In short
Emmy Rossum discusses treating acting like a “sport,” her career growth from early performance to long-running TV, and her transition into executive producing. She also describes preparing for her role in Furious by consulting FBI agents and doing weapons/situational training, plus her experience negotiating equal pay on Shameless and how she manages fame and perfectionism.
Guest backgrounds
Emmy Rossum began in the Metropolitan Opera Children’s Chorus, later appearing in film with major figures like Sean Penn (Mystic River) and working with Andrew Lloyd Webber (Phantom of the Opera). She starred for nine years on Shameless and became known for advocating equal pay. She’s now starring in and producing Furious via her production company.
Key claims
She says women should “hear” their needs and ask for what they want; equal-pay negotiations can be isolating and can become public unexpectedly. For Furious, she trained to emotionally separate from the visceral danger of the job. Producing and acting require switching “hats” by time-blocking during the day.
Notable examples
Elective Quantico-style boot camp in West Texas (driving rain, simunitions, being “sneak attacked” with a gun); Shameless contract renegotiations where she initially didn’t get equal pay; Furious pitched to Hulu using the “female FBI agent hunting a female serial killer” elevator pitch; Dolly Parton coaching for “When Love is New.”
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Chapters
Tap a time to open that second in VOIntroduction to the Episode and Guest
0:00 to 1:23
Learn about Emmy Rossum's career and her approach to acting as a discipline.
“Cows walking around the range, like trying to clear this house, trying to find this guy who was like hiding in this room and try to shoot him before he shot me.”
Emmy's Journey and Career Reflections
2:55 to 4:12
Discuss Emmy's early career and the challenges faced in the acting industry.
“You can watch by searching for Happy Hour with Ina on YouTube or listen wherever you get your podcasts.”
The Impact of Early Roles on Personal Growth
4:12 to 6:37
Explore how Emmy's role in Shameless shaped her personal and professional life.
“Like there are moments, right, when you can't do what you want, when you have to prioritize the needs of others for your children or for your co-stars or whatever.”
Learning and Growing in the Industry
6:37 to 8:38
Emmy shares insights on learning production and the business side of acting.
“I remember watching intensely Sean Penn when I worked with him on Mystic River.”
Asking for Equal Pay and Its Challenges
8:38 to 10:32
Emmy discusses her experience advocating for equal pay on Shameless.
“there could be 10 or 15 years that led to that job is time is commitment is resilience is persistent and persistence in your craft.”
The Stigma Around Women's Advocacy
10:32 to 13:22
Explore the difficulties women face in asking for their worth in the industry.
“That's confidence that you didn't show up as a young 20 year old and said that.”
Emmy's New Show and Its Themes
13:22 to 14:00
Discuss Emmy's new show Furious and its exploration of women's emotions.
“Well, because we're all affected by the aftershocks of patriarchy, right?”
Furious: Behind the Scenes of Emmy Rossum's Journey
14:00 to 17:42
Emmy discusses the creation of her show, including inspiration and challenges.
“Watching your show after I put my son to bed and my husband comes in and he's like, you're watching a thriller at 9 p.m.”
Balancing Acting and Producing
17:42 to 20:34
Emmy shares insights into managing dual roles on set as an actor and producer.
“and things take a long time to come to fruition.”
Overcoming Doubts in Creative Pursuits
20:34 to 23:16
Emmy reflects on the pressures and skepticism faced when pursuing production.
“Do you think of your production company as it was a natural evolution to your craft?”
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Preparing for Role: Weapon Training and Emotional Challenges
23:16 to 25:30
Emmy discusses her intense training for the role, including physical and emotional preparation.
“It's about, like, seeing something and being like, I see my whole self reflected.”
Excitement of Series Renewal
25:30 to 27:25
Emmy expresses her excitement about the renewal of her series for a second season.
“What is it like to hear that something that you've poured so much passion and work and effort into gets renewed for a second season?”
Coaching and Character Preparation
28:00 to 31:01
Learn how coaching has influenced Emmy's acting, particularly for her role as an FBI agent.
“the Opals' legendary FIBA World Cup run in 2006, and how her role on a team differs between international tournaments and the WNBA.”
Early Acting Experiences
31:01 to 34:36
Discover Emmy's journey from auditioning for Mystic River to her experience with Phantom of the Opera.
“As you talk me through these little details, I just go back to the string pattern on a racket or just calling someone up to ask, okay, if the weather changes.”
Overcoming Imposter Syndrome
34:36 to 38:25
Explore Emmy's emotions and challenges during her rise in the film industry as a teenager.
“walking up the stairs to his space and it's just you and him i had already done a screen test for joel schumacher that gerard butler was there too and it was me and probably six other women.”
Singing with Dolly Parton
38:25 to 42:00
Hear about Emmy's unique experience recording with Dolly Parton and the lessons learned.
“Everything still felt so new and scary and exciting and emotional.”
Navigating Fame and Family
42:00 to 45:59
Emmy discusses the complexities of fame and balancing family life.
“And I just thought like how she's so sweet and so funny and so humble and so self-deprecating.”
Creative Collaboration with Sam Ismail
46:00 to 49:59
Emmy shares insights on her relationship with her husband and their creative processes.
“And we want to support each other to be able to do the kinds of things that we want to do.”
Reflections on Perfection and Toughness
50:00 to 54:01
Emmy explores her relationship with perfectionism and what makes her feel strong.
“because those are the things we need to excavate in ourselves and as a society.”
Transcript
Automatic transcript. May contain errors.0:00And it was just an insane day. Cows walking around the range, like trying to clear this house, trying to find this guy who was like hiding in this room and try to shoot him before he shot me. And by the way, this was all elective. No one was like, you got to go do this. You got to go do this training. I like sought out this person, was like, please train me. Put me in insane situations. Give me like a Quantico boot camp. I want to have the experience of what it would take to be this person. Like flew myself to Texas. Put me in, coach. Put me in. Put me in. I'm always like, put me in, coach.
0:33Most people think of acting as an art. In some ways, my guest today treats it like a sport. Emmy Rossum got her start in show business in the Metropolitan Opera Children's Chorus, where she learned that performance requires discipline. As a teenager, she broke into film and she held her own on projects with the legends like Sean Penn and Andrew Lloyd Webber. She spent most of her 20s starring in the hit TV series, Shameless, where she developed the confidence to advocate for equal pay. And now, in her 30s, she's taking her career into her own hands more than ever. She's starring in the new show, Furious, but this time, it's her own production company behind the smash hit.
1:15Today, we get into how she's built her career piece by piece and the dedication it's taking to evolve over the past 30 years. I'm Maria Sharapova, and this is Pretty Tough.
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2:51So grab a snack, pull up a chair, and join us. You can watch by searching for Happy Hour with Ina on YouTube or listen wherever you get your podcasts. Don't we all need to have more fun?
3:09I am so excited to speak to you. You have had such a phenomenal career starting from a very young age. I very much know what it's like to start one profession that you're so passionate and dedicated to from a very young age. And to continue to hone in on a skill set and a drive and go through so many challenges and ups and downs along the way. So I'm so excited to have this conversation. We start these segments with a quote. Uh-oh. And that's what many guests say. They're very scared. They're like, which one did you choose? But you said something earlier this year, practice saying what you need and what you want in every aspect of your life.
3:56When is the last time that you put that advice into practice? About 20 minutes ago when I ordered the ricotta with eggs, I mean like really about truly everything. I think it applies to every moment. Like there are moments, right, when you can't do what you want, when you have to prioritize the needs of others for your children or for your co-stars or whatever. But a lot of the times I think as women, we have gotten so used to yesing other people and listening to what others around us want. We even get used to not listening to our bodies. Right. Oh, I'm hungry. Oh, that's a bad thing. You know what I mean?
4:37We have to listen to ourselves inside because we know we know what we want and we know what we need. I think if we really if we really can hear it. I want to go back to your early 20s. Okay. You're on the set of Shameless. Many years later, you wrap. And this is a long span. Nine years. Nine years. Those are very transformative years for a young girl. Oh, yeah. In your industry, how did you develop? What are the skills that you developed along the way. Did you feel like you grew up faster because of that role? It made dating quite tricky because of the nudity on the show. Because I love that's where all of the guys that I would go out with had preconceived notions of who I was or how I was sexually.
5:34It was totally bizarre. are. It was like they couldn't separate. Like I met this guy on a plane and he was very cute and he took me out on a date and he was like, we were not meant to be together. But he said, he was like in real estate or something. He was like, I really want to be, I really want to be president someday. And I was like, wow, that's like a great goal. He's like, but I feel like running for office, dating someone, you know, who's been like exposed in the way that you have. Do you think that would be tricky for me? And I was like, this is an insane conversation to have. So I think growing up in your 20s, you're dating, you're trying to figure out who you are, you're coming into your own as an artist.
6:19And there's also all these preconceived notions about you that are out there that are associated with, because your body is your art, right? And people can get confused. And so that certainly came up for me in a more serious way. I mean, the show was I became a I became a learner. I became a watcher. And I had always been that way. I remember watching intensely Sean Penn when I worked with him on Mystic River. I would watch how people were leaders. I would watch how people stepped up. You were learning on the job. Completely. I was also learning production. I was learning physical production. I was learning the jobs of every single crew member in a way where I actually had the time to do that because when you're on a movie, you never get comfortable enough.
7:12But when you're there for nine years, it becomes all such a well-oiled machine. And I also got to direct on the show a couple times and direct for John on other shows that he had done. I really started to learn the business aspect of it and how the physical production happened, to listen after the table reads, to the notes that the studio executives were giving, to listen to how they were thinking about story. and at the same time I met the love of my life my husband Sam who was a young director I didn't know at first he would be become my husband but we're getting to that I know but I was also watching him at the same time get his career off and watching him put up a show and find very surprising exciting success and watching him navigate crafting story producing something attaching actors.
8:05Like I felt like I had a very special front row seat to how things were and how things were physically getting done, which demystified a lot of it for me and made me really hungry to excel at other aspects of this too. At the end point, when it's all said and done, when a movie has been, you know, going around every major city, it's been showcased and you you see the trophy and you see the result and you think like that is success. But behind all of that, there could be 10 or 15 years that led to that job is time is commitment is resilience is persistent and persistence in your craft. And I love I love when you talk about like just getting into the weeds of your industry.
8:54There are things that you perhaps may not apply, but because you know of them and you know how it works, it makes you a better actor. Yeah, it was an amazing, it was an amazing experience, both from learning the physical production side of things to just getting more comfortable. It seemed like the character that you played in Shameless grew with confidence. But I also sense that professionally and personally, you grew with confidence in those nine years. Yeah, as you do in your 20s. I mean, in your 20s, you're like, I think like at the apex of your youthful beauty, right? And like everything you think you want to like freeze the moment forever.
9:39Like you don't have a line on your face. You can stay up all night and still produce the next day. Yet you're still so confused about who you are in the world, how you're allowed to show up, what space you're allowed to take up, what ideas you can get people to believe in and fund. I certainly gained a lot of confidence during that time because I gained knowledge. And I think it's knowing more that made me realize, oh, so I actually have to know everything today or now. I just have to know what I don't know and be willing to say, hey, I want to learn that. And with that, you had you created a platform and a voice and a confidence to say in this moment of my career and the length of the show, I would like to receive equal pay with my co-star like that.
10:32That's ballsy. That's confidence that you didn't show up as a young 20 year old and said that. Was it like you woke up one morning and was like, I deserve this or did it take time to develop? Like I can feel that my chest gets tight just thinking about it even now because the idea of asking for your worth for women, I think it's hard. I think it gets easier the more examples that we have of it. But I certainly think that there's a part of me that's still scared to think I even did it. and that's ever after having, you know, won. So I think there is a stigma around that. I certainly started the show in a very different place than Macy was, so it made a lot of sense that we came into it as we did.
11:26I was number two on the call sheet. He was number one. He had had a lot more credits and time in the industry than I had. But as the course of the show started to move on, Our responsibilities felt much more even. Our responsibilities behind the camera felt even too. And we had two periods of contract renegotiations, which happen when they want to add time on the back end of the contract. They'll ask for more years and then give you a raise in the interim. And the first time that we went in and renegotiated, we had asked for equal pay and we didn't get it. And then the next time they came, I was like, OK, so now we really have to try to get it this time.
12:11And when you say we, it's you and your lawyer. Me, my lawyer, my agents, my. No one, no other co-stars. No, no. And so it but it does feel kind of isolating and scary to go into those conversations. And still, they're private. They're private conversations. Right. And then after a while of kind of like reaching a stalemate, you open Twitter one day and it's somehow public. And how do you feel? I mean, certainly terrified, surprised. And then the tide turned and it was resolved really, really quickly. It's a surprising thing to go through because you never expect that any of your kind of private financial business dealings will become public.
12:55It's anyone's business. Yeah. And you certainly also don't want that to affect the rest of the people that you're working with who don't know that those conversations are happening, who are having their own individual conversations about their own deals. Does it feel like women have any more leverage now? I think it's one drop in the bucket towards a positive shift. I ask you because when you talk about it, you say there's like you're still holding on to this feeling. Well, because we're all affected by the aftershocks of patriarchy, right? We've all internalized these biases of the way we're supposed to be, the way we're supposed to behave.
13:33We're never supposed to be cross. We're never supposed to be any other way other than the way that we're supposed to be. And that's just not realistic. It's not practical. And it's like oppressive for women, I think. So I think it's really important that we start, again, listening to those voices inside us that say, this is what feels right. I believe in this and I would like this. And now you're on another fantastic show, Furious. Watching your show after I put my son to bed and my husband comes in and he's like, you're watching a thriller at 9 p.m. I know. And I'm like, I know. I never do this.
14:14The only thing I'd watch after putting my son to bed is something like uplifting. Yeah, sure. Because I'm someone that then for the next 12 hours like really tunes into it. Like my body. You have osmosis. My body. You're permeable. Feels everything that you went through. It's amazing. In your episode. You'd probably be a really good actor. No. Okay. Empath? I'll stick to podcaster. Empath? Yes. Yeah. Maybe perhaps. Yeah. How did this show come about? Because it's brilliant. Thank you. It is dark. It's dark. It is dark. I do not recommend it after putting your kids to bed. Oh, I do. You do? I think it's cathartic in a way.
14:52Yeah. I think women have a lot to feel let down by society, a lot of rage. There is dark humor in the show. The show came about because I was looking for a role that would be as deep and juicy as the one that I had played on Shameless for so many years. And I had started this production company, right, a couple years before I left Shameless. The first show we made was called Angeline. It was on Peacock. It was a limited series about Angeline, the Billboard Queen. I was looking for really an ongoing series. I loved being on a show for so many years where I could kind of unpack and go deeper with the character.
15:30When the audience already has a couple hours with you, you don't have to do all that setup anymore. There's already the context that they understand and that connection they feel with the character. And so you can go so much deeper. So I started watching old movies to see if there might be some IP that would spark an idea. Because my production company didn't have a ton of funding, didn't have any funding behind it. So we weren't able to option or get all these top 10 summer read, hot, chick lit flick. And that wasn't really totally my sensibility either. My sensibility has always been a little off-center, super entertaining, but really like kind of I like a Trojan horse.
16:18It's dynamic. I like to be dynamic and I like it to be about something. Like Angeline was like about this billboard queen, but then at the end it was about how her parents had survived the Holocaust. And it was about trauma and it was about trauma responses. And I'm very interested in women's experience in contemporary society about fame addiction, about beauty addiction. So I watched this movie, Black Widow, the starred Deborah Winger and Teresa Russell. And it was about the easiest elevator pitch is sometimes the best pitch because it's really easy to explain. And you can explain it in 10 seconds.
16:58It's about a female FBI agent who is hunting a female serial killer. Period. I'm in. I'm sat with my popcorn. You're out of the elevator. Yeah, I want to see it. And of course, there's a great twist ending. And I'm thinking, OK, this is it. Here it is. And so I went and I took the idea to Hulu. They really liked the idea. It was in the Searchlight Disney catalog. It was a title that they already owned and that they hadn't been looking at. And they had just worked with Liz Merriweather on the dropout. And they asked if I like Liz. And of course, I love Liz's work. She watched the movie and liked the idea.
17:32and then she signed on. And here it is. Yeah, I mean, years and years and years later, we had, you know, a big actors and writers strike in there and things take a long time to come to fruition. And yeah. And this wasn't the first time that you starred and executive produced in. Mm-hmm. What is that experience like of having both of those responsibilities? So fun. Within one project? It's so fun. it's so fun because I still can't believe that like I can have an idea like oh wouldn't it be cool if I could do x then a lot of work goes into it then I put forth the idea and people write a check to make that then you're on a set with like-minded people that you You get to help hire and give jobs to.
18:27You get to make this thing and then you get to share it with people. It's so cool. It's so fun and it's so energizing and it's so gratifying. Does it feel like you have to wear two different hats? Totally. Yeah. How do you separate the two? Well, it's important to separate them for yourself and also to separate them for your co-workers. Because I think oftentimes you can't do everything all the time. It's a little bit like shifting in and out of mom and work mode. You just can't. You can't do everything all the time. Producing is what you do until you start shooting. And the training for the acting is what you're doing alongside that.
19:14I mean, the whole time that we were developing the scripts, I was also physical training, talking to detectives, talking to FBI agents, telling them that I was going to make this show that I didn't have a green light on. Asking them to train me, to weapons train me, to physical train me, to explain to me how to interrogate people, taking all that information, bringing it back and talking about the scripts through that lens. The whole time you're kind of like you're just producing and then you're casting, you're location scouting and you're hiring and you're setting everything up and then you get to walk on set and then you have to stop producing because your job is to show up fully as an actor.
19:52And so I don't produce until the lunch break. At lunch, I'll go back to producing and I'll talk to people will tell me all the things that are going wrong with the budget or whatever. And you're able to separate the two just like that? Because I'm not doing that during that hour. And then I'm able to go back to the acting. And then at night I'll watch dailies or look at what. I mean, yeah, but when you're so embedded in it and you're so obsessed with it. Yeah. You love it. And I think it's also really important for your co-stars that they don't feel like you're a producer. It's not awkward. You're not producing their performance at that moment.
20:28You're just their co-star. That's not my job in that moment. My job is to be in scene with them as an actor. Do you think of your production company as it was a natural evolution to your craft? Oh, it was pretty discouraged by some people around me that thought I should just stay an actor at that time. Stick to one lane? Yeah. It takes a lot of work, right? You could make a lot more money for people around you by just taking acting job after acting job after acting job because it takes a long time to put something together and produce it. And you can maybe make one thing a year, one thing every two years if you're lucky, right?
21:09Versus just like taking the jobs in the incoming call business, you could do five jobs a year. How do you handle those conversations when someone, you know, looks you in the eye and says, I don't think this is something that you should be doing. Like stick to your role, stick to acting. I listen to my gut. And then if they're helpful to me in the short term, I keep them around. And if they're not, I don't. So it's that simple. Yeah, it's totally simple. Like if you don't want to come on the ride that I'm on, somebody is going to want to sit in that jump seat with me. But there's also like my manager has been in my life since I'm 13 years old.
21:46He's always sat in that jump seat with me. He's my brother. So I think he was 26 at the time. So we grew up like babies together. I started working with my manager when I was 11 years old. He came out of still. Yeah, this is what I'm talking about. He came out of Purdue, was like an assistant, and he started his job as getting visas for my father and I to travel to international tournaments. That's your ride or die. Yeah. But not everyone has the confidence to stand up for what they know. You can feel it. You can have an opinion. Most of the time we know what's best for ourselves, but we are so influenced by the outside world, by our bosses, by leadership that in many moments we crumble to their advice.
22:41Yeah. And like to that person who thought that I shouldn't do my company and shouldn't, you know, make things myself, they're not wrong that I could have made more upfront money a different way. I could have. But my goals and their goals were different. My goal has never been the dollar. My goal has always been I care about making something. I care about telling a story. I care about going out there and sharing something with people. And, I mean, what's so special about what we do is it's about connection. It's about storytelling. It's about, like, seeing something and being like, I see my whole self reflected.
23:21And preparing for Furious. Yes. You did weapon training. Yes. You put on 10 pounds of muscle. Yes, I'm ready to do it again. I got to get it back. You consulted with female detectives. Yes. Who revealed, in your words, femininity gets left at the door in those jobs. Yeah. It feels like a tougher role for you. Yeah, I mean, the character has a lot of trauma, a lot of secrets that get revealed throughout the season. it showed me kind of like what you were saying how permeable i was emotionally because the first time that i went to go do training in west texas the first day was just weapons training and then the second day was situational training i did not expect that there would be a guy who was ex-military on the course there to kind of sneak attack me with a gun that had yeah unknowingly that had simunitions in it.
24:18So they're like bullets, but they're paint inside. But they still hurt when you get shot. And it was just an insane day in the driving rain with like cows walking around the range, like trying to clear this house, trying to find this guy who was like hiding in this room and try to shoot him before he shot me. And by the way, this was all elective. No one was like, you got to go do this. You got to go do this training. I like sought out this person, was like, please train me. Put me in insane situations. Give me like a Quantico boot camp. I want to have the experience of what it would take to be this person.
24:51Like flew myself to Texas. Put me in, coach. Put me in. Put me in. I'm always like, put me in, coach. And I realized how soft I am. I realized how. You do not strike me as soft. No, but like the second you get me in the driving rain with like a man with a gun shooting at you, It's a very visceral thing that I'm like, I'm going to need a few more days to like really, you know. Lean into this. Really lean into this. This is crazy. But it really did show me how separated from your emotional self you have to be in order to do this job. And I think that was a real key for the character. What is it like to hear that something that you've poured so much passion and work and effort into gets renewed for a second season?
25:38I mean, really exciting. also because we had always intended this to be an ongoing series but Liz was joking like well if it's not a success we'll just say it was meant to be a limited but it's really exciting it's exciting to be like I'm going to be back with that crew again I get to keep telling this story I think we where we ended the season there's a lot more secrets and questions than even where we started so I just can't wait to get back in there get back in the gym get back to my 175 grams of protein a day. Like, let's go. I'm ready to go. Get those 10 pounds of muscle in. Get it. Love it.
26:15I'm ready.
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28:23You've worked with a coach since you were a young girl. I know what it's like to be trained by people in different times of your career to become better, to become stronger, to face different challenges and different opponents. And you continue to this day to work with a coach, right? Yeah. Many. Different. An arsenal. Yes. An arsenal of coaches. Why was coaching so important to you in your career? So it's always felt important to me. I mean, you have a dialect coach. I have a movement coach. I have an acting coach. I have a breath coach. I don't work with all of them on everything. I work with, I wanted to get into a different register of my voice.
29:09So I worked with a vocal coach on this role because I found that the FBI agent's voices were just, they're just not as musical as I naturally am. And that has a levity to it that this character doesn't have. So I wanted to suppress that. I worked with my coach to figure out, my movement coach to figure out the physicality of the character. This is a character that would never, ever, ever sit like this. This is a vulnerable way to sit. You would never, how would you stand? Where do you put your hand? To make sure that I never used my right hand for any action because my right hand always has to be able to grab my gun.
29:45So whenever I'm doing anything, I'm using my left hand. I'm opening my door with my left hand. I'm opening the car with my left hand. My keys are in my left hand. These These are things that are so antithetical to how I live my life. But there are these little things that hook me into the character that people watching are never going to know. But they make it real for me. So if I'm going to answer my phone, I'm going to answer with my left hand, not my right hand. Because if somebody comes up behind me, I need my gun. So all these little specific things that like even like if you're an agent, you're talking on the phone, would you ever put in AirPods?
30:17Probably not because then they're too noise canceling. All these little things that I think about all day long that I obsess about, that's for me the – I'm like nerding out on it. And it's a luxury position to be in because these things are not things that are in the budget. These are things that come out of my paycheck. And it's really important to me to be able to do the job to pay for those things because I need those people to be able to have those points of support in the world. And it's an investment toward yourself and toward your craft. Totally. I mean, the level of perfection is so admirable.
30:56She's a Virgo. Back to the athlete in you. As you talk me through these little details, I just go back to the string pattern on a racket or just calling someone up to ask, okay, if the weather changes. You know, when we play in Australia at the beginning of the year, like you could start the tournament and it's you're playing in the Sahara Desert. and then a week later it just you get like this tundra and you're like wait a second the ball feels so heavy is that right yeah like i feel like i'm playing a different game a completely different game like how much should i drop my racket tension like whoa yeah like all those little details that i mean as you're walking me through just working through one um you know one show in the preparation yeah you were 16 on the set of mystic river around all these academy Emmy Award winners.
31:50How did that shape your career? Well, it was the most interesting process of getting there because I just made a tape, an audition tape, and sent it in. And then a couple weeks later, I was on set. There was, I didn't meet anyone before I got there. I had heard, I think from an agent or someone, maybe from an early fitting or something that Clint doesn't rehearse. And I was like, great, because I do so much preparation. They said you have to be ready to go on take one. And you won't even know when the camera's rolling because he'll just say something like, you're going to walk in the room, you're going to stand here, and you'll do the bit where you guys talk to each other, and we can begin.
32:33And then the cameras are rolling. It's a very quiet set. It's a very calm, like you don't feel the machine of it. and then he'll like come in with a couple notes. The camera doesn't really cut. And then you'll hear, okay, we've got it. And then you're like, oh no, is this, that's, it's, we're done. Okay, great. I'm done. We're done. We're done for the day. Okay, we're done. And often wraps before lunch. And the crew is so dialed in and he knows exactly what he wants. It was a very kind of fluid experience and one where I felt like, oh, I can come in and I love to deliver on take one. You only give me one take, like I'm going to do it.
33:12I remember feeling how special it was. And I remember being so into watching Sean and watching his process and watching how transparent he was about his process in front of the crew that he wasn't hiding it. I felt like I had to think my way into things. And he had some tape recorder or something he would listen to and talk into and listen and talk into. And I remember thinking, oh, he's not hiding it. He doesn't have to be brilliant just by magic. He has a process. He knows how to do his thing, which I don't know what it is even to this day. I don't understand it or really know what it was. I just knew that he felt comfortable enough in his own skin and confident enough to have a process.
33:59and to have it not have to be secretive or magic. And that made me feel like, what's my process? Let me figure this out. What is your process? Well, it's different for every job. Some jobs I find my way in physically. Some jobs I find my way in through the sound of the vocal pattern of the person. It's different every time. The next year, you find yourself in arguably even more intimidating circumstances. at 16 years old you're auditioning to play christine in the film adaptation of phantom of the opera and the process takes you to andrew lloyd webber's home for an audition so you're walking up the stairs to his space and it's just you and him i had already done a screen test for joel schumacher that gerard butler was there too and it was me and probably six other women.
34:57I was the youngest and the least famous. And I made it through the screen test somehow, shaking, quivering. Evidence is available on YouTube, much to my embarrassment. I am like, think of me, think of me. I'm so scared. And it's perfect for the role, I guess, in retrospect, because she is supposed to be quite a meek, scared, unsure young soprano, which is, I guess, if I was a mezzo, kind of barely getting by as a soprano, but I'm doing my best. And so I've made it. Yeah, I did my best. And I'm thinking, okay, like I made it. Thank gosh, I'll never have to do that again. And they call and they're, okay, you made it through that round.
35:38Now you have to go sing for Lloyd Webber in his apartment on 57th Street or something that was like that, like apartment in the sky. What is the pressure like? I mean, again, I'm thinking the other person that I'm testing with is way more famous than me and older and a name. And I've been in Mystic River in the day after tomorrow. Like, there's no way I'm getting this part. And the pressure's intense. But I kind of thought, well, okay, I guess my singing wasn't so bad that I didn't make it into his apartment. You know what I mean? like it was good enough to make it here so I'm just gonna do what I did there again but then they were like no it's actually gonna be a different song and I was like ah learn a different song pivot pivot um I think it was all I ask of you and the first audition was think of me or maybe it was wishing you were somewhere here again it was a song that I actually felt more comfortable singing is what I remember um so I was like okay fine and I like this song I like it better.
36:44So I'm great. And I was like, what a fun opportunity to be able, and he was going to be playing the piano. It was just me and him. You're like, okay. So, and I know the other woman has auditioned first because I know her time and I know my time. So I'm already like, you know, I'm sure they want the slam dunk first and then they're going to see like, and just in case, Emmy. So I come in, I do it. He's super nice. He was very cordial. It could not have been more than 12 minutes. It was the fastest thing ever. I was in. I sang. I don't think we sang it again. I think we chit-chatted for a few. I don't think I told him I had never seen the show.
37:26And just learned this song last night. And that was it. And then I heard the next day that I didn't get the job. And I was like, that tracks. Okay, fine. and I went about my life for a couple days, maybe a week or two and I was so relaxed because I was like, thank God, that job would have been so stressful, honestly. I'm like ripping my seat. And then I got a call, just kidding. You did get the job. The other actress isn't able to do it. She has another option. She has to go make a sequel on a movie that she's going to go do and she can't do it. You're up. And I was like, Put me in, coach. You landed it.
38:13I got it. Yeah. Even so that you get a Golden Globe nomination. Yeah. How did you feel as a teenager to get that incredible acclaim? Surprised. Everything still felt so new and scary and exciting and emotional. I was really proud of the movie. I worked really hard on the movie. I still think I felt at that time like a little bit of an imposter, right? Like I wasn't even first choice for the movie. So I think I had insecurity there and somehow sensed like the wrongness of me or something. But at the same time, I channeled that for the character because the character is a dancer who gets inadvertently chosen to be a singer.
39:11She's not the first choice. And I was like, oh, okay, yeah. There was something kind of like kismet-y about it that I was able to use my story and kind of like cannibalize it for the character's story.
39:27And that kind of recognition is exciting and it feels good. And it's also a credit to all the people that worked on it with you because you're not an island, right? It's the hair, the makeup, the wardrobe, the camera, Joel Schumacher, Lloyd Webber, the music and the story that he wrote. And it's really it's a special moment. Cool. One thing that I love about your career is the trajectory it took from TV to opera to film plays. You're a singer. Do you still sing or make music? Make music, not professionally at the moment. I've made a couple albums and I like that making them. Um, but, and I would sing if there was an opportunity to sing, but it hasn't, like, the right thing hasn't.
40:20But, like, also, like, people have my number. Like, if you want to make another musical, let's do it. I'm ready. Put me in, coach. Yeah, totally. You got to sing with Dolly Parton when you were a young girl. Yeah. Can you share something from that experience? It was so special. I made a movie. The first real big part I had in a movie was in an indie called Song Catcher. And it was about the origins of country music, the first people that sang the Scotch-Irish ballads. And I played a young girl who was kind of like the keeper of these songs. And I learned that they actually came to the opera to audition kids.
40:57And that's how I got the audition. So I auditioned for that movie. I got it. And then Dolly Parton managed the soundtrack for that movie and wrote us a mother-daughter duet called When Love is New. And I flew to Nashville and was coached by her. And we recorded this song that's like, love is pretty when love is new, like a blushing rose and a dazzling dew. And she wrote the song. Wow. Please. Please. Ladies and gentlemen. Please. Embarrassed, imposter syndrome. And so we went to, I'm just going to gloss past the compliments because they'd be so uncomfortable, but thank you. she wrote this song and we went and we recorded it and she was so kind and such a good teacher and she was wearing this like fabulous outfit and then left the studio I got on the plane the next day and she was on my plane going to I think back to New York from Nashville or maybe to LA and she was in the same outfit and I didn't notice it at first but she you know I was walking past her to go to my seat and she said oh my god it's so funny seeing you and I'm so embarrassed I'm outfit repeating or said something I can't believe I'm wearing the same thing two days in a row I didn't think I would see you today when you saw me in this yesterday.
42:13And I just thought like how she's so sweet and so funny and so humble and so self-deprecating. And she was just such a joy and such a light. And I only met her those two days, but I loved both of them. What was her coaching like? Really positive, specific and positive. On form? On tone, on like the way the licks would go, on how she, well, she written the song too, so she wanted me to do it in a specific way. And on trying to match her tone because it's mother-daughter so that we would sound like a mother and a daughter. So we were trying to get our, I was trying to get my tone like hers. So I want to shift gears and talk about fame.
42:56Yeah. Sean Penn and Clint Eastwood separately told you that there's no need to be in the spotlight all the time. Yeah, because I think that, I mean, unless that's what you're after. I'm after the opportunity to do the work that I really want to do. And sometimes being in the spotlight helps you to be able to get those jobs or do those things. But often it's just doing the work that gets you those opportunities. But I think it's hard because fame is like one of the biggest currencies for young people. likes attention it can feel like love it can it's very intoxicating and it's really important to have your life outside of that so how do you mitigate these waves of being in the public eye and i know when you you know finish recording a season or you're launching a movie you know there's a heavy press tour and you're, you know, constantly in the public eye.
44:05Do you strategize about how these waves come in and out? Or is it like you're just very matter of fact about it? Like I have a movie coming out. I kind of consider it going to work. Like I think I can separate myself and who I am at home. And I really try to just be as present and as authentic as I can be. because I think it's just too hard to be any other way. Can we talk about your husband? Yeah, I love him. He's great. Good. It's a good start. You're married to director Sam Ismail of Mr. Robot, Homecoming, Leave the World Behind. But you actually met through making a movie together. Yeah, Comet, his first movie.
44:53And he writes you a letter. Yes. The letter draws you in. Yes. before you start filming he says i love you yes you start filming yes you say i love you back yes and the rest is history yes did not did certainly i don't think either one of us saw it coming but i suppose in retrospect it makes sense because we're so like-minded we're so family first we're so work second but also when one person has to work the other person takes over the family like when I'm working or on tour or making a movie he's there for drop off and pick up he's writing at the same time so and when he's been overseas I've been only shooting in New York and it's important to prioritize I mean we both love what we do so much and have wanted to tell stories make movies make TV since we were little tiny kids that we understand each other's passion.
45:59And we're lucky that we don't do exactly the same thing. So there's zero competition. And we want to support each other to be able to do the kinds of things that we want to do. And also know that sometimes it takes the wholeness of yourself and somebody has to be there for your kids. What is it like working in the same creative industry? Amazing. Because you have a second hand. You have a language. You don't have to explain why the numbers call week four is really important and stressful you know what I mean or the metric of the 30 days out like all these little things that you you know or how you did in the room you don't have to explain these ways of talking that we have within our industry that or even like we'll know some of the same people and so or like I'll have an idea about like hey I want to make a character that's like this.
46:55He's seen every single movie that literally has ever been made. And he'll be like, oh, watch Wild Thing because that performance in that will spark something for you. So we work in and around each other's stuff, but not directly on each other's stuff right now, although I'm hoping that we'll work together soon. Do you like to bring your work into your home? I know it's such a natural. not to. I mean, it's impossible not to bring the excitement around new ideas, but I think it's important to realize when you're being hijacked by the job and bringing it home, like writers can often disappear into their brains for long periods of time or like be at dinner and I'm, you know, we'll be at dinner and I'll look over and he'll be like staring at his chicken, like cutting it, like just cutting it over and over and I'll be like are you writing right now and he'll be like yeah so I'm so sorry I was working on a scene so it's it's good that we can know where the other one is at the same time as being like you're wanted back in this family you know what I mean right you give him you allow him the space you give him the space but also to be like come back come back to dinner right and make sure come back to dinner make sure the chicken's cut properly by by the way.
48:12It's cut. You cut that piece. It's ready to eat. It's ready to eat. Speaking of the future and doing projects together, when you think of Composition 8 and the future of your projects, what do you see for yourself? What are the projects that you're looking to bring to this world? I think it works if I'm obsessed with it, because it means it tells me two things. It tells me there's something if I read something or I see an idea or have an idea for something. If I'm really obsessed with it, it means that I will have the fortitude to see it through for three or four years and work on it every single day with no one else care before anyone else cares about it before I can share it, right?
49:00And that's like the heavy duty work where like no one else believes in it yet. No one cares about it. It's not really fully formed. It's like a could be maybe something, but like you have an area that you're like, I think it could be if we. And also that there's something real about it because if I'm obsessed with it, then that means it's touching something in me. And there's – the market is so big. On these – on big platforms, there are millions and millions and millions, tens, hundreds of millions of subscribers on some of these platforms. So I think that's right. So there's going to be people that these ideas will resonate with if they resonate with me.
49:41And so I think I'm interested in telling the stories that move me because I think that movies and TV can be meaningful and also really entertaining. I'm looking for things that are challenging for us, that make me uncomfortable, that talk about the things that we feel shame about. because those are the things we need to excavate in ourselves and as a society.
50:15Sean Ramos from Today Explained from Vox. Like many of you, I lived through 9-11. My memories of that day are of horror and shock and devastation, which is why I think 25 years later, it's so surprising that my feeds are filled with 9-11 memes that are ironic, irreverent, and surely insensitive. Think pasta stacked up to look like the Twin Towers with Eminem in the background and a caption that reads, Never forgetty, Mom's spaghetti. Some of you surely know what I'm talking about, and some of you surely don't. So on the show, we're going to try and get everyone on the same page. Please consider this a trigger warning.
51:00Bear with us as we try to understand how jokes about the worst attacks in our country's history have helped a lot of young people deal with it and avoid it. How 9-11 became a meme, maybe the most popular meme online. We're down to the last pretty tough questions. What is something that you've had to unlearn? People-pleasing. you have to be okay disappointing or even making people mad even though that's scary sometimes to stick up for yourself or to just say this doesn't feel right what is a routine that's helped shape your success waking up hanging out with my kids working out starting the day the basics for your mind for your body totally what is a common misconception about you That I have a plan.
51:52I don't always have a plan. Yeah. No agenda. No schedule. No, like, I've got ideas and thoughts, but I don't always have, I don't always like, you're like, what's next for the company? And I'm like, I mean, I got some ideas, but nothing's real yet, you know? It's in my gut, girl. It's in my gut somewhere. Yeah. What is your relationship to perfection? I have to unlearn it. That's my big goal for my 40s. It's my big goal. everything's going to start falling on my body. Don't say that. No, I'm ready for it. I'm ready for it. I'm ready for it. We're both 39, right? No, I know. My my goal is to be more as I'm like pulling for everything to fall down.
52:37No, my goal is to be more comfortable with things being less perfect, not putting things away, always in the house, not unpacking right when you get home, not always having to feel like you have to have the answers. I think I have to save that for my 50s. Okay. I'm going to start now. I'll let you know how it goes. Will you? What is something that makes you feel tough? I don't know. I don't know if I do feel tough. You? I don't think I feel tough. What? I think I feel more fluid than tough. Well, then that's the answer. Yeah, maybe my fluidity. My fluidity. I like this a lot. She just wiggle jiggled her body.
53:23My fluidity. In case you're just listening to this episode and not watching it. My fluidity. And is there something that makes you feel pretty? My kids. Yeah. My kids, because even when I have pimples, my kids think they're adorable and quite funny. Yeah. Your kids love you with all your imperfections. They don't need you to be successful. They don't need you to be powerful. They don't need you to be, they just need you to be present. And that's, they're amazing. They're the best. Can't think of a better ending. Thank you, Emmy. Thank you. I love talking to you. Me too.
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Acclaimed actress, director, and producer Emmy Rossum joins Maria Sharapova for a candid conversation on building a 30-year career on her own terms.
From getting her start in the Metropolitan Opera Children's Chorus to holding her own alongside legends like Sean Penn at age 16, to spending nine transformative years on the hit show Shameless where she famously advocated for equal pay, Emmy has continually pushed the boundaries of her craft. Now, she is taking on more creative control as an executive producer and star of the hit thriller Furious on Hulu.
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CHAPTERS
0:00 – Intro: The Athlete's Mindset in Acting
2:15 – Growing Up on Shameless: Navigating Nine Years and Developing a Front-Row Seat to Production
8:00 – The Ballsy Move: Fighting for Equal Pay and Overcoming the Stigma Around Asking for Your Worth
12:20 – Behind the Scenes of Furious: Finding Dark Catharsis and Developing a Character with Grit
16:30 – Wearing Two Hats: How Emmy Balances Executive Producing and Acting on Set
19:20 – Sticking to Your Lane? Why Emmy Ignored the Doubters and Launched Her Production Company
21:40 – Quantico Boot Camp: Physical Training, Weapons Handling, and Learning How to Be an FBI Agent
24:45 – The Arsenal of Coaches: Why Dialect, Movement, and Breath Work Matter to the Craft
28:00 – Working with Clint Eastwood on Mystic River and Discovering a Process
31:00 – Auditioning for Phantom of the Opera at 16 in Andrew Lloyd Webber’s Living Room
36:30 – Singing with Dolly Parton and Learning Humility from Legends
39:35 – Managing Fame as a Currency and Keeping Life Grounded
41:15 – Creative Collaboration: Working Alongside Her Husband, Director Sam Esmail
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About Pretty Tough
Pretty Tough is the weekly interview podcast hosted by five-time Grand Slam champion, entrepreneur, and bestselling author Maria Sharapova. Each week, Maria sits down with founders, CEOs, athletes, creatives, investors, and other high achievers for candid conversations about leadership, ambition, decision-making, performance, entrepreneurship, wellness, and building exceptional careers.Drawing from her own experience at the highest levels of sport and business, Maria explores what it really takes to succeed—from navigating failure and reinvention to scaling companies, leading teams, and pursuing excellence over the long term.
About Maria Sharapova
Maria Sharapova is a five-time Grand Slam champion, former World No. 1 tennis player, entrepreneur, investor, bestselling author, and one of the most recognizable athletes of her generation. Since retiring from professional tennis, she has built businesses, invested in consumer, technology, and lifestyle companies, and become a respected voice on leadership, performance, and entrepreneurship.
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