X-RATED: He gets HARD… to cartoons?

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2:18Surely it's not that skit. I should know that. That, Sarah! She says, we don't judge. That's not from Call of Duty. No, but she said Ghostface. Yeah. And this other ghost man from Call of Duty, she likes this. Oh, okay. Sarah wants the scary Halloween spooky.

2:43We are here today. What's up, you guys? What's up, you guys? What is up, you guys? Welcome back to the TGV. What's up? We are here today live and direct. We've got my cow print trainers on. We are live and direct. We are freshly back from making some croissants on Paris. Oh, absolutely we are. We made cinnamon rolls. We did. We made pan au chocolat. We did. We made croissants. We did. And we would highly recommend if anyone's doing a trip to Paris. Absolutely. This autumn, this winter. Maison Florett was the company. Shout out. we had a lovely croissant making class yeah it was truly i would say almost the highlight of the trip i would say it was the highlight of the trip and i think next time we do we actually kind of because we'd overdosed on sweet like then we saw the class next door they were making baguettes it looked like we really could have just hopped next door and got involved with that but then Imagine eating a warm, hot, cheesy baguette straight from the fucking oven.

3:45Out the oven. They were so doughy and buttery. I can't even describe it. It was the best thing I've ever ate. It would drip down the sides of your lips. It was so good. And then your fingers were all buttery. And you just got this doggy bag of croissants and pan of sharks to take home and just enjoy. So Blueberry's in the phase where she is picking up anything from the floor. Blueberry's in her personality phase. Yes, my baby. Yes. The daytime naps are no more. I mean, they are. When she's just with me. She says. There's too much going on right now for her. When she's just with me, like I'm a calming influence.

4:31it's like she's calm we'll play but then she'll snuggle up and she'll get cozy and she'll but when there's so many people you're like like that is she's jumping off chairs that's new yes she's really found her legs and she can she can jump and she can get on to all service you know what because like she sleeps in the bed now so and because she's had a few accidents in the bed which we won't speak of pooing and weeing in bed a couple times i moved the stairs so that she couldn't get in the bed only when it was bedtime however now she's not on there in the day no not allowed on the bed in the day because when she's done that she's pooed on it so before we go bed and i'm like brushing my teeth i move the stairs so she can't get on the bed she's just jumping up on the bed from the floor the stairs were kind of from the side and she'd got on the stairs and then leapt from the stairs onto the bed she is she's really poor yeah she's found her feet wow she's found her confidence well she's settled in we've got a smoothie delivery on the way we have we're very excited this is also an x-rated episode oh shit of course let's talk about sex these are some of our favorites we have a good time on these episodes so happy wednesday everyone welcome back thanks so much for tuning in again having us in your ears whether you are on a walk?

5:53Absolutely. In the house? In the car? On your TV? Shout out. On the TV. Wow, that's a privilege. On the big screen. That's always a privilege. Okay, so our question of the week. This week is, what's the most unsexy song that's come on during sex? So something just a bit crazy as join the playlist. What is a sexy song then, would you say? If I was your boyfriend, I'd never let you go. Oh yeah. Yeah, absolutely, Sophia. Like a, just something, you know, quite like. Just like a girl, you know I. Yeah. Girl, let's get down to the business. What song is that? So what's the most unsexy song? A bit of jazz actually would be quite nice.

6:44You know what would actually be really nice? Because I'm in my putting the autumn scene on the TV era. just one of them Autumnal Jazz Cafe yeah oh you know what I had the other day it came on automatically Sydney Opera House scene oh Blueberry just jumped up from the floor oh my gosh good girl good girl that was a big jump yeah that was a gorgeous one but they're like Halloween pumpkins that Autumnal's out as a jump yeah I mean maybe it's a bit of spooky it's alright dogs cough too yeah maybe it's a bit of a what's like a spooky season song for these spooky Halloween sexy nights yeah like like Wednesday Adams like one of them songs like organ music did you know that I was doing Thriller just then were you yeah Thriller have you seen right AI that was my Thriller have you been seeing other Michael Jackson AI videos ask me that question what do you think my answer is going to be because I've been seeing all this crazy AI that's it's getting me fooled Logan Paul stop he's not seen the Logan Paul no not Logan what's his name educators what's been happening Michael Jackson AI AI of him um on like hot wings no way hot ones sorry what's that called I mean I was getting fooled by AI I was sending all this AI to chin it's like wow look at this this looks amazing I said girl that's AI um Jake Paul is getting married to different people he's putting makeup on on tiktok it's all ai oh my god that is so scary real i was sending them to lydia she was like stop sending me these jake paul videos i said but you know that i actually thought they were real they're that realistic and he's like hey guys like just want to say like i'm coming out like i'm gay

8:39that's crazy who is responsible i don't know but it is good but no we ai Someone's got too much time on their hands. Not good AI. So back to the Q of the W. What's the most unsexy song that's come on during sex? Toy Story. You got a friend in me.

9:00When the rope. How is that coming on though? Are you just shuffling the playlist? Maybe it's a shuffle Spotify. You know, maybe something's got in there by accident. On the beats pill. Bible songs. We've got the horrible. Horrible histories. Horrible histories Oh I see Kesha Timber Wait how is horrible histories It's going down I'm yelling Timber I'm yelling Timber You know it'd be a sexy one Um I'll take it around Disco stick Yeah Lady Gaga Lady Gaga Let's have some fun What was Kesha's though TikTok on the clock With the party Don't stop No Wait When she's talking about Magic Wait Oh Kate No Whoa Whoa Katy Perry's song about the willy and that goes peacock yeah I want to see your peacock cuck you're a peacock cuck we've got Frosty the Snowman how is this happening Ave Maria Ave Maria I'd enjoy that actually mid-thrust yeah Ave Maria Skater Boy Avril Lavigne that could be worse Skater Boy she said see you later boy like how loud are we talking like yeah well do you know what I mean like if it's like If you're locked in.

10:12If you've got that surround sound, it could be pretty loud. What's on my heart can't beat again? Ashley Marigold. Marvin. It's killing me. Karuche? Is that his name? Aruche. Aruche. Yeah. Sorry, yeah. The Big Bang Theory theme song. How does that one go again? The earth began unjuling. So while we built the pyramids, My science history Unraveling the mystery That all started with the Big Bang Bang We've got Pretty appropriate Let it go from Frozen Yeah Cotton Eye Joe Starships by Nicki Minaj Starships Romantic Wait have you heard Olly Murs' new song? No What is it? This is why she needs to get on TikTok It's like I wasn't It's getting People don't like it Oh Olly It goes like this Let me just remember like when i was a young and like it's like that it's like when i was a young and he's like rapping it's ollie merz when i was a young and let me quit just quickly yeah go on i need to hear a bit of this now oh look at this i like to move it move it that's funny oh it's called bonkers good morning baltimore one of our favorites oh i would enjoy that it goes like this oh so we've released a whole album but this is a song that's called Barkers

11:43very millennial smoothies

11:57hello that's it hello hello hello Kavner hello Kavner Oliver Twist like that's you know Nancy Nancy Nancy Nancy Nancy Drew Remember the show that we watched Finding Nancy or Yes Alan Sugar Alan No not Alan Sugar Andrew What's his name Andrew Lloyd Webber Oh Alan Sugar The musical mastermind Alan Sugar And I remember Nobody Knows a Song Like Maria Yeah and then when they get eliminated they had to sing Maria That was fantastic and they were all in their each colours bring that show back like bring it back I know but then I think it's kind of hard to do because then they actually have to be the lead on West End they actually have to be the lead yeah I guess do you know what I mean is that they couldn't do it for every single show imagine they did it for Wicked they said we've got an Elphaba we've got a Glinda everyone is but it was great it was amazing it was great Saturday Night TV it was so good it was better than X-Facto I feel yeah it was and some of them went on to like be amazing West End people they did yeah oh yes oh guys our smoothies have arrived oh yeah Hallelujah.

13:07And I got the Cocoa Loco from Messiah Girls. I also got the Cocoa Loco. It's the classic. It's the classic. It's really nice. Oh, it's delicious. Is it? Cheers to having a bit of fuel, hey, to keep us going. Cheers. Gosh. Hmm.

13:25It hits. Ben, have you tried yours yet? Oh, you have. It's down your t-shirt. That takes me back to about two years ago. Takes me back as well. And I remember walking to Asaya Girls The day This is just, you know Take us down memory lane The day The day before our Palladium show A couple years back And then everyone meeting some girls in Asaya Girls Who were coming that night Wow, that's special And this is what that reminds me of Cheers to you ladies Cheers ladies Cheers girl

14:06I'm on Two more weeks left I'm in this line And I'm done Well I'll probably need more trays in it I was just in this line life But I'm going to try and make this smoothie last I'm just not going to put it down babe I don't want a warm smoothie It's very hot in here Oh yeah Wait we still only more There

14:32unsexy songs we have my mum and dad's wedding song oh black magic by black little pink what like getting all confused because it was black magic black pink black pink in your area we've got um the whole florence and the machine album from niche niche gangment the Trolls movie style we've got the Trolls movie style satellite by Harry Styles I fear that would be like my dream song like spinning round waiting for ya yes I would love that yeah nothing worse I wonder if Harry plays his own songs when he's having his new girlfriend Zoe Kravitz Harry no he doesn't he definitely doesn't he doesn't maybe new music he'll play like Beatles or something maybe new music he's defo playing jazz yeah like this is He's going Autumn Jazz Cafe Cozy Special YouTube.

15:29Yeah, he definitely is, I fear. He is, because he's a cozy cafe man. Yeah. Aw. We miss you, Harry. We miss you, Harry. Please come back to us, but also take your time. But also, we miss you. No pressure. Take all the time you need. Shall we do some sexy dilemmas? Yeah, you take it away with that update we've got. With a bit of sexy music. Toy Story, hit it.

15:55Just before we get into it, quick disclaimer. Just to say, we are not doctors. We are not professionals. We do not actually know what we are talking about. This is a lighthearted space. Okay. Don't take what we say literally because we could be wrong. Yeah. And if there's anything serious, if there's anything you feel like you're seriously struggling with, please contact a GP, a professional, because that is not us. We're just girls, girls and boys just like you, you know? We're just trying to get through life as well. Not professionals. Enjoy the episode.

16:22okay right we are starting this week with an update and we love an update we always encourage them listeners we always encourage and if some of you guys remember i believe this was our first x-rated episode and this was our first dilemma she was an online dominatrix and she was debating whether to tell her friends her boyfriend was aware right her boyfriend was aware yeah but she was unsure whether to tell the girls so and did we say go for it we said that there's no harm if you want to keep it a secret yeah because once you tell someone someone will always tell someone i think you said like one if you tell one person they're always going to tell someone true so work could get around and right now it was a very private thing so let's see what you've got to say hey girls i saw you ask for more x-rated dilemmas and thought i'd share an update from when you shared my story in the oh in the first x-rated episode cheers perfect i did tell one or two of my closest friends about being an online dominatrix but this came about because my boyfriend of almost oh no the boyfriend of almost nine years broke up with me shortly after sending my original dilemma oh oh sarah typical he couldn't handle the success you were making online yeah maybe yeah I probably couldn't handle all the money you were making.

17:44A very, very long story short, becoming a dominatrix became a gateway to something he'd been asking about for a long time, an open relationship. He caught feelings for another girl while I was just having fun and he realized or finally accepted that he didn't love me and wasn't attracted to me anymore. And I don't think he had been for a long time. All is well though. And I'm actually glad the relationship is over and I now see all the reasons why we should never have been together as long as we had and the open relationship actually helped me mentally detach so I'm grateful for everything that happened okay so you did entertain the open relationship and he actually fell in love with this other woman oh so it geared you up for the breakup oh my god I just took myself on a solo holiday and I'm in the process of buying my own house I'm looking forward to having a girly pad for me and my dog just like chintz and blueberry oh my god it's just goals but my real problem is this since we began this open relationship i started to get much more attention from men trying lots of new things in the bedroom and ultimately realizing i've been missing out on lots of experiences well yeah i genuinely feel like i've become addicted to sex and crave the attention it's made me feel so much more feminine and desired in a way i never felt in my relationship I've had better sex with at least five other men in the last few months than I've had in eight years wow happy for you Sarah I have a couple of guys I see regularly and I'm now at the point I'm having so much fun I can't see myself wanting a relationship for the foreseeable because I'd be giving all of this up I am constantly looking at my profile likes on apps and swiping on new guys I'm enjoying myself you know I won't lie and I've even put being a dominatrix on pause oh okay but I worry about the potential impact this will have when I do eventually want to get into looking for a relationship and what guys might think if they ask me to be honest about my sexual history.

19:39Do you think potential future partners will genuinely care about this wild period or is it something I should be more vague about and keep to myself? Lots of love, a happy single girl, loving life. Yes, solo holiday pick attached. See you in London in December. once upon a christmas night here is our gorgeous sarah looking still on holiday wow lovely vavavum love the red dress loving it right i think sarah so dominatrix sing is on pause fine yeah fine i think when you're honest with someone about your past if they're the right person they ain't they aren't gonna judge you they ain't they they're not gonna judge you for that and then I completely agree and even if so even if you were seeing someone you said oh I used to be a dominatrix they're like oh and left okay well you're not the one for me then like yeah if you're gonna judge me on that you know like the one for you will be so accepting and want to hear about it and understand you and you know yeah I agree so I think don't because with your your forever person like you want to tell you about everything and be honest about everything and it doesn't all have to come out on the first date but just when it feels natural when it feels right like just as it goes with anything like speaking about x's or x y and z like it's just a topic which will naturally come up it may be uncomfortable when the time is right it is important to talk about your past unfortunately even if it's like oh i don't really want to hear about that i do think it's important to talk about yeah yeah i think i think you'll be fine Sarah I think so I think enjoy it's just watching said the right guy exactly won't be like this won't put him off exactly and that's what you've got to remember exactly but you do you I'm glad you're having a lovely single me too solo life I'm glad you're going on your solo trips and having fun having fun with your friends how did you take that picture maybe tripod or a stranger yeah that's even more amazing um yeah happy for you Sarah me too

21:58Okay. Our Sarah here says help. This is kind of similar to that whole AI girlfriend thing. Oh, sorry. Oh, yeah, that. But you know, like that AI girlfriend thing with the men being attracted to these virtual ladies. Oh, yeah. See where you're going with that. Yeah. see I like to link things that make everything feel you know really synergized Sarah Hayes says might help my boyfriend masturbates to cartoon characters what cartoon characters are we talking then off the top of my head bit of Futurama who's that it's a show oh cartoons I assume yes is it Marge from the Simpsons is she doing it for you yeah I'm thinking like what cartoon ladies He's got like big titties.

22:51What were we talking about? Most. Most. Most. Like, does he like the ladies, you know, the cartoons, you know, the combat girls, sexy combat girls. That's what I'm thinking. The G.I. Janes of the world, if you will. When were we talking about men falling in love with like the women gamers and the sexy? Overwatch. O-W-U. Oh, Overwatch. Overwatch. Yes. That's what it's wrong about. Bit of Dungeons and Dragons. I can't speak. I've got a smoothie in my mouth. Okay so hi lovely ladies I've been a long time listener from Canada Wow hello there We love maple syrup We do Wednesday mornings are my favourite time of the week Because of you two Really?

23:32I have recently become part of the group chat So I get to enjoy my Monday mornings now as well Thank you Sarah Thank you Sarah Congratulations Sophia on your engagement Chins up on your precious pop Thank you Sarah I will try to keep my dilemma short and sweet my Brian and I have been together for a little over two years we are both 24 it's a nice time yeah very nice time we are both 24 we have a dog together and we just bought our first home he really is my best friend we were best friends in high school before getting together when I came back from uni and although we have little arguments here and there communication is something very important to the both of us brian loves to watch anime oh see now this is anime girls this is i don't know a lot about anime me neither i've never dated someone who's watched anime neither but i know there's sexy girls on there is there i've never watched it myself yeah this is actually interesting because i did actually i think we could really get into anime really i do I think it's a whole huge universe that I think we could get into.

24:41We would enjoy. I do, yeah. I do know. I think if we found the right thing, we could get really into it, yeah. I do know James and Fu had like anime. They do. Shits and gigs, shout out. So we would probably learn a bit from them. Maybe we should ask them. I wonder if they fancy any of the characters. I wonder if they mastermate to some of the anime characters. We should ask them. They defo do. They defo do. Fu had defo does. I'm joking. Sorry. Sorry. Right. She teases, she teases. No, I tease, I ingest, I ingest. Right, Brian loves to watch anime and of the entirety of our relationship has been trying to get me to watch it.

25:19However, it's just not really my kind of show. I prefer true crime and reality TV, et cetera. However, recently I have decided to give it a shot. Okay, nice. And we actually did end up, see, did it just turn him up? You just get a boner? then he like was that why late night viewing is that maybe why he wanted you to watch so we could give up his anime boner with getting you involved are they having sex is it anime sex I don't know I think so it's love is it I think so I thought it was fighting no I think there's love oh okay I'm assuming um I think so love and fighting i guess um love and war so i gave it a shot and we actually did end up finding an anime we both enjoyed nice in one of the episodes we watched there were female characters who showed up in school girl outfits brackets boobs popping out skirts too short kind of thing okay britney spears and this is all cartoons yeah remember this is cartoons i can picture it in my head me too i can see it right now and i made a silly comment oh no this is actually i made a silly comment along the lines of oh now i understand why you enjoy watching these so much oh to which he kind of brushed it off and did a little laugh the brush off and laugh gave me an uneasy feeling he's got bright red fucking he's getting all shifty he's put relax Brian relax relax take a breath like they're cartoon tits like someone's drawn that literally uh so but it left me feeling uneasy because you know when you know you know when someone's being like why are you acting like that like I made a joke like it's weird yeah like you're weird um so i asked him if he ever watched anime slash looked at anime when masturbating alone so you just went to oh wow to which he answered yes so he is turned on by that cartoon with the boobs and the shorts we definitely need to ask james and foo head about this no i fear we actually just do some market research i actually think we should side note a few months ago out of curiosity i had asked him what kind of stuff he looked at when he was pleasing himself when i wasn't around okay which he never gave me a straight up answer and i ended up eventually getting it out of him where he said he was looking at pictures of other females this became a whole fight and he apologized and told me he wouldn't do it again as he wouldn't like if the roles were reversed and i was looking at pictures of other guys to pleasure myself he has tons of pictures of me he can look at right so you were like what are you looking at when you're masturbating what are you looking at he said oh it's pictures of other girls okay surely he'd rather a cartoon character I know there's worse things yes there are worse like he could be doing it to like sharks you know and fish like Chandler and friends exactly that that was my reference because that's a real thing or like that man who is attracted to his car his car and a ferris wheel it happens I wasn't upset when he told me he uses anime as his porn basically I was just shocked and a bit thrown off like as I was making it out to be a joke thinking there's no way when in reality that is exactly what he does I'm a very confident girl with my body we go to the gym almost every day but hearing this just kind of threw me off is it because obviously that cartoon is a very unrealistic gonna look like a human it's a it's it's an abnormal yeah unrealistic tits tiny waist big ass skinny legs like yeah it's a cartoon it's a fictional character it doesn't exist yeah so the fact that he's getting turned on by that yeah i'd feel the same too i'd be like well i don't look like this fucking cartoon and never will be able to and i never will what i do i could get my tits done but they still won't look like that so like yeah it would yeah it'd get in my head too sarah he told me that the picture of the girls he was looking at a few months ago were actually just anime characters but he was scared to tell me because he thought i would find it weird right i'm just going to pause this and i'm going to google sexy anime girls i just want to see sexy this is maybe what he's looking up when he's in the mood sexy anime girls well i'm sure he's got his favorite characters images oh my i see yeah i mean beautiful gorgeous huge tits a lovely oh i see look look look look oh yeah okay i see this look look okay so this is good to see what this is good to see seeing there's also look look look look look like that's giving you know red hair yeah sex appeal they've all got massive massive tits oh i mean look at her whoa sex bomb oh oh that's bare tits that's bare tits are they showing that images called bear cartoon look yeah okay yeah okay it's giving dominatrix yeah yeah okay yeah Okay Okay Alright Jumping back We've got into the mind of Brian Yeah now I can see it Can see it Um But he was scared to tell me Because he thought I would find it weird Yeah I can understand that Yeah I asked him to show me Oh god Oh god Sarah This is actually my worst nightmare I asked him to show me So I could get some sort of Understanding of what it is And why he enjoys it And it's really just Female anime characters Naked Naked So they're So they're See, in anime, they must be naked then.

31:32Wow, it must be love. Yeah. It's not war. Are you seeing like pure... Vagina. Cartoon vagina. You must be. You must be. She said they were naked. Shit. And or having sex with other female characters. Is that what's going on in anime then? Nudity. Wow. I thought it was, yeah, powers and fantasy in Magic Wands. Magic Wands. Right, but it's sexy naked women. I thought it was combat. Maybe it's combat and sex. Yeah, well, that's common. That's giving Game of Thrones. Wow. Honestly, I've learned so much today already. We've only just begun. Yeah. So he says it's naked anime characters and or two anime characters having sex.

32:22Right, okay. I guess my dilemma is... It's giving fantasy. Yeah. I guess my dilemma is is what should the conversation be with my Brian? I don't fucking know Sarah. Is this a normal... Imagine. Dunno. Next. Is this a normal thing for people to be attracted to and use as a type of porn? Probably. I think it is after seeing what we've seen. There must be a reason why all these boys like anime and we now know. We now know. We literally now know. Yeah. as I kind of just brushed it off when he told me because I was in shock yeah I understand that I would definitely rather it be characters than actual real females but now it's got me thinking all sorts of things like does he wish my body looked like these ones does he think about the kind of stuff when we're having sex oh god I didn't even think about that don't let yourself go down that rabbit hole but yeah is he closing his eyes and picturing the cartoon boobs when he's got real life boobs here is he only ever looking at those photos pictures when he's alone and why aren't the pictures i send good enough oh well yeah because you're thinking i've sent you some nudes and but when you're alone you're pulling up the cartoon boobs he reassures me all the time how beautiful i am and how attracted he is to me so am i just overthinking i'm just not sure how I should react and why I feel a bit hurt by this.

33:54It could, it could be because I genuinely don't understand and couldn't be turned on by this kind of thing. Well, yeah. Would you be turned, would you be turned on by a cartoon Willie? Not particularly. No.

34:11Like imagine a cartoon. Yeah. But this is his niche. This is his thing. And I actually think it's probably very common, but this is your first boyfriend who's been like obsessed with anime. I think there's a lot of anime boys out there masturbating to anime. I'm not saying that's why they're watching it, but I think there must be some scenes and some elements that are turning them on. Which get them going and they like it. And like you asked the question, he gave you the answer. He was honest eventually. He was honest. Like he's just answering your questions at the end of the day. Sarah just said, I'm just.

34:44It's not nice to hear, but it's not nice to hear about like anything in that realm i guess at least it's a cartoon yeah not some like woman on instagram that lives around the corner yeah yeah yeah um i just genuinely don't understand and i couldn't be turned on by this kind of thing so i'm a bit thrown off any advice would be appreciated from a confused sarah pics attached here we go this is are beautiful ravishing stunning sarah oh sarah you look absolutely phenomenal brunette bombshell brunette bombshell this is brian in question our anime lover our anime nothing wrong with it brian oh yeah boy lovely i think we've got oh oh you guys have done some sort of gorgeous shoot oh my god professional imagery oh yeah of course we're in canada let's give them canada Oh, you guys.

35:42Wow. The 0.5. Yeah. Beautiful. Beautiful smiles. I think you're okay, Sarah. I think you've just had that awkward conversation about what porn your partner watches and when he watches it. And it's kind of taken you off guard. It's caught you by surprise. You've never had a relationship before with anyone who's like used anime as a form of porn. And it's just like got you second guessing and it's thrown you off a little bit. But I think really like it's good. Like it sounds like he loves you. It sounds like you're in a very happy relationship. He's being honest. He's being honest about like what he's watching.

36:19You know, if you had said to him, I never want you to watch porn. I do not want you to do this and do that and do that. And he was still doing it. That's a different problem. But this maybe sounds like the first conversation that you guys have had about this. So just like give yourself time to digest. Like you've learned a lot. We have to. and if you're not comfortable with it you're allowed to say something but I don't really think it's a problem I think I'm actually just trying to put myself in your shoes yeah like imagine I've I've got I would rather it be a cartoon than a yeah than like only fans yeah me me too yeah me too yeah I'd rather that than him be paying$4.99 a month to see real Sarah's tits yeah but yeah it would throw me off how it's thrown you off too because yeah this is your boyfriend of two years the first thing you know you know you've been knowing that he liked anime but you didn't know it was in a sexual nature I would be feeling the same thing about you oh my tits don't look like that my body doesn't look like that I've sent him naked pictures but he's still choosing to look at the cartoon tits I'd be having all the same thoughts yeah anyone would Anyone would.

37:34You can't help but compare yourself. All you could do. But they're cartoons. Right. We can't be comparing ourselves to cartoons. And I guess he's not going to leave you for a cartoon. No.

37:48He's not going to leave you for a cartoon. I guess he's not going to leave you for a cartoon. Yeah. Unless he starts talking to those AI ladies. AI robots. You know, what would you rather? None of it, Sophia. yeah but if you don't want your partner to watch porn then that is your that's a boundary that you've now learned and you've got to say that you've asked him the question he's been honest yeah all you can do now sarah proceed as you will is keep asking more questions if you want the answers she's already open she's already she's opened that can i think you've already opened the box sarah like let's keep going like let's keep learning about this man i would ask him more questions because we're trying to make you feel more comfortable with it right we're trying to make sarah feel okay with continuing continuing on in this relationship so all you can do in this instance is ask more questions learn way more get yeah see more of these naked visual of these naked animes see how it makes you feel see how he's acting towards you yeah is he reassuring you you said he is he said he is you said he makes you feel beautiful and reassures you and stuff that's good i think this is just a first and it's a first for you it's a first for us yeah and just but but if at the end of the day after about a year of knowing this and you're still you still feel uneasy you still feel like you're comparing yourself to these cartoons then you can't stay in a relationship where you're comparing yourself to fucking cartoons i think if you don't like the idea of the cartoon you need to say i don't want you watching this like anime porn anymore because I'm comparing myself to these crazy cartoons.

39:30Okay, but then he says, but I'm so, like, I can't. It's my compulsion.

39:43Like, I'm addicted to these, like, animatics. Well, then you've got an addiction and we've got another problem. And also, Sarah, at the end of the day, Ben, does every man watch anime porn? No. No. Not every man masturbates to cartoon boobs. Imagine Ben said yes. So you could, like, you don't have to settle for a guy who does do that. What do you think? What would you rather, though? No, but I'm just saying, like, if this makes you so uncomfortable, you don't have to stay in a relationship where you're having to compare yourself to a cartoon. You're allowed to tell your partner that you don't want them watching porn.

40:21You can absolutely do that, Sarah. You're allowed to leave and find someone else who doesn't do that. So I just don't want you to think, oh, that's his sexual turn on. I've got to be okay with it either way. Like, no. He opened the can of worms because he wanted you to watch fucking anime with him. It's his fucking fault. But you did find that common ground that you enjoyed. True. Maybe you should keep watching. Or is it triggering? It would trigger me. Every time. Yeah, do you fancy her? Do you fancy her? Yeah, every time, you know, a new lady walks on the screen with their big bosoms. Yeah. And we get side out of you like, your fucking turns on again, aren't you?

40:58You've got a real life woman sat right here. There must be an anime sort of like group, a support group. I think this is so, I would be, I think this is actually very normal. This is just a first for us. I agree. I think if we were in the anime community, everyone, they'd all be talking about who they fancied and they'd masturbate over. I bet, like if there's a group of six anime boy lovers, all they're chatting about is who they're masturbated over Yeah. And it would kind of be more like the norm, but it's just because it's not the norm for you. Has he got anime, fellow anime friend watchers?

41:31But he does. Maybe you could ask them and their girlfriends. I think ask more questions, learn more. Yeah. I said girlfriends. Does your brand watch fucking anime porn? See what they say. Because I've seen what he masturbates over and it's fucking cartoon tits. Cartoon vagina. If it was regular porn, maybe that would be something you could enjoy together yes but maybe it's because you're not you're thinking you're freak what's going on here because you can't relate you're not in that it's it's like oh yeah it's weird to you that turns me on too yeah maybe that's what it is i mean like would he like you to dress up in one like one of these anime outfits But then would you want to do that?

42:20Maybe. Maybe, yeah. If that would make you feel like, oh, I want to be a little anime girl. Yeah. We need to dig deeper here. That's exactly. You need to ask way more questions. Get him to be honest. Yeah, I think he has been honest. Get him to be even more. Same. Do you want me to dress like, do you want me to wear that for you? He would love that. I'm sure he would. But what do you feel comfortable with? Yeah. Learn about it more. because I don't want you to feel uncomfortable in the bedroom next time you had sex. No, that's not nice. Because now you're thinking, are you thinking of the cartoon tits?

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44:12Okay, next dilemma. I don't feel like we've had this before. This is a new one for our X-Ray episodes. Vaginal health. Vaginal health. We did biology at school. I'm afraid I taste bad down there. Okay. Hello, girlies from Pennsylvania. Wow. Wow. Long time listener. Middle America. First time writer. We've hit middle America. We've hit Pennsylvania. Just want to first say, of course, that you two keep me company so often on drives to work and road trips. thank you so much for the good vibes you are always bringing thank you thank you that's really sweet for context my brian and i have been together for six and a half years wow married for three wow wow congratulations we just had our second honeymoon slash third year anniversary trip in italy oh wow lovely dreams not sure how common this is in the uk but we both grew up in very conservative circles and are somewhat religious and due to our personal convictions we both waited until marriage our wedding night was our first time for us both wow so three years ago it's incredible now generally i know this often does not work out well for couples but i guess it did for us because we have a very good sex life oh yeah get it sarah not to brag but i will this man I like that.

45:36Not to brag, but I will. This man puts me first and I'm usually finishing a minimum of four times. And that's pretty much how he treats me outside of the bedroom. He rocks my world. He rocks your world, Sarah. However, there is one thing I can't get over. While generally I am quite free and shameless in the bedroom for all three years of marriage, I have been very embarrassed about him going down on me despite him volunteering to and being happy to yeah okay recently I've only been relaxed enough for us to really achieve anything doing that but even so I get paranoid after I'm done or I tell him prematurely to stop he instantly oh oh what what what I'm really don't know what you're about to say he instantly runs to the bathroom and rinses his mouth out and gargles out of me.

46:30Gargles loudly with water. Listerine. He drinks bleach. Brian, for goodness sake. That is rude. That is rude. I'm a wife. It's exactly when you kiss a man, he wipes his mouth. It's exactly the same. It's just rude. It's rude. Yeah. It's rude. Imagine if every time you gave him head, when you stopped, you went... Mouthful brushing your tongue immediately. I'm just fucking lying on the bed with no clothes on and I can just hear you. Let me just clarify. So we're still midway through sexy time. After I'm done or I tell him prematurely to stop, he instantly runs to the bathroom and rinses his mouth out and gargles loudly with water.

47:28Again, there is not a single complaint from him and he says that he enjoys it, but I cannot get that out of my head. I am very hygienic and he pretty much only goes down on me if I've showered before. I flat out asked him if it's bad and he said, no it's fine oh god poor choice of words there brian you don't want fine you want it to taste like yeah your vagina's fine yeah it's fine fine fine means like you're you're withstanding it what we're talking about yeah this is your wife's vagina yeah you find it's not a descriptive word you should be using for your wife which it's fine wasn't really consoling my question is how do i get over the paranoia that I taste bad down there when he so violently cleans his mouth after it makes it half me to relax when I know he'll be rushing to the bathroom as soon as I'm done that is yeah so valid Sarah right so what you need to do it is rude I think this is a lovely couple rub hey look rub what are you about to say you need to squeeze some orange juice on your vagina

48:43next time i'll go whoa

48:49we'll just get some sugar put some sugar in your nicoes

48:58yeah sorry sarah you're absolutely gorgeous he's giving um he's not right his problem he's giving you pen from you i thought you meant me he's giving you i mean kind of his

49:18i was like oh yeah the dark hair i meant that he looks like pen getting hot in this knit oh my god he does look like hey he looks like you let me see sarah sorry sarah looks beautiful i'll zoom in on this one are we in italy uh we are yeah yeah thought so wow gorge yeah yeah his problem i'd be feeling the same because also his problem is is when you're going it's all right tell me uh you're you're wanting reassurance some words of affirmation yeah baby you know something real nice he's going it's fine like but he wants to do it true he does it he wouldn't do it otherwise surely surely we've had girls right in their boyfriend will not go down there true true he is going down there regularly i don't think he would i think if you were in a three you know you've been married for three years you've been together for six was it yeah i think if there was any sort of issue he would down there he would say it to you i feel like you would kind of know it as well and i feel like if your husband if something was going if something had changed about your husband's penis and something was looking or just something was looking on we're off you would you would say something you could do it in a loving way but you would say something so i think you're okay and he's your husband he's your husband i would hope that he would say oh baby give it a sec oh baby you know like this might be something health related like we you know you would hope that he would say and he's not just gonna withstand a stench for the rest of his life the rest of his life um but yeah maybe say to him it's rude when you run straight away to the toilet like that's rude it doesn't like that's not sexy and you're making me feel a type of way yeah and now i'm struggling to relax when we go into this again because i'm so in my head you just say oh i don't like the feeling of stuff on my teeth you know and it's like oh okay it's to do with scent or you know what i mean like he might taste a simple explanation for it yeah but i would raise that defo i would he's your husband he's your husband like he waited three years to have sex with you yeah like i'm sure we can talk about you have a great sex life exactly which is so and it sounds like you have a healthy communication style we have to talk about things bring things up gorgeous bon chance good luck

51:52next up sarah here says i don't know how to convince my brine to indulge in my strange kink see this is giving anime reverse it is it is it is isn't it hello girly whorlies girly one pops this dilemma will probably have you ladies squealing probably with cringe but that's okay i'll be squealing if you end up reading this out mfao squeal so my brian 25 and i 28 have been together for coming up to six years wow slay you guys since we've been together I've discovered a kink that I'm into. What is your kink? It's masked men. Oh my God. Okay. Think ski masks, motorbike helmets, ghost face, ghost from Call of Duty.

52:51Who's that? You name it. I'm probably into it. Let me give you a spooky season. Ghost face, Call of Duty. Oh, is that that skit? Surely it's not that skit. I should know that. That, Sarah! She says, we don't judge. That's not from Call of Duty. No, but she said Ghostface. Yeah. And this other ghost man from Call of Duty. She likes this. Oh, okay. Sarah wants the scary Halloween spooky. She's spooky queen. And let's look up, who was it? So yeah, she said Ghostface. I think she'd like a Dark Romans book. Ghost from Call of Duty. Ghost from Call of Duty. I know, I'm just looking him up now. Ghost from...

53:33from call the only ghost dino is ghost from power oh my yeah i can see that sarah actually let's see whoa whoa whoa sexy he's fit he is fit yeah i can see that well you guys okay right let's keep going I have a fantasy About being broken into By a masked Broken in to One to or into Being broken in I don't know if she means Her vagina being broken into Or the home being broken into I have a fantasy about being broken into By a masked man And him having his way with me However Brian gives Golden Retriever and has a very low sex drive. Okay, it's a different genre for sure. He is already aware of my kink.

54:37I've given lots of hints and he's seen my For You page. But he has never made a move on it. I have even sent him a few TikToks, i.e. when he chases me through the woods wearing a mask. But still nothing. Okay, so you're sending him shit like this is turning me on. I like my dark romance. I like this. Now that spooky season is... Oh, girl, you must love Wednesday, Adam. This must be the time to thrive. Yeah. Now that spooky season is upon us, I'm thinking of buying a mask for him and maybe suggesting he tries it out. I think definitely. Definitely. You have to. I don't think you can go on without masking this man.

55:19I mean, either. But my... Maybe start with just half the face. Do you know what I mean? So you can still see his eyes. Why don't we start with blindfolds? So he doesn't feel like he's being suffocated. Yeah. Start with blindfolds, I think. Yeah. I don't know if that's the kink though. I know, but it might ease him in. To having something on his face. But I think he is allowed to see. Otherwise with the masks on. I know. I'm just trying to ease into something on the - Or maybe a - You know, are we going to go zero to mask? We could try a COVID mask to start with. Joking. So I'm thinking of buying him a mask so we can try it out.

55:58but my concerns are that it's going to feel too silly and we just end up cringe laughing. I also worry... Yeah, is it going to be what you're thinking in your head is the question. Is he going to be able to embody the ghost face or ghost from Call of Duty? Seems like a serious role. Maybe he will, you know, because he's such a golden retriever. Maybe he will step into it when he is masked. and maybe it will turn into this alter ego for him as well. You never know unless he tries. So I'm scared we're going to end up laughing. I also worry his personality is just the exact opposite of what this is.

56:40You know, this specific kink usually requires. Then again, Josh, do you know, is this a book thing? Josh from the book lights out made it work. If you know, you know. If you know, you know. Well, we don't. Sorry, Sarah. Oh, Josh from the book Lights Out made it work. So maybe she's read this book. Not read that one. Josh puts this mask on. And it's a new character. And has rocked Sarah's world. And therefore he won't fully be able to fulfill my fantasy fully. Sorry, I said fully about five times. Are some fantasies best left as just that? Or do you think it's worth exploring? Love you girls. Thank you for making me laugh every Monday and Wednesday.

57:26Oh, thank you. And an upload today is on YouTube. Thank you, Sarah. Oh, thank you, Sarah. I will give it a go. Have you expressed to him that, I know you sent a few TikToks. It doesn't sound like you've said like, I want you to be masked in the bedroom. Yeah. Doesn't sound like it. I think let's just say. Have you asked the question? I think we'd just say like that, if you had that, like next time you're on TikTok and there's a masked man, honestly, Brian, if you had that mask on, you'd rob my world. The things I would do. The things I would do. see how he responds maybe he'll be like oh yeah test the waters yeah you would like that because surely you want to please your girlfriend but then would you if your Brian asked you to put a mask on how would you feel I'd be thinking do you not want to see my face yeah rude so you're trying to be trying to pretend I'm someone else yeah but it's not the case that's no it's not it's not I would also maybe try because it's like I guess going a little right well no she wants that she wants the um like she said she wants it to feel like someone's broken into her house oh shit like she wants that kind of like dominant yeah naughty fear factor so if you will if you will like maybe we go a little bit broader and like do maybe just speak about bringing things into the bedroom like maybe introduce like some toys or maybe like some handcuffs or just like props in general to then maybe ease him into like a mask or just go straight in with the mask I don't know but if you guys have never used anything in the bedroom before surely going straight in for a mask he might it might get a bit giggly and a bit awkward and it might not be what you're picturing um i mean maybe we try it out halloween night for the first yeah have we got a halloween party we're attending we need to role play have you ever role played before with your partner like maybe it'll take some practice could we make sure that he is dressed up as one of these masked men on halloween then easy peasy that night just leave the mask on yeah just leave it on you know when And then from that night, you can say, I loved when he had that mask on.

59:50Yes. You know, I'm thinking Halloween night could be the night. Could be the night. And then you'll have sex on Halloween night and he'll be like, fucking hell. Sarah was going for it. Yeah. That was the best sex we've ever had Sarah in six years. Yeah. Why was it? I just, I think it was the mask, Brian. There we go. And then he'll never want to take the mask off. I fear, honestly, Halloween is our in. It's the perfect in. I think so. perfect in because it's just simple leave the mask on Brian don't take it off don't take it off I got you this to wear on Halloween yeah say please can we dress up as this yeah whatever I'll do that yeah leave it on I think that's it because you know if you don't ask you don't get you know you don't get you know if that's what you're into you're allowed to tell your boyfriend and see if he's and if it doesn't work it doesn't work yeah but you gave it a go he gave it a go exactly Keep it for you, for you, Paige.

1:00:44Exactly, exactly. Good luck, Sarah. Keep us posted. Give us a post-Halloween update. Right, okay. We're going to finish our episode with our star of the week. And we've got Daisy writing in. We've got a mummy-to-be this week. She says, hey girls, long time listener. I would love to nominate my Brian, my husband, for star of the week. We found out we were pregnant and expecting our first child together. I have really struggled in the first trimester and he has been an absolute star. making me dinner when I felt sick or didn't want anything he'd cooked taking me to my appointments buying me anything to make me comfortable and to top it all off today is my birthday and he hand wrote me a letter and bought me the most sentimental gift an etched necklace with baby feet and a note that says I can't wait to meet you mummy he is just amazing Brian thank you so much for taking care of our Sarah this week.

1:01:39Congratulations to you both. Thank you for making her the food we should want to eat. Best news ever. It is. All right guys that brings us to the end of our episode. If you would like a bonus episode you can get one every single Monday in the group chat. You can indeed and follow us on Instagram, YouTube and TikTok. And we'll see you back here next week in your dilemmas to helloathegirlsbathroom.com. Love ya. Bye.

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