Special: This Is The Year to Get Richer!

30 Dec 2025 · 42 min · 21 chapters

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In short

Oprah’s “This Is The Year to Get Richer!” money special focused on rejecting excuses and using a step-by-step plan (increase income, spend less than you make, invest automatically, protect savings with insurance/estate planning) to get “thousands of dollars richer” quickly.

Guests (featured people and backgrounds)

  1. Jean Chatzky (money coach; author of Make Money, Not Excuses) and her “Money Magazine Dream Team” (includes David Bach; also Money Magazine coaches Gene Chatzky and Glinda Bridgeforth; plus audience participants).
  2. Audience participants: newlyweds Lindsay & Matt Clark (25/29; first baby; ~$97k income; $6k credit cards; $65k student loans); Kathy & Steve Lozer (51; four adult children; ~$100k income; ~$34k credit cards; $700/month support for 22-year-old); Diana Dyza (23 single; $50k income; $6k credit cards; $37k student loans; living paycheck to paycheck).
  3. Story guests: Carrie Hartsoe (48; single mom earlier; husband handled money; divorce; near-zero cash).
  4. “Smart Cookies” group: Katie Dunsworth (24; weekly meetings; saved ~$600/month), Robin (social worker; later increased income), plus other members (e.g., sharing clothes; “$6 Girls’ Night”).
  5. Debt-diet families: Bradley family (Lisa case manager, Steve government employee; $170k debt); Ecclestons (Dan & Sally teachers; $115k debt); Whitlands/Woodlands (Mark satellite install manager, Marnie benefits specialist; $81k debt).

Key claims

  • Common excuses (not good with money, “YOLO” shopping, fear of investing, no time, too old, “my husband handles it”) keep people stuck.
  • Women should have money in their own name; it’s “never too late.”
  • Automatic investing and higher savings rates (aiming ~10%) plus protecting assets can rebuild retirement.

Notable examples

  • Carrie: husband’s divorce left her with ~$60 checking/$49 savings; plan targeted ~$2,000/month living plus investing $1,000/month for 20 years.
  • Smart Cookies: weekly accountability; shared clothes; bus instead of car; “$6 Girls’ Night”; saved ~$15k in a year, paid off ~$15k debt, and increased income by ~$45k.
  • Bradleys: paid off ~$50k in a year by cutting spending (e.g., fewer mall trips, less eating out), removing cars, and adding income (second jobs).
  • Ecclestons: paid off ~$26k in a year by lowering interest/fees and raising income (summer school; lawn care).
  • Whitlands: debt rose ~$37k because they refinanced/paid down but didn’t change spending; coach emphasized listening and behavioral change.
  • Audience outcomes: Clark couple opened Roth IRAs and moved savings for higher interest; Lozer couple cut credit card interest from 29% to 5.9% and stopped paying the 22-year-old; Diana consolidated student loans, removed unused gym, added a roommate, and started saving.

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Audience Participation and Financial Challenge

0:52 to 3:00

Introduction of audience members and the financial challenge they will face.

“You are listening to The Oprah Winfrey Show, the podcast.”

Common Excuses for Financial Insecurity

3:00 to 4:25

Discussion on common excuses women make regarding money management.

“That you're going to make them richer in an hour with their own money.”

Carrie's Story: A Cautionary Tale

4:25 to 8:07

The story of Carrie, highlighting the dangers of financial dependence.

“So Jean says that one of the most common excuses that women make for not taking charge of their finances is, my husband handles the money.”

Steps for Financial Recovery

8:07 to 13:20

Jean Chatzky outlines steps for rebuilding financial security and independence.

“So Jean did some number crunching to help Carrie figure out how much she needs to earn and save to retire comfortably.”

Check-in with the Dream Team

13:20 to 14:01

Update on the progress of the audience members with Jean's team.

“So what would you say to every woman who's watching, hears your story?”

The Importance of Personal Savings

14:01 to 14:32

Learn why having a personal savings account is crucial for financial independence.

“What would you do differently, the number one thing?”

Audience Financial Challenges

14:32 to 15:36

Discover the financial issues faced by audience members and their debt situations.

“Now they're backstage with Gene Chachki's Money Magazine Dream Team.”

The Smart Cookies' Journey to Financial Health

15:36 to 17:06

Follow the inspiring story of a group of friends who transformed their finances together.

“Okay, we're going to get the final results at the end of the show.”

Smart Cookies' Impressive Results

17:06 to 17:26

The Smart Cookies saved thousands and increased their income significantly.

“In one year, the smart cookies saved$15 ,000.”

Accountability in Financial Management

17:26 to 19:31

Learn how accountability among friends led to improved financial decisions.

“So, Robin, I hear you now nearly doubled your income.”
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Oprah's American Debt Diet Challenge

19:31 to 20:32

Oprah shares the debt diet challenge targeting couples struggling with finances.

“Yeah, we look forward to it as a way to...”

The Bradley Family's Financial Turnaround

20:32 to 22:26

Explore the Bradleys' journey from $170,000 in debt to significant debt repayment.

“And millions of you got on board at Oprah.com.”

Debt Repayment Through Lifestyle Changes

22:26 to 22:46

The Bradleys made tough lifestyle choices to tackle their debt effectively.

“They got serious about paying down this debt.”

Impact of Debt on Relationships

22:46 to 24:45

Understand how debt issues affected the Bradleys' marriage and how they improved.

“They got rid of$8 ,000 in late payments, paid off$7 ,000 in medical bills, $3 ,000 in credit card.”

The Ecclestons' Struggles with Debt

24:45 to 26:17

Follow the Ecclestons as they tackle their impulsive spending and debt challenges.

“Steve and I started to communicate more.”

David Bach's Financial Coaching Success

26:17 to 28:00

Learn how financial coaching helped the Ecclestons pay off debt and increase income.

“Then we'll scale it back to about$1 ,000 a month.”

The Power of a Will-Do Attitude

28:14 to 29:29

Discover how a positive mindset can lead to significant financial improvements.

“These guys really were not working as a team before we got to them.”

Family Financial Strategies

29:29 to 30:56

Explore the strategies families used to pay off debt and improve their financial situation.

“Because the weight is knowing that you can.”

Challenges in Overcoming Debt

30:56 to 34:03

Understand the difficulties families face in changing spending habits and managing debt.

“Just one last thing that's so big about this, these guys raised their credit score as a result of all this work.”

Audience Progress Reports

34:03 to 35:22

Hear updates on audience members’ journeys towards financial stability and success.

“and then the amount of money that was freed up from all of the other bills, yeah, you didn't listen.”

Final Thoughts and Encouragement

35:22 to 37:52

Gain insights and encouragement from the experiences shared by guests and the audience.

“So it's time to check in with our audience members who've been really hard at work upstairs, up backstage with Gene Chatsky's Money Magazine dream team.”
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0:00Through 25 seasons, 4 ,561 episodes, I believe The Oprah Winfrey Show is one of the greatest classrooms in the world. I really never thought of it that way. The aha moments, the breakthroughs, the connections, the occasional ugly cry. I miss him so terribly. I miss him every single minute. The LOLs. The moments that mattered. The eye-opening life lessons. Never allow them to take you somewhere else. I'm bringing them back. It's time to open the vault. I've personally chosen these classic episodes to share with you again. Every single person you ever will meet shares that common desire. They want to know, do you see me?

0:47Do you hear me? Does what I say mean anything to you? You are listening to The Oprah Winfrey Show, the podcast.

0:59One of the nation's leading financial experts says that five people in this audience are going to leave here thousands of dollars richer with their own money in less than one hour. Money coach Jean Chachki has assembled a dream team from Money Magazine to help her with this challenge. And you at home will learn their secrets, too. So take notes. I'm looking for Lindsay and Matt Clark. Come on up here.

1:30I'm looking for...hello. Hi there. Hi there. Hi there. Hi there. I'm looking for Kathy and Steve Lozer. Lozer. Lozer, Lozer, Lozer. Come on up. Hi. Hi. Right on over here. Hi. And I'm also looking for Diana Dyza. Diana Dyza. Is that you? Okay. Hello.

1:55Don't be scared. Okay, so all of these people knew that they were coming to a show about money, but they didn't know that they could leave here richer, right? You didn't know that, right? Okay, I didn't either. But anyway. Lindsay and Matt are 25 - and 29-year-old newlyweds expecting their first baby. They make approximately$97 ,000 a year. They have$6 ,000 in credit card debt and$65 ,000 in student loans. Kathy and Steve are both 51 and have four adult children. Two still live at home. They earn$100 ,000 a year and have approximately$34 ,000 in credit card debt. Diana is 23 and single. She makes$50 ,000 a year.

2:38She has$6 ,000 in credit card debt and$37 ,000 in student loans. Diana says she's living paycheck to paycheck. OK, so Jean's dream team is waiting for you backstage. OK? Don't be nervous. The clock is ticking, and we'll be checking in with you throughout the show. They told me they could do this, but I don't even know if they can. We can so do this. You can so do it. We can so do this. That you're going to make them richer in an hour with their own money. With their own money. Okay. Much richer. Okay. I want to see that myself. Okay? Don't you want to see that yourself? That you're going to be richer in an hour with your own money?

3:13Because I don't have nothing to give you, really. Okay? We're going this way. We'll see you in an hour. This way, guys. Right out that door. Okay. Okay. So Jean Chatzky, author of Make Money, Not Excuses, says that women in our country of America should be a lot richer than they are now. So what's holding everybody back? Excuses. Excuses like, I'm just not good with money. I mean, that's the one I hear every single day on the street. But this is not rocket science. Yeah. Or you only live once. That's the shopping excuse. You go into a store, you see something, you watch. You only live once. But you can't do it when it's getting in the way of your future.

3:59I'm afraid I'll lose money. This one I hear over and over again. People are afraid if they invest it, they'll be taking a huge amount of risk. Does not have to be that way. I don't have time. Of course you don't have time. Who has time? We have no time. But this can be very, very easy and very, very quick. And finally, there are a lot of people who think, I'm too old. It's too late for me. It is never too late. Let's start now. So Jean says that one of the most common excuses that women make for not taking charge of their finances is, my husband handles the money. Mm-hmm. And I'm sure that that rings a bell for many of you.

4:39So 48-year-old Carrie Hartsoe says that she knows that excuse all too well. Listen to this one. When I met my husband, I had been I've been a single mom for about four years. My children were in elementary school. I was working two jobs and going to school full-time. Probably six months or so before we were married, he started taking responsibility for the bills and the money. I felt like I had been rescued, and who wouldn't want someone to just ride in and make things easier and better? Carrie thought she'd hit the jackpot. With her real-life knight in shining armor by her side, she would never have to worry about household finances or bills again.

5:24I rarely ever looked at a statement. I literally would get the mail, see a bill, throw it in his pile, you know. When her husband got a promotion, the family moved to St. Louis, where they decided Carrie could stay at home. Kind of felt like I'd paid my dues, and now it was going to be my turn to maybe smell the roses a little bit, relax a little bit. And I thought, you know, this is great. So, in fact, what Carrie thought was the life she had always dreamed of was anything but. One day, Carrie says, without warning, her husband asked for a divorce. Without warning. And they were deep in debt.

6:04And Carrie then had no money. She had no job and nothing to call her own. For the first time in years, Carrie was forced to take a long, hard look at her financial situation, and what she discovered was bleak. As of today, I probably have about$60 in my checking account, and I have$49 in my savings account. My family is keeping me afloat. My grown children. My mother. I have sisters and I even have an elderly aunt and uncle who have sent me money. Facing possible foreclosure, Carrie was forced to move out of the 3 ,000 square foot dream home she thought she'd grow old in.

6:57Carrie. Hi. Money coach Gene Chatzky flew to St. Louis to meet Carrie and to help her start rebuilding from scratch. So you let him manage. Mm-hmm. But did you pay attention? Not, not very much. That was my big excuse was, oh, he's doing it. Gene says for Carrie, the time for excuses is over. And finding a job is priority number one. Do you know how much money you need to earn in order to support yourself? A minimum of$2 ,000 a month, plus a good, you know,$10 ,000 additional every year to put away for your retirement. Right. The only thing you have to realize is that there's no wiggle room in terms of saving anymore.

7:43No. I mean, do you get that? Oh, I so get that. Really, let Carrie's life be a warning for every woman out there. Her money it cost her, her 13-year marriage when her husband surprised her and said, I want to do divorce, something you never expected? I really didn't. I would like to say that I was smart enough that I thought that was a possibility, but I really didn't see it coming. You didn't see it coming? No, I didn't. Okay. So Jean did some number crunching to help Carrie figure out how much she needs to earn and save to retire comfortably. And you came up with? Well, we heard Carrie say in the piece, she needs$2 ,000 in order to live.

8:20On top of that, you got to add taxes, and we need you saving big. We need you saving big. So$3 ,800 a month is what you should aim to earn. You put away$1 ,000 a month. Invest that for 20 years. I wish I could say 30, but you don't have 30 left. You got 20. But at retirement, you can have 600-plus thousand dollars, which means it's not too late for you. You can do this. That's great. Yeah, you can do this.

8:50Now, when you say, I think this is great for people to figure out, because most people don't even know, I bet you, what it takes for them to live. That's right. Okay. So how did you do that? You asked her that question, what's it going to take? And she then said, you said, a minimum of$2 ,000 a month. How did you know that answer? Well, I recently moved out of our home, so I knew what I was going to be paying in rent and estimated utilities and just basic expenses, and that's kind of where I came up with the$2 ,000 minimum. Okay. And so when you say you want to earn$3 ,800 a month, is that before or after taxes?

9:24That is before taxes. Okay, good. We'll take taxes out of there. She'll still have plenty of money to save. And that's the thing. She needs$2 ,000. That's not, I'm going to go shopping. I need$2 ,000 to order to live. And then saving becomes the priority. Okay. Jean says she has four simple steps that anyone right now can follow to get richer. Number one is maximize your income. Figure out what you need. And then if you're not earning it, go get some more. You know, women are really good at asking for anything for our kids. When it comes to asking for money for us, we are terrible. Okay. Step two, spend less than you make.

10:05Now, this is where a lot of people fall apart. Here's what I want everybody to do. The next time you go make a purchase, whether it's a$3 purchase or a$300 purchase, you pause. Take a breath. Ask yourself, what am I doing here? Do I need this? Often that's all it takes to get you to walk away. I would like this young lady in red here. Can you stand up? Because even as you're speaking, you know how you watch people's body language? First she was like this, then she was like this, then she was like this. When you said pause, she was like this. So that's affecting you somehow. Yes. Yes, when you're hearing that.

10:46What is...what's going on? Well, I have a similar situation where I'm just getting out of a marriage and have a single-income household and basically starting all over financially. And so just hearing what you're saying, I'm really trying to figure out how to budget. I actually just moved to Chicago from Detroit, so trying to figure out how to budget. You need a good coach. You need a good coach. It's important. And just trying to figure out, like you said, how to spend less than what you make is a challenge. The best thing that you can do is start watching what you're spending now. Get a notebook and start tracking your spending.

11:20You're going to find places that you can spend less, and you're going to find a lot of places where you say, oh, my God, I spent that. And that's when you can start to really change. Well, let's ask you, let's go back to it, because I saw her reaction. That's why. Thank you very much for standing up. But that question of you're standing in the mall. You know, you got the mall browsers. You got the people, they do the mall thing. Yeah. To fill themselves up, to make themselves happy, to... To... They're feeding something that they don't think they have. Yeah. They're trying to make themselves happy with things.

11:52it doesn't work. Jean, what's the third step? The third step is to invest that money that you're not spending. You're not spending it, so you've got a whole pile of cash sitting in your checking account or in your paycheck. You move it out of your hot little hands automatically by changing your withholdings, so some of it goes into a 401 or just calling up your bank and saying, I want some of this to go into a money market account. Every single month, you do it automatically. And enough of this saving at 2 % interest. There are really good savings rates out there now, 4%, 5%. Go get them, because the difference between earning 1 % on your money and 5 % on your money can be hundreds of thousands when it comes to retirement.

12:35And how much should you be saving? You should be aiming for 10%. And if you save 10 % over a period of time? Over a period of time, you should be fine when it comes to retirement. You should be fine, but you got to put that money to work for you. You've got to wake up those assets that are sitting there sleeping and make them work just as hard as you do. And then once you've got this nice financial picture that you've built, this rosy picture, you're heading towards your million dollars, you have to protect it. You have to protect it. You need insurance, health insurance, life insurance, disability insurance, a will so that it can take care of you and the people you love.

13:14And you need not to make that mistake that Carrie made. I want every woman sitting here to have money in your own name. Money in your own name.

13:29Which you did not have. No, not really. Everything was commingled. Both, yeah. And now you wish you did. Oh, yeah. At 48. Mm-hmm. So what would you say to every woman who's watching, hears your story? Well, for me, I think the story is hope. You know, Jean has given me a tremendous amount of hope that it isn't too late. And you can start over at any age if you have to. But certainly I would choose to do things much differently. I would hope that my daughter and my granddaughter would do things differently than I did. But moving forward, for me, there's hope. And... What would you do differently, the number one thing?

14:06The number one thing is I would have a savings account in my own name. And I would be contributing directly to that. Yeah. Yeah. I think that's the new feminism, to have your savings account in your own name. It's our little red sports car. Yeah. It is. It is. It's our sports car. And it's a myth that if you're not in the workforce, you can't save for retirement. You are entitled to open an IRA of your own. Thank you so much. Let's check in with our five audience members. We just pulled them out of their seats. Now they're backstage with Gene Chachki's Money Magazine Dream Team. Gene says in one hour, this is what they say, they're going to be thousands of dollars richer with their own money.

14:44We're going to see how that's going to happen. How's it going up there? Oprah, it's going just great. I hustled up here. I checked in with the Money Magazine team, and they are making great progress. But you've got to know they're dealing with some big issues here. We've got Lindsey and Matt. They've got$6 ,000 in credit card debt,$65 ,000 in student loan. Their big problem, she's a saver, he's a spender. Over here, we have Kathy and Steve. Again, they've got a big credit card debt, But their bigger problem is that they are spending$700 a month supporting their 22-year-old son. Clearly, that has to stop.

15:21And finally, over here, we've got Diana. Now Diana's got credit card debt. But she's young. She's got a lot of time on her hands. She should not be living paycheck to paycheck. So we're working our magic to find you some money that you can start putting away. Okay. Come on back down, Jean. Okay, I'm on my way. Okay, we're going to get the final results at the end of the show. Now I want you to meet a group of friends who put an end to their money madness, and they took matters into their own hands. We call ourselves the smart cookies. We followed your debt diet. And we stopped making excuses. And we started making money.

15:57It all started a year ago when 24-year-old Katie Dunsworth decided it was time for she and her friends to stop spending, start saving, and get richer. One of my biggest excuses is spend now, worry later. One of my excuses was that I was just too young to save. So they set up weekly meetings, confessed their debt and made a plan to pay it down, then start investing all as a team. I thought I needed the right clothes to attract the right people into my life. Now I know better. I'm a smart cookie, share clothes and I literally save about$600 a month. I used to believe I couldn't live without a car.

16:31What I've realized is taking the bus isn't so bad and I'm saving on car insurance, gas and parking tickets, saving$700 a month. Robin kept her car but gave up her parking spot instead. Now she makes an extra$50 a month, renting it out while she parks on the street for free. Katie and her fiancé, Nick, even managed to save enough money to pay for their$22 ,000 wedding in cash. The Smart Cookies have saved thousands, making small changes, cutting cable, walking dogs, selling clothes, and even sharing magazines. To being Smart Cookies. Saving money. All right.

17:09Wow. Congratulations. Wow.

17:16In one year, the smart cookies saved$15 ,000. They paid off$15 ,000 in debt and increased their incomes by$45 ,000. Really? Yes. So, Robin, I hear you now nearly doubled your income. How did you do that? I'm a social worker. I don't go into social work to make money at all. No. However, after making about$30 ,000 in the field, decided to go back, do my master's, and I complete that in May. By the time I graduate, I'll be up to about$70 ,000, also doing some contract work on the side of adoption studies, and that's an extra$12 ,000 a year. Wow. So$82 ,000. $82 ,000. So this started by watching our debt die?

17:54Are you kidding? Yeah, we had actually... Andrea and I had both seen the show and called each other and just sort of started discussing it. And really the one thing that came across was we need to be held accountable. So we talked about maybe doing something once a week, and we called some other friends, and we meet weekly, and it's been... Well, had you previously, before seeing that show with Jean and our team, had you... were you in debt? Were you thinking about it? Were you talking about it? Yeah. I was... I was definitely... I was the one that was in the most debt. And I was... it was something that I was definitely ashamed of because I had sold a property, my first property, made lots of money off it, and then I had nothing to show for it.

18:30So it was something that I definitely wanted to take charge of in my life. You know, I was almost... And truly our spending, I mean, that was, for me, it was just everything on the credit card, not thinking, not looking at bills, and spending really more than we were making and trying to live a lifestyle that wasn't who we are. And not saving. And not saving. But you still look so lifestyle cute. We share clothes. We share clothes. You share clothes. So you're all friends who share clothes. And that was the decision that you made, That we're going to share rather than buy new stuff? Yeah. We had all exp...we all had expensive tastes, and we knew that we had the same taste, so we thought, why not just share?

19:07I mean, it's just easy. We all live within blocks of each other. And so what was the goal? The goal was really to just cut back on sort of frivolous expenses and to start saving. And in a lot of cases, we actually wrote down, like, our...our...our main financial goals for Robin. It was getting a better-paying job for myself. It was saving for my wedding. And really held each other accountable and sort of helped give suggestions. So this was your... And you met...met...met monthly? Weekly. Weekly. Yeah, yeah, weekly. And you look forward to it. Yeah, we look forward to it as a way to... We educated ourselves and shared tips with one another.

19:41If someone had a great cell phone plan, then we'd share that. And so what about partying? I noticed some Cosmos in the kitchen. We have to take a weekly reset. We invented something. I'd recognize a Cosmo anywhere. We invented something we call$6 Girls' Night, which is where we will make pizza, bring wine, and we'll... And we're only allowed to spend$6. $6. $6. Yeah. Girls' night. Yes. OK. It's doable. It's doable. It's$6 per person. Yeah, yeah. Oh, OK, good.

20:10I'm like, that is very thrifty. $1 each. $1 each. So you love the idea, I know, of money groups. Tell us more. I love the idea, and I love it for all the reasons that you make clear. I like it because they're so young and cute and smart cookies. They're so... Yes, these smart cookies are inspiring. So we challenged America to get out of debt with our great American debt diet. And millions of you got on board at Oprah.com. We followed three courageous couples who agreed to work one-on-one with our debt diet money coaches to see how much debt they could pay off in just one year. First up, the Bradley family.

20:48The Bradley family is from Raleigh, North Carolina. Lisa is a case manager. Stevens a government employee. A year ago, they made$102 ,000 a year, but were$170 ,000 in debt. With a big house and four cars, nobody knew the Bradleys were secretly drowning in bills. No one knows the truth. And the Bradleys were on the verge of divorce over leases out-of-control spending. To get this truck, I forged my husband's signature. We argued on a daily basis about money. My marriage is very close to being over. Money coach Gene Chatzky moved in to help the Bradleys start digging out of their financial mess.

21:26He's gonna give you$20 a day and that's it. Bye-bye, big screen. That's okay. And it wasn't easy. You are gonna get an allowance. Lisa, you can't afford it. You don't have a clue. You really have no idea how pissed I am at you today, but I'm trying to contain that. You can get as pissed off at me as you want. I want you out of debt. That was one of my favorite moments. That was one of my favorite moments because little Miss White Jean Chatsky is talking to Lisa about the hair issues. And anybody who's watched us for years, this show knows that black women, we have a thing with our hair. But Jean, Jean stood her ground.

22:08She's like, no, no. And Lisa's like, you don't have a clue, honey. So anyway, the Bradleys were$170 ,000 One year later, they have paid off$50 ,000 in debt.

22:26Oh, yeah. What a pleasure. Welcome back. Welcome back. Hey, you look great. Your hair looks great. Thank you. You look great. You look great. So what did the Bradleys do? They got serious about paying down this debt. They got rid of two cars. Remember, we had a car issue. in addition to the hair issue. That was$30 ,000. They got rid of$8 ,000 in late payments, paid off$7 ,000 in medical bills, $3 ,000 in credit card. That TV that went back was another$2 ,000. So they got serious. And then they didn't start spending. They didn't start spending. They did not start spending. She saved$5 ,000 by not going to the mall every day.

23:09That went toward the death. $6 ,000 by not eating out three times a day. This family can cook. Wow. They can come.

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23:20Wow. They can come. They can come. And... ...bills...monthly bills like insurance and increase their income, hello, by$26 ,000. How'd they do that? Well... How'd you do that? I took on a second job, second full-time job. You second...took a second full-time job? I did. And Steve did some things as well. Worked overtime. Two part-time jobs for you. Right. Really? To increase the income level. Yeah. And use that money to pay off the debt. Exactly. Yes. Exactly. Instead of buying more things. Right. And then they started to save. Well, I'm looking at Lisa's hair. It's just...

23:59So that was a major issue, as we know. It was, yes. And do you still get it done every week? Is that the one thing you... I still go weekly, but I did have some weeks that I did not get it done. I had a girlfriend who called me and agreed to do my hair free. Wow. So she did it free for me a couple of weeks, and I did it some myself. So I ended up saving about two, maybe$200 just cutting out when I really didn't need to get it done. Wow. When we first met Lisa and Stephen, they were on the brink of divorce. How are you doing now? I mean, we're doing wonderful. Wonderful. It's just this...this debt died.

24:30It's been a blessing. Really? Great. How so? The arguments...the arguments are almost non-existing now. Really? As far as the finances. Did you argue a lot about money? We did. And money then leads to other arguments, right? Yes. Yes. So how did it change you, your family, being on the debt diet? It changed a lot. First, I guess, with our relationship. That was the impact of our family. Steve and I started to communicate more. We became closer as a family. As you recall, I also lost a lot of friends through this process. And I realized my friend is Steve. Yeah. And we learned, I try not to cry, we learned to lean more on each other.

25:08Uh-huh. And it just made it stronger for our family.

25:16Nice. Great. I heard that you even renewed your vows. We did. We wanted a new start, fresh start. You did. And so would you say it changed the whole family? It did. Yeah. We're much closer now. Just the communication aspect, we just talk about when she gets ready to purchase something, whether something she wants or something for the kids, she calls and asks, you know, should I do this? That's a big difference. So what do you see for their future? I see an incredible future. You have exceeded... I was worried in the beginning. I have to say now I was... I was very worried. I was a little worried.

25:57Especially when you walked in that beauty salon. Yeah, and I was not going to make it out of that beauty salon. That was my worry. No, but you guys have... You did it. You really did it. They are right now, they've got$6 ,500 already in savings. They're saving another$2 ,500 a month for the next year while Lisa's working these two jobs. Then we'll scale it back to about$1 ,000 a month. When they retire, they're looking at$1.7 million. Thank you. $1.7 million. That's great. Amazing. Yeah, I'm so amazed. So proud. So much for all of us. Thank you for being a shining example for everybody, because obviously what I like about this family is we're going to see another...

26:40It wasn't easy. It wasn't. And we could see from watching you it wasn't easy. It wasn't easy. It wasn't easy. That's great. The Ecclestons are from South Bend, Indiana. Dan and Sally are both elementary school teachers. When we first met them, they earned$92 ,000 a year, but were$115 ,000 in debt. It's very upsetting. I don't like it. Do you? No, I don't like it. Dan and Sally said their impulsive spending landed them deep in debt. We both are spenders. If we find something we want, we buy it. All 12 of their credit cards were completely maxed out. And they were just days away from filing for bankruptcy.

27:24I feel like I put our family in this situation. Financial expert David Bach taught Dan and Sally how to lower their interest rates and waive credit card fees with just one phone call. If you'll waive it, I'll keep the account. However, if you'll waive that fee, then I'd probably keep the account. You made$30 in two and a half minutes. So the Egglestons, both us, our school teachers, were$115 ,000 in debt. One year later, they have paid off$26 ,000 in debt. Woo!

27:59Oh, wonderful. Hi again. Hi again. Hi again. Hi again. Well, David Bach, author of Automatic Millionaire and Start Late, Finish Rich, is back. So what did they do? They are rock stars. These two worked. These guys really were not working as a team before we got to them. Yeah. And the moment we came in and started talking to them, they basically had an instant will-do attitude, not a won't-do attitude. They said, David, we will do whatever you tell us as the coach to do. Really? And... So, didn't the coach love that? Yeah, I love that as a coach. Yes. They worked so hard. These guys grew their income by$19 ,000.

28:41Doing what? $19 ,000. Wow. Anything we could. Anything we could. Here, again, will-do attitude. I said, guys, you have to grow your income if you want to be out of debt in less than three years. Mm-hmm. What can you do? And they said, well, Sally said, I could go back and I could work at summer school. Wow. Is that what you did? Mm-hmm. Yeah. Dan had a lawn care business. He said, I could cut more lawns. We got him to raise his rate. He went and coached. The bottom line is they worked their butt off. Wow. Did you think it would be possible to pay off this much debt this soon? No. Before this? This time last year, I was in such a hopeless, hopeless state.

29:19And if you would have told me we would be here today and have paid off that much, I would have never believed you. Never. Even though you still have a long way to go, you seem so... Oh, it is a weight lifted off my shoulders. Wow. Because the weight is knowing that you can. And we have a plan. Yeah. We have a plan. What do you want to say to other families who are where you work? Well, it's important to, number one, you have to recognize your debt. Once you accept it, then you put a plan together and you got to stick to it. It doesn't happen overnight. I mean, we're still not out of, you know, we got a long ways to go yet, but you can't, you got to realize that it's not a quick fix.

29:54It's a long-term... How has it helped your family? We like the Bradleys. We are so much closer. We have conversation about money. Our children are involved. We have a big board, and we're always looking at it, and they're like, which one are we on now, and which one are we paying off next? And it's in our house. It's part of us and our family. What she just referred to is called adult board and it was the worksheet that we listed all their debt We put the credit cards we actually attached it to it And we put the interest rate and then we told them which order to pay off the credit card debt So the family could look at it every single morning in the kitchen and go well mommy daddy How are we doing and you know they could focus together as a family on which debt to pay off so they knew they were making progress That's fantastic one morning our youngest son was explaining he had a friend spend the night and he was explaining the adult board to him You're saying, this is one we got paid off last week, and then we were on this one.

30:50That's fantastic. That's great. Yeah. Just one last thing that's so big about this, these guys raised their credit score as a result of all this work. In nine months, Oprah, they raised it 100 points. Wow. Thank you, Sally and Dan. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. The Whitlands are from Salt Lake City. Mark's a satellite install manager, and Marnie is a benefits specialist. Last year, they earned about$80 ,000, but were$81 ,000 in debt. Mark and Marnie constantly battled over the bills, and it was taking a serious toll on their marriage. I don't know. Because you can't control this, or you're gonna spend more money?

31:34kidding me. And when it came to their two teenage daughters, no was not in their vocabulary. Their money coach, Glinda Bridgeforth, laid out a plan. We're going to retire that debit card. We're going to cut it up. Cut it up. They made some progress, but their struggles were not over. Okay, the Woodlands were$81 ,000 in debt. One year later, their debt has gone up by$37 ,000. Money coach Linda Bridgeforth is back. She's written a new book, Girl, Get Your Credit Straight. Girl, get your credit straight. So what happened here? Well, I'll tell you, Oprah, I think what happened with the Woodlands is that they were ready to get out of crisis, but they weren't really ready to get out of debt.

32:21Because when we first started the program, they were behind in all of the bills except for one. But now they're current. So I think that they were actually ready to take some action, but didn't really realize how difficult it was going to be. Now, they've done some really great things. They have simplified the debt because before they had 16 different bills. Now they only have six. They refinanced their home and so... and paid off some bills. They did increase their income by over$15 ,000. How did you do that? So they did really get busy. So they're a million three in real estate this year. Uh-huh.

32:58Good. Excellent. Excellent. So... Okay. But the difference I'm hearing between this family and the family that we just saw, one of the things David was saying is that they did, you know, everything that he asked them to do. And I hear at one point you stopped speaking to her. Is that true? It got so invasive and so intrusive and so... which, obviously, we needed the accountability, but it got to be to a level that... You didn't want to do it. I didn't want that level of... You didn't want to do... Like we just heard the last family say, we will do whatever you say we need to do. You didn't want to do that.

33:41I didn't want to do whatever... It took. It took. Okay. Was that true, Mark? Yeah. Yeah. For sure. But I think that there were some suggestions that I was making, and I think that Marnie just kind of got to a point where it's like, well... I don't want to hear you. Yeah. You know, I don't want to hear it. I got my own ideas. I just want to do it my way. And so you're$37 ,000 more in debt. Yes. And had we listened to Glenda, that$15 ,000 extra, and then the amount of money that was freed up from all of the other bills, yeah, you didn't listen. It could have been paid on the debt. Exactly. And what happened was it wasn't.

34:18Okay. This is kind of classic, though, right? It is. Well, what I said when we went over the situation is it's almost like the ultimate American financial nightmare. And here's what I mean. Oprah, they pulled$50 ,000 out of their house. They had a huge piggy bank in their house. They had a lot of cash. They pulled it out and they paid off a lot of the debt. But then they spent more money. So they didn't change their spending habits. Right. So about one in three Americans refinanced their home to pay off credit card debt. But if you don't change your spending habits, you just end up with more debt.

34:46Yeah. So they didn't change. And what happened is, and even more than I said, they felt really good for a while because they had this money. They paid the debt down. And it's almost like when you go on a diet and you lose weight, you look in the mirror, you look really good. then you're like, okay, I can eat that pizza. Yeah. It's the same thing with money. You can do the same thing can happen when you refinance and pay off your credit card debts. The same thing can happen if you're not careful. What do you think of all this, Mark? I think we, you know, we got the money out of the house and then paid down our bills or whatever, and then we lost focus of everything else just because we felt like we had done it all.

35:16Yeah. That's what I think. Yeah. Well, thank you for being here. Thank you. Okay. So it's time to check in with our audience members who've been really hard at work upstairs, up backstage with Gene Chatsky's Money Magazine dream team. So how did Matt and Lindsey do? Awesome. Awesome. They all did awesome. And$6 ,000 debt,$65 ,000 in student loans. Exactly. But they are going to take their savings, move it into a place where it can earn more interest. Matt is downgrading his car, selling his PlayStation. They're opening two Roth IRAs with all this found money. Lindsey's going to put into her IRA$250 a month.

35:54Matt's going to put$150 ,000 into his at retirement,$923 ,000. That's so funny. I'm looking at Matt. I'm looking at his face. He'll come to the Oprah show, and I'm downgrading my car. How did that happen? Okay. Go ahead. We've got Steve and Kathy. They had credit card debt, too. But they moved their credit card interest rate from 29 % to 5.9%. 5.9%. Just upstairs? Upstairs. Just now. Just...we couldn't get them down to the stage because she wouldn't hang up the phone. Just now. She's like, are you sure? Are you sure? 5%. Wow. Amazing. And... That's a huge difference, yeah. And... They are no longer going to be paying the bills for their 22-year-old.

36:43Steve didn't know that they were paying all these bills for their 22-year-old. That's going to free up close to$700 a month. When are you telling him? When you get home. You're telling him when you get home? On the train. On the train. On the train home. Okay. At retirement for these guys,$450 ,000. Excellent. Good. To live on that, good job. And finally, we have Diana, and she made great progress, too. She is consolidating her student loan. We did that on the phone, saving$66 a month, getting rid of a gym membership she doesn't ever use, taking a roommate, which will save herself$300 a month, putting that$409 away, and at retirement 42 years from now, this woman so young, she'll have$920 ,000.

37:31Excellent.

37:35Thanks to Jean and her Money Magazine dream team. Remember our smart cookies. Stand up again, you smart cookies. Remember our smart cookies. We were inspired by watching this show a year ago. So I hope you get inspired from all of our guests today. Bye, everybody.

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From January 22, 2007: Journalist, financial columnist and author of The New York Times best-seller Make Money Not Excuses, Jean Chatzky gives the money lesson that every woman should learn. She also shares four steps to get richer. Plus, her dream team of financial experts helps audience members find ways to make more money with what they already have. Viewers who joined Oprah’s Great American Debt Diet share their experiences and results.

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