LIVE EVENT Q&A: Episode 500, Part 2, with ChooseFI’s Brad Barrett

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Afford Anything Podcast: Episode 500, Part 2 - Summary Notes

Episode Overview

  • Title: LIVE EVENT Q&A: Episode 500, Part 2, with ChooseFI’s Brad Barrett
  • Host: Paula Pant
  • Special Guest: Brad Barrett from the ChooseFI podcast
  • Setting: Recorded live at a comedy club in Brooklyn
  • Theme: Audience Q&A about personal finance, financial independence (FI), and decision-making frameworks.

Key Concepts Explored

Financial Independence (FI)

  • Definition: Having sufficient investments that make work optional.
  • Importance: The journey towards FI enhances life quality, regardless of the endpoint.
  • Action: Emphasis on the necessity to take action in pursuing financial goals.

Personal Finance Lessons

  • Guilt in Spending: Discussed how to balance personal enjoyment with financial responsibilities.
  • Suggested approach: Allocate fixed amounts for savings and spending to commit equally to both.
  • Recognized the psychological element in managing guilt about spending versus saving.

Long-Term Financial Perspectives

  • Compound Growth: Every dollar saved contributes to future wealth, and early actions yield compounding benefits.
  • Patience: The path to financial goals can feel slow but is often quicker than perceived when viewed in hindsight.

Community and Support

  • Recognition of the value of community support in the FI journey.
  • Encouraged sharing personal financial journeys within community groups to foster accountability and growth.

Mistakes and Learning

  • Guests discussed their personal finance mistakes over the past year, emphasizing self-awareness and the importance of revisiting financial plans regularly.
  • Suggested focusing on automating finances to reduce the mental load and prevent errors.

Real Estate Investment

  • General outlook on the housing market being bullish due to supply and demand imbalances.
  • Encouraged innovative thinking in real estate, like converting single-family homes into multi-units to increase housing supply.
  • Recognized the importance of being educated and informed before making real estate investments.

Audience Questions and Insights

Impactful Lessons from Podcasting

  • Brad Barrett shared a significant takeaway: safeguarding loved ones through proper financial planning, prompted by a poignant guest episode.
  • Paula emphasized the value of long-form content for depth and understanding in financial discussions.

Overcoming Financial Apathy

  • Discussion on the importance of maintaining engagement with personal finances to prevent apathy and complacency.

Travel and Life Experiences

  • Both hosts shared their favorite travel destinations and encouraged embracing slow travel to truly experience cultures.

Future Events

  • Announcement of upcoming community gatherings and workshops aimed at fostering learning and connection among listeners.

Final Thoughts

  • Paula thanked the community for their support over 500 episodes, emphasizing the importance of making conscious choices regarding money and life priorities.
  • Encouraged listeners to leave reviews, subscribe, and engage with the community for continued learning and support.

Resources Mentioned

  • Books:
  • "The Millionaire Next Door"
  • "Atomic Habits" by James Clear
  • "Die With Zero"
  • Podcasts:
  • ChooseFI podcast
  • Recommendations for international FIRE content.
  • Community Resources:
  • Afford Anything community at affordanything.com/community

Conclusion The live Q&A session in this 500th episode is a celebration of the personal finance journey. It highlights the camaraderie and support available within the community, emphasizing actionable insights and the importance of continuous learning and engagement in financial matters.

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0:28Welcome to episode 500, part two. Paula Pant. I trained in economic reporting at Columbia University, and I'm here to help you focus on what matters. Now, what you're about to hear is episode 500, part two. We aired part one just the other day. Have a listen to part one if you haven't heard it yet. What you're about to hear in this episode is part two of episode 500 featuring special guest Brad Barrett, host of the Choose FI podcast. Now, for those of you who may be tuning in for the first time, Choose FI stands for Choose Financial Independence, which is the point at which you have sufficient investments such that work becomes optional.

1:09And the thing about FI is the journey to FI, the pursuit of FI is a path that will improve your life regardless of whether or not you actually reach FI, or I should say regardless of how long it takes you to reach it, because a dedicated pursuit over a long enough time span, barring any type of black swan calamity, is likely to lead to FI. In any event, in this upcoming episode, myself and Brad Barrett, the host of the Choose FI podcast, take live audience questions. This is the second part of our special episode 500 two-part series. Enjoy. Let's open it up to you all. Hello, everyone. So we have an appointment tomorrow at 10 a.m.

1:59at the city clerk's office to get married. Congrats! Congratulations! So this is our bachelorette. Wow! Oh, my God. So I know we got bachelorette, honeymoon, we got everything. What a night. So I was just wondering, you know, between, you know, like you said, a thousand plus episodes, what was the most impactful thing that you've learned since starting the podcast? So like through your journeys, you decided to start the podcast or really hit you sideways. It's interesting. We just had an episode talking about getting married and safeguarding yourselves. I'll have to get the exact episode number.

2:33It might've been 480 or thereabouts with a woman named Amy, whose husband actually tragically passed away. And And it was such a poignant episode about making sure your loved ones are safeguarded. And I think a lot of us, myself very much included, say, oh, I can put beneficiaries on later. Or, oh, it'll be fine. Even if I get hit by a bus, it's all going to go to my wife or whatever. or, oh, I'll wait for that term life insurance or, oh, I'll wait to get a will. My wife's the CPA. I mean, she's very capable. But as much as I'd like to believe I have everything, you know, eyes dotted, T's crossed, and she would be able to pick up and run with it.

3:28I don't know if that's actually true. So this particular episode just kind of opened my eyes to bad things can happen. and you need to safeguard your loved ones in whatever way and whatever your situation is. Like the age old tale with our podcast is you have to take action. I think that if there's one through line of almost 650 episodes of Choose a Vi, it is you have to get up off the couch and take action. And it's easy to listen to podcasts. It's easy to read books. It's all well and good. if you have it, you know, you have this knowledge, but it doesn't mean anything unless you do it. And listen, I am as much to blame as anybody on this.

4:14Like there are times where I have the best intentions and I sometimes just don't do it. So it's overcome that inertia and just, and, and take action in essence. So in this particular case, but really in every case. And I think that is what separates our community, I think from, from most. Wow. I had a totally different answer. Go for it. Well, I mean, my tongue-in-cheek answer is what I've learned is if Susie Orman ever calls you, always, always get on the phone with her. You might have to tell the story real quick. Susie Orman was on in, what was that, 2018 or 2019? That was a while back. and my very opening question was, Susie, what do you think of the fire movement?

5:05And she said, quote, I hate it, I hate it, I hate it. And then we went from there. Yeah, that had legs. But the thing that I've learned as a podcaster, what I love about podcasting as a medium is that you can go long form. You can go deep. and in the age of TikTok, when everything is, you know, 10 seconds and you're on a screen and you're scrolling and it's the age of distraction, there are a lot of people who say, like, we live in the age of TikTok. You need to be quick and you need to be snappy. And I don't believe that for a second. I believe that there is room for long form. There's room for depth.

5:48There's room for thoughtfulness. There's room for nuance. And I've stayed really committed to producing long episodes. I mean, in the age of short form content, I think you can really gain the most from an audio book, from a podcast, from a book, from a long blog post or newsletter. Yeah. And I think there's something especially intimate about podcasting also, right? Like, I know I listen to a ton of podcasts and you feel like you you know those people like they're your friends and and there's just something really unique and special about it and you learn people's little eccentricities and ins and outs and you learn something like Paula as you as evidenced by tonight is like just such a pro when it comes to asking questions I mean she is a true journalist And like, it's obvious from the first second you meet her, right?

6:48It's remarkable. And I think that's what's so special about this medium in particular. on hi my name is Delia I listen to his podcast that's and I have heard about you many times in the podcast my question is about guilt because you mentioned to give ourselves some grace but personally I feel guilt in the sense like I'm trying to pursue my personal finance journey because I'm from Colombia I never heard about money and I came here and like oh my god I don't have savings and stuff so I like to travel I like experiences so every time like I want to travel I do it because that's what I love the most but then I feel guilty because I don't have the emergency fund that I I think I need so my question is how do you at the very beginning you know when we don't even have like a hundred k because after 100k everything compounds and you know it accelerates in your journey at the beginning how did you give some yourself some grace without like taking care of your personal finance journey, but without feeling guilt for valuing and doing the things that you want to do?

7:56I would say a few things. Number one, and I know that there are a lot of YouTube headlines that are like, the first 100k is the hardest and after that again, but really, things compound with the first dollar. So you're already in the compounding cycle, you're already getting that growth. But to the guilt question, what I would recommend is have a certain amount, whether it's a specific raw dollar amount or a percentage, have a very specific amount that you're like, this is the amount that I'm dedicating towards savings. And whatever that is, do that first. And once you've done that, then in order to be firm about the amount that you're committing to savings, you then also have to be equally firm about the amount that you're committing to spending.

8:42You're like, I've committed to spending this money because only by committing to spending this amount can I be equally as committed to saving this other amount. Right. So the strength in the commitment has to be equal on both sides. So if you're really strong in your commitment to save X, then you're equally as strong in your commitment to spend Y. Yeah, I think often it's these little psychological shifts. And we have to understand we are human, and we have an operating system running, and you sometimes have to trick yourself. And that's okay. That's part of being human. So like Paul is saying, this is, if you really parse it, it's a distinction without a difference, but it is a difference and it means everything.

9:34So in this case, it's guilt-free spending and you have to be okay with that, right? Like, have you taken action to make your life better? Yes. You're nodding significantly. Of course you have. Doesn't that feel amazing? Of course it does. so you have to focus on the positive there about just how different your life is now and like paul is saying the positive starts compounding from the very first action you take to make your life better it just does and compounding has a way of seeming slow at first and then all of a sudden boom and you will see that on your path but i understand at the beginning it feels slow it feels like you want to be there right like you've made up this number 100k because you've heard it right and and i'm not i'm not uh talking negatively about that but you've heard that number as if it's some magical thing is it any different than 99k 98k 97 you could just you no it's just some random round number and you're beating yourself up because of some random round number that doesn't make any sense right like your life is dramatically better than before you found fi and you should be really really proud of yourself yes it's much better i actually opened my btsax phone and like it's minimum 3k and i was like i don't have 3k i will never have like a bomb some 3k so what it is like i started saving a hundred dollars every month and then when i had my 3 000 like i was so happy and i look at my app every day and like right now i have like 5k yeah and also like i you know i want to live my life and tomorrow is no guaranteed so even if i have a million i don't know if i'm gonna live tomorrow you know so yeah thank you for the podcast I'm much better today.

11:36My biggest concern is time constraints. So between, you know, two kids, sports, just, you know, working 40 plus hours a week. This is a little embarrassing, but I have not finished your first rental property class. And I got about halfway through it about three years ago. And then it just, you know, life becomes overwhelming. You're a turtle. Yeah, exactly. Very, very slow turtle. So how in the beginning did you, you know, before you had the fire where, you know, where you had the time, how did you deal with that in the beginning? A couple of things. One is to just give yourself grace. Like, all right.

12:18So you said, hey, this is a little embarrassing, but I haven't finished your first rental property. There's absolutely nothing to be embarrassed about with that at all. The fact that you've enrolled in a course and more broadly, the fact that you've decided that you want to learn about how to invest in rental properties and that that is on your mind, it's something that you're incrementally moving towards, like that is something to be celebrated. You know, rather than the script of like, oh, I'm embarrassed because I haven't finished it yet, flip that to like, hey, I'm excited because I decided that this is something that I want to pursue.

12:58And step by step, piece by piece, I am working my way there. I am gradually moving in that direction. There's direction and then there's acceleration, right? And I think so many people get caught up in rate of acceleration that they don't stop and think about the fact that you're in the right direction for you. And that's the single most important piece of it. So I'd give yourself a lot of grace for that. The whole reason, by the way, that we came up with a framework of a turtle. And so just so everyone knows. So one of the things that we were dealing with in your first rental property is it's a cohort based course.

13:39And so in theory, you know, you're supposed to kind of go through it as a team. And what we saw is that the people who were moving through it a little bit more slowly were often having a hard time forgiving themselves for that. And so we created this framework where in any healthy ecosystem, there are cheetahs who just like zoom through everything fast. There are wolves who run in a pack. And then there are turtles who move slowly. It's great to be a turtle. Turtles are an important part of the ecosystem. I have a pet turtle. There's teenage mutant ninja turtles. Any healthy ecosystem needs turtles.

14:24There's mentality and then there's tactics, right? The mentality I think is the most important part and that's the part that I've just been addressing. Then tactically, you can fit it in the margins, but I think the tactics are less important than just I'm okay with the fact that I'm directionally pointed in the right place and I'm moving step by step to get there. The last thing I'll say is oftentimes the muddled middle feels like the slowest part. And when you get to the end, it actually feels fast in hindsight. So let's just say, for example, that two years from now, you buy your first rental property.

15:05Let's say three years ago is when you started thinking about it. To go from thinking about buying a rental to actually buying one in the span of five years is actually really quick. You know, there are a lot of people who take 15, 20 years. They started thinking about it 20 years before they actually made a move, right? Five years in the span of a human life is actually not that much time if we're lucky, you know? And so even if it takes another two years, that's actually relatively quick. So zoom out and think of it like that. So my question for the two personal finance experts here is what money mistakes or regrets have you made in the last 12 months?

15:52Hey, buddy. In the last 12 months is a good twist on that. That's great. Oh, wow. It's funny. I feel like we all have our stock answers to every question. Like I was going to go on my autopilot. Actually, I've talked about my real estate adventures. Actually, my buddy who I went in on that real estate, literally in the back. So two poor suckers.

16:20But last 12 months. OK, I need to think about that. Wow. Last. OK, honestly, it's like just not really paying attention. And that's a mistake. Not that's a chronic mistake. It's not like a single event. It's just a chronic state of not really paying that much attention that is still ongoing. If I'm honest, I've kind of tuned out of my finances and that's not a good thing. I used to be really on top of reading my statements every single month. I used to be really on top of like I would manually compile a net worth spreadsheet. And, you know, I have all of these apps and, you know, programs and like I've tried every app and I've tried every piece of software.

17:04And there are many that I use, but I also do think that there's value to periodically manually updating a spreadsheet. So I used to have this practice where I would physically log into every single account and transcribe it, you know, process that can easily be automated. But there's a like a moving meditation that comes with doing it manually. But it's been years since I've done that. I stopped during the pandemic when my, you know, I think all of our brains broke during the pandemic. And Humpty Dumpty is still like putting the pieces back together again, you know, on a month by month basis. I, you know, I'll like check an app.

17:46And I'll be like, Oh, that's interesting. But like, I'm not, I'm just not that in it anymore. There are things that I know that I want to do every year, like that I espouse and I have a checklist even. But sometimes it just falls by the wayside. So I think, yeah, being less involved, maybe caring a little bit less. And it's not like, oh, because I've reached fat fi or something. It's just, it's more just apathy on some level. Even going through something simple, like going through my credit card bill and just looking at are there things that have outlived their usefulness? And I would say we should probably all do that once a year at least because things have a way of just appearing and not like, oh, I'm paying for Hulu and I haven't watched Hulu in 12 months.

18:43And not that it's big dollars, but just it's an easy change. And I think those little easy changes, they feel really good when you make those decisions. Or, you know, even something simple like, okay, I think realistically every year we should all look at our insurance policies and get a new quote or something. And like, sometimes it feels like a real hassle to do that even once a year. The real honest answer when it comes to personal finance is you should get your silly little human brain out of it and make it so that you can't really make that many mistakes. Just get your brain out of it. Automate everything so you don't have to think about it.

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23:49Hi, thanks so much for being here. So many books reiterate the fundamentals. You mentioned how Die With Zero uniquely affected your perspective. Are there other books that uniquely affected your perspectives? One of the early books that informed me that a millionaire is not necessarily what a person thinks of with the popular mythology of what is a millionaire, you know, or these days that would be a billionaire, right? But there's no billionaire next door. But The Millionaire Next Door was eye opening in that the person next door who owns a pest control company and drives a Ford Focus could very well have a net worth of$5 million.

24:33So that was pretty influential for me early on. Atomic Habits by James Clear, I think is a very good book in terms of habit development. Mark Manson, The Subtle Art of Not Giving an F is a great one. And the thesis of that book is essentially there are very, very few things in this world that actually merit giving an F, you know. And for those few things, we should really care. And for everything else, just don't worry about it. The four most influential personal finance related books that I've read are Millionaire Next Door also. There was a book way back when by an author named David Bach called Smart Couples Finish Rich.

25:25And that was very, very tactical. And I think that book helped us in our marriage very early on more than essentially anything. So those two, Simple Path to Wealth, clearly was a total game changer. And yeah, and Die with Zero is the most recent version. And yeah, I mean, again, I've already talked endlessly about that, but it's just understanding seasons of life. So I mean, I think it is, you even see an evolution in those books, right? From very tactical, smart couples finish rich, to this simple path to wealth of understanding finance and understanding investing and feeling confident, the beginning stages of FI to, all right, look, there's a, there's a life when you get to FI.

26:16and that almost by definition is going to look very different than the very early days of fi. So yeah, I've never thought about it like that until this very moment, but yeah, I mean, those would be really the three or four most influential. Thank you. Very philosophical episode so far, so I'm afraid I'm going to be a bit prosaic. Throughout both of your podcasts, the 4 % rule has been discussed ad nauseum. I was just wondering your thoughts on fixed percentage withdrawals. Because to my mind, you take your 4 % every year without adjusting for inflation based on your fund balance. As long as you can deal with income volatility, you remove sequence of return risk and you mathematically at least never run out of money.

27:00Rather than adjusting your amount for inflation, you're adjusting it for market returns. I think it's the easiest way of putting it. But the 4 % is based on the balance at year one, correct? And then that is adjusted in line with inflation from that point forward. That has always been my understanding as well. So if you were to essentially repeat that process every year. I see what he's asking. All right. You're seeing us work through this in real time. Yeah, yeah. Okay, so what he's saying is you've got$500 ,000, you draw down$20 ,000 in year one. So you can't screw it up in essence is the subtext of this.

27:35I guess if the market did very badly, you mathematically could never run out of money, but you would get to a stage where your income was so low that it was unsustainable. However, as long as you can handle that volatility in your income, you potentially have higher gains in the future and higher income as a consequence. Okay. Yeah. So I see what you're asking. Okay. So the original study was you draw down$20 ,000 in year one and then$20 ,000 adjusted for inflation every subsequent year. Right. And so what he's proposing is you draw down based on the account balance rather than based on the$20 ,000 adjusted for inflation.

28:08So it's a reset every single year. Exactly. Yeah. I don't know if that's ever been studied. Like intuitively, it makes sense, but I haven't modeled it out on a computer screen to know what that would look like. What I do know is we interviewed Bill Bengen, who is the guy who published the original study of the 4 % rule. And what he found was that it was slightly over 4%. It was 4.2%. In most scenarios, even with a timeline of infinity, you still had a significant chance of not running out of money. I guess that answers why it's not been discussed thank you yeah well it's funny because my reflexive answer is oh I need to get big earn on this so I mean I think that what you actually are getting at here is we have an incredible community and I think this is what I actually value most about the community is like there is no world where I have that expertise just off the top of my head there's just simply no world.

29:08Like I could BS some answer. I'm not going to do that. But the cool part is we can model that, right? Like we, I can literally take this question and I'm going to, and I'm going to email Karsten when I get back home and we're going to play around with it. And that's wonderful. I think that's the power of community. So sorry to bring it theoretical again, which is expressly opposite of your question. But I think that is what we're doing here. We're trying to all get better. So that's something that, as you can tell from us flailing around up here trying to answer that question, we can't possibly answer that question, right?

29:44It's inconceivable that we can model it in our heads, right? That doesn't take away from the beauty of the question. It's a wonderful question. There's no world where we can answer it, but we have experts who can, who can help us. And I think that is the power of the five community and that's how i've always viewed it it's like i don't need to be the world-class expert at this stuff but what i think that i do reasonably well is i package information so that people can understand it so i can get karsten on and he's going to talk in his phd language about this and i'm going to keep asking questions and keep clarifying and simplifying so that our entire community understands a little bit better and we might find out that this worked wonderfully or he might just say in his very Carson way, like, this makes no sense.

30:33So, you know, he's going to come up with something, right? But we're going to come out with an answer at the end of it. And we're all going to come out with a little more knowledge. So I think that's how I've always viewed my role in this community is I am not the world-class expert at parsing the numbers. I don't need to be because I have friends who are. And I think that's wonderful. Thank you. So don't feel too bad about taking your first rental property and not finishing it. I finished it and then decided I didn't want to invest in real estate. Excellent. Good. You know. Exactly. Yeah. I'm glad I took it.

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31:11Yeah. But my question is, you're both quite well-traveled and my girlfriend and I are digital nomads. What are places that you've traveled to around the world that you would recommend that all of us go to? Ooh. That's a great question.

31:55This is not for me. And so I think one of the beauties of like, take a class, immerse yourself in it. And from just taking a class, really figure out do I want is this right for me or not? And by virtue of doing that, you spare yourself tens of thousands of dollars and huge headaches on the other side, you know, doing it the like, F around and find out kind of way. Yeah. Naked land speculation. Also not a good idea. So, yeah, like a huge applause to you for really being thoughtful about is this for me and taking the time to dive into that question and then coming out with an informed answer. So I think that's amazing.

32:47Now to your actual question. All right. So I just came back from Mongolia, China and Egypt in the last it was a it was a whirlwind two week trip. But Mongolia. So I like I've been to Egypt before. It was my second time there. Egypt is great. China is great. Mongolia, I really fell in love with. It's huge. And it has a total population of, I believe, around three million. So it's incredibly sparsely populated. So, you know, it's just it's nature. It's just, it's the Gobi Desert. It's these huge mountains, beautiful culture, beautiful, just beautiful scenery. Mongolia is incredible. Yeah. So, yeah, I think anybody who listens to my show knows what my answer is going to be is Japan.

33:36It's my absolute favorite place I've ever visited. It's a remarkable, remarkable place. It's a remarkable culture. the people are just incredible and and it's just such an odd mix of like you know you have japanese game shows on the one hand which are just these wild like things you could never imagine what these crazy people are doing to just like the majesty of like of history and the grand sumo competitions and just seeing Kyoto and just all the temples. It's such a fascinating place, even though I was such a foreigner there and I stuck out like a sore thumb, but I felt at home there. And it just was a really, really special time.

34:28So yeah, if I were to ever live anywhere else, it would unquestionably be Japan. Yeah. I also advocate for, you know, just go to a lot of places, but also travel slowly. At least this is my personal opinion, take it or leave it. But I'm a big proponent of what I call slow travel, where you take your time and stay there for a while. I don't count myself as having been to a country unless I've spent at least a week there. And it can be a cumulative week across like I went to Singapore for three days and I'm going to go back again this fall because I've got a friend who just moved there. So the last time I was there, I was there for three days.

35:11If I'm going to go back again, I'll be there for probably like four days, five days. So, okay, cumulatively, that's a week. I'll count that. But the reason that I've implemented that rule for myself when it comes to my own personal sense of how many countries I've traveled to is I want to make sure that I'm not just like popping in, spending a day or two leaving and then being like, check. If I've only kind of grazed the surface of a place, then I want to give myself some type of a mental sense of that being incomplete in order to motivate myself to go back and to go back and to give it the time that it deserves.

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38:41hi guys uh huge fan since of both podcasts since like 2018 so it's been really fun to piggyback on the recommendation question uh we're not going to talk about travel you both mentioned you love books, podcasts, and other content in the FIRE community. What are some of your favorites that are not based out of North America? It could be a podcast, it could be a FIRE book, something FIRE related. FIRE? I don't know FIRE content that's not North American based. I do know a guy who's based out of Australia who talks about dating, who's great. Yeah. Will Hitchens on Instagram. He's fantastic yeah i mean that is a really good question i do not follow any fire podcasts or blogs that are not in the u.s i think there's also like a like a fi europe or fire europe podcast that i listened to a couple times and you know it's it's good i think it might be maybe a similar issue from what i occasionally and i suspect this is you know maybe where the question comes from also is like get emails from people oh i live in germany i love your podcast but i wish you could have an episode about germany i'm like yeah i you know it's hard it it it is genuinely i i think in fairness we could do a better job but am i realistically going to have a phi germany a phi Malaysia episode, a Fai Uganda episode.

40:24I think and I hope those voices come from their particular countries. And I would love to see, and I think this is why, again, with our Chooseify local groups, we've tried, I think at last count there are 30 different countries where we have local groups, and it seems to be adding slowly but surely. I hope that those people become podcasters and bloggers, like, because they're intimately familiar, obviously, with their country. They're, by definition, going to do a better job than I can. So it doesn't really answer your question, unfortunately. But, like, you know, you got the essence of where it came from.

41:07Because I'm originally from Cameroon and I have family living in France. And I tell them they know how excited I am about fire. but they always tell me oh it only works because you're in the u.s now and so i'm always trying to find a way like okay are they actual famous podcasters bloggers outside that i can share with them so it'd be nice to have those resources anyone in the audience no oh alan and katie donagan yeah yeah yeah oh i shouldn't have forgotten yeah oh barney the escape artist yeah yeah yeah so definitely okay so yeah we completely forgot our friends in the uk so sorry guys alan and katie are like some of my best friends in the whole world and i literally forget them i am going to vegas with them next week and i forgot them That's incredible.

42:07So yeah, you can see how hard it is to answer questions live. Oh, no, no, that's going to stay. We're keeping that in. We're keeping that in. I also wanted to add, there's this awards thing called the Plutus Awards. The Plutus Awards honors like best personal finance content. They have a category for best Canadian personal finance content. If you just Google Plutus Awards, you can look through every year because they have the awards listed by year. and you can see not just the winners, but also all of the nominees. And so then you can check that for best Canadian personal finance blogs. So that's a good way.

42:45Like anytime that someone from the audience reaches out to me and says, hey, what are the good Canadian personal finance blogs out there or podcasts or content creators? I just checked the Plutus Awards website. I just want to say that I think this is better than Swifties Concerts because this is like, I mean it, I mean it. I'm geeking out big time. I've been feeling like literally high for the last several weeks since I bought the tickets because I just saw it on your Facebook and this is like amazing. So I love you both and you've changed my life and so many lives in an amazing way. And I do have questions, but I just wanted you, I want to be able to tell you this.

43:24You've opened like the doors into so many books and libraries and podcasts for me to get educated on things that I didn't, I would have not known. I'm an immigrant. I'm from Russia. So like my family, you know, all they told me is just pay off your credit card every month. That's it. So question for you is, I want to know what you're feeling about the real estate is. I know the market is crazy and all that stuff. I'm a cheater, and he's a very slow turtle. So I want to buy all the houses today and tomorrow. And he keeps saying the market is best. So we have conversations. And we also have a 14-year-old daughter.

44:05What if there's any like classes that I could sign her up for with other like 14-year-olds? You know, because it's different when you like, this is amazing. Like, I'll never forget this. The energy, the everything. Like, I want her to experience that. And also for both of you, is there any like master classes or camps you are doing where people can get together and just geek out for like three days, like solid? In whatever way. Like FinCon, I know hasn't done it in a while, but like anything that you're planning or doing or know of. That third question, I'll start there, because that to me is the easiest of the bunch.

44:42So there are a ton, actually, of these five community gatherings, which is wonderful. So I just got back from the Economy Conference in Cincinnati, which doesn't sound like a five community event, But it is the largest FI event in the world. And it is, yeah, basically a three-day weekend of geeking out. And you obviously, you learn a lot. And there are main stage speakers and breakout rooms. But it's the enjoyment for me, and I think for a lot of the attendees, is the time in between. It's the time to, you use the word master class. And I think it's important to learn, obviously, knowledge is wonderful.

45:32Nobody's saying otherwise. But for me, these events are about being amongst this energy and about seeing that you're not the only person pursuing FI. Because in your life, there's a reasonable chance that you are the only person that you know who is pursuing FI. And you, right? I'm like, I'm just going to stick with me. Right. Her friends are sick of her. And I think a lot of us, you can ask my friends in the back, like, you know, am I like the weird one? So I think that's normal for us. But I think when you're amidst and amongst like-minded people, it's just very energizing. so yeah economy so that's uh me at the end not my uh economy conference there's camp fi i think a lot of people get caught up in the camp as if you're like roughing it it's a three-day weekend basically at like a retreat center so there's no roughing involved there's an event that i'm going to this year in bali actually so this is uh amy minkley has something called the five freedom retreat.

46:42And that's obviously a much more involved event to fly across the world and, and stay there for a week or two. Uh, but that's much more immersive. It's akin to the Chautauquas, which don't really exist anymore, unfortunately. Um, yeah. So, and then little events pop up, you know, something like this, the choose of my local groups, hopefully are, are having more group, more events on a regular basis and not just, Hey, we're getting together at a brewery, but we're going to have a case study where someone is brave enough to stand up and talk about their own personal finances and, and get help from the group.

47:24Because I think it really is about this community. And, and it's just really neat to see. I've seen like a little, little like green sprouts of these like case studies popping up in, I think at last check, it was a couple dozen of our local groups. Now I've had people again, being brave enough. And could you imagine standing up for most people standing up in front of friends and neighbors and talking about your actual numbers? Like that's a really scary thing. But I think what we've seen is once you get that first person in your local group, who's brave enough to do it, almost invariably a handful of other people jump up and say, I want to do that because I know in our local Richmond group, we had one and it was great.

48:12And then somebody else said, okay, three weeks from now, I want to do a presentation. And that couple literally realized they reached financial independence and they put in their notice at their job, like from a case study. and that was just one of those really wild things so anyway very long story short there are lots of these events there really are and i think more and more of them are popping up i think and somebody could correct me there's uh fin talks i think is uh another one is it oh there's a cruise right amber lee grant has a cruise so yeah there's like a lot of these things that are popping up we'll try to get like a better resource on on our website yeah one thing that uh we at afford anything we are planning on doing, like broadly planning on doing, but we don't have specifics yet.

48:58So we're not ready to like announce it, but we're planning on having online one day workshops for that are digital. So anybody across the nation can attend as well as in-person events here in New York. So we don't have specifics yet, but like that's very high on our list. We also really want to do like a one week, you know, in the absence of Chautauqua, because both you and I have been to many of the Chautauquas and they've been great. And in the absence of that, one of the things that we've been talking about doing as Afford Anything is planning a one week retreat. We've been discussing doing it in Peru.

49:37Nothing is set in stone yet. That's just behind, it's behind the scenes. These are the conversations that our team is having internally to see what we can do. So yeah, that the wheels are turning there. You heard it in here first. That's cool. Yeah, exactly. You know, again, a lot of these things, I think, and I heard somebody say this earlier, I think a lot of us, especially after the, you know, the horrible COVID years, we want to get out and about and we want to meet people. We want to have more of this. And I think you're seeing these, you know, these sprouts of it. So I'm actually, again, I'm going to Vegas next week with the Donaghan.

50:14Yeah. Sorry. Um, and we just opened this event at, this was essentially a last minute plan where like Alan came to me and said, do you want to do something awesome? I'm like, well, how do you say no to that? Right? Like, so yes. And he had this idea for let's do a five event in the least five place in the world, Vegas. Right. So, so we basically just put this together and alan and katie so this is not like you know total fly by the cedar pants thing uh they have long experience with chautauqua and such so but anyway i mean we put this together and within 10 days we open it up to the public and it sold out in a day we sold 80 tickets to this thing and it was it was proof of concept and i think we're planning on doing more of these and And we're like, oh, wouldn't Hawaii be cool?

51:10We're going to do it in Vegas again because that's just, okay, where are there easy places for people to go to? So very long story short, I think you're going to see a lot more of these pop up because it's just, it's super energizing. So rental property in the world of residential real estate, residential real estate, there is unfortunately a huge shortage of housing. And what that means is that there is market pressure for home prices to continue to rise. and that is going to be true until more housing supply is created and we are unfortunately a very, very long way from new housing supply, sufficient housing supply being created.

51:52And so because of the imbalance between supply and demand, we just simply do not have enough homes to meet the demand. Because of that, that is a fundamental market pressure that's going to keep home prices rising. Now, I'll asterisk this with obviously every market is local. And so what's true in broadly as a nationwide aggregate may not apply to Youngstown, Ohio. There are going to be isolated local pockets that have unique real estate circumstances. But speaking broadly nationwide, residential home prices are going to continue to likely going to continue to rise. And so I'm very bullish on investing in properties.

52:40I think that in particular, if you can invest in properties and then increase housing supply, you know, like be part of the solution. If you can buy a single family home and turn it into a duplex, you then do two things. You, number one, contribute to the solution of increasing housing supply because now you've taken what was once one property and you've turned it into two. And you also make more money by virtue of doing that because now you're collecting two different incomes rather than just one, right? So the style of real estate investing that earns you the most amount of money is also the thing that actually helps solve the problem.

53:24And that comes from increasing supply either by creating new units or by increasing density by increasing the number of bedrooms per unit. So if you can do either of those two things, that in particular is good for you and good for the market in general. Cheetah all the way. All right. What time? Let's make this the last question. I've got a quick one. Yeah. Rental properties are great, in our opinion. And then there's the market. What do you or anybody in the room have for ideas of other ways to invest money? Oh, so many. One thing that I think we don't talk about enough is making money through the ownership of businesses.

54:19And that can either come from starting a business yourself, which is typically done by starting a side hustle and then growing it on the side until it has enough momentum that you can quit your job and do it full time, very much like we did. You know, so either either by starting a business or by buying a business. And I don't think that we talk about the buying a business portion of it enough. There's a lot of opportunity there. But but the ownership of private businesses, whether it's one that you have created or whether it's one that you've purchased is a huge opportunity. And in particular, purchasing businesses right now and over the span of the next decade, as, you know, there's going to be a huge number of baby boomers who are retiring.

55:07This is a trend that's already begun. And as baby boomers retire, a lot of them are small business owners who they need a successor and their children don't necessarily want to take over the family business. I mean, you know, logically, just because you have an HVAC company doesn't necessarily mean that your kids have a dream of running that HVAC company, right? So if you're a small business owner, your kids don't want the business, well, you have to sell it if you ever want to retire. And so there's going to be a, and this is already starting, a lot of small businesses that are coming on the market that are very like healthy, long-term viable businesses that the owners just want to exit out of because they're 60 or they're 65 and it's time to do something different.

55:57yeah it's funny i literally just got a pitch from somebody about this it was a they used an acronym i never heard so eta so entrepreneurship through acquisition and i'm sure both of us get hundreds of these random people sending us emails all the time but something about that one just really stuck out to me so that's an episode we're gonna have in the future i think uh that's really really interesting another person cody sanchez you've had her on right oh she hasn't been on yet okay She's another person to follow in that sphere. I found her especially interesting. You can find her if you just Google Cody Sanchez podcast.

56:33You can listen to a number of episodes. She's been on various podcasts. I asked this of Joe Salcihi a couple of years ago at the book signing. And I'm actually curious of Paula's answer first. So if you would answer second. As a board gamer, this is a board game question. So nothing too hard. uh you're kick-starting tomorrow your dream board game you've been working on what type of mechanics is it what's the theme what's it like oh wow okay a dream board game the first thing that's popping into my head is like some combination of clue with chutes and ladders.

57:17All right. If I'm just, I'm just brainstorming out loud here. If I were to come up with a board game, of course it would, it would have to have some type of money related lesson. There are two board games that I know of that teach about money. One is, uh, was created by Robert Kiyosaki. It's, um, cashflow. Yeah. The rat race one. Yeah. The other is Franklin's, I think it's called Franklin's Folly. Yeah. Franklin's Folly. So the reason that Clue comes to mind is that I like the structure of assembling a little bit of a whodunit. And I would somehow try to find a way to create like a murder mystery whodunit sort of a theme into finance concepts.

58:07I don't know exactly how that would happen. but that would be like the ultimate board game who killed somebody over the will or something yeah oh i can see this actually turning into an escape room you know what this would be maybe better as an escape room than it would be as a board game you know yeah i like that a lot so oh and you have to solve personal finance questions to find the clues to get out of the escape room yeah the total market just went down total adjustable market so we're a big board game family our favorite mechanism i guess is uh deck building so dominion is our all-time favorite uh dominion is also the game that ruined board games for us actually like uh we we wound up so we probably played this at the beginning of the pandemic maybe a thousand times like not hyperbole probably a thousand times and we the four of us loved it and then we made the cardinal sin of playing online and we actually learned like how deep the strategy went and it was like once you've seen it you can't unsee it essentially uh so it more or less ruined board game for us but that said this would still be my my choice i would come up with i have not been able to find another deck building game on par with dominion so maybe we could talk afterwards if uh if you have any options so yeah i don't have any like cute answer personal finance or not but i would love to build a deck building game that has the replayability of dominion but doesn't ruin board gaming for us forever.

59:55All right. Well, thank you for coming to episode 500.

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