Girl Talk: I’ve got TikTok beef with his ex

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1:16Hi Hi guys Hi Oh, should we sing our new favorite song? And even the mean girls. Even the mean girls. If you know, you know Cat's Eye. And I really like M.I.A. actually. Sing. I'll go M.I.A. I had it on a gym this morning. And I was like, oh, it's jumping in here. Yes. Jumping. Jumping in here. Yeah, we went to see Cat's Eye. Because you know what? It's in London last week. You know what song gets me hype? It's tit for tat. Oh, always. That was my running song. Thought I might love you. Let's go back to bed. Yeah, it really gets you in the room. And you strive. It does, doesn't it? Yeah, really nice.

1:57Well, we're here live and direct on this fine Wednesday. We are. Welcome back again to the news. I've got mint water. If you didn't tune in last week. Yeah, that's true. Welcome back to the new set. Absolutely. We've settled in a bit more now, haven't we? Yeah. We were a bit awkward last week because we felt like we didn't really know our surroundings. So apologies for that. Well, change is scary for everyone, including us. Including us. And we're settled in. We feel like we need to get some pillows and blankets. A blanket would be nice. Because a blanket, you know. Just to cover the toots. Because I want to sit like this, but it's giving seal.

2:28So just to cover. Chinsy's got her legs sideways for the audio listeners only. So just, you know, for my modesty as well. I don't want to crotch up. Absolutely. Well, I've got my denim on today. Don't want me to. Twins. Don't want a vagina. Flash on the internet. Well, the tea is, is that my nipple is on the internet. Whereabouts? From my Coachella top. Occasionally. Oh, boy, is it on the internet. Occasionally I get messages saying, just like, you know, like we can see a nipple yeah through the beat we could see it on the day as well but that was the but it looked like a bead because all the beads were like pinky fleshy tones so a little nipple popping through it's camouflaging right in but it wasn't really an issue but also like in my defense i thought the beads were going to be bigger on that one yeah usually they are and then it was just a hole in the nipple area you know and even when you move the nipple to the side it would be looking you know it then it'd be like why is your nipple coming out your armpit what's going on yeah honestly once a month it'd be like just let you know no way just let you know i was watching the kachala vlog kachala vlog and i could see you in the vlog it's in it yeah quite on it with that sorry i was an i know myself i should have blurred it well i didn't even notice yeah come on sorry well lydia's put like my full body naked in the back of her vlog before she's had to take it down you're joking she's vlogging i'm in the shower in the back it's like the mirror reflection of a reflection but like i'm there showering and she had to take the vlog down yeah she's such she's my biggest oh my god yeah wow she's definitely yeah she's a rough edge naked on the internet yeah what are we doing but you know naked and afraid sometimes it happens naked and afraid what a show yeah what a show you know we're all beings as adam and eve we've got the same bits really exactly it's nothing to be ashamed of right right should we dive into the question of the week welcome back happy wednesday thanks for tuning in absolutely as all my my mike is sinking and sinking and sinking mine's so high i'm so well mine's sinking i i'm like i just raised it be okay do you want to re-judge before you know we're going to be here for an hour and a half guys to get comfy a bajillion times make sure it's real tight it is i fear this whole time i've We're using the wrong hinge.

4:44The wrong screw. Oh, it's solid. Yeah. It's rock hard. This mic's faulty. We need a new mic. Who's using the wrong screw? Oh, for years and years, we've been using the wrong screw to adjust that. Has no one been correct? That's for the heights. What have you been doing? I've been doing it there. Right, anyway. Poor thing. Wow, look at that. It's so sturdy. Right, we're going to dive into the question of the week. The question. Taking away she's can't wait. I'm going to sit back, relax. Yeah, you know what? I'll take the responsibility of your hands today. I could do with it this week. Question of the week.

5:17Question of the week. I didn't get the tone right just then. It's all about pitch. It is. What's the most random item you've kept for emotional reasons? I mean, my mum has my hair. Absolutely. My mum's got my belly button. That knocks me sick, actually. That actually makes me feel really uncomfortable. Don't be mean. It's black. Fiona. She's got my belly button. Yeah. I'm going to keep my kids belly buttons. Did she eat her umbilical cord? The placenta, I believe. No, she didn't. I'm going to definitely be eating it though. Are you? Yeah. Make it into a smoothie? Put it in your porridge? Well, I'm going to have to get over my fear of tablets.

5:56I'm going to make it into tablet form. You could powder it down, make it into electrolytes. Add some salt. Yeah. You can send it off and get it made into tablets. Really? Yeah. Your placenta. It's a legit thing. I guess I'll have to do that too if that's what the health freaks are doing. Yeah, I'm going to give it a go. When the time's right, of course. Yeah, make your breast milk taste delicious. I'll be saving my child's belly button, I think. And their first tooth. I don't want the belly button, but I'll have the tooth and the hair. How could you throw it away? And it gets to that point where it's like, you know, I think she probably wishes now that she never kept it.

6:34But now it's like, Fiona, you've held on for 27 years. You can't get rid of it now. You just got to keep hanging on. Sorry. so does she keep is she held on to it because that's what connected her to you well your belly button falls off when you're a baby oh of course she didn't grab it in the delivery room right it falls off where's mine then mine must have just been straight in the bin by the sounds of it

7:02well when blueberries maybe she hung on to it for a bit and then but you know maybe when maybe she didn't know how to dispose of it maybe then the other girls came along She thought, I've got one. I don't need it. Maybe she's still got Marianas, you know, the baby of the family. I should ask, but I've never heard. I've not. I've seen it. Yeah. I always used to get cracked out the wardrobe. So that would be Fiona's. I've not really got too much. I just hold on to birthday cards, any cards. My bedside table is full of cards. I can't throw cards away. I have to be more selective now about who's wrote the best message.

7:34But I always keep my cards. But that's not really a random thing to hold on to. which is quite a shame you should hold on to them yeah I should I've got one like one that's nice then yeah I'll make sure you get a really nice message in your Christmas card and maybe that'll make the cut for you yeah thank you start the collection that would be really nice or I could get you a memory box do you have a memory box do I? no you should get a memory box see I thought I was a hoarder but I'm not I actually can cut with things very easily you ain't a hoarder babes yeah gosh I've just got stuff. You know?

8:10But you're not holding it. No. Yeah. But I'll hold on to my Sunny Angels for my life. Absolutely. Well, they're special. Yeah, they're collectible. Yes. I don't think I'm a hoarder. No, you're not. Definitely not. Don't think so. I'm a minimalist. Yeah. Got to just get rid. I think I used to be a bit more of a hoarder. Really? Yeah. But now, I mean, the thing that they say, I mean, more so with like clothing. When you're having a clear out, going to the charity shop, all that stuff, clothing bin. They say if you wouldn't buy it again, you shouldn't keep it. And if you've not worn it in the past six months, that's the rule.

8:44Oh, that's a good rule as well. That's not an accurate rule always though, because it might be winter clothes. Yeah, but it's like, have you worn that this year? No, but I might. You might. But that's why the question about if you walked into a shop, saw it today, tried it on, would you go, yeah, I'm going to buy it. Would you spend the money on it today? If not, maybe you're never going to wear it again. Yeah. Well, Oxfam Kings Road has a lot of my shit. Seriously. Get to know. No, seriously. I'm actually going to go down there. They have a lot of my stuff. Rebuy some of your stuff. Yeah. Oxfam Kings Road, shout out.

9:16They've got a big load of stuff. Right. What's the most random item you've kept for emotional reasons? Your responses. My old teeth. Yeah. Yes. That's classic. I think I'm going to keep blueberries baby teeth when they fall out, if I find them. They'll just be on the floor, like little needles. They'll be hard to find. Well, apparently she might swallow them. Used earbuds. That's very scary. Wait, how long for? That's very scary. How long are you holding that for? She must like the smell. Wasn't there like, you know, those people with those freaky habits, like that lady who would like eat rocks.

9:52You know that show we liked on ABC, TLC. It was like, I just like the taste of rocks. What, like the guy that was in love with his car and shit like that? Yeah, got it. Nibbling on the rocks. I'm sure there was someone who was collecting something in a jar that was belly button related. Oh, yeah. Sounds like Fiona, apparently. One of you ladies said, my dead dog's fur. That makes me really sad. Oh no, because I'll actually cry. That's really heartbreaking. Hampster poo from when I was 11. Shout out guinea pigs. Oh my gosh. Shout out Henry. Shout out. You know, you know. My boyfriend's bloody boxers from when he lost his virginity Wait, why weren't his boxes bloody?

10:36Oh, Sarah, that's not right Wait, Sophia, why did he have blood? Maybe it was some of hers and it just got on his boxes Oh, Sarah Surely his woolly wasn't bleeding Oh, I hope not My first bra, that's lovely That's cute I'd love my first bra I remember my first bra I'm sure Marianna's got my first bra You know, she wears stuff that I used to wear like 10 years ago, Mariana. Like Topshop t-shirts. Nice, vintage. And like little bits. Nice. My first bra was from Tesco. It was pink, pad. It was white, padded with pink hearts on it. Oh. I got it in year six. Yes. And I remember we had PE the next day and we were in a white t-shirt.

11:14I was like, everyone can see my bra under this. Like everyone can see my bra under this. Connell McNally like that. Little pink hearts on it was so cute. Yeah. Do you like my bra? I've got tits now. I remember the day. It was such a good day. I think my first one was a turquoise from M &S. Sleigh. A little turquoise, little black line with little white hearts on it. Gosh. Purr. We've got a box of Tic Tacs. My year seven crush gave me. I'm 20 now. That's really cute. Oh, Sarah, that's lovely. We've got a dead bee. Oh, yeah. But that's, yeah, because it sacrificed its life. Oh, so you've held on to it.

11:49That's quite nice. It's quite sweet, I guess. We've got a playing card from a magician I slept with at my cousin's wedding. Oh, that's cool. That's so cool. That's cool for the memory box. Not everyone can say that. Right, you read some. Right. Aw, cinema ticket from our first date. We're married now. That's really nice. That is lovely. Boyfriend's beard hair in the back of my phone case. No. It's like what we're doing these days, guys. Guys, come on. Like, it's continuously growing. Like, we don't need to hold on to it, do we? My baby's umbilical cord. That's nice. Sweet. my cat's whiskers that's really cute positive pregnancy test that's lovely a long chip from primary school a crisp yeah no a chip a chip we had some great chips the other day didn't we i feel like some of the best chips we've ever had in our whole life they were flat and long and crispy edges but so salty like we were eating them like oh my god there's something about the flatness and the width of the chip they were it was almost a wedge but it wasn't a wedge it was a chip and they were so good oh he's used bloody plaster that's got a smell as well that is not nice right rounding off here my first ever coil fair i didn't realize they gave you those back you must have to request it oh fair enough yeah i thought she was gonna say her first tampon or something so i was quite pleasantly surprised with the coil yeah oh that was very interesting guys thank you so much i enjoyed that thank you let's get into some dilemmas absolutely

13:32just before we get into it quick disclaimer just as we are not doctors we are not professionals we do not actually know what we are talking about this is a light-hearted space okay don't take what we say literally because we could be wrong yeah and if there's anything serious if there's anything you feel like you're seriously struggling with, please contact a GP, a professional, because that is not us. We're just girls, girls and boys just like you, you know? We're just trying to get through life as well. Not professionals. Enjoy the episode.

13:59Okay, we're going to start here. I feel like we really enjoy this topic of like palm reading, spirits, predictions, especially off the back of Halloween. Especially off the back of Halloween. Shout out Malvina Crutz. we'll never forget Malvina be at peace Malvina at peace be with you peace be with you if I name my child Malvina it's none of your business I like the name did the palm readings reveal it all okay this is you see this is why I'm actually too scared to get a reading of Eddie's kind unless it's on TikTok remember we had that really weird reading that time it made me lose all faith to be honest at the House of CB party 2018 18 yeah i forget lydia came off this reading like oh my god that was amazing that was just and we were like oh my god i guess we should do it like we're at this party there's a palm reader here let's just go for it i didn't have the same experience no she said the same things with both i think yeah and it wasn't correct she was like like she was like she didn't know what to say she was panicking maybe we were too um like closed off i don't think we were as receptive as she needed us to be but i was like well i want to see i want to see what you've got your powers yeah yeah anyway it was a high pressure environment it was it was a noisy environment me and my friend let's call her susan decided to go and see this palm reader that everyone's been raving about everyone earlier this week she must be popping off in the local area in sheffield she's one of those spiritual women who gives you some spiritual reading so we honestly going to go see what she says because you know I love astrology so I thought why not Susan goes in first she comes out smiling all mysterious saying wow that was deep but she didn't really tell me much I didn't push it we're close but not that close anymore yeah because what if they were talking about her family personal things and she just said wow that was deep yeah that was deep for context I've been friends with Susan for like five years since uni we met through mutual friends she got with my boyfriend's best friend at the time when I broke up around two years ago.

16:04Okay. Then it's my turn. Oh my God. I sit down. The reader takes my hand, closes her eyes and suddenly her whole vibe shifts. I'd like... I'd say get out. I gotta get out. Yeah, I just wouldn't like that. She says, there's someone close to you who isn't being completely honest. Oh. So I'm like, okay, but then... Best friend, she's just read her. Yeah. Is it the friend? I don't know. Maybe. But then she says, this person... Oh my God, it is. Maybe. This person is a friend, but she has a sexual connection to someone you love. Shut up. I froze. She leans in and says, be careful. The energy between them is secretive, but it's strong.

16:53Shut up. This is too much. Can you imagine being told that? No. Actually. That is crazy. Is she hinting then that it was the friend that she's just read? I think she's saying, be careful. Yeah, it's her. Honestly, the way she spoke to me really made me feel like it was about Susan. Like she was warning me about the girl she just did a reading for. Oh God. So it gets a bit messy here. Susan has an OnlyFans. I've always known about it and honestly, it never bothered me. You know, it's her hustle. It's her business. Is her boyfriend subscribed? Potentially. but my boyfriend has brought it up a few times not in a creepy way but enough that i noticed he'll say things like oh susan's doing really well on only fans you know she's got loads of subscribers and now i'm sitting here wondering how do you know that i never told him her username and as far as i know he's never followed her yeah because it's not like it's going to be susan 123 three like it'll be like kitty cat you know at sheffield one two three yeah but now i'm thinking it'd be a stage name right absolutely a persona if you will yeah but now i'm thinking what if he did what if he followed her and she knows because that would make this whole palm situation way too real subscribed so now i'm spiraling do i confront her do i bring it up with him or do i pretend i don't know and just watch how they act around each other because if the palm reader's right and there really is some kind of secret energy between them what do i do would really love your advice i've spoken to a few friends that also know her okay and they've said it could be true because she's very flirty and in the past she has crossed the line with friends boyfriends please help this is the two girls all we've got that's all we've got about the palm reader Gorgeous girls Blonde and a brunette Gorgeous duo Right I think it might not necessarily be from her I think she's picked upon That your boyfriend is watching her content And is feeling that sexual attraction that way I think that could be it too Susan may be un Well all you need to do Like unaware of Go on OnlyFans Click sign up Put your boyfriend's email in Exactly Sorry this account already exists Exactly That's the trick It's very easy Yeah So And then if Ben's shocked.

19:18Yeah, Ben will try your email next. We'll try your email next, Ben. Just kidding. But that's a great. But just go on his phone. If you can't, if that one doesn't work, just go on his phone. You need to find out. Yeah, I think so. Just find out first. Because this may be nothing. Like it may be absolutely nothing. Yeah. But I mean, listen, you know, she said it. I wouldn't put it past him that he was curious. What Susan posting on there? Yeah, Susan's doing quite well. don't you think yeah seems to be you know posting her links on her stories pretty frequent susan i think is unaware she's just making her money she's just a sexual being making her money on her fans doing nothing wrong but it'd be him that because also like him bringing it up like oh like it's curiosity isn't it like mentioning susan thinking like if he was let's say guilty surely he wouldn't be bringing it up like oh she's doing really well she's getting really good numbers true but boys are stupid like that they because you usually usually when boys fancy someone they're like gonna speak negatively that's be like oh i can't believe she's doing that like oh i'm really like to throw you off the scent so the fact that he's being quite complimentary makes me think maybe not true unless he's just true no that is true when boys fancy someone they will talk bad about the woman if they're in a relationship yeah to throw you off course yeah because it's like oh she's like oh he's so she's so annoying but really like that's the biggest red flag it means he fancies her so much and is in love with her because like why are you speaking back about her yeah she's done nothing she's done nothing yeah she's fine but let us know do your research and then email us back and maybe revisit the palm reader see if you know now she's found one thing can we be a bit more specific yeah or is that not how it works yeah maybe take your boyfriend put his palm in yeah you know see what yeah there we go that'll be good absolutely you just cover his ears so you can just get all the information yeah leave take take your phone in voice memo yeah leave your phone oh sorry i'll leave yeah i think when he's in the shower grab his phone let's just have a quick check that's what we've got to do ben's shocked he's learning all these new tips gotta change the only fan she's a name don't leave phone in room voice memos could be running phone will get checked we're making you so paranoid right all right next up this message is brought to you by today's sponsor walden university set a course for change now is the time to make a real change in your life career and community at walden university we give you the support and flexibility to get the w walden's online programs are designed for working professionals like you.

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23:04Right, I think we have a friend situation here. Let's dive in. Maybe some turbulence within a friendship group. Turbulent times. Because our Sarah here says she made a TikTok trying to expose us. And then cancelled our hotel. It's like the Gen Z version of an indirect Facebook post, isn't it? Just a TikTok. Well, it's like, remember Ask a Fam? oh the horrors of ask fm it's like that ask fm yeah anxiety inducing like what even was that why would we do why are we putting ourselves through that but obviously if anyone doesn't know who ask fm what ask fm is right what even was it from memory it was just like everyone if you made an account like you had a page and people could just ask you questions on that but anonymously totally anonymous yeah so you would put on your facebook like ask me whatever like ask fm and then like people would ask you questions and you had no idea would it be like rate me yeah rate me on my ask fm no or like and people like so scary like people would just like troll each other on nasty things and you'd get sometimes like three stars horrible questions and it'd be like yeah who's wrote that like it's someone i know because i've shared the link on my Facebook it was like just getting hate from like your mates secretly I don't think I put myself out there to be like I did did you I didn't say rate me but I had asked yeah did I yeah we all had so I really was like hi guys like yeah ask me a question it wasn't rate me it was like ask me a question but some people would be like rate me uh right okay shit I literally unlocked memory that has ask fm so yeah tiktok is just like that's that for but just more public more yeah and then it'd be at school the next day like god did you see like sarah's ask fm last night like everyone was no awful awful awful it's not good i think the school that's like making me anxious hi girls i've been listening to your pod for almost a year now and i'm obsessed it gets me through my drive to work gym sessions and walks thank you sarah thank you sarah i met a boy brian at cream fields festival of this year party we have we've never been cream cream fields we haven't no we've been seeing each other for a couple of months now we get along so well have similar interests we like music and running and he's also really good in bed which is a plus love it sarah sounds like dreamy my best friend who like this love it sounds dreamy my best friend who I went with is now dating his best mate wow dream dream situation okay power couples which is cute really cute we can all go to the Christmas markets together get a hot chocolate yeah that's just lovely share a crap absolutely we have a double date coming up at the start of November so this sounds like a lovely foursome love it guys it's just lovely Brian and I met on day two of the festival and spent every day together after that you know what I would love to go to a festival meet someone and fall in love Coachella here we come absolutely kind of quite bonding as well to meet at a festival I think so because if you guys are camping and also like you're gonna see me yeah you know I'm a bit filthy yeah my hair's greasy and I've slept in a tent.

26:30Yeah, yeah. You wait till I come around freshly showered, freshly blow-dried. You don't want to know what's hit you. You wait till you see me with a fresh blow-dry. You wait till you see me with a bit of makeup on. Yeah, that's lovely. Yeah. So on the last day, okay, right, this is where it gets. On the last day, he told me that he had been seeing a girl, Susan. What? But obviously they weren't official. And she wasn't at the festival. No, so it's like, I've met you, but I was seeing a girl, but I'm just letting you know now. Right. Typical. but it wasn't anything serious and he was thinking of deadening it off with her.

27:01Right. Okay. I wasn't too phased because I didn't think I would see him again. True. Right. But lo and behold, a date was planned for two weeks after the festival. On our second date, which was the Friday after the first date, he told me he had finally ended it with Susan. Okay, so we've been on two dates since the festival. Yeah. He said me and Susan are through, you know, all of that. Okay. And that she didn't take it well. this is where things get odd first of all Susan tried to get Brian fired from his job and then then kept messaging his mum I don't know what about she tried to get him sacked shit that's a lot messaging his mum I mean yeah that's a good card do you know what your son's been doing he's been doing this this and this especially if the mum liked you yeah telling me to make the biggest mistake of his life yeah then on the Monday after our second date I woke up in the morning to miss calls messages from Brian saying that someone had hacked all of his accounts and if I receive any messages then it's not from him so she's hacked his account I mean that's a great move she's on her revenge arc yeah she's angry she's got time on her hands and she's angry and she's ready to put in the work yeah and she's proven that she's really talented at that okay Okay.

28:25So Brian's warning you. I've been hacked. I've been hacked. The last message he sent that night said, I know who it is. It's Susan. Okay, so we sorted it out. Due to this, she was able to see all of our Instagram chats and our iMessage chats and was able to figure out who I was. I then checked my social media accounts and see I have a message request on my business Instagram account from someone I don't know. not the business i press on the message and can see it's from susan i recognize her profile picture and brian as brian showed it showed me what she looks like and showed me that picture before i definitely don't have anything to worry about lol oh oh sarah we love the confidence the message starts hi sarah i'm susan and i'm brian's ex-girlfriend i froze a bit in shock because brian had told me it wasn't that serious between them right so girlfriend of course so already we're thinking okay so has brian lied what do you mean i was told it was not was not you would just had i thought you just like had a few dates and like that was really it girlfriend it's just like oh so now you've been lying this is just gonna change and also like oh so you were cheating at the festival with me yeah like didn't know that every right to be angry yeah okay so what else has she said hi i'm brian's ex-girlfriend i froze because Brian had told me it wasn't that serious.

29:49I read the rest of the message. It bored me, to be honest. I screenshot it, sent it to Brian and my best friend and blocked her. I hope this was the end of it. Okay, so that didn't phase you, the ex-girlfriend thing. You just blocked her and moved on. An hour later, I was at the gym. I get a TikTok notification that someone had commented on one of my videos. I click on it and guess who it is? Yeah, it's Susan saying, quote, flowers you got from your boyfriend. I had posted a vlog a week before and the flowers I got from him were shown. I decide I see Bea for this, so I press on her account and block her.

30:25And as I do, I see her most recent TikTok is titled, My Boyfriend Cheated On Me. Oh my God. Oh my God. Oh my God. This is like influencer beef. Oh my God. I watched the TikTok and there she is, projecting for the world to hear that her boyfriend has cheated on her. Oh my God. And that it's still ongoing and that she finds it funny because we have similar names. she even inserted a photo of me and brian at the festival oh my god so she's saying the kids are doing this this is crazy well she's trying to drag him down and you yeah just put your picture i know but if but fair enough if he's cheated like let's out the cheaters absolutely i know we need to out the cheaters but she could have blacked out your face true that was unnecessary True, true.

31:13So she, yeah, I screen recorded it, sent it to Brian and blocked her. He then contacted her to tell her to take it down, which she did. This all happened on Monday morning before 8am. Oh my God. Oh, what a busy day. That's too much before the sunrise. By 10pm, you're thinking, oh my God. What a day. And I was only in week two of my new job. So I really didn't have time or the energy to be dealing with this. I mean you still seem unfazed that she's saying cheated yeah because you're just kind of blocking her yeah two weeks after the TikTok saga Brian and I had a hotel booked as we were staying in London for the night for my friend's birthday when we checked into the hotel they said our booking was cancelled

31:58she's hacked to the booking.com I fear this girl is genius I'm sorry that is genius The booking.com. Yeah. Because of course she had access or the Airbnb or whatever. She's a smart crookie. She's a smart crookie. Yeah, the booking was cancelled. We both looked at each other confused and panicked thinking how has it been cancelled? Where will we stay now? The receptionist said it was cancelled via the website yet Brian booked it via an app. It's got to be booking.com. Yeah. You can log into them easy. She's cancelled it. They also said it was cancelled in the early hours of Tuesday morning. Yet Brian was asleep at that time.

32:39And why would he cancel the room after booking it? She's cancelled it. It was Susan Hundro. Yeah. Brian then said that he remembers getting a notification on his email about too many failed logins. He thought it was weird, but nothing more. That's when it clicked. Susan must have hacked into his emails after eventually figuring out the password. God, Susan is a hacker. I'm kind of scared of Susan. Yeah, seeing the confirmation of the hotel booking, assumed it was for us too and cancelled it. luckily the hotel was able to get back our booking in the room was still available this incident made us very late for my friend's birthday which was a bit embarrassing as it was brian's first time meeting my friends but at least it was a good conversation starter she's really angry isn't she she well understandably so do i cheated on her so do i you cheat you went to a festival i don't think she you would act like this if it was just someone you were seeing like this is giving like this is my long-term relationship yeah and you've cheated on me so i'm gonna make your life hell i think this was her boyfriend she said have a good time at creamfields love you love you see you when you get back and he was probably like i won't have much internet while i'm there because you know we're in a field yeah but i love you see you in three days and then after that came back he's cheated on you and dumped you like i'd be pissed off too i'd be hacking all sorts as well so would i like i would i'd be slashing tires yeah we'd be out there so i mean yeah i stand behind susan but obviously this is affecting you sarah so we're sorry sarah um so okay so now sarah's concerns are growing because she said to this day i'm still unsure whether brian is being truthful about with me about how serious or unserious they were being truthful i don't think susan's making this up i don't i don't think you would behave like that if it was just a guy i think it's very clear what we've literally just said that this was a proper relationship.

34:29Girlfriend and boyfriend, probably for quite a while. I think so. And she was broke up with, cheated on out of the blue and she's thought, what the fuck? Yeah. And to see that he's jumped straight into another relationship. Yeah. That was very hurtful. Yeah.

34:47She said, but as you guys say, ignorance is bliss. I mean, maybe not in this instinct. I mean, I do live by that, but not maybe not. But this is not, you are not ignorant this is happening in front of you all the time this is affecting your daily life every single day it's like the universe is trying to show you like he's not telling the truth like with the messages she messaged you then with the hotel like this behaviour is not of someone who was just casually seeing this guy this was his guilt I mean look Sarah here says she's like she doesn't want to know more she said ignorance is bliss I actually don't want to know any more about the ins and the outs of what really went on between them so she's just like I don't know I've got the guy now.

35:26I don't want to, which is fair enough. Like she's not, she doesn't want to know. Just to reiterate, I don't condone cheating. And technically I feel like I've done nothing wrong because as far as I knew, he was single. Yeah. So you've done nothing wrong. You've just been led astray. You've been lied to is what's happened. I know. And if you're okay with that and if you're like, look, if this is the way he got me, this is the way he got me. But if it was me, I wouldn't be happy with that. I wouldn't be happy with that. Knowing that he lied to me and he got with me. It's already started on a lie.

35:56And also now I know that, okay, so you've cheated on her. You could cheat on me. You're capable of it. You just lied. Our relationship has started on a lie. Yeah. And that's really sad. But Sarah says she doesn't care. She doesn't want to know, which is fair enough. Yeah, I've done nothing wrong because I, as far as I knew, he was single. Yeah, sorry, you're fine. Susan has every right to be upset. I would be if I was in her position, but I would never dream of turning into a crazy bean. She's also a few years older than me, so that's so the way she's handling this situation is baffling me. Susan has since tried to contact me again using different Instagram accounts but I've not been giving it any time of day.

36:36She's also contacted Brian via email because she's blocked me because she's been blocked on everything saying she wants him back even after all of this. Oh wow. She's hurting. She's really hurting. So my question is is am I being naive in believing the story Brian is telling me or should i give susan the chance to share her side if things between me and brian don't work out and i lose him and i lose him how i gained him then then i've already given my best friend permission to write mug on my forehead so you've said to your friend that i could be the wall could be being pulled over my eyes right now thanks for taking the time to read from a worried but also not worried sarah yeah you seem very cool you seem like very calm yeah yeah you're a Cool bean.

37:21I think you just like, we've got a picture of the group attached as a pic of us. At Creamfields. Not the best ones as we are drunk. It's like a group of 15 people, Sarah. I don't know which one. It's like a dating app. Right. Which one are you? Oh, okay. I think, I think it's the couple on the left. Okay, let's see. He's holding her from behind. Holding her waist. Is it giving new love? It's giving passion, yeah. I think it's these two. Gorgeous. Oh, gorgeous if it is. Yeah, because the rest of the group, I'm not sure what's, I don't know who's. Yeah, I'm not getting much intimacy there. I think this is our Brian and Sarah.

37:56Look at this, it's intimate. Yeah, that's intimate. I mean, Sarah, you sound pretty confident and like you sound pretty okay with the situation. I think your head's like, you're very aware of what's happened. Like you're not burying your head in the sand. You know that, I think he has probably lied to. I think he was definitely in a relationship when he met you. He definitely cheated on his girlfriend with you. yeah he's gone home and broke up with her and now he's with you but yeah I think there was definitely a crossover there I don't think Susan would be acting the way she was if she was just a random girl that had gone on like three dates with him I think she's really heartbroken I think she's really going through it I think she feels really betrayed like she has been betrayed she's been cheated on but you know if that doesn't bother you you know then like more power to you and you just got to keep it keep it moving but if it is niggling at you sarah i i think it will only grow so you know what i mean like what happens when you guys like i know you're kind of honeymoon right now like it's uber uber uber fresh but what happens when you guys are two years in maybe he's like gone on a lad's holiday you've not really heard from him like is this all gonna come back up then that's what i think sarah if i was you if this was sophia i'd say look you need to you sort this out like get off scot-free with this like this is dodgy and also this is setting like those early weeks like set the tone of your relationship like what are you standing for and what are you not like and he now knows like oh she's she's figured out she's cool as a cucumber i've cheated on her she ain't bothered she's cool as a cute yeah like you are kind of letting him get away with this huge thing like fair enough if you still want to be with him that's your choice but I would at least expect like an explanation like I know that you're in a relationship like you know I'm like we are where we are now and like I do want to be with you and I am going to choose you but like I need you to respect me and like give me some honesty because I know that you weren't casually dating her I know she was your girlfriend and I'd like to hear it from you and at least he could give you that you need to press him on it because I don't like Sophia said when he goes on that stag do and he's been unresponsive for 18 hours.

40:07And he had a bit of an argument. Like, I don't want us to be stressed thinking that he's snogging some girl. Yeah. In Lanzarote. And then this will come back to haunt you if you don't address it now. We don't go stag do's in Lanzarote, do we? Do we not? Not Lanzarote. That's a family destination. Oh. We're going to Magalof. Ibiza. Xanti. Yeah, I think you need to say, whoa, whoa, hang on a minute. it i've actually this is i've been brushing this under the rug for a while now we've been blocking i yeah but actually she's telling me you were boyfriend and girlfriend so what the hell what the hell you need to show me receipts show me your phone like this isn't acceptable like did you cheat on her with me like if you did that's disgusting like how dare you this poor girl she's every right to be as angry as she is i feel sorry for her like don't you dare do that to me like is this your character like i would be going in on this guy she doesn't sound like she's that no i I know.

40:59I'd be breaking up with him, but I don't think you're that fussed. Right. So like, that's your call. I know you're cool as a cucumber, Sarah, but please promise me, if it's niggling at you a little bit, like, ooh, am I a mug? Am I a mug? Have I just been like, completely swindled? Please ask him some questions and put some pressure on him because I don't want him thinking, hey, hey, hey, lads. Look what I just did. Got away with it. Just got away, you know, like, no, because then he's... He's just relationship hot. Yeah, because then he's going to think he can get away with all sorts in this relationship because you're so cool as a cucumber.

41:31You've got to set the tone. Set the tone. If something's upset you, you're allowed to speak on it. It's not clocking to you. Standing on business. It's not clocking to you. It needs to clock for him that you're standing on business. But good luck, Sarah. Good luck, Sarah. And poor Susan. I hope Susan's doing well. Like she's going for some big heartbreak. Well, I hope Susan gets some closure and doesn't need to do more hacking. Maybe chat to Susan. I'd be so tempted. Sometimes a really good, healthy conversation with an ex-girlfriend could do the world all right. You know, could help Sarah out and help you out.

42:03Help you both out. I would hear her out. I'd have to. I'd be so curious. I'd have to know what she wanted to say. You get the story. You know? Yeah. We'll find out what happened. I think. I think you should. I would talk to her. Me too. She keeps trying to contact you. I couldn't not. Yeah. I'd be like, go on, then what? I'd say, let's FaceTime. Come on. We'd probably be the best of buds. Yeah. We've clearly got a common interest. We actually would be the best of buds if it wasn't for this loser twat. Sorry, Zorina, that's your boyfriend.

42:34Next one here. Why is she in the group chat? The GC. Think. Like back in the day, we didn't have group chats. It was MSN and that was it. Could you do a group chat on MSN? I don't think you could. It wasn't a thing. No. Isn't that crazy? Yeah. Yeah, that is crazy, actually. Hmm. please let me know if I'm overreacting or if my annoyance is justified okay I have a friend group of four boys and two girls one being me we have been friends since middle school skipping America United States yeah we are currently 27 I have been in a relationship for almost five years up until a few months ago I was the only one in the group in a relationship my boyfriend and my friends get along really well he will come to hang out with us sometimes but it's not a typical thing.

43:24One of my friends is now also in a relationship. They have only been together for four or five months and the relationship definitely moved very quickly. I have only met the girlfriend twice and she did not speak much to me either time. It is also my understanding that my other friends have only met her a few times as well. A couple of weeks ago, they all went to a weekend event but I wasn't able to attend after this event I noticed there is a new number in our group chat and it was added by the friend with the girlfriend right so this is his new girlfriend's been added to the group yeah I text my girl friend about it yeah and she says that she believes that it's his girlfriend I am not happy about this as this is the friend's group chat and this girlfriend has only been around for a few months in addition it's very bold in addition he didn't ask if it was okay if she was added he's excited he's getting over excited he's yeah he's getting ahead of himself maybe he was drunk when he did it i have never thought in the almost five years of me dating my boyfriend to add him into the friend group i was thinking of just making a new group chat without her in it right next time i want to say something however the girlfriend just introduced herself in the group chat which again you shouldn't be in the friend group chat if you have to introduce yourself we don't know you and said they are hosting a friends giving this year and asking for our availability that's fun i'm 100 being petty here but i really don't want to respond in the group as i feel uncomfortable and bothered that she's been added to the group so you're trying to ice her out yeah you're trying to let no one respond no one yeah yeah i've also spoken to two of my friends in this group chat and they also believe that they are also annoyed about her being there right i have nothing against her she seems totally fine i just it's a lot doesn't sound like you like her babes that's okay i understand you really matter twice she's not spoke to you yeah i just think it's a lack of respect of boundaries with the friend group on my friend's part what do you guys think am i overreacting Would you be annoyed?

45:36What would you do in this situation? I don't want her to think I don't like her, but I want him to understand there needs to be boundaries between the friend group and her. Appreciate your help. I love listening to the podcast. Thanks, Sarah. Right. Yeah. Can we just make a new group? I think the only thing we can do here is make a new group. All we can do. We can't remove her from the group. We don't have to advertise our new group. No. We can make it, you know, on the sly. Yeah. I think maybe what's happened here is, you know, there's four guys there's two girls you being one of them i think obviously she's met you she's obviously like hopefully spoken highly of you maybe she doesn't have many friends herself like we don't really know this girl yet maybe she doesn't have many mates yeah and maybe she's been speaking to her boyfriend like i really wish like i had some more friends like i don't know i'm just making all this up but i'm trying to pay a nice picture i think he's fallen madly in love with maybe he said you would love the girls like i think you'd really get along with them like you'll love sarah and season like do you know what let me add you in like you guys can get to know each other like maybe it was just a very innocent friendly thing but i understand why you're like what the hell why have we got this girl in our group chat we don't even know he wants her to slot in he wants her to slot in and he doesn't understand like with girls it takes a minute it takes time and also like we don't know her i've got nothing really to text her as of yet look you absolutely could have given her our number for her to invite us to the Friendsgiving that's a very generous invite love to attend love to attend absolutely can't wait we'll be there men probably don't understand how long it takes to build a female friendship and then to be invited into the GC as a friend as a solid friend of the group I'd agree and the men just don't get it he got excited he's acted on impulse he thought oh you're all gonna get on yeah here you go in the group and it's triggered the two of you ladies and you know i think all we can do here look i know you don't want to reply but let's let's be nice and kind this could be your new best friend i think let's you know i think let's be very open-minded you've got to appreciate she's coming into your group she's maybe slightly intimidated by you guys yeah she wants to be liked i imagine she wants you guys to really get along with her she wants you guys to approve i would be very like open arms.

47:56Just make a new GC. Make a new group chat. And call it no partners allowed. Yeah, like no boyfriends, no girlfriends. Just friends. The original six. Call it something like that. Yeah, the original six. And then you're letting Mr. Brian know, look, Brian. When the time's right, after two or three years, then she can. Then she can be added in after a few days. I've only met twice. I know. Oh, he got excited. He's actually quite cute. I'd like to think it was he just got, yeah, he was just happy he's he's in love and he's happy yeah and he wants everyone to be happy but i understand your frustration frustration sarah

48:36right we've got a tongue twister if i've ever had one she sells seashells on the seashore so everyone what's another tongue twister um red berry lullaby red berry what was that red lolly yellow lolly ready and what's the one peter piper picked a pecker people pecker all right let's try it red lolly yellow lolly red lolly yellow lolly yeah come on what's the peter one peter piper peter pepper peter peter pepper something something something something something she sells seashells on the seashore enunciation you know who'd be really good at that like musical theater absolutely yeah i bet it's amazing right so this is our tongue twister she slept with the girl my other ex cheated on me with on the seashore on the seashore she slept with the girl my other ex she so this same hang on i need to get my head around this right sophia let's put you to this we are in a relationship me and you oh okay in your dreams in your dreams so you have slept with another woman yeah my ex cheated on me with izzy yeah and my ex cheated on me with izzy as well so it's like this izzy is haunting us izzy what the hell because she is like she she's she's either out she's out to get us like was it is he coming after our partners does she hate us so izzy's the girl that you hate because she was cheated on she and now i've gone and slept with her my ex yeah cheated on me with izzy and my new girlfriend you has just done the same thing girlfriends i forgot yeah shit yeah so this izzy is coming after my life there's something about izzy yeah oh my god just fancy izzy like she's their type or whatever wow right hi girls oh that's really like that is the brutal of brutal because it's like do the girlfriends know are they aware like why is this is he always around why is she available but also why is she going after my girlfriend yeah does is he know that you're my girlfriend and does she know the pattern right does she know or is she unaware and it's just a coincidence or is she coming after us is it trying to ruin our lives possibly hi girls i've been here since the start of the youtube days and never thought about writing in until today welcome welcome in i'm writing this from a state of anger fury hurt betrayal and a full-blown emotional crash out why do lesbians do this is he okay right so is this a lesbian thing then i do kind of keep it all within the same circle it's a gay thing nods over here in the room nods is it i mean we had a gay guy gay friend that we were um we would go out with and all his mates had slept with the same people remember yeah but it was hard to find someone who like who had his friend hadn't slept with yeah who has been untouched yeah to get into it because there's no brian involved in this story and too many sarahs I'll be the Sarah and use the names Beth, Lucy and Jess.

51:59Oh God, I'm confused. For the other girls. What about Helen, Susan and Brianna? I know, but then I'm going to get confused reading it. So we've got Beth, Lucy and Jess and our girl writing in is Sarah. Beth, Lucy and Jess. Okay. Okay. I'm 26 now, but I guess this horror story started when I was 21. So Beth and I were together for two years. I was still a uni student when we first got together. Then I graduated and luckily went straight into a good grad job. Got my own place and she moved in. Life was good. Got it. So I was with Beth for two years. Sarah was. One day I was coming home from work to find that she disappeared.

52:40All her stuff gone. Beth had gone. Beth. And I fleed. Beth fled. Fled. Fleed. Beth got fleas. Beth just left Shit Shit Packed her stuff and went Yeah we've been together for two years She moved into my flat Wow That's giving like Yeah She's on the run And she's gonna get caught Well yeah it's giving fugitive It is yeah So Beth had gone And I didn't hear from her for two months Shit When she got back in contact with me Beth confessed That throughout our entire relationship She had also been in a relationship with Lucy Her best friend Oh So she was having a secret affair with Lucy But it was all under the Ruse of Lucy's my best friend I love Lucy Like a little sister She was always in my house Sleeping with your girlfriend Fingering your girlfriend Fingering your girlfriend in your own home Shit And now I knew why Oh my god So she ran off with Lucy I'm assuming I mean, she couldn't do it anymore.

53:50Oh my God. This is awful. I don't know how you recover from such betrayal, such betrayal. And neither do I. And to know, Sarah, something of the same sorts is about to happen to you again. I'm heartbroken. I think you need some new friends. Not only was I being cheated on, but it happened right under my nose and in my bed. She said, in my bed. Oh my God. Obviously went back into no contact with Beth and cut Lucy off too and got on with my life. God, it's a double loss. Yeah. It's brutal, that is. Anyway. Right, so that was Beth and Lucy. Oh my God, that's enough for one lifetime. I know, that is, isn't it?

54:28I can't believe this is like... Touch wood. Fast forward, I meet Jess. Enter stage left. Yes. Jess and I hit it off from the start. We were perfect for each other. And our lives just slotted together so nicely. This is lovely. Nice. She knew everything about me, including my hatred for both Beth and Lucy. Don't tell me Jess goes and sleeps with Lucy. After what they both did to me. Okay, so Jess is the new girlfriend. We filled her in on everything. The Lord, she gets it. She hates them too. She understands. Your enemies are her enemies. We're a united front. Of course. We're in love now. Of course.

55:07Lovers not fighters. After three years together. Oh no. Jess and I broke up after I moved back into my parents' house. Three years. Oh, no, no, no, no. Quickly, Jess decided she didn't want to be long distance. After you moved back to your parents' house, okay. Yeah. Despite us being able to drive to each other in 40 minutes. That's nothing. That's not long distance. Wouldn't call that long distance, but anyway. Oh, no. So after three years, we called it quits. Well, she called it quits. Oh, Sarah, I'm sorry. fast forward to today one month post breakup i just had a feeling a gut feeling and i don't know how i knew this that there was no evidence but it was just in my gut i thought that jess had slept with lucy oh my god lucy so this does come a month after we so lucy and beth aren't an item still then well i wouldn't put it past lucy or beth to cheat to not cheat would you i wouldn't put it past them no maybe they have some sort of open relationship thingy yeah possibly so so it does come a month after we split and i wouldn't mind it if i was if it was someone random yes i just knew i just knew that it was lucy anyway to my surprise i get a call off jess which wasn't out of the ordinary so i answered of course my gut was right she rang me to tell when she slept with Lucy.

56:39Oh. Why are you telling me, babe? What are you telling me that? Do you know what? I don't actually need to know. Let me go and have a nice life. Why are you telling me that? That is so strange. Her gut told her in the morning. That is powerful. That's how powerful women are. Her gut told her in the morning. She got the call in the afternoon. Yeah, that's crazy. You should be a psychic. I felt so disrespected and so embarrassed. Especially when she knows the history as well. Like that is so cruel as well. That is like evilest of evil. especially when you know she broke up with you like you're the one that's kind of been left heartbroken here because that's kind of like a revenge move you know i'm gonna go and sleep with that person blah blah like that like it's like when girls be like if you break up with me i'm coming for your best friend like but you know like she broke up with you so why she then felt the need to go an extra like it's just evil and sleep with lucy and it's just bringing up all our trauma like that was really traumatic for me five years ago and you've just repeated history and like I'm never gonna how am I meant to recover and also like you didn't have to tell me that I could have gone on with my life not knowing and never knowing ignorance would have been bliss in that instance exactly I was so embarrassed in an array of emotions and I genuinely never felt pain like it yeah that is pain I just got full body chills I know that someone I love would go out of their way to do that to me.

58:01Yeah, she sought out Lucy. It's savage. She sought her out on Instagram or whatever. Yeah. She told me, why is she sharing, she told me the sex was good. Oh my God. That is not good. Are you okay? No, she's not. She wants to hurt you and I don't know why. I don't know why. You've hurt me enough. You've broke up with me. Like you've broke up with me. Oh, Sarah has said, thanks, great. Needed to know that you absolute evil human. Yeah. Mind you, mind you as well this is the day after jess sent me flowers and reaffirmed her love for me jess what are you doing all over the shop we had been meeting up since the breakup okay so we might have been getting back together so was this her trying to be like i need to tell you before we rekindle things it wasn't just the evil it was just like a i need to get this off the chest hopefully you forgive me it's like do you not understand the pain and suffering that that caused me before so we had been meeting up since the breakup and in fact she was meant to be coming over today guess not okay so you were gonna rekindle maybe so she actually told you out of guilt yeah anyway that's it basically my ex slept with the girl i i was last cheated on with gotta give it to lucy there must be something good there there must be something about or i just have awful taste in women i have no faith left in being a lesbian well that's really unfortunate because we always think that we should just end up with a woman if it wasn't going to work out with a man but it sounds like it's really not even good on the other side i have no faith in left in being a lesbian and i think becoming a nun is the only way to get this point at this point i don't know what to do i just cried my eyes out as she told me but i think a complete but i think a complete block and removal is needed i agree absolutely always no contact is definitely needed in this no contact is best i just don't understand how how anyone could ever do something like like that to someone let alone someone they love.

59:56Thanks for reading Love You Both and Blueberry. From a Sarah who was crashing out massively. I've attached pictures. Oh shit. But don't want to attach pictures of these evil people. Instead I've just attached ones of me and my friends. Far more important. Oh that's lovely. That's more like it. That's who you wanted to see anyway. Let's see how beautiful. Oh no why don't mine load? Oh gorgeous. Brunette bombshell. Brunette bombshell. Brunette bombshell. Oh it's her and her friend. Oh gorgeous. those group of friends Sarah you're stunning right Sarah right you know what you have to tell yourself you can't write this can you when something awful happens to you like this and you're thinking I would never do that to someone I love you have to think thank God I don't understand thank God because that shows how good your heart is Sarah that's so true you would never treat Susan in this way regardless of what thank God I can't relate thank God I can't understand because that shows that I have a good heart shows your character so rest assured that look you've got a beautiful I've got what's coming to them.

1:00:56Exactly. Karma will come back around. And you're glad you don't understand because you would never do that to someone you love. That's so valid. Number two, you've got to block all these people. I'm assuming Beth and Lucy already blocked, but you need to block Jess. You understand that that's the next, you can't, no contact. No. That's it. We're done now. It's not helping anyone. Final act of betrayal. Stay in touch. Number one, you broke up with me. That's bad enough. Number two, you've gone and done that. I don't know who you are. I don't recognize you. I don't recognize, You're not someone I even want to catch up with on a friend basis.

1:01:26You are dead to me, unfortunately. Yeah. And number three, healing takes time. Healing's not linear. It will, you know, you will meet the woman of your dreams, I believe, one day. Look, there are lots of amazing women out there. This is not the norm. I'm just sorry this has happened to you twice. Me too. It's not normal. With the same person. You can't write that. But also, not every girl is, it's not normal to cheat in a relationship. but it's just unfortunate you found kind of two that kind of did you dirty like this. Back to back as well, like that. But there are good women out there who won't treat you like that.

1:02:00There are. And won't be desiring Lucy. And you will find them, yeah. Whatever Lucy's got to offer. I don't know. I'm not sure. I don't know. But like, have some, I think this warrants like a year single, to be honest. I think have a bit of a breather. A year to yourself. Pour into your friends and your hobbies and your job. I mean, do you know what would be the craziest love story of all time? If you ended up with Lucy. we can't even romanticize that enemies to lovers kind of vibe yeah i mean that would be beautiful but let's not hold hope but no i'm being silly it may be in your books it happens it would definitely happen yeah yeah how do we even form that kind but how could we even look it's a great journey we could all go on well it would start slow i can imagine yeah yeah it would be great in a book um but no that's not happening that's awful um i think we need time as a healer this has just been an incredibly unfortunate period of life where you've been like twice in a row things have been you know ended up with lucy like the same girl is brutal because you can't help but compare yourself thinking what is it about lucy like that seems to be like turning the heads yeah of my like partners yeah girl power pussy power absolutely yeah i mean lucy must that's what i'm saying it must hit my eyes with lucy like maybe you need to go and see what lucy's got to offer no and it might be a match made in heaven it might dare i say but i think sarah you need to just have a fresh start yeah and let's not put any energy into relationships right now because like they've drained us for the past five years they have like being in these relationships it's not served as well they've not ended well so until you feel ready i want nice lovely single time pouring into your own cup and maybe also this is just like a really good time just to try and meet some new people just like socially just on a friend level like well that picture she was with like five other people i think who are friends which is a nice guy i think you could do with just like some fresh energy around because this girl seems to be haunting you well it's draining you know if we're going out with our mates maybe we should go somewhere different where like we're not going to potentially bump into someone or things like that like yeah let's just maybe try some new establishments and build some different friendships and yeah but you need to swear off women for a year like let's just have a year to ourselves all right thanks sarah good luck on chance okay we've got laura writing in this week hey laura star of the week hey laura i've not heard that name in a long time no me neither actually laura there used to be a lot of lauras when we were younger a lot of lauras at school yeah yeah but in adulthood i don't know i've not i don't know a laura no i would like to submit my boyfriend ross the star of the week i am 33 he is 34 and we have been together for about two years ross geller recently we've been doing long distance as he has been in india for work wow he's the most caring kind guy i've ever met who still keeps me on my toes and makes me laugh every day he's a paleontologist just kidding

1:05:19I just actually freaked out she got me so good wow get her an Oscar wow what a good actress so natural She was so upset. Jumped out, you see? No, I did. Can we get that out of the slow motion, please? I thought, what are the chances of that? I thought, what? Because I was already just about to say, I want to be with a raw slow. I know you were. I know you were excited about the name. Right. Okay. Shut up. Okay. Wow. I wasn't expecting. I want to. Hi. I thought that was real. I wasn't expecting that. Well, he's out there and he's a find in the dinosaur. That was wild. all the dinosaurs in Mumbai or something like oh wow I was like Ross is so cool no I thought he was the coolest guy in the world okay oh god oh Ross I mean what a name like I don't know Ross I do actually oh you do I do yeah so it's not as niche to me you see see to me it's like you only know ross yeah of course yeah yeah shout out ross his sister's a big fan of the pod she's coming to the christmas show ross's sister on the list yeah oh the ross you know yes i'm sorry she can't keep up i was like the paleontologist ross right okay right nice so every month he buys me flowers even when he's been away always compliments me Sorry, I'm still...

1:06:50Oh, what a good guy. Plans date night, surprises me with gifts. My family love him, he treats me like a queen. I'm flying out to see him in November and we will have an incredible trip around India, Sri Lanka and the Maldives. She's put this with the ring emoji. Oh, shut up. He's an incredible job out in India, which will go towards his promotion, therefore enhancing our future together. Before he left, he moved into my house with me and my dog Molly and bought his two cats, Bella and Darcy. So I am so excited to be home together for Christmas season with the pets. After being single for five years, he's made me realize that our standards are never too high.

1:07:28The right guy will always meet them. Lots of love, Laura. Laura and Ross, everyone. What a beautiful couple that is, hey? Honestly. The Gellers. Congratulations to the Gellers. All right, guys. Thank you so much for listening. If you would like a bonus episode, you can get one every single week on Monday over on our Patreon. You can come and join the group chat. You can indeed. If you have a dilemma or a star of the week submission, you can email it to hello at thegirlsbathroom.com. Follow us on Instagram, TikTok, and on YouTube if you fancy it. And go shop at Rooms from Rooms.com. Shameless plug.

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