Bradley Wiggins: The Dark Truth I Carried Through My Cycling Career & Finding New Purpose

0:28Watch it early on the High Performance App. things that happen to us that shape us that make us the people we are there's no time like the present to start being the person you want to be that is one of britain's most decorated olympians sir bradley wiggins who joins us today for this exclusive conversation on high performance i'm jay comfrey and together with damien hughes we explore how high performing people reach the incredible heights they do what drives them to do so but also in today's conversation the pain that sometimes lies behind the success. Bradley's a guest we've been trying to speak to on this show for a very long time.

1:04Through his cycling career, he won an incredible late medals and in 2012, he wrote his name in the history books by becoming the first Briton to ever win the Tour de France. He joined us live on stage at an event we held recently in London with our partners, Fora, for this deeply moving, personal and profound conversation. So what are you going to hear then from Bradley? Well, you'll hear him talk about how his motivation for success actually came through struggle and trauma, from the extraordinary adversity he's faced throughout his life, from the abandonment he dealt with in early childhood, the difficult relationship with his father, who was eventually murdered, to the sexual abuse that he suffered as a young cyclist trying to make his way in the sport.

1:47It's an incredibly honest and raw conversation. We honestly thank Bradley so much for opening up in the way that he did in giving us such a vivid insight into the mind of one of the best athletes this country has ever produced. And this episode is also a clear reminder of the conversation around trauma leading to triumph, of post-traumatic growth, of the fact that sometimes the fuel that drives us can be the hardest things that we've experienced. Look, before we continue, please be aware that this episode does contain conversations around the sexual abuse of young people. So please listen with caution as we welcome Bradley Wiggins to High Performance.

2:29Bradley, welcome to High Performance. Thank you for having me. It's a real pleasure for us. No, it is for me. Look, so much has been said about you, written about you, spoken about you over the past few years. I don't think we've heard your voice often enough. So I'd love to start with finding out how are you today? I'm actually honestly in the best place I've been for 44 years of my life. And that's largely down to the fact that I've, you know, been to the arse end of the world, you know, and I've been in dark places at times for various reasons. I've experienced extreme highs with my success and other aspects of my life.

3:04But I've also experienced, like most of us, the other end of the spectrum. And I always put that down to the success at times. I think I always blame the success, you know. but I realise now it was multifactual and there was many other things that contributed to that and I've spent the last five years really sorting that out in my head and I'm in a better place for it now. I finally took responsibility for my own life and I'm not in a sort of position now where I'm playing the blame game. I think like most of us, when you're trying to work these things out, you spend a lot of the time putting it down to various reasons as to why you're like the way you are but at some point you know you've got to take responsibility for your own life and um accept that that's ultimately what makes you the person you are today so yeah so what was the catalyst for taking responsibility what was the catalyst i mean there was some really extreme moments probably the last one was about a year ago you know without going into too much detail but i was in a very dark place in a very dark room for many days um and it was a hotel and And my son, actually, was the one who kind of intervened and, you know, kind of really made me realise, I think, recognise the self-destructive mode I was in and the damage I was doing to myself, you know.

4:22And there was a lot of reasons for that, you know. And I think where I'm at now, I look back, there always seemed to be something that was causing me issues and giving me a reason to not be happy. And there was always something on the horizon. But I've realised now that there's never going to be a sort of clear path. There's always going to be something that's happening. And these things, you know, I was one of them people that wallowed a little bit in self-pity, particularly after my career. Why has it always happened to me? Why is this? There's always something that's coming up. And I realised that these things only become interrelated if you let them affect your behaviour, you know, because one thing knocks on to the next.

5:02and I was one of them people you know would drink and etc um and then I'd be late for something or not turn up to something and and so they become interrelated then because I let them affect my behavior but part of you know part of taking responsibility to my own life now is I've pulled myself right back in I realized you know we're born into a struggle and it's what you make with that struggle this life and I wasn't there and I refused to accept therapy you know I was like no therapist is is going to be ever educated enough to understand what's going on in my head um I think also it was a way of me sweeping under the carpet the fact that I wasn't quite where I wanted to be by talking about it I've I was projecting myself as some sort of martyr that I could talk about the subjects I was talking about and that I was there and I was through it and I could be a help to other people and I think that was a distraction for me in being able to do that or thinking I could do that you know the fact that I'm helping others I'm not having to look at myself and help myself.

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7:40One big lesson we've learned in 300-odd episodes of this podcast is that nothing's permanent, right? Nothing lasts forever, and it's a constant journey. but the truth is at the moment you look happy you look healthy you look in great shape and a lot of people would have thought well a year ago when your son intervened and decided that enough was enough most people would have thought well that's when therapy comes in but you've just to be clear you didn't go to therapy no no so how have you got to this point on your own because the biggest thing that's really impacted me it's the biggest thing i spoke about a lot the last few years and it's the biggest thing i've come to terms with it's the biggest thing that caused me the greatest amount of pain that made me not want to be here was the fact I was sexually abused for three years by my first coach when I was between the age of 13 and 16 and I think when I started to accept that and having ignored it for 30 years I realized that that was why partly had a huge part as to why I was successful because it was the greatest distraction I could have in those years but when I retired I really resented cycling and I said a lot of times I hated cycling I'd fell out of love with cycling because I blamed cycling for getting and into cycling, the reason I met this guy.

8:48That was a real process for me, you know, the five years of going through that. And the interview I did with the Times last summer, four people came forward afterwards that were also in the club that it happened to as well. And that was like a weight off my shoulders. Because there was insinuation from some of the tabloids, particularly the Daily Mail, that I was lying about this. Because the gentleman was dead and things like that. And that killed me, you know. but four people came forward one of which was hoping to come tonight I don't know if he made it and he yeah it's been a long journey that what did that do for you when you had that validation that this had happened to other people well I think it was external validation that see I wasn't making this up because I was in a very mentally unstable place as well so I could see maybe potentially why I mean I couldn't understand why personally but looking back now where I'm at now I could possibly understand why some people might think that I've, this is quite a wild thing to say, having never said it for years, because, you know, I was off my head, you know.

9:52But it's all intertwined and, yeah, it's very complex, you know, and it's so, there's so multi-layers, it's connected with my father, you know, not having a father growing up. He got murdered in 2008. I always wished he was around, you know. I got into cycling because he was a professional cyclist and he was respected and feared also because he was a bit of a loose cannon. It was his 72nd birthday today, it would have been. Which is, it was a year ago today that I was in a dark place which contributed to it. And I wished he was around, but he's my hero. But as a father, I resented him, you know.

10:31So it's so multi-layered. The family I grew up in, you know, the things I witnessed as a child. and the abandonment. My dad left when I was one and a half. I met him when I was 19. He walked back into my life because I was successful

10:48and he couldn't handle the fact that I'd become as successful as him or heading towards, and I was happy to stand on his shoulders and I've said it a few times, the famous quote he gave me, which drove me for years and breaks my heart to this day. He said after a week of meeting him when I was 19, don't forget you'll never be as good as your old man was. you know it's funny and I think about this stuff all the time still as part of my recovery you know I still see this as a journey and as you said in there you know I'll look back in a year's time and realize I was in how much of a better place I'm in 12 months further down the line and it's a constant thing two years ago I thought I was doing well but I failed to see that I was smoking and drinking and doing all sorts and I thought that was all right you know so it's funny how when we look back we always think we're in a good place where we're at we've only got the facts we've got to deal with at the time as to where we're at.

11:33But I'm really on an upward journey now. And I feel like I've come full circle for 2012. I think, you know, lots of this stuff stems back to 2012 and what happened there. And, you know, I was just, you know, I was relatively unknown in the general public's eyes walking into the Tour de France in 2012. I'd won multiple races in France and Olympic Games. You know, I was well known in cycling circles, but in general public size no one had really ever heard of me and i came back from that tour de france with my sideburns and i was the most famous man in the country for a week you know and i won the olympic games in london you know and uh 20 years before that you know i was trying to get out of a council state in kilburn wearing lycra you know and the bigotry i faced and you know cycling wasn't like it like it is now you know it wasn't cool and i ostracized myself from the group of people kids that was, you know, inevitably fall into patterns of crime and things like that when you get to 12, 13, smoking, all those usual things.

12:36And I realised that I was way more ambitious than that as a kid. And I always wanted more for myself. Plus, I was terrified and petrified of the environment I was growing up in, you know. We were institutionalised to violence as a means of, you know, a way of life, you know. Knife attacks, you know, stabbings and things like that. It was as tough as it is now in some of them parts, you know. and it was very odd in the early 90s for a kid, a 12-year-old small ginger kid to be into cycling and as obsessed with cycling as I was. And it was because my father was a professional cyclist. She came over from Australia in the 70s and met my mum and then left when I was one and a half and I didn't see him for 17 years.

13:14But I always knew about him. She always informed me about him. How did she talk about him? She spoke about, she glorified him. She glorified him in a cycling sense and glorified all his bad traits. You know, he was abusive to her. he was manic depressive, he was an alcoholic. He took, you know, performance enhancing drugs, sold them to other riders as well, you know. And your mum told you this when you were growing up? Yeah, so she, yeah, she sort of, from as young as I can remember, you know, informed me about him. And when I took up cycling, when I was 12, I went, started going to bike races, because he was so feared, respected and revered, you know.

13:51People would say, oh, you're Wigo's boy, you know. and so in his absence being in this world of cycling was like having the strength of a father in his absence because of his name and i got respect from that point of view but in his absence things happened to me like you know coaches got their grip you know their their way with me if you like one particular coach um and the grooming started and my mum wasn't savvy to it and didn't notice it yeah and because of his age and the type of gentleman he was ex-military policeman um you know, he had some sort of status or, you know, kind of, you know, identity and people respected him from that point of view.

14:28So, you know. And can I ask you, you've just used three adjectives to describe your dad, of feared, revered and respected. How did you respond to this male figure in your life, in a world you wanted to be part of? Well, I loved it. I loved it. And that drove me. That's why to this day, my dad is my hero in a cycling sense. A complete contradiction. And I had a stepfather as well. when I was growing up. He came along when I was five and left when I was 18. I had a stepbrother who's eight years younger than me who was not how I'd want to be with a stepson. He was quite handy with his hands towards me and I took the brunt of a lot of his anger and violence.

15:08And was there a reason why he would lash out? Probably the wedge that was being driven by my mother, the constant narrative of my dad. Must have been quite hard for him and I can see that now. I can empathise with him and I was the scapegoat in the dynamic between my mum, my stepfather and my brother. And I was trying to emulate someone who didn't live there anymore and was in... But it was a constant feature. And so I think that kind of... That fuelled that from that point of view. So it's just... Like I said, it's very layered. And I've only realised this out in the last few years that as my own kids...

15:47When my son started cycling at 13, it was the same age I started. And my son's now world champion. He's 19, you know, and he's on the fringes of an ex-Olympic squad and professional cycling team. So I've watched him, you know, that's where I started accepting my abnormal sort of childhood, particularly within cycling, when he started cycling, you know, going to a youth hostel in Devon, two 13-year-old lads with a 72-year-old man and sharing a dormitory with them, showering naked and things like that. It was very abnormal and not, yeah, I mean, it's just crazy some of the situations we're in. And I'm watching my own son go through that and the changes within safeguarding and the changes within the system and how kids go away with coaches now, just how normal it is and how it should be.

16:32And I think that flagged lots. And I'd just retired when he started cycling, so I'm starting to assess my whole life and who am I? Because I'd only ever been Sir Wiggo or Wiggo before I got knighted, you know. And I very much think that I played a caricature or when I was, you know, in my famous years, if you like. You know, I dressed, I adopted a veil that I perceived as cool in order to hide my deep-rooted insecurity and self-worth issues. And cycling was the only thing that ever gave me confidence. But me, the person, Bradley Wiggins, I'd never been given any self-worth. I was always going to be, you know, you're going to be a good cyclist if you do it.

17:10You'll be useless at everything else. This was the narrative I grew up with, you know. Because your dad was a good cyclist, you know, it's in your genes. At least you'll be good at something. So it was always down to him as to why I was good at it, you know. And I think that reflected in when I won the gold in 2012, you know, I adopted this veil of this sort of mod rock star and fancy suits and I'd drink and things like this. I'd drink as sports personality and I was quite contentious. I swore a lot. People were, I was very unpredictable. People didn't know what Bradley they were going to get on the night.

17:40And it was all because I didn't think I was worthy of what I'd achieved. And it took away from what I was really good at and the perception I had. And people either loved or hated me, you know. But really underneath, there was an insecure, scared kid that hadn't really grown up from 13. And I was 32 with two children of my own. But any moment where I had to accept praise, like sports personality, I started messing around with Susan and distracting people. You know, when I won the Olympic Games in Hampton Court, I sat on the throne and did that. And it was just anything to distract from having to be me in that moment.

18:15But the contradiction was I could go up and execute Olympic finals like that. I mean, I did it. I don't know how many I did. Five, six, you know. And I was happiest and freest on the bike, which takes me back to my childhood, you know, escaping the environment I grew up in, finding an escapism, but falling into another trap that was going to give me problems later in life. and I was happiest when I was out on my bike until I had to turn around and go back and finding that escapism with this romanticised vision in my head that my dad's out there somewhere, I'm going to make him proud one day doing the thing that he did, maybe one day he'll see and because he was great, it's in my genes, I'm going to be great.

19:05There was no doubt about that in my head. It saved my life in many ways. you know i don't know where i'd be today and cycling's give me everything you know it really has i wouldn't change a thing that's the important thing i wouldn't change any of my journey up to this point because it's what we do is the things that happen to us that shape us that make us the people we are you know and um i think my best years are yet to come yet in some way i don't know how but i'm full you know i'm not i'm not falling to the level of my goals at the moment i'm falling to the level of my habits you know and creating daily habits that you know whatever's on the horizon i'll be ready for you know i mean what's remarkable bradley though is listening to this level of insight and self-recognition considering that you haven't gone and sought external help in that year since your son made the intervention yeah i don't it's probably why i was a good athlete as well because i'm very self-aware and you have to be self-critical when you're an athlete and you have to be coachable and you have to be you know that's what makes good that's what makes good athletes is being coachable and listening and being able to go through for a process you know of four years whether it's Olympic cycle or 12 months the next Tour de France is about recognizing what you're doing right and what you're doing wrong and being deeply honest with yourself and taking accountability and responsibility for your role as the athlete because you know the day you don't go and do six hours and you tell your coach that night you did six hours when actually you did five is is where it starts to go wrong and it's it's being deeply honest with yourself and recognizing no i've not done enough this year that's why i failed you know or i've done too much this year and that's why i failed and and and lots of athletes egos get in the way of of of self-recognizing you know self-recognizing those things in order to make changes and i was very good at that and and part of the reason i was very good at that was because i had people that would weren't frightened to tell me like shane sutton was one of them weren't frightened to tell me how it is.

21:00You're not going to like this, Brad. Your ego's not going to like this. But you've been skiving. You've not done enough this year. You need to move abroad or whatever. And that would hurt. And I'd listen to him, though, because I knew he was right. And I think I learned to adopt that myself because from a cycling point of view in that dent in my ego, as a person, I had no doubt, I had no question about telling myself what I thought myself as a person. Right. And it still lingers to this day, you know. Well, let's investigate that then. What did you think of yourself as a person when you were 13, 14, 15?

21:36Because you were successful on a bike despite all of these sort of heartbreaking and tragic episodes that you'd been through until that point. I never felt loved as a child. I felt, yeah, I think that's the overriding thing. I stick by that. I used to share a bed with my mum when my dad left you know and I've been thinking about this a lot recently because I've had to for writing a book actually we had a one bedroom flat and we came back to London and I shared a single bed with my mum and I can still to this day remember being spooned by my mum I must have been four years of age brainwashed to the sounds of Lionel Richie on cassette as we fall into sleep and I can remember that just being heaven and feeling loved and that And at the age of five, my stepdad moved in and she moved into the living room on the sofa bed with him and I never saw my mum again, you know, as I think back now.

22:33My stepbrother came along then and I felt like I'd lost two parents, you know. And that was it, really. I never felt protected in childhood. And I think a lot of that, obviously, is part of the coach. I couldn't tell anyone. I didn't think anyone would believe me. We lived with this. My stepdad was in the house. My brother had a real dad. I didn't. and then I shared a room with my stepbrother who was eight years younger than me you know and yeah I never really had a teenage life as normal but that I'm not don't complain about that by any means from the age of 13 I knew what I wanted to do I watched Chris Borman win the Olympics on the Lotus bike in 1992 in Barcelona and the night before a local lad Linford Christie had won the 100 metres Sally Gunnell won the night before that and when I watched the Olympic Games when Chris won he caught his opponent Jens Lehmann in three and a half minutes and I thought I would love to do that one day and my mum made me watch it because she said your dad used to do this so she pushed me in and I won that event 12 years later with Chris Bourbon trackside as my coach and what was your mum's reaction when you did start to be successful on the bike she just said it was destined to do it it was in your genes what I think is really interesting here is that all of us sitting here are parents there's many parents in the room and we're all told there are certain ways to be a parent, right?

23:47The first thing you do is love your children and tell them you love them and cuddle them. That didn't happen to you. The second thing is you try and have a safe family unit where your children feel protected and cared for. That didn't happen to you. You try and avoid the parents breaking up. That didn't happen to you. You try and avoid your kids getting into situations where they're in danger physically. That didn't happen to you. Yet despite all of that, at the age of 17, 18, you're arguably the best cyclist that this country has ever seen. so all of those things that we're told can derail a young person here's a guy on course to become the greatest in the world how do you marry those two?

24:23because I think there's a difference between being good at something and great at something and I think greatness stems from adversity and a dark place I've met a lot of hyper successful people and they all tend to be a bit fucked up or had fucked up past and are very different and very unique we've spoken to hundreds of them on this show Yeah, because I think if you have a normal, you know, upbringing, if you like, or what we consider normal, and what we consider a, you know, a good upbringing, stable home, etc., etc. But as long as it's a stability, I think stability is the thing I've lacked in my whole life, and, you know, emotional stability.

25:02You know, cycling was a great vehicle for distracting me from all those issues. And I've learned in the last 12 months, or certainly the last six months that I'm an avoidant. Is that right? All these years, I've never known it. I'm a sweeper under the carpet with anything, you know. My attachment is avoidant. Even today? Well, I recognise it now. So I'm trying to change that. I'm trying to address things and have those difficult conversations, whatever that is, you know. And I was conditioned from a young age to be an avoidant and void all these things and not talk about them. As soon as something happens, put it in the past.

25:37However bad it is. And I've done that with everything in my life, you know, whether it was grief, whether it was a death in the family, whether it was sexual abuse, whether it was abandonment, whether it was whatever. And at some point, you've got to pick those up again, you know, and deal with them. And I realised that they're quite, but no one around me ever really encouraged me to. And I think that assisted me and aided me in my cycling career. You know, the ability to put disappointments behind you. You know, the ability to not overthink too much about, you know, why you didn't perform this week.

26:04My own sort of, you know, problems with my own self-worth and insecurity. if someone who was in a sort of more hierarchical position in BC or Team Sky would say to me, look, you're not doing enough training, you need to do this. I'll do that. You know, I was a bit coachable. It aided me to be hyper successful in cycling because I was very coachable. And Bradley could target these big targets and do them because I loved the process. The process was the best part for me. Going for a four-year cycle, a 12-month cycle, a six-month cycle, aiming for the big goal. Because I was free. The problem comes after those big goals.

26:35What do I do? I'm in my own head. and the problem that I never really anticipated was when I retired. You know, and I got an inkling of it when I did retire. I think like, you know, how do I define myself and how do I, what's the definition of me? And it was being Sir Wiggo and an athlete and a cyclist and I didn't know how to be anything else. I didn't know what my worth was. So I took up rowing. I thought I'll go to the next Olympic Games in rowing. Because when people would say to me, what are you doing to yourself nowadays? I didn't want to say I was on the jump, you know? I didn't want to be that tragic.

27:07You know, I wanted to... I'd say, I'll take up rowing now. I'm going to try and go to the next Olympic Games. I mean, just, you know... You had no concept of the fact that you were enough. Without the cycling, you were enough. I was so institutionalised, you know. And that felt normal to me, training for a big goal. And I probably wasn't ready to let it go. But I gave that up after a while, or a year or so, and I realised I wasn't going to make the standard. And then I had to sort of start dealing with... who I am, who I am and who am I. Can I ask you about that avoidance strategy, though? Because during your career, you still have to open yourself up to people that you need to trust, that you have to believe have got your best interests at heart.

27:49How did you manage to square that circle? Well, I was very gullible as well, you know, and I believed what people said, you know, because I wasn't someone as I am now who thought for themselves much. I didn't have my own ideas of how I needed to do something. I've learned to do that and think for myself more and take control of my own sort of, you know, I'm like the CEO of my own, my athletic career. But back then, you know, Dave Brelson and Shane Sutton, they were such dominating figures, you know, even in their presence and the way they spoke to the riders. And, you know, you ended up, it was like being in a sort of, you know, in a cult in many ways, particularly with Steve Peter's intervention and the whole brain chimp theory thing, you know, that was brainwashed into us.

28:34And I thought it was a load of cobblers, to be honest. Because? I mean, I understand the science behind it, but it was not something I could adopt. You know, I wasn't that mad. I couldn't adopt this sort of chimp thing. So I fought against that. But it shows the type of, the level they were going to to get all these riders into formation, you know, and create a sort of, an excellent sort of, you know, a centre of excellence in many ways of winning, which they're trying to do at Manchester United now, you know. Did it take that though? Could they have done it in a better way? I don't know. I mean, I say this now as a normal person, eight years retired.

29:12But looking back, it served me well at that time in my life, the way I was. I would never have had the success I had without Dave and his team. I was in fear of my position a lot of the time because they would instill that fear. That was the way they got a rise out of me, particularly. Go on, what do you mean by that? Well, there was always someone else to take your position, whether it's Chris Froome in the Tour de France, whether it's, you know, Geraint Thomas on the track. My downfall at times, my naivety, was thinking we were one big happy family and, you know, I'm the team leader and there's no threat.

29:41So that, you know, that was an interesting thing when I observe now looking back. You know, I was naive at that time. And we all need different things as athletes. And I needed a father figure in my life, someone who I felt had my back in a macho way as well, not just, you know, and that was Shane Sutton. Shane Sutton knew my father when he raced with him. And Shane, from a young age, when I was 21, 22, when I met him, fell into the role of, you know, you're like the son I never had. He played a father figure for me. And I thought that that was unbreakable, you know, this bond, you know. That means, you know, I'm always going to be put first.

30:19No one's ever going to threaten me. But that was just the way he got a rise out of me. And they'd pick at people's vulnerabilities. And he did the same with Victoria Pendleton. you know and then she could understand in recent years when she talks about the with shane you know shane says i can't understand she capitulated in my arms when that when the big fallout of british cycling um and we were all manipulated in different ways um and i don't think there's any other sport that doesn't it hasn't happened like that you know i think it's genius in many ways but it does cause you long-term problems depending what you tap into and what trauma you tap into to get a rise out of an athlete and one the one i needed was security and some sort of sense of belonging and a family.

30:58And Shane and Dave gave me that. Dave was like the big brother and Shane was like the dad. But to sort of operate in a fear-based environment like that, given your background, must have started to take its toll. I'm not saying that everyone lived in that fear environment, but when I look back, that was my overriding emotion. And fear it could all be taken away. Fear I could lose my spot. So I'd better knuckle down here, you know? Fear they'll cut my salary in half if I don't pull my weight. So I became, you know, that fear drove me. And that was the fear that I had growing up on a council estate, wanting to get out of the environment I grew up in, you know, fearing it.

31:33And the bike was always a way of throwing myself further into the bike. And I had my character, the way of my makeup from childhood lent itself to me doing that. So people would say Brad was, you know, in 2012, he was like a different animal. You know, he was, people would say this now, you know, you would just, you know, you talk to him in races, he wouldn't talk back. And you would just never seen anyone as focused as that. my ex-teammates would say something like that to me in recent years. I can't imagine being like that. Because I didn't have to think about anything else in my life. I just think about the bike and I enjoyed the process, you know.

32:03You've described yourself when you were in your peak as a monster on a bike. Yeah, I felt like that, yeah. I was a dreadful person. I felt like it was, you know, it's not someone I can associate with today. You know, I think you have to be very, very selfish naturally. And you're promoted to be. You're encouraged to be very, you know, lots of narcissistic patterns of behavior. you know it's all about you and everything comes second and people always say you know you know the sacrifices are worth it aren't they and um i don't know if they are you know i just think you'd take a choice i mean it's it's it's no different to what most people do that go out and graft and you know for minimum wage and stuff like that i actually think it's a privilege to do what we did i know you know and being elite athlete etc etc i just part of me wish you know It's great hindsight, isn't it?

32:50You look back, I've got a lot more wiser now. I wish I could have, you know, know a lot more that I know now back then. But part of my vulnerability back then, flawed cat, my flawedness, you know, the way I conducted myself in interviews, etc., was why I was so good on the buying. And that was what, I suppose, you know, I was such a contradiction, you know. Do you think you'd have been successful, as successful, if you knew what you knew now? no no I think I'd have walked away from the sport a lot earlier yeah because I'd have had some realisation as to what was really important and I think you know part of having to deal with this all myself and many others Victoria's had problems you know lots of us have had problems away from the bike and sport in general that have retired that have had a lot of success is particularly in cycling there's no sort of welfare and after you know you get thanked at the end of your career and off you go into the world at 36 and I walked into that building in Manchester when I was 16 and walked out when I was 36 and, you know, they used to give me my clothing, my tracksuits, my underpants, pretty much everything, medical care, you know, and that was it.

34:01It was out into the real world. So it's a funny thing and lots of sports are like that, you know. You know, we've had many people have sat in the chair that you're sitting in now and they've said to us, the truth about being a high performer, an elite individual, a world-class athlete, the best business person there has ever been, they will always say to us, nothing comes for free. And I'm getting that sense all the time here that you had the success on the bike, but it came out of cost, and you didn't realise the cost you were going to pay until 12 months ago when you were in that dark room in that hotel.

34:35No, you know what? I saw a quote about a year ago that summed it up for me. Someone asked Mike Tyson, what does it feel like when you knock someone out? and he said it's like drugs it gives you everything you want in that moment but it takes so much more from you afterwards that's what cycling was like for me you know win olympic gold stand on the rostrum you know certainly in hampton court you know having won the tour de france 10 days before that and walking away from that rostrum as olympic champion and thinking what do i do now and having to deal with that and and how quickly were you thinking what do i do now well yeah but what do I do now there was no other thing that was ever going to top that I'd won the Tour de France how quickly afterwards were you thinking five minutes I did an interview with Matt Dawson live on Five Live and he said what's next and I said how do I top that how do I ever that was the defining moment in my career as a sports personality in this country as a cyclist you know the first man to win the Tour de France and the Olympics in the same year I can only do the same I'm never going to get London Olympics in my home in my lifetime and it was and from that day on anything that went wrong you know as my career went down maybe for the next year after that I came back and did the hour record won a world title and some other bits and pieces another Olympic gold but nothing was ever going to top that day from what it meant and you know the millions of people on the roadside that day the boom had happened in cycling you know the sun were giving out sideburns that day on the front of the newspapers you know I remember them people were cutting out I actually think I sat in the BBC Sports Studio with sideburns stuck on my head Yeah.

36:11Ridiculous. And I remember the interview that I did with you. I came up onto the balcony the night I won the Olympic gold and they were chanting my name down. And when I watch back on that now, I'm really adolescent in my demeanour. I'm like a child. And I wouldn't put the medal on. If you remember, I had the medal there on the couch. And do you remember you go, why won't you put it on? And I laid it on. I wasn't worthy of it. It was just like, oh, this medal, and I'm just this little Bradley, you know. And it's stark when I look back at that now. Is that what you were thinking? and you weren't worthy of that gold medal.

36:41Even the way, my posture and everything, I'm... Because you know what I thought at the time? I sat next to you and thought, I mean, this guy is so confident. He's so on top of the world. He's so in control of things. He doesn't even need to put on a gold medal to feel good. No, no, it was just like, I just couldn't. And it was the total opposite of that. Once I was off the bike, I was like this sort of rabbit in the headlights, you know? And so the way I'd deal with that going forward after that was to have a drink. And I thought that gave me Dutch courage, you know? And it just made me look a pratt at times, you know?

37:08Yeah, it's just, it's just funny. It's funny, you know. And, you know, hey, I've had the beauty of being able to look back at all these sorts of things, videos. I mean, if we showed a video of someone in here when, like, 12 years, this was you 12 years ago. Look at how an asshole you look, you know. You know, but, you know, on a mobile phone or something, oh, God, don't talk about that. Because we all go through that, you know. And we should change. And, you know, I'm 45 next year. And, yeah, I'm happy with where I'm at. So let me ask you this, then. Are you proud of yourself? Yes. Yeah. Could you have said that 12 months ago?

37:41No, definitely not. No, no, no, no. No, I'm proud of the person I'm becoming. I feel like a good father to my children. It's the things we do when no one's looking that really define us as people, isn't it? Can I ask you, your son Ben, he said a line to you when he intervened that started this process of recovery. Yeah, I just realised that he did a podcast this summer and said that there was times they thought they were good. It was a period he went through where they thought he was going to get a phone call and say that he'd found me dead, you know. And I was oblivious to all this. I was very good at sort of disguising the fact I was all right and things, you know.

38:18But, yeah, I mean, it's funny, isn't it? And when I go back to those times, I didn't realise just how bad I was because you always think you're all right, you know. It's only now when you look back, you realise, God. And it's a learning experience, you know. For me, it's now, it's about, I know it's incremental steps. It takes a long time to get to that position. It doesn't just happen overnight. It's the path that that, you know, it took six, seven, eight years coming into retirement, not knowing I was, you know, lack of identity. Mistake, like, confused identity as me, the person. Yeah. If you're still overpaying for wireless, it's time to say yes to saying no.

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40:58there's a real parallel here rather with the interview we did with tyson fury who described a similar experience that you had in 2012 when he won the world title and he said, I'd spent my whole life preparing to become the heavyweight champion of the world. And I'd not planned for what happened next, which precipitated his spiral. And I'm wondering, what advice would you give to, like Mark Cavendish has just announced his retirement. What would you advise anybody that they need to do that you've experienced? I haven't got any advice for it, to be honest. I mean, I spoke to Mark a fair bit. He knows what he's going to do next.

41:35I think Mark will be all right. You know, one of the things that Mark has a great skill set that will carry him well into normal life is the fact he thinks for himself, Mark. All them stage wins, he's had to think his way through that bunch. He's got a high IQ, chess player. He's a master tactician. You know, he studies every route of the Tour de France. He has to, just to get through the thing, you know. and Mark really thinks about his trade and that thought process and the way he thinks and you know he doesn't drink he's not a drinker and he's going to carry him well into the only thing that might I'm not sure where he's ever going to replace is winning a stage win in the Tour de France that win and what drives that win I think he's the most winningest cyclist in Tour de France history he'll go down as our best cyclist ever how does he replace where does he get that that hit and I was never really into I didn't really care about I loved the process and I loved you know falling to the stands of my habits and seeing progression every day in what I was doing you know because that's the big goal what are the demands of that event and working back from that and the longer the better four years two years one year and seeing are you going to need to average this amount of watts for an hour where are we at now where you were at the world championships last year this is the improvement we got to make and that's the percentage of improvement you got to make and start training towards those guys and I loved just that you know and seeing the progression then and it's like well you know we get second at a world championship and it's like well you're still a minute off the pace um if you know but you've got another 12 months look at the progress you made in six months and i loved that progress you know seeing progress was that was that was the full foot you know gave me the satisfaction in what i did but can i come back to another point you spoke about because you described the the work of steve peters and you said that it was the avoidance strategy of i'm not engaging in that and yet when we sat down with Sir Chris Hoy he spoke about he couldn't believe that anybody wouldn't engage with that in terms of coping with pressure so what was it that put you in that Chris loved that and some athletes liked it Victoria Pendleton loved that I just couldn't get my head around it and I think that was my maybe I should have been more open to that and to be fair to Steve I think when I look back now as the person I was I probably didn't want to discover things about myself that I knew deep down were there and a lot of that was there was no hiding in front of Steve in terms of, you know, I've got to go in there and knowing he's going to dissect you and your personality and would that go against me when I went out the meeting and he would say to Dave, oh, Brad's a bit fragile, you know, and I think that was a scare in itself and that was probably one of the reasons why I didn't, you know, open up and conform on that, you know, and that might have helped me be a bit more successful.

44:20It might have helped me get to some of my problems a bit earlier. I don't know. But there was definitely a way of, it was, I don't want to go and see this guy, so I'm going to rubbish his techniques and say that I don't need that. It's all rubbish because, you know, he might suss me out. So there was an element of that. I'd like to talk to you about what the future looks like now. I mean, you said you're proud of yourself and it's brilliant after the journey you've been through and the challenges that you've had for you to sit here and say you feel proud. And I think one of the things that you should feel most proud about is how you are as a dad because often the abused becomes the abuser, the bullied becomes the bully, the tormented becomes the tormentor and you've obviously not become that.

45:01What would you like to share with our audience about how you've parented and the messages that you've given your kids, particularly your son who is following in your footsteps as a cyclist so that if ever he is on the top step of a podium, he doesn't have a joy that lasts a few seconds and suddenly there's a sadness. So with my son, when he took up cycling, you know, he carried what I saw as the burden of my name on his back, you know, and the pressures that came with that and trying to have him to replicate what I did. And I took a very stance early on with him that I'm not going to get involved in your cycling.

45:34And it didn't go down well to begin with. You know, I'm his biggest fan. I'll mentor him. I'll tell him, you know, give him whenever he asks me. But I wasn't going to coach him, you know, because people would say to him, you know, like, you've got, it must be great having Bradley Wiggins as your dad. you know you've got the best coach in the world but because of what I was going through and accepting the things that happened to me in childhood the absence of my own father the dynamic that I was coming to terms with still in late 30s with my dad and how much that had affected me in adulthood it was as stark as ever and I wanted to just make sure I was I was a father to him first and foremost um because he was his hero as a kid Ben you know he'd go into school on a Monday I haven't done something the weekend and they say you know draw a picture of your family and he'd draw his mum his sister and me with the yellow jersey and a medal on.

46:17That's how he saw me, you know, and he rode down the Champs -Élysées with me when he was seven. The dynamic and what I grew up with in terms of a father, I wanted to make sure that I had that with him. So I thought it far more important to make sure he had a father figure in his life to go through this journey with him that could stick an arm around him if he did fail and he didn't make it. And it's not about being better than me, it's not about replicating what I did. He's his own person and he knows his worth. He's enough as a person for me. He surpasses me as an 18-year-old boy in his social skills and what he'll be capable.

46:50But if cycling doesn't work out for him, what he can go on to do in the world. And that's far more important. They're the things that I didn't have. But how did you feel? Because you're describing that experience of Ben drawing the picture of you being the superhero. I'm hearing the echoes of your mum making your own dad in his absence a superhero. And I'm wondering, what's the impact on you? Yeah, it's not a bad thing. I mean, you know, it's not a bad thing back then, but it's not something I wanted to live, you know, live out. To this day, you know, you must respect dad because he won the Olympics 12 years ago.

47:21You know, and in one of my darkest periods, I smashed all my trophies off the mantelpiece because it's like, what are these things doing up here? You know, I threw my sports personality one out, my knighthood. The things that came with, you know, external validation that you were great because I had a real issue with, you know, the things I'd achieved that that meant that I had a hierarchical position in the household as to what team success was and I was trying to make the point in the worst possible way off my head that this means nothing it's just junk you know and it was various you know events like that but the thing with Ben is he knows what his self-worth is as a person you know and I think first and foremost before cycling you know take cycling away from him the definition of him as a person is what's most important.

48:09And me, the dad now, the definition of me as a dad, not because I won the Tour de France Olympics and I can get away with murder and be entitled for the rest of my life. Do you know who I am, you know, and feel like I can walk through life living off the back of 2012. That's far more important. And we both know each other's worth. So if I ask you now, who are you? What answer do you give? I'm Bradley, yeah. I'm the person I've always been, you know, in many ways. I've just grown. that person's finally grown inside now. I'm still the same person on the outside, but I've grown within, you know? And we're supposed to grow.

48:43But you told us that you grew up with a dad that was feared, respected and revered. What sort of father has Ben and your daughter grown up with? Yeah, they've took more pictures of people in public with me than most people, you know? When we go out, you know, do you mind just taking a picture of me and your dad? I always do a Northern accent when I say that. It all seems to be a Northerner. but yeah it's just that they've grown up their dad's been you know as long as they can remember a celebrity in that sense or famous but apart from the you know the articles where I'm in the newspaper standing outside a pub smoking and stuff in my worst years they're they're not the things that I look back and think that's that makes you proud but the things I've been doing in recent years you know the things that the person I'm becoming the person I'm I'm I'm presenting that I want to be that gives me fulfillment is, you know, and this far down now, 12 years after 2012, five times Olympic champion, winner of the Tour de France, you know, someone that they can, yeah, who's had a, you know, was at the top of his game for a long, long time, you know.

49:43How would you like them to describe you as a dad though? Just enough. We all just want to be enough. You know, I've got my faults and I haven't been there for them at times. But, you know, it's... There's no time like the present to start being the person you want to be. And I think, you know, they're 20. My daughter was 18 last week. My son's 20 next year. You know, if they turn around after 20 years and say you've been great, you know, as a fundamental over, you know, I think you've done all right. But they've had a great mum as well. You know, she's been through her issues and stuff and she's been by their side, you know, most of the way and I think it's been great.

50:22I want to talk to you about the importance of personal relationships. It was unsurprising that the press gleefully jumped on the story recently about your financial troubles, right? They love a bit of that in this country. And from what I understand, it was about trusting people when maybe you shouldn't have done it. Oh, yeah, yeah. I mean, I got fleeced left, right and centre by XIX Entertainment. It's funny, I was watching the Amy Winehouse film the other night and they're on that. And, you know, money's never really defined me or been my main priority life. I wish it had been at times. there was a lot of changes within tax laws and things and and timing of me winning in 2012 and things and i had professionals that were you know bending the books and doing all sorts and while you were still cycling oh i was riding up too busy running up bloody climbs and stuff you know and yeah it's just and and and you're i was becoming you know up to 2012 and you know they were exploiting my name left right center trademarks and image rights and and i'm just busy concentrating and riding my bike and thinking everyone's got your best interests at heart, you know, and it's just, you get 10 years down the line, you realise that, you know, you were just a pawn in everyone's game, but there was a lot of professional negligence and there's lots of cases going to be happening going forward where I'll get a lot of that back, fortunately.

51:37So it was, but it's been a, you know, it's been a learning curve from that point of view as to what... And what have you learned, particularly about trusting people? I mean, I love your relationship with Lance Armstrong. I think that's pretty special. Have I read that right? Yeah, yeah. You know, Lance is, he's helped me a lot in recent years, more so this year. You know, we talk about therapy. He wants to pay for me to go to one, this big place in Atlanta, I think it is, where you go and stay for a week, they take the phone off you and Lance was going to fund that for me. He was, you know, he's a good man, you know.

52:11Yeah, he did what he did. It's not to condone what he did. We all know that, you know, but it's a bit disproportionate to what some people get away with in this world. and Lance has got five children. He's married. And he's got a heart under there somewhere. But he's also got an ego the size of a house, don't get me wrong. He's not the only one. Come on. The ego is why he won seven tours. Well, he didn't. Well, he did. Who knows? So spotting your avoidance strategy and you've got one of your heroes and a friend offering you a route to our access to support. Yeah. What's your response to him then?

52:46Straight away, I don't need help. Yeah. It's like, how dare you? No, I don't. Yeah. But thanks for the offer, like. But that was six months ago, five months ago now. And I've actually considered speaking to him this week and going, you know, that offer's still on the table, aren't you? Not in a northern accent, obviously, but I don't want to do that. But isn't it great, though, that even in those five months, you've developed change and things have happened? I think the big part of that is I wanted to get back to a semblance of order myself. Yeah. Thinking there's something about you. Now, if you can come back from that yourself without sitting down with someone and then them being the reason you got back, you know, that bloke saved his life, you know.

53:20Now I know what I want to talk to you about because now I've got much more of an idea about my behaviour patterns that I'm left with and what drives me and where do they come from and knowing what I want to talk about. I didn't want to just go in there and go, sort me out, you know. So I've got a lot more understanding about like the intricacies of me and the things, you know, that I do on a daily basis that have come from somewhere. the way I talk to myself when I drop something on the floor or I spill something on my shirt. I mean, if you want to hear the language I use towards myself. But what do you say to yourself?

53:53I mean... It's all right. Yeah. You c***. You know, it's just that. I know where that comes from. That comes from childhood. My stepdad used to say it all the time to me. But I knocked that glass, you f***ing clumsy arsehole. You know, and I was just always just that. And that was grilled in me. And I've just recognised this week that I do that. The way I talk to myself. And I spoke to myself on the bike like that lots, you know. You know, talking about therapy and talking about what your future looks like, a man that you shared the track with and the team with, Sir Chris Hoy, has had, you know, the news that none of us would want, which is a terminal cancer diagnosis.

54:28I think a reminder to you and to all of us, right, that while we're here, we deserve to do everything we can to make the most of these days. Yeah, I mean, that hit everyone quite hard, that. And those of us that know Chris know what an absolute gentleman he is. What a heart of gold. And it happens to the, you know, the worst things happen to the best people. And he truly is a great, great person. And, you know, I spent all my Olympic career with Chris when we were young. I remember sitting in dope control with him in Athens where we both won gold. He won the first night, I won the second night.

55:01And he was sat there in dope control and he just won the kilometre. And he's going, do you want to touch my medal? And I says, no, Chris, I'm going to try and win mine tomorrow night. I thought it'd give me bad luck. And he was the first person who congratulated me when I won mine in Athens he came across the pen and then when I won my fifth in Rio he was there with Steve Redgrave at BBC interview and it's tragic it really is and he's one of our greatest in many ways not just on the bike because I think what he's doing and the way he's handled it is going to help a lot of people and his lasting legacy is going to be infinite yeah time for some quickfire questions to round off our conversation

55:44I'm so interested in how different these will be to the answers you would have given a few years ago but as we sit here today what do you believe are the three non-negotiable behaviours that are most important to you at this stage in your life? Now, one that I've just learned in the last two weeks is accountability, you know, to tell the truth people say I'm an honest person all the time but to really tell the truth, be honest with yourself And I don't mean for, you know, malevolent reasons, any like that, just on a daily basis, you know. It's much easier to address things that you pursue. Or for me, being an avoidant, create short-term peace, but ultimately not the problem down the road.

56:31So that's one, you know, true honesty to tell the truth with myself on a daily basis. And the third one is never forget the past. And people say that you need to forget the past and focus on the future. I think the past has been the biggest thing that's helped reform me. Is looking back, but what I have to do is not living the past, but change my relationship with the past. Because lots of people say, I can't think about that period of my life. That was just horrible. I do, because that is the lesson where I learned there. And I changed my relationship with it. It's happened. and that comes from cycling as well in many ways, you know.

57:09The disappointment of a race. You have to address it. You have to think what went wrong. What could I have done different? You know, it was the most disappointing race of my life because I got second and I should have won it. But we have to dissect that because it's the only way we'll move forward. And that's the same one I've adopted in my life. What advice would you give to a young Bradley just starting out? The thing I've learned the most probably is not everyone who helps you is your friend and not everyone who hurts you is your enemy, you know. they all come in all different shapes and sizes.

57:37And you've got to know yourself. People say it's very easy to get manipulated and people get one over on you. It's not if you know who you are, know what you want and ask the right questions. If you're out there focusing an extreme focus on something else, you pay people to handle that for you. You don't want to be seen if the mortgage is paid when you're out doing six hours. So there is an element of having to trust the people around you and stuff. But it is what it is. What does high performance mean to you? High performance for me is discipline, really. Yeah. And not rising to the level of your goals, but falling to the level of your habits on a daily basis.

58:14And that is a process. Because, you know, you say, I'm going to focus on the Olympics, next Olympic Games in LA. I've got three years. And so you go out all super motivated for six months and then fall off the wagon. Because motivation plays a very small part in having to go out and do something on a daily basis. And it's discipline. discipline is um is everything you know consistency dealing with disappointments through a process creating habits along the way where you're getting up and just doing it second nature without thinking about it you don't think god i'm not motivated i can't need some motivation to get out today you just go out because you have to do it because it's part of the plan yeah what's your biggest trend and your greatest weakness probably my self-awareness when i'm you know the the contributing things that go into that self-awareness because we can all be very self-aware and delude ourselves and justify things find things for justify why we're thinking in a certain way yeah but as i say just learned in recent weeks um true self-awareness and at times it's manifested in different ways people say you're too hard on yourself you know you're too self-deprecating you're too you know you should be proud of what you've done because i've i've been quite brutal in my analysis self-analysis at times in the past it sounds like you're not very proud of what you've done and it's not now i mean you know i've had to go through those brutal parts of myself to really dissect where I am.

59:29But we're all self-aware, just in different ways, you know. And your biggest weakness? My biggest weakness is probably the level of what I'm capable of and what I've achieved in the past. So at the moment, as I say, I'm trying to fall to the level of my habits because it's, you know, what do you want to do in five years' time? I would pitch for the stars, you know. And at the moment, I'm just trying to keep some consistency. an opportunity i'm not sure what i want to but i know where i want to be as a person and i think we reflect um we you know we we things come to you by nature of the fact of the person you're being at that time the opportunities that arise like this you know you wouldn't have had me on here if i was you know drinking and smoking and in the papers lot and you know controversy and stuff you know because i've obviously got something to contribute to a conversation around high performance and and having had been on some journey so so that tells me in the right direction so yeah there's lots of things like that but I think that I've got to just keep doing what I'm doing at the moment and a goal will present itself whatever that is and I think that might not be something that's on the radar at the moment talking about some of the issues I'm talking about opportunities have arose from some of those that I never imagined or that I never started talking about because I imagined an opportunity like that would arise so it's very interesting you create different avenues for yourself by being the best version of yourself And that plays nicely into our final question, which is the thing you'd like to leave ringing in the ears of our audience that are listening or watching this conversation around the world, which is your one golden rule for living a high performance life.

1:01:04If there's something that they could take from you right now, what would you like it to be?

1:01:12Discipline. I mean, it's discipline is everything for me, you know, routine, not searching for happiness. I think there's this misconception that, you know, I just want to be happy you know i've been like that in the past um happiness is a short-term emotion you know and it can come and go but fulfillment um fulfillment is is is something that really i've learned is far more important because you can be doing something and it's not a happy period you know going through whatever you're going through but you're having to deal with it and it's not necessarily the most ideal sort of in terms of being happy but i realized that the benefits of me getting up every day having ticked another box a bit like training you know i have to take all the all the great skills i had from training and going for a process and apply them into my daily life nights like tonight you know we got here they said would you like a bottle of wine before we start i don't drink anymore because i make better decisions you know i've got a better thought process i i used to have to drink like this to come out in front of a room for a view because i thought i was introvert and i took my anxiety away actually added to my anxiety you know um And from that, I think I find myself stepping up the ladder daily.

1:02:19So, yeah. Listen, Bradley, it's been such a pleasure to sit and have this conversation for an hour. You know, whether you've understood it at the time, hopefully you do now, you gave true joy to millions of people throughout your career. And I think the great thing about The Last Hour is that finally you're someone that is finding joy in your own life, contentment in your own life. And I think I'll speak for everyone in the room when I say we're excited about what the future looks like for you. because you're a man who's exploring. And I think when you're exploring, you find incredible things.

1:02:47So on behalf of all of us. Thank you very much. Best of luck. Thank you. Thank you for listening.

1:02:55Damien. Jake. Uplifting and heartbreaking in equal measure. I think it's a great reminder that Bradley is doing something that I think so many people are doing, which is using a job or a career or something in their lives to dull the pain or to mask the issues they've got going on. And it's only when that falls away that the truth really comes out. And I would urge anyone who listened to that and thought, man, my story is different but similar, to reach out and seek help now while they can. Yeah, definitely. That's the one thing that I hope that comes out of our conversation with Brad, that he starts to reflect that avoidance strategy of not allowing anybody in through his armour is something that he can relax a little bit and get some help.

1:03:38I think he gets that now, doesn't he? I sense there was a moment in the conversation where he realised that his dismissal of getting access to the team psychiatrist in British Cycling was part of his avoidance strategy because he didn't want them to explore some of his hidden demons. But recognising now that that really kind offer of Lance Armstrong to pay for him to go into therapy is something that maybe he can feel secure enough to go and explore because he's done so much incredible work by his own self-analysis. of trying to uncouple some of these demons and what's driven him. I think he can only help him to get even more professional support.

1:04:18Yeah. You know, for a long time, I've heard people talk about trauma leads to triumph or post-traumatic growth and all that. And I've sort of understood that it's a real thing because so many people talk about it, but I didn't really understand how it happens. But to hear Bradley saying to us, towards the end when he said, oh, you've got to hear the way I talk to myself. And then when he goes, oh, I did that on the bike up every climb, it reminded me that on every climb in the tour, I was just swearing at myself and being horrendous to myself. Those are the things that he was hearing as a kid.

1:04:46He's repeating back to himself. He's basically kind of almost abusing himself all over again, right, with those same messages. And what did it do? It pushed him on. It pushed him up those hills. It helped to win him the tour. It helped to win him all those medals and have all those victories. And it's the first time that for me as someone who hasn't been through that level of trauma as a young person, I really can understand, right, you're literally linking, you know, awful messaging and abusive moments in your life to victory and success. You can see it so clearly there. He's used it as a fuel that has been incredible for him.

1:05:23It's propelled him to an incredible first half of his life. But I think now he can set himself up for an even better second part of his life by being willing to recognize that these unconscious patterns can be broken. And I think, you know, he started to break that cycle himself in terms of being present for his own children, you know, being the father that he didn't have, you know, being the positive influence on them. And I think that should give him plenty of inspiration for he can break even more patterns and allow himself to go and enjoy his achievements, but actually go and have a really fruitful second half of his life.

1:06:01Yeah, go and enjoy it with a smile on your face. Thanks, Damien. Yeah, thanks, mate. That was a real privilege, that one. And that's it for today's show. A huge thanks to Bradley for joining us on what is arguably one of the most moving conversations we've ever had on this podcast. Big thanks too to our wonderful friends at Fora for collaborating with us for the event. They're the wonderful people who provide us with our studio space in central London. And of course, a big thanks to you, the biggest thanks actually to you for continuing to listen to High Performance. Don't forget, if you want to watch this episode, then you can do so on the High Performance app.

1:06:33and we'll see you again soon for plenty more from High Performance.

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