To Lead Better, Shift the Assumptions That Hold You Back

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1:30I think underlying this is people mistaken that their beliefs are who they are. All of our beliefs are learned. They're what we learned in order to be successful or in order to survive or thrive in any context that we were in early on in life and as we moved through life. The key here is they're not they're malleable. You know, there are things that you can change according to what it is that you want rather than react to the experiences that you had in the past. But it doesn't necessarily change who you are as a person. If anything, it expands who you are. And so when you start seeing it from that perspective, I think that that is the mindset that then leads to more openness to say, oh, okay, yes, I can pick up another belief or I can now start doing the work in this way.

2:15which then allows you to actually move into this action phase, which is if I pick up this new belief, if I've reframed it and I've moved from I can't make a mistake to I'm going to do the best. We're going to do the best that we can with the resources that we have or we're going to do the best that we can with the information that we have. Then you can say, OK, well, what actions align with that that will allow me to get to the outcome that I want? Hi, Ryan Reynolds here for Mint Mobile. Are you looking for a beach read this summer? May I suggest your big wireless bill? It's got suspense, mystery, a slightly flat emotional arc, and a shocking twist where you realize you've been overpaying the entire time.

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