S4 EP1: Willem Dafoe on collaborating with Lars Von Trier, being buried alive, and his 'distinctive face’

14 Jan 2025 · 1 h 20 min

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Episode Title

S4 EP1: Willem Dafoe on collaborating with Lars Von Trier, being buried alive, and his 'distinctive face’

Episode Description In this season opener, Louis Theroux interviews the acclaimed actor Willem Dafoe, discussing his impressive acting career, collaborations with notable directors, and personal insights about the craft of acting.

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Key Themes and Discussions

  1. Willem Dafoe's Background
  2. Early Life: Grew up in Appleton, Wisconsin.
  3. Theatrical Beginnings: Started his career in New York's experimental theater scene in the late 1970s.
  1. Notable Collaborations
  2. Lars Von Trier: Discussed working with the provocative director on films like *Antichrist*.
  3. Other Directors: Collaborations with Martin Scorsese (*The Last Temptation of Christ*) and Yorgos Lanthimos (*Poor Things*).
  1. Acting Experience
  2. Process of Acting: Emphasizes the importance of immersing in roles and the collaborative nature of filmmaking.
  3. Productivity: Dafoe reflects on how his work in theater and film informs his identity and productivity as an actor.
  1. Personal Insights
  2. Distinctive Appearance: Shares humorous anecdotes about his face and how it contributes to his acting.
  3. Satisfaction from Work: Finds joy and structure in being engrossed in projects, viewing acting as a way to understand and experience life.
  1. Challenges in Acting
  2. Difficult Scenes: Discussed the discomfort and technical aspects of filming intimate scenes and the emotional impact of roles (e.g., the experience of being buried alive in *The Lighthouse*).
  1. Controversial Projects and Censorship
  2. Last Temptation of Christ: The backlash and censorship faced during its release. Dafoe reflects on the nature of artistic expression versus public reception.
  3. Cultural Climate: Talks about a perceived shift towards risk-averse attitudes in contemporary culture and how it impacts creativity.

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Key Takeaways

  • Duplicitous Nature of Film: Dafoe expresses that film acting is not just about portraying characters but about exploring deeper truths and emotions.
  • Passion for Collaboration: He values working alongside directors who understand his craft and allow him to contribute creatively.
  • Personal Growth: Acting serves as a journey of self-discovery, with Dafoe emphasizing the importance of the process over the final product.
  • Censorship Concerns: Dafoe raises concerns about how contemporary societal norms may inhibit creative expression in film and theater.

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Noteworthy Quotes

  • "The making of the movie always trumps the movie itself."
  • "Do this to do this, not to get that."
  • "There's a lot of power in the collaborative process when you’re creating something together."

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Conclusion This episode encapsulates an engaging conversation between Louis Theroux and Willem Dafoe, exploring the intricacies of the acting world, the value of personal experiences in creative processes, and the challenges faced by artists in navigating societal expectations. Dafoe's rich career and philosophical insights provide a thoughtful perspective on the art of acting and the evolving landscape of cinema.

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0:001, 2, 1, 2, are you ready?

0:05Hello, Louis Theroux here and welcome to my podcast called, unbelievably, The Louis Theroux Podcast.

0:20To kick off this brand new series, we have none other than acting legend, the one and only Willem Dafoe. Where do you begin? He's made so many films, 150, according to my notes. Growing up in Appleton, Wisconsin, he began his acting career in the experimental theatre scene of New York in the late 70s. I first came across his work when I watched Oliver Stone's film Platoon, probably like a lot of people. That was my first Willem Dafoe experience. And he plays, well, he plays a kind of embodiment of an upstanding and likable, almost slightly angelic. Is that too strong? soldier. Obviously the main protagonist is Charlie Sheen, but it's an incredible scene.

1:04I won't give you the lowdown because it's a spoiler, but if you haven't seen Platoon, check it out. Since then, he's collaborated with some of the most acclaimed directors in the world doing boundary-pushing work in controversial projects like Lars von Trier's Antichrist, Scorsese's The Last Temptation of Christ, and more recently, Yorgos Lanthimos's award-winning Poor Things. He's also starred in huge commercially successful blockbusters, including the Spider-Man franchise. You've heard of that? In which he played the Green Goblin. That was Sam Raimi. Love Sam Raimi. Evil Dead. Beetlejuice, Beetlejuice, and, most recently, Robert Eggers' adaptation of Nosferatu, which came out earlier this month.

1:49We recorded this interview in September 2024 while Willem was in London promoting Beetlejuice, Beetlejuice. the follow-up to Beetlejuice and my cousin's also in that Justin Thoreau maybe you've heard of him so I was at the premiere with Justin I didn't talk to Willem all of this comes up in the conversation I'd also recently come back from my summer holidays in Crete which had got me thinking about Cretan history and legends and the story of the Minotaur half man half bull living in a labyrinth underneath the palace of King Minos and then I was thinking about this building in Spotify Anyway, it became an opening question to Willem, bafflingly, because it really didn't go anywhere.

2:28But that explains why my mind was stewing on that. There's a tiny bit of bad language. I'm sorry. And, you know, I think you'll enjoy the chat. You'll see that there's a journey, a journey in which I'm navigating the very appropriate level of amour propre that Willem brings into the conversation. That's a French word. If you don't understand it, look it up. and then my eagerness to create a puckish and playful conversational ambiance. And we arrive at, I think, a beautiful place of mutual understanding. All that and much, much more after this.

3:24It's weird. I sit in here on my own for five or ten minutes before the guest comes in, and it's quite an odd... I was thinking about it just now, and I was like... I just got back from Crete, I was like, maybe this is how the Minotaur felt when he was being fed his human victims. Yes. Because, you know, this is slightly subterranean. Did you notice? Yes, I noticed. This is a strange place. And it's quite Warren-like, it's labyrinthine. Yes. And then I've been in Crete, and I was like, Maybe I'm like the minotaur, which isn't a nice image because that would imply you were a sacrificial victim. But each year the minotaur would be fed 12 men and women of noble birth.

3:58Oh, OK. Well, that's not me. Well, I beg to differ. I'm talking about the aristocracy of talent. OK. I was just in Greece. Were you? Doing a movie, yeah, and I loved... First I was in Corfu and then I was in Athens, which I really fell in love with. Your ghost lent the most. No, not this time. Really? I mean, I've sat with him two times, but right now, in fact, I was shooting with a Spanish director, Greek production, international production, and Corfu and then Athens, yeah. Well, we've arrived very quickly at the core detail of the Willem Dafoe enigma. What is that? Which is productivity. Right?

4:47Well, that's... Yeah, that happens by accident. But you're very... I mean, maybe that is, because there's nothing that enigmatic about being industrious. Thank you. Thank you for that. Nevertheless, the striking thing in preparing for this interview... Are we all good to go? There they go. They just scurry out. The striking thing was... It's how much work you've made. You know what? To be honest, it surprises me. Between the theatre and the film stuff, I'm always struck that that's how I remember my life when I have to remember something. I think about a film or a theatre piece and think what was I doing at that time to kind of do a check on where I was in my life.

5:32I try not to psychologise, certainly near the beginning of the chat, but since we're on the subject, do you have thoughts on what it is? Because what comes across in reading about you is how central to you being productive is working, enjoying the work. Yes. You're never happier, correct me if I'm wrong, than when you're just engrossed, immersed in a project. You know, I'm happy when I'm not working too, but I think, you know, when you're working, there's a structure that I enjoy, you know. It's a way to apply myself. And then certain things are taken care of. I don't have to worry about the little things, you know.

6:10I have to worry about what I do. and other things are taken care of for me, where in my life I have to take care of everything. Yeah. Because I'm not a prince, I keep it pretty simple. I know you divide your time between New York and Rome, or is it a little place outside Rome? Both, both. Yeah, both. Yeah. And the place outside Rome, I believe, is somewhat farm-like. Yes, it's a farm, or more like a zoo maybe, because I have lots of animals. An enormous vegetable garden and a nice piece of land, yeah. But you travel a lot for work. I was sitting next to you. This is going to creep you out. Oh, God.

6:52Did I behave myself? I couldn't tell. You're supposed to say yes. I would love to say yes, but I can't confidently. It was the after party for Beetlejuice Beetlejuice. Oh, just recently. Yeah, last week. Here in London. My cousin is in it. Who? Justin Thoreau. Crazy. No, he really is your cousin? Yes. Really? Yeah. That surprises you. It surprises me only because he's not English. Yeah. I'm American. Ah, but you've been here a long time. Yeah. No, I was born in Singapore. This isn't about me. No, it can be. It can be. I love that. It's your show. Have you seen any of my programs? No, I haven't.

7:37I'm sorry, but... Does jiggle jiggle mean anything to you? Jiggle jiggle, it means something to me, but not specifically. I mean, I hear jiggle jiggle and I get some images in my head. Okay. But my cousin, yeah, my dad was born in Medford, Massachusetts, outside Boston. Yes. And my dad and mum met in Africa where they were in the, he was in the Peace Corps. She was doing volunteer work, teaching. Very good. Yeah. And so they settled in London. I grew up with a U.S. passport. I now have dual nationality, but I have a lot of American family, including Justin Thoreau. I say Thoreau. And he's been in a few projects with you.

8:19He invited me along. We're getting to the point now to the premier, the London premier. I say you do look like him. You know, I'll leave that on the table. I would love to. He's a good-looking, I mean, he's a Hollywood. He's got great hair, like you. At the London premiere of Beetlejuice, Beetlejuice. Where I'm getting, I know, I feel like I've been talking about this too long. What struck me was, oh, wow, Willem's here at the premiere, and so is Michael Keaton, and so is Winona Ryder, and basically you were all there. And then I thought, oh, I'm very naive. That must be in the contract to turn up.

8:58I don't know that it is. If you do the work and you want to support the film and you want a good relationship with the director and everything and also a good relationship with the studio, you go to bat for it if necessary. Sometimes they ask you. Sometimes they don't. Usually it depends on what kind of role. For example, in this role, I'm in the ensemble. So it's not a natural thing. But I like Tim Burton so much, and I think the movie's going to be popular. So I thought, what the hell, I'll show up and be with everyone. It'll be a nice way to see everyone, and I can talk about the movie, and I can support the movie.

9:40So as far as contractually, I think there's always a way out if you don't want to do press. But I don't mind doing press. I really don't. I feel like if you do the movie, generally you should support it unless something traumatic happens to you. And I think I can safely say, while sometimes you're a little disappointed by things, I've never had that kind of trauma. So generally, if I can, I try to support a movie. I mean, this might be a naive question or maybe a silly question, but how invested are you in the idea of the movie being good? Like, is it a nervous moment when you sit down and watch it because you're thinking, oh, I hope it's OK?

10:24I usually have some sense of it. And that doesn't mean it'll fly. But I have some sense of all you can do is be there and do a good job and, you know, try to fold in and give yourself to it. And if you've done that, then you worry less about the result because you've done what you can. I mean, the nature of a film is very collaborative, so let's face it. On some level, you can't obsess about its reception or how it's going to be because I don't really control that, absolutely. What I do control is when I'm on the set, you know, being in a good place to be available and, you know, find out how I can best contribute.

11:11But, I mean, it all sounds very Pollyanna, but, you know, it's really, it's, every time you get together on a movie, it's always different. You look around, you say, what are we doing? Who do we got? What are strong points? What are weak points? What do we have to discover? What do we already know? All those things are floating around. But very seldom am I thinking, oh, this will be a great scene, people will love this, or this is going to be a great movie. I say, oh, I'm excited to do this scene. I'm excited to play this character. I'm excited to work with so-and-so. But I don't think about the reception so much.

11:51That doesn't mean at all that I don't care, because in fact, I do very much. Because if you like something, you want it to get out there. And if you think something's beautiful, it's a nice comfort to have other people like it as well. You've said that, this is a paraphrase, that the important thing for you or the thing you enjoy most maybe is the process, the actual making. I don't know, but yeah. I mean, I think for my life, the making of the movie always trumps the movie itself. Yeah. And go figure. It can be five months of your life, and there's all kinds of adventures and challenges and triumphant moments and failures and problem-solving and all that.

12:35That can be a very full event for you, and then it can boil down to meh, or it can boil down to something great. but as I said it's you yes of course the two are connected but there are many hands and many processes between the making and the actual thing including you know promotion and distribution all that that really have a hand in the fate of the movie so so much in life you know when we have certain expectations that can be very oppressive and can really limit your accessing certain impulses. So I always try to keep my eye on the prize and be present and get behind what I'm doing so that it's organic and it's committed and something, I have some connection to it.

13:37So no matter – this sounds paranoid – but no matter how it's sliced or diced, I can stand behind it because it still basically has the DNA of a good intention. You know, I said slightly glibly earlier that the central enigma was productive. Glib? Well, glib it or not, how dare you? I didn't notice. But, you know, the fact is you've been very productive. You've also worked over a long period of time, many years, creating work of an extremely high standard. You're very beloved. But there's a tension between a kind of maverick, risk-taking approach to your work, but also kind of you get a lot of repeat customers.

14:18You've never been embroiled in any scandal that I could find of any serious sort. you sort of have the dream career in one sense of being in certain respects of Hollywood enough to be in good odour with the people who finance films and to keep getting work but also to define what your life looks like to not be consumed by box office and variety and all that stuff have I articulated anything? That sounds good I recognise some of it I don't recognise other parts of it when it's your life, you're thankful for the good things but you're also very sensitive about the bad things and some of those bad things may not be apparent.

15:03Was that an invitation to ask you what the bad things are? I suppose so. You're clever. Consider yourself, like feel free... No, listen, listen, you... I mean, I'm very happy. Now's a good period of my life. I find interesting things to do. I'm interested in many things, you know. I love many things. I'm going to cut you off. That's not going towards the bad things, and that's fine. Who wants to talk about the bad things? The bad things are personal, and I'm not sure there are bad things, but I had to throw it out there. So you get the impression that, you know, I'm not living the life of Riley.

15:49Yeah, I know. You don't like talking about your yoga. I loved this because you feel like other people listening think that what they hear is you should be doing yoga and you don't want to put that on them. It's like if you're a vegetarian or something or a vegan or something to go out with people and say, oh, I'm vegan. Just order. Just order. Because I think people feel stressed when they're in the presence of someone that they worry about a judgment implied. So it's a little bit like that. And it's also like someone talking about their religion. If it's not your religion and they're talking about it like it's the thing that makes their life beautiful, there's an implied thing of a lack of something in the other person.

16:39So, yeah. Can I ask? I can only say that when you say yoga, that's a very broad term. But I mean I do an asana practice. What does that mean as an asana? That's the different postures. I do an ashtanga yoga practice. And for many years I studied Vedanta.

17:06But that's a very broad description. Six days a week? Yeah, pretty much, pretty much. Sometimes there's a reason. Now it's an hour. It used to be longer. I, you know, recognize that there's certain things that I shouldn't push. Is there a secret to the hair, to your lush hair? My lush hair? I talk to my mother, talk to my father. It's jeans, is it? I guess so. Probably, you know, my hair. You've got hair. I've got some. What, you got a little comb over there? that fooled us all? I'm not, this isn't a bit for sympathy and I feel bad saying it because it sounds like, I don't, I've got, what's alopecia?

17:50So I've got, do you? It came on about two years ago. Listen, this isn't about me. I keep saying that, you know. It's always going to be about you. Your kindness, your evident, you know, it's obvious. I mean, I don't know. You can do an impression of being nice, which you're successfully managing to do hitherto, like in this room, but what speaks to me more eloquently or more credibly is that you get a lot of repeat business from the directors you work with. Yes. So that suggests they value you not just as a talented collaborator but a considerate and conscientious one. That sounds good, but I also value them.

18:26And also I like this idea. Oh, stop. You don't have to be nice about them. We're talking about you now. No, no, no, but hang on, hang on. I was going to get into something else, so let me talk. but I also come from the theater and I love this thing where there can be a company of people and you can do these things and it creates a different another dimension when you see the same people in all these you know filtered through different for lack of a better word stories or events so when there's a director I love being a part of their language you know a part of their work that thrills me besides the obvious things about having a shorthand, being comfortable with them, having a trust.

19:11And in the best cases, they kind of create things for you because they know you, they know what you can do, and they give you a good setup. And let's face it, the best thing a director can do is give you a complete world and give you a good setup and let you go and watch you. And if you get off track, you know, slap you around a little bit. But was that so nice? That sounds good. I mean, so I came to this having first seen you in Platoon, probably like a lot of people, which was a... Okay, I'd say that was the first movie that, you know, was seen internationally. I think there were other movies before that, like To Live and Die in L.A.

19:56was an important movie. William Friedkin. Yeah, but I think that was maybe... That didn't get a great release, but it was appreciated. after the release because it's a film that filmmakers like. Which I haven't got to. Likewise, I didn't get to the first one you did, which was with Catherine Bigelow. Right, The Loveless. The Loveless, which I'm intrigued to watch as well. Is it fair to say she lifted you from the world of experimental... Well, maybe not lifted, but... Well, she was starting and I was starting. So we were two people, you know, trying out this new thing. She came from the world of semiotics and she had made, I believe, short films before that.

20:38But that was the beginning for her. So and I was going to – I think I was hearing you say lifted me out of the world of experimental theater. Apparently not because I went on to work for another almost 30 years with that company. So there was no leaving. That was my identity. and the movies, you know, became another part. And then the movies a little bit overtook that particular company because it was difficult to, since we were doing original work and it was taking a long time to make that work, every time I'd go away for a movie, a certain part of the thing that we were working on had to either be frozen or my part had to be really minimized.

21:28So it was a difficult balancing act. And we did it for a while, but then I think it got a little difficult. We've got time a little later maybe to talk about your upbringing and the fact that you grew up in the Midwest in Wisconsin. But at that time when you got your break in movies, you'd been working in experimental theatre. You were in New York having moved there, right? Right. Doing sort of avant-garde experimental theatre. Yes. Which would you say informed part of your process going forward? Oh, very much, very much To this day, that formed who I am as a film actor And as a theatre actor This basic thing of, you know, it was really about making things And it was really being part of a group that makes these things And you're responsible for all aspects of the production on some level And as an actor, you're concentrating on doing things on committing to actions and folding into the actions and submitting to the story.

22:27Not so much interpreting, not so much doing characters, playing people and giving them their day in court and having an experience that was transparent enough that the audience could be with you on that thing that you're doing. I worked with Richard Foreman, a great theater director, and he used to always say, stories hide the truth. Everybody's obsessed with stories because it's easy to hop on that bus. But I think the power of film is something other than that. It has something to do with, you know, color and sound and other things. And I think working in the theater made that kind of natural to me, that I'm not just an actor, I'm a performer.

23:19and I am material. I am material in this stew that we're making and I like that. Richard Foreman was a new name to me when I was researching this and I realised he was an important figure for you and so I read a tiny bit and I had a strange reaction because I didn't fully understand what he was talking about some of the time I mean, you know, just skimming the surface of his ideas. And even that idea of stories hide the truth, I have a little difficulty understanding. Why not? Because people hop on the train and then they go only to what they recognize. And the truth is something that's hidden usually because all our habits, all our politeness, all that niceness that you're talking about often hide certain social conventions, hide what's going on.

24:13And I kind of get repelled at the idea of, you know, you do a theater piece and you tell the audience something. You know, it's like you're superior. You have a superior understanding or you've created a situation where you can tell something they haven't thought of. That's not usually the case. We've got to, you know, jumpstart our sense of wonder and our sense of mystery. That's all. And if we deal with too much button pushing, then I think people can find an enjoyable experience. They can even find an empathetic experience, but it doesn't change them. It doesn't transform them. It doesn't challenge them in a way that people, I think, generally don't go towards, but I think we need that to stay alive.

25:03and the theater and films are a beautiful way to break that wall because you're given this opportunity to rethink reality. I said a mouthful, didn't I? That was good. Was it good? I'm not sure. Keep that bit in. It was heartfelt. You know what? It started to make sense, which is a good sign. I started thinking about David Lynch. I regard him as an avatar of maybe that kind of filmmaking which is not linear, not cliche, kind of incomprehensible at times, driven a lot by visuals, then coming into focus with recognisable bits of plot and characterisation. I don't make the comparison idly because one of the other things I saw you in back in the day was playing the role of Bobby Peru in Wild at Heart, right?

25:54Which was, you know, I saw that film like 25, 30 years ago when it came out, whenever it came out. You were going to say 20 to 25 times and I thought, this explains everything. No, probably. No, once. I swear once. I don't often see it. But here's my point is that I could probably mention three things in that film. One was the motif for the recurring visual of the match. Do you remember the match headlight igniting? Oh, yeah, sure. There's an explicit sex scene where Nick Cage and Laura Dern are having sex. And that left an impression on you. It left an impression. and then the scene with you is Bobby Peru, a kind of brown-toothed hitman who's being kind of predatory and disgusting and Laura Dern is there and then she's utterly repelled by him and then she seems to, as I recall, begin rubbing her thighs together.

26:41He seduces her. And she starts being attracted by him. I don't know about attracted but she's going to submit to his desires. If that's attraction, I don't know but she's decided she's going to throw down. No, but he's proposing. He's proposing for them to get together. And then, of course, I don't worry about spoilers here because you either know the film or you'll seek it out or you won't, you know. But, yeah, then he gets to the point where she's going to be with him and he breaks it off because it was just a little game for him. He was just fucking with her. Yeah. Amazing. Yeah. No, it's a beautiful scene.

27:25You know, we shot it very simply. The beautiful thing about that movie was, I mean, I really enjoyed working with David, but everything was so clear. The world was so clear. I did no research. It was in my imagination. I had these teeth that really made the character one of those triggers that you look for that make you feel different, make you think differently. and then before you know it, you're entertaining impulses that you don't know. And then beautiful writing from Barry Gifford. I was going to say, my flex here is that I've read the novel that it's based on, which is called Sailor and Lulu by Barry Gifford.

28:04Barry Gifford, I mean, to me, he's a huge talent. I don't even know if he's still alive. You don't hear about him that much. Of course he's alive, very much alive. Hey, Barry, how you doing? Hi, Barry. If you're listening to this, apologies for killing you off. Yeah, that's terrible. Welcome back. He's very much alive and he's still writing and doing lots of things. It's a terrific, in its way, it's a short novel, largely dialogue-driven about these two drifter characters kind of going through a quintessential Americana. You've also said that all the characters are in you in different ways. You're giving expression to aspects of yourself.

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28:38It's creepy to imagine that Bobby Peru is sitting across from me even as I speak. Bobby Peru is also sitting across from me. No, I've got to believe that. You know, we're all capable of any kind of behavior. We are. We are, given the right circumstances. I wish. I need more Bobby Peru in there. Well, cultivate it, baby. Yeah, do you think so? Yeah, do get to work. That's the work. That's interesting. To let that little devil come out. Wow, I'm going to sit with that for a second. No, I really believe that somehow because I've seen it in my life. I've seen it in my life. people can really surprise themselves and are capable of any behavior.

29:18Look at history. Big time. I mean, I agree. Look at some big shockers there. The Nietzsche quote is... No, actually, I won't do that. Do it. I want to hear it. We don't have to do anything with it, but I'm always happy to hear a Nietzsche quote. Because madness in individuals is rare, but in periods of time, in nations, in religions, in something, it's the norm. I.e. we're all involved in forms of organized madness and that the behavior that we pathologize is much more a part of us than we care to recognize. Okay. Does that kind of make sense? That's part of our conversation. I don't think that was relevant at all.

30:18Because you're an illustrious guest, I went into overcompensation mode and I watched a ton of your films to make sure I was well prepared. How was that? It was great. Did you see Antichrist? Yes. Why did you go there? It's a good one, because that's a good one and I don't think people know it. That's the one I was going to land on. So I watched... So we're in sync, baby. Florida Project, Poor Things. Good. Shadow of the Vampire. Good. I'm curious to know if there's one that I'm going to say. As I started saying good, I thought, what if you get some stinker? Now I'm going to say Body of Evidence.

30:53You know, every time I come to the UK, they give me a hard time about Body of Evidence. Do they? But if I'm in a Latin American country, they love it. For people who don't know, it was the movie you made with Madonna. Yeah. It was kind of post-Basic Instinct and it was in a somewhat similar vibe. It was and it was for people that didn't care for it, they thought it was like a knockoff of that. I don't think that was it. It was kind of an old-fashioned courtroom drama thing with this sex spin on it. And Madonna was at the height of her, you know, she was doing her sex book then. While we would do it, she was preparing her sex book.

31:34She was at the height of her sexiness. And I think, I don't know, I won't judge the movie, but some people like it, some people don't. What can I say? She dripped hot wax on your nipples? Yeah, but that's no big deal. Was it real? Yes, but that's no big deal. I've done a lot worse. I mean, I'm not talking sex things. I mean, I've done much more difficult things in movies than that. I feel like the reviews were savage. I don't feel like that. They were. But I feel as though in some respects you were collateral damage in a pile on directed at Madonna, that she was, as you said, at the height of her sexiness in every sense.

32:17She was catnip for the tabloids. Yeah. And that anything she touched. And if she was seen as trespassing in movies as a sort of creature of music, an interloper, and the movie wasn't perfection, then there would be hell to pay. I guess in a serious mode, though, because you were actually on an amazing trajectory of films. And it felt like it was intended as a big, successful, obviously, Hollywood film. It was actually quite a modest film. But I think it did okay, but did you feel in any way... It must have hurt a bit. Because where I was going to go... I mean, you get the idea. Yeah. I was there.

32:59I did it. Some people like it, some people don't. There's other movies to talk about. Shadow of the... Where did I get... I put that in there to be cheeky. Actually, it was where I was going to go. Shadow of the Vampire, The Lighthouse, I watched last night. I liked that one. Directed by Robert Eggers. Robert Eggers, who was a great director. Who'd made The Witch, which I also loved. And I just did Nosferatu with him. Okay. And The Northman. So you've done three now. Yeah, yeah. And just to finish up, and I watched adverts for Birdseye, Fish Fingers, Snickers, a brand of car and a brand of whiskey.

33:33Yeah. What is it? Why don't you just watch the movies? The ads were pretty good too. Good. I think we were going to arrive at Antichrist, which for me was, all of those movies have their merits, but Antichrist is something special because Lars von Trier personifies the trickster, the imp of cinema, like he's both a visionary, a provocateur. I have a huge soft spot for him. I do too. No, I just like the movie because I think it touches, it gets misidentified, I think. because of some of its extremeness. But I think it really speaks to interesting things about women's power, men's fear of women, the struggle between the logical and the magical in life.

34:26There's lots of sexual politics in it, and it's not about misogyny at all. I think he identifies with the women more than the man. I can tell you that because I play the straight logical one in the movie. But I think he has a... He's genuinely curious and he's a great filmmaker. So he... You know, the opening of that movie and the epilogue of that movie is great cinema. Did it surprise you that it was divisive? I was a little surprised. Listen, for cinephiles and for people that I'm interested in and have good dialogues with, If they were interested in this movie, it's not set up as a crowd pleaser.

35:13A romp? No, it ain't. But you know what? Neither is it a kind of dry... No, it's got lots of fun stuff in it. It's plenty of action. Yeah, yeah. And actually, there's two things about it that I could imagine put people off. One is there are explicit scenes of genital mutilation. Yeah, that sounds terrible. But in context, it's pretty satisfying. mind not the word i had in mind but definitely it feels like it's listen there's this problem where we reduce these things that are very complex to kind of uh the warts you know yeah and then that's what goes out it's particularly a problem as uh real film criticism disappears and gives way to, you know, short form and TikTok and influencers and all that.

36:03There's not the dialogue that some films of sophistication deserve. And you can say, ah, shut up, you know, be an actor, make a movie, you know. But I think it's a problem because it's a star of cinema a little bit. The high-minded cinema, that actually makes way for the popular cinema because I always feel like there is a... Remember Reagan? You know, drip down economics or whatever. For sure, yeah. I think the Lars von Trier's of the world... Look, Lars, the fluid camera, you know, that he used on something like Breaking the Waves, that trickled down and becomes a standard for a lot of, you know, series now.

36:46I like that. It's almost like the Overton window of artistry gets pulled a little bit and more things become... It kind of refreshes the vocabulary and the grammar of all filmmaking. Absolutely, absolutely. And the same for the theatre, for any art form, but it's usually the people that, you know, are the target and seem a little outré or seem a little perverse or seem like... Those are the people that, you know, we've got to let them go. Are you friends with Lars? I, you know, you don't like the main drop. I keep in touch with him. Yeah. Yeah. He was going through a depression when he was making it.

37:22Yes, very much. And so at times... He used to say to me every day, listen, I may not be there tomorrow because I can direct you remote from a trailer I have. With a monitor? Yeah. But he showed up every day. But he needed to tell me that every day, me and Charlotte. Wow. Yeah. It kind of breaks your heart. So he's a guy that struggles, struggles with many things, But he's got a big heart and he also is given a lot to cinema. For people, I feel like as a Lars von Trier fan, I'm in danger of leaving some of my audience behind. So I'm going to say, or people in radio, Lars von Trier is a Danish auteur of the highest caliber who specializes in having a...

38:09What is it? It's almost like a nature red in tooth and claw take on the human-animal and gender relations. And I think probably sometimes does things with a provocateur. I don't think he's trying to represent absolute truth. I think he enjoys parts of it as a tease. Anyway, he takes on themes. But often in his films, women are being brutalised. I think that's fair to say. Yeah. I know that sounds a bit crass and maybe reductive. It's reductive. But it is the case. And I think as a result, some critics, not just the general audiences, have said this is ugly and unnecessary. Well, it's always hard to, you know, when you start sanitising certain images because you have a judgement about them, sometimes that can have a very negative effect.

38:59Sometimes those can be more instructive and they can do greater good sometimes to put it out there. You took the film to Cannes. Was it well received? Yes, very well. Was it Melancholia that got into hot water, like the film after or the two films? No, well, Melancholy, you know, he had this comment about Hitler that if you look at the context, you know, Lars has always been set up as kind of this, as you say, provocateur, you know. Fuckish, contrarian. Yes, yes. He recently said Russians are people too. And everybody at Cannes supports that. And he just crossed the line and then he got cancelled.

39:42That's it. That's end of story. But let's go on from Lars. I mean, Lars is a perfectly good, as you say, maybe your audience doesn't know him. So let's talk about something else. Okay, let me go. If I may. Please. Okay, where we're going to go is here. So we mentioned my cousin, Justin. Yes. He used to work as a ticket taker in a theatre. And he told me this the other night, that he was in one of the theatres when, this is a long segue, but when Last Temptation of Christ came out, The Scorsese film. Another way of approaching this is because it turned out to be controversial as well, but in a very different way.

40:22In a way, it was cancelled at a time when it was called to be cancelled because it was cancelled by the religious elements of the religious or Catholic community. Religious right. Yeah, the religious right. At least in the States. It was a huge deal at the time. Yeah, it was. And I thought it was a shame because I think it didn't get the distribution it deserved. Some theatres pulled it. Some? Many. Did they? Many, sure. And I mentioned Justin because he apparently would have to check people's bags. Right, right. Because the threat level was so high. And in fact, you'll know this, October 22, 1988, some crazy Catholic group set fire to Saint-Michel Cinema in Paris while it was showing the film.

41:08The attack injured 13 people, four of whom were severely burned. and severely damaged the cinema. Also, there were many incidents like that. Someone drove a semi into a theatre. You know, these kinds of things. Do you want to say anything about that? That must have been upsetting, right? Ah, yes. You know, it's just strange in the world of slasher films and porn and all that that people got so upset about this because it's based on a novel and, you know, broadly speaking, They're changing the classic story a little bit to consider the character of Jesus in a different way. That's all. It's not this plot to overthrow some religious thought, you know, or change some religious thought.

41:59It's a consideration, another way of looking at the human aspect of Jesus as opposed to the divine part. It didn't feel especially irreverent, like Jesus does miracles. I mean, he's got human traits. Nevertheless, he's depicted as having a yearning for a family life and having sexual interests, and that evidently was considered beyond the veil. Well, remember, remember that a lot of people had protests against the film without saying it. It was the idea. It was the idea. They don't even like the idea of Hollywood making a movie about Jesus unless it's sanctioned by them. You know, is your faith so weak that it can be threatened by someone else's idea?

42:56You know, you're kind of hitting the greatest hits here. I'm trying to. I'm trying to keep it moving. The original cast included Aidan Quinn as Jesus. Did you know that? Of course. I know Aidan and they tried to do the movie but it fell apart for various reasons. And then when they got it together, the second time I had a very simple call that Martin Scorsese wants to talk to you. And I said, great. And they said, what's it for? This movie, Last Temptation. Oh, they're getting that together. Yeah. And I said, for what role? they said, Jesus, you idiot. And I read the script and I thought that was a wacky idea.

43:43But then I read the script and I said, okay, I get it. Yeah, I want to do this badly. I mean, to work with Martin Scorsese would be enough, but I thought it was a role at that point in my life that I was, you know, connected to. Did any of that stuff touch you? Of course. You mean the controversy? only to a degree I mean down the road there was one project in particular that I was cast in and the studio uncast me because they didn't like that I was associated with Last Temptation really? but I don't want to do a big crocodile tears about that because it could have been much worse but I didn't feel it so so much I think most of the responsibility fell on Martin Scorsese.

44:40And I get censored on this, but I think it's really true that somewhere people think actors, you know, are kind of a little whorish and they'll do whatever, you know, to get a good role or something so they don't hold you responsible somehow. They really look to the director and the studio. The auteur. It became a huge anti-Semitic thing too because an association that this religious right talked about, you know, the evil people in Hollywood. So in America anyway, that was the main fight. They put a construction on it that was shadowy Jewish people who were... Yeah. Really? I hadn't realised that.

45:30That was a big part of it. It was a political opportunity for them to rally around an issue. Next. Okay. I'm just thinking about that. So you were offered the role and then... These are films... I mean, they're good films to talk about and they're interesting films, but let's talk about... If you don't mind, fast forward, because I'm a little fresher on that. I'm curious whether... And I've spoken about those other things because that was so long ago that I've spoken about them ad nauseum. And I'll be a little fresher if I talk about something that's a little more recent. That was perfect. Have you ever auditioned?

46:12This is, again, maybe a naive question. Have you ever auditioned? Do you just have a meeting and then obviously now you just sit down and have a chat? I've auditioned. I remember auditioning for the Green Goblin, for example. Now we're getting somewhere. Now we're getting somewhere. Now, yeah. Yeah, now you're doing your job. For Sam Raimi. For Sam Raimi. He's a great film. I was doing a movie in Spain, and they sent somebody down to tape me. They sent me pages before, and in my little hotel room, I did these scenes, and they taped me, and yeah. That was obviously a superhero film. It was like 2000.

46:50Yeah, and you... It was sort of before they were huge juggernaut. Yeah, there were superhero films, obviously, But, like, I remember explicitly that some of my friends are like, really? You're going to do that? You know? They weren't what they are now, you know? But I thought it would be fun and I love doing action stuff. And I thought I love doing things sometimes with a big mask. You know, it's a great opportunity to really get away from yourself and do something extreme and fun. So I was totally down with it. And Sam Raimi, you know, that was a very sincere movie in a funny way. He really believed in Spider-Man.

47:32And he walked a beautiful line, sometimes in the same scene, elements of drama and comedy right next to each other in a beautiful way, I thought. And I haven't seen him in a long time. But when I did see it, I thought, wow, beautiful. You know, he could switch it really well. It was with the Tobey Maguire incarnation of Spider-Man. And, yeah, it really holds up. I bet. I bet. Because it was solid. And, of course, you know, effects have changed and we had really kind of simple effects. You know, I was on wires a lot, which was a lot of fun. We had to do a lot of it practically. So I was flying around on making these huge, giant leaps, you know, and wires and it was cool.

48:23And one of the legacies of that, as you may or may not be aware, I don't think you're big on social media, are you? I'm not. You're a meme. I'm sure you've been told that. I am aware of that, I must admit. You are not just a meme. I think you're very memeable. In fact, my kids were especially excited about me interviewing you because of the meme factor. It's okay. It's actually not nothing in the sense that it gives you a currency. Yeah. It gives you a currency. And I think it speaks maybe to something about your face. Maybe. And expressiveness. Yes. That's better. Yes. You've said you look like the boy next door if you lived next door to a mausoleum.

49:08I probably said that in a weak moment 30 years ago, okay? this is the problem with the internet it doesn't breathe once it's locked in there there's something special about your face I buy it and I think you made another comment where you said I was on the subway, that one? no actually maybe it was go on no I was taking my kid to the zoo and we were on the subway in New York and it was when New York was still dangerous and some guys got on the train and they took special interest in me and they were looking at me and whispering among each other and they looked rough. So I thought, oh, man, I'm going to get robbed.

49:52Even with my kid, they're going to mess with me, you know. And then one looked at the other and he says, yeah, it's got to be him. Nobody looks like that motherfucker.

50:05Okay, so that was my proof. That was it. Listen, I see my face because I get made up sometimes and I'm looking in a mirror, but I don't think about my face. But I do know because sometimes when I see a movie, my face has a mind of its own, but I let it go. I don't censor it, but I certainly don't think about it. And sometimes when people don't understand performing very well, they say, wow, you made some great expressions. I didn't make the expressions. My body made the expression because I was doing a particular thing and then it manifests in that expression. But I'm not thinking about that. My body gets driven by something else, you know, something mysterious.

50:52Think of all the functions, you know, that the eye does in every second. So much of what we do that we think that we control, we don't. so as an actor you just have to direct yourself in the sense of commit to certain actions and kind of be there and have the world drop away and make your own world be there be there because then you can let go of of who you think you are and what you're hanging on to and it opens the door to being something else and that's the nature of pretending which is certainly the base of performing, at least to my mind. You know, I've heard you say similar... It was great, by the way.

51:35I heard you say similar things. I think about how acting comes so not naturally to me. I love the work that I do, which tends to be interviewing or making documentaries where I'm out on location and there's curiosity, you're in the moment, you're absolutely... If it's going well, you're lost in what's going on. You're in this eternal present of reacting and being curious and being completely consumed by what you're doing. It seems completely... That's a divine place to be, I think. It's a lovely thing to do. And I've read something similar in what you've said about acting. But when I've acted, when I've tried to, it seems to be the opposite where I'm thinking about the lines, I'm thinking about the people around me, I go rigid, right?

52:19And I just wonder... That's the struggle. I mean, every actor struggles to find that place where they're free of those things. So learn your lines, dammit. Right, to learn the lines is probably a good start. I mean, you've sort of talked a bit about this, but what advice do you give? Maybe you've gone as far as you need to, but what advice do you give to actors? Like, you know, at its most basic, is there a key to acting well? You know, everybody finds their own way. And acting isn't one thing. You know, you always have to change your approach, and your job is always different. Sometimes you're driving, sometimes you're supporting, sometimes you're reacting, sometimes you're a passive character, sometimes you're an aggressive character, sometimes you're doing that thing that has to be done to push the story forward.

53:07Sometimes you're, I don't know, you get the idea. There's a whole variation of what acting can be. So I'm a little loathe to say this is the way, you know. The only advice that I give like young actors is don't do this to get that. Do this to do this. and that may sound really flat and prosaic, but I think it's very important, not only in acting but in life. Unpack that a tiny bit. You mean you choose each project on its own merits? I'm not talking about projects. I mean lifting this cup, you know. Don't get ahead of yourself. Lift the cup, lift the cup. And in the lifting of the cup, something will happen to you.

53:49I agree with that. I mean, in the sense that people always say, have a five-year plan, have a ten-year plan. I've never had a plan. I can't do it because life is unpredictable, and if you take unpredictability out of it, you're going to be pretty tightly wound. I mean, some people find success that way. That's why, I mean, I'm nobody to give advice. Some people do that, and they're perfectly happy. I don't have a judgment about it. There's no one way. Yeah, but this do this to do this, it's a big thing. That's when beautiful moments happen in the theater. that's when beautiful things happen in the performance and film.

54:25Not about making choices and making clever things. It's really about the depth of giving over. I mean, when I did this Van Gogh movie, there's so many... I read him exhaustively because he was a prolific letter writer. It was called... It's not one I've seen. At Eternity's Gate. And directed by... Julian Schnabel. Of course. I mean, he was interested in craft. He was interested in a lot of things. But I found a parallel when I learned how to paint. And Julian really taught me that you don't paint the likeness. You don't paint the tree. You paint what you see. And what you see is color, shadow, line.

55:09Everything gets broken down. It's similar with acting a little bit. concentrate on those things. Don't try to express the tree. Express the fundamentals of where stuff comes from and where things are going to. And if you start to get that sensitivity to the origin and where things are going, you keep it alive, you keep it curious, you keep it floating, you can surprise yourself that way. Does that make sense to you? I think so. I think so. Well, let me ask you this then. And in respect to, is acting always a pleasure? Are there times when you feel like you're not quite feeling it? Oh, sure. Sure, absolutely.

55:54Like any job, I suppose. It's like anything, yeah, yeah. Sometimes you're in the groove, sometimes you ain't. But the possibility of getting back is always there. And that's what's nice, you know. Sometimes you can be working on something and it feels dead. and then if you don't kick yourself and if you stay on it, it'll come back around. You haven't done, correct me wrong, much TV? I haven't done really any explicitly TV. I've done things that have ended up in streaming. Is that a choice? I don't know. I mean, you know, as long as I have movies to do and interesting movies to do, I'll do that.

56:34You think the work in movies tends to be a little more interesting? For me, yes. It's, you know, you go out with a team, you've got a director, not a showrunner, and you make something. And of course, it's got similar pressures that commercial pressures and financial pressures that, you know, TV has. I also like to give myself to a director. And if the director is changing all the time, and if it's like a series and the actors have more power than the director because they know the material and they know the run of the day better, and then you've got someone that's, you know, basically looking at algorithms and audience response and all that, and he's guiding the ship.

57:19It's not the way to go. I think you've got to go off, you know, go off to the new world, you know, have your adventure, and then come back with gold or glass beads. I don't know, you know. It's romantic. It's maybe silly, and as I say, I'm not qualified to really talk about it, but that's where I am. How are we doing for time? We've got a few more minutes. I feel like, I know you always talk about this probably, but it's nice for people to know a little bit about where you came from, how you came up. Born in 1955, Appleton, Wisconsin. One of the favoured sons of a Midwestern city alongside Harry Houdini.

57:59Yes. Joseph McCarthy. Yes. The senator behind... The Red Scare. The Red Scare and the witch hunts, the McCarthyite witch hunts. That's the right term, isn't it? Yes. Your father was a surgeon, right? Yeah. Mum was a nurse. They worked together. Yes. You were one of, I think, eight children one of the youngest and kind of co-parented by your elder siblings. Yeah. And maybe, I wouldn't say in any sense, well, correct me if I'm wrong, it doesn't sound as though it was in any way a neglectful upbringing, but you weren't the centre of your parents' world either. No, and I think they were a little bit of a model that I've always sought out, you know, kind of creative families.

58:44And, yeah. And also I also tend to work with the people that I love. Not always, but my two long-term relationships are both women directors. So I'm repeating something from my past maybe. Yes, you've created a work family. You've got one son of your own, correct? Yes. So you haven't repeated the sort of, as it were, organic family. He used to work with us, but then he hit adolescence, and I swear to God, he got awkward all of a sudden. He was a beautiful dancer, one of the most beautiful dancers I've ever seen. But then he hit adolescence, and he got self-conscious. We all do in adolescence. Yes, but it ran deep, and I think it was, you know, it doesn't take a psychologist to think that it had to do with He didn't want to compete with his mother, who was a director, and his father, who was an actor.

59:43So he chose another path. He became a lawyer. He became a lawyer. And he also grew up in a theatre company that, you know, was quite marginalised for a lot of the time I was there. And it was a tough life. That was the Wooster Group, you mean? Yeah, the Wooster Group. And they're in New York with a kind of... And they continue. Imagine the bohemian New York. Yeah, a little bit. CBGB. 70s, 80s. Kicking in with the Ramones. You got it. You got it. It wasn't, I mean, we were working, so it wasn't like we were out every night. We were working. But, I mean, the life was rough then, and some of the people didn't make it, you know what I'm saying?

1:00:19So he was witness to that. Do you think he saw, like... Oh, God, he was the child of a basically childless community of artists. Downtown punk scene of the early 70s in New York. Yeah, I don't know about punk, but, yeah, We were doing stuff that, you know, I think was new. And so how, I mean, like they're kind of very cliche. Again, it comes up in all the interviews and profiles. You'd seen the moon landing because being born in 55, you would have been 13 or 14. And then the idea of being in space made a big impression. So you got into it. Well, do you want to finish the story? No, when I saw that moon landing, I was always interested in challenges, you know, funny little things, solitary challenges.

1:01:09And after I saw the moon landing, I thought, how long could I stay isolated? This is a true story. Yeah. So one weekend, you know, I locked myself in a closet with a little food and I was allowed to go to the bathroom. But, you know, it's this kind of thing. And then I thought, basically, that's the performance artist impulse. Yeah. Take an idea and test yourself against, maybe that's not a performance artist thing, but, you know, as a kid, it was to take something, construct a situation, apply yourself to the situation, and see who you were through that situation. And I think that's some way to express the pleasure that I get when I say, oh, I like performing because it's such an adventure.

1:02:01I guess that expresses it in a slightly more articulate way than it's not about, you know, just having a good time. It's a form to deepen your experience of life, hopefully. Yeah, it feels almost like a Joseph Boyce kind of thing. I'm down with Joseph Boyce. Or indeed Marina Abramovich. Who is a friend of mine and I've worked with. Yeah. Yeah. I like transgression. Did I say that? Yes, you did. Oh, that was probably said 50 years ago. That doesn't apply anymore? No, of course it does. But I think when I say I like transgression, I think it's essential to challenge the things as they are, you know.

1:02:46So transgress, I guess, goes against. I don't know the origin of the word exactly but when I think transgression I don't think about shitting on the floor at a performance that's not what I'm talking about necessarily That can be a valid choice It is and I've seen that performance I haven't done it but I've seen that performance Who did that one? A Japanese performance artist in a space right near my house Divine famously ate dog poop in a John Waters film Famously I saw it Did you? Yeah. The movie? I mean, I saw the movie. I wasn't there. That's kind of like locking yourself in a closet. Oh, my goodness.

1:03:31Well, so what do we do with the fact that we want transgression, but we also want to be kind, right? Are these values in opposition in any way? No, they're all together. They're together because you're trying to be useful and you're trying to figure out what matters. And it's not just for you because in your giving yourself to a performance, I don't want to get too holy about this, you're trying to do a service. Somebody's got to do it. Let me do it. You know? What kind of transgression do we endorse, do you think? Things that make us think and reconsider things as they are. That's all. Yeah. That's all.

1:04:21Shifting the paradigm and disrupting things a little bit. Yeah. And I always felt like that, you know, because I think it's a good, you know, we've got to shake ourselves down, you know, every once in a while. I don't want this to sound like a loaded question. Uh-oh. Here we go. But it is. Well, it shouldn't be, really. Maybe it is. You've never worked with Woody Allen? No. Which seems surprising. Not really, because I'm not a New York type and he really deals in types a little bit. I'm not, you know, like a typical Jewish New Yorker and I'm not a blue-blood uptown guy. And he deals a lot in those things.

1:05:04Have you been invited? Never. Interesting. Never. But, you know, sometimes you can admire someone or you can admire a filmmaker or a film and you're just not part of their language. You're not part of their world and you just got to let it go, you know. You would have liked to have been in one? I don't know. It's funny. I'm aware of that because so many friends and so many people have been in Woody Allen films. And, of course, you know, he's had a long career and his work has changed a lot over the career. And, you know, now he's kind of somewhat canceled because of certain personal things. So it's, you know, it's a whole subject.

1:05:48But before, you know, the last 10 years, yeah, sometimes I thought, wow, he's never talked to me about anything. But then I sit myself down and say, you know, I'm probably not right for anything. that he's doing. I love that we got a tiny glimmer of insecurity there. Hey, it's... Maybe not. No, I'm not Mr. Confidence. I mean, being an actor is always filled with little rejections and, you know, yes, some celebrations, but little rejections always. In terms of that word cancellation or being cancelled, do you think we're in, you know, and also having talked a little bit about transgression, Do you think there's anything to this idea that the culture is more risk-averse, that people are policing the morality in a way that feels inhibiting?

1:06:38I think it's not even worth talking about because it's so obvious. Really? Don't you? I mean, I don't know because I live a life that in some ways is very simple, but also I live in a bubble. So if you don't spend a lot of time on social media or you don't watch the news a lot or you're not on the Internet much, there's a lot of things I don't know. And I let it go because there's other things I'm interested in. And as you get older, time management becomes so important because there's so many things I want to do and there's so many things that I love to do. And certain things I just don't get involved in.

1:07:20But do you think, and again, feel free to leave this on the table, but you said that in a way seems so obvious. It's something I think about a lot, but I don't have a conclusion about. Do you say that because it's touched you in some way? What? The idea of a culture that feels risk averse, you know, the possibility of. Of course. Of course. In what way? Of course. Just in people's behavior. Mm-hmm. And sometimes people are cancelled for things that seem disproportionate to their merits. That's all. You know, having done risky work creatively and boundary-pushing work, but also specifically, we talked about Lars von Trier.

1:08:01A lot of those are sex scenes. I could imagine on set it could be awkward, right? And you want everyone to feel involved and consenting and appropriate. Yeah, yeah. Is that a difficult... What does that process look like? If this was a tabloid, I should be careful because it would be what they'd run with. But I like doing those scenes because stakes are different and what is required between the actors is very concrete. And because it's intimate, it kicks it up to another level and you have to really cooperate with each other. Now having said that, there's a common discussion about sex scenes.

1:08:39They think, oh, they really did it or, oh, they just went and the director, the little pig, he or she just filmed it. It's seldom like that. There's so many technical aspects to it that they aren't fun to do for the pleasure of touching and all that. They're fun to do for the collaboration because the stakes are higher. but actually they're usually quite unsexy and quite technical. I did a film with a Chinese woman and I learned so much because she was talking about, you know, you really, it's best to make a score, you know, kiss here, kiss here, kiss here, kiss here, wherever, you know, but make a score and so there isn't all this, you know, stuff that won't be good for camera.

1:09:30Just, you know, feeling doesn't assure that that feeling will be conveyed. You've got to consider the camera and what it looks like and what triggers if it's like a neurotic scene or it's supposed to convey that these people are really connected. You just can't jump into it. Anyway, they're interesting to me, I must say. I know you've got me pegged as low road and that's fine, but have you? Oh, boy. Do you? No. No, right? I'm just trying to talk with you. Yeah. So, because Lars von Trier... I haven't decided about you. No. That'll happen in the car after. Lars von Trier, I'm trying to keep it a little bit serious, a little bit of light.

1:10:18Lars von Trier, because, again, this is probably something that comes up in the interviews in the UK. Don't go there. Don't touch it? No, no. It's boring for me. Yeah, fine. You're going to see how respectful I am. You're respectful. Totally. I think the meter just went like that a little bit. Do you have boundaries in terms of... Because what I get from you is experimental, up for it, excited by it. When I watch The Lighthouse, I might be wrong about this, but there's a scene towards the end, huge spoiler alert, you're buried alive. Which is very memorable and that was a challenge and that was hard and that ran deep.

1:10:57and that scene, I shouldn't blow my own horn, but that's pretty incredible. I would agree. Fuck. It was scary. I bet. Yeah. And when I was seeing, again, second spoiler. But I know they wouldn't let me die. And I knew I had to say that beautiful text. So I had a couple things that I really had to accomplish and they were beautiful challenges. so the director of the situation gave me something that I carry with me even today. Really? Not as a prideful thing, but I learned something about myself and about suffocation and about being buried alive. He's shoveling earth on your face and there you go.

1:11:41It's one of those things where you watch it and you think, this is acting, but it's also, I am now watching real life. Yeah. And Willem Dafoe, the actor, is being suffocated with earth. I hope you're not thinking about that, but maybe that's OK. Well, it's because I was interviewing you. OK. So I suppose it was in my head. OK. It's funny that you mention that, because that was a very memorable scene for me. It's quite brief, but it's extreme. Do you have red lines? Again, that's where I was going to go. If someone said, we're going to do, we require you to fully have sex, that's what, which I think has happened in some movies.

1:12:16Like, that's something, you know, it's obviously a big decision. I don't, you know, we don't deal in the general. We deal in the specifics. What are we talking about? You know, I don't know. I don't have, of course, naturally, I have things that I like to do and that I don't like to do, but everything requires context, you know, when you're talking about decisions like that. I love that. Everything's on the table. We need you to cut off one of your arms. That's not going to happen. that I feel comfortable to say if I'm not sure about anything else in this interview that is not going to happen fair enough?

1:13:03maybe we're done I had more that I could go at but I feel like that was a nice out point

1:13:24Hi, welcome back. Hope you enjoyed that. I did. It's always a privilege when you talk to someone, well, with that level of, that kind of a body of work, and specifically who occupies the sweet spot of artistry and commercial viability, right? We're all trying to find work that's fulfilling, but that can also pay the bills, right? And at his level, he's obviously, I think we said he's never done TV because he really doesn't want to do anything that doesn't feel challenging or interesting. And he's all about, and that's the kind of the downtown art scene, vaguely hippie-ish or bohemian part of him that has never died, which is a great thing.

1:14:05In hindsight, maybe I could have gone deeper into his sense that we are being hemmed in by a sort of overly censorious attitude. It was striking that he was keen to, well, it sounded like he was keen to work with Woody Allen. Just to say that, to be keen to work with Woody Allen is controversial in this landscape. By the way, those of you keeping Louis Theroux Podcast bingo cards can tick Woody Allen off because that came up. But obviously, some of the other ones didn't come up. Like, have you ever blacked up and what's your view of it? And Harvey Weinstein. We're thinking of others. If you have others, let me know what should be on the Louis Theroux Podcast bingo cards.

1:14:55Lars von Trier, his comment about Hitler. Here's a little more on that. In 2011, he spoke before the Cannes premiere of Melancholia and announced, quote, I'm a Nazi. Yeah, you can see why people might have been confused, offended. He also said he, quote, understands Hitler. Organisers of the festival issued a statement saying that they were, quote, disturbed by the remarks Lars von Trier apologised.

1:15:26I submit that without comment. he's an artist and a provocateur. That's my comment. Bobby Peru, maybe my favourite part, well, one of them, of the chat was where I brought up Bobby Peru and he said that there was Bobby Peru in all of us. I said, I'm not sure about me, and he said, cultivate it. He said, that's the work, which I love as a phrase, like theatrical phrase. I've got to find my Bobby Peru, something I've been embarked upon ever since recording the chat and I'm up to 10 % Bombay Peru in my day-to-day interactions, which my wife is not thrilled about. OK, that's it. Credits. The producer was Millie Chu.

1:16:09The assistant producer was Amelia Gill. The production manager was Francesca Bassett. And the executive producer was Aaron Fellows. The music in this series was by Miguel de Oliveira. This is a Mindhouse production for Spotify.

1:16:29Thank you.

From the publisher

To kick off the new series, Louis is joined in the studio by acting legend Willem Dafoe. Renowned for an astonishing range of acting roles - from Poor Things to Spiderman - Willem discusses his life and career, including collaborating with provocative director Lars von Trier, what it’s like to be buried alive on camera, and how his face has a mind of its own…   

Warnings: Strong language, as well as some adult themes.  
 
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Platoon (1986) 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R8weLPF4qBQ 

Antichrist (2009) 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LO-TNfPzh_k  

Last Temptation of Christ (1988) 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aW6jxGaIias 

Poor Things (2023) 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RlbR5N6veqw 

Spiderman (2002) 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t06RUxPbp_c 

Beetlejuice Beetlejuice (2024) 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=As-vKW4ZboU&pp=ygUVYmVldGxlanVpY2UgMiB0cmFpbGVy 

Nosferatu (2024) 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Px6S0RxfAHg 

The Loveless (1981) 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SJEmcxXR7H0 

Wild At Heart (1990) 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dQIdBfrF0Ik 

Shadow Of The Vampire (2000) 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_B15iesNMa8 

Body Of Evidence (1993) 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=51xEHzC-rjQ 

The Witch (2015) 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iQXmlf3Sefg&t=31s 

The Northman (2022) 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8mamgc47SOE 

Birds Eye Advert - Polar Bear Fish Finger (2010) 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lsKWjO213EY 

Mercedes Advert (2013) 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yfqNfbCQzpo 

Jim Beam Whiskey Advert (2011) 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wYXFLX2vB-Q 
  
Breaking the Waves (1996) 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SHqZh-9AiCs 
 
At Eternity's Gate (2018) 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T77PDm3e1iE&pp=ygUaYXQgZXRlcm5pdHkncyBnYXRlIHRyYWlsZXI%3D 

Pink Flamingos (1972)  
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YwGZ6Mv4qko 
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