In short
Jens Grede, SKIMS co-founder and CEO, discusses building “timeless” essential brands through Scandinavian minimalism, the “lagom” mindset (not too much/not too little), and how to balance pop-culture “timely” virality with long-lasting product integrity. He also covers family-first life, the American dream, and what makes strong co-founders and teams.
Guest background
Grede is Swedish-born (Stockholm) and later moved from London to Los Angeles. He previously co-founded media/commerce ventures including Mr Porter and worked in advertising/media (Wallpaper, Time magazine campaign). He built Frame (opened stores globally) and co-founded SKIMS (intimates/performance, simplicity in form/fit/feel).
Key claims
Great companies start from passion, not “smart” money goals. Timeless brands feel architecturally consistent and culturally relevant for years. Pop culture success comes from “contrast” and friction (e.g., humor vs luxury; nostalgia vs futurism). In partnerships, the best fit is aligning on what matters to the other person.
Notable examples
Moncler’s Remo Ruffini and the “black puffer jacket” value; the difficulty of perfecting a white cotton T-shirt; Frame’s global store expansion; lagom origins in Viking beer jugs; In-N-Out and Noma as “polar opposite” excellence.
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Chapters
Tap a time to open that second in VOFamily and Business Balance
0:23 to 0:41
Explore the importance of family while building successful businesses.
“It can help you with practically anything on the web, like restoring a vintage motorcycle from a 50-page restoration block or finally break down that long article you've had open for weeks.”
Family and Business Balance
2:16 to 3:16
Explore the importance of family while building successful businesses.
“And also the process of building those businesses.”
The Superpower of Family
3:18 to 4:00
Jens discusses how having a family empowers and motivates him.
Timelessness in Design
4:00 to 5:00
Jens shares his views on timelessness and essentialism in fashion.
Passion Over Profit
5:00 to 7:08
Discover why passion drives Jens' business ventures over financial motivation.
“Laura Piana in, which you're wearing today.”
Swedish Culture and Lagom
7:08 to 8:54
Jens explores the concept of 'lagom' and its impact on Swedish culture.
Quality and Value in Products
8:54 to 10:48
Discussing the importance of quality and value in the brands he supports.
“The origin of the word comes from all the team or the team around.”
Journey into Founding Businesses
10:48 to 14:00
Jens recounts his journey into founding brands like Frame and Skims.
“money some people probably think i'm crazy for saying that but i think it's good value for money because of the quality in which it's made.”
The Evolution of Media and Content
14:00 to 15:00
Explore the similarities and differences between past and present media.
Founding the Saturday Group
15:00 to 16:20
Learn about the journey of starting an ad agency with a close friend.
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Career Lessons from the Best
16:20 to 17:40
Insights on learning from top entrepreneurs and shifting towards entrepreneurship.
“And yes, as part of that, I was, I guess, an early entrepreneur in the beginning of the creator space, which was a great experience.”
The Influence of Moncler on Skims
17:40 to 20:30
Discover how Moncler's approach to fashion inspired Skims and Frame.
“So we were really in it, like really in it.”
Understanding Product and Culture
20:30 to 22:40
The importance of orchestrating product and culture in business.
“it's just going from strength to strength.”
The Quest for the Perfect T-Shirt
22:40 to 24:00
Why achieving the perfect white cotton t-shirt is a significant challenge.
Creating with Passion and Love
24:00 to 27:30
The difference between love and passion in entrepreneurship and creation.
“Well, speaking of the orchestra of Rambu Ruffini, with that passion and understanding of product, to me those are our values and things that you share.”
Winston Churchill on Entrepreneurship
27:30 to 28:00
A powerful quote about the entrepreneurial journey and resilience.
“And if you don't start there, it's incredibly hard to be enthusiastic as you go through the trials and tribulation of company building.”
The Journey of Entrepreneurship
28:00 to 30:56
Learn about the entrepreneurial journey and the importance of adaptability.
“Winston Churchill, the quote machine of Winston Churchill, has one of my favorite quotes.”
The Journey of Entrepreneurship
31:03 to 31:32
Learn about the entrepreneurial journey and the importance of adaptability.
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Building Partnerships and Relationships
31:32 to 41:02
Explore the significance of choosing the right partners in life and business.
“Before we get to Skims as a product, I know that people often say the most important decision in your life is finding your life partner, right?”
The American Dream and Its Allure
41:02 to 42:05
Understand why Los Angeles symbolizes opportunity and aspiration for many.
The Allure of the American Dream
42:05 to 43:56
Explore the appeal of living and working in America versus Europe.
“at uh beverly hills 90210 you think to yourself you know that that looks like a pretty great life I wanna try that out.”
Building Community in a Diverse City
43:56 to 45:50
Learn how to cultivate a personal community and define values in a non-homogenous environment.
“And I'm proud of my dual identity as a Swedish American.”
Timeliness vs. Timelessness in Branding
45:50 to 49:26
Discover the importance of balancing timely relevance with timeless design in business.
“And I pursue architecture of integrity, which also exists here.”
Creating Friction for Virality
49:26 to 53:08
Examine how contrast and humor can lead to success in pop culture and branding.
“And that to me is the definition of timelessness.”
Embracing Duality in Personal Interests
53:08 to 56:00
Understand how embracing contrasting interests can inform a balanced perspective.
“I guess that emotion comes from that friction you're talking about.”
Exploring Dualities in Consumer Identity
56:00 to 59:42
The discussion centers around the modern consumer's dualities and how they relate to personal identity.
“Yes, Constance and Colton, but the intention was actually for them to be ambassadors of two opposing feelings within the same person.”
What Founders Look for in Team Members
59:42 to 1:02:59
Jens Grede shares insights on traits that are important when selecting team members and partners.
“build big teams for your businesses i'm sure you meet lots of people every day lots of people who would love to work with you?”
Pet Peeves and Aspirations for the Future
1:02:59 to 1:07:26
The conversation shifts to exploring personal pet peeves and what improvements Grede would like to see in society.
“Elon Musk said not too long ago that, you know, universities is a good way to show an employer that you can show up and carry out the task.”
Advice for Young Adults Navigating Life
1:07:26 to 1:10:01
Grede offers advice for people in their 20s about career and life aspirations, emphasizing the importance of passion over monetary gain.
“And then in your 30s, you start building your own life and your own career and your own family.”
The Importance of Great Work and Fun
1:10:01 to 1:10:31
Learn why dedicating your life to great work leads to fulfillment and success.
Appreciation and Farewell
1:10:31 to 1:10:56
Listen to a heartfelt appreciation for the conversation and the guest's insights.
“And I really appreciate you taking the time today to be in front of these cameras and share your beautiful stories, share this incredible wisdom.”
Transcript
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0:38The Gstaad Guy:There's no place like Chrome. Check responses set up required compatibility and availability varies 18+. Jens, thank you so much for taking the time to be here today. Thank you for having me. It's such a pleasure. I know you don't do many things on camera or public facing, so it's a real honor that you accepted to do this. you know when you're a fanboy like i am of you you know you have to show up it's very kind of you i don't think you're a fanboy of me i think you're a fan of stod i'm a huge fan of stod i'm a i'm actually is uh i would say i'm a fan of yours i followed i think i've followed you since you just got started that's very kind yeah i appreciate it says something about my algorithm that you would come up when you had like 500 words or something um but yeah i'm a huge fan of stad place what drew you to stad initially surely andrews called it the last paradise on earth and that wasn't yesterday and i still think it is i really think that is one of those it's as close to utopia as you find on planet earth i agree especially during the lower seasons when it's oh i'm a summer guy summer is the best it's incredible and it's it's everything you want from a small town it's like living in a small Swiss Alpine town and every time I've landed it's just full of friends and it's pretty special I don't know where in the world I would find that Around the World with your host the Stade Guy we welcome you back to the Stade Guy podcast sharing stories of excellence with those in the know for those who just Well, other than your love for Shtad, which is definitely a reason for you to be here, I was very excited for this conversation because I'm a big fan of the businesses you've built.
2:33The Gstaad Guy:Thank you. And also the process of building those businesses. I've spoken about this before on the podcast, but as a man, I admire men who do great things, of course, but especially while being present fathers and husbands and doing that while being a family man I think is a really really cool thing especially in a city like Los Angeles I think a lot of people here reasonably so are focused on their own path and delay the family time and the family decision for after they've kind of carved their way and I love that you've done all that at the same time the most reoccurring hashtag on my content is it's all family oh yeah every single post since day one so it's uh something important to me something i'm excited to talk about with you but i think there are two notions of family in your 20s it's um you leave your kind of you know eternal maternal family and you tend to make a close group of friends your family you know the tv show friends is really based on that moment in life when your friends are your family and that's incredibly important and i think as you start building your career and you start building your life i think having a family of your own is a it's a superpower it's i think people are fearful perhaps that that would slow them down or give them less opportunity and less freedom i found it to be the absolute opposite i've been married for 14 years i have for kids and I don't know anything more motivating and honestly even though might not be liberating in time it's so special to have someone to wake up for and to go to work for.
4:33The Gstaad Guy:And I also love that in the process of that you've managed to build businesses that reflect what it seems to me your values as a consumer and as a person and i see the way you're dressed today i've gone to understand the way you like to think about things and i understand that being timeless versus being timely is something meaningful to you and elevated essentials are things you care about a lot and that category of business are is a category i'd put brands like Laura Piana in, which you're wearing today. Uniqlo, which is a brand I admire. Frame, which is a brand you built. And Skims, which is also a brand you built.
5:17The Gstaad Guy:Why does timelessness and essentialism matter to you as a consumer first and foremost? So first of all, the notion of minimalism is prevalent in Scandinavian design. and having grown up in Stockholm and Sweden, that's really colored my own personal aesthetic. I reduce rather than add. It's kind of innate in Scandinavian culture. You see it in homes, in furniture design, through mid-century. It was always about reduction. So finding beauty in simple form. And I think that's carried on today. And you think about some of the great fashion brands that come out of scandinavia more recently like totem uh it's also built on on the same notion of minimalism so that's just my aesthetic and when it comes to building business to me businesses uh is a byproduct of doing something you love it's not the starting point i'm you know as i got older and you know i've had the benefit of spending time as you have with some of the more successful for people in this world, you find that very rarely did the journey start with a goal of making money or building a business.
6:40It started with a passion, a love for something, something you wanted to do. And I don't think I've ever started a company, invested in something on the basis of what it was going to become. This looks like a good idea. it always starts with am i waking up the next day with that feeling that i have to do it not because i'm trying to be smart and i've done that by the way and nine times out of ten then they tend to be really bad investments but when you wake up and you're passionate about something everything is easy the highs and the lows but if you're in it because you want to build a business
7:21The Gstaad Guy:it's it's really tough yeah completely agree i think a love for the process versus a love for the outcome yeah two very very different feelings and you often find it in all aspects of business from silicon valley to retail um sam walton who built walmart is passionate about value retail these are guys that would as they became some of the richest people on earth count every single penny of change it's just in them it's who they are that's why they're so damn good at what they're doing and i will say the same thing about the folks at lauropeana they are uh dedicated to the craft they truly love what they do and it shows up in the product and i've been a very regular customer for the past 15 years or so maybe 20 way before it was cool good i love that you mentioned sweden and you're bringing in sweden i've had the pleasure of spending some time there and i noticed there's a lot that is very unique to swedish culture one thing in particular that came up a few times especially in the categories of things i like to observe is this culture of logum am i pronouncing it correctly yeah it's pretty perfect logum and i understood logum as this culture of commitment to understatement is that right logum is there's no direct translation it kind of means not too much not too little okay it's a The origin of the word comes from all the team or the team around.
9:10And back in the Viking days, when Swedes were a little bit less sophisticated than we are today, you drank beer at a very large jugs and they were passed around in a circle. So you cannot take too much and you don't take too little because it has to last all the way around the circle. That's the origin of the word. and swedish culture is very much defined by it but also a sense of conformity that comes with it you know we don't want to stick out um so we tend not to be outwardly extravagant and yeah the word lagom really you can apply it aesthetically because you know we are the people that when we get dressed we will remove one thing before we leave the house you don't you don't want to do too much yeah you're petrified of being too much
10:07The Gstaad Guy:i see that and i also see that with the choices of design this this i guess the logo and culture within design is unassuming from far away and maybe some connection from up close like with your sweater from far away it's an unassuming sweater but if i give you a hug and i see how soft it is then it tells me something is that a good read yeah i think that's a pretty perfect read and what i've tried to do uh in in my own professional life is really give people items of exceptional quality for what they pay so i think that what i'm wearing is good value for money some people probably think i'm crazy for saying that but i think it's good value for money because of the quality in which it's made.
10:57And I believe that Skims and Frame represents individually very different price points, great quality for what you're paying. There's an honesty to it. And I think that honesty is very Scandinavian.
11:12The Gstaad Guy:I believe it too. Before you founded Frame and Skims, what was it that drew you to even become a founder in these categories versus just continuing to be a passionate consumer for these things you loved so going back to how i started i started in a magazine in stockholm when i was about 19 years old and when i turned 20 i felt i fell hopelessly you know in love with an english woman and so i had to and she worked at vogue and you know if i wanted to be with her i had to come to london i couldn't stand london at the time i wanted to move to new york new york is uh what they call an easy city to visit and a hard city to live in yeah where la where we're sitting today is the opposite it's actually hard city to visit people come here and they go where's the city it's an easy city to live in london i find to be a relatively easy city to to to live in um but it didn't feel that way when i first arrived and i had got i got a job for geico tile brulee who today have a magazine called monaco but at the time a magazine called wallpaper well so i was 20 years old and they had just won a big ad account for time magazine and he said why don't you run it and i was 20 or 21 years old i knew nothing about advertising at all and the story will prove i didn't know anything because i went to the ceo of time magazine and said we need to reclaim the red and the white font and they said don't you think it looks a little bit like the economist i said don't worry about that yeah you're the original and um we launched this pan-european campaign and i remember the ceo of the economist calling us thanking us for wherever we advertised sales of the economist went right up wow so that was my starting point and I was lucky enough to work for a man who didn't fire me.
13:31I was able to learn as I learned the job. But working for Tyler and Wallpaper in those days, in the early 2000s, was an amazing experience. In many ways, what you do reminds me so much of what Tyler did. it's just that his media was the magazine and his life if you lived with him for a month you traveled with him you lived the magazine you lived the next issue you know his life was condensed into the papers of that magazine you have the opportunity to do it on a weekly and a daily basis for your channels um but in a way uh i i see quite a few similarities oh thank you so much
14:19The Gstaad Guy:what a what a compliment i i do think so in some ways it's the social media is just my my language and my chosen bridge to the audience i must say it's a lot easier to communicate through humor to me at least than to do so through great journalism as was done by you and your colleagues in your past life but i think you're selling yourself short i think that it's easier to romanticize about media of the past someday someone will romanticize about the media of today and about what you did so i i really think it's just great content is great content platforms come and change but great content is great content well i know that you have been very passionate and focused on content for a long time actually and after this job i don't i know that there must have been jobs in between but i know you eventually became a founder of a media and content business yeah what happened was i wanted to work with my best friend eric and it's really hard to go to somewhere you want to work and say hire us both so when we were 24 25 not 24 we started our own ad agency and we were backed by an agency called mother which is to this day actually uh probably the greatest ad agency on this planet well and this was in london yeah and i remember that they kept asking me how old i was and i said i'll tell you when i sign and then we were very lucky diego della valle who is the proprietor of todd's and hogan gave us a shot and um jen franco ferret and um the people at liberty and and later nike and so we had people we had worked with who was really there for us and over the next decade i built this group that is referred to as the saturday group but really it spanned 14 different businesses all the way from advertising, media buying, public relations, physical distribution of goods, sponsorship rights.
16:43I mean, really the whole gambit. And yes, as part of that, I was, I guess, an early entrepreneur in the beginning of the creator space, which was a great experience. And I got to my mid-30s and I was like, you know what? I'm going to do something different with my life. I no longer want to work for these unbelievable founders and entrepreneurs. I want to be one of them. Wow. You know, I've spent, you know, 12, 13 years learning from the best, having the opportunity to work with Bernard Arnault or Remo Ruffini or Diego de la Valen, all the greats in Europe. It's my time. I don't want to be in the service business.
17:31i want to do with you that data that's amazing yeah and what was that big leap of faith step it's not an easy leap to take so and i've said this um to remo uh post and he likes when i say it so i'll say it again on this podcast but i don't think if it wasn't for moncler i don't know if i would have started i would definitely not have started frame and i'm not sure i would have started skims what remo did was take this uh technical commodity expert driven product in ski and he attached that to the cultural values of fashion he put on the unbelievable fashion shows in central park and grand central station he created fashion ski wear with giambattista valley and so forth and so forth he gave bruce weber who's an unbelievable photographer he would just send him a box of jackets and say just send me back the pictures he really understood how to orchestrate fashion culture and everything he did was to load value into this black puffer jacket that for a long time was probably half of the sales of the company yeah and he would said he said to me i wake up in a cold sweat every morning thinking how many more black puffer jackets could i sell turned out he could sell a lot more and i was so inspired by what remo did verging on the obsessive that i thought how could i do this because i'm not a classically trained designer nor me or my partner eric we too need to find an expert driven category that we can load up with values you know at the time i was really really engaged in fashion culture me and eric had co-founded mr porter um with with natalie and and the netta porter team and it was based in our office out of the gate in east london not a lot of people know that we'd started gq style with dylan uh we started our own men's magazine called man about town and later a very kind of navel-gazing magazine called Industry, which big claim to fame is that we put a picture of Anna Wintour on the cover unauthorized, and she loved it.
20:05That's amazing. So we were really in it, like really in it. So we started Frame, and we gave it to, you know, the kind of who's who, I guess, of that moment in time. And it kind of just took off and ran away with it. But it didn't become Montclair. Frame is a phenomenal company. And I think 14 years later, 15 years later, it's just going from strength to strength. This year opening more stores in China, all over France, Holland, Italy, as well as a slew of more stores in the United States. And it's really becoming a global business today, which I'm very proud of. But Skims really was my third attempt or my second attempt of doing the same thing again.
20:59Again, you know, intimates and performance is a technical product. and it's all about the execution of of simplicity you know in form and function and fit and feel and for those who follow skims or have seen it i think that this brand is it's undeniably that this brand is shaped in the intersection of commerce and culture so uh yeah we went all out connecting our brand with culture and this time we got it right.
21:36The Gstaad Guy:Incredible. When you were describing Ramo Ruffini, the founder of Monclerc, who is someone I share your admiration for, I think he's incredible and what he's done with Monclerc is just absolutely amazing. You used the word orchestrate, what he was able to orchestrate and I think that is the perfect word because when I think of an orchestra and the conductor of an orchestra, it's basically someone who more often than not doesn't actually share the skills of the people they're conducting but they know that these instruments will work with those and this artist will work with that and somehow they make it all work together and I think that is something Romo did incredibly well to my knowledge with his story not a fashion guy a businessman who had a vision and he made it come to life by orchestrating the group that's true but he does understand product he understood product really well and he had a company before montclair and i hope i'm getting this right because it's going to be super embarrassing for me we'll check you know i will be expecting a text message or dm when i when this comes out if i'm wrong but i believe they had a short company called new england that did actually extremely well uh in those days he had been to the east coast of america and kind of took that ralph lauren aesthetic back to italy okay created new england which is not totally dissimilar to what diego della valle did with todd's you know todd's is the name he found in the you know phone book in boston wow him and his brother so with some kind of a manufactured story of an American driving shoe that he then took back to Italy but Revo truly understands product and making simple product great is the hardest thing and I'll give you a good example you know what the hardest I think the hardest garment in the world to get right should I answer that?
23:44please what do you think what do you think i think it is i think you think it's denim no i think it's a white cotton t-shirt i know people that have spent 20 30 years to get a t-shirt right and would say i haven't even gotten close it's incredibly hard to make the perfect t-shirt and i would argue that i'm not 100 % sure if anyone have it's like the holy grail is the perfect t-shirt it's proportionate incredibly hard good point which t-shirts do you wear tom ford okay i think they got it the best yeah yeah nice exclusively tom ford t-shirts i think it it kills me but i think they're as close to perfect as they come.
24:37The Gstaad Guy:Oh, beautiful. Well, speaking of the orchestra of Rambu Ruffini, with that passion and understanding of product, to me those are our values and things that you share. And you have a deep understanding of media, of culture, of product. You brought those things together and created Frame. And then Skims. What was your vision with Frame first and foremost? So going back to what we discussed earlier, there was no vision when you start something other than an aesthetic, something you want to express, a world you wanted to build. And at Wallpaper, they had this tagline, the stuff that surrounds you.
25:24And when we started Frame, we used to say we made it for the people that surrounded us. You know, that's really the starting point. this whole world or we all construct a world around us right and you've constructed a world around you and i believe my job is to create for the world around me no one else because that's the only world i know so i presume it's the only world i'll be any good in so all we tried to do was to do something great that people close to us would love and i really wasn't thinking about anything else we were lucky enough to be relatively successful already at that point in our careers but i totally underestimated and this was one of the greatest learnings of my career because i've done the opposite i've tried to be clever and i pretty much always failed but when i've done something because i love it because i actually it really resonates or speaks to me or i have so much fun doing it it's always worked and it's like it you know perfect batting
26:41The Gstaad Guy:average i love that how do you differentiate a love for something versus a passion for something that you do when i speak to founders or potential new partners i always end the conversation by saying the same thing and i say if you wake up tomorrow and you think about this conversation we had today then let me know then there's something there to do but if you don't there's no need because everything that turns out great it's really hard to do stuff right it's really really hard so you got to start with all that good energy you got to start with that feeling that you know what i am going to make i'm going to make this happen i'm going to see it through i'm going to be that naive people are going to tell me not to do it but i'm going to do it anyway because I just have to see this come to life.
27:50And if you don't start there, it's incredibly hard to be enthusiastic as you go through the trials and tribulation of company building. Winston Churchill, the quote machine of Winston Churchill, has one of my favorite quotes. I have two favorite quotes on entrepreneurialism or being an entrepreneur, but one is from Winston Churchill. and it is entrepreneurialism is going from failure to failure with no loss of enthusiasm. That is the journey. So you have to assume that the starting point has to be really high. Yeah.
28:31The Gstaad Guy:I know that after you left the UK, you moved to the US, and in many ways to me, you pursued the American dream. Can you tell us more about that move to the US and what drove you here? Well, as I was in my mid-30s, I sold what I had spent my life building. And I was a frenetic builder, like frenetic. You know, logging 250, 300 days a year on the road, buying companies, starting businesses, you know, assembling this group. And then I had that, you know, epiphany that this is not what I want to do. I want to be that guy. um so i decided the only way when you're successful or moderately successful when you want to be something else you got to give something up so i was like i'm selling i'm out of here and you know what when i have nothing left to do i'll figure out what to do next so i sold the saturday group over three years um the main agency group went to omnicom i sold one piece into public group and another piece to private equity and i was living in london we had a house in the cotswolds it was the english dream yeah for all intents and purposes you know beautiful i was walking around with a barber and wellies and going shooting and you know early wine lunches at the local fish restaurant and after about three months i was like screw this i am so bored and uh why don't we go to la i still own frame why don't we go there and i'll sell it then i can figure out what to do with my life uh and we arrived never sold it um spoke to kim around the time that we moved here my wife and i spoke to kim she had a vision of what she wanted to do aesthetically and she showed me a few things just directionally kind of the world that she thought we should build and it was one of those things once i saw it i couldn't unsee it and i woke up the next day thinking the last thing i want to do is to start another company right now but i have to do it This podcast is brought to you by Pubelle, bringing you interchangeable charm jewelry hand-painted with enamel on styling silver, allowing you to celebrate all the things you love and all the things you might question through interchangeable styling silver bracelets, bangles, whoop, charms, mini charm, bracelets, rings, cufflings, and much more.
31:20The Gstaad Guy:And all customizable through our 3D Builder on Pubelle.com. That is poubelle, P-O-U-B-E-L dot com. Thank you so much for watching. And now back to the podcast. Before we get to Skims as a product, I know that people often say the most important decision in your life is finding your life partner, right? Choosing your husband or choosing your wife. The second most important decision could be choosing your work partner and your co-founder and your work wife. Yeah. I'd love to know more about that process of meeting Kim and realizing, okay, I love this idea, but why us together as a team? It's a good question.
32:05It's a very good question because, yeah, one of the most important things in life, as you point out, is who we spend time with, who we end up marrying or building a life with, and who we work with. Yet I find that we're not as much in control as we think we are. And if you think about the really important things that happen in your life, I believe you and I probably spent a good deal of time thinking about them. Yet I don't think you actually chose any of them. You know, I didn't choose to meet Tyler when I did. That's just something that happened. I applied for several jobs in London. and that's just where I ended up.
32:52I met my business partner, Eric. We became fast friends. All of that's beyond my control. We don't choose who we fall in love with. We don't choose timing in life. I couldn't choose that Kim had this idea at that point in time and I would be there. So I think being a little bit naive to actually how consequential these decisions are is probably helpful because you know it's a bit like a golf swing if you overthink it it ain't gonna be a very good drive so i don't know how clever um i was but i also think that when you when you're lucky enough and you recognize that you have a good partner in business or in life and we had this conversation last night when I saw you for dinner it's incredibly important that
34:06you own what's important to you you don't compromise what's important to you but that you understand that the journey is full of thousands of small decisions and not one of them is as consequential as it might feel you see if i like brown and you like blue and it's really important to you that the color is blue if i'm a good partner i'm gonna say have blue and if you're a great partner you'll recognize if i really want brown and i want brown way more than you actually care for blue and then you give it to me the best partnership is always between two people that recognize what's the most important thing to their counterpart and i believe that for love i believe that in friendship and i believe that in business and i have been so lucky that i have worked with a number of people in my life where we have all respected what was important to the other person
35:20The Gstaad Guy:most of what i studied in university was bordering useless but there were a few classes that were very valuable oh good one in particular was a negotiations class and the first half of the entire course was trying to figure out incentives and desires from the counterpart as the number one priority for a successful negotiation and more importantly a successful outcome so my teacher agrees with you yeah and we have to recognize in life that we're going to make a lot of decisions and we're going to make a lot of wrong decisions. We can make way more wrong decisions than we need to make good ones.
36:02Your life is defined by a small set of really great decisions. So I try to optimize for making decisions and moving on. I believe that your success rate in life, so to speak, or your batting average or how you do over time is less connected with the quality of every decision you make, but rather your ability to make a decision and move on. You're getting more shots at it. You take more shots, you're going to land more shots. You're going to land more shots, you're going to have an exponentially better outcome.
36:39The Gstaad Guy:I saw Roger Federer's commencement speech. I think it was at Stanford. Yeah. Did I accidentally bite it? you said something that that he said similarly right he said number one tennis player in the world for many years but he's only won 51 of the points he played well let's say that's a perfect analogy yeah that's a perfect that's a that's a really perfect analogy so you think you think about the journey with uh with kim the good decisions was to do it to work together the approach we had a few this a handful of decisions around certain products and a handful of decisions around big moments then we made a lot of wrong turns but that's okay because we made some big rights what did you see in kim as a founder and partner personality wise i know that human connection is incredibly important to you she's a remarkable creative director and i have worked with some of the best creative directors in this world over 25 years and she's a remarkable engaged creative director she has a very strong point of view what she wants to create and if you don't mind i'm curious as well about your life partner and choosing your life partner how did you make that decision to also move forward i think she made that decision i don't think i had a say in it no i'm kidding um you know it's not so much about me choosing her as she is she having the grace and and for inexplicable reasons choosing me i was just a happy recipient um no i mean we fell in love a long time ago and i'm just so happy that i still feel exactly the same as i did 18 years ago when i wake up every morning so i am a big believer in that life is a roller coaster but every relationship has to be predominantly positive and i'm just lucky that i live with a partner who feels the same way we share the same idea of life the same aspirations she loves stade too big green flag a big we discovered it together no but jokes aside i uh again it it's about those big decisions what really matters in a relationship do we see the world in the same way do we see family in the same way do we share the same ideas more or less on parenting And if you have those fundamental building blocks there, I think that's incredibly important.
39:58That's incredibly important. We want to lead similar lives. And she's incredible at giving me the grace and space to pursue my dreams and self-realization. and I believe there's moments where her dreams and ambition has to take the front seat in our family and we all come together and support her in that. Again, recognizing what's the most important for your counterpart in friendship and love and business is, I think, a superpower in maintaining healthy, productive relationships.
40:45The Gstaad Guy:Very well said. And I think you put that so clearly that it only has to resonate. I love that. Well, today you have a beautiful family, four kids. Thank you. And you chose to also build that family in Los Angeles as well as the businesses. And I'd love to go back to that American dream topic of, yes, the opportunities were right but you chose to double down here over and over again yeah why the u.s and why los angeles i'm a big believer in america i have had growing up i guess a love affair with america from afar i grew up skateboarding and snowboarding and the heart of that is right here in california I grew up with 90s pop culture, you know, obsessing over TV shows like Beverly Hills 90210 and Baywatch and what takes place right here in Los Angeles.
41:51so you know when you're growing up in in in in sweden and you're sitting there at 5 p.m on you know on a sunday and you're freezing and free blankets and a cup of chocolate and you're looking at uh beverly hills 90210 you think to yourself you know that that looks like a pretty great life I wanna try that out. That's true. So I think I was always warm to it. But honestly, as a place to work, as a place to build, the US is exceptional. It's exceptional. We're sitting here in California, the world's fourth largest economy today. Wow. With a population of 40 million people. I mean, it is stunning.
42:38what America can do and how it consistently reinvents itself. And now this might sound like a slight to the old world from which I hail and which I love, but European culture, tying it back to a conversation you and I had yesterday, is very much led by preservation. preservation of culture architecture ways of life america is dedicated to tomorrow the whole country is always building for the future and our lives and uh are now we're so dependent on American technology, culture, and innovation. So to be working in America as an entrepreneur, it's a pretty wonderful thing. It's exciting. It's exciting.
43:39You definitely feel incredibly competitive. And you also feel that anything you want to accomplish, you can accomplish it here. So I'm incredibly grateful to America for giving me the opportunity to live and work here. And I'm proud of my dual identity as a Swedish American.
44:02The Gstaad Guy:Earlier in this podcast, we spoke about this logum culture. I think generally, I would say it's quite alien to Los Angeles culture. I think there is lots of that simplicity here, but it's harder to come by than some of the extravagance. How did you manage that on a personal basis and also find people to align with that essentialism and simplicity for both businesses you've built in Los Angeles? That's a great question. i feel that european societies are tend to be far more homogenous you know in in not just in values that's clearly obvious um but also aesthetically as a way of life america is not homogenous it's not a homogenous um country los angeles is not homogenous as a place there is room for you to be and live however you want to live so you have to create your own city within the city your own community of people like-minded and that's why it's a hard place to visit because you can't see it but over time you build your own culture your own community within the city of people that share the same values and aspirations as you do have you clearly defined those values for yourself i think so can you share them with us
45:46oh my god i wish i had some prep work for this question um um no but i mean first of all they extend on all levels of life okay so aesthetically um this is a city that is constantly changing there's very little building regulations if you want to build barbie's dream house go ahead and do it no one's going to stop you from I'm putting 15 towers on your house. And I pursue architecture of integrity, which also exists here. I live in a Paul Williams home, and Paul Williams is a phenomenal new Regency architect who built some of the more prominent estates here in the 20s. and in my other home in Malibu it's kind of a perfect expression of mid-century modern architecture and so I pursue things with integrity in the city of art direction you know in the city of the facades right of fake brick and fake spires i uh i i pursue a uh a life lived in in in places of architectural you know integrity for example um and you touched on it you know both me and my wife we truly believe in family first and i enjoy and love pop culture and i'm as attracted to the bright lights of hollywood as anyone else is but family always comes first so i think it's no different from living in any big city you know sometimes people ask me are you not worried about raising children in los angeles such a superficial place and i said i am worried about raising kids anywhere because i lived in london for 17 years I know some horrible kids in London
48:02The Gstaad Guy:I know them too and I know some of the best people I've met in my life and that goes for Paris and New York and Stockholm and Los Angeles too there are people that are on the nose that would be challenging but I know some of the most interesting, creative exciting people in the world that also live here so you choose your city I like that you brought up your admiration for pop culture and i see your deep understanding for pop culture but i also see that you have a very unique relationship with it the unique relationship i notice is this thing i mentioned earlier of timeliness versus timelessness and pop culture by design has to be very timely what's relevant today and tomorrow is the most important thing and what was relevant a few weeks ago, no one really cares about.
48:59The Gstaad Guy:And all the businesses you build and the products you love as a consumer feel timeless by design. I think skims and frame are very culturally relevant today. The technology is, of course, the best that's available today. However, in terms of branding, positioning and essentialism, feels like they could have been here 10 years ago and they feel like they could be here in 10 years. And that to me is the definition of timelessness. How do you manage that relationship? And what is, to you, the balance between being timeless and timely? Well, I think it's exactly that. You know, I'm building a lot of stores.
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49:45You know, in general, we open across the board a store a week, anywhere in the world, sometimes more. Wow. and we build stores that are to your point timeless where there are architecturally consistent and exciting for what they are they are not necessarily trend-based one is rooted really in uh you know a californian way of life in the 70s, I would say 60s and 70s particularly. And for skims, it's far more futuristic. So you got to know what plays what roles where. When it comes to working with a brand in pop culture, it's about thinking, well, first of all, it's about how do I reach a large audience?
50:47Okay. How do I reach a large audience that they have something to take away from it? And it tends to come down to finding the contrast. Okay. I think part of your success is based in when you started and in some of the things that you would do that was slightly more humorous. There was a great contrast between your persona, way of dressing, the situation, and what you said. There was contrast. Humor and luxury are very rarely put together. That's true. So you created friction. You created tension. And that tension is what sparks virality.
51:46so when we work in pop culture we think what are we what are we doing here that isn't just doing it because oh it's popular right how do we do something not just because it's timely because it has to be those two things but how do we do something that adds something to the pop culture conversation. What do we, what is the, what's the contrast? What's the rub? What's interesting about this? And when you work with celebrity as consistently as we do across the board, you know, it doesn't mean much unless it is surprising. It has to be, he has to invoke that feeling of, oh, you know, and I don't want to swear on such an established podcast such as yours, but it's that kind of holy crap feeling.
52:55You know, oh, did you see that? Oh, holy crap. You know, that's what you're trying to get. You're trying to get that feeling is, oh, I didn't know I needed this. I didn't know I needed to see this, but I love it.
53:08The Gstaad Guy:I guess that emotion comes from that friction you're talking about. There's another friction that I see in you that I find really cool. And it's the friction of nostalgia and curiosity. It's like past and future. Right. And Frame, as you mentioned, is quite nostalgic. Skims is very futuristic. I find those are typically two very opposing emotions and feelings about the world. Right. Stad is very nostalgic. Yeah. Los Angeles is very futuristic. very forward-facing in the u.s that push and pull is that very true to who you are as a person yeah yeah absolutely absolutely that's such a fun observation i don't think anyone have ever said that to me but you're so right but we can be more as people than one thing You know, I have a really broad spread of interests.
54:06It starts at Wittgenstein, but it ends at Love Island. And I engage with all of it. I can love classical painting and modern sculpture. And I love the promise of tomorrow. I'm obsessed with the future, which I think right now we're living in one of the most interesting times in human history from a technological point of view. We live in a precarious time as a society. But you have to be an optimist. i can quote vincent churchill again he said i'm an optimist i see little use to being anything else but so yeah i i'm i'm i'm so curious about tomorrow but i have another side of my personality that just want to sit at the olden and have a wienerschnitzel you know who likes a formal event in vienna you know i i like all of it i like you know what i I like everything that is great for what it is.
55:24I can't stand fake. I can't stand things that are half-assed. I just like everything that is great for what it is. In-N-Out Burger is a great experience for the money. It's a phenomenal product. For those who haven't visited, you should do it if you like a hamburger. um and you know noma is a phenomenal experience in in in the most advanced cooking on this planet these are two polar opposite experiences but i really appreciate and love them both equally and as a founder and as an avid investor into the consumer economy and into technology i've had the benefit of working with people uh for the whole gambit the whole spectrum i just love people to do things great for what they are and to me skims is trying to deliver a superior product and experience for the money that we ask for in return and i see no difference between that and to your point pluripiana um so that's kind of how i look at life i just love things with integrity that is the best they can be for what they are that emotion
57:02The Gstaad Guy:you're talking about of those two sides of you, I like to think or why maybe you connected with my content early on because I feel the same way and my characters are two different people. Yes, Constance and Colton, but the intention was actually for them to be ambassadors of two opposing feelings within the same person. And I think that is in many ways the modern consumer absolutely who loves pop culture loves going out and having fun on a friday night like colton and then wants to be poised on a sunday morning feel their best be their wisest version of self and enjoy a wiener schnitzel at the olden yeah or an event in vienna yeah and i think those polarities are just part of the human experience and that's i use humor and I use exaggeration, of course, in my content to express that.
58:01The Gstaad Guy:But I think especially the luxury consumer of today can typically fall somewhere in between my characters. Oh, yeah. And actually be a little bit of both at different times. Yeah. A lot of us are. Yeah. You know, we all have a little bit of Colton in us. Yeah, that's true. A couple of times a month. Yeah. and then you want to act a bit more Constance in between. Exactly. So I think we're all more than one thing. You know, I hope so. I agree. And I think recognizing that is actually quite a rare thing. I find so much beauty in nuance and in layers of personality and layers of feelings towards things.
58:49The Gstaad Guy:That's something I notice is very true to who you are. I haven't yet heard you have an extreme opinion that completely alienates another side of the conversation. No, I don't think I do. I love that nuance, that gray area of being able to understand even if you don't agree. Life isn't particularly black and white. And we all agree on 80 or 90 % of most things. and then we can choose to live our lives a little bit more like this a little bit more like that but um i think the beauty of humanity comes out when we focus on the 80 percent that we are aligned on and that connects us not the things that set us apart well you continue to build big teams for your businesses i'm sure you meet lots of people every day lots of people who would love to work with you?
59:51The Gstaad Guy:Other than the hard skills and work experiences that, of course, qualify a person. Are there any things in particular you look for in people that possibly our listeners today could make sure they work on themselves and highlight as candidates? Yes. First and foremost, drive. And you can feed it. Some people just have it. that is drive is not the same thing as having this kind of big ambition that you put out there and i'm gonna do this and i'm gonna do that but that feeling that this guy is gonna show up and figure it out which brings me to the second thing i always look at in partners and in executives alike or people that other founders that I look to invest in it's what's that executive skill in overcoming problems when they are faced with uncertainty or or something new do they pause or do they figure it out?
1:01:07And it's so interesting. I've spent a lot of time thinking about this. It's very common that you find a group of people that triggers one another to a point where the whole group lifts and elevates. You find it in groups of actors, uh comedians directors i sometimes joke that steven spielberg and george lucas and um yes was a great director of that era um who did a godfather oh i lost his name now um it will come back to me but the three or four greatest directors of the generation were all good friends before any of them were what they are today before any of them had made a movie and you find the exact same networks or groups of people in silicon valley today you'd be surprised how many people were friends at stanford or harvard or worked together in this one unit that google and then they all went on So magical things can happen when you have a group of people with high executive skills and like a, it's not a network that is successful.
1:02:37That's not really what I'm saying. But are able to surround themselves with people that share the same drive. And all of a sudden magic things start happening for them. So, I think I look for those type of people. More so than I would ever care about someone's education. Probably now more than ever. For sure. Elon Musk said not too long ago that, you know, universities is a good way to show an employer that you can show up and carry out the task. And that's about it. that's terrifying um but there's an element of truth to it are you drawn to a similar type of person in your personal life than you are in your work life no i look at teams um like i would look at sports really how do you put together a group of complementary skills and i don't think i need the best friends with people i work with i think we show up we're in the nba so to speak and we're sports team we are there to perform and do a great job and to win and there's camaraderie in that fight but i'm not looking to hire my friends i'm i'm i'm looking to hire winners
1:04:11The Gstaad Guy:love that on this podcast we always play a game of a la poubelle versus fantastique okay where our guest shares a few things they'd like to see less of in this world and maybe even throw in the trash a la poubelle and a couple of things they'd love to see more of and celebrate to be fantastique from your world from your industry maybe just from life can you share a couple of things in each category things i like to change and throw is the how cumbersome travel is becoming both in the u.s and internationally as we're putting up more barriers um and also we're putting up way too many barriers for trade around the world i think we're going to be poorer for it and life is less fun.
1:05:03And this would be an unpopular view with many. But I think that the polls are in my favor when I say I wish that the UK rejoined the European Union. I agree. You know, I was able to come to London and create the life, build a company, offer employment for thousands of people, paid a tremendous amount of taxes i was a good member of the community and all of that was made possible by britain's membership of the eu so brexit is definitely
1:05:46any other you'd like to share i have a such a long list of pet peeves please let's hear some pet peeves that if i went into it first of all i think i come out as a much less likable person
1:06:06The Gstaad Guy:listen i'm mr pet peeve over here it's part of my job i'm like i'm like the digital larry david i'm a very happy person that spends an awful lot of time in my life complaining about the small things larry david possibly the swedish version the swedish larry david well in that case how about a few things you'd love to see more of oh what i'd love to see more uh i like to see uh more art and architecture in uh our public spaces i think it's incredibly important i think that art is incredibly important on a national level and we can do a better job at investing in it as a nation and i'm speaking about the united states but also you know um for for europe uh i wish we honestly we reintroduced the concord i mean that's retired now for good reason but it's one of the very few times in human history we've gone backwards yeah and you're probably too young to remember what it feels like to arrive in new york before you took off but that was pretty sweet because the time difference you'd basically get there sooner yeah you arrived like two hours before you took off i heard there's a few businesses trying to bring back supersonic commercial travel i like to see airbus or boeing do it well these times i'm not so sure i want a startup yeah i don't think i want someone like me sitting down with a piece of paper trying to figure out how to do it it's true we want the giant i like this to be a major industrial initiative on a bilateral basis even if you can't take advantage of it because it has to fly over the sea and not over land and los angeles will be a tough one it would be it would only really work to hawaii yeah or tokyo yeah but is there a message you'd like to leave the audience with today just to to conclude you've shared so many incredible things maybe there's just a final note knowing that lots of our audience is actually in their early 20s which i think is the most confusing age in life yeah i think it is because i think in your 20s you are desperately trying to find people to model your life after.
1:08:41And when I was in my 20s, all I did was to talk about the other people, the other guys, the people you looked up to and you started to dress like your boss or act like them or pick up mannerisms and you try to figure out what the blueprint of your life
1:08:56The Gstaad Guy:would be, you know, in your 20s. And then in your 30s, you start building your own life and your own career and your own family. And and in your 40s is when you make the real money yeah and i think people in their 20s needs to relax a little bit it's all gonna come you know we live in an algorithm that shows the the the very much the statistical the extreme statistical outlier and normalizes it and makes us think that it's somehow easier or more achievable but the journey there's a beauty to the journey and again i've really never seen anyone going in to anything uh with the sole mission of making money and that working out for them i think that a great life is first and foremost doing something you love and doing great work not good work do great work dedicate your entire life to doing great work the second thing have fun if you do great work you tend to have a good time doing it and if you do great work and you have fun while doing it money is a byproduct it's but money never leads money is the byproduct of great work Very well said and very inspiring.
1:10:34The Gstaad Guy:And I really appreciate you taking the time today to be in front of these cameras and share your beautiful stories, share this incredible wisdom. Thank you for having me. It was so nice. Such a pleasure to see you. My pleasure, too. And I hope the next time I see you is either here or maybe even in Stad. Let's do it. Let's get that schnitzel. Let's do it. Thank you so much, Jens. Okay, thank you so much. Thank you. Thank you for listening to this episode of the Stardguy podcast. If you're keen to learn more, please follow along by engaging with our social channels on Instagram, TikTok, Spotify, YouTube and Apple podcasts.
1:11:13The Gstaad Guy:And we look forward to seeing you next week. Merci beaucoup. A la prochaine and a big hug from the Stardguy.
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The Gstaad Guy sits down with Jens Grede, co-founder and CEO of SKIMS and one of the most instinctive brand builders of his generation, to explore what it means to connect products with culture in a way that feels both inevitable and enduring. From his Swedish upbringing and the philosophy of lagom to a career that has taken him from Mr Porter to FRAME to one of the most talked-about consumer brands in the world, Jens reflects on a professional life built on honesty, minimalism, and an obsession with getting the product right.
The conversation moves through the tension between being timely and being timeless, what American culture taught him that Europe never could, and why working with people who share your values is the only foundation worth building on. Jens speaks openly about the decision to back himself, the meaning of genuine partnership, and why family, far from being a counterweight to ambition, has always been its greatest source of purpose. Grounded, forward-looking, and refreshingly direct, it is a conversation about integrity, pop culture, and what happens when you care more about the work than the noise around it.
Filmed at The Maybourne Beverly Hills Garden Suite.
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(00:40) Gstaad 🏔️❄️
(02:41 )Notion Of Family 👨👩👧👦❤️
(04:30) Timelessness & Essentialism ⏳✨
(06:50) Value Retail 🛍️💡
(07:53) The Culture of "Lagom" ⚖️🧘
(10:30) Becoming A Founder 💡🚀
(13:35) Social Media 📱🌍
(14:41) Working With A Best Friend 🤝🏻❤️
(17:04) Moncler 🧥🏔️
(19:25) FRAME 👖✨
(20:06) SKIMS 🩱💡
(21:30) Remo Ruffini 👔🏔️
(22:41) "Making A Simple Product Great" ✨🏆
(25:58) Love vs. Passion ❤️🔥
(27:46) The American Dream 🇺🇸🌟
(30:50) The Greatest Partner 🤝🏻💎
(25:05) Making Decisions ⚖️💡
(36:56) Kim Kardashian 📱👑
(40:06) America 🇺🇸🌍
(41:33) American vs. European Culture 🇺🇸🇪🇺
(47:41) Definition Of "Timelessness" ⏳💎
(51:01) Pop Culture 🎤🌍
(56:33) The Modern Consumer 📱🛍️
(58:55) Shared Values Within A Team 🤝🏻❤️
(1:03:27) À La Poubelle vs. Fantastique 🗑️✨
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