NearlyWeds Hosts Molly & Tom Admit Hosting A Podcast Is A “Completely Different” Game

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1:59Contents might... All right. Sorry, that's involuntary. Is her name Karen? My mum's called Karen. I love Karen's. I love Karen's. I saw her comment, yeah, saying, I'll give the wedding six months. I'm like, sad. OK. Well, we've done 21 years. What's the secret? It's too expensive to divorce me now. That's just one of the reasons.

2:24Hello and welcome to The Therapy Crouch with me, Abby Clancy. Me, Peter Crouch. And me, Gaz. Hey, Gaz. How are you guys? Good, good. Doing well? Very well. Good week so far? Cracking my neck. Oh, God. Must be all that help you've been giving me. Just all that work, you know what I mean? Like, get around the house and stuff like that. Just that handyman stuff. Do you know the fucking cheek of you? Really? I have done every single room, every single cupboard, every single drawer. I've given Pete three boxes of caps, caps to go through. Yeah. Yet, no, yet, no. So I can give to charity. They're still there in the same position where I put them.

2:58I left them in the area where they should be and I'm moving them closer to him to the point where they're on the bed to go through. It'd take me 10 minutes to do, but I'm just not doing it out of, that's my wine. Is it? Yeah. Yes. Straight in with the wine. Sort the caps out, Peter. Okay, I will. My wine would be just you in general, really. That's nice, isn't it? Do you know what mine is? Do you know what I said when I asked him to clear that cupboard up? He walked into the hall, bearing in mind there's loads of men there working really hard, doing the heavy lifting, which is, you know, the heroes.

3:38And he walks, oh, a husband's work is never done. I was like, can you just wrap Pete up in bubble wrap? and put them in that box, sellotape it and leave them in the storage container till I'm ready to see them again. That's fucking hilarious. You are just mental. You are mental. That was a joke. No, because no one was listening to you. You said it under your own breath. I said it quietly to you. I thought it was funny. I didn't. It was only a gag. So why am I annoying you then? No, it just, for me, it's the, you kind of don't talk to me all day. you know you leave me to my own devices because i'm busy and then at bedtime you you want to like you're scrolling on like really bad stuff and like you'll you'll deal with all the war and things and anything bad in the world at kind of 10 o 'clock at night when i think it's kind of wind down time news for me is a first thing in the morning let's let's get on i did that this morning i was up at like half five again today i just think because i've got so much on we've done early nights up early and I was I shouldn't do it because it does set the day off in the wrong tone we're going through Instagram and I sent because Claire RPA like literally knows everything about everything so I sent her all these things it was you know that the economy is going to crash and we're all going to die I had financial crisis I think it was 6.15am there's going to be a nuclear war then Claire do we need to build a bunker and she texts me back at 6am like fuck me that's a whole lot of conspiracy theories at 6am what i'm saying is the timing of the of putting the problems on to other people is too early or too late it's so scary yeah all this stuff and pete's like this is like like a 20 year old girl talking about what does she know but i'm like well why would she say it why would she say it it just doesn't I think there's more do you think it's scaremongering then listen there's always potential that things can happen like but at 6.15am this morning Elon Musk saying there's no point in saving for retirement because there will be no retirement I'm like what the hell does that mean so hang on you wake up first thing in the morning first thing in the morning and it's war and it was it was instantly it's actually not funny I was in the bathroom I literally opened my eyes and she was like do you think we need a nuclear bunker genuine question Jeff Bezos has got one the Tate brothers have got one the Kardashians have got it I'm not making a mockery of it because I think we probably do Bill Gates have got one he's got four actually he's got four I'm not saying they're not legitimate concerns I'm saying the timing of these concerns are not correct I'm not saying they're wrong or right what I'm saying is the timing is wrong before bed and first thing you know I haven't even opened my eyes yet.

6:39You're going to get a bunker here. No, I don't. I don't even know where you'd get one. It was the guy I was looking at. He's been building them for all the Bill Gates, Bezos, Kardashians. If you're Jeff Bezos, whatever, you might as well have one. Do you know what I mean? Why not? There's only so many cars, yachts, planes you can buy. Why not just move into bunkers? You've got that much. Do you know what I mean? You might as well. Yeah. That's a fair point. You literally might as well. Stock it with tin foods. Yeah, yeah. Just so you can live for years. I bet you David Beckham's got one. Probably.

7:18Yeah? Probably. I want one. It's the must have of the season. You may laugh. I'm not laughing. It's absolutely petrified. There's a potential for these things to happen. All I've got, in my opinion, I think you've just got to live life to the full. And, you know, hopefully this doesn't happen. And if it does, you know, prepare as well as you can for the worst. I'm not against it. Because there's also that, you know, the energy, you've got to prepare for like nine days with no water and electricity. Is that right? Okay. Well, I just think with COVID, we realised that we're not invincible. Well, yeah.

8:00It became a thing where we were all of a sudden living in nice places or you thought you were doing well and it didn't matter what you had or, you know, everyone was equal. You know, everyone was just a human being and it was like, you know, you're kind of on your own now. I kind of enjoyed that kind of everyone is just a human being kind of thing. It was, you know, I know it was horrendous for a lot of people, but, you know, there was nice parts to it, like spending time with your children, you know, not going to work, not having to them be in school every day, you know, just that quality time.

8:37You're right. It was like a universal leveller, kind of everyone was kind of back to the beginning. It felt that way. Everyone was in the same positions. Yeah. You could have had all the money in the bank in the world, but you've still got to stay home with the people around you. So, yeah. Unless you're Boris Johnson. Hopefully you've made those decisions correctly. Unless you're Boris. So, yeah, in summary, it's just, it's not the problem. I think they're legitimate problems. you're welcome to talk to me about them. Can I just open my eyes first? Noted. Thank you. Amazing. Okay. Audience wines.

9:14Okay. From Grace. She says, hi guys, not a wine, but I thought you'd enjoy it. I've been listening to the podcast and giggling along to the different nicknames. There's someone from work whose name is Justin Wales. So we've given him the nickname Wrexham. That's great. Justin Wales? Justin Wales. Oh, that's good. That's good. I like that.

9:39I've got to say, when this person wrote this in, it took me like five minutes to get it. I was like, hang on, what is... And now I realise it's actually genius. That's brilliant. It's like end of May, isn't it? June. That one always tickles me that one. That is a great one. Okay, Joe G says, he's on the nickname vibe as well. He said, there's a lass who absolutely hates coming to the office, so we call her E.T. As she always wants to go home. nice probably a bit harsh but there's another last that the lads refer to as birthday cake because everyone's had a piece oh my god oof oh my god ay caramba Joji from Wigan there freaky lovely cheers Jo birthday cake birthday cake wowza it's a nice way of putting it it is yeah it's better than the village bike that used to go around yeah birthday cake let's make that a thing birthday cake's better than the bike it is 100 % Oh, slut.

10:34Do you know what I mean? It's a great nickname, that one. Birthday cake's so much nicer. I wouldn't mind being called that. Yeah. What, birthday cake? Yeah, but not for that reason. Daddy can arrange it. You wanted to be called chilli at one point. Chilli, yeah. Do you still want to be called chilli? I like chilli. Why are you chilli? Because I'm hot. Is it? It's a pan check. No. Someone had a nickname called chilli. Really? Connor Carney. Oh, yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Chilly Ron Carling. Carla Carling, yeah. Chilly, brilliant. Okay, I have no phenomenal way to say hey. So, Abby, Pete and Gaz, hey.

11:11Hey. Hey. I'm 45 and about to be a grandma. Oh. Wow. My 24-year-old son is one of the most beautiful human beings you can meet. I have to say it because he's mine, but he is. We met up Mother's Day and it was probably the last time him and I will get to be just us before his new baby's born. he's doing great until he tells me they are not going to have the baby immunized no injections against anything my mind is blown because i think it's so important for the baby to be immunized i'm going crazy thinking they are mad what did you guys do for your children hayley from peckham i think it's a tough one isn't it the whole i am not an expert at all on in this field um but i think that there is an argument for a lot of childhood diseases have been eradicated because of immunizations but then there's also an argument that a lot of people kind of say the immunizations have contributed or caused things like autism or other complications but i don't know i don't know i just think it's such a personal thing it's a personal Obviously you have to respect that.

12:21I know he's your son, but you have to respect what they see right by their child. So I know so many people who've immunised their children and who haven't. And, you know, as a parent, you know, you have to do whatever you feel is right. Excuse my ignorance because I don't have kids, but like, is this like vaccinations basically? You give newborns when they're born? Yeah. Is that not just common, like commonplace? It's like most people. Yeah, it is. But I mean, I think people are starting to question, I think, you know, because of recent times. Yeah, I think since COVID and stuff. Right. I think it's a question, you know, are these right?

12:52Is it good? Is it right? And Trump obviously mentioned like the, you know, I think 20 years ago, it was like one in 20 ,000. You know, these stats might be incorrect, but like one in 20 ,000 kids had autism. Now it's like one in two in America. Yeah. So it's obviously something artificial that has been put into these kids that are causing these problems, whether that's diet you know what what what we'll eat what's in the food that they're eating immunizations um because i know heavy metals there's a lot of heavy metals in immunizations and that can have a negative effect but obviously i'm not a doctor and this is only my opinion on dribs and drabs of stuff i've read yeah um and i actually been having severe health anxiety don't like to read too much about it because then i just freak the hell out yeah i think they just need to do the research either way and when i say research it's not like looking at instagram what people are saying because there's so much fake news you don't know what to believe um and you can always speak to gp you've got to speak to the doctor haven't you you know speak to the professional speak to the people that know and form an opinion get second opinions third opinions and for and formulate your own your own mind yeah because ultimately you know we only want the what's right for the for the children yeah absolutely nice that was genuinely informative I actually appreciate that for once amazing well you know who we've got on the show today so Pete we've got exciting guests on today I'm especially excited because me and Sophia love Love Island and these are winners of Love Island all stars it's Molly and Tom they're on the nearly weds now they're just planning the wedding they're about to get married in August yeah so I can't wait Tom's a footballer as well he's got a little bit in common yeah they're like the young version of us yeah although I wasn't on Love Island we're both hunks bombshell footballers and we can give them advice on getting married yes and what not to do what not to do don't do it right guys this feels like a great time to hear from our sponsors and while you're there hit subscribe have you ever been stuck on a weight loss plateau trying everything and anything you can to lose that extra weight and reach peak health?

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15:49states. Hi, this is Hannah Berner from Giggly Squad. Have you ever put on a bra that makes you feel like a goddess? Prepare to be obsessed with the Dream Angels Wicked Bra from Victoria's Secret, the iconic brand behind the world's most comfortable bras. And I only wear the most comfortable bras. The bestseller features an innovative sling for perfect lift without padding and the fit is chef's kiss awaken your inner goddess with new colors and super femme lace embroidery find out why this bra has thousands of five-star reviews and counting shop it in stores and online at victoria secret.com so welcome to the therapy crouch maria thank you for having us the nearly words yeah nearly words So Jamie and Sophie has passed the baton to you guys and you are now hosting the Nearly Weds podcast.

16:40How's that going? It's really good. It's a whole different ball game. We were chatting when we first came in. To be a guest on a podcast, to host on your own is completely different. But we love it. Yeah. And it actually makes us plan a wedding. Yeah, I get Tom for that hour where I can sit him down. No escape. Yeah, he actually asked to look at me and talk to me, which is great. Because you didn't really get involved that much in the wedding, did you? No, not really. Like, yeah. That's the best one. Yeah. Don't give him ammo here now. That's what I've been like. I told you. That's what I've been like.

17:13Yeah. Are you excited about it? Like. Yeah. It's stressful. Because obviously. What's the stress that you're dealing with? I'd love to know. Because he's not. He has no idea what's going on right now. And like, obviously, I'm intrigued to know actually what you guys, like how you guys did it and like what. I've never been chatting before and you... I'm not saying the word. Yeah, yeah, yeah. That's probably the wrong choice. What did you say? I said it was a shit show. No, it wasn't. There was some ridiculous thing. It was probably the greatest day of my life. But there were some decisions that I would change.

17:46What were there? Well, firstly, I don't think I've listened to Nicki Minaj before or after. We walked into Nicki Minaj. We went into Nicki Minaj. I love that one. So what the hell? Why not? I thought it was super bass. That book, Moment for Life. It was moment. So that was just when you came into the room, wasn't it? Yeah. We didn't walk down the aisle to it. We had a child on a harp singing You Are So Beautiful. Then my mum's dogs went down the aisle before. Oh, I love that. Ridiculous. No, I love that. Stupid stuff. The dogs went down the aisle. If we could have Nelly, we'd definitely 100 % would.

18:21Yeah. So when did you get engaged? How did you propose? Not that long ago. It was September. September, yeah. In Dubai, he proposed. Oh. Yeah. we need to go back further hold on so you were on Love Island separately though right separately and then you joined together for the All Stars the All Stars yeah Tom's is the only season that I didn't watch out of all thank you for that no no no honestly no no no she watches it now oh my god I watch it all the time no I watched it back his season when we came out and I'm like I'm so glad I didn't watch it before I went in there because I would have definitely prejudged him yeah she was like throwing a pink jacket against a wall he was like I don't know who he was.

19:04I'm kind of glad you didn't watch that. Yeah. So we went on separate series, came on all stars together. And then, yeah, I know we spoke about it before, when we actually first met Molly said that I ignored her and stuff like that. I think I was nervous. Look at her. Said hello to every single person bar me. But that's a sign, isn't it? I was like, if it's someone that you can't you fancy or something you just kind of don't you just don't kind of know he's like oh this boy this boy actually like he's like he doesn't even say hi to me all right i'm like that's because he fancies you yeah yeah yeah yeah just known that it was me yeah and then obviously when we went we went on we just we just clicked from the get-go didn't we and then it was just a complete whirlwind being on there but it was the best thing to happen i bet it is like i've always i mean listen i'm sure you've been asked so many times about the whole experience and stuff like that but would you you know now knowing what you know like did you love the experience would you go back and change it in any way like how was it like best time of my life was it 100 % really yeah it's so nice because you're in a bubble in there as well so I feel like you no phone no phone no distractions nothing yeah and it's just so nice to have that full time to like get to know each other properly and like actually like I don't know like progressing just like one big holiday you're with your mates in the sun you're with if you're with a girl oh here we go

20:36yeah but no it was it was amazing amazing experience and then obviously the the all stars one what i mean what what's it been like for you as a kind of couple coming out of there because obviously you know very very well received everyone liked you yeah it went amazingly well for you both and then what's it like when you get when you get out it's real life It's strange, isn't it? I think that's where the test is. Yeah. Definitely. Because you come out and then that's when you've got all your distractions and everything going on and people have an opinion and there was a lot of opinion around our relationship as well, wasn't there?

21:06So I think, yeah, that's when you come out and then you have all that. But that's, Tom turned up with his case on day one and just moved straight into my house. No, I didn't. I just had a little bag. No, you didn't. That is a point. He turned up with a full on big suitcase and just wheeled it in and never left. But that's, well, when you know, you know. 100%. And it's good that you're local to each other. I know, yeah. Because imagine if you were like opposite ends of the country, that would be so hard. I know, people do like long distance. I don't know if I could do... I couldn't do that. No, I couldn't do that.

21:33No, I couldn't do that. No. It's not for me, that. I don't think so. What I can't get rid of around is obviously you were playing football. And you was at the club not so long ago. Yeah, I was. I trained up. I missed it. I'm gutted. So what's the deal? So how does it work? I'm thinking of some of my managers. You was playing at the top level. I'm having some time off on Love Island.

21:53I can't see Harry taking that to the end. Imagine that. Imagine. I just, you know, did you, do you go to, was it Robbie Savage at the time? Yeah, yeah, so it was Robbie Savage. At Pizzas I look like him. You look like Robbie Savage? Yeah, that's, well, when I was blonde. It's only, you don't really. Better than Roger Dover. Yeah, like what, how was it received by the club? Yeah, so it was Robbie Savage at the time. He's now at Forest Green. Rob Smethers. you probably met Rob when you was up there yeah good fella I think Rob's members of the owner he was like all for it and go for it and Robbie was slightly kind of I don't know probably didn't really want me to go I was top strike number one goal scorer at the time but you've got to remember like I'm not playing in the Prem I'm not playing in the Championship it's non-league football and it was a great opportunity so yeah I remember I pulled them two into the office I was a bit nervous I'm leaving halfway through the season to go on to go on love island but they were fine and they were great in the support of me all the way through it so um and it's a chance of a lifetime isn't it that you know yeah it would be unfair if they said no you can't go yeah well imagine if you didn't i know well i wouldn't be sat here now speaking to you guys but i can only imagine being in your position at that level imagine if you turned around and said something i just only imagined that You haven't got the muscles on the line.

23:20I don't think so. He's got a chat. He's got a chat. He's got a lose-lose all around here. You could have an open share because you've got a great six. Maybe, yeah. Yeah, I haven't got the guns for it, unfortunately. Literally. Yeah, so what's it like? So then you've obviously said you're going to go in, whatever. Are you still playing now? What's the deal? So I try and get in as often as I can. because I've done it since I was young football. That's my release. That's my time with the lads who were great. You've met them who were great lads. But yeah, it's hard for me. And people have an opinion like, why are you not there?

23:56Why are you not at the game and stuff? It's like, unfortunately, sometimes work now does. That's what pays my mortgage and stuff like that. So I have to be realistic. And things change. I think you've just got to go with the flow. Yeah, definitely. And like I said, it's not like I was playing in the Prem or anything like that. It is non-league football, but I'm always there when I can. I'm always trading. I'm with the lads. Like, and I'm available if they need me and stuff like that. So, but Macsford, they're a great set up and they've been, they've been good to me, haven't they? they have. Yeah.

24:22You've been to a few games. I have. Have you? Are you getting called a wag now? Oh God, no. But the first one I went to, I'm sat there in between his mum and his dad and, no, it's not good. I think this was the home fans. Yeah, it was. The Macsford fans. Yeah. And then they all start chanting and they start singing this song. some rude stuff yeah and he was like Tom Clare Shagsy we want Tom Clare and I'm sat there like this and his mum's going what are they saying what are they saying and I'm like I am not repeating imagine you just come out with it then I was like oh I don't know I can't hear him and I'm just sat there thinking oh my god this is horrendous but you know what football fans are like they're brutal sometimes I remember walking through it was in Manchester actually wasn't it and there was like this big group of lads going on holiday and it was when me and Pete were like first got together and they all started singing Gold Digger by Kanye

25:16we were laughing our heads he started like dancing to it and everything and then he got a bit matched in it after a while still going how do you guys find it obviously being in the public eye relationship how do you, any advice well I think early on there was that big whole kind of it was like the WAG era so there was a lot of paparazzi but times have changed now and also we're old so we don't give a fuck anymore but for you guys I think what I'd say is just if you're happy just don't even let any of that crap and noise and people's opinions affect anything you do because people will and people will be jealous and all that stuff but you've just got a great thing going on no one knows what's going on No, they don't.

26:08No, they don't. No, they don't. And it doesn't matter. There'll always be noise, won't there? Yeah. Certainly when I was playing football, it was like you're never as good as anyone says you are, never as bad as people say you are. You know what I mean? It's somewhere in the middle. Yeah. You played at the top level. You was getting like all the opinions about it and stuff like that. Yeah, that was a bit mad. But it's just, yeah, you've just got to keep level-headed. You've got good people around you, which I'm sure you do. Yeah. But also for us, it was like I'd come off Britain's Next Top Model reality show.

26:35Pete was a footballer, similar to you's footballer reality show. And people kind of make that judgment very early on. Like, it's not going to last. They'll be over in five minutes, all of that. You must have had that from the show, right? Oh, yeah, they're not going to last. We still have it now. I saw a comment, yeah, saying, I'll give the wedding six months. I'm like, sad. Okay. Well, we've done 21 years. Wow. I love that. What's the secret? Well, it's probably too expensive to divorce me now. that's just one of the reasons I think the key to success is just we laugh together all the time like we are best friends as well and we are able to be ourselves in front of each other which is a big thing I think I think I have the same laugh I have with Abbas I do with all my mates genuinely like that's the same no it helps you know she's beautiful as well but she's also good fun you need that yeah yeah yeah yeah without doubt so talk us through the proposal there mate because it looked good yeah it was um it was in dubai obviously we love it there it's kind of like yeah we've just been a few times and i was initially going to do it in cape town where we met in love island but it just didn't work out um so yeah it was i It was nerve-wracking, you know?

28:00It was exciting and nerve-wracking. And I spoke about it before, but on the actual night of the proposal, I was fine. And then I FaceTimed my mum and my sister. And they were in tears. And I was like, oh, shit. Because they weren't there. What am I doing? No, and then it hit me. And I was like, I just wanted it all to go perfect. So I did it on the beach near the burge. I had people hiding in bushes, filming it, a violinist. And we can't actually remember what I said. No. All I remember is Molly not saying yes for like a good 10 seconds. Yeah, I was like, wow. I think I was like, didn't I say I was like, I need to phone my mum.

28:41You called your mum and your sister before you even said yes. I know. And they were all at home because obviously Peter told them they were having like an engagement party and I wasn't even there. No way. Yeah, because Peter obviously told them. Yeah. But what are you going to do? What are you going to do for the wedding? Will you go away? Will you be at home? Yeah. So it's going to be away, isn't it, in Mallorca? Oh, my sister's getting married in Mallorca. No way. Yeah, in September. Oh, we're August. We're August. Oh, my God. August, yeah. The only thing I'm scared about is because it's going to be August, it's going to be a very, very hot wedding.

29:10So I'm scared that I'm just going to melt, like, from the get-go. No, you'll be good. But we'll see. Yeah, we'll be fine. We'll be all right. It's hot till, like, nine o 'clock in Mallorca. Yeah. My sister's worried about that. But I'm like, that's why you're there. If you do it in England, it could be pissing down in August. exactly you can't win really can you yeah yeah exactly yeah have you got your dress i have now yeah which is do you know what that was the worst part for me the dress shopping i wasn't looking forward to it i didn't want to go i kept saying to you didn't i i was like i don't want to go i don't want to do this like this is the worst thing and then i went and when they were like oh pick a few out see what you like i was walking around and my friend looked at me and she went oh for god's sake here we go my mom was like this is not going to be enjoyable is it so i was like right walking around couldn't think of like what style or anything I don't know you meant to pick different styles but I just not drawn to any and then it was the first one I tried on yeah it's often the way that I know people said that to me and I thought no it won't be with me I'm hard work and then it was I ended up going back and trying it again oh my god yeah so I got the dress now you and your mum and your best they were just pissed up they were just absolutely smashed we went for L's the other day didn't we I don't know if you did have you done any suit fittings I've done a little bit mate we did four suit fittings they were just snag do's I love that unreal you kept saying to like I've got another suit for him but to them they go yeah I totally get it you've got to take your trousers in the suit shop for about two minutes and then just in the pub what a lads he came down from Liverpool he had no undies on he doesn't wear undies how are you going to try some trousers on he was like well I didn't think we were really going to try trousers on he's just like he doesn't wear undies he's just commando all the time and he went to the suit fit with no undies on.

30:56So how did they do it? No, so we went, he went, sorry, he went, sorry mate, I'm going to have to just not, yeah, he just didn't, he didn't do it, he just went back to the pub. So we went, we went to the pub and then we went to the, so all the lads were going back and forth to the super, and some of them just didn't even go. It's great. I'm going to use that. It's a good one, 100%. I'm blowing you up now. We went for my sister's the other day and it was so far, it was like a two hour journey. It's in Colchester. Oh yeah. And we took a couple of bottles of champagne in the car and we were all pissed by the time we got there.

31:27See, that's just everything though, because then when you're trying to dress on, you think, is this actually, have I got beer goggles on right now? Do I actually like this or not? But my mum, every time I'd go in the change room to put a new one on, she was just getting mine and just downing it and asking for... Yeah, we were absolutely, I don't know how we made the train back home. Like we were... You had a good time. Yeah. And you found it. It's really good, yes. That's all that matters. Hey, Sophie, it's part of the experience. Like you've got to enjoy that, you know, the whole process. is it going to be big are you gonna you're gonna keep it tight got about what 70 guests oh that's good so it's like a nice number um it's not i don't know i didn't really know what i wanted when we were wedding planning i don't think either of us did i just wanted people there that in like 10 20 years time i was i don't want to i want to still be in touch with these people do you know what i mean so i just want close friends close family people that are lovely.

32:18That's what we did, didn't we? How many people did you guys have? I think we had 100, but we had a few randomers that we probably wouldn't invite. Where did you get married? We got married in Leicestershire. Oh, nice. Yeah, it was supposed to be in Italy, but it all went wrong. So we just scrambled for a venue, like last minute. But the thing is with this venue is we could take the whole thing. Everyone could stay. Everyone could stay. I had like 40 rooms, so I wanted everyone to be there. we had a church there we got married and stuff it was lovely the whole thing was on site i love that yeah yeah that's that helps because yeah like italy as well apparently we looked at italy at one point and it's just steps everywhere yeah yeah that's what that's the kind of thing we trouble we had like the place we wanted they stopped the flights so it's like one flight a week so i mean you'd have to stay there all week and we were like paying for everyone to go and And then it was, the alternative was fly somewhere else and get like a four hour journey.

33:17And my nan was like 19 and stuff like that. So we're just like, no. It's not fair. No. No. So less to sheer it was. I love that. Do you know when you're on the nearly weds, do you plan, like, do you actually plan stuff on the podcast? Yeah, like, I just tell Tom what's going on. And then he goes, oh, yeah. It's just a briefing. I think so, yeah. Literally. It's my weekly briefing of the wedding. so i come out of it now i know where we're up to now yeah so because he i say stuff on there and he's like oh have we and i'm like yeah was she you were cc'd in that email and he's like oh right yeah yeah when i say the pound signs i just look away good really because yeah he doesn't really know what i'm paying for at the minute yeah it's just going out yeah exactly best way to do it yeah um but yeah we we talk about stuff on there about like what we've planned and what we're where we're up to and stuff.

34:07I give Tom a little like update as well because he's sometimes a little bit behind and then plan for the next, what we're going to get done that week. We've actually, well, we've planned quite a bit, haven't we? Apparently we're doing well. I don't know if our wedding planner is just saying that to us to like - To be nice. Yeah, be nice. Because I just keep going, can we have a Zoom call? Yeah. Can we have a Zoom call? But you haven't got long? No. That's it. That's going to fly by. I know. What is it now? Like five months? Yeah. Even now. Four months? Oh, my God. What about your friends and stuff like that?

34:41Like, are you close friends? Are they married or are you, like, one of the first ones? Oh, mine pretty much are. I'm a bit younger than me. How old are you? I'm 32 next month. Oh, are you? Yeah. Yeah. I'm 26. Are you? Yeah. Oh. Cute. A little cougar. That is cute. Yeah, there's an age gap. We actually got a bit of shit. Not for that when we came out, but I think that's why people thought it wouldn't last with the age gap and stuff like that. But then, yeah, got down one knee and that was it. Yeah. He likes to always remind me I'm older now. But you don't look it, so that's all that matters. You look like I do now.

35:16No, don't be doubt. You look older, though, so it's all right. I think I like older than you, to be fair, yeah. You look older, so you make me look younger a little bit. Yeah. Balance each other out. So we've got some fan questions for you guys, if you don't mind answering. Yeah. Okay. Go on, Pedro. All right. Georgie says, recently had on your pod your best man, Casey O 'Gorman. Yeah. Is that right? can Tom tell Crouchy and Abs how you asked him to be your best man? No, I know. It's a story, is it? It's such a lad thing. Like, we're more like to bridesmaids. She did this big, do you know how girls do this big proposal with flowers?

35:51I think it's more a thing now to do this bridesmaid proposal thing because I didn't even think it was that much of a thing. I didn't even know what that is. Or if you go on TikTok and have a lot, it's this massive thing now, which I was like, can you not just ask like, oh, do you want to be my bridesmaid? No, you have to do like a box. with presents when we got married people didn't even have makeup artists or like yeah you know all of that yeah it was yeah there was no instagram or any pinterest for inspo or anything no it's like makeup or flowers but yeah mine was mad different so i molded this big thing i was in nando's in trafford center we were having a nando's and i just said to him look you're my best mate do you want me my best man he was like yeah and that was it simple as that simple as that really no money spared no split the bill yeah just split the bill yeah that's amazing how did you ask yours remember god knows and you know the worst thing is i can't remember asking him but then the worst thing is you know when you everyone goes to the church and stuff like you're supposed to obviously wait for your best man and go, Skira, right?

37:01He'd gone. He left me. Where'd he gone? My bridesmaids had left me as well. He went with the other lads. What was going on? He went with the other lads. He just thought, oh, for God, I didn't ask for Skira, you. Yeah. The bridesmaids left me as well because we were all getting ready in this separate place. Yeah. And then they walked down and I was like still faffing and when I got down to the bottom of the stairs, they'd gone to the church. They'd been put in a car and gone. Oh, my God. So I was like, oh, my God. So I was with my dad and then my dad was like, are you sure you want to do this so I can give the driver 20 quid and he can take us back to Liverpool?

37:31I'm like, Dad, it's going to cost us 20 quid to get to Liverpool. When he found out, when he found out, well, it cost you. Yeah, he was. He was. He was.

37:43All right. Lexi Mass says, Molly, you are so hilarious. In one of your recent apps, she talks about inviting random people and extras to come and fill out your venue. as you don't think you're going to have enough guests. My best mate literally did exactly that because she was so anxious about it. Is this something you would genuinely do? Do you know what? We actually joke about this, but I've not really got many friends. That's not a bad thing. They're all my bridesmaids pretty much. I've got no one like sat there to like see us get married. So Tom's got loads more friends than I have. I've got a small family though.

38:21You've got a smaller family. I've got like quite a big family. So I was saying, if it got to the point, I don't know. I'm the type of person as well, I'd be like, do you want to come? Yeah. I'd be like, do you want to just come? Would you put some randoms in off the street? Yeah. Sit there, mate. Yeah. Luckily, though, there is like, obviously a max amount of people that you can have, which is good. So I probably won't invite random people. But I was just saying, most of us - Lexi, Matt, that sounds like she's up for it. I know. Do you want to come? That's fine. There we go. We'll give her a show.

38:45Most of my friends are bridesmaids, though. Really? Yeah. and then it was just family and friends. Yeah. I don't think I've got like a small group. I've been a bridesmaid like double digits now. Have you? Yeah. You must have some friends. You think? Where are they all? I was one for my mum and dad though and like family and stuff so. I've only been a bridesmaid once. Always a bridesmaid, never a bride. No you are. Same but now I'm finally a bride. Oh. But yeah. Too many times I've been a bridesmaid that I'm done. Hang it up, done. Cover that now. It's a lot of pressure being a bridesmaid. It is, isn't it?

39:21I'm a sister's maid of honour. I'm like, I've got too much to do. I didn't do this. Oh, no. It's terrible. I've never been a maid of honour. I've been two maid of honours. Well, one and then my sister. That's a lot of pressure. Yeah. Because you have to do everything and I'm not good at planning. Like, my PA is. So, Claire, can you do that? Claire, can you do, like, gift boxes for these brides? Yeah, yeah. She'll be on it. Okay. Daniel says, congratulations you two you're easily the best couple uh to ever come out of all stars very excited to hear your journey wishing you all the best my question is what's the biggest thing you're most worried about going wrong on your big day

40:05mine is you're spending the night with casey the night before casey i was in love island with casey he's mental right yeah he's wild he's polar opposite to me he's crazy so maybe tom not turning up but because of Casey's reason like it just takes him somewhere yeah okay that'd be mine yeah being late or something no I'm always you're always late I'm always on time you can't be late on the wedding though can't you today you were late no it wasn't me it was the traffic don't let him say that I was out the door bang on time he said an hour I left that time too you gave me some time packing inside Oh, there we go.

40:43That was good. Well, you did that on our wedding. I remember waking up on our wedding day. That's my influence. And it was like five, it was probably about like half five, nearly 6am. And I could hear like all men laughing outside. So I was like, fuck. I've sat there and looked out the window. And he was still up with my brother, all his friends, my cousins. And I was just, I was thinking, you're going to ruin the whole day. So I was like that on the window. And then I ran to his room and he was like that in bed. like the quilt like right up to his neck and then it just went and he had a bottle of Peroni and a full clothes on shoes and I was like you fucking bastard and he was like well we're not getting married till four I've got loads of time and I'm like but you've put me under stress isn't it?

41:30I don't want that stress the covers up to the thing when you I was like oh hey I still agree with you what time is it? yeah I was like The weather's off. We didn't get married till four o 'clock the next day. But you know when everyone keeps arriving and obviously the girls are separate to the, you know, traditionally the girls are separate to the boys. And everyone kept arriving. I was in the main hotel and it just kept going on. I was like, oh, I haven't seen you. Then you just keep going and just, yeah, got carried away. That's the scary thing, isn't it? Seeing everyone the night before. Yeah.

42:02And then it getting too much. I was so hungry. Was it? Yeah, nightmare. Oh, no, that's scary. We were a bit. Don't do it. Just try and not drink. I wouldn't advise that. Too much. Right. Because it's a long day. Yeah. Yeah. I can drink. Can you? Yeah, but I was so hungover. Yeah, we kind of both were. Don't do that. But the buzz kind of got us through. Don't do that. Just water. Don't do that. Yeah, just water. Okay, Jerry G says, I want to ask the guys if they could pick one single celebrity who would inherit the show once you guys have finished and we could hear their marriage prep, who would you want to do and why?

42:39oh were you hand-picked with with jamie and sophie then or like did they call you and say on instagram yeah after the engagement so the message coming out who's this so that was really nice actually um i don't know who i'd think i would have said if casey was getting married casey because i just think that would be the most hectic actual like podcast ever You need to meet him to understand him. Yeah, it'd be wild, that. But yeah. I don't know, couple-wise. I don't even know if Casey would ever get married. He's just like, he's single and I think he'll be single for a long time. He enjoys that life.

43:19Okay. Yeah, he's one of them. In a beef until 16 years old, yeah. Yeah. I can see why you're worried about the evening beforehand. Don't give me much hope. Just don't let him out. I know. You need a carefew on your wedding evening. I don't think they'd listen to it. See? That would fill me with hope, doesn't it? You could have said Josh and Sophie. Yeah, Josh and Sophie would be good, actually. Josh, Richie and Sophie Piper. They'd be really good. Are they engaged? No. I think they'll end up getting married. Really? They're such a good match. They'd be really good to do, actually. But there has been really some successful relationships from Love Island, isn't there?

44:01Yeah, there is. Which is amazing. We've all been married as well now. Yeah. It gets a bit of a bad name now, I think, because some people obviously go on there for the wrong reasons, but some people actually do go on there to find people. So, yeah, it's just, I feel like, like I said, when you come out, that is when you see the real couple type thing. Yeah, it doesn't take long to see if it's real or not. No. I think so. Okay, Tom says, big fans of the pod. Question for Tom and Molly. me and my ex once would have regular full-blown arguments about things like loading the dishwasher, driving ability, fridge maintenance.

44:39Fridge maintenance? What's that? Meats on the bottom, salads on the top. Oh. Apparently so. To be honest, when I reflect on it, I think I was right on every single one. What's the pettiest argument you've ever had in your relationship that you secretly still stand by? Ooh. The pettiest argument. we have because don't we what it is i think the number one thing for me is lateness i hate lateness so do i yeah yeah but like if someone tells me a time i'm there 10 minutes early whereas moll's like i think no i think what it is is that tom likes to tell me a time but then leave like 15 minutes earlier just because i know she's gonna be late yeah he moves the time yeah earlier you should tell me earlier and then you've got later yeah but like other petty arguments we don't really he hates my driving he doesn't let me drive anywhere yeah i feel really unsafe in the car yeah i'm sorry i'm just yeah just unsafe tom's when he scratched his car god knows how many times and had it towed and all sorts i haven't i'm fine same so maybe maybe we're the problem you are the problem and also he turned around to me not that long ago was like oh god you're just always right like everything i'm saying he's like didn't say that You did?

45:54No, I did, yeah. You did. And he's like, you actually are right all the time. I'm right again like this. So actually, I'm always right. That's what I say. That's what we say. But it's true. It is true. It's so true. Bullshit. Welcome to the therapy couch, Mr and Mrs Gay. What was I saying? I don't know. It's the best time I've ever done it.

46:19OK. What's your partner's favourite meal? Not a clue, have you? Oh. Wait, right. Are we going to do the reveal now or are we going to do them all? That's really bad. Why are you still typing? I've got one word. Nuggets. Me all remember. Me all. Okay. Okay, you ready? What, are we turning them around? Yeah, let's have a look. Okay, go on, Molly. I put steak. Steak. You love steak? Yeah. Yeah? Yeah. Would you agree? I just said dominoes. Yeah, but that's a takeaway. That's a takeaway. That's why I said meal. Okay. Okay. Okay. All right, fair. Yeah, I like steak. Steak with dominoes. Fair enough.

47:08Right. What did you say? Mine is sourdough with eggs and avocado on toast. Yeah. Mmm. No, it's not my favourite. Oh, well, there, play. I'm always right. There you go. Okay. Okay, okay. Favourite film? What's your favourite film? I don't know if this is right. I don't even know if I spell it right. I can't tell. I don't think that's the right word, actually. How long have you been together? How long have we been together? I think he was asking you. Yeah, I was asking you. Two years? Yeah, okay. Just over two years. Okay, so yeah, I mean, this is... We would get the two years when we got engaged.

47:49Would you have known all these questions after two years, Dricken? I don't really know what your favourite film is now. Do you know what it is? They change the mind. Yeah. But it changes, doesn't it? What's yours like? The Departed? Yeah, probably. Gladiator. Yeah. Gladiator. Love that. Gladiator. Do you know what mine is? Yeah. True Romance? Yeah. Well done. You probably have been together. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I've been with them more than... I've been with them more than... Affirmative. That's so nice, though. It's like I'm 19 when we met and now I'm 40. You're 40? Yeah. No way. It's disgusting.

48:28Horrible. God, you don't look 40 at all. I do. You don't? I do. This week, I do. This week? No, this week. You don't. No nails, no tan, no roots. Favourite film, yeah? Yeah. Have you got it? I think so. Okay, go on. You're confident for some. I'm not. We talked about this last night, by the way. My White Chicks? Yeah, well done. Oh! Nice. I love that. We were talking about White Chicks the other day. You said it was my favourite. Yeah, so you like it as well. Yeah, I do. The kids love it. The kids love it as well. There's apparently a number two coming. Is there? Oh, is there? Yeah, apparently.

49:05Go on then, Molly Toms. This is wrong, I know it. I put Shawshank Redemption. What? I've never said that. Should be. It's been a great film. You have said that. I love that film. Stepbrothers, my favourite film. Oh, shit. Oh, okay. Stepbrothers. You knew that as well. I did know that. Stepbrothers. With Will Ferrell. Oh, I hate him. Why do you do that? I hate him. Why? I can't bear him. Even on my elf? Yeah, I can't even bear him in Elf. Elf? No, he goes through me. No, Will Ferrell. It's not for me. That's controversial, that. No, I don't like that. He's good. No? No. Fair enough. No, we're like, oh, I'll pick one of these.

49:43What's something you do that always makes your partner laugh? God. We hear shit out. Something that always makes you pat and laugh. So something I do that makes Tom laugh. What does he find funny? Should we say that? What would make him laugh? Why is he laughing? I got mine. Oh, God, I'm not that funny. But what does he find funny? Not me. um are you really what do i do that makes you laugh a lot of stuff babe i actually don't have one is that bad i don't think i'm that funny you're quite witty one-liners and stuff i ain't got one i don't think i've ever thought of something that makes you laugh mine is it's a bit embarrassing but i have no arse so I'll show her my ass and she'll ask my camera roll if I ever show her it if she's in a bad mood I'll show her it he'll do that you know when girls do that pose in the mirror where they like well you don't have to arm it like that he'll do that and I'm there my camera roll is just pictures of Tom's like non-existent that's hysterical you've got no problem yeah I get it it's like it's a camel basically look like a camel from behind he looks like a camel on the beach I was you were in Dubai once and I was watching the camel go up and I went, do I look like a camel from the back?

51:16I was like, yeah, you do. Like skinny legs, no arse, like a dangly bald. Literally. Oh my God. Yeah, look. Oh my God. Yeah, but they're a lot taller than that. Just the legs. Like, I think I do look like a camel from the back. It's not ideal. That's you as well. Yeah, that's it. Because you've got like, yeah, because you've got like the legs, the length of him. My legs are all right, I've just got no ass. I don't know why. You can do some squats. I need some hip thrusts or something. I need something. Oh, well. I wasn't expecting that. Yeah, it's a bit random. But yeah, enjoyable. All right, well, that concludes my game.

51:59So on this podcast, we have people write in with their dilemmas. They're called agony abs. And if you don't mind, if you can help us with one. Yeah. Of course. Yeah, we got one from Chloe. Yeah, we try and help. Okay, I'm writing in with a mother-in-law issue. For context, my... All right. Sorry, that was involuntary. It's quite quick. No, it's a common theme on this. It is a common theme, yeah. For context, my fiancé is wonderful. We have two babies under two and generally never have any arguments. Oh, two babies under two. We had that. We had that, yeah. That's not fun. That's not fun. We would advise that.

52:37No, it is. However, his mum has made my life a total living nightmare since the second she met me. I'm talking pulling up my dress past my bra in front of people when I was pregnant, calling me Mr Blobby throughout my pregnancies, calling me a slut for having a pregnancy test in the cupboard and often telling my fiancé things just to cause arguments between us. My fiancé is amazing with his own family and puts in so much effort. that his mum is looking after our dogs for us when we go away in a few weeks, but she lives in a very remote area, so the dogs need dropping off. My fiancé will be staying over one or two nights as he drops them off.

53:19Am I in the wrong for refusing to go with him? I just cannot face her. She has purposely ruined what should have been special times for us, and I'm terrified of being left alone with her and giving her the chance to go running to my fiancé again with more untruths. Well, oh, God. God, that's a bit heavy. Is her name Karen? Huh? Is her name Karen? Yeah. My mum's called Karen. I love Karen's. I love Karen's. I love Karen's. I know, but it's so funny because that's a thing now. She can be a bit of a Karen. No, I'm joking. What is this one? See, what I think, the trouble with this, I wouldn't want you going alone.

54:00Yeah, I was going to say that. Because she'll be like... Feeding. Yes. I'd be like, I'm going. with you yeah just to monitor the situation yeah she sounds horrible horrid how would you deal with that i feel like it'd have to come from him to maybe say something to her i don't know yeah i don't know i feel like i wouldn't want to go and be left alone either i'm a bit of just take it yes that's me i'm a slut for having a pregnancy but i don't know i feel like i'm like with you if you went alone if it was us and you went alone and I'd worry about then what kind of mindset you'd be in. Yeah, when you come back.

54:38What's she saying? Yeah. She sounds horrible. I don't know if I'd go. I don't know. If she's, well, because she's got two babies and all of that, she probably shouldn't go because it's irrelevant what she thinks. But I think if she was like a young girl, she'd probably... I don't know. You don't need to hear it, do you? It's negative. Yeah, you don't want to surround yourself with negativity like that. No, but it is tricky if it's the mother of the guy you want to marry. Yeah, that's really sad. I'd like to know what he thinks about his mum. It sounds like he's close to his family and stuff, so I think he's probably blinded by it a bit.

55:14But it's not ideal, is it? Yeah. I'd just stay at home. You'll be back before you know it and just don't have that negative energy. No, you don't need that. Don't feed into it. No. No. We've only got one of those and that was really negative, wasn't it? But, you know, it's lovely to draw sometimes. but we've loved having you on yeah we really have yeah great luck with the pod and the wedding of course thank you sounds like it's gonna be amazing yeah thank you so much yeah pleasure thank you Molly and Tom everybody woo thank you guys thank you

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