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3:12You look amazing. Are you freaking kidding me? What? This is your costume. I'm Harry Potter. You're Voldemort and I'm Harry Potter. Got the scar and the glasses and everything. I've been in this for three hours. How long does that take you? Well, the whole thing, I blow-dried my hair and everything, took me like three hours. Let's start the episode. Should we begin this episode? It's a freaking joke. Hello, I'm Jamie Lang. And I'm Sophie Lang. And now we're newly parents. Oh, yeah, we are, baby. Rachel, welcome to the podcast. Rachel, I'm very, very excited. Rachel, we are so excited to have you.

3:57Well, thank you for having me. Can you tell what Jamie is today? Baltimore? Obviously. Who else would I be? I really think, like, you've never looked fitter. You think I look hot as Baltimore? I really do. But I also thought Voldemort was like low-key hot, apart from his teeth were disgusting. That was the only thing. But I love a shaved head. Okay, Rachel, can you explain to our audience who you are and why you're here? Sure. Well, my name is Rachel Stavis and I am considered the Hollywood exorcist. Wow. I remove demons, essentially. I call them entities, but that's what other people call them, from people, places and things.

4:35Can I like be really stupid and ask because I'm so into this like I believe in all of it I feel like I can feel it I'm so into it but what is the difference between an exorcist and a psychic? So you know a psychic basically can tell the future or you know tell you what's going to happen I don't really do that so much if a deceased person comes in because of what I do then I can communicate with them. But an exorcist is specifically about entities, taking entities, like essentially the dark energies out of people, places and things. What the? I have so many questions. Let's start with being like a skeptic, okay?

5:16Okay. So like a lot of people listening and a lot of people watching are going to be like, there's no way, that's not true. What do you say to people who say that? I don't care. Love that. I mean, listen, I'm not a church. I'm not trying to convert anybody, you know, I don't, you know, if you don't want to believe that, that's fine. I understand why people wouldn't want to, because it changes your worldview quite a lot if you do. But I always say, and I don't mean to scare people, but maybe I do that even though you don't believe in entities, it doesn't mean they don't believe in you. What the hell?

5:50Rachel, can I ask you, when was the, when was the first time you realized you had these special, you know, powers? Well, I guess, let's see. When I was a kid, I could see entities with my eyes. I've always been able to do that. What does that look like to you? Well, there's different kinds of entities. They don't look like people. Most of the time, they don't look like people. They look like what kids would say are monsters. So, you know, when I was a kid, I would say, there's monsters under my bed or monsters in the closet, just like most kids do. and then parents would come in and they'd be like, there's nothing there.

6:24But for me, it never went away. So when I was a kid, I would talk about it because I thought everybody maybe had the same thing. So why wouldn't I talk about it? But then I learned very quickly, that's nuts. So then I didn't talk about it for a long time. I tried to suppress it a lot, especially during my teen years, because, you know, you're already weird enough, like nobody needs to be weirder. So I didn't talk about it. I didn't say anything. I just kind of went on with my life, became a writer, moved to LA or back to LA because this is where I'm from and did my writing. And then when I turned 30, it wasn't like on my birthday, but it was like around that time.

7:03I had a fender bender, not a huge car accident, not a life changing car accident or anything like that, thank God. But it was just like one stress or too many of a very stressful week. And I could no longer suppress my sight. Wait, so do you meet people and you're like, you have a dark entity following you? Yes, but it's not the same as being a medium. When you're a medium, you can go up to anybody and people love it, right? When you're a medium, you can go up to a stranger on the street and just say, oh, by the way, your grandmother's here and she has all this stuff for you. And then the stranger cries and it's this very lovely experience.

7:38For me, that's not the same. I can't really go up to a stranger and say, so this happened to you at five. And because this happened to you at five, you have an attachment, you know, like people don't like that. So something can happen to you, like you have a car accident or you have something traumatic happen to you. Exactly. And because of that, you can then have an entity attached to you. Well, that's the main issue. So when we talk about possession and attachment, it's actually not religious at all. It's really just about trauma. So we have what I call a baseline frequency. Yeah. You know, what we walk around with on the planet, how we interact with people, how we interact with ourselves, you know, how conscious of things we are, how empathetic we are, all of those things, right?

8:23And so when we have a trauma, that baseline frequency takes a hit. And now we are in low frequency. And these entities, if you will, they're looking for people who have an exact signature match of low frequency so they can attach. And what happens when they attach? Depends on the entity. So I wrote a book about this. It's called Sister of Darkness. It came out with HarperCollins. Yeah. All my entities, like species, if you will, are listed in there. So it can be something as little as what I call a Clive. Very scientific, because to me it looks like a Clive Barker drawing. Wow. Those are the ones that most people pick up.

9:03Like 85 % of the population is walking around with that. And you may know someone who has it or recognize it, because what it does is it just amplifies negative feelings so if you're sad you're more depressed if you're angry you have rage and it comes on in a way where you're like that doesn't feel like me okay but how do you get rid of a clive and what is it like is it like a person i i'm so no no no you're not going anywhere for about four hours i am in i can't wait it looks like again very scientific because i wrote all this myself after seeing so many people with the same thing but uh It looks sort of like a mix of a face hugger and a brain.

9:43Face hugger? Yeah, like an alien. Like the alien that jumps on your head. And it's like on your head. Different places in the body. Most of the time it's back of the neck or shoulders. Back of my neck is always, that's why I walk around with a hunchback. Yeah. And also that's where your psychic ability comes from as well. Same area. So there's a Clive which lots of people have. Yes. 85%. I would say. And then what does it go on to there? What are the other state? What are the other ones? So then we go up. So the Clive is basically like the leech of the entity community, if you will. It's not really trying to do anything bad.

10:18It's just they feed. This is all about feeding. And these things are dead? They're not alive? No, no, no. They're their own species. So they're not human and they come from a different place than here. Okay. So it becomes a Clive. Then how does it go up? It depends on what you've got going on as to what you'll attract. So then we have things called rates. They are attracted to a very specific type of trauma, which we don't need to get into here. But they're the ones that cause night terrors and sleep paralysis. What? Then we kind of go up from there to collectors and collectors are spaces only.

10:56So what collectors do is they love to be in places of mass trauma. and any place that they're in mass trauma they like to hold the deceased people and use them as batteries to scare the living so it's a high traffic place what does that mean i don't understand what that means so they you know like most people are afraid of ghosts yeah most people are not cool with ghosts yeah i'm really scared of ghosts right most people do not want to see ghosts or experience ghosts they're really scared of ghosts and so they'll pick a place that had mass trauma where people are in trauma. They're deceased, but they're traumatized.

11:30And when they're traumatized, they look for people to help, but it doesn't always come out that way. It'll look like sporadic energy or screaming energy or crying energy or whatever. And people misinterpret that a lot. So this entity will keep them from moving on so that they can keep that. So let's say it's a hotel where a lot of people still come. we're using that to feed off the people who are living because we're not feeding off dead people that doesn't work this is insane okay okay and then above that so really the next one up that we see not as often as what i call a realm walker and what a realm walker does is it can take a person or a place and it can do everything that every entity underneath it can do it is it's what people would consider like the devil even though it's not um people get possessed if they've got a realm walker that's like the movie style entity right they also like people but not any person so they only really want to work with world changers because they are the most intelligent and the most malevolent so it's not always you know like you see in movies this girl on a farm right yeah uh out in the middle of nowhere we're gonna terrorize her family and then what yeah what's the point like then it leaves that doesn't make actual sense if you think about it as intelligent right what they want is someone they can manipulate and change so the only time that they're going to be going after that girl on a farm is if they know that when that girl on a farm is a certain age she's going to have the positioning in the world to influence people so like elon musk could have a round walker you didn't hear it from me fucking hell a hundred percent i mean let's just say this one time i was asked to clear a private jet for a politician the politician was not told but the staff was like he's getting super crazy um we'd like you to come in and do it before he gets back he came early he figured it out i stop when that happens that's all i'm gonna that's all i'm gonna say oh my god what can i ask so we i need to talk about portobello roads so we lived in this place import do you know portobello road in nottingham anyway we both felt really ill there it was so busy like it's a very poor stedio traction like we lived in flat above it i felt so ill we both were really funky mentally there the minute we moved or the minute i'd leave that property i would feel like well i would get home and i'd be like i was so unwell do you think that there was like a realm walker in there because we went insane living that realm walkers are rare uh in my let's oh god so long now in my like over a decade of doing this i've only seen about six uh that's not to say that can't be it feels like quite a lot it's it's not compared to the rest of these entities like i've seen hundreds and hundreds do you visually see them can you see an entity on me?

14:37I don't see an entity on you, but I do see a lot of trauma. So cleansing would not be bad because when we do a cleansing, it isn't always just to remove any attachment. It's also to remove the trauma stored in the body because that trauma gives a different energetic signature than the rest of you. So that's misalignment. So when you're harboring trauma in the body, when we're storing it, which we, you know, there's, there's no shame in that because we're not really taught how to deal with that. Like we're all taught on this whole earth, right, basically, that we just need to suck it up and move on whenever something happens.

15:12Like you really don't get a lot of time to mourn things or grieve things or experience things before someone's like, well, you got to go do this. So you better get it together, right? So we're just not taught, A, that this is real, that this matters, and B, that it's healthy to clear your spiritual, you know, old gunk, if you will, right? so we do that when you come in to my spirit room we take all of those things out so that literally within that hour to hour 30 you are a different person from the time you walk in until you leave to do this i don't out my clients because i do have a lot of very big you know actor clients right exactly and and studio heads and politicians and all kinds of things but i always wanted to i'll never do it because again that would just be a violation of trust but like i've always wanted to take a picture of someone when they walk in versus when they leave because you can see it on their face okay wait wait so i really want to know what a trauma on both of us yes yes i can see trauma on you but to be fair i feel like you have more or I should say it's it's stuffed down further that is true how would you cleanse Sophie you just had you'd have a session with her and cleanse it I need to book end Rachel when was the time that you've actually been scared oh boy okay I'll tell you um it's it's a crazy story I'm in a few years back, I got an email from this person who owned this inn.

16:49I call it Rosewood. It's not really what it's called. Oftentimes I'll sign NDA. So this was an NDA situation. So I can't say exactly where it is or what it is or whatever, because not everybody wants like haunted tourism. Right. And he was like, Hey, we're supposed to open in like a week. My workers are not, they're threatening not to come back. There's something going on. Basically, this was this place from the 1800s that they were redoing everything. He was like, I sunk all my money in this. So we really need to open on time. And I think I don't know if they're just being superstitious or what's going on.

17:24Apparently, someone had an accident. And so at that point, they were like, no, we're not coming back. So I was, you know, a very cocky exorcist at the time. And I was like, oh, yeah, no problem. Didn't know what it was. Didn't know what was in there, but I thought I'd seen it at all. So I get in there and I do everything by myself. I don't take anyone with me because it's too dangerous for other people and I can't be responsible for other people plus myself. So I was there for a few days and I expected it to be real easy, one and done. I thought, well, it's probably collector or something like no big deal.

17:59I'll just release the deceased people because that's what you do. You go one by one to release the deceased people and then the collector has nothing left. And so then you can just work on the collector. So I got there and I was like, Oh, yeah, it feels like a collector. There's deceased people, you know, we're we're doing that. And you could see the deceased people. Yeah. So I was like, Okay, great. Well, you know, this should be easy. No problem. And then something changed. So I'm in the bathroom area, just walking through going through trying to, you know, do my thing. And there's a deceased woman in the bathtub like she died there and for the first time ever they could touch you like i've never had that like corporeal experience with them before like they normally don't touch you she was touching you she grabbed me they look real like us or can you tell their dad they do but they're pretty they're messy and you could when she touched you could feel it yes yes it was definitely a burn sensation, which was a very unusual for a deceased person at all.

19:07And then I was like, okay, wait, like, this is not my usual thing. I don't know what's going on here. So I found out through going through the process that there had been a fire there that a lot of people had died in. And it's weird because what happens is like when they rebuild places, you know, they, they, let's say they change the height of the ceiling or they change whatever when they're rebuilding. the deceased people stay where they were so you'll just see like legs going through the ceiling because the floor was different oh sorry the floor was different or like you'll just see like the upper torso because they're just not in the same place so that was going on and i was like okay that's fine so they were upstairs so all the deceased people were upstairs i go upstairs to start releasing them they're in a ballroom like they're dancing whatever what used to be a ballroom I go up there and I'm like, okay, cool.

20:00I'm just going to start releasing everybody. And they surround me, which is not, again, very unusual. Like usually when you go into these spaces and you talk to deceased people, they're ready to go. They're so grateful. They're like, yeah, get me out of here. I don't want to be here anymore kind of vibes. This was, what are you doing here? We're not interested in going. We're going to stay. Oh, man. They're saying that or you can just feel it? No, they were saying basically that different different ways. But yes. So what I learned from that experience was the entity, the demon that was in that space.

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25:07And it's the only time I got hurt. it's the only time I was like I'm gonna get out of here I gotta go I don't want to be here I'm forfeiting but at the end of the day I was like well if I do that like this guy's not gonna not open this place and like people are really gonna get hurt like they're gonna get really hurt so I stayed and I finished it how many days did you it was just three days three days you were scared I was by the end. Did you sleep? No. No, because I didn't trust the location. You're so great. You had to stay in the location and do it all. Yeah, because once you start, you can't stop.

25:46Once you start, if you stop, it gets worse and worse and worse. Oh, my God. Oh, my God. Okay, so I've told this story before, but my mom lived in this house, which she believes was haunted, right? Mm-hmm. And it was really similar to that. Like, loads of creepy things happened. Like, they would, like, put some boxes in the attic, right? and then the next they would fall asleep and then my grandma would hear like dragging of furniture and like stomping but there was no furniture being dragged but they were like dragging they were like so angry that someone had been in that space then there was like the door was just a normal you know modern door but they could hear like of like an old-fashioned door opening now and again my mom had two siblings they all got pushed down the stairs like they used to fall down it every other day my grandma would be like can you stop running around the stairs they were like we're not running someone's pushing us and they found out later that there were two sisters that lived there and one of them they don't know which one pushed who but one of the sisters pushed downstairs and died in that house it's out of form and like so many things happened like that was real and then my second story to tell you is that my dad once had a restaurant and all the it got burgled so he had to stay the night because the glass had been smashed and he was sleeping on the floor and he saw this lady and it's really is it crazy because you've just told me this he said that she had no legs she was floating it was like the ground would just cut off her legs but it must have been because the floor was below exactly and she was floating and she was going and she was floating and she had blood all over her anyway he found out that the it was a restaurant like however many years ago and the chef was her husband and he stabbed her and she was she was like going and she went through my dad yeah but like is it normal that my dad could see that yeah if she were particularly traumatized and strong it depends on on how empathetic you are right so we have everything from like nothing you know we don't feel anything to severe empath who feels everything including like mass trauma i feel like a lot okay rich i need to ask you a question I've been to Ibiza both times in Ibiza for some reason the same thing happened to me in a different house I went into the sort of spare room and as I went into the spare room I heard someone go Jamie I heard it that happened to me once before many years ago in Ibiza the same thing happened to me again and I was like I went to Sophie Sophie did you just call my name what is that honestly usually it's deceased loved ones who do that and maybe you were just in a quieter place or you could function a bit better you could hear better you felt more relaxed I was more relaxed but saying Jamie what are they trying to just reach talk to me and I have something we can do today so that opens up for you I don't know if I can do this it'll be safe I want you to live with me so we our house at home is haunted.

28:54Okay. We think it's haunted. We've spoken about this. We definitely think it's haunted. I don't think it's haunted. We got a message from someone on Instagram who said, I've heard your story on the podcast. I used to live in your house. We think it's haunted. I spoke to, we have an amazing healer called Sue. She's incredible. And she said to me, don't mess with it. Nothing's there, but don't mess with it. Because if you start messing with it, it can go. Depending on how knowledgeable you are, sure. I don't think our house is haunted. I don't know what you mean. I can feel something in that room.

29:24I can't. I feel, my house feels lovely. It is lovely, but in that room, it doesn't feel bad, but there is something there. Well, I have a house ghost, but my house is also lovely. So it could be just a lovely ghost. Yes, I have a lovely ghost. So I have the ghost of the person who lived in my house forever. His initials are on my back door. He was a stuntman here. And he was awesome and like very fun. Apparently, he was a very fun guy. He hates men who are mean. So he's made men who've come to my house who are mean sick. He's made them leave. But he also is very protective of women. So he walks around at night and makes sure my doors are locked.

30:02Oh, my God. But why would you allow him to go to the next realm? He goes. You know, he can. I mean, just because they come around doesn't mean they haven't moved on. They can do lots of things. It's choice. It's always their choice. Do these people know, so my loved one who's trying to contact me, do they know that they're dead? Oh, for sure. okay you have a thing where you can you can call spirits right i'm gonna give you something to play okay so i don't know if i can do this i can't i feel like it's a lose-lose i'll just tell you how to do it and if you want to do it you can if you don't want to do it you don't have to yeah you can do it later fucking Voldemort okay i'm so into this what is this okay so i want to tell you about one of my case files let me preface this by saying we will not do this we will do something different but one of my case files was something i called the knocking game and i'm going to tell you about And back in the day, there was something going around on social media where, you know, people were like, I'm going to for Halloween.

30:56I think it was Halloween. For Halloween, I'm going to summon a demon or whatever. And I have this, you know, instruction manual from the internets and I'm going to do it and see what happens. And I saw some of these videos and I laughed at these videos because I was like, that's not that doesn't work. So I was like, that's fine. I'm not going to get involved. I'm just going to let people do their thing. and then apparently there was a group of like 19 to 21 year olds there were like five of them that did something wrong and got it right so they ended up bringing this this entity in to their lives and it worked through knocking so they they they did a specific thing which i will not do but they did it and it included specific kinds of knocking and then it would knock back and so it just kept happening and got worse and worse and worse until it was in in the house with them and they didn't know what to do and things were going wrong because that's what demons do and so you're just like okay then they called me and so then i came in and i fixed that for them but we have a version we can do here and i'm just gonna run you through it we don't have to do it You don't have to commit.

32:04There's no commitment. Can people do this at home? Yes. You could do this at home? Yes. Oh my God, guys, are you ready for this? Are you guys scared? I am. Are you guys scared? Okay, so what's this game? Okay, what you do is you light a black or white candle, depending on what you're looking for. If you'd like a specific person, it's like a deceased person that you miss or love, you can have an item of theirs, a picture of theirs, your phone with the picture, it doesn't really matter. And if you're open to like whoever deceased loved one, then don't do that. And what you're going to do is you're going to take some deep breaths.

32:36You're going to ground and you're going to spirit. I'm open to any, any deceased relative or loved one or somebody that I miss to come through within the next seven days in any way that they wish. And I will pay attention. They come through in every which way. Some people are very sensitive and they'll hear or they'll see. However you want to receive them is usually how. So after you say that, right. I'd love for you to come through. I'm going to open the doorway now. And then you're going to take your fist and you're going to knock on the floor three times. Oh, my God. Are you going to do that?

33:13What I'm upset about is I want it to happen today while you're with me. I don't want it in like the seven days. I don't want it in any of the seven days. There's no guarantee for that because they've got to come at their own pace. What is your most notorious cases? Can you talk about it? Most of my cases that I think people would find more interesting are the times that I cleanse film sets, which I do a lot. Mostly horror reenactment sets. No. Yeah, for sure. There was one a while ago. It was a horror movie and everyone, like everyone was affected by the space that they were in. It was a reenactment.

33:53What, they feel sick? They feel down? They feel... they're acting out of character they're screaming they're you know it just depends it depends on what's going on they film it in a creepy film set and that film set was then or a place that something actually happened and they're going back to the same place and so oftentimes i'll be asked to come out and do that um for the film sets but in the times that i don't it's actually the funniest because whenever they don't do it and then something happens then i have like 70 people coming through the spirit room after the fact because they're like i can't look at the footage i i feel sick i don't i like something has changed so you'll have like all your a-list actors from that movie coming to coming through and then directors and then you know even down to post like all these people will come through because they just they don't feel right anymore oh my god have you ever met someone who's had a relationship with someone who's passed like like dated like dated them like they're like there was you've never been like that no that would be so strange i don't know i mean if someone lives with a ghost they fall in love with the ghost here's what i can say there's no more loyal boyfriend than a dead one damn straight damn freaking straight that's why you keep that guy in your house where's he going talk to you about exorcism okay you know the exorcism that i know are from movies especially like the excess screaming strapped down freaking out all those sort of things what happens during an exorcism so it depends on how again we have different you know hierarchies if you will of entities so if it's just like a normal thing if it's like a climb it's real chill Someone comes in, we have a conversation first about what to expect, whatever comes in from spirit that needs to be told to them, I share.

35:51Then they lay down, you know, and I burn specific types of things. I move around them in a very specific way. And I place my hands in certain areas on the body to pull. Because what happens is I work with high beings, right? We have low beings, we have high beings, what people call angels and, you know, all these good things. And we use that connection that I have with high beings to flood the body with high frequency energy. And what that does is it pushes the negative energy to the top, if you will, and then I can take it with my hands and take it out. Oh, my God. And every version of an exorcism is the same.

36:32It's just the level of difficulty. If someone is watching right now, it's Halloween, right? Yeah. People are a little bit scared around this period. But if someone is watching right now and they think their house is haunted or they feel like scared in their room or they're worried about it, what would you say to that person? Well, two things. So if they are interested in learning more about what's going on in their space rather than just taking things out, then I would tell them to feel beneath the fear. Because our initial reaction is always fear. Yeah. But that doesn't mean that that's what's happening.

37:06Oftentimes, like I'm a deceased person's advocate. That's what I call myself. because I'm like, why are you scared of dead people? They're just people that are dead unless they're assholes. That's a different story. But then they're just the same as they were, you know? So if you didn't like them then, you won't like them now. But other than that, they're the same. So if you want to feel out beneath your own fear and see like what is the actual energy in the space, you can take time and do that. You just have to ground and do that. If you're like, nah, I don't want anything in my space, then I would tell them to burn or diffuse copal, which is an amber resin that really like neutralizes spaces and then follow that up with frankincense to seal it in high frequency.

37:46That way you can sleep better, especially if you're a super high empath. If I feel a presence, can I say something like, who is there? Of course. Yeah, they love to be seen. The difference between entity and deceased people is entity doesn't want you to know it's there, but deceased people don't shut up. They love to have conversations. They just want to be seen. They just want to help. They just want to be of service a lot of the time. So I could say to this person, hey, show me something that will show me that you're there. Yeah. And in fact, I have something for you. Oh, my God. No, I'm scared.

38:25I don't know why I'm terrified. You got to open the card, though. So you're handing me a skull. I am. It's like a marble skull. Yep. Wow. Your spirit world is stellar. Stella was a, oh my God. Stella was a 38 year old first grade teacher in Baltimore. She died of a heart issue quite suddenly. Stella loves children, music, and gossip. She has chosen to go with you to protect your family from negative energy. In exchange, please place her somewhere nice and surround her with what she loves. Her stone is bloodstoke for courage, protection, and peace. Her message to you is all the little things that seem so important are actually the least important.

39:01So this is Stella? Mm-hmm. What? Wait. What? What? Stella's in that? She's attached to it. Oh, my God. One of the things that I love to do is I love to channel spirit wars. And those are deceased people that want to be of service to people here on Earth. So it's never a forced thing. It's always who wants to come and who wants to come in for specific people. So they choose. So she chose you. And she is here with you. So she's not attached to it. She doesn't stay in there. Like, she's a person. But that's her anchor. So she now is just with our family and she's protecting us. And how would you know?

39:42Is there anyone else hovering around us? I mean, you have a lot of deceased relatives with you. Who? I see, aside from Stella, two women. There's two women for sure. And one male. Oh, my God. I really want to know who they are. They're my grandparents. It feels like grandparent energy. Can you see what they look like? And they always showed themselves. See, I'm a bad person to ask that because I always joke that people always show me their sexiest times, not how they died. Like, so they'll always look like whatever they think is their hottest self. I love that. You know what I mean? So they'll always show me like rugged, handsome, you know, hair flowing in the breeze.

40:26And I'm like, you died at like 92. What are you talking about? You know what I mean? Like even my mother, my mother's been dead a long time, but she thought she was the hottest thing in the 80s. So like shoulder pads, perm, big old earrings. And I'm like, that is not what you look like. Oh my God, I love that. But can I ask you, I love Sophie so much. I don't want to ever not be with her. So what happens when we die, we're not going to be with each other. Why? Why would that happen? Honey, you're with me forever. I'll just hang out with you and you can hang out with me. You're with me forever.

40:55And we'll be so empath and open for it. We'll knock on the floor and then we'll just see each other. Ziggy can knock on the floor and get us back. Well, and you probably had lots of lives together. What? What do you mean? I mean, that happens too. This isn't the only life you have. Someone said that to us before. Yeah, of course. Someone said to us that this is like we've had lives and lives and lives before with each other. Yeah, and you might not have always been married or the same, you know, gender or the same anything. I mean, you might have been brother and sister. You might have been best friends.

41:24You might have been both guys. You might have, who knows. Someone said that with Quinn Flames as well. Of course, yeah. Really? It's the red string theory. What is the red string theory? Then you always find the people you're connected to. You'll always find them again if you're supposed to. I knew this. I swear to God, we're meant to be together. Yes. So you probably have a red string. Rachel, can I just say thank you so much. I don't know if I should be scared or happy or terrified. I have no idea. But thank you for coming on. Of course. Thank you. Especially for our Halloween episode. Thank you so much.

42:00That was fascinating in every single way. And we're going to leave everything about you in our show notes. So if people want to contact you, see your Instagram and social media stuff, go and check out our notes in our show description. Rachel, you are incredible. Thank you so much. Thank you so much, Rachel. What a crazy, crazy episode. Okay, I don't know what to think. Sophie's got so scared she's had to leave. Let me know in the comments below if you believe what Rachel is saying is true. Has anyone ever met spirits? Has anyone ever experienced ghosts? If you have, let us know in our DMs at Newly Parents Podcast, us or you can send us an email newlyparents at jampodproductions.co.uk all right everybody listen we cannot wait to see you next week for another episode of newly parents thank you so much for tuning in for the halloween edition remember stay safe out there trick or treat with fun be careful and we're going to see you next week for another episode if you're getting engaged good luck if you're getting married good luck if you're going out on halloween have the best time ever we'll see you next week for another episode goodbye

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