Girl Talk: Brian messaged her… then told me to message you?!

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1:25Is he double bluffing? Sophia always hits us with that twist. Doesn't she? I've read all these plot twists. Because I was just thinking, he's like, get the girl, honestly, the girls will think the same as me. Send it in. Right? But yeah, he could be taking us, don't take us for a full bite. Don't take us for a ride, Brian. Do you think we're twats? No, we've been doing this a long time. Yeah, we'll see right through your bullshit. So let's take a look. Be prepared to be overanalyzed. He's definitely saying, just send it into the girls' bathroom. Honestly, like they will see what i'm telling you will make you feel better

2:07we are rolling live and direct absolutely hello welcome to the tgb welcome to the show sc in tgb absolutely we've got is blueberry is digging is she digging she's just getting comfy She's really getting into her personality Would you say Yeah she is She's finding a bit of confidence I think she must really be teething Because she wants to buy everything inside She's having a bit of teenage angst But I think But yeah Including myself She wants to buy everything She wants to eat everything as well What are you going to have for tea tonight? Well for tea babes For tea babe I have some leftovers Potentially some of the best leftovers in the world it always tastes better day two as well which is a rice salad which consists of rice tuna chickpeas guys it's actually so good no like i'm sorry you don't realize how good this meal is if you like beans and tuna if you like chickpea if you're just like in general like yeah i like chickpea try a bowl bean chickpea i swear on my actual life they are so they're like mini potatoes but like so delicious like amazing they're huge and they're soft like nothing worse than like a hard chickpea that's like tiny that's not even worth eating so and then i did feta this time and tomato olive oil heavy on the olive oil heavy on the salt cucumber didn't do that this time oh that's not what they traditionally use in italy okay that was just my greek flair with the feta but the cucumber is nice but yeah I'm actually doing cucumber with mozzarella okay yeah delicious I did that last time yeah I think I prefer the mozzarella I prefer the oh my god Bloob is really going for it is she Bloob um I prefer the mozzarella with I prefer it with mozzarella than the fatter yeah me too uh me too because I I heard a Bloob this is a chair we sit on chairs we don't bite chairs she's been reading her parenting books yeah guys that's me and my we are also though I'd like to I'd like to hear from the audience Bloobie because me and Chinza are both very much the type of people who we will have the same thing for dinner every single night yes yes yes for weeks especially when Sophia started eating the rice salad again oh my god i was like i'm having that tonight like it's so good i was like oh my fucking god like it's like i get jealous yeah and i'm like well i have to make it then so i do have that for dinner leftovers arguably it's going to taste better than last night i've had it but it's the summer i turn pretty finale tonight for myself and i just want something like delectable like i want to order in and be like oh my god let's get the takeout laid out and then just like lock it she'll be asleep do you know what i mean like baby's sleeping and mum can come out to play like it's time for a bit of time it's time for me time and I can watch the summer time pretty phone is going away like some good like chocolate stuff like get some get some good or I'll time it for a snog yeah if you guys don't know what a snog is not a literal snog it's frozen yogurt I've gone through a pack of the Nutella biscuits this week I bet you have.

5:27Yeah, delicious. Those are - It was Saturday and I was like, I am fucking ravenous. I went on Deliveroo and I got Nutella biscuits. I bet you do. I got Maltesers. I got Milky Way and I ate the whole Milky Way. I would never choose a Milky Way. I love white chocolate. And then I ate like half the bag of Maltesers. Milky Way is not white chocolate. Oh, sorry. Milky Bar. Milky Bar. Milky Bar, sorry. Yeah, I was getting all confused. Sorry, sorry, sorry. I do love Milky Way, but went Milky Bar. Yeah. Yeah, just had a real, and now it's been quite nice because now throughout the week, I've got some nice, like I had some snacks, but I finished the Nutella biscuits last night.

6:07Well, how do you feel about Biscoff? Love. I eat it out the jar with a spoon. Oh, so you really, because Biscoff is like, you're really riding for Biscoff. Because I saw this TikTok and it was like, Biscoff is in too many places. like biscoff needs like kinder flavors needs to be present where biscoff is that is and i really i only feel that biscoff out the jar because i don't consume a biscoff biscuit but like yeah but like biscoff everything biscoff this yeah i hear that biscoff that i would rather it be kinder do you remember the first time we had biscoff because i do we had it together for the first time no tell me we were in a country somewhere we could have been in france or we could be must have been a foreign object at that point it was we went to a fran prix those supermarkets what's it called of course yeah fran prix yeah is that in france yeah i think we were in paris shut up we were vlogging the time we've got it on camera shut up and we got a jar and we smelled it and we were like oh my god well it was i remember when it was a new condiment yeah Yeah.

7:11It was new to the cupboard. We always used to have Biscoff biscuits. Lotus, like the biscuits. The Lotus. Lotus biscuits. Yeah. So you used to be in the salon. Yes. With your coffee. You got one. But they were never like, ooh, but it was just like the salon biscuit. But the spreadable form. My God. Yeah. But I do think Kinder needs to be present where Biscoff is. Yeah. I 100 % agree with that. You know, a bit like a bit more widely available, like Kinder more things. Yeah. Because Italy does Kinder, like Kinder is everywhere. What are you looking for specifically? I'm looking for a Kinder Blank Street, you know?

7:43Ah. Very nice. I'm looking for Kinder. I'm looking for Kinder. I've never had a Kinder egg. Have you? Yeah. Oh. With a toy? Yeah. Of course I have. I've never had it. What? My brother always used to get those. It's delicious. So I think I just thought, oh, that was boy stuff. See, we would get them in Italy. And that was like the cool thing to get. Of course. You know, I've never had a Kinder egg. It's delicious. I also have for the first time last week I've been a real sweet hype A white Twix Sorry Yeah a white Twix Oh my fucking god Yeah I'd be deceased I was like I need to get some of these in my cupboard Because holy shit I can't store chocolate I can't keep chocolate in the house No I can't But this week I've had it in the house And it's been fantastic But it's not good Because I make my morning cup of tea And I'm like reaching for an Atella biscuit and I'm like oh stop it lunchtime two more about three o 'clock maybe two or three oh 8 p.m after dinner another one or two the half bag's gone oh a hot Nutella biscuit yeah is really that would send me into orbit babe well speaking of delicious smells ah here she goes because she's such a pro look at this segue I've done this for a while now you guys as you understand.

9:04Our question of the week. Is, what is this? What is it? What's the weirdest smell? What's the weirdest smell that you actually like? Petrol. That's top of the list. I love petrol. What's the smell that I like? Remember I used to go to the garage. A weird smell. I'm going to be like, don't breathe it in, don't breathe it in. And I'd be like, I'm breathing it in. I love the smell of petrol. Izzy had a good one and it was the perm smell. and I think it's like the so if you get your eyebrows laminated a lash lift or like an actual perm it's that like smell egg egg it is it's like well I don't know how to describe it but I do quite like it I see I don't like that and and I like it when she's doing my lash lift and I can feel her scrape my oh I like lashes and like it's like she's itching like my tight line I like that I like that too a lot I like it and it's like really relaxing I'm like don't talk like I'm enjoying myself but it's like we have to chat um i don't like the smell though oh i do it's eggy to me okay another smell that weird smells that you like weird smells that you like bleach yeah love bleach love a bleach i mean i like a vegemite but i guess people do like like a barmite yeah australia um what else is a weird smell i guess we'll get some inspiration i guess we shall why you take it away okay right yeah okay so what's the weirdest smell that you actually like this is what you guys have said petrol yeah sharpies yeah love oh belly button smell

10:44how are you smelling your belly button oh you don't it thinks that congeals in there oh I've never thought about that it needs to be washed out wait I've never thought about that oh you better clean yours out oh my god it's probably got the smelliest belly button in all of the land I've never thought about belly buttons now you better get a q-tip in there and wash it oh do you put a cotton bud in your belly button no I just go with the lupar yeah oh my god my boyfriend's nose exhale oh no I guess I'm sorry sorry farm animal poo oh yes manure like actual manure oh my god someone no someone said diathermy burning flesh during surgeries oh i know that smell i know that exact smell i think it's not nice that is not a nice smell i've smelled that before newborn baby vomit yes yeah no yeah i've heard that smells a I bit like sweet corn.

11:46Really? Why is everything sweet corn flavored? New books. Yeah. My dog's earwax. Horse manure. Oh, Play-Doh. Oh, yeah. I love Play-Doh. Fish food. Oh my God. Wait, sorry. Does anyone, this is a niche, but nutritional yeast. You just have to know. Oh, if you know, you know about nutritional yeast. No, sorry. Actually listen to what someone's told us. No. You're not ready for this. No, I don't want to know. she's but my fingers after itching my Sarah Sarah I like the honesty Sarah right it's yours now okay we've got my farts yeah I mean your own farts don't really yeah you're not you're not repulsed by your own farts or your own smell uh the sweat on my watch band after a date of wearing it.

12:47Garlic on fingers after chopping. Yeah, that's nice. Garlic on fingers after chopping it. Oh, okay, yeah. Yeah, garlic fingers. My dog's warm feet post-nap. I should smell the boobs. Warm feet. The back of an earring. Okay. Okay. That's, yeah, niche. My baby's bad breath. Oh, yeah. Cute. Well, it's your baby's. New tarmac being laid. Oh, I love. I love New Tarmac. Yes. Yeah, that's a great one. We've got my boyfriend's bold head. I wonder what that smells like. What would that smell like? I don't know. It could probably get a bit sweaty. Men's heads get sweaty. But if it's bold, it's probably not.

13:27If he's got a hat on all day, he's building up something on there, isn't he? Of course, yeah. Chicken poo. Oh, I've not smelled chicken poo. Identify chicken poo. Acetone. I do not like acetone. Is that like nail varnish? It's what you put your nails in when they're soaking them off. I'm not so keen on that. When you open the dishwasher after it's just finished, that is niche, but I know that smell. It's like that hot kind of like. That smell. Deep heat, love. I love deep heat. I love deep heat. I love the smell. It reminds me of home. The fluff under your toenails. Fluff? From your socks? Oh, maybe.

14:04Oh, it's scooping them out and then smelling that. Wow. God. We've got my kids. Cat's tuna breath. I mean, I like tuna, so. I love tuna too. I wouldn't be a post-art either. That's what we've got. That tuna I bought yesterday was fantastic. Told you that's the best tuna. Can I just say, yeah. Incredible tuna. Yeah, put John West to shame. Yeah, John West knows nothing about tuna. You heard it here first. Yeah, yeah. It was Oritz. Oritz. Oritz. Or you want Rio Mare, if you're Italian like myself. You want Rio Mare tuna. It's the best of the world. What's tuna in Italian? Probably tune or something.

14:38Ton? Ton. That's French. Ton. yeah Tuna I don't know right well welcome back everyone if anyone knows what Tuna is in Italian please let us know it is time for our dilemmas we're doing girl talk this week and we're ready to solve the case aren't we we are we are

15:04just before we get into it quick disclaimer just to say we are not doctors we are not professionals we do not actually know what we are talking about. This is a light-hearted space. Okay, don't take what we say literally because we could be wrong. Yeah, and if there's anything serious, if there's anything you feel like you're seriously struggling with, please contact a GP, a professional because that is not us. We're just girls, girls and boys just like you, you know. We're just trying to get through life as well. Not professionals. Enjoy the episode. Enjoy. Okay, we're going to start here this week.

15:33We've not read this one, but the subject line has really drawn us in so let's see what we're in for yes i let my best friend sleep with my boyfriend that's craziness and now i think she likes him how is that a sentence that's been formed you know what i mean so like how did we get here yeah so me 25 and brian 26 have been together for 11 years. That's a long time, you guys. He's very loving, loyal, spoils me, talks of marriage and future plans. He's my soulmate. Now me and Sarah have been best friends for two years and neither of us saw our friendship coming. We met when I was working and she was a client and one day decided to meet for a coffee and the rest was history.

16:23We became inseparable overnight. She is the sweetest soul and I trust her with my life. and your boyfriend apparently yeah oh my god naturally brian would be with us a lot as me and him live together so we'd always you know have days hanging out meals out movie nights we even had a group chat shut up it was just the three of them yeah it became an inside joke between us all that brian had pretty much got two girlfriends because wherever i was sarah wasn't far behind okay no this is actually crazy where are we going here yeah i know is it Maybe it was a threesome. Maybe, yeah. But technically, yeah, his willy has gone into her vagina.

17:02Her vagina. But now she's developed feelings for him. However, things soon took an unexpected turn. Oh my God. One night, we all went out for drinks. Definitely a threesome. The porn star martinis were flowing. Everyone was having a laugh and the conversation turned flirty. Of course it did. I noticed Sarah's attention soon went on to Brian. Oh my God. This wasn't a problem as me and Sarah have a very flirtatious way with each other when we're drunk. And we all found it quite funny playing into the two girlfriend role. Yeah. We ended up joking with Brian that he wouldn't be able to handle us both together in the bedroom.

17:38Shut up. And he jokingly said he was in for the night of his life. I bet he did. Okay, so this is all jokey, jokey. Let's just say. We're a bit tipsy and we're meaning it. Let's just say we lived up to our word. when we got home things yeah we ended up having a threesome oh my god whoa in the moment it felt natural yeah and I didn't feel any way about it yeah me this is a very crazy spontaneous decision it is it is it is but someone has been thinking about someone's been thinking about it either Brian's been fantasizing it she's been fantasizing it a little like me and Brian have never done anything like this before so it was very unexpected the next day we all woke up went out for breakfast laughed it off and just and knowing it's gonna happen again though right like come on oh my god of course it happened again yeah of course a few weeks we're laughing it off like that and like going out for breakfast like why would we not do it again we all had a good time great time like we're all happy here until one of us isn't a few weeks later the same story as before we went out.

18:49We were drinking, lots of flirting, even a three-way kiss in the pub. You guys. Things got heated and we all ended up in bed again. This time though, me and Brian both said that it wasn't for us. Okay. And that will be the last time. Okay. That's, I'm glad you've talked about it. Yeah. Because I'm thinking at this point you've not even spoken about it. Yeah, same. And like what occurred. However, Sarah then started to become a bit more flirty with Brian in our day-to-day lives. Yeah. touching his arms, making sexual jokes, cuddling against him. Well, now because she's thinking that that line's been crossed, she can do that.

19:26Yeah. She's had his willy in her mouth or whatever. And in her vagina. Yeah, literally in her vagina. Yeah. So what's a cuddle amongst friends? Yeah, literally. What's the grades of the arm? Even talking about his willy saying she could get it whenever she wanted. That's a bit confident, Sarah. That's a bit of a line's been crossed there. Yeah. You can't, he's my boyfriend. Yeah, steady on. Like if I cut this off now, it's my decision. Yeah, we're not actually sharing a boyfriend. I just brushed it off as banter. I did speak to Brian and just explained that if there was ever to be any feelings, just be honest.

20:02But he was quick to reassure me he felt no way towards her. Thank God. We ended up booking a group holiday. Why? Oh, guys, why? Why are we doing that? Why? For a sex fest. At this point, Brian had noticed the flirting got very touchy-feely and noticed Sarah relying on him as more of a boyfriend than a friend. Shut up. So he naturally pulled back. Sorry, Blueberry, where do we think we're going? Like, is this fucking acrobatics? The visual watchers, they can see that Blueberry is really parkouring right now. She's on my ankles. Like, I know you want to get down. I think she's eyeing up the footstools to see if she can jump to them.

20:41Shall I let you be free? Because you're obviously not sleeping. Do you want to go on that one? Let's see where she wants to end up. Okay. So the whole holiday, there was slight flirting, but nothing more. Okay. You could see more of a difference in how Brian treated me as a girlfriend as to how he treated Sarah as just a friend. And I feel like this upset Sarah. Right. One night while we're getting ready to go out. Because she's got feelings for him now. Sarah walked out of the bathroom with nothing on her bottom half. her full vagina was out. Brian instantly stood up and took himself to the balcony and said, tell your friend to get some pants on.

21:25Sarah was acting more drunk than what she actually was and I didn't want to embarrass her so I got her dressed She was drunk and off we went. But she's saying she's acting more drunk than she actually was. Right, so she was just trying to be like it's threesome tag guys and it wasn't. Yeah. but then saying that playing off that she's so drunk when you're like you've had two drinks not that drunk right right right right um oh god after that things really changed I think you know what I think she's getting a bit desperate yeah I think she's getting panicky because she's really she likes Brian and she's frantic now I think so too because she's thinking oh my god he's out of my grasp now but I kind of had him like you know got a taste for it and she's panicking and she's thinking why can't we do that again we had a good time like what's wrong like he looked at me that way I thought he liked me like I like him you know so Sarah barely spoke to us that night after she walked in with no pants on well yeah because she feels rejected I think yeah because she's because now to her the guy she likes just rejected her and the last day she seemed really moody and cold me and Brian went off to explore before the taxi was picking us up and Sarah stayed behind I feel like Brian's rejection oh sorry reaction to her having no pants on wasn't what she thought it would be and made her realize that I was the actual girlfriend and she was just in fact the friend.

22:44Well, he thought, she thought he wouldn't be able to resist. But obviously, yeah. Once we arrived home, we didn't speak for weeks. But I won't lie, me and Brian both felt like we needed a break from Sarah. Me and Sarah eventually met up for a chat and proceeded to tell me that all she'd done since coming home was go on loads of dates, which was strange because for our whole friendship, she'd only ever been on one or two. She is frantic. A few days later we met again but there was a clear atmosphere. Things felt really off. When she dropped me off at home Brian came out to help with the bags. Normally Sarah would get out the car and we would all chat.

23:23However this time she stayed in the car and didn't say a word to Brian. Time moved on and we've slowly become closer again as a group but now I can see some of the flirty traits from her coming out again. the touching of his arm the little comments about his willy even a slight cuddle next to him is she just very comfortable with us and she thinks that this is normal or has she got feelings for brian but doesn't know how to deal with it so just keeps us close even if she had feelings i wouldn't be angry as i allowed her into a private part of our relationship so i would feel partly to blame what's your opinion girls how can we all be close without it going further than this I don't know if you can should I ask her about her feelings or do I just leave it and trust that our friendship is just a friendship to her and nothing more we've got a picture of all three of them shut up shut up not what I was picturing at all wait let me just try and envision what I'm picturing yeah think about what you're picturing and you tell me if this is what you're because it wasn't what I was picturing you girls are absolutely stunning not that I was picturing that you weren't going to be but I've got a vision of the guy at least I don't I don't think you're going to get it

24:39oh my god i wasn't expecting that i know okay okay now i've got the incredible bit so which one's the girlfriend the one at the back and the glasses the one i'm assuming yeah yeah okay she looks close with her yeah right i feel like things haven't been spoken like i think you need to talk about it do you not think because otherwise we are just brushing it under the rug and hoping that we can all be close but like we've not even spoken about being naked like we've not we've just kind of brushed it yeah and like I can see things like I feel like but I feel like you can't actually have a relationship anymore because she because I would have thought I think if she's not already in love with him she's falling in love with him quite clearly no and I also think it's quite telling that when she's like she's recently come back into your life and you've kind of got that friendship back yeah that she is now like going back into cuddle territory yeah like banter and she was sexual you know with like going on the dates yeah she was trying to be like be like i don't like him like i've been dating like trying to prove to you guys that like oh no like like that was just sex but i think it's definitely more so do i by her saying i've been learning loads of dates like i've been busy like dating like that was just a cover-up for her feelings yeah and And maybe that was also to help let your guard down thinking, oh, she doesn't want my man.

26:01And also maybe for word to get back to your Brian. Maybe she's trying to make him jealous. I know. She's trying to see if he'll get jealous. And when he got wind that she was going on dates, obviously he doesn't care. Right? God, girls. I think you're going to have to have a chat. Be like, look, we don't have threesomes anymore. You can't touch my boyfriend like that. Yeah, that's not okay. I also don't think we need this group chat, the three of us. No. I think we almost need to like, I think if you really still want to have this friendship, we need to get some boundaries. Boundaries. I think you need to talk about it.

26:36Like I would be hanging out with her like outside of the house. Let's go for lunch. Yes, where there's not a bed. Let's go out together. Let's go shopping. Let's do this. Let's do that. Yeah. I wouldn't really like so soon after all the threesomes be saying, come watch a movie with me and Brian. No. Come round to ours. Let's all get drunk together. because like we know what happens i mean maybe it's too soon for all of you to be hanging out as a three again maybe she can't have a relationship with brian at all maybe it just needs to go back to you two i know you know like girly you know we can do stuff but like we don't really hang out with brian the three of us anymore because a line was crossed and you know and it's still being crossed yeah it has changed things brian's getting uncomfortable you're also she's then getting on your nerves because you're looking at her differently thinking are you trying to move to my boyfriend yeah i don't know yeah you don't want to be worrying about that no When you're all hanging out.

27:27Maybe have a conversation. Say, oh, do you have feelings for her? Yeah. What went down there? We never really spoke about it. See if she'll be honest and you can have a chat. Sit down. Uh-oh. No, just sit. Uh-oh. Uh-oh. Uh-oh. Uh-oh. What a dog on the loose. Right. Shall I read us another one? Please do. That's a very unique situation to get yourself. I do see how it happened though really naturally but it's like and I'm glad that you almost had like a positive experience with your threesome like you woke up you laughed about it in the threesome you had breakfast yeah as in within the threesome but after the fact it's always worse yes there's always feelings especially when like we could have just left it that first time brilliant we had a great time we did it one time it's when you do it again and again and then it's almost like every time we get your uncle you're having a threesome yeah like yeah If you're still sleeping on cotton or satin, that could be the reason for frizzy hair, sleep creases, overheating, and even breakouts.

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30:01Right. So we don't know what to do anymore. So this is not just a simple case of ex-stalking ex. No, new girlfriend stalking ex. This is We We Like me and my boyfriend Are going through something As a couple Took us 40 minutes To put the baby to bed Right So hi girls I've got a truly Infuriating one for you Oh I've been with my boyfriend For a few years now And honestly From the very beginning There's been One constant person Trying to get involved In our relationship A few years Yeah His ex-girlfriend For years they broke up years before I even met him and since then she's been in two other relationships on paper there should be no reason for her to still try to be involved in his life and to make it even stranger that she still tries to be involved she actually moved to another city not long after we met but ever since we got together she's never let it go in the early days of our relationship over two years after she moved away she'd sent him things like and quote come come and see me nobody has to know

31:20she always yeah he always said no and told her it wasn't appropriate for her to say these things because they were both in separate relationships and it's been over between them but when that didn't work she switched tactics messaging him about her dramatic and quite sad personal problems she's put and family issues instead okay so now she's trying to lean on your boyfriend for support and advice my boyfriend is a naturally kind person so at the time a while ago now he'd reply politely here and there and say he hopes she's okay when she sent messages about her problems okay so he's engaging with her i saw these messages so she's playing the sympathy card she is yeah yeah i saw working yeah and it's working because he's he's replying and she's like oh yeah i saw these messages and they were nothing i wasn't comfortable with but she took advantage of that kindness and just kept contacting him hmm it wasn't just the messages either there have been times i've been told she's called me ugly behind my back and i've previewed the picture of you sarah you're nothing of the sire supermodel that's that's that got back to you who she said he must be telling he's obviously being open about the messages he's saying to she's saying to his she's saying oh your new girl's ugly oh my god in it that's just like you're not going to get the guy by by putting down the the new girlfriend are you that's not the way you're going to get the guy no and in the very early days when they bumped into each other they were in similar circles at the time she even told him directly that he quote could do better than me i couldn't hear these things i'd say you're blocking her woman we're like yeah stop we don't stop this now like do you don't like why are you even replying to her we're just talking about your kind nature yeah forget forget your kindness yeah i wonder how i wonder how he responded me too hopefully with like Like, shut the fuck up.

33:24Keep my girlfriend's name at your mouth. He'd had, brilliant. He'd had enough of being polite. He blocked her number, Snapchat, and blocked her on text, which is where she was contacting him. Last year was my breaking point. Oh my God, I'm on the edge of my seat. Am I? We were both - Blueberry, wake up. You've seen all the action. Don't. No, don't. You stay there. Last year was my breaking point. We were both out one night and I finally saw her in person. I think this is the first time she's ever seen her in person. Oh my God, the man, the myth, the legend. She approached my boyfriend and attempted to hug him.

34:00After staying quiet for so long to avoid drama, I couldn't see her and said nothing. So I confronted her directly, but not much was said back to me as her boyfriend was with her. Even weirder that she was still trying to hug my boyfriend. Later, I followed up with a message to make my feelings crystal clear. Oh, to her. Yeah. This is quotes. My reaction tonight is based on your blatant disrespect. I love it. So I think you just didn't even look in her direction or acknowledge her. My reaction tonight is based on your blatant disrespect and nastiness towards me. I genuinely stayed quiet to avoid causing any issues.

34:42And honestly, not to give you the satisfaction. However, I couldn't see you and not say anything. Calling me, oh, this is going on, this is more. Calling me ugly and messaging my boyfriend to come to London to see you, saying it'll be your secret is genuinely disgusting. Not to mention the countless times you've tried to call him, knowing full well he's in a relationship. And stalking me by watching every story to the point that I had to block you. Get it, Sarah? I should genuinely be embarrassed by your actions and I hope you never treat anyone else with the same disrespect again. I thought that might...

35:21Okay, that was it. Fantastic. I thought that might finally put an end to it, but it didn't. Recently, she was home for the weekend and approached my boyfriend while we're both at... Where are we? Where are we? Where? What establishments are we going to? Because I never bump into anyone. I thought she was in London. Like, how are we bumping into people? I know. but maybe we're back in the hometown where they were both from or something so recently she was home for the week oh that means we're back in the hometown yeah i guess they have mutuals they used to be in similar circles and it's like if there's one spot there's one spot oh that looks so comfy it does don't it you're part of this podcast we don't have to contribute anything it's a bit unfair don't you think do you have any insight she looks really comfy now um and all right so recently she was home for the weekend and approached my boyfriend while we're both she does have some balls she's got big balls you know because if i receive such a text from my ex's new girlfriend like i'm not you'd disappear off the face well yeah we're not i'm not approaching him next time i see him no matter how much i don't know um so and approached my boyfriend while we're both out except this time i wasn't there and had gone home about oh god I wasn't there and had gone home about half an hour before whilst he spent time with his friends she asked him how he was how we were and then out of nowhere said be honest are you happy

36:54she got a whole other boyfriend yeah she did where is her boyfriend listen he said he told yes of course I am but that's when she said oh well I'm single I'm single now I'm single now I'm single now I broke up with him Okay so she's just She's single now My boyfriend ain't here It doesn't seem like Your girlfriend's here Yeah let's go Are you single Like maybe she You happy Yeah He pointed to her He pointed to her That she knew exactly What she was trying to insinuate And it wasn't right Except She wasn't single She was still posting pictures With her boyfriend And even travelled to France To see him the week after She said to my boyfriend That she was single she's in love with your boyfriend she will do anything she can to get her hands on your man how do you think they ended that's such a good question it doesn't sound like she broke up with him it doesn't or she did and she made a mistake and he just moved on yeah or it was just an argument one night maybe they were just a couple that would argue and they just like later that same night she started messaging him on Instagram, which is the only place he hadn't blocked her as this wasn't the typical place she tried to contact him.

38:10Fuck. Asking, where are you? And when he didn't reply, sent another message saying, classic.

38:23Classic. Then she began calling him repeatedly on Instagram. Yeah, because you can do that. Oh my God. We could literally see the calls coming through while we were together in bed, which is hilarious when you think about it. Okay, so I'm glad he's sharing this with you. You're laughing. Yeah, I'm glad that you know everything. Yeah, it's not like a secret. I would say block her right fucking now. Right now. Right now. Typically, you would think my boyfriend would have to be engaging with this to have her still holding on. But he genuinely isn't. He doesn't respond. He doesn't entertain it. He has only ever been civil with her and has not replied to any of her messages like the above.

39:00our mutual friends have confirmed this is entirely one-sided and unfortunately it seems I'm not the only girl she's done this to other people have said to me quote I'm sorry that x is your boyfriend's x she's a nightmare but she just won't stop and honestly there's not much else he can do either except continue to block her wherever she can contact him I've had to block her on Instagram myself because she constantly watched my stories despite not following me friends of hers have she is so bold just watching your stories with her full username when she knows she doesn't follow you i know she is so bold i know friends of hers have even told me she's used their phones to look me up oh my god our own friends outing her it's obsessive it's relentless and honestly it's starting to feel like it'll never end part of me wants to reach out like documentaries what it sounds like part of her wants me to part of me wants me to reach out to her boyfriend with screenshots of her contacting my boyfriend oh that's genius to tell him everything that is genius why haven't we done that because he clearly has no idea what she's been doing but at the same time i don't want to create drama or just make the situation worse she might feed it feed off that and then think well i'm never gonna let you rest i'm gonna come after you for the rest of my life sarah i think i think i think i think she'd think right well that's it.

40:23I'm going to keep coming after you two forever because you've ruined my relationship and she's never going to let it go. And then she really is going to be single and she's going to have even more of a, yeah, more time on her hands to find out where you are. Seriously. But then that's when it escalates. Yeah. So she's saying, I don't even, I don't even want her to end up being single because she'll probably harass me and have more times on her hand. And my boyfriend even more since she can't get what she really wants. My boyfriend. One last thing I'd like to add. Has your boyfriend got a brother?

40:52we can give her? A twin? But then she's in the family. We don't want that. Oh yeah, so true. One last thing I'd like to add is that this doesn't end with her. Her mum still replies to his Instagram story. We'll block her too. You are joking. The block tool you need to utilise. I just don't know what else to do at this point. She won't let go. And even if a few months goes by of not hearing her name, she will find a way to contact or approach us in person. I do feel good about the fact that my boyfriend does what he can do to block her and call her out. But again, this doesn't seem to stop her.

41:28He needs to, I don't think he's called her out though. No, all he said is it's not appropriate. I think your boyfriend needs to say, I don't want anything to do with you. His ex, he should maybe reply to an Instagram, send her a message and say, Don't contact me again. something really serious and gets the point across and shuts it down because I fear I guess he's blocked but he's just politely dismissing yeah he needs to say like I don't want to hear from you I don't want to be contacted I don't ever want anything to do with you we will net like there is no chance on planet earth that we will let we will I will ever want to get back with you sexually or emotionally um i'm very happy with my girlfriend leave us both alone like this is the final message otherwise i will be contacting the authorities for harassment police because i've got she's then gonna reply and say did your girlfriend make you send that yeah she's gonna say does your girlfriend make you a horny like i used to make you or something like that no that's not funny you know we need to block so i think he should say one final he could stop being so like because maybe in person look obviously we should i just read it yeah attached is a picture of me my boyfriend at my business christmas party last year which she was also viewing all of the stories that were on my business account despite being blocked oh my god she's got too much time on her hands also she needs to find a hobby Pics of me on a recent holiday, just because.

43:00Love you, girls. Sorry. Go on, let's see your holiday pics. This is a gorgeous couple. Right. A hundred percent. Let me see. You are so beautiful, Sarah. I can imagine there's some jealousy. Oh, are you joking? Look at that. Oh, she, oh, Sarah. Yeah. Oh my God. A gorgeous couple. Yeah, Sarah, you are stunning. I would stalk you too. Sarah, let's see your holiday pics. Yeah, let's see the holiday. I think that's it Oh here it's down here I know I think it was attached At the top Here we go Couldn't load file Unfortunately Oh Couldn't load file Couldn't load file Oh damn it Okay Sarah I was gonna say something Really good Yeah It would be hard If you were a boyfriend's ex Yeah Sorry If you were Yeah Your new boyfriend's ex Right I think He needs to say Susan I want nothing To do with you Leave me and my girlfriend alone keep our names out your fucking mouth otherwise i will be taking this further and contacting um the authorities the hr or hr and and then make sure she's seen that block her get him to block the mom for god's sake definitely block them all definitely i would also get i would also both of you block all of her mates yeah block everyone to do with her block her from your business account just let's just block her and then she won't be seeing anything that you're doing then she won't be able to contact you if you see her out you see her out but she won't be able to contact but i do think for the time being like let's just avoid these establishments where she might be because we're clearly going to the same places and let's not go there no i think like that one pub yeah okay let's just meet up somewhere else if we want to see their friends because this is getting serious yeah like maybe just for six months like it's ruining every weekend it sounds like your yeah time is being ruined so yeah let's go to some different places yeah and just like actually take it seriously yeah I don't want to see I don't want that's what I was gonna say like you know when he's talking to her in person like is he like laughing like is he finding it you know when he says like are you happy is he like giggling a bit like kind of awkward like like make like laughing a little bit because I can see how naturally you would maybe like you know when she's saying her inappropriate things and maybe the mates are around and they're hearing and laughing and it's like actually a bit they're finding it funny but he if if he ever encounters her in person he needs to literally walk away or he needs to say don't ever fucking speak to me again yeah like literally not even a gate or like walk away yeah because like i fear he's engaging like tiny bit i think he's just trying to be polite he's trying to be kind and now but yeah and clearly she is misinterpreting his kindness or like he's defo interested in me like he loves it he loves it you remember that one night in the jacuzzi yeah you remember that amazing night in the jacuzzi yeah remember that remember how it made you feel that night isn't that legally blonde i don't know i think it is it's like what i made you feel that night remember what i said i still mean i love that santos does it smell does it smell sounds yes

46:23yeah so he needs to like turn on the like mean brian he does like next time he needs to be kind yeah like it's taking the piss now you acted when you saw her ignored acted like she wasn't That's how he actually needs to act. Yes. And then she will get the message. As long as everyone - She has to get bored eventually. And I think get like your sister to block her. Yes. Your friends to block her. So she can't even - Because also for her health as well, I don't want her to be able to stalk you or anything to do with you two ever again. So everyone you know needs to block her. So she can't even get a whiff of you.

46:59She needs to be cut off. You're cut. Yeah. Yeah. and then give it six months and it'll be like oh fucking hell remember when fucking Susan would stalk it where's she gone now yeah hopefully oh she asked whether she should yeah I don't think you should get involved in her relationship I would be tempted but she's unpredictable I don't know what she'll do next yeah I would be afraid of her next move if you did that I think if after we've blocked her taken all those precautions yeah and like avoiding all these establishments where she seems to be popping up and she's still finding a way to contact if she then starts sending you letters in the post then I'm going to go to her boyfriend and expose her then we can and the authorities

47:53alright this is an exclusive here in the Girls' Fafferoon we have never had anything like this before we haven't Like in our entire career, we've had a really long and successful career. And we've never had such a dilemma reaches like this. My Brian told me I should write in after I received a hey girly DM. He wants us to back him up. Is he double bluffing? Sophia always hits us with that twist. Doesn't she? I've read all these plot twists. Because I was just thinking, he's like, get the girl. honestly the girls will think the same as me send it in right but yeah he could be taking us don't take us for a full bite don't take us for a ride brian do you think we're twats no we've been doing this a long time yeah we'll see right through your bullshit yeah so let's take a look be prepared to be overanalyzed he's definitely saying just send it into the girls bathroom honestly like they will see what i'm telling you will make you feel better let's see how much you so intrigued no i'm like look i'm sat ready okay me and my brian have been together for four years okay 18 to 22 we're both going into a third year at uni in the same town uni the big breakups always happen at 22 i don't want to say it i don't want to say it the teen to 20s yeah like am i taking you into the rest of my 20s i've given you my 18 19 20 21 22 am i giving you 23 24 25 26 because that's some fun years that i might have to myself oh god because we live in the same area at home and at uni we are always so close and so in love Oh, young love is beautiful.

49:44However, exactly a year ago, a few days after my birthday, I received a hey girly message in my Instagram requested DMs. This happened a year ago. I was out at the time with a friend drinking and trusted my Brian so much that I instantly thought it was a scam as they asked for me to accept so they could send me screenshots. I instantly sent it to my Brian as a joke thinking it was something to laugh at, but was met with a message saying, I can explain. My mouth has just gone really dry. Guilty as charged. Wait, so they have screenshots? My heart dropped and I asked the girl for the screenshots.

50:31The screenshots were of him DMing her on TikTok saying... No, no. Play Al with me. Come and play with me. With the prayer hands emoji and the cat heart eye emoji. By the way, Ow means Overwatch, which is a PlayStation game. Oh, he's saying, come and play this game with me, you naughty little... Ow, O-W. She then responded with, don't you have a girlfriend? And he said, I do. She's the GOAT, but she won't play O-W or Ow, whatever this game is. She then said, I wouldn't want my boyfriend playing Ow, O. Right, wait, right. Before we go on, wait. before we go on what's this game let's just say it's Animal Crossing I would have wanted my boyfriend playing Animal Crossing with TikTok girls one second he said yeah fairs have a good day and then blocked her oh that means he knew he did something wrong OW game most commonly refers to Overwatch a team based first person shooter video game developed by Blizzard Entertainment so it's not a sexual game no it's combat but is it ow ow oh it's overwatch right so i'm gonna say animal crossing yeah look look i think i think we're past it anyway transformers oh okay so she's gonna be catwoman and he's gonna be yeah but it's the heart ice across the line across the line heart eyes yeah massive okay okay okay and he blocked her which to me means oh shit listen i've done something a little bit this could get me in trouble and i i want to say these video game boys i think they get turned on by video game girls video game girls who are playing that same game and are really excelling at the game i'm just assuming here but i imagine that that would really get their juices flowing like well it's a big common sexy girl playing call of duty like think she was like you know the sexy character so he can go always got big tits so we can go into his little world with his character but then knowing that this the sexy character the woman behind the sex character is also a sexy woman they must eat that up so if this lady it's like big bang theory when they're playing dungeons and dragons and penny gets involved and then she almost sleeps with Howard yes on Dungeons and Dragons yes so I think if this lady was posting like some cool sexy TikToks of her being really good at it with her headphones she was a headset on she looked really cute on a cool chair in her pink bedroom yeah with the pink lights yeah I can see it now and she had a sexy character because it looks like you can have a sexy character she's definitely got some Hello Kitty shit as well yeah she's cool she's like play that with me like oh a bit of rivalry like I'm the big transformer you're the you know little cat and it's a little turn on for And he thought, that's not crossing a line.

53:37If she just said, oh yeah, I'll play that game with you. But it's actually a bit of a kink. The heart eye emoji is crazy. Yeah, cross the line. No boyfriend should be sending heart eye emojis. No, not at all. Especially to a stranger. You just slid into a girl's DMs. Yeah, with a heart eye emoji. Yeah, yeah. But then a playing off, like, I just asked to play a game with her. But he blocked her. So that shows, like, I'm panicked. And also, I may be doing other things. Because she's called me out saying that I wouldn't want my boyfriend to do that. Shit. So once reading this, I left my friend and he ran from his house to me and attempted to explain himself.

54:14But I just left as I had nothing to say. Yeah. We then went on multiple walks over the next few weeks. You know what would also really kill? If our Sarah plays Overwatch. Yeah. Because it'd be like, I play that with you. Yeah. You know, like, I play that with you. Yeah. Oh no, but he said that she doesn't. yeah yeah but if she did like it'd be like that would be a real betrayal if she plays other games and maybe she's playing single player games yeah then that's gonna hurt as well or maybe it's like actually you've not even asked me to play overwatch yeah that would be yeah okay so we then went on multiple walks over the next few weeks and i couldn't decide what to do on one hand this This girl did not live in England, so there was no real intent to physically cheat.

55:06But I had no idea what the aim was. Also, because he blocked her, I would have never known if she hadn't DM'd me, meaning there could be other girls he messaged and I am none the wiser. After a few months of being Rocky, I decided to get back with him as he made it up to me a lot. I thought my life was better with him than without him. And I always thought if I ever got to the point where it doesn't feel worth anymore, I can end it. now over a year since this has happened for the most part our relationship is amazing he's always there for me spends what little money he has from his part-time job on me and is so open and understanding of what he's done and how that affects our relationship yeah before this had happened i was never a jealous or untrusting person but now i find myself checking his phone every now and then and getting jealous or nervous if he's out and takes over 15 minutes to reply that's so now you're living in anxiety yeah because also 15 minutes is pretty quick yeah if you're panicking after 15 minutes that's not yeah it's not good that's not a nice place to be in I have mostly moved on from what happened but probably every few months I'll hear something that reminds me of it and we'll have to talk about it all over again my question is so we never really resolved it if what we did but but if we're still discussing it it wasn't really he probably felt like you resolved it but it's still it's just still in your mind and there's nothing that anyone could ever do or say that it's going to get it out of your mind yeah my question is if it's been a year and i'm still not completely over it will i ever get over it i am not an untrusting person but find myself being super jealous and untrusting of him, which I hate for myself.

56:57Will that ever go away? This is also both of our first relationships. So there's part of me that's scared to be without him. I do love my Brian so much. He's my best friend. One of the kindest people. He's really built on my confidence. Could he have just made one mistake? We had another conversation about it a few days ago and Brian told me I should write a message to you both as he knows how much I love the pod and respect your opinions oh i fear brian's gonna regret that in a sec any advice would be appreciated i'll attach some pics sarah you're absolutely beautiful brian you look lovely too brian hi there and also you've got your outfits kind of coordinating which i really like it's beautiful really gorgeous couple really gorgeous couple right so you're saying I've not been able you've not been able to let this go for an entire year I'd be the same I think so would I I'd be the same you know you think oh yeah okay the lady was in Australia he had no real intent it was just a mistake he just got excited by the game overwatch but everything that's come with that is it worth it checking his phone anxious about replies you know worried about what he could be up to jealousy you don't feel secure no and i think that's where you need to kind of like sit and reflect because yes the the what actually happened like the message asking to play over what overwatch what's wrong with you sorry overwatch asking to play overwatch and the heart eyes and the screenshot of the message and whatever like yes there are some people who could be like oh well i don't really care whatever like yeah he's a gamer he loves his game but he's with me every day plays with like whatever not bothered like yeah he loves his emojis don't care yeah but i think the fact that that at the end of the day that is irrelevant because as i've said many times this is your relationship these are your boundaries and I do think it's very telling that it has been a year and this is still like a prevalent issue in the relationship this still like repeatedly comes up anytime you guys have a kind of like an argument or someone says something it's readdressed and we're talking about it and I just don't think that it's very clear that you can't get past this and that's not your fault that's no one's fault but like you've literally trust was broken yeah you for some people that might be water off a duck's back for others that is like earth shattering yeah and i think this has really rocked you and unfortunately like your relationship now is not what it was you are now in a relationship where you're checking your boyfriend's phone every now and again the same relationship you're thinking when he's out where are you who's he talking to what's he doing you're worried if you don't get a reply in 15 minutes things to do with overwatch are triggering you like gaming who's he talking to like I don't want you to be and that's not normal in a relationship like you shouldn't feel I must check his phone what's going on what's he doing I've not heard back from him where is he like I don't want you to feel like every relationship feels like that because it doesn't and I think because this is your first one this is all you know and I just don't want you to be in a happy relationship but I don't feel like you're very happy.

1:00:28And for you, like the trust was broken. Yeah. And you've tried really hard for a whole year. I mean, have you thought about not being together? Like, how does that make you feel? Like if the thought of like, okay, well, it's either being with him or not. How does not being with him feel? Like, how does the thought of like other guys make you feel? Like a clean slate with someone, like building from afresh, not having this like baggage something that you're constantly worrying about but I feel like when it's stuff like this you have to like especially when it's been a year for your own sanity Sarah you have to just be like right I'm actually just gonna let that go let it go and because it's not fair on either of you at this point he's apologised I will forgive him I'm never gonna mention it again and we're gonna try and rebuild from here on up because otherwise it's gonna be this roundabout If you kind of like put it in reverse, if you made a mistake in the relationship on whatever playing field that was and he chose to forgive you and you moved on, if then a year down the line he is still bringing that up, you'd be like, this isn't fair.

1:01:39Like I made a mistake. I apologize. We've worked really hard. We're a year on now. You can't keep bringing back old stuff. So I think I don't think it's fair on either of you that you're still kind of revisiting this issue. that happened a year ago i think if you're going to forgive we need to forgive and forget um you know if we can't forget that's absolutely fine like you don't have to you don't have to forgive and forget if you can't you don't have to stay in a relationship that means that you can't be with this guy because it's not thriving it's not sounding very healthy at the moment i mean i've like real re rebuilding trust is very i i think it's very very difficult near to impossible like you know you had your trust broken you felt heartbroken and getting that rebuilt is really tricky really tricky like really really hard and I think you've really gave it a go you can keep trying you can you can keep track if you want the relationship then you're gonna have to let it go you're gonna have to you're gonna have to make peace with the fact that you've chosen to forgive and forget yeah and you love him and you want to be with him and it was a mistake and I'm okay, it was fine.

1:02:52I know he would never do it again. We've communicated about it. He does this, he does this, he does this, but I then can't bring it up again because it's not fair. Or it's just like, actually, like you saw that girl, you thought I'm going to message her. You sent the emoji, you then blocked her. You tried to keep it hidden from me. Like if those things, factors are still playing on your mind, like it wasn't just a message with a cute little emoji it was a lot more than that which i think it was a little bit yeah i do understand yeah then you you that's it you maybe it's time to draw a line under it yeah and i'm really sorry brian because i actually really appreciate you saying look me too look i don't want this to be troubling you anymore like get get some get some advice see what people other people think like but this is your relationship sarah exactly if you can't get over something you can't get over Like Soph said, some people were like, oh, whatever, DM, I don't care.

1:03:50Yeah. Like what, she was in Australia, like we're in fucking Birmingham. Like, don't matter. But I'd be the same as you, Sarah. Like that to me is like, excuse you? Oh, yeah. What? Who do you think I am? You're messaging other girls on TikTok. No. Asking them to, you know. With heart eye emojis. With heart eye emojis and asking them to fucking play a game. I wouldn't be able to get over that, Sarah. Me neither. Because it's like, I'd be exactly the same as you, Sarah. and I probably would be in your situation because maybe I wouldn't have broken up with him at the time. I know. At the time it's like, well then you're sort of thinking it would have been easier if you actually physically cheated because it would be more of a line in the sand and I would know what I wanted to do.

1:04:26Because it's this like new age. But this half-assed like, oh, am I okay with that? Am I not? Like it doesn't make me feel good, but. It's like new age of cheating. It is. Like, okay, he, did he want to sleep with her? Maybe not. But he messaged her that she's an attractive woman. sent heart eyes clearly being like oh my god I'm not sending heart eye messages to guys on Animal Crossing exactly so exactly that's the point Sarah if you wouldn't do that to a member of the opposite sex yourself message a stranger with heart eyes then that's your boundary the fact that he's done it is like no no you've got a lot of thinking to do Sarah you do but I do think I know you'll make the right decision just do what's best for yourself but if you're having to weigh up pros and cons and think oh it's not right I agree Brian Brian's gonna be forever triggered by this podcast now yeah he's gonna hate us any new girlfriend Brian hates us he actually hates us any new who listens to the girls bathroom trigger trigger trigger Brian's gonna say that we were the reason his relationship but we weren't but we weren't as well he was because he sent high emojis on overwatch what were you thinking Brian what the hell was going through your brain he wasn't thinking he thought she's from Australia I'll block her she's never gonna know right it's time to restore our faith with star of the week absolutely sorry brian it's not you this week gamer boy unfortunately star of the week this week and we sarah here um well actually mia hi mia hi mia uh would like to nominate her dad as star of the week oh i love this hi girls i'd actually like to nominate my dad as brian of the week my brian my dad sorry my dad went above and beyond this week with the ariana grande pre-sale he used his o2 priority and sat for hours to try and get tickets for me and my niece oh oh sadly we couldn't get them but we love a determined dad what a legend oh i thought that was gonna be a happy story i know me too i thought and he got us the front row and we are so excited.

1:06:33We got VIP meet and greet. Oh, well, I mean, we didn't get tickets either. No. Here are pics of me, Mia, Dad, Andrew. Andrew! Oh, Andrew! What a lovely Andrew. We appreciate the willingness. And determination. And we appreciate the want to make your daughter happy. We love that. We love that. Thanks, Mia and Andrew. Andrew! hopefully maybe we get some resale i know but you know they're gonna come at a price of here but maybe it could be mia's christmas and birthday present yeah thank you andrew that would be nice that would be lovely andrew why don't you get us tickets too we have some as well like we're kind of dying to go we'll pay half we can go half yeah we can go half these if you put in the effort to find the tickets yeah all right guys thank you so much for listening to another wednesday episode you can email your dilemmas to hello at the girls bathroom you can indeed uh you can follow us on instagram tiktok and youtube at the girls bathroom if you're a part of the group chat we'll see you on monday for a bonus episode if not we'll see you back next wednesday

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