#3286 Married To Medicine S12E16 Part Two: Take Your Menicine

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2:49Watch what happens when there's so much that happens.

3:07Well, hello and welcome to Watch What Happens. This is part two of a two-part recap. If you're like, hey, wait a minute, I didn't hear part one. Guys, it's because we put out a lot of recaps. Go back and listen to part one, okay? It's before this one. Bye. Enjoy the show. So Scott's like, but Damon, you got to realize that your wife will say anything at any time about anybody, even if it's a rumor. And she's going to bring it out or she has said some untrue too. And so a lot of times, you know, what you're hearing can be retaliation against what your wife said because we know your wife has definitely said something about everybody.

3:44And Simone's backstage being like, yes. Thank you Someone heard me yelling at the TV And Damon's like Well to the people that I feel accountable for I apologize Because she's the person she is And she's going to say things that she's going to say But I haven't done it And I've never disrespected anybody So you know The truth is they shouldn't say things bad about me You know There was no reason for that And they cut to Simone It doesn't matter because you're with Heavenly. I love that Simone won't stop even backstage. Yeah. And Damon's like, I'm not going to say something to Mimi or Jackie. I'm not going to say it on Twitter.

4:29I could go down a lot. So Cecil's like, do you feel like any of the guys have disrespected or say anything about any of the wives? Because I think that's the issue. It's not the guys. It's the women. They get into it. And then they allow that to spill over into our stuff. and so Eugene's point earlier, we didn't used to do that but now we would have discussions and they weren't always pretty but once we got it out of our system, we were able to move on and we're different now and I know some of the stuff the ladies have said, I've heard some people say that. I was like, it's the women who did this.

5:04So Damon's like, yeah man, it hurt bad. It hurt Curtis, it hurt Steve. It definitely hurt you, hurt me, hurt Andy maybe. hurt the person over at craft services, hurt the person at the front door. So many people have been hurt by the women saying things all the time. Women just start drama. That's what's happening. And he says, well, I'm not making the assumptions that you guys don't speak to your wives. And Damon's like, yeah, and you guys may have been making the assumption that I've not spoken to Heavenly. And Andy's like, wait, have you spoken to Heavenly? He goes, of course. We talk about everything unless one of our kids has been arrested.

5:42And I think if something's wrong, I'll say it's wrong. And I tell her, don't say certain things about the guys. Because then they address you in the wrong way, and it becomes an issue for me. And Andy says, well, did she take your advice? And Damon just goes, uh, she's gotten better. And everybody starts cracking up. Wow. Steve is like, but what Damon just said was take accountability, though. And what he said, when he said, he just said, hey, if she's done something to offend, I'm sorry. and real men stand up and take accountability even if they're not wrong but when you don't do that and you deflect now we've got a problem and eugene's like i don't deflect i don't well a hit dog will holler because i didn't say you he's like that's fine well who are you talking about i think it's very obvious and clear like you're talking about eugene then steve's not the brightest guy it's truly funny to watch steve argue i didn't say you well then who i think it's obvious okay um and eugene's like mr bush i suppose and he goes well hey he said it and eugene goes i guess all the hot hit dogs just hollered and uh andy's like well we're gonna leave it there and get the ladies back out here thanks a lot guys uh please just just go just go guys and dame was like dang andy we got so many questions this year wow so now commercial break and now the now we have everyone together coming onto the stage.

7:12So Eugene is like, hey, look who's holding hands, because it's Simone and Jackie coming onto the stage together. And he's like, we are back! Okay, we got the men, we got the women all together as it is meant to be in the Bible. That was for you, Curtis. This season, our couples try to step up their communication by mastering their partner's love language, but at the end of the day, this group was only fluent in words of confrontation. Ha! Watch. So we have the Jamaica couples trip segment. Okay. There was a lot to talk about versus wife duties versus girlfriend duties on the trip. Fellas, what's something your wife does now that you would never have asked for when she was your girlfriend?

7:56And Heavenly's like, oh, my God, that's the wrong one to ask. Curtis is like sex. Honestly, I think Curtis and Jackie have more sex than they lead off to. I truly believe that. I believe they have sexed the car, that PT Cruiser. And Mimi's like, I think Jackie's the little closet freak. So Curtis says, yeah, but we've got goals that we're not hitting. And Jackie's like, oh, the 15 times a week. Oh, my God. Oh, my God. Can you imagine being married that long and your man is still demanding it 15 times a week? Get 15 different penises on you and then we'll consider it. It's a lot. Well, I see. So what's the number one thing Simone would do as a girlfriend that she doesn't do as a wife?

8:43He's like, well, as a girlfriend, Simone was a lot more mild-mannered, and we wouldn't debate as much. And she would give me a pass a lot more. Well, I had to get my ring. Yeah. I was a lot more right back then. Okay. Mimi and Steve, research shows couples raising children with special needs face higher divorce risk. What do you do to protect your marriage? and they talk about how they do check-ins. And Mimi's like, we do check-ins. And this is check-in Mimi. And, you know, we have to make sure that we're intentionally dating each other and that I'm checking his love languages. Has his love language changed?

9:21What do I need to do now? How can I serve you? How can I serve you? You can serve me by not saying love languages ever again. Does his finger get cold when he's wagging it so much? Should I crochet a little hat to go on top of his fingertip? Would that be convenient? Would that be convenient for Steve? And Steve's like, I have to tell her she's doing an amazing job, you know, because we fall short. But we need reminders from each other. You're doing a good job. You're doing a good job. And we're raising an amazing child, regardless of special needs or not. And so now they talk about this. Was it hard to share this on national television?

9:59And they talk about this again. But we already did this last week. This is like part of the retreads. Yeah, she says it's hard. She goes to therapy every two weeks preventatively because it's going to be a battle for the rest of her life, which is really intense. And so Andy's like, Simone, your biggest complaint was feeling like the men in your life were not supporting you. You were working and paying for everyone and everything. Has it changed? So Simone says, there is a slight misconception that I'm paying all of Cecil's bills. Cecil has two jobs. One is he gets a nickel For every time he cleans out the dishwasher And two he babysits the kids Two he is A bartender in the basement Bar That's a lot of tips Andy Why don't we find out what his jobs Are by the way She doesn't mention the jobs I'm assuming the one is realty He's a realtor And this one I think it's this one and being a real estate agent, I think.

11:05So she says they split the household bills and he asks if they've cut the boys off. And she's like, no, because they're making gradual changes. We're creating more boundaries. Now, instead of getting him a car, I got him a car that he has to plug in. So it's teaching him responsibility. Was a parent saying what Michael said to you? And she goes, oh my God, he's so spoiled. Well, it was a little jarring. jarring and I've got to tell you something and Jackie says Simone I think you just need Cecil to help you in that battle and she's like well I just need Cecil on the days I'm coming with no he needs to show up and said your mom and I have a discussion and we don't agree with this versus throwing me under the bus so now Cecil knows and he's trying to be better yeah alright Curtis you sparked some backlash when you told King that their fertility these struggles were because they were out of order.

12:02People kind of felt like you crossed the line there. Have anything to say? And he's like, well, I didn't understand the magnitude of the struggles that you guys were having with the process. So I do apologize. And if I ever offended you or hurt you or said anything in any form or fashion, I invite you to sit on my lap and we can talk it out. Sit on my lap so I can wiggle a little bit underneath you and read you the Bible. That'd be great. Well, I'm so happy that Curtis took ownership for that. And I'm happy that Curtis could talk to Quad and King and move forward. I'm happy that I could force Curtis into doing that.

12:41And Andy's like, okay, so the Med Gala brought some drama. Steve, you felt Eugene making you pay to get in wasn't fair. Isn't it a charity and everyone's just giving money to the same pot? And he's like, no, it was very strategic and it was targeted and it was very intentional. and not very convenient, and this didn't have anything to do about a ticket. And Tori's like, everybody knew they had to pay to get in. And Mimi's like, no, they did not. No, they did not. People did not know. We did not know. Not knowing Mimi is here. So Steve is like, well, they didn't give anything last year, and they want to hide behind the year before just for giving some money.

13:17Well, you don't know what you're talking about. They didn't give anything. Steve, you don't know what you're talking about. No, no, you didn't give anything last year. The money was given to Jackie. And Jackie's right here shaking her head, yes. How's the little car to bottle, Steve? And Heavenly is like, that's just a lie. And Steve is like, they didn't give anything. Listen, they didn't give anything, anything at all. Stop talking, Steve. Just stop talking. No, no, let's hear him. Let's hear him. He's a football player, so you know he's got to have some body under there. Let's hear what he has to say.

13:46Maybe he'll take his shirt off. Well, you can't win with Toya because she's just going to lie. Because you know Toya. Toya's just a dumb bitch. The end of the day. Well, you know nothing about the finances of the Met Gala. Well, we've given more in one year than they've given in three. How about that? That's a fact. Yes, and there you have it now, Andy. It's like, yeah, that's a fact. We were strategically targeted at the door. Doorway targeted Mimi. Strategically targeted at the door. It's time for a commercial. It's time for a Crappens commercial. So much noise around weight loss right now. Trends, opinions, medications.

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16:33so tory is like you were not strategically targeted what does that mean i addressed it with Eugene and Eugene deflected it again and he won't take accountability. And Eugene's like, I took quite the accountability. You should pay. I accountabilityed the money and it was short, $150 because you did not pay. And he's like, you can't hold the fellas to a standard that you don't hold yourself to. You want Damon to apologize for heavenly and he is still not giving the money, but you won't apologize for your wife. And that's not right. Okay, wait, stop. First of all, You guys, I need this cleared up.

17:06And Andy is not helping me in this situation. So he's saying Toria hasn't paid for two years. As far as we know, that's true. Toria hasn't paid for two years. And now Toria is saying that she did pay last year and that Jackie's agreeing with her. But we never hear Jackie agree with her. So did she pay last year or not? No. You guys, come on. I don't think that she paid. I don't think she paid. She did not pay. No one. No, she did not pay. so basically Steve is like he's like that's not right that's not right and Tony goes well nobody asked David to apologize for Heavenly and Eugene is like you're not the judge of me man he's like roll the tape roll the tape so Simone's like I understand your perspective from the med gala however if someone is throwing if they're having a gathering they have the right to turn you away and we've seen it numerous times and Mimi's like but like hold everyone to that same standard Someone goes, she did.

17:59She fussed at everyone. She fussed at me, even me. She's like, she rolled up on everybody. And I paid the money that she required from us and bought 10 tickets. And still, when I got there, she rolled up on me. And Tori's like, that's right. But it was very targeted. And it was very intentional, intentionally targeted. Okay. Because something about our presence irritates any type of insecurities that they may have. That's it. That's it. And Steve's like, very much so, very much so. And Heavenly's just like, I feel it. Heavenly's just on their side because they're against Toya. So listen, if we're going to fight about the tickets, let's fight about the tickets.

18:39But now you're turning it into, well, you need to stand up to your wife. And you told him he needs to stand up. Steve, stay on topic because you're taking it so far off. I just want to know about the ticket. Some of us care about these details, okay? Yeah. and again we have learned that like if you if someone has bought a table that should cover the guest tickets for the gala so it's weird that he should have to buy a ticket on top of that but whatever you know I guess if this is the rule of the if the rule of this gala is you still need to buy a ticket to sit at the table that you've been you know you've been afforded then so be it but it sounds like I mean what a shock it was a totally disorganized gala that Toya put together so um contessa is like well this is supposed to be for us the ladies of married to medicine and somehow or another it became the eugene and toya show and eugene i'm honestly just gonna say like you should not have been anything but a guest that night you shouldn't have been talking to people other than greeting and you shouldn't have been costing people at the door and if anyone has anything to say about like who had a ticket and didn't the only people who really should have known is all of us and toya and andy's like well what do you say to that just like hold on the bottom line is we had an event for the last three years and for the first year jackie did not share any details of the event and she asked for money only period of the second year she's not sharing the details with that with anyone and she asked for the money period so the third year what did i do the exact same thing that jackie did no matter what your feelings are at the end of the day all you have to do is get the charity but i think contestant's point is very valid like eugene should was not an organizer of this gala so he should not been going up and demanding money from anyone exactly which toria just pretends never happened she just pretends that question never happened that's what makes me crazy it's a very specific question why is eugene making his business to come after the women for what they paid or they didn't he shouldn't be involved and toria's like well i shouldn't have to give you any information that's not the question and also you're saying all you had to do is give the money but you didn't give money for the first two years so you're a total hypocrite that's the point toria and um heavenly's like well how dare you say that and tory it's like if you could buy a five a five thousand dollar bull that you could give one thousand dollars to charity and um now it's like she's shaming him for giving for being dumb enough to pay five thousand dollars for the bull when it's like more than she's ever given to the charity and heavenly's like oh my god no she did not and there was no transparency and tory's like well it was not ug's job to guard the door and heavenly's like well uh heavenly's just you you know, coming at Toya as she tries to talk.

21:14And Eugene's like, can I say something? And they're going back on forth. Contessa's like, don't you contribute to charity? Mimi's like, yes, I contribute. You contribute to charity, right? Well, monetarily and also my time and effort. And Eugene is trying to talk, but the ladies won't let him. And Toya's like, but why would you not contribute that? Can I speak? I thought you were all about giving the medical industry. Hold on. Listen, please. everybody stop the talking please just listen please calm down please eugene's like the only reason i got involved was that we were at a deadline and my wife said i'm going to look like a fool if i don't get this done this is important to me and toy said no one is helping me we had a young lady at the door who's checking the tickets who was on the list who bought tickets so i told her let me know if someone comes in and who's not on the list so he's basically like i I was helping my wife, which, by the way, is also fine to do that.

22:12But but why is Toya like why is Toya not able to generate any help from the other women? It's because she's led it so badly. She's a terrible, terrible leader. She refused to let them help. They're saying that whole group chat that Toya has printed on a bathrobe or whatever was saying, what do you need from us? What are we supposed to do? Why don't we have any information? Why don't we know what we're supposed to do for this thing? And so now Tori is saying that nobody will help her. So they need a guard at the door to block anyone from coming in. And they knew that it was going to be Mimi and Steve.

22:42And they had that girl tell them they couldn't come in. Why are they acting like they didn't? It's so weird. And Contessa's like, why? But why would you say she's OK? Eugene says, I told her, let me know if somebody comes in who's not on the list. And Contessa says, why? And Tori says, because she's a woman. What? what and Tori is like uh Eugene says because I was helping and Contessa says well we didn't ask you to help pull your coat out again pull your coat out again let's read the text I asked you two times to help like I think the help that Eugene should have afforded was like logistical help but in terms of you know public facing it should have been someone who it should have been one of the one of the women instead what they're saying over and over without actually saying it to eugene is eugene you are not a real housewife stopped acting like a real housewife stop fighting with us all stop fighting to cause drama with us all stop standing at the door acting like like i get you're a husband and you're a part of the show for 12 years as you keep saying over and over again but you are not a lead of this show please go into the background sir this just this is just all testament to how mismanaged this charity was i mean this this fundraiser was i mean they were able to raise money so it was ultimately successful but um this is why mimi didn't and steve didn't want to throw their money at it to be like organizers because you have someone like toya who's just is not is not welcoming people into this process and is being terrible about it so i'm fully on mimi and steve's side with this i really am uh so and he's like okay quad what do you want to say here's the thing what has happened here what has transpired over the years was toya you fail to think and remember and understand the concept that this was all for all of us.

24:29The transpiring types. There were a number of people who felt a certain type of way while they were, I don't know, transpiring things. And we do not like how it transpired when Toya did not give and the people were saying to her, Toya, this is not a Jackie event. This is our event. A derbly burbly herbily. this was a transpirational event of transpiration transpire and Toria's like what they did play nothing and Steve goes we were going to the same thing we were going to do the same thing except we were ambushed at the door because you have personal vendetta against us and Toria just starts you know yelling back at them and Mimi's like oh keep it going baby keep it going and Steve says you're insecure about us and Jackie's like well listen uh this is why it's hard when we started it we started with just two of us trying to do it and not getting the support from the entire group but what what can i say to make this positive is the 501c3 is 30 days out from the final and now it's a true foundation that will benefit nurses and medical professionals is so it's tax deductible okay and sorry is like andy andy that was my idea the 501c thing that was my i mean to be fair i I said, can someone get me some Levi's 501s?

25:48And then like it got confused, but like it worked out cause now we're a 501 C3. So Andy's like, that's great. And next year, will you reach out to me so I can do this? Well, I really will. Okay, gentlemen, thank you for joining us. I'm gonna miss the gentle breeze that came from Steve's finger wagging, but you know, we'll move on, we'll survive. This is inconvenient. This is inconvenient. It's inappropriate and inconvenient. um yeah so they're okay so i still have no answers for what this charity was if if the if jackie paid for a table and told them they were allowed to sit at the table without getting a ticket why you had to have a ticket if you also had a table did toy a pay last year why are you gonna make me sit through two and a half hours and not answer very basic questions i'm pissed I'm rescinding your 501cs thing yeah that's right so backstage Eugene is like the guys are talking and Eugene is like we had a girl at the front I said hey anybody come in because it's like a private event like who's not on the list let me know and she goes I'm not apologizing for nothing all I did was try to tell you it was nothing personal it was just something it was just something that was convenient but it is personal no it's not personal alright well that's paper thin And you made it personal towards me.

27:06And then I left it alone, but it's not personal. But you made it personal. That's the thing. It's personal, not personal at the same time. Why don't you get about this? It wasn't personal. That was about the scholarship. And he's like, here's the thing. I'd let you say your piece. So let me say my piece, because this is the truth. And Eugene's like, oh, my God, we've heard your piece all day. And he goes, no, this is the truth right here. Your wife, your wife has mentioned me taking my shirt off. And your wife has mentioned that I'm attractive. I'm like, oh, no, Steve. you've made enough of an ass of yourself Steve just stop just stop where you're only slightly behind Steve and he goes and I know that makes you insecure and I know it makes you feel less than but don't single me out because of it and that's what you did Eugene I'm sorry I'm hot Eugene's like nobody singled you out if that's how you feel sorry if that's what you need sorry he's like see right there I'm over it that's the only pass that's the passive aggressive sorry it wasn't a real sorry it was a passive aggressive sorry and he's like, okay, we don't have to say shit to each other, come on.

28:05And he's like, come on, man, let's keep it 100. I'm really telling you the truth. I'm a very attractive man, and your wife kind of wants to do me. What else do I have to say? It's clear as day. I know he did not just come on here and say like, you tried to make me pay for that charity because your wife wants to fuck me. Like, what? Steve, oh my God. And by the way, for those who didn't watch, this is an allusion to the fact that last year, Toya said in the confessional jokingly to Eugene oh yeah King could take his shirt off he's the only one that could take their shirt off everyone else keep their shirts on because he's basically saying like King has body everyone keep their shirt on oh and Steve too it was like added at the end Steve wasn't even the focus of this like funny moment that they had oh my gosh so embarrassing Steve and he goes no nobody's having a temper tantrum you're insecure and you've got a little man complex yikes so what you said I think this is the second time that I'm going to say you called this again last week when you were like, I feel that Steve is being kind of like a popular sports guy who's like bullying the nerd and being like, yeah, you know, fuck off.

29:13I'm better than you because like I'm a hot sports guy and you're a nerd. And I didn't like 100 percent buy into that. And then here we go. Was Steve like, oh, yeah, you're little in your chubby and I'm hot and your wife wants to fuck me. So sorry. it's like yeah men i think like straight men like or just i think men in general not even straight men i think men we really fall back into our high school roles very very quickly it's like it's like a pecking order is getting established and that's what i think i was trying to say before about why like i like i wonder how much of that comes into play with andy not really want like trying to help any of these situations with the men where he does with the women because i think it's like the gay man is often in the role of like helping women out with their problems right But when there's a straight man, especially you have Steve, former football player, Curtis, former basketball player.

30:00They're kind of like the jocks or whatever. I don't know. I feel like people step back into their roles and it's like, oh, yeah, it's not my place. These are like men doing men things I shouldn't try to interfere. And I sort of feel like it also comes up here with Steve and Eugene. Eugene is just like the little nerd and Steve is like the jock. And it's funny because I've traditionally always really adored Eugene. And I've really enjoyed Steve. but I think they're actually both just being total idiots this uh during this reunion yeah I think Eugene's trying to fight too much of his wife's battle and Steve is just acting like an ass I mean my god this was yeah this was not cool and just pay the fucking amount at the charity like you still haven't paid it you still haven't given anything like that's crazy I know it's a season finale party and it's work but you need to pay that you need to pay something to the charity that's crazy i think they did pay so i think they did pay well no well i don't know because it's again we we have no way of knowing but toria said you still haven't paid over and over she's like you still haven't paid they still haven't paid anything so i don't know i think but i guess what's confusing is that i think that steven mimi bought a ticket and but maybe they didn't donate during the charity thing beyond the ticket or they also didn't throw in the money to be like one of the people who was like uh like all the whole cast contributed like a certain amount of money to just throw the event yeah so whatever it was i don't know oh my gosh well reliable witness on this either honestly yeah i still don't know so andy's like okay final moments um angel what are you gonna take from this experience and she's like well um not to let my business ideas out there so jackie can't fucking steal them from me no she doesn't say that because that would have been interesting.

31:48She's like, I've met some amazing, intelligent, beautiful, successful women of color and I just love being in the space with scrubs. Space scrubs. Yes. Space scrubs. What about you, Brandy? Well, it's really great. It's been an amazing experience. It's a lot of new, you know, it's a lot of new person, for a new person coming to the group and a lot of personalities and, you know, it's all over the place. But honestly, it's been a great experience except I've been stuck next to Contessa all night, which has not been so great. She says a lot of stuff under her breath. A lot of stuff. Okay. Do you have an under the breath mint that we can give to Contessa?

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33:23Oh, he's thinking it up. What's one thing you want this group to better understand about you? Well, the one thing about me is that I want you to know that I'm going to fight for the truth. And you know what I'm saying? Because it hurts sometimes to do that. But, you know, that's me. Toya Bush Harris, truth fighter. fight her for the truth, Andy. That's me. Heavenly, the next time we get together, will you be a sitting member of Congress? She's like, absolutely. Absolutely, I will. But assuming you're elected, you'll have to leave the show. She goes, well, I'm not closing any doors, but that's the thought.

33:57And Contessa goes, so this is goodbye, huh? That was one of the funniest things that Contessa ever did. She said, this is goodbye, huh?

34:09and he goes oh you want to wrap her out right now she's like well no she's gonna win oh that was great i feel like contessa's like not really the funniest on this on this cast but that was a funny thing to say this was contessa's best season i think it was i liked her first season too i remember her first season when she came on i thought she was really good but then she sort of got into reality star mode after that. And this was a great season for her. Yeah, it was like a nice mix, you know, of just being the Greek chorus, but then like getting into a little mess. It was good. So Simone, did you get the clarity you needed tonight, especially with Heavenly and Jackie?

34:47And she's like, Jackie, thank you so much for putting our friendship in a place that lets me know that you value our friendship. For Heavenly, let me say this to you. Uh-oh. Andy, I do not like the eye rolling. He's like, I'm just worried. Jeez. Let me say this to you. To have someone on social media dragging the fact that we have had real moments on the show, that is hurtful. It is very hurtful when you say things that are not true about my husband and when you attack my man. That's a problem for me, Simone. Well, Simone, I mean, heavenly yes. You've said so many things, heavenly. So many. Especially, Simone.

35:25You've not been accountable. You have assassinated so many characters, Heavenly. Nothing has been done to you that you didn't do first. Well, my whole thing is that we've all done things to each other, Simone. And I'm sorry that you feel that way, that you put your business on TV that I would never do. And she's like, well, I was here before you got here. Okay, you guys, it doesn't matter. Like, who got here? You and Eugene, stop. You're all on the same show. Like, stop acting like some of you are so much better because you were here like one year before Heavenly. I know and you guys are all yeah no literally Heavenly came season 2 I thought she came season 3 but she came season 2 the other thing is I'm sure that next season there's going to be a scene with Simone and Heavenly where hopefully I mean I do hopefully hope that Heavenly's situation with her son is resolved it sounds incredibly stressful and intense but what's going to happen is like I was in such a dark place with my son and you know hurt people hurt people and I just want to you know it's going to be fine they're going to get back together next season yeah so they it's contentious but they're like i wish you the best but i wish you the best as well bitch okay well let's end that uh with best wishes so then jackie gets her monologue and she's like we just need to operate in love and we can do this we can come together and make a difference dildos vibrators you're never going to get rid of me and you're never going to so you might as well put me back on the friend list fit is the new it thank you thank you andy i need to get that back together so they're gonna refollow each other and andy's like quad you know you really had a few years there about 10 of them where you felt like an outsider you you felt shown by shown by the shown by the group and it warms my heart to see that you're here with everybody and actually i have to say i kind of agree quad has been an outsider for so long it It felt like every season, it's like they've pushed Quad off the show.

37:23She's leaving Married to Medicine. Every single season for the past few years, it's like, wow, this is the end for Quad. And this was the first season in, I felt like, many years where it felt like Quad really was, like, truly part of the cast again. And I thought it was really nice. Yeah. Toya and Simone left her alone this year. Basically. They concentrated only on Heavenly. But she also came up with a different way of dealing with Toya and Simone. she doesn't really fight back as much with them she's like whatever you guys are crazy like she'll still make her estate and then when they keep going with her she's like whatever and i think that's what you have to do and then they just move on and also giving toria something to do this season with the med gala really helped i think like a hobby a plot you know give her a task yeah exactly give toria a task and she's fine because i think also like she's one of those like housewives that comes on every year and she's going to try and get somebody off you know and it's been quad and now it's heavenly and you know she's always going to have someone that she's trying to get kicked off the show but um you know give her something to do but you know also quad was you know there was a period of time where quad was uh potentially about to become like ascend to the next level of celebrity she was on sister circle live she was on a tv show she was like you know a co-host on it and seemed like things big things were about to happen for quad and so she did sort of get an ego and we saw, you know, she was showing up really late for things and making people wait.

38:54And she was holding stuff back. I felt like from the show, she was self-producing a bit more, which is usually what happens whenever like a, a real housewife or a reality star in general starts to feel like their celebrity is like bigger than the show. Suddenly they start to self-produce a lot because they care about their image a lot more. And, um, she did go down that path. And I actually really love that she has come back and, And this is, to me, my favorite quad season in many years. I mean, quad's always been a superstar. Always been. But I would get frustrated with her in the sense that it felt like she just was holding stuff back.

39:30And I felt like this was the quad that I fell in love with back in season one. Oh, my God. I've loved every quad season. Honestly. I think she's so funny. Especially when she was getting a big head and she's like, how dare you? I'm part of the sister circle. And they're like, what? My new friends. Or when she threw herself a party. What was the party she threw herself? It was like, was it her book? Yeah, she threw herself some party, and then she had herself Lexus delivered. She got her new Lexus delivered to the party. And she's like, oh. Like, she was so surprised. She's like, oh, thank you, me.

40:07Thank you so much. So Andy's like, why are you emotional, Quad? And she's like, I'm emotional about this group because I came up through the trenches.

40:19and she's like, we're going to fight. We're going to duke it out, but don't step to us, and he's like, we love you, Quad, and Contessa's like, man or no man, you've got this, and we've got champagne coming in. I'm going to ask Miss Toya to give us a toast. Oh, man, as long as Mubit doesn't count my drinks, I think we'll be all right. She's like, we are good. We are non-counting Mimi right now. Okay here's my speech Season 12 wow You ladies are so inspirational I would just say go on into season 13 Let's not forget that So don't forget you were inspirational Okay don't forget it Okay now to season 13 And season 12 And season 10 that was a good one And season 19 Alright alright you're just counting now Okay alright That's a wrap It's a wrap Like a very popular Trey you might find at Costco It's a wrap And that was it Married to Medicine season 12 Another season in the can Absolutely Thanks everyone for being here What a fun time And guess what next Sunday The madness begins Atlanta and Rhode Island back to back For a full season Oh my goodness.

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