How to Achieve Financial Freedom, with Eoin McGee

31 Jan 2026 · 1 h 3 min · 31 chapters

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The Mario Rosenstock Podcast: Episode Summary

Episode Title

How to Achieve Financial Freedom, with Eoin McGee

Episode Description In this episode, Mario Rosenstock interviews Eoin McGee, a renowned financial advisor, TV presenter, and author of "How to Achieve Financial Freedom – Create Enough Wealth to Stop Working." The discussion delves into financial independence, attitudes towards money in Ireland, personal anecdotes from Eoin’s childhood, and the importance of living in the moment.

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Key Themes

  1. Concept of Financial Freedom
  2. Traditional View: Previously seen as working for the same employer for 40 years and retiring to leisure.
  3. Modern View: Involves having enough wealth from various sources to have choices rather than worrying about money.
  1. Attitudes Toward Money in Ireland
  2. Eoin addresses that the Irish view of money is less healthy compared to countries like the USA.
  3. He highlights the cultural difference where success is celebrated in the US, whereas failure often leads to shame in Ireland.
  1. Personal Anecdote
  2. Eoin shares a story from his childhood about his father's health struggles and how it influenced his decision to become a financial advisor.
  1. Importance of Work and Retirement
  2. Discussion on how working beyond traditional retirement age can increase life expectancy and provide a sense of purpose.
  3. Eoin suggests continuously finding interests outside of work from an early age to ensure fulfillment.

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Financial Insights

  1. Money Management
  2. A significant amount of money sits idly in bank accounts, earning minimal interest (up to €160 billion in Ireland).
  3. Eoin emphasizes the concept of making money work for you through investments instead of keeping it stagnant.
  1. Financial Independence and Happiness
  2. Balance: Importance of enjoying the present while planning for the future; happiness is tied to experiences and relationships, not just material wealth.
  3. Gratitude: Recognizing and appreciating what you have can lead to contentment.
  1. Compound Interest
  2. Eoin discusses the magic of compound interest and how it can significantly grow savings over time, illustrating this with a hypothetical investment scenario involving child benefit savings.

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Practical Financial Tips

  • Five-Year Rule: If you need the money within five years, keep it in a savings account. If not, invest it for better returns.
  • Conversations About Money: Encourages open discussions about finances among friends and family to break the taboo surrounding financial health.

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Social Commentary

  • Eoin reflects on how mental health discussions have become more accepted in society, suggesting that financial conversations need to evolve similarly.
  • He highlights the stigma attached to discussing financial struggles in Ireland, drawing parallels with other societal issues like mental health and estrangement.

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Closing Thoughts In this episode, Mario Rosenstock and Eoin McGee provide an engaging conversation about achieving financial freedom while also emphasizing the importance of personal fulfillment, relationships, and self-awareness. They encourage listeners to take proactive steps in managing their finances and to foster open discussions about money.

Contact Information Listeners are invited to reach out to Mario Rosenstock for feedback or suggestions at [mario_rosenstock@gmail.com](mailto:mario_rosenstock@gmail.com).

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The Modern Concept of Financial Freedom

0:45 to 1:40

Discussion on how financial freedom has evolved from traditional job structures to a focus on choice and wealth creation.

“and he was always a great man for having a laugh and expressing a strong opinion too.”

Personal Stories and Money Attitudes in Ireland

1:40 to 3:00

Eoin shares personal experiences and insights on Irish attitudes towards money and financial independence.

“The biggest mistake we see is people work hard for their money but their money doesn't work hard for them.”

The Impact of Working Longer

3:00 to 4:10

Exploration of how working longer can positively affect life expectancy and personal fulfillment.

“As today, even Bono has come out publicly with a statement asking for the rain to pause so that people can be allowed to stand down their umbrellas once and for all.”

Retirement Myths and Realities

4:10 to 5:00

Challenging traditional views of retirement and discussing the importance of purpose and engagement in life after work.

“The weather outside of Fosok Now it's competition time Maura Which famous tribunal Started in the 90s?”

Defining Financial Independence

5:00 to 6:20

Understanding financial independence beyond just wealth, focusing on lifestyle choices and values.

“These employees at Google's headquarters in Dublin don't seem to mind.”

Money Management and Freedom

6:20 to 7:40

Discussion on controlling spending and its relationship to achieving financial freedom.

“I'm in Mullingar Arts Centre on the 21st of February.”

Finding Balance Between Today and Tomorrow

7:40 to 9:10

Emphasizing the need to enjoy the present while planning for future financial independence.

“But that was traditionally, you just swaned off into the sunset and you never worked again.”

Anecdotes on Financial Aspirations

9:10 to 10:40

Sharing humorous anecdotes about people's unrealistic financial dreams and aspirations.

“has become bogus I mean in a way I remember even the idea back in the 70s you were an old man when you were 40 and people used to say ah don't worry about it Life begins at 40, but you're going to die next year.”

The Balance of Spending and Enjoyment

14:01 to 14:36

Learn about the importance of balancing spending and enjoying life today.

“to being financially free are the luxuries we like in life.”

Experiences Over Material Wealth

14:37 to 16:46

Discover why experiences are more valuable than material possessions.

“I'm not actually sure, but you've seen loads of pictures of 2016.”
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The Impact of Sudden Wealth

16:47 to 20:25

Understand the emotional consequences of sudden wealth on personal relationships.

“And it was January, February, blues on steroids.”

The Grief of Changed Lives

20:26 to 23:19

Explore the grief and changes that come with unexpected financial windfalls.

“And what I've established to be the problem here is their life has changed forever.”

The Journey to Happiness

23:20 to 26:04

Learn why striving and enjoying the journey is crucial for happiness.

“I just do not fancy myself on a jet ski for more than 10 minutes.”

Redefining Happiness and Contentment

26:05 to 28:00

Examine the deeper meanings of happiness and contentment in life.

“There's also, this is to take it slightly into a more philosophical level, but I'm sure you've come across this yourself.”

Finding Happiness and Contentment

28:00 to 28:40

The speaker reflects on happiness and the importance of contentment in life.

“Well, it was probably at a time when I was really struggling, right?”

Life Lessons from Down Syndrome

28:40 to 31:00

Sharing personal experiences of raising a child with Down syndrome and the lessons learned.

“Other people will have, and particularly parents of kids with Downs or adults with Downs.”

The Value of Gratitude

31:00 to 32:10

Discussing the importance of gratitude and appreciating life's simple joys.

“to be able to get up out of bed, to be able to walk down to the kitchen, to be able to drive or take a bus or be independent.”

Overcoming Financial Insecurity

32:10 to 34:20

A personal story about financial insecurity stemming from a father's health issues and the lessons learned.

“And did that, there was certain financial insecurity there.”

The Impact of Financial Planning

34:20 to 36:50

Explaining the significance of financial planning and how it benefited his family.

“But if you are going to engage with a financial planner and you want to read this book, you're going to be better informed about engagement with a financial planner.”

Connecting with the Audience

36:50 to 39:20

Exploring the joy of engaging with an audience through various platforms.

“I said it to you and I could see you get a sparkle before we started here.”

Reflections on Live Performances

39:20 to 42:00

Sharing experiences and insights gained from performing live and connecting with audiences.

“Sorry, and I put it up on Instagram the first day I did the first one in the lime tree in Limerick.”

Reflecting on Family Influences

42:00 to 43:40

Learn about the impact of family dynamics and experiences on personal growth.

“I remember sitting on the bench, hadn't been on it in a year.”

Cultural Attitudes Towards Money

43:40 to 46:10

Explore the differences in how money conversations are approached in Ireland vs. the US.

“My mother was a therapist, so a family therapist.”

The Importance of Discussing Finances

46:10 to 48:50

Understand the need to normalize conversations about money to break societal taboos.

“In Ireland they go, someday I'm going to get that guy.”

Breaking the Financial Taboo

48:50 to 50:20

Learn how discussing money openly can foster a supportive community and understanding.

“the only way we're breaking the taboo about finances is to talk about it, right?”

Investing for the Future

50:20 to 53:10

Discover practical investment tips and the power of compound interest for financial growth.

“But people do talk about that now, you know.”

Unlocking Potential in Savings

53:10 to 56:02

Understand the importance of utilizing savings in productive investments to generate wealth.

“And that's 160 billion which isn't working.”

The Power of Compound Interest

56:02 to 57:18

Learn how compound interest can significantly grow wealth over time.

“1 % of his current wealth he had at the age of 50 and he's in his mid-90s now.”

Tax Implications on Investments in Ireland

57:18 to 58:04

Understand the tax rates on investment gains and their impact on savings.

“What I think, there's lower hanging fruit than restructuring the whole thing.”

Maintaining Confidentiality in Financial Services

58:04 to 1:01:26

Explore the importance of confidentiality in financial advisory and client trust.

“But the other thing is there's a thing called deemed disposal.”

Reflections on Financial Freedom

1:01:26 to 1:02:22

Insights on achieving financial freedom and the broader implications of money.

“I was just seeing Mario's account there.”
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Transcript

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0:00Coming up on this episode of the Mario Rosenstock podcast. Traditionally, financial freedom or financial independence would have been the concept, work for the same person for 40 years, stop working one day, and then go play golf. You just swaned off into the sunset and you never worked again. Financial freedom now is more got to do with choices. It's about the concept of getting, reaching a day in your life where you've created enough wealth from all sources that you don't have to work again, you don't have to worry about money.

0:35Owen McGee is one of Ireland's best-known financial advisors, and he's also someone I've got to know a little bit over the last few years. He used to join me regularly on Mario's Sunday roast on Today FM, and he was always a great man for having a laugh and expressing a strong opinion too. His latest book is called How to Achieve Financial Freedom, Create Enough Wealth to Stop Working. And I reckon it's going to be very popular. I mean, who wouldn't want to know how to do that? But as you're about to hear, there's a little bit more to it than just making lots of money. And Owen shares some great advice about how we could all take more control of our wallets and become a lot more financially independent as a result.

1:10But we also talk about other stuff. We talk about our attitudes to money in Ireland in general and why it isn't particularly healthy, certainly compared to other places like the United States. He shares a very personal story from his childhood about a difficult situation that made him want to become a financial advisor. And we talk about the importance of being in the moment, why working longer can be better than retirement and lots, lots more. We have 160 billion sitting in bank accounts right now. Not working at all. It's a 2%. It's our crappy interest rates. The biggest mistake we see is people work hard for their money but their money doesn't work hard for them.

1:45In the States, if you succeed, it's well done. You get a pat on the back. If you fail, you get a pat on the back and say, you're going to learn from that. Get up off your ass. You're going to do better the next day. Get drunk at the weekend and get up on Monday and start a new company. And go again. And there's no shame in failure. Whereas here, there is. but I was standing in the hall in the court and there's people who are maybe a little bit down on their luck or on the wrong side of the law and you're kind of, there's a varying range of people in the hall waiting to go into the court to see the judge so I kind of, you could see him looking at me and he kind of come over and he says you're a man off the telly aren't you?

2:16and I said yeah yeah that's right, that's right can I just ask you something? I said yeah, you know when you're going for a house and you're getting a mortgage? I said yeah, did I ask you where you got the deposit?

2:31But first, what are we all talking about at the moment? What can we not stop talking about? That's right. Ah, the weather. The bleeding weather. Irish people talking about the weather. It's a perfect storm of conversation, isn't it? And that's what we're talking about. All week long. Is it ever going to stop? Everyone is talking about the rain and the floods. Tonight on Primetime, as the relentless rain and flooding continues throughout Ireland, And we ask, when will it all end? As today, even Bono has come out publicly with a statement asking for the rain to pause so that people can be allowed to stand down their umbrellas once and for all.

3:11In studio, I'm joined by Simon Harris. Hi, Miriam. Come here, Simon Harris, what measures are the government taking? Well, Miriam, I want to be very clear about this. We have taken immediate action and I have appointed myself minister for floods. You? Minute floods? As well as temporary head of the Road Safety Association. Hang on, you're already tarnished the Minister for Finance and Chairman of the Wicklow Tidy Towns Committee. What do you know about extreme weather? So I have thought about that, Miriam. That's why I've also appointed myself Interim Head of Met, Erin. What? Now, if you look at the screen to my right, from 0600 hours to 800 hours, Mallonhead to Mizzinhead, as you can see, there is a complex Atlantic low weather system forming.

3:47978 hectopascals rising slowly. Belmont, south to southeast wind. Visibility moderate or poor. 815 millibars falling slowly. Harris head to loop head South West veering 4-6-8 Isobar slackening What are you talking about Simon? I have a debris But it'll make a great post On Instagram The current weather Is dominating the airwaves Welcome back to the Today Show folks The weather outside of Fosok Now it's competition time Maura Which famous tribunal Started in the 90s? Was it A? The Sunny Tribunal Was it B, the Hailstones Tribunal Or C, the Flood Tribunal Oh, that's really difficult, don't I? Really tricky As a nation, at times like this, we're all glued to the news The flooding is particularly bad in Westmead But that still didn't stop Enoch Burke For turning up this morning at Wilson's Hospital in a canoe I have a constitutional right to be here Get him, Sergeant!

4:53I'm puddling as fast as I can, Chief Very slippery, Chief Widespread flooding has meant people have had to come up with novel ways of getting to work. These employees at Google's headquarters in Dublin don't seem to mind. Yeah, it's actually quite handy, actually finally getting a bit of use out of the old jet skis. Yeah, the jet skis from Baymarion into Barrow Street is only 12 minutes. Did you see Sinjin rocked up this morning on the old George C. Scott? What? He murred the yoke right up outside Paddy Cullen's boozer. Splendid. The bad news is we haven't seen the end of it yet. The good news is...

5:28That's right, folks. Welcome to the Late Late Show Flood Special. Coming up tonight, we celebrate the lifetimes and career of the great Teresa Mannion. Stay right here and don't take any unnecessary journeys. Ha-ha! Starting on the Late Late Show.

6:00I'm brand new comedy every week on the Mario Rosenstock podcast. And of course, you can contact me directly. Mario Rosenstock at gmail.com. Contact me with anything you want at all. Comments about the show, suggestions for guests, suggestions for sketches, constructive criticism, or just heap me with praise if you want to. Also, I'm on tour for four gigs only this spring. I'm in Mullingar Arts Centre on the 21st of February. I'm in the Black Box in Galway which is just about sold out on the 28th of February I'm in Lime Tree Limerick on the 7th of March and I'm in the Dean Crow Theatre at Lone on the 17th of April all the tickets are gone for nearly all for all those dates but I think there are some available at Venue Box Office wherever you may be thanks to you for listening of course and tell one other person about this project but listen it's time now to get over to the Go Loud studio where financial planner Owen McGee is standing by and ready to share how we can become financially independent and it's certainly not the first time that Owen and I have shared a studio Okay Owen thanks great to see you again Great to see you You used to come on the Sunday roast years ago What a great morning I used to actually really enjoy that I like the kind of you didn't know where it was going to take you you didn't know what was going to happen you were obviously talking about stuff about the week but then it would end up being something about your life or my life or the other person's life whoever you were sharing with Yeah and you were a fairly regular commentator on it and you've written your new book which is How to Achieve Financial Freedom Now, obviously, you have not achieved financial freedom yet as you are standing and sitting here.

7:28Interestingly enough, no, you've got it now. This is where it's changed. Traditionally, financial freedom or financial independence, kind of interchangeable, would have been the concept, work for the same person for 40 years, stop working one day and then go play golf or read the paper every morning. And have a heart attack the next year. Yeah, probably. Yeah, that's probably what happened. There's a reason behind that as well. But that was traditionally, you just swaned off into the sunset and you never worked again. Financial freedom now is more got to do with choices. It's got to do with, and particularly in the last 15 years, it's changed a lot.

7:56I've seen it in private practice change a lot, where it's about the concept of getting, reaching a day in your life where you've created enough wealth from all sources that you don't have to work again, you don't have to worry about money. Okay? Now, beyond that point, if you decide to work, you're going to work because you want to, not because you need to. So if you think about it, I've had people who have reached financial independence, they've hated their job, they get to financial independence, and three months later, they're still in their job. And I'm saying, are you still working away? Yeah, why?

8:23It's like what you said, I'm working as I want to and not because I need to. And I drive home in the evening after a really bad day and I ask myself genuinely, do I want to go in tomorrow? And I keep choosing to go in. But also it gives people the freedom to say, you know what? I always wanted to take my skills in the corporate world and apply them to that charity. Or I wanted to, some people have actually in recent, only in very recent times, I'd love to be a librarian. I know someone else who wants to be a postman, right? And they're a post person, is that what we call them, Mario? and the concept is it's not about just getting to a point that you never work again it's about getting to a point where you've total freedom over your finances to allow you to do whatever it is you want to do and also I think the whole idea of well one word you didn't mention there yet is retirement and the whole idea of retirement now has become bogus I mean in a way I remember even the idea back in the 70s you were an old man when you were 40 and people used to say ah don't worry about it Life begins at 40, but you're going to die next year.

9:25Right? Right. So 40 was old. Yeah. And people looked old when they were 40. Remember, they do these things on Instagram now and things of people back when they were 40 in 1982, when they're 40 in 2026. Yeah. And they did look old. They looked way older than we look. Yeah. And they retired. And retirement was seen as an aspiration. It was seen like, I'm nearly there. I'm on the race and I'll be there and I'll get retired. I'm going to retire when I'm 63, but I might retire when I'm 59. get another four years out of it typically what happens is they hit the golf course and have a coronary a coronary a year later because because they lost purpose they lost meaning and purpose you're absolutely right in fact the research shows us that for every year beyond normal retirement age we work our life expectancy increases by 11 % yeah now there's a couple of different things that's a very interesting statistic yeah there is a couple of things playing into that statistic so if there's a statistician listening to this they'll pull it apart and say but I think just leave it alone as it is that's the stat 11 % we could get into it but it doesn't I think the huge portion of that and I've counselled lots of clients through this over the years where let's just take your traditional your very traditional 40 years in the job and you leave and you put everything into that job and three weeks later nobody has rang you and said the place is burning down without you what do we do so you're sitting at home scratching your head going why did I let that thing keep me awake at 2 in the morning the thing just functions without me so it's that kind of and then you question lots of things about the decisions you've made in life.

10:51And that's why we always encourage, like, and people say, oh, you encourage about it, like kind of 59, planning to retire at 60, practicing retirement. No, you need to practice your retirement from your 30s, from your 40s. You need to start trying to figure out outside of my work, what it is that I enjoy in life. Yeah, exactly. And investing in that. And spending time. And some money. Absolutely. And making sure that you can, but there is another problem with that. Like we've mentioned the golf course, right? There's a problem with that. When you go from working away and getting out to the golf course once a week, or maybe if you're really lucky twice a week, right?

11:24And you're exceptionally lucky or getting out a couple of times. When that moves from your hobby to stopping work and now golf becomes your job, it can strip a lot of the joy out of it. Because now all you have is your... So you need to make sure you've got a couple of different things going on in your life. But ultimately, I put a lot of research into this book because this is a step beyond just kind of... Look, for me, of course, money is important, right? But the only reason we should spend any time or energy trying to get our money sorted out is so that it can support the life we want to have.

11:56The money actually isn't important. It's what the money can do for us. And when you say the life we want to have, do you mean the life... Let's pin that down more. Is it the life we want to have when we're daydreaming and watching the lotto ad and we want to build a water fountain outside our apartment. I've never seen anybody with money do that, by the way. What the hell is your man doing? He wins six million, right? And he goes, yeah, fulfill all my dreams. He builds a water slide outside his apartment. What an idiot. It goes through a sitting room. But I think the point of that ad, to be fair, is do whatever you want.

12:34Yeah, but what I'm saying is, is your point that enough financial freedom to do what you would like to do, Is that realistically in your own mind's eye or is it a kind of an aspiration to be rich? No, sorry. Rich is, it's an interesting one when you talk about rich because it's not, it's about a good financial plan. Has you reaching financial independence as early as possible in life, but not to the detriment of today? You have to enjoy today. We may not have tomorrow. Can somebody be financially independent, but yet still have to work? No not necessarily Sorry we could all be Financially independent Technically we could all be Me and you could be Financially independent right now And I know nothing About your finances right But you could be Financially independent right now And not know it Is one thing Because nobody's ever done The maths and figured out How much is enough But also Practically everybody If they could pull together A couple of grand And they were willing to Move to some Random place And live off the land Yeah if you wanted to Live in Uganda Yes If you wanted to sell your house In Dublin Yeah And liquidate anywhere between four, 900 ,000 euro or whatever or above, you could go to Uganda.

13:44But not even that. With about 10 grand you could go to, you said Uganda, I'm going to say outer Mongolia because that's what we all said as a kid. I don't know. Outer Mongolia. You just go to somewhere in the forest somewhere and set up and you were financially free because you live off the land, right? And you don't need to charge your phone, right? So the thing that, the chains that hold us to being financially free are the luxuries we like in life. And some of them are necessities in a modern world, but they're the luxuries. So technically, it's not really about how much money you have in retirement.

14:14It's how much money you spend. That's actually the key to it. And most of us can't control how much money we earn. Most of us. But all of us can control how much we spend once we get beyond the basic needs. So what I would say is is that it is when you're talking about reaching financial independence and getting joy from life, you have to get that balance right between someday I'm going to be doing this all the time and making sure you're enjoying enough of it today. And if you think about it, I don't know if you're following the trend on social media where, kind of show me a picture of you in 2016 and people were showing a picture of themselves 10 years ago and a picture of them today.

14:45Or what were you doing in 2016? I'm not actually sure, but you've seen loads of pictures of 2016. Like if I really challenge you now, right, I'd say you could think about stuff that happened to you in your life, experiences you had in and around 2016. Okay? You don't need to share them. But I bet you you can't tell me what iPhone you had. I bet you maybe you might be able to tell me what car you had. but I bet you you can tell me about the experiences but you can't tell me about the things you had then okay and one of the things I find and we're lucky enough we get lots of lotto winners we get lots of people who sell their business we get lots of people who inherit money or come into money suddenly and one of the things they learn very quickly is money is not life isn't about money it's about time it's about and how you spend your time not how you spend your money there was an amazing piece of research that was done by Harvard it's a longitudinal study don't ask me to say that again because I always struggle with it and I got it out that time right but it was a big long study right over a very long period I think it's over 80 years they followed a whole the same group of people the whole way up I think one of the Clintons was involved in it right but it just happened to be that's what and they track their wealth their health their careers their success they track their lives all the way through and they didn't set out to try and discover this but what they've discovered is the true meaning of happiness comes from our relationships okay and it's not necessarily to do with your partner and you right like as a romantic relationship and it's actually nothing to do with the quantity of relationships you have it's to do with the quality of relationships you have and the true meaning of happiness or the true source of happiness is based on the strength of the relationships we have in our lives and when I strip it back with people and I'm really getting to the nitty gritty of what it is that makes life tick for you what's important to you what are your goals your values and objectives it's always about people I want to spend time with people if you had won the lotto yesterday what are you doing today spend more time with people I remember during lockdown, Mario, I asked my followers at the time, and it was massive.

16:38We were all bored, right? But the response was about 10 ,000 or 12 ,000 people replied. I asked the question, do you remember the really awful lockdown we had? It was post-Christmas, longest in Europe. We were all miserable, right? And it was January, February, blues on steroids. And I asked, what do you miss most? And people said, I miss drinks with my friends or dinners or staying in hotels or matches or whatever. And I looked at all these and there was thousands of replies. And I looked at all the replies. And we looked at the top four or five people. It was experiences with people. People missed people.

17:10That's what they missed. And really what you're trying to capture. What I'm trying to capture in this book is get the finances right. So you can spend your time and energy on the stuff that's actually really important. But you have to figure out for you what's important. What's really important. I talk about someone in the book, actually. Interesting. this person doesn't like taking breaks from work. It's not because she's mad about her job. It's not because when she goes back to work there's twice as much work to do. It's that when she goes back to work what she loves to do on her holidays is nothing.

17:41She's happy just to close the front door and sit in her sitting room or sit in her conservatory and read a book for a week and then go back to work. That's her level of... That's what she loves. But what she hates about it is she takes that time off she goes back and people say oh what did you do on your holidays? And she goes nothing really. And she hates that awkwardness of people going but you know what she is on it better than most people knows what she wants she knows exactly what it is she wants it happens to be simple it happens to be straightforward absolutely and you're right and just to occur to me picking up on one of the two things you said there people who come to your company maybe having inherited money or having won money and I've thought about this quite a bit and just watched people and watched seeing it happen and it's really clear from the more you see that when people have or acquire or suddenly acquire or win a large amount of money.

18:30It is a very big albatross around their neck. It also causes a lot of trouble and people going, yeah, I'd love that kind of trouble. Five million quads worth of trouble. Try it. Really, would you? Try it. Here's what's going to happen to you. Suddenly, you're going to start getting paranoid, wondering which members of your family like you anymore, if they ever did, or which friends of yours are suddenly not friends of yours anymore and that's going to be going on inside your head. Yep. Because people's attitude to you is going to change. And depending on your psychological makeup, that's going to change you.

19:06Second of all, money takes time to manage. It also, you have to give trust to other people to manage it. Financial managers, companies. You also have to pay people to manage it. You're going to have to give away money for them to manage your money. So money is a very, very dangerous thing for somebody who isn't, like anything else in life, used to dealing with the problem of having money. And it is a problem. And what I would say... I'm sure you've seen that. Sorry, I have absolutely seen it. And I've seen the sadness in people who win the lotto. So the first thing that I wonder why we get a disproportionate amount.

19:39I think I figured out why we get a disproportionate amount of lotto winners. If you win the lotto or you come into money suddenly, you don't have a team of people around you built already as you built this belt. and you're going to go there's your man off the telly or there's your man off Mario's podcast I'm going to go to him and they come to us but you're absolutely right like you've hit the nail on the head you start to question all of your relationships you're walking up Grafton Street and you bump into a schoolmate you haven't seen in 25 years and you wonder did they orchestrate that you can get paranoid very quickly and don't underestimate the sadness like I have witnessed the sadness of people right when they've won the money and you're sitting at their kitchen table or they're sitting in my office and there's kind of an air of sadness and they can feel the sadness.

20:22I know what you're talking about. And they're saying, then they're feeling guilty because they're feeling sad. I know what you're saying. And what I've established to be the problem here is their life has changed forever. Now, your buddy you were talking about there, I'll try it. Absolutely try it. Go for it, right? But their life has changed forever. It might be better. They might have more time to do the things that they wanted to do, that they've always wanted to do. They might have the money to be able to do things, but their life has absolutely changed forever. And there is a grief in that.

20:47and there's a you should be allowed to be sad even though it should be said goodbye to their previous life yes yeah and then people might say oh yeah well you know what I'd do if there's that many problems about walking up Grafton Street or Connell Street or wherever right walking up the street and bumping into someone and questioning why you bumped into them I'd just stay private you should see the pressure people are under when they stay private they'd keep it themselves really oh it's horrendous because when they stay private when they stay private they don't tell anyone right because then they change the car you know I think they were looking at my car oh right so then they get even more paranoid in a way yeah Yes.

21:17And then I'm in Ireland. People are going to start talking. It's the valley of the squinted windows. Yeah, and it's a really difficult thing to balance. Okay. Right. Here's another one for you. Well, I'll tell you what I'll do. First thing I'll do is I'll deal with the unhappiness later. But first of all, I'm going out to that place with stocks. The stocks. Why are they? The Maldives. Yeah. The houses on the stocks. Now, see how unhappy I'm going to be there. Right. So here's what happens to the people who go out to the stocks. They go out to the stocks and for the first day or two, they're kind of saying this is great day three they're kind of going this is it then it stalks again alright so I did the swimming yesterday which is could rent the Cessna now and we could go across the other island alright done that why aren't I happy now why aren't I feeling the buzz and this is it this is it you've achieved this thing in your mind of you've climbed to the mountain and you've looked around and you've gone is this it but why don't I feel amazing.

22:17There's two things going on there Mario. The first thing that's happened is you and I we come to work every day we work away right and we're thinking about our financial freedom in the future sometime and if you think about it like Westlife Westlife are coming to the Tree Arena they're selling out a load of shows this year in the Tree Arena well done Westlife right and there would be people who are going along to that just for nostalgic reasons but those same people won't be disappointed if they don't get a ticket or they'd be I'd love to have gone but I'm not getting a ticket there would have been a time 20 years ago where they would have bitten your hand off they would have stepped over people to get a ticket first right 20 years from now your joys and the things that you really love are going to be different than what they are today right and me and you go to work every day and we pick and choose and we drop things we hate and we pick up things we love and we don't know when you win the lotto your future is now it's all of a sudden oh you have to make all the decisions about all the things that make you happy right now today because your future is and hurry yeah and it's right here in front of you but the other thing it comes back to we're full circle here comes back to if you're not happy without the money you're not going to be happy with the money if you don't know what your happiness looks like when you're broke you're not going to know what it looks like there's another piece of research that let's just say like just to interrupt you there for a second do carry on but just to interrupt like I know you can believe this if you want because I've thought of it we've all thought about this if I won 5 million or 10 million right I would not stop working because it defines me a lot of who I am And for me to stop that would take away a lot of my definition.

23:48I just do not fancy myself on a jet ski for more than 10 minutes. Or I just, I like golf, but not that much. I already play as much tennis as I can and I adore tennis, but I play as much as I can. I play four times a week, three times a week. And I won't be playing much more. And I don't, you know, and I'm not going to go away and drag my family away on endless holidays. He's doing the leaving. She's in school. Where am I going to go? am I going to leave my family and just go on my own holidays? No. So really, and it gets me back to the thing I didn't get to, which I was going to say to you. And that is, I think a lot of people, if they really look into their heart and soul, are like me.

24:25And that is that, look back on the best times of your life. So for example, I see now as being part of the best times of my life. A few years ago as being part of the best times of my life. But I see it because I use the word striving. You're striving. You're trying hard. You're trying hard. You're under pressure. You're not too stressed out. But your life is, you experience quite a bit of challenge. A challenge, yeah. It's a challenge to get my sketches done every day. I'm constantly trying to think of something new. And I'm trying. I'm trying hard. I'm trying to reach goals. This feeling of striving is, I think, a really good human experience.

25:04And I think we're happiest when we're striving. The idea of trying to get there. Maybe never quite making it, but just trying. Yes. And that's why when you hear people who, let's say, have had enormous fame, for example, they go, my favorite time was the early days, coming up through the clubs, trying to get there, trying to get there. Getting there was like, I look around and you go, well, what's next? So striving is a human condition that I think you feel positive. You sleep better. You're constantly interested in walking and exercise to make yourself be ready for the next day. So you're doing good things, you know.

25:40And I think I list out 30 big mistakes I see people do when I'm engaging with them financially. One of them is thinking they'll be happier when. I'll be happier when I'm rich. I'll be happier when I get my pay rise. I'll be happier when I get my promotion. I'll be happier when. And the really important thing is you may never get to when and therefore you have to enjoy the journey. And that's what you're describing there. You have to enjoy the bit of the getting to the top. Because if you don't enjoy that, you're going to be miserable if you do get there, if you actually happen to get there. There's also, this is to take it slightly into a more philosophical level, but I'm sure you've come across this yourself.

26:15But language, whether it's the English language or any language, is limited. So, for example, we are lumped with this word happy. Happy is the strangest, meaningless. What the hell does the word happy mean? I remember listening to one guy talk about the fact that the word happy should be eliminated because it means absolutely nothing. This feeling that they talk about is a combination of some feelings which are not necessarily you think are great. Like, for example, being under pressure. People don't associate that with being happy. That is happiness. People think happiness is sitting on a cloud with your favorite chocolate bar thing with a load of money lying over there.

26:55Or George Best, right? The idea that, do you remember the famous story about George Best? Do you remember? Go first, tell me. Which one? So many famous stories about George Best. Well, this famous story about George Best, he's in the Ritz Hotel, or he's in the Savoy Hotel. Miss World is sitting on the bed. He's just won 10 grand in the casino and a bottle of champagne, and he orders another bottle of champagne, and the waiter walks in, and he sees George Best on the bed with Miss World and 10 grand in cash, and he goes, George, where did it all go wrong? Right? And the sad thing to that is that's such a 70s attitude of what happiness would have been.

27:32He's got his money from the casino and his bird and he's George Best. He's famous. What people didn't know was that George Best was in agony. He was absolutely crippled with fear and inhibition and sadness. He was the furthest thing from happy and that's why they were there. He was chasing happiness but you could never get. He was unhappy. He was in pain. And so this word happy is ridiculous. It is. And I think there is, there's something really powerful in what you're saying there about happiness and I think maybe happiness is a word that I've been talking a lot about in the last while and maybe contentment maybe being happy where you are there I am using the word again but being accepting of where you are recognising that you know what recognising that you know what that was a good day I really enjoyed that I have a little fellow with Down syndrome and I remember when he was born and his first couple of years anyone who's had a child with any additional needs will resonate with this but one of the things I used to do when I was putting him to bed.

28:28Well, it was probably at a time when I was really struggling, right? One of the things I used to do when I was putting him to bed was, he wasn't talking at the time, but I'd say to him, today was a good day. Let's make tomorrow like today. And it was that simple. Yeah, you got it. And you know what? This is my opinion of Down syndrome. Other people will have, and particularly parents of kids with Downs or adults with Downs. For me, there was a description given to me about Down syndrome at one stage that Down syndrome is like putting your putting life in slow motion somewhat right and I'm not saying slow that's not the word I'm using but just you appreciate so much more about life or I appreciate so much more about life when I watch it through Fionn's eyes like it's just he absorbs stuff that we don't see he is more mindful like there's people out there who are absolutely spending fortunes trying to teach themselves to be mindful and he just has it and he has this ability but he also has this ability to connect with people that I've never seen with anyone else like he and he's he's so honest like he's he's he's in his mid-teens now yeah I give you a perfect example like it's just this intuition we were walking out I know we're going off topic but let's go right let's do it we were walking out of Crow Park and one day it was kind of we were up on the premium level which is the kind of semi-corporate type thing right so you're left in there for about an hour afterwards and the thing has started to settle down and there was less crowds there we were walking out there was a group of lads who had just watched the match and they were kind of standing in a circle having pints right and walked into the middle of them.

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29:55I said, where is he going? And he walks into the middle and he fist pumps a guy. Your man fist pumps and goes to the next guy. Fist pumps, fist pumps, fist pumps. And as he gets to the last guy, he goes to fist pump him. As your man goes to fist pump him, Fionn put his hand through his own hair and went like this. And your man was left hanging, right? And the lads cracked up laughing. Fionn was right. But then the next comment from the lads was, how did he know to do it to him? How did he know to do it to him? And obviously that was the best person in the group they're really and look it could have been pure coincidence but there's so many things in Fionn's life that there's just too much coincidence there okay yeah but sorry I'm not sure how we got it but I think Fionn is content he's happy we got the idea of acceptance today was a good day let's make it a day tomorrow and you were explaining how Fionn possibly understands that in his own way better than most of us and I think Fionn Fionn just lives in the moment exactly he's living in right now and he's either happy right now or he's sad right now and that's it true And just to maybe to finish that side of it, I think gratitude is very important.

30:57You mentioned the word acceptance there. I think gratitude is very important and to understand how lucky you are to be breathing healthily, to be able to get up out of bed, to be able to walk down to the kitchen, to be able to drive or take a bus or be independent. These are all you've already achieved 95.75 % of life's possible contentment range when you compare it to other people who have so many unfortunate health problems, or you compare it, for example, as Jimmy Carr points out in a few videos he's been doing. I mean, even the idea of taking a hot shower. In 1928, 99.9 % of the world's population didn't have access to a hot shower.

31:45Now, everybody has access to a hot shower. You know what I mean? And that's a kind of a daily, twice daily thing that we have a luxury of doing. So be grateful for what you have. Yeah. And yet people are on our as unhappy as they ever were. And you could say maybe maybe more unhappy. Let me change the let me change it around a little bit. I mean, Patrick, when he was doing up his notes for me as well, when we were doing a bit of research on you, he mentioned that your father was sick when you were young. Yeah. And did that, there was certain financial insecurity there. Tell me about the financial insecurity first of all.

32:23When I was two, dad had a heart attack. He had a quadruple bypass. When I was six, he had another heart attack. He had two stents put in. When I was eight, he had another heart attack. He had a quintuple bypass, five of them, right? And he was only 48 at the time. And he turned to his cardiologist and he said, 48 years of age, the last six years I've had three major heart incidents. What am I doing wrong? And the doctor said, two things, Michael. One, you've got sticky blood. it's just hereditary you're doing all you can and he like he did he did look after himself and then second it's stress what's the biggest stress in your life dad had nothing to do with my industry my profession but dad turned around says probably work and the doctor said could you afford to give up work dad said I didn't know I don't know if I can or not and he went off to check somebody and I'm going to call it an insurance salesman sold dad in the 80s an income protection policy oh So people may or may not know what an income protection, but in simple terms, if the insurance company's doctor says you're unfit for work, they'll pay you up to 75 % of your wage until you're ready to go back to work.

33:25He was lucky to have had this. Yeah, he was lucky. He had just taken it out of his insurance policy until you're ready to go back to work or you hit retirement, whichever comes first. So at 50 years of age, it took Dad a little while to get his head around it. He had a very successful career. 50 years of age, he stopped working. And was able to get 75 % of his wage. Unreal. Yeah. And what I believe happened there was dad is dead five years now last month he died five years ago and he died at 78 years of age okay and I believe we got 28 years extra with dad wow maybe we would have got to 55 or 56 but the stress was going to get wow and I'm not saying I was 10 when he stopped working and I'm not saying I said I'm going to sell income protection for the rest of my life but when I came out of college I went working in Irish Life who happened to be the people who were paying his income protection to him I very quickly realised I want to do for other families yes what that what that insurance It resonated with you Yeah I want to do the same thing and that's where it all stems from that's why I do what I do and it's So you had a bit of a drive to do it Yeah absolutely and I have a strong believer in people are served better with good financial planning than they are without it and I'm a strong believer in give it away in truckloads like let people take what they can not everyone's going to engage and that's the purpose of this book actually the purpose of this book is there are certain people out there who will never engage with a financial planner and I want to load them up with as much information as they could possibly have to try and make the best of it for themselves.

34:43But if you are going to engage with a financial planner and you want to read this book, you're going to be better informed about engagement with a financial planner. People who have a financial planner have two and a half times the net worth of people who don't when they reach retirement. And that's a big sales pitch, but I absolutely categorically believe in it. And I just want to do it. And that's why I do what I do. Like, I just want to make things better, whether that's my Q &A on a Saturday on Instagram, whether that's actually phenomenal. I don't know if you follow me on, I definitely follow you, Mario, but I don't know if you follow me on Instagram but I'll put up a question box on Saturday morning and I'll get somewhere between 800 and 1200 questions.

35:18And what happens with them is... How many followers do you have? I have 160 odd times. Oh, that's pretty good. Yeah, and what will happen with it is the question goes up. Everyone gets to see the question. Everyone gets to see the answer. Yeah. But nobody gets to see who asked the question. Perfect for Ireland. Like, absolutely. When it comes to money, it's just perfect. And when you say say nothing, I'm actually going to tell you a story. I'm going to jump here for a second. so I was I was in court for a traffic offence right which I didn't get done for we can go into it all if you want I didn't they got it wrong and I was in there and I said I'm fighting for this and I got it and it was thrown out right but I was standing in the court in the hall in the court and like you're standing there and there's people who are maybe a little bit down on their luck or on the wrong side of the law and you're kind of there's a varying range of people in the hall waiting to go into the court to see the judge particularly on a traffic offence it's a mixture of lots of mixed bag so I kind of You could see him looking at me and he kind of came over and he says, you're a man off the telly, aren't you?

36:15And I said, yeah, yeah, that's right, that's right. Can I just ask you something? I said, you know when you're going for a house and you're getting a mortgage? And I said, yeah, did I ask you where you got the deposit?

36:30That's great. Same. So, yeah. And you said, just say you wanted on the horses. Yeah, just say, yeah, go and find somebody who can do it for you on the horses. But yeah, sorry. It is. Brilliant. I love doing what I do. I love the Instagram. I love writing the books. There's nothing better. And it's not different. I said it to you and I could see you get a sparkle before we started here. I said, like, I love what you do with your sketches. And you get something from that. I love, like, people come up to me on the street, say, like, I read your book on and I got my house or I was in this trouble and I got the advice I needed from the stuff that you put out on Instagram.

37:08I'm like, how privileged can a person be? And how happy are you? As in me being so privileged. Yeah, you're experiencing, that's something that I experience as well. And I repeat this because, you know, like just a kernel of this, the basic thing that I do every day is I walk into an office, I sit with two or three people, Ian Dempsey, Charlie or whatever, and I pitch them ideas for things that are going on inside my head. They'll nod and then we'll all decide, let's do that one for tomorrow then I'll go away and I'll write it and while I'm writing it I'm going I'm giggling and I'm writing it and then I'll send it away to a guy called Paul Duffy and he's a brilliant engineer and he'll send it back to me later in the evening and he'll go this is it Mario and I'll go he normally knows all the sound and everything that I want so I'll go that's great Paul send it to Ian and Charlie and that'll go out at 8 10 tomorrow morning and then when you hear that somebody in their cars or whatever is laughing their head off or whatever at that sketch you couldn't that just makes your entire week to think that something that came out of your head ended up on paper first, then on audio, and then transmitted to millions of people live and that it made people happy.

38:18The idea that a person in traffic, for example, is laughing at a traffic stop and they look next door to the car and the other person is laughing at the same time. And instead of snarling at each other or waving their fists at each other, they kind of go, oh, you're obviously fair play. You're listening to the thing. And that is, for me, the closest I'll ever get to being Jesus. the idea of bringing people together and going love each other it's my little thing I feel like I'm doing something in the world that means I'm here yeah and that's so that's it's funny you say that because one of the things like I love doing TV and I love that and you get some you get some feedback off that from Instagram or on social when it's going out you get a bit of that and it's all happening at the same time I love the Instagram on a Saturday's Q &A and you get to see the questions and you get to see that interaction I've done live shows recently and I know you do live shows all the time right so I did one last That's right live shows so you do these live shows around the country like the Helix and everything and all these theatres I mean as I was saying to you outside everything now is a live show The Vet is a live show Noel Fitzpatrick Brian Cox The Space cooking live shows obviously comedians just economics remember David McWilliams and everything going economics economics exactly and now financial planning the live show so financial planning and what I it's interesting because when I was thinking about doing doing it.

39:36Sorry, and I put it up on Instagram the first day I did the first one in the lime tree in Limerick. I was at an event, Nicola Talent actually was doing an event in the lime tree and I went to see it in Limerick and I walked out and I said, I'd love to do that. And I said, that was just felt great. Like just the whole being in the same room talking about the same thing at the same time. And then of course, you know this, and I should have known this, but you stand on a live stage and you look out and you can see nothing except the bright lights in your face. And you know what? You get very attuned to the noises coming like the giggles Oh yes You get very and you would have laughs every couple of seconds I'm a financial planner I'm not funny right but you still get a couple of giggles here and there I would be worried if people were laughing their heads up So anyway all of you could be financially independent So but it's that it's still I got stripped very quickly of I thought I'd be seeing the audience in my head but you don't see the audience but you hear and you feel the audience and it's amazing It was an amazing You can't beat five nights And we've done two And there's talk about Two and two more In different parts of the country Yeah And I think we probably will I really have the bug now And I loved it Now I do corporate speaking All the time So I'm often in In seminars And doing In cantines And companies And I'm doing that A huge amount Okay And you get a lot of Immediate feedback Okay I love that Yeah But to take it onto a stage Exactly It's different isn't it With the lights and the dark Yes And people seated like that Yeah It is interesting So your dad That was fantastic I mean I'm sorry to hear that he died five years ago but he did he did live a lot longer than maybe he would have he absolutely lived longer and you know what he did as well like he got involved right so imagine this man had like a very successful career he was in the civil service he was very successful he did a really great job actually Mario I don't know what he did right back in the 80s and yeah 80s really because he gave up the end of the kind of 1990-ish is when he gave up he was got funding from the government for the benefit of inner city kids in Dublin.

41:34Right. And he would do things like there was a place called Clure. I don't know where Clure is, right. But we used to get brought down to Clure as a kid. As kids. I'm the youngest of four boys and three older brothers. And we'd be brought down because dad would write a check. I'm sure today you wouldn't be allowed to do it, right. Dad would write a check for places like Clure. And Clure was like canoeing and orienteering and archery and everything else. And every summer, the type of summer projects would take a busload of kids from the inner city of Dublin and bring them down to Clure. Brilliant, yeah.

42:01And every year we'd go down and they'd kind of go okay this is the cheque you gave us last year this is where we spent it and if you give us a cheque this year this is where we're going to spend it next year right and we were treated great we got to go canoeing we got to canoe all these things to test it all out and it was just an amazing experience because you had I remember talking to one of the lads he was my age from inner city in Dublin and he now remember this was the 80s Ireland was a very different place at the time but I remember saying to him this is deadly I love the town here and I said yeah have you been down here before and he goes no this is the first time we've been outside Dublin and I just went what a fascinating job my dad has and he's creating these kind of experiences and experiences life moments it was fabulous memorable moments yeah he did great but then when he gave up work he went into like he drove the school bus so every football match I played dad was there right he joined the board or the parents association of the school so like every time I was walking through the school corridors he was there right not every time but he was there I remember one day we used to have a bench outside the staff in the bathroom and you got in trouble, you got put on the bench.

43:03I remember sitting on the bench, hadn't been on it in a year. The next minute, dad starts walking up the corridor and the vice principal starts walking the other way and the vice principal grabs it because, I haven't seen him on the bench, don't give out to him. I haven't seen him at all. But the point is, is he was there. He was always there. Sounds like you admired him. He was fantastic. And one of the things, I got three older brothers. And one of the things that's amazing is he had a different way of engaging with the four of us. He's an amazing communicator. Really? And he would draw on different things from you.

43:27Like he knew your kind of area of expertise and that was the conversation he had with you and he made you feel very needed very important he had huge time for all of us and it's interesting because I think a lot of the business acumen side of things came from him and probably my big brother my big brother my eldest brother is 10 years older than me so he was kind of when I was coming of kind of awareness around the business world he was kind of going into college and doing different things and I would have looked up to him and I still do look at him he's my big brother and I still looked up to him so business acumen was probably dad and my eldest brother David.

44:01But then there's a compassion thing. My mother was a therapist, so a family therapist. And there's a compassion thing on that side. And then one of my brothers is a mental health nurse and he's a manager. I can never get... So he kind of had that diversity. And because I was... My next brother to me was five years older than me. And therefore, I was kind of... I adulted quite quickly, but I was absorbing a lot of adult stuff as a very young child and getting to pull the best of all of them into it all at the same time. so it was great upbringing brilliant upbringing and it was really enjoyable but I really did get to witness some of the great stuff Yeah and also there was a lot of caring around as well you know whether it's your mum or whether it's your brother or whether it's the interest that your dad showed in all of you what a great dad he sounds And then my other brother who I haven't mentioned about it better just in case you listen to it he lives in Australia now and he was the closest in age to me and we just had the best crack we were best mates and it was just he was an all rounder What is the One of the things we mentioned outside and that it is peculiar to Ireland is that it seems, I don't know how much you could say about this, but it seems as though we in Ireland aren't great at all at talking about money.

45:11Are other countries better? And I would say, even off my own knowledge, yes, they are. I mean, look at the United States. I mean, typical conversation between two strangers would be, look, I pulled down$130 ,000 last year. What did you do? 95 ,000 I mean you know but I'm in this industry what I need to do to make 200 they're all talking numbers the whole time how much did you make is not a ignorant question in America absolutely not it is in Ireland it absolutely is and I think even if you take that that even further in the States if you succeed it's well done you get a pat on the back if you fail you get a pat on the back and say you're going to learn from that get up off your ass you're going to do better get drunk at the weekend and get up on Monday and start a new company and go again and there's no there's no shame in failure whereas here there is like I've seen people go through really difficult business times and the business fails and they feel like hiding and they do hide sometimes and they just go I can't do this or like something goes wrong in the business world and it's like and then the opposite is something goes really right and they all who do they know how did they get there so you've got that whole thing about success and failure and then who do you think you are yeah who do you think you are remember the old story about Bono Bono is this is maybe apocryphal that Bono tells this story but it's his understanding of the difference between Americans and Irish and he looks up at the house on the hill.

46:29He talks about the man, men who look up at the house on the hill, the big house on the hill and he says, the American looks up at the big house on the hill and the big rich man on the house on the hill and he goes, someday I'm going to be that guy. That's America. In Ireland they go, someday I'm going to get that guy. But it's true. It's very true and that's the problem that we do have. So therefore, when you've got those kind of outside things, why are you going to turn around and say, yeah, I made X amount last year. Also, I think this is a slightly different area, but generally when it comes to, generally my own feeling when it comes to financial matters and money is that when I'm with people who are within my own sort of sphere, I would have no issue chatting to them at all, especially in my own business.

47:17And the reason for that is I think it's healthy a lot of the time to discuss certain financial things so that we are, in effect, helping each other. Absolutely. Right? So when we're all ignorant and let's say everybody in the company has no clue what the other person is getting, you are at a disadvantage. Yeah. Because by, in a sense, people sharing that kind of information, you are, in a sense, informally unionizing yourself. Yes. You are basically getting at the boss going, hang on, I know that Mary makes 100 grand. Yeah. I should be yeah because she told me yeah right but if nobody knows then you can't fight your corner and even to think about that in a more granular level or even in a slightly different angle to that right one in three people really struggle with their finances right so there's actually three of us in the room if people aren't luckily there's three of us in the room statistically one of us is really struggling right now right if you're not struggling Mario then there's a 50 % chance it's me or Leap right so it's one of the two of us is going to be struggling and what I would ask people to do her listening to this.

48:20And the chances that it's you is very, very low. Which means, Leanne, where did it all go wrong? Not in a George Best way, but Leanne, how are you even here? Did I pass you earlier on shaking that cup in the street?

48:37So, Well, it's you, Leanne. It's you! The thing is, what I've been asking people to do for a couple of years, right, and I started this about four or five years ago. every time I get a chance, every time I get an opportunity, the only way we're breaking the taboo about finances is to talk about it, right? So in the last 15 years, we've done an amazing job. I could turn around and we could turn this conversation on its head right now and I could turn around to you, Mario, and say, Mario, woke up this morning. I wasn't feeling great. And me and you could openly speak for the next 20 minutes about my mental health and that would be okay.

49:09You know what? Even your listeners would be totally accepting of it. That's just the world we live in. But we won't talk to our mates about money, right? And my ask is, the only way we're breaking the taboo is one conversation at a time. And my ask is, go and talk to someone. When you hear me say this on Mario's podcast, make it your business in the next week to talk to one person about money that you've never spoken to about money before. Say to them, what's the best thing you ever did with your money? What's your relationship with your money? You don't have to share your payslip or your bank statement.

49:36You can be discreet about it. Yeah, and just open the door because two things happen there. First of all, the person you've just spoken to now knows if ever they're in trouble or they're in trouble right now the door is open. but you also know what reaction you got from them that if ever you're in trouble you can go to them and you'd be shocked at the conversation I've been asking people to do this for years and people have come to me afterwards and say you know what happened I spoke to them and they were in a really difficult place and nobody had asked them and people who they thought were noticing were refusing to notice it and were moving on and brushing it to one side and just opening that door made a difference and the only way we're getting to where we are and sorry I'm delighted where we are with mental health and it's only right but the only way we're getting to the same place with finances is one conversation at a time correct it's very un-Irish yes it's very un-Irish yeah and I think you're right one of the things I was preaching about a couple of years ago was we we're excellent at talking about mental health and in fact even something like miscarriage yeah you know I remember miscarriage was a taboo years ago but no longer yeah you know I mean you can freely now people openly talk about miscarriage and the pain it brings and the sadness of the loss, you know.

50:48But people do talk about that now, you know. One of the things I think people don't talk about as well as money is estrangement. Yes. Estrangement from family members. It's endemic in Ireland. Absolutely. And it's a taboo. Yes. It's a taboo. And it's almost regarded as kind of a shame or embarrassing to say, for example, that, you know, I haven't spoken to my mom or dad in 10 years or whatever. Oh, they're dead, are they? No, they're not dead. They're fully alive, actually. but we were estranged. And I think that taboo comes from to be estranged from somebody is as a result of years and years of events, circumstances or maybe some one big event, right?

51:28No, you're right actually. But it's not, you're right. It's an accrual. Yes. And for you to open, for somebody who's estranged from somebody to open that door, you're very vulnerable. The person is very vulnerable because they end up in a position where I can't explain six years of the lead up to this. And therefore, how can that person totally or even begin to understand how it's not my fault or it's not their fault or whatever the case is. So it's such a complex thing that it's a very difficult thing just to have out in the open and talk to you. And the word fault is a bit like that word happy.

52:03It's a big word, which means it's hard to know if it means anything. Yes. You know, I mean, if you, for example, explain marriage breakup The word fault is an enormous word to use Sometimes it isn't anybody's fault And blame shouldn't be apportioned always And shame of the fault Of the failure shouldn't be apportioned Again using that word failure Of a relationship breaking down Why is it called a failure? It's not necessarily a failure To have a relationship breakdown It is what it is But anyway that moves it on to a different thing John and Mary Sean and Moira Two Two Mom and dad And Boy and girl Yeah What's The biggest Single mistake Or Thing If you could only give them One thing To Do with their financial lives A practical tip like Yeah a practical tip I think the biggest mistake We We see is And this is on lots of different levels The biggest mistake we see is People work hard for their money But their money doesn't work hard for them Right We have 160 billion sitting in bank accounts right now.

53:13Everything called the five. In savings. In savings, deposits, yeah. And investments. People? No. Deposits, yeah. Sitting in the bank. Sitting in the bank. People have that much money. 160 billion. And that's 160 billion which isn't working. Not working at all. That's a 2%. It's our crappy interest rates. Like awful interest rates. It's 160 billion at 2 % or 1%. Yeah, absolutely. And that's not even including on post, which I think is another 20. It's not including the credit unions. So we are awash with cash or a certain portion of society are awash with cash, right? And I have a thing called the five-year rule.

53:43The five-year rule says, my five-year rule says, if you need the money in the next five years, stick it to the bank account credit union on post. Interest rates are crap. Don't beat yourself up about what you're getting because they're all crap, right? So that's where it belongs. If you don't need the money in the next five years, get it out of there and get it invested. Yeah. And people go, oh, invest in shares, I'm scared, right? You're not scared. Just nobody's ever explained it to you in a way that you understand, so therefore you're scared of it. You're just not informed. If you invested in a pension, it is investing in shares.

54:07Yes, absolutely. Yeah, 100%. My anecdotal kind of evidence experience would be 104 billion of that 160 shouldn't be in bank accounts. It will not be spent in the next five years. And let me give you a really practical example because you mentioned Sean and Maura, right, the two kids. Let's imagine Maura is born this morning and the mummy and daddy decide, you know what, we can afford not to use the child benefit, right? We can afford to put it away from Maura's college. And they put the 140 euros a month aside. And if you don't have kids and you're listening to this, 140 you won't, the calculation is still the same.

54:39It's just maths, 140 quid a month. They put the 140 euros a month aside for the next 18 years. If they get 1 % in a bank account, they manage to get 1 % over that 18 years in a bank account, they're going to come out with 33 grand. Let's ignore tax, 33 ,000 euro. If they invested it and got a standard kind of four, four and a half percent growth on it, right, they're going to come out with 44 ,000 euros. As opposed to? 33. Yeah. In a bank account. Now, what I did was, I was going on stage last week and I went and looked at a fund that was available and I didn't cherry pick it I just said that fund has been around for years pick that one there let's run the maths on it and see if it was maturing last Tuesday and you put 140 quid a month into it how much would you have today again ignoring tax 68 ,000 euros that fund is still available today it was available 18 years ago to everyone in the country and you know what makes that fund so beautiful it's this this this alchemy this magic that we have in the world called compound interest.

55:35Compound interest is just completely magic. Yeah. It's like Keith Barry just conjuring money out of nothing. Look at Warren Buffett. Warren Buffett is in his 90s, one of the richest men in the world. He's investing from the age of 13 years of age. Yeah, was he? Yeah, and he's worth over 100 billion. Let's just round it to 100 billion, right? Let's just say he's worth 100 billion today. How much of that 100 billion did you think he had when he was 50? Now, he started when he was 13. How much of the 100 billion that he has today do you think he had when he was 50? One. Exactly. 1 % of his current wealth he had at the age of 50 and he's in his mid-90s now.

56:06That's compound interest. That 140 euros a month that we're talking about in the child benefit, that's the same money being used in a different way getting a very different result. And that's the biggest mistake we see. There's a big push coming from Europe at the moment, right? Where there's so much money sitting in cash across Europe in deposit accounts not being used. That could be freed up and invested into European companies. And there must be a way of freeing it up. In other words, imagine, this is bullshit now, right? So you've probably been through this in your mind, but imagine I'm Pascal Dunno not Pascal the new Pascal whatever Simon Harris actually and I say I have a meeting at the banks and I go guys there's 160 billion in your accounts what about we encourage there's 104 20 billion at that you talked about what about we encourage our customers we contact them encourage them to take it out yeah but they what if they have the right to say no and to leave it there they do have the right to say no what about we offer them a kind of insurance against some of any potential losses knowing that we probably won't lose because we're going to invest this in just a 4.5 % mutual decent fund that could and then we share and almost like we share it well almost to share it but you increase the wealth yes and one of the interesting SSIA was a little bit like that people might remember SSIA you put in 4 euro the government put in 1 that's right that's the way it worked it was kind of there was a little bit of an insurance but you went off and chose whether you wanted to put in a deposit account or invest in the markets that was the choice you made at the time There was an encouragement there.

57:30What I think, there's lower hanging fruit than restructuring the whole thing. Like we've seen for the first time, investments in Ireland, this is going to get a bit kind of technical here. Investments in Ireland, typically, there's a couple of different regimes, but typically, you used to pay 41 % tax on the growth. In the most recent budget, they've reduced it to 38 % tax. I'm hoping that it's going down to 33%. When I started, 27 years ago, I'm realising, when I started advising clients and started in this profession, it was 20%, right? So that's the first thing that needs to make it more attractive.

58:00Now I always say if you're paying tax you're making money. But I need to make it more attractive to people not to have it. But the other thing is there's a thing called deemed disposal. That if you invest money and you don't take it out in the first eight years after eight years they tax you as if you did. And that's killing people's compound interest like you were talking about. Can I ask you a sticky question? Of course you can. This is Ireland. A small country. And I don't mean that in any I don't mean that in a pejorative way. I mean because we're small we're a little parochial and everybody knows everybody if I go to not even if I go to Financial Prosperous Prosperous my company Prosperous is it what's it called Prosperous.ie Prosperous Financial Prosperous Financial if I go to Prosperous Financial or Financial or Financial Prosperous another one how sure can I be that there's discretion that you keep your mouth shut that I keep my mouth shut there's a couple of things everybody at the end of the day we're just human absolutely I totally my business I can't talk for anyone else but let's talk I can't talk about financial prosperous but I can talk about prosperous financial my business is built on confidentiality I have siblings that are both clients they don't know each other clients and what we would do is we would take the clients you know what happy with us but if you take on an employee right a high level employee with a degree in finance and economics and everything and his name is James I don't know any of your employees so if there's a James there it's not you and let's say his name is James and James impresses the hell out of you and you're going I'm hiring James and I'll even pay above because he's going to do well with my company but it turns out James is an awful blabbermouth right like he could do a lot of damage he could do a lot of absolutely and then he'd be fired yeah absolutely he would get fired and you can tie people up in a whole pile of legals before they join and confidentiality agreements and you can do all of that but ultimately you have to make sure that James is the right fit for the company and ultimately we walk into the office and we have our core values written my company Prosperous my company that's unfair because I have a shareholder as well Colin now but I used to Prosperous in 2008 and I brought Colin in four years ago, coming up on five years ago and I said, Colin, I just want to deal with my clients.

1:00:03I'm really happy dealing with my clients. I don't want to deal with all the staff and the central bank and the accounts. I just want to go into my client meetings. I want to help you at board level and I want to do this stuff. It's my media stuff, my corporate speaking, my podcast with Mario, whatever else. So Colin has taken us from four staff to 40 staff in four years and we've grown at 40 % growth on average in 22, 23 and 24 and we hit nearly 100 % growth last year. right and one of the things you do when you're going from 40 staff to 40 staff is you hire a lot of people and sometimes you get that wrong and sometimes you kind of go oh what are we going to do here and you what one thing is i think it's fair on the employee if it's wrong to get to let them go as soon as possible and it's fairer on us but one of the things the big fears i had when the business was going to be scaled up there was going to be more people in it is would they adhere would they do it the way i do it am i going to be okay that people are going to be looked after when they come in because i know when the customer's in front of me i'm going to do my best to look out.

1:00:52But that's where the core values come in. Like our core values are transparency. We will make sure that you, that everything is transparent. We will always do the right thing by the client, even if it's not the right thing by us. And sorry, I could keep, I'm not going to, it's not a party political broadcast, but my point is, is what we find and when we do meetings and company briefings where we spend the whole day together, everyone lives, breathes and sleeps the core values. And when they don't, they very quickly feel like they don't feel. I know what you mean. And therefore it's about, yeah, you can tie people down with contracts and you can type people there's an expectation of them the other thing is is the industry is very small the profession is very small It's true but no but it's just like you know I'm talking to my banker on the phone right so I'm in AIB right and I'm talking to my banker on the phone and he's there yeah I'll just bring up the account now Mario and it's everything in front of him he then knows everything to do with my financial thing now to be honest with you that's not a big deal to me I know it should be a bigger deal probably isn't a big deal to me but it is a big deal for most people They go, I don't want Jimmy to be going blabbering it out in the local.

1:01:53I was just seeing Mario's account there. The only thing is, it's a different level for you because you're in the public eye, right? That's one thing. But the other thing is, I believe I do an incredibly diligent job with my clients. But I'll be honest, I had a meeting this morning at 10 o 'clock. I haven't a clue what was in that now. Like, if you ask me, what does Mario's accounts look like? I know it there and then when I need to know it, but I'm seeing them all day, every day. So you're like a doctor. They become just a number in a way. yeah well yeah Owen thank you so much this is the book I'm going to hold it up Owen McGee How to Achieve Financial Freedom and it's great Owen as well to be able to talk to you about the other areas associated with it because money is a thing that it just there's so much areas off it isn't there about you know even to do with this word happiness and everything like that Tony Atul and good luck at the live shows thanks anyone coming up or yeah so I have well by the time this goes out it will be done the helix will be done but we're talking about doing two more maybe down the kind of southwest somewhere but we haven't confirmed anything yet let's see how it goes alright brilliant lovely talking to you thank you Mario congratulations on the book well done and my thanks to Owen McGee great to see him again it's funny because sitting opposite him he was so genuine in everything he was saying about why he wanted to become a financial advisor in the first place and there was something vocational about it all and I really enjoyed chatting to Owen and I hope his book goes great see you same time same place next week bye folks

1:03:20We'll be right back.

From the publisher

Eoin McGee is one of Ireland’s best-known financial advisors, he’s also a TV presenter and an author. His latest book is called 'How to Achieve Financial Freedom – create enough wealth to stop working’ in which he shares advice about how we can all take more control of our wallets and become a lot more financially independent as a result.

In this episode of The Mario Rosenstock Podcast, Eoin tells me about the book, but we also talk a lot about our attitudes to money in Ireland and why it isn’t particularly healthy, certainly compared to places like the US. He shares a very personal story from his childhood, about a difficult situation that made him want to be a financial advisor when he got older; we talk about the importance of being in the moment, why working longer can be better than retirement, and lots more.

COMEDY – the non-stop rain is causing consternation across the country, and Simon Harris is taking matters into his own hands.

Produced by Patrick Haughey, AudioBrand

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