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Afford Anything Podcast Episode Summary
Episode Title
Ask Paula: How to Pay Off a $8,000 Medical Bill Without Going Broke
Host
Paula Pant
Guest
Joe Salcihai (Former Financial Planner)
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Episode Overview
In this episode of the "Afford Anything" podcast, Paula Pant and guest Joe Salcihai tackle four financial questions from listeners, including how to manage a hefty medical bill, retirement saving options for W-2 employees, dealing with spam calls in real estate, and whether pursuing a graduate degree is a wise investment.
Key Themes
- Decision-Making Frameworks: The importance of critical thinking in financial decisions.
- Psychology of Money: How psychological factors influence financial behavior.
- Financial Independence: Strategies for managing debt and saving for retirement.
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Segmented Discussions
- Handling $8,000 Medical Bill
- Caller: Sarah
- Situation: Sarah has a high deductible health plan and an $8,000 hospital bill. She questions whether to pay off the bill using her savings or take an interest-free payment plan offered by the hospital.
- Advice Given:
- Hold the Debt: Paula recommends Sarah take the interest-free payment option and keep her savings in a high-yield money market account earning over 4%.
- Psychological Considerations: Joe highlights that for some, debt can cause anxiety and stress; thus, the decision should account for personal psychological comfort.
- General Note: Medical debt does not impact credit scores as it used to, providing more leeway for managing payments.
- Spam Calls for Real Estate Investors
- Caller: Brian
- Situation: Brian receives numerous spam calls from investors trying to buy his properties.
- Advice Given:
- Use Google Voice: Paula suggests using Google Voice for a separate line dedicated to business inquiries.
- Settings on Phones: Joe mentions features on smartphones that can automatically send unknown numbers to voicemail, reducing interruptions.
- Retirement Savings Options for W-2 Employees
- Caller: Jennie
- Situation: Jennie is an independent consultant primarily working for one client that pays her as a W-2 employee. She wants to know her options for retirement savings.
- Advice Given:
- IRA Contribution: Since Jennie has maxed out her IRA, she is encouraged to explore retirement accounts via her 1099 income from other clients, such as a SEP IRA or solo 401k.
- Employer’s Role: Joe questions why Jennie's employer has her as a W-2 employee without offering a 401k, suggesting a conversation about possibly shifting her status to a 1099 contractor.
- Pursuing a Graduate Degree
- Caller: Anonymous (named Aisha for discussion)
- Situation: Aisha is contemplating whether to pursue an MBA to enhance her career after facing discrimination in the workplace.
- Advice Given:
- Confidence vs. Credentials: Paula and Joe discuss the internal and external confidence that a degree can provide, emphasizing that while credentials can help, they may not change biased perceptions.
- Networking Benefits: Joe highlights the networking opportunities that come with attending a prestigious school, which can lead to beneficial connections in the future.
- Self-Reflection: Aisha is encouraged to consider what she truly seeks from an MBA and whether that aligns with her career goals or if there are alternative paths to build the community and support she needs.
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Key Takeaways
- Managed Debt: Holding onto debt through interest-free loans can be financially beneficial, provided it doesn't cause undue stress.
- Use Technology: Tools like Google Voice can help manage business communication effectively.
- Explore All Options: Those with W-2 and 1099 income have various retirement savings avenues available, and understanding employer status can open additional options.
- Value of Education: A graduate degree can bolster confidence and credibility but should be weighed against personal and financial goals.
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Conclusion
This episode emphasizes the intersection of finance and psychology, offering practical advice while encouraging listeners to align decisions with their personal values and circumstances. The hosts underscored the importance of community support and shared experiences in navigating financial challenges.
For more insights and to engage with the community, listeners are invited to visit [Afford Anything Community](https://affordanything.com/community).
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Transcript
Automatic transcript. May contain errors.0:00Joe, have you ever gotten a huge medical bill in the mail? Very luckily, I have not. Oh, well, we're going to answer some questions. I have. I have many, unfortunately many. And we're going to answer some questions today from a caller who is also dealing with that. And, well, I'm not going to spoil it. So let's get to it. Welcome to the Afford Anything podcast, the show that understands you can afford anything, but not everything. every choice that you make is a trade-off against something else. And that applies to any limited resource that you need to manage, whether it's your money, your time, your focus, your energy.
0:38So what matters most and how do you make decisions accordingly? That's what this show is here to explore. My name is Paula Pamp. I'm the host of the podcast. Every other week, I answer questions that come from you, the community. And this week, as always, my buddy, the former financial planner, Joe Salcihai, joins me to answer these questions. What's up, Joe? I am here. I've got coffee. I'm ready. And I can't wait to help some people out. Beautiful. I got a cup of coffee too. I've got, even on the desk, I've got some macadamia milk. I've got some - Do you put that in the coffee or do you use this as a chaser?
1:20Oh, I've got collagen peptides. I put that in the coffee as well. Because who doesn't like a good collagen peptide once in a while? Exactly. A peptide singular. All right. Our first question comes from Sarah. Hi, Paula and Joe. My name is Sarah. A quick thank you to both of you for all the content that you provide. You've really helped me and my family get our finances back on track just by us listening to your podcast. So thank you for that. I'm calling today with a question about medical bills. Earlier this year, I was hospitalized and have an outstanding balance to our hospital for about$8 ,000 because of my high deductible health plan.
2:02I'm wondering about how I should pay that bill. I have the option through the hospital to make a payment plan that is interest free. So I could make a small payment every month and that could go on for two or three years of those small payments. or I could pay that bill out of my savings. And while I don't love that idea, I could do it. So I'm just wondering what your thought is on that. I was wondering if it would be better to make those small interest-free payments and then to keep that larger chunk of money in my money market savings account where it is now, where it's at least earning a little over 4%, or is it psychologically better to just make that payment and be done with it?
2:48So thanks so much for your feedback. Sarah, thank you for the question. I have been in exactly the same position many, many times, and I am a huge fan of taking the interest-free loan. You have a zero interest, essentially, loan from your medical provider, so why not make the smallest possible payment, stretch it out for as long as you possibly can, And then keep that money in a high yield savings account. Keep that money in a money market account. And you're functionally arbitraging the difference between 0 % versus whatever return you're getting on the money that's in your savings account, your high yield savings account.
3:27So I'm a huge fan of that. The only exception, I'm saying this not for you, Sarah, but for anybody else who's listening, there are some people, their psychology is such that having any type of debt would cause them to just have anxiety attacks, go into a cold panic, their stomach would clench, it would keep them up at night. So for the sake of everyone listening, if that is your inner psychology, then of course, pay it off so that you can not have those anxiety attacks. But for you, Sarah, just based on the fact that you're even considering this, based on the fact that you asked that question, my assumption is that that is not your psychological makeup.
4:05And so I would say if you have the stomach, the psychology to be able to do it, hold on to that debt and make the smallest payment possible. Good news, too, there, Paula, is that the credit reporting agencies have changed the rules around medical debt as well. So this debt won't affect your FICO score in the same way that it might have a few years ago, which is also good news for a lot of people. And she's going to have a history of on-time payments. Right. But sometimes people worry about, hey, is this going to make my utilization ire? It will have some impact, but not like it used to. So you won't have that hanging over your head like you might have three or four or five years ago.
4:48You know, the interesting thing about this, Paula, is that we see all these stats talking about the psychological makeup of some people, that people are happier when they have no debt, just in general. And whenever somebody asks this question, I always want to know, what is this money competing against, right? What are the other goals that this money would be used for if I don't use it to pay off my debt? We obviously don't know that, but I think that's important information because maybe there might be halfway where she pays off, she pays part of the debt to get rid of the debt. Maybe there's something else it's competing with.
5:35I don't like that at all. But if the money's just sitting in cash, if the money's sitting in cash, I really want to know what the other goals are. And I'm not talking about for Sarah. I totally agree with you for Sarah because I think Sarah's asking the question and she said point blank, I don't like putting this money toward the debt. Well, then go with the 0 % loan. But here's what I see on the other side. When you talk about people that don't like having debt hang over them, so then they pay it all toward this debt that could have been interest-free, and there was some goal that's not interest-free on the other side that we should have probably put that money toward because that money needed to earn a return to get the goal, well, then we're very suboptimal.
6:21That's why I always want to know what the other goals are that this money might be used for. Well, I mean, even if let's just say that her goal is retirement, because ultimately everybody's goal eventually is retirement. Whether or not you want early retirement, everyone wants to retire by the time they're 90. Right. So even if we'll say that's her only goal, that requires earning money at a rate that's greater than zero percent. Agreed. So no matter what, arbitraging that money by keeping the 0 % loan and keeping her money in a high-yield savings account, collecting that arbitrage is going to be useful.
7:03I don't think it always is. So I do think it's different for her and for other people and knowing what the other goals are that we're competing against for that money. And so let's take a look at that. I mean, let's dive into that. Let's say that she is close to retirement. she saved nearly enough for retirement she's even can she she could even probably coast in the happiest retirees don't have any debt she doesn't like having any debt but this loan is eight thousand dollars and eight thousand dollars is all that she has i would in that case say let's take your biggest emergency the thing that freaks people out let's double that number let's leave that number in cash and then let's take the rest to pay off this medical debt right because if you're going to be happy, happier in retirement, since we're using retirement as the example, without having the debt, I still wouldn't take all of it and pay off the loan, but I would take a chunk of it so that you knew that you're three quarters of the way there.
8:04I think as long for, again, with the exception of that edge case of people who really panic and really get into cold sweats about it's not it isn't an edge case it's most people are happier in retirement when they don't have any debt well that that is case yes but that is true but but but in sarah's case as long as she has eight thousand dollars in her savings account she functionally doesn't have debt she has technically debt on paper but she has the money to pay off her debt so unless unless she is that edge case of person who gets into a cold sweat about the fact that this$8 ,000 balance is on ledger A rather than ledger B.
8:52It's still not an edge case. It is absolutely an edge case. No, the number of people that I, when I was a financial planner, the number of people, and I would sit in your seat, Paula, and I'd say, listen, we got the money sitting right. I don't care. I want to pay it off now. Are you kidding me? This is a 0 % loan. It is totally not an edge case. It is not. There are a ton of people walking around that go, you know what, if I have the money paid off, why the hell wouldn't I pay it off? Let's pay it off. Let's get it off the books. Psychically, I need to get this out of my brain. It does take up psychic power in my brain to have this debt quote hanging over my head, even though I can tell them and you can tell them all day long.
9:30You go, no, it ain't hanging over your head. Listen, we can pay this off whenever we want. Fine. Edge case or not. If you're the type of person, which Sarah, Sarah is not the fact that she's calling in to ask this question. She's not that person. I think we agreed on that. We agreed on that a long time ago. Yeah. So, so I'd say, uh, unless you are that type of person who would get into a cold sweat, who would get the anxiety attacks, if you're that type of person, then, then pay it off. So you don't get the anxiety attacks. Otherwise, let me tell you what would help with the people that are the people that break into a cold sweat yeah this this very much helps you know how i meet them halfway paula now i tell them to hook up an automatic payment so they don't have to think about it anymore and i don't know why that helps but that totally helps and maybe it's the fact that i have this i don't want another payment every month i don't want to think about you know what don't think about the payment let's not think about the you got the money sitting over here it's not being used for anything else let's hook up an automatic monthly payment so it automatically goes into the account it's supposed to go into.
10:36I don't know why it helps. I can't explain it. I think the reason why is then it, then it becomes ostrich philosophy out of sight, out of mind, right? Everything, the system is humming along in the background. And so it never reaches the level of your consciousness. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So, so I could meet people halfway there. Let's at the very least keep earning almost 5%. If you've got a good high yield savings account, let's keep it earning 5 % while it's getting zero and just have it. Okay. Yeah. I can do that. All right. Well, Well, Sarah, you've got your answer. And I hope that you are the type of person psychologically who can take advantage of the arbitrage because that's a decent chunk of money over time.
11:16Thank you so much for calling and asking that question. Hey, Joe, does your phone number ever get inundated with spam calls? Constantly. What's great is that my provider puts a little tag that says potential spam. Ah, yeah. Which I love. Yeah, a lot of them do. Well, we are about to answer a question from a caller who is not a spam caller. Let's hear it. Hi, Paula. I've got kind of a miscellaneous question that's not really financial. It's more so related to real estate investing. Over the past three years, I've bought a couple of out-of-state single-family homes as investment properties as long-term rentals.
11:56These properties were all purchased in my own name, so no LLC or anything like that. and they're all managed by a property management company. My question is, I'm getting absolutely inundated with spam calls from quote unquote local investors asking if I'm interested in selling these properties. I'm not interested. I tell them so and then I block that number. However, I'm continuing to get similar spam calls at least three or four every day. I now have over 400 of these numbers blocked in my phone, but new numbers keep calling me every day with the same solicitation request. I know that you've got a number of out-of-state rentals.
12:32I'm curious what you do to minimize spam calls from local investors trying to buy your properties. Any advice? Thanks. Paul, I'm laughing about Brian's question because I got one of these, Brian, yesterday. Yesterday. And you know what's funny? It's a property I haven't owned in three years. Oh, man. Oh, man. And you know what? This applies not just to property owners, but also to business owners of all stripes. So absolutely. The moment you own assets, you start getting spammed. I think this has to do, Paula, with the public record of the property. Yeah, exactly. Property is public record. So it's easy to find a person.
13:17But business registrations, domain names. If you own domain names, you start getting spammed. I can't tell you how many spam calls I have trying to buy various URLs from me. So yeah, this happens not just to real estate investors, although I think real estate investors get it very, very bad, but it happens to all kinds of business owners and asset owners generally. I invested in, when I buy domains, I've invested in, and I buy them through a company that offers for a little extra fee, a shield so that my personal data doesn't show up. like it shows up as through them, mysterious owners through them.
13:55Which makes me ask you this question, Paula. So as a real estate person, does it make sense as you accumulate properties then to just invest in another phone number? It seems like a very low cost to have this quote business phone number where the spam goes. Well, so a couple of things. Number one, you don't actually even have to invest in that. Google Voice gives you a phone number for free. Well, there you go. So I do a couple of things. Number one, use Google Voice to get a free secondary phone number and use that as your the phone number that you basically you'll have the phone number that you give to the general public, such as the phone number that you use for real estate records.
14:35And then you'll have your own private phone number that is just for family and friends and colleagues. So that's one way that I do it. And just for everybody listening, I just found out why I can never get a hold of Paula. She gave me that phone number. I'm on to you now. I do the same thing with email addresses. The second thing that I do, there is a setting in iPhone in which any call from an unknown number automatically goes to voicemail. So rather than your phone ringing with an unknown number, it will just auto get sent to voicemail. And then you can, of course, weed through your voicemails.
15:14And if there are numbers that you recognize, maybe your dentist called you and that isn't saved in your phone, you know, you just then save that number. Right. So. Siphoning off calls from unknown numbers automatically. That's another thing that I do. And then finally, you know, there are occasions where I have to turn that feature off. So, for example, when I was in journalism school, I was placing calls to a bunch of sources in order to do reporting for news articles that I was writing. right? So I knew that I needed to get a bunch of calls from unknown numbers. So there were two things that I did at that time.
15:49Initially, what I did was I screened my calls such that calls with area codes in the cities in which I own properties, those calls I never picked up because oftentimes spammers will call from the same area code as the property, as where the property is located under the assumption that you're more likely to pick up those calls. And so what I do is if I see a call from an Atlanta area code, an Indianapolis area code, or a Las Vegas area code, I do not pick it up. I send it to voicemail. By contrast, if I see a call from an unknown number with a New York area code, I'm more likely to pick that up.
16:30So that was one thing that I did. And then eventually over time, I did actually just get a second SIM card and a second phone number entirely. And that was specific to being, when I was in journalism school, that was specific to being in a position in which I needed to be able to pick up calls from unknown numbers. I don't do that anymore. I have since canceled the SIM card because I no longer have the need to pick up unknown numbers. So those are all the ways that I try to screen spam. Well, and it's important. I mean, you know, the great thing for Brian is as he gets more successful and adds properties, this is going to be a problem that manipulates.
17:11And it sounds like he's already successful if he's getting these calls frequently right now. So yeah, it's only going to get worse. Yeah. Welcome to the club. This is the price of success. So congratulations, Brian, on getting frequently spammed. Way to go. Brian can tell people now, I'm so popular. You know how popular I am? I get five spam calls a day.
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21:35Our next call comes from Jenny. Hi, Paula. I am 36 years old and I am an independent consultant, meaning that I have multiple different clients from time to time. I currently have one client who wants to pay with a W-2 and they are my only and main client for this year. I'm wondering about what I can do for my retirement accounts. Obviously, because they pay me with a W-2, I can't take advantage of a SEP, self-employed 401k. However, the company itself doesn't have its own 401k plan. Am I just going to miss out on this 401k opportunity this year of putting money in with tax benefits for retirement?
22:54Or is there something else I can do? I've already maxed out my IRA for the year. I'm looking to see how else I might be able to save for retirement without just opening a regular investment account. Thanks for any insight. Jenny, thank you for the question. So if you are a W-2 employee and your employer does not offer any type of retirement plan, your best bet is a traditional IRA or a Roth IRA. But Jenny, you already have that. As you know, there's a glaring contribution limit, which is $6 ,500. That applies to you at your age. You're 36 years old. Once you are over 50, there is a catch-up contribution.
23:47It's an extra thousand that you can put in, but it's a very low contribution limit. So that's the first thing that you can do is fully fund an IRA. But the drawback is once you've hit that$6 ,500 limit, you're tapped out for the year. Beyond that, you mentioned that you are an independent contractor and your main client pays you through a W-2. I assume that means you have other clients that pay you 1099 income. The good news there is that the money that you make from those other clients that pay you 1099 income, you can treat that money as any type of self-employed money. And so you can then, with the income from the clients who pay you as a 1099 worker, you can access all of the options that are available to self-employed individuals, which are the three key ones are the solo 401k, the SEP IRA, and the simple IRA.
24:47Joe, you're the former financial advisor. Is that what you would say to a client? Yeah, but you know what I would say even before that, Paula? What's that? Why does that employer want you to be a W-2 person? like I really, I re especially if they don't have a 401k, they don't have benefits like some employers that, um, that are, you know, forward thinking and realize that treating your employees better matters. Maybe they've got health benefits. They got things they want to include you like, that is great. But why do they want you to be W2 if you don't want to be W2? Like if somebody, if somebody came to me and said, I work for other people, I just want you to 1099 me, I would say, oh, Lordy, thank you.
25:38Because it makes my job so much like the tax reporting on their end, all the stuff they got to fill out that's state specific is just so, it would make their job so much easier. Oh yeah. We had a W-2 employee from the state of Alabama once and the The state, oh my goodness. For years after he left, we were just being hounded for paperwork by the state of Alabama. Because no matter how many times we tried to tell them we don't have any employees from the state of Alabama, they were still like, we need quarterly taxes. And we're like, we don't have any employees there. And it was a nightmare. So yeah, the state reporting requirements when you have a W-2 employee is just a job unto itself.
26:25So I think there might be a conversation opportunity there to say, hey, you know what? I would much rather be 1099. But we don't know. Maybe she gets health benefits, right? Maybe the function of being a W-2 employee is that she gets health benefits from this particular client. If she does, yeah, then there's a reason. But just from the evidence we had from that call, she's like, for whatever reason, they may be W-2. If you don't want to be, then I might talk to them about how much in their favor. You know, when you enter into discussions like this or any negotiation, it's always best to argue from the other person's point of view.
27:06Right. So if you can make it a win for them to do the thing that you want, that's way better than going to them with something than talking about your side. Right, right. Yeah. Here's why it would be easier for you. It would be cheaper for you. It would be less reporting for you. It would be less onerous for you. Yeah. But if there is a reason, Paula, I think you nailed it. You can look at things like the Solo 401k is pretty cool as well as the SEP, the simple. Good stuff. The types of retirement accounts that are available to you, if you have access to an employer-sponsored plan, are far more restricted.
27:45But in your situation, given that you do not have access to any employer-sponsored plan, that completely opens up the window for all retirement accounts that are available to self-employed individuals. the key is that that can only be funded by the money that you make from your 1099 income. So you'll need to have both sources of income, your W-2 income and your 1099 income. If Jenny has the worst case scenario and she has to do what she alluded to, which is just open up a brokerage account and save money there because she's capped out. Right. I do have some good news for Jenny, which is while that is suboptimal, the degree to which it's suboptimal is a lot less for most people than I think that a lot of people in our community allude to.
28:39We really go a little overboard on some of the tech stuff because if you are an investor and not a trader, Jenny, if you're a trader, you're going to be churning taxes and you're going to be throwing off a lot of different things. But if you're in an exchange traded fund or a mutual fund that's based on an index, it will sometimes throw off usually a very, very, very small tax bill. And don't get me wrong, that's friction. And if you did have it inside of a IRA or a solo 401k or a SEP or simple, whatever it is, sure, that would go away. It's not as big as people think it is, Paula. If you're a buy and hold person, it's not a ton of friction.
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29:23So don't let perfect be the enemy of good. Right. Yeah. I would save the money into a brokerage account and be very happy with the upside of that, which is now you can get that money whenever the hell you want. I don't got to worry about the IRA rules. Hey, it's flexible in which there's so many times, so many questions we've answered in the past, Paula, where flexibility has won the day. Right. Exactly. Exactly. So the glass is half full, Jenny. I mean, technically the glass is entirely full because it's got both water and air. Only Paula Pant would say that.
30:06That's fabulous. I agree. I'm a huge fan of taxable brokerage accounts. If you can get a tax-advantaged account, great. But if you can't, taxable brokerage accounts are wonderful as well. I've got loads of money in my taxable brokerage account, and I happily pay the tax bill because I know that I've got – like Joe, like you said, I've got flexibility with the money that's in there. And over the span of a person's life, you want to build out that tax triangle where you've got the three points of the triangle, taxable brokerage, tax deferred, and tax exempt, right? Over the span of your life, you want to build that out.
30:49But if in any one given year, you have to put more money into one of the three points of the triangle, okay, you know, that's one year, right? It's one year out of decades and decades of building out that tax triangle. You'll have other years to compensate in other ways, in the other points. Yeah. So thank you for asking that question, Jenny. And congratulations on what I hope is otherwise a good client to have. Yeah. Absolutely.
31:46Absolutely.
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34:42Joe, our final caller today is anonymous. And you know what that means? Well, I have been re-listening to one of my favorite podcast episodes. I like her, this woman, wherever she is. She's a comedian named Aisha Tyler. I saw her on the main stage at a podcasting conference and she kind of changed my, just my viewpoint on podcasting and was really influential in so many ways. But she was interviewed on Tim Ferriss' podcast. And I think I've listened to that interview maybe five times. And I was listening to it this morning. And as just a powerful woman, I've had the opportunity to listen to what we're about to hear.
35:29And I think Aisha is probably a great name for this caller. Okay, perfect. All right. Well, then our final caller today, who is anonymous, we will name Aisha. Hi, Paula. This is anonymous. I'm a big fan of the pod, especially these Ask Paula episodes. So thank you for doing them. I always learn so much. I'm calling because I need help figuring out if I should pursue a graduate degree and how I should go about it. Here are some helpful context. I have an undergraduate degree in Africana Studies, which I love and would do again if given the chance. I focused on the intersection of art and politics in the Black diaspora, and thanks to this degree, I got to pursue so many dreams, including living and studying in Ghana, working on an exhibition in South Africa, spending years working at world-renowned media and culture organizations, and falling in love with marketing through my work at a history-based research institute.
36:23I am now 10 years into my career, and while I've had a ton of fun and learned a lot, I've also experienced a significant amount of discrimination, both because of my race and my gender. I even went through a grueling year-long public fight with a deeply racist and sexist VP at a prominent media org that ended up with him getting fired by the board and all of the top leadership of the org being replaced. I am tired of fighting so hard and having to work 10 times harder than everyone else, only to find out I'm being paid half as much as white male colleagues doing the same exact work, even though I scored highest on the annual performance review.
36:59I'm exhausted, and I feel like taking a step back to study, get an MBA, and gain credentials that are valued in the workplace could help me advocate for myself even more, and more importantly, get seen for the value that I bring. I'm 10 years in, and I am confident that I can do any job and reach any heights, but I am not sure I can continue fighting as hard as I've been. In my mind, getting an MBA means removing one more obstacle from my path. Is it worth it though? I've identified an online program at a top 50 business school that would allow me to keep working full time and that I can pay for easily out of pocket.
37:33Is it okay to not shoot for the top? Is it okay to put financial stability ahead of prestige and brand name? Will I regret not choosing an in-person program at a more famous school since everyone is telling me the point of an MBA is the network. Truthfully, I don't want to do a full-time program even if I were to get a full ride. I not only love working, but doing the affordable part-time program would be less money in the long term. I just don't want to feel like I'm choosing the easy way out instead of the smartest way. Thank you so much in advance for your help. Thank you for that call. I'm sorry that you're in this situation to begin with.
38:14So let's figure out what to do. All right. So to your question, I hear two questions in here. Is an MBA the best next step? And if so, is this specific online program, the particular MBA that you should choose, or should you opt for a more prestigious MBA that would be a full-time in-person program? We'll start with the premise of the question, which is, is an MBA the most optimal next step? On that question, I'm torn. On one hand, credentials can be a form of of armor traditionally accepted credentials are a way it's a shorthand way of saying hey look i'm qualified there's another factor i think we have to also talk about which is um many of the women that i'm surrounded by also get asked questions that frankly dave ramsey doesn't get asked because he's a white dude like there are questions that when I've been, and I've been co-host on different podcasts with women and the judgments about the women and the questions they're asked are questions that I've never been asked, right?
39:33Like what? Like credentials to be on the show, right? So why you? And by the way, and also just some of the gross discussions about the appearance of my co-host or the tone of her voice that I would never get. It is, it is deeply disturbing and frankly weird and, um, and in some ways disgusting. So I think there's also that Paula, but Dave just, you know, Dave's a guy who sounds like he knows what he's talking about. If he's a dude who knows what he's talking about, nobody asked the question. It's Dave, you know, Hey, I'm the voice of authority. I put this little tone of my voice. I'm a guy who looks like a guy who has done it, but Paula Pant comes along.
40:21Well, who the hell are you? What is your authority to be there? Right. I was featured by CNBC in this video. And if you read the comment thread, I mean, it's just hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of comments of people saying, oh how is she a personal finance voice you know oh oh i guess anybody can just be one right like because there is nothing formal in my background that gives me a formal credential in in finance or economics uh all the comments on the cnbc video were like well geez i guess my dog can be a personal finance commentator. So yeah, so to your question, Aisha, one of the reasons that I did go to Columbia, I mean, there were many reasons, but one of those reasons was because I wanted to be able to say, look, I have a degree in economic journalism, business and economic journalism from an Ivy League institution.
41:34So no one can really ever question that credential now. Now, does it matter? I don't know. Sometimes I think it matters in my own head more than it does to other people. Which I think is not not important, by the way. I mean, excuse the double negative, but I think that is important. I think when you show up with this, this, yeah, you're not going to question me because I've got this background. it gives you the confidence to continue the fight. Like you can hear how tired she is, right? Yeah. Yeah, exactly. So confidence is everything. Yeah. Well, and Joe, to your point, when you said, hey, when you show up and you speak with complete authority and you're like, I'm Dave Ramsey and this is what I believe, right?
42:18People really respond to that display of confidence. You look at Susie Orman, right? She is arguably the most successful female in the personal finance space. And what does she have? Absolute confidence and absolute authority. You know, Susie, what do you think of the FIRE movement? I hate it. I hate it. I hate it. Right? She comes on to, she came onto this podcast. She came onto a FIRE podcast and said that with so much authority. And yes, it generated a backlash, but you know what? She's Susie Orman. she stands up to the backlash because she's Susie effing Orman and she says what she thinks.
42:56Yeah. What's interesting about that, Paula, is that if you actually look into Susie's background and you see how checkered her background is and how a lot of that is her bravado. It has nothing to do with getting another MBA, but getting more education. It is just Susie having that armor, that presenting herself in a certain way that did it. Yeah, exactly. And so that's why I'm torn on the question of will an MBA be helpful? Because on one hand, I think if it generates confidence, then yes, it could be helpful. On the other hand, an MBA is a time-consuming and expensive way to generate confidence.
43:40right ultimately people respond to to bravado um they respond to chest up shoulders back i'm gonna look you square in the face i'm gonna you know yeah you know that that is that is uh my initial reaction and you know it's easy for me to have a reaction right because i haven't gone through a lot of this. So my experience, you can take or leave. This is kind of an offshoot though about what I talked about on the main stage of FinCon when I was doing the closing keynote about some of this stuff. But I think what Aisha needs to embrace is that all the degrees in the world are not going to make a not be a yeah yep yep hundred percent thousand percent the does not care how many degrees you have the racist doesn't care the sexist doesn't care yeah it does not matter what you have because it's not about you it's about them yep uh-huh yeah And so I have a coach, a good coach, and I very strongly believe in having good coaches around you.
45:01And Mary Lou has told me over and over, Joe, that's a cluster of misery. Get the F away from it. Stay away from clusters of misery, clusters of miserable people doing negative work, living in negative spaces. And, and, and once again, that's easy for me to say, it's hard to actually do. So I don't, I want to acknowledge that that's not an easy thing to avoid clusters of misery and miserable people. The good news is though, there are groups of people working together who are the opposite Aisha of what you're going through, who are empowering, who are helpful, who have each other's back, who want to see each other succeed.
45:46those people are out there and i don't think that's a degree it's a pain in the ass to go find those people and to keep searching and searching and searching for this holy grail of these people they're going to empower you um and that's not to say the mba is wrong either paula i'm as torn as you are because the mba could be a great thing i think what we're what we're asking is what's the ROI you're searching for? Right. Right. Well, and I think so, Joe, I completely agree. Like no, no amount of degrees is going to, you know, you can't reason with an unreasonable person, right? You could have it, you could have a Harvard MBA and a PhD, but if someone is going to have preconceived notions, they're going to have preconceived notions and not even a Harvard MBA will solve that.
46:42But that being said, a Harvard MBA does also build your network. It builds your connections. It gets you a foot in the door in a lot of places. It is a shorthand for saying, I belong in this club. You actually literally can join certain clubs like there, you know, in New York City, there are clubs that you can belong to literal, actual, physical clubs that you can belong to if you have an Ivy League degree. Right? So it does quite literally open the doors. So that's why I'm torn, because there are so many doors that do get opened by virtue of getting a degree and specifically where you go to get that degree.
47:29There are many doors that do get opened from that. And there are people that you meet that you would otherwise never have access to. And it is purely because you have that credential because that credential is just in a busy society, that credential is a shorthand for, hey, I'm qualified. Let me in. So that is the argument in favor of it. But by contrast, I mean, the argument, you know, the argument on the other side is, to your point, Joe, you can't reason with an unreasonable person. Some people are simply going to wallow in their biases. And the only way to stand up to that is with that Susie Orman level confidence.
48:12On the subject of confidence, there are really two elements to consider. There's internal and external. And external, you know, you might argue what's the distinction between confidence and credibility. But I do think even when we are talking externally, there is a distinction between the two. So let's discuss both. When it comes to external confidence, there's a spectrum, right? There are certain people who, on one end of the spectrum, will always doubt you no matter what. And it doesn't matter what type of evidence they're presented with, because they are not operating from their prefrontal cortex, they are operating from their limbic system, which is another way of saying you can't reason with an unreasonable person.
48:59And so those people on one end of the spectrum will never be convinced regardless of any amount of evidence. On the opposite end of the spectrum, you also have people who are cheerleaders and they are inclined to always see the best in everyone and to always be hopeful and to always be empowering. And their confirmation bias is that they want to see you succeed. They want to see everyone around them do well and succeed and do good. Those people will always be out there too. And then, if you think of this as a spectrum, in that middle portion of the spectrum, you've got people sort of somewhere in between those two extremes.
49:50And most of these people in that middle portion of the spectrum are relatively reasonable. Certainly, they have their biases, we all do, but they are also pretty reasonable people. right? So if you think of that as a spectrum of the type of people that you'll encounter, the confidence that you have in your interaction and the confidence that they have in you, I think that confidence can be aided by getting this MBA, by having this piece of paper that gives you increased credibility, right? So that's the external world. But then, then there's internal confidence. And that internal confidence is how you feel about yourself.
50:39Forget all of the other people who are out there in the world. When you are alone, how do you feel? When you're looking in the mirror, how do you feel about yourself? And again, I think that oftentimes getting that piece of paper, its true value is not the fact that you took a few classes on corporate finance and now you know how to construct a P &L statement or read quarterly reports. Its true value comes from the way that it enhances your internal sense of confidence. I think for Aisha too, there are two ways in the future to think about this fight. On one hand, there is hand-to-hand combat with stuff that's wrong is absolutely 100 % wrong.
51:34And I think fighting that is brave and noble and also is probably a big source of where the tired comes from in Aisha's voice, right? Because that is a tiring ass fight. I can't imagine going through what she went to. The whole executive team, Paula, gets fired. Like, think about your psyche. Like, that is a fight. That is a fight. There is a second way to battle this as well. And I talked about finding these empowering people. Another way to do it is to find these empowering communities and isolate these assholes. and as these find themselves more and more isolated by people that want to empower each other, all of a sudden they're like, oh, what?
52:23I'm the bad guy? Well, yes, you are. Yes, you are. Why does nobody want to work with me? Well, guess why nobody wants to work with you? Like maybe they get the message. Maybe they don't, Paula. Maybe there's something where they need this attention and the negativities the way that they feed on that. But it makes me very happy to not feed that, to not feed that. And by the way, and I'm not implying at all that Aisha did that in the past. I'm saying there is another way to fight this, which is to go, I'm not playing this game. I'm walking away from this game. I'm going to play a different game.
52:59But in the context of a career, you have clients, you have bosses, you have customers, you just, you have people that you have to interact with and they have to believe in you. Yeah. Which means if she's not getting that, and as I mentioned before, Paula, it ain't easy, but letting, letting that group go, if you're not getting that to find that place, that's an MBA on its own. That's a whole, that's a whole MBA. Just searching for this, searching for this community and this job and these people that are going to give me that are going to feed me that way. Those organizations exist. You saw it in Jim Collins' work, Good to Great.
53:43You see it in Tom Peter's work. You see it in a lot of these organizational experts' work about organizations getting ahead. There's exciting, empowering places out there. I can't imagine the place she was working was doing well. You know what I mean? I feel like groups that feed that. Also, I'd be very interested to know what organization it is to see what their financial results were because I just get this feeling that competitively it gets very difficult to compete. Those short-term things people do, maybe it works for a month or two months or six months, but that just wears on an entire organization.
54:26I got to believe if the whole management team got fired. It wasn't just Aisha who's feeling this. Even though she was at the forefront fighting it, like there's other people. My daughter worked for a company where she was the last person in her division to quit. She thought her boss hated her. And it got to the point, it got to the point, Paula, that she realized that it wasn't her when everybody else started to quit that had this particular boss. Everybody else quit. And Autumn was the last one. She was the last one. And by the way, on Autumn's last day, have I told you this story? On Autumn's last day, I was going to help her move out of her apartment and leave town to go to her next job.
55:09Her boss told her she couldn't leave until 5 p.m. Wow. On her very last day. And I gave Autumn the advice. I said, you tell your boss, I'm leaving whenever the fuck I want to. You are literally not the boss of me now. I mean, that's what a jerk this person was, but nowhere near what Aisha is going through. But that organization, my point there was that organization, you could see it in their financial results. If I told you the name of the organization, you would go, oh yeah, that organization was known for having turmoil. You could see it in the end product. You could see it in the people that work there.
55:48It just bled ugliness. Aisha, to your two questions, should you get an MBA? And if so, where? As to the question of should you get an MBA, I am 50-50 torn. I think there are strong arguments in both directions, strong arguments in favor of doing so, strong arguments in favor of not doing so. I don't have a position on that. But to the second half of the question, if you do get an MBA, I would strongly recommend go to the best place possible, the absolute best. Go to Harvard, go to Yale, go to Cornell, go to Columbia. I spent when in my year at Columbia, I was in a particular fellowship. I wasn't admitted just as a traditional master's of journalism student.
56:35I was admitted into a fellowship for specifically business and economic focused reporters. And within this fellowship, you could choose between three different tracks. Two of the three tracks have you taking most of your classes in the business school. One of the three tracks has you taking most classes in the journalism school. I took the J school track, but because of the fellowship, I had a lot of time that I spent with the business school crowd. CBS, they call it, Columbia Business School. And so I got to really see the inside of that. And as you said, Aisha, in your question, I mean, there's so much networking.
57:21They're much, much more social than the J School crowd. There's a lot of networking. There's a lot of relationship building. You're not going there to learn accounting. You can learn accounting from watching YouTube videos. You're going there to have access to people and groups and, like I said, literal clubs that you could never join otherwise. And often in those communities, Paula, when I talked about finding the better, more enlightened, maybe, places, those are great networking groups to find those people and to avoid those clusters of misery. Yeah, absolutely. Yeah, and there are some incredibly impressive, very, very inspiring people there.
58:14Just, I mean, person after person just blows me out of the water. So I don't know whether or not you should get an MBA, but if you do, go to the best. The magnitude of impact is 10x, if not 100x greater. Well, Joe, we've done it again. Wow. Another episode for the books. Joe, where can people find you if they want to hear more of you? Oh, you can find me. Were you surprised by that question? I've got a great place, Paula. The Staggy Benjamin Show, every Monday, Wednesday, Friday, we call it the greatest money show on earth. It is meant to be a circus where we present you with ideas on four or five different topics.
59:03On our Monday and Wednesday shows, we have a phenomenal roundtable featuring the amazing Paula Pant on Fridays, where she is in the thick of, by the way, our trivia contest for the year. It's coming down to the end and man, is it close. So if you're into competitions that mean nothing. And I certainly am. And some pretty darn good financial talk. That's it. Stacky Benjamins. Oh, fantastic. Fantastic. Well, thank you so much for tuning in. If you enjoyed today's episode, please share it with a friend, share it with a family member. That's the most important thing that you can do. chat with our community too.
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