surfaces everywhere. So that was interesting alone. I think if you played tennis here and traveled to other schools, it's going to be entirely hard court. So even just the surfaces of the courts were very different depending on where we ended up. I'm interested to know because I do play tennis a couple of times a week and I was intrigued to hear your experiences of a European clay court because it's such a different pace and way of playing on there you're sliding into shots and it's so different I love getting dirty playing tennis and I love the sliding into the shot and by far that was our favorite our favorite surface grass was too fast and and the lego was just some of the I don't even know what that was called yeah I've never even heard of that wow gonna research the lego yeah there's probably no results because i'm i don't know what to call it yeah yeah or it'll come up with loads of lego sets of tennis players and things like that so you know when you look back at your time as a a brat in germany what what would you say was your best time there what's what was the thing that you know really sticks with you as being really memorable and really good for you?
43:51And you can guess what the next question is going to be after this. I want to say everything because we had such a great time. I had jobs.
44:00Tom Hapgood:I had a job on Gerzuski barracks. Karlsruhe had five or six caserns or installations. And I had a job working on tanks and armored personnel carriers and self-propelled, self-propelled Canon M109, self-propelled big tracked vehicles, pulling tracks off, greasing wheels. It was terrible work in the summer, but it was so fun. I got to ride in an M1 Abrams and that stance, I was a bunch of high school kids yucking it up and working hard and making relatively good money on an army base right near the Rhine river. That was a great summer. That was my final summer there. Wow. That beats washing cars, I guess.
44:41It really does. Greasing bearings and axles of large armored equipment was, I mean, I still think back at how interesting and fun that was compared to the delivering chicken wings on a bicycle or whatever people are doing here. Yeah, it sounds like you'd be a lot of use at some of these military museums in terms of maintaining some of their collection, if you've got that sort of expertise. I thought about it. My claim to contributing to the war cause, because I never joined up, I kind of wish I had, but the vehicles we worked on in that summer job, then within months, I think August 2nd or whatever, when we started sending everything down to Desert Storm in 1990,
45:22Tom Hapgood:my vehicles that I greased the bearings for went to fight in the Gulf War. That's my contribution as a 19-year-old. So what was your worst experience, Tom, of being there? Or something that happened to you that was, I don't know, not great for you, made you sad?
45:51Tom Hapgood:I'm going to go ahead and list this and let's see if this works for the answer. In April of 1986, we had sent some fighter bombers down to Libya to bomb Libya as a response to some terroristic bombings they had done in various places, including a discotheque in Germany. And at the conclusion of that little incident of the bombing, we were not allowed to meet in groups of more than 10 at school or church, weren't allowed to wear, and this was the hardest part, I say this jokingly, but we weren't allowed to wear our letter jackets, our Nikes, or our Levi's into the city because we would easily be identified as Americans.
46:33Tom Hapgood:And I think the mullets, well, Germans wore a lot of mullets then too, but there were a lot of ways to tell that we were American kids, but it was really tense. A lot of new kind of hardened or barriers had gone up in front of all the installations. Everyone was tense. A lot of parents were kind of ready to deploy or, and not being able to meet. It was a little bit like a tiny, tiny experience of COVID maybe where all of a sudden we had to be really isolated for a couple weeks and not meet and see other people. Pre-internet, we were really isolated. That was maybe the scariest time that I remember.
47:10And anyway, yeah. So you're there when the wall comes down as well? We were.
47:17Tom Hapgood:My father then was there when it went up and came down. It was interesting. So I sadly didn't then get to Berlin again. Everybody I knew was getting on piling in cars and going and chopping pieces off the wall. And I have a lot of pictures of my friends there. But for whatever reason, I was heading off to college and I couldn't make it.
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48:28Tom Hapgood:I think in my memory, it took a lot of people by surprise, even though if you look back, there were a lot of things leading up to it down in some of the other countries people were already driving across and whatever. But I remember I had just arrived at college and it was on the news and I sat around in a dorm with a bunch of people watching. And I think I'd been, I'd left Germany maybe five days earlier. And I remember it wasn't talked about. It was a little bit of a surprise, but I mean, I was, I was, I think weeping at one point, it was shocking the footage of the people on top of that. I had just been there a few months before to see the people coming through the wall and the little, the Trabis and the Skodas and the little cars coming through the wall and everybody hugging and it, you know, being this, you couldn't have imagined the wall coming down in the mid late 80s it was something that wasn't going to ever happen in our minds the shock was off the charts crying it was it was something in my mind is one of the biggest events i think of my life that i've ever seen is just the footage of that that day that that it opened up and the east german guard standing there just sort of like yeah you know whatever we'll just we don't know what to do go ahead you know and people chopping at it and climbing on it and And I, you know, I do wonder if the Scorpions as influenced by the CIA going over and influencing in the Soviet Union and planting the seeds of freedom of heavy metal really contributed to bringing the wall down.
50:03There's that story that the CIA asked the Scorpions, they deny it, but the wind of change years, that was, those were just interesting, fun years. yeah i always thought it was david hasselhoff who brought it down the half maybe yeah yeah yeah but you're right immensely powerful uh scenes i i remember clearly watching the news that night and thinking this is real history that's happening in my time you know something that is going to be remembered for many, many years to come as a monumental moment. And even then, we didn't really expect the Soviet Union was going to fall apart. And then within two years, that had disappeared.
50:53I teach at the University of Arkansas. I had a student in here. She's helping me with my second book. I released my first one called Lost Letters some months ago about the time over there in Germany. And I asked her, so I mentioned Checkpoint Charlie and she, she is one of the generation. She's a smart person, but she hadn't heard of Checkpoint Charlie. And so I kind of went through, well, so the cold war was, was this and that. And so it's hard to describe to, to younger people today. It would be like visiting Korea today. And there's no, no sense that that, the DMZ, is that they're ever going to pull those fences down and join those two countries again?
51:34There's no sense that would ever happen. It's like that today, tomorrow hearing, oh, well, they're going to, you know, North is opening up and North and South are going to reunite. It was that sense back then that would never happen. So you mentioned there your book, Lost Letters. Can you just tell me a bit about what that is? And does that reflect your own experiences in there? In 2020, I was on a sabbatical from the university. And then the sad thing is really everybody was on a sabbatical. So my sabbatical wasn't as interesting as it could have been because everyone was at home off of work because of COVID.
52:12But I, during that time, started thinking. I had a moment to think. I started to write a memoir. And as I got a little way into it, I thought, you know, there's enough here to make an interesting novel about my life and the life of all these brat kids living over in Germany. and I researched a lot.
52:32Tom Hapgood:My acknowledgments page is a full page of people. I talk to historians, medieval historians, U.S. Army historical historians, Germans, Americans, Brats. So all the history that happens in it is accurate, but I've woven a novel throughout it. And we had a very prominent former German military officer living in Karlsruhe from 54 to 61, and he had been tasked by the U.S. Army to write the history of the war, especially in the East. As the United States was about to potentially get into a third world war in the East with the Soviets, we really wanted to know how to fight them. And so we hired Germans who had done that.
53:16They knew where the rail lines were, where the factories were, where the fighting styles and what had worked and what hadn't worked during the Second World War. so they hired this former officer and he hired a team of hundreds and hundreds of people and they created hundreds and hundreds of documents they were very nice to themselves and it's where we get a lot of the idea of we were just following orders and these kind of things so he was living in carlsru at the time and so a friend of mine had lived in that apartment years later and they'd get
53:47Tom Hapgood:mail for him at the apartment. And he had been the chief of the army high command under Hitler during the second world war. And so there was this interesting connection to history is that my friend is getting mail for this former officer who, by the way, not my friend, the officer was the only person in history to receive the highest civilian award from both Adolf Hitler and John F. Kennedy, which is a fun little tidbit. And so that was happening right there. and in the city where I lived. And so I wove all that. I teach typography and graphic design, and so I wove in some medieval typography in monasteries and World War II and post-war history and brats living in Karlsruhe and some things that did happen to me personally and other things that didn't.
54:37And it's called Lost Letters, and I released it a few months ago.
54:41Tom Hapgood:A lot of the brats are really liking it because it takes them back. It's a bit of time travel. And it's been interesting and fun and therapeutic for me to work through what all that meant and to relive it again. And it's for sale wherever you can buy books, e-book and printed book. And there will be links in the episode information as to where you can buy the book as well. So do check that out. Now, behind you, Tom, that looks like a German registration plate on the wall. Is there any significance about that? This is the license plate of Karlsruhe. As many listeners may know, in Germany and other countries, the first two letters.
55:22So the license plate on my wall is K-A-M and then some numbers. So the Karlsruhe license plate. Now, we didn't have those license plates. We had U.S. forces license plates were the little rectangular ones that mimicked the United States license plates. So that's just a fun memory. It's hanging right below the Royal Air Force's 1944 map of Karlsruhe that they used to plan the bombings of Karlsruhe. So that's just an interesting, it's a poster-sized map of the RAF's map of Karlsruhe. Yeah, the license plate is, and then it's surrounded by some old heavy metal festival posters, Monsters of Rock, mid-late 80s posters.
56:04And my students come in and are a bit shocked at the range of bizarre artifacts on the walls in here. It's brilliant. It's brilliant. It's interesting that the US military had different license plates because the British discontinued that policy after the IRA started attacking their troops in West Germany. because I mean your license plates mind you if you're driving an American big American car in Germany it's going to be pretty apparent that you're probably U.S. forces but I guess if you have a regular German civilian car and you've got one of those plates on it still identifies you as U.S. forces yeah and not only that that we would have these American very obvious American had a usa on the license plate different size different shape different color usa on it we also had a lot of you know had that oval sticker that we would put also on the back of the car that said usa on it so and you'd see the d for germany various other countries i don't know if that was a trend or tradition or whatever but so as if it wasn't clear enough that we were american from the license plate we also had the usa and the gigantic chevys and these these station wagons and suvs that the americans so the military would allow you to bring your car from the states and so they'd ship these cars over and so there were a lot of indicators that that you're an american driving around and yeah i did often wonder about that should we not just try to blend in more but yeah i guess you were lucky your you know your dad was posted somewhere that drove on the right rather than the uk because it was obviously the same thing you could bring your own car to the uk if you were serving in the u.s air force for example and our roads a lot of our roads aren't well aren't designed for vehicles of that sort of width right now with the end of the cold war a lot of these bases were closed, which would have had significant effect on the locals and the local economies.
58:18Tom Hapgood:So we have footage available from the day that the U.S. Army pulled out of Karlsruhe, Germany, 1995, I think in maybe the spring or summer. It was a suitably rainy overcast day with the ceremony with the flags and the music and the band. And it was in the main plots, the main square down in Karlsruhe, ringed by hundreds and hundreds of German people watching. And it was a moment of history where this entire community that lived in the middle of Karlsruhe, I mean, at its peak, it was 12 ,000 to 15 ,000 Americans living there in the center of this town, along with all the other installations throughout Germany that were closed and repositioned in mid-late 90s.
59:08Let's say Karlsruhe closed in 95. And it was a suitably moody day because generally the Americans and Germans in Karlsruhe had a good relationship. And I interviewed the final community commander of Karlsruhe some years later when I was researching for a film. And interesting, he says, to one day pick up a town and move it out of the center of another town. And the housing, people left their cars, people left their pets, people left all their furniture, all their belongings. It was a massive cleanup effort to try to bring in the different services that would be needed to deal with all of this.
59:51And when the base closed, there were a lot of what we call the local nationals, whether Germans or Turks or French people who worked on the bases would suddenly be unemployed. I think maybe they had been allowed to try to transfer to a different city or something. But the marriages, the intermarriages of the officers and soldiers and civilian Americans who had married French and German partners and the hit of the economy of the city was certainly kind of big because especially when the exchange rates were good. I mean, the Americans had relatively a lot of money sometimes to go down and drink and shop and visit.
1:00:35So it's something that we don't really maybe think about as just an entire town packing up and moving. And all those people, of course, got repositioned to bases in the States, other bases in Germany. And then now it's just bizarre to think that a lot of people are being positioned forward over in Romania and Poland. I mean, we couldn't have imagined that back then. But. Listen to the heartbeat. Chevy is called the heartbeat of America for a reason. With SUVs made to move with your rhythm. The versatile Equinox tackles your entire day. The spacious Traverse fits your crew and your whole weekend.
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1:02:00in those late 90s, mid-late 90s years after the end of the war. We felt that quite a lot in the UK, particularly with the US Air Force bases out in the east of England, places like Upper Hayford, Greenham Common, those sort of places. Because, you know, there's a load of people in these bases with a lot of money who want to spend it. And yeah, big effect on the local economy.
1:02:28Tom Hapgood:Let me throw in two one-minute snippets. We remember strongly when the Chernobyl incident happened, and you can see that on the maps, on the news, they would show the cloud coming. And we apparently had been in that reception of the cloud after Chernobyl blew up. And I had a couple people on Facebook. Jason Lady said that he remembers the Chernobyl disaster happening. And there was a girl on the school bus saying that they were all going to die of radiation poisoning. And then he remembers people in white suits with Geiger counters coming into the front yard. And apparently the Geiger counters were off the charts.
1:03:08And, you know, people like him and others also can't donate blood to this day because we also had the mad cow situation happening around the same time. And, you know, even today, I tried recently to donate blood. And apparently since we lived in the 80s in Europe, we can't donate blood. So a lot of the brass remember the Chernobyl years, and then the mad cow comes up all the time if you try to donate blood. Wow. Wow, that's incredible. God, we'd forgotten about mad cow disease. That's really ancient history. But obviously in the U.S., you still hold that against us. Okay. I know.
1:03:56Tom Hapgood:And Chad Elmore lived in Korea. He provided the story where his school bus had chicken wire on the window so that no one could toss grenades into the school bus. Wow. What year was that? Did he say what year that was? He didn't. He also lived in Germany near a Nike missile site. And then Lisa Ng provided me the story of that Berlin trip where she was on the train. the platform was lined with Soviet soldiers, very rigid, very stern, tense situation. And as the train began to pull out of the station, she and her friends were waving to the Soviet soldiers. And they were of course, very, um, unresponsive until one at the very end, slightly raised his hand to, to, to wave at them with a little half smile.
1:04:51And she thinks of that day to this day that, At the end of the day, we are all just people living on various sides of these issues. But given the chance, we can all get along. So I thought that was a nice little tidbit that she provided. But a very unique experience living as a brat overseas. That's a lovely story from Lisa. I'm glad you shared that with us. And it's been incredible speaking with you and understanding more of this sort of, I guess it's quite a forgotten story. an unknown story of the Cold War and I do like an unknown story to share with our listeners. It's not all spies and nuclear near misses.
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Author Tom Hapgood is a US military BRAT aka the child of a parent or parents serving full-time in the United States Armed Forces. He talks about his 5 years in West Germany during the Cold War. He shares the challenges of moving every few years, adapting to new cultures, and the rich tapestry of friendships formed along the way.
The term "BRAT" often carries a negative connotation, but Tom sheds light on its origins, suggesting a more nuanced history tied to military families. The stories shared reveal how these children navigated their identities as they lived in foreign lands.
We reflect on the Cold War's influence and tensions, yet amidst the challenges, there were countless adventures and opportunities for cultural exchange that enriched their lives.
From navigating new cities to forming lifelong friendships, the life of a military BRAT is filled with unique experiences that shape who they become. This episode not only details those experiences but also invites listeners to reflect on their own childhood adventures.
Do check out Tom's novel Lost Letters based on his experiences as a BRAT. Buy the book here
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