Fashion Neurosis with Kristin Scott Thomas

27 Nov 2024 · 1 h 9 min

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Podcast Summary: Fashion Neurosis with Bella Freud - Episode Featuring Kristin Scott Thomas

Podcast Overview The "Fashion Neurosis" podcast, hosted by renowned fashion designer Bella Freud, delves into the intimate relationship between fashion and identity through conversations with various cultural icons. Each episode explores how clothing choices are intertwined with personal identity, societal perceptions, and deeper themes of life, love, and culture.

Episode Title

Fashion Neurosis with Kristin Scott Thomas Episode Description: In this episode, Bella Freud converses with celebrated English actress Kristin Scott Thomas OBE, noted for her roles in both British and French cinema. The discussion touches on topics such as personal style, memorable garments, and the significance of clothing in shaping character and identity.

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Key Themes and Discussions

Personal Style and Identity

  • Kristin shares her thoughts on her recent name change after marriage, humorously discussing public misconceptions regarding her name.
  • She reflects on childhood experiences related to clothing, including a significant moment at age 10 that influenced her self-perception.
  • The conversation highlights the impact of external judgment on personal clothing choices, especially from close relatives.

The Role of Clothing in Acting

  • Kristin emphasizes how clothing is pivotal in building a character for acting. She mentions that the wardrobe choices help define a character's personality and interior life.
  • She describes the collaborative process with costume designers in realizing a character's visual representation, particularly citing her experiences in various roles.

Fashion Icons and Influences

  • Kristin expresses admiration for actress Tilda Swinton for her adventurous approach to fashion and how it challenges traditional norms.
  • The discussion touches on the differences between British and French fashion sensibilities, with Kristin highlighting the casual elegance often associated with French women.

Experiences with Fashion Shows

  • Kristin discusses her experience walking in the Miu Miu fashion show, detailing the dynamics of being an actress in a modeling context, where the clothing takes precedence over personal identity.

Personal Anecdotes

  • The episode includes light-hearted stories about Kristin's early fashion choices, such as her love for clogs and the memories attached to them.
  • Kristin shares a memorable experience of a photo shoot where she dressed as different characters, reflecting on how clothing can alter perceptions and provoke public reactions.

Philosophical Reflections on Clothing

  • The dialogue transitions to explore societal perceptions around clothing, such as the allure of uniforms (including nuns) and the significance of dress as a statement of identity.
  • Kristin reflects on moments when clothing has felt empowering or has caused discomfort, particularly regarding societal expectations.

Underlying Themes of Femininity and Power

  • The conversation naturally veers into the complexities of femininity, with both women discussing the dynamics of being heard in professional environments.
  • Kristin shares insights on the challenges women face in being taken seriously, especially in male-dominated spaces, linking this to the broader discussion of how clothing can influence perception.

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Conclusion The episode captures a rich tapestry of thoughts on how fashion interweaves with personal identity and societal roles. Bella Freud and Kristin Scott Thomas delve into the nuanced ways clothing shapes our experiences and interactions in the world, providing a thoughtful exploration of the intersection between fashion and the human psyche.

Resources

  • Website: [Fashion Neurosis](https://www.fashionneurosis.com)
  • Substack: [Fashion Neurosis Substack](https://www.fashionneurosis.substack.com)
  • Instagram: [@fashioneurosis_bellafreud](https://www.instagram.com/fashioneurosis_bellafreud)

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1:16Welcome to Fashion Neurosis, Kristen Scott Thomas. Thank you, Bella Freud. You're recently married again. Congratulations. What's it like to have a new name? um it's funny that i've i've been thinking about that but actually i'm so used to taking on different names i don't think it makes any difference i mean it's a funny name because it's a difficult name to to for people to get right i never seem to be able to manage that to get a name that is incredibly straightforward and and um spellable scott thomas is quite easy really that is quite easy but it all you know i get called scott all the time because people think i'm a man really yeah i mean obviously on the phone but that's so funny yeah anyway scott thomas it'll be my new yeah code name for you in france they used to call me scotch tomate no yeah scott what does that mean that was a polite version means it was scottish tomato Scotch...

2:26Scotch tomat. Hilarious. That's a niche kind of insult, isn't it? Yeah. Can you tell me what you're wearing today and why you chose these particular clothes? Today, let's go from bottom up, I've got some very cosy socks on, which I bought in Paris. And then I've got a pair of trousers, black I think actually the navy blue and then a navy blue spotted silk shirt I've always loved a spot polka dots what was the first garment that changed the way you felt about yourself what sort of age were you gosh I thought an interesting question I was really little I was about 10, I wore a bright, properly scarlet red wool shirt with someone else's name tape in it, Hamill Stewart, and a pink checked skirt with pleats.

3:39And I went downstairs with this and was told, what are you doing? You can't wear pink and red. Actually, I think it was more of sort of orangey pink. And I thought it looked absolutely fantastic. The two colours together worked beautifully in my mind's eye. And I thought, oh, that's really bad. That's terrible. I must be completely wrong. And that was a sort of piece of clothing that made me doubt my own judgment. So that was, I think that was the first thing, but it's not a very happy thought. So let's try and think of a happy one. I don't know. I think that it's interesting how people's judgment, and it's usually comes from someone close, like a mother who casts doubt on your, the thing, the choice you've made that is something to do with establishing your identity and having that kind of negated.

4:40I think it makes a huge difference on what you go on to wear in the rest of your life because it sets up so much. This thing you thought worked and it obviously did work, the orange and the pink, and someone said it didn't. So what is reality? Yeah. No, quite. and it was so disappointing that it was off limits, that I wasn't allowed to wear that. There was a sort of... I was disappointed in them more than me. It was something about being, if you don't see this, that this is great, then I'd have no respect. That seems like a very good reaction. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But anyway, yeah. I mean, clothes have always made me feel different anyway.

5:37I mean, the whole thing about somewhere very smart said that you start off your character when you're building a character with the wardrobe. and it's true because we build the wardrobes way before we get onto set as an actor so you kind of create this this this character by choosing the the clothes it's going to be seen in and what these clothes that are representing this character um and are sort of leaks of her personality and that's always that's always a bit that I really enjoy I mean usually enjoy sometimes it goes horribly wrong, but rarely, very, very rarely. That's so interesting that you build from the outside in with a part you're playing, whereas happens the other way around.

6:26Well, I know, but once you've got the outside, then you can start to work on the inside. And then obviously, sometimes that changes. So you can make a decision about a costume for a scene or something, and then you get towards it and think, actually, you know what, I think I should be not wearing that then I should be and usually when you've got a good designer they can you know we can you can work that out and or they can guide you in another direction or whatever but I mean usually that works quite well it makes a lot of sense it really does because I suppose if someone says these are the clothes she would be wearing you you know them the mood of that person or you have a tiny bit of connection to that.

7:12And you're so good at that. You're so good at conveying these inferences on camera and on the stage. Thank you. I do like to think that the characters that I play, the clothes are quite precise. It's quite difficult to stay away from fashion. because obviously, especially when you're doing contemporary characters, but I think, for instance, in playing Diana Tavener, we've really nailed it, I think. And I say we because it is, you know, obviously it's the costume designer is, you know, I don't choose the costume by myself. He comes up and offers all these choices and he has a really good eye And it's about proportion, it's about texture, it's about movement, all these things that are so sort of telling in a character's choice.

8:19But first of all, you've got the choice of the actual person and then you've got whether or not that looks good on camera. She's such a fascinating character and there's such a sense of her interior life. You know, she has to be strict and strong, but she has this kind of sex appeal, which is bursting out. And yet her clothes are quite restrained. But I can't even remember what they are, except for there's this kind of undercurrent, which is palpable. And it's really exciting to watch. Good. on your desert island discs back in 2003 you you chose a pair of christian louboutins as your luxury item what shoes do for you do you change when you put a pair of shoes on shoes are really fun aren't they they really i mean i've always loved sort of i know that i i chose as my luxury item sort of red beautiful sexy shoes or red soled beautiful sexy shoes um completely impractical on desert island by the way but i actually i'm really drawn to kind of a very sturdy things that can take me from a to z you know i really love boots and sort of clod hoppers and clogs i've got an absolute thing i've been wearing clogs since i was 12 But clogs are a cool thing, especially our generation.

9:51I wore clogs at school. We were obsessed with clogs. Do you remember we used to send off of them from Sweden or something? You'd send off of them and they'd come, you'd send them off in things like the Virgin newspaper at the back, the classified ads. NME. Do you remember that? NME. There you go. Yeah. That was it. It was NME and it was Virgin and you'd send them, send off for the clogs and the loons. The loons, exactly. I sent off the loons. We'd sew them up really tight at the bottom. What, to make them drain pipes? Yeah, to make them drain pipes. Take them in. Oh, my God, that's so cool. And you'd buy white ones and dye them.

10:28Oh, you were so ahead of the game. I was so slavishly. I had one pair of loons and a T-shirt with mirrors sewn on, which I wore every single day. Lovely. Those back pages, they were it. They were like the department store for provincial people. I know, I know. It was really fun, the excitement and the waiting for it to arrive. I think I only had one experience because in my household it was, and in my school, it was very looked down upon to be interested in clothes, to care about them. So I had to have slightly secret life, which I was also quite ashamed of. There was a lot of shame around wanting things.

11:15Oh, yeah, I know that. Yeah? Did you have that too? Definitely, yeah. Wanting because it was an imposition because wanting, you couldn't want anything because it was impossible to get and you knew it would cause problems because then there would be guilt. It was a never-ending stream of ideas. But yeah, that I remember, yeah. not wanting things but as far as clothing was concerned we had some sort of cousins and we always had their clothes so we would get these sort of deliveries of really nice clothes they they lived in in they lived on the continent somewhere um And so there were always these sort of slightly strange clothes, but beautifully made in fabulous fabrics.

12:12But, of course, I didn't want that. I wanted sort of white, shiny PVC boots and a crimpling skirt. That's what I really wanted. But, no, we had these beautiful sort of beautiful wool brushed flannel shirts and everything was just gorgeous, but with someone else's nametaping it. But not trendy clothes at all. Not trendy clothes. No, no, no, no, no. No. I think the trendiest thing we ever had was from Lady Bird. Do you remember Lady Bird, which is a range for children? Lady Bird clothes. And my sister and I had matching trouser suits, which we were very, very proud of. God, we never had anything like that.

12:52Never. Never. We didn't have new things at all. Yeah. And then I started making things. there used to be that thing called cloth kits where you could get patches and and then I got these jeans and cut us slashed them up the side and made a gigantic flare oh yes we used to put those inserts yeah make them flare-ier yeah that was yeah I remember that and and lots and lots of dressmaking we did lots of dressmaking when we were young because you just didn't there weren't clothes and anyway you couldn't afford them so it was so much cheaper to make your own clothes and accessible and you could make them the way you wanted to.

13:33And it was great. So I learned to sew and I'm, yeah, we made all our clothes. When I went to my audition with Prince, I was wearing a suit that I'd made myself. It was a very simple cut, but it was a linen, a green linen suit that I'd made to go to someone's wedding. And that's when I went to meet Prince for my first film. Oh my God. I was going to ask you about that when you started under the cherry moon. Yeah. And as his love interest and he's got to be the sexiest man that ever lived. And what was it like having his beam on you? And did he like you to wear certain things? Yeah, it was weird that because it was, oh God, it was so strange.

14:25being put into these I'd never really I'd never been dressed by anyone but myself I'd never had someone else's gaze on me to to turn me into something else that hadn't happened yet and so it was a weird thing to be put into these shapes that I would never even consider I remember one dress made out of sort of pale lilac Devoray velvet, which felt incredibly sort of vampy, and I felt incredibly uncomfortable in it. And did he choose all the clothes? He did, because he was the director, so he did. But, you know, he had Marie-France de Rouen was his designer at the time. She was making all his clothes for shows and things.

15:25and then she was hired to do the costumes on this and she made these really sort of extravagant costumes for him, those high collars, those sort of frock coats, the trousers, buttons down the side, all those sort of things. He did all those. I was a bit scared about what she was going to put me into but it was the fashion to have sort of 18th century frock coat type thing going on and we had lots of things like that and it was it was sort of yeah he must have been choosing it but he was trying to make me into make turn me into a love interest that everybody else would be able to relate to so you have to become a kind of slightly standardized version of love interest because you have to appeal to a lot of people.

16:18And that was so not me, it was so far from who I was, that was quite weird. Because it was an early thing in your career. First thing in my career. And, but do you think it gave you a kind of, a bit of agility about being able to cope with that? Because it's, it's quite difficult wearing things out of your comfort zone range. it is difficult wearing things out of your comfort zone range and that's why a lot of actors always kind of look the same in films or they do in French cinema in English cinema or American cinema they do change more into character but a lot of the French actresses will always be seen exactly the same thing but it is difficult and yes I think it did make me more agile and I think that that thing I was saying earlier about finding the character with the clothes that's something that I learned as I went along so that's something that I've sort of developed as I've as I've gone along to try and be brave by choosing brave clothes so once you've got the shell you have to then fill it and I'm thinking of particularly I'm thinking in this instance I'm thinking of um Only God Forgives oh yeah Nicholas Winding Refn um I mean I created that that character was we didn't have a budget for costume and the costume designer was also the set designer so she was completely overwhelmed and so she said would you mind going and doing your own shopping so I was let loose in Bangkok trying to find clothes that would be suitable um and had great fun doing it um but that was definitely a sort of because didn't you have a like crazy hair wigs yeah I had a crazy wig and I wanted to look as sort of brassy as possible um what was that dangerous that was really scary do you know I had I was thinking about this before I came here I was thinking about times when what you're wearing has really affected the what how people perceive you and how it makes you feel and I've never done kind of quote unquote in my real life I've never done and indeed in film because I was trying to avoid it so which because it makes me uncomfortable.

18:54So, you know, when we have to, we kind of get to a compromise, make clothes that are sexy. I don't really do that. So one day I did a photo shoot with a friend because I've been to a fancy dress party and I'd gone as Amy Winehouse. It was a pop star party. I'd gone as Wendy Winehouse. No one recognized me. Everybody thought this was hilarious. And then we thought we would do a photo shoot with me dressing up as different characters, which was such fun. And one of my characters was a man. You know, it was sort of lots of people do that now. But one of them was a sort of prototype for Crystal, the woman I played in Only God Forgives.

19:39And we had a blonde wig. We had massive lip line. and the costume person, the person who was dressing me, Vincent Daré, put me into this sequined mini dress with silver high thigh-high boots and a little kind of tiny little handbag and they took me out onto the street. It was the most terrifying experience I have ever had. cars slowed down people beeped one man actually tried to grab me and pull me up pull me off the street god people from the i mean we were doing a photo shoot so it was obvious people were looking but people were pressing their noses against the windows of the shops looking out pointing laughing I got insults, insults, people shouting out abuse from their cars.

20:33It was absolutely, and I was just dressed in these clothes. And in the end, it got so frightening that we went back to the hotel and we said, I'm not doing that again. Just enough, enough, enough. It was amazing. It really was amazing. Because you talked just before, you were saying things to do with proportion, And I think wearing an outfit where it changes your proportions or it changes how you address your proportions, that's what I find the most terrifying and the most insecure making. I could wear anything as long as I've got the proportion right. Yeah. But that where you're, you know, you're emphasizing, you know, your middle section, I suppose.

21:22That was, yeah, that was scary. Gosh, that's so dramatic. But I mean, I'm genuinely frightening. Yeah, it sounds it. Not just, oh my God, this is awful, but genuinely frightening. And very revealing about men. Because it wasn't women shouting abuse at me, it was men. Anyway. It's interesting because not normally dressing like that, you sort of think, I'm sure people aren't as bad as they sound, you know. I've always liked the look of nuns. I've always liked that sort of, I love the flow of the veil. And I love the sandaled feet. And I live in Paris, I live in an area where there are lots of sort of nuns, I don't know why.

22:13and you see them whether they're sort of almost just above ankle length skirts and they go along with their shopping trolleys and they've got these sort of flowing veils there's something really lovely about that you don't see or hear about nuns much these days but no you don't when we were growing up it was definitely an option i remember lucy ferry saying she wanted to be a nun. And I definitely, even though I didn't believe in God, I thought it was a bit like joining a kind of protest group. But of course, the moment of the excitement of renouncing everything and the exhilaration, I was in fact going to ask you about that, wanting to be a nun and whether you thought you could have seen the whole thing through or whether once you'd done the kind of grand gesture of giving things up.

23:12But you see, the tragedy of me is that I didn't really want to be a nun. I just wanted to, I wanted the kind of drama of it. I wanted the instant saintlyhood, which is why I became an actress, because it's quicker. Your picture is on those holy cards, you know, faster. There's something about the, and you're right about the renouncement. That is quite exciting. The thought of being able to renounce in safety. And with approval. And with approval. And also the uniform is kind of good. Oh, yeah. I was thinking about uniforms as well, about coming and about how I just can't resist. As I was looking for something to wear today, I thought, God, I wish I had a navy blue cardigan.

24:01And I thought, you cannot have a navy blue cardigan. That is pure school uniform. So never, ever, ever buy a navy blue cardigan. But I would quite like one. A nice thick one. I can make you one. You know. You lived in Paris a lot of your life. Yeah. And you have the refined association with French women, although you're cut glass English. And do you think French women dress better than English? I think certain, I suppose the, I think nowadays it's all so globalized, isn't it? And I think it's very difficult to tell. You used to be able to tell nationalities when you saw them walking down the street, but it's much more difficult now because there's a Zara everywhere.

24:53So I think, do I think they're better dressed? there's a certain style that some French women have that is sort of perfect, which I really love that. A sort of casual elegance that is, you know, really desirable, I think. And it goes along with sort of... It's a sort of nonchalance that I find very enviable. it's a kind of is it a chic would you say are you thinking of a middle-aged woman no i'm thinking about young women yeah young the whole range actually um young women who who are very they're quite staid i suppose it's quite restrained i wouldn't say stayed restrained and there's definitely the uniform is definitely is it's like bon goût or mauvais goût and mauvais goût is just a no-no and bon goût is is there's very very strict rules about what is bon goût and what isn't i've never really been able to penetrate that but anyway the the is far more rigid than we have here so here people are far more relaxed about what they wear how they wear it how they want to be perceived they're much more relaxed about it and therefore many more mistakes are made but they're sort of made heartily and that's rather nice I think and I think there's a lot to do with uniform so I mean in England you know all schools sort of seem to have uniforms and I think it's a great thing a uniform and so afterwards once you get once you're rid of that uniform sort of anything goes and there's a sort of freedom to that whereas the French never have a uniform at school very very rarely in very sort of snooty private schools but most French people will never have worn a uniform and the idea of it they find completely insulting and infuriating and outrageous that you should be told what to wear and yet they've created their own like sort of rules that are really really strict about clothing it's funny That's so interesting because this thing about you know and mauvais goût and bon goût and taste and code that, because there's this myth, French women are always better dressed.

27:42I agree, it's not quite what it was anymore, but maybe the lack of uniform means they get to develop their own sense of what works or not. There's something heavenly about the way British people just haven't the faintest idea. And that's very touching. And also you get some amazing outcomes. But this kind of thing that French women seem to have, which is an innate thing, and it seems to affect the way they walk. They have this great walk and they know what to do. They know that you don't put this with that. But we don't know that. No one ever tells us. They're quite good at choosing what kind of,

28:34who they want to be seen as. You know, they know the rules for dressing a la something like this. You know, sort of, so they're going to try and look like Charlotte Gainsbourg or they're going to try and look like somebody else or they're going to be, they want to belong to that group. So I think that their own self-inflicted uniforms or chosen uniforms are very precise about which gang they want to belong to, if you like. Yeah. I think we're much more, one day I'll be like this and the next day I'll be like that. And I'm going to try this and I'm going to try that. And I think we're much more experimental.

29:23Yeah. Also, I don't think scruffy really exists outside of Britain. Because when I lived in Italy, I would wear scruffy and I'd get these horrified looks from the factory where I was working because they thought I was dirty. and that really freaked me out because I really... You're quite a clean person. Yes, I like being clean. Yeah, I know. And they didn't understand about frayed, you know, or worn out things and so I had to kind of get the balance right. Get a bit of polish on. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. But when I was living in Paris, people would always say, oui mais les Anglais. So I'm not quite sure whether that was what they were commenting on that.

30:08Well, people, yeah, there's this myth. But then there are all those amazing French people, the incredible style like Loulou de la Falaise or, you know. She was English. Yeah, well, true, true. Well, there you go. But you always think of her as being French. And that actor Pierre Clemente, who played the glamorous lover in Belle de Jour. Oh, God, yes. I mean, maybe he didn't dress like that, but that was punk rock, wasn't it? I mean, I was obsessed with him. Do you remember that? But I'm just trying to think of all the other sort of, and then you think of Anoukimi in, you know, with her Macintosh, and you think about all these sort of, or Brigitte Bardot with her fluffy skirts, or, you know, just amazing sort of silhouettes and styles.

31:14Yeah, I mean, it's really... French cinema has been... As Belle du Jour, that's Portuguese, but is it... He was Portuguese, no? Or was he Spanish? He was Spanish, yeah, Bunuel, Spanish. Bunuel was Spanish. But all the clothes were French. I mean, that was so good. Think of Les Demoiselles de, whatever it was, de Rochefort. Yeah. All these things have just so... And Anna Carina. It's amazing how film influences what people wear, isn't it? Yeah, very much. I mean, Anna Carina looked like she was at an English boarding school, but just so, so enchanting. So it was like a virus. When you watch some of those films, you just, you had to follow through.

32:04You had to obey the information that you would receive, which was to find out different things about how you could dress. And, I mean, as teenagers and stuff, I was just completely spellbound by those. Yeah. But a lot of it was coming from abroad, wasn't it? Mm-hmm. All that style was coming from Europe rather than America. I can't think of one. I'm trying to think of a film from America that influenced the way I wanted to dress. I don't think I can. That's such a good thought. It hadn't crossed my mind. I suppose Robert Redford, you know, Day of the Condor or that peacoat. But it didn't seem like clothes.

33:03It seemed more like these incredibly hot guys. Yeah. I always loved that Louis Mal had great costumes in his film and Viva Maria were they. Oh, God, that was fantastic, wasn't it? I made it. One of my first collections was all based on that. My first fashion show. Really? Everyone was in the style of. Oh, that's great. That was so good. Is there a particular garment you find attractive on a man? I love a suit. Yeah. Something really reassuring about a suit. I suppose it depends which kind. Any particular crushes at the moment? No, no, not really, because I don't really, I can't, but there's something.

33:53And there's something particularly elegant about, there's something very reassuring about a man who has a sort of quiet, as I think I used this phrase before today, a sort of quiet elegance that that suit can give. And I just love the feeling of assurance. I agree. I find it totally disarming. Disarming. A man in a suit that's just, because it's so simple. Obviously, if it's a bad suit, it's a disaster. But it's more than sad. It's like a magnet that goes the wrong way. It's just repellent. How could you do this, you know? And I'm obsessed with suits, as you know. It's true. You don't, men don't wear suits as much as they did.

34:53I know. When it happens, you just become completely docile. I do anyway. I just want to submit and be completely ordered about. Bloody hell, you should be lying here. I love it. But it's so powerful. It's so powerful. I know, I know. The discreteness. Yeah. Yeah. I used to, my dad, when he was working and I got to know him really when I started sitting for him. So he'd wear these, he used to buy these chef's trousers at Denny's in Soho and he'd wear those with these huge boots with no laces and quite a good shirt. He'd have these shirts made and then they'd all get covered in paint. Yeah. But then when he'd go out for dinner, he'd kind of suddenly appear in this gray flannel suit.

35:48And it was like magic. You know, there was a shimmering light. And I think I love that transformation. Yeah. But also with a man, it's fast. Like, I mean, I'm fairly speedy. There's no fussing. I mean, there's something really just so, that's what I mean, but the simplicity of it. No, that's a good thing. I think going back to uniforms as well, I mean, when you see men in a really glamorous, well-cut uniform with lots of braid, that is quite spectacular as well. And also when it's subverted, like a lot of the reggae artists They would take those, you know, kind of royal medal-laden things and just change them up.

36:47It's so disarming again, so glamorous. It's the taking of the traditional and the official and owning it as a revolutionary. I love that kind of defiant act. I find a bit of khaki on a man is irresistible.

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37:49Gosh, probably down. Yeah, probably. Yeah. And then I have to really regroup and lace myself up and then I'm all right. But I think that's, it's so easy to sort of flop around and be lazy and not get together. It's sort of disappointing. You know, I've got a wardrobe full of the most gorgeous clothes and, you know, I want to wear them. I was so excited the other day. I bought out a dress that I hadn't worn for ages and it still fitted, thank God. And it was just so thrilling to be able to wear this beautiful dress. So excited. You're very good at wearing dresses though. I do love dresses. Again, it's the simplicity of it.

38:48You just shove it on. You don't have to think, does this go with that? You just, bingo, you're on. But you inhabit a dress very well. And then, because I find dresses a bit more challenging. Yes, you don't wear very many dresses. I like a shawl. I've seen you in like a sort of Ossie Clark dress that I loved. I loved Ossie Clark. My mother had some Ossie Clark things. He was a genius. Total genius. But what dress did you wear for your wedding recently? I wore a Valentino dress that I bought years and years ago in a shop. it still had all its labels in it and my sister we'd been out um we'd been there I was buying my sister a present and she said you have to try that dress on it's got your name on it and I did and it looked great and I said yeah but it's cream I'm never going to wear a cream dress I said yes you will you know ask it and um there are all these lunches these are all these things you've got to go to and and of course something happened I got a job so my life stopped and the dress went into the cupboard and was literally not taken out until I was asked I was proposed to and then I thought oh god I've got to go and look for a dress and that that that is my worst shopping is my worst nightmare I really don't like shopping at all I don't know if it's about parting with the money.

40:21I don't know why, whether it's having to look at myself in a mirror, having to change, having to get dressed. I really don't like it. And the thought of having to look for a wedding dress was just sort of a real groan. And then I remembered that I had that dress in the cupboard and I got it out, did one or two tweaks and presto, there we had it. I was very happy I did have a beautiful hat made and that was very exciting really lovely hat Who made the hat? It's a company called John Boyd a woman called Sarah who works there and she just made me it was so sweet I went in there I was keeping very very discreet about it I said I need a hat for a wedding and then she was talking about what's the thing is it your daughter um yeah yes I said it was for my daughter and then um and then after a while I said actually we were talking about things and I said well I don't want to look too to this and do that and I said actually I'm going to have to tell you I'm the bride I felt so silly saying it I think it was the only time I ever said I'm the bride and um and so we concocted this thing it was really sweet and it's such a lovely thing when you say I'm the bride because people's faces just light up and everyone's so thrilled.

41:50And the idea of creating a garment that is going to be with you when you make this commitment, it's a special thing. And I had a pair of Christian shoes because they just were perfect and I had a beautiful embroidered shawl that I found in my mother's cupboard. So I wore something from her, which was very nice. And her pearls around my wrist because I wanted something blue. And so she had these sort of grey pearls that would pass for blue. And I wound those around my wrist. So I had something from her. So yeah, this dress is ivory. And so it's very difficult to know what to put on your feet. Because I can't bear white shoes.

42:40What a real thing about them. And so I had to find a colour that would work with this very sort of pinkish ivory. It was a very warm colour. It was a beautiful colour. Anyway, I found them chez Christian, which was good. What were they like? Mary Jane, suede Mary Janes in a kind of gorgeous sand colour. and with not too high a heel, sensible heel. It was lovely. It's nice to have Christian, your shoes made by Christian, who's such a great friend to both of us. In fact, it's really now. That's how we met, isn't it? We met, yes, staying with Christian in Portugal. I remember you just finished that Pinter play and you were just exhausted.

43:29Yeah, Christian is always there at the important moments in life, whether it's not him physically, it's his clothing. His shoes just, I don't know, they're just everything. They're almost like a kind of charm. They're like a talisman. They bring good luck. He brings good luck and they bring good luck. You're right. I've got a photograph of him. I think he may have, it was about, gosh, it must have been, I can't remember time, but 15 plus years ago, maybe 20. And he was sleeping on the sofa and I've got a photograph of him and us surrounded by boxes with all these incredible things, you know, pulling out shoe after shoe.

44:20What I love about him, he's so inventive and he can see things that I can't see until he shows me. And when he did his exhibition, which was quite a revelation, his exhibition was like going on some sort of crazy funfair ride. It was just completely mind boggling. It was a total masterpiece. It was, wasn't it? And you saw how the depth of his creativity and his understanding of how to make an idea into a shoe or, you know, the start of it, where he gets ideas from and how deep it was. I had no idea. I mean, it was really, really educational and remarkable. Yeah. Do you start an outfit with a shoe?

45:14sometimes but not usually where do you start um I start by sort of where I where am I going I suppose where am I going and how do I fit in there and sometimes you want to go against the grain sometimes you want to go with the grain sometimes I really put my foot down no I'm not doing that I'm not going to do sort of glossy slightly show-offy red carpet-y I want to go against the grain I want to do something chic and sort of understated and lovely I remember once going to one of those big can things I mean can is fantastic for dressing up but you can get a bit fed up with it and and I found this amazing shirtwaist, a long silk jersey shirtwaist, a pin tucked in sort of ivory, long sleeves, very, very sort of strict.

46:16But with a long flowing skirt from Lanvin that I wore in Cannes. And, you know, the judgment was passed and the judgment was not good, but it looked so great. It looked fantastic. And that was another occasion of how can you all be so stupid? This dress looks fabulous. Who passed the judgment? You know, in the press, sort of, you know what it's like, sort of slightly sarky comments or looking very this or that or whatever. People don't think you look hot enough. I hate that expression so much. My friend Kim, when I told her I'd be talking to you today, she said she'd love to know what underwear you wear.

47:02Oh, God, no, my underwear is a skirt of shone. My mother would call it educated grey. It's been in the washing machine so often. You know, one has one's favourites, but I do, there's a very good supplier in Paris, which is very sort of basic, called Princesse Tam Tam, and they're brilliant. And I get a lot of things from there, and RS when I'm feeling swanky. But do you go towards the French lace type or the English boarding school? I like sensible pants. But then if I'm putting on a really pretty dress, like the dress I wore the other night, that scaparelli, that bright pink one. That was lovely.

47:54I won't put my sensible pants on underneath that. I will have the prettiest pair I have I won't disrespect my beautiful dress by wearing a pair of well-educated sort of, you know, slightly baggy elasticated jobs for me what was it, somebody my security pants, my security knickers I'm glad that some people have a fetish for those types of things though Do they? I haven't met anyone like that and I don't think I ever will, no. So your husband, he likes a nice bit of lingerie. Well, I think you have to ask him that. I don't speak in his name. And how was it walking in the Mew Mew show last season?

48:41Oh, that was such fun. God, I loved doing that. It was such fun. For a start, it was the weirdest sort of experience because you know this, lots of other people won't. But when those shows are, first of all, there are so many models, so many people, and you're each given a little sort of tent. Well, you're not each, us VIP people. We all had our own little tent. And sometimes you see someone stick their head out and say, hello, how's it going? Then you have to go back in. um and but what was really interesting is that usually we the the people the the actresses the famous actresses the famous pop stars the famous whoever they was we're the we're the deal but in this case we're not the deal it's the clothes that are the deal and you have to put your own personality or your own ego at the back.

49:46And it's about the clothes and you have to show off these clothes in the way that you've been told. And of course, you know, I'm number 14 in the order. And the girl who's number one sets the pace. And she's probably about 22. She's got legs as long as, you know, as tall as I am, and takes off at a pace you cannot imagine. So you've got old Kristen trotting along behind, trying to keep up. But oh my God, it was just so brilliant. And to see all these amazing clothes, she's just extraordinary. Did you meet Mrs. Prada? Yeah, yeah, yeah. I mean, she's quite impressive, properly impressive. Anyway, there was a drama because they had, they'd put on these enormous gloves to wear and they were, they looked fantastic.

50:46But she said to me, Mrs. Prada said to me, very, you know, you must wear what you feel comfortable in. And I said, you know, these gloves make me feel really, I didn't feel comfortable. I didn't feel like a woman in these gloves. I said, okay, it's fine. You can wear some others. Anyway, I learned a couple of weeks later that it caused a complete rumpus and that apparently you refused to wear the gloves. And I didn't refuse to wear the gloves. I just asked for some gloves that I liked the gloves. I just felt that the gloves that they'd given me, which are like this, they were basically those kind of fireman gloves for when they're hand, you know, steel workers gloves or something like that.

51:26So there were these enormous gauntlet things that were huge and it just made me feel very weird. And so I said, can I have some others? So they gave me some big men's gloves, but I didn't refuse to. I was asked whether I just want to set the record straight on that. Thank you. I suppose it's about proportion again, where that proportion just so overshadowed you entirely. Maybe that was probably, you see, there's probably the ego of the actress who's coming out and saying, no I want my I Kristen Scott Thomas can't wear those perhaps that's what it was my narcissism won in the end I don't know I don't think you're a narcissist anyway and the whole point of asking an actress to be in a show is to get some of that I think even though it causes chaos because I suppose there has to be some other balancing acts that maybe go on in the background but yeah but I just loved it so much and it was such an insight for me to see that they worked really hard and the sort of sea of makeup and hair artists and the sort of the mayhem that was going on before and all of this for sort of 10 minutes of vision you know this whole show took 10 minutes I was really really sort of gobsmacked by that I, yeah, and I happened to love what I was wearing as well.

52:53So it was all very, very happy. It is a huge amount of work. I mean, when I was doing shows and then before that, when I was working for Vivian Westwood, people didn't have one outfit in those days. Each model would change at least four times. So it was much more nerve wracking. And I remember in one of my shows, the dress did get put on the wrong way around. And that was my last show. And I thought, you know what? I hate this. I'm never doing another show and I never did. I just prefer making films or doing shoots or something. But I love the thing now where, I mean, it's much easier but much more expensive to...

53:33Hire 50 models. Yeah. Yeah, it must be incredibly expensive. But so thrilling to watch. It is thrilling to watch, isn't it? Yeah, Mrs. Prada, she's really amazing. She's quite something, isn't she? Yeah, she's one of the only Italian women I've seen dress in a sort of, not as a, in a punk rock style, but her chic is beyond European. it is also got this kind of groundbreaking thing that you don't see European women do. She does it. She's just so different and so avant-garde and so elegant. There's a sort of edge to her cheek, isn't it? It's much more provocative than the sort of simple elegance I was admiring before.

54:25It's much more provocative and it makes you think. and it's slightly jarring but in a good way, you know, sort of surprising. And I think she always looks amazing. Yeah, she's really attractive, I think. But anyway, there we are. That was my Miu Miu experience. That was fun. And going back to your character Diana Tavener in Slow Horses, who's a very sexy mixture of no-nonsense, but with these flashes of fragility. Who are you drawing on anyone for this? Also, you swear quite a lot. I don't swear at all. You do. You say to the, what's the man called? Oh, fuck off or something like that. It's very sexy.

55:14I've said I've dropped the F-bomb twice in four series. Isn't it funny that I have remembered it? No, I choose my words quite carefully. But one of my fucks was to myself, under my breath, fuck like that. And another one was to him. And I think that was the first time I'd ever actually told anybody that they could, you know. F off. Get out of here. F off. She's so, she's so fantastic. She's just. She's a good character, isn't she? Yeah. Yeah, yeah. And I'm really proud of the way she looks, actually, because I don't know, you know, because she does have a sort of swish to her that is feminine without being kind of skittish or flirty or there's something quite seductive about her swish, which I like.

56:20You know, she's definitely got that frisson. She really does. And I suppose, you know, those things you hear people talk about, I mean, obviously she's a different age group entirely, but Mrs. Thatcher and how all these men had all these crushes on her. And Diana Tavener has that thing of being, you know, very private, authority but she's sex she's very sexy and I wondered are you thinking of anyone are you drawing on anyone or does that just one of the brilliant things no but I do think you know the thing we were talking about earlier about the French there is something quite French in her chic there's something quite it was it's quite difficult to to do that because um we can't use sort of designer you know high-end designers because it's she would not have the means to do that and it has to be recognizable so a lot of the clothes that she wears are high street and very, very accessible.

57:35But often these clothes are quite trendy, so you have to sort of de-trend them. So you have to take a bit of fabric out or you have to tweak things and to make them fit well and flatter. So there's a lot of work goes into Diana Tavener, although it looks very sort of straightforward. Oh, she's wearing a shirt and a skirt. Yeah, but that skirt is, you know, that skirt has been thought out incredibly carefully by Guy Speranza, who's the designer. It really comes across. I mean, there's tension in her outfits. Tension, yeah, absolutely. And then there's so much tension in the series anyway. It's just very...

58:20It's good, isn't it? Yeah, it's so good. I'm so pleased to be in that. it's so exciting to be in something that people are so excited about so so happy to be watching and get such enjoyment from um and are so gripped you know yeah that's really really thrilling well you're very much part of that you know it's very much a lot about you you just so good at stealing the show. It's so good. Oh, don't say that. It's true. And you've been a pin-up for lots of designers, and I wonder, is there someone that you look up to or look to and admire for their style? I always think Tilda is amazing. She's a fantastic wearer of clothes.

59:11She's a fantastic wearer of clothes, and she's incredibly sort of adventurous. and won't obey the sort of rules about looking appealing or whatever. You know, she does her own thing, which I think is great. Yeah, and she does look appealing for doing that too. Yes, totally, that's what I mean. But it's not the same kind of appealing, you know, it's not the sort of... I don't know why appealing is such an unpleasant idea to me. I don't know. There's something about her that is like in sort of children's stories where the character just has these clothes that make you love them. You know, like Minnie the Minx or Dennis the Menace, this one thing.

59:57She has this way of being incredibly chic. You know, she'll wear these amazing outfits, have this incredible hair. You get this purity. Yeah. And that is very, it touches. Yeah, no, I think it's, I don't find it, it's not, when I say appealing, I mean, I don't want to be, I don't, I'm not particularly drawn to appealing. But what I really love is surprising, surprising and kind of emboldening. And I think that that's, that's fun. Yeah. And she certainly does that very well. And if you fancy someone and they're wearing something that you don't like, does it kill your attraction? Yeah. Yes. But doesn't that do the same for everybody?

1:00:48Everyone has a different answer. Different rules. Can you think of something in particular? Apart from socks. Socks are really a no-no. Socks at all? Socks, no, no, no. Socks that attract the eye. Comedy socks. White socks. I love a white sock. No, I don't like a white sock. You live in a white sock. No, I don't like a white sock. I mean on a man. I'm too old for those. Brian Ferry. No, you know, no, can't do that. Brian Ferry wears a white sock. I'm sure he does. He looks fabulous. What else? Satin shirts. Can't do those. You know, silky. I love the silk twill. That's gorgeous. But that floppy stuff.

1:01:46And it's the trend these days to be a nice person. You can be quite stroppy. Oh, here we go. This is your revenge. This is the last question, so I know I can get away without being killed. And is there anyone who lets you get away with this? I can't believe I'm even asking you. Asking me about being mean. No, not mean, being stroppy. I actually love your stroppiness. It's in no way a criticism, but I just... Being short-tempered. No, it's not that. I wish I wasn't. I really do genuinely wish I wasn't. I wish I was nice and sweet and kind. But sometimes I just... It just... The dam doesn't work.

1:02:30You know, it just doesn't, it just comes out. I am impatient. It's weirdly endearing. Very weirdly endearing. I think you're very weird, Bella Freud. In my maturity, I find the stroppiness actually fairly unpleasant now. I mean, I really wish I wasn't like that. But as I say, sometimes it gets better of me. And I don't know really where it comes from. But that's a question for my real therapist. Well, I think it's an asset to be discriminating. And I use that word. I love the way you call it discriminating. That's so sweet of you. But it is. My dad used to use that word as it's intended. And it's good to mind about things and to say, as I say, it's a kind of trendy thing to be super nice, but it's got to come out somewhere.

1:03:33And because you're such a magnificent and wonderful actress and you have enchanted the whole of the world with your character in Slow Horses as well as many other characters, I think it's a valued attribute. And you obviously, I felt like I could ask you about it because you're not going to smash the microphone and storm out. No, because it is a sort of an act, I suppose. So it is a sort of perhaps a defence mechanism, perhaps a sense of powerlessness or whatever. And I think that in my characters like Diana Tavener or Fiona in Four Weddings or even the one in Fleabag, you know. But that sort of stroppiness, as you say, which is a wonderful word, I think it comes from a sense of outrage, but also a sense of not being heard and being frustrated about not being heard.

1:04:49And I think that is something we all have to deal with. and I think it's something that women have to deal with all the time of not being listened to, not being heard, being spoken over, being just ignored. And I think that that's all, it's a mixture of all the above really, I think. That's so interesting because it's, you have to work hard to get where you've got and you have to have some things to make sure people do listen. And it is such a big thing of being spoken over as a woman. I mean, it's like, you know, we all laugh about it, but it is, it's a real disappointing. I once did a film with three actors and I really noticed the sort of, it was really strange to be in this world.

1:05:50I think there was another actress. It was a long, long, long time ago. But it was really weird to be in this male atmosphere of competition. It felt like being inserted into some sort of rugby team and they were all trying to win something. And it was an absolute eye-opener into sort of the difference between women's behaviour and men's behaviour in a professional world where they were all really competitive and I sort of didn't really register. And I got very bolshy on that, and I didn't behave very well. And I think that it was because of that. It was because of not being able to get a footing and a foot in, into the scrum.

1:06:49And it really did feel like that. Anyway, poor me. Sounds like you've got things sorted out anyway. Thank you, Kristen, for being on Fashion Neurosis. It's been... Fashion Neurosis. Wonderful to have you. As if I needed another neurosis. This is the best one to have. The best one to have.

1:07:20Thank you.

From the publisher

Kristin Scott Thomas OBE is an English actress. Her career began with her first audition when she won the starring role in Prince’s directorial film debut ‘Under the Cherry Moon’, playing opposite him in the role of romantic lead. Kristin lived in France for a big part of her life. She speaks French fluently and has played the lead in many French independent films working with top directors. She remains possessively beloved by her British fans and has an ability to imbue the characters she portrays with an irreverence for convention and preoccupation with hilarious detail that strikes such a chord among her audience.
In this episode of Fashion Neurosis, Bella talks to Kristin Scott Thomas about the joys of non-fancy underwear (when are ‘establishment grey security pants’ acceptable); the allure of wanting to be a nun; and walking in the Miu Miu show for Mrs Prada. Join Kristin Scott Thomas and Bella Freud for a conversation about how clothes can shape a character, and the connection between what we wear and who we are.
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